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Speaker 1: Hey, Kiki, why were you thinking about bullies a TikTok? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw a TikTok where a woman was talking

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Speaker 2: it reminded me like the kind of crazy advice my

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Speaker 1: Like it was not helpful at all.

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Speaker 2: So it's like your kid comes home and it's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm being bullied and my parents just like go kick

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Speaker 2: And so it just made me think of like, do

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Speaker 2: did everyone get that kind of like crazy advice from

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Speaker 2: their parents to deal with bullies? And then also, how

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Speaker 2: did you overcome your first bully? Because like me and

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Speaker 2: my first bully we cool now.

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Speaker 1: She because I've got I got a few questions eight

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Speaker 1: five five five three five, uh contacts the same number. One.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what became of your bully or bullies? Yes? Two?

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Speaker 1: Did any of them actually surpass you? Because like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know that anyone who bullied me actually did any

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Speaker 1: better than I did in life? Nope. In fact, the

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Speaker 1: things I got bullied for were being a kid and

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Speaker 1: being obsessed with radio. And here we are doing this

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Speaker 1: and I actually, it's funny you bring this up because

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Speaker 1: last week there were I don't know if you if

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Speaker 1: you my school was so small, I mean I went

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Speaker 1: to school with forty seven people. But there was a

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Speaker 1: And somebody I know ran into him and was like

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Speaker 1: what happened to him? And he was like and the

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Speaker 1: girl was like, well, he's doing really well on the radio.

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Speaker 1: And this guy was like and I always knew that

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Speaker 1: he would, but he never said that to me back then.

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Speaker 1: And the kids that were bullying me, like he was

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Speaker 1: the middleman between the kids who were saying, you'll never

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Speaker 1: do anything with that. And it was just funny to

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Speaker 1: the comment last week, because I wonder then what happened

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Speaker 1: to them? Did any of them actually do anything good?

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Speaker 1: Or they bigger losers than you ever could have imagined?

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Speaker 2: Yep, everybody who bullied me, are they're still there?

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Speaker 1: Loser? I mean, like, what happened to your bullies? Were

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Speaker 1: we cool? But like they're we're cool? My fast food

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Speaker 1: when I go to the drive through.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't it wasn't like great like elementary school.

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Speaker 2: So they were just you know, bullies at that point.

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Speaker 2: But I what the best way in any kid that

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Speaker 2: is being bullied right now that can hear this, The

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Speaker 2: best way to overcome a bully is to stand up

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Speaker 2: to them. They're really not who they act like to

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Speaker 2: be like who they act like they are. Because all

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Speaker 2: my bullies, like at the moment I stood up to them,

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Speaker 2: it was not that they were not keeping that same

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Speaker 2: the best in life. And I do wish them whatever

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Speaker 2: they deserve, but it was like bullies are. I just

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Speaker 2: want kids to know, like you can overcome a bully, just.

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Speaker 1: Stand up to them. That's funny though, because my parents

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Speaker 1: used to give me the advice that like, and this

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Speaker 1: like because you're not feeding them. By standing up to

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Speaker 1: them those kind of personalities, you're essentially you get to

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Speaker 1: of course my parents used to say like, well, you'll

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Speaker 1: prevail someday, and they happen to be right. But that's

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Speaker 1: bs advice because let's face it, if every parent tells

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Speaker 1: it sucks, but it's life. So but that's I remember,

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Speaker 1: that's what my parents used to say, like, well, someday,

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Speaker 1: you know, someday that guy will be nothing and you'll

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Speaker 1: be something. Well that's what parents are supposed to say.

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Speaker 1: What are they supposed to say, like, no, there's a

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Speaker 1: real good chance he's right and you're a loser. No,

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Speaker 1: Kiki saw you and realize that you did exactly what

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Speaker 1: you said you were going to do. Oh, you did

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Speaker 1: exactly the thing that you were bullied because you couldn't

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Speaker 1: get it done. You were going to be a well

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Speaker 1: in the media, and you did it. So now what

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Speaker 2: Oh, no, they're gonna congratulate you when they see you

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Speaker 2: in tickets. Good, yeah, they're gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: But had any of you guys ever been a bully?

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Speaker 4: Because I went through a faith I was a jerk

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, Like in middle school for sure,

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Speaker 4: It was like I get, I don't know, it was

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Speaker 4: it is in school, like the I don't know like

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Speaker 4: we just picked on certain kids, like just talk smack

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We didn't like beat them

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Speaker 4: I wasn't like beating kids up, but like we were

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Speaker 1: I will say this, and this is probably gonna be

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Speaker 1: How are you good morning? So you had a middle

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Speaker 5: She tortured me for years to the point like my

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Speaker 5: She came up to my house and was starting to

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Speaker 1: A whole nut. Well, now, did you did you handle it? Like?

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Speaker 1: See well, well, Ashley, Well I'm glad and everything worked

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm about to get married in a month

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Speaker 1: I love you too. To handle them, I think my

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Speaker 1: Me, I hit him and it was lucky.

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Speaker 7: He literally put on the Roget game.

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Speaker 1: Song, can't punch and meat over here?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 7: No, I punched that little preschooler so it didn't hit

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Speaker 1: Somebody asked, Rufio, did you ever go back and apologize

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Speaker 1: to anyone that you believed? No, I did, not, like

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Speaker 1: she should, let's do it on air. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know these kids anymore. Like I'm not friends

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Speaker 4: Know, like middle school was a wild time for me,

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Speaker 1: person who doesn't like to pay tolls or taxes. So

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Speaker 1: you who said that this is going to come to

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Speaker 1: a surprise a lot of people as a surprise. But

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Speaker 1: it was Kiki who asked that question for a friend.

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Speaker 1: So you just text. Day came and went and you

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Speaker 1: just didn't do anything. I don't know what my friend is.

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Speaker 1: I don't know I ask for my friend. You just

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Speaker 1: let the day come and go, and were you just

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Speaker 1: hoping they'd forget about it or like, what what did

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Speaker 1: you think was gonna happen? You know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what's going on. It hit me at the nail salon yesterday,

447
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Speaker 1: big just spending that money already? Are your friends spending

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Speaker 1: that money? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: My friend and he was like you should tell you.

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Speaker 2: He's like, did your friend do her taxes? And I

451
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Speaker 2: was like oh, and he's like, your friend hasn't, like

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Speaker 2: till today, and so I was like, oh wow, and

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Speaker 2: then I just I went to raising Knes and I

454
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Speaker 2: went home and wow, next thing I know, I woke

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Speaker 2: up today and my friend had not done her taxes.

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Speaker 1: So what's the plan for your friend then? Do you think?

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Speaker 1: I mean, let me tell you one thing about the

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Speaker 1: I R S. They don't forget right, they don't just go,

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Speaker 1: you know what, we'll get her next year?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, you know I try this with the

462
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Speaker 2: toll Rose and I'm now on a payment plan, so

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Speaker 2: I've realized you can't do that. I tried that with

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Speaker 2: the parking ticket people. I got a boot here.

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Speaker 1: You need to file an extension. You have to file extension. Now,

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Speaker 1: how does my friend do? Like the situation? You need

467
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Speaker 1: to go to HNR Block or somebody, or look it

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Speaker 1: up on Google and then they'll tell you does your

469
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Speaker 1: friend usually owe money? Every year? So no, here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: My friend started doing her own taxes and it was

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Speaker 2: fine every year until recently I started. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what numbers my friend was putting in, but they said

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Speaker 2: that I owed the government.

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Speaker 1: I mean, my friend owed the government, and we know

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Speaker 1: that's not correct.

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Speaker 4: You in trouble your If you owe money, then your

477
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Speaker 4: friend's in trouble. They'll put more penalties on it if

478
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Speaker 4: you're older. If your friend is older, refund it's fine

479
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Speaker 4: because they're gonna give you money. But if you owe

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Speaker 4: the government money, then they're gonna they're gonna charge you more.

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Speaker 1: Somebody better get on turbo tax. No, no, somebody but

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Speaker 1: get onbody help me. Somebody better go to H and

483
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Speaker 1: R Block today. Better go somewhere. Fred might need to

484
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Speaker 1: fly your friend to DC. That dropped them texts off

485
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Speaker 1: right the front door.

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Speaker 4: I don't think on the plane they might shoot us down.

487
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Speaker 1: Yeah right, I don't know. Fred Show. Next, the Fred

488
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Speaker 1: Show is on Friend's fun fact so much guys, did

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Speaker 1: you know that an animal's yawn is based on how

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Speaker 1: large their brain is. The bigger the brain, the longer

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Speaker 1: the animal will yawn. WHOA, how about that? Like at that?

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Speaker 1: Did you like it? Like it better when I was

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Speaker 1: doing the sex facts last week? Or you like the

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Speaker 1: animal facts? Or how about animal sex facts? What if

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Speaker 1: I did both?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 10: I like the animal effects. I don't know you were

498
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Speaker 10: really into some of them last week? Right, Yeah, I

499
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Speaker 10: like the animal fact and animals yawn is based on

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Speaker 10: how large their brain is. The bigger the brain, the longer, equally, yon.

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Speaker 10: You also know you'll yawn more in a room that

502
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Speaker 10: has less oxygen that you know that? Yeah, so like

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Speaker 10: if you're in a room with the door closed, you

504
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Speaker 10: might yawn more because there's less airflow, you know, like

505
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Speaker 10: if you y yawning to to get more oxygen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Yeah, there you have it. See you know

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Speaker 1: why else you gone a lot? You don't pay your

508
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Speaker 1: damn passes. That's another reason why more Fread show next

509
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Speaker 1: right here? Yeah, they talk better than my mind. These

510
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Speaker 1: are the radio blogs on the Fread Show. I like

511
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Speaker 1: writing in our diaries, except we say I'm alowed. We

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Speaker 1: call them blogs. Jason Brown, Yes you ready, Yes.

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Speaker 11: Ma'am, dear blog So I officially have been blocked from

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Speaker 11: my first Facebook group.

515
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Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, and you anger the Trumpers?

516
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Speaker 11: Well girl, just existing. No, I don't want to make

517
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Speaker 11: this like a political thing. But I was scrolling through

518
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Speaker 11: my phone and Mike's family has a lake house kind

519
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Speaker 11: of in the nowhere, middle of nowhere in Michigan, and

520
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Speaker 11: so I joined like the community page because I like

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Speaker 11: to see what's going on up there, what what the

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Speaker 11: happenings are, you know, And so there is a town

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Speaker 11: around there that has a Pride festival and all, yeah, right,

524
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Speaker 11: it's probably lit. It's not really northern, right, it's kind

525
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Speaker 11: of like somewhere near the lake.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't know my directions.

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Speaker 11: But anyway, so there was a member of this group

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Speaker 11: that had posted on the Facebook group that said this

529
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Speaker 11: bank up there gave a donation to the Pride festival

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Speaker 11: so they could have the festival. And they were like,

531
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Speaker 11: don't use this bank day support the Pride festival and

532
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Speaker 11: blah blahlah blah, all this hate right, and I was like,

533
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Speaker 11: it was Saturday morning. I was still laying in bed

534
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Speaker 11: next to a man, and I was like, you know,

535
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Speaker 11: I have time today.

536
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, you were next to a man.

537
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Speaker 11: I was, I was, I lay with a man.

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Speaker 1: God's not a gypsy girl. I am not a gypsy girl,

539
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Speaker 1: but I strive to be damn I anyway.

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Speaker 11: So I was like, I have time today, So I'm

541
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Speaker 11: going back and forth this guy. I'm not calling him names.

542
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Speaker 11: I'm being very nice, like you don't have to spread

543
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Speaker 11: hate on the internet, blah blah blah blah. So he

544
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Speaker 11: blocks me right and the reason, which I don't even

545
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Speaker 11: know why Facebook allows, you know, it says like, oh,

546
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Speaker 11: you're blocked because of this violation whatever.

547
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Speaker 1: The reason was the Bible. I was going against the Bible.

548
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Speaker 1: So now I'm even more.

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Speaker 11: Upset because I'm like, we're gonna have the Bible, Like,

550
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Speaker 11: are you gonna tell me that yet?

551
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Speaker 1: Whatever?

552
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Speaker 11: So then Mike saying next to me, I was like,

553
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Speaker 11: can you believe all this? And then he was like,

554
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Speaker 11: where's this? I got time today. So he takes this

555
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Speaker 11: phone and he starts going in with this guy. He

556
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Speaker 11: gets blocked. I'm like, it's just us gays fighting for

557
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Speaker 11: you know, equal rights in Michigan.

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Speaker 1: So then I posted the bank.

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Speaker 11: I was like, thank you to this bank for you know,

560
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Speaker 11: supporting you know, equality and the pride festival and all

561
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Speaker 11: this stuff. But I got blocked for a month. I

562
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Speaker 11: can't post that.

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Speaker 1: Well, so it's shanty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And the gay haters, gay haters, yep, they blocked me,

566
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Speaker 1: have blocked you.

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Speaker 4: When you guys go up there, you should fly like

568
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Speaker 4: in your little illegal helicopter thing.

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Speaker 1: A leg Yeah, you know what. Hold on, let's not

570
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Speaker 1: complicate the illegal flying process here now, if you all

571
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Speaker 1: know what he's talking about. Your partner has a it's

572
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Speaker 1: called a powered parachute, right, called the flying machine. Yeah,

573
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Speaker 1: but it's not just like a big fan on the

574
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Speaker 1: back of like a chair, the lawn chair that has

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Speaker 1: a parachute on top of it. And you tell me

576
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Speaker 1: that it's legal to operate this without a pilot's license.

577
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Speaker 1: And you also tell me you can use airports, should

578
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Speaker 1: take it off and land runway. Yeah, oh my god,

579
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Speaker 1: you gotta fly in the festival. I want a rainbow parachute.

580
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Speaker 1: The chandler in the house. It's a flying game. You

581
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Speaker 1: know us, they're talking, they're dropping gay things on us.

582
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Speaker 3: You shouldn't have blocked me from the past. It's never

583
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Speaker 3: happens the rain today. Okay, No, I'm not even trying

584
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Speaker 3: to get which I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to know. I'm just going to play this

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Speaker 1: song now. The entertainer of fourty Sagon