WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Scooby Dooby Eww A Honda Civic

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Occasionally on this segment we get return

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<v Speaker 1>callers who come back multiple times seeking our help and

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<v Speaker 1>dare I say our wisdom? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa?

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<v Speaker 3>What do they say about people who are psycho and

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<v Speaker 3>they try the same thing over and over again expecting

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<v Speaker 3>a different result.

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<v Speaker 1>That's saying it's too wise for me. Okay. Funny thing

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<v Speaker 1>is today's return listener only knows about us because we

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<v Speaker 1>called him for a second date update the heck did.

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<v Speaker 4>You go out with him, Jeff? And now he's not

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<v Speaker 4>calling you back? Is that what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was on a second date where we

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<v Speaker 1>reached out to him. Oh yeah, he was on the

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<v Speaker 1>receiving end of the call, and not surprisingly, he instantly

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<v Speaker 1>fell in love with us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought we were desperate.

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<v Speaker 1>Secondaries going hey, have you got.

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<v Speaker 5>On any new days?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll

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<v Speaker 1>remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing

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<v Speaker 1>his dates because he said he was really really focus

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<v Speaker 1>on self care and not overstressing.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, is this a bathtub guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Bathtub?

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<v Speaker 6>Yep?

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<v Speaker 1>He was having too good of a time in the

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<v Speaker 1>bath and decided, you know what, I'm gonna stay in

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<v Speaker 1>here and skip my gate, and I will.

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<v Speaker 3>Say I love a man who just has discovered the

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<v Speaker 3>magic of a bath chase.

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<v Speaker 1>We respect you and your self care. Welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>the show Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks good to be back.

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<v Speaker 5>Hit a bubble bath right now, bro, I'm not taking

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<v Speaker 5>a bath right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So you reached out to us this time because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with a different girl than the last time.

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<v Speaker 1>Or is this the same one?

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<v Speaker 2>No, this is a different girl. This girl's name is Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, where'd you meet her.

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<v Speaker 2>Online?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? I thought I was gonna say in the bathtub

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<v Speaker 1>when I was sokay, she just popped up and I

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<v Speaker 1>was look, okay, well guess now you just come from

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<v Speaker 1>up the story?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Cool? You met her online? What'd you guys do?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, honestly, we talked at first, and then eventually we

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<v Speaker 5>found the time we were both free, and we went

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<v Speaker 5>out to a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, sounds pretty so far.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you actually make it to this restaurant or

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<v Speaker 1>was self care getting in the way?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, we made it to the restaurant. Believe it or not.

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<v Speaker 5>You can take care of yourself and still make time.

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<v Speaker 4>You learning lessons from your time on the show Last

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<v Speaker 4>Time so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did how did the restaurant go? With Cassie?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we had a good time. We did that thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Where you're looking at random strangers and you're like making

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<v Speaker 5>up crazy backstories about them.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, so I love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Yeah, Like we we talked about her job.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a nurse, which is really cool. So when we

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<v Speaker 2>were telling backstories, we would come up with like crazy

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<v Speaker 2>scenarios of er injuries at the bar. What if he

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<v Speaker 2>was impaled by a spear gun? What you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, this definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you didn't spend all of your time on er

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<v Speaker 1>horror stories.

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<v Speaker 2>So of course we talked about other things.

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<v Speaker 5>Like one of my favorite questions to ask on a

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<v Speaker 5>first or second date is what was your favorite cartoon

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<v Speaker 5>as a kid.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a great question.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a hard question, dude.

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<v Speaker 5>If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly

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<v Speaker 5>fun attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality.

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<v Speaker 4>GIF you say SpongeBob, You're what was your answer?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, funny Enoughnce, you just said it mine with Fungebob

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<v Speaker 2>him as a human being all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Team SpongeBob Brooks is animaniacs. Does that mean that

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<v Speaker 1>she's sexually repressed and has a weird relationship with family members?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's that I know all the capitals of the

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<v Speaker 3>United States do not listen to Wacko's song.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly, No, that's epic song. Okay. Did she have a

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<v Speaker 1>good answer for a cartoon show?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, her favorite was Scooby Dooe. Like you know, true

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<v Speaker 2>crime shows.

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<v Speaker 4>Transfer into adulthood.

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<v Speaker 1>Or there seem to be serial killers. But that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>not shaggy, that's true. Okay, speak for yourself. Well this okay, Now,

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<v Speaker 1>now the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How did

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<v Speaker 1>the night end?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know how we were having a really great time.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I was gonna get a kiss. Maybe happening,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that because you didn't make the move or what

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<v Speaker 4>you know?

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<v Speaker 2>I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate. I wasn't going

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<v Speaker 2>to push it any farther.

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<v Speaker 4>Smart gentleman way to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I just got in my Honda Civic and

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<v Speaker 2>drove home.

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<v Speaker 1>You slink away, you feel like crap. I've been there, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I love every girl i've.

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<v Speaker 4>Ever met I on the making my all of his car.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, you have pride in your car.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's happened since that date? Have you been able

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<v Speaker 1>to stay in touch with Cassie?

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<v Speaker 5>I've tried to make another date. The problem is, I

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<v Speaker 5>just I'm busy a lot with my company, so it's

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<v Speaker 5>been hard to find the time that worked. And now

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<v Speaker 5>I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're super busy, but you will make.

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<v Speaker 2>Time for her, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, we can tell her that.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's always like kind of a turn off when

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<v Speaker 3>people are like, I'm really superpes you know, It's like

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<v Speaker 3>that feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her, honestly, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because that always feels like an excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>In times like these, I tend to ask myself what

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<v Speaker 1>would SpongeBob do? And what he would do is he

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<v Speaker 1>would come back, and you would call Cassie on the

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<v Speaker 1>radio and try and get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like you go jellyfish hunting.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, SpongeBob things at once. We're going to attempt

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<v Speaker 1>a few of them would come back. I gotta know about that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna know your second date update right after this

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. It's kind of interesting the question our

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<v Speaker 1>listener Chase asks women on every first date. He likes

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, what's your favorite childhood cartoon?

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<v Speaker 4>I love that question.

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<v Speaker 1>I think everybody loves that question.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually want to know yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, you're never going to know that from me. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know each other that well. I dare you ask

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<v Speaker 1>something so deep in person?

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<v Speaker 4>You know it's gonna be deftails. It's got to be

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<v Speaker 4>about a rich uncle.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Arthur if you have to know the introverted.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, with the really sassy sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Chase says he can tell a lot about a

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<v Speaker 1>person based on their cartoon answer and his date, Cassie

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<v Speaker 1>said Scooby Doo, which is a sign that she could

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<v Speaker 1>be into true crime, whereas he's a SpongeBob fan who's

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<v Speaker 1>more silly and wacky and wears square shaped clothes. But

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<v Speaker 1>opposites do attract sometimes, and Chase wants to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can make that happen for him today. Brook, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your take?

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<v Speaker 3>I really think that she thinks that you don't like her, because,

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<v Speaker 3>like he says, I mean didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>You say, Chase, like you kept telling her. God him

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<v Speaker 4>so busy, But I'll fit you in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I get that. It's just it's not what I

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<v Speaker 2>meant him. And I hope she doesn't see I I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Not saying it's a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think that's what's happening, and I think you

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<v Speaker 3>can totally come back from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And if it turns out that we can't get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date at the end of this, is

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<v Speaker 1>it okay if we blame it on those meddling kids

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<v Speaker 1>and dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, if need be. I suppose that'd be okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Masks, are you wearing to take off after this?

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call that plan B. But for now, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just dial Cassie see if she picks up and try

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<v Speaker 1>to get this second date done. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking to talk with Cassie. That's hey Cassie. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey Cassie, Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested though. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, we're not trying to tell you anything. We

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<v Speaker 1>were asked to call you by one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>that went on a date with you recently.

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<v Speaker 6>What what is this I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, this is a segment we do call the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, and we're trying to help him figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if something went wrong on your first meetup and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully get you two together for another one.

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<v Speaker 4>Because it sounds like a pretty normal date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brooke. They were making

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<v Speaker 1>up backstories about spear guns, what you would do as

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<v Speaker 1>a nurse in the er.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh yeah, yeah yeah, you're talking about Chase. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So the reason that we're doing this call is because

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<v Speaker 1>Chase told us this whole story, said he had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time with you. Now he's a little bit confused

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<v Speaker 1>about there hasn't been a second meet up, because if

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<v Speaker 1>we're being honest, he says, he feels like you're ignoring him.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean I just kind of well, I just

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<v Speaker 6>kind of felt like I was kind of bouched by

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<v Speaker 6>this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>That's interesting because we've had Chase on the show before

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<v Speaker 3>and he just seems like such a humble, like nice dude.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Well yeah, I mean he is humble and nice, but

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<v Speaker 6>like when we like connected and I called him, he

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<v Speaker 6>said he was golfing at this golf course and I

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<v Speaker 6>looked it up and it's like a really nice private course.

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<v Speaker 6>You had to be a member.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, looked it up.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, Well, I mean it's it's nice to have

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<v Speaker 6>someone that's financially established, you know, I mean, don't guys

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<v Speaker 6>go golfing if they're not financially was a private.

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<v Speaker 1>Court, okay, this particular one really impressed you. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Another time we were texting to meet up and he

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<v Speaker 6>said he was at this auction and I'm like, auction

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<v Speaker 6>buying stuff, like poor people don't go to auction.

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<v Speaker 4>If he's buying art, Like come on, yeah, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>as I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yeah, so I figure, okay, this guy's established, and

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<v Speaker 6>so we figured out a night to meet and he

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<v Speaker 6>takes me to like a regular chain restaurant okay, And

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, okay, that's that's not what I expected.

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<v Speaker 6>And you know, the actual date went well, but then

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<v Speaker 6>he at the end of the night he drives off

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<v Speaker 6>in a and I'm like, did you.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, did you just say a Honda Civic.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I got the impressions. Then he had

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<v Speaker 6>money and he was, you know, well off.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not fair. You did not get the impression you

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<v Speaker 4>made the assumption a friend of the golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie, did he tell you that he's well off with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money or did you just assume that

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<v Speaker 1>based on your conversations?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess I assumed it because it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Based on the conversations. It sounds like based on her.

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<v Speaker 1>Research, I know many many different personal assistants who attend

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<v Speaker 1>art auctions on behalf of my family and my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>and they are not off.

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<v Speaker 4>I can tell if you're joking. Did your family really

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<v Speaker 4>do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I being grilled? Cassie is the one that

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<v Speaker 1>is jumping to assumptions here.

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<v Speaker 5>Rich guys just can't get.

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<v Speaker 1>So Cassie, do you feel like maybe you are the

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<v Speaker 1>one at fault here jumping to assumptions about who he

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<v Speaker 1>really is?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I'm just I'm not interested in dating a low

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<v Speaker 6>valued guy to trick me.

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<v Speaker 1>Agree with that we should get him on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask him that question, because I need to let

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<v Speaker 1>you know that he is listening to this call on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line right now.

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<v Speaker 4>What he could.

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<v Speaker 1>Chase? Are you there? And are you a low value man?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Or no?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean apparently I am. According to her, you're a good.

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<v Speaker 4>Value man Chase, that's what you say.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this,

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<v Speaker 1>because clearly she feels like you were giving her the

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<v Speaker 1>impression that you were at a certain level financially and

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't meet that in person.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean sadly, my plan worked.

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<v Speaker 1>Plan?

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<v Speaker 6>What plan? Though? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Playing games?

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<v Speaker 2>I actually am a member of that golf club, and

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<v Speaker 2>I did attend the art auctions for myself. It was art.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wait, wait, you're rich rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I'm comfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>That means you're wealthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you got off my parents paywalling

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<v Speaker 1>on with the civic and the non bougeness like what's happening?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, I own a tech company and some times

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<v Speaker 5>when girls hear that, they just end up wanting to

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<v Speaker 5>date me for my money.

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<v Speaker 2>So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant to

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<v Speaker 2>see how you would react.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and you liked her. Still, that's so sad?

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<v Speaker 2>And then she no, no, no, I didn't hate it.

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<v Speaker 6>Look, I didn't hate it.

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<v Speaker 4>I never thought I.

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<v Speaker 6>Hear that you failed to text personally. I think that's

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<v Speaker 6>very very smart. I think you should try to do

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<v Speaker 6>that your boy your women.

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<v Speaker 3>Seriously, Cassie, now you're super interested in him and you

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<v Speaker 3>think that he is awesome Weirdly.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't know what you guys are referring,

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<v Speaker 6>but seriously, I've always been interested.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we record these phone calls. We can play

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<v Speaker 4>him back.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, you might have missed that first part

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<v Speaker 6>because I said, if this is him testing me, then

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<v Speaker 6>you know he's really smart and I respect that.

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<v Speaker 3>I really do.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I think I think she tried to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Right after he said, oh, it's just a test. She's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>that's really smart.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you buying it?

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<v Speaker 5>Chase?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I can buy anything I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's funny. It's not what I meant. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you believe her?

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<v Speaker 2>I always want to think the best of people. So okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if she wants to send me a.

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<v Speaker 4>Few picks wait wait wait, you say if she wants.

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<v Speaker 2>To send you what if she wants to send me

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<v Speaker 2>a few picks to so sorry, then.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so grow. I mean I want to get stereotype.

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<v Speaker 4>He was a Chase company. But now I am.

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<v Speaker 6>God, Oh my god, you're so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll show you on our date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this has been a past here, so.

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<v Speaker 4>How quickly he dropped his morals too?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, want to hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to see if both parties are actually still

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<v Speaker 1>interested in that date here, because yes, from you said, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a big change from what you said five minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently we misunderstood. We heard you wrong.

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<v Speaker 6>You did you did misunderstood me. I told you, guys,

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<v Speaker 6>I was shocked. I was a little surprised, but I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't hate the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually did see the restaurant was okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so Chase, are you guys going to go out again?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you do, you're probably gonna have to drop

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<v Speaker 1>the ickmobile on the civic. It's not it's not approved.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you know, I mean like new stuff has

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<v Speaker 2>been presented on this date. So I'm definitely yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely yes, Okay, I hate both of you somehow, I

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<v Speaker 3>think we're jealous of both of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, well congratulations did it? Why do we feel bad?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It feels wrong that there's some law that we just broke.

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<v Speaker 6>What you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Have fun?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>The money?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're bored, bro Jeffrey in the morning. I think

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<v Speaker 1>with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation, like

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<v Speaker 1>you want a guy who's well often established, like Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just need to put the survey in front

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<v Speaker 1>of them at the table. Do you make this amount,

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<v Speaker 1>this amount or this amount. Circle it and we can

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<v Speaker 1>be done with it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it starts.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like that song on TikTok. Right, I want

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<v Speaker 4>a guy in finance exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just figure out who you really are that we

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<v Speaker 1>can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one. No misunderstool though,

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<v Speaker 1>and test them.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think what is funny is that they both ended

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<v Speaker 3>up kind of meant for each other. Yeah, both of

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<v Speaker 3>them are a little sleazy at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're all like, well, you know, fine, I'll forgive you,

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<v Speaker 1>you forgive me. Let's just hang out. But we need

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<v Speaker 1>to own our part of the misunderstanding because we totally

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<v Speaker 1>misheard her.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I don't think we did.

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<v Speaker 1>When she said you about the Honda Civic, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean the cars grocy Man cute. It's a cute car.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She also heard said ick yeah, yeah, well I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>we misunderstood that one too. We don't make enough money

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<v Speaker 1>to understand her. I feel bad, forever doubting her. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to hear any of our second dates,

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<v Speaker 1>you can go to wherever you get your podcasts. They're

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<v Speaker 1>up right now at Brook and Jeffrey