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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for realizing I'm the Golden Child?

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Speaker 1: Turn yourself into the Doodoo childs the Doodoo child, then

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Speaker 1: you're really the a hole. I wish I could realize

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Speaker 1: In the Golden Child, Sophia is definitely the Golden Child.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like you're both. I feel yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm like I'm climbing up. My stock is

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Speaker 1: on thy eyes. Yeah, but these stories are all answering

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Speaker 1: the question how do you maintain good relationship with your siblings?

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Speaker 1: And we're gonna jump into this, but do you know

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Speaker 1: So this first story comes from confident Hookie two four

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Speaker 1: to one and they say, I fifteen male, have an

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Speaker 1: a half apart, we're completely different. I'm very social and

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Speaker 1: cool bro get cool? Is he like hitting? I don't

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Speaker 1: know the but I hate studying. But despite that, I

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Speaker 2: I know a guy like this.

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Speaker 1: I just have it. I just have it all. I

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Speaker 1: just have it all. My sister, on the other hand,

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Speaker 1: Growing up, my sister was always jealous of me, always

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Speaker 1: saying that our mom preferred me over her. Whenever we

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Speaker 1: us equally. That's what they have to say. Mom always

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Speaker 1: That's that is like, that's the worst.

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Speaker 2: She's just jealous because you are the cold child, true

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Speaker 1: So much more recently, our mom took us both to

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Speaker 1: the clinic for a comprehensive psychological evaluation, you know, normal

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Speaker 1: family friendly stuff. What are these parents? This was mainly

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Speaker 1: because my sister was stressed out about what she's going

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Speaker 1: to study in college, and Mom thought it would be

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Speaker 1: good for me too. The evaluation included an IQ test,

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Speaker 1: a personality test, a spatial vision test, a memory test,

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Speaker 1: and others. My sister outperformed me in almost every aspect.

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Speaker 1: She has an IQ of effing one hundred and forty.

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Speaker 1: What's the Mexican there is? I mean there's not really max,

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Speaker 1: but like a hundred is normal, one hundred and ten

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Speaker 1: which is the high IQ society. And then I was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was me.

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Speaker 1: I'm the person in the Sorry, no, I don't think

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Speaker 1: one twenty I actually Riley, Uh, after we finished this

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Speaker 1: No way suck it. I thought I was smarter than

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Speaker 1: She's getting perfect grades. Though my mom was also surprised

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Speaker 1: old fat, juicy update, but uh, John, Yes, what do

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Speaker 2: I I kind of empathize a four op in that, like,

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Speaker 2: So like, I feel like you are not anywhere nearly

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Speaker 2: And I do think that there is a responsibility there

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Speaker 2: She's probably shying. It's like, it's like shy people that

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. There's there's no there's no indication

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Speaker 1: You're saying, you're saying you agree with OP that she'll

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Speaker 2: Not insufferable, she will. She's not shy.

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Speaker 2: She's not shy towards OP and her Uh, she knows

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Speaker 1: How do you know? I know?

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Speaker 1: As long are you the golden child? Sixty three percent

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Speaker 3: Though, whoever owns you're like the trail blazer. Whoever, I'm

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Speaker 1: Because you can always go back when you're like fifty

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Speaker 3: By then, I'll just have computer hands and a big

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Speaker 1: Where's the song?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Exactly punched over.

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Speaker 1: The speaking wood chat.

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Speaker 2: Can someone make a AI version like photo of Riley

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Speaker 1: I love you?

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Speaker 1: Are you and John that that she she's uh speaks

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Speaker 1: it almost is like they agree with me. Your sister

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Speaker 2: Riley put up a pole. Do you agree with John

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Speaker 2: right now, chat is sounding off for your boy, Sophia

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Speaker 1: Everyone's sounding off right Your sister is a human being.

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Speaker 1: She's only going to be living under the same roof

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Speaker 2: According to the comments. To the comments, Jolly x Toaster says,

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Speaker 1: But are you okay now?

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Speaker 1: your mom does not sounds whack? What the mom?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the mom sounds whack. That is definitely golden child syndrome.

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Speaker 1: But guess what, Jolly, you're the golden child of our

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Speaker 1: How do you know what my relationship is with my sister?

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Speaker 1: We actually have a great relationship. We play tennis and

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Speaker 1: And guess, frick in what what we have? One of

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Speaker 1: about to say, Well, I'm about to say, read my mind, John,

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Speaker 1: Let's go, dudey, the writing is going to be off

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Speaker 1: the charts. It's gonna be like the most eloquent story.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear some Hemmingway, dude, Harvard level application

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Speaker 1: vibes only speak truth. Write a true sentence, baby, write

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, I had no idea.

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Speaker 1: My Q is ten, so I barely had an idea

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Speaker 1: MYQ is also alright. Let's go in do this update.

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Speaker 1: Hi people, Hello, Op's sister here wave emoji found off

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Speaker 1: sus dude, Hi IQ, move right there. Pictures were of

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Speaker 1: comment to all the people being mean to my brother. Colon,

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Speaker 1: Oh please stop it, Comma, he doesn't deserve it. Great grammar,

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Speaker 1: damn great dude, much better grammar than me. Much amazing grammar.

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Speaker 1: We have a good relationship, Comma. As you said in

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Speaker 1: But my brother has never made me feel bad for

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Speaker 1: this is for you. I'm sorry I made you feel

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Speaker 1: I'm making this a public promise, pinky swear wow, that

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Speaker 2: What ever some story alert?

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Speaker 1: Oh Pe respond So that was oh Pie's sister. Oh

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Speaker 1: I will pretend I have not seen you write this

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful wholesome story. Beautiful wholesome story. I love it. John

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Speaker 2: But the only one that's that's that Mom is down,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean shout out. I mean, at least

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Speaker 1: too bad, dude. She would she would have been perfect

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Speaker 1: for she would have been perfect for this story, all right,

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Speaker 1: Maybe you know what that is, big great move I

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Speaker 1: q IQ. Sofia definitely has a higher IQ th me,

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Speaker 1: even though we got a perfect score on the math sat.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's crazy. We're gonna do this.

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Speaker 3: We're doing this right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, real quick, guys, we'll do it.

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Speaker 1: We're not doing an IQ right now. It takes forever.

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Speaker 3: No, we won't. I did quick do quick and fast IQ.

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Speaker 1: That's what I look. Am I doing this too?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you both are doing it.

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Speaker 1: Snake, which all of the rest are mammals. Go snake.

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Speaker 2: Wait, but then it's not an accurate reading.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're doing collective IQ of the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let's just go twenty one because I feel

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Speaker 1: Okay, so or so that that means the brothers four

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Speaker 1: when she is twice as old as her brother.

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00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 2: When he's she's uh so it's twelve years older.

437
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: Than him, right, because he's he's four and she's sixteen. Yeah,

438
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: so so in six years she'll be twenty for both

439
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: twenty two.

440
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll be she'll be twenty two.

441
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: He'll show he'll be twenty two and he'll be ten. Right,

442
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: So then when twenty when twenty three, he'll be uh,

443
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 1: all right, when she's twenty three, he'll be elevenss like

444
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: uh twenty click click twenty would be these twenty questions.

445
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: This is so long they were there. No, we're not

446
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 1: doing twenty twenty.

447
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: Questions is so long ago.

448
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 1: This is the quickest one they had.

449
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: We're not doing twenty kind of speed run this.

450
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: Okay, what's three three to get that's the wrong one

451
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: twin ocean ten? Yeah, it's two six false tenacity, dude,

452
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: this is twenty nine. This is not this is not

453
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 1: doing what we know? Yeah, fifty we need to Yeah

454
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: it has all right? Ten nice at these four painting Dude,

455
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna get a ten IQ and.

456
00:24:58,640 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 2: Then the tough one.

457
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,639
Speaker 1: Let's freaking see, we're gonna watch it, get it. We

458
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: know we're gonna get what.

459
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 2: Dude told you, told you I said, watching me so

460
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 2: smart and it was pretty smart.

461
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: It was kind of smart. Let's go.

462
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 2: Okay, well there you go. That's our collective IQ.

463
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: We did great. We did great. We got all of them, right,

464
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: I told you. That's why I was like I was

465
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: speed running it. Bro.

466
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: I knew the answers.

467
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: Ha ha, dude, chat get wrecked, get wrecked, get wrecked.

468
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 2: We are way more than ten.

469
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: Literally, the only ones we focused on we got, all right,

470
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: that's true. That was all saying. By the way, same

471
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: crush that I was floundering badly, all right, but Hey,

472
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 1: I just read stories for a living, So that's the

473
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: only comprehension I.

474
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 2: And he does it well, and I do it well.

475
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: All right, let's dive into it. Am I the a

476
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: hold for not wanting to pay my brother back? Don't

477
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 2: pay your brother back. You paid enough by being related

478
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: to them.

479
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 1: Don't do it just I feel like, yeah, yeah, kick

480
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: him to the streets, take him to the streets. I think,

481
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: spill his blood.

482
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: Wow, Well this is the answer the question how do

483
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: you maintain a good relationship with your siblings? I guess

484
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 2: don't be civiliics with Sam.

485
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: Is the answer. But spill it and then donate it

486
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: on the black market and then you'll have money. Sure.

487
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,719
Speaker 2: This By the way, guys, we're live and every weekday

488
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: at three pm we are. If you're watching this right now,

489
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 2: not live, join us, join us, come over to YouTube.

490
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: So uh this comes from throwaway?

491
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 2: Am I a whole?

492
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: Five eighty four?

493
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 2: He says, My adopted niece Chloe eighteen female, recently came

494
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: out as gay. Dun dundun, and my brother Will and

495
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: his new girlfriend Rose don't accept it. Wow, they can

496
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 2: go spill their blood truly, and well, we won't sell

497
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 2: it we won't sell it.

498
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: They will just stop on it. Take that. We'll use

499
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: it like a little slushy for vampires.

500
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Speaker 2: Oh boy, we'll kick Chloe out. So she came to

501
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 2: live with us Will again. The brother then called me

502
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: and said, of course, the drama queen and hung up. Okay,

503
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: the worst father ever.

504
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: Hang wow.

505
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: My husband was furious and banned Will from our home.

506
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 2: Things got worse when Will showed up and told Chloe

507
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: you're not my daughter. I don't care.

508
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's not very nice. No, it is

509
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 1: not flow. Yeah, stage your ground, Sam, dude, hot button

510
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: button opinion.

511
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 2: He then turned to my husband and me and threatened

512
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 2: to sue us for the twenty grand my husband borrowed

513
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 2: from him to start a business. I told him we

514
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: were planning on paying it back, but Will snapped, you've

515
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: been saying that for five years. But if you don't

516
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: want to do this, be prepared. But if you want

517
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 2: to But if you want to do this, be prepared.

518
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: One hundred and sixty and IQ over here. My husband replied,

519
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 2: we're barely getting by, and Will shot then, don't borrow money.

520
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: You don't have b whoa that? And left is? I

521
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: feel like man's going through something. Dude.

522
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: This guy sucks rocks.

523
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, sucks rocks and has adopted the IQ of them.

524
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: That is true. Ten ten IQ move. Oh my god.

525
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,679
Speaker 2: Now I'm pissed because the whole family knows about it.

526
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: The whole family knows about this, and it's causing a spilt,

527
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 2: a split.

528
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: What is happening? What did you say, John? What is happening?

529
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: And my brain fog is gone?

530
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 2: What is happening? Many of them are telling me that

531
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: I should not contact and not pay the money, and

532
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 2: I'm torn. We do have relevant comments, but let's take

533
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: a really quick pit stop here.

534
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: What or not pay or not dude? Well, yeah, I

535
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: would say if you borrow money like you should, you

536
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: should pay back.

537
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: And I'm guessing that they don't have a contract in play,

538
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 2: and it was like a family tie bar where it's like, oh,

539
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: they just send the money. There's no contract and it's

540
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 2: all verbal and like that puts it. I feel like

541
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: in the brother Will's favor because he's like, you know,

542
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: he's the one out the twenty grand Yeah, so I imagine

543
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: they could go to court and he might be Now

544
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: obviously it's for the worst reason ever, and he would

545
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: probably try to make it seem unassociated.

546
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: I don't think I like I I think you still

547
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: make an effort to pay back, but I don't think

548
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: you have to pay immediately in the way that this

549
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: person's asking.

550
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: No, and he literally sucks, like oh, like it mind

551
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 2: bogglingly insane. You literally throw away.

552
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: Your own child, Yeah, over your big try it is

553
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: and then collect try to collect on and.

554
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 2: Then it's it's all because it's all because.

555
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: Of this, like he's of the homophobia.

556
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 2: Because of the homophobia, like he wasn't doing it before.

557
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like a general rule of thumb

558
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: is like, don't lend family. Don't lend money to family

559
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: that you need, yeah or yeah, I want to see return?

560
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: Do you want to see return? So big mistake from

561
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: the homophobic person. Thought about that. Another mistake pretty quickly.

562
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: So the relevant comments say, info, did your husband ever

563
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 2: do the business? Opie said he did not. He said

564
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: it got too hard. Oh that that puts them in

565
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: a precarious position, for like, if will the brother does.

566
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, so what did they do with the money?

567
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: They just took it.

568
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 2: I guess so oh oh oh, he decided to take

569
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 2: us on a trip. To Disneyling.

570
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: That's pretty messed.

571
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 2: Up morally with uh, with Chloe and with this whole situation.

572
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 2: Like they are in the right, but they should have

573
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 2: just given back all of the extra money they had

574
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: spent on the business.

575
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: That's a note. How much is I guess it? But

576
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: a trip to Disneyland expensive? Dude? Yeah, well, just don't

577
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: go to Disneyland. But they already went. Yeah, I know

578
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: they're screwed.

579
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 2: Someone replied this, this is rage bait right right, who

580
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: spends twenty k on a business trip instead of using

581
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,959
Speaker 2: it for something useful. If it was so hard, then

582
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: they should have returned the money. Sounds like they had

583
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: no intention on paying the money from the start. What

584
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: business isn't hard when you're starting it? Definitely rage bait.

585
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: Opie replies, No, it happened. My brother doesn't know. Wait,

586
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: like it's not rage bay. It did happen. My brother

587
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: doesn't know about the Disneyland trip.

588
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. That doesn't like make it any better.

589
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: That makes it worse. If anything.

590
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: It's like, now you're hiding the fact that you didn't

591
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: do it.

592
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: Twenty k on a Disneyland trip is insane.

593
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: Oh it is.

594
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: It is I think you said business trip, but it's

595
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: a Disneyland trip.

596
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Right, Who spends twenty k on a Disney trip?

597
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah it was. It was twenty k on a Disneyland trip. Yeah,

598
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: Like that is I don't even know how you do that,

599
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: Like I've yeah, it's the you stay no castle. Oh

600
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: and like stay fast two weeks geez a night a

601
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: few grand a night if you stay in the castle. Yeah,

602
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: and like like in like Florida, I.

603
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: Think that Yeah, I think they have like essentially like

604
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: the imagine the penthouse suite in the castle. Yeah, that

605
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: is literally they only have one of those.

606
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: And it's oh, but like that's what you're doing, the

607
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: most expensive one ever, but it's like you get like

608
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: a normal one.

609
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 2: Maybe they didn't. Yeah, maybe that's how they spent twenty

610
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: that's the same. I thought they were gonna be like, oh,

611
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: we spent like five k on the Disney trip, and then.

612
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: I feel like they spent most of it.

613
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it sounds like it's spent any of it

614
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: on the business too, which is the crazy part.

615
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: No, they didn't even start the business. I think everyone's

616
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: the a hole here.

617
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like there's two completely separate issues.

618
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: Happening.

619
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, there's two completely separate issues happening here. So

620
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 2: someone said, twenty K is way too much, uh to

621
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 2: just not pay back. Opie responds, I know, but we don't.

622
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: Have the money.

623
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 2: Then why did you spend it? Then someone replies, I

624
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: truly doubt that for sixty consecutive months you were unable

625
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 2: to pay anything towards this debt.

626
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: You owe it, whether or not your brother is a

627
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: poor parent. Five years, five years they haven't paid anything.

628
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

629
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: Opie responds, I was gonna do it, but my husband said, hey,

630
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: Will's not pressuring us, so don't worry about it. Then

631
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 2: when Will started asking my husband, what changed the subject.

632
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: So basically I think like he Will hadn't said anything,

633
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: but now he's like using it as this leverage, right,

634
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 2: separate situation.

635
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he probably he probably didn't care until he could

636
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: use it to Yeah, yeah, he wanted to use it

637
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: as leverage. Also, Radish says, my family just planned a

638
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: trip in a Disneyland hotel with oogie boogie bashed tickets,

639
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: an airplane fare, got six people for roughly eleven K.

640
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 1: How long was your family there? Five days? So ten

641
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: days easily twenty k. Yeah, it's been like a week

642
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: and a half.

643
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: Two weeks there. Wow, that's crazy funny some A commenter says,

644
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: start paying him back. Also get guardianship via the courts

645
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 2: for the child so you can protect them from him.

646
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 2: It's sucky, but must all be done. OPI replies, she's eighteen,

647
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: she's already gone, and he's told her she's got to

648
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 2: the end of December to get her stuff. If not,

649
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 2: it's going to be thrown away. A commenter says, what

650
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 2: kind of agreement is there on the loan? A great question?

651
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 2: Is there documentation and a payback schedule. You're not the

652
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 2: a hole for wanting to pay him back, but you

653
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,479
Speaker 2: would be the a hole if you don't pay him back.

654
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: If there's paperwork on the loan, he can sue you.

655
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 2: Opie says there was paperwork and one of my friends

656
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: was a witness. Another commenter says, do you work? Opie says,

657
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 2: I work two jobs. And my husband was the one

658
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: who was trying to bring Chloe in. And my brother said, uh,

659
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 2: y'all was already struggling without Chloe, so why bring her

660
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: into struggle more. OPI left this comment by itself and replies, Nope,

661
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 2: here's the story. Our mother has cancer and the doctor

662
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 2: told her to stop smoking, but she did, but then

663
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: she kept doing it. Cancer got worse, and my and

664
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: my brother originally said he didn't care, he was going

665
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 2: to pay. Over the last couple of months, he started.

666
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: Questioning why am I paying if she's gonna keep smoking,

667
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 1: which is like not the worst logic. Yeah, Also why

668
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: like like I'm not gonna if you're gonna keep trying,

669
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: like killing yourself. Basically like why am I gonna.

670
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 2: If you won't stop?

671
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like like you you can't do If you

672
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: can't start the first part of the care, which is

673
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: quit smoking, none of the other stuff is gonna work,

674
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 1: So why why do it?

675
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: Also like this is a third whole plot in storyline

676
00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 2: that is.

677
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: I know, I know, there's so many separate pieces like

678
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: you so you have wait, like we should do it

679
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: little tldr, Yes, quick TLDR.

680
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: First, Ope's niece came out as gay and her her father,

681
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 2: Opie's brother, was like, get.

682
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: Out of my house. I hate you, yeah, being a

683
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: homophobic bigot. Then he was like they they got a

684
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 1: twenty thousand dollars loan, op did that they spent on

685
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: a Disney trip, so crazy.

686
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: Kind of separately from that, now the brother's like, yo,

687
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: pay me my twenty k back.

688
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 1: Because he was trying to op Ope's fan, like Opie

689
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: is like an immediate squad of people like so Opie

690
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: and the they're seeping. Now there was like, oh, we'll

691
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: take in our niece.

692
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's using it as leverage to be like evil basically,

693
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 2: but also he low key is, oh the money. And finally, uh,

694
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 2: Opie's mom was like dying of cancer, kept smoking, and

695
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: initially the brother was also bankrolling that, but then he

696
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to keep bankrolling this because

697
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 2: you won't even like stop smoking and like your treatment.

698
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 1: So like the bad thing that the brother is doing

699
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: is being homophobic, but those other things I kind of understand.

700
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like he is. I mean, they literally took the

701
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 2: loan and didn't the whole the money. The business loan

702
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,800
Speaker 2: is you you build a business in order to be

703
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 2: able to pay it back with interest. That's the whole idea.

704
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: And like five years is a long time, yeah, with

705
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 1: no payment, with no payment and not even like moving

706
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: towards payment, and also didn't know no movement towards making

707
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: the business. So it's it's actually, in reality totally separate

708
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 1: from the first scenario of them taking in the nise,

709
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 1: but they are the a holes for not paying back then,

710
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: So I think, like, uh, who's the a hole in

711
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 1: the homophobia case, the Opie's brother, who's the A hole

712
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 1: in the paying back Opie? And who's the A hole

713
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: in the the dead the dying mom thing.

714
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: Really, I don't even know if you can call her

715
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: the A hole, but it's just like I'm not going

716
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: to help you.

717
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like you can keep smoking, but yeah, I

718
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: guess a whole to her body.

719
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. A commenter says, is Chloe still in school? If so,

720
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 2: depending on the state, could op theoretically sue for child support.

721
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: Opie responds, she got her ged. She said school was

722
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 2: hard and from top Man, a lot of things are hard,

723
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 2: and from talks with her, she doesn't want to work

724
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: right now and take a couple months to understand her life.

725
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 2: And my dad said she's basically going to be a

726
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 2: free loader. A commenter says, talk to a lawyer. If

727
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 2: there's a legal obligation to pay back your brother, then

728
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,479
Speaker 2: you must try to abide by the terms. Of the loan,

729
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 2: or you could have some legal problems. Normally, if there's

730
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: no legal obligation, i'd say there's a moral obligation, and

731
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,439
Speaker 2: you don't borrow money, you're not going to pay back.

732
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: But in this case, I'm going to say, Screw will

733
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: spend every penny taking care of Chloe to give her

734
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 2: a good home and a good future. Not the ahole

735
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: low key. I'd have to like stew on it for

736
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 2: a second, but I think that almost could have been

737
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 2: a a good f you, But they already spent the

738
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 2: money on Disney. It's gone, so you can't do anything

739
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 2: with it. Very desk, and then they conclude not the

740
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 2: a whole, Opie responds, final relevant comment, it's getting to

741
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 2: a point where Chloe might have to leave because we

742
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: won't have enough money to take care of her. And

743
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: I'm trying. But if my brother sues us, then I'm

744
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 2: ft we do have an update coming up. But yeah,

745
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 2: I mean we kind of just broke down. First case

746
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 2: is uh homophobia homophobia? Will the brothers the A whole?

747
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 2: Second case op is the A whole? And then the

748
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: third case grandma's a hole to her own body. But

749
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: my next question is what should OPI do now moving forward, right,

750
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 2: because she's like, I don't even know if I have money.

751
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't have the money. I mean it's like, what

752
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: if you don't have the money, what can you do? Yeah?

753
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 1: Low key.

754
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 2: I'd be like I would probably sit down with Chloe

755
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 2: the niece, and be like, hey, maybe maybe they're like, hey,

756
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 2: we could literally only afford to give you, like I

757
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 2: don't know, two hundred bucks a month or like whatever

758
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, well here's what we can't, like the

759
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 2: most that we can do, and we're gonna do that

760
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 2: and like obviously like but.

761
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: Emotional, it's gonna be hard. Is So this is the

762
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: tricky situation. If they keep the niece in their home,

763
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 1: they will be sued by uh the brother. Yes, so

764
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: it's like and that and if they keep the niece

765
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: in the home, that are going to have to support

766
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: the niece in some way. Yeah. So it's like basically

767
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: double financial burden, which they can obviously not support. Yeah,

768
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: so it's like.

769
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 2: Ah, man, they might have to sit her down and

770
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 2: be like we're gonna find out all of the ways

771
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: that we can support you, but it might not be financially.

772
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

773
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 2: That might be because it's.

774
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: Gonna cripple them. It's gonna cripple them. Yeah, and that's

775
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: what it seems like. Yeah, that's what it seems like.

776
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: But is there you said there's an update to the story.

777
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: There is an update, John. I had to take care

778
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: of something like three minutes, which is a bathroom and

779
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: a quick message to the other team, and then I'll

780
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: be done. Love that and I can come back.

781
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 2: Let's do it, all right, guys, let's get into this update.

782
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 2: So I called my dad and told him everything from

783
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: the comments. He called a family meeting and it went badly.

784
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 2: Nothing is going good for me. Yeah, everything is just

785
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 2: going bad. Uh.

786
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: My dad straight up said, Will, you're my son, but

787
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: you're a piece of crap and what you're doing is disgusting.

788
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 2: I hope Chloe never talks to you again.

789
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: I know you're paying your mother's medical bills, but you

790
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 1: know you're wrong. He then looked at me and said,

791
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 1: but here's where will Will is right. You had five

792
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: years and you haven't paid one dime. Dude.

793
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: I want to feel bad, but I don't. So here's

794
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,760
Speaker 2: what I'll say. You have until the end of December

795
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 2: to pay Will back or I'm taking the house back.

796
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, but you took out a loan you

797
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: had no intention of ever paying back. So now the

798
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: dad and well we will get into the whiteboard. The

799
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: dad owns their house, and they're going to like, he's

800
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 2: gonna take it away, Oh my gosh, unless they pay.

801
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 2: It's July. It's July, dude. They literally have like five

802
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 2: months to make up twenty grand months. You said five yeah, no, no, no,

803
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 2: like four k a month, four k a month probably more.

804
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 2: This is crazy. I used the dad doing that. I guess.

805
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 2: I guess that's his like he's kind of strong arm,

806
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: strong arming them and able to force them they paying something.

807
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 3: They got twenty k before COVID. Oh oh interest on

808
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,439
Speaker 3: that buddy. Oh oh yeah.

809
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: It's like it's not worth but they spent it all

810
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: so it doesn't even matter.

811
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: It's I know, it inflated to zero.

812
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: Dude.

813
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, I don't know.

814
00:42:58,920 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: I was.

815
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: I was totally on board. I was like, oh, here

816
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 2: comes the dad. He's kind of like gonna set everyone straight,

817
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But then I'm like, why

818
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 2: take away the house? The only thing I can think

819
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: of is, I don't know, maybe chat like agree with

820
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 2: Dad yes or no, because I'm like, I get that

821
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: he's trying to like force them to pay back something,

822
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 2: but this seems like very intense. I feel that the

823
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 2: the the offense that Will made was far greater because

824
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: disowning your child to me, that's like like, I don't know,

825
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 2: you're kind of like it's almost like a death in

826
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: the family. It's just like so severe. Yeah, so yeah,

827
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: w W dad or l dad, guys, let let me know.

828
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: I don't know.

829
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 2: I don't think so. But anyways, my husband said this

830
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 2: isn't right, and my dad replied, don't borrow money then

831
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 2: if you have no intention of paying it back. You

832
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 2: had five years. Will added, I kept asking you and

833
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 2: you dodged it for eighteen months. My husband said, this

834
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 2: is BS. I'm sorry, but your son's sure.

835
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: My dad replied, he can be a jerk, but what's

836
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 1: BS is he gave you twenty k for a business

837
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: you didn't start and spent on vacation. Ooh, which that

838
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: is yes, I'm sorry. Like if we were reading this

839
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: story like totally out like on its own, I'd be like, oh, yeah,

840
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: of course, that is like an a hole move to do.

841
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: And they're not even like acknowledging or apologizing for it,

842
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: or like planning to pay it back. Then my dad

843
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 1: left and Will laughed at us, telling Chloe see you

844
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,959
Speaker 1: at Christmas. Oh wait, you probably won't have a home

845
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: for Christmas, and walked out. Dude, that's that's me.

846
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: What Chloe went on a walk and we haven't seen

847
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 2: her for hours, and I'm worried.

848
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: Oh my okay, yeah, we're gonna look for an update,

849
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna uh.

850
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: Grab I'll grab the whiteboard. Ladies and gentlemen will do

851
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 2: kind of like a final breakdown and kind of like

852
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 2: discuss what's going on over here. So give me one

853
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 2: tech dude.

854
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 3: Well, this family's wild. I just read a comment, So

855
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 3: who's the baby situation? Chloe threw a party with Will's

856
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 3: newborn in his house, and then when he came back,

857
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,760
Speaker 3: the new ward was in the yard crying, and Will

858
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 3: said he was tired of Chloe and her wow uh

859
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 3: queer friends ruining his house.

860
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: But he didn't stay queer.

861
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 2: He said that, oh my god, dude, dude.

862
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 3: Low key all around, this family is pretty pretty yeah, honestly,

863
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 3: like throwing a party, keeping the newborn in the and

864
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,720
Speaker 3: and then the dad's remarks and we're.

865
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: Gonna break it down, but I think just everyone is

866
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: there for the dad.

867
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 2: Maybe na dude, the dad like, okay, so let's talk

868
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Speaker 2: about it. So put what we on there, Yeah, and

869
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 2: just do like circles.

870
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 3: You don't have to do the whole key thing. He

871
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: has a job and works as a guidance counselor. I

872
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 3: think that's Will.

873
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, so the dad is the dad of OPI

874
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 2: and Will because their brother, their brother and sister. God

875
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 2: there this one.

876
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 1: This one is actually really complicated now that I think

877
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: about it.

878
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: So I just think everyone's ahil here, so just just

879
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 2: walking through it. So like initially Will kicked out Chloe, right,

880
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 2: and he's a bigot.

881
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: An a hole for that.

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00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 2: Uh OPI and husband? Okay, OPI and husband got the

883
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 2: twenty k loan from Will and they didn't pay it back.

884
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 2: That's super a whole move right.

885
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, my dollar signs are terrible hard, it's hard

886
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 1: to write.

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00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 2: I think this is good. And then Dad was setting

888
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 2: it everyone straight. He's like, uh, Will, you are disgusting

889
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 2: for kicking out your daughter. Uh Op you uh should

890
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 2: never have op and husband. You should have never taken

891
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 2: out the twenty k loan. But then he's like, I'm

892
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 2: gonna kick you guys out of the house because it

893
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 2: seems that the dad owns the house. If you don't

894
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,959
Speaker 2: come up with the twenty grand by December, which Riley

895
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 2: did the math, it's like probably over four grand a

896
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 2: month that they have to pay, which I doubt they have.

897
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 2: And then he laughed to Chloe and was like, hey, uh, you.

898
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 1: Know, you're probably not gonna have a home next to

899
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: Center next December because they're not gonna have the money.

900
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 2: So it's like, low key not as bad as will,

901
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 2: but it's like you're also not helping the situation. So

902
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 2: everyone is a whole. Yeah, everyone is it?

903
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. I think that's it.

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Speaker 3: Crazy White Blake period.

905
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, well there you have it, folks. Also, a

906
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: lot of people are saying, w dad, I I disagree now.

907
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 2: I think that the dad the dad did say uh

908
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 2: and was and was setting them straight like initially, but

909
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 2: the home taking the home away from Ope telling Chloe

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00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 2: that you know she won't to have a home after December.

911
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: Is op a male or female? I believe OPI is

912
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: the wife, okay, uh yeah, and she has her husband Okay, okay,

913
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: because I thought Op was a male and they were

914
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: in a gay relationship and then the brother disliked I

915
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: feel like they would have I feel like they would

916
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: have said that if that was God. Yeah, that's that's

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00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: everyone's the a hole, I think. But guys, you know

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