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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Kim is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater and she thinks that

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Speaker 2: her husband, Michael of eight years, might be messing around.

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Speaker 2: So see if we can help her out. Kim, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: you're going through it, but what's going on? Why do

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Speaker 2: you think Michael might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 1: Well, Michael and I would be married for eight years

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Speaker 1: and he's never been like a super social guy. He's

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Speaker 1: more in the introverted side, and lately he there's been

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Speaker 1: a lot of times that he might have met someone new.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So basically he he's Miles for no reason,

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Speaker 1: you know, Like that's you would think that that's a

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Speaker 1: good thing, but it's not really who he is.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, like happier than he normally.

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Speaker 1: Is or something. Yeah, like randomly happy, you know. And

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Speaker 1: then he the biggest thing for me, I think it

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Speaker 1: is that he supposedly goes to the gym. Now, like

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Speaker 1: you start going to the gym. I'm like, in the

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Speaker 1: eight years we've been married, you've never even mentioned the

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Speaker 1: idea of going to the gym. Really and yeah, but

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Speaker 1: then he only goes like once a week, like he

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Speaker 1: goes on Wednesday night and but when he comes back,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't really look like he went to the gym,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, were you just walking out of the gym?

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Speaker 1: You know, like yeah, And it's just it's very odd,

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Speaker 1: you know, he goes for these like walks supposedly to

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Speaker 1: And then the latest thing has been that this this

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Speaker 1: person started texting him and it says Roye on the text,

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Speaker 1: you know, on the text messages. And when I asked

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Speaker 1: him about it, he got like all flustered, like no,

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Speaker 1: it's just there's a guy I meant, you know, at work.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, but you haven't talked about this

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Speaker 1: Roys at all and I didn't want to push it,

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Speaker 1: you know, the subject. But he seems like super shady

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Speaker 2: So it's a guy that he's texting with.

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Speaker 1: Supposedly, but I don't know he could you put anybody's

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Speaker 1: name on it? Yeah, you know, for all I know

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Speaker 1: is Joyce and not roy. I don't know what is.

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Speaker 3: He wearing when he's going on these walks and going

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Speaker 3: to the gym randomly on Wednesdays.

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Speaker 1: Well, he is wearing, like, you know, a T shirt

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Speaker 1: and shorts, but then he takes a Duffel bag and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, but are you changing because then you

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Speaker 1: come back with the same clothes. So that doesn't really.

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Speaker 2: Add this person before? No, was he does he have

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Speaker 2: a lot of friends? Maybe he made a new friend.

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Speaker 1: No, he's not even like he's very introverted, you know,

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Speaker 1: like he he's friends with my friend mostly, and it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like I have to pull him like, hey,

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Speaker 1: and he is like, no, I just want to stay

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Speaker 1: I don't. Can we please make some friends, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like he does not want to go out of his

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Speaker 3: So it is weird that he would have a new friend.

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Speaker 3: I also think it's weird he just goes on Wednesdays.

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Speaker 3: That doesn't feel right either. Yeah, yeah, just one day awake,

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Speaker 3: one day a week isn't really I mean, I'm sure

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Speaker 3: it does something, but you know, why.

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Speaker 1: Make you weird then just introduce me to your friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's also true. Okay, Well we'll try to

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Speaker 2: figure it out. For you. We'll play a song come back.

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Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards

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Speaker 2: card member at, So we'll call everyting to be from

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Speaker 2: the grocery store and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 2: choose one lucky Rewards member who gets a free gift

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Speaker 2: from us and his flowers delivered from our feal department,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see if you sends oo see you or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else. Okay, okay, okay, all right, we get

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Speaker 2: your catch theeeter next right in the middle of the

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Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater and if you're just joining us, Kim

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Speaker 2: is on the phone and she thinks that her husband,

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Speaker 2: Michael of eight years, might be cheating. So we're to

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Speaker 2: that he's a rewards card member at, and say that

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Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one lucky Reward member who

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Speaker 2: we'll see if he sends those to his wife, Kim,

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Speaker 2: or to somebody else. But before we do that, Kim,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up again on why you

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Speaker 1: Well, like I said, he has been going every Wednesday

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Speaker 1: He's being weird lately, like a little too happy than

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Speaker 1: but I honestly don't think that's it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think that his new friend he has

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a Joyce, like a job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well that's going on. Let's see if

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Speaker 2: it is. Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready a toll ever be I guess?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, this is Corby calling from I was looking

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Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Michael.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry, Yeah, Hi, that's me.

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Speaker 2: Hi Michael. How are you? Please? Don't hang up? This

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Speaker 2: is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with

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Speaker 2: a big thank you very much and congratulations here this

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Speaker 2: month's big winner. Thank you so much for talking with us,

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Speaker 2: for all clapping for you here, very excited.

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Speaker 4: Cool? Did I win something? I don't remember entering it?

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Speaker 2: Well, technically get entered when you signed up with us

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Speaker 2: but it's just a free gift from us. Every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random who gets

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Speaker 2: a free gift from us. And this month it's flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want from our Foid department.

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Speaker 2: It's thirty six longstin red roses, a box of candy

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Speaker 2: or chocolate, and a card delivered to anybody, absolutely free.

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Speaker 2: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, uh, thank you, that's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. Well, all I would need from

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Speaker 2: you would be the first and the last name of

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Speaker 4: Oh great, okay, cool, cool, cool, Okay. So her name

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Speaker 2: All right Louise. Yes, okay, I've got that. And do

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Speaker 2: you want to include a card to Louise?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I just give you the message and you

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Speaker 5: and you you'll put print it out.

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Speaker 5: Message can be thank you for opening my eyes.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for opening my Oh my god, you gotta

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Speaker 4: Who is that?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Michael, this is actually the Juble Show. It's a

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I am Nina. Hi I'm Victoria, and my name

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Speaker 2: is Jubil and that's your wife, Kim. We do a

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Speaker 2: segment called to Catch a Teeter where if you think

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Speaker 2: your significant others messing around, you see you, they send

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Speaker 4: Hold on wait, hang on.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe in Michael, I can't believe it.

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Speaker 4: Kim. Well you oh my no?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, Kim, Kim, no, no, no, there's no one else, Kim, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ahead, niggure's well your way out of this one.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean nobody else? Kim? I should have

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Speaker 5: I didn't know how to. But this has been going

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Speaker 1: Something's been going on because I've been asking you about

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Speaker 1: And then you have this Royce, which is a complain

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Speaker 5: No, okay, you're right, You're absolutely right. I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Royce is a guy I met about a month ago,

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Speaker 5: and Royce invited me to these Wednesday worship services that

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Speaker 4: And I'm so serious.

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Speaker 5: Right now, they have live music, they have a short

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Speaker 2: Why you've been going to church on Wednesdays?

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Speaker 4: Yes, and you're joking. Yes, that's not normal for me.

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Speaker 1: Who's Louis somebody you met at church?

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Speaker 4: No, Kim, Louise is the pastor, so you're hitting on

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Speaker 5: Louise's just she's been like a spiritual leader. She's she's

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Speaker 5: I haven't been able to think about properly. Kim, I've

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Speaker 5: been in a really dark place for a while, like years.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't tell you because I didn't.

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Speaker 5: Want you to think that I was lying, or her pretending,

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Speaker 1: Well, I was not expecting that you've never been a

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Speaker 5: No, I know, I know, and I didn't want to

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Speaker 3: And I think it's wonderful that you've found a place

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Speaker 2: So Kim's not devastated and freaking out.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you thought you had somebody. Yeah, I know, idiot.

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Speaker 5: No, I I'm sorry. I'm sorry because I didn't know

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Speaker 4: This is my fault. Wow, it's awesome. I mean it has.

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Speaker 5: It has been kind of awesome, and it's got me

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Speaker 5: was trying to find myself again and I wanted and

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Speaker 5: I realized, like I want to find us again too.

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Speaker 2: That's a good thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I want to like reconnect with you and then

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's cool that he's not cheating, Kim.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's fantastic. I'm so happy. Okay, I wish you

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Speaker 5: Told me though, said I had no idea where to start,

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Speaker 5: but I've wanted to ask you to come with me

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Speaker 5: for a little while now. Sure of course, yes, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's really nice get to meet this guy.

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Speaker 4: I've told them about you.

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Speaker 5: They're excited to me, you know, because I can't stop

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Speaker 5: talking about you, because I love you, Kim.

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Speaker 1: I love you too.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: The Juble shows to catch a Cheater