WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: No Fire In The Fireplace +Best Date Of My Life 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.920 Here we are together on a Saturday. That doesn't it 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:06.200 feel good Saturday mornings? Yeah, that's right. Thank you for 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:09.680 being here the Brook and Jeffrey Official Second Date Update Podcast, 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:12.080 and thanks for subscribing. It means a lot to us. 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:15.040 We do have a two back to back classics. Those 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.560 might be ones that you've previously heard. Yeah, okay, that's 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:22.279 what the classic means. But let's read some comments before 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:22.800 we get to it. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.120 Yes, I mean I love seeing what people do while 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.479 they're listening to Okay, we got Hunters saying y'all are 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:29.600 the only reason why I do my weekly cleaning in 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:32.120 the morning, and Aleah saying, you guys are the only 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:33.320 reason why I don't stop. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.800 Running on my morning run. Oh my gosh, never stop. 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:37.960 Good for you. And then we got the people sleeping ogain. 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:40.760 Yeah yeah, yeah, we put everybody sleep. I hope she 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.520 doesn't fall asleep on her run. Oh be careful. Okay, 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:46.080 that's gonna hurt. All right, Your back to back classics 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:46.960 starts right now. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:51.360 You know when you have one of those breakthrough moments 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:55.160 where you hear something and realize, oh my god, I've 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:59.959 been doing this wrong my entire life. Oh okay, when 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.680 you find out the little drawer below your oven isn't 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.480 for storing pants, that's for keeping food warm. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:06.840 It's a food warmer. 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:07.600 Did you know that? 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:07.959 Yeah? 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:09.480 I do, and I stick my pants in there. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:14.200 Yeah, it's just too convenient. Or when Alexis realized the 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.720 turn signals on her car aren't just lights to pressed 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:20.319 when a fun song comes on the radio, okay, but 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:23.920 they click to the be Well, one of our listeners 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:27.520 realize she's been approaching dating apps the wrong way for years, 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:31.880 but one piece of advice completely shifted her thinking and 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:35.920 helped her find the perfect guy. No, he's not calling 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.040 her back, but that's not there. The advice might actually 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.080 help you, though, if you hear it in your second 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:41.680 date update. 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:45.039 Right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:49.960 Date Update, Alexis, if you could describe not the perfect 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:53.560 guy for you, but the feeling that you get when 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:57.680 you're around that guy A close your eyes and tell 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:01.160 us the three words that he makes you feel. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.320 A little bit roasted, like I want him to be 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.840 mean to me a little bit, you know, like I feel. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:11.400 A little That's like a hard thing that comes to 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:11.880 your mind. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:17.239 Answer wherever you want to feel belittled as one full 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:17.680 of food. 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:20.560 I hope I get to go a little tipsy. Oh 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:24.080 my god. I don't know if I've ever met anyone 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:28.400 as scared of emotions as you are. Terrified. You should 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:29.400 imagine this is. 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:33.240 What everybody's perfect guy a little bit different. 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.120 It's like Michael B. Jordan making fun of it. 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:39.360 Sometimes you see two guys because you're just have double vision. 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.040 I bring it up because one of our listeners says 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:44.680 she figured out how she wants to feel when she 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:48.760 meets her perfect guy, and maybe it even happened to 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:51.480 her this last date. I mean he's not calling her back, 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.440 but that doesn't matter. She felt that a certain. 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.240 Way that could feel good though, like just a little 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.280 bit not ignored. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:02:59.240 It's one day. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.239 Well, let's talk to Alice and hear about it. Alice, 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:02.800 how you doing? 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.240 I'm good in you guys? How are you? 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.560 I don't know. I'm worried about Alexis, but I think 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:09.720 the rest of us are fine. 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.959 Would you like because we will. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.720 I bring it up because in your email you said 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.639 you felt the way that you wanted to feel when 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:20.640 you met up with this guy. What does that mean? 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:23.600 Well, the deal is is that I've just been meeting 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:28.760 the wrong guys. My discernment hasn't been the best because 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:32.600 I usually go for guys that wind up being wrong 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:33.000 for me. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.360 Okay, so you're taking a different approach, looking for a 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:37.200 different yes. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:37.920 Yeah. 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:41.520 So I heard this podcast by this lady and she said, 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:45.320 instead of looking for your firecrackers, you should be looking 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.040 for your fireplace. O. 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:49.760 That's good, I heard this. 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:51.680 You're supposed to go for the slow burn type. 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:51.880 Of y. 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:55.280 Okay, what does that mean? 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:59.600 Okay, so like firecrackers like for me, like I get 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.600 butter flies, and not to my stomach, like I get 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:03.960 like an adrenaline rush. 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:05.120 It's so fun. 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.880 It's scary, but it's like a ride I want to 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.080 go on, but then the ride crashes. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:15.800 Yeah, okay, dangerous. You know. 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:20.599 Now, a fireplace is actually more it's welcoming, it's warm. 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.200 You look forward to that comfort. 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.520 You're not scared, right, you're not scared. 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:27.120 It's not all the bells and whistle. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:30.039 So basically, you're not supposed to be looking for the 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:33.640 exciting person anymore. You're supposed to look for the safe person. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.720 I need to be swiping right on the fireplaces. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:38.240 Right. 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:41.440 So is this guy that you went out with the fireplace. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:45.520 He fits the profile where he's doesn't necessarily knock my 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:50.520 socks off, but but he does tick off the boxes 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:52.440 that I like, And that's what I found in. 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:54.839 Doesn't knock your socks off, and maybe he would mend 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:56.200 your socks if there was. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.240 Warm them, because he's. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.440 A So what's his name? 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.600 His name is PAULA. 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.200 He's got a fireplace name. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.400 What did you and paul decide to do? What did 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.360 you in this fireplace? 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:12.200 Go? Okay, so what we decided to do was to 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:12.880 go out. 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:16.279 To dinner at my thirty at five thirty? Was that 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:18.840 his idea or were you just really pushing this old 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.080 person personae? 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:21.160 Well? 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.599 No, actually he said he had to be home to 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.640 be in bed by nine thirty so that he could 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:26.200 go to work. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:30.480 Oh wowo okay, even when I was dating, I wouldn't 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:33.159 go to bed at nine thirty. Yeah, you know, one 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:33.880 night to stay up. 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:38.360 Yeah, come on, yeah, it's attracted to those firecrackers, that's why. 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:41.560 Yes, right, okay, so you were excited about this because 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.240 this is still like fulfilling what your thought is of him? 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.440 Yeah, how did dinner go? 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.800 Dinner went really well? I mean he told me he 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:49.640 likes to cook. 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:50.919 He likes to bake. 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:53.839 And when he said that to me, it's like that 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:57.240 gave me some really nice, like low key fireplace vibes, 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:58.680 which I really liked. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.000 Yes, so did you tell tell him this because you've 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:02.599 brought it up so many times? 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.120 Did you use the term firecracker and fireplace with him? 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:07.880 That's what I Honestly, I didn't want to bring up 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.560 those terms because I just wanted him to be himself 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:13.239 and not say that he had to be somebody else. 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:14.120 Okay, that's good. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:15.480 It's probably not going to go too well if you 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:17.880 keep referring to him as the safe fireplace. 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.880 Yes, I mean every guy wants to think of themselves 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:24.120 as a bad boy in some ways, right, Yeah. 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.240 So okay, he seems to be checking the boxes that 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:27.560 you want, right. 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:29.960 You know, he said he was looking for long term 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:33.440 you know, he's into health and nature, and that to 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:36.080 me was perfect. I mean, I wasn't getting butterflies in 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:37.520 my stomach, you know. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.840 I feel like that should still be happening. 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:44.000 Yeah, No, you don't want to have that. Okay, that's 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:44.840 a firecracker. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:47.400 Okay, So I'm guessing like you guys didn't end the 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:48.679 night with a kiss or anything. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:52.160 Well, near the ending of the night, he tells me 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:54.960 a joke and he said to me, did I want 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:58.240 him to teach me a car trick? So I could sure? 0:06:58.640 --> 0:06:59.000 Okay? 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:07.680 And then oh, well, I don't know any gotcha? 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:09.920 Well, hopefully didn't laugh too hard because then you're gonna 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:11.640 get too excited and that would be a time. 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:19.480 Was that? The only funny moment is that it's just 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:20.400 so specific. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.520 What was there? Like any like hugg er? 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.920 I'll say we did a nice little hug. I mean 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:28.600 I thought it was I thought it was a good date. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.840 It wasn't over the top, but that's what. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:32.280 You want though. 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:35.800 It wasn't like a bad experience or one big negative thing. 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.200 Okay, So what's happened since the date? 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:38.760 Oh? 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:39.800 This is the thing? 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:44.240 Now, I haven't heard back or gotten a callback from 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:50.200 this boring fireplace guy. 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:53.400 So are you just more mad that he's not calling 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.239 you back? Or do you really want to see him again? 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.360 I really would like to see him again. But I'm like, 0:07:58.480 --> 0:07:59.880 how could you not call me back? 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:00.440 Right? 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:04.760 Like? What could you possibly have going on outside of 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:05.560 what you told me? 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:06.000 Wow? 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.800 Okay, I have a cat. Maybe we should dial down 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.280 some of this language when we actually get him on 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.200 the phone, but we're gonna call him. We'll try and 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:17.560 stoke that fire back up and not too brightly when 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.800 we do your second date update right after this, Okay, hold. 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:24.200 On Brooke and Jeffrey. In the morning second date update, 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:26.120 I got. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:30.840 The strangest text message from the Academy of Radio Broadcasters saying, 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.679 we just hit a new radio record for saying the 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:39.319 word fireplace second over fifteen thousand times. 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.000 We know what we're looking for, jeff Yeah. 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:43.720 And I'm only gonna say it once more. Because our 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:47.520 listener Alice used that term as a simple analogy for 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:51.240 what she's looking for in her romantic partner. She learned 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:54.920 she needs to stop chasing fire crackers and start looking 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.120 for her fire place. 0:08:56.320 --> 0:08:58.560 What if you do, don't chase waterfalls either. We'll just 0:08:58.559 --> 0:08:59.160 put it in there. 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:04.240 We don't need any more analogies thrown. Basically, it's stopped 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:07.160 looking for the exciting guy who gives you butterflies, start 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:08.480 looking for the safe option. 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.000 Yeah, set kind of, not. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:14.360 Really, I mean, it's just like, yeah, just don't look 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.120 for the stuff that's going to fizzle out really quick. 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.079 Yeah, you're looking for that feeling that's going to make 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.720 you feel like you're at home. Yeah, and now that 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.679 she went down that road, the fireplace is leaving her 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:24.200 on red. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.160 Yeah, I said fireplace again. 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:29.360 I'm not going to say it anymore. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:30.600 We can't break our own record. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.520 It's like our wood soggy. It just won't, you know. 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:33.920 Yeah. 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.400 So now that's how you feel him before we call 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.640 him here, I'm. 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:42.280 Feeling pretty good. I'm just hoping to figure out why 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:43.679 haven't heard back from Paul. 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.160 I like that you still have hope, but not too much. 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.200 I mean, it's like you're like shifting everything to try 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.560 to find the thing that you're supposed to have, and 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:55.480 even that is a struggle right now. But I don't 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:56.240 think it will be. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:57.800 At the end of this I hope. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.400 So, yeah, we all do. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:02.120 It's interesting we're going to be calling a boring guy 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:05.000 for a radio segment here. Not the best reading strategy 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.520 on our part, but you know what, let's dial him 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:08.080 up anyway. 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.679 Stay tuned. We've got a crackling fireplaces. 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:14.000 Hopefully we can squeeze a little bit of an exciting this. 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:26.079 But here we go. Hello, Hi, We're looking to speak 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:26.480 with Paul. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:33.199 This is Paul, not that. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.880 We wanted you to come hot out of the gate 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:35.400 or anything. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:36.760 Morning, my friend. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.720 First of all, thank you so much for answering this 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:41.640 number that I'm sure you didn't recognize it. 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.280 Well, strangers, we know we're. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.360 A radio station called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:51.800 Okay, Okay, nice, Okay, let's keep this going because what 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:55.240 we're doing here is called a second date update, and 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.280 we're trying to help out one of our listeners that 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.839 you actually went out to dinner with a few nights 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:03.120 ago go and she had a really nice time with you. 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:04.640 Her name is Alice. 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:07.440 Yeah, good old Alice. 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:15.640 Huh yeah, Well, we'd like to open it up to 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.280 you for a second and tell us what you thought 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:19.080 about the date. Which thought about Alice? 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:23.280 Uh what what is this for? 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.120 Well, it's a second ate update. Basically, Alice has reached 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:29.120 out to us because she told us a little bit 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:32.920 about your night together. She had a great time. How 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:33.720 was it for you? 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:41.240 I'm just not really sure how the date when I guess, 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.600 I don't uh, I don't know, I don't get I 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.080 don't get a lot of matches, so I was pretty nervous. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:55.160 That's been a long time doing my hair and. 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.000 If it makes feel better. She said that she was 0:11:57.080 --> 0:11:58.520 nervous to meet up with you too. 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:00.559 Yeah. 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:03.360 I told her a joke at one point, and it 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:07.000 kind of failed but kind of worked at the same time. 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:08.360 I'm not really sure. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:09.679 Did you tell her? 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.200 Are you talking about the magic trick joke? 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:12.360 Yeah? 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:16.120 Ok yeah, she told us that. 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:17.680 Yeah, you're funny. It was good. 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:22.000 Okay, that's a compliment. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.080 I feel good about that. 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.400 Why would you not be calling her back? And why 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.800 wouldn't you be excited right now like we're telling you 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:30.040 it was a good date. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.720 I don't know. I just didn't know how to feel 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:36.679 about it. And then we did talk about going out again, 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:43.280 but she was talking about acts throwing and I don't 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:46.800 know about dad going out into the woods and throwing axes. 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:50.439 That seemed dangerous. 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:54.840 Okay, yeah, I understand you. You haven't dated in a while. Yeah, 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.400 it was like you might. You might not know this, 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:59.640 but they actually have places set up where you're supposed 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:04.080 to go indoors and throw axes at the wall like targets. 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:05.280 You don't even have to date to know that. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.520 I never heard of that. I thought it was sounded 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:10.680 kind of like a liability Uh. 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:15.319 You're going to be fine, man, You're going to be fine. 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:17.200 It's going to be a relief to her. So you 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.080 just weren't calling her back because you didn't think she 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.400 liked you. You're confused and you were scared throwing. 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.360 Yeah, I guess that's kind of the gift. 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:29.480 Okay. You know it was probably really really relieved to 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:32.960 hear you say all those things. Is Alice, who is 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.320 on the other line right now wanting to talk to you? 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.520 Hi, Paul, how are you. 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:45.120 Hi? I'm good. 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:48.960 You could hear the smile, you hear that. 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:53.720 It's good to hear your voice, Paul. I was wondering 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:55.480 why I hadn't heard back from you. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:01.240 I'm sorry. I guess I was just kind of I'm sure. 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:06.640 I don't really know if you wanted to go out 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.040 again or it went well. 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:12.000 Well. 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.160 I think the axe throwing idea really scared him off there. 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:17.679 Alice like that. You're not married to that as the next. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:21.360 Day, you know, like we could there was always other activities. 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.680 That we could do, would be would be good and 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:29.720 tend to be a bleeder. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:35.240 Okay, but you might must feel good, like you understand 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.640 like Alice, Alice likes you, right, Alice. You can even 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.400 tell him yourself. Now, we don't have to be your voice. 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.200 Well, I really had a great time with you when 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:46.520 we had dinner. I think the conversation was pretty good. 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.680 I don't know if maybe you might have been a 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:54.000 little anxious, but I mean if you were, I couldn't tell. 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:57.160 Your confidence has to be through the roof right now, right. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:08.080 Paul, Yeah, good, all, Okay, that's I tried Tom up 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:08.280 for that. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:11.320 And he knocked it down. 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:14.640 All right. I mean I think that you guys should 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.560 give it one more show. Think that you choose like 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.640 a safe activity for you two to do, no sharp 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:24.360 objects anywhere around the ballroom, bowling, bowling. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah, we could do that. You could come 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:30.280 see my collection collection? 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:31.200 What collection? 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:32.040 The collection? 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:39.120 Huh oh? I collect antique gynecological chairs. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.280 I don't know what. 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:45.360 Did you say, gynocologically with the stirrup feet. 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.600 I heard dynacological like a dinosaurs, like a O. B. G. 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:49.520 Y N chair. 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.800 Yeah, but like they're from the eighteen hundreds. 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:56.000 You collect those? 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:59.240 Yeah, they're really kind of fascinating. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:02.560 Actually, you know, why why are they fascinating? Paul? 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:07.040 Yeah, I mean that period is kind of, you know, 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.120 really interesting. 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:11.000 A great period in women. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:15.880 It was the experimental things. They're trying to figure out 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:19.280 what's going on now they did not know. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:25.760 That's a little How you feel about that. 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.160 That's a that's a little bit odd. 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:29.280 Well, I think maybe the question we need to ask 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.560 is do you feel like you have butterflies right now? 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:34.840 Alice Hope. 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:37.840 No. 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.720 Well, that's a good sign for you. That's the opposite 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:43.320 of what you're looking for. So we would love to 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:47.440 send you two out on another date. Paul will pay 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:49.880 for this date if you're willing to meet up with Alice. 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.680 Yeah, that sounds great. 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:55.240 Okay, okay, yes from Paul, Alice, you're still up for it. 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.040 You don't have to go to his house. You don't 0:16:59.040 --> 0:16:59.920 have to see the collection. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.080 I'll say, maybe you can see pictures of his collection 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:07.639 first and then judge from there. If there's a third day, Yes. 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:09.600 I think that's what I would need to have a 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:14.000 visual of the collection of the dynacological chair. 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:15.399 Let's not say that word. 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:19.000 Chair. 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.520 Take some photos of your collection and text them over, 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:24.640 and then we'll send you guys out again on a date. 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:28.720 Okay, I'll send a link to my website. 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:39.479 Alright, I'm kind of excited. 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:45.680 And Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.760 I mean the whole firecracker fireplace thing needs to come 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:54.120 with an asterisk now, right, because the quote safe quiet, 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:57.880 introvert also might have some secret firecracker tendency. 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.639 Are you saying might burn your house down? Yeah? I 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:01.520 think that that's. 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:01.920 What it is. 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:04.800 That is what you need to do. 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:07.320 I think it's more of a bonfire situation. 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:10.600 Maybe not good. Well, you did get them a second 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:12.720 date though, maybe maybe. 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:13.960 We found out some stuff. 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:16.520 Okay, if she says it's bad though, if she goes, 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:19.320 we need to do a safety check afterwards, just to make. 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:22.880 Sure he's a history buff. He's not actually doing any 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:26.200 examinations with that stuff. He's a collector of old goods. 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:29.520 Yeah, the one that walks down at dark Alley at 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:32.160 two am. It says nothing bad is gonna happen. 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:34.880 Ladies, why are you running? I'm a collector of old goods. 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:36.760 Yeah. I want to go to his house and see 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:40.440 all the guy in coological chairs. I bet they're cool. Oh, 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.720 let's wrap myself into you do. 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.200 That, jeff Yeah, maybe check it out for her first. 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:49.119 I will. That's the lengths I'm willing to go through 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:50.800 for our listeners, so. 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:52.840 You will put your foot up in stirrups. 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:55.760 I will keep that in mind when you email us 0:18:55.880 --> 0:18:58.199 asking for help with your love life. We'll call that 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:00.480