Speaker 1: Second date update. Occasionally on this segment we get return
Speaker 1: callers who come back multiple times seeking our help and
Speaker 1: dare I say our wisdom? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Whoa?
Speaker 3: What do they say about people who are psycho and
Speaker 3: they try the same thing over and over again expecting
Speaker 3: a different result.
Speaker 1: That's saying it's too wise for me. Okay. Funny thing
Speaker 1: is today's return listener only knows about us because we
Speaker 1: called him for a second date update the heck did.
Speaker 4: You go out with him, Jeff? And now he's not
Speaker 4: calling you back? Is that what's going on?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I mean he was on a second date where we
Speaker 1: reached out to him. Oh yeah, he was on the
Speaker 1: receiving end of the call, and not surprisingly, he instantly
Speaker 1: fell in love with us.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I thought we were desperate.
Speaker 1: Secondaries going hey, have you got.
Speaker 5: On any new days?
Speaker 1: His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll
Speaker 1: remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing
Speaker 1: his dates because he said he was really really focus
Speaker 1: on self care and not overstressing.
Speaker 4: Wait, is this a bathtub guy?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: Bathtub?
Speaker 6: Yep?
Speaker 1: He was having too good of a time in the
Speaker 1: bath and decided, you know what, I'm gonna stay in
Speaker 1: here and skip my gate, and I will.
Speaker 3: Say I love a man who just has discovered the
Speaker 3: magic of a bath chase.
Speaker 1: We respect you and your self care. Welcome back to
Speaker 1: the show Man.
Speaker 2: Thanks good to be back.
Speaker 5: Hit a bubble bath right now, bro, I'm not taking
Speaker 5: a bath right now.
Speaker 1: So you reached out to us this time because apparently
Speaker 1: you went out with a different girl than the last time.
Speaker 1: Or is this the same one?
Speaker 2: No, this is a different girl. This girl's name is Kathy.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, where'd you meet her.
Speaker 2: Online?
Speaker 1: Okay? I thought I was gonna say in the bathtub
Speaker 1: when I was sokay, she just popped up and I
Speaker 1: was look, okay, well guess now you just come from
Speaker 1: up the story?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 1: Cool? You met her online? What'd you guys do?
Speaker 5: Yeah, honestly, we talked at first, and then eventually we
Speaker 5: found the time we were both free, and we went
Speaker 5: out to a restaurant.
Speaker 4: Okay, sounds pretty so far.
Speaker 1: And did you actually make it to this restaurant or
Speaker 1: was self care getting in the way?
Speaker 2: Now, we made it to the restaurant. Believe it or not.
Speaker 5: You can take care of yourself and still make time.
Speaker 4: You learning lessons from your time on the show Last
Speaker 4: Time so much.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did how did the restaurant go? With Cassie?
Speaker 2: I thought we had a good time. We did that thing.
Speaker 5: Where you're looking at random strangers and you're like making
Speaker 5: up crazy backstories about them.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so I love that.
Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, Like we we talked about her job.
Speaker 2: She's a nurse, which is really cool. So when we
Speaker 2: were telling backstories, we would come up with like crazy
Speaker 2: scenarios of er injuries at the bar. What if he
Speaker 2: was impaled by a spear gun? What you do?
Speaker 1: Oh, this definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation.
Speaker 1: Hope you didn't spend all of your time on er
Speaker 1: horror stories.
Speaker 2: So of course we talked about other things.
Speaker 5: Like one of my favorite questions to ask on a
Speaker 5: first or second date is what was your favorite cartoon
Speaker 5: as a kid.
Speaker 4: That's a great question.
Speaker 1: That's a hard question, dude.
Speaker 5: If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly
Speaker 5: fun attitude.
Speaker 3: Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality.
Speaker 4: GIF you say SpongeBob, You're what was your answer?
Speaker 2: Well, funny Enoughnce, you just said it mine with Fungebob
Speaker 2: him as a human being all right?
Speaker 1: Okay, Team SpongeBob Brooks is animaniacs. Does that mean that
Speaker 1: she's sexually repressed and has a weird relationship with family members?
Speaker 3: No, it's that I know all the capitals of the
Speaker 3: United States do not listen to Wacko's song.
Speaker 1: Clearly, No, that's epic song. Okay. Did she have a
Speaker 1: good answer for a cartoon show?
Speaker 2: Yeah, her favorite was Scooby Dooe. Like you know, true
Speaker 2: crime shows.
Speaker 4: Transfer into adulthood.
Speaker 1: Or there seem to be serial killers. But that's probably
Speaker 1: not shaggy, that's true. Okay, speak for yourself. Well this okay, Now,
Speaker 1: now the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How did
Speaker 1: the night end?
Speaker 2: Well, you know how we were having a really great time.
Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna get a kiss. Maybe happening,
Speaker 2: I didn't know.
Speaker 4: Is that because you didn't make the move or what
Speaker 4: you know?
Speaker 2: I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate. I wasn't going
Speaker 2: to push it any farther.
Speaker 4: Smart gentleman way to do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just got in my Honda Civic and
Speaker 2: drove home.
Speaker 1: You slink away, you feel like crap. I've been there, bro,
Speaker 1: I love every girl i've.
Speaker 4: Ever met I on the making my all of his car.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you have pride in your car.
Speaker 5: Sure.
Speaker 1: So what's happened since that date? Have you been able
Speaker 1: to stay in touch with Cassie?
Speaker 5: I've tried to make another date. The problem is, I
Speaker 5: just I'm busy a lot with my company, so it's
Speaker 5: been hard to find the time that worked. And now
Speaker 5: I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me.
Speaker 4: So you're super busy, but you will make.
Speaker 2: Time for her, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we can tell her that.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 3: But it's always like kind of a turn off when
Speaker 3: people are like, I'm really superpes you know, It's like
Speaker 3: that feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her, honestly, yeah,
Speaker 3: because that always feels like an excuse.
Speaker 1: In times like these, I tend to ask myself what
Speaker 1: would SpongeBob do? And what he would do is he
Speaker 1: would come back, and you would call Cassie on the
Speaker 1: radio and try and get you a second date.
Speaker 4: I feel like you go jellyfish hunting.
Speaker 1: But yeah, SpongeBob things at once. We're going to attempt
Speaker 1: a few of them would come back. I gotta know about that.
Speaker 1: We're gonna know your second date update right after this
Speaker 1: second date update. It's kind of interesting the question our
Speaker 1: listener Chase asks women on every first date. He likes
Speaker 1: to ask, what's your favorite childhood cartoon?
Speaker 4: I love that question.
Speaker 1: I think everybody loves that question.
Speaker 4: I actually want to know yours.
Speaker 1: Jeff, you're never going to know that from me. We
Speaker 1: don't know each other that well. I dare you ask
Speaker 1: something so deep in person?
Speaker 4: You know it's gonna be deftails. It's got to be
Speaker 4: about a rich uncle.
Speaker 1: It's Arthur if you have to know the introverted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, with the really sassy sister.
Speaker 1: Now, Chase says he can tell a lot about a
Speaker 1: person based on their cartoon answer and his date, Cassie
Speaker 1: said Scooby Doo, which is a sign that she could
Speaker 1: be into true crime, whereas he's a SpongeBob fan who's
Speaker 1: more silly and wacky and wears square shaped clothes. But
Speaker 1: opposites do attract sometimes, and Chase wants to see if
Speaker 1: we can make that happen for him today. Brook, what's
Speaker 1: your take?
Speaker 3: I really think that she thinks that you don't like her, because,
Speaker 3: like he says, I mean didn't.
Speaker 4: You say, Chase, like you kept telling her. God him
Speaker 4: so busy, But I'll fit you in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get that. It's just it's not what I
Speaker 2: meant him. And I hope she doesn't see I I'm.
Speaker 4: Not saying it's a bad thing.
Speaker 3: I just think that's what's happening, and I think you
Speaker 3: can totally come back from it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And if it turns out that we can't get
Speaker 1: you a second date at the end of this, is
Speaker 1: it okay if we blame it on those meddling kids
Speaker 1: and dog.
Speaker 2: Too, if need be. I suppose that'd be okay.
Speaker 4: Masks, are you wearing to take off after this?
Speaker 1: We're gonna call that plan B. But for now, let's
Speaker 1: just dial Cassie see if she picks up and try
Speaker 1: to get this second date done. Here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: we're looking to talk with Cassie. That's hey Cassie. My
Speaker 1: name is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Hey Cassie, Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested though. Sorry.
Speaker 1: Oh well, we're not trying to tell you anything. We
Speaker 1: were asked to call you by one of our listeners
Speaker 1: that went on a date with you recently.
Speaker 6: What what is this I don't get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, this is a segment we do call the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and we're trying to help him figure
Speaker 1: out if something went wrong on your first meetup and
Speaker 1: hopefully get you two together for another one.
Speaker 4: Because it sounds like a pretty normal date.
Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brooke. They were making
Speaker 1: up backstories about spear guns, what you would do as
Speaker 1: a nurse in the er.
Speaker 6: Oh oh yeah, yeah yeah, you're talking about Chase. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So the reason that we're doing this call is because
Speaker 1: Chase told us this whole story, said he had a
Speaker 1: great time with you. Now he's a little bit confused
Speaker 1: about there hasn't been a second meet up, because if
Speaker 1: we're being honest, he says, he feels like you're ignoring him.
Speaker 6: No, I mean I just kind of well, I just
Speaker 6: kind of felt like I was kind of bouched by
Speaker 6: this guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: That's interesting because we've had Chase on the show before
Speaker 3: and he just seems like such a humble, like nice dude.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well yeah, I mean he is humble and nice, but
Speaker 6: like when we like connected and I called him, he
Speaker 6: said he was golfing at this golf course and I
Speaker 6: looked it up and it's like a really nice private course.
Speaker 6: You had to be a member.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, looked it up.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, Well, I mean it's it's nice to have
Speaker 6: someone that's financially established, you know, I mean, don't guys
Speaker 6: go golfing if they're not financially was a private.
Speaker 1: Court, okay, this particular one really impressed you. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 6: Another time we were texting to meet up and he
Speaker 6: said he was at this auction and I'm like, auction
Speaker 6: buying stuff, like poor people don't go to auction.
Speaker 4: If he's buying art, Like come on, yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 4: as I haven't.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, so I figure, okay, this guy's established, and
Speaker 6: so we figured out a night to meet and he
Speaker 6: takes me to like a regular chain restaurant okay, And
Speaker 6: I was like, okay, that's that's not what I expected.
Speaker 6: And you know, the actual date went well, but then
Speaker 6: he at the end of the night he drives off
Speaker 6: in a and I'm like, did you.
Speaker 4: Wait, did you just say a Honda Civic.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I got the impressions. Then he had
Speaker 6: money and he was, you know, well off.
Speaker 4: That's not fair. You did not get the impression you
Speaker 4: made the assumption a friend of the golf course.
Speaker 1: Cassie, did he tell you that he's well off with
Speaker 1: a lot of money or did you just assume that
Speaker 1: based on your conversations?
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I assumed it because it was.
Speaker 4: Based on the conversations. It sounds like based on her.
Speaker 1: Research, I know many many different personal assistants who attend
Speaker 1: art auctions on behalf of my family and my parents,
Speaker 1: and they are not off.
Speaker 4: I can tell if you're joking. Did your family really
Speaker 4: do that?
Speaker 1: Why am I being grilled? Cassie is the one that
Speaker 1: is jumping to assumptions here.
Speaker 5: Rich guys just can't get.
Speaker 1: So Cassie, do you feel like maybe you are the
Speaker 1: one at fault here jumping to assumptions about who he
Speaker 1: really is?
Speaker 6: Well, I'm just I'm not interested in dating a low
Speaker 6: valued guy to trick me.
Speaker 1: Agree with that we should get him on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask him that question, because I need to let
Speaker 1: you know that he is listening to this call on
Speaker 1: the other line right now.
Speaker 4: What he could.
Speaker 1: Chase? Are you there? And are you a low value man?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: Or no?
Speaker 2: I mean apparently I am. According to her, you're a good.
Speaker 4: Value man Chase, that's what you say.
Speaker 1: Well, why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this,
Speaker 1: because clearly she feels like you were giving her the
Speaker 1: impression that you were at a certain level financially and
Speaker 1: you didn't meet that in person.
Speaker 2: No, I mean sadly, my plan worked.
Speaker 1: Plan?
Speaker 6: What plan? Though? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Playing games?
Speaker 2: I actually am a member of that golf club, and
Speaker 2: I did attend the art auctions for myself. It was art.
Speaker 4: Oh wait, wait, you're rich rich.
Speaker 2: Then I'm comfortable.
Speaker 4: That means you're wealthy.
Speaker 1: I don't know how you got off my parents paywalling
Speaker 1: on with the civic and the non bougeness like what's happening?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I own a tech company and some times
Speaker 5: when girls hear that, they just end up wanting to
Speaker 5: date me for my money.
Speaker 2: So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant to
Speaker 2: see how you would react.
Speaker 4: Oh and you liked her. Still, that's so sad?
Speaker 2: And then she no, no, no, I didn't hate it.
Speaker 6: Look, I didn't hate it.
Speaker 4: I never thought I.
Speaker 6: Hear that you failed to text personally. I think that's
Speaker 6: very very smart. I think you should try to do
Speaker 6: that your boy your women.
Speaker 3: Seriously, Cassie, now you're super interested in him and you
Speaker 3: think that he is awesome Weirdly.
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know what you guys are referring,
Speaker 6: but seriously, I've always been interested.
Speaker 4: You know, we record these phone calls. We can play
Speaker 4: him back.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, you might have missed that first part
Speaker 6: because I said, if this is him testing me, then
Speaker 6: you know he's really smart and I respect that.
Speaker 3: I really do.
Speaker 4: I think I think I think she tried to say that.
Speaker 4: Right after he said, oh, it's just a test. She's like, oh,
Speaker 4: that's really smart.
Speaker 1: Are you buying it?
Speaker 5: Chase?
Speaker 2: Look, I can buy anything I have.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny. It's not what I meant. But do
Speaker 1: you believe her?
Speaker 2: I always want to think the best of people. So okay,
Speaker 2: if she wants to send me a.
Speaker 4: Few picks wait wait wait, you say if she wants.
Speaker 2: To send you what if she wants to send me
Speaker 2: a few picks to so sorry, then.
Speaker 4: That's so grow. I mean I want to get stereotype.
Speaker 4: He was a Chase company. But now I am.
Speaker 6: God, Oh my god, you're so funny.
Speaker 2: I'll show you on our date.
Speaker 1: Okay, this has been a past here, so.
Speaker 4: How quickly he dropped his morals too?
Speaker 5: Yeah, want to hang out.
Speaker 1: I have to see if both parties are actually still
Speaker 1: interested in that date here, because yes, from you said, yes,
Speaker 1: it's a big change from what you said five minutes ago.
Speaker 1: But apparently we misunderstood. We heard you wrong.
Speaker 6: You did you did misunderstood me. I told you, guys,
Speaker 6: I was shocked. I was a little surprised, but I
Speaker 6: didn't hate the restaurant.
Speaker 1: She actually did see the restaurant was okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: so Chase, are you guys going to go out again?
Speaker 1: Because if you do, you're probably gonna have to drop
Speaker 1: the ickmobile on the civic. It's not it's not approved.
Speaker 2: I mean you know, I mean like new stuff has
Speaker 2: been presented on this date. So I'm definitely yes.
Speaker 3: Definitely yes, Okay, I hate both of you somehow, I
Speaker 3: think we're jealous of both of the.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well congratulations did it? Why do we feel bad?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It feels wrong that there's some law that we just broke.
Speaker 6: What you do?
Speaker 2: Have fun?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 4: The money?
Speaker 1: If you're bored, bro Jeffrey in the morning. I think
Speaker 1: with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation, like
Speaker 1: you want a guy who's well often established, like Cassie.
Speaker 1: Did you just need to put the survey in front
Speaker 1: of them at the table. Do you make this amount,
Speaker 1: this amount or this amount. Circle it and we can
Speaker 1: be done with it.
Speaker 2: And it starts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like that song on TikTok. Right, I want
Speaker 4: a guy in finance exactly.
Speaker 1: Let's just figure out who you really are that we
Speaker 1: can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one. No misunderstool though,
Speaker 1: and test them.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think what is funny is that they both ended
Speaker 3: up kind of meant for each other. Yeah, both of
Speaker 3: them are a little sleazy at the end.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're all like, well, you know, fine, I'll forgive you,
Speaker 1: you forgive me. Let's just hang out. But we need
Speaker 1: to own our part of the misunderstanding because we totally
Speaker 1: misheard her.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I don't think we did.
Speaker 1: When she said you about the Honda Civic, she didn't
Speaker 1: mean the cars grocy Man cute. It's a cute car.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She also heard said ick yeah, yeah, well I'm sure
Speaker 1: we misunderstood that one too. We don't make enough money
Speaker 1: to understand her. I feel bad, forever doubting her. And
Speaker 1: if you want to hear any of our second dates,
Speaker 1: you can go to wherever you get your podcasts. They're
Speaker 1: up right now at Brook and Jeffrey