1 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamps and Camra Judge. 2 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to a special episode of The twat Sea. 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: We are excited to have on Derinda Medley. She was 4 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 2: a contestant on Traders season three. Obviously, she was a 5 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: previous cast member on the Real Housewives of New York City, 6 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 2: and her bio says feisty and outspoken, Derenda expressed her 7 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: resentment for sacrificing her spot for a shield to allow 8 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 2: the whole group to have a bigger pot of money. 9 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 2: She eventually became the primary target by the Traders among 10 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: all the Housewives contestants as their first murder to further 11 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 2: evoke chaos, which resulted in her being the first eliminated contestant. 12 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 2: She was a main cast member on New York City 13 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: from season seven through twelve. I thought she was on longer, 14 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: I did too. Medley left the franchise for a few 15 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: years until she returned in twenty twenty threes the Real 16 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: Housewife's Ultimate Girls Trip. 17 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 3: Let's bring her in well. 18 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, Hello, Now. 19 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: I may have been on Watch has Live, I've may 20 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: have been on The Tonight Show, But this year I 21 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: finally made it on two teeth. 22 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 5: You know, well, you know we love you. You know 23 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 5: I love you. How are you doing? 24 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 6: IM good? 25 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 5: I know we talk all the time, but. 26 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: I well, you know I love your show and you 27 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: know I love you too. You know I love you more, 28 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: both of you. 29 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: We love you. We're happier here. 30 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 6: What's new? 31 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: Are you dating anyone? What's the four to one one? 32 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 3: Give us some tea? 33 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 6: What's new? Well? 34 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: Trying to date, but I don't know how to approach it. 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: I just don't like, do I go on an app? 36 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: I was actually so funny you asked me this, Teddy. 37 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: I was just getting my hair done. 38 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 6: I was thinking, do I really go on an app? Well? 39 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 5: I should try it, I think. 40 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 3: I mean I went on one. I went on an app. 41 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 2: I am on no so I didn't make any announcement 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 2: on Instagram, but I i'm I've. 43 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 3: Went on an app. But here's the problem with the 44 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: app like one. 45 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: I don't know that I would naturally like be attracted 46 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: to someone solely by a photograph like I need both. 47 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 2: So I'm I'm like the way that I have kind 48 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: of been handling the app is. Last night I was 49 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: at dinner with Kyle and a bunch of our friends 50 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 2: for her birthday, and we decided as a group to 51 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 2: go through the people who have given me a rose. 52 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 3: And then you just kind of go, Okay, what app 53 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 3: is this Hinge? 54 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 6: I don't know, it's so funny because someone told me 55 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 6: to go on hinge. 56 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: Hey what about Riyah? 57 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: I heard you no Riah, No, you don't want Riya 58 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 2: because Riya is I mean, granted, I didn't get accepted 59 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 2: to Riah, so. 60 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 3: I don't know. 61 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 6: Oh I didn't get accepted either. 62 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 3: Oh so you applied. 63 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: I applied to Ria ages Ago and Andy Cohen actually 64 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: wrote me a recommendation, and Carol Rosboy had like a 65 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 1: spellar recommendation list and I didn't get in. 66 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 6: They said, you're on a wait list. 67 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: I was just thinking, wait a second, Luanne and Sonya 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: and everyone else is on like why not me? 69 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 6: Maybe I'm just not artsy enough. 70 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 2: Even on it exactly, but also even people that don't 71 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 2: fit the criteria of being on it or on it, 72 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 2: so I don't know, maybe they're just booked up. But 73 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: my friend that is on it, she said Riat is like, 74 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: actually it's too small of a pool and it's a 75 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: bunch of bullshitters anyway. So I mean the thing about Hinge, well, 76 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: at least the problem that I'm finding with Hinge is 77 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why, Like the only. 78 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 3: People reaching out to me are young people. 79 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 6: Oh I don't. 80 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, young what about Like? 81 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: So I think it's people reaching out like they want 82 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 2: to have a good time. 83 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: And then I look in their bios. 84 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: And it's like open to short term, blah blah. 85 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 5: Tell you don't waste any time. 86 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 4: Man, it's fifteen minutes and you're already on a dinning app. 87 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 6: I didn't know we were going to go there. I 88 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 6: was gonna say how you're doing with everything going out? 89 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 6: You're doing great? 90 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, this doesn't mean that I'm doing great. It 91 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 2: means I need a distract. Somebody even on the app 92 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: said to me, He's like. 93 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 3: Hey, I know who you are. 94 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 2: You're clearly on here because you need a distraction right now. 95 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 3: And I do. I mean, there's two nights. 96 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 2: A week where I'm living at freaking Kyle's house that 97 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 2: I don't have my kids. You know, I'm not in 98 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: a place where I'm going to be going out to 99 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: clubs or meeting people. So like I to have somebody 100 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 2: just to talk with a little bit, like I need 101 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: a little bit of a distraction. 102 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 6: But it's a tricky were married. 103 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 2: I was with Edwin for sixteen years. 104 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 6: This is a big change for you. 105 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and I'm laughing right now. You could 106 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: have talked to me last week and I was sobbing. 107 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 2: I mean, you know how it is like they're going 108 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 2: through the different stages of grief. 109 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 5: You know knows that better than both of us. 110 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, loss is it's a terrible thing, and it's such 111 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: a readjustment, and you know what it is. It's it's 112 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: because we assume at this point in our lives, so 113 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: we've kind of are where we're supposed to be. So 114 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: to have to throw everything, the baby out with the 115 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: bathwater and start, I often would say, really again. 116 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 6: Again, this wasn't the plan. 117 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it wasn't. 118 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 2: And for someone like me, who's like an uber planner, 119 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: you know, like, this isn't of course, it's not what 120 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: I wanted. Of Course, I would never want my kids 121 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 2: to be sad, and I you know, I'm doing everything 122 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: in my power to make sure that we both show 123 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: up for our kids in the best way possible. But 124 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: I also think it's impossible to navigate your emotions from 125 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,359 Speaker 2: day to day. Like there are some days where I 126 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 2: am like sobbing my eyes out, and I'm like, I. 127 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: Can't be alone. I can't do that. 128 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 2: I don't want this. But you know, like all of 129 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 2: these things. And then there's some days where I'm like, 130 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 2: I'm actually okay. 131 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, well, yeah, what's going to be. This is 132 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: the thing I always say about any sort of grief 133 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: for loss. In the beginning, it's so big and it's 134 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: so overwhelming, and you just you can't get you navigate 135 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: around the grief. 136 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 6: And then as time goes on, you'll you'll find. 137 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: That different sorts of people were enter your life that 138 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: maybe you wouldn't have had if you were still married. 139 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: You'll be open to different situations and you start growing bigger, 140 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: and the grief never goes away, the loss, but it 141 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: gets smaller and smaller, your life bigger and bigger. And 142 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: that's the good news. You'll you'll find in six months 143 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: you'll be like, you know what, I kind of look 144 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: forward to being alone tonight. I like my alone. 145 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 4: I told you that, Like, especially with the separation of 146 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 4: the kids, you'll get to a point where You're like, 147 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 4: you know what, I like my me time. 148 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 5: I like sometimes like go to daddy. Mommy needs her 149 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 5: me time, and you'll appreciate those time. 150 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: New York for a week and of course she just 151 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: she'll kill me for saying this because you know, we 152 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: can't say the word hand and I get a text. 153 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: I'll you. 154 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 3: Is don't talk about me publicly. 155 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: But she was here for almost a week. And at 156 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: the beginning it was all so great. I was cooking, 157 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: I was loving it everything. By the end, I was like, 158 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: got bye bye, no more, you know whatever soda. I'm like, 159 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: what do I You know, it just changed completely because 160 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm so used. 161 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 6: To being on my own. 162 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the problem for me because it really I 163 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: didn't do it right when I if I were to suggest, 164 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: like I think of people that kind of got divorced 165 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: or lost a partner, they get right back on the 166 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: horse and start dating. And even though I dated John, 167 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: I knew it was never going to be serious. I 168 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: saw him twice a week. I know people don't believe that, 169 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: but I really did. He never it was sort of 170 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: a just a you know, and I I do. I 171 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: still talk to him, but it was never going to 172 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: be that sort of thing I jumped into Holy And 173 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: I think when you wait too long, especially when you're 174 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: a little older like I am, you can get a 175 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: little weird about your time. 176 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: And then also, as I mean, I've noticed as as 177 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: I age, I'm even more particular about like, oh, well, 178 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: that's not gonna work for. 179 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 3: Me, you know, Like I'm very jorrenda. 180 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 4: Don't you feel like, you know, Richard was the love 181 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 4: of your life and he's not. He's not replaceable. And 182 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 4: like I always thought like if something happened to Eddie, 183 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 4: I don't necessarily think that I'd run out and day 184 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 4: when when I divorce, you know, when I got divorced, 185 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 4: I'm like, Kelly, Yeah, I want to date. But at 186 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 4: this point, when you have that love of your life 187 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 4: and it fulfilled you in every way, it's like I 188 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 4: don't really want to. 189 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 5: I was lucky to have that, you know, what's. 190 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 6: Interesting to him? 191 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: When I was thinking about this as well the other day, 192 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: I think I said it in an interview and then 193 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: I really talked about it to myself because I do 194 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: a lot of talking to myself. 195 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 6: But you know, I own a lot right up there. 196 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 6: A plutomander wandering around aimlessly. I don't know if Richard Medley. 197 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: If it would work now after being really such a 198 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: different person than the person that I was with. 199 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 5: But you were forced to be a different person. You lost. 200 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 6: But like if he landed, if like he showed up 201 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 6: tomorrow said it's all a joke. 202 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: Act. 203 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 6: She was just away for thirteen years, let's pick up 204 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 6: where we left off left off. I think it'd be 205 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 6: very difficult for both of them. 206 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 3: We think question was is this just a rumor? 207 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: Or was your relationship with Richard based on one of 208 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: the Was there. 209 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 3: A character or a couple on sex? 210 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 6: What was the characters was supposedly based on me? 211 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: I think she fell out a window or something like that. 212 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 6: He was like, because I was like a cigarette, she 213 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 6: fell out the window. So the truth of the matter 214 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 6: is it could be. 215 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 4: What do you think Richard would have thought of your 216 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 4: reality TV career? 217 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 6: That's strange. 218 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: He loved going like we would go because you remember 219 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: I was friends with all the girls, so we would 220 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: go to all the filming. And he is as a 221 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 1: big academic as he was and sort of very serious 222 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 1: guy in his world. He loved because he was a genius. 223 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: So this sort of thing fascinated human behavior, fascinating. So 224 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 1: we went to all the filming. I think he always 225 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: said to me, if you want to do it, you 226 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: could do it. But I couldn't do it at the 227 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: time because I had his father. Obviously, Hannah was in school. 228 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 1: I just didn't want to do it while she was. 229 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 5: I honestly didn't know that he filmed with you. 230 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, he would come. 231 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 3: He was did not know that. 232 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: He was fascinated by the UH process and he found 233 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: the women very entertaining. 234 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 6: He loved Luanne, he loved Ramona. 235 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 2: You know. 236 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: So it was I know, but it's it's more not 237 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: so much the filming part. I don't I think he 238 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: would because he didn't care about those things. I'm just fiercely, 239 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: fiercely independent now to the point like literally I went 240 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: on like three dates with this guy. 241 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 6: My friend Mona was laughing so hard about this. 242 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't want to just start it pissing 243 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: me off. He kept saying to me, what are you 244 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: doing this weekend? What are you doing this weekend? And 245 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, that's none of your business, and she goes, well, 246 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: that's kind of nice. 247 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 6: I'm like, no, it's intrusive. Yeah. 248 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: Oh, and one not to make this about me, but 249 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: tam one thing that you said that I want to 250 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 2: clarify because this will be what's picked up as clickbait. 251 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: You said, you know, because Eddie is the love of 252 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 2: your life. He fulfilled you in all these ways, Like 253 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: you don't think that you can move on. I don't 254 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: want to discredit the love that I had for Edwin, 255 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 2: that I still have for Edwin. 256 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, of course, and you have children together. He's a 257 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 5: father of your kids like he is my family. 258 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 2: So whether we're going through ups or downs and we're 259 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: you know, we're deciphering our next steps. 260 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 3: Like I love Edwin like. 261 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: I always and that will grow, you know. It's Hannah's father. 262 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: Ralph always comes and stays, comes the day after Christmas 263 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: and has lunch, and I still love him. Like if 264 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: he called me a too in the morning and needed 265 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: me for anything, I. 266 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 6: Would run to his age. 267 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 268 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 1: Once you're bonded in that way and you share children 269 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: and you share life, I think it's a shame when 270 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: people don't get along. I think it's a lost I 271 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: don't think you have to stay married forever. 272 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 6: And I'm but I've been very lucky because I. 273 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: Am surrounded by incredible people and the and I don't 274 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: have a ton of friends. 275 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 6: I know people think I do, but I don't. 276 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: But the people I like and the people that uh, 277 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: you know, I chose to attach to, are I keep them? 278 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? I don't, you know. 279 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 1: And I have a lot of very strong women friends, 280 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: and I find women, especially women of our age, very fascinating. 281 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 3: Well, speaking of. 282 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 2: You know, we know when you first were put on 283 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: pause or whatever it was you had said, you'd cried 284 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 2: your eyes out. 285 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 6: I may, I may be a pause, but I'm ready 286 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 6: to play. 287 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 5: God, where do you? 288 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 3: Where do you stand now? 289 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: Like? 290 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: Are you liking life without Real Housewives of New York? 291 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: Or yes? You know, but I'm not like the other housewives. 292 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: It wasn't easy for me. I bawled my eyes out. 293 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 4: Well, me and you bonded over actually yeah, the three 294 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 4: of us were let go at the same time. 295 00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 2: I know. 296 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 4: That's how me and Teddy bonded was over the loss 297 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 4: of the show. That's how me and you also got 298 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 4: super close. 299 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 3: It was me and you. 300 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 5: Even Hannah, hannahould get on the phone and talk. 301 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 4: And she's such a voice of reason and She's like, 302 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,839 Speaker 4: you wanted to knock our heads together and say, pull 303 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 4: your head out of your asses. This is not a 304 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 4: good show for you. 305 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: But I think, but I think, you know, there's we're 306 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 3: the new trace A Vegas. 307 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 2: But also I think women like us rejection in any 308 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 2: way does not feel good. 309 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 6: No, I don't get any fired. 310 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: I mean I was the woman that was employee of 311 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 1: the month all the time, like to the point that 312 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: I can't make the employee of the month again. I'm like, oh, 313 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: yeah you can, because you know what I mean. So 314 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: I grew up in that the era where you know, 315 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: women like us were very competitive. 316 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 6: We had to be the best. We didn't get fired. 317 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that was the first time I was ever 318 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 4: fired from anything. Me too, Me too, very first time, 319 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 4: not a job, not even Burger King. 320 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 5: Didn't even get fired from. 321 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: Great thing about NBC or they do revisit you like 322 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: I've done a couple Ultimate Girls' Trips, you know. I 323 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: just I just did Traders. They do, and that's enough 324 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: enough for me. 325 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 6: Listen. 326 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: I was just on the phone someone that said, if 327 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 1: they asked you to go back to New York, would 328 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: you go back? 329 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 6: I said, sure, why not? 330 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:26,239 Speaker 2: Is there a Peacock show about Bluestone manor. 331 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 6: Yes, we're working on it. 332 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: I'm hopefully gonna have hopefully, hopefully, hopefully camera's up this summer. 333 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: Speaking of Bravo, you know I'm not gonna not ask. 334 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 2: Can we clear up the error about the fellow Brava 335 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: leberty Lindsey Hubbard saying you spread a rumor that she 336 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: was pregnant and miscarried, Like, what happened here? 337 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: Please explain? 338 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 6: I'm lost nothing to explain. I don't know her. I 339 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 6: don't even know if we've ever met. 340 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: She supposedly was in the same room doing makeup with 341 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: Bravo kid never said that have no and actually NBC 342 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: and Bravo backed me said that I didn't have I 343 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: have nothing. Can you imagine if I had anything to 344 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: do with casting don't have that didn't we don't have 345 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: any friends, Like it's just absolutely one hundred percent rumor. 346 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 5: Margaret told me to say. 347 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 6: People know me like tam I'm not that woman. 348 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Honestly I had a conversation with Margaret. I'm like, 349 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 5: what that and she goes Tarma, it never happened. 350 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 6: It never happened. She wasn't even at the party. I 351 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 6: was there with NBC. 352 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: People and Jersey girls and they were all ready to 353 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: come out. So I don't even it's funny as you know, 354 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: But maybe the listeners don't know. Summerhouse people and Housewife 355 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: we don't hang out together just because we're b There's 356 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: like the blow Deck people. 357 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 6: There's a Summer House people. 358 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 5: Only a Bravo con. 359 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 3: We'll see. That's where I own world. 360 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: In mind, where her and our lives cross, right, I 361 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: know about first of all, she didn't have a miscarriage, 362 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: so how would I know, I mean, Gavina, Misscarritt is 363 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: such a personal thing. 364 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, for you to say something very privately, Was she 365 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 5: trying to. 366 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 4: Insinuate that you had her kicked off the Traders because 367 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 4: she was cast anything? 368 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 6: Can I tell you something? That's what I think was 369 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 6: really the quest of it. 370 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: And I think also too maybe and listen, I wish 371 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: her well, she just had a beautiful baby. 372 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 6: You know, she should just focused on that, you know. 373 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 6: But you know, I don't know uh why she. 374 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: Would think or anyone would think, as you know, we 375 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: don't even know who's going to be on Traders. 376 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 5: I know, I know they don't. Has she reached out 377 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 5: to you at all to say, like, you. 378 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 6: Know what, that's the shame of it if she picked 379 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 6: up the phone. But there's no there's no art. 380 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 5: You can dance somebody, you know what I mean, you 381 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 5: can do anything. 382 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 6: She could have just called Jan Geyser and said. 383 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 5: And get the phone. 384 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, for sure that was to me, that was just sad. 385 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was like, really taken. 386 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, whoa, Like, those are some deep deeps to say. 387 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 6: Somebody was like, are you kidding me? 388 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 5: Do you have any idea who might have said told 389 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 5: her that? 390 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: No? 391 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 6: But that's another thing. If you're gonna my whole thing 392 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 6: in life is if you're going to make accusations, say 393 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 6: who it is. 394 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, just tell me who it is and then we'll 395 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: really clear it up fast. 396 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 5: Now as close it's the change Sube, as close as 397 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 5: we are. 398 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 4: We never talked about what happened on Traders before it aired. 399 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 5: That's a hard show to do now, I know for sure. 400 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 4: Being the first person to be murdered in the season 401 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 4: is not only disappointing, it's kind of embarrassing. It's like 402 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 4: you packed up, you were there, you went a fart, 403 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 4: you know, long ways you're in isolation for three days. 404 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 2: You got to be out on that freaking. 405 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: It's like over preparing for the Olympics and then not 406 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 1: running in the game. I've got the clothes, I've worked. 407 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 4: Out, I've That's the thing, Like, there's so much preparation. 408 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 4: There's psychological exams, there's all kinds of things. 409 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 3: You have to have a physical. 410 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 5: You get there, you're isolated. Then you have to do 411 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 5: a swimming test. 412 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 4: I mean your big day out the first three days 413 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 4: they take you to the YMCA. 414 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 3: I can't picture either of you doing a swimming test. 415 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 5: Swimming. I was so excited to do that. Damn swimming test. 416 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 3: Did you have to do it? We didn't do a 417 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 3: swimming Oh we have to do a swimming test. Oh yeah, I'm. 418 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 6: Just excited to be there. You know. I blocked out 419 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 6: the three weeks I was in it. It was as 420 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 6: if they hit I was going to war. 421 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 3: You had planned on winning that thing? 422 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 6: Are we back three weeks? Worry about me? And then 423 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 6: it's like I'm home. 424 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 5: I know, I know. 425 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 4: When Johnny Bananas was the first one to be off 426 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 4: the show, he was not happy about it, like. 427 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 5: He didn't even hold back. 428 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 4: So you're not allowed to go on social media, you're 429 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 4: not allowed, like you probably couldn't even go on your 430 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 4: radio show. 431 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 5: You couldn't let anybody know that you're home. 432 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: You're so disappointed, you're shamed, you're embarrassed, and then you 433 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:02,120 Speaker 1: have to bring it home and hide it for another 434 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: three weeks and you can't be on social media, you 435 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: can't go on your radio, so you sit there back. 436 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: Basically like in Cloak and Dagger, I. 437 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 3: Had to do the same thing. 438 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 5: I couldn't do it my podcast and can do anything. 439 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 4: So when you came back and you were rightfully pissed 440 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 4: off that you were left out there, you were hungry, 441 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 4: you brought it back and you were very vocal. I 442 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 4: was like, no, don't do it, because they were gonna 443 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 4: think one of the people on the raft were a trader. 444 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 4: And then if you get too vocal the whole thing, 445 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 4: like the first part of the show, you have to 446 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 4: tread lightly on what you say and what you do 447 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 4: because then you just get fingers pointed and oh. 448 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 6: And I did the what did I say? 449 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm angry, hungreen, cold, And what that doesn't make up 450 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 1: is a smiley face. 451 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you regret any of it? Like, are you like, 452 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 2: should I have handled this differently. 453 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: Uh think you can do that? You know you're so 454 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: in it, of course you. I'm a regretter. I regret 455 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: every every. 456 00:19:56,520 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 6: Day in my life. But I said to someone last 457 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 6: night at dinner, I've said that if you're mad at me. 458 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 3: I am like that to such an overthinker. 459 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: Aren't they picking up their taxes? That's how I lived 460 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: my life. 461 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 6: Okay, why didn't I see. 462 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 3: The three dots? 463 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 2: And then the three dots went away? 464 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: So because I'm a big worry war you know, I 465 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: was very sad to go this. This is the dilemma 466 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,640 Speaker 1: in tam where you can speak to this. Obviously, yes, 467 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: I should have been more quiet, right, But then is 468 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: that me? 469 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 4: No, but it's all playing a game and we're not 470 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 4: gamers have housewives. 471 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 6: Like would you ever go back? 472 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 4: Maybe for the right amount of money, But it was 473 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 4: I'm not a gamer and it was really hard, and 474 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 4: I thought that, you know, oh, I'm a housewife. You 475 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 4: know we think ten steps ahead when we say things. 476 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 4: It's it does not compare you. 477 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 3: Think your house We think ten steps ahead. 478 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 4: I tried to when you spared to the gamers, No, 479 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 4: it doesn't even Pat, I don't. 480 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 6: Think it was one particular thing. 481 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: I think that the house I think they the gamers 482 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: are very smart, I think, but I could be wrong. 483 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: I think a lot of it has to do with 484 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: being such a strong character personality. 485 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and and you would have been an obvious choice. 486 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 6: I got it wrong. 487 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: And watch Rappers live or it's not Survivors, it's a Survivor. 488 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: I never watched any of those Survivor. 489 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: Games me either. I didn't know who anybody was from 490 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 4: the game, so that at all. 491 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 6: They approach everything very differently. 492 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: And I mean, Wells said something too which really resonated 493 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 2: with us. He was like the difference between housewives and 494 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 2: like he's like me for example, He's like when we 495 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 2: weren't filming and we had downtime, He's like, I would 496 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 2: just be quiet. I would just sit there. It's like, 497 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 2: but the housewives are so used to being on all 498 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: the time. 499 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 3: They like, never slow down. We're like, quit wasting this 500 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 3: good material. 501 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: Well, because you have no other outlets at that point, 502 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: you have no phone, no TV, no news, no anything. 503 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 6: So that's what I mean. 504 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 5: I was so desperate. 505 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 4: I don't know if they gave it little goodie bag 506 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 4: when we arrived in our hotel room and it had 507 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 4: like a little alligator or something in it. I felt 508 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 4: like I was Tom Hanks with his volleyball. Wilson like 509 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 4: talking to it because you have no phone, TV's limited, 510 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 4: It's like hi, you know it's a mind game. 511 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 5: I mean, it screws with your head. 512 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 2: Many fans and contestants on the show thought it was 513 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 2: stupid to murder you since you were suspected to be 514 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 2: a trader. 515 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 3: What are your thoughts on this? 516 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 2: Do you think it would have been smart for the 517 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 2: traders to use you as a shield? 518 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 6: Yes? 519 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, Who do you think should have gone home first? 520 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 6: Anyone except me? Who? 521 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 3: Did you like connect with anybody except me? 522 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 2: Who was like your person that you Yeah that you 523 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 2: didn't already know you don't name a housewife, But was 524 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 2: there somebody in there that you're like? 525 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 6: Are you connected with? Or I just love Bob Harper? 526 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 3: Yeah no, I said to him too. Bob Harper must 527 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 3: be a real heart. 528 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,959 Speaker 6: Just that's Bob Harper. He's amazing. And I also liked 529 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 6: Sam Britney Spears X you did. 530 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 3: We haven't an entire words. I doesn't talked well. 531 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 5: He's good to look at. 532 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,880 Speaker 6: He's just such a nice sweet, I was bothering him 533 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 6: the whole time. 534 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 3: And are you still watching? 535 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 2: Like are you up to date on the recent episodes 536 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 2: or did you just once you were gone? 537 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 3: You're like, peace, I'm not one. 538 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 6: I haven't been home at all. You know, it's so funny. 539 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: I don't like, I'm not a big problem with me 540 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: is I'm not a big TV walkhert. I'll attempt to 541 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: watch TV, but I fall asleep too easily. Hannah's like, 542 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,640 Speaker 1: I have never me thirty one years made it through 543 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: a movie with you. 544 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 6: You're like, oh my god. 545 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 4: It's like it's a running joke in our house, like 546 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 4: go to the movies, No mam will fall asleep. 547 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 1: So like, why tonight, I'm not going out, so I'll like, 548 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 1: I'll catch up on everything tonight. 549 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 6: The only thing I watch religiously. 550 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: It's my great thing to do is like because I 551 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: wake up about five point thirty and I get my 552 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 1: coffee and I watch whatever housewife show was on the 553 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: night before. Oh yeah, it's my morning thing. I love watching, 554 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 1: Like I get excited. 555 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 3: What's your favorite friend? 556 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 6: And I watched the New York finish? 557 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 5: Oh my god, can we talk about that? 558 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 1: My god? 559 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 4: We just recapped it. We're in disbelief. It was such 560 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 4: a dark episode, or. 561 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 2: To watch it was do you think do you think 562 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 2: Brind's this is Brent, She's done? 563 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 3: Do you think that? Or do you think they'll bring 564 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 3: her back? 565 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: Well, you know, when I see stuff like that, all 566 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: I can say is, I mean, I brought it up once. 567 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 6: I brought it up a million times. You can put 568 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 6: it on my grapestone. Why did I get fired? 569 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 3: Put it on my grapes? 570 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 5: Oh my god? Do you think there'd ever be a world? 571 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 6: Say that? In the Nurse Nome why. 572 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 3: I got in? But I was like, why did I 573 00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 3: get fired? 574 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 6: Do you? Well? 575 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 5: I think they need to bring you back. 576 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 4: And I think that they need to bring some they 577 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 4: you know, keep some girls, bring some of the originals back. 578 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 5: Who not a lot of you guys. 579 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 3: Are still in New York. 580 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 6: I don't think. 581 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 2: I don't, but I would be happy with like another 582 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 2: New York version of a show where we. 583 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 3: Get But also, guys, I'm missing girls trips. I'm missing 584 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 3: watching that. 585 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: I love the girls trips. To me, that was the 586 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,199 Speaker 1: best of all worlds. 587 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: Why weren't you on the Dating the new Bravo dating 588 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 2: show that like two of the girls from Potomac went on, 589 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 2: Shannon went on, did they ask. 590 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,959 Speaker 3: You to do that? 591 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 6: That? I thought Luanne was a great choice. 592 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. 593 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 3: Oh, oh, I didn't really Luanne. 594 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 1: I don't think if Shannon as a big dater, it's funny. 595 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 1: I've found that an unusual choice. I don't think i'd 596 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: be good. 597 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 5: It was an afterthought. 598 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 3: I think that somebody else was swissed to be on it. 599 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 6: Can you maybe? 600 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 4: Oh, is what I heard, and then somebody fell out 601 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 4: and they added her. 602 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: You know, I don't think people think of me as 603 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: a big dater, and you know, so great at it, 604 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: and Laurenne is such a great dater and she's like. 605 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,959 Speaker 5: But I don't think the show is about dating. It's 606 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,919 Speaker 5: about entertainment. 607 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 2: But I wish it was both of you guys, because 608 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: if they could have two gals from Potomac, why. 609 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 3: Couldn't have to? 610 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 6: It would have been very well together. Yeah. 611 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 3: I would have liked that. 612 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 5: It would have been great, have been like a little 613 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 5: mini you know, New York. 614 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, and they didn't ask me, So there's the here there. 615 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 4: You know, recently you had said I saw it on 616 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 4: Instagram that you think that they should have named the 617 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 4: how real house has rony. They should have named it 618 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 4: something else with the recast. 619 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 6: You know, I just think it would have given them 620 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 6: a better chance. Yes, because there's too. 621 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: Much comparison, you know, and and there's also these things 622 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 1: I like them better. Well, it's not about that they 623 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: decided to stop one completely, yeah and start fresh. But 624 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: I think by doing this sort of so just clean wipe, 625 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: and I think it very surprised people, right, Yeah, introduce 626 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: these girls that were just so different, and as I 627 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: said on Alex Baskin's thing, you know, they are sort 628 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: of the young New York. 629 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 6: But there was too much here's scenes it's compared. Yeah, 630 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 6: here's season thirteen. 631 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: People we've grown up with, nostalgia, people we know, people 632 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: we've watched Da New Girls. Yeah, named it the Girlfriends 633 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: of New York because I don't, I know, they get 634 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 1: a lot of grief. We hate it with this. With that, 635 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't I think they would have gotten a better chance. 636 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: As I say, I said it and every the crown 637 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: was too heavy. 638 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, do you remember do you remember Ladies of London? 639 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 4: Yes, it's basically a housewife show, Yes, but it was 640 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 4: named something different. 641 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 3: They could have done something like that. 642 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 6: If they've done Girlfriends of New York or Ladies of 643 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 6: New York or something catchy, then it could have you know. 644 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: I think it just also too there's something, there's something 645 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: about it. There may have even been an easier way 646 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,360 Speaker 1: to integrate it, integrate us a little bit. 647 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, because then you because these are the new ones. 648 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 6: You know they don't you. 649 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: Know, So that's what's hard for them now, I know 650 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: you weren't there, like I tay something. I know a 651 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: bunch of them. They're nice girls. It's just totally different ballgame. 652 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 2: Do you think it's because none of them are actually 653 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 2: really friends. 654 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 1: Well, I think that's the key to the show. I mean, 655 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 1: I think that's why, Oh she does so well, New 656 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,679 Speaker 1: York does so well. I think that's why, you know, 657 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: Jersey did what didn't do so well at the end 658 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: of it, Beverly Hills, you can feel that friendship. Salt 659 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: Lake City to me, is. 660 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 4: Like old New York, but we're starting to see a 661 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 4: crawl like so good, but we're starting to see a 662 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 4: little bit of a crack. 663 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 5: And Beverly Hills. 664 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 4: I feel like not everybody's friends on that show anymore. 665 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 4: The cast has turned over so much that it's starting 666 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 4: to have it's missing something, and it's the friendship. 667 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: When they start to bring people and bring people up, 668 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 1: bring people and bring people out, that's when it feels 669 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: like it loses its authenticity because. 670 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 2: Then you don't get connected to any buddy, and then 671 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 2: they're not really connected to be. 672 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 6: Able to go. 673 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: I always say the thing about when you have people 674 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: that really know each other, even though it's still awkward 675 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: and still terrible and still hurtful, but you can go 676 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 1: deeper with them. Yeah, shoes and they're they're you know, 677 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: up to a point. It's recoverable because you know each 678 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 1: other so well outside of it, so you can unrap 679 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: a bit off season, right. But a lot of these people, 680 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 1: I feel like they don't even see each other off season, right. 681 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 4: Jenna Jana was not much what happens like last night 682 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 4: and she said that they have none of them have 683 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 4: talked to Brian since the reunion. 684 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be hard. It's gonna be a hard 685 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 3: road for that. 686 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 6: That could be because of death. You know what I 687 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 6: thought was interesting to day And I don't know. 688 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: What it's like if they did this on your Guys 689 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: shows and we never had production hanging around like that 690 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: on the couches, sitting around all just hanging out. 691 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 3: Now, No, no, we didn't either. 692 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 6: We did not. We like it felt really like MTV 693 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 6: Real World they did. 694 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 5: It felt different. 695 00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: We didn't have that. 696 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,479 Speaker 2: I mean, yes, I could like go outside and like 697 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 2: talk to a producer and like veg or I could 698 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 2: do that, but like we were never just like unless 699 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 2: it was like we were flying somewhere and we weren't Mike. 700 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 6: Then even then you're friendly and they're helpful. 701 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: But that was like when Ray was sitting on the 702 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: couch and they were lounging all around the production I 703 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: was like, ew, I don't know, was that. 704 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question, was that some of 705 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 4: the production crew that you worked with. Did you notice 706 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 4: any recognize anybody? 707 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 6: Couple people, yes, but we just not even that it 708 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 6: was new. I just felt like I felt like there 709 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 6: was sort of like. 710 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 3: A yeah, well do you think that was? They did that? 711 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 6: And when they left it like when we stopped filming, 712 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 6: they left. 713 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 2: And unless they thought more drama would come, then they'd 714 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 2: leave one person with the fire. 715 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 4: I don't know, given the situation and Brend's headspace, maybe 716 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 4: they were trying to comfort her. 717 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 5: I'm not sure. 718 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 2: No, I think they were trying to show that she 719 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 2: was pretending absolutely nothing happened the night before. 720 00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true, you're right about that. 721 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 3: That's that was that. 722 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 6: I agree with Jenna. 723 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 1: That was heartbreaking because that to me read of someone 724 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: that really didn't know how to handle. 725 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 3: It, process the emotions. 726 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 4: Do you think that bren was lying about telling Uba? 727 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: This is where I have a problem. That is, there's 728 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: certain buzzwords, there's certain heavy, heavy words you can whisper 729 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 1: and it lands, and we know the words. So there's 730 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: no casual way to say our ape in any way, 731 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: shape or form without it. That that's something I personally 732 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: would ever pass over. And if and if she I 733 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: just don't see it was a very intelligent, like you 734 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 735 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 5: She would have remembered that, right, She would have. 736 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 6: Remembered such a big word, right, Yeah, it's just a word. 737 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 5: That you would remember. 738 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 4: And I think Uba definitely you could tell by her 739 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 4: reaction that she's like, she you never told me this? 740 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 3: Ever, I wouldn't you know. 741 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: If she did know about it, she would have been 742 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: following up because Uba is as a girl's girl. 743 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's very passionate. 744 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: Anyone would like if you someone told me something like that, 745 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 1: the first thing you. 746 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 6: Would be was like, oh my god, are you getting help? 747 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 6: What can I do? 748 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 749 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 6: I just I don't. I felt. Yeah, it was really 750 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 6: hard to watch that. 751 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 3: It was really hard hard. 752 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: And before we have to wrap up, is there any 753 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: other juicy nuggets you want to leave us with? 754 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 3: Things we should? 755 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 6: Uh? 756 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 2: I mean everybody should listen to your radio show for one, Well, 757 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 2: thank you. 758 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 6: Well. 759 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: I have to say I'd never I never thought i'd 760 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 1: get so much fain from getting murdered first, so that that. 761 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 3: Was seeing you everywhere. 762 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 5: You were on the Jimmy Fallon show, weren't. 763 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 6: You yes the other day. I worried about it for 764 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 6: six months. I held the secret. 765 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 1: I was I'm like, and of course, I'm like, everyone's 766 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 1: gonna think you loser. 767 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 6: Yeah you did this, do that? Now I got to 768 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 6: go through that. 769 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 1: I was so uptight about it, and then it came 770 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: and they're like, do you want to be on the 771 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: tonight's show? 772 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 5: Like wow, Well, because everybody disagreed with that, but also I. 773 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 2: Think it it would have been more, It would have 774 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 2: even been a better show if you're on longer, because 775 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 2: I have a feeling. 776 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: I really did. You don't want to If nothing else, 777 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm good content. You know you may not have wanted 778 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: to get out some more mugs and T shirts somehow. 779 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh. Well, thank you so much for 780 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 3: coming on, Duranda. We we love you. 781 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 6: Miss you, see you later. I miss you, guys. 782 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 5: Bye, I miss you.