WEBVTT - Conversations About Thirst Trappin' 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.360 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.480 seillers podcast with your host. Now funk that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:22.000 low glasses, malone. Remember to talking to the mic because 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:25.800 the mic is not following you around. Yeah, in a minute, 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:29.280 how are you being? I'm good? How are you read? 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:31.800 A barb wanted me to start it a little bit 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:39.479 more of professional, Good evening, man, listen to me, good evening. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.080 They told me I don't start the podcast professional. I 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:48.559 don't have a greeting. Reetings, ladies and gentlemen. You just 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:53.320 be coming in, welcome to no ceilings. I come in hot, bored. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:55.840 You said it's what you wanted. Well, no, you do, 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.560 you do come in sometime like yelling, like a few 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:01.960 times too. It was like, so this is my mind 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.000 state when when we came up with the idea for 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.440 those sellers, when me Charlotte Maagne is still talked about it. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.560 The idea was it was always a conversation that you 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:13.119 were blessed to be a fly on the wall for it, right, 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:16.280 So you heard conversations. The whole point of nose selings 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:21.160 is it's a conversation for pariah based topics, things like 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:25.240 in dark caves that people don't want to explore. So 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.080 it's not like easy. It's not like a bunch of 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:32.319 niggas sitting around talking shit and arguing with nigga's on YouTube. 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:34.119 I'm not mad at the niggas will do that. I'm 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:37.000 just saying that's not what this is. So it was 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:40.119 always like when you start the podcast, you come in 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.120 like you just you coming, like you just are aware 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:45.319 of a conversation, like, oh man, you just listen like 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.760 you ease dropping. I actually want to call my audience 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:52.760 ease droppers because these niggas is all in the mixing 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:58.520 my conversation and I'm just somebody. It's Charlotta Magne letting 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.920 them here in my conversation. So it wasn't super professional. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:05.280 And the greatest criticism I kid about it is, man, 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:07.320 you cut it off right many be it's getting good. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:14.639 You heard enough, no more space. So he started, came 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.760 in in the midst of a conversation, and the ended 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:20.120 in the midst of a conversation. It's not like a 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:24.160 professional thing. Hey bye bye, ladies and gentlemen. It's not 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:28.120 like but Hard wanted me to do that, so there's 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:32.360 no selling to the podcast. I mean, well, she just 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:37.120 wanted to make what was going on, who we were, 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.800 who are you talking to? Yeah, we always do it. 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:44.519 Usually we are in a great conversation right when we start, 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:48.480 and then I usually remember to make sure I let 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:51.480 everybody know that this is no sellings podcast and hey 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.480 Rid and hey Rid, but it's not the first thing 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:57.160 you hear, because that's not really important. If you're listening 0:02:57.160 --> 0:03:00.080 to this motherfucker, it's about the fifth time, So I 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.840 want you to just get right into it and listen. Okay, 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.919 But Bis and Barbs, you know, we was talking about it, 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:08.880 and I'm thinking we should start doing because people want 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:10.520 to argue with me on Twitter about some of these 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:13.440 topics and me and gee, I don't believe you said that, 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.720 and I dare you? And it's like, bro, like damn, 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:19.680 I'm sure they have a lot to say the story 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:21.640 of my life and be Van van La than be 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.959 the worst one. I'm like, listen to my podcast, bring 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:26.880 me on your podcast to argue about some shi I 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.840 said on the podcast. Oh that's why you gotta want 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.280 on the ship. Yeah, and they was going off and 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.400 like what the funk? I forgot which episode they were 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:40.080 talking about, Like Nigga, I don't remember just listen. Yea. 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:41.800 So they want to comment, they want to they want 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:43.560 to talk to you. So I was telling Bis, I 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.320 was like, okay, So I was thinking we should start 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:49.400 doing a clubhouse or spaces. Clubhouse is better? A clubhouse 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:53.400 on the podcast weekly? Yeah, because people do have a 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:55.600 lot to say. Because even when I leave, like I'm 0:03:55.640 --> 0:04:00.600 like damn, I'm saying I should have yes, So that 0:04:00.760 --> 0:04:06.680 I right for me. I got the introduction right, You 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.960 didn't very, you didn't really get I think. Welcome to 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:12.240 No Sillings Podcast that I'm your host, Glasses, the local 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.480 Britt is up in here. Britt finally can drive again. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:23.680 It's a new year backup in this No Gumbo just 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:27.400 lied to me. Happy New Year's to everybody who listens 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:31.520 to No Shillings Podcast. I hope you had a wonderful 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:35.560 New Year's and start off right. It's awesome. What do 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:39.799 you do? Hung out with family? Play games? A really 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:45.560 good ain't some gumbo at a nice branch? The next day? 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:48.800 It was cool? Oh? I know it was Sam. What 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:55.200 do you do for New Year's eight jolly black eyed peas? 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.640 On January one? Like you know that we're supposed to do. 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:00.760 I actually did it this year because I did it 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:04.640 that year. She always got on me, what meat did 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.800 you use for your black eye peas? Well? Actually, since 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:12.119 I put meat in the greens, I didn't put meat 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.640 in the black eyed peas. But I would put smoked turkey, 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.000 but I didn't. It was my first time making black 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:21.760 eyed peas. So she always makes the black eyed peas. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:26.159 It was good. Don't be playing with me. It was good. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.279 Why it was good? I smoked turkey? Is the flat 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:36.839 Brandy made her ship with ox tails. Oh, I was 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.720 talking about that because my cousin puts the beans. The 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:45.560 isn't like I'm sure it does anything with fat, that's right, 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.200 remember fat flavor. That's how my cousin, she said she 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.160 cooks it with beans. But I was like, okay, well, 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:53.640 I don't know. She just always like supposed to have 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:55.680 the black eyed peas on New Year's Day, and so 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:59.440 she always makes them. Girl, I didn't you didn't know 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.920 about that this year? When did I don't know a 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.360 couple of years ago, but it's always been that my 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:09.240 mom always made it. Um, I would have made something, 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.480 but I don't know how to make a little bit 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:15.000 of that, And my son doesn't really like him, So 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.000 it doesn't make no sense to your son. Getta saying 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:21.599 what do you eat? I mean, I don't want to 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.360 make a lot of food and wasted. I don't like 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:28.200 he's sweyn get a say and what he eats? You 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:29.800 don't have to say. I'm just saying, I'm just not 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.400 gonna because I didn't want to make it, because I 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:33.960 knew I would make too much, and I knew he 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:37.960 wouldn't eat it. I wish I would make whatever I 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:43.719 want to make. It gonna eat it, Dude, He'll get 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.159 in the car and go get some food or something. 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.880 I don't. I wouldn't be going back to my mama's 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:51.920 if I did that, Olive, you do things to me 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:56.279 that if I disrespected her like that? Hey, well, I 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.720 mean is different though, Like the way y'all raise your 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:02.000 kids versus how we were raised. It's totally different. Y'all 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:04.560 give your kids entirely too much liberal like they have 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.159 too much liberty and ship and make decisions. It's like, Nigga, no, 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:15.200 you don't. Kids just sucked up, man, sucked up they something. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.040 They good. We got good kids. They're good, They're good. 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:22.120 They suck up good. I see y'all try your best, 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:24.440 but trust me, your parents did much better job than 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:30.480 y'all did. Shut up about you do not know that? 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.600 Remember this conversation in ten years and in twenty years. 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:37.800 Oh my goodness, our parents were better than we are. Well, 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:41.880 you're actually worse. And I think I am a little 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.840 bit more lenient than my like my parents for sure, 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.200 But I don't know. I can't really say. I think 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:53.600 I'm more I'm opposite, like I'm more stern that Nigga 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.160 could have. If you just told me your son you 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:59.200 could cook for him and make food, you could go 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:06.240 get mcdonna else. And I'm saying she's cooking because no, 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.400 he said that he has a he gets a choice. No, 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:10.560 I'm gonna cook the food that I want to make. 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.320 If you don't like it, that's fine. You can go 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:17.680 and do whatever. You're an adult could go eat. Yes, 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:22.920 And there ain't no motherfucking adult. He's an adult because 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:26.040 it's not well. He's getting there, he's working on it, 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:30.240 but he ain't no motherfucking adults. Still, I've came to 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.840 some conclusions. The conclusions, right, you are grown up when 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:37.680 you're paying your own bills. Now, I don't mean you mature, 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.320 but you're fucking grown up. If you're not paying your 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:42.760 own way, you are not a fucking grown up. I 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:46.719 don't get an if you're dirty. Mm hmmm, yeah, there's 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:52.959 a lot of kids. That's my thought. You don't feel 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:54.679 like that's a little messed up though that like you 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:56.240 make you go through that cooking stuff and he go 0:08:56.320 --> 0:08:58.440 get some McDonald's and you know, we all know he 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.640 no one doesn't do that at all. He's never done it. 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.840 I'm just saying like, if you if you don't want 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:06.160 what I made, then you are perfectly capable of going 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.679 to go get yourself. Don't make you feel no kind 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.480 of way when you cook that because he doesn't do that. 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:15.679 I know how to cook. You feel me or like 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.320 or like before before we start cooking, we say like, 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.480 oh we're gonna cook this. I'm gonna make this, and 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.960 it's like, oh, well, I don't really eat that. Okay, 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.880 I know you don't eat that, so okay. Like my daughter, 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.079 she don't eat green. She's like, Mom, you're cooking greens. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:32.640 I'm like, yeah, where's the cabbage, where's the green? Means 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:39.880 I'm not making that. But she's like, because you remember 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:44.040 your mom, auntie, whoever made food they put on the table. 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:47.840 You ain't what y'all eat making come eat? Yeah, you're 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:51.480 eating what the fun I made? So I get what 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.840 you're saying. Yeah, that was that was the anti souse. 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.439 I didn't like going too, so I didn't want to 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:58.880 go over there. My mom didn't make me eat like 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.280 eat my food like that. It. I like everything she cooked, 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:05.360 but no, I didn't have to eat like every everything like, No, 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:09.080 I didn't like it. That's why exactly, I'm telling people 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:16.720 to make their own plates. But I make but but 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:22.480 I've made it moments, so none of it bothers y'all 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:25.800 as women like that attention in general, like when you 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:28.040 do stuff with people and they don't appreciate it. Are 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:29.719 we like, are we at least close enough to where 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:33.240 you'all could be honest? Yeah? Yeah, So you don't feel 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:35.319 any kind of way if you make somebody told you 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:39.000 your food is nasty? Have you went through I haven't. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:42.400 No one told me that, but I peop well right 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:46.880 to their opinion. We're not my feelings. It'll be like, damn, 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.640 you talk about food nasty, so you never got dressed 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:51.160 for a nigga and he just didn't pay attention and 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.960 that didn't make you feel no kind of way, didn't 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.760 like pay attention. Like he was like, maybe you got 0:10:57.800 --> 0:10:59.320 something on and you start you was going to get 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:02.160 some looks and it's like, yeah, what's up? Back back 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:06.600 to the game or whatever. But hurt my heart. Have 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:10.560 I ever experienced that before to where I've had to 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:14.240 where I've done something, Yeah, I would say like to 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:17.760 my hair or something and I didn't say anything, and 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.199 I'd be like, damn, you see, I just got a 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:24.320 little feather like going. You feel me like ship like that. 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:28.000 I don't know, it's not I don't I think it 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:33.199 would hurt my feelings though, for sure, Yeah, for sure, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:44.560 you definitely need to be appreciative whatever. Okay, look, I'm 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.120 not tripping off like I know, like if I get dressed, 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.480 like I'm getting dressed like it'd be nice to you 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:51.000 be like, oh yeah, you look nice. But I'm not 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:55.400 tripping like it's whatever. It's the other like things that 0:11:55.480 --> 0:12:01.120 were like okay, dang, like we haven't like chilled all week, 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.640 robbing like cleaning and cooking and doing all this stuff. 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:09.440 I'm just saying and I'm like, Okay, I just want 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:13.360 to like, you know, it's okay to be like, okay, man, like, 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.240 let me give you a let me give you a 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:22.920 kids whatever, no Asian whatever. I did tell you that 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:26.160 you're like, but I just think that you're just a 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:30.400 very affectionate person. So and you are your your is 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:34.360 your love language physical test remember it was yeah, physical 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:38.360 like and like and and it is. There's acts of service. 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.600 Yeah yeah, So y'all should read a book. It's called 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:46.360 the Five Languages, and they have five different ways people 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:49.480 show love or and then it's more important about how 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:53.559 people receive or recognize love. Minds is acts of m 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:56.840 I don't know why, but it was two, but you 0:12:56.920 --> 0:13:00.960 have to it was the one. I forgot how mine was? 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:05.960 I think it was Hey Schnick just told me it 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:14.319 was because it was its touch, words of affirmation, affirmation 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:20.240 that was yours. You. I need to know, baby, tell me. 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.920 I need you to tell me. What is the problem 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:27.080 with that? Like, what is the problem with just like 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:30.520 telling that's that ship? Like because nobody's have to tell 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:32.000 you a hundred times. Don't have to tell me a 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:34.960 hundred times. Just tell me one because I appreciate that 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.400 one good time. And then you want it again, and 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:40.000 what's wrong with that? Well? And what's wrong with like Okay, 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.719 I want to kiss and so I can now want 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:47.040 another kids, Like what's wrong okay? So I'm yeah, yeah, 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:51.679 physical touch. That's why I said, obviously he touched me. 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:58.160 What is it about? Intention? Like I got so what? 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.280 I don't want the new with no selers because no 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.760 Seilers is gonna really it's gonna be a great year 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:05.640 for no sellers, right, But I'm trying to figure out 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.680 a couple of things because I don't always want it 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:14.120 to be me questioning women about the ridiculousness whatever you 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:15.839 don't want to get into you you don't want to 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:19.080 get intogether. I can't. I can't problems, have zero problems. 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:25.720 I'm pretty simple. Men are simple, men are searing. But 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:31.280 it's true. Men are are simple. Not everybody should be. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:38.480 We are. What's what's it's not happening to you is 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:41.840 why do you think men aren't simple? What do you mean? 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:46.200 Because we deal with y'all, So what's what's complex? Part 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.240 of it is complex when y'all don't get little things 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:52.200 like just give me a kiss, like that's not us. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:57.320 Just do what I say here, what I'm telling what 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:00.240 are you talking about? Like that's what? Then you're making 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:03.520 it complex, Like that's it. If you just do what 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:07.200 I say, it's so simpler. But why do I have 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.680 to tell you? I should have to tell you? You 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:14.000 just do it? You know? Okay? We're good? Okay, And 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.200 like she said, just tell her why you just keep 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:19.840 tell her? I just want you to tell me over 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.000 and over again. No you don't because they they all 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:26.560 told you no, they don't. Yes, and you like, tell 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.320 me again, that's what the funk? I mean? Tell me 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.400 over and over again? To tell you over again? Just 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.600 tell me? I would be like, I know you want 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:44.640 to tell what do you want to tell me? I'm sorry? 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.000 What the fund? Did you mean? Me? Smoke with that 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:53.200 D shut out to corner boy? Oh my god, shouts out. 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:55.040 I didn't get a chance to meet him. You didn't 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:58.480 because you weren't here next time. Yeah, he was about 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.280 to go and make a d I'll check that, But 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.720 that's not important. That's not over here. What is it 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:08.560 about attention that y'all crave like y'all are like babies? 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:13.520 Men are like babies too, Not really, men are just 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:19.400 men are like toddlers. So you're trying to say that 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.320 you don't like attention. I mean I like it. It's 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.120 not a necessary component of living for me. It's not 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:28.680 necessary components. You just literally said that they need to 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:30.640 just kids. Why did you come kiss me? That's what 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:34.320 I like? You know, the earth doesn't revolve around even 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.680 inside your house. I'm sure. I'm sure you there's things 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:39.920 that you want, right you're like, okay, Well, if like 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:42.280 you said, why can't you guys, why can't women just 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:46.520 be like this? It doesn't breathe revolve around you? But 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:48.720 you want it. No, I will ask for what I want, 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:52.920 and I'm okay. I think the men pick and choose 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.720 when they want certain things that they want to get, 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:58.840 they get sick and ship they act like the biggest 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:03.000 fucking babies. They want all attentions. Baby can get water, 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.280 that's not he's dehydrated. It don't matter, That's what I'm saying. 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:12.879 I'm just standing, give me some more water all day. No, 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:16.240 he could be right there, right there, could be like 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:19.960 right here, he's like this, like, baby, give me a straw. 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:28.080 It tastes better when you held the straw. You ain't 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:32.480 you never held the straw for yes, I have yes, 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:36.800 I have baby tasted nomber that remember that crazy day 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:43.160 that you went on and um, what's crazy day? His? Um, gosh, 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:47.159 what the homing? What is it? He had the disease 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.120 and it flared up and y'all was in the hospital. 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:56.280 He was saying, he can't think of what it is. Yes, 0:17:56.400 --> 0:18:00.919 a sickle cell, yes, and he had attack. It was crazy. 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:03.560 And I was with him and and that ship a 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.680 ship out of me on a date that should scared 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:09.359 the ship out of me. And mind you, I didn't 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:11.560 even know he had sick of cell until that ship 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.720 happened and he told me. So I'm like, dude, that's 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:15.600 something that you need to be telling people when you 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:17.280 it was just me and him. We was on the 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:22.800 road trip to disclose. He had signal sale. Hell yeah 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:25.560 there on the road trip. I might have to call 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:27.920 and I want one like I did. The fuck. I 0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:29.760 don't know what's wrong with this man? What is wrong 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:33.840 with that? Tell me you might sunk around and have it. 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:38.119 That's okay. Phone the trip. If a girl was to 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:42.440 have no, she had seizures, right, she don't tell you 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:44.919 that she's that she'd be having seizures and ship right, 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:47.080 and you go and you take her around the world 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.320 and this bit you have a seizure, They're gonna flip 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:52.679 because you didn't even know that she. I mean, I 0:18:52.680 --> 0:18:54.640 know it can happen, but I'm just saying. She wanted 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:56.040 her to come up to me when we start DAVI, 0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:58.000 but you know I'll be having seizure. No, I mean, 0:18:58.040 --> 0:18:59.600 I think that's gonna come up there. You get to 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:02.760 know her. She it wasn't like Okay, this wasn't They 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:04.720 was on a date, but they knew each other for 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:11.159 a while. Okay, yes, she didn't know. I didn't know, 0:19:11.640 --> 0:19:17.160 honestly didn't know. No, he no, Cecy, I gotta tell 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:20.120 this now, I have to explain this person. So I've 0:19:20.160 --> 0:19:22.680 been knowing this personce I was like seventeen years old. 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:25.440 He's he used to live in New York. He came 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:27.880 out here to l A when when we were about 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:30.240 a team something like that. He was out here because 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:32.120 he got in trouble. His family sent him out here. 0:19:32.160 --> 0:19:33.639 He was only here for a little bit and he 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:36.919 went back. I guess I don't know when he had it. 0:19:37.160 --> 0:19:42.280 Like I said, we met back up later and we're 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.320 adults now, but it wasn't like that. I didn't know 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:48.640 too much, like if he had sickle sale like they know. 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:52.720 I feel like you guys knew enough each other enough 0:19:52.800 --> 0:19:55.520 for him to tell you like hell, hell yeah, I've 0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:57.800 been knowing him for like half of our lives. Like 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:01.720 came because out there, Like, Okay, we're gonna tell me 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:04.679 he didn't go on a date. He told me he 0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:10.440 just didn't want to tell me. You don't want I would. 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.280 I would tell somebody that, Like, yeah, I'm not saying 0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:15.880 I don't think that's like a necessary disclose. I think 0:20:15.920 --> 0:20:19.200 you'll find out. No, I'm not sitting right away. Gee, 0:20:19.240 --> 0:20:21.560 I'm saying as you as you're gonna know something that 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:24.120 they were going on a they were on a date, 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:26.200 but they were going on a trip, like they was 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:30.120 wrong tripping, like she said, like it was just them, 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:31.800 we're going out there to me his friends, we were 0:20:31.800 --> 0:20:36.199 going to a fight. That's what happened. That means that 0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:38.639 he didn't think he was gonna have an outbreak. Yeah, 0:20:38.880 --> 0:20:41.080 he probably didn't trust you, though, what do you mean 0:20:41.080 --> 0:20:43.240 trust Why would you not trust me? Is that something 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:45.399 where it's like you gotta trust somebody to tell them 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:48.560 you got you kind of might not be trustworthy I'm 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:53.720 very trustworthy. What he was talking about ship, let me 0:20:53.800 --> 0:20:57.120 tell you. Yeah right, he told me afterwards, we talked 0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.040 about it. He just didn't tell me that once he 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:03.520 actually added it, it don't matter. That was scary. I 0:21:03.560 --> 0:21:08.120 was so scared for her. I was freaking out sees 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:10.040 and ship that if we're somewhere, I'll just take it 0:21:10.119 --> 0:21:13.119 to the hospital where I called ambulance. Would you be 0:21:13.160 --> 0:21:15.520 having sees you? She's like, I didn't say that, you're 0:21:15.520 --> 0:21:19.560 gonna say I don't feel like saying gonna say this 0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:22.240 all around the world. You know exactly what I'm talking 0:21:22.280 --> 0:21:26.679 about here, because you just gotta say it. You just 0:21:26.720 --> 0:21:30.080 gotta say. You gotta say it. Tell me something I 0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:32.920 didn't know, Like, just tell me. What else should people 0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:36.800 disclosed to you? What are the things people should take you? 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:40.199 Should they tell you if they have a kid, Like 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:43.359 how many dates? Okay, I was about to say, should 0:21:43.359 --> 0:21:48.600 a man tell you he had kids? I don't know. Look, 0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:50.280 I just tell him straight up, like I have a 0:21:50.320 --> 0:21:54.520 sun I want to know. No, I'm talking about it 0:21:54.600 --> 0:21:59.240 before before. It's important because if you don't want to 0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:02.240 date someone that has kids, then give me the choice 0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:05.560 to say, Okay, Well, I don't want to date you. 0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:08.760 Why are you? Why are we playing? Like, shouldn't you 0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:11.760 just care if you like them? If I have choices, 0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:15.720 my choice is I don't want to date someone that 0:22:15.760 --> 0:22:23.200 has kids, But it doesn't matter. That's my choice. So 0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:25.560 my thing is I'm saying I don't have a problem 0:22:25.640 --> 0:22:28.600 with dating someone with kids. But if a person doesn't 0:22:28.760 --> 0:22:31.639 want that, maybe they don't have kids. I think that 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:34.640 it's important to put it on the table in the beginning, 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:39.400 like why not why not with you don't think that 0:22:40.160 --> 0:22:43.040 you should ask some that you should tell someone that 0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:46.560 you have a child. I don't know. I think that 0:22:46.880 --> 0:22:48.640 you only should tell me something to do that has 0:22:48.640 --> 0:22:50.359 something to do with me when it has something to 0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:52.960 do with me. So like, if we talk about being 0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.120 a relationship, you probably should disclose you have a child, 0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:58.159 because now I have to be responsible for that child. Um, 0:22:59.200 --> 0:23:02.760 you're dating, They don't have to tell you that, Oh don't. 0:23:02.800 --> 0:23:06.640 Why would you shouldn't tell me? Ship? Okay, okay, so 0:23:06.720 --> 0:23:09.120 then why you're dating? So then when you say, okay, 0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:12.000 we're gonna be in a relationship, and then like, okay, 0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:14.800 I have a kid and we need to because at 0:23:14.880 --> 0:23:17.760 this point now those things matter in my life. Your 0:23:18.080 --> 0:23:20.280 kid don't matter if I'm trying to get some pussy. 0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:24.000 But okay, and that has no, it doesn't matter like 0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:26.080 if they have a kid or not. You're just gonna 0:23:26.160 --> 0:23:28.199 if you like him, me like him. That would be 0:23:28.240 --> 0:23:31.760 to go. The goal is um we we. I think 0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:34.240