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Speaker 1: Second date update. Occasionally on this segment we get return

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Speaker 1: callers who come back multiple times seeking our help and

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Speaker 1: dare I say our wisdom? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Whoa?

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Speaker 3: What do they say about people who are psycho and

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Speaker 3: they try the same thing over and over again expecting

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Speaker 3: a different result.

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Speaker 1: That's saying it's too wise for me. Okay. Funny thing

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Speaker 1: is today's return listener only knows about us because we

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Speaker 1: called him for a second date update the heck did.

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Speaker 4: You go out with him, Jeff? And now he's not

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Speaker 4: calling you back? Is that what's going on?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I mean he was on a second date where we

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Speaker 1: reached out to him. Oh yeah, he was on the

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Speaker 1: receiving end of the call, and not surprisingly, he instantly

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Speaker 1: fell in love with us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I thought we were desperate.

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Speaker 1: Secondaries going hey, have you got.

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Speaker 5: On any new days?

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Speaker 1: His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll

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Speaker 1: remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing

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Speaker 1: his dates because he said he was really really focus

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Speaker 1: on self care and not overstressing.

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Speaker 4: Wait, is this a bathtub guy?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Bathtub?

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Speaker 6: Yep?

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Speaker 1: He was having too good of a time in the

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Speaker 1: bath and decided, you know what, I'm gonna stay in

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Speaker 1: here and skip my gate, and I will.

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Speaker 3: Say I love a man who just has discovered the

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Speaker 3: magic of a bath chase.

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Speaker 1: We respect you and your self care. Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the show Man.

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Speaker 2: Thanks good to be back.

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Speaker 5: Hit a bubble bath right now, bro, I'm not taking

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Speaker 5: a bath right now.

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Speaker 1: So you reached out to us this time because apparently

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Speaker 1: you went out with a different girl than the last time.

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Speaker 1: Or is this the same one?

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Speaker 2: No, this is a different girl. This girl's name is Kathy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, where'd you meet her.

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Speaker 2: Online?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I thought I was gonna say in the bathtub

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Speaker 1: when I was sokay, she just popped up and I

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Speaker 1: was look, okay, well guess now you just come from

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Speaker 1: up the story?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Cool? You met her online? What'd you guys do?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, honestly, we talked at first, and then eventually we

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Speaker 5: found the time we were both free, and we went

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Speaker 5: out to a restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Okay, sounds pretty so far.

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Speaker 1: And did you actually make it to this restaurant or

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Speaker 1: was self care getting in the way?

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Speaker 2: Now, we made it to the restaurant. Believe it or not.

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Speaker 5: You can take care of yourself and still make time.

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Speaker 4: You learning lessons from your time on the show Last

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Speaker 4: Time so much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did how did the restaurant go? With Cassie?

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Speaker 2: I thought we had a good time. We did that thing.

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Speaker 5: Where you're looking at random strangers and you're like making

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Speaker 5: up crazy backstories about them.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so I love that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, Like we we talked about her job.

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Speaker 2: She's a nurse, which is really cool. So when we

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Speaker 2: were telling backstories, we would come up with like crazy

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Speaker 2: scenarios of er injuries at the bar. What if he

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Speaker 2: was impaled by a spear gun? What you do?

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Speaker 1: Oh, this definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation.

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Speaker 1: Hope you didn't spend all of your time on er

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Speaker 1: horror stories.

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Speaker 2: So of course we talked about other things.

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Speaker 5: Like one of my favorite questions to ask on a

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Speaker 5: first or second date is what was your favorite cartoon

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Speaker 5: as a kid.

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Speaker 4: That's a great question.

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Speaker 1: That's a hard question, dude.

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Speaker 5: If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly

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Speaker 3: Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality.

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Speaker 4: GIF you say SpongeBob, You're what was your answer?

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Speaker 2: Well, funny Enoughnce, you just said it mine with Fungebob

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Speaker 2: him as a human being all right?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Team SpongeBob Brooks is animaniacs. Does that mean that

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Speaker 1: she's sexually repressed and has a weird relationship with family members?

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Speaker 3: No, it's that I know all the capitals of the

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Speaker 3: United States do not listen to Wacko's song.

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Speaker 1: Clearly, No, that's epic song. Okay. Did she have a

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Speaker 1: good answer for a cartoon show?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, her favorite was Scooby Dooe. Like you know, true

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Speaker 2: crime shows.

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Speaker 4: Transfer into adulthood.

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Speaker 1: Or there seem to be serial killers. But that's probably

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Speaker 1: not shaggy, that's true. Okay, speak for yourself. Well this okay, Now,

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Speaker 1: now the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How did

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Speaker 1: the night end?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know how we were having a really great time.

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Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna get a kiss. Maybe happening,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: Is that because you didn't make the move or what

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Speaker 4: you know?

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Speaker 2: I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate. I wasn't going

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Speaker 4: Smart gentleman way to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just got in my Honda Civic and

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Speaker 2: drove home.

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Speaker 1: You slink away, you feel like crap. I've been there, bro,

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Speaker 1: I love every girl i've.

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Speaker 4: Ever met I on the making my all of his car.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you have pride in your car.

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Speaker 5: Sure.

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Speaker 1: So what's happened since that date? Have you been able

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Speaker 1: to stay in touch with Cassie?

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Speaker 5: I've tried to make another date. The problem is, I

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Speaker 5: just I'm busy a lot with my company, so it's

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Speaker 5: been hard to find the time that worked. And now

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Speaker 5: I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me.

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Speaker 4: So you're super busy, but you will make.

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Speaker 2: Time for her, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we can tell her that.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 3: But it's always like kind of a turn off when

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Speaker 3: people are like, I'm really superpes you know, It's like

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Speaker 3: that feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her, honestly, yeah,

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Speaker 3: because that always feels like an excuse.

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Speaker 1: In times like these, I tend to ask myself what

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Speaker 1: would SpongeBob do? And what he would do is he

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Speaker 1: would come back, and you would call Cassie on the

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Speaker 1: radio and try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you go jellyfish hunting.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, SpongeBob things at once. We're going to attempt

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Speaker 1: a few of them would come back. I gotta know about that.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna know your second date update right after this

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Speaker 1: second date update. It's kind of interesting the question our

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Speaker 1: listener Chase asks women on every first date. He likes

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Speaker 1: to ask, what's your favorite childhood cartoon?

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Speaker 4: I love that question.

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Speaker 1: I think everybody loves that question.

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Speaker 4: I actually want to know yours.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, you're never going to know that from me. We

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Speaker 1: don't know each other that well. I dare you ask

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Speaker 1: something so deep in person?

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Speaker 4: You know it's gonna be deftails. It's got to be

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Speaker 4: about a rich uncle.

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Speaker 1: It's Arthur if you have to know the introverted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, with the really sassy sister.

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Speaker 1: Now, Chase says he can tell a lot about a

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Speaker 1: person based on their cartoon answer and his date, Cassie

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Speaker 1: said Scooby Doo, which is a sign that she could

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Speaker 1: be into true crime, whereas he's a SpongeBob fan who's

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Speaker 1: more silly and wacky and wears square shaped clothes. But

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Speaker 1: opposites do attract sometimes, and Chase wants to see if

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Speaker 1: we can make that happen for him today. Brook, what's

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Speaker 1: your take?

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Speaker 3: I really think that she thinks that you don't like her, because,

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Speaker 3: like he says, I mean didn't.

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Speaker 4: You say, Chase, like you kept telling her. God him

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Speaker 4: so busy, But I'll fit you in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get that. It's just it's not what I

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Speaker 2: meant him. And I hope she doesn't see I I'm.

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Speaker 4: Not saying it's a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I just think that's what's happening, and I think you

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Speaker 3: can totally come back from it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And if it turns out that we can't get

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Speaker 1: you a second date at the end of this, is

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Speaker 1: it okay if we blame it on those meddling kids

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Speaker 1: and dog.

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Speaker 2: Too, if need be. I suppose that'd be okay.

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Speaker 4: Masks, are you wearing to take off after this?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call that plan B. But for now, let's

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Speaker 1: just dial Cassie see if she picks up and try

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Speaker 1: to get this second date done. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're looking to talk with Cassie. That's hey Cassie. My

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Speaker 1: name is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Hey Cassie, Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested though. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, we're not trying to tell you anything. We

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Speaker 1: were asked to call you by one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: that went on a date with you recently.

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Speaker 6: What what is this I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, this is a segment we do call the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and we're trying to help him figure

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Speaker 1: out if something went wrong on your first meetup and

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Speaker 1: hopefully get you two together for another one.

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Speaker 4: Because it sounds like a pretty normal date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brooke. They were making

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Speaker 1: up backstories about spear guns, what you would do as

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Speaker 1: a nurse in the er.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh yeah, yeah yeah, you're talking about Chase. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So the reason that we're doing this call is because

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Speaker 1: Chase told us this whole story, said he had a

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Speaker 1: great time with you. Now he's a little bit confused

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Speaker 1: about there hasn't been a second meet up, because if

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Speaker 1: we're being honest, he says, he feels like you're ignoring him.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean I just kind of well, I just

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Speaker 6: kind of felt like I was kind of bouched by

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: That's interesting because we've had Chase on the show before

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Speaker 3: and he just seems like such a humble, like nice dude.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Well yeah, I mean he is humble and nice, but

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Speaker 6: like when we like connected and I called him, he

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Speaker 6: said he was golfing at this golf course and I

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Speaker 6: looked it up and it's like a really nice private course.

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Speaker 6: You had to be a member.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, looked it up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, Well, I mean it's it's nice to have

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Speaker 6: someone that's financially established, you know, I mean, don't guys

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Speaker 6: go golfing if they're not financially was a private.

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Speaker 1: Court, okay, this particular one really impressed you. Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 6: Another time we were texting to meet up and he

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Speaker 6: said he was at this auction and I'm like, auction

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Speaker 6: buying stuff, like poor people don't go to auction.

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Speaker 4: If he's buying art, Like come on, yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 4: as I haven't.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, so I figure, okay, this guy's established, and

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Speaker 6: so we figured out a night to meet and he

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Speaker 6: takes me to like a regular chain restaurant okay, And

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Speaker 6: I was like, okay, that's that's not what I expected.

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Speaker 6: And you know, the actual date went well, but then

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Speaker 6: he at the end of the night he drives off

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Speaker 4: Wait, did you just say a Honda Civic.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I got the impressions. Then he had

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Speaker 4: That's not fair. You did not get the impression you

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Speaker 1: Cassie, did he tell you that he's well off with

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Speaker 4: Based on the conversations. It sounds like based on her.

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Speaker 1: Research, I know many many different personal assistants who attend

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Speaker 1: art auctions on behalf of my family and my parents,

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Speaker 4: I can tell if you're joking. Did your family really

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Speaker 4: do that?

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Speaker 1: Why am I being grilled? Cassie is the one that

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Speaker 5: Rich guys just can't get.

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Speaker 1: So Cassie, do you feel like maybe you are the

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm just I'm not interested in dating a low

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Speaker 1: Agree with that we should get him on the phone

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Speaker 4: What he could.

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Speaker 1: Chase? Are you there? And are you a low value man?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Or no?

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Speaker 2: I mean apparently I am. According to her, you're a good.

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Speaker 4: Value man Chase, that's what you say.

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Speaker 1: Well, why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this,

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Speaker 2: No, I mean sadly, my plan worked.

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Speaker 1: Plan?

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Speaker 6: What plan? Though? What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Playing games?

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Speaker 2: I actually am a member of that golf club, and

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Speaker 2: I did attend the art auctions for myself. It was art.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, wait, you're rich rich.

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Speaker 2: Then I'm comfortable.

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Speaker 4: That means you're wealthy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you got off my parents paywalling

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I own a tech company and some times

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Speaker 5: when girls hear that, they just end up wanting to

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Speaker 2: So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant to

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Speaker 4: Oh and you liked her. Still, that's so sad?

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Speaker 2: And then she no, no, no, I didn't hate it.

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Speaker 6: Look, I didn't hate it.

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Speaker 4: I never thought I.

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Speaker 6: Hear that you failed to text personally. I think that's

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Speaker 6: very very smart. I think you should try to do

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Speaker 6: that your boy your women.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, Cassie, now you're super interested in him and you

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Speaker 3: think that he is awesome Weirdly.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know what you guys are referring,

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Speaker 6: but seriously, I've always been interested.

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Speaker 4: You know, we record these phone calls. We can play

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Speaker 4: him back.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, you might have missed that first part

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Speaker 6: because I said, if this is him testing me, then

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Speaker 3: I really do.

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Speaker 4: I think I think I think she tried to say that.

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Speaker 4: Right after he said, oh, it's just a test. She's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Are you buying it?

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Speaker 5: Chase?

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Speaker 2: Look, I can buy anything I have.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny. It's not what I meant. But do

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Speaker 1: you believe her?

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Speaker 2: I always want to think the best of people. So okay,

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Speaker 2: if she wants to send me a.

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Speaker 4: Few picks wait wait wait, you say if she wants.

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Speaker 2: To send you what if she wants to send me

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Speaker 2: a few picks to so sorry, then.

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Speaker 4: That's so grow. I mean I want to get stereotype.

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Speaker 4: He was a Chase company. But now I am.

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Speaker 6: God, Oh my god, you're so funny.

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Speaker 2: I'll show you on our date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this has been a past here, so.

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Speaker 4: How quickly he dropped his morals too?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, want to hang out.

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Speaker 1: I have to see if both parties are actually still

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Speaker 1: interested in that date here, because yes, from you said, yes,

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Speaker 1: it's a big change from what you said five minutes ago.

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Speaker 1: But apparently we misunderstood. We heard you wrong.

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Speaker 6: You did you did misunderstood me. I told you, guys,

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Speaker 6: I was shocked. I was a little surprised, but I

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Speaker 1: She actually did see the restaurant was okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: so Chase, are you guys going to go out again?

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Speaker 1: Because if you do, you're probably gonna have to drop

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Speaker 1: the ickmobile on the civic. It's not it's not approved.

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Speaker 2: I mean you know, I mean like new stuff has

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Speaker 3: Definitely yes, Okay, I hate both of you somehow, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well congratulations did it? Why do we feel bad?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It feels wrong that there's some law that we just broke.

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Speaker 6: What you do?

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Speaker 2: Have fun?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 4: The money?

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Speaker 1: If you're bored, bro Jeffrey in the morning. I think

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Speaker 1: with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation, like

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Speaker 1: you want a guy who's well often established, like Cassie.

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Speaker 1: Did you just need to put the survey in front

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Speaker 1: of them at the table. Do you make this amount,

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Speaker 1: be done with it.

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Speaker 2: And it starts.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like that song on TikTok. Right, I want

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Speaker 4: a guy in finance exactly.

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Speaker 1: Let's just figure out who you really are that we

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Speaker 1: can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one. No misunderstool though,

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Speaker 1: and test them.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think what is funny is that they both ended

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're all like, well, you know, fine, I'll forgive you,

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Speaker 1: you forgive me. Let's just hang out. But we need

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I don't think we did.

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Speaker 1: When she said you about the Honda Civic, she didn't

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Speaker 1: mean the cars grocy Man cute. It's a cute car.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She also heard said ick yeah, yeah, well I'm sure

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Speaker 1: we misunderstood that one too. We don't make enough money

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Speaker 1: to understand her. I feel bad, forever doubting her. And

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Speaker 1: if you want to hear any of our second dates,

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Speaker 1: you can go to wherever you get your podcasts. They're

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Speaker 1: up right now at Brook and Jeffrey