WEBVTT - WHAT'S YOUR SECRET? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.560 All from Jared. 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:08.840 Jared Wait, I actually get on this. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:10.240 Yeah you did? 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:12.240 Holy shit? 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:14.880 Okay, well are you? Are you okay? 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:21.560 Yeah? Well, I guess my secret is that I'm a 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:27.440 ghostwriter for romance novels. I think you really hate it. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:29.920 You secretly really hate it. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:32.200 Yeah, it's the only way I can make money. 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.120 Though, why do you hate it? 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:40.159 Because everything I create it just feels like a lie. 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:48.720 Really, you can't handle the fact that it's not you 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:52.199 who's getting the credit, or that you're selling off your 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:53.400 work as something that it's not. 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:55.400 It's just. 0:00:56.880 --> 0:01:00.240 Everything I write. It's just such bullshit and every one 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:01.040 eats it up. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:04.480 Tell me about these things that you write? I mean, 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.840 give me, give me. Do you have maybe a sentence 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.600 of your writing that you could share with us that 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:13.480 people always like? Man, I love that sentence, but you're like, 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:15.240 the sentence is bullshit. I don't know why you like 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:16.440 that sentence. You're an idiot? 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:22.160 Okay, Yeah, a sentence not profits? 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:27.600 Please God, I gotta think. 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:32.520 I guess there is this one scene. Fuck you. Of course, 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:36.960 it's a fucking medieval fairy tale, and so you know, 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:44.480 the Prince Charming, uh Watson. After I think it's either 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:52.920 some kind of giant dragon or let me see, let's 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:58.200 just say it was correct or a giant get go 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:06.080 something that The worst line that sticks with me and 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:09.600 haunts me is he looked at her with fervor less 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:12.880 love and compassion and swooned her. 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:15.679 That hurts me. 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:19.200 I don't like that line because fervorless I mean, fervor 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.520 is a good thing, right, It's like passion, and I 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:26.200 have such fervor, so if like ferverless love, it would 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:26.880 be a bad thing. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:33.640 Yeah, that's not product. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:36.880 That's a good No, that's a good setting for a 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:41.200 scene because I think that works well together, the prince 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:44.440 and the princess, because that guy just killed the dragon, 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.359 or the knight and the night, the knight's girlfriend or whatever. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:49.640 That guy just killed a dragon, and I feel like 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.679 if you kill a dragon, that fills you with I 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.679 don't know, maybe some sort of sexual adrenaline, and watching 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:59.320 someone kill a dragon also would fill fill me with 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:04.239 or some sort of sexual adrenaline or desire for that person. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:07.240 So I feel like that's a good context leading up 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:12.320 to two people making you know, passionate passionate love. So 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:15.600 maybe the sentence is not fantastic, but I think the 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:19.200 premise as a whole makes total sense. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.280 I don't know. Maybe I have that disconnects from it 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.760 because after I'm done shooting a deer and gutting it, 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:27.120 I don't want. 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:28.440 To go out and plow my girlfriend. 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:30.880 That's maybe that's just okay. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.240 Well, a deer is a lot less sexy than a dragon. 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:37.680 Would you fuck a dragon? 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:40.360 No, I'm no, I'm not saying I would fuck a dragon. 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.480 I'm saying that if I'm saying, do you know what 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:47.120 sexual transmussion is? There's like a guy goes out and 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:50.720 he kills a dragon and he's like, I'm I'm that 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.440 may I feel so confident having killed that dragon. And 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.960 then someone sees that and they're like, that guy killed 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.560 a dragon that was really hot of him, and then 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.480 that makes the two people want to have sex. 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.280 Okay, that's fair. I just I just never I've always 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.440 had that disconnect with a lot of ship. All right, 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:07.760 So that's fair. 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:10.000 Well, I'm happy I could explain it to you. 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:10.800 Thank you. 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:18.000 You have differ, never goes on the line, thinking your 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:22.720 calls every night, everything, teaching. 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:36.200 Your Paul from Matt to accept Matt. 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:38.560 Hey, what's up? 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:40.080 What do you mean? 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.000 Uh? What do I mean? 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:47.640 You pieces ship? 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.159 I'm sorry? 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:55.039 Sorry? You never what what Matt? 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.240 What matter what you said? 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:00.000 You're gonna be mean? And I just wasn't prepared for that. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:04.920 Because you weren't prepared. So here's the problem, Matt. You 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:09.000 you prepared. Here's the thing, Matt, Matt, if you're gonna 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:11.240 not prepare, you have to lean into it. You can't 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:14.760 prepare to be prepared. You didn't lean in. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:16.800 You don't. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:20.680 I don't believe the anger at all. Like you could 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.840 do a little better. I think a few accept little criticism. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:26.599 What do you what do you mean anger? 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:29.720 I just didn't believe it. 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:31.520 I'm not sure what you're talking about. 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:36.160 You seem pretty chill, you seem pretty relaxed. I'm not 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.159 sure where's this anger coming from. 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:40.640 I'm not angry at you. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:50.920 Oh we're back, baby. You uh, maybe talk about my secret? 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.080 Hey, Matt, Yeah, what's up? 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.239 What's your secret? 0:05:57.720 --> 0:05:57.920 Oh? 0:05:58.720 --> 0:05:59.360 Uh? 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:00.840 I used to. 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:06.400 We have this thing in the Midwest called metro mobility. 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:07.800 Do you know what that is? 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:15.640 No, it's a it's a ride share service. It's for 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:22.840 vulnerable adults and they can get you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:27.120 they can ride anywhere around the city. For three bucks. Right. 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:38.599 One time I backed into this the client's mailbox, and 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:41.760 it was I got out and I was like, fuck 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:44.840 it was it was like a metal pole and it 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:48.200 was off about twelve fifteen degrees, like there's no way 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.200 you're going to miss it. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:53.000 And so I go. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.839 Up to the door, just trying like coming up with 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:00.120 a speech like you know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. This 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:09.600 guy opens the door. He's blind, So I didn't tell him. 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.320 I didn't tell him. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.239 And how did that? How did that make you feel? 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:16.000 At first? 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.640 At first? Not great, to be honest, But years later 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:26.080 now it's I love telling that the people. Nice little anecdote. 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:28.160 Mm hmm. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:33.280 You know, well, I guess if he was blind then. 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.200 Mh he might have to take you know, like a 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.200 half step to the right or something. You know, maybe 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:42.000 the first. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:43.440 Time he doesn't quite get the hand. 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:53.320 Oh no, especially aesthetically right, mm hmmm. Does a blind man? 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.000 Oh go ahead, Well does. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.960 A blind man need a straight mailbox? 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:02.120 Yeah? Not really. 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:03.680 I mean you didn't like take it out. He just 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.120 kind of fucked it up a little bit. 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.120 Yeah, I just fucked up a little bit. 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:10.200 I think it was all right. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:11.360 I think it was. 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:14.720 He gonna what did you think he was gonna make 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:15.760 you do, like pay for it? 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:21.080 I don't even at all. I guess that, you know, 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:25.880 you know I wasn't thinking obviously that wasn't part of 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:28.080 the the math equation. 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:33.439 Ballda. He next time he goes to check his mail, 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:34.600 he's gonna. 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:37.840 He might hit his knuckle on the wrong spot. 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:38.839 You know. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.079 Actually, now you know now that you mentioned, I actually 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:45.120 think it's worse that he's blind. No no, no, no, 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.880 you mentioned I think it's worse, right, because here's what 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:50.959 he's Here's the thing. He has this like he has 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:54.520 the the what's what's the what's the word? The floor 0:08:54.679 --> 0:09:00.559 plans of his entire day mapped out mentally, spayually mapped 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.600 out in his mind. And you fucked up where his 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.080 mailbox is. So now I mean. 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:09.480 He where it is. 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.320 It's in the same point it was. 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:15.120 Like in the ground. 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:19.120 But then but then also you're gonna like, here's the 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.200 thing he is, this mental map of what his day is. 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:23.760 Like I feel like you're gonna ruin his confidence in 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:25.600 that mental map because if like he's like, oh shit, 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:28.160 something shifted with the mailbox. What else am I wrong about? 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:29.920 What else do I need to go and update about 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.600 my mental awareness of the under. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.480 Getting older, getting older. 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.880 That's probably what you think. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:42.440 Probably, well did he tip you? 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:49.040 Well, no, they don't really tip at all. I mean, 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:51.800 that's kind of the thing. It's for vulnerable adults usually 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:53.880 don't have a lot of money, to try to save 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.680 them some money. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:56.240 Well, that's some woul. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.520 You say your name was Matt. 0:09:59.080 --> 0:09:59.280 Matt. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.559 I absolve you a Wilson, and I hope that you 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:05.839 I hope that you enjoy yourself in the Kingdom of 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.720 heaven when you die. 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:15.240 Okay, thank you, and also with you what oh yeah, thanks? 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:16.200 Okay? 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:17.000 Cool? 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:23.000 All from Joshua Joshua. 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:29.400 How old are you, Joshua, Joshua? Hold you, Joshua, josh 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.120 josh you got your stream off? 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:32.360 I did? 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:32.760 I just did? 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:34.080 I just did. I apologize. 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:35.960 I'm so sorry. 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:39.000 You never have to apologize to me for anything ever. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.240 You don't owe me anything. You know what you could 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:42.720 do right now if you want to. You could say no, 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:44.679 I'm not turning my stream off, fuck you, and then 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:48.520 turn it up louder. I'd hang up on you because 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.800 because I also don't because I also owe you nothing. 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.360 I don't owe you the call, but you don't owe 0:10:54.440 --> 0:11:00.240 me turning off your stream? Does that make sense? We 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.600 are we have no debts to one another. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:06.720 No, we don't. I mean I've been here for a 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.640 while on your streams for a couple of months, and 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.360 I do always somethings are taking the time of my life. 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.240 It's a good time away from me. 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:17.160 Great speakerphone right now? 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.319 No, all my AirPods wt me. 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:22.960 Change No, Look, Joshua, josh what year were you born? 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:24.920 Ninety seven? 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.560 Ninety seven, that's when I was born. 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.840 Huh, yes, I was born, no lover nice unto. 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:36.440 Many spoiling No, I'm just kidding. I was born. And uh, 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:37.560 when was I born? 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:40.280 I was? 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:43.280 When was I born? Josha? What's your secret? 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:45.120 Oh? 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:46.080 It was really a secret. 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:47.600 But I didn't have a conversation. I want to I 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.920 want to share with you. That was my weekend experience. 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:55.360 Your weekend experience? Yes, yeah, tell me please. 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.640 So I want to visit a friend of mine who 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:02.040 lives in Pennsylvania. It doesn't matter what area, but to 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:02.520 go see. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:02.840 Him, all right. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.040 And I went out with a friend of mine I 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:11.280 should say acquaintance of mine, and uh, we didn't hung 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.319 out too much, but we have mutual friends, but I 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:14.000 was just sure, I'll. 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:14.440 Drive with you. 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:18.840 So we got out there Friday night, and I mean, 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.200 you know, we had a couple of drinks. We had 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.240 a good time, and Saturday we went out and had 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:26.199 a better time. But it ultimately ended in him getting arrested. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:30.520 And I try to stay far away from police encounters 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.319 along that line, play in the field, the field I 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.240 studied in my future career. I try to say that 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:36.560 out of that. 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:42.040 And the law. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:48.040 Yes, yes, And he ended up pushing a police officer. 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.600 What happened to him? 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:55.120 Yeah, he got tackled by three officers and got arrested. 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:56.280 We had a batre amount of jail. 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:56.920 In three. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.240 Okay. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.280 So the point of me telling you this is I 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:08.800 graduated from college last year late at twenty twenty, and 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.760 I tried to avoid the police cower. Like I said, like, 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.600 how should I have take? It was an awkward drive home. 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:16.800 There was a really awkward drapt hoone because he drove. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:18.440 He got arrested, and. 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:22.359 I tried to how the fuck did he That motherfucker's 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:27.800 lucky he left that night? What the fuck? How did 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:30.480 you even leave that night? Yes, I was not in 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:33.400 jail forever immediately, or I. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:37.160 Like to believe that it's because he was I'm out 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.640 of states and he was super belligerent and they just 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.360 wanted to kind of teach him a lesson. Put him 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.360 in jail cell. We picked him up, and they kicked 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:48.320 him out. I feel like Polo, not. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.280 Try that's insane. How old? How old is he? 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:53.880 Yeah, he's twenty two, a year younger than me. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.480 That's bullshit, that's crazy. 0:13:58.840 --> 0:13:59.400 I agree. 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:03.160 And so you're asking what you should have done? 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.160 No, not really what I should have done, because I 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.520 did not want to get involved, and I did that. 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:10.040 That's I did what I wanted to do and not 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:13.800 be involved, So I got no trouble. But the question 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.440 is and what I'm questioning myself and how should I 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:20.680 further our friendship? Should I try to, I guess, not 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:21.240 make a mess? 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:22.920 Your sound moron? 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:25.560 Yes he is a moron? 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:26.440 Yeah, yeah, I. 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:29.760 Think you should do something else. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:33.760 What do you mean to do something else? 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:36.560 Lucky moron? But he's moron? 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.240 Yes, yes he is, and I agree with that totally. 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:42.880 But I've known him for a while. But we end 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:45.080 up hung out and tied about two years because I 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.400 was away at college and I came back within a year, okay, 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.920 and we kind of try to reach into our friendship. 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:52.360 I mean, not that it was died out. We just 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.400 kind of fell off, fell off and then me coming 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.520 back to this, like, do I just tell them, hey, 0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:59.600 like we're not going to be friends anymore, or hey, 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.080 you got to change your ways or I don't know 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:02.720 what I should do. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:08.520 Uh, you gotta change your way? I mean I don't 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:12.160 think you have to do anything. Man Like hmm, you 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.120 said you what do you? What do you do with 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.120 your life right now? You said this is a friend 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:18.360 from home, right, yes. 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:20.520 Yes, and I didn't I didn't move I can move 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.120 back home. I graduated in twenty twenty, okay, and then 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:23.640 I moved out. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:25.520 Are you planning on leaving home? Are you planning on 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:26.320 going somewhere else? 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.720 I did plan on going. I did plan going somewhere else, 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.160 but other stuff happened in the hospital for a while, 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:34.880 and right now I am unemployed because I'm not clear 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:36.400 into working with therapy. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:36.920 I'm injured. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.080 I would just stop hanging out with this guy. I 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:42.000 don't think you need to make it to a big, big, 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.800 big deal. I mean, look, you stop hanging out with 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:46.360 this guy for your own benefit, because it sounds like 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.040 you don't really want to. It sounds like he has 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:53.480 different values than you. It sounds like you could spend 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:55.440 your time better than hanging out with I mean, I 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.680 don't know if you like hanging out with them, do 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.280 whatever you want, but I mean, don't feel don't never 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:04.240 hang out with people out of obligation. I hate I 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:05.800 you know, I've had this call. I've had I feel 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:07.960 like We've had a lot of people calling about this recently, 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:12.520 and they always mentioned they're always like, I've known him 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.040 for so long, I've known them for it doesn't matter 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:22.520 if they are not. You know, what you have in 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.680 common with someone ten years ago could change. So if 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:28.280 you feel like you right now would not be friends 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.920 with him if you met him today, then there's no 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:32.800 reason to be friends with them just out of that obligation, 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:34.400 the fact that you've been friends so long. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:39.840 Yeah, yeah, I understand that, Yeah I do. I do. 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.240 But also a part of it, like, it's not I 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:46.240 don't feel obligated either, because, like I said, we just 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:51.720 kind of reconnut it recently, so it's not like we've 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:54.360 been the bestest of friends for the past ten years. 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:56.440 We're good of friends like four years ago. 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:01.600 Well, look he didn't get shot in the face. 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:07.360 Yes iron, yeah, yeah, that could have been really bad. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:09.720 So whatever happens to him is a bonus. 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:16.280 That is true. Yes, Josh. 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:21.239 Well listen, Josh, good luck to you. Choose your friends carefully. Uh, 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:25.880 live your life according to your own values. Make sure 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.160 to think of God and all the sacrifices he makes 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:33.280 for you on a daily basis. And eat your vegetables. 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:35.240 And I love you. 0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:36.120 I'll talk to you soon. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:36.800 Of course. 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.359 I love my broccoli. I always do. 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:39.119 I appreciate it. 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:41.400 Have a good nightmare you true? 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.520 How from this guy? 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:48.480 This guy? 0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:56.840 Right? Hey, Hey, what's up? Man's what's up with you? 0:17:58.520 --> 0:17:58.560 Me? 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:02.320 All out? Pulling your phone number for a while? 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:02.600 Now? 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:03.320 How are you? 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:04.360 Oh? 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:05.920 Is there anything you want to talk about? 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:07.719 Uh? 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:12.480 What's tonight? The secret? Right, it's the secret, dude, ha ha, brother, 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.320 I'm a I'm about uh well, I'm not gonna do 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.920 it today or anytime soon, but I'm gonna I'm gonna 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:21.440 take somebody down for killing a dog and leaving the scene. 0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:22.680 Mm hmm. 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:26.560 You're gonna take somebody down. 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:29.639 Well, put a hurt and on them. I'm not gonna 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:32.879 kill anybody or anything like that. But uh, you know 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:35.480 where I'm from, you don't. You don't run somebody's dog 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:36.560 over and just take off. 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:38.680 Did somebody run your dog over? 0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:42.680 Not mine, a good close friend of mine. But it 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.840 doesn't matter who it was, you know, it's it's it's 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:46.800 you know, it's a dog, somebody's pet. 0:18:47.520 --> 0:18:50.080 You know, how are you gonna take them down? What's 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:50.520 your plan? 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:55.520 Well, I don't have a plan because my old self 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:57.880 would would just walk in the front door and start 0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:01.880 beating heads. But uh no, I'm just gonna sit back 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:05.280 and wait for a while, figure out where they are, 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:07.919 figured out where they live, that sort of thing. 0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:09.440 All right, So you don't have a plan. 0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:15.400 Uh, well no, because that's that's uh, you can't really 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:17.520 say your plan, you know what I mean? 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:19.760 Okay, you have a plan and you're not saying it, 0:19:19.880 --> 0:19:21.880 or you don't. You you don't have a plan. 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:26.760 I have probably a million. But it just just happened 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:29.399 yesterday and we finally found when this person lives, and 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:32.040 so now it's you know the slowgan you know. 0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:36.080 Well, listen, here's the problem with vigilanteism is that what 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:38.640 happens if you you know, you're trying to slay down 0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:41.640 the law. But all right, what happens if you get 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:43.760 the law laid down on you? 0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:46.720 Mm I no, I agree with you. 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:48.400 You're right, which is why you wait? 0:19:49.880 --> 0:19:50.720 What are you waiting for it? 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:52.320 Uh? 0:19:52.720 --> 0:19:52.960 Time? 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:54.320 You have to let time task. 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:56.600 You can't. You can't go straight after somebody exactly after 0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:57.880 something that happens, because. 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:01.760 Then you know, you wind up you get caught that way. 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:05.480 I know it's silly, it sounds like it sounds like 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:11.440 vigil antias stud nod, but it is. You know, you 0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:12.960 go to the cops with this kind of thing, it 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:14.000 doesn't really play out. 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.879 No wise, have you had an experience like that so 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:21.560 far where it didn't play out? Uh? 0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:23.960 Yeah, yeah yeah. I've always come from the type of 0:20:24.000 --> 0:20:25.600 place where you just kind of do things on your own, 0:20:25.760 --> 0:20:25.920 you know. 0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:28.680 Okay, how has that worked for you in the past? 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:34.760 Fine situation in which you you felt like you had 0:20:34.800 --> 0:20:36.000