1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: You guys have been asking for it, morality Monday. For 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: some reason, we didn't do it on Monday, So morality Thursday. 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: It is finally I have it here, we have time. 4 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: You ready, you guys ready for this? 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: I can? I bet I can ready for four days. 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: It's also a. 7 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Tease, you know, he got a two date every morning. 8 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: See if I'm going to do the thing that was 9 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: supposed to be on Monday. I don't know what is 10 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: it with the alliteration. Why does it have to rhyme? 11 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: But it doesn't have to rhyme. It was my phone, 12 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: all right, I already can. I bet I can guess 13 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: how some people would. 14 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: I bet. 15 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: There's no way for me to say, but I in 16 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: my mind, I already can guess what everybody is going 17 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 1: to do based on having read this scenario and knowing 18 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: you guys so well. But here it is morality Monday 19 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: eight five five five three five. You can call or 20 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: a textas same number. I want to know what you 21 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: would do in your weekly team meeting with your supervisor. 22 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: One of your coworkers takes credit for a time and 23 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: money saving change in operating procedures that you devised your 24 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: supervisor erroneously thinks that your coworker came up with the chain, 25 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: and your co worker doesn't correct the misinterpretation, but allows 26 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: the boss to not only commend him, but offer him 27 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: a bonus. Do you go to your co worker and 28 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: demand that he or she correct the situation. Do you 29 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: go to your supervisor and explain that you should receive 30 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:23,839 Speaker 1: the accommodation or reward, or do you say nothing because 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: you don't believe in ownership of ideas and you're a 32 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: team player. Go ahead, Kevin, tell us how to tell 33 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: us how you'd go to the boss and tell them 34 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: it was your idea. 35 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm saying something right then and there during the presentation. 36 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna go talk to the boss and one 37 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: and one, I'm gonna confront that person right then and there. 38 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: It's your idea. Someone takes it right in front of you. 39 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: The boss says a great idea, and then here's more money. 40 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 4: No, thank you, up, stop the meeting. 41 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 2: That was my idea, and I'm gonna call it. I'm 42 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: gonna call the co worker in front everybody. 43 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. I would have bet that that was what 44 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: you would say, Caitlin. I bet i'd know what you would. 45 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 5: Do, do you. 46 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 6: I'm curious it has happened to me, and I didn't 47 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 6: say anything. I just got really really mad inside my 48 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 6: head and stormed around my apartment just thinking of things 49 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 6: that I could have said, and then did nothing. 50 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: But the good news in your case was other people 51 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: then rectified it kind of. 52 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 7: Oh. 53 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 5: I wasn't talking about that. 54 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 3: I was. 55 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: I was thinking of one where someone jacked an idea 56 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: from you and then the rest of us, individually at 57 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: different times, made sure that everybody knew that it was 58 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: your idea. 59 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 6: You guys are straight for that that I was okay 60 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 6: with because it was just doing good in the universe, 61 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 6: So that one I let go. 62 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 5: But you guys were great to like, what. 63 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 2: Did I get a bonus for it was your idea? 64 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 2: To tell me, no, nothing you did. 65 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 5: No, No, I. 66 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: Think any bonus like it is your idea, So it's. 67 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't haven't gotten one in a while. But if 68 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: I did, you. 69 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 5: Know, No, that was nice speak that one. I didn't care. 70 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 8: I've also had this happen to me several times. It 71 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 8: really makes me upset. I'm not gonna lie, it really 72 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 8: makes me upset. But I never say a word and 73 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 8: It's even worse when I've had I've had a boss 74 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 8: do it to me, yes, and we're in a meeting 75 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 8: and I'm literally watching my boss word for word, rattle 76 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 8: off my idea and like take full credit. And I'm 77 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 8: just sitting there like are we serious right now? 78 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 4: But I don't. 79 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 8: I never say a word because I always feel like 80 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 8: it's all going to play out how it's supposed to 81 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 8: play out, and I'm going to get my just due eventually, 82 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 8: So like I'll let you lie and scheme and play 83 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 8: these games and then I'll hire you one day. 84 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 2: You know. That's how I think about it. 85 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: Like I literally I'll bitch to you guys and hear 86 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: about it, but I won't do much about it. 87 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: I'll just let it happen because it happens a lot. 88 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: It does. 89 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 8: It does, and it's such it's such big weirdo energy, 90 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 8: like such, are you that comfortable pretending that if you 91 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 8: came up with an idea? Or you're that comfortable pretending 92 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 8: that you did something you know you didn't. 93 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 6: I try to figure it out, Like the psychology, I'm like, 94 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 6: either you believe your own lives, really are convincing yourself 95 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 6: or the audacity Yeah, it's. 96 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: Weird you'd like to think that the person who you'd 97 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: like to think it was because I believe strongly in karma. 98 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: I really do, and I don't always do the right thing, 99 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: but I guess, I guess for me, and this is 100 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: a different conversation, but with karma, like when I do 101 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: the wrong thing, then I try and go do a 102 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: right thing to hopefully negate the wrong thing. 103 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: I don't know if that works. 104 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: Like, for example, I try and fly as many rescue 105 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: animals to new homes as I can, because my god, 106 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: if one rescue dog saved equates one really stupid thing 107 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: that I've done, I mean, I'm gonna need to fly 108 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: about eight thousand dogs. I'm gonna need to get a 109 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: cargo plane full of animals. But nonetheless, I don't know. 110 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: I just I think like if I can offset every 111 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: bad thing with a couple of good things, and I'm equal. 112 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: But I don't know where I was going with. But no, 113 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna stand up. I'm gonna I'm 114 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: just gonna I'm gonna let it play out as it 115 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: goes rather than make a scene right there, I'm just 116 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: gonna let it happen. 117 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 2: Ran I know. 118 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 9: Okay, so the old me yes relates a lot to 119 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 9: the ladies here as far as like just say nothing, 120 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 9: walk around whatever. But it's been a long, sick seven 121 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 9: years in my current place of employment and my current 122 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 9: place of living of just being. 123 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 4: So my new thing is that I'm dead serious is. 124 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 9: I don't call people out or whatever, like kind of 125 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 9: do what Rufio says. 126 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 4: I'm more sneaky about it, so like. 127 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 9: Not so much so like if let's just say this 128 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 9: happens right now, and like I'm making this up like 129 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 9: you were like, okay, the idea was so beautiful and 130 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 9: great or whatever, like I would jump in then and 131 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 9: there I'm using my voice now. 132 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 4: It's the thing, you know, I'm trying to do is 133 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 4: use my voice. And I'll be like, yeah, we collaborated 134 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 4: on that. 135 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 9: And we did this, this and this and this was 136 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 9: you know, something that I thought of and I thought 137 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 9: you'd really like it. Like I will just talk now, 138 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 9: just to talk because at this point, like you know 139 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 9: what I mean, if you don't open your mouth, closed 140 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 9: mouths don't get fed, guys, and they just don't get fed. 141 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm tired of waiting another six years. 142 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 5: No Yeah, don't you think it makes you look kind 143 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 5: of weird? 144 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 9: It does, it doesn't, but then you're the weirdo who's 145 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 9: ready a lot of weirdos. 146 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: And the problem is, like, here's the thing. 147 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 1: When it comes to stuff like that, you're counting on 148 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: the person who stole from you or lied about you 149 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: or or you're counting on them to have self awareness, 150 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: and you're counting on them like if you don't say anything, 151 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: like in my mind, I wouldn't say anything. And then 152 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm hoping that they go home or 153 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: drive home from work and they realize in their mind 154 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: they're tortured by the fact that they got rewarded for 155 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: something they didn't come up with. The problem is, most 156 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: of the time with people like that, they don't think 157 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: like that. That's why they stole from you. Yeah, so 158 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: they're not really thinking and that just makes me even 159 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: more mad. You just stole from me and you're not 160 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: and I know you don't feel bad about it. 161 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, you're putting like your own moral compass on someone 162 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 6: else and they probably have a different. 163 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: Because that's my thing, Like when I screw up, I 164 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: know I screwed up, and no one's going to be 165 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: harder on me than me so at least if I'm 166 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: going to do something crappy and not own it, I'm 167 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: going to beat myself up worse than anybody could beat 168 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: me up. And usually anyone who knows if I did 169 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: something to you, then you should know that's what's happening. 170 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to torture myself worse than anybody else can 171 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: torture me. But most people that steal or do things 172 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: like that, I don't care. They don't think like that. 173 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 6: They're living peacefully and your your piece is disrupted, you know, 174 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 6: if I storm around in a. 175 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 9: Circle in my mind to Arthur fits that time advocate 176 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 9: of that too, like Caylen said, like or and you 177 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 9: mentioned too, Fred, Like if I know something of someone 178 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 9: else's idea, I will give credit. Then in there I'll 179 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 9: be like, oh, yeah, you know, this happens all the 180 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 9: time in our industry. People think something's one person's idea 181 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 9: and that's not their fault, like they. 182 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 4: Just assumed or whatever. 183 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 9: And I love when somebody corrects them and says, oh, 184 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 9: this was actually Bob's idea or Jan's idea. 185 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, And I can do it for other people, just 186 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 5: not for myself, we gotta work. 187 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: On that, ladies. Let's go get information. 188 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 5: Girls. 189 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people are saying they would say something, 190 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: and I can understand why. I agree with what you're saying, 191 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: Paulina that you know you can't get walked on. But 192 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: I guess I would have to really evaluate if I'm 193 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: gonna call somebody out in the room, like what what's 194 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: really in it for me? 195 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 196 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: Like because someone pointed out is it a twenty dollars 197 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: gift card or a thousand dollars cash bonus? You know, 198 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: It's like I guess I would have to think in 199 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: my mind, like is making a scene right now? Even 200 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: if I'm right, does that somehow make me look like 201 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: less of a team player? Because that's it could be 202 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: flipped too. It could be like Fred, but why did 203 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: you have to take that? You didn't have to take 204 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: that one. Let that person have it, you know what 205 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: I mean, That's what I would think in my head. 206 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: But if it were like you get a promotion or 207 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: you don't, and it was my idea, we're gonna I mean, 208 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna not take the promotion because I'm not 209 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: willing to stand up for myself but at the same time, 210 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: if it's like it's silly idea and oh okay, here's 211 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: a metal in a free sandwich, I'm okay if you 212 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: can have it. 213 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 4: Sometimes it's not. 214 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 3: About the reward, and I just want the recognition, you 215 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like just to be recognized for 216 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: having a good idea or like, hey, you came up 217 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: with that idea? Is the recognition is worth all of it, 218 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:34,199 Speaker 3: you know, Like I don't give I it's a twenty 219 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 3: dollars gift card or one thousand dollars. 220 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 2: I just want the recognition. 221 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 3: I want to be recognized for something I said, and 222 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 3: it's a great idea. 223 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 1: But I will say, in some places of business, I'm 224 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,359 Speaker 1: trying to think how to say this artfully, not necessarily 225 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: this one, but management will go out of their way 226 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 1: to elevate tasks by some people and not others. And 227 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: I think it's because they just expect certain people to 228 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: have the those ideas and have it, or it's like, well, 229 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: that person makes more money, or that person has a 230 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: higher profile, or that person has a better life, so 231 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: we don't need to recognize them. These people here, we 232 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: need to recognize them because you know, we don't. We 233 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: don't think as much about what you know what I mean, 234 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: And I don't think that's fair either. 235 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 5: You get punished for being good at your job and 236 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 5: being consistent. 237 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: I always think that's true. 238 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 6: I will die on If you're someone that's reliable and 239 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 6: always does what you say you're going to do, then 240 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 6: you get overlooked because that's what's that's what job. 241 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: It's a tough thing because like, if you're good at 242 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: what you do, then the expectation is that you're going 243 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: to be good and you're gonna do it to worry 244 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: about that, which is what we all want to be, right, 245 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: We all want to be the person who everybody knows 246 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: is good at their job. But it is you can 247 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 1: sometimes be a victim of your own success where you're 248 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 1: good at your job, so they just leave you alone. 249 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: They don't, they don't bother with you anymore because in 250 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: order for you to reach the higher bar is just 251 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: so much more than everybody else. 252 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 3: And then you get an email about the littlest thing 253 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: someone else does. 254 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 255 00:09:56,040 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, what, we got to pump that person up, 256 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 1: because you know, do we know? Like how I got 257 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: an idea how about if the best people in the 258 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: office are constantly the ones who have the best ideas 259 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: and make the biggest contribution, why don't you blow them 260 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 1: up even bigger to make the people that don't have 261 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: the ideas come up. 262 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 2: With some ideas. How about that? 263 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 4: Louder? 264 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 2: Hey, Ashley, Hey, how are you hi? Ashley? You'd be 265 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 2: passive aggressive about that. 266 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: By the way, the scenario is a coworker took credit 267 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: for an idea of yours and got a promotion. Do 268 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 1: you say something? Do you say nothing? How did you 269 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 1: say it right in front of everybody? Do you go 270 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: back door? 271 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: What do you do? 272 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 7: I would one passive aggressive? So I would for bringing 273 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 7: us to the group of tensions. 274 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 4: On Tuesday. 275 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 7: Yes, girl, it's very kind of him. 276 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so you would wait, okay, so we're 277 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: in the meeting right now and Rufio takes credit for 278 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: your idea, Ashley, and what do you do right then? 279 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: And there? 280 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: Is that? 281 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 7: What I would say? 282 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 4: Thank you, Rufio. I know we talked about this on 283 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 4: two you talked this. 284 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 10: Such a great idea, perfecting it to the group. 285 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: I love that. 286 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 3: That's a great way, no problem. I'm going to enjoy 287 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 3: this gift card. 288 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: In the meantime, Rufio's over at you know, Amazon, ordering 289 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: a you know whatever that he just got from his 290 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: gift card. Thank you, Ashley, have a good day, of 291 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: course you do. Yeah, this happened to you, Adrian, what happened? 292 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: Man? 293 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 11: So with that one actually had this happened to me before. 294 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 11: And what I decided to do was kind of the 295 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 11: same thing with Rufio did is I called them out 296 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 11: during the meeting and I told them to explain the 297 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 11: inner workings of the idea and and basically what they 298 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 11: just kept like stumbling their word like kept repeating everything 299 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 11: like very basic and generic ones. So and then I 300 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 11: told them, I'm like, oh, well that's crazy. How do 301 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 11: you get the loop around this and this? And they 302 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 11: had no words and the boss was like, so, wait, 303 00:11:58,400 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 11: is this your idea or. 304 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: Is it not your idea? And I'm pretty good, that's 305 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 2: pretty good. 306 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: You call them out on the intricacy of the I like, well, 307 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: how do you plan to do that? And then when 308 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: they don't know because they just stole top line from you, 309 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: then yes, I like that that's a very kind of 310 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: backhanded way but yet effective of getting credit. 311 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, and I'd also like to say, like, I listened 312 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 11: to you guys all the time, and I want to 313 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 11: start a new thirteen. So I want to be the 314 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 11: fourteenth person who listened. Okay, years and years, I just 315 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 11: never called in. This is my first time. 316 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 2: Well we're having to have you, Adrian. 317 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: The problem is, as hard as we try, it just 318 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: never grows beyond thirteen. Like, for example, Lisa just moved away. 319 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: Lisa just moved to Missouri, and she can still listen 320 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 1: to us on the iHeart app. But do you maybe 321 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: number thirteen, Adrian, because Lisa, you know, had to relinquid 322 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: You don't have to relinquish your number. But it's like 323 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: if you're not here at present, it's hard to attend 324 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: the meetings. You know that the meetings of the meeting, 325 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: the secret meetings of the secret Society of the thirteen 326 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: will never have more than thirteen listeners, adriy. 327 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 2: And it's just the way it is. It's just sad. 328 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: It's a shame. But we're gonna we're gonna keep trying. 329 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 11: In my heart, I'm number fourteen. 330 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll allow it, but it doesn't exist. 331 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, ag Having a day, Yeah, I. 332 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 2: Love you man. Having a good one blogs waiting by 333 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,119 Speaker 2: the phone. Next more freadshell. 334 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: Next, I'm a guy who likes to get to the 335 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 1: airport early. We've discussed this. I'm an early airport I 336 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 1: mean this seems to be a fundamental difference between people. Yeah, 337 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: like even in a relationship, like there are people who 338 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 1: they want to get there early so they're not rushed. 339 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: That's me. 340 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: Now, the thing is inevitably you get there really early, 341 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: you're never rushed. 342 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 2: You walk right through. 343 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: You get there late the lines around the building and 344 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: it's even more stressful. But my thing is I would 345 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: rather not be stressed out, especially if it's a trip 346 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: that I'm doing for fun. The last thing I want 347 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: to do is like screw up the first day of 348 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: my vacation because I'm all messed up because I missed 349 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: my flight or because whatever. 350 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: But I was looking at this thing. 351 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: Did you know that it's said the airline tells you 352 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: for domestic flights you're supposed to they want you to 353 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: show up two hours early for international three Yes, I 354 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 1: thought it was one and two. 355 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no no, I thought. 356 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: It would show up an hour before departure time and 357 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: two for international three hours. Yes, the hell am I 358 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: I'm almost sitting the plane for sixteen or whatever to 359 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: go to Japan or wherever I'm going, I gotta come 360 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: to three hours before that. Yeah, no, an hour hour 361 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: fifteen to me. If I arrived at the airport like that, 362 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: I'm good. That's an hour before boarding. I'm comfortable with that. 363 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: I can make that happen. 364 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 5: So you're not like annoyingly early. Some people are like crazy, No. 365 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 2: I don't need to be there three hours early. 366 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 8: No. 367 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, some people are about two hours. 368 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 8: If I'm an hour, Oh my gosh, that hour can 369 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 8: go by so fast it's stopped in the security line. 370 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, two hours at the least. 371 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 2: Here's it. 372 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: I got a question for you guys. Here's a question, 373 00:14:55,760 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: right if I do you have a TSA pre check? 374 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 2: No? 375 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Kicky and I do you have it? Kaylin, Kiki, 376 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: Cale and I are in a throuple. We're all the 377 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: three of us are dating for us, I mean, Cale 378 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: and I have already been dating for years now, apparently, 379 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: I mean we're actually married. 380 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 2: But oh that was at five o'clock. Ye, Blue, I 381 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 2: completely blew it. I'm sorry. 382 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: Third, Yeah, I am TSA pre check. I got all 383 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: that stuff. If you and I, I mean, this is 384 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: a I know the answer already. But if you and 385 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: I are dating and we go to the airport and 386 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 1: I've got tsa pre check and you don't, and the 387 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: line is super crazy long for the regular and I 388 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: can walk right through PreCheck and go and enjoy myself 389 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: and have a nice cocktail and wait for you because 390 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: you were too lazy to go get tsa pre check? 391 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: Am I allowed to do that? 392 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 7: No? 393 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: So I got to wait in the long ass line 394 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: with you because you were too lazy to make an appointment. 395 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: Go get tsa pre check. 396 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 4: Yes, we're in this together. That is so rude. You 397 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 4: will lead your girl. I'm there each. 398 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: Other on the planet. This man enjoy his time. 399 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 1: I'm asking a rhetorical question. I did not give a response. Okay, 400 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: I did not give a response, So. 401 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 4: Rufio, you're clearly leaving. I'm not leaving. 402 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be on the other side, waiting, waits 403 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 3: for dinner. 404 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 2: About that. No, I'm not gonna wait. I'm not gonna 405 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: say I'll wait off the other side. I won't wait 406 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: in the line with you. I'm gonna just sit there 407 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: and wait till you get close to the front. Then 408 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 2: I'll go to the SA PreTect. 409 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 9: What's the point of that if you guys are going 410 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 9: to the same gate, same flight, well, you know what 411 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 9: I mean. 412 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 4: The wh're racing her there. 413 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: I guess the point is to wait for me. For me, 414 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: it would be waiting in line. Well for him, it's winning. 415 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: For me, it's just I don't like waiting in line. 416 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: It's a waste of time, like and and I don't 417 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: know it, just the whole thing irritates me. People don't 418 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: move fast enough. It's like, why is the line so long? 419 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: Same with traffic, like ninety nine percent of the time, 420 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: there's no reason for traffic. 421 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 2: It's just it's just you. 422 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: Ever, how often do you drive down the road and 423 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: you're in a jam, and then you get to some 424 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: certain point and it just starts moving. It wasn't an accident, 425 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: it wasn't anything. It's just I don't know. People lookilu, 426 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: or they're just being an idiot, or they don't know 427 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: how to they don't know how to transition into another 428 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 1: lane or whatever. So I I would not ditch the 429 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: person I'm with. I think I'd force them to go 430 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: get tsa pre check. I think that's a pre recue 431 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: late when they're in the line of right here, No, 432 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 1: I think I would ask that question. I'm like, we're 433 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: going on vacation, okay, good, you need to get yourself 434 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: you need to get yourself clear or something. 435 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 6: Last three times I flew the lines were the same way, 436 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 6: and I was like, I'm not paying for this crap. 437 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:36,360 Speaker 5: It's the same yeah. 438 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: Well, And that's the other thing too, is that everyone's 439 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: kind of figured it out for a long time tsaprecheck, 440 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: Global Entry whatever, nobody really had it. It was like, 441 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but years ago and it was 442 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: on my credit card or whatever. So I just went 443 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: and got it and it was a huge time saver. 444 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: Now I feel like a lot of people have I 445 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: almost feel like they need to flip the lines around, 446 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they need to make 447 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: they need to I don't know. It's almost like the 448 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: one that is the regular one is better. 449 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 5: Right, you know. 450 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 6: It's so much At the Detroit Airport, there's a security 451 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 6: checkpoint in the hotel there, and a lot of people 452 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 6: don't know that. So I just pretend that I'm staying 453 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 6: at the hotel and go right on. 454 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 5: The business NA a way. But if you're listening and 455 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 5: you're from there, No, that's not true. 456 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: No, it doesn't exist. 457 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 5: She just made that use. 458 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: I just made that. 459 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 3: Was like Fred needs a new new line. He says, like, 460 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 3: there's too many people in TSA pre check, right, I 461 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 3: need to PreCheck. Yes, it's called clear. I pay for 462 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: that too. Oh okay, yeah that's even more. Yeah, yeah, 463 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 3: you are out here. 464 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't like waiting in line. I don't. 465 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: I just don't. I think it's a waste of time. 466 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 4: But you would stand there with me in that line. 467 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 8: I would now the whole time we're in the line, 468 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 8: you would be saying like you should have got breed to. 469 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 2: Be bitching at you. 470 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 4: Okay, wow. 471 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: Task interviewed. What are you hiding from? Hey, Lydia, good morning. 472 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: How you doing? 473 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 7: Hi? 474 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 2: I'm good. 475 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 7: How are you going? 476 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 10: Hey? 477 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 2: Thanks for calling? 478 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 479 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 2: No, I uh. 480 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: The nice thing about that, I will say, the pre 481 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: check thing not taking your shoes off, not pulling stuff 482 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: out of your bag, except that isn't Yeah, that is 483 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 1: nice because the line with the people taking their shoes 484 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: off and stuff, then apparently the right place to put 485 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,719 Speaker 1: your belt and shoes back on is right where everybody 486 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 1: else needs to be too. Like me. I'll like, if 487 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: I have to go through the regular security line for 488 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: some reason, like the other day I did. 489 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 490 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 1: It was closer to the gate, and I got belt 491 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: and shoes and I don't wear a belt. 492 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: I got shoes, I got all my stuff, phoned me. 493 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm half naked, my pants falling off, running out of 494 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: everybody's way to then redress and like repack. No, and 495 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: a lot of people they're just like, this is the 496 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: perfect place for me to just get my life together. 497 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 2: They don't put their things away, they don't put the. 498 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 3: Basket away, basket lies back up. 499 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 10: Yeah. 500 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, we're gonna say, actually I've been there. 501 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 12: Yeah no. 502 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 7: So here's my thing. You guys have talked about the 503 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 7: is isshue before, and I've seen that a lot on 504 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 7: social media, and what I've seen is that more often 505 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 7: than not, it's the man who has TSA PRE and 506 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 7: the woman who doesn't, and then then the guy either 507 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 7: has to be awesome and wait with the woman, or 508 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 7: if he goes through, he's a jerk. I have TSA 509 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 7: PRE and I love it, and my kids have TSA 510 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 7: pre because they've gotten stuck and they've watched me sail through. 511 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 2: You could tell she's a pro because it's tsa pre. 512 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 1: Tsa paying like when you know you do you know 513 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: when you're part of the club. 514 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 2: Lenny and I we know we know the language. Okay, 515 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 2: we know the lingo, and so the rest of you 516 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: don't know what it is. 517 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 4: I'll sit down. 518 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 7: So I'm listening to you guys. I'm listening to you 519 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,959 Speaker 7: all talking about it again this morning. And Fred, what 520 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 7: I want you to do now is to turn to 521 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 7: Kiki and Kaylin and say, Kiki and Kaylen, if you 522 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 7: were the ones who had it and I did not, 523 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,400 Speaker 7: would you wait with me? Or would you sail through 524 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,479 Speaker 7: and go have a cocktail on the other klan? 525 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 2: Would Kiki would not? 526 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 7: You know? 527 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 2: He's answered what you know? Key's answers. He ain't waiting for. 528 00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 4: You know, Oh baby, I'm walking straight there. 529 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 2: She would hold my hand. I can't like. 530 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: She's bitching about me with leaving her be in the 531 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: bar seven sand. By the time I get he's like, 532 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: who pay for this? Who pay for the plane ticket? 533 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's done fine, tiktoks I get in there. 534 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,479 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she answering questions about you know, her beauty routine. 535 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 7: I'm still getting to know and I love you. You're 536 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 7: the most amazing addition to a family. 537 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 11: Thank you. 538 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 7: So that is that's a nice defining thing. But yeah, 539 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 7: this is this is hilarious. Thank you and keep all 540 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 7: your great work. 541 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 2: I love you, Thank you, Lydia. I have a good day, 542 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 2: have a good joy the priest. 543 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what there is for some of our 544 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: listeners that there's a big announcement five o'clock on Monday, 545 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 1: and we're a lot of these guests have to do 546 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 1: with like apparently I'm going to be a dad. I'm 547 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: getting married to Caitlin, I'm getting married. In general, I'm 548 00:21:56,520 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: getting a lot. I guess congratulations, you're pregnant. It's immaculate. 549 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 8: No, he's marrying you, but he got another baby, mama. 550 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 2: Well that's what. Yeah, that's it's a real sham maculate. 551 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: But anyway, but this is all about us here and 552 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: I and then it's gonna someone else is going to 553 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: get credit for it. Here we go talking about what 554 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:16,199 Speaker 1: we were talking about last night. 555 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 2: You're here. 556 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: I you know, all these stories of these are narratives 557 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: that we cannot confirm nor deny, and then everyone else 558 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: is gonna. 559 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: Get credit for it. 560 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 4: See how that happens? 561 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: I do. 562 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: Hey, Kathy, I didn't mean for this to become a thing. 563 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: But the question is, I'm going to the airport today, 564 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: I'm alone, but I happen to have TSA PreCheck. I've 565 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 1: seen it even on dating apps, by the way, like 566 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:40,360 Speaker 1: People's Profile. It's a deal breaker. Like if you don't 567 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: have Global entry slash TSA PreCheck, I ain't dating you 568 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: because I am not waiting in the regular line because 569 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: it's too long. What do you think would you make 570 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: somebody wait if you had it and they didn't. 571 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 10: No. 572 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 13: So my husband has had it way before we even 573 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 13: started dating because of his job. We have a rule 574 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 13: if we travel together and he goes through tfpcre check, 575 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 13: he better have a flutch spot at a borrow or 576 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 13: restaurant and be ready with a cocktail and food for me. 577 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 2: Yeah that's fair, That is fair. 578 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: If I'm going ahead, then if I'm going to make 579 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 1: you wait, then I'm going to make sure you're hooked 580 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,479 Speaker 1: up with whatever it is I have to go. 581 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: I'm such a hurry to do, which is. 582 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 13: Drag And if it's a long line. We're already annoyed 583 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 13: with each other, so I'm fine that he goes ahead 584 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 13: of me. 585 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 1: See that's another thing, too, is the line just puts 586 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 1: me in a bad mood and it's no one's fault. 587 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,919 Speaker 1: So if there's no line, I'm taking that option. Kathy, 588 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: that's a that's brilliant. 589 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 2: Thank you. Have a great day, guy, What is. 590 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,360 Speaker 5: You go go to go? 591 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 2: Where did this one go? Someone's I gotta find it here? 592 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 5: Give me a seventy four dollars water at Hudson News. 593 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll make sure you're hooked up hydrated. Thank you? 594 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 1: Something about it? I can't find it now. But oh 595 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: my husband left me at the ticket counter and flew 596 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: to Germany. We were shapberning a trip for high school 597 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: students and I had to stay back to get a 598 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: passport issue figured out. Well, now that makes sense to me, honestly, 599 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: because that that ain't gonna get resolved short term. 600 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: So if somebody needed to be that. 601 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: No, like in this case, Chap running a high school trip, 602 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 1: someone's got to go right. Like, if your passport is 603 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: messed up, that's not going to get fixed in an hour. 604 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 2: You probably ain't going at that point. 605 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 5: Did you guys see that couple online? 606 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 6: I don't know if we talked about it where the 607 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 6: husband left the wife because she wanted to get Starbucks 608 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 6: and he said they didn't have enough time, so he 609 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 6: got on the plane and flew to their trip and 610 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 6: left her at the airport, and and people were siding 611 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 6: with him, a lot of people. 612 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: I hate to say this, but like, why am I 613 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 1: going to sit in the airport all day because you 614 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 1: got to have a pumpkin spice ltte? 615 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 5: It was an interesting It was an interesting discussion. 616 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,199 Speaker 1: I mean, I know it makes me sound insensitive, but like, 617 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,719 Speaker 1: there does come a point where it's like, this is ridiculous. 618 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna miss our flight so you can get It's 619 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: gonna be a Starbucks when you land. 620 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 12: Yeah, but you're gonna get it when you land to 621 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 12: it because she ain't there sounds like it sounds like 622 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 12: I'm single and on vacation. 623 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 1: Hey Jessica, Hi Jessica, And I didn't mean for this 624 00:24:58,720 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: to be a thing, but what do you think? 625 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 10: Okay, So I wanted to call it in because I 626 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 10: changed my name last year when I got married. 627 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 5: So I go to the airport. 628 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 10: Later on and I've got my new name on my 629 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 10: boarding path. I go to TSA prechext but now I 630 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 10: can't get through because they had my. 631 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 4: Old last name. 632 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 10: But I told my husband it's okay, it doesn't have 633 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,919 Speaker 10: to wait for me, so he still goes through. I 634 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 10: have to leave because I got his last name, and 635 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 10: I got to go through the regular line until four 636 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 10: months later I finally get it back. 637 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: Well, okay, you're very you're a very accommodating wife. Yes, 638 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 1: you're a good woman, Jessica. Have a good day, good woman, 639 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 1: you little lady, have a good day. Stop waiting by 640 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: the phone right now. The Entertainment Report show vis Shelley 641 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: all coming up. It's the Fred Show. 642 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 4: The Fred Show is on Friend's Fun. 643 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 7: Fact Fred's Fun. 644 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: Learn so much you guys. I got a food one 645 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 2: for you. 646 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: Now. 647 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 2: I can't remember. 648 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: I've bestowed so many facts on the people now for 649 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: so long that I can't remember if I've done this 650 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: one or not. But just let's pretend like I'll tell 651 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: you if you don't worry, if you I won't be sure 652 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 1: to tell me. But this still to me is crazy. 653 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: If I have supermarket apples can be a year old? Yes, 654 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 1: all right, fine, what else you got for me? Fine, 655 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,959 Speaker 1: I got another one. I was still blown away by that. 656 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: I continue to be blown away by that. Let me 657 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: see here we did the one about secretions from a 658 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: beaver's noose. 659 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 2: Did you know that. 660 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: Fish intestines are found in food foods like candy, cheese, 661 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: ice cream? Yeah, beaver's butt, bugs, hair, and fish intestines 662 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: are just some of the bones chilling fixings that give 663 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: foods like candy, cheese, and ice cream. There's prumptuous flavors. 664 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: Cheese if you're in one contains some arsenic Did you 665 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 1: know that? Oh you didn't know that? 666 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 14: The cheese boom me away? Protect the cheese anyway. The 667 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 14: old ass apple scares me. But more Fred Show. Next 668 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 14: right here, Fred's show is on. 669 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 2: Hey, good morning everybody. It's the Fred Show. 670 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: Ease Thursday, September twenty first, waiting by the phone. 671 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 2: Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll get to that next. 672 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: The entertainment report is coming up, and of course catch 673 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: up with anything you may missed on the show anytime. 674 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: The iHeart app is where to go. Search it for 675 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: the frend Show on demand. Waiting after Steven Sanchez back 676 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,360 Speaker 1: in two minutes. Good morning, thanks for waking up with us.