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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast

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Speaker 1: Firm Elvis Presents Morning Show. I don't want to take

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Speaker 1: the lead on this one. Well you should take a

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Speaker 1: scary should take the lead because we hadn't had a minute.

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Speaker 1: The planet we're gonna talking about said, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: hit it. I think we should talk about the fact

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Speaker 1: that Rody won't admit that he's wrong in Gandhi's right.

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Speaker 1: He's really upset about this. I don't why there's a

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Speaker 1: here's the problem. I get it's a bit that you

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Speaker 1: don't think I ever say I'm wrong, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: but what I'm actually right? It's going to be a

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Speaker 1: problem in the room. I don't want to learned in

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Speaker 1: school that you never put yourself before someone else in

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Speaker 1: a sentence. I don't know what school you went to, Danielle.

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Speaker 1: I learned the same thing in my school. But you know,

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Speaker 1: grammars my thing. What you can't do? And listen to

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Speaker 1: the Book and Boys podcast. We've had this conversation hundred times.

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Speaker 1: You can't say me and went to the store. You

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Speaker 1: can't say me and Garrett are go into the movie

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Speaker 1: Gandhi and Me. Okay, when you stop, when you end

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Speaker 1: the sentence, all right and I. If the sentence makes

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Speaker 1: sense without the other person, that's how you know it's correct.

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Speaker 1: So you would say, oh, Nate went to the movies

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Speaker 1: with Scary and me. You could also say Nate went

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Speaker 1: to the movies with Me and Scary. You can't say

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Speaker 1: me and Scary went to the movies with Nate and

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Speaker 1: you hold on. You wouldn't say Nate went to the

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Speaker 1: movies with Scary and Eye because you wouldn't go to

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Speaker 1: the movies with I. That's the rule. But you would

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Speaker 1: say Nate and I went to the movies. The Eye

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Speaker 1: is what it's before the action, and me is after

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Speaker 1: the action. I wrote, hey, there, can you please check

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Speaker 1: on something for me and Gandhi? That's correct? He said

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Speaker 1: it was correct, and I said it's not correct. He

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Speaker 1: take out Gandhi. Now say the sentence without Gandhi's name.

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Speaker 1: Can you please check on something for me? Right? Right?

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Speaker 1: We're not arguing about whether or not she can use me.

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Speaker 1: We're arguing about whether or not the me should come first.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying it should be Danielle and me, not me

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Speaker 1: and or she's saying it should be Gandhi and me. Right,

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Speaker 1: So both are acceptable. That's wrong because you wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: and I. You wouldn't say, but I would think Gandhi

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Speaker 1: and me makes more sense than me and God. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was always taught you never put yourself first. Hold on.

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Speaker 1: That's politeness. But grammatically, let's say, for instance, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to the to the store right with Nate, right, and

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Speaker 1: then at the last minute I remembered Scary, Hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to the store. Nate's going to the store with me,

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Speaker 1: and Scary right. It's still grammatically correct to add him.

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Speaker 1: And that's not incorrect to add him. It's just I

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Speaker 1: added him last. It's not incorrect grammatically, So it's right

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Speaker 1: or wrong. You can say him wrong, just to be honest.

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Speaker 1: Why I needle him more? I get that because I'm

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Speaker 1: not shape. No, I'm not. I'm not bent that a

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Speaker 1: shape at all. I just don't want you to be like, oh, look,

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Speaker 1: he won't admit he's wrong if I'm right. See that's

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Speaker 1: the problem. When i'm wrong, I'll tell you i'm wrong,

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Speaker 1: But then it's frustrating when I'm right and you go, oh, look,

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Speaker 1: he's just saying he's right to be right when I'm right,

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Speaker 1: then it's like you don't give me credit for being right,

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Speaker 1: But God is just stirring the pot. I still done

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Speaker 1: on this. That's the rule. I don't agree with either

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Speaker 1: Idi and Danielle. But okay, play the clip from our

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Speaker 1: Bookken Boys podcast right now. Play the clip. Don't do yourself.

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Speaker 1: I want everyone in the room could be a judge

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Speaker 1: Is scary wrong on this clip? All right, let's let's

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Speaker 1: let's let's go to the bigger question. While he looks, well,

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Speaker 1: that's the last thing. It was, the last thing you

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Speaker 1: can admit that you were wrong about. I thought people

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Speaker 1: in this room like me. You know, I love you, Brody.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, it's just fun to cooke fun. And

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I have tried very hard to like you.

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Speaker 1: I say I have tried very hard. I very much

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Speaker 1: love Brody. I don't just like him like I love him.

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Speaker 1: But I think that that one of the things about

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Speaker 1: think it's love to be honest, you don't tolerate you.

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Speaker 1: When I do a podcast with you? What is love?

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Speaker 1: What is love? That's what I was gonna say. How

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Speaker 1: And then I think, all of a sudden you think, wow,

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Speaker 1: My definition of love is different. I think everybody's interpretation

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Speaker 1: a parent. Garrett's a parent, Great's a parent, Brodie's parent.

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Speaker 1: What do you love? Gandhi? But I do I love that? No.

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Speaker 1: how I felt yesterday when I was playing with this

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Speaker 1: That sounds terrifying. How could you hate what you spawned?

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Speaker 1: Though Gandhi was talking about first like no, Gandi said,

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Speaker 1: people were regretful that they had kids. Yeah, they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: reason that the woman takes nine and a half months.

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Speaker 1: It's to get the parents ready. Not as much as

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