WEBVTT - INTERVIEW: Nick Cannon Opens Up On Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Maturity, Legacy + More

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Every day click up the breakfast clubs, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Dumb yeps world most dangerous, wanting to show to breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>club Charlamagne and God, DJ Nvy just hilarious, Envy and

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<v Speaker 2>jets on here, but Laura l Rossa is and we

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<v Speaker 2>got a special guest in the building, A man.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no problem calling an icon.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it can in his head.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing, my.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, man, I'm good. I mean I would say the

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<v Speaker 1>same about you, man, not yet not come on man,

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<v Speaker 1>quick playing. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason made me think of that, I was I

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<v Speaker 2>was listening to you on myth Bleak podcast, okay, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, I don't know if it's because

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<v Speaker 2>you and Bleak got such history, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I heard a different side of you

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<v Speaker 2>in that interview.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why. It was like it made me

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<v Speaker 3>look at things in a different perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>Not like I didn't always look at you in that way,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm like, yo, Nick has really done a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>And I remember it was one part you was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about how you just wanted to do things that were

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<v Speaker 2>always authentic. Yeah, And it made me start thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>all the different hats you won the comedian, acted, TV holes, rapper, directed, executive,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, damn nah, especially.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming from you, man, because that's even that conversation that

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<v Speaker 1>was when Smith was up here, and he was. But

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in this game for so long, Like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been running through New York since the nineties, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And I used to run with them

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<v Speaker 1>because we was all kind of young and stuff, so

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<v Speaker 1>and they everybody used to look out for me because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like this kid that was doing stand up

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<v Speaker 1>and rapping and all of that stuff, so everybody would

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<v Speaker 1>look out for me. It's like from Jay to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Will Smith, all of those different people kind of took

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<v Speaker 1>a liking to me. So I've seen the game since

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<v Speaker 1>the nineties. And to your point, man, like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>blessed to be able to do so many different things.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like time, you don't think, like, damn, thirty

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<v Speaker 1>years have passed, you know what I mean. Like and

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<v Speaker 1>I've done I've done so much stuff that I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot of times. But it's like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>from the movies, the TV shows and all that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm just in a space man, where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to operate and be the best father I

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<v Speaker 1>can be. And you know, peace, that's a peace was

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<v Speaker 1>most important?

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<v Speaker 2>Which role feels more most authentically used and which one

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<v Speaker 2>do you think people underestimate?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I mean, if we're talking like artistry, I

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<v Speaker 1>love acting, I mean at the core, but stand up

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<v Speaker 1>is what got me on. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Stand up is what you can do for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. And it's evolved in such a way

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<v Speaker 1>now so I probably never stopped doing that. There used

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<v Speaker 1>to be this idea of like, oh, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be the entrepreneur and the hustler, and I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I did that for like ten fifteen years and did

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<v Speaker 1>it heavy. It made a lot of money in and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it ain't even really about that no

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<v Speaker 1>more so if I'm talking about my craft, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoy acting, but I'm still going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the business man that I am. I still now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in that space where I just want to give people opportunities,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that has kind of almost stepped in front

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<v Speaker 1>of like how much money I can make it like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>how many people can I help? And that's why I say,

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<v Speaker 1>with you, man, I mean from the Black Effect to

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<v Speaker 1>every everything you're building in the space is a mental

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<v Speaker 1>health Like it's so necessary and so needed that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you get the flowers as much as you

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<v Speaker 1>should because you are quietly building culture for this next

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<v Speaker 1>generation where nobody else is doing it, like, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it in a way where it's unapologetic and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's it's from somebody who always wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>it and literally watched you build it. I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so dope, but you did build it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. Like, to me, the underestimated part

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<v Speaker 2>about you is your role as an executive because you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know while I was going on with twenty two seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, like you know, people don't may not

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<v Speaker 2>know the MASD singer, you're an executive producer of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that was he was like, I brought it out, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got it. We took it from it was a

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<v Speaker 1>Korean property, it was, and it was a hit over

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<v Speaker 1>overseason we brought it here and now what season fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just like, but that's a that's to me,

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<v Speaker 1>those are things like I just enjoy it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's the business mindset as an executive. But to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's like I'm sowing that space now, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>probably creating maybe three or four different game shows and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that coming up, because I understand like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can have fun doing this, But then at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, this is an empty space that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really see us in that much.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're the chairman of Team Nick for ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten years. Yeah, yeah, we was over there fifteen fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>and you was over there.

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<v Speaker 2>That story fucked me up because I didn't realize what

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<v Speaker 2>a mass single story bumed upcause I didn't realize you

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<v Speaker 2>left America's Got Talent.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, well that was dang. It was so

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<v Speaker 1>long ago. But you know, me running my mouth doing

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<v Speaker 1>saying stuff I ain't had no business saying, Uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I was telling jokes in my stand up in NBC.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't like it, and they kind of like threatened to

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<v Speaker 1>fire me. And I was on my Chappelle shit at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, like I had been kicking it with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, well, they go, well I

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<v Speaker 1>quit and I literally just stepped away from from America's

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<v Speaker 1>Got Talent, And everybody's like, yo, this is the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>mistake of your entire career million yeah, yeah, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was people are like jobs like that don't come around again.

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<v Speaker 1>Howard Stern was trying to convince me to stay, and

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<v Speaker 1>he I'm looking up to him because he told NBC

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<v Speaker 1>when you know, back in the day that he was

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<v Speaker 1>leaving and all that stuff, so and he was like, nah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>keep that job, Simon. Everybody was trying to convince me.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, nah, I know my worst

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<v Speaker 1>And then I went and created a show over at

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<v Speaker 1>Fox that was bigger than America's Got Talent.

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<v Speaker 4>When you posted about you leaving AGC back all those

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<v Speaker 4>years ago, you had said that at one point you

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<v Speaker 4>were in a dark place about trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>the decision.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because everybody was like against me, like my entire team,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what am I making a a bad

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<v Speaker 1>decision because I'm literally trying to stand up for freedom

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<v Speaker 1>of speech and stand up for my culture and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff. And it was like, wait, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm making the right decision, but nobody they're like, nah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta this is how the game worst. And you

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<v Speaker 1>your highest paid hosts on television and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>You step away from that, you know, the industry's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna rock with you no more. And I just stood

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<v Speaker 1>ten toes down. But it was definitely a dark place

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, and that's happened a few times in

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<v Speaker 1>my career, so like at certain points it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what this is. It's a cycle, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? So long as I can always stay

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<v Speaker 1>true to myself, then it ain't never gonna be an

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<v Speaker 1>issue with me. But it was scary, you know when

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<v Speaker 1>the first times happened, you don't know, like, dang, is

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<v Speaker 1>this over?

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<v Speaker 3>Dan?

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<v Speaker 1>How am I gonna feed my family from this point on?

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<v Speaker 1>If everybody around me agents managed, everybody's like, nah, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to figure this out. But you know, luckily you

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<v Speaker 1>believe it in yourself. Definitely plays what did.

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<v Speaker 4>You learn about like how to navigate the race conversations

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<v Speaker 4>working with corporations from that, because I know the joke

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<v Speaker 4>was it was you jokingly saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, nigga, be careful, it's true, right, uh, And they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like that. But again, and we had we had

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<v Speaker 1>several conversations, you know, closed door, and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>it was when you feel something isn't authentic, you just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of know, like, yo, I'm gonna just trust my

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<v Speaker 1>gut and sometimes because I don't. I don't think there

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<v Speaker 1>was any malice even from their side and stuff. They're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to protect their brand.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there was part of me that just at

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<v Speaker 1>that time in my life, I was soap boxing, so heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I wanted to pontificate. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to and that's the energy I think even a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of us was on when it was really just like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>we're standing up for us and we whip and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. And I think rightly, so it was a

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<v Speaker 1>good decision at the time. But now that I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a little more mature and all that stuff, it's like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you definitely got to know how to pick your battles.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though I won that one. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>would encourage people to always stand firm and who you

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<v Speaker 1>are and what you represent, but that can it can

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<v Speaker 1>drain you so much, you know what I mean. And

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it's only a boy the grace of

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<v Speaker 1>God that you know, I am able to continue on

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<v Speaker 1>and continue to keep going and not stopping. So but yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, man, I'm just I'm chilling. IM just

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just like I said, piece is the most

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<v Speaker 1>important thing to me?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that was my.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we can go anywhere. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>take go off of that. I guess talking about peace

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<v Speaker 4>right and some of the things that drain you when

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<v Speaker 4>you picking and choosing these shows. Some people you work

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<v Speaker 4>with now you today because I know you've had a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of situations that worked and didn't work, artists You've

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<v Speaker 4>tried to helping things of that nature. Yeah, the people

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<v Speaker 4>business is really tricky when it comes to peace. So

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<v Speaker 4>has there been people that have come in the cannon

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<v Speaker 4>and the cannon is like, yeah, I'm not let you

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<v Speaker 4>dream my energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, all the time. I mean, but more than anything,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you're dealing with talent, they gotta want it

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<v Speaker 1>more than you do. I've made the mistake a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times where I see something in somebody or see

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<v Speaker 1>the vision and like, man, they got it, but they

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually work hard enough. The talent is clearly there,

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<v Speaker 1>but they don't know what it takes. And then they

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, oh well, I'm with Nicks, so I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>And it gets to a space where you know, spend

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<v Speaker 1>millions and millions of dollars on different artists and different

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<v Speaker 1>projects and stuff, and they don't go because the energy

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<v Speaker 1>on it from the standpoint of who you're trying to help,

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<v Speaker 1>they not believing in themselves one hundred percent yet. So

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<v Speaker 1>now even more than talent, I look for someone's drive

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<v Speaker 1>and if they really got it, and they do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think even when you look at what the

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<v Speaker 1>labels and stuff are, that's what they pay attention they do.

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<v Speaker 1>But they but they pay attention to who has the motion.

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<v Speaker 1>They pay attention to who has the drive because then

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<v Speaker 1>they all they got to do is throw bread behind

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<v Speaker 1>that and then it's going to go. But if they

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<v Speaker 1>don't develop, nothing no more. And and to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean JD said a lot of times they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day, they didn't develop. They just had

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<v Speaker 1>cats like JD or Puff or you know all of

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<v Speaker 1>those different you know, black owned labels that they were

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that did it developing and then they had

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship with the majors. So you know, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>idea now to where it's so much entertainment, so much

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<v Speaker 1>content out there now that our curation system is the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that's the most important. I mean, that's why y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are who y'all are, because this is the only space

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<v Speaker 1>to really pull up and actually curate and understand, like yo,

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<v Speaker 1>if they said it on the Breakfast Club or if

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<v Speaker 1>we heard about it there, then that's really we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have too many other spots that actually can do that anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, while that has been a curious space too,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, and it's become like this cultural institution

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<v Speaker 2>for hip hop and comedy. And I always wonder, what's

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<v Speaker 2>the one decision you made early on that you think

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<v Speaker 2>like ensured the longevity.

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<v Speaker 1>Of damn listening to the young folk more than anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, wild'n I was a journey in itself too,

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody believed in that that was something I'd invest

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<v Speaker 1>in on myself. Lucky, that was early MTV days, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was, you know, hosting TRL and all the spring

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<v Speaker 1>breaks and all of that type of stuff. And they

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a deal and they wanted me to do

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<v Speaker 1>like some punk type of show because that's where Ashton

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<v Speaker 1>was popping at the time. And I was like, now

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<v Speaker 1>I want to bring my friends together and mixed hip

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<v Speaker 1>hop and comedy and improv together. And they didn't understand it,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I went shot it with my own money

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<v Speaker 1>and then they got it, but then I owned it.

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<v Speaker 1>So then from that standpoint, that obviously probably was the

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<v Speaker 1>best decision of just making sure that I owned my

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<v Speaker 1>ip from the gate. And then I think we did

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<v Speaker 1>like a strong four seasons and then you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>got married and things start shifting up between you know, MTV,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was MTV two was created and all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>and so when I brought it back for MTV two

0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.400
<v Speaker 1>and MTV two was like really like the hip hop MTV.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of just you know, ran that channel. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when me and Charlotte really got got down back then,

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<v Speaker 1>because that we was just making whatever we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do on MTV two. It was like we'd literally be

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<v Speaker 1>over there and they kind of gave us free reign

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of be creative. And that was a time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, I was like mid two

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<v Speaker 1>thousands and U from there. I think the longevity just

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<v Speaker 1>finding cats like you know, the eighty five South crew

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<v Speaker 1>and you know hit Man Holler and Conceded and Justina

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<v Speaker 1>and like they kind of keep the brand going where

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<v Speaker 1>even from the Gate, from even the Cat Williams days

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<v Speaker 1>and Kevin Hart Day. I've always been the dude that

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<v Speaker 1>just fell back and let everybody else shine.

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<v Speaker 2>You remember, we was gonna we were going to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna bring your MTV raps back. Yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 2>executive producing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we did it a couple of times. We got

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy thing. Uh it was the hosts were gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be Jesus and Merrill and we had it on that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>We had it on a bus. Uh we were it

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<v Speaker 1>was they were saying it. We we got this big

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<v Speaker 1>ass tour bus and we sent them all over and

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<v Speaker 1>me and Charlotte was executive producers and yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It was gonna be like a correspond Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like it's but that's the thing where we've had

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity over the years is just generate stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>some of it works, some of it stick, and then

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<v Speaker 1>some of it don't. But uh yeah, man like to

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<v Speaker 1>have something like wild'n Out kind of just have the

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<v Speaker 1>longevity that it has.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>So just now you were sitting the ip for walling

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<v Speaker 4>out you own, Yeah, so can you explain the bad?

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<v Speaker 5>What was it? The bad versus Wild? How How does

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<v Speaker 5>that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>The like?

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<v Speaker 5>How how is MTV or whoever able to come to

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<v Speaker 5>you and say.

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<v Speaker 1>Used to we're partners. We're still partners in, Okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like because you got to understand too, especially when

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<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with like Paramount. Paramount is a publicly traded company,

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<v Speaker 1>so even within No Matt like, there's still an ownership percentage.

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<v Speaker 5>Got you, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. So if and I think

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<v Speaker 1>I talked about this when I was here here before,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you own one hundred percent of something and

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<v Speaker 1>your partner ain't supporting you, then you never go in.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've always valued them as my partners. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>always going to be stuff to where you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>try to move with autonomy a lot of times because

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<v Speaker 1>like it's mine, but still got to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>the attorneys are talking to everybody and stuff because they're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to protect their brand and because it is

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<v Speaker 1>on their networks, it is associated with them, so I

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<v Speaker 1>can't just go run wild and do something and they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't approve it and stuff like that. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's just the business.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been able to talk about and figure out what

0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.440
<v Speaker 4>all that is. Because there are reports of them being

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<v Speaker 4>upset the suit them none.

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<v Speaker 1>Of that stuff. I don't even think that was really real.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean it was real, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't really have anything to do with me. Nah nah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, you know what, I don't not me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like, I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I think. There's something there was something between zeus in

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<v Speaker 1>Paramount that if you never noticed, like I was never

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<v Speaker 1>named in it, so I kind of always just fell back.

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<v Speaker 1>And the whole time that happened, I'm talking, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody at Paramount is my people. So they're like but

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, look, we got to make sure we're protecting

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, look, we're trying to protect you as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know how it is, like that's just business

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<v Speaker 1>and that that never that type of stuff I've had

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<v Speaker 1>like real issues legally. That was never like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Real thing that people come out sean when people think

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<v Speaker 4>that people are playing with you, because then people are like,

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<v Speaker 4>he's done so much and he's been doing it for

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<v Speaker 4>so long.

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<v Speaker 5>Yea, so people thought that involved.

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<v Speaker 4>So people were really pissed off, like how would they

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<v Speaker 4>do that to him when we only know wild'n out

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<v Speaker 4>because of Nick Cannon.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I think because at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and that was me and lim trying to

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just listening to limb like because I

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<v Speaker 1>really respect what he what he built, and he was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do something you know where I have

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<v Speaker 1>all of our talent kind of act like they're doing

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<v Speaker 1>Wild Out. And I was like, why not, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? That seemed like that could be dope.

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<v Speaker 1>He's always doing offshoots and stuff. But I guess there

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<v Speaker 1>was some history between you know, Zeus and Paramount that

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, I ain't getting involved in none

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff. So but but it all worked out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there was a lot and that this industry,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how that goes too. There's people start putting

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<v Speaker 1>out press releases and things like that, and that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>makes more noise than what actually happens. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>even they figured it out super quickly, but it you know,

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<v Speaker 1>once the headlines hit, everybody was like, oh, it's good,

0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.880
<v Speaker 1>it's going down, and you know, because you know, right now,

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<v Speaker 1>like wild'n Out, we got brand new episodes Aaron right now,

0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:59.600
<v Speaker 1>but it had it was kind of on hiatus for

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<v Speaker 1>a second, so they were like, what's going on? Is

0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:03.880
<v Speaker 1>it gonna get in there was like nah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just that was the interim of getting to the to

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<v Speaker 1>the new episodes. So it all worked itself out.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to go back to something. So you all

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<v Speaker 3>doing new episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, we got new ones running right now and

0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:21.639
<v Speaker 1>that's I think it come on every Monday night v

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<v Speaker 1>H one and then obviously all of this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube and all of that type of stuff. But they

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<v Speaker 1>were rocking right now. It's going, it's going heavy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt a little way about the new Paramount ownership,

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<v Speaker 2>not because I know anything about them.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just that that was.

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<v Speaker 2>All home for a long time, in a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>guys like Chris McCarthy, Richie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is just because there was our people.

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<v Speaker 2>There are people in a real way like that. Just

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<v Speaker 2>regime gone, Like yeah, I heard a little bit. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going front.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey man, I was right like you said, I was

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<v Speaker 1>over fifteen fifteen for ten years like so, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's it's an end of an era. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I think the new regime is they're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hold time. I thought they was gonna sell everything, like

0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I thought they was gonna sell BT Nickelodeon, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and they said, nah, we're gonna keep it and we're

0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:15.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna redevelop. They trying to redevelop MTV and actually turn

0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:17.960
<v Speaker 1>it back into a music brand and stuff. So like

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<v Speaker 1>and they got the bag. So hey, I salute them,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I said, uh, we're about to diversify wild'n

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<v Speaker 1>Out in such a way that obviously, you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>my main focus is being international, and even there's an

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<v Speaker 1>education platform that I've been working on from the gate

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<v Speaker 1>for like a lot of the public school systems and

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<v Speaker 1>even the HBCUs to where trying to build a curriculum

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<v Speaker 1>based off of you know, improv and our ability and

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<v Speaker 1>so like the same way that you have the groundlings

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<v Speaker 1>are the same way that you have a second city,

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<v Speaker 1>we can have that in our communities to where you

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<v Speaker 1>can go to the Wilding Out theater down the street

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<v Speaker 1>and learn how, you know, all the principles and concepts

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<v Speaker 1>of how to how to be a performer and how

0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:09.000
<v Speaker 1>to do live improv and things like that, and then

0:19:09.080 --> 0:19:13.320
<v Speaker 1>that becomes an incubation system for new talent. So where

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<v Speaker 1>I used to just go online and be like yo,

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<v Speaker 1>who's the funniest kid? Who Got who nice as a

0:19:17.960 --> 0:19:20.240
<v Speaker 1>as a battle wrapper. Now I can literally say I

0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 1>have schools in various cities that are training and developing

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<v Speaker 1>young people with all of the concepts of you know,

0:19:29.160 --> 0:19:33.000
<v Speaker 1>funny comedians, hip hop, but at the same time teaching

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<v Speaker 1>them principles about you know, just pure education is I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think I think somebody like you could do that so

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<v Speaker 4>well because you're in that middle point of like, you

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<v Speaker 4>know and feel and are real talent and understand what

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<v Speaker 4>developing that it's like, but also you're like of the now,

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<v Speaker 4>like you know what's happening, and a lot of times

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<v Speaker 4>it's like a disconnect. I was just listening to you

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<v Speaker 4>talk about that made me think about a conversation me

0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:55.800
<v Speaker 4>and Charlotte were having about Marlon Wayne's on stream and

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<v Speaker 4>just the reaction to what you said. I said that

0:19:58.040 --> 0:19:59.280
<v Speaker 4>Marland was way better.

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<v Speaker 5>Than Kay on the stream, and and.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't I didn't say it in a way like

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't expect him to be It's just wear the

0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:11.359
<v Speaker 4>full conversation. I said, I know it's Marla Wayne's, but

0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:13.639
<v Speaker 4>he was way better than Kyle on the stream. But

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<v Speaker 4>it would be it would be so dope to see

0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:18.399
<v Speaker 4>stuff like that bridge more because younger people get to

0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.800
<v Speaker 4>see like he really does this. Like but younger people

0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:23.359
<v Speaker 4>don't know Marlon Wayans.

0:20:22.960 --> 0:20:25.880
<v Speaker 3>And understand that stand up comedian. You know how many

0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:28.119
<v Speaker 3>of course he's going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>They know who he is, but they I think sometimes

0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:34.480
<v Speaker 4>people don't understand how putting your reps in doing everything

0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:36.680
<v Speaker 4>that Marlon Wayne's has been brought up doing his whole

0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:39.600
<v Speaker 4>life prepares you to do whatever you want very well,

0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:42.320
<v Speaker 4>because we a lot of us get on stream or

0:20:42.320 --> 0:20:44.479
<v Speaker 4>get online and numbers go and we're just here, we're

0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:48.080
<v Speaker 4>figuring it out. So to see somebody who's really talented

0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:51.159
<v Speaker 4>like him be with Kyson who's also talented, but you know,

0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:53.240
<v Speaker 4>like it's like a variety show stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but it was just fire to see them together.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear what you're saying, and you're one hundred percent

0:20:58.240 --> 0:21:00.399
<v Speaker 1>right to where that's what we should be one as

0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:04.680
<v Speaker 1>a community, taking our OG's and putting them with a

0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:07.840
<v Speaker 1>young guys and saying like, look, this is we're gonna

0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:10.199
<v Speaker 1>polish you. And that's really what wild'n Out always was.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's even why I switched it from like old

0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:15.160
<v Speaker 1>school in new school, because it's like we want all

0:21:15.160 --> 0:21:17.680
<v Speaker 1>of that energy because Kai and them they got their

0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.640
<v Speaker 1>finger on the pulse of what's going on. They got

0:21:19.680 --> 0:21:22.400
<v Speaker 1>all of the young people. But there's also a process

0:21:22.440 --> 0:21:26.200
<v Speaker 1>of being seasoned and longevity in this. And somebody like Marlin,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's my og, that's big bro. Like I've looked

0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:32.480
<v Speaker 1>up to him my entire career because it's like, yo,

0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:35.160
<v Speaker 1>that dude has done it all, you know what I mean,

0:21:35.240 --> 0:21:38.080
<v Speaker 1>from starts, like so much stuff that we forgot a

0:21:38.080 --> 0:21:42.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of times. But let's started several black blockbuster movies

0:21:42.080 --> 0:21:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and TV shows, and so it's effortless for him because

0:21:47.080 --> 0:21:47.800
<v Speaker 1>this is what he do.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm saying, not that people don't know him,

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<v Speaker 4>but I think a lot of younger people don't even

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<v Speaker 4>understand the.

0:21:53.040 --> 0:21:54.359
<v Speaker 3>Preparation actual talent.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that is exactly what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's think about the car the world.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't even know what they're gonna do yet, just

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:05.480
<v Speaker 2>their platform introducing them.

0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:07.480
<v Speaker 3>We don't know what them skill sets are.

0:22:07.520 --> 0:22:10.720
<v Speaker 2>You Like the little dude Reggie that be doing the comedy,

0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:12.639
<v Speaker 2>I think he's hilarious. I'm looking at him like he

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<v Speaker 2>should be in movies and TV like that's what him.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I can see that for Kay as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, because Kyle came on Wilding Out early on, like

0:22:18.720 --> 0:22:21.640
<v Speaker 1>it's funny my kids put me up on Ky back

0:22:21.680 --> 0:22:24.080
<v Speaker 1>in the day and he was like, Dad, you gotta

0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:25.760
<v Speaker 1>put Kay on wild Out. We put him on and

0:22:25.840 --> 0:22:28.560
<v Speaker 1>he rocked it. And I was this was before all

0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:30.399
<v Speaker 1>of the stuff, and I was like, yo, man, you

0:22:30.440 --> 0:22:32.280
<v Speaker 1>want to be on the show. And he was like, man,

0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:34.480
<v Speaker 1>you know how much money y'all make it? Right now?

0:22:34.520 --> 0:22:36.159
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I get it, you know what I mean,

0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:38.439
<v Speaker 1>because I was like right at the beginning, but I

0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 1>was trying to you know, from the Cays to the

0:22:40.600 --> 0:22:43.360
<v Speaker 1>drew Skis, you know, like when they first started bubbling.

0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:46.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm always seeing who's now. I remember even I showed

0:22:46.840 --> 0:22:48.879
<v Speaker 1>speed my son put me up on him when he

0:22:48.960 --> 0:22:51.240
<v Speaker 1>was like sixteen. He was like and like we was

0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:53.680
<v Speaker 1>talking to his parents and everything, trying to figure out

0:22:53.680 --> 0:22:55.240
<v Speaker 1>that it was a way to put a sixteen year

0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:57.920
<v Speaker 1>old on wild'n Out and all that stuff. So you

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<v Speaker 1>they they communicate with the youth in such a way

0:23:02.480 --> 0:23:04.000
<v Speaker 1>that we don't even know how to do it. I

0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:07.920
<v Speaker 1>don't like, it's like I don't know what the algorithm

0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:10.640
<v Speaker 1>is or from the clipping all that stuff, but they're

0:23:10.680 --> 0:23:14.520
<v Speaker 1>communicating differently. So I'm just trying to figure that out

0:23:14.560 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 1>because that is truly a talent in itself. And then

0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:21.720
<v Speaker 1>if they're they if they're gifted on top of that,

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:26.040
<v Speaker 1>whether it's musically, whether it's you know, even like I said,

0:23:26.040 --> 0:23:29.600
<v Speaker 1>somebody like Speed, I'm like, dude is a natural athlete

0:23:29.640 --> 0:23:32.880
<v Speaker 1>and has turned probably made more money just doing what

0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:36.639
<v Speaker 1>he does than any professional athlete could because he's just

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:39.639
<v Speaker 1>been able to figure it out internationally. And it's like,

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm so in all those young dudes and what they're doing.

0:23:43.720 --> 0:23:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Like you said, they just now building a platform and

0:23:47.119 --> 0:23:50.159
<v Speaker 1>they're teenagers there, you know what I mean, Imagine what

0:23:50.240 --> 0:23:51.840
<v Speaker 1>they'll be, you know, five ten years.

0:23:51.920 --> 0:23:52.280
<v Speaker 3>That's how I.

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:53.879
<v Speaker 5>Inspire what you're trying to do. That's what I mean

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<v Speaker 5>to say.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, not that they're not talented, but they need

0:23:56.080 --> 0:23:57.760
<v Speaker 4>what you're trying to do at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I don't think we're supposed to figure it about.

0:23:59.640 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 2>Like they have their audience right every now and then

0:24:02.440 --> 0:24:06.720
<v Speaker 2>they invite unks over and yeah, fun also can put

0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:09.040
<v Speaker 2>you in a movie, Yeah, can put you on TV?

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:10.679
<v Speaker 3>Like you know, if that's what you want to do.

0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:13.400
<v Speaker 2>That's why I love the relationship Kevin got with them,

0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:15.040
<v Speaker 2>because that's the way I see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, that's real, and that's that's how we all came up,

0:24:17.800 --> 0:24:20.120
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Even when I was creating

0:24:20.119 --> 0:24:21.919
<v Speaker 1>wild'n Out and stuff, I would like I said, I

0:24:22.000 --> 0:24:25.080
<v Speaker 1>was talking to Cass like you know, Jamie Fox and

0:24:26.000 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Marlin and all of them, and they were like, yo,

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:30.520
<v Speaker 1>they was giving me advice and I was, you know,

0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:33.480
<v Speaker 1>paying attention to the game when I was a teenager

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:36.959
<v Speaker 1>around them. So then when I got my opportunities to

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:39.919
<v Speaker 1>be an executive or get deals and produce stuff, I

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>had already knew how to do it. So it's like

0:24:42.040 --> 0:24:43.560
<v Speaker 1>it's the same thing. We just got to pass the

0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:45.920
<v Speaker 1>information over to the to the young boys.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you see yourself as a bit a bridge building

0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:48.760
<v Speaker 3>for the next generation?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't. I never really thought of it like that.

0:24:53.080 --> 0:24:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I said, when I see what your building,

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Yo, that's that's needed. I think at

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:02.719
<v Speaker 1>some point I was on that for a minute, but

0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:06.399
<v Speaker 1>then it's like I just got to focus on what's working.

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:09.439
<v Speaker 1>And then so I know how important wilding Out is

0:25:09.440 --> 0:25:11.880
<v Speaker 1>to the culture, so I can build those bridges through

0:25:11.920 --> 0:25:15.240
<v Speaker 1>that I can continue to be the conduit for those spaces.

0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:20.000
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if it's it's still like trying

0:25:20.000 --> 0:25:24.639
<v Speaker 1>to build for the culture as much as it's just

0:25:24.720 --> 0:25:26.400
<v Speaker 1>really just trying to do the best work I could

0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:26.959
<v Speaker 1>possibly do.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why you acting like you don't do that.

0:25:30.000 --> 0:25:31.400
<v Speaker 3>I think Wilding Out does that.

0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Bro.

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<v Speaker 4>I also do that by the talent that you choose

0:25:34.240 --> 0:25:36.400
<v Speaker 4>to work with and some of the projects that you developed,

0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people be able.

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:37.879
<v Speaker 5>To do that.

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Soro matt Rife came from from Wilding Up. They was

0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 2>already doing anything but.

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 1>Pete all of that stuff. Yes, yeah, yeah, I mean,

0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 1>but it's definitely that's and that's why I said, like

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:53.520
<v Speaker 1>probably I can focus on that and like I said,

0:25:53.640 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 1>everything I'm trying to build. But before, you know, like

0:25:56.960 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 1>when we I was, you know, the executive over there

0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 1>and all that stuff, it was just like we were

0:26:02.119 --> 0:26:05.000
<v Speaker 1>just trying to build stuff for us, you know what

0:26:05.000 --> 0:26:06.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and see how much we can and they

0:26:07.000 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>was allowing us to do it, you know what I mean.

0:26:09.000 --> 0:26:10.679
<v Speaker 1>So we were just trying to put on for the culture.

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Where now I think, you know, as I've gotten a

0:26:13.119 --> 0:26:15.840
<v Speaker 1>little older, it's like I gotta pick and choose where

0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:18.720
<v Speaker 1>to put my energy because if I'm just there was

0:26:18.720 --> 0:26:19.959
<v Speaker 1>a point where I was like, I want to give

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:21.760
<v Speaker 1>everybody a deal, and I want to design it and

0:26:21.760 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to figure like I'll be up trying to

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:26.160
<v Speaker 1>figure out how how can I build a streaming platform

0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:27.800
<v Speaker 1>and how can I do it? And it's like a

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:30.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of that stuff is so draining when you can

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 1>just focus on what's working in rock like that, Well

0:26:32.600 --> 0:26:32.960
<v Speaker 1>you got.

0:26:32.840 --> 0:26:35.719
<v Speaker 5>The Nicked Night Show. Now late Night Space? Why late

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 5>night Space is time?

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I think? I mean, I'm be honest. They kind of

0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, Amazon came at me and was like, yo,

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 1>you should do this, and I was like all right,

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it was a fun you know take

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>on how to flip late night and almost like late

0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:54.200
<v Speaker 1>night radio that used to be like the calling advice

0:26:54.400 --> 0:26:57.480
<v Speaker 1>for relationship and sex and stuff like that. So it

0:26:57.600 --> 0:26:59.720
<v Speaker 1>was a cool, uh we do it that, you know,

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>a spot that I have ownership in in Hollywood and

0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:06.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just like a cool little date night vibe to

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 1>where you know, we bring in a professional, whether it's

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.640
<v Speaker 1>a therapist or a psychologists, and you know they give

0:27:12.680 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 1>the real advice and I'm just there for the commentary,

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 1>but it's super dope because then I do Man on

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the Street bits with it and all that stuff. So

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 1>it's just another thing to do again, something to have

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>fun with. But you know, when they presented it to me,

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, let's get it.

0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:27.960
<v Speaker 3>I saw you on this sand you don't believe in

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:29.439
<v Speaker 3>you don't like the term co parenting.

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that was again that they clickbait, I think

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:35.920
<v Speaker 1>what I said, But in that sense, what I was saying,

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, is parenting you know what I mean?

0:27:38.280 --> 0:27:40.439
<v Speaker 1>I think we start, you know, trying to come up

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:44.440
<v Speaker 1>with all of these phrases that kind of be like, no,

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:46.439
<v Speaker 1>we just let's just be the best parents we can

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:49.520
<v Speaker 1>possibly be, because then once you start trying to define

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 1>what co parenting is, and then it's like then that

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:56.159
<v Speaker 1>diminishes what our experience as just as parents, you know

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:58.159
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? I think everybody wants to be the

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 1>best parents to their child. So I was just saying,

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't like all of these terms that society just

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:07.320
<v Speaker 1>starts putting putting on there, especially you know, based off

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:10.320
<v Speaker 1>of they throw terms at me constantly, So I was like,

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:13.240
<v Speaker 1>why can't it just be parenting, like why does it?

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 1>But that there's a negative connotation sometimes that it goes in,

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 1>like I've never had a bad experience, so I'd rather

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:24.320
<v Speaker 1>just like, no, we parent together. Like that just sounds,

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, a little better than what co parenting. Co

0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:30.199
<v Speaker 1>parenting sounds like you got lawyers involved and stuff like that,

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:32.719
<v Speaker 1>which the people who do that, that's that's cool, but

0:28:32.760 --> 0:28:35.439
<v Speaker 1>it's like I feel like, if we're really getting to

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:37.520
<v Speaker 1>the core of it, parenting is what we're doing.

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 4>I saw or I read the interview that Mariah Kare

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 4>did with Harper's Bazarre where she talked about wanting to

0:28:43.680 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 4>really be fair when you guys parents in situation because

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 4>like you know, growing up with parents who are not

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 4>together anymore is really difficult. Your kids are getting older now,

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 4>have they ever come to you and been like, dad,

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 4>like why are y'all not together?

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>When they were a little younger? Really yeah, but now

0:28:57.440 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>you know they fourteen, they kind of get it and

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 1>they like, we've always had a great relationship. I mean,

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>even with Mariah saying like I've always we've been present,

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, So even in that sense where I remember

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 1>when they were probably like ten eleven, that's kind of

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 1>when they would say, you know, can you guys get

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 1>married again and all that stuff. And it's because when

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 1>they see us as a family, it looks, you know,

0:29:21.480 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>like oh, this is this is what it should be.

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:26.400
<v Speaker 1>But you know, like I said, they're fourteen now, so

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 1>they kind of they understand that it's just it's a

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>little it's it's not picture perfect, but it's their family

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>and they love it.

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 4>And then there was another clip people Love coming for You,

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 4>and apparentis though they do get this, does it ever

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:43.200
<v Speaker 4>get to a point where you're just like, what the hell,

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:45.960
<v Speaker 4>Like I'm over it? Everything you say.

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Not really be cause it's like it's been that way

0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 1>for years, Like I've never like I it's been since

0:29:52.120 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>you had twelve kids.

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 5>It's heightened because you I mean.

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 1>But it's always been able to like, I'm from the

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 1>stuff that we was talking about earlier that they always like,

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:04.240
<v Speaker 1>I'll say something my mouth forget me in trouble or something,

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and then it's like I got to clear it up.

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:08.440
<v Speaker 1>And a few years back, I mean, I ain't even

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 1>worried about clearing that stuff up, especially when I have

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>so many platforms of my own that it's just like, well,

0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>long as they promoting it, I'm not even tripping. So

0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 1>because I'm gonna I'm going to speak my truth and

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>if you know, I'm only responsible for what I say,

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 1>and that for what you understand.

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because there was a clip of you talking about

0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 4>your daughters and who you want your daughter to date

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:30.000
<v Speaker 4>and oh yeah, And even with that, I was like,

0:30:30.040 --> 0:30:31.479
<v Speaker 4>when you listen to what he was trying to say

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 4>and understand it, you're just taking accountability that you changed

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:36.600
<v Speaker 4>a lot. The men you are now is who you

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 4>want your kids to date, not.

0:30:37.480 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 3>Who you were to talk about that.

0:30:39.120 --> 0:30:39.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we did.

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And most men, if you asked them honestly, would

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>you be like, yo, would you want your daughter to

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 1>date a young boy like you? Yeah, they're gonna be

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 1>like no, you know, but in that sense, like as

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>we mature, you're gonna be like, look, dad did a

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff, made a lot of mistakes. Please don't

0:30:57.240 --> 0:31:00.400
<v Speaker 1>find somebody like that, but find somebody that is gonna

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 1>treat you right and do that. And that's that's all

0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>I was saying. In that sense, it was like I

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 1>was taking accountability and just saying like, yeah, I do

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:11.280
<v Speaker 1>have five daughters and I want them to make way

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 1>better choices than I made. And I think that's what

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 1>every parent.

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 2>I would want my daughters to have, the version of

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 2>me that went on a healing journey, right, that version

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.280
<v Speaker 2>you can find that early. Yeah, because I know a

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 2>lot of my homegirls not tell me they won't even

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 2>date a guy who's not trying to.

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:29.479
<v Speaker 3>Do some work on thisself. Yeah, in therapy or something

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:30.120
<v Speaker 3>big fact.

0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 1>And that's I think, you know, we obviously share that

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:36.560
<v Speaker 1>that same energy of like therapy has changed our lives

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 1>in such a way because I used to feed off

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:44.200
<v Speaker 1>of toxicity, you know, I used to you know, from

0:31:44.440 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>being diagnosed as a narcissist and all that. Like I

0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 1>would like that's the type of stuff it was like,

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 1>yeah my ego, Yeah, yeah, is.

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 5>Gonna love that?

0:31:58.240 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 1>You like?

0:31:58.840 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 5>How does that work?

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:02.080
<v Speaker 1>It's a pro You gotta one. You gotta have the

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:05.960
<v Speaker 1>right psychiatrists or even psychologists that they both can do it.

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:08.880
<v Speaker 1>But it's like a three week process to where you

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 1>gotta they do an in person verbal interview that you

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:14.800
<v Speaker 1>got to answer all of these questions at a certain pace.

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Then you got to fill out these forms. Then you

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>gotta write U and not like they're don't they're not

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>trick questions, but there are questions that you know, from

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:24.680
<v Speaker 1>one to ten, how do you do this? How would

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:26.960
<v Speaker 1>you handle this in this situation? And then they take

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 1>it takes about a month to come back. And then

0:32:29.320 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 1>it's a spectrum and it tells you where you land

0:32:33.240 --> 0:32:38.000
<v Speaker 1>on the spectrum of MPD. And you know, luckily, uh,

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 1>like the far end of the spectrum where people a

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of people you know, associating narcissism with where there's

0:32:46.480 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>the lack of empathy and rage. I didn't have those,

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Like those are the things where like people just you know,

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>they're so into themselves that it's dangerous. But all of

0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>the you know, the self worth and you know, believing

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 1>that who you are and that you're you know, a

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 1>unique individual and your word matters more than most. Like

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I had all of that, and you know what I mean,

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 1>so that you have to do the work once once

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 1>you've been diagnosed, you're like, oh wow, So even in

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:20.000
<v Speaker 1>dealing with my children or dealing with the mothers and

0:33:20.080 --> 0:33:23.960
<v Speaker 1>my children, it's like, now I'm equipped with saying, oh, yeah,

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:27.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm probably gaslighting when I'm doing that, or oh you

0:33:27.320 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 1>know what I could probably present this a little softer

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 1>or at least with a little bit more compassion, because

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 1>my nature is to be like what, I created this,

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm this, I'm that. And then it's like, but that's

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 1>not helping, you know what I mean. We're not looking

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 1>for resolution. I'm just looking to be right and really

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 1>feeding my ego. So I've learned all of that type

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 1>of stuff and it's helped me become a better parent

0:33:49.040 --> 0:33:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and a better partner in a scenario, what'd you get

0:33:51.520 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 1>diagnosed when? Yeah, that was maybe like two years ago.

0:33:57.040 --> 0:34:00.920
<v Speaker 1>And then because you ever heard of doctor Amen, I

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:03.520
<v Speaker 1>think you had to see him because he's all online,

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 1>but he does all of these brain scans. He's a

0:34:07.120 --> 0:34:12.280
<v Speaker 1>brain psychiatrist and he has it's called the Aiming Clinics.

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:15.440
<v Speaker 1>And they did like this whole brain scan on me,

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking like, oh, I'm gonna be i'mna have

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 1>a genius brain and all of this stuff, and turns

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>out like I had like severe brain damage in my

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 1>frontal lobe what and like, and he would like he said,

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm the poster child for ADHD, which I kind of

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 1>always knew, but I believe it came from you know,

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:36.359
<v Speaker 1>in the brain scans. He did a whole episode on

0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:40.080
<v Speaker 1>his platform about it, but it actually there said there

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>was like some trauma probably when I was a kid

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 1>that whether I fell or something like that that actually

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:49.360
<v Speaker 1>shifted and from that, you know, he's like you were

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>probably already ADHD, but because your frontal lobe was damaged

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 1>and then there was like some other We can have

0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:00.040
<v Speaker 1>toxicity of the brain too a lot of times. So

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>there's like whether it's like and we don't even know

0:35:02.200 --> 0:35:04.799
<v Speaker 1>it in our communities, like everything from like mold and

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 1>all of that stuff can actually affect how we function.

0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 1>And you know, obviously you know it's the gut to

0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>mine ratio, Like just the stuff we're putting in our

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:17.360
<v Speaker 1>bodies actually affects our mind. So I learned all of

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:19.920
<v Speaker 1>this stuff within like the last two years about like

0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 1>having a better brain and having you know, being able

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 1>to control your mind and accept the things that you've

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:29.520
<v Speaker 1>been diagnosed with but also know that you can get better.

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:31.880
<v Speaker 5>What made you want to go out it?

0:35:32.280 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm tripping.

0:35:33.640 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Because, like you know, when you started having a bunch

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:37.800
<v Speaker 2>of the kids, right, there's a lot of people around

0:35:38.080 --> 0:35:39.359
<v Speaker 2>in the mental health space.

0:35:39.280 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 3>Spiritual leaders.

0:35:40.360 --> 0:35:42.800
<v Speaker 2>They would talk to me one person in particular, and

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:44.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to say her name, and she was like,

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 2>he has narcisstic personality disorder blah blah blah. And I'm like, Nick,

0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 2>because to your point, when I think of narcissism, I

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:53.839
<v Speaker 2>think of lack of empathy rage.

0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, that's not nick, not she called it.

0:35:56.880 --> 0:35:59.560
<v Speaker 1>So you say that, it's like wow, nah, And it's true,

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, because it's like it gets

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:05.319
<v Speaker 1>there's there's certain things, especially on the spectrum, where I

0:36:05.360 --> 0:36:07.759
<v Speaker 1>had to own up and be like, man, I did

0:36:07.800 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 1>do that, you know what I mean. I did try

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:11.080
<v Speaker 1>to make it all about me. I did try to

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.359
<v Speaker 1>create my own and that like those are those are

0:36:13.360 --> 0:36:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the concepts we used to embrace, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

0:36:16.600 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm the boss, I created this, it's my world. Chicks

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 1>gotta you know, fall in line and all of that stuff. Yeah.

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 1>So but what he was that ain't how you had kids.

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:37.360
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's a process. That's part of it.

0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:38.920
<v Speaker 3>So what you baby Mama number twelve.

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:44.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's I mean, you learn, Man I was, but

0:36:44.160 --> 0:36:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I was on that, you know what I mean. I

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:48.239
<v Speaker 1>was on that for a long long period of time.

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:50.839
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of obviously too. A lot of it,

0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>if we're being completely honest, A lot of it is

0:36:54.719 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>the the trauma that I was experiencing and not knowing

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:01.680
<v Speaker 1>how to handle divorce, you know what I mean, and

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:06.719
<v Speaker 1>like me acting out because I'm like, oh, I'm the

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 1>man now and I can instead of healing and doing

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:13.800
<v Speaker 1>what I should have actually did, I just jumped out there.

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>And because I had everything from wilding out and all

0:37:19.640 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 1>the things, is like, those were all distractions from the

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:24.840
<v Speaker 1>actual work that I probably.

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:27.839
<v Speaker 3>Should Did you feel like you two things?

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:32.000
<v Speaker 2>Did you feel like you failed because the marriage failed?

0:37:32.120 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Or did you were you worried about what the industry

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:36.000
<v Speaker 2>would think because the industry was already on some.

0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:37.760
<v Speaker 3>How Did Nick Cannon get Mariah anyway?

0:37:37.840 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it was a little bit of both.

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, I hadn't did the work, you know

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:43.480
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So I was just like, just as

0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:45.959
<v Speaker 1>long as I could keep moving, you know what I mean,

0:37:46.080 --> 0:37:48.359
<v Speaker 1>like long, and I didn't get a chance to slow

0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 1>down until I got in therapy. But I was just like, look,

0:37:51.719 --> 0:37:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I just got to keep making money. I gotta stay hot,

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I gotta stay funny, and everything else to figure itself.

0:37:58.080 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 1>Out and I just didn't do the work. So then

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:05.720
<v Speaker 1>I looked up, you know, twelve kids later, and I'm like, wow,

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I could have did things very differently. But you know,

0:38:12.320 --> 0:38:15.719
<v Speaker 1>I stand firm on all of my decisions because you know,

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:19.239
<v Speaker 1>I love all my kids, I love my family infrastructure.

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:22.560
<v Speaker 1>But I know it all started from a place of

0:38:22.640 --> 0:38:29.440
<v Speaker 1>pain and not really healing properly, and you know, because

0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:34.759
<v Speaker 1>I had access to everything, so I just allowed that

0:38:35.000 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 1>to kind of cloud of my decision making.

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.520
<v Speaker 3>So you think having all those kids was a response

0:38:41.600 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 3>to your.

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:46.160
<v Speaker 1>Trauma, Yeahred hundred now that now I'm learning that now. Yeah,

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:50.359
<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't. And it wasn't like I was acting out.

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 1>It was more of being careless, being frivolous with my

0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 1>process because I could do it because I had the money,

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 1>because I had the access to whoever, and however I

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.880
<v Speaker 1>wanted to move. And you know, okay, they coming at me,

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:14.399
<v Speaker 1>they asking me opposed to like doing the mature thing

0:39:14.480 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>and saying, hey, well it probably makes more sense to

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 1>do this, and then obviously life happens as well. So

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:22.800
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't by It wasn't like oh I'm gonna go

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>have twelve kids. It was more about like, yo, I'm

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna just live life and have fun and whatever happens happens.

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I can handle it when it probably, you know, you know,

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:34.400
<v Speaker 1>being almost forty five, now, I could sit back and

0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 1>be like, Yeah, if I would have thought the process

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:40.240
<v Speaker 1>through a little bit more and took time to actually

0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:43.440
<v Speaker 1>do the inner work, things might have been a little different.

0:39:43.440 --> 0:39:44.320
<v Speaker 1>In certain scenario.

0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 5>You wouldn't have twelve kids.

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:49.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't need. I don't know, you know what I mean?

0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:53.799
<v Speaker 1>Like that, That's the only thing because every and I said,

0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I've always said this, Every child that I had was

0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:59.439
<v Speaker 1>made out of love and there were strong relationships. It's

0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 1>just it was if I would have did the work

0:40:03.719 --> 0:40:08.920
<v Speaker 1>in the healing after getting divorced, I probably would have

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 1>took my time and a lot of a lot of

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 1>other scenarios, and for whatever reason, I thought that was

0:40:15.760 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 1>the answer. A lot of times it was like, oh, well,

0:40:17.680 --> 0:40:19.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna just I'm gonna figure it out over here.

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:22.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna figure it out over here, apposed to like yore,

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:26.319
<v Speaker 1>Now you're leaving trauma every every step of the way,

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 1>instead of you know, fixing it from its origin and

0:40:31.239 --> 0:40:34.319
<v Speaker 1>then being able to present itself. But then I still

0:40:34.360 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like concepts like monogamy and stuff like that,

0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I still feel the same way, but it actually has.

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:40.520
<v Speaker 5>Your view on that change then.

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:43.920
<v Speaker 1>Nah, not really not for me, you know, And that

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:48.960
<v Speaker 1>again that probably that's the work of you know, whether

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:52.359
<v Speaker 1>you want to go back to like Freud's process of

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:55.880
<v Speaker 1>like my childhood and my upbringing, I grew up in

0:40:55.920 --> 0:41:02.040
<v Speaker 1>a very unorthodox situation in household, so I've always understood that,

0:41:02.200 --> 0:41:08.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, love happens differently, so monogamy has never really

0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:11.879
<v Speaker 1>been my thing. But so that I'm pretty sure there's

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>that plays a part.

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:13.919
<v Speaker 3>Of it as well too.

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:17.000
<v Speaker 4>How the women that are that you have kids with,

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:20.560
<v Speaker 4>how do they handle the healed version of you now?

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 4>Because in the trauma you're talking about, I'm sure they're

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.480
<v Speaker 4>coming to you with conversations that you're having differently now

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:28.359
<v Speaker 4>than you were before you started to take the time.

0:41:28.640 --> 0:41:31.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean shouts out to all my therapists, uh

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 1>because not no, not because there's you know, I'm definitely

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:40.840
<v Speaker 1>I have family therapy with some of my kids, you

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:43.120
<v Speaker 1>know what i mean, because there they have to understand

0:41:43.239 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>that this is an unorthodox, you know, non traditional scenario,

0:41:47.480 --> 0:41:49.120
<v Speaker 1>and I want them to be in the healthiest space

0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 1>as possible. Then I have my own personal then I

0:41:51.640 --> 0:41:55.600
<v Speaker 1>actually do do relationship you know, therapy as well. So

0:41:57.160 --> 0:42:00.239
<v Speaker 1>depending on who like I, there's there's been something.

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:07.520
<v Speaker 3>He said, depending on who take.

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 1>No. But in a sense, because I you know, through

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, trial and error, what I've learned with the

0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 1>mothers of my children. They sometimes they'll say, can we

0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>go to therapy together? And I say, of course, you know,

0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:31.080
<v Speaker 1>so then they get a safe space to present, you know,

0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 1>their issues with me and what I'm doing, and you know,

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.879
<v Speaker 1>I retreat a lot of times in my nature. That's

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of that's that's one of my defense mechanisms

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:42.280
<v Speaker 1>is that I just be like, I don't want.

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:42.719
<v Speaker 3>To deal with it.

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 1>So I've learned that all right, if we can have

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:50.399
<v Speaker 1>a safe setting to where and I'd say, whoever you pick,

0:42:50.520 --> 0:42:53.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, because I have my own you know, counseling

0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and things like that. But if they find somebody that

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:58.520
<v Speaker 1>they like and they want to invite me in, then

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:00.880
<v Speaker 1>we'll sit and we'll do that. And that's so I

0:43:00.880 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's once because there's so many once you

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 1>and what that does, that gives you the tools to

0:43:07.719 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>know how to communicate with each other right, and there's

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:12.799
<v Speaker 1>like because there's even things that thinks, like there's the

0:43:12.840 --> 0:43:16.759
<v Speaker 1>goutment theory they call like the four horsemen that I

0:43:16.800 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 1>would teach this to anybody who's in any kind of

0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 1>relationship because those are the four Yeah, it's like the

0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:29.880
<v Speaker 1>four things to avoid when having a disagreement with your partner.

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:31.800
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, I think the first one is like

0:43:31.840 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 1>obviously criticism, and criticism turns into uh, just it just

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:40.040
<v Speaker 1>spirals and it gets into this space where you find

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:45.400
<v Speaker 1>yourself arguing more than actually finding the solution of what

0:43:45.440 --> 0:43:47.719
<v Speaker 1>the actual issue is. So if you can instead of

0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 1>just instantly saying, well, you made me feel like this,

0:43:50.440 --> 0:43:52.759
<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, can I share with you how I'm

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:56.880
<v Speaker 1>feeling right now? And then in those things where you

0:43:56.920 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>can actually get to the resolution and the solution so

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:03.719
<v Speaker 1>much faster, but you can allow yourself to emote, and

0:44:03.760 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>then it's almost even like presenting to your partner and

0:44:06.200 --> 0:44:08.160
<v Speaker 1>be like, you know what, I really appreciate I see

0:44:08.200 --> 0:44:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you trying here, here, here, and here, but can we

0:44:11.600 --> 0:44:13.879
<v Speaker 1>work on this, this, this and this? And then when

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:16.399
<v Speaker 1>you can find somebody that you can communicate with like that,

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.560
<v Speaker 1>it actually you really won't have any problems because you

0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:23.040
<v Speaker 1>have the same goals and agenda, so you just go

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:24.360
<v Speaker 1>about it in different ways.

0:44:24.600 --> 0:44:26.640
<v Speaker 3>Emotionally, I know, you got to go to this, so

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 3>you gotta go through dirty.

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:30.640
<v Speaker 4>But I was going to ask, how do you deal

0:44:30.719 --> 0:44:33.000
<v Speaker 4>with the women you have kids with dating other people,

0:44:33.120 --> 0:44:36.200
<v Speaker 4>especially with like Mariah care Right, it's very public essentially

0:44:36.239 --> 0:44:39.839
<v Speaker 4>her Anderson pacop do y'all have conversations about who they're

0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 4>dating when they meet the kids, Like is that normal

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:43.520
<v Speaker 4>traditional for you?

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I mean, I don't have no problems with it.

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:49.279
<v Speaker 1>It never really did. I mean, I think, you know,

0:44:49.400 --> 0:44:51.839
<v Speaker 1>obviously Mariah has been in a few relationships, you know,

0:44:51.880 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 1>since we've been divorcing, it's always been cool, you know

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, and you know, and even making sure

0:44:58.520 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 1>that it's healthy for our kids well, and they've handled

0:45:02.880 --> 0:45:05.440
<v Speaker 1>all of it, you know, extremely well. And even you know,

0:45:05.560 --> 0:45:08.799
<v Speaker 1>there's a few other mothers and my children who have

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:13.160
<v Speaker 1>relationships and stuff, and it's like, again, probably if you

0:45:13.440 --> 0:45:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think I probably if you go back

0:45:14.920 --> 0:45:17.120
<v Speaker 1>a couple of interviews. The last time I was in here,

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:21.120
<v Speaker 1>there was times where I was like, Nah, this is mine.

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:24.279
<v Speaker 1>She can't she can't them. Yeah, yeah, like if she

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:26.279
<v Speaker 1>go do what you want to do, I'm not. But

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:28.839
<v Speaker 1>now I'm in a space where like I just want

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:33.480
<v Speaker 1>everybody to be healthy and happy, and if someone else

0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:37.799
<v Speaker 1>can make you happy, please by all means, you know,

0:45:38.040 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>long and especially if it's gonna for the betterment of

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:43.640
<v Speaker 1>our child. Like yeah, like a lot of times that

0:45:44.239 --> 0:45:49.279
<v Speaker 1>I see that as as you know, help in that

0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:52.439
<v Speaker 1>sense to where because you want the mother to be

0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:55.799
<v Speaker 1>in the most healed and healthy space that she can

0:45:55.840 --> 0:45:59.719
<v Speaker 1>possibly be in, and whatever gets you there, then that's

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:03.360
<v Speaker 1>what should be. Now. Of course, the little bit of

0:46:03.400 --> 0:46:06.560
<v Speaker 1>ego that that I struggle with each and every day,

0:46:06.560 --> 0:46:09.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like I want to make sure if you want

0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to be with me, then I want to be with you,

0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 1>and we can you know, reciprocate that energy. But I'm

0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:17.799
<v Speaker 1>not going to force anybody to to be, you know,

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:20.040
<v Speaker 1>down with me if you don't want to. But you know,

0:46:20.080 --> 0:46:21.840
<v Speaker 1>if you do, I appreciate that.

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:23.440
<v Speaker 3>You never wanted to get at the board.

0:46:23.360 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Digit uh ah, I don't know. That's that's complicated now obviously, No,

0:46:30.480 --> 0:46:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Like the easy question is like nah, like that you said,

0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I felt like a complete failure on so many different

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:38.440
<v Speaker 1>levels because of that, but I also knew it was

0:46:38.480 --> 0:46:42.719
<v Speaker 1>probably that's what's was. It was best for you know,

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:45.799
<v Speaker 1>specifically our kids and and kind of being able to

0:46:45.840 --> 0:46:48.560
<v Speaker 1>be the best parents we could be. So it was

0:46:48.600 --> 0:46:52.239
<v Speaker 1>a tough decision. It was definitely a tough decision, but

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:54.439
<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't change it, you know what I mean,

0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:56.520
<v Speaker 1>looking back, I think it was the it was the

0:46:56.600 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 1>right decision. And I think, you know, when I look

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>at all of the amazing things Mariah's doing right now,

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, that's that's dope, you know what

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like she's in such a wonderful space, and

0:47:08.440 --> 0:47:10.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm doing all right, and the kids are thriving.

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:13.680
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, we we did. We made the best

0:47:13.719 --> 0:47:16.520
<v Speaker 1>decision for us, because I don't know if it would

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:21.239
<v Speaker 1>have been that way, if I would have been the immature,

0:47:21.360 --> 0:47:24.239
<v Speaker 1>young dude. I was trying to figure it all out

0:47:24.280 --> 0:47:24.640
<v Speaker 1>back then.

0:47:24.760 --> 0:47:27.320
<v Speaker 2>And it's just wild because you know, you said you're

0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 2>trauma response with the God damn be it as many

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:31.719
<v Speaker 2>women as possible. But if in that moment you would

0:47:31.719 --> 0:47:34.600
<v Speaker 2>have just said, maybe even the Mariah or whoever you

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:37.479
<v Speaker 2>hurt my feelings right, like, you know, my feelings are hurt.

0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:40.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's so hard for men to say it is,

0:47:40.080 --> 0:47:43.239
<v Speaker 1>and to me it wasn't. It's like I hurt my feelings.

0:47:43.320 --> 0:47:47.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I didn't I couldn't understand because the decision.

0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I was so insecure and really letting the outside noise,

0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:58.080
<v Speaker 1>uh get to me in that sense of like where

0:47:58.120 --> 0:48:00.759
<v Speaker 1>people will calling me like a boy told and that

0:48:00.800 --> 0:48:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I was, And then I felt like I watched my

0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 1>own existence kind of get put in the shadow, and

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:11.359
<v Speaker 1>so I didn't know how to deal with that. So

0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:15.440
<v Speaker 1>then there was this the ego in me was acting

0:48:15.520 --> 0:48:18.759
<v Speaker 1>out where opposed to like and I was trying, you

0:48:18.760 --> 0:48:19.839
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. I was like, nah, I can

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:21.319
<v Speaker 1>do it. I can hold it down in it, but

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 1>it was just eating away at me. It was like

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:25.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I'm being myself. I don't feel

0:48:25.120 --> 0:48:27.520
<v Speaker 1>like I'm getting the opportunity, and I can't be in

0:48:27.600 --> 0:48:30.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody shadow my entire like I want to make money,

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to be a CEO, I want to be

0:48:32.120 --> 0:48:34.000
<v Speaker 1>a billionaire and all of that stuff. And it was

0:48:34.560 --> 0:48:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I was having all these experiences that I was creating

0:48:39.440 --> 0:48:43.200
<v Speaker 1>on my own, like it wasn't reality, Like I was

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:46.160
<v Speaker 1>the one making all of this stuff up. Like I

0:48:46.200 --> 0:48:49.279
<v Speaker 1>had a loving wife who just loved me and we

0:48:49.400 --> 0:48:51.879
<v Speaker 1>had amazing but I was like, nah, I gotta gotta

0:48:51.920 --> 0:48:54.120
<v Speaker 1>wear suits every day and I gotta be like I'm

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:57.160
<v Speaker 1>the ball, like and it just created this monster in

0:48:57.200 --> 0:49:00.600
<v Speaker 1>me that you know, took me in a direction that

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I really didn't have to go in. But the ego

0:49:04.440 --> 0:49:08.000
<v Speaker 1>of wanting to be the man in my household, wanted

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:10.120
<v Speaker 1>to be the man in the industry, wanting to prove

0:49:10.200 --> 0:49:15.719
<v Speaker 1>everybody wrong, that took over. And then therefore, you know,

0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:19.840
<v Speaker 1>years later looking back and lots of therapy and like,

0:49:19.880 --> 0:49:25.720
<v Speaker 1>oh man, that was purely my narcissistic ego really tearing

0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:29.319
<v Speaker 1>me down, which was really all of these insecurities that

0:49:29.360 --> 0:49:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I had never worked through.

0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:32.240
<v Speaker 4>Do you ever have times where like you like slipped

0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:34.160
<v Speaker 4>back into it. Because we did a segment up here

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:36.640
<v Speaker 4>where Mariah care was saying that she was she had

0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:39.440
<v Speaker 4>didty tupac oh yeah, and then Charlotte joked like she

0:49:39.440 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 4>didn't need to, but you reposted it. When you reposted it,

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 4>I was like, Okay, Nick, can it like stopped playing

0:49:48.560 --> 0:49:48.879
<v Speaker 4>with him?

0:49:49.000 --> 0:49:51.200
<v Speaker 1>But I mean the thing also that Charlie knows this

0:49:51.320 --> 0:49:53.799
<v Speaker 1>about me, Like I'm I'm all for the jokes. I'm

0:49:53.840 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 1>all for the good time. Like you, I'm never going

0:49:56.280 --> 0:49:58.480
<v Speaker 1>nothing can make me mad, you know what I mean?

0:49:58.560 --> 0:50:01.440
<v Speaker 1>So like that type. And it's funny like even in

0:50:01.520 --> 0:50:04.600
<v Speaker 1>our house, like Maria used to have like literally the

0:50:05.040 --> 0:50:08.040
<v Speaker 1>picture of Tupac in the bubble bath or she got

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:14.440
<v Speaker 1>a big giant version. I think, you know what the

0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 1>like on are the bathrooms and stuff like that. But

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like women love Tupac like that. Ain't like that's

0:50:21.040 --> 0:50:23.160
<v Speaker 1>one of them things you can't You ain't never gonna

0:50:23.160 --> 0:50:24.680
<v Speaker 1>be able to compare yourself to Tupac.

0:50:24.840 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 5>You never asked her like why this picture of all

0:50:26.719 --> 0:50:27.400
<v Speaker 5>the pictures?

0:50:27.640 --> 0:50:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I think you know, it was a David la Chapelle picture.

0:50:30.080 --> 0:50:32.400
<v Speaker 1>And now she got a relationship with all that stuff.

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:36.319
<v Speaker 1>But I get it. I wasn't intimidated by it. I

0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:37.319
<v Speaker 1>mean I got ads too.

0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:41.640
<v Speaker 2>They wove Smith ever bond over that.

0:50:43.880 --> 0:50:45.960
<v Speaker 4>Now I understand Nick at Night in the show and

0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:47.719
<v Speaker 4>the love and the relationship and advice and all that

0:50:47.719 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 4>stuff with you because you hear right today, I'm like, okay,

0:50:51.000 --> 0:50:54.040
<v Speaker 4>I get it. Before I'm like why and not a relationship.

0:50:54.120 --> 0:50:55.960
<v Speaker 1>It's so funny too, because when people hear like, oh,

0:50:56.040 --> 0:50:58.440
<v Speaker 1>Nick can't give an it. I'm not giving no advice,

0:50:58.640 --> 0:51:01.919
<v Speaker 1>Like if anything, I can get insight. But there's professionals

0:51:01.920 --> 0:51:03.759
<v Speaker 1>there that are given the real advice. But it's just

0:51:04.480 --> 0:51:07.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm going through a healing process. I'm working and a

0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:09.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of the therapists that you see on their therapists

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that I've actually really worked with in the past and

0:51:12.080 --> 0:51:15.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of done stuff, so I know their history and

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:19.239
<v Speaker 1>that and they can actually really help. And that's just

0:51:19.280 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 1>the same thing that I mean, Charlotte does this as well.

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:25.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like we just got to encourage doing the work

0:51:25.719 --> 0:51:30.239
<v Speaker 1>in therapy, and especially for black men, because we look

0:51:30.280 --> 0:51:31.799
<v Speaker 1>at it as a bad thing. We look at it

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:34.600
<v Speaker 1>as like yo, you must be crazy or something wrong

0:51:34.640 --> 0:51:37.000
<v Speaker 1>with you. Where it's like, nah, man, it's really saved

0:51:37.000 --> 0:51:40.920
<v Speaker 1>my life in so many aspects, from relationships to personal

0:51:41.000 --> 0:51:46.279
<v Speaker 1>work to you know, working through trauma. It's made me

0:51:46.320 --> 0:51:49.200
<v Speaker 1>a better person. So if I can offer up platform

0:51:49.320 --> 0:51:52.520
<v Speaker 1>from whether it's a the Council culture platform, whether it's

0:51:52.840 --> 0:51:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Nick Cannon at Night, where I can introduce psychologists and

0:51:56.560 --> 0:52:00.440
<v Speaker 1>therapists to the space and people, you know, brace it,

0:52:00.440 --> 0:52:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm with it.

0:52:01.000 --> 0:52:02.680
<v Speaker 3>No, you inspired me I need to dig deeper. I

0:52:02.760 --> 0:52:04.200
<v Speaker 3>want to talk to that guy that you talked about

0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 3>that did.

0:52:04.520 --> 0:52:07.040
<v Speaker 1>The brain scan and doctor amen and diagnosed you with

0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:10.720
<v Speaker 1>the n He wasn't the one that did the MPD,

0:52:10.840 --> 0:52:13.799
<v Speaker 1>but he was, like he actually helped me because when

0:52:13.840 --> 0:52:16.680
<v Speaker 1>he found out that I got diagnosed with MPD called

0:52:16.680 --> 0:52:19.480
<v Speaker 1>me and he was like, he was like you, He's like,

0:52:19.560 --> 0:52:22.920
<v Speaker 1>you definitely have MPD, but I believe it's because of

0:52:22.960 --> 0:52:26.399
<v Speaker 1>your brain and not because of the decisions that you make.

0:52:26.880 --> 0:52:30.879
<v Speaker 1>And so that actually helped me understand it because that's

0:52:31.040 --> 0:52:33.719
<v Speaker 1>because once you once somebody labels you with something, then

0:52:33.760 --> 0:52:36.240
<v Speaker 1>you're like oh, and he was like, no, you actually

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:38.719
<v Speaker 1>he's like, we can fix all of that. And then

0:52:38.800 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>so he actually, you know, gave me a process of

0:52:41.560 --> 0:52:45.640
<v Speaker 1>like how to you know, physically work through all of

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:47.960
<v Speaker 1>that trauma and actually have a healthier brain.

0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.440
<v Speaker 2>My last question, if you had a child with every

0:52:51.480 --> 0:52:53.239
<v Speaker 2>woman you ever had sex with, how many kids would

0:52:53.239 --> 0:52:53.400
<v Speaker 2>you have?

0:52:54.280 --> 0:53:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Damn? I don't know. That's like I don't every I

0:53:01.560 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know.

0:53:02.040 --> 0:53:05.120
<v Speaker 3>That wasn't a real question to be twenty years from now.

0:53:05.239 --> 0:53:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Nick can.

0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Legacy, I don't know, man, somebody that really just it's

0:53:13.600 --> 0:53:16.680
<v Speaker 1>weird because I'm in a space right now. I feel like,

0:53:16.960 --> 0:53:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, obviously we live I feel like we live

0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:24.680
<v Speaker 1>in a simulation and it's as fast as this world

0:53:24.760 --> 0:53:29.640
<v Speaker 1>is moving. We're in this like dystopian society right now,

0:53:30.480 --> 0:53:35.840
<v Speaker 1>and I'm almost the present is so important, you know

0:53:35.880 --> 0:53:38.320
<v Speaker 1>what i mean. I'm not even thinking about the future

0:53:38.800 --> 0:53:41.120
<v Speaker 1>other than my children and just wanting to create a

0:53:41.160 --> 0:53:44.399
<v Speaker 1>best space for them. But because of I mean, I'm

0:53:44.440 --> 0:53:47.840
<v Speaker 1>sure you've heard like from how Fast AI is Moving

0:53:47.880 --> 0:53:50.880
<v Speaker 1>and even like I'm like, have y'all ever read that

0:53:51.800 --> 0:53:55.240
<v Speaker 1>the book from back in the Day George orwell nineteen

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 1>eighty four. Yeah, yo, yeah, it's so it's happening as

0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:01.520
<v Speaker 1>we speak. So was this dude. He wrote a book

0:54:01.560 --> 0:54:05.560
<v Speaker 1>right after World War Two called in nineteen forty nine.

0:54:05.560 --> 0:54:08.680
<v Speaker 1>It's called nineteen eighty four because he was talking about

0:54:08.719 --> 0:54:11.279
<v Speaker 1>the future and what he thought he was and it said,

0:54:11.320 --> 0:54:13.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean you've heard like Big Brothers Watching and all

0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:15.920
<v Speaker 1>of that type of stuff, but it's literally what today

0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:20.440
<v Speaker 1>is to where they had like as the Ministry of

0:54:20.560 --> 0:54:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Truth and they were like literally changing history, and that

0:54:23.280 --> 0:54:27.840
<v Speaker 1>it was dude's job to actually go and change history

0:54:27.920 --> 0:54:31.600
<v Speaker 1>for the powers that be it was a constant war

0:54:31.800 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 1>always going on so they could perpetuate money. It was

0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:38.720
<v Speaker 1>like everything was under surveillance and they had this stuff

0:54:38.760 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>called like truth speak and knew and it's like wow

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>when you look at how one it was predicted, But

0:54:47.280 --> 0:54:51.680
<v Speaker 1>how really stuff like time and all that stuff is

0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:55.200
<v Speaker 1>so man made that I always, at least the space

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm in now, I'm like, I'm not even thinking about

0:54:57.800 --> 0:55:00.600
<v Speaker 1>the future in that sense. I'm just really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>operate in the present as much as I probably and

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<v Speaker 1>be the best person I could be in the present,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do I feel like this this is a simulation,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're supposed to get as much as we're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of it because it can change like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just think, I mean, obviously we all know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in the world. It's like it's so

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<v Speaker 1>much poison out there that the future is not inspiring

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So I just want to be the best

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<v Speaker 1>I can be in the moment now. My lineage obviously

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<v Speaker 1>is all about my children, but I don't even that

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<v Speaker 1>legacy thing. I kind of and also one of my

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<v Speaker 1>therapists that taught me that that legacy conversation can also

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<v Speaker 1>be associated with the narcissistic approach as well, because now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm building my legacy when that's all ego as well

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<v Speaker 1>to putting your name on buildings and buying all of

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. It's like, we think that's what we should

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<v Speaker 1>be achieving. But in a if we're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the the utopian aspect of what we all do,

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<v Speaker 1>we all should be each other like this.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>If you love nineteen eighty four, I want to recommend

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<v Speaker 2>because I know people are going to go buy that

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<v Speaker 2>book after they heard and talk about the Octavia Butler's

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<v Speaker 2>parable of.

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<v Speaker 3>The Sour Sore.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, you should read that too, because that talks

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<v Speaker 2>about like what's going on now. She put that out

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<v Speaker 2>in nineteen ninety three, and it talks about Los Angeles

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty four, and it's ravaged by climate change

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<v Speaker 2>and social inequality instability.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, nah, I'm a definitely top that one. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so weird. I mean, like, obviously it's to

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<v Speaker 1>know that it's always been in the books and nothing's new,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it really makes you step back and be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>people know, the people who know, they know, and they

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<v Speaker 1>put it in the books and we just come we

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<v Speaker 1>glaze over it a lot of times, but it's like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>this is we living in a time. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>we've probably always been living in this time, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>so potent right now because of the energy that's out there,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really it's a dystopian society, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there is hope that we can get it to the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of it, and you know that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>hope we're going in that direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Nicholas Scott Cannon. Ladies and gentlemen, sir, thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>joining us.

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<v Speaker 3>My brother.

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<v Speaker 1>This is fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on every day, a wake ago, class up, the

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<v Speaker 2>Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all finish for y'all done.