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Speaker 1: Hi, you guys. It's just Jen and I'm here with

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Speaker 1: just Jesse and just Carl. I am sitting with my

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Speaker 1: friends Carl Radkey and Jesse Solomon. Do not be jealous.

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Speaker 1: I know that you are. Thank you guys so much

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Speaker 1: for coming. I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: I love your outfit today.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: But I saw you and I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, I have to say. The boys both gave me, yeah.

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Speaker 2: You should. You should do a TikTok fit. Check.

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Speaker 1: This is why I have boys from Summerhouse. Okay, I know.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, let me just put this out

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Speaker 1: there to the universe. I'm not against having a woman

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Speaker 1: from Summerhouse come on to my podcast. It's starting to

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Speaker 1: look like things are a little slanted here, a little

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Speaker 1: lopsided here. Yeah, they are a little bit. I have

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Speaker 1: to say, if I'm on a side, I definitely side

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Speaker 1: with maybe the boys on Summerhouse. I probably shouldn't say that,

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Speaker 1: but now it's out there.

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Speaker 2: There's no sides.

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Speaker 1: There are sides. There are always really family. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: one big, happy, dispunctional family.

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Speaker 2: I think there's topical sides, you know, like a particular

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Speaker 2: moment where it's like, well, Kyle was maybe over over

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Speaker 2: overstepped or.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but those are discussions, those are arguments.

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Speaker 2: Those are not I'm wrong. There's sides.

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Speaker 1: Well I mean listen, I'm on or was on, or

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Speaker 1: maybe ever will be and who knows what's going to

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Speaker 1: happen again with the Housewives of New Jersey, there were sides,

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Speaker 1: and you better think it through before you picked the side.

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Speaker 2: So what's unique about Summerhouse to some degree is we

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Speaker 2: we get to like enjoy staying with each other. Imagine

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Speaker 2: if you guys lived with each other for like three months. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: as you already.

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Speaker 1: Issues like honey, there would be no one that would

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Speaker 1: come out of that alive.

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Speaker 2: I know. Well, that's what makes us what we do

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Speaker 2: so unique is like we'll do a dinner and usually

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Speaker 2: with your dinners or an event, you all get to

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Speaker 2: go to your separate homes. Yes, we still have to

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Speaker 2: go home with each other and like a lot of

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Speaker 2: times we think we're off camera, but there's cameras obviously

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Speaker 2: still in the home in the rooms, so you're maybe

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Speaker 2: a little bit more loose. That's when all that's where

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Speaker 2: they get a lot of the good stuff is on

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Speaker 2: our show is when they it's the security.

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Speaker 1: They never go down. They're like everywhere Carrie, it's.

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Speaker 2: Always how do you do that?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on. They're taking over, the

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Speaker 1: boys are taking over. I'm not having it, okay, It's

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Speaker 1: all about just Jen, Just Jen. So I just want

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Speaker 1: to tell you guys, first of all, to our listeners.

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Speaker 1: So I met Carl rad Key great story in an

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Speaker 1: airport on my way to on our way to Bravo Khan.

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Speaker 1: So we were we were in the lounge. We were

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Speaker 1: like in the Delta lounge, right or whatever it was.

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Speaker 2: In the morning yep. And on the shoulder. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: She was like, what are you doing over here? Yes?

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Speaker 2: And I was hiding because going to Bravo Kahn last year,

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Speaker 2: I was very nervous and just very over with good reason,

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Speaker 2: having to face a lot of the stuff, yes, the breakup,

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Speaker 2: but you and Derinda were very very kind your husband

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Speaker 2: as well. Yes, I'll never forget that Delta lounge Roan,

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Speaker 2: because I was so nervous going to Brabacon, but you

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Speaker 2: both made me feel really good.

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Speaker 1: Well. The thing is that I didn't really know the

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Speaker 1: like when the story started coming out, and I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know the woman who will remain nameless for

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Speaker 1: our purposes today, but I don't know. I just was like,

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Speaker 2: And I was. It was It was a tough time.

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Speaker 2: And yes, you know I was in love with her

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Speaker 2: and wanted things to work out, but I think we

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Speaker 2: all agree and it was better for us to go

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Speaker 2: different directions. You'll see even on the new upcoming season

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Speaker 2: how post you know, break up and after the reunion

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Speaker 2: everything kind of unfolds. But yeah, I mean I think

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Speaker 2: we both are separately really happy and healthy.

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Speaker 1: I'm very glad to hear that.

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Speaker 2: So it all in a weird way, it kind of

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Speaker 1: I just think that sometimes people think that the one

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Speaker 1: telling you, if anyone's out there is wondering this poor boy,

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Speaker 1: I think, like brob Conn, I probably text you like

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Speaker 1: six times like are you okay?

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Speaker 3: Very cool?

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Speaker 2: I mean I was, you know, there was all the

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: I remember hearing the booze for him when he went

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Speaker 2: I don't recall hearing booze, but it was funny. After

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Speaker 2: that day, I went to check social media and there

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Speaker 2: was lots of videos, posts, and there was a fair

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Speaker 2: amount of booing. But Carl, it is what it is.

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Speaker 2: It's a year ago. I'm much happier and healthier now.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad.

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Speaker 2: I needed some time to kind of regroup and recover.

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Speaker 2: And you'll see even on the new season, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Becoming laughing about over here.

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Speaker 2: He was not okay. It'd be weird if he was okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, But don't you think that, like you didn't

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Speaker 1: get a lot of grace from That's that's the nature

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I got a lot of grace from people. That

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Speaker 2: It's more grace than I thought. I mean, people came

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Speaker 2: and people I've met at other bravocns were very complimentary

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Speaker 3: The online yes, but nothing right.

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Speaker 1: So what are they called something warriors keyboard? The keyboard?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, West says the same thing. He's like, nobody's ever

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have to say, like I am, it's

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't say what the hell's who cares? But I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just I felt so bad for West. I thought,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I knew. I mean when I went

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Speaker 3: I messaged him the day before and I was like, hey, Bud,

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Speaker 3: And he's like, I don't know. I hadn't really thought

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, people break up, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking way more you all than me, but like

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean with those two, I mean they were

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Speaker 2: It was the summer when we were they were exploring

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Speaker 2: I mean, we were all rooting for West and Sierra, right.

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Speaker 1: You know. I think that part of it is a

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Speaker 1: I'm tired of that. But I don't like to see

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, girls are going to be girls girls though,

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Speaker 3: I mean it's true, Like it's Paige was going to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was, I mean there was a lot that

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Speaker 2: earlier from my heart here and mentioning, you know, our

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Speaker 2: It was difficult to watch that because you know, you're

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Speaker 2: because you know them so personally, but everybody's so angry,

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Speaker 2: so much vitriol. Yes, and I almost feel like the

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Speaker 1: I think that's probably true. I think that actually is

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Speaker 1: very true.

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Speaker 2: That is, I like, we just honest theory I have.

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Speaker 2: But again, yeah, when.

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Speaker 1: You're very right, because then all of a sudden, You're

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Speaker 1: so empowered because you take a step back, you see

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Speaker 1: how the world stands behind you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, even James Kenny was selling merchandise about the breakup,

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Speaker 2: like that's that's a people were leaning in, you know,

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Speaker 1: I think that kids sell them much right now. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what We're not going

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Speaker 2: Like with a lot of these shows, like you have

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Speaker 2: I agree that's summer forever, be concrete. It in our

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Speaker 2: We talk. I mean we're both like we both have

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Speaker 1: At that's stop taking it over here, that is my question.

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Speaker 2: Well, Carl's just like happy to have somebody else besides.

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Speaker 3: Carl's like I was an alcoholic age and now Jesse

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Speaker 1: Got it. But like, do you feel like you've taken

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's hard to take nights off in the Summerhouse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I mean you you were hitting equinox,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't drinking martinis before.

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Speaker 1: By confessionals, Do you feel like it helps that's the

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Speaker 1: It helped you, especially in your first season?

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Speaker 2: Chair Carl has incredible stories. Really, I was I parted

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to say it helped, but it's always.

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Speaker 2: I almost had like a version of myself that was,

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Speaker 2: like my mom called it, it's like watching you on steroids,

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Speaker 3: Well you're being you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm single. I mean I've been, I've being on

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Speaker 3: like you just have your life on display for no

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Speaker 3: good reason and you're working a corporate job, like it

441
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Speaker 3: can bring a lot of well drama.

442
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Speaker 1: I will tell you that my husband is a corporate

443
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Speaker 1: attorney and he is an introvert. He is like this

444
00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,280
Speaker 1: this shot. I mean, you would think not in business.

445
00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,920
Speaker 1: He's not shy and not really when you know him,

446
00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:27,280
Speaker 1: but he's like put, we're polar opposites, and there's no

447
00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,920
Speaker 1: one that loves being on this show and he loves

448
00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:34,320
Speaker 1: as Jeff Wessler. It is so stupid he is, and

449
00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:35,400
Speaker 1: it's it's actually like.

450
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Speaker 2: Now, has that created any kind of polarization with like

451
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Speaker 2: his legal career.

452
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Speaker 1: Or no, as a matter of fact, he has new clients. No,

453
00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,760
Speaker 1: I don't know that's got new clients. But he gets

454
00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,760
Speaker 1: like he goes places, he goes to whatever holiday parties

455
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Speaker 1: now and it's like a whole thing and it's whoa

456
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Speaker 1: excuse me? Are you just do whatever? So he he

457
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Speaker 1: just he thinks it's like it's so awesome.

458
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Speaker 2: It is not now was he? Was he that recept

459
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,240
Speaker 2: like when you got the the concept.

460
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Speaker 1: If he pushed my ass into it, he was like,

461
00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:08,159
Speaker 1: you have to do this, You'll never that's he did

462
00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:11,160
Speaker 1: it for himself. He has a great supportive husband all

463
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Speaker 1: for him. But he's like, we know, I don't think

464
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:17,359
Speaker 1: he's we've hit any speed bumps. But I've said to him, like, dude,

465
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Speaker 1: you're not doing going to the boys party whatever it is,

466
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Speaker 1: So you're not going to whatever. Not that I can

467
00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,280
Speaker 1: tell him what to do, but I'm like, you have

468
00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,679
Speaker 1: to try to maintain you're not an entrepreneur like these guys,

469
00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 1: like you have to maintain some dignity here. And if

470
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Speaker 1: it were up to him, he'd be in every scene.

471
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Speaker 2: So yeah, well, I will say that the New Jersey

472
00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,439
Speaker 2: Men it's it's entertaining to see just the dynamic of

473
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Speaker 2: some of the the energy and the boy they have

474
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Speaker 2: a funny group.

475
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Speaker 1: They have a funny group, and as a.

476
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Speaker 2: Group of guys on our side, it's fun to like

477
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Speaker 2: see how the older gentlemen are behaving. I mean they

478
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,560
Speaker 2: still rip their shirts off, they're doing push ups, they're

479
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 2: yelling at each other, they're grilling, they're nuts. They're doing

480
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 2: stuff that we kind of do.

481
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Speaker 1: But and Jeff loves that because Jeff is like he's

482
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Speaker 1: so buttoned up a day to day, so like all

483
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: of a sudden, he's like thinks he's in like some frat.

484
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Speaker 2: He's amazing.

485
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I see.

486
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I mean later stages.

487
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Speaker 3: To kind of be a jackass.

488
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Speaker 1: So the only time he got in trouble was recently

489
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Speaker 1: because from uh like one of the head partners because

490
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Speaker 1: I went into his office too and I was doing

491
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Speaker 1: some content whatever I hate that word, but I was

492
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Speaker 1: doing filming things on a camera on an iPhone and

493
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 1: my pr gu was like, whatever, we're going from a

494
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 1: room and I went into the copy room and I

495
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 1: pulled up They still called it you guys play, even

496
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 1: though what a xerox machine is okay. Well I pretended

497
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Speaker 1: I was, like I put my thing on, I put

498
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Speaker 1: my boobs on or whatever, and now I'm like job

499
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Speaker 1: And I thought it was. It was all so funny

500
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 1: until the morning when like the managing partner called him,

501
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: like the managing partner, Jeff listen, we have some partners

502
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 1: here that are not thrilled with the behavior of your wife.

503
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Speaker 1: Basically banned from he works at thirty Rock. I'm like,

504
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 1: not allowed up there.

505
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Speaker 2: On the zero.

506
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Speaker 1: Actually do it? It was, it was. It was a

507
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Speaker 1: bit you don't want to believe me. You're okay without

508
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,199
Speaker 1: a copy of that? All right? So wait, so girls,

509
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 1: so and I know if you guys probably get these

510
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 1: this constantly. Right, everyone wants to know what kind of

511
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 1: girl you like? What are you looking for? Right? No?

512
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, yeah, I think, well, how are.

513
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Speaker 1: You meeting girls right now?

514
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Speaker 2: I mean hinch that. I don't do apps personally. I've

515
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 2: never done it again. I'm thirty nine, So the app

516
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,120
Speaker 2: thing was a little later. In my kind of dating world.

517
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Speaker 2: The dating app, I believe is Instagram. Yeah, Ostagram, everybody's

518
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,119
Speaker 2: on it. Do you do that?

519
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 1: Rya one?

520
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Speaker 3: I'm on Riya, but I haven't been meeting up with

521
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Speaker 3: a lot of people to go on dates.

522
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Speaker 1: What's the difference, Raya is just cooler, You're cooler, pretty accepted.

523
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Speaker 3: I believe it. Yeah, it's like these of dating apps,

524
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 3: but like if you want to get onto it, you

525
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 3: can figure it out.

526
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Speaker 2: I heard from one of my colleagues with that soft bar.

527
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Speaker 2: She's on Riya and she said that no one responds.

528
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Speaker 2: It's like this thing where it's cool to be seen

529
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 2: on it.

530
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: You're nodding about over there. Is that true?

531
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

532
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 2: Maybe, like it's fun like when you actually are looking

533
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,719
Speaker 2: to make a move to ask someone out the like

534
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,959
Speaker 2: return or like the actually really percentage that it actually lands.

535
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Speaker 3: She said.

536
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: I like, no one's really ever responded to any like

537
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 2: thing I've sent that. I don't know white people respond

538
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 2: to me, but I throw listen.

539
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 3: I like to meet people out there.

540
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Speaker 1: Is this guy, he's a professors, Scott Galloway. I don't know.

541
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard of him.

542
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,119
Speaker 1: Have you heard of him? So he's this professor. He

543
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 1: talks about the plight really of like young men in

544
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: our country and what's happening. He talks about a lot

545
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 1: of things, but you know, having these young men that

546
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 1: have had their head in their phone, swiping, swiping, swiping,

547
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 1: and are getting rejective, rejective, rejected, and you know, as

548
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 1: a result, I feel like shit about themselves because I

549
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 1: don't know what for the self or self esteem. And

550
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: now you're like not going out and you're not having

551
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: the experience of like going to a bar. And he

552
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: talks about the men, but I'm sure it goes both ways.

553
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: But like you know what the women are looking for.

554
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: Let's say it's tall. That's all I wanted when I

555
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: was fixed up, when I was at your age, I

556
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 1: was like, he just has to be tall. He doesn't

557
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: have to be gorgeous. I don't. He doesn't have to

558
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 1: be rich, he does have to be ambitious, because my

559
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: grandmother Nana used to say, he doesn't have to be rich,

560
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: he has to be ambitious. But tall is the number one.

561
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Speaker 1: My husband's five to five. So but I'm saying, like

562
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Speaker 1: you can put it out all out there. I broke

563
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Speaker 1: one hundred percent, broke my rule.

564
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Speaker 2: But he's the ambitious he yes, so he makes up

565
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 2: for the ambition with yes.

566
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 1: He just wore me down in the end, But like

567
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 1: that's also part of it, Like no, because that is

568
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: a real, but because when you're just behind your phone

569
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: but you're both saying you love. But it must be

570
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: fun for you guys to go out because you're you.

571
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: So you get to go out and like, you know,

572
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: you walk into a bar and you're both you know,

573
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Speaker 1: good looking and TV stars.

574
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Speaker 3: So I spend half the year in Miami, and Miami

575
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 3: nobody knows who I am.

576
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 2: For the part I can't confirm. We we visited Jesse

577
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 2: Kyle West, and I went down for Kyle had a

578
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 2: DJ gig, but we were out and about with Jesse.

579
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: It was funny, like we were just regular Miami guys

580
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 2: that night, you know, we had his group of friends

581
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 2: and we met up and it was fun. But it

582
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 2: wasn't like it is in New York City or like an.

583
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 3: Hour we walked into a bar in New York and

584
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 3: it's like can we get a picture? Which is it's fun,

585
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 3: it's fun, but it's not Miami. It wasn't like that.

586
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 2: It was you know, almost everybody was just kind of

587
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,719
Speaker 2: in their own group of friends and doing their own thing.

588
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: Maybe they noticed us from Afar, but.

589
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 3: They're like, who are those tall guys? You know, two

590
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 3: six for five guys Jabroni's.

591
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: They're from the Jewish Basketball League's Jabroni is like a squid,

592
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 2: like a wet noodle.

593
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Speaker 1: Grabroni is something that you're like kind of floppy, Like

594
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 1: you're so tall that you're just like weird looking.

595
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 3: No, you're like a goofball, You're like a you're corny,

596
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 3: you're kind of a weirdo.

597
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, Gibroni is a loser. Jayne the Rock Johnson used

598
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 2: to call people jibbroni's with his character of The Rock. Yeah,

599
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: on his wrestling career, he'd call you like you little Jibbroni, Wow,

600
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 2: and it's like, you're kind of a loser.

601
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: I'm learning things, learning new things all the time. I

602
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: love hanging out with the young people.

603
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 3: We'll keep you on teach some things.

604
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: Tell me, so okay, I'm gonna try to stay on topic. Carl,

605
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: tell me the kind of girl you're looking for. And

606
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,719
Speaker 1: obviously it doesn't matter because in the end you're going

607
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: to say all of these things, and some they're just

608
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: going to show up and you're gonna die a little

609
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 1: bit inside and then that will be that. But what

610
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: do you think you're looking for?

611
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 2: You know, I appreciate that's not a requirement though, I

612
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 2: think just a healthy relationship with alcohol or other substances.

613
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: But I mean, honestly, like I've I'd like to think

614
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: that I could date someone that has a healthy relationship

615
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 2: with alcohol. I still love being social.

616
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 3: She likes benefits and her mushroom goffees.

617
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Speaker 2: Functional benefits in her drinks.

618
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

619
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 3: That's a soft bar thing.

620
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: He's trying to mushrooms at the softbar.

621
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 2: Healthy mushrooms not psychedelic.

622
00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 1: I don't give a ship what they are as long

623
00:25:59,400 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: as they make.

624
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 2: You, They make you happy, make you feel good. We

625
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 2: certain no, not psychic at all. It's adaptogen and new

626
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 2: tropic mushroom. People take them every morning as like a

627
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: morning you take vitamins in the morning.

628
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: Do you hear good things about mushrooms telling you?

629
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: Quote me right now, every major hospitality, coffee shop, bar

630
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 2: in the next five years is going to have a

631
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 2: mushroom drink on the menu.

632
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: Heard it here first, I'm writing it down around it.

633
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: It's changing like people have it in drinks canned beverages. Now,

634
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 2: when when you walk into a bar or a coffee shop,

635
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 2: you'll be able to add that into your beverage a

636
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 2: functional ingredient.

637
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: I love that. I would love to find something I

638
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: could do that's not alcohol that makes me feel like

639
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 3: socially like am out. Yeah, but I'll take a small

640
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: gummy or smoke like a pen or something if I'm out.

641
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 3: But it doesn't do the same thing alcohol though. Yeah, yes,

642
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 3: maybe it's functional mushrooms.

643
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: Right, Maybe you.

644
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 2: Were asking what I'm looking for in a woman and

645
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 2: we got into mushrooms. It's talk about when I.

646
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: Can always be sidetracked if you're going to talk about

647
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: anything of a loucinogen, what I'm looking for.

648
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 3: Or what I'm like.

649
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 2: Intelligence is important to me. I like someone that can

650
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 2: hold a good conversation. I like some depth, like emotional

651
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 2: intelligence where I've been through a fair amount of things.

652
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to trauma dump on someone the first

653
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 2: two minutes, but but I will. But yeah, well, there

654
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 2: are inherently some things that have been very public about

655
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 2: my life, you know, certain things that people know me

656
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 2: for to some degree. You know, I've been through some

657
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: stuff and I I'm not expecting someone to like baby

658
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: me or anything, but someone who can have some grace

659
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: and understanding around someone, Honey.

660
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm not Listen, you're young to me, but like at

661
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 1: thirty eight, there's no one that hasn't had that doesn't.

662
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: Have stuff totally.

663
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: So that's the good news. You're not going to meet

664
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: a woman who has not been by thirty eight.

665
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 2: But then outside of that, you know, I love it.

666
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: I'm goofy. I'm a kind of a silly guy. I

667
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 2: like to make jokes, and I want someone that can

668
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: bring that out of me. So someone who's witty or funny, right,

669
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 2: and someone who ambition. I like someone who's active and

670
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: likes to work out. Uh. And then obviously physically, I

671
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 2: mean I'm six to five, there is like a height

672
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: cutoff for me because if I'm getting up to talk

673
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 2: to you and I got to go, how are you harro?

674
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: I like tiny?

675
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 1: You like tiny?

676
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, he likes doing that.

677
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: Okay wait wait wait wait okay, so but yet so

678
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: physically as you can't just stop there. So hopefully tall

679
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: ish so not doesn't have to be someone could be

680
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: five to five.

681
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 2: I dated like five eleven in college. I dated some

682
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: Syracuse women's volleyball players. But as I've gotten older, I

683
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 2: mean five seven, five eight around that I think fits

684
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: really well in tiny for me is like five six.

685
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: By the way, really that's tiny. That's not tiny. Yeah,

686
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: that's me actually so and no one's ever called me

687
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: tiny so physically. Also, just elaborate for a moment.

688
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 2: I'd like to I've had this thought in my head

689
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 2: that a brunette would look really good.

690
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: With me with you, because it's about how somebody would.

691
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: Look with you, right, I mean, I think you're I've

692
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: always been attracted to brunettes. However, I have dated blondes.

693
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 2: I'm attracted them all colors, shapes and sizes, yes, but

694
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 2: in this particular moment I'm looking for, I think brunette. Okay,

695
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 2: I really like light eyes.

696
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 3: Really notice that common theme doesn't matter, blonde or burnett.

697
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: What color are your eyes? Like a brown hazel?

698
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: My daughter has uh, blue eyes, but we already discussed

699
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: that that's not going to happen for you, my friend.

700
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 2: Okay, And I'm going to add one last thing that

701
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 2: I'm looking for. I do appreciate someone that doesn't necessarily

702
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: they can put on makeup and get dulled up, but

703
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 2: for their core, like without it, they're very pretty and

704
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 2: just naturally, you know, look good. Yes, they could write

705
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: I think you know, I've I just would like that.

706
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: I guess you want to wake up in the morning

707
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: and get like fucking scared, right right.

708
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: Well, I think is that scared? I think just some

709
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: people could look like I think women are very pretty

710
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: without makeup on or post workout or I know it's

711
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: every guy says that, right, you know, like just with

712
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: your sweatpants all you're so hot.

713
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: Right.

714
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: However, I think women don't realize, like when you get

715
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: all dulled like you know many jacket blazers dressing. Yeah,

716
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: I have to literally get a dry clean twice because

717
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: all the makeup that's all over my ship.

718
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: Like women, I know you weren't I know you weren't.

719
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: All right, jess uh my type?

720
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, my type. I haven't really figured it out

721
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: a lot of the things Carl said. I need somebody intelligent,

722
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 3: somebody sweet and cute and just like a good mother

723
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 3: to my future children, somebody that wants kids and active

724
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 3: works out.

725
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: So here's my question. Do you think about the women

726
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: that you have had relationships with, do they fit that

727
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: mold what you just described.

728
00:30:58,680 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, for the.

729
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 3: Most part, but there's some things missing, I would say, Okay,

730
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: And it also wasn't the right time.

731
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 2: Okay I was too young, Yeah, I would say I

732
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: would flip it. I wasn't ready for you know, my

733
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: previous relationships. They certainly may have had those qualities, but

734
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't the version that they were looking for.

735
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 3: In return.

736
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: I always think that, like, no matter what the timing is,

737
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: no matter what your requirements are, like when something happens,

738
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: when like the pheromones start popping and everything else goes away,

739
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: all the all the different rules. But let me ask

740
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: you this, because I asked Wes about West about this,

741
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: So are you guys attracted to Himen? Usually? So he

742
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: was saying he likes the chase the key would prefer

743
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: even though we didn't like it, maybe in the moment,

744
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: but he does better with women that do put up

745
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: a bit, Yes, of a challenge, don't get they We

746
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't put it like that. But yes, yes, yes, you.

747
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 2: Have to work to work.

748
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 3: If I say that, it does it matter how quickly

749
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 3: you hook up with someone, whether that's proven true or not.

750
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: Is another Well you tell me from your own experience.

751
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, everybody likes a little bit of a chase,

752
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 3: But that's not to say that if I hooked up

753
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: with somebody like two dates in, I couldn't actually really

754
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: like them and have a relationship with them.

755
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: Well two dates in is holding out these days? I

756
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: feel like so in a little bit now, Okay.

757
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say having sex on a first date

758
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 2: is rare.

759
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: Really you went to college.

760
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: Well, you don't go on like super formal dates in college, right,

761
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: I think you have to go out. Yeah, it's like

762
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 2: a one night stand. You just meet someone and the

763
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: pheromones are rushing. There isn't a date at all. It's

764
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: just back to your place, maybe a minor hangout and

765
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: the sleeping because it.

766
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: Felt it feels like to me, like my both my

767
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: kids now graduated from college. But I don't know when

768
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: I would go there, even when I would like be

769
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: around their friends, Like everybody was just slipping in and

770
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: out of beds and it was like a different time.

771
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

772
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 3: Well, hook up culture is prevent culture. Yeah, it's thing,

773
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 3: but it shifted.

774
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: I mean not to date myself too much, but I

775
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: mean Facebook was started my freshman year I was at

776
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: Syracuse University. I had a friend who went to Harvard

777
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: who had told me about it, but it didn't His name.

778
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: Isn't he the one the event?

779
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: It was Tyler Winklevoss.

780
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: Oh what right? One of those twins, the.

781
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,959
Speaker 2: Twins whose idea originally was right. But they're doing really well.

782
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 2: They have cryptocurrency.

783
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: How do you know this?

784
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: Why do you know that?

785
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: So much stuff?

786
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 2: Gemini, Billboard and Times. I pay attention to everything. Okay,

787
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: Harvard Facebook. So sophomore year at Syracuse Facebook landed because

788
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: you had to have a university email to get an account,

789
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 2: and Facebook only started in the northeast Ivy League schools

790
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: and like Cornell, Syracuse and like Battle, when Facebook came

791
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 2: on campus, it changed everything for hook up culture. You

792
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: could poke people, you could see what looked like poke

793
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 2: they you could see the sorority cruise right. You could

794
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: identify people that you wouldn't otherwise meet unless you actually

795
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: went up to them in real life and said, who

796
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 2: are you? Right, you now have all this information, So

797
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 2: I believe it all changed at that point.

798
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: Don't you think that that's like what we were talking

799
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: about a little bit before. But like, that's part of

800
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: the issue is meeting like this whole swipe culture, right,

801
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 1: and not being able to actually talk to someone and

802
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: look them in the eye.

803
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 2: And you know, well, I think it goes for like

804
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 2: professional careers. Yeah, I mean I get emails sent to me,

805
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: and the communication quality it's pretty poor. I mean obviously

806
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: with texting and shorter communications, but like if you can

807
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 2: speak well and write well and communicate like professionally and personally,

808
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 2: you're going to have a pretty good life. These days, we're.

809
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: Talking about people being alone by themselves and not being

810
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 3: able to hook up with people, and now we're saying

811
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 3: there's hookup culture.

812
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 2: There's just like different.

813
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: Types of different right. No, I'm not I'm not loyal

814
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: saying anything. We're just shooting the ship. But what I'm

815
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: thinking is that in college there I think it's a

816
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 1: huge hookup culture after college when you're young and you're single.

817
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: But I think that there are a lot of men

818
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 1: now and that are having a hard time because they're

819
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: not many people hook up cultures, just the way in

820
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: which people meet each other.

821
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 2: In the app, I was just saying, I think a

822
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 2: lot of men at least. What I am just being

823
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: completely honest, Like there's a lot of porn. Instagram to

824
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: some degree is soft porn. So you have all this

825
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 2: oh you're watching I mean, look at our the girls

826
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 2: of Summerhouse. How far our girls look amazing like it?

827
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 2: Do you see Instagram pictures that aren't porn?

828
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 1: Yes?

829
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 2: The girls, all the girls, all the girls get such

830
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 2: good rate. What I'm saying is Instagram in a weird

831
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: way is not unlike soft porn to some degree. Yes, no,

832
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: but everybody wants it in real life. Agreed. But I

833
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: think for men that become you get so accustomed to

834
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: like being on this app, and like you lose the

835
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: ability to generate a genuine in real life connection, not

836
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 2: only because you already have all this information, but like

837
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 2: just actually asking someone a question, learning, where are you from?

838
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: Where'd you go to school?

839
00:35:58,640 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: I guess what can ignite this?

840
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 2: You already have it all here? Yes, and if you

841
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: like so, I think men, unfortunately, if you don't get

842
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 2: off social you're going to struggle in dating.

843
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: I agree.

844
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: I mean, you need to be on there so you're

845
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 2: not a serial killer. But if that's how you're only

846
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 2: going to like find or search for people, I think

847
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: it's going to be a challenge.

848
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 1: Well you Also, this guy also says that like you

849
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: need to when you're young, go out there, like make

850
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: bad decisions, screw it up. Like meet girls.

851
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, ask someone out and fall on your face and.

852
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: Fall on your face and get rejected and ask someone else,

853
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 1: ask someone out again. Like, I think that's a big

854
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: part of it, and.

855
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 2: It's it's easy to be social in New York especially.

856
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 3: You can literally just go outside of your house if

857
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 3: you don't like to drink, join a kickball league. You know,

858
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 3: there's plenty to do for everyone.

859
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 2: Kickball, kickball, leak the summer house. Yeah, West put together summerhouse.

860
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: Guys are dorks? Do you say kickball league?

861
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 3: Hey?

862
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 2: Girls like you Wes no dog wow. No, It's just

863
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 2: like an easy game everybody can play well, I think,

864
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: with Jesse also adding to in New York and this

865
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 2: is again something I see happening is how people are

866
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 2: gathering as groups of friends. The days of going to

867
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: the nightclub till four in the morning are shifting. Yes,

868
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 2: people still do that, but friends and people that are

869
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 2: trying to connect with each other are joining run clubs,

870
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 2: They're joining community groups, yoga classes, berries, boot camps, kickball

871
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 2: leagues because it's something that's not just at a bar.

872
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: Right.

873
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: Well, what happens at these kickball games is what do

874
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: you do after the game? Go to the door, hang out.

875
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 2: So it's social, it's it's how people meet each other.

876
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 3: That's my issue with New York is I feel like

877
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 3: all there is to do is eat and drink, and

878
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 3: obviously there's museums and other stuff, but I think just

879
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 3: like the amount of space you have here just kind

880
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 3: of makes me feel closet.

881
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: I mean in terms of what, like you can't go

882
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 1: on a hike, yeah, because I'm min's like, what else

883
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: is there to do but eat and drink and like kind.

884
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: Of go like to Upstate New York and go for

885
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 2: a hike, but I'm just not going to right. I

886
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: think the city does like not to make it about

887
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: like I think when the city can have another side

888
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: to it. And I didn't know that until actually like

889
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: stopped drinking. The museums, the art, the concerts.

890
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: You do that stuff.

891
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 2: Now I still do all of that, but it's actually

892
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: way more enjoyable because you don't realize how much is

893
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 2: in front of us. Where I was the previous ten

894
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: years in New York soho clubs, West Village bars, Brooklyn

895
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 2: after hours, I didn't I never been to Central Park

896
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: sober Wow until.

897
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty one.

898
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: What were you doing in the park, drug drinking in

899
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: Sheep's meadow, having a great time like most people do.

900
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 2: But I never had an experience with New York, like

901
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 2: just realizing, Oh, like I went to a Broadway show

902
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: two weeks ago with my parents. I'm like, oh, like,

903
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: this is like a what did you say? Book of Mormon?

904
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: I heard that, but that I enjoyed it, But I

905
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 2: will say Wicked is still better in my opening, I

906
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: enjoy Wicked more. I love South Park, and when I

907
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 2: watched Book of Mormon, it felt to me like a

908
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 2: bizarre South Park live action episode. Interesting because the tone

909
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 2: of the jokes and the singing. It feels like bigger, longer,

910
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 2: and uncut, which is one of their best South Park

911
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 2: movies early on.

912
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: It's so funny because when I was your age is,

913
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: but I lived in New York for like eleven years.

914
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: And what neighborhood you live in?

915
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: All over the place. I was taking garbage bags of

916
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: clothes and moving from one shithole to the next, Like

917
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: was your favorite years? Yeah? My favorite was my last

918
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: one on forty sixth and second.

919
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: And it was it's like Turtle Bay.

920
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 1: It is right by like Spark Steakhouse, and uh, Smith

921
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: and Lenski's right there. So anyway, I had this little

922
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: hovel facing a brick wall. But it was the first one.

923
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 2: Really is that a Jewish word? No, a Yiddish word.

924
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: No, it means like a little hole, a little like shitty,

925
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,479
Speaker 1: little holly small. I mean, I don't know if somebody

926
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: look it up.

927
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 2: I was today years old when I learned to hovel. Wow,

928
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: see that?

929
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: What could happen to you?

930
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 2: If you come on, just Jen, just gen you get

931
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 2: the last.

932
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: A small, squalid, unpleasant or simply constructed dwelling. That was

933
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: my favorite place to live in this novel because it

934
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: was also mine. I didn't have any room. It's at

935
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: this point. It was the last place I lived in

936
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: New York, and it was just I loved that it

937
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 1: was small. And Jeff Wessel used to be like, I

938
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: would keep my underwear and drawers like under the bed,

939
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: like because there was just no room space for everything.

940
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: But yes, and he was so pleased with himself when

941
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: we got together and I moved into his place in Gottenburg,

942
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: New Jersey. He thought he had saved me. I'm like, dude,

943
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: I love that place like I would go back there today.

944
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: It faced a brick wall. I didn't care. But like

945
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: back in the day, it's a shame when you're young

946
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: in New York sometimes and it's wasted on the young

947
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: because that's what I did. I just went out and

948
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: I went to Sheep's Meadow and got fucked up, and

949
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: then I would would think about what club I was

950
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: going to, where I was going to go that night.

951
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: I was never I was always just like I had

952
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: ten million different jobs, a different you guys have summer house.

953
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: It's like a totally different thing. But I really wasn't

954
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: passionate about anything except boys and like friends and whatever.

955
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: And I missed it. I missed New York, you know

956
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: what I mean. We were talking about moving back here

957
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: potentially or getting like that's going. I can't even say that.

958
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 2: One had a tear.

959
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: I know what, I know what the word is.

960
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 3: I have a lot of money for another home, yes.

961
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: But I always feel like it sounds like it's going

962
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: to be like a love nest. And I'm not implying

963
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: that I'm interested in that term.

964
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I don't know who TikTok that works. In

965
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 2: the last two years, but it came back. It's like,

966
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: what the it's the only way people talk about their

967
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 2: second home.

968
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: Now, Yes, I feel so pretentious.

969
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 3: There's a house on pas over a million dollars. Really, yes,

970
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:35,479
Speaker 3: I didn't know that might.

971
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: Not be a facted up my whole idea now, Jeff Spcer, Wow, thanks, Yeah, I.

972
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 2: Could maybe should go see if your hovel is still

973
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: standing on forty second in six or forty six and second.

974
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: But I loved it. It had a doorman, I felt safe.

975
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: It was really cool. I absolutely loved that place. Both

976
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: my kids now have places, and I called. I just

977
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: actually stayed overnight right down the block here at a

978
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 1: place called the Michael Angelo Hotels. Tonight did very well

979
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: by me, for I want to say, it was like

980
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: three hundred bucks, which is unheard of, unheard of especially

981
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: during the holiday season. Very nice hotel.

982
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 2: So you stayed over night last night?

983
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: I did because I had an event last night. I

984
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: had an event, an Israel event, and that I think

985
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: I was telling you guys. Michael Rappport yes, yeah, okay, yeah,

986
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: invited me to this thing was actually it was quite amazing.

987
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, well, I mean you should know him first.

988
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 1: He was sing it and he didn't really invite me.

989
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: I actually sent him a text and asked if he

990
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: could get me in. So that's different, right, but uh,

991
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: it's called One Israel the One Israel Fund. Anyway, So

992
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: I said to Rachel, you know what I'm coming in.

993
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm just going to spend the night. I'm fucking paying

994
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: for it. Okay. She's like, what do you mean. She's like, Mom,

995
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: I don't, like, I don't have room for that. I'm like,

996
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: I know you have room because I bought you the

997
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: Queen size bed, so I know that there's room and

998
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm paying for half your rent. And she's like, but

999
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, Mom, that's fine, But like I'm going

1000
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 1: to be facetiming and like I don't sleep well and

1001
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna get high before I go to bed,

1002
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: and I just want times. I'm thinking, what is happening

1003
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: right now? I nobody helped me pay my rent. There

1004
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: was no one who was like picking out Linnet I took,

1005
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, from each department. I could take a

1006
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: big hefty bag and I put it in the cab

1007
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: and I go to the next place that I could afford.

1008
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 3: It was none of this.

1009
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 2: I would have paid top dollar for. See you at

1010
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 2: the camera okay, getting out of your little hovel.

1011
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 3: Okay, your bag.

1012
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 2: It was exactly what it was.

1013
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. And then my son is just he

1014
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 1: looks at me like I'm saying something so inappropriate, like

1015
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 1: what do you mean you're going to stay here? Like

1016
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: that is so weird. And he's in law school, so

1017
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: we're paying a lot of his for a lot of his.

1018
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: It's all wrong, and I got nowhere to go. I

1019
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: want to come back.

1020
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 3: I want to come back as a fest kid.

1021
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, thank you. That's what I tell them all

1022
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: the time.

1023
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 2: I could afford the three hundred dollars hotel tonight.

1024
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 1: I know we're very rich, that's true.

1025
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,959
Speaker 2: Well, if I could say when I had a small

1026
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 2: soho apart, when I first knew here, I had my

1027
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: mom stay with me. My dad would stay with me,

1028
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't my mentality. My parents didn't have money

1029
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 2: like that, so they either were visiting me and staying

1030
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: with me, or they weren't visiting at all. Right, right,

1031
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 2: so I guess it. You know, I would feel terrible

1032
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 2: if I like, mom, you can't stay at mean, like,

1033
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: of course.

1034
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: Your mother obviously did something right, and I have done

1035
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: a lot of things wrong, something went very It.

1036
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 2: Took some time for this. I had to humble myself

1037
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 2: and actually like, look, you have a.

1038
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: Nice thing with your parents. I like seeing them on

1039
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: the show with you. Thank you really nice and so

1040
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: do you from.

1041
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 2: What I remember Jesse's parents, it's awesome show the mom's Yeah,

1042
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: support us.

1043
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 3: I love that I live in somewhat of a hovel

1044
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 3: right now, you do. I'm not embarrassed to say.

1045
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: I think that's a there's a song in there, Jesse Solomon?

1046
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: What is wait? What's the first song? What would Jesse saw?

1047
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: Where does Jesse Solomon live?

1048
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 3: That's an apartment in Williamsburg, the roommate and it's big

1049
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 3: and spacious.

1050
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: But it's like old Okay, but just by definition, you

1051
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: don't live in a hobble. You just said big and spacious.

1052
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not ship. It's like a Brooklyn.

1053
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 2: It looks like a Brooklyn y kind of a factory.

1054
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 2: Actually makes it look sketchy. Yeah. What do you guys do?

1055
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 3: Well? I know what you do.

1056
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: Carl and I we're going to talk about I want

1057
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: to talk about softbar. But Jesse, so you are pursuing acting,

1058
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: singing the arts, right?

1059
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1060
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 3: I would love to release an album this year's cool.

1061
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 3: I'm going to Yes, I've been recording music.

1062
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 2: I have this.

1063
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been so fun and I think it sounds

1064
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 3: great and everybody have shown it to really likes it.

1065
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 2: So I hope people like it as much as I do.

1066
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 2: And uh, what is it?

1067
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: What kind of music?

1068
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 3: It's kind of like electronic pop funk, like there's I'm

1069
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 3: trying it all, I'm seeing what I like.

1070
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: I love that you were studying this and you didn't

1071
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: just come up with it on summer House like this

1072
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: was actually Yeah, you didn't think wow like a lot

1073
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: of us do. Now I could be a pop star

1074
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:01,959
Speaker 1: like I did when I picked up the guitar.

1075
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, So hopefully it's work out that way.

1076
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I know I understand music. I work for

1077
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 3: Amazon Live. I've got this consistent Amazon Live gig, which

1078
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 3: has been great because it's kind of like honing in

1079
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: my hosting chops.

1080
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 2: I just like doing it.

1081
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 1: What do you sell?

1082
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 2: Yesterday? I did one with my mom for like a

1083
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 2: holiday gift exchange. I did a spa day.

1084
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 3: It was like all cosmetics face stuff felt like page

1085
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 3: to soorbo. Yeah, just anything that boys or girlfriends will

1086
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 3: buy for their boyfriends.

1087
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: I love that. Oh I just had a question run

1088
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: through my head that I'm not going to say, and

1089
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 1: you should thank me for it.

1090
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 3: Oh, thanks, welcome and yeah, and then we do brand

1091
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,399
Speaker 3: deals obviously, which you're super great.

1092
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: Is this for I don't know if it's still like

1093
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: this for you cross for me it is. I just

1094
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: did Jersey for two years and who knows if I'm

1095
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: ever going to again. But it was such an adventure,

1096
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: like it was like what is happening? And especially when

1097
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: I was fifty three when they cast me on it,

1098
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, how is this to this day?

1099
00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: Up like that, like what is happening? People come up

1100
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: to me and they're like, oh my god, I take

1101
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: a picture. I'm like, fuck, yeah, you want to take

1102
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: a picture with me? Yeah, you could absolutely do that, right,

1103
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: And like, I don't know, after all this time, I'm

1104
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: sure for because I've had I've seen some of my

1105
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: cast they get so bombarded, right, and I get it.

1106
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: And so I see one particular member of my cast

1107
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: who will go nameless or me nameless, hide once in

1108
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: an airport behind a plant because she didn't want to deal.

1109
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,280
Speaker 2: With like all of the pants I understand the airport

1110
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 2: and she.

1111
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 1: Really got buried like she was she was wigging out

1112
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: a little. But I guess what I'm asking is, are

1113
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: you still well, Jesse? Are you still glowing from this? Like?

1114
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: Holy shit? Well, how did this happen to me?

1115
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 3: I feel bad when people come up to me and

1116
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 3: say like, I'm so sorry, I don't want to bother you.

1117
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, this is awesome that people want to

1118
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 3: say hi to me, and like, you know, you go

1119
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 3: out to a bar. The point of going out is

1120
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 3: to be social. So I would rather have people who

1121
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: like me and want to talk to me come up

1122
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 3: to me and say hi, and you meet people, right,

1123
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 3: So no, I still like it obviously when you're like

1124
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 3: in an airport or you're destryed.

1125
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: But I mean, the whole idea of this, theat that

1126
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: you're famous now, is that just blow your Does it

1127
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: blow your mind?

1128
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 3: Still?

1129
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 2: I don't consider myself famous.

1130
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 1: I say that to I'm not you are, I'm not.

1131
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: But whatever, there's a difference.

1132
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's wild.

1133
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 3: The craziest thing for me is just the cancer survivors

1134
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: and people going through health issues. And Carl has the

1135
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 3: same thing with the sober community. But just the fact

1136
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 3: that I can impact somebody's life just by sharing my

1137
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 3: story and being open and the messages and what people

1138
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 3: say to me when they meet me is like like

1139
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 3: you help me get through this, and it's like such

1140
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 3: a heartwarming thing.

1141
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what about you. It's not that deep for you.

1142
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: You just like the attention, right, No, it is.

1143
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: Actually I know it's for some time. I mean, I

1144
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 2: will say, like to your point, I mean, I'm it's

1145
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 2: amazing when people come up to you. I actually joke

1146
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 2: with them. I go the moment this stops happening is

1147
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 2: when I'm like, fuck right. I've always appreciated when people

1148
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: come up because what Jesse said, like, yeah, a fair

1149
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 2: amount of people have approached me and expressed you've helped

1150
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 2: me get through something really difficult, or you inspired me

1151
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 2: to make a change, or a sibling who was struggling.

1152
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: I've had some I've had people stop me on the

1153
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 2: street and give me hugs, and it still that blows

1154
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 2: me away. And I still do shock that I've made

1155
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: any impact on anyone. You know, I've shown you what

1156
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: not to do.

1157
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, but guess what, But should it be said that.

1158
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 2: What keeps me energized and excited about what we get

1159
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 2: to do here. Yes, you open your lives up. There's

1160
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 2: a lot of things that are uncomfortable sometimes with this experience.

1161
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 2: But if you can change one person's day or life, like,

1162
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 2: that's what it's all about. Wow, And I I really

1163
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: care deeply about that now. I wish I could be

1164
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,240
Speaker 2: more helpful. Honestly.

1165
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: You guys are way better people than I am. I

1166
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: just like being famous get early on in this.

1167
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: Program, Like I've been on Summer House for nine years now. Yeah,

1168
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 2: I know the first it wasn't always like this. The

1169
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 2: first season, people recognize that's a little I'm tall, and

1170
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 2: Kyle and I would were still best buddies.

1171
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 3: We go out all the time.

1172
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 2: But it wasn't until like the third season when it

1173
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 2: kind of like brand deals were coming. We didn't brand

1174
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 2: duals the first two seasons, right, we paid, We buy

1175
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: our own alcohol in Summerhouse.

1176
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: I heard that it's changing a little bit though, that

1177
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: kind of thing, like.

1178
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 2: It's evolved a lot, But the first three years were

1179
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 2: just it was like a backyard football team just liking

1180
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: to play football with each other. Like we didn't know

1181
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 2: we were making a show. We didn't care. We were

1182
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: just partying, letting loose and having fun and then we

1183
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: go back to our regular lives.

1184
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 1: Did you want to be famous when you were younger?

1185
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: Do you have? Yeah? I always wanted to be in

1186
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:27,959
Speaker 2: front of a camera, me too.

1187
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 3: Did you just I didn't really. Yeah, that's why I

1188
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 3: chose to go into the music business. Rather than like

1189
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 3: getting this singing degree and being like, I'm going to

1190
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 3: go try to make it as a singer, I was like,

1191
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 3: I want control over my fate. And then I had

1192
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 3: a terrible time. I mean, I love the music business.

1193
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 3: I worked in finance for a while. I still do

1194
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 3: a little bit right, but it's just like it's a job.

1195
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,760
Speaker 3: It's a way to make money. It's not like my passion.

1196
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 3: But I do like entertaining people, and I feel good

1197
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 3: in front of the camera.

1198
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I was meant to be here.

1199
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 2: I just it's not something I always wanted. You know.

1200
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: When I before I started on Jersey, I had a

1201
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,959
Speaker 1: long talks with my therapist. I guess they're not talks,

1202
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: they were actually sessions, so I was paying for them. Yes,

1203
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: I'm like her and I would go to lunch. It

1204
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:13,959
Speaker 1: wasn't like that. It was like I gave her money

1205
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: and she tried to help me through my manic feelings

1206
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: about going on to reality TV. But and we had

1207
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: to like really look like like why am I doing this?

1208
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: Why do I want to do this? And what is

1209
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: the draw? Because at the draw she would say to me,

1210
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: if fits money and fame doesn't really always work out

1211
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: well when that is what's driving you as opposed to

1212
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: what Like I so I want to I like making

1213
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: people laugh. So I'm always I'm just a mess, and

1214
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 1: I've always been a hot mess. People have always laughed

1215
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: at me, and I like it. I don't care if

1216
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: you're laughing with me or at me, just like I

1217
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: like to make people laugh. And so that was like

1218
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: part of what I wanted to do. I think I

1219
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: did a better job of it on my first season.

1220
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: But also, like people sometimes say to me, you can't

1221
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: be this all the time, but it's like sometimes you're

1222
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: the voice of reason. I was like, I like the

1223
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 1: idea of going onto this show and like maybe saying

1224
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: something I don't know that would like mediate like what

1225
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: are my what is my purpose here? But like when

1226
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: you think about that, you know, going on was it?

1227
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: Did you think to yourself. I guess you thought this

1228
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: will just be fun, but do you have do you

1229
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 1: have ideas? Or this is going to make me famous

1230
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: that's what I really want?

1231
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 3: Or I mean, I'll say like this.

1232
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 2: When I first discovered this, I mean, Kyle and I

1233
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 2: had been friends. It's a true story. I was at

1234
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 2: my dentist's office and he knows Kyle and Everett and

1235
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 2: who were my friends. And I had heard about this

1236
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 2: house happening and I sho to be on the show.

1237
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 2: And I reached out to Kyle and say, yo, what

1238
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 2: are you guys doing this summer. He's like, we're going

1239
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 2: to do this thing. We have extra spot if you

1240
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: want to join it, get out. So yeah, Like early on,

1241
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,399
Speaker 2: I remember talking to Kyle and his thing was, Dude,

1242
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 2: we're already doing this anyway. We're having fun on the weekend,

1243
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 2: we're partying. But maybe there's something that could happen with this.

1244
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: We didn't know at all what that would be. But

1245
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: I appreciated Kyle kind of he pushed me because I

1246
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 2: wasn't necessarily like yeah, I goun ho. I was like,

1247
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 2: well why and he's like, it's not all about partying,

1248
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 2: And that stuck with me. Forever. It's a platform. It's

1249
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 2: a party, but it's a platform, So what else could

1250
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 2: we do with this? So I thought at that point

1251
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 2: in my career I was in I worked for a

1252
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 2: medical company. I was an outside sales rep. I'd been

1253
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 2: sales rep at the year hit my quotas I was.

1254
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,439
Speaker 2: But also it was a job I wasn't. I didn't

1255
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 2: want to be a career dental salesperson, so I was

1256
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 2: willing to take a chance. I didn't have a great

1257
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: relationship with my boss at the time, and I was like,

1258
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: I went to school for TV and film, I had

1259
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 2: acted and modeled. I love a mic. I like what

1260
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 2: Jesse said. I enjoyed when I could make someone laugh

1261
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 2: or be in front of a group, and it was

1262
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 2: like a thing. So I was like, what could go wrong?

1263
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 2: You know? And it to Kyle's point, he was like,

1264
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 2: there's more to this than just getting drunk. Yeah, So

1265
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: my original thing was like, let's have fun and see

1266
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 2: what could happen.

1267
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: You know, just think about how many guys your age

1268
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: would they shy a waveman or would they look like

1269
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: when I don't know, Jesse, how are you approached for it?

1270
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 2: I had met Kyle.

1271
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: Why are you laughing? Sorry, it's just tell me.

1272
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was choking on my lavane cookie.

1273
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: Tell me, tell me.

1274
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 3: I had met Kyle like out in the city and

1275
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 3: then he, I think, told the producers about me and

1276
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 3: they messaged me on LinkedIn, and I knew of Summerhouse

1277
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 3: because I had been to the Hamptons a lot.

1278
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, this is a popular show.

1279
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 2: Like I'll take the call.

1280
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 3: And I took the call, and I was like, listen,

1281
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 3: I'm probably not going to do this because I'm about

1282
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 3: to move back to Miami.

1283
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 2: You know, my job is great, but like, I am

1284
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 2: your guy for this.

1285
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm tall. I talked to every girl

1286
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 3: at the bar. So I just thought, you know, it

1287
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 3: would be good for business. Of course, like we live

1288
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 3: in this digital world where having followers and marketing and

1289
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 3: eyeballs and all that. But yeah, I figured just at

1290
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 3: least sharing my cancer story would help other people going

1291
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 3: through something similar. I thought I wasn't expecting to have

1292
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 3: a cancer scare on national television, but you know a

1293
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 3: lot of people have like that anxiety going into those

1294
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:05,280
Speaker 3: appointments and kind of connected it and resonated with that story.

1295
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,240
Speaker 3: So yeah, I just I thought it would be generally

1296
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 3: good for like my finance career. I thought maybe I

1297
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 3: could like launch another company. I ran a company for

1298
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 3: four years called mickey Wow. That was a marketplace to

1299
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: buy and sell commodities. So I just thought maybe I

1300
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 3: could do like what.

1301
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 1: You just said. I knew you said something. You did something.

1302
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 3: We sold wood online to people and trying to punchline

1303
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 3: to this. No, no sold what super boring business.

1304
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds horrible. That was also in dental sales,

1305
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: by the way.

1306
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 3: I know, there's just so much good I had so

1307
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 3: many good one for people.

1308
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 2: You did.

1309
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 3: You can't handle the tooth?

1310
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: Oh god, wait all right, hold on. I feel very

1311
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: out of control. It's the whole presence of these two

1312
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: young men. They're too good looking, they're too charming, and

1313
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: I've lost my grip on just you.

1314
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 2: We're just talking.

1315
00:55:56,400 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: I know I need to get done like you to

1316
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 1: tell us about here.

1317
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah we won't.

1318
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 2: We don't need to take up all the time on

1319
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 2: the software piece, but I'll you all tell.

1320
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: A little bit about we would like to tell my

1321
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: millions and millions of viewers. H Yes, you know, to

1322
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: be successful. You came to the right place, get on

1323
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 1: Just Jen.

1324
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 2: Well, I'm you know, I launched a new business this

1325
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 2: past summer, which you'll you'll see a little bit about it,

1326
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,439
Speaker 2: I hope, on the new season. But yeah, I'm still

1327
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 2: working with Kyle and the lover Boy team. Very proud

1328
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,800
Speaker 2: of what we've built there. We launched a non alcoholic

1329
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 2: lover Boy last year, and through launching that, I realized

1330
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 2: there's still a huge opportunity in like an experience where

1331
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 2: you can go and drink morning, afternoon or evening really

1332
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 2: high quality non alcoholic drinks. So I've been you know,

1333
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:41,799
Speaker 2: putting together a team and a brand and a vision

1334
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: and I built and stood up like a proper company.

1335
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 2: So we have a four wall location in Williamsburg, Brooklyn.

1336
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: It'll be open in this spring in May. We're still

1337
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 2: fingers crossed, but yeah, it's all about mindful consumption. So

1338
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 2: I didn't set out to create a sober bar, even

1339
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 2: though that's what every person thinks I did. That's not

1340
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 2: what I'm doing because a lot.

1341
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 1: Now, what would be bad about doing that?

1342
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 3: Sober bar is very niche.

1343
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 2: It's just for sober people, and I want everybody to

1344
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 2: come to what I'm opening up because I believe not

1345
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,399
Speaker 2: everybody's comfortable saying that they're sober or not. I want

1346
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 2: every just to feel good about the quality of the

1347
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 2: beverage and the space that's there. There are sober bars.

1348
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 2: I go to them, but they're weird. Yeah, it's not

1349
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 2: a place that is someone who maybe is thinking about

1350
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 2: sobriety whatever want to go to.

1351
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 1: It's like a meetings.

1352
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 2: It feels like an AA and again, I love AA.

1353
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 2: It saved my life, but I wanted to say something

1354
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: that was for everyone and funny enough, I'll leave you

1355
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 2: with this last data point. But like, statistically, the people

1356
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 2: that still buy non alcoholic beverages ninety four percent of

1357
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 2: sales are two people that still drink alcohol. Really, so

1358
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 2: when you're building a company for ninety four percent or

1359
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: six percent, six percent of the people that literally don't

1360
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 2: drink at all, or the ninety six who still drink

1361
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 2: but also buy all these products. Yeah, so that was

1362
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: important to us when we're creating this kind of vision

1363
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 2: that and that's soft bar and nutshell, but.

1364
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: Is also you're not talking about the so.

1365
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 2: We've yeah, we've got amazing like slogans and taglines.

1366
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: Oh, I just think it's important because I was gifted

1367
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 1: my favorite hat. Today, I gave Jen.

1368
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 2: One of our really cool merchandise pieces. We do have merch,

1369
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 2: which I will say, if you're following a brand on

1370
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 2: Bravo or one of the people from our show or

1371
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 2: other shows, we all launch merch because it's a huge

1372
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 2: way to fund and support. Well, yes, for us, it's

1373
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 2: to support our business right because merch is a way

1374
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 2: for everybody across the country to access your brand if

1375
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 2: you don't live in New York City or wherever your

1376
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 2: business is. So we've been really lucky with the merch sales.

1377
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 2: What you're wearing today, it says here, comma you are.

1378
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 2: It's all about being present and the way the comma

1379
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 2: and the period are integrated, being ten toes down, being present,

1380
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 2: being mindful here that it's also I love Star Wars

1381
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 2: and Yoda, and if you know Yoda, the way his

1382
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 2: style of speak, he like reversus words.

1383
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: But it's super I'm thinking of I was thinking of

1384
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: the Big Fat One.

1385
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 2: That's a classic, classic something Yoda would say. There is

1386
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 2: no try only do wow.

1387
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: But the way I wonder too that from Nike, or

1388
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: you think you got it from Yoda.

1389
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 3: Yoda, just do it.

1390
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 2: Yoda is a tremendous character on film, and his quotes

1391
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 2: and how he speaks is one of the most unique things.

1392
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: Really, we are learning things.

1393
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 3: Hmm.

1394
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Jess.

1395
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1396
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 3: The only thing I will plug is I have a

1397
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 3: partnership with the American Cancer Society and we're about to

1398
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 3: do a merch collab and all proceeds go to the

1399
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 3: American Cancer Society.

1400
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 2: Did you do one this past summer too?

1401
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: That?

1402
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1403
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 3: That was that didn't have like, it wasn't a true partnership.

1404
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 3: I just donated some of the money to them. Okay,

1405
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 3: but this is like their logo, my logo WWJSD.

1406
00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: So Solomon, we do do what would look coming together

1407
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: for me? Now? So I'm going to ask this. I

1408
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 1: hope they don't embarrass myself. And I'm assuming right now

1409
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 1: you are cancer free.

1410
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank god, thank god.

1411
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so happy to hear that.

1412
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,959
Speaker 2: Yeah. Knock on my one nut. Yeah, knock on wood.

1413
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: I knew a guy with one nut.

1414
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 3: I liked him.

1415
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: You like me back?

1416
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 2: I liked him just fine.

1417
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: No, I thought one was plenty.

1418
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 2: Problem I got too, if you count the fake one.

1419
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: They give you fake nuts.

1420
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just woke up and I was like, did

1421
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 2: I get a fake get the.

1422
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: Hell out of here?

1423
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 2: Really? Yeah?

1424
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: Why women love nuts that much? Or men love nuts?

1425
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 2: I guess for the men, right.

1426
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 3: It's like, for like, if you looked at my schmeckel,

1427
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: you wouldn't be like, oh, that guy is one nut,

1428
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 3: but if you have only one, it kind of like

1429
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 3: hangs in the got it.

1430
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it gives it more of a symmetrical Yes,

1431
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 2: there's nothing wearing one shoe and not wearing one shoe.

1432
01:00:57,400 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I can hear that. I don't know. I'll tell

1433
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: you I like the guy. I should write a song.

1434
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: I liked a guy with one nut and he didn't

1435
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: like me back.

1436
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 2: That's powerful.

1437
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 1: That is powerful.

1438
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 2: Well, I will say I really having Jesse's share. I

1439
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: didn't know obviously his story fully until after he shared that.

1440
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: But for someone who's also shared some very personal things

1441
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 2: and you know, some challenging moments in our life, I

1442
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 2: really appreciated him not only sharing that for the group

1443
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 2: and getting to know him better, but also with the

1444
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 2: impact he could have on the people that watch our show.

1445
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 2: And I see it on social and I see what

1446
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,440
Speaker 2: he's done. And we did an event you'll see on

1447
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 2: the new season it's just powerful, Like we were with

1448
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 2: cancer survivors and people that I mean, they're fighting really hard,

1449
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 2: and he's using his platform and his story to not

1450
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 2: only help other people but inspire other people. Because it's

1451
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 2: this happens in sobriety too, when you see someone else

1452
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 2: who's gotten through something or already entered the door you're

1453
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 2: about to enter, and it gives them a little bit

1454
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 2: of confidence and faith that they can get through it too.

1455
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 2: And I know he's done that for people. Yeah, and listen,

1456
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 2: my story is a happy one. It has a happy ending,

1457
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 2: and not everybody is so lucky. So we just try

1458
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 2: to do what we can to kind of inspire hope.

1459
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: And I have one of my best friends past of

1460
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: ovarian cancer going back quite a few years ago, thank you.

1461
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: And but I have a friend who will be fine,

1462
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: thank God, is fighting cancer. Net cancer sucks and it

1463
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: just changes everything. And I'm proud of you, proud of

1464
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: you happy.

1465
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 2: I mean, he's literally saying, he's say doing that and

1466
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 2: it's massive. So yes, love you, brother, I love you, brother,

1467
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. I have a couple of questions for you, Jim.

1468
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 1: Oh good, I love that really Yeah, Oh my goodness, what.

1469
01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 2: Do you look? Yeah? Go for it? Who is what

1470
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 2: is your Who is your favorite person on Bravo besides

1471
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,439
Speaker 2: Andy Khen? Do you watch other Bravo shows?

1472
01:02:58,480 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: I watch every No, that's not true.

1473
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 2: I don't watch every besides Summerhouse?

1474
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 3: What other like?

1475
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 2: What's your favorite?

1476
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 1: Not including Summerhouse? Not including Okay, because you know we

1477
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: were gonna yeah, knew you to say it wasn't going

1478
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: to be you. But I love you to death, Jesse.

1479
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 1: But I have a special place in my heart for this.

1480
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 1: He was just so sad looking at the Belta Lounge.

1481
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm a diamond medallion. Now are you watching?

1482
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 1: Which is weird because I have a house. We have

1483
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 1: a house in Charleston, So I don't know why I

1484
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: don't watch Southern.

1485
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 2: Charm, But I do you watch like Salt Lake?

1486
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: I am obsessed.

1487
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:29,479
Speaker 2: It's pretty fire.

1488
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: You guys both watch it? Do you watch House at all?

1489
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 2: Only Salt Lake? For whatever reason?

1490
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: Remind me not not to self. Don't buy Jesse.

1491
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 2: Back on that. I've seen some Jersey check out. It's okay,

1492
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 2: I gotta go to peak.

1493
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,919
Speaker 1: I didn't see the song, No, I got to watch. Yeah,

1494
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know a song yeah, okay, anyway, sorry, so

1495
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: my favorite person.

1496
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 2: Like character, it doesn't necessarily you have to be something

1497
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 2: friends with him. Just wondering who entertains you the most,

1498
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 2: son Bravo.

1499
01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I mean there's just like it's so,

1500
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: you know, who I really love. I don't know if

1501
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: she's entertains me, but who I want to come back

1502
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 1: as Lisa vander Pump. I would. I used to just

1503
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 1: watch her and think, First of all, she looked do

1504
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: you guys know who Jacqueline Smith is? There's this look

1505
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 1: about Lisa right well, but there's this look about Lisa

1506
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 1: vander Pump with her with the hair and the I

1507
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: think she is so funny and so beautiful and so

1508
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: she had a royal thing. Absolutely, it is very funny

1509
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: and cool and cool and self deprecating and like just

1510
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: I just I want to say I aspire to a

1511
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: Lisa Vanderpump. So, now if you're asking me who do

1512
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 1: I like love, that's like currently on. I mean, I

1513
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 1: love all those Salt Lake girls. They are amazing, They're funny,

1514
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: they are so okay, all right, let's you know what

1515
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 1: the truth is. And I didn't love this person until

1516
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 1: my producer from Jersey told me how much he loved

1517
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 1: this person and he convinced me. So, I don't know.

1518
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: It was weird. It's like, don't you get it? Don't

1519
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: like I wasn't really getting her. Lisa Barlowe effing love her.

1520
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 1: I think she is so do you know who she is?

1521
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 2: I met her at the fan fest shoes funny.

1522
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: She is so because she I like people that make

1523
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: no apologies and it's like so cliche, be authentic, but

1524
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: it's true, Like Lisa is she doesn't get like this

1525
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: is who she is and she is a snob and

1526
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: she is a brat and she owns it and she

1527
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 1: doesn't like she's not mean, but she can't help it.

1528
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, I broke up, beautiful, what do you

1529
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 1: want from me? Like that's just who I am?

1530
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 2: And commercial with them, and I had met Lisa a

1531
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 2: little bit, but not you know, I didn't have any

1532
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 2: kind of great experience, not bad or anything. But they

1533
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 2: were telling me how amazing Lisa was. Yeah, and had

1534
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 2: so much fun doing the Wendy's commercial. Really, and I

1535
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 2: saw it and it's a funny commercial. It's like Lisa's

1536
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 2: the therapist and Kyle Emander in like a counseling office

1537
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 2: for a it's a Wendy's.

1538
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 3: Ad they did.

1539
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 2: I mean Lisa was great. Kyle Amanda were great too,

1540
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 2: so they raved about her after that.

1541
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: My producer, so his name, well he's not producing my

1542
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 1: show anymore because there's no show, but his name is

1543
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 1: Chris de Rosa, and he's just you guys know how

1544
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 1: you get with the producer sometimes where you just I

1545
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: fell so madly in love with Chris de Rosa. He

1546
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: was like my person. And he was like, you know,

1547
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: a young guy, thirty something, and I'm calling him like

1548
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: a little bitch, like every all day, every day, like

1549
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:21,960
Speaker 1: whining about stuff, and.

1550
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 2: Well I do. I was a little bit.

1551
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: See fifty six year o women they're just like you.

1552
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 2: So but he's fifty.

1553
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 1: I think I like Jesse better than calling.

1554
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 2: I haven't brought up age at all. I just say

1555
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you, thank you. That's impossible.

1556
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 1: So okay, So but like I love him. What was

1557
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 1: my part? Oh? But he was so nervous. He told

1558
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 1: me the first time he met Lisa Barlow, this is

1559
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 1: a guy who produced all of Old New York. This

1560
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 1: is a producer that has done his like he's been

1561
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: there he knows everybody. He said he started shaking when

1562
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: he met Lisa Barlow. He became so overwhelmed. And think

1563
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 1: about it, we're like and study. We didn't go to

1564
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 1: act I went to acting school, but like we didn't.

1565
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: This is not one of the actors. People don't get that.

1566
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 1: You don't get so I did go. I wasn't a

1567
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: good actress. But but I'm saying, like people get like shaken,

1568
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: you know. And so when he told me that, that's

1569
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: when I sort of like looked at her differently, And

1570
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: now I'm just obsessed. I love her? Who is yours?

1571
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: Who is your favorites?

1572
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 2: I've really enjoyed a couple of different people. One I also,

1573
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 2: I actually really like I'm not gonna I think Madison

1574
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 2: on Southern Charm has been very enjoyable.

1575
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: Does she know that you feel this way?

1576
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: I mean we're friendly, Oh, we've.

1577
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: Friendly, friends, are friendly?

1578
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 2: She's married.

1579
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, sorry sorry Madisine.

1580
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 3: No, that is cool.

1581
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 2: Like I think she's funny on Southern Charms.

1582
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: Got it?

1583
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 2: She she has a she can deliver some some real

1584
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 2: good stuff. And then trying to think who else that's

1585
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 2: I mean Kyle Cook on Summerhouse always so I had.

1586
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 1: He's a perfect example of somebody that I watching the

1587
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 1: show and I can't. I didn't watch it consistently, but

1588
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 1: I've enough to know who Kyle is and then meeting him.

1589
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: I met him at Jen Guyser. There was dinner honoring

1590
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: Jen Guyser. Kyle was there and that was such a

1591
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 1: different experience, like meeting him as opposed to being a viewer.

1592
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 1: I like that kid. He's he's so he was so sweet.

1593
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 2: Kyle's great and you might get some he has like

1594
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:20,519
Speaker 2: a lot of he's a lot of fun. I mean,

1595
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 2: I would argue he's the most fun person I've ever

1596
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 2: partied with.

1597
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 3: And he brings a lot to what we do. He

1598
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:28,680
Speaker 3: likes to talk about business, so he has that other

1599
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,720
Speaker 3: great side conversationalist.

1600
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 2: Yeah really great.

1601
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you don't see you don't watch Housewives name

1602
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 1: do you watch any other Brava.

1603
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 3: I watched last season of Southern Charm. I watched last

1604
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 3: season of Southern Hospitality. Okay, I mean we're friendly with Craig, but.

1605
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:49,720
Speaker 1: I like people any girls on any of the other

1606
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 1: shows that you.

1607
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:53,719
Speaker 2: I'm close with Shena. I love Sena and I love Brock.

1608
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:57,479
Speaker 2: I've always been oh yeah, Tom Schwartz. Yeah, people seem

1609
01:08:57,560 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 2: to hate him. I love How do you hate that?

1610
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 2: Guys like the nicest, kindest people I haven't watched texted me.

1611
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 2: He's like, hey, but I just bought some softbar merch.

1612
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know. It's like thanks,

1613
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,600
Speaker 2: I would have sent you to like he bought it, Like.

1614
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, like I never get when

1615
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 1: people like do that, they start to hit. But that guy,

1616
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: he's like a Wes Wilson, Like you feel like you

1617
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: just want to pet him. He's the cutest little things.

1618
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 2: Great. I like Tom a lot. I think there must

1619
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 2: be a reason he did. He must have done something bad.

1620
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 2: I mean, sometimes it's the company you keep around you

1621
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:30,679
Speaker 2: that can be a reflection of you sometimes.

1622
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but any girls on any of the shows that

1623
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: you want to meet, there's one.

1624
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 2: There's a girl in the valley that's dropped dead gorgeous.

1625
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 3: I think, really, I think I'm married.

1626
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 2: She is married, but she's just gorgeous. She was she

1627
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 2: was a pageant.

1628
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 3: Miss.

1629
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: I ask if you want to meet them? So now

1630
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 1: you want me to You want to meet a woman

1631
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: who's married? No, I thought you said who yet, Yes,

1632
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: you want to meet them.

1633
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 2: I'm actually trying to branch outside of the Bravos here

1634
01:09:59,080 --> 01:09:59,559
Speaker 2: a little bit more.

1635
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: That's my boy, so you know, that's my boy and

1636
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: I dated a.

1637
01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 2: Little bit in the network, So it's good to Yes,

1638
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 2: Jesse is learning what it's like dating within the show.

1639
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesse, do you go to Bravo Con last year?

1640
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:10,600
Speaker 2: No?

1641
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 1: Oh, they are going to eat you up alive.

1642
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 3: That's what people said about FanFest and nobody ate me.

1643
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: FanFest is not the same thing. What hold on? Okay, wait,

1644
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: let me just readjust okay, we're not going to play.

1645
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1646
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 2: I wasn't even there, so I heard about it looked fun.

1647
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 1: But oh yeah it was a lot of Miami cast.

1648
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,560
Speaker 3: Like housewives actually want to like hook up with the

1649
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 3: summerhouse boy.

1650
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:33,600
Speaker 1: There's more than just housewives, first of all, No, I

1651
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: mean do I think that maybe, yes.

1652
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 2: Yes, there are some I've had over my years on

1653
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,560
Speaker 2: being in this network. I've had there are housewives that

1654
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:46,479
Speaker 2: are no longer on the Housewives shows, but I've been

1655
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 2: out late at night with or listen.

1656
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 1: I mean I think that there are when housewives are single.

1657
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: You didn't used to be right, these have to be married. Well,

1658
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 1: Bethany I guess wasn't. But like, if you're going to

1659
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 1: Brava Khan and there are these gorgeous young men there,

1660
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 1: the answer is yes, they want to hook up with

1661
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,600
Speaker 1: summerhouse boys. I don't they want to marry them or

1662
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 1: you know, have babies with them.

1663
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,320
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm kind of like, I don't know. It's

1664
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 2: if you're in the same world a little bit. It

1665
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 2: almost kind of gives like a co sign, Yeah, like

1666
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 2: you're okay, it can't be that bad. Yeah, he's in

1667
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 2: the Bravo world too, but be careful because they're the crossover.

1668
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 2: I'll give you an example back in you know, twenty sixteen,

1669
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 2: when first film the first season a Summerhouse. That's when

1670
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:27,679
Speaker 2: we met the Vanner Pump. Sheena and I were friendly,

1671
01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 2: and then I hung out with her again in twenty seventeen.

1672
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 2: But like that got like publicly picked up that we

1673
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 2: had hung out.

1674
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: And did you I mean, I don't know. Now it's

1675
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 1: like you is hanging out having sex.

1676
01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 2: Well, I we didn't actually have sex, but I said

1677
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 2: we hook up, but everybody assumed that was sex and

1678
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 2: then it was a whole thing.

1679
01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 3: But she and I were cool.

1680
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:48,759
Speaker 2: But what I'm getting at is that was publicized outside

1681
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 2: of Van or Pump's show and Summerhouse's show. It was

1682
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 2: just public that shit, of course, so you have like

1683
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 2: it just created more stuff. I mean it wasn't on purpose.

1684
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,599
Speaker 2: I never We had a late night at a bar

1685
01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 2: in New York and then went home together in it.

1686
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:02,640
Speaker 2: From there, people are like asking, what's going on with

1687
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 2: Karl and Chena? But I was back in like twenty seventeen,

1688
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, and.

1689
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: What is going on with Carl?

1690
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 2: And we're still friends? But she got married and all that.

1691
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 2: But it's just funny.

1692
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: How is there anyone any of the show.

1693
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:16,680
Speaker 2: Across across show hookups can blow up outside of that too.

1694
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 1: Listen, I think that's part of the fun, right You

1695
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: kind of want that.

1696
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 2: Little I think some people do. But I have to

1697
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 2: learn dating inside this world can be very polarizing and

1698
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 2: challenging something. Yeah, I totally underestimated how hard it would be.

1699
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:30,880
Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, I share.

1700
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 2: I have a lot of respect for the husbands and wives,

1701
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 2: the Kyle's, the amandas who put it all out there.

1702
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 2: But also it stays strong. I mean it's not easy.

1703
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 1: No, it's not any regrets about this past season specifically, m.

1704
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,520
Speaker 2: You know, I do I do something that I apologize

1705
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 2: for profusely, but.

1706
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't anything that was, in my opinion, so

1707
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 3: unforgivable that.

1708
01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: Well was it another people's minds very unforgive.

1709
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 2: No, it'll be okay, Yeah, it'll be fodder for It'll

1710
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 2: be fodder for a bit, but okay. The short term

1711
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 2: memory of a lot of this has actually been pretty

1712
01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 2: surprising to me, just because I, you know, I put

1713
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 2: a lot out there and people remember me for certain

1714
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 2: things and then literally forget, like things that I thought

1715
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 2: are very obvious about me.

1716
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 3: It just is what it is.

1717
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 1: I want to imagine. I also like going back and

1718
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: now with you and the woman who will whose name

1719
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: Remi rhymes with Schnindsey. So that person, like, what is

1720
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 1: it like to had to know and have in your

1721
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 1: head that you're gonna have to go and be back

1722
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 1: in that space? And I've done that for Wes and

1723
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 1: he was with that beautiful woman for a very lunch

1724
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 1: you know, Blitz.

1725
01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:44,240
Speaker 2: Well, one thing the difference is this, I was friends

1726
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 2: with Lindsay for many years before we got together, so

1727
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 2: we had a foundation of friendship. Oh right, remembering from

1728
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 2: twenty sixteen, I met Lindsay and very close as friends

1729
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:56,280
Speaker 2: and continue to be very close friends. Then obviously we

1730
01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 2: started dating, so I had a lot of time and

1731
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 2: I still care about her and wish the best for her.

1732
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,560
Speaker 1: So I a weird cares about you and whisch is

1733
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Speaker 1: the best for you?

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's that's why. That's why I pray for

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01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 2: her though you know I want, I hope. That's how

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01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 2: I release everything for me is by offering grace and

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01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:16,679
Speaker 2: praying for her because I really do want the best

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01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 2: for her, and that's how I can go live my

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01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 2: life now. Just give her a little bit of you know,

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01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 2: wish you the best, and then go focus on what

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01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 2: I got to get. Didn't she say in the trail,

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Speaker 2: She's like, I don't want well, anybody who says that.

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Speaker 1: Is the person you pray for, you're a better man

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Speaker 1: than I am.

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01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 2: It's I have a sponsor, I work, I worked steps.

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01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 2: I talk about emotions and resentments and things that ultimately

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01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 2: confess her and build up in your body, and it's

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01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 2: important for me to address it. I'm not saying I'm

1749
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:46,800
Speaker 2: not perfect at all, but when it comes to like

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01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 2: a breakup.

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01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: And normal and then in the world as we know it.

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01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 1: You don't go back and live in the summerhouse with

1753
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 1: the with the ex fiance. I mean, there's nothing easy

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01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 1: makes for great TV.

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01:14:57,360 --> 01:14:59,560
Speaker 2: Well, I was again, I had a lot of good friendships.

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01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 2: My best friends are all in this house. Yes, it's

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01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 2: very it was unique, but I think after the first

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01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 2: you'll see, after the first kind of it, we kind

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01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 2: of like Captain Nevin and.

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01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:11,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know how it happened. I don't

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01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 1: know what happened with West and Sierra and now Jesse.

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01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: I have a feeling that I know who is going

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01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 1: to be your love interest just from that little trailer.

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01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: But like, are you now okay? You know what, I'm

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01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: not gonna even do it because you probably can't talk

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01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 1: about it and I'm not that kind of podcast host. Yeah, yeah,

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01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: so we're gonna left anyway, what's her name?

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01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 2: You'll see me date Lexi on the show, and she

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01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 2: is a great girl.

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01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: I'll let you know about that. Because now I have

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01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 1: to be team Jesse. I got to get some girls

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Speaker 1: in here, you guys.

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01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 2: We got a books girls, the other the other half

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01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 2: of the crew and the other girls.

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01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:47,679
Speaker 1: I would love that. I would love to get Kyle

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Speaker 1: on also love you both. Thank you again. Happy happy

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01:15:53,080 --> 01:15:55,719
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Wanda, whatever it is that you celebrate, Happy

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01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 1: New Years. Bye guys, thanks for listening.