1
00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:05,640
Speaker 1: Hi.

2
00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,360
Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

3
00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,200
Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

4
00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:19,480
Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

5
00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,040
Speaker 2: a sibling. Railvalry.

6
00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:31,960
Speaker 4: No, no, sibling, you don't do that with your mouth, revelry.

7
00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:41,559
Speaker 2: That's good. So I'm alone in my house. Kids are

8
00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:46,519
Speaker 2: gone to school. My wife is at Target. She loves Target.

9
00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,720
Speaker 2: I mean she really loves Target, like really loves it.

10
00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,120
Speaker 2: She seems to be at Target more than she's at

11
00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,400
Speaker 2: our house. So anytime I see her getting ready and

12
00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,240
Speaker 2: putting her sunglasses on and you know, getting her purse,

13
00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:06,200
Speaker 2: I'm like Target, and she's like, yeah, Target. I think

14
00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,119
Speaker 2: it's just a one stop shop for her. She can

15
00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:13,319
Speaker 2: literally get groceries and a dress for going out, all

16
00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,839
Speaker 2: on the same stop. But here's what I love about

17
00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:21,160
Speaker 2: my wife. She looks amazing. Number one, she's beautiful, she's

18
00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:25,280
Speaker 2: fifty one, still so sexy. She's just an amazing human being.

19
00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,160
Speaker 2: Number one. But she's so frugal in the best way.

20
00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,160
Speaker 2: And this is why this is part of the reason

21
00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,000
Speaker 2: I love her. She will go to Target and find

22
00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,720
Speaker 2: a dress and then she'll tailor it so the dress

23
00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,720
Speaker 2: will be like thirteen ninety nine, and then she'll tailor it,

24
00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,600
Speaker 2: and then we'll go out to some sort of an

25
00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,800
Speaker 2: event and everyone's like, oh my god, what is that dress?

26
00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,600
Speaker 2: You look amazing? And it's always target like that's her thing.

27
00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:52,520
Speaker 2: So she does very well there. Right now, my kid

28
00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:54,960
Speaker 2: is going on a trip, sort of a camping trip

29
00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,360
Speaker 2: with the school, and she is there sort of getting

30
00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,440
Speaker 2: mini things like me, need toothpaste, many soaps, many this.

31
00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,680
Speaker 2: So ill had to say, I'm alone in my house

32
00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:12,680
Speaker 2: and it's always nice. It's always nice. It's quiet. There's

33
00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,600
Speaker 2: not a thousand kids running around screaming at you, asking

34
00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,040
Speaker 2: you for things, making fun of you, dissing you, telling

35
00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,959
Speaker 2: you that you're not good enough. My oldest telling is saying,

36
00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,680
Speaker 2: oh I could beat you up. I'm like, dude, you

37
00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,679
Speaker 2: can't beat me up. Well try try, let's go. I'm like,

38
00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm not going to go. I'm not going to kick

39
00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,440
Speaker 2: your ass right now. I'm your father. You know you

40
00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:39,040
Speaker 2: don't have any So I'm alone and it's nice. It's beautiful. Today.

41
00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,440
Speaker 2: I got a guest today, I got a guest who

42
00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:47,400
Speaker 2: I've known for a minute. You know, I think we

43
00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:52,520
Speaker 2: met in Colorado. She came up to me because I

44
00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:57,600
Speaker 2: think I was looking particularly handsome that day. The Hudson

45
00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:02,240
Speaker 2: Express was like full steam, probably wearing some kind of

46
00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,360
Speaker 2: like a dope cowboy hat, maybe some kind of a

47
00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:08,800
Speaker 2: ranch shirt. Where I was walking this line of like

48
00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,520
Speaker 2: sophisticated cowboy, you know, where it was like, wow, he

49
00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,360
Speaker 2: looks polished, but still rough around the edges, you know.

50
00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,280
Speaker 2: I think I hit exactly what I was going for.

51
00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,960
Speaker 2: And I didn't have any spurs on or anything like that.

52
00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,720
Speaker 2: But I walked into this place called Kimasabi, and I

53
00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,560
Speaker 2: think I think I made an impression on this guest.

54
00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:33,680
Speaker 2: And her name is Teddy Mellencamp and she's she's John's daughter.

55
00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,880
Speaker 2: She's a real housewife. She's but she's more than that,

56
00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Lots to talk about, and

57
00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,520
Speaker 2: let's uh, let's bring her on. Let's bring her on.

58
00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:50,160
Speaker 2: I hope hopefully she praises me and talks about how

59
00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,360
Speaker 2: cool I am and how handsome I am, because yeah,

60
00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,920
Speaker 2: I need that, I need it. I need the ego

61
00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,200
Speaker 2: to be pumped a little bit. Anyway, Let's bring Teddy

62
00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,120
Speaker 2: on and if she does and tell me how handsome

63
00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,640
Speaker 2: I am. Within the first five minutes, she's gone, we're

64
00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:05,480
Speaker 2: clicking her off.

65
00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh so you're going to click me off?

66
00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,720
Speaker 2: Oh shit, she's been listening to this.

67
00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,480
Speaker 3: Well, so it is now a good time or is

68
00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,440
Speaker 3: it going to make it awkward to tell you that

69
00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,920
Speaker 3: back in the day, not anymore. Sorry, no offense. The

70
00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,680
Speaker 3: liar that you were my hall pass?

71
00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,200
Speaker 2: Really yeah?

72
00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,000
Speaker 3: Wow, So that's why I came up to you and

73
00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,640
Speaker 3: asked him because my husband was like, your hall pass

74
00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,440
Speaker 3: is here now it's gotten too real.

75
00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,480
Speaker 2: So it had to be so wait a minute, wait

76
00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,960
Speaker 2: a minute, but why did this have to change? What happened?

77
00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,160
Speaker 2: I mean, did I get older? I mean I've done

78
00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,400
Speaker 2: I've done a little botox and filler to try to

79
00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:46,560
Speaker 2: keep keep up.

80
00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,360
Speaker 3: You know, facial hair was a problem for me.

81
00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:51,719
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

82
00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:57,000
Speaker 3: Facial I know, I just I can't it's just it's gone.

83
00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,520
Speaker 3: I'm trying to remember the movie that you were in

84
00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,200
Speaker 3: that what we were all the most You played a douchebag.

85
00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,960
Speaker 3: It was like in the nineties, and like you were

86
00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:08,040
Speaker 3: like sleek, like.

87
00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,360
Speaker 5: That was that was our Oh so you like so

88
00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:17,080
Speaker 5: that's your style of man, more sort of refined, buttoned up,

89
00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,280
Speaker 5: kind of shaven.

90
00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:21,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, really.

91
00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like when my husband gets all like wooly mammoth,

92
00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:27,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, we need to reel it in.

93
00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:32,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So, so like Brazilian wax, I'm fine.

94
00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,760
Speaker 3: With a manscaping. I would appreciate a manscaping, especially if

95
00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,120
Speaker 3: you want like all the things like that, all.

96
00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,440
Speaker 2: The things things need to be Yes, but what about

97
00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,240
Speaker 2: a Brazilian wax? What about full on Brazilian which, by

98
00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,720
Speaker 2: the way, I've done three times.

99
00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,080
Speaker 3: Well, do you do bleaching?

100
00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,520
Speaker 2: No? No, I think that takes it too far.

101
00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:52,360
Speaker 3: That's too far.

102
00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,320
Speaker 2: Well I imagine if I bleached my asshole. I mean,

103
00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,600
Speaker 2: I'm down to do a lot of crazy things, but

104
00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,800
Speaker 2: that sounds a little nuts, you know. I mean. But

105
00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:05,600
Speaker 2: I I was with my wife and she was getting

106
00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,280
Speaker 2: she was I was out running ears with her and

107
00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,960
Speaker 2: she was getting you know, waxed, and I went with her.

108
00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,080
Speaker 2: And it was this like seventy eight year old Italian

109
00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,800
Speaker 2: woman who barely spoke English who did her waxing, and

110
00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,520
Speaker 2: she was just so hysterical and amazing, and Aaron's like,

111
00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,080
Speaker 2: you do it. I'm like, all right, let's go.

112
00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,400
Speaker 3: I really did do it?

113
00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,400
Speaker 2: Oh I did it? Yeah? I pictures and video of

114
00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,279
Speaker 2: it because it was hysterical. She I was like, should

115
00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,080
Speaker 2: I get maybe a hand towel to put over myself?

116
00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,920
Speaker 2: She's like, nah, he's the guy. It's okay, And.

117
00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,120
Speaker 3: Like, I want manscape, but I don't want I don't

118
00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,120
Speaker 3: want to see it happening. I don't want to know

119
00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:37,599
Speaker 3: when it.

120
00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,040
Speaker 2: Be funny, when it be endearing in some kind of

121
00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,240
Speaker 2: a way, to watch your man sort of go through

122
00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:43,200
Speaker 2: this pain.

123
00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,760
Speaker 3: Yes, because I think it is an incredibly painful thing

124
00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:47,720
Speaker 3: that we're forced to do.

125
00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,760
Speaker 2: Yes, but you know what the best part of this

126
00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,120
Speaker 2: was well, along with all of sort of the added

127
00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,279
Speaker 2: treats that come along with being completely smooth, you know,

128
00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,400
Speaker 2: which definitely is nice, right Entice. I liked it. It

129
00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,920
Speaker 2: was great. It felt good. The grow back was okay,

130
00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:10,200
Speaker 2: but no, no, everything was good. The best part of it, though,

131
00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,680
Speaker 2: was she took a liking to me. And the next

132
00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,480
Speaker 2: time Aaron went, she comes back home with a full

133
00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,480
Speaker 2: tray of lasagna that she had made me. She goes,

134
00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,880
Speaker 2: she she went to go get wax. Aaron's like, she

135
00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,480
Speaker 2: brought a huge plate tray of lasagna for you because

136
00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,040
Speaker 2: you told her that you love Lazania.

137
00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:33,720
Speaker 3: So she so, yeah, I need to keep going to her.

138
00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:38,000
Speaker 2: I know, so I got you know, a smooth ass

139
00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,880
Speaker 2: hole and everything else and Anne Lasagna. So it's that's

140
00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,240
Speaker 2: hard to beat, you know what.

141
00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,160
Speaker 3: That's that's more than most people will do.

142
00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:53,040
Speaker 2: Well, next time I see you, I will be extremely

143
00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,120
Speaker 2: clean shaven. I'll have my hair slick back. I'll look

144
00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:57,800
Speaker 2: like Gordon Gecko or something.

145
00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I mean, that's that's more of what.

146
00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,240
Speaker 3: And then maybe you could come back into the rotation

147
00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,360
Speaker 3: of Hall Pass. But you got you got movie.

148
00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:10,280
Speaker 2: There's someone new there who can you say? You can say?

149
00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know that I can really say,

150
00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,600
Speaker 3: because like I don't want to make him feel like

151
00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:19,160
Speaker 3: he has a chance because he goes his kid goes

152
00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,320
Speaker 3: to my kid's school. Oh, so, like sometimes I'll see

153
00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,240
Speaker 3: him in the job. I didn't tell Edwin and I

154
00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,200
Speaker 3: saw this because I didn't want him to think that

155
00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,200
Speaker 3: there is a not that I have a shot.

156
00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:28,880
Speaker 2: But I see him.

157
00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes in a Yeah, do you think he noticed me

158
00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:32,960
Speaker 3: like looking racheful?

159
00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so funny. But let me ask

160
00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,840
Speaker 2: you a question about the hall Pass situation, because you know,

161
00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,520
Speaker 2: obviously it's always a fun game to play. You know,

162
00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,360
Speaker 2: Aaron has a hall pass, like but a real one,

163
00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,000
Speaker 2: like for real, like if if, if, for whatever reason,

164
00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:56,040
Speaker 2: she had the opportunity to sleep with Brad Pitt, who's sixty, right.

165
00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:57,960
Speaker 3: I love that you pointed that out. How old are you?

166
00:08:59,000 --> 00:08:59,720
Speaker 2: Forty seven?

167
00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,920
Speaker 3: Okay, young forty seven, young.

168
00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,360
Speaker 2: Forty seven without a doubt, especially without facial hair, I

169
00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,240
Speaker 2: look twenty eight. Yeah, but uh and I only say

170
00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,720
Speaker 2: sixty because he's still like hot shit, you know, Brad

171
00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,080
Speaker 2: Pitt is the man I said, if that, if you

172
00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,679
Speaker 2: ever had that chance, I would let you do it,

173
00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,160
Speaker 2: like one hundred percent for real. I'm not kidding. I

174
00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,640
Speaker 2: wouldn't have a jealousy. I wouldn't not at all, Like

175
00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,840
Speaker 2: you go, go go for it. So is the hall

176
00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,600
Speaker 2: pass a real thing or is this just sort of

177
00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,600
Speaker 2: a fun kind of couply thing.

178
00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,760
Speaker 3: Well, I can give you a story. So back when

179
00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,720
Speaker 3: I first started dating my husband, so whatever, fifteen years ago,

180
00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:44,560
Speaker 3: sixteen years ago, the guy origin my original it wasn't

181
00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:48,960
Speaker 3: a hall pass. My original crush was Enrique Iglesias. He's

182
00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,000
Speaker 3: gone as well now too. He's still wearing the same

183
00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,840
Speaker 3: outfits and I can't there's still like the chain and

184
00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,800
Speaker 3: the hat, and I'm like no, you've done. You're out.

185
00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:56,679
Speaker 2: Okay, I got it.

186
00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:01,840
Speaker 3: But we saw him out, and him and Wilmer Valderrama

187
00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,120
Speaker 3: like came to get me from like the vip like

188
00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:06,800
Speaker 3: they were in the VIPR. I was in like the

189
00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,520
Speaker 3: general admission like whatever, and they're like, you want to

190
00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,960
Speaker 3: come back here? And Edwin's like, you can go. You

191
00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,079
Speaker 3: could go because I thought Enrique was hot, and I

192
00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:20,320
Speaker 3: was like, I'm not going. That is psycho behavior. You

193
00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,040
Speaker 3: should have gone. And that night we got home and

194
00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,400
Speaker 3: he's like, you know, if I got the opportunity with

195
00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,520
Speaker 3: Kate Beckhensell, I probably would have taken it. So you

196
00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,200
Speaker 3: just lost your opportunity and now that time has passed.

197
00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:35,000
Speaker 2: Uh okay. So so it.

198
00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,440
Speaker 3: Never happened, And I don't know that I would actually

199
00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,559
Speaker 3: want it to happen. But would you be okay if

200
00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:42,080
Speaker 3: your wife were to accept her.

201
00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,160
Speaker 2: Hall pass with Brad pay Yeah?

202
00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:44,480
Speaker 3: Yeah?

203
00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:45,840
Speaker 2: But would I mean, but.

204
00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,920
Speaker 3: She would she be okay with you?

205
00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:51,920
Speaker 2: No? I don't even know what my hall passed, you know,

206
00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:53,679
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know.

207
00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:54,280
Speaker 3: You know.

208
00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,080
Speaker 2: I think Dua Lipa was my latest. I think she's

209
00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:03,600
Speaker 2: just talented, and you know, I think she's just sexy

210
00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,200
Speaker 2: but no, I mean probably not.

211
00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:10,320
Speaker 3: Probably love the Barbie soundtrack. So you're like, I'm gonna go.

212
00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,520
Speaker 2: I didn't see Barbie. I still haven't seen Barbie. No,

213
00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:18,840
Speaker 2: I know it's bad. It's bad. Well, I like how this.

214
00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,319
Speaker 2: I like how this intro. You know, because we've established

215
00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,160
Speaker 2: a few things in this short period of time that

216
00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,199
Speaker 2: I am no longer your guy except when I was

217
00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,920
Speaker 2: maybe twenty four years old playing a character. You do

218
00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,600
Speaker 2: not like men with beards. You like a manscaped guy.

219
00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:42,000
Speaker 2: I like clean cut, no chest hair, not.

220
00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,080
Speaker 3: Completely bare, but I need it to be trimmed. Like

221
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,920
Speaker 3: if there's a curl, I'm not happy about.

222
00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,319
Speaker 2: It, Okay, And what if what if you if you

223
00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,319
Speaker 2: have kind of a dad bod, you know what I mean?

224
00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:55,640
Speaker 2: Or do you need someone shredded?

225
00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:00,920
Speaker 3: I don't need shredded, but I need somebody that likes

226
00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:01,840
Speaker 3: to do things?

227
00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:02,400
Speaker 2: Got it?

228
00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,880
Speaker 3: So, like whether it's sports or exercising or whatever.

229
00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,040
Speaker 2: What about personality? Is that like eight's down on your list?

230
00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:10,880
Speaker 2: Like what's going on?

231
00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,319
Speaker 3: I mean no, I mean that's still that's still necessary.

232
00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,760
Speaker 3: But I mean I think I like somebody that can

233
00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,280
Speaker 3: make me laugh but also can take a joke, like

234
00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,480
Speaker 3: you can make fun Some people that are funny can't

235
00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:26,160
Speaker 3: can't take it back, and then that grosses me out.

236
00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,360
Speaker 2: Well, anyway, I'm excited to talk to you for a

237
00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,280
Speaker 2: million different reasons. You know, we've known each other for

238
00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,200
Speaker 2: a little bit now. I think we met in Colorado.

239
00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,400
Speaker 2: I had a fun time upstairs at Kimo Sabi having

240
00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,400
Speaker 2: some cocktails where your dad was sort of sitting down

241
00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:42,559
Speaker 2: holding court a bit.

242
00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,680
Speaker 3: My gosh, I forgot I was there with my dad.

243
00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:45,600
Speaker 3: I thought I was there with.

244
00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:59,880
Speaker 1: I feel m h, your pops are yeah, okay, yeah, yeah.

245
00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,560
Speaker 2: So you grew up in Indiana, correct.

246
00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,040
Speaker 3: I was born in Indiana, and then when my parents

247
00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:09,840
Speaker 3: got divorced, I moved to South Carolina. So like, it

248
00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,800
Speaker 3: was very it was very common when you were a

249
00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,960
Speaker 3: Midwesterner that you would have a house or something in

250
00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,040
Speaker 3: Indiana and then you'd go somewhere else in the summer,

251
00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,199
Speaker 3: and that place was holt Ned.

252
00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:19,800
Speaker 2: How old were you.

253
00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:22,880
Speaker 3: Third grade?

254
00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,559
Speaker 2: Third grade? And do you remember it?

255
00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:30,720
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't remember, like a lot of my childhood.

256
00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,439
Speaker 3: I kind of blacked out, Like I feel like I

257
00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,400
Speaker 3: remember pictures or videos that I've seen, but I do remember,

258
00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,960
Speaker 3: and it was definitely something still to this day because

259
00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,040
Speaker 3: they did a remake of this song. But I remember

260
00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,199
Speaker 3: my mom packing up for us to leave while Tracy

261
00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:51,120
Speaker 3: Chapman was playing mmm like the original Fast Car. Like

262
00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,160
Speaker 3: I can still remember that day, like this is the

263
00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,959
Speaker 3: final straw we're going and kind of packing up our

264
00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,080
Speaker 3: home and like I remember that.

265
00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,640
Speaker 2: So that's what was playing when you guys were out,

266
00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:06,040
Speaker 2: you guys were leaving. Yeah, does that song have any

267
00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,040
Speaker 2: triggering effect or is it?

268
00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:14,079
Speaker 3: I mean, I think I cannot even remember them together.

269
00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:18,840
Speaker 3: I don't have one actual and because this past year

270
00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,600
Speaker 3: is the first time they've been together other than my

271
00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:25,160
Speaker 3: sister or my wedding, Like when we did like a

272
00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,200
Speaker 3: drop off type thing, like they saw each other for

273
00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,160
Speaker 3: a second and I made them getting a picture together.

274
00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:33,040
Speaker 3: I was like, guys, like both of them are like,

275
00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:38,720
Speaker 3: but I don't really remember them, Like all my memories

276
00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,680
Speaker 3: of my childhood are separate of the two, Like I'm

277
00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:42,840
Speaker 3: either with him or with her.

278
00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,640
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, And then did you have siblings at the time.

279
00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have one full sibling, she's four years younger

280
00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,200
Speaker 3: than me. Okay, I have one older sister from my

281
00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,200
Speaker 3: dad's first wife, and then I have two little brothers

282
00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:57,880
Speaker 3: from my dad's third wife.

283
00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,320
Speaker 2: Okay, good, like a blended that's kind of what we have.

284
00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:06,320
Speaker 2: You know, did do you think the divorce like fucked

285
00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:06,720
Speaker 2: you up?

286
00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:12,280
Speaker 3: I don't think it was necessarily the divorce that fucked

287
00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,280
Speaker 3: me up. But like one thing that I say to

288
00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:19,040
Speaker 3: this day, like I have a stepdaughter, and one thing

289
00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,120
Speaker 3: I always say to my husband is like, please don't

290
00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:28,120
Speaker 3: ever when you're upset with Bella, don't ever call her

291
00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:31,080
Speaker 3: her mom's name, because both of my parents would do

292
00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,520
Speaker 3: that to me, and it would make me so mad.

293
00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,160
Speaker 3: Like my mom would be like okay, John, or my

294
00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,200
Speaker 3: dad will be like all right, little Vicky, and I

295
00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,320
Speaker 3: was like, fuck you, like you chose this person. I

296
00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,680
Speaker 3: didn't choose them, Like and now you're throwing it in

297
00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,120
Speaker 3: my face as a negative. But they're still my parents

298
00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,320
Speaker 3: and I love you both, so why are you putting

299
00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:55,680
Speaker 3: me in the situation? So those kind of things affected me.

300
00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,160
Speaker 3: And you know, essentially, if I didn't have a sport

301
00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:00,880
Speaker 3: or something that I really cared about, I think I

302
00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,440
Speaker 3: probably would have been slightly more fucked up.

303
00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,480
Speaker 2: Right right right right, No, I know, because you just

304
00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,720
Speaker 2: never know how it's going to catch you, you know.

305
00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,040
Speaker 2: I mean when you're that young in third grade, you know,

306
00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,880
Speaker 2: you're loocid enough, you're clear enough to sort of maybe

307
00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,960
Speaker 2: understand what's going on, but you don't quite understand or

308
00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:22,040
Speaker 2: can process how that might affect you in your life

309
00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,280
Speaker 2: as far as what you become, your decisions and your relationships,

310
00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:29,760
Speaker 2: whatever insecurities you might have self esteem issues, and then

311
00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,920
Speaker 2: they kind of rear their heads. And I'm only speaking

312
00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,400
Speaker 2: just from experience, you know, because I'm sort of a

313
00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,400
Speaker 2: product of divorce. And at the time you're like, oh,

314
00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,560
Speaker 2: things are fine, Like everything's fine. But as you sort

315
00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:44,000
Speaker 2: of move further along in your life and you come

316
00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,600
Speaker 2: upon these obstacles and these roadblocks where you're like, holy shit,

317
00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,080
Speaker 2: why am I feeling this way? Or why can't I

318
00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,640
Speaker 2: feel that way? And then you come to realize, oh, well,

319
00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:58,000
Speaker 2: you know there's been issues that have been gone unresolved,

320
00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,360
Speaker 2: you know, that need to be resolved, and I think there.

321
00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,120
Speaker 3: Is something about it, and correct me if I'm wrong.

322
00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,320
Speaker 3: When it comes to your experience, but when you do

323
00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,720
Speaker 3: rotate between you know, different parents, is like this sense

324
00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:12,560
Speaker 3: of needing approval from both people and like appeasing the

325
00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,640
Speaker 3: parent that might be upset or wanting to be all

326
00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,600
Speaker 3: the things so that you make that parent extra happy,

327
00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,879
Speaker 3: Like I still catch myself I'm forty two now doing that,

328
00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:26,440
Speaker 3: like when it like hey Teddy, are you coming for Thanksgiving?

329
00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,240
Speaker 3: Or Chris, you know whatever it may be in that

330
00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,439
Speaker 3: like panic, But what about mom? What about dad? What

331
00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:33,680
Speaker 3: about Like how am I going to manage this still

332
00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,679
Speaker 3: as an adult? And also be like I have my

333
00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,480
Speaker 3: own life too, Like you're welcome to come to me.

334
00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah right exactly, I.

335
00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,600
Speaker 3: Actually can house us all, like let's go come.

336
00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:49,080
Speaker 2: On, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I know. And where

337
00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,040
Speaker 2: was your dad? Was he like in this the payday

338
00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,560
Speaker 2: of his career, like when all this shit was going down,

339
00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,280
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like how did you deal

340
00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:01,159
Speaker 2: with him on being on the road and you know,

341
00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:05,000
Speaker 2: needing a father figure? Was he as present as he

342
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:09,440
Speaker 2: as he wishes he was? You know? Because that shit

343
00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,200
Speaker 2: is real. You have to make a living. You got

344
00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,879
Speaker 2: to go do your thing, it's your passion. You go

345
00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:15,679
Speaker 2: play music, you go make a ton of money. But

346
00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,800
Speaker 2: you also have your children. So how did that work

347
00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:18,280
Speaker 2: out for you?

348
00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,200
Speaker 3: My parents met My dad had married his high school sweetheart.

349
00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:26,439
Speaker 3: He had my older sister, Michelle, and then he was

350
00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,800
Speaker 3: he came out here because it was back in the time,

351
00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:30,520
Speaker 3: like I mean, this is when he was Johnny Couger,

352
00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:35,639
Speaker 3: so where record companies essentially curated your image and you

353
00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,560
Speaker 3: had this name and it was like that, you know,

354
00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,879
Speaker 3: he wores chaps and it was like all these things.

355
00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,239
Speaker 3: But he came out to La and it was one

356
00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,280
Speaker 3: of those dinners where the management company is like, all right,

357
00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:49,480
Speaker 3: bring cute girls, like we're gonna whatever. And my mom

358
00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,719
Speaker 3: was one of those girls. I think my mom was

359
00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,680
Speaker 3: like nineteen years old or what eighteen or nineteen years old,

360
00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:59,679
Speaker 3: and they immediately had like a connection. And when my

361
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 3: mom went back to like she drove her like VW

362
00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 3: bus or whatever it was, to Indiana, she got pregnant

363
00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:13,200
Speaker 3: with me before they got married. And I think, I

364
00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:17,359
Speaker 3: just think so much that year nineteen eighty one, the

365
00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 3: year I was born, was the year of his first

366
00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:24,160
Speaker 3: big hit. So the way our life changed from when

367
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 3: I was born, Like I see the pictures of our

368
00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:30,400
Speaker 3: very first house two you know, a couple of years later,

369
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:34,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, what the hell happened? But like my mom

370
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,640
Speaker 3: and dad are Jack and Diane like that song yeah

371
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 3: in that video, Yeah for the one second on Chili

372
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:44,200
Speaker 3: Dog so it's like our life really changed, and then

373
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 3: a lot of my life became pretending that I didn't

374
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:50,360
Speaker 3: think it was a big.

375
00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 2: Deal interesting, So it kind of like whatever, it's it's

376
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 2: just just what it is, Like, what.

377
00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,439
Speaker 3: Does your dad do? I mean, there's nothing, you know whatever?

378
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 2: Is that a defense mechanism, you think? Because I want

379
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 2: I wanted nothing to do with with not not my parents,

380
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: but I didn't want anyone to know who my parents were. Yeah,

381
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 2: I was like I wanted to sort of exist on

382
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 2: my own, you.

383
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 3: Know, And that's everybody's favorite insult is to be like,

384
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 3: well this happened because you're so and so's kid or

385
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 3: this or whatever it may be. Like I would remember

386
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 3: like they'd come in to watch me, like play volleyball,

387
00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:30,399
Speaker 3: and like my dad would walk in with like his

388
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 3: supermodel wife, and like everyone would be like and I

389
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 3: just remember that feeling of like sheer panic, like oh,

390
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 3: you've outed you exist. But I mean I think he

391
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 3: was always a you know, he always tried his best.

392
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 3: Do I think that we're in a way better place

393
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,920
Speaker 3: now than when I was a kid, Yes, But also

394
00:20:56,040 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 3: because I mean I didn't really understand the important of

395
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 3: a relationship with my parents when I was a kid,

396
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 3: like around eighth grade, when I started like having friends

397
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 3: and things were important, like social events, I would choose

398
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 3: like my friends or riding horses, overseeing my parents, like

399
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 3: overflying to my dad's Like it was supposed to be

400
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 3: like every other weekend accompanied minor flying at Indiana, and

401
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 3: then I just kind of stopped doing it.

402
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:29,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well understandably, you know. I mean, you get

403
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 2: to a certain age where and that's the time where

404
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 2: your friends and your social life and wanting to sort

405
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 2: of stay in one place becomes paramount. It's like, well,

406
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I love your dad, but like I'm over it.

407
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 2: I don't want to fucking go and get on a plane.

408
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 2: I want to like hang out with my friends.

409
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 3: I don't want to miss out on this where really

410
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 3: Like now, looking I'm like, oh wow, those I probably

411
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 3: really hurt his feelings doing that. I mean, there was

412
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 3: there was one point we joke about this conversation because

413
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 3: it's probably so trum advertising. But I got mad at

414
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 3: him for something and he said, you know what, f you, Teddy,

415
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 3: I have other kids. Ooh, And we didn't talk for

416
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: a couple of years.

417
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 2: That's a that's a hard thing.

418
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 3: That's a tough We like, it was a real and

419
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 3: so now to this day, like you still joke, we're like,

420
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,719
Speaker 3: remember the best couple of years of our life when

421
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 3: we could talk.

422
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: How old were you when that went down?

423
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 3: I think I was like sixteen, Yeah, But by the

424
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 3: time I was like graduated high school, like end of seventeen,

425
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 3: like it was like a year and a half or

426
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 3: whatever it was. I was moving to LA, I wanted

427
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 3: to be an actress, all of these things. I remember

428
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 3: his rep or his manager whomever calling me and saying,

429
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: will you be on behind the music? And I was like, well,

430
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 3: if he calls me and we can have a conversation,

431
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 3: then yeah. But we were both so stubborn that I mean,

432
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 3: and were very similar when you when you actually have

433
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 3: us in a room together, that is like shit, like

434
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 3: we're crotchety and particular and all of those same you know,

435
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 3: we have the same qualities. But once, once we had

436
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 3: the conversation, both of us were like, Okay, maybe maybe

437
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 3: we took it a little too far.

438
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, feelings can get hurt, but at the same time,

439
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 2: you kind of have to step outside of yourself and

440
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 2: look at the big picture, you know, where he sounds

441
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 2: as crazy as it sounds. That's coming from a place

442
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: of pain and hurt and frustration and love in a

443
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: weird way, because he just probably wanted to be with you.

444
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 3: I was rejecting you.

445
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, rejecting him. Instead of being like, all right,

446
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 2: you know you're seventeen. I'm not taking this personally. I

447
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: know you love me, you just want to be with

448
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: your homies or whatever. Instead, it's like, well, fuck off.

449
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 2: And I totally get that because as a dad, I

450
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 2: have to hold back sometimes when I get rejected by

451
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: my children, which happens all the time, and my sixteen

452
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,719
Speaker 2: year old all the time, all the time, and I

453
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 2: just want to be like I got you know. I

454
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 2: asked him to go on like a fishing trip with

455
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 2: me to Alaska, you know, possibly this summer, to have

456
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: like a you know, one on one type of trip.

457
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: And he's like, oh god, really, you know, bring a friend? Yeah?

458
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 2: Like like like what, like I'd rather be like here.

459
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,959
Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, this is a memory we might make together.

460
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: You know, you're sixteen. It's going to be fun. And

461
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 2: it's just rejection, rejection, And yeah.

462
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 3: I knew he was really he was stricter than my mom. Yeah,

463
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 3: so like I also knew going there was like I

464
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 3: probably couldn't smoke sicks. Yeah like whatever, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

465
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 3: there are more rules in place.

466
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 2: Or they're interesting. Yeah, as someone who sort of lived

467
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 2: a rock star kind of lifestyle, maybe he saw what

468
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 2: was on the road sinking.

469
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 3: Well, he never drank, like or anything drank growing up,

470
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 3: like he said, I was right, Yeah, so he it

471
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 3: wasn't necessarily that he was sober. He was just like

472
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 3: when I was young, I would drink and get in fights,

473
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 3: and I knew that drinking wasn't for me, so I don't.

474
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 3: I've never seen him have a drink.

475
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, they's still smoking.

476
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 4: Huh.

477
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. My brother tried even start back in the day

478
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 3: when like Facebook was it thing, you know, or my

479
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 3: Space or whatever, like a million people follow this. My

480
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,199
Speaker 3: dad has to quit smoking. So he didn't get to

481
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 3: a million.

482
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 2: Oh my god. So you came to La to be

483
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: an actor and to be in the in the movie business,

484
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: right and were you here all alone or did you

485
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 2: come with friends.

486
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: I came out here by myself. Like my rule, my

487
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: parents rules for me. This is something they agreed on.

488
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 3: They're like, listen, if you don't you know you got

489
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 3: into college. If you're not going to go to college,

490
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: like will help send you out there, but then you

491
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 3: have to like figure it out after that. So they like,

492
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 3: help me pack up my Jetta and come out here.

493
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 3: And I started at CIA in the mailroom.

494
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 2: You did, Yeah, I did too, You did. Yeah, I work.

495
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: I got expelled from high school and eleventh grade and

496
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 2: went to like some weird, little shitty school for half

497
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: the day and then the rest. In the second half

498
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 2: the day, I worked in the mailroom.

499
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

500
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 3: So did you serve ice cream?

501
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: Served ice cream?

502
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 4: Oh?

503
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so I did that. And then I was

504
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: a hostess at Mister Chow and your Own Chow. I

505
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 3: was an acting school and it was, you know, it

506
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,719
Speaker 3: was kind of a real wake up call. And I

507
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 3: lived in a studio apartment with another girl that I

508
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 3: met in acting school and quickly learned I wasn't going to.

509
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 2: Make it, did you though? I mean, you know, because actors,

510
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: if they're passionate about it, of course they'll they'll stick

511
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: to it until the day that they die. But at

512
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 2: the same point, on the same point, I always say, well,

513
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 2: you need to always have a backup plan, you know.

514
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 2: I mean, even if it is your true passion, like

515
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 2: you still have to survive and live and then realize, well,

516
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: maybe it's not working. It's a horrible pessimistic way to

517
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: look at things, and you know, but there's a reality here.

518
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 2: I mean, was or that moment we were like, you

519
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: know what, Donny, this isn't fucking working. Moving on, Well.

520
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 3: I wasn't. I would say that I didn't necessarily want

521
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: to be an actor, and this is gonna sound badly.

522
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 3: I didn't necessarily want to be an actor because I

523
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 3: had a passion for acting. It was more like I

524
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 3: was craving almost fame or like approval or a note

525
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 3: to ride. I don't really know what it was, but

526
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: kind of the final straw for me is I had

527
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,239
Speaker 3: done a couple of commercials, little things, and then I

528
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: had gone out on Pilot season. So I'm working in

529
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 3: the mail, I'm a hostess. I got on Pilot season.

530
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 3: I finally like book something. I think I booked something,

531
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 3: like my manager calls me, is like you're in the

532
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 3: final thing, like they want you. And then you know,

533
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 3: there's like that gap, there's like that three month gap

534
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 3: before then you go in and you start filming yea,

535
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 3: and I went in for like the table read, which

536
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: I was so excited about. And that night they called

537
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 3: my manager and they said, Teddy has gained weight. Oh

538
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 3: since we auditioned her, and she either needs to lose

539
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 3: twenty pounds within the next whatever it is, we're going

540
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 3: to recast her. Wow, because she's too She's at this point,

541
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 3: she's too heavy to be right. And I at that point,

542
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 3: I honestly was like I'm done. And I said, okay,

543
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 3: tell them to no, thank you. I mean I had

544
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 3: gained a bunch of weight. I was feeling a certain

545
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: kind of way from being a big fish, you know,

546
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 3: like I was a very small fish in a big

547
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 3: pond all of a sudden, and I think I was

548
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 3: eating my feelings and I wasn't taking care of myself

549
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 3: and I was feeling down and I just got to

550
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 3: that place. But then once somebody said it to me,

551
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: I was like, well, then F this and f this business.

552
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 3: And that's you know, that's kind of where I stopped.

553
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: And how old were you when that when you were like,

554
00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: I'm done with her.

555
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty one, okay, and then you know I've maybe

556
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 3: twenty because then that's when I went to like my

557
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 3: boss of the mailroom and said like, Okay, I want

558
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: to go into the training program and I want to

559
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: be an agent, Like I you know, I've done, I'm

560
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 3: done saying I need to leave it this time to

561
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: go to this audition, like I want to get serious

562
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: about this.

563
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: And so what did your boss say?

564
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 3: They were like fine? And then I went for the

565
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,479
Speaker 3: head of the mp lit department and at CAA, and

566
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 3: then I got coached to UTA and worked for the

567
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: head of the talent department there. And that's kind of

568
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 3: how my life for GREU.

569
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: And then when did it take this turn into sort

570
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 2: of becoming famous, being on the Housewives or you know,

571
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: like how did this all happen?

572
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I would say probably my first ten years

573
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 3: in LA were not like my my happiest years like

574
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 3: they were. It was rough. It was rough for me.

575
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 3: It was just I think I was kind of partying,

576
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 3: and then it was a lot of like self hate

577
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 3: and like trying to measure up and not going going

578
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 3: out and making out with everybody and like essentially just

579
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: making poor decisions. I'm lucky that I didn't like get it,

580
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 3: you know, I didn't get addicted to anything like I

581
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: just was living a too hard of a life for

582
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: what I probably should have been doing.

583
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 2: Yes, and were you you're dating?

584
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 3: Just well, I ended up getting married, and not to

585
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 3: my husband that I'm with now, But I got married

586
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 3: in two thousand and six, and he was a great guy.

587
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 3: But it was like essentially the first guy. I was like, Wow,

588
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 3: he's really nice. People could treat me well, Like he

589
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 3: was a little bit older, and he was nice. And

590
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 3: we got married and on my wedding day, my dad

591
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 3: said to me, I know, this guy's your best friend,

592
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 3: but like, if you don't want to do this, you

593
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 3: don't have to wowow, And I was like, what are

594
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: you talking about?

595
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: You know, he knew, he knew.

596
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 3: We got married and within a year like that was it.

597
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 3: It was it. But at that time I kind of

598
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 3: fully changed my life and I was like, all right,

599
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: I'm I'm out of the entertainment business altogether. Went back

600
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: to riding horses, did it professionally, did that for ten years,

601
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 3: met my husband had got pregnant, did all the you know,

602
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 3: went through IVF. My life life changed, and then randomly

603
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 3: I was I got contacted by just like somebody on

604
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: the internet, like on my Instagram because I was doing

605
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 3: like fitness influencing. Yeah, okay about because I changed my life,

606
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: like it was all about like.

607
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: All right, wellness changing my life.

608
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it started growing, you know. First it was

609
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 3: like my twelve friends, and then it started growing. Yeah,

610
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: it got to be a little bit bigger. So someone

611
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: reached out to me about doing a reality show and

612
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 3: I went and filmed like a day of it or whatever,

613
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, absolutely not. So I called my

614
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 3: old friend from CIA, who's an agent. I said, what

615
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: do I do? I don't know if I signed something,

616
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: but like, I regret everything that just happened in these

617
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 3: pause forty eight hours. I don't want to be on

618
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 3: this show. My family would kill me, you know whatever.

619
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 3: She was like, yeah, i'll help you. You didn't really

620
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: sign anything that we can't get you out of. But

621
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 3: would you go on Real Housewives because I've been watching

622
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: your life and I think you could do it. And

623
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 3: I said, I've never watched it. What do you think?

624
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 3: And she said yeah, but would you prefer Beverly Hills

625
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 3: or Orange County because I know you have a house

626
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: both places? And I said, I don't know what's better.

627
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: And she said, well, you know, for your business and

628
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: your career, like Beverly Hills is a little bit more

629
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 3: like dialed in. And I was like, all right, that's fine.

630
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 3: And then that's when like the process started.

631
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: That's such an interesting decision, you know, because you obviously

632
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: know your life is going to be exposed. Did you

633
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 2: weigh out the pros and the cons being like, okay,

634
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 2: you know there's there's potential money, there's also exposure for

635
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: what I'm trying to do, and you know now unconsciously

636
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: or behind the behind your eyes, it's like, well, I

637
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: do want to be famous, Like there was a part

638
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: of me that's why I became an actor. I was

639
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 2: like I enjoy that that sort of attention. Attention, Yeah,

640
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 2: did that play into your decision or is that something

641
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: that you had kind of suppressed?

642
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 3: Well? I think you know, I had always my husband

643
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 3: and I we had always been in a position where

644
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 3: like I financially had my own like my own jobs.

645
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 3: He had He did really well for himself, but like

646
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 3: I always wanted to keep separate because I have like

647
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: money issues, like I just I am very like controlling

648
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 3: in that way like this is and I didn't have

649
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 3: a trust fund or any of those types of things

650
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 3: that everybody thought I had. So I had always worked

651
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 3: and I'd always been able to do whatever I wanted

652
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 3: because I had my own income. And then all of

653
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 3: a sudden, I had kids, and the power dynamic in

654
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,479
Speaker 3: our relationship shifted because all of a sudden, now I'm

655
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 3: not out of horse shows and I'm not making money

656
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:15,439
Speaker 3: and I am. I felt it a real like even

657
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 3: if Edwin didn't make me feel that way, I made

658
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 3: myself feel that way, like I don't want to ask

659
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 3: if I can go to sushi with my girlfriend, like

660
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 3: I don't want to feel this way. And so that's

661
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: when I created all In, which was my business, and

662
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 3: it was but I wasn't making a ton of money,

663
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 3: but I was making enough money I didn't have to

664
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 3: ask him, you know, to go get my nails done.

665
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 2: To explain what that is real quick.

666
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 3: So essentially, after I had I had a couple of miscarriages,

667
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 3: I had to go through a bunch of IVF. I

668
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 3: had struggled, you know, with my weight, but also with

669
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 3: postpartum anxiety and depression and that kind of stuff. And

670
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 3: I was always like a misery loves company person, like,

671
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 3: oh okay, well, let's go complain about our husband's and

672
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 3: have Margaritez and a kids playedate and like, let's just

673
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 3: ignore what's going on in our lives. I won't ever

674
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 3: be in a picture with my kids because I care

675
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 3: about how I look, whatever be. And then finally, without

676
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 3: telling anyone, I just started an Instagram and it was

677
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 3: called La Workout Junkie. It was a bad name, right, okay,

678
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 3: but I said, I'm going to change my life today,

679
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 3: follow along if you're interested. And I did it for

680
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 3: a year straight and never made a dollar, but I

681
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 3: posted everything, all my workouts, what I was eating, what

682
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 3: I was doing. And then people started asking me, you know,

683
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 3: we want to do what you're doing, but we don't

684
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 3: want to put it on social media, you know, because yeah,

685
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 3: people saw me shed weight, but more so people saw

686
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 3: my personality, Like I started becoming more confident, more comfortable

687
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 3: in my own skin and just living life more.

688
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 2: Did you con did you always consider yourself beautiful? Because

689
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: obviously you're a beautiful woman. You're a pretty woman, right,

690
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 2: so did you have issues with the way that you

691
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 2: physically looked?

692
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. This is gonna sound weird. I never felt

693
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 3: weird about the way that my face looked. I was

694
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 3: really mean to myself about my body, really, and then

695
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 3: what would happen is then it would affect my mental state.

696
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 3: But then I would feel almost paralyzed by that fact

697
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 3: of that anxiety, which now I know, I'm like, oh,

698
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: if I go on a run, or if I go

699
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 3: to hot yoga, or if I move my body in

700
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 3: some capacity, it's not going to make my anxiety go away,

701
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 3: but it does make it better. And then it makes

702
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 3: me like myself more and trust myself more instead of

703
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 3: lying to myself all the time, I'm going to change Monday,

704
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do this Monday, I'm gonna do this next week.

705
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 3: And then it became like once my life changed, my

706
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: marriage started getting better, my life started getting better, my

707
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 3: business started growing. And that's when Housewives presented itself to me.

708
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: Oh cool, So it was almost like this the timing

709
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 2: of it was really cosmically perfect.

710
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I was really, you know, the first

711
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,479
Speaker 3: two years are pretty great for me on the show,

712
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: Like I was like, hey, this is pretty good. But

713
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 3: then I got I got pregnant again naturally for the

714
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 3: first time, and doing the show pregnant was a completely

715
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 3: different ballgame. Oh god, this is a doozy, but I

716
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 3: mean it all. It all kind of worked out. But

717
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 3: I knew on my first meeting, like where they film

718
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 3: you and you're doing your kind of confessional. I told

719
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 3: my husband, I said, I'm going to get the job,

720
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 3: and he goes, how do you know? They told you

721
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 3: there's like eight rounds. I know, so, and then I

722
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 3: did will.

723
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 2: I want to continue this conversation and get into mental

724
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 2: health and health. I love getting to know you more

725
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: and hearing about your past. So everyone stay tuned for

726
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,240
Speaker 2: Part two, coming out with Teddy Mallen Camp very soon