1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stop Mom? Never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: From housetop works dot com aither and welcome to the podcast. 4 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: This is Molly and I'm Kristen and Kristen. A little 5 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: disclosure to our listeners who were gonna into a whole 6 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: different topic today. We were, But in the past few 7 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: weeks we have seen a ton of stories about how 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: in this down economy, uh, there's a trend of young 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: women trying to donate their eggs to make money. Right, 10 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 1: Because if you've ever looked through a newspaper, sometimes we'll 11 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: be ads in classified sections for um for women's eggs, 12 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: and they run anywhere from five thousand, ten thousand dollars. 13 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: So women see this and think, hey, that's a easy 14 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: way to earn a book, yeah, some credit card bill. 15 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: So it's it's a pretty big trend. I think we're 16 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: reading articles that said, had every fertility clinic across the board, 17 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: across the country is showing spikes in women trying to 18 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 1: donate their eggs, right, And these are stories ranging from 19 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: Wall Street Journal, CNN, Slate. I mean it's it's kind 20 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: of running the gamut of news outlets. But Molly, I 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: have to wonder, um, donating your eggs, that seems like 22 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: a complicated process that it doesn't seem like you know, 23 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: sperm bank you can walk in, walk out sixty. Yeah, 24 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: although we gotta say, you know, sperm banks are a 25 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: little little more complicated than that. But still eggs. I 26 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: mean you have to you have to get them from 27 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: inside your body and extract them. I know, reading up 28 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: on the process, it almost sounds like it would be 29 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: a part time job. Yeah. I mean, the pay would 30 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: be equivalent to a part time job, but so is 31 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: the process. So I think, Kristen, why don't we go 32 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: over that process? Okay, first, before you can even just 33 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: get your money, you've got to be approved. And there's 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: pretty strict criteria for this. Yeah, you've got to be 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: at least one years old and uh in your early 36 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: thirties at the most. By the time your thirty five, 37 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna get probably cut from any list. Um, they'd 38 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: like you to have advanced education, high SAT scores will help. 39 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: You need to be the healthy weight of course, no drugs, 40 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: no smoking. Some agencies won't allow you to donate if 41 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: you've had a tattoo recently or anybody piercings. Need to 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: have good family medical history. I mean, you kind of 43 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: need to be be in a really good shape the 44 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: ideal woman. And it's more than just your body and 45 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: your brain. You've got to have very stable psychological levels. 46 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: They've got to be able to tell that you know, 47 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: you're not doing this for I don't know, for lack 48 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: of a better word, some weird reason like ten dollars. Actually, 49 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: it seems like women can be pretty upfront about wanting 50 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: the money. I mean, that's not the best reason to 51 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: go in and give them, but I think there are 52 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: women who go in straight up. They're like, give me 53 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: some money, show me the money, right right. There was 54 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: a survey done um among I think it was eighty 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: egg donors that was published in the December two thousand 56 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: eight issue of the Journal Fertility and Sterility, and um 57 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: I think it was. The women said that they did 58 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: it just purely for altruistic reasons. They don't, you know, 59 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: give me the money if you will, but but I 60 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: just want to do good. Yeah, well that's what Every 61 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: study that I read seems to show us that primarily 62 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: women do this first some altruistic I want to help 63 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: another family have a baby sort of reason. But we 64 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: can't separate the fact that there's money attached, right, Molly. 65 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: The money aspect of egg donation, which we'll get to later, 66 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: is uh one of the controversial aspects of the whole process. 67 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: But it's not like walking into a fertility clinic, is 68 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: you know, like going to an a t M. Because 69 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: about nine of the women who sign up to be 70 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: egg donors are going to be cut before a single 71 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: egg is harvested. Okay, So all these men who want 72 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: to get the money, they may not get to it. 73 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: They might go through that initial testing you know, normal 74 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: b M, I know, smoking, et cetera. It they probably 75 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: won't make it to that final round. It's like a 76 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: reality sharing kind of is okay. So the ones who 77 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: make it through, um, they are in for a world 78 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 1: of paperwork. First. Yes, there's a lot of legal ramifications 79 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: you've got to establish before you can give away your eggs, 80 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: including the establishment of parental rights. There's going to be 81 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: a contract that basically lays out the confidentiality clauses. Um. 82 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: You know the fact that you're giving away all your 83 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: rights to the eggs embryos. If you're the donor, they're 84 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: gonna belong to this family that you're going to be 85 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: matched with. Uh, they're gonna their names are gonna be 86 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: on the birth certificate, and you probably are never going 87 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: to see them again. Right. Essentially, you know, you can't 88 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: if the person has a child from your egg, you 89 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: can't go down the road claim that that child is 90 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: is legally yours. And that same contract that you're talking about, Molly, 91 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: should also lay out, um, the recipient's financial responsibility. I mean, 92 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: this is a costly process and a lot of times 93 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: it's the recipients, not the donors who are gonna be 94 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: paying for this series of meta who exams and medication 95 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: and all of that that um that's involved. Now, this 96 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: is where it starts to get really time consuming and 97 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 1: kind of ikey for me, Kristen, But I'm just scared 98 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: of shots, so that just might be me. Yeah, it's 99 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 1: pretty it's pretty intensive. Um. Once once a donor and 100 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: recipient are matched up, the main thing that they have 101 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: to do in order for this to work is sync 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 1: up their periods. Yeah, get on the same menstrual cycle. 103 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: So what does that mean, Molly, what's our favorite word hormones. Yeah, 104 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 1: so you have just kind of they've got to tinker 105 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: with their hormone levels to not only sync up their 106 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: menstrual cycle with the recipient, but also get prep their 107 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: egg follicles to release multiple eggs instead of the usual 108 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: one egg per month. Right. So the first thing you're 109 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: gonna do is inject yourself daily um with gonano trope 110 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: in agonists, which are the things that actually shut down 111 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: your natural hormones. And this takes about four weeks. Four 112 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: weeks of injections, and you're also on birth control all 113 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: this time, so that this is kind of bringing your 114 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: cycle to this natural end, getting you ready to sync 115 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: up with this person who will eventually hopefully carry these eggs. Right. 116 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: And the next stage is the ovarian stimulation process, And 117 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: this is when the donor is injecting herself with with 118 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: hormones to stimulate that release of the multiple eggs, right, 119 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: because normally just do one a month. Right. And so 120 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: during this process um, the donor undergoes frequent blood tests 121 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: and ultrasounds so that the doctor can monitor the egg 122 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: follicle development. And when those follicles are fully developed, the 123 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: donor then injects herself again with human choreonic gonadotropin or 124 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: hCG helping her eggs separate from the follical walls or retrieval. 125 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: So you're basically prepping your ovaries to kind of do 126 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: more work than they usually do and then release the 127 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: eggs supercharged ovaries. Yeah, lots of shots, lots of pills, 128 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: lots of ultrasounds. But the key thing here, you know, 129 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: it's all these daily injections, but at the very end, 130 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: timing could not be more crucial, Like you can mess 131 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: up this whole process if you don't time all these 132 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: injections and let your doctor know about when you're doing 133 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: what exactly right, because once you do this last hCG injection, 134 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: this is when it's time to retrieve the X. And 135 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: you can't minimize the fact that this is surgery, like 136 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna be under anesthesia, general anesthesia, we should say, 137 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: But they are going to stick a needle through your 138 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: vagina tier ovaries, Yes they are. I mean, you can't 139 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: minimize the fact that there's needles where I don't think 140 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: there should be needles. Oh molly, despite what was despite 141 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: what your you know, your comfort level, maybe with needles 142 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: um and the donation process, which is which is the 143 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: actual process of egg retrieval is very safe. It's just 144 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: an ultrasound guided needle that, like you said, injects through 145 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: the vaginal wall, retrieves the eggs, and then we have 146 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: what thirty four to thirty six hours after that injection 147 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: to get that done right, and then very quickly after that, 148 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: they're going to be combining the harvested eggs with sperm um. 149 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: You may use a sperm donor you may use the 150 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:17,679 Speaker 1: recipient male family members, sperm, husband, partner, and then um, 151 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: they're gonna incubate that and then place that in the 152 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: recipients uterus and that's IBF in vitro fertilization. Yeah, so 153 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: simple enough, I guess. So it's kind of very painful 154 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: for some women. I've read the actual surgery to remove 155 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: the X right and there. No, this is not a 156 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: risk free process. Um, all of these hormones that you're injecting, 157 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: this process that that your body is having to undergo, 158 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 1: which can you know, you can really strain your ovaries 159 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: and actually cause something called ovarian hypersimulation syndrome. That's in 160 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: a pretty small percentage of people, but it's a risk. Nonetheless, 161 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: and along with that you may experience hot flashes, mood swings, 162 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 1: and breasts tenderness. Yeah. And I have to say, when 163 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: I was reading the article that talks about this o 164 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: h s S o varian hyper stimulation syndrome, that's scared 165 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 1: me to death. And our article on the site says 166 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: one percent chance of developing it. Looking at a site 167 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: done by the National Institute of Health, and they said 168 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: it's more like ten. And you know what happens if 169 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: you have serious signs of this, tell me you gain 170 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: weight at a rate of two pounds a day. Wow. Yeah, 171 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: it's pretty intense stuff. I mean, I don't I know, 172 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not trying to go either way on this. 173 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: I know it's a very sensitive issue, but it's there 174 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: are very real risk and that's I think the reason 175 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 1: that people are very worried that these young women might 176 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 1: be doing this strictly for money, because it is uh 177 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: can be a major strain on your body. And um, 178 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: like we said earlier, most women are compensated between you know, 179 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: five seven thousand dollars, and the American Society of Reproductive 180 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: Medicine recommends compensating no more than five thousand dollars because, 181 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: like you said, they think that beyond that, women might 182 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,719 Speaker 1: just want to donate for the money and not take 183 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: into account any you know, physical risks involved, right, especially 184 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: because since this is a fairly new procedure, there are 185 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: really no long term studies of how this might affect 186 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: future fertility. UM. Being on this many fertility drugs for 187 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: such an intense period of time, it could be linked 188 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: with some cancers. They're still trying to investigate that um, 189 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: but you're right, anything over five thousand dollars, The American 190 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: Society of Reproductive Medicine says it could be the coercion. Basically, 191 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: you're basically getting a young woman to give you eggs 192 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: under financial gain. Right. And it's when I was reading 193 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: these different articles online, the thing that struck me the 194 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: most wasn't necessarily what was in the articles, but the 195 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: comments attached to them. People most of the people were 196 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: just outraged that women were being paid ten thousand dollars 197 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: for their to harvest their eggs, and they just thought 198 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: it was morally and ethically just disgusting. Right is they 199 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: find it morally ethical ethically disgusting because of the money 200 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: attached to or the process in general, it seemed like 201 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: it was more of the money factor. But my I 202 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: went back and did a little research. Um, and the 203 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: first test tube baby was born in London in night 204 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: and there were similar reactions to that. People were horrified 205 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: that you know, you could you know, quote unquote create 206 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: life if you will um in a tube. And so 207 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: it's set off this firestorm of ethical debates about you know, 208 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: what are the limits of reproductive technology? Where is this going? 209 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 1: And I think that this is just part of it. Well, 210 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 1: it's interesting you bring up London, Kristen, because I know 211 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: that in Britain and in Canada, among just a few 212 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: of the countries, you don't get any compensation for donating 213 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: your eggs. It's an entirely voluntary process. Yeah, and in 214 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: two thousand seven, the state of Maryland introduced the bill 215 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: to ban compensation for egg donation. But I will say, 216 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: you know, sperm donors at least get something. Yeah, you're 217 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: like sixty bucks. So are we saying that the mail 218 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: the mail part is more valuable than the female part 219 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: of the whole equation. Well, maybe sperm donation is not 220 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: as controversial because, first of all, Um, the first sperm 221 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: bank was founded in nineteen fifty three, so it's been 222 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: around a lot longer. And as those those people know, 223 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: you do not have to go inside of the mail 224 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: to retrieve something. You don't have to He doesn't have 225 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: to undergo any special medication. Really, when a guy goes 226 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: to a sperm bank and he's approved, all that he 227 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: has to refrain from is um ejaculating for a few 228 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: days and that's about it. Nothing like six to eight 229 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: weeks of Pokemon product. Yeah, no, no shots, none of that. 230 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: But you know what's interesting to me is, even though 231 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: this seems like something that is just a little too 232 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: up close and personal for me and my eggs. Uh, 233 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 1: women who do it, According to the American Society of 234 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: Reproductive Medicine, a d of them in a survey that 235 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: was done by that group reported they would donate again. 236 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: They liked the process, they would do it again. And 237 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: those said if they had to do it again, they 238 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: would forego compensation. Right. Well, you know, if you're thinking 239 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 1: about donating eggs, I think the most important thing is 240 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: to know what's involved. You see five thousand, ten thousand 241 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: dollars in a newspaper ad. There's a lot that goes 242 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: into earning that money. It is not just to walk 243 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: in walk out process. So if you'd like to learn 244 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: more about the egg donation process and everything that goes 245 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: into it, you can read how egg donation works on 246 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: how stuff works dot com. And if you'd like to 247 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: send me or Molly a question, comment or suggestion, you 248 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: can email us at mom stuff at how stuff works 249 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 1: dot com for moralness and thousands of other topics doesn't. 250 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: How stuff works dot com brought to you by the 251 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. It's ready, are you