1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the colo. This is from 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Daphanie and Algiers. Daphanie writes, my friend and I are 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: party planners and we are doing a twenty first birthday 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: party this weekend. My friend slept with the birthday girl's 5 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: daddy recently, and she didn't know he was married until 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: the man's wife called us. 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 2: To do the party. 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: How do I keep my friend slash business partner from 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: confronting the daddy at the birthday party? 10 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 3: Oh? 11 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 2: Oh wow? 12 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 3: Oh, and you in the house. 13 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess you know, you know, just off the 14 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 4: top of my head, I was thinking, you know. 15 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 3: How all money ain't good money. 16 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 4: You've accepted the contract, you gonna do the birthday party. 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 4: The only thing I could think is y'all could book 18 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 4: another event on the same day and have hug go do. 19 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: That event and you do this event. That's all I got. 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 1: Well, brilliant, that's brilliant. 21 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: Because this has hall written holiday. This oh just got 22 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: some things in it. 23 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, the baby's birthday party would be real. 24 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 5: She is going to say something why to his wife, 25 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 5: to him, Oh, this party is going to be ruined, 26 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 5: all right. 27 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: Moving on, Philo to Porsche in the Bronx Porscha says, 28 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: my husband has started checking his phone at night and 29 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: the first thing in the morning. He said, he texts 30 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: his mom good night and good morning daily. When I 31 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: talked to his mom, I asked if she was enjoying 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: her son's daily Texas. She didn't know what I was 33 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: talking about. Should I confront my husband for lying to me? 34 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 3: Yeah, well you are. 35 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 4: You're going to do that. Yeah, you're going to confront me. 36 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 4: And there's nothing I can say to change your mind. 37 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: Shirley would tell you immediately. Yes, you should ask him. 38 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 4: What was that about? So who are you to. 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the husband for sure. Yeah. 40 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no way around that. I think that's what's 41 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 3: text mama. 42 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, man, I know, well, no, you could have 43 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: easily covered your tracks with this one. Yeah, but you 44 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 4: know what meant sometimes, you know, I just have to 45 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 4: just let me in, you know, just be stupid. 46 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: You can't save everybody, don't. You just cannot say what 47 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: should he have said? 48 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Since it wasn't his mom he was texting, what should 49 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: he have said? 50 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 3: Oh, you want to player, that's what you want? 51 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: Well, I mean he always says a life for every occasion. 52 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, he ain't texting nobody. 53 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: Really, so he. 54 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 3: So, what do you mean that's what I was scrolling 55 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 3: on my phone? 56 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: I wasn't texting every night and every morning. 57 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, between scrolling and him actually, yes, you. 58 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 3: Dog, quit holding that phone so close to his face. 59 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: Get you some glasses. 60 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 3: Hoot them words in Japanese or Spanish. I'm telling you know, 61 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 3: change the change all that. 62 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: But he still told her out of his mouth that 63 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: he was texting his mom. That's the problem. 64 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 3: Then text mama. 65 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 5: Who So the actually need to go with the lie. 66 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: Your track, help the lie. 67 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: Help the life Philo. 68 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really I'm at a loss on this with 69 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 4: Dog because you it's just as easy to get out 70 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 4: of of though. But here's a thing he's got to learn. 71 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: Can't involve people in your lie. That can be a 72 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 4: question about the lie that don't know about the lie. 73 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 3: Your mama was too close? 74 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Moving on. 75 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 4: You said you text one of your boys every night. 76 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 4: Y'all got something y'all working, or you could have did anything. 77 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Okay, Moving on to Sabrina and Lawrenceville. Sabrina writes, I 78 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 1: wake up daily at five am to get ready for work, 79 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: and that's when my husband thinks it's time for sex, 80 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: even if I'm in the mood. I don't have time, 81 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: he said, I need to make time for him, and 82 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: I feel bad when I tell him no. Am I 83 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 1: ruining my marriage? 84 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: Well? 85 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 4: When you say every time you tell him no, here's 86 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 4: the deal? Are you saying you always tell him no? 87 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 4: Because right now, every time the alarm go off, he 88 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 4: thinks for him ding dong. Oh hey, I mean it's 89 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 4: the alarm for you to wake up for him? Is 90 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,239 Speaker 4: the dinner bell? You see what I'm saying. So we've 91 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 4: got to You've got to either. 92 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 3: Move this alarm up, yeah. 93 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 4: Or tell him this ain't what you want to do 94 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 4: in the morning because you don't have time. 95 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 5: Yeah. 96 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 4: So you're either go move your alarm up to a 97 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 4: commendate or you're gonna have to put some restrictions on it. 98 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 3: Look, we can do this on. 99 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: Fridays every Friday. 100 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 3: All right, Whees says, I'll give you Fridays, you. 101 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 4: Which one you want, and then on the weekends it's 102 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 4: just free for all. 103 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 3: We just open here. But what you want to do 104 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 3: during the. 105 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: Week okay, all right, that's some boundaries, Okay, got it, 106 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: all right? Last one sleeve Steve, didn't I say sleep 107 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: last one? Where did that come from? This is from 108 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: Alejandro and DeSoto. Alejandro writes, I took the three ladies 109 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: in my department out for lunch. We took a group selfie, 110 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 1: and the ladies are all lean on me and touching 111 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: me so they fit in the picture. My wife saw 112 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: the photo and said it is inappropriate. What's wrong with 113 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: an innocent selfie? 114 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 3: Or you so stupid? How do you think your wife? 115 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 4: Was all these women leaning in on touching you and 116 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 4: she ain't in the picture. 117 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 5: Mm hmm, So do you know what's touching you? 118 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 3: Do you know what's touching you when they lean. 119 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: In just so they could fit in the picture. 120 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 3: Though, Well, you could say this here you know what? 121 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 3: Oh why do you know? 122 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: Well? 123 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 4: You know, sometimes you just I'm just giving this is 124 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 4: a lie. This like gon'n get him out of trouble. 125 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 4: But you could say they was all inebriated and they 126 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 4: was leaning on you for support because they was fitting 127 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 4: the fall in the picture. 128 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 3: We just was being a gentleman that held them up. 129 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 3: Oh you like I like they like that. 130 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 4: Oh you designated driving all of them not drunking, you know, 131 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 4: and you was taking them hold one thout one. 132 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 3: That's why they was leaning on the person. You could 133 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 3: go with that one. 134 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: That's gonna make it worse. They say, both of these, 135 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: the first one and this one. 136 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 2: What else you got? Terrible? But I like your creative process. 137 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: You're thinking, well, yeah, that's the no no, and you're welcome. 138 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: You are welcome, all right, Clo, sorry, Alejandro. 139 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 5: Stop taking selfies. 140 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, co workers couldn't help you with that one. 141 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 3: All right. 142 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we will 143 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're 144 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: listening Hardy Morning Show.