1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things in it shoves not true. Good to mother. Stay, 4 00:00:38,600 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn you 5 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you got 6 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: to turn them out. Then turn the water the water go. 7 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: Come come on your thaw, I shall will Good morning everybody. 8 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on now, dig 9 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: me or one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. 10 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: Thank God for it all the time. Too. Well, here 11 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: we go today. I want to share something with you 12 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: that I'll help you because it's helped me. You know. 13 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: I was telling the story once that this magazine called 14 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: Rob Report, that that was a statue I used to 15 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: see for years. I started buying Rob Reporting magazines years ago. 16 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: So I just wanted to see what a fluent people did, 17 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: you know, just wanted to see what people with means did, 18 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: what type of investments they did, what they bought, you know, 19 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: what they traveled to. The Rob Report. It's just like, oh, 20 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: it's like a big boy toy magazine. You can see 21 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: what cars is out. I didn't have money for none. 22 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: Of it. I was dreaming, though, you know, I just 23 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: wanted to see. And there's a statue inside this magazine 24 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: of this man who was coming out of this bronze rock. 25 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: And he was completely bronze, and he was muscular, and 26 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: you know, he didn't look nothing like me, but he 27 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: was a man coming up out of a rock. And 28 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: he had a huge hammer and a chisel in his hand. 29 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 1: And as his body from the waist up was coming 30 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: out of this huge piece of stone, you could see 31 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: where it was him who had been chiseling and forming himself. 32 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: So the name of the statue was self made man. 33 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: And for years man I said, Man, I'm gonna get 34 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: a big house one day, and I'm gonna put that 35 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: statue in the backyard in the corner. That's gonna be 36 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: my little spot where I go chill, because I'm a 37 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: self made man. Well, after years of working at becoming 38 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 1: somebody and having reached a degree of success, I would 39 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: have nothing to do with that statue. There's nothing about 40 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: that statue that appeals to me anymore. Because on my 41 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: journey and in my quest to become what I thought 42 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: would be this self made man, why I could put 43 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: this statue and had a statue in the corner, be 44 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: kind of cold, symbolizing it. I had made it. I 45 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 1: realized on my journey there's no such thing as a 46 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: self made man. That we all need help, and that 47 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: God places people in our paths along the way that 48 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: benefit us oftentimes, and it's the most unlikely person oftentimes, 49 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: and the most unlikely way that He presents these people 50 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: in front of you is crazy how he does it. Man. 51 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: And so this is a statue now that I look 52 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: at and I go, I see what the creator was saying. 53 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: And that's cool, but not not for me, because I 54 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: needed help. And I've learned a lot of things like 55 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: this along the way. And the part I wanted to 56 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: share with you all about this is you've got to develop. 57 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: You've got to develop a sense of purpose. You have 58 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: to develop a sense of purpose. That's different. See, your 59 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: purpose is created for you by God because when He 60 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: created you as an individual from whatever two parents you 61 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: may have, that's not important here. When he created you, 62 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: he had something in mind for you, and it was 63 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: a purpose. God has not created a single soul to 64 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: become a criminal. God has never created a single soul 65 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: to be a drug dealer. This came about through some 66 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: decisions we made as sinners, and we stayed in that place. 67 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: But see what He created us. He has a wonderful 68 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: idea for us. But God gives us human beings this 69 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: thing called choice, and we have the power to decide. 70 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: So you can decide if you're going to adhere to 71 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: the purpose that God created you and made you for, 72 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: or you can go ahead and make some choices on 73 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: your own. So like, if God wanted to give you 74 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: a life and give it to come to you and 75 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: give you life more abundantly, and that's his promise if 76 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: you come to him, if you choose him, then cool. 77 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: But if you say, well this ain't moving along fast enough, 78 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my own life of abundance, I'm gonna 79 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: start slinging. Well, guess what now, Tad. You've made a decision. 80 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: And see God's decisions and choices. The one thing I 81 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: learned about him, God's decisions, choices, his voice, it has 82 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: no sin in it. Ain't it amazing how many people 83 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: it came up to you and say, the Lord wanted 84 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: me to do this to you, and I'm doing it. 85 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: That God is punishing you and I'm doing this to 86 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: you because God gonna see that you get your day. 87 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:04,559 Speaker 1: Who is this person? Who is this person that God 88 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: all of a sudden gave this authority and power to God? 89 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: I didn't get that to nobody. Man, nobody, This person 90 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: don't had a right to hold you to your past, 91 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: the right to make you pay. So who makes them 92 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: pay when they make mistakes? Because they all make them. 93 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: So when I say you have to have a sense 94 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: of you have to develop a strong sense of purpose. 95 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: That means you have to strongly get in touch with 96 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: your creator to find out what the purpose you were 97 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: created for. See, it's two things that I had to 98 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: learn along the way. My career was what I was 99 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: paid for. My calling is what I was made for. See, 100 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: it's two different things, folks. It took me a long 101 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: time to learn it. Some people think that they calling 102 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: is to be a performer. Well, that's what you paid for, 103 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: and a big part of your life is your performance 104 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: is tied directly to your gift. But what you made for, though, 105 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: what you made for is to bring about some significant 106 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: change in another human being's lives because we are all 107 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: linked together in this chain. That's what you are here for. 108 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: Everybody has a purpose to do something wonderful, meaningful, or 109 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: impactful for another person. You think the guy that invented 110 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: the airplane was merely inventing the airplane so he could fly. No, 111 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: his purpose was to become an inventor, to come up 112 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: with this invention so he could fly and we all fly. See. 113 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes God will make you successful so you can become 114 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: successful so you can turn around and teach other people 115 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: how to become successful. God save people, so you can 116 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: turn around it tell other people how wonderful it is 117 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: to be saved. You see how this thing work. That's 118 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: what we have to do as people. And it's nothing 119 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: that we have to go and discover. We have to 120 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: go and develop it. But if you haven't discovered your purpose, 121 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 1: it's simply because here's it. If you haven't discovered your 122 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: purpose is simply because you have not contacted the creator 123 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: and maker of your soul to ask and find out 124 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: why you were created. It's as simple as that. If 125 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: you buy a toyota, there's an owner's manual on the 126 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: inside that will tell you everything you know how to 127 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: best operate your toyota, how to make it work, how 128 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: what to do They got a troubleshooting section. Your faith 129 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: is the same thing as an owner's manual in your car. 130 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: Open up that bulk man. Find out how to jumpstart 131 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: your life, how to troubleshoot it and get on with 132 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: your life, and find out your purpose and develop a 133 00:09:54,800 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: strong sense of purpose. All right, okay, you're listening to show. 134 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Let me have your undivided attention. Please. 135 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: This is the Morning Time, this is the morning Show. 136 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: This is your man, Steve Harvey. Now I got some 137 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: people with men. I am about to introduce them. Don't 138 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: nobody clapped till I'm completely through. Shirley Strawberry, Good morning, Steve. 139 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: How are you doing? Obviously we're on some type of delay. 140 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: Caller Pharrell, Good morning. What's up? Crow? Hasty? That damn 141 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: junior morning? Everybody morning? Up here on time. Nephew Tommy, 142 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: good morning, sir. Okay, using you're ready for love voice? Okay, yeah, yeah, 143 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: that's not ready for love voice love ready for love. Nephew, 144 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: you got a real good on your hand. Thank you 145 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: so good. My mama watched that. Yeah, I'm I'm not 146 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: just saying that because you're the nephew. It's really good. 147 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: I appreciate really good in a shocker? Who y'all in 148 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: for a shock? Really? Oh? Man? Keep my own coming in. 149 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: On Friday night, my girlfriends called me about this show. 150 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: They'd be like, listen, ask Tommy. I'm not asking him 151 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: nothing show. Everybody was texting me, Now what time is 152 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: it on again? When does it come on? When does 153 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 1: it come on? Spoiler Like, I'm not telling y'all. Yeah, 154 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: it's better and better good. You gonna show up, show out, 155 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: and then really show out the natural. Oh god, but 156 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: you know something, no, man, You know, man, when you 157 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: see people on a weekly basis on these shows, you 158 00:11:55,480 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: really do understand why some people don't have nobody. Yeah 159 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: you do, you really do. You go wait a minute, wait, 160 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: that's how you act, and you think that's the way 161 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: it's supposed to go. Yeah, ain't nobody feeling to put 162 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: up with that? So okay, you know it's it's a 163 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: it's a it's a representative at first, but that wears off, 164 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Then about the second or 165 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: third week, you'd be like, that's who you really are 166 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: right there, because they're a little nervous at first, You're 167 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 1: saying they don't know what to expect So they're kind 168 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: of they got the guards up everybodies, you know, kind 169 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: of yeah, kind of kind of not saying much. Well, 170 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: I thank you, right though, Tommy, I thank you right. 171 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: I think it's the representative. Yeah, but that representative can't 172 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: can't hold on for a whole season. No, nah, can't 173 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,719 Speaker 1: last long. See that whole season. You all passed the 174 00:12:54,880 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: ninety days. Yeah, that's exactly real life. Gonna say something 175 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: you don't like and then the representative has to take 176 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: a seat. Yeah, yeah, all come the real somebody say 177 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: something you like, yeah, and the representative got to go 178 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: take a seat. Oh, let's do it, nady. Oh wait, 179 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: you are celibate photo show start. Yeah it was a 180 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: week ago. It was a week ago. But you say 181 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: like weave, So I got weave. So what we white? Now? 182 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: All right, listen, guys coming up at thirty two minutes 183 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: after the hour, get ready for Ask the Clo right 184 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show time now for Ask 185 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: the Clo. Uh you're ready, Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Okay, 186 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: let's go. This one is from Serafia and Montgomery, Alabama. 187 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: She says, I'm a fifty two year old woman and 188 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm in a situation with one of my dad's cousins. 189 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: My dad has called this man his cousin all my life, 190 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: but it's one of those distant down the line cousins 191 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: that's neither here nor there. Because he and my dad 192 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: are close. His cousin is a handyman, and he came 193 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: to fix my washing machine three months ago and stayed 194 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: for dinner, drinks, and sex. I really put it on him, 195 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: and now he wants to be with me, and he 196 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: doesn't care what my dad thinks. He said at sixty one, 197 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: he's finally found love and he's not letting me go. 198 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: Should he tell my dad or should I? Well, no, 199 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: first of all, let's talk about a couple, because I 200 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: ain't done this in a while, So excuse me for 201 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: having this richboard moment. But you say he came by 202 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: the house to fix your washing machine? Is the main 203 00:14:54,600 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: tag man steel working making house calls. I didn't even 204 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: know that, and it is it a maytag. So y'all 205 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: came by fix the washing machine, had dinner, drinks and 206 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: some sex. You put it on a real good your 207 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: daddy's cousin and nah, wait a minute, Now down the line, 208 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: distant cousin. No, no, no, no, I don't give a 209 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: damn what you're saying. You're gonna have to tell No. 210 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: She said, that's neither here nor there, But that's gonna 211 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,359 Speaker 1: be right here when you're going there, And tell your daddy. 212 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: Now it's her daddy's friend. Now. She fifty one, her 213 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: daddy probably in his seventies. Now, this little cousin boy, 214 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: it's like me and nephew Tommy, ten year difference. Little 215 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: cousin Barden came over and tapped his daughter. It's gonna 216 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: be a sex in him late, it's gonna be a 217 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: situation in him. Well, the cousin said, he's finally found love. 218 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: Don't forget this clo and he's not letting her go okay, 219 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: and he doesn't care what her dad thinks. Ain't nobody 220 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: told you saying yeah, dinner dreams, He don't care. Yeah, 221 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: all right, let's move on Alexi and Detroit, because that 222 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: relationship is gonna be what it is. Alexei and Detroit. 223 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: Steve says, I'm a twenty eight year old female and 224 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: I met a thirty two year old man at my 225 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: new church for our first and only date. I met 226 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: him at a dance studio because he's into ballroom dancing. 227 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: He had on a full leotard and he flowed effortlessly 228 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: around the dance floor with his lips pursed and his 229 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: toes pointed. I wasn't as good as him, so he 230 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 1: grabbed a mail partner and kept dancing. As I watched. 231 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 1: That date was so different, and I was turned off. 232 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: He asked me for a second date. Should I ask 233 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 1: him if he's heterosexual before the next date? C l oh, 234 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 1: don't cloth come on. Clothe wont to be involved in 235 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: this type of question due to the climate win these dates, 236 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: so I have to be very careful how I answer this. 237 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 1: So just let me go over what you said. Okay, 238 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: if you own a date with a man whose lips 239 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: is perched and they have on full leatage, and when 240 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: you ain't dancing, ass flowing and flee freely and your 241 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: tones don't point as good as his point, and he 242 00:17:54,840 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: grabs a man to finish dance, shit, you go on 243 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: another day. I ain't got to ask him nothing about sexuality. 244 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not gonna say that and get 245 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: in no damn trouble. But you got on the four 246 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 1: leotar set. You can point your toes better than she can't. 247 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: That's because he's a dancing dancing Yeah, that was ball 248 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: room That ain't that. I thought it was ballroom too, 249 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: Tommy to point ain't in ballroom dance. But if leotars 250 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: ain't in ball Hello that you did that yourself. If 251 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: you're in the dance studio, no, not o. But that's 252 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: aceptible dance. Tu see though, Yeah, that's ballroom dancing. Yeah, 253 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: but stars every week though we ain't see I ain't 254 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: seen nobody. Nelly didn't have on four leotars. But he's 255 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: not a professor dancer star, he's the star on Dancing 256 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: with the Star. Yeah, I think you're looking at this 257 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: this a different way, Steve. We're looking at it through 258 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 1: a leotard the same way you gave it to it 259 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: looking at im. But the leotard is acceptable for a 260 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: man or a woman if you're a dancer. Though plenty 261 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 1: of Junior was saying, Steve, but just like Julia had 262 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: listening and dancing with the stars, when they dance, they 263 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: do different types of dancing because they're professional dancing, so 264 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 1: you just never know what dance. Wait a minute, hold 265 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: on hold hold on, y'all, hold on just to see 266 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 1: say that k see how many more me? And he 267 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: grabbed and finish up the dance with all right, we're 268 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: moving on, Edgar, She said, I'm an older gentleman and 269 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for eleven years. It's what 270 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: you pay attention with a beautiful, feisty woman. I wanted 271 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: to marry be Ahead Junior. I wanted to marry her 272 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 1: years ago, but she doesn't believe in marriage. She's cheated 273 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: on me twice years ago. I forgave her, but I 274 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: didn't forget. I think she's interested in someone new again 275 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: because she's been talking about getting a breathlift and eyelift 276 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: and boat hot. I'm more laid back, but she loves 277 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: to run the streets and travel. Will she ever settled down? 278 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: Or do you think she's up to something? I don't know, dude, 279 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: but I'm telling you, if you can't get where you 280 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 1: want to go with him, if you go down to 281 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: this dance studio, there's a dude down there with some 282 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: leotizo with some pointy toes, and when the water's right, 283 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 1: he snatched me in up and go dancing, And you 284 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: might have your problem solved. Coming up next to nephew, 285 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: run that break back. Thank you see l oh, you're listening. 286 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: She's a Steve Harvey Morning show. Coming up at the 287 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: top of the hour, Missanna standing by with today's national news, 288 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: and then enter Tainment News. The American Music Award nominations 289 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: are in. Carla will update us inside Music News. Also 290 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: on Entertainment News, Marlon Wayans told Tiffany Hattish why she 291 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: was never cast in any of his films because he 292 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: says she was over the top. We'll talk about all 293 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: of these stories at the top of the hour, but 294 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: right now the nephew is here, would run that prank back? 295 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nev You can't come back 296 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: to church? Who a you're talking to them? Okay, you 297 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: can't come back to church. How dare you judge me? 298 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 1: We having problems? You can't. You can't. We were not 299 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: not no time soon. You can't come back to church. 300 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: Let's go cat though. Hello, I'm trying to reach this 301 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: to sher Reees Mayfield, who is Deacon Bobs from from 302 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: the church, Deacon who bounds from from our church? Yes, yes, ma'am, 303 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: okay from from from can you hear me? Good. There's 304 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: old phone gonna work. We're good. Yeah, my phonal came. 305 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: Okay that I called it. The deacon board didn't had 306 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: a meeting as well as uh pastors and uh they 307 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:16,120 Speaker 1: didn't have a meeting. That come to the understanding that, uh, 308 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: they're gonna ask you to not come to church right 309 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 1: now because that about that the bars of your airic 310 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: and James being in jail the way there is and 311 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: want to want you to just stop. I don't know 312 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 1: if they're gonna suspend you from church right now, but 313 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: they they think it put a bad look on the church. 314 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: My kids being in jail put a bad look on 315 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: the church. Well that's what that's what's what the that's 316 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: what they come up with. Now, we didn't had a 317 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: meeting with the deacon board and with passing stoves. I 318 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: don't understand why y'all have a meeting meeting about my 319 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,239 Speaker 1: kids in the church. What my kids got to do 320 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: with the church. Well, what we're trying to do is 321 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: show a good example to the youth that we got there. Okay, 322 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,640 Speaker 1: you can show a good example about me being there, 323 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: paying my ties and offering. Well, that was another thing 324 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 1: that's been brought down attention that we're gonna be calling 325 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: a lot of members about it. People not paying the 326 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: tie the way they fold. I pay my task. I 327 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know who told you that, Deacon Mars. 328 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 1: I don't even know, first of all, who you are. 329 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to be mean to you, and 330 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even understand why you how you 331 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 1: even got my phone number. I pay my ties, I 332 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: pay my offering. Go on your computer at the church, 333 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 1: call your secretary or whoever. Let me, let me, let 334 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: me ask you this, just makee Do you pay your 335 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: tie according to what you make? Yes? I do check 336 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 1: the books. What now what it is? We can't check 337 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: the books that we don't know exactly what you make? 338 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: Is what I'm saying. What I make is my bustinance 339 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: between me and Jesus. I give him his ten percent. 340 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 1: And that's how Mars. He'll need to know understand exactly 341 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: where you come from, but not to me. Ain't issue 342 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: on tables about the boys and and and being you know, 343 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: disrupted the way to hell. They don't want that to 344 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: be to bleed over to the youth. Quiet, Wait a minute, 345 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, And first of all, I would appreciate 346 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: if you would have pastor to tell me this hisself. 347 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: And then second of all, if somebody kids is having 348 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: trouble in the world or whatever, y'all supposed to pray 349 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,959 Speaker 1: for him, not put them at the church or they Mama, Well, I'm, I'm, I'm, 350 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: we're gonna, we're gonna pray for and we're gonna pray 351 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: for you too, But we don't want them shared over 352 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 1: to the youth that we got that doing good with that. Well, 353 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep coming. Y'all can't stop me from coming 354 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: to the church. I'm gonna keep coming. So I don't 355 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: know who you're talking to. And you tell a pastor 356 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: to call me hitself and tell me I can't come 357 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: to Hell, and you have nobody calling me telling me 358 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 1: that I can't come to hell. That is a free church. 359 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get the pastor called up as you get 360 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: the pastor to call me, because you have no business 361 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: calling me to let me I can't come to God's house, 362 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: which is Mayville. I don't want you to get into 363 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 1: role with me now. I'm not getting I'm not getting 364 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: angry with nobody. Did I work? I don't work eighteen 365 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: sixteen hours today, I don't have half nobody calling me 366 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: telling me that I can't come to a church that 367 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: I pay my cars and offering that not that I 368 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 1: own the church. I pay my casts because that's that's 369 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: due to God. But y'all really making me upset by 370 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 1: telling me I can't come now because of my kids 371 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: in their troubles. Where was you this past son to you? 372 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 1: Wasn't there? I want that church because I had over 373 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: stuff that Why is that any of your bills? Now? 374 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 1: There you go being an up road with me again. 375 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: I don't know who this is. How could you call 376 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: somebody about church buists over the phone. This don't make sense. 377 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: Chise Mayfeld Hello, Yeah, one more thing. This nephew timent 378 00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Ship. I got you, y'all. 379 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, who is this guy talking about church being? 380 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 1: You know what I like about you? Though, Ain't nobody 381 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: gonna keep you out the Lord's House. You're gonna show 382 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: up and show out every Sunday. Every Sunday, I'm coming 383 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 1: to Church of Jesus. Thank you, every baby. Let me 384 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: ask you something. That's the baddest radio show in the land. Now, 385 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,199 Speaker 1: do you even have to ask me that the Steve 386 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: Harvey more than itself. You know you can't be put 387 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 1: out the church. You do know as possible. I did 388 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: not know that. The pastor, Well, I'm just saying you 389 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: can't come back to church. You know what I'm doing 390 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: a prankster. It's what pranksters don't come back to church. 391 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 1: We don't want to see you Ryan here. Your boys 392 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: is just a bad influence on the rest of the kids. 393 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: It's just not all right. Get y'all lives together, and 394 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: then you can come on back to the House of 395 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: the law. Won't he do it? Won't he do it? Really? 396 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: Won't it? Won't it will? Yes? Yes, yes, yes, make 397 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: a way out of no way? A man? What's next? 398 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: Lily O the valley, bright and morning style will in 399 00:27:52,400 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: the middle of a wheel Alpha, don't maker? I feel 400 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: some kind of way. Now here's my daddy coming out 401 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: of me for a second. Now that's the cue for 402 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 1: the dude that asked for the money. Won't you give? Yeah? 403 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: Read them give? Pastor, He's Adams. Here is the warner, 404 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: Adams redeem Abel's been the candle, then the catle. Abraham 405 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: sacrificed sacrifice, Norh's All and Gideon's Fleece Fleet, Mary's Baby Ball, 406 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: Baby Ball, James and Jude's big brother, oh, big brother Matthews, 407 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: King Joshua was battle. Come okay with that? All right, 408 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: let the church say, hey man, coming up at the 409 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: time of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news where 410 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: you right after this, you're listening to the sty Morning 411 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: Show and entertainment news. Carla is here with today's music news. 412 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: What's going on, Carla, what's happening? Well, first of all, 413 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: the b ET Hip Hop Awards are tonight, hosted by 414 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: We gotta give a shout out to the crew eighty 415 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 1: five South five Carlo Chico. Yes, yes, so they are hosting, 416 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: so we'll check it out night. Also, the American Music Awards, 417 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: Yes they are. The nominations were released yesterday. They were announced, 418 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 1: making the Stallion the weekend. Roddy Rich I like his music. 419 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 1: They all let the nominations. They got about eight nominees 420 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: a piece. So the American Music Awards will air on 421 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 1: ABC on November twenty second. And then finally, in music news, 422 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: the Versus Battle is set. The next Battle is set 423 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: for November nineteenth. Atlanta rappers Young Jeez versus t I 424 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: and Young Jeez will be our guests tomorrow on the 425 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, so hopefully he'll tell us about us. 426 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: Give a little sneak peek, that's what's gonna go down 427 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: during the battle on November nineteen. I heard it was 428 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: supposed to be Buster rhymes and tab some of him. 429 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: Oh really, bust uncle Bus, uncle bus bus. I don't 430 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: know what happened with that? Your Buster say nobody won't 431 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: none to him? You know you was in leaders of 432 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 1: the New School, like the generational gap is too far 433 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: between Buster and Try. Yeah, yeah, I can see that. 434 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 1: I can see that. I don't man, I'm talking about 435 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: so contributing. You're contributed. I put earthwhere in five gifts 436 00:30:54,160 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: off any day, every battle, every battle, Old Life, you 437 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 1: play your hit. I got her, but what help now? Boy? 438 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: I put her? When the fire begainst Elvis, you know, 439 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 1: put him down, will shut his whole catalog down to 440 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 1: for the show? What you throw? Do you remember when 441 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: if a Blue Sway shoes Blue Sway shoes, would you mind? 442 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 1: If a touch for kids? You need to be ont 443 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 1: go to her home. Dog need to be on versus 444 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: Battle battling yourself. Yeah, Earth pointing five versus battle hitting 445 00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: body anybody except Frank Ski Oh okay, because he knows 446 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: too much. But you know too, turning tables and all that, 447 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: and y yeah, ain't w and two just wars. You 448 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 1: play yours, I play mine. That's music. I can't mess 449 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: with him, and I can't messed with that boy d 450 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: Nice and Kid Capri and your listens, So just say 451 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: you're not gonna do it now, just forget it. Yeah, 452 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: I have to stay in my age group. I challenge 453 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: any sixty year old and J'll be you and j 454 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 1: Anthony Brown. I got crush Jake. I crushed Jay like 455 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 1: a great, like he stole something. Well, you all could 456 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 1: do the music and sing, because both of you all 457 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: can sing. He's gonna lose that too. All right, listen, 458 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: come on Steve, time for today's headline. Ladies and gentlemen, 459 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 1: miss A and trip. Thank you very much, and this 460 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 1: is a trip of the news. Everybody, Good morning. Well, 461 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: as expected, the Republican dominated US Senate did vote last 462 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: night fifty two to forty eight to confirm right wing 463 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: judge Amy Coney Barrett to the Supreme Court, and with 464 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: her confirmation coming only eight days before election day and 465 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 1: only thirty days appters she was nominated. That makes her 466 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: confirmation process one of the fastest in US history. Judge 467 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: Barrett fills the seat left, of course, vacant by the 468 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: death of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Justice Clarence Thomas. 469 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: Delivered the preliminary swearing into office or last night. She'll 470 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 1: be sworn into office this morning officially as well. Barrett's 471 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: lifetime appointment gives Conservatives a six to three majority on 472 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 1: the High Court, and the right wing court will now 473 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,719 Speaker 1: have the opportunity to make a number of decisions on 474 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: some controversial issues, including reproductive rights, Second Amendment rights that 475 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: would be guns, and the affordable healthcare reacting to it, 476 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: though sent a majority, Leader Mitch McConnell seems somewhat resigned 477 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: to receiving bad news on election day, but with some 478 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 1: sort of legacy, a lot of what we've done over 479 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 1: the last four years will be undone sooner or later. 480 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 1: By the next election. It won't be able to do 481 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 1: much about this for a long time to come. In fact, 482 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,280 Speaker 1: Donald Trump has now put three people on the Supreme 483 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 1: Court and filled over one hundred federal judge ships with conservatives. 484 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 1: Cops in Boston say they've arrested a thirty nine year 485 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 1: old man for setting a ballot dropbox on fire outside 486 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,839 Speaker 1: of Boston Public Library Sunday morning. Authority say the act 487 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 1: appeared deliberate and that a court already had an active 488 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: warn't out against the suspect. His name is World d Armad. 489 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 1: As for the ballots, they say that out of the 490 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 1: one hundred twenty two that were inside that box, eighty 491 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,479 Speaker 1: seven are legible and are able to be processed. Most 492 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: of the remaining thirty five could probably be read, but 493 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: as many as ten, maybe five to ten will quote 494 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 1: badly damage. One of the three white Louisville, Kentucky cops 495 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 1: involved in the killing of black female Lubernacy medical technician 496 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 1: on A. Taylor, admitting that the young woman quote didn't 497 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: do anything to deserve a death sentence. Sergeant John Manley 498 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 1: two others ram their way into miss Taylor's apartment around 499 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: one o'clock in the morning as part of a no 500 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 1: knock warrant looking for a drugs suspect who'd been arrested 501 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 1: at another location hours early. A grand jury refused to 502 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 1: indict any of the cops involved in shooting her to death. 503 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: Warner Brothers has signed one of the founders of the 504 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 1: Black Lives Matter movement to an overall media deal. Patrise 505 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: Coolers will reportedly develop and produce original programming for all platforms, 506 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 1: streaming services, cable, and the five broadcast networks. She's also 507 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: to work with Warner Brothers to create opportunities for black storytelling. Finally, 508 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 1: our prayers good wishes go out to rock and roll 509 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: legend and club owner mister personality Lloyd Price. Lloyd Price 510 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: is eighty seven years old. He just underwent a diabetes 511 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,879 Speaker 1: related operation and we pray for his recovery. Now back 512 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. 513 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 1: In trending political news in seven days now, just one week, 514 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: guys before the election, Vice President Mike Penns, his chief 515 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 1: of staff, and several other aides have tested positive for 516 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:16,840 Speaker 1: the virus. Despite all of that, pen No, he doesn't 517 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 1: have it. He does not have it. Yeah, everybody work 518 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, his staff has it. Yeah yeah. Yeah. 519 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 1: He's on the campaign trail though, saying Having said all 520 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: of that, also, yesterday the President held three Make America 521 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: Great Again. Rallies in Pennsylvania. Meanwhile, singer Phil Collins get 522 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: this guy's Phil Collins has had it Okay, Yesterday Phil 523 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 1: got his attorney to fire off a cease and assist 524 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,280 Speaker 1: letter to the Trump campaign to stop playing his song 525 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 1: in the air tonight at his rallies. Phil Collins does 526 00:36:54,440 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: not appreciate how Trump is trivializing COVID nineteen. Okay, come on, yeah, 527 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:17,800 Speaker 1: clad hit him. Look at STIPID I know, dancing in 528 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:25,760 Speaker 1: his chair. I like that though, so crazy. Yeah, shut 529 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: it down because it's not a joke. Also, yesterday Joe 530 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: Biden said Trump the worst person possible to lead us 531 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,359 Speaker 1: through this pandemic. And he's correct and he couldn't be 532 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 1: more right. Don't play the song no more? Bind come 533 00:37:53,920 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: out on, let bin come out on. Sh say what? 534 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: Let them have it right? I play it again? Trump 535 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 1: O feel shut that down? Well did they stop? Now? 536 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 1: They're not gonna do it again? No, because he's supposed 537 00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:39,919 Speaker 1: to go to Arizona the president. You can't do that. 538 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 1: You can't play them songs on i G. You can't 539 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: play them on Facebook. You can't take a person's music 540 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 1: and just play it and benefit from it. They getting 541 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 1: campaign contributions. Get out of here. We're gonna switch gears here, 542 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: have a little fun. Back to your childhood, guys, and 543 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: I got to ask you this, What is the most 544 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 1: unsafe thing your parents let you do as a kid? Okay, 545 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: we'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 546 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: the Steve Morning Show. Here's the question, what's the most 547 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,439 Speaker 1: unsafe thing your parents let you do as a kid. 548 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: Here's a comment from JJ that we saw on Facebook. 549 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 1: It says, now that I'm a parent, when I think 550 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,399 Speaker 1: about it, all of the unsafe things my parent let 551 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,840 Speaker 1: me do as a kid, it makes me say, what 552 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 1: the hell? It was truly different back then. I remember 553 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: my dad letting my brother and I have baby guns. 554 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: We also build a mini bike out of a lawnmower engine, 555 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: which we would crash on a regular basis. So, I mean, 556 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: you guys, think about it. Steve, Tommy Junior, how was 557 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: your your childhood unsafe compared to the kids today? Best 558 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 1: Tommy and Steve. Y'all parents and we played outside a lot. Yeah, 559 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 1: I got a hunted up go ahead. One of the 560 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 1: first thing my parents they knew that was unsafe, was 561 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 1: like in six cooky, I got the whole operation of 562 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,959 Speaker 1: the stove. They left me cook at six years old. 563 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 1: You were boiling hot dogs on high water gold out 564 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,640 Speaker 1: the pot. I ain't got no water in here. Why 565 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 1: you could have burnt the whole house to the hound shot. 566 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 1: I didn't do that was put a pizza in the 567 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 1: oven in the box. Did not know this? Oh that 568 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 1: was a woman. I got old. You said, warming up, 569 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: I've been cooking. Come onlips clips off the house, off 570 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: the top of the house. My cousin got. My brother 571 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,359 Speaker 1: did flip off the house and on the ground. Yeah yeah, yeah, 572 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:05,400 Speaker 1: lip off the house. Problem. My brother did that. That 573 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,319 Speaker 1: was it, Tommy. We was we was trying to kill you. 574 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 1: The parents never knew that, Timmy. They didn't let you 575 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 1: do that. We told you, they said you could. That 576 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: is just not nice, all right? Come on, big dog? 577 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: What you got going down the freeway in a station 578 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: wagon standing up in the back seat, hanging out the 579 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 1: window looking no seat belt, no, none of that. Back then, 580 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: we just standing up head out the wonder like a dog. 581 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 1: JT A lot of bugs, I bet oh, oh I 582 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 1: got one. I got one. I wanted this so bad. 583 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to smoke my dad's cigar, and I begged 584 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 1: and begged until finally he said, okay, cool, you're gonna 585 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 1: smoke the whole damn thing. I was nine. I was 586 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,840 Speaker 1: throwing up for three days. I was literally throwing all. 587 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 1: I didn't want to see another sing. Wow, come on, Junior, 588 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 1: got anything else, Steve, y'all, let you know nothing. Probably 589 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,959 Speaker 1: wasn't safe, but as a kid, but I'm like ten, 590 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,759 Speaker 1: catching the city bus to school, not the school bus. 591 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 1: The city bus hid the hell. I was supposed to 592 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,920 Speaker 1: know a bus routing team. I got to find my 593 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 1: old way school. I didn't know. Get your ass out there. 594 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 1: I ain't. I can't take it this morning. Just get on. 595 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 1: We know we're running behind. Just get on the bus 596 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 1: three seven, eight Broadway. Take it to your senior school. 597 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: I love your family. I supposed to know that at 598 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:56,680 Speaker 1: ten you can close it out. No, we got a minute. 599 00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 1: We lived in an industrial city, factories, Republic steel form. 600 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 1: They letting me make and eat snow ice cream. Yeah, 601 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 1: growing up in Chicago, I've had some of those right 602 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: down the street from the steel men here. Well it's 603 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:35,439 Speaker 1: calming monoxide. Who's next? Come on, I'll tell you nothing 604 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 1: they let me do. Okay, it's unsafe for kids to 605 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 1: take shots of crown. I'm just gonna tell you that 606 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: right now, Your love, I ain't got no love for this. 607 00:43:53,640 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: It's unsafet of crowded dead. Oh my god. All right, listen. 608 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 1: Coming up next, the nephew is here with today's Frank 609 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey 610 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. 611 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today, 612 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 1: the subject I can't stand my family period period. All right, 613 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: But the nephew is here right now for today's Frank 614 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us, nap, It's time 615 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 1: to get to the roots of it, right mass Charley, 616 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: Roots of the Roots? Okay, yeah, the title is nappy Hair. Okay, yeah, yeah, 617 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 1: let's go. Kid. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to get Francis. Hey, friends, 618 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: how you doing. My name is Daryl dar Our kids 619 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 1: they go to our together. Oh yeah, yeah, your daughters Kaylin, right, yes, okay, 620 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 1: my son DJ Darryl Jr. They I think I may 621 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,399 Speaker 1: have met you at the beginning of the school. Yeah, 622 00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: you remember meeting me, Daryl, Daryl, Oh, I met a 623 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 1: lot of people, but I'm sorry, I can't place you 624 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:14,239 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, no problem. Hey listen, um, I was 625 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 1: getting your call. You know, there's only a handful of 626 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 1: black kids at the school, you know, being a private 627 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: school and all, and we the black parents, we all 628 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,920 Speaker 1: got together and had a meeting a couple of nights ago. Okay, 629 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: you said, all the black parents. Okay, I wasn't there. 630 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 1: Why wasn't our call? Uh, well, we actually had a 631 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: meeting about your daughter, Kaylin. Oh well, what about Kaylin? 632 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,240 Speaker 1: She is there a problem at school that she's creating 633 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,520 Speaker 1: or something I don't even know about. What's what's going 634 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 1: on with? Well? Actually, we're you know, we feel privileged 635 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 1: to be you know, you know, like I said, there's 636 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 1: only a handful of blacks, and we try to carry 637 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 1: ourselves in a dignified way, our presence, our attitude, the 638 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,839 Speaker 1: way we handle ourselves. And uh, you know, Kaylin's doing 639 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: very good in school from what I understand, and very 640 00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: nice with all the rest of the kids. She's getting along. 641 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: That's not the problem. What we're what we're trying to 642 00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 1: get is the grooming of Kaylin. You know, Kaylin has 643 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 1: these braids, and what we were trying to do is give. 644 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 1: You know, we had a meeting about it. We want 645 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: to hold hold of Did you just say her grooming 646 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 1: something wrong with her grooming? Well, it's not necessarily her clothing, 647 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: of course, you know the kids were the uniforms, but 648 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 1: the braids. You know, we want to represent ourselves with 649 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: a lot of dignity the way we carry ourselves. We 650 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: want to be um, you know, pretty much nice and clean, 651 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,440 Speaker 1: spitting polished. We would really prefer for her hair was 652 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: straight and opposed to being braided up. You know, you mean, 653 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: it kind of gives off a ghetto type of look 654 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,240 Speaker 1: to it, and that's what we're trying to avoid. Are 655 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: you crazy? It's something wrong with you. You know, first 656 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,879 Speaker 1: of all, how the hell you get my num? If 657 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: you couldn't call me for the meeting, why you calling 658 00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 1: me now? Well, like I said, man, the meeting was 659 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: to get the general consensus on where all the parents 660 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,880 Speaker 1: feeling the same way about your daughter and her braid. 661 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 1: You know, we're just trying to keep everything class here. 662 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 1: When it comes to the blacks attended school, there's only 663 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,719 Speaker 1: ten of us, you know, ten children attending. I'll tell 664 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,839 Speaker 1: you what you can attend. You could what you can 665 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 1: attend to. Is this phone hanging up in your grace? 666 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 1: You tell up the parents, all of them for me. 667 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 1: Y'all can go straight and hit rock bottom out of hell. 668 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 1: Talk about my child with her braids. Her braids are ethnic, 669 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 1: they are nice, she's wearing rooms and I don't know 670 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 1: hid in the hell you got my telephone number. But 671 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 1: tell all the parents for me to kiss the crack 672 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,360 Speaker 1: am out. You know what. Listen, First of all, I 673 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 1: don't like the way that you're talking to me. Okay, 674 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,760 Speaker 1: I carry myself with class, with dignity. I'm spitting polish 675 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:48,280 Speaker 1: man subject you. I can just as ghetto as her hairstyle. 676 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 1: And let me say something real ghetto to your Okay, 677 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 1: you and all parents can hit rock from out of hell. 678 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: Don't call me no more with no like this. This 679 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 1: is ignorant. I'm far on this. My child is well groomed. 680 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: She is going to go to school. As a matter 681 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 1: of fact, as much money as it costs could go 682 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 1: there too. Y'all should have been meeting on how we 683 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 1: can get together and pay the tuition? How about fact? 684 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 1: Are you turning to sit here and tell me that 685 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,880 Speaker 1: you got a problem taking her brains down? And wearing 686 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:16,919 Speaker 1: her hair straight so she can look a lot more 687 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: classy than what she looks right now. At your pathetic 688 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,439 Speaker 1: look that she's having right now. You know what I don't. 689 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,520 Speaker 1: What's your hair looked like? Take a picture of your 690 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,680 Speaker 1: self and send it to me texted to me since 691 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 1: you get folks phoned numbs and give it to you. 692 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: Take a picture of your self and texted to me. 693 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 1: I bet you look like who would have parted. My 694 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 1: daughter's braids are gonna stay up for the rest of 695 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 1: the years. As a matter of fact, we ain't gonna rebraided. 696 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: It's gonna stay that way so it can be mad 697 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,280 Speaker 1: at and represent that's what we're gonna do. Francis listening. 698 00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to argue. I just wanted 699 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 1: to call and see if we could actually, you know, 700 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,719 Speaker 1: come to a medium on this. Do you think that 701 00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 1: there's a possibility that I mean, when I'm I'm picking 702 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: up DJ tomorrow after school, what would it be all 703 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,279 Speaker 1: right if I picked up little Calin and brought her 704 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 1: home and let my wife do our hair. Please? I 705 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 1: wish that you would pick my start up and see 706 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 1: what the hell I do. I'm gonna call my husband 707 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 1: and him to come over your house and whoop ya 708 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,759 Speaker 1: after he braids yo, as I wish you would pick 709 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 1: up my thought, I call the police on. As a 710 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: matter of fact, you're gonna have to call the police 711 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,440 Speaker 1: on me and my husband Steward and see what happens. Man, 712 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get some class here. That's all 713 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: we're wanting. We're not wanting to fight with you. It's 714 00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 1: just the blacks here. We think that we want a 715 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: little bit more classy look of the way we are. Groom, 716 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,799 Speaker 1: that's the only thing we're looking for. The only person 717 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 1: who's gonna be taking the classes. And when we get 718 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 1: to whoop, you're gonna be kicking the class. How about back? Yeah, 719 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:48,240 Speaker 1: I can't stand up like you. Y'all get five dollars 720 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,640 Speaker 1: and one penny in your pocket that and think you 721 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,399 Speaker 1: better than everybody as you get where you came from. 722 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,920 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, what's your guess? What's your name? 723 00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 1: Because I'm calling the principle on your day. Give me 724 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 1: your name minute, mister hoole. What's your name? Uh, that's 725 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 1: that's that's that's that's not that's not really what my 726 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 1: name is. Well that's what told me when you first Cammy, 727 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,879 Speaker 1: what is your real name? My name is my name? 728 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 1: My real name is Tommy Thomas. No, no, my last 729 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,400 Speaker 1: name either. What What the hell is your name? Do 730 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,640 Speaker 1: you know? My name is Tommy nephew Tommy from the 731 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 1: Steve Horby Morning Show. Your husband, Keith got me the 732 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 1: plank phone call you, I be Oh my god, keep 733 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 1: you you got me ready to kick yours, the girls 734 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 1: cool and everything. I tell you what, keep eat out 735 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 1: for the rest of the queek me he told me, 736 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 1: he said, Man, he said, it don't take but about 737 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 1: two and a half minutes for my wife to go off. 738 00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: He said, it don't take for to what I had 739 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 1: you right, a calm down, Let me ask you what 740 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 1: what what? I got one more thing to ask you? 741 00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,840 Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 742 00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 1: show in the land. You know it's a Steve Harvard 743 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:33,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Come on now, come on now, as five 744 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:45,439 Speaker 1: dollars in thinking you better than something? Yeah, it's so true, though, Yes, 745 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:59,439 Speaker 1: it's so true. She kept the one. Let me see 746 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:06,399 Speaker 1: your ass? Okay, would it be okay? I picked up 747 00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:10,759 Speaker 1: love Kaylor Taylor and took her home and let my 748 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:25,399 Speaker 1: wife straighten her boy, she said, I would you. Oh man, man, 749 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:30,359 Speaker 1: you go with their kids is on impoper. You go 750 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 1: in and he come over there and whip your ass 751 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 1: and didn't break your Hey, Tom here gonna whip your 752 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:44,879 Speaker 1: ass and put you between this lags and stop, oh man, 753 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 1: your poss steel stop stop wiggling. That was funny on 754 00:52:54,360 --> 00:53:01,200 Speaker 1: his paw and all that scout time. It's just sitting 755 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: between the man's leads, just crying. Now you didn't call 756 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: me for the meeting? Why you call me? Now? You 757 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:19,120 Speaker 1: up in blanketed by Yes, all right, thank you, nephew. 758 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 1: Coming up next my strawberry letter, the subject I can't 759 00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: stand my family period. We'll get into it. Yes, we'll 760 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,279 Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to the 761 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:38,000 Speaker 1: morning show. Well, guys, we said we get down to it, 762 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,800 Speaker 1: and we are down to it. Just seven days, one week, 763 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:47,400 Speaker 1: one week until the November third election. Please go to 764 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: vote dot org. If you have not voted, there is 765 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: still time. There is still time to vote early, get 766 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: your polling locations and all of that. Please do it 767 00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 1: one week. If you haven't made up your mind yet, 768 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 1: what are you waiting on? What else do you need 769 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: to see, make up your mind and get to the polls. 770 00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:13,360 Speaker 1: Okay here, yes, what's going on? All right, we're moving 771 00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,440 Speaker 1: on time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If 772 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,920 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 773 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 774 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 775 00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 776 00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,319 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. Bug it up, hold 777 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 1: on tight, we got it for you. Here. It is 778 00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter subject. I can't stand my family period. Okay, 779 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,279 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty three year old woman 780 00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,160 Speaker 1: living with my grandparents, and I have a major problem 781 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 1: with them. Recently, my grandfather has been pressuring me to 782 00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,799 Speaker 1: have a good relationship with my siblings, and I've told 783 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 1: him several times I'm not interested in getting to know 784 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:59,000 Speaker 1: them better. I know this sounds harsh, but I can explain. 785 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 1: My birth mother is a hood rat kitchen beautician working 786 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 1: at the Dollar Store, and she dresses like she's my age. 787 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:09,320 Speaker 1: She has three children, and she's never taken care of 788 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,880 Speaker 1: any of us. Family members have raised her children My 789 00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,600 Speaker 1: father isn't as bad, but he has a wife that 790 00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,439 Speaker 1: I can't stand because she broke up my father's first 791 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,759 Speaker 1: marriage by getting pregnant. She and my dad have two 792 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 1: children together, so I'm not a priority to him anymore. 793 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 1: He helped her finish college, but when I wanted to 794 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 1: attend college, he told me to take out loans, and 795 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:33,239 Speaker 1: that hurt. It broke my heart at first to see 796 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: my father raising my half brothers and giving them the 797 00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: childhood I missed. I have been with my grandparents all 798 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 1: of my life, so they're all I need now. My 799 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,879 Speaker 1: aunt has joined with my grandparents to make me visit 800 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 1: my mother and get to know her. She said that 801 00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,839 Speaker 1: since I'm the oldest, it's my job to reach out 802 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,440 Speaker 1: to my brothers and sisters. She has tried to get 803 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,799 Speaker 1: me to go to counseling because she and my grandparents 804 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 1: are worried about me. I feel as though I'm not 805 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,240 Speaker 1: obligated to have a relationship and ship with my siblings. 806 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 1: I can't stand my family period. I want to protect 807 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,120 Speaker 1: my peace and I'm just fine. How can I get 808 00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 1: my family to let me be? Well, it doesn't sound 809 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:15,400 Speaker 1: like they're going to let you be. You never know, 810 00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,400 Speaker 1: I mean your grandparents. I'm sure getting on an age. 811 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 1: They they might want you to do it for sentimental reasons. 812 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,239 Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm not mad at you. I'm 813 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: really not mad at you at all. You have every 814 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: right to feel the way you feel. I mean, you've 815 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,560 Speaker 1: had it tough, you know, like a lot of people, 816 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,760 Speaker 1: a lot of us, A lot of people have stories 817 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,000 Speaker 1: and testimonies and things like that. Your bitterness is understandable. 818 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 1: You've been through a lot, like I said, abandonment by 819 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 1: both parents, and the jealousy you feel towards your younger siblings. 820 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,720 Speaker 1: You know, the animosity you feel towards your mother because 821 00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 1: she wasn't there for you. But you had your grandparents, 822 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,360 Speaker 1: so you know you had a decent life. You have 823 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 1: your grandparents. You're human, so you can make mistakes. It's okay. 824 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 1: I just you know, you have to ask yourself here 825 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 1: is is this way the way you want it to 826 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:08,160 Speaker 1: be productive? Is it mentally healthy for you? Are you 827 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,279 Speaker 1: happy where you are in life right now? I know 828 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 1: you say you want peace, but do you have that piece? 829 00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 1: And what is wrong with meeting your family with sitting 830 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,280 Speaker 1: down with your mother? I mean they may have changed 831 00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 1: people change. People do change. Maybe your mom is a 832 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:29,040 Speaker 1: different person now, and certainly you don't blame your brothers 833 00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,840 Speaker 1: for anything, so you can meet with them. I think 834 00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:34,000 Speaker 1: there are two ways to look at this, and one 835 00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,880 Speaker 1: way is that it could be really good. It could 836 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:40,360 Speaker 1: be a positive experience. Try it. I mean, you never know, 837 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 1: it could be just the healing you need. Since you 838 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,920 Speaker 1: don't want to go to counseling because there are some issues. 839 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure you know with you you could hear it 840 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:51,800 Speaker 1: in your letters, So I say, try it. That's what 841 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm going with. Try it, you know, Steve. The whole 842 00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: time I was listening to this let, I was thinking 843 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 1: of a sermon. This letter has sermon written all over it. 844 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,320 Speaker 1: So when we come back, my second half will be 845 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 1: a sermon. But I would like to say Shirley that 846 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:18,160 Speaker 1: I absolutely agree for the first time with every single 847 00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 1: thing you have said. She has issues, you need some 848 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 1: type of counseling. You don't want to do counseling or 849 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: understand it. Then what you have to do is you 850 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 1: have to go and try to make peace. See one 851 00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 1: of the reasons you don't have peace is because you 852 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,040 Speaker 1: ain't ever tried to make none. See, you can't give 853 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,440 Speaker 1: what you never had. So if you're not trying to 854 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:46,600 Speaker 1: make peace, you probably not gonna have it. Now. You 855 00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,800 Speaker 1: say you want to protect your peace, but it constantly 856 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,480 Speaker 1: gets disrupted by your grandparents telling you to go have 857 00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: a relationship with your father, go have a relationship with 858 00:58:55,760 --> 00:59:01,640 Speaker 1: your mother. Family is important, it really is. And when 859 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,400 Speaker 1: these people start leaving this world and y'all get older, 860 00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:07,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna discover that you might have missed something really special. So, 861 00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 1: Shirley is one correct. You need to try to make 862 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,800 Speaker 1: peace with your family and just forgive. You got to 863 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:21,840 Speaker 1: forgive your mamma for being a hood rat, a kitchen beautician. 864 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,200 Speaker 1: You know, maybe that's all she had. You don't know 865 00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,080 Speaker 1: what happened to her. And then you're mad at you 866 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 1: daddy's wife because she broke up y'all's mamma near marriage 867 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 1: because she got pregnant. No, your daddy got her pregnant. 868 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: You know you ain't got to blame the woman. So 869 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 1: and then your man cause your daddy taking better care 870 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 1: of the other baby than he is of you. It said, Shirley, 871 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 1: got it right. It's a lot of issues in here. 872 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 1: You need counseling. You do need counseling. If you're not, 873 00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,919 Speaker 1: you now to at least go and make peace. Forgiveness 874 00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,560 Speaker 1: is not for you. Forgiveness is not for the other person. 875 00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:59,360 Speaker 1: Forgiveness is for you. It's when you don't forgive a person, 876 00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 1: it's like you're drinking the poison, waiting on them to die. So, 877 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:07,000 Speaker 1: now that I've said that, when we come back, we're 878 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:11,120 Speaker 1: gonna preach the letter. Okay, yeah, yeah, we have come on, deacon. 879 01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 1: All right, all right, you heard it. Part two of 880 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Steve's response is coming up in a sermon of twenty 881 01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Subject of my letter today, 882 01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:25,800 Speaker 1: I can't stand my family. Period. We'll be back right 883 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve, come on, 884 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. Uh, subject, I can't stand 885 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 1: my family. I'm already I'm not recapping. I'm preaching this letter. 886 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 1: You just this letter. The subject Deacon read then, subject 887 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 1: is I don't like my family. That's stand them. I 888 01:00:54,000 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 1: can't stand ah can't stand my Framely, he tweether you 889 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:12,600 Speaker 1: old woman living with grandparents can't come on? That doesn't 890 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 1: develop a major problem with both of them? More reasonly, 891 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 1: her granddadd had been pressing her to have a good 892 01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:30,080 Speaker 1: relationship with her siblings. Yeah, and told him several times, 893 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 1: I ain't interested in getting to know them. No, damn better. 894 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:40,400 Speaker 1: You don't know how they're, Granddaddy, but I do. I 895 01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,880 Speaker 1: say it sounds hard, Yes, it dies. But she goes 896 01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:53,040 Speaker 1: on to explain, my mama is a hooter rat. My mama, 897 01:01:53,960 --> 01:02:00,200 Speaker 1: you're the hood rat, kitchen beautician, got all over the star. Oh, 898 01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: I can't go in here to make a sandwich, crooked 899 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,320 Speaker 1: grease everywhere. She's putting a lord on people's heads. She 900 01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,960 Speaker 1: worked down at the dollars store. Who the hell? Why 901 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:13,040 Speaker 1: mama working at the damned dollars store? And she don't 902 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,680 Speaker 1: give discounts when you go in there. She dressed like 903 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:19,000 Speaker 1: she my age. She got three kids, ain't never took 904 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:23,080 Speaker 1: care now one of us, all the family members, and 905 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: raised a kid. My daddy ain't that band. But he 906 01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:35,640 Speaker 1: got a whole wife that I can't stand. You can't work, 907 01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:40,200 Speaker 1: I said, I he got a wife that I can't stand. 908 01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:45,040 Speaker 1: You want to know why? Why is that? Daddy? She 909 01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:49,400 Speaker 1: broke up my father's first marriage by getting pregnant. He 910 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,720 Speaker 1: didn't need another baby. Now he didn't add a baby. Now, 911 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,520 Speaker 1: he didn't broke up with the hood rat. She ain't 912 01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 1: there trying to fix her hand, the kitchen and everything. 913 01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 1: I fix it, and my daddy got two kids together. Yeah, 914 01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:13,560 Speaker 1: so I ain't a priority anymore. Helped to finished college. 915 01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,440 Speaker 1: And then when I asked him could I go, told 916 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:22,920 Speaker 1: me to take out loans. ID id to the coat 917 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 1: when he said take out a damn loan. You helped 918 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,440 Speaker 1: that other health of golden school. But now you go 919 01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: around like you don't know me. I was your first 920 01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,880 Speaker 1: baby until you had that hood rat got pregnant, she knew, 921 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,920 Speaker 1: couldn't wear. My mama worked down at the dollars, stop 922 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:42,560 Speaker 1: doing the best, so they hand the baby, had the baby. 923 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 1: It broke my heart to see my father raising my 924 01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 1: half brothers and giving them the childhood. I miss him, 925 01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 1: So I guess you Michael Jackson, now, oh you want 926 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 1: to be your baby again? He won't never land back. 927 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 1: You missed your child who you can't get it back. 928 01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson couldn't get his back. What I would do 929 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,760 Speaker 1: if I were you, I'd find five more girls that 930 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:18,080 Speaker 1: felt the same way. It started in Jackson five all 931 01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:26,680 Speaker 1: over again. Your daddy Joe, what it looked like to me. 932 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,960 Speaker 1: Being your grandparents all your life, so they seem to 933 01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 1: be all you need. Nah, here come your aunt, your 934 01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:46,520 Speaker 1: big fat ass on now here. She come with her 935 01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:50,200 Speaker 1: big ass all up in my business. And before the 936 01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:55,520 Speaker 1: congregation starts, just old fat shaming thing, get off my letter. 937 01:04:56,120 --> 01:05:00,400 Speaker 1: They rolled in and asked me, I'm a scooming don't 938 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 1: say that the honest fat but she sounds fatting the 939 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,280 Speaker 1: letter to me. But she's doing what big people do, 940 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:10,120 Speaker 1: eating stuff that ain't even on her plate. She he 941 01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:14,720 Speaker 1: eating all up in the niece of business. You here 942 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:18,720 Speaker 1: come her ass, and he got all up into business. 943 01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,720 Speaker 1: Told me, since I'm the oldest, my job to reach 944 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,320 Speaker 1: out to my brother's and system. Yeah, And she tried 945 01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:29,920 Speaker 1: to get me to go to counseling. Do I sound 946 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,600 Speaker 1: like I need counseling, Yes, that's how I do. Hell, yes, 947 01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:36,960 Speaker 1: I sound like I need counseling. But I ain't going. 948 01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,920 Speaker 1: You know, black people don't like counseling. I don't like 949 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,800 Speaker 1: talking to nobody with a yellow notebook pad that winter 950 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,960 Speaker 1: cart home. I got to school diploma. Why but I 951 01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,800 Speaker 1: want to tell my problems to somebody. Jeff called, there's 952 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:53,320 Speaker 1: a psychologist. Psychologists ain't had my life. I'm not gonna 953 01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 1: go to no damn counselor. I'm gonna riding out and 954 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,600 Speaker 1: be a toe up, distraught individual to the day I die. 955 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a member of a dysfunctional last family. 956 01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna trying to fix a damn thing. I 957 01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:08,200 Speaker 1: don't give a damn by my big ass. My grandmama 958 01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,360 Speaker 1: never got on my nerve, and the half of my 959 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:13,320 Speaker 1: brothers and sisters. I'm gonna try to go to Heaven 960 01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,920 Speaker 1: on sliding and on the pass. I hope ther is 961 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:19,720 Speaker 1: grading on the curve. Maybe I can get in, but 962 01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:23,000 Speaker 1: I want to go to heaven if my family is already. 963 01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:27,920 Speaker 1: Now post your comments on today's Strawberry Let Steve Harvey 964 01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and please check out the 965 01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:35,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now coming him a forty 966 01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,600 Speaker 1: six minute Jackson five after the hour Junior Sports Talk. 967 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:45,120 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Junior 968 01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:48,919 Speaker 1: is here guys with sports Talk for today. What you got, Junior, Well, 969 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,120 Speaker 1: you know, Charlotte, we're in the middle of the NFL season. 970 01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 1: You know, the Cowboy's gonna have a good week. They 971 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,000 Speaker 1: put up three points and lost to Washington. Didn't even 972 01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,200 Speaker 1: have a name, and nobody in Texas have a good week. 973 01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:04,400 Speaker 1: We didn't have a good weeking either, pack. We didn't. 974 01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 1: We didn't have a good week either. Tom Brady is 975 01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:11,440 Speaker 1: still winning. Tom Brady one, probably probably probably the second 976 01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 1: best quarterback in the league. Russell Wilson got his first 977 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: lost this week. He lost down. He still number one quarterback? Yeah, man, 978 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,160 Speaker 1: he still lived, man, But how do you feel right 979 01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 1: about now? Though? Uh? Cleveland Browns lost Odell Beckham, junior 980 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:26,760 Speaker 1: man for the remainder of the season with a torn 981 01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 1: acl good good. Yeah'all love Oldell. I hate that happened 982 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 1: to him. Man, he's a fine young man. But it 983 01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 1: just hid work in Cleveland, like y'all always have some 984 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:39,840 Speaker 1: bit of bad news during the season. Oh yeah, dude, 985 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:50,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, here YEA used to Yeah, I ain't know 986 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 1: what's happen. One five game were for the lose five 987 01:07:54,880 --> 01:08:00,360 Speaker 1: and you see it, you see it coming already. Let 988 01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:02,760 Speaker 1: me listen to this. See that's why I'm riding high 989 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:07,920 Speaker 1: right now because I know the low coming. See the 990 01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:11,920 Speaker 1: way that's gonna work. The Texans and the Browns it's 991 01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:20,200 Speaker 1: gonna end up with the same damn record sometimes. Yeah, 992 01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,800 Speaker 1: I don't really see. I don't know what's gonna happen 993 01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:25,639 Speaker 1: up in Cleveland, but I'll tell you what. It ain't 994 01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,000 Speaker 1: gonna be pretty because we're in the wrong division. We 995 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:31,840 Speaker 1: got to play Baltimore again. You gotta play the Steelers again. No, 996 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:35,240 Speaker 1: it's all I mean, you know, faint called season gonna 997 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:42,160 Speaker 1: faint too. I just I did. I hate that happen 998 01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:43,760 Speaker 1: to him though? Man, but he said the great player. 999 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:47,360 Speaker 1: But Y'AEI and a nice guy, great teammate. Yeah, man, 1000 01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:51,439 Speaker 1: And tonight and other news though in sports, Uh, game 1001 01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:55,400 Speaker 1: six of the World Series, Uh if LA win. Now 1002 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:58,080 Speaker 1: you got the NBA Championship and the World Series in 1003 01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,880 Speaker 1: the same exact city. So this is gonna be a 1004 01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:03,640 Speaker 1: pretty good one. Anybody, time you want to predict, you 1005 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,960 Speaker 1: do go, You do well the prediction times whatever you think. 1006 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm betting on, I'm betting on the team I gonna go. 1007 01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 1: It's gonna go seven games. How about that, it's gonna 1008 01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 1: go seven game? Ye three to one, three two three 1009 01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:31,840 Speaker 1: two Los Angeles. Yeah, so Tommy's gonna go seven it? Oh, 1010 01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:35,280 Speaker 1: we know, is that Tommy picks seven games. Everybody put 1011 01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:41,200 Speaker 1: their money on the dodge. It's no anything, all right, Junior, 1012 01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1013 01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,720 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. 1014 01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:55,559 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show sixteen minutes. Always 1015 01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,720 Speaker 1: has an election year tradition, you know, of interviewing the 1016 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:02,559 Speaker 1: president and the vice president. So this year was no different. 1017 01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,840 Speaker 1: Did you guys see when President Trump walked out of 1018 01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,800 Speaker 1: his sixty minutes interview. People have been talking about it, yeah, 1019 01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,080 Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks. Now our question is why 1020 01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,400 Speaker 1: does the president want to be president? I mean, he 1021 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:18,759 Speaker 1: can't even handle Leslie stalls sixty minute interview with tough questions, 1022 01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:21,240 Speaker 1: and she told him the questions we're going to be tough. 1023 01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:24,720 Speaker 1: Take a listen, Leslie, you started with me. Your first 1024 01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:29,040 Speaker 1: statement was, are you ready for tough questions? Are? That's 1025 01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:33,280 Speaker 1: no way to talk. It's no way to talk. At 1026 01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:37,519 Speaker 1: this point, one of our producers interrupted to advise about 1027 01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,840 Speaker 1: the time remaining in the interview. I think we have 1028 01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 1: enough of an interview here, Hope. Okay, that's enough. Let's go, 1029 01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:49,840 Speaker 1: let's go, let's go meet for two seconds. Okay, thanks 1030 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:54,439 Speaker 1: I'll see you a little while. Thanks. Be careful. She'll 1031 01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:58,080 Speaker 1: still care be careful, be careful for your old last fall. 1032 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:02,599 Speaker 1: But see, honestly, what was wrong with her. She let 1033 01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:08,519 Speaker 1: him know that the questions would be tough. He only 1034 01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:13,439 Speaker 1: wants to be interviewed by Fox so they can lob 1035 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: him questions, compliment him, tell him what he's a great job, 1036 01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:22,360 Speaker 1: and stay on questions that he has answers for and 1037 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 1: then massage those so they sound like he answered the questions. 1038 01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:32,520 Speaker 1: This is the most unpresidential person who has ever resided 1039 01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:37,120 Speaker 1: in the White House, and it's enough, is enough? And 1040 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,360 Speaker 1: then he said to his girl, Hope, Hope, we've had enough. 1041 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:45,280 Speaker 1: Let's go. You know, Oh you know, look, man the 1042 01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:48,640 Speaker 1: dog dog. If you don't want to be president, just 1043 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,400 Speaker 1: tell us that. But see, you can't be the president 1044 01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 1: just for your base. Yeah, you're supposed to be the 1045 01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:58,840 Speaker 1: president of the United States. This is the worst person. 1046 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,680 Speaker 1: I don't even understand. I'm gonna be honest with you. 1047 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,519 Speaker 1: I don't even understand why a person votes for this guy, 1048 01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:09,720 Speaker 1: especially if you're not in politics. I know why the 1049 01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:15,080 Speaker 1: Senators is pushing forward. I understand the only way I 1050 01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:20,160 Speaker 1: can see a person voting for Donald Trump is because 1051 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:26,519 Speaker 1: you have to be just like him. You just think 1052 01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,639 Speaker 1: that the way he is is absolutely fine, and that's 1053 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:35,519 Speaker 1: the way you feel and think about the immigration, about race, yeah, 1054 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:40,560 Speaker 1: about poor people, about black people, brown people, all of that. 1055 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:45,840 Speaker 1: You just think that way. And isn't it supposed It's 1056 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,440 Speaker 1: not supposed to be an easy job. That's why everybody 1057 01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:52,439 Speaker 1: doesn't is not president. This is a tough job. You're 1058 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 1: you're you're the leader of the free world. You're the 1059 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:58,880 Speaker 1: most powerful man in the world. Yeah, you know, she's 1060 01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:03,200 Speaker 1: gonna just spoon feeds you with you know, baby questions. 1061 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,600 Speaker 1: I don't get it. You're the president. Could it be 1062 01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:08,760 Speaker 1: that he don't want the job no more? And he 1063 01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:10,840 Speaker 1: just said, let me ask as stupid as I can 1064 01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:12,519 Speaker 1: so they don't vote for him. It Could it be 1065 01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 1: that I'm just trying to find something, you know, just yeah, 1066 01:13:17,800 --> 01:13:19,960 Speaker 1: could it be you just don't won't it no more? 1067 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 1: You just gonna act a damn food on the way. 1068 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:25,519 Speaker 1: I think he wants it with everything and him he don't. 1069 01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:29,439 Speaker 1: You know, this is not regular behavior. This is really 1070 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,680 Speaker 1: something wrong with Yeah. I think the first election was 1071 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 1: a complete and total surprise to him. But now that 1072 01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,639 Speaker 1: he sees the kind of power you know he has 1073 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: and you know he can will I just don't understand. 1074 01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:48,559 Speaker 1: I don't get it. He was so rude to Leslie Stall. 1075 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:57,120 Speaker 1: He really was. Yeah, yes, yes, she is. Yeah. Has 1076 01:13:57,160 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 1: he been tested mentally? And if they tested, I think 1077 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:06,200 Speaker 1: we all know something's wrong. Man. He's just unpresidential. Yeah, 1078 01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:10,000 Speaker 1: he has no business holding the office of president of 1079 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:14,160 Speaker 1: United States. And for people that think he does you wrong, 1080 01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:17,680 Speaker 1: he can't be who you want your children to be 1081 01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:22,679 Speaker 1: like unless you approve of all his behavior. The sad 1082 01:14:22,800 --> 01:14:26,479 Speaker 1: part of it is it's forty fifty million people who 1083 01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:31,880 Speaker 1: think he's just fine. Yeah, yeah, all right, listen. We'll 1084 01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,240 Speaker 1: have more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey 1085 01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:36,519 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right after 1086 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:45,400 Speaker 1: this you're listening show and trending bug news. State entomologists 1087 01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:50,120 Speaker 1: have warned they won the opening battle against murder hornets 1088 01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:55,639 Speaker 1: in Washington, successfully removing first nest discovered in the US, 1089 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,560 Speaker 1: and officials say they found the nest located in the 1090 01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:03,360 Speaker 1: cavity of a tree. My cousin has a master's in entomology. 1091 01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:07,679 Speaker 1: She knows about every bug on the planet, which is crazy. 1092 01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: But that's what I mean. Yes, yes, she does. My 1093 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:16,920 Speaker 1: cousin Sharon from Chicago. The nest hells between one hundred 1094 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:20,720 Speaker 1: and two hundred hornets got them. The state's Department of 1095 01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:25,519 Speaker 1: Agriculture tweeted crews tracked down the nest after weeks of searching. 1096 01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:29,880 Speaker 1: After receiving permission from the owner of the land in 1097 01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:33,080 Speaker 1: which the dead tree was located. A team of workers 1098 01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 1: dressed from head to toe in protective suits, vacuumed the 1099 01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:41,000 Speaker 1: insects out of their nest. The hornets are less threatening 1100 01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:45,560 Speaker 1: to humans than they sound, The CDC says, bees, wasps, 1101 01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:49,000 Speaker 1: and run of the mill hornets kill more Americans each 1102 01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:52,000 Speaker 1: year than murder hornets kill people in Asia, where they're 1103 01:15:52,080 --> 01:16:01,920 Speaker 1: usually found. I mean murder hornets. It's murder. Yeah, this 1104 01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:10,960 Speaker 1: is crazy. I want us related to what's going on? Wow? Yeah? 1105 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:14,960 Speaker 1: Years All right, listen, just wanted to let you know 1106 01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:17,200 Speaker 1: that we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show 1107 01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:20,879 Speaker 1: coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour. It's murder. 1108 01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:31,000 Speaker 1: You're listening show and entertainment news. Carla is here with 1109 01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:35,200 Speaker 1: today's music news. What's going on, Carla, what's happening? Well, first, 1110 01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:38,280 Speaker 1: of all, The b ET Hip Hop Awards are tonight 1111 01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:40,560 Speaker 1: hosted by We got to give a shout out to 1112 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:49,680 Speaker 1: the crew eighty five South. I'm fly Yes, Carlos and 1113 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:53,200 Speaker 1: Chico being yes yes, so they are hosting, so we'll 1114 01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:57,000 Speaker 1: check it out night. Also the American Music Awards, Yes, 1115 01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:01,320 Speaker 1: they are the nominations where we yesterday they were announced, 1116 01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:05,240 Speaker 1: making the Stallion the weekend Roddy Rich I like his music. 1117 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:09,360 Speaker 1: They all led the nominations. They got about eight nominees 1118 01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:12,600 Speaker 1: a piece. So the American Music Awards will air on 1119 01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:17,559 Speaker 1: ABC on November twenty second, and then finally in music News, 1120 01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:21,760 Speaker 1: the Versus Battle is set. The next battle is set 1121 01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:27,080 Speaker 1: for November nineteenth. Atlanta rappers Young Jeez versus t I 1122 01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:30,960 Speaker 1: and Young Jeez will be our guest tomorrow on the 1123 01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:33,880 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. So hopefully he'll tell us about it. 1124 01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:36,519 Speaker 1: Give a little sneak peek that's what's gonna go down 1125 01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:41,200 Speaker 1: during the battle on November nineteen. I heard it was 1126 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:46,040 Speaker 1: supposed to be Busta Rhymes and Tiapa some him. Oh really, 1127 01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:51,160 Speaker 1: bust uncle Bus, uncle Bus. Bust happened that your Buster say, 1128 01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:56,040 Speaker 1: nobody won't none to him? Tay and you know you 1129 01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 1: was in Leaders of the New School, like the generational 1130 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:04,000 Speaker 1: gap is too far between Buster and t Yeah, I 1131 01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:06,519 Speaker 1: can see that, I could see that. I don't know, man, 1132 01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm talking about sotted. I put Earth when the fire 1133 01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:19,960 Speaker 1: gets up, any damn every battle, every battle, Old life, 1134 01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:25,960 Speaker 1: you play your hit. I got her win, But what 1135 01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:33,080 Speaker 1: help now, boy? I put her when the fire gives Elvis, 1136 01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:42,680 Speaker 1: you know, put him down, will shut his whole catalog 1137 01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:49,519 Speaker 1: down to the show what you throw? Do you remember 1138 01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 1: when about blue s shoes, blue swe shoes? Would you 1139 01:18:57,360 --> 01:19:05,840 Speaker 1: mind if it touches? You need to be one dog 1140 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:11,479 Speaker 1: cooled to be on versus battle battling yourself. Yeah, Earth 1141 01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 1: pointed five versus battle hit it body anybody except Frank 1142 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,640 Speaker 1: oh okay, because he knows too much about you know, 1143 01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:29,639 Speaker 1: Toto turning tables all that in two yeahs and two 1144 01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:36,240 Speaker 1: jet wool coming up. It's our last break of the day, 1145 01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:41,240 Speaker 1: last break up the day, and we'll have some closing 1146 01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey coming up 1147 01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:48,160 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 1148 01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:53,919 Speaker 1: to show, all right, guys, one week, one week exactly 1149 01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:57,679 Speaker 1: seven days left until election day. On November third, Please 1150 01:19:57,760 --> 01:19:59,760 Speaker 1: go to vote dot org to get early voting and 1151 01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,640 Speaker 1: nation for your state. You can still vote early, that 1152 01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:05,840 Speaker 1: is vote dot org. And you know what, Steve, we 1153 01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:09,120 Speaker 1: also want to remind people to vote in these important 1154 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:13,160 Speaker 1: Senate races. If you live in the following states. Democratic 1155 01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:20,240 Speaker 1: senatorial candidate Jamie Harrison in South Carolina, please yes. Democratic 1156 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:25,640 Speaker 1: senatorial candidate Mike Espy in Mississippi, Mike spe in Mississippi. 1157 01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:29,880 Speaker 1: Everybody get to the polls. If you're in Mississippi, Mike yes. 1158 01:20:30,280 --> 01:20:37,599 Speaker 1: Democratic senatorial candidate Reverend Rothael Warnock in Georgia. Rothael Warnock. 1159 01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 1: Yes in Georgia, me too. Democratic senatorial candidate Marquita Bradshaw 1160 01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:54,400 Speaker 1: in Tennessee. Marquita Bradshaw in Tennessee. Everybody in Nashville, Chattanooga, Memphis, 1161 01:20:55,280 --> 01:20:59,080 Speaker 1: fish yes, Well, y'all see Marquita. Non that y'all ought 1162 01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:10,840 Speaker 1: to note that. Man. Come on. Democratic senatorial candidate Mayor 1163 01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 1: Adrian Perkins in Louisiana. Okay, all right, all right, Steve, 1164 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:21,280 Speaker 1: just we just wanted to remind people of that still time. 1165 01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,800 Speaker 1: Those are the things because y'all, listen, we've talked about 1166 01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:29,960 Speaker 1: this enough and uh it's it's it's it's I mean, 1167 01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:35,000 Speaker 1: we we are weak away. You've got to make your decision. 1168 01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 1: You've got to make your move. We got to make 1169 01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:42,360 Speaker 1: them counters. This is the best way that I know 1170 01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:46,880 Speaker 1: to say black lives matter. Once they seated, this vote 1171 01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:50,599 Speaker 1: matters all. You better believe from now on, black lives 1172 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:55,560 Speaker 1: will matter. We got a job to do. We have 1173 01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:59,240 Speaker 1: an obligation. Let's go. Let's go to the polls and 1174 01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:04,479 Speaker 1: show up. I think that we're on to something here, 1175 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:08,840 Speaker 1: and I want you all to be able to say, hey, 1176 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:12,080 Speaker 1: I was a part of it. I was a part 1177 01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:21,519 Speaker 1: of removing something from the government that was damaging to us. 1178 01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 1: This thing that he keeps saying, I've done more for 1179 01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:30,439 Speaker 1: black people, says Abraham Lincoln. Like what like what like? 1180 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:34,240 Speaker 1: One of the Trump supporters says black people ought to 1181 01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:38,880 Speaker 1: be lucky that they aren't slaves anymore. As one of 1182 01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:42,200 Speaker 1: the Trump supporters said at a rally, they ought to 1183 01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:49,479 Speaker 1: be lucky. Then another Trump supporters said online that black 1184 01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:52,599 Speaker 1: people are being treated better than ever before. I don't 1185 01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:58,080 Speaker 1: see what the problem is better. That is the problem. 1186 01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:00,800 Speaker 1: The fact that you think you have the right to 1187 01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:06,439 Speaker 1: decide when we get treated better, better, better, than Who 1188 01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 1: better than what? And who gets to decide what better 1189 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:15,920 Speaker 1: is for us? Who better to decide what's better for 1190 01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:20,400 Speaker 1: us than us? I'm the best person to decide what's 1191 01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:26,120 Speaker 1: best for me, not you. You know, Look, it's some 1192 01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:30,200 Speaker 1: ignorant people in this country. I mean, we're just gonna 1193 01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:33,640 Speaker 1: have to live with that. There are racist people in 1194 01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:37,320 Speaker 1: this country. We are going to have to continue to 1195 01:23:37,560 --> 01:23:43,559 Speaker 1: deal with that. There are tens of thousands of great 1196 01:23:43,680 --> 01:23:47,800 Speaker 1: policemen and women in this country, but there are so 1197 01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:52,200 Speaker 1: many bad ones that we have to deal with that 1198 01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:56,479 Speaker 1: I used to didn't think the problem wasn't as bad 1199 01:23:56,880 --> 01:24:00,519 Speaker 1: that it was a few bad apples. It seems to 1200 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:04,639 Speaker 1: me like that few has grown. It is amazing how 1201 01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:09,559 Speaker 1: empowered some of these white supremacist groups have been since 1202 01:24:09,640 --> 01:24:13,160 Speaker 1: Trump got into office. So maybe we need to get 1203 01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,479 Speaker 1: rid of Trump so that they can slink back down 1204 01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:20,040 Speaker 1: in that hole they was in. Because the proud boys 1205 01:24:20,120 --> 01:24:23,800 Speaker 1: walking around being proud, the white supremacist groups walking around, 1206 01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:27,400 Speaker 1: he's our guy. All these mega hats and mega masks 1207 01:24:27,920 --> 01:24:32,240 Speaker 1: look okay, cool. If you want to make America great again, 1208 01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:35,560 Speaker 1: that's fine, but it's not going to be at our expense. 1209 01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:42,200 Speaker 1: I keep trying to figure out what year was it 1210 01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:48,160 Speaker 1: that America was great. I'm trying to really figure out, y'all, 1211 01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:52,760 Speaker 1: And I'm serious, what year should we go back to 1212 01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:58,400 Speaker 1: when America was at its best? I can't think of one, 1213 01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:04,840 Speaker 1: because this is as good as this ever been, and 1214 01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:08,360 Speaker 1: because of social media we get to see what it 1215 01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:12,160 Speaker 1: really is and it ain't as great as they're making 1216 01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:15,800 Speaker 1: it out to be. Well, I admit this. Yes, is 1217 01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:21,360 Speaker 1: America a great land of opportunity and a great country. Yes, 1218 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:27,320 Speaker 1: but it has a series of problems, especially for people 1219 01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 1: of color, because we don't get to participate like everybody else. 1220 01:25:32,600 --> 01:25:34,800 Speaker 1: Somebody told me you aught to shut up you on TV? 1221 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:38,599 Speaker 1: You know what I had to do to get on TV? 1222 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:42,840 Speaker 1: You have any idea? Do you have any idea how 1223 01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:46,240 Speaker 1: much better we all have to be to be where 1224 01:25:46,280 --> 01:25:49,120 Speaker 1: we are? Do you know what has to happen for 1225 01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,840 Speaker 1: us to stay on the air every day? You know 1226 01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:54,240 Speaker 1: the numbers we have to turn and flip? You have 1227 01:25:54,320 --> 01:25:57,400 Speaker 1: any idea what that brother or sister that's in corporate 1228 01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:00,479 Speaker 1: America has had to do to get that corporate position. 1229 01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:03,439 Speaker 1: Do you have any idea how the captain of that 1230 01:26:03,560 --> 01:26:05,920 Speaker 1: police department what he had to do to become the 1231 01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:08,720 Speaker 1: captain of the police department or the fire department. Do 1232 01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:12,000 Speaker 1: you have any idea? No, you don't, but he does. 1233 01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:18,880 Speaker 1: We have to get this playing field leveled from the 1234 01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:23,360 Speaker 1: top down, and the best way to do that is 1235 01:26:23,439 --> 01:26:28,280 Speaker 1: get the dude at the top taken down. Got to vote, 1236 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:43,400 Speaker 1: he got to go for all. Steve Harvey contests No 1237 01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,960 Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1238 01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:50,519 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1239 01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:54,519 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. You're 1240 01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:55,240 Speaker 1: listening to