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Speaker 3: You know when you have one of those breakthrough moments
Speaker 3: where you hear something and realize, oh my god, I've
Speaker 3: been doing this wrong my entire life. Oh okay, when
Speaker 3: you find out the little drawer below your oven isn't
Speaker 3: for storing pants, that's for keeping food warm.
Speaker 4: It's a food warmer.
Speaker 3: Did you know that?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I do, and I stick my pants in there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just too convenient. Or when Alexis realized the
Speaker 3: turn signals on her car aren't just lights to pressed
Speaker 3: when a fun song comes on the radio, okay, but
Speaker 3: they click to the be Well, one of our listeners
Speaker 3: realize she's been approaching dating apps the wrong way for years,
Speaker 3: but one piece of advice completely shifted her thinking and
Speaker 3: helped her find the perfect guy. No, he's not calling
Speaker 3: her back, but that's not there. The advice might actually
Speaker 3: help you, though, if you hear it in your second
Speaker 3: date update.
Speaker 6: Right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second.
Speaker 3: Date Update, Alexis, if you could describe not the perfect
Speaker 3: guy for you, but the feeling that you get when
Speaker 3: you're around that guy A close your eyes and tell
Speaker 3: us the three words that he makes you feel.
Speaker 2: A little bit roasted, like I want him to be
Speaker 2: mean to me a little bit, you know, like I feel.
Speaker 1: A little That's like a hard thing that comes to
Speaker 1: your mind.
Speaker 3: Answer wherever you want to feel belittled as one full
Speaker 3: of food.
Speaker 1: I hope I get to go a little tipsy. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. I don't know if I've ever met anyone
Speaker 1: as scared of emotions as you are. Terrified. You should
Speaker 1: imagine this is.
Speaker 3: What everybody's perfect guy a little bit different.
Speaker 4: It's like Michael B. Jordan making fun of it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you see two guys because you're just have double vision.
Speaker 3: I bring it up because one of our listeners says
Speaker 3: she figured out how she wants to feel when she
Speaker 3: meets her perfect guy, and maybe it even happened to
Speaker 3: her this last date. I mean he's not calling her back,
Speaker 3: but that doesn't matter. She felt that a certain.
Speaker 1: Way that could feel good though, like just a little
Speaker 1: bit not ignored.
Speaker 4: It's one day.
Speaker 3: Well, let's talk to Alice and hear about it. Alice,
Speaker 3: how you doing?
Speaker 5: I'm good in you guys? How are you?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm worried about Alexis, but I think
Speaker 1: the rest of us are fine.
Speaker 4: Would you like because we will.
Speaker 3: I bring it up because in your email you said
Speaker 3: you felt the way that you wanted to feel when
Speaker 3: you met up with this guy. What does that mean?
Speaker 5: Well, the deal is is that I've just been meeting
Speaker 5: the wrong guys. My discernment hasn't been the best because
Speaker 5: I usually go for guys that wind up being wrong
Speaker 5: for me.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're taking a different approach, looking for a
Speaker 1: different yes.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I heard this podcast by this lady and she said,
Speaker 5: instead of looking for your firecrackers, you should be looking
Speaker 5: for your fireplace. O.
Speaker 1: That's good, I heard this.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to go for the slow burn type.
Speaker 5: Of y.
Speaker 3: Okay, what does that mean?
Speaker 5: Okay, so like firecrackers like for me, like I get
Speaker 5: butter flies, and not to my stomach, like I get
Speaker 5: like an adrenaline rush.
Speaker 1: It's so fun.
Speaker 5: It's scary, but it's like a ride I want to
Speaker 5: go on, but then the ride crashes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, dangerous. You know.
Speaker 5: Now, a fireplace is actually more it's welcoming, it's warm.
Speaker 5: You look forward to that comfort.
Speaker 1: You're not scared, right, you're not scared.
Speaker 5: It's not all the bells and whistle.
Speaker 3: So basically, you're not supposed to be looking for the
Speaker 3: exciting person anymore. You're supposed to look for the safe person.
Speaker 5: I need to be swiping right on the fireplaces.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: So is this guy that you went out with the fireplace.
Speaker 5: He fits the profile where he's doesn't necessarily knock my
Speaker 5: socks off, but but he does tick off the boxes
Speaker 5: that I like, And that's what I found in.
Speaker 3: Doesn't knock your socks off, and maybe he would mend
Speaker 3: your socks if there was.
Speaker 1: Warm them, because he's.
Speaker 3: A So what's his name?
Speaker 5: His name is PAULA.
Speaker 4: He's got a fireplace name.
Speaker 3: What did you and paul decide to do? What did
Speaker 3: you in this fireplace?
Speaker 5: Go? Okay, so what we decided to do was to
Speaker 5: go out.
Speaker 1: To dinner at my thirty at five thirty? Was that
Speaker 1: his idea or were you just really pushing this old
Speaker 1: person personae?
Speaker 7: Well?
Speaker 5: No, actually he said he had to be home to
Speaker 5: be in bed by nine thirty so that he could
Speaker 5: go to work.
Speaker 1: Oh wowo okay, even when I was dating, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: go to bed at nine thirty. Yeah, you know, one
Speaker 1: night to stay up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, yeah, it's attracted to those firecrackers, that's why.
Speaker 1: Yes, right, okay, so you were excited about this because
Speaker 1: this is still like fulfilling what your thought is of him?
Speaker 3: Yeah, how did dinner go?
Speaker 5: Dinner went really well? I mean he told me he
Speaker 5: likes to cook.
Speaker 7: He likes to bake.
Speaker 5: And when he said that to me, it's like that
Speaker 5: gave me some really nice, like low key fireplace vibes,
Speaker 5: which I really liked.
Speaker 1: Yes, so did you tell tell him this because you've
Speaker 1: brought it up so many times?
Speaker 3: Did you use the term firecracker and fireplace with him?
Speaker 5: That's what I Honestly, I didn't want to bring up
Speaker 5: those terms because I just wanted him to be himself
Speaker 5: and not say that he had to be somebody else.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.
Speaker 3: It's probably not going to go too well if you
Speaker 3: keep referring to him as the safe fireplace.
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean every guy wants to think of themselves
Speaker 1: as a bad boy in some ways, right, Yeah.
Speaker 3: So okay, he seems to be checking the boxes that
Speaker 3: you want, right.
Speaker 5: You know, he said he was looking for long term
Speaker 5: you know, he's into health and nature, and that to
Speaker 5: me was perfect. I mean, I wasn't getting butterflies in
Speaker 5: my stomach, you know.
Speaker 1: I feel like that should still be happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, you don't want to have that. Okay, that's
Speaker 3: a firecracker.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm guessing like you guys didn't end the
Speaker 1: night with a kiss or anything.
Speaker 5: Well, near the ending of the night, he tells me
Speaker 5: a joke and he said to me, did I want
Speaker 5: him to teach me a car trick? So I could sure?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 5: And then oh, well, I don't know any gotcha?
Speaker 3: Well, hopefully didn't laugh too hard because then you're gonna
Speaker 3: get too excited and that would be a time.
Speaker 1: Was that? The only funny moment is that it's just
Speaker 1: so specific.
Speaker 3: What was there? Like any like hugg er?
Speaker 5: I'll say we did a nice little hug. I mean
Speaker 5: I thought it was I thought it was a good date.
Speaker 5: It wasn't over the top, but that's what.
Speaker 1: You want though.
Speaker 8: It wasn't like a bad experience or one big negative thing.
Speaker 3: Okay, So what's happened since the date?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 7: This is the thing?
Speaker 9: Now, I haven't heard back or gotten a callback from
Speaker 9: this boring fireplace guy.
Speaker 1: So are you just more mad that he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back? Or do you really want to see him again?
Speaker 5: I really would like to see him again. But I'm like,
Speaker 5: how could you not call me back?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: Like? What could you possibly have going on outside of
Speaker 5: what you told me?
Speaker 7: Wow?
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a cat. Maybe we should dial down
Speaker 3: some of this language when we actually get him on
Speaker 3: the phone, but we're gonna call him. We'll try and
Speaker 3: stoke that fire back up and not too brightly when
Speaker 3: we do your second date update right after this, Okay, hold.
Speaker 6: On Brooke and Jeffrey. In the morning second date update,
Speaker 6: I got.
Speaker 3: The strangest text message from the Academy of Radio Broadcasters saying,
Speaker 3: we just hit a new radio record for saying the
Speaker 3: word fireplace second over fifteen thousand times.
Speaker 1: We know what we're looking for, jeff Yeah.
Speaker 3: And I'm only gonna say it once more. Because our
Speaker 3: listener Alice used that term as a simple analogy for
Speaker 3: what she's looking for in her romantic partner. She learned
Speaker 3: she needs to stop chasing fire crackers and start looking
Speaker 3: for her fire place.
Speaker 1: What if you do, don't chase waterfalls either. We'll just
Speaker 1: put it in there.
Speaker 3: We don't need any more analogies thrown. Basically, it's stopped
Speaker 3: looking for the exciting guy who gives you butterflies, start
Speaker 3: looking for the safe option.
Speaker 4: Yeah, set kind of, not.
Speaker 1: Really, I mean, it's just like, yeah, just don't look
Speaker 1: for the stuff that's going to fizzle out really quick.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're looking for that feeling that's going to make
Speaker 3: you feel like you're at home. Yeah, and now that
Speaker 3: she went down that road, the fireplace is leaving her
Speaker 3: on red.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said fireplace again.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to say it anymore.
Speaker 1: We can't break our own record.
Speaker 4: It's like our wood soggy. It just won't, you know.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So now that's how you feel him before we call
Speaker 3: him here, I'm.
Speaker 9: Feeling pretty good. I'm just hoping to figure out why
Speaker 9: haven't heard back from Paul.
Speaker 1: I like that you still have hope, but not too much.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like you're like shifting everything to try
Speaker 1: to find the thing that you're supposed to have, and
Speaker 1: even that is a struggle right now. But I don't
Speaker 1: think it will be.
Speaker 11: At the end of this I hope.
Speaker 10: So, yeah, we all do.
Speaker 3: It's interesting we're going to be calling a boring guy
Speaker 3: for a radio segment here. Not the best reading strategy
Speaker 3: on our part, but you know what, let's dial him
Speaker 3: up anyway.
Speaker 4: Stay tuned. We've got a crackling fireplaces.
Speaker 3: Hopefully we can squeeze a little bit of an exciting this.
Speaker 3: But here we go. Hello, Hi, We're looking to speak
Speaker 3: with Paul.
Speaker 7: This is Paul, not that.
Speaker 1: We wanted you to come hot out of the gate
Speaker 1: or anything.
Speaker 4: Morning, my friend.
Speaker 3: First of all, thank you so much for answering this
Speaker 3: number that I'm sure you didn't recognize it.
Speaker 4: Well, strangers, we know we're.
Speaker 3: A radio station called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 12: Okay, Okay, nice, Okay, let's keep this going because what
Speaker 12: we're doing here is called a second date update, and
Speaker 12: we're trying to help out one of our listeners that
Speaker 12: you actually went out to dinner with a few nights
Speaker 12: ago go and she had a really nice time with you.
Speaker 3: Her name is Alice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good old Alice.
Speaker 3: Huh yeah, Well, we'd like to open it up to
Speaker 3: you for a second and tell us what you thought
Speaker 3: about the date. Which thought about Alice?
Speaker 10: Uh what what is this for?
Speaker 3: Well, it's a second ate update. Basically, Alice has reached
Speaker 3: out to us because she told us a little bit
Speaker 3: about your night together. She had a great time. How
Speaker 3: was it for you?
Speaker 7: I'm just not really sure how the date when I guess,
Speaker 7: I don't uh, I don't know, I don't get I
Speaker 7: don't get a lot of matches, so I was pretty nervous.
Speaker 7: That's been a long time doing my hair and.
Speaker 3: If it makes feel better. She said that she was
Speaker 3: nervous to meet up with you too.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I told her a joke at one point, and it
Speaker 7: kind of failed but kind of worked at the same time.
Speaker 7: I'm not really sure.
Speaker 1: Did you tell her?
Speaker 3: Are you talking about the magic trick joke?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Ok yeah, she told us that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're funny. It was good.
Speaker 7: Okay, that's a compliment.
Speaker 3: I feel good about that.
Speaker 1: Why would you not be calling her back? And why
Speaker 1: wouldn't you be excited right now like we're telling you
Speaker 1: it was a good date.
Speaker 7: I don't know. I just didn't know how to feel
Speaker 7: about it. And then we did talk about going out again,
Speaker 7: but she was talking about acts throwing and I don't
Speaker 7: know about dad going out into the woods and throwing axes.
Speaker 7: That seemed dangerous.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I understand you. You haven't dated in a while. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was like you might. You might not know this,
Speaker 3: but they actually have places set up where you're supposed
Speaker 3: to go indoors and throw axes at the wall like targets.
Speaker 1: You don't even have to date to know that.
Speaker 7: I never heard of that. I thought it was sounded
Speaker 7: kind of like a liability Uh.
Speaker 1: You're going to be fine, man, You're going to be fine.
Speaker 1: It's going to be a relief to her. So you
Speaker 1: just weren't calling her back because you didn't think she
Speaker 1: liked you. You're confused and you were scared throwing.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess that's kind of the gift.
Speaker 3: Okay. You know it was probably really really relieved to
Speaker 3: hear you say all those things. Is Alice, who is
Speaker 3: on the other line right now wanting to talk to you?
Speaker 9: Hi, Paul, how are you.
Speaker 7: Hi? I'm good.
Speaker 3: You could hear the smile, you hear that.
Speaker 5: It's good to hear your voice, Paul. I was wondering
Speaker 5: why I hadn't heard back from you.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry. I guess I was just kind of I'm sure.
Speaker 7: I don't really know if you wanted to go out
Speaker 7: again or it went well.
Speaker 8: Well.
Speaker 3: I think the axe throwing idea really scared him off there.
Speaker 3: Alice like that. You're not married to that as the next.
Speaker 5: Day, you know, like we could there was always other activities.
Speaker 7: That we could do, would be would be good and
Speaker 7: tend to be a bleeder.
Speaker 3: Okay, but you might must feel good, like you understand
Speaker 3: like Alice, Alice likes you, right, Alice. You can even
Speaker 3: tell him yourself. Now, we don't have to be your voice.
Speaker 5: Well, I really had a great time with you when
Speaker 5: we had dinner. I think the conversation was pretty good.
Speaker 5: I don't know if maybe you might have been a
Speaker 5: little anxious, but I mean if you were, I couldn't tell.
Speaker 1: Your confidence has to be through the roof right now, right.
Speaker 11: Paul, Yeah, good, all, Okay, that's I tried Tom up
Speaker 11: for that.
Speaker 4: And he knocked it down.
Speaker 3: All right. I mean I think that you guys should
Speaker 3: give it one more show. Think that you choose like
Speaker 3: a safe activity for you two to do, no sharp
Speaker 3: objects anywhere around the ballroom, bowling, bowling.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we could do that. You could come
Speaker 7: see my collection collection?
Speaker 3: What collection?
Speaker 4: The collection?
Speaker 7: Huh oh? I collect antique gynecological chairs.
Speaker 4: I don't know what.
Speaker 1: Did you say, gynocologically with the stirrup feet.
Speaker 4: I heard dynacological like a dinosaurs, like a O. B. G.
Speaker 1: Y N chair.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but like they're from the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 3: You collect those?
Speaker 7: Yeah, they're really kind of fascinating.
Speaker 1: Actually, you know, why why are they fascinating? Paul?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean that period is kind of, you know,
Speaker 7: really interesting.
Speaker 1: A great period in women.
Speaker 3: It was the experimental things. They're trying to figure out
Speaker 3: what's going on now they did not know.
Speaker 1: That's a little How you feel about that.
Speaker 5: That's a that's a little bit odd.
Speaker 3: Well, I think maybe the question we need to ask
Speaker 3: is do you feel like you have butterflies right now?
Speaker 3: Alice Hope.
Speaker 10: No.
Speaker 3: Well, that's a good sign for you. That's the opposite
Speaker 3: of what you're looking for. So we would love to
Speaker 3: send you two out on another date. Paul will pay
Speaker 3: for this date if you're willing to meet up with Alice.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yes from Paul, Alice, you're still up for it.
Speaker 3: You don't have to go to his house. You don't
Speaker 3: have to see the collection.
Speaker 1: I'll say, maybe you can see pictures of his collection
Speaker 1: first and then judge from there. If there's a third day, Yes.
Speaker 5: I think that's what I would need to have a
Speaker 5: visual of the collection of the dynacological chair.
Speaker 1: Let's not say that word.
Speaker 10: Chair.
Speaker 3: Take some photos of your collection and text them over,
Speaker 3: and then we'll send you guys out again on a date.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'll send a link to my website.
Speaker 10: Alright, I'm kind of excited.
Speaker 6: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: I mean the whole firecracker fireplace thing needs to come
Speaker 3: with an asterisk now, right, because the quote safe quiet,
Speaker 3: introvert also might have some secret firecracker tendency.
Speaker 1: Are you saying might burn your house down? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: think that that's.
Speaker 13: What it is.
Speaker 1: That is what you need to do.
Speaker 8: I think it's more of a bonfire situation.
Speaker 3: Maybe not good. Well, you did get them a second
Speaker 3: date though, maybe maybe.
Speaker 4: We found out some stuff.
Speaker 1: Okay, if she says it's bad though, if she goes,
Speaker 1: we need to do a safety check afterwards, just to make.
Speaker 3: Sure he's a history buff. He's not actually doing any
Speaker 3: examinations with that stuff. He's a collector of old goods.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the one that walks down at dark Alley at
Speaker 1: two am. It says nothing bad is gonna happen.
Speaker 4: Ladies, why are you running? I'm a collector of old goods.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to go to his house and see
Speaker 3: all the guy in coological chairs. I bet they're cool. Oh,
Speaker 3: let's wrap myself into you do.
Speaker 4: That, jeff Yeah, maybe check it out for her first.
Speaker 3: I will. That's the lengths I'm willing to go through
Speaker 3: for our listeners, so.
Speaker 1: You will put your foot up in stirrups.
Speaker 3: I will keep that in mind when you email us
Speaker 3: asking for help with your love life. We'll call that
Speaker 3: person who won't call you back and go check out
Speaker 3: all of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts
Speaker 3: at Brook.
Speaker 6: And Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: The saying goes, love is in the eye of the beholder,
Speaker 3: meaning what alexis.
Speaker 9: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you have sunglasses on.
Speaker 3: It makes someone look better, Okay, that's one way to
Speaker 3: take it. Another way to take it is that what
Speaker 3: works romantically for some people may totally not work for
Speaker 3: other people.
Speaker 1: That was what I was saying, Yeah.
Speaker 3: With sunglasses on, sure, but that was definitely the case
Speaker 3: in today's call. Because the kiss that happened at the
Speaker 3: end of the night, depending on who you ask, is
Speaker 3: either the cutest, most spontaneous thing ever or the cringiest,
Speaker 3: most awkward interaction of all time.
Speaker 1: I like that there's no middle ground either. No, that's
Speaker 1: what I appreciate.
Speaker 3: Not when you hear it. You can decide when you
Speaker 3: find out what happened in your second date update right.
Speaker 6: After this Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning second date update.
Speaker 3: Brooke, I want you to think about the best date
Speaker 3: that you've ever been on. Ok I know it's probably
Speaker 3: not with your husband. Nobody here expected it would be.
Speaker 3: What's the thing that happened that made you say this
Speaker 3: date tops them all?
Speaker 4: That's a big question.
Speaker 1: Honestly, it's just the person I'm with, Like.
Speaker 3: I come, you're talking about yourself again.
Speaker 8: The fireworks are like the chef made me a seven snail.
Speaker 3: The three way kiss at the end, that's it. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 3: that makes sense. One of our listeners emailed the show
Speaker 3: saying his most recent date easily ranks number one all times,
Speaker 3: and I'm just assuming he's been on more than one
Speaker 3: otherwise that statement really doesn't say much. Let's talk to
Speaker 3: Chris about it. Chris, Welcome to the show Man. How
Speaker 3: you doing.
Speaker 13: Hey, guys, thanks for taking my call. I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on
Speaker 1: this first date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have been on more than one date in
Speaker 3: your life, right, Yes.
Speaker 13: No, I've been in a lot of dates in the
Speaker 13: last few years, and honestly, none of them really hit
Speaker 13: at all, Like I didn't feel like there was any connection.
Speaker 13: But this last girl, Kendra. It was like the date
Speaker 13: of a lifetime.
Speaker 8: Okay, are you saying that because of Kendra or because
Speaker 8: of the activity in the environment.
Speaker 13: I think it was a combination of the entire The
Speaker 13: huntire night was kind of great. You'll see, you'll see
Speaker 13: by the end our dating.
Speaker 1: Lives will look paltry in comparison.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, let's get right into it. Tell us
Speaker 3: where'd you meet Kendra?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 13: So I bought her flowers? We went to a restaurant.
Speaker 3: Question that I asked her. You're really eager to tell us,
Speaker 3: and I appreciate that, but.
Speaker 1: Maybe so excited about this story.
Speaker 3: Where where did you meet her?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 13: We met online?
Speaker 1: There understand why that was a confusing question.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I see. And now where did you two meet
Speaker 3: at a restaurant? It sounds like.
Speaker 13: At a restaurant.
Speaker 4: I'm glad you let them.
Speaker 13: He bought her flowers, okay, And I bought her flowers,
Speaker 13: which is an important part of the story because she
Speaker 13: was so shocked by the guy, because no guys buy
Speaker 13: flowers anymore, That's what she said at me at least.
Speaker 1: Oh, no guys buy flowers.
Speaker 3: Well, they are pretty expensive.
Speaker 4: I've got in trouble, like the girls like flowers.
Speaker 3: And they like them after that is a good point, Alexis.
Speaker 3: I mean, what did Kendra do with the flowers after
Speaker 3: you gave them to her?
Speaker 13: Well, that was part of the story. The server even
Speaker 13: complimented the flowers. When the server complimented the flowers, she
Speaker 13: offered to let the server put flowers on everyone's tables.
Speaker 3: So she accepted your gift and immediately gave it away
Speaker 3: to the Okay.
Speaker 13: Which, when you say it like that, it doesn't sound
Speaker 13: so good. It was really nice to watch that happen,
Speaker 13: and I'll see other people happy with these flowers. It
Speaker 13: was a really nice moment.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you bought everyone flowers.
Speaker 2: Well, everyone in the restaurant doesn't get it.
Speaker 3: It is a really good move, though. I feel like
Speaker 3: it looks good in her eyes, and I assume it
Speaker 3: must have led to some good conversation, to some good moments.
Speaker 13: It really did. In fact, I'd say it got a
Speaker 13: little cheesy and so good that I got myself a
Speaker 13: little vulnerable, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Oh, the hats came off that quickly.
Speaker 1: I say it like that, did you say I cried?
Speaker 1: Is that what you just said?
Speaker 13: But didn't cry, But I'm sort of as a twenty
Speaker 13: six year old. I gave up on meeting anybody at
Speaker 13: this point.
Speaker 1: So twenty six isn't that old.
Speaker 13: Just so you know, she's twenty nine, and she said
Speaker 13: she was going through similar stuff, so it was like
Speaker 13: we kind of hit on the same subjects.
Speaker 3: Wow, what happened At the end of the night.
Speaker 13: We went back to her place? We walked to her place.
Speaker 13: She didn't live that far from the restaurant, so it
Speaker 13: was a really nice romantic walk.
Speaker 1: Did you hold hands?
Speaker 13: We held pinkies?
Speaker 4: That's even better.
Speaker 3: I don't know. That's the friend finger.
Speaker 4: Wait, you have a friend finger.
Speaker 3: That's the one you do pinky promises with your friends.
Speaker 4: I thought you were going I thought he was.
Speaker 3: Anyway, did you after the pinky hole thing? Did you
Speaker 3: get a kiss?
Speaker 13: So it was kind of a funny situation. She lives
Speaker 13: in a community that has a wall around it, and
Speaker 13: you have to it's not easy to get into, you know.
Speaker 4: A biodome or a prison some sort.
Speaker 1: I think it's just an apartment with a gate is
Speaker 1: what he means, which are pretty common.
Speaker 4: Okay, I like bio prison.
Speaker 3: I'm not familiar, but okay, I get it.
Speaker 13: There's a gate, So there's a gate and she didn't
Speaker 13: have her key, so you're locked out.
Speaker 3: Or maybe it's a move that she's pulling where she's like, oh,
Speaker 3: I can't find my keys.
Speaker 1: She happened? Do you need me to strip search myself.
Speaker 5: There?
Speaker 3: Maybe I was more like, maybe we should go back
Speaker 3: to your place instead.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't think she need to pull a move
Speaker 1: to go back to a guy. Yeah, yeah, I'm standing
Speaker 1: naking it the states.
Speaker 3: So, so what happened, Chris?
Speaker 13: I know this sounds ridiculous, but so I decided to
Speaker 13: jump the gate.
Speaker 1: So you can open it on the other side.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 13: Yeah, I had to climb it and pull myself up
Speaker 13: over it. As I'm pulling myself up over it, I
Speaker 13: get stuck. My pants get stuck on it, and I
Speaker 13: get gone. I'm hanging upside down.
Speaker 4: No spiky fences, right, Yes, what did she do?
Speaker 7: Well? She kissed me?
Speaker 9: What man?
Speaker 13: Kiss?
Speaker 4: Upside down?
Speaker 3: Upside down.
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 1: And she kissed you.
Speaker 13: I was just as shocked as you were.
Speaker 1: Wow, I guess she likes her in mobile vulnerable.
Speaker 4: I can get him there pounce.
Speaker 3: Did you like it?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: Was that awkward? Or was it? Romo?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 13: It was a nice it's a very nice romantic moment.
Speaker 13: But it's been a couple of days since that happened.
Speaker 13: We texted for a couple of days, and then since
Speaker 13: then she hasn't gotten back to me.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're a bad upside Yeah, it can be confusing
Speaker 3: because usually you put your tongue this way, but when
Speaker 3: you're upside down, he needs to go that way.
Speaker 1: Practice, so we found another man suspended on a fence
Speaker 1: and took Yeah, maybe that's her thing.
Speaker 4: Some guy working on the phone lines.
Speaker 3: Okay, well we're gonna we're gonna come back. We'll call
Speaker 3: Kendra for you and try to get you your next
Speaker 3: most romantic date ever. When we get you kiss, let's
Speaker 3: get crazy. We'll do it with your second date update next.
Speaker 6: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Second date update.
Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, we've basically got the real
Speaker 3: life Peter Parker on the phone who received the rare
Speaker 3: it did upside down kiss during his date with Kendra.
Speaker 1: You didn't see the sequel where the Spider Man got
Speaker 1: his pant Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're still in the Tobey Maguire University.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Toby would totally get his pants stuck on a fence.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it happened after Chris fell while scaling the
Speaker 3: security gate outside of Kendra's apartment, as you do a lot.
Speaker 4: Of dates, and those are hard to climb though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but pants got caught when he fell, and it
Speaker 3: was there in that embarrassing moment when animal instinct took
Speaker 3: over and Kendra walked right up to him and smooched
Speaker 3: him in the face, which.
Speaker 1: Is such a good sign because that really could have
Speaker 1: been an ick moment for her. Yeah, you know, and
Speaker 1: obviously she thought it was.
Speaker 3: Adorable, So no wonder Chris is describing it as his
Speaker 3: best date ever. But weird that she's not texting him
Speaker 3: back since she's the one who initiated that moment.
Speaker 1: You know, we never asked, Chris, did she ever get
Speaker 1: back into her apartment, because maybe that's why she hasn't responded.
Speaker 3: That's a good point.
Speaker 13: Yeah, somebody came by a few minutes later and let
Speaker 13: her in.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I guess I didn't even think about just
Speaker 1: waiting until somebody else showed up.
Speaker 3: We're gonna call Kendra, we'll see if she picks up.
Speaker 1: And God, I hope this works out for you. I
Speaker 1: mean there's so much pressure on this one. You know,
Speaker 1: it's like his best date he's ever been on.
Speaker 3: Well, I felt pretty relaxed until you said that. Now
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, I'm super stressed out for no reason.
Speaker 1: Don't screw it up, jeff.
Speaker 3: Oh god, okay, here we go. Then, Hello, Hey is
Speaker 3: this Kendra? I think?
Speaker 1: Yes? She said, who is this?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: She said, sorry, Kendri. Yeah, we're a radio show. We're
Speaker 3: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: How many?
Speaker 14: How many of you are there?
Speaker 3: Too many?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's a whole show.
Speaker 13: Okay, all right, So.
Speaker 3: We're reaching out to you because one of our listeners
Speaker 3: has asked us to get a hold of you, a
Speaker 3: guy that you went on a date with recently named Chris.
Speaker 13: Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 3: So this is all part of a segment we do
Speaker 3: call the Second Date Update, where we're trying to figure
Speaker 3: out if there's a reason you have stopped texting him
Speaker 3: after the date. I mean, obviously, yeah, obviously the reason
Speaker 3: should be obvious.
Speaker 14: No, no, all, just like it's obvious that yes, I
Speaker 14: have a reason.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we just want to know because we spoke
Speaker 3: to Chris and he told us about your date and
Speaker 3: it sounded actually much better than we ever thought it
Speaker 3: could have been given the circumstances.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'd love to hear your side of the story.
Speaker 14: Yeah, Okay, it was a good date. Like, it was
Speaker 14: a really good.
Speaker 7: Date, honestly, so cute.
Speaker 14: Okay, I mean I wouldn't have kissed him at the
Speaker 14: end of it if it was a bad date.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: That's where you and Brook differed.
Speaker 1: But he told us about that first kiss, like that
Speaker 1: was crazy, the upside down one.
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean, when you have a movie moment, you
Speaker 14: have to like take it right.
Speaker 1: Oh you found like it was that magical too, Like
Speaker 1: it really was a movie moment.
Speaker 14: Well, yeah, it was a spider Man kiss.
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, that's the first thing we jumped to as well.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 3: If that's the case, then why after your movie moment
Speaker 3: aren't you calling Chris back.
Speaker 14: Well, I mean, I don't really know what he told
Speaker 14: you besides that we kiss.
Speaker 3: I mean, that was the majority we know that you
Speaker 3: guys went to a restaurant.
Speaker 1: He told us about the flowers that he brought you flowers,
Speaker 1: and you guys passed him out among the other table.
Speaker 3: He immediately gave his gift away.
Speaker 14: Oh, yes, I didn't think he could mind.
Speaker 1: It was really sweet.
Speaker 14: Oh okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, here's the thing. Chris
Speaker 14: is great, but he lied to me, and I mean
Speaker 14: he lied about something pretty big and I big, like.
Speaker 4: What like his name or something?
Speaker 14: Dude, I mean no, it's not his names. He said
Speaker 14: that he was twenty six and he's like, forty.
Speaker 7: Two is what? Yeah?
Speaker 13: Again, wait a second. You had a good time. I
Speaker 13: had a good time. Why does it matter?
Speaker 3: What is anybody? Okay, okay, way, Chris, that doesn't sound good, Kendrick.
Speaker 3: You didn't know this, but Chris has been listening on
Speaker 3: the other line.
Speaker 13: Yeah, because I'm forty two. But that's all.
Speaker 1: You are. Forty two. You told us that you were
Speaker 1: twenty six.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kidding, bro.
Speaker 13: But age doesn't matter. It doesn't matter how old I am.
Speaker 14: Again, we had a good time, lie about it, so
Speaker 14: it doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: Why do you lie?
Speaker 13: That's only thirteen years different?
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that is wild so long and Chris, if
Speaker 3: age isn't important, then why did you lie about it?
Speaker 13: Because she wouldn't have woun out with me if I
Speaker 13: said I was forty two. I had toll that of.
Speaker 1: You yes, when I was in my twenties, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: date somebody into forties either.
Speaker 13: Yeah, it happens in Hollywood all the time. Men and
Speaker 13: women are older than the significant others.
Speaker 3: Actually normal, a lot of healthy relationships and holidays.
Speaker 1: And it's people having the information to make that choice. Right,
Speaker 1: So she you lied to her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Kender, what are your thoughts on this?
Speaker 14: I mean, here's the thing, Like, I'm not entirely truthful
Speaker 14: my age on the apps either. What wait, I say
Speaker 14: that I'm twenty nine, but I'm actually thirty one. But
Speaker 14: that's not like a wait.
Speaker 13: A second, wait a second, you lie about your age online?
Speaker 13: That's just shoping.
Speaker 3: Okay, chancastic, you don't really have a leg to stand on.
Speaker 1: I think he's being sarcastic. You being sarcastic, right, No,
Speaker 1: it's the same.
Speaker 13: A lie is a lie, whether it's twenty nine or
Speaker 13: forty two.
Speaker 1: So you're not upset that she lied about her age
Speaker 1: because you lied about yours.
Speaker 13: I'm upset that she's upset about me lying about my
Speaker 13: age if she lies about hers.
Speaker 3: Okay, somehow, you think, no matter what it is, the
Speaker 3: lies should cancel out and you should be on even
Speaker 3: playing field.
Speaker 13: Yeah, a lie should cancel out a lie.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm kind of messed up that you lied to No,
Speaker 1: here's my thing.
Speaker 14: It's like when people are like looking for people who
Speaker 14: they want to date, and they go to my age bracket.
Speaker 14: They're looking for people between thirty and forty, and I
Speaker 14: don't want to people like I'd rather use someone who's
Speaker 14: a little bit younger.
Speaker 1: So you aged out of the age bracket you're interested in.
Speaker 1: Is the problem, Yes, but not.
Speaker 14: By sixteen years.
Speaker 1: It's thirteen.
Speaker 14: Yeah, it's sixteen. He doesn't know how to do mass.
Speaker 14: It's literally sixteen.
Speaker 3: But he's doing the same exact thing that you're doing.
Speaker 3: He's lying about his age to open up his options
Speaker 3: the same way that.
Speaker 14: You are, but he's opening it too far.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I mean I don't think what she's doing
Speaker 1: is right, but I can see her point, Like, you
Speaker 1: have a generation gap between somebody, Well, I guess you're
Speaker 1: thirty one now, so now you're only eleven years apart
Speaker 1: in age, So now it's not as.
Speaker 13: Big as a game billions of years old. What's the
Speaker 13: difference between thirteen years.
Speaker 1: I can't tell who side him on him?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and technically the age gap is just eleven years now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I just said.
Speaker 3: Really, but I wasn't listening to you, Brooke, because you're older.
Speaker 3: I have my cutoff at age thirty five. So Alexis,
Speaker 3: if you have anything to say, feel free to jump in.
Speaker 1: I'm so confused.
Speaker 8: My question is when you kissed him, did you know
Speaker 8: he was forty by then?
Speaker 5: I had suspicions.
Speaker 14: I mean, I knew he wasn't twenty six.
Speaker 8: But that means you guys got along so well even
Speaker 8: you were bending your rules a little in your riding exactly.
Speaker 14: I wasn't spending my rules eleven years.
Speaker 8: No, you're right, you are right, But I'm just saying
Speaker 8: at a point you came to a conclusion almost.
Speaker 1: And you still I think Jose's onto something you both
Speaker 1: Can you get over this? Is that? That's really the
Speaker 1: question is not the.
Speaker 8: Only problem, because if you guys just get along great,
Speaker 8: just a big lie about who you are.
Speaker 3: That age is just a number. It shouldn't matter if
Speaker 3: the connection is real. And if that connection is true,
Speaker 3: we'd like to offer to send you to out on
Speaker 3: another date and we would pay for it.
Speaker 13: That would be nice. I like when people pay for
Speaker 13: my dates, I do it.
Speaker 7: I'm down.
Speaker 3: Yeah, cheap, cheap, old man, I see waiting for that
Speaker 3: senior discount. But Kendra, we will pay for it. It's
Speaker 3: up to you.
Speaker 14: Look, if we would have met organically and had the
Speaker 14: connection we had, then I might have been able to
Speaker 14: forget that he's forty two. But the lying is it's
Speaker 14: just going to bother.
Speaker 3: Your lives don't bother, That's right.
Speaker 14: But you're like, my life is fine, lies, you.
Speaker 3: Know, Chris, I'm sorry, man, it was the state of
Speaker 3: his entire life.
Speaker 13: Well, if that's it, guys, I'm gonna let him know
Speaker 13: the truth that I'm not actually forty two, I'm forty six.
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 14: Why you wore the baseball hat backwards on our dates?
Speaker 1: Like you're literally adapt and that's why you couldn't get
Speaker 1: over the fence.
Speaker 3: No wonder he knows who Toldy maguire, is.
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Man. I know this happens all the time on the
Speaker 3: dating apps now, where people lie about their age. But
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm ever gonna understand the thinking
Speaker 3: behind it, because at some point the truth about your
Speaker 3: real age is gonna come out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I mean maybe it's like one of those
Speaker 1: things where you feel like you'll just be so connected
Speaker 1: by then it won't at her. Yeah, that's when you're right.
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's ever true. A lie always matters,
Speaker 1: but yeah.
Speaker 3: Because eventually you're gonna have to explain why your high
Speaker 3: school graduation photo has a watermark that says Sears Portrait
Speaker 3: Studio in nineteen eighty six, and then everyone's gonna be confused.
Speaker 8: I thought it was bold that he tried to play
Speaker 8: off that he was younger than her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, okay, I'm thirty two, or like, I'm
Speaker 4: a few years older. He's three years younger than her,
Speaker 4: he's overcome.
Speaker 1: Twenty years different. All I need to know is what
Speaker 1: filter he's using on his photos. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: need it for personal use, I swear. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 1: a curiosity got to be Okay.
Speaker 3: So just to be clear, we're not saying don't lie.
Speaker 3: We're just saying lie smarter.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, to do that, Jeff, We're saying don't lie.
Speaker 3: We'll make it believable. Okay. Yeah, if you want some
Speaker 3: help with your dating life, lies or not, email the show.
Speaker 3: We'll call that person. Who's not calling you back, And
Speaker 3: go find out all of our second dates. They're up
Speaker 3: online wherever you get your podcasts to search Brooke and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey