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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject what does she do that is

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Speaker 1: so amazing? Dear Stephen Shirley, My boyfriend is in love

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Speaker 1: with his brother's wife and he won't admit it. It

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Speaker 1: started as a joke, but now it's starting to get

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Speaker 1: under my skin. I met his brother. The same night

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Speaker 1: I met him. His brother had just started dating the

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Speaker 1: lady he married. That was four years ago. They are married,

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Speaker 1: but my boyfriend and I are not. My boyfriend idolizes

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Speaker 1: his sister in law and compliments her when she's all

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Speaker 1: dressed up, which is all of the time. Her hair

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Speaker 1: is sure and fly and she has expensive purses and shoes.

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Speaker 1: She called me last week and asked me if we

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Speaker 1: could do a day of pampering together. We got Manni's

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Speaker 1: and petties and had lunch at an upscale hotel before

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Speaker 1: we went to an expensive store downtown to shop. I

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Speaker 1: had only window shopped in this store before we went

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Speaker 1: straight to look at shoes. I don't have small feet,

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Speaker 1: so I never thought of wearing an expensive pair of shoes.

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Speaker 1: I ended up spending eight hundred dollars on some red

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Speaker 1: sole shoes. After shoes we went. After shoes, we went

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Speaker 1: onto the makeup counter and I had to pay seventy

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Speaker 1: five dollars for a lady to put makeup and lashes

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Speaker 1: on me. My boyfriend's sister in law was cheering me

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Speaker 1: on all the way. Before we left, I bought a

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Speaker 1: super tight dress that was on sale, and it showed

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Speaker 1: off my big booty. I was exhausted, but I was

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Speaker 1: grateful and I felt beautiful. As I drove home, my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend came over to check me out out and he

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Speaker 1: said it's the most beautiful he's ever seen me. At

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Speaker 1: that moment, my heart sank and I was so hurt.

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Speaker 1: Then he asked me if I ever cut my hair

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Speaker 1: short like his sister in law. I am crushed and

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Speaker 1: he can't understand why he said the day I spent

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Speaker 1: with his sister in law was for my own good.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's trying to turn me into something

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Speaker 1: I'm not. Am I wasting my time with him. Will

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Speaker 1: I ever be as amazing as she is? Okay, you

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Speaker 1: gotta stop this. I mean you got to stop this.

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Speaker 1: Stop comparing yourself to this woman. She's who she is

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Speaker 1: and you are who you are. You will never be her.

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Speaker 1: Get that out your mind because you're you. Let that

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Speaker 1: be enough. Okay. If your man wants her, then that

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Speaker 1: means he doesn't want you. I'm all for you know,

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Speaker 1: doing things to make yourself more attractive, enhancing your beauty

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Speaker 1: and all that. That's part of the fun of being

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Speaker 1: a woman in the first place. But you should be

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Speaker 1: enhancing your own beauty and enhancing, not trying to look

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Speaker 1: like someone else. You have to be confident, You have

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Speaker 1: to be comfortable in your own skin. You gotta love you,

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Speaker 1: love yourself. Don't worry about your man. Yeah, he compliments

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Speaker 1: her and all of that. He's you know, and all

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Speaker 1: of that, but it makes you feel some kind of way.

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Speaker 1: That's because you don't feel good about yourself. But he's

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Speaker 1: doing all this with his brother's wife, of all people.

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Speaker 1: Stop making him make you feel insecure. You said you

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Speaker 1: felt beautiful as you drove home after your makeover. Don't

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Speaker 1: lose that. Remember that feeling and how good it felt

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Speaker 1: to you. As long as you love yourself and have confidence,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a good man. There are all kinds

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Speaker 1: of men who will take the new you, But you

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Speaker 1: have to do the work on yourself. It's a process.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Steve, Well, here's the problem in the letter. The

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Speaker 3: problem to me in the letter isn't that she's comparing

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Speaker 3: herself to this other woman. The problem in this letter

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Speaker 3: is her boyfriend is comparing her to the other woman.

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Speaker 3: That's what seems to be the problem to me. What

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Speaker 3: does she do that's so amazing? Well, according to your boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: everything you don't see. That's the problem in this letter.

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Speaker 2: Right here.

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Speaker 3: You open the line with my boyfriend is in love

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Speaker 3: with his brother's wife and won't admit it.

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Speaker 2: Well, he ain't got admitted.

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Speaker 3: We got proof all through the damn letter now, and

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Speaker 3: it's starting to get under your skin.

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Speaker 2: And you met his brother.

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Speaker 3: The same night you met him, his brother had just

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Speaker 3: started this lady, and they are married, and but you.

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Speaker 2: And your boyfriend are not.

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Speaker 3: And then you say, your boyfriend idolizes this woman, compliments

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Speaker 3: her when she gets dressed up, which is all the time. Okay,

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Speaker 3: her hair short and fly, she's expensive persons and shoes.

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Speaker 3: Then last week you all got together and went out

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Speaker 3: head of girl's day. Y'all, we got manicures, pet of kids,

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Speaker 3: went to the hotel, hell did some pampering.

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Speaker 2: Then y'all went downtown.

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Speaker 3: Now you said when you got downtown you only windows

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Speaker 3: shopped in this particular store before, and y'all went straight

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Speaker 3: in to look at.

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Speaker 2: Shoes here, would have let us start to turn in

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Speaker 2: a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I don't have small feet, so I never thought of

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Speaker 3: wearing an expensive pair of shoes.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, let's pull up right here. Let's just

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Speaker 2: deal with this for me.

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Speaker 3: If you don't have small feet, that means you have

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Speaker 3: big feet. So that's why you've never considered wearing an

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Speaker 3: expensive pair of shoes. I've had a lot of cheap

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Speaker 3: shoes on in my life. I'm not a woman, so

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Speaker 3: I've never had to wear heels. The bigger your foot,

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Speaker 3: the more money you need to spend on his shoe.

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Speaker 3: They ain't gonna hold up them. Heels ain't gonna be

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Speaker 3: able to take this pressure. Because you got this big

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Speaker 3: foot jam down in there. You got to spend money.

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Speaker 3: Don't ever say, cause you got big feet, you ain't

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Speaker 3: want to buy an expensive pair of shoes, So you

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Speaker 3: ended up spending eight hundred on some red sol shoes.

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Speaker 2: I understand that that is high.

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Speaker 3: It is high four pair of shoes, because I used

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Speaker 3: to feel that way. First pair of shoes, A dude

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Speaker 3: gave me name Hobie by the Dallas Own Silhouette store.

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Speaker 3: Bought me a pair of seven hundred and fifty dollars alligator.

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Speaker 3: Maurice gave him to me as a birthday gift. I

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Speaker 3: told him, I said, bro, you're wasting your time. I

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Speaker 3: don't care how much money I make. I would never

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Speaker 3: ever spend seven hundred and fifty dollars on a pair

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Speaker 3: of shoes. I told him that that was one of

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Speaker 3: the biggest lies I ever.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, I have part two if you thank

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Speaker 1: you Jesus coming up at twenty three minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour Today's strawberry letter subject what does she do that

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Speaker 1: is so amazing? We'll get back into it right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening hard morning show. All right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is why did

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Speaker 1: what does she do that is so amazing?

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Speaker 3: Well, the problem in this letter is this woman is

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Speaker 3: being compared by to this sister in law of her boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: his brother's wife.

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Speaker 2: And she is trying to compare them to. So they

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Speaker 2: went out.

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Speaker 3: They had a girl's day together, her and the sister

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Speaker 3: in law. She admits, the girl this fly, got short hair,

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Speaker 3: always dressed up real nice. They went shopping manicure, pair

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Speaker 3: of cure. They went to a store she only wanted

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Speaker 3: to shop in. She says, I have large feet, so

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Speaker 3: I've never thought about buying the expensive pair of shoes.

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Speaker 3: I said, the bigger your feet, the more money you

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Speaker 3: need to spend on them, because you're putting a lot

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Speaker 3: of pressure on their ass all day long, so you

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Speaker 3: need to have some shoes that can hold up. I

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Speaker 3: did not know you was gonna go in here and

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Speaker 3: buy yourself a pair of eight hundred dollars red bottom shoes.

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Speaker 3: I will admit that's a lot of money for a shoe.

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Speaker 3: After shoes, we went to the makeup count and I

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Speaker 3: had to pay seventy five dollars for a lady to

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Speaker 3: put makeup and lashes on me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's the price.

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Speaker 3: Me personally, I think you got off a little bit

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Speaker 3: cheap because they that make up and lashes ain't nobody

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Speaker 3: putting their lashes on.

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Speaker 2: For that kind of money. So I think you got

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Speaker 2: a good deal. But now you out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how much you out of you out

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Speaker 3: of eighty seventy five on paper, but that ain't including

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Speaker 3: how much the money and the petty costs. I'm just

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Speaker 3: talking about you about a thousand dollars a day. But

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Speaker 3: then before we left, you bought a super tight dress

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Speaker 3: that was on sale and it showed off my big booty.

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Speaker 3: Now here we go. We got two big things we're

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Speaker 3: operating with. We got big feet. We got a big booty.

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Speaker 3: You gotta have big feet to hold up the big booty.

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Speaker 3: I catch all this cach just told you a minute ago.

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Speaker 3: You got lied of weight on the last feet. What

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Speaker 3: you can't have is big booty, big breast, big everything,

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Speaker 3: and then put some live bitty feet in there. You

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Speaker 3: know you gonna fall, you you you you gonna fall,

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Speaker 3: you go, You're gonna tip right over or you can't

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Speaker 3: see little feet you go fall back on that big

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Speaker 3: booty or the big breasts gonna pull you down. You

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Speaker 3: gotta have feet, stretch out and create a balance. And

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Speaker 3: I think you're fine, your thick, fine, sister. I think

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Speaker 3: that's what you need to ride with. You got them curves,

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Speaker 3: working girls. Yep, you got everything. You got something somebody

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Speaker 3: liked because he picked you. Now, the problem is your

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Speaker 3: boyfriend came over and you were grateful, and you felt

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Speaker 3: beautiful driving home. Right then your boyfriend came over to

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Speaker 3: check you out. He said, it's the most beautiful he's

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Speaker 3: ever seen me. Now, I don't think nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: You know, you you just bought these expensive shoes. You

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Speaker 3: normally wear cheap shoes. Now you just said that. Now

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Speaker 3: you got them Christian lubertans On and you've been wearing

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Speaker 3: Pickway shoes. You know, you might have been down there

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Speaker 3: trying to say money. You might even been a rock port.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where you're being buying your shoe. But

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Speaker 3: this man came over and complimented you. Instead of you

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Speaker 3: taking it like a compliment, he said, at just the

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Speaker 3: most beautiful he's ever seen you. At that moment, my

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Speaker 3: heart sank, What you done paid this lady for this makeup?

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Speaker 3: You don't do your makeup like that. You got these

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Speaker 3: eyelashes on you obviously you needed them on there because

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Speaker 3: she put them on there at the damn stoke. So

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Speaker 3: now he don't recognized you. He said, that's the most

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Speaker 3: beautiful he's ever seen you. My heart sank, and I

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Speaker 3: was so hurt. Why the man just paid you the

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Speaker 3: ultimate compliment? Then he asked me, now here way he

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Speaker 3: got stupid? Then he asked me, would I ever cutting

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Speaker 3: my hairshut like his sister Dash where his dumb ass?

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Speaker 3: See dog, that's where you got dumb and dudes, sometime

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Speaker 3: we just dumb. I'm so sorry, ladies. I apologize because

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Speaker 3: this is dumb me. I am crushed and he can't

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Speaker 3: understand why, because he's stupid. He said, the day I

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Speaker 3: spent with my sister in law was for your own good.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he's trying to turn me into something

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: Am I wasting my time with him? Will I ever

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Speaker 3: be as amazing as she is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: As soon as you cut your hair? Yeah? Yeah see?

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Speaker 3: Will I ever be amazing that she is? Yes, just

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Speaker 3: as soon as you cut your hair, because that's what

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Speaker 3: he wants. Now, I think what you're gonna have to

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Speaker 3: do is sit down and have a heart to heart. Listen,

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Speaker 3: I am tired of you comparing me to her. I

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Speaker 3: like her, We get along just fine. I think she

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Speaker 3: is fly. I can't be that. I can't shop the

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Speaker 3: see now if women did that, you know, look at

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Speaker 3: what she be behind her, that she got her laid

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Speaker 3: out looking. Look what you get me because obviously he

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Speaker 3: ain't making the money his brother make. Now you'll find sister.

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Speaker 3: Stop letting this man make you think you not because

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Speaker 3: he is enamored with somebody else. If you so enamored

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Speaker 3: with somebody else, then go get you. So go ahead

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Speaker 3: and free yourself. If you don't, won't me, don't talk

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Speaker 3: to me, Oh godhead and free your say he you

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Speaker 3: know that's one of my favorites ons And that's what

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Speaker 3: you may have to do, because if he's stuck on her,

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Speaker 3: then go find her because what you got is me.

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Speaker 3: But that's what killed me bout some men. What you

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Speaker 3: get is her, what you want is her, What you

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Speaker 3: got is her. See it don't make no damn sense.

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Speaker 3: If he had the ability to get better, he would

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Speaker 3: have better.

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Speaker 2: But he don't remember that. Sisters.

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Speaker 3: If a man can do better than you, he would

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Speaker 3: all right.

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