1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: with on our radio. This is Almost Famous Podcast. 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: Today we have one of the people she doesn't know 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: this yet, but one of the people that my wife 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: and I have admired from Afar Sidney. 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. 7 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 3: Nice, thank you. I appreciate that. That's so nice. 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: So we really if my wife was here, she would 9 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: attest to this. Like a week and a half ago, we 10 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: were talking about people from the show who have recently 11 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: had little children. Yes, because we were getting prepped to 12 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 2: it our child, and your name popped up and we 13 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: were looking at everything that you've just done with life 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: over the last few years and it's been awesome. And 15 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: so for those who just as a reminder, what season 16 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: of the show were you on? 17 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was on season twenty four. 18 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: Okay four years after me, which was who is the Bachelor. 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: Pilot Peter Webber pilot almost last name, And now you 20 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 3: were married to your husband, yes, and you recently just 21 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 3: had a baby. We did, Yes, we did. Then the 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 3: best thing that's ever happened to us, of course, so yeah, 23 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 3: so yeah, so ever since the Bachelor, things kind of 24 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: like happened really fast for us, like I met Fred 25 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 3: from the Bachelor. His family watched the show, and long 26 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 3: story short, we started dating after when I was in LA. 27 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 3: We met, we started dating look with the purpose. After 28 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 3: that we both knew we wanted to take things seriously. 29 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 3: Then we dated for about two years, got engaged for 30 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: nine months, married a year and a half later. We 31 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: have a beautiful baby boy. 32 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: So you were living in LA before you went on. 33 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 3: The show, wasn't living I just went there to do 34 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 3: some work stuff, stayed out there for a few weeks 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 3: and Fred, my husband, was there doing some off season 36 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 3: training and so cal So I didn't know anything really 37 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: to do out there. He was out there and we 38 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 3: were just like, let's you know, let's meet for dinner. 39 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 3: And we did and it was just yeah crazy the moment, 40 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: Like every single moment after that, we knew like we 41 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 3: wanted to be in each other's lives. 42 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 2: So, yeah, am I wrong in saying this and yell 43 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: at me if I am? Okay, without the show, you 44 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: would have met your husband. 45 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 3: No, one undred percent. 46 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,399 Speaker 1: Now I also like elaborate. 47 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, so his family watched the show, so he The 48 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 3: way that they, his family and him explained it to 49 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: me is that they're watching the show, and afterward they 50 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 3: would text spread and be like, there's this girl on 51 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 3: the Bachelor this year. You need to like find her. 52 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: If she doesn't win, you need to go and like 53 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 3: find her, reach out to her, like she's your type, 54 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: she's you know, da da da dah. We just think 55 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 3: like this, you need to find this girl. And he 56 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 3: was like, what are you guys talking about this random person? 57 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: Just like, you guys are being nuts. And at that time, 58 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 3: he was actually playing in the Super Bowl against the Chiefs. 59 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: I forget what year it was, but he they lost 60 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 3: the game, and then he was like, there was like 61 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 3: a week between when they lost the super Bowl, and 62 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 3: I remember because I was in a Mexican restaurant watching 63 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: the super Bowl. And now I'm like, that's so funny. 64 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 3: I'm like I was watching my husband and I didn't 65 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 3: even know it. Yeah. So then weeks later he DMS 66 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 3: me after after I got off the show, And if 67 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 3: you've ever been on the show, you know, when you 68 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 3: get right off your DMS and your social media and 69 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 3: your phone is just going nuts and you're like, how 70 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 3: do I even handle all of this? But I would 71 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 3: just kind of sift through at night and like look 72 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 3: and see who's messaging me and stuff, and his cam 73 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: up on my phone and I was like, who is this? 74 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 3: So I like go to his page and I was like, 75 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 3: who is this person? I didn't even know what the 76 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 3: forty nine ers were, which is really funny because I'm 77 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 3: from Alabama, so all we know is just college football, 78 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 3: so I had no idea about NFL anything. So anyways, 79 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 3: found him, left it on red for a while. Then 80 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 3: I ended up messaging him back and just yeah, and 81 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 3: that's how it's hurted. Yeah, it's crazy. 82 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: But how many years you said? 83 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: Now it's almost five. 84 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: Five years of marriage? 85 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, of knowing each other. 86 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: Not married. 87 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then how long a marriage for two and 88 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: a half with a little baby. Oh yes, So now 89 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: obviously life for you right now is amazing. You have 90 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: a little baby and your married. 91 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 92 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 2: Let's go back to kind of that season of the 93 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: BATCHL like, why would you go on it? This like 94 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: you're from Alabama, this random reality show? 95 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: You say yes to it? Why did you do that? 96 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 2: So? 97 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,679 Speaker 3: I did it because I was young, I was single, 98 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 3: I had no responsibilities, nothing tying me down. And I 99 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 3: was like, well, I mean I've always been a relationship 100 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 3: type of girl. I've always been in a relationship, wanted 101 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: to be in a relationship, so I always dated really 102 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 3: seriously just never worked out. So I was like, well, 103 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: why not take this to like the next level and 104 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 3: like really put myself in a position to where I've 105 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 3: only you know, one goal is to really get to 106 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: know this person, know if I want to be with them, 107 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: and then you know, if it's reciprocated, then you know, 108 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 3: there you go. You found your husband. So that was 109 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 3: the goal. So that's why I went on. And it 110 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: was obviously crazy way. It is a crazy way to 111 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 3: find love, but sometimes it does work, which is amazing 112 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 3: work for me in that formula, but I feel like 113 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 3: it worked out, you know, in a completely different way. 114 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 3: I did find my husband, so. 115 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Same with me. 116 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 2: I mean, that's really kind of like my story, right, 117 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: it didn't work out for me like I wanted to totally. 118 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 2: But then my wife, I think responds to my direct 119 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: message because I had a blue check mark. 120 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: And it popped up to the top. 121 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 3: Good. I think that's a plus, right, And I. 122 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: Had a background check because I was the bachelor, and that's. 123 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: When you said that because SPREAD had a blue check 124 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 3: mark at the time too. So yeah, those automatically you're like, 125 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 3: look a little deeper into those, like, oh that's you know, 126 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: let me get check this one out. So yeah, well good, 127 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:37,799 Speaker 3: that's good. 128 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: Very similar stories, so funny. 129 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, now I need some advice from you. 130 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So you are a new mother. 131 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:00,119 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm sure it's been a fire hose of just 132 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: learning and just emotion. Yes, if you were to speak 133 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 2: to any new parents out there about what it's like 134 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: to have a newborn. 135 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, what would you say? 136 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: So I say this often, and this just this month, 137 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: which he'll be five months, he's five months this month. 138 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: I just got a rhythm. We just got a rhythm, 139 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,119 Speaker 3: especially me, Like I'm his mother, I'm with him ninety 140 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 3: nine percent of the time, so I feel like I 141 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 3: have gotten my rhythm before that. There is no rhyme, rhythm. 142 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: There's nothing that you can do that's gonna make things 143 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: make sense. My big thing is when they're newborns, technically, 144 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 3: like that first month and a half, I just let him, 145 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 3: Like the sleeping is like the biggest thing, you know, 146 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 3: like these new sleep schedules and sleep cues and da 147 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 3: da da da da. And I only started honing into 148 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,799 Speaker 3: that until like three months, and I feel like that's 149 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 3: why I'm able to do things like this now and 150 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 3: go out and be normal because I was a stickler 151 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 3: from that three month to five month. He sleeps seven 152 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 3: am to seven pm or seven pm to seven am. Now, 153 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 3: this morning, I had to wake them up at eight 154 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 3: thirty because I'm like, okay, little guy, like we got 155 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 3: to get up. But all I can say is before 156 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 3: that those two months, you can't put any pressure on 157 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 3: yourself to like make a schedule. He needs to sleep 158 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 3: this time. He just let them be, you know, in 159 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 3: that newborn stage, because all they want to do is 160 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: sleep and eat, sleep and eat, and to be with 161 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 3: mama and touch and smell you and your wife, like 162 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 3: that's the most important thing. And don't get caught up 163 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: in the schedule because it's easy too now with social 164 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 3: media and Instagram and all you see is like sleep 165 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 3: schedule and my baby's doing this and beta da let 166 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 3: that go. Tell her to just relax, work on her postpartum. 167 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 3: I was had the craziest postpartum experience. The emotions hit 168 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 3: you like you like a like a truck that I 169 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 3: never experienced that before. 170 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? 171 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 3: Just the emotions that you feel after your home. When 172 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 3: you're in the hospital, it'll be the best days of 173 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 3: your life. It'll just be like you're living on cloud nine. 174 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: Then you get home, you're still riding that beautiful wave, 175 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 3: and then something in this chemical makeup of the woman 176 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 3: everything comes crashing down. I cried for two weeks, three 177 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 3: times a day for no reason. My husband would just 178 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 3: look at me and just be like, what can I do? 179 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 3: And I'm like maybe, like honestly nothing, like I don't 180 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 3: know why I'm like this, and you just have to 181 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: get through that. And he's like, well, if we need 182 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 3: to talk to someone, like let me know. I'm like, 183 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 3: I'm just good. I'm just gonna ride this out. But 184 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 3: that's something I didn't expect. So that's something you should 185 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 3: be you know, does you know watch your love on 186 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 3: her a little more. She's gonna be going through a lot. 187 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 3: Just the emotions of having that baby in those postpartum 188 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 3: hormones going up and down is something that I just 189 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 3: did not I was not prepared for. So yeah, it's 190 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 3: a wild ride. It's a wild right. 191 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 2: What did your husband do that really felt good to you? 192 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 2: Like it felt like he. 193 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 3: Was doing it so he would help a lot with 194 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 3: nighttime feedings. So at the time I was pumping and breastfeeding, 195 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 3: so you know, but you also have to sleep in 196 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 3: between that, and there's not much time to do that 197 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 3: at all. So he would I would pump before I 198 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 3: went to bed so that I knew I had two 199 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 3: bottles for him, and he would do two of the 200 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 3: nighttime wake time so that I could get those three 201 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 3: hours of sleep, and then the last two wake times 202 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 3: I would do and then we would just be up 203 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 3: for our day at six am. So he would take 204 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 3: the majority of all of the night shift, which was 205 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 3: just like incredible for the mama, especially if you're pumping 206 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,199 Speaker 3: and breastfeeding, because you have to wake you have to 207 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 3: wake up to pump to be if she wants to breastfeed, 208 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: and if she if she's not breastfeeding, I would say, 209 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 3: just put like a formula like baby bottle thing in 210 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 3: your room so that you can just roll over and 211 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 3: give him a bottle. Just make everything in your room, 212 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: your guys room. Make it like a sanctuary. That's okay, yeah, yeah. 213 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: My co host here, Ashley, Yeah, she does that, yes, 214 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: and she just learned it for her second not with 215 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: her first, but her second. 216 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: She's now learning. She told me yep, to make her bedroom. 217 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 3: For like, yeah, like you don't have to leave, like 218 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 3: we I have a mini fridge in there. I just 219 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: took it out the other day with you know, if 220 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 3: you're doing formula like a baby Breza, if she's going 221 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 3: to do formula, definitely put the baby Breza on your 222 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: registry because it's incredible. It's what it we use now. 223 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, she's pumping, have all the pumps just right 224 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: near her so that she doesn't have to do anything 225 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 3: but feed that baby whichever way she's going to do 226 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 3: it and put him back or her back in the basinette. 227 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: Good advice. Yeah, I'm trying to learn. It's a lot now. 228 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 2: Obviously your husband does play in the NFL. Yes, your 229 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 2: baby is five months old. The season is coming right 230 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 2: upon us. Will you to go to most games? And 231 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: my follow up question that will would be will he 232 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 2: recognize his father on the field? 233 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: So he definitely recognizes our faces now and our voices 234 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 3: when we come into a room, he lights up. He 235 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 3: knows who we are. But it's funny you say that 236 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 3: because last night we had our first preseason game at 237 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 3: Levi's and I took him and it was definitely a 238 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 3: learning experience because I was like, what am I going 239 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 3: to do all season? So this was kind of just 240 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 3: the first time doing it, and it was an interesting night. 241 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: I left before halftime, got him home just in time 242 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 3: for bath, bedtime routine, and he was just he was 243 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 3: not a happy camper. Was just too much on him. 244 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 3: It was very loud, there's thousands of people. When you're 245 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 3: used to being at home with music, I don't do 246 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 3: screen time, so he was very like over stimulated. So 247 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 3: we've got to work on that. But my plan is 248 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 3: just to take him to most day games for the 249 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: home games, and then night games. He's gonna have to 250 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 3: be with a babysitter because I just don't want to 251 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 3: put him through that. It's too much. 252 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 1: She's too little, you'll be gone. 253 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 3: I will try to go to most home games one 254 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 3: hundred percent, depending on a babysitter slash grandma's schedule. So 255 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: we'll see. 256 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: That's awesome. Well, thanks for coming tonight. It means a 257 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: lot to us. You've just been It's like so cool. 258 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 2: As I said, we just checked up on you the 259 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 2: other day and like you're just it's so awesome to 260 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: see us a mom, thank you, to see you out 261 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 2: they're doing your thing, and to see you tonight just 262 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 2: hanging out with all of us. 263 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 3: Appreciated. 264 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: Thanks for coming. 265 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 266 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 267 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.