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Speaker 1: Years ago, my grandparents owned the family home, but when

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Speaker 1: when I was eighteen and she was twenty one. Her

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Speaker 1: and we got married a year after that. Wow. So

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Speaker 1: when OP was then nineteen, that is quick quick, that's

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Speaker 1: a quick timeline. I told her about my dreams of

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Speaker 2: Now how much do houses golfed?

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Speaker 1: Thus our expensive? I don't think I'll ever be you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be able to afford a house, especially

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Speaker 1: on like with two incomes, that's not enough incomes for

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Speaker 2: I had a small loan of a million dollars.

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Speaker 1: Small, really small loan. It was all me. It was

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Speaker 1: hundred and eighty five thousand dollars damn. About twenty years

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Speaker 1: after my grandparents passed away, their house finally went on

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Speaker 1: the market at a massive price. The house itself is huge,

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Speaker 2: Doom, Where are they.

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Speaker 1: Buying because one hundred and eighty five thousand dollars for that,

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Speaker 1: Well, the seventy five thousand dollars was for the downpayment,

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Speaker 1: When our grandparents' house went on the market, I sent

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Speaker 1: Throughout this whole process, my sister kept saying how excited

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Speaker 2: Them might be what they're thinking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, our grandparent's house was the location of every birthday,

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Speaker 3: I mean I would at this point in the story,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we will be fun for them to visit.

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Speaker 1: And then in Squint Titterer, we had a barbecue at

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Speaker 1: During the dinner, my mother in law offered to kennel

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: My conspiracy theory is that Opie's sister thinks that OPI

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Speaker 1: I don't know what she thinks.

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Speaker 2: Here, let's see.

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Speaker 1: I told her I was the one confused. I didn't

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Speaker 1: My sister proceeded to ask why my wife and I

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Speaker 1: closed on a house for lengthy reasons. I'll leave out

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Speaker 1: a lot of the back and forth, but here's the

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to believe you, because I didn't think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but the sister did think it, and presumably she's

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Speaker 1: when I told her that was not happening, my sister

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not her fault that she got the money

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's like if you were playing Monopoly and you had

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Speaker 3: It's just like, that's just how it goes. Somebody's buying

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Speaker 1: That she wouldn't have enough money to buy it when

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Speaker 1: it went on the market. Yeah, And if it was

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's like, would you be more happy if the house

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Speaker 3: went to somewhere else purchase? So it was just like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, OPI's definitely not the Ahle right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not the a whole right now.

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Speaker 1: She was pissed because this was her dream too, and

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Speaker 1: We purchased it and now it is our home and

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Speaker 1: this thread. I got text and voicemails from my parents

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Speaker 1: have to cut contact. I'm sorry. This is ridiculous. They're

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Speaker 1: and ohp. He's like, no, this is I bought this house.

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Speaker 1: This is my house. You guys are all talking about it.

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Speaker 1: They told me they were very disappointed in me for

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Speaker 1: That it's only fair we set up away to give

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Speaker 1: something else. Even my more distant relatives have said that

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Speaker 1: it was cruel of us to take that from her.

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Speaker 3: Take what, Yeah, something that wasn't possible, something that's not

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Speaker 3: even in the like Sorry, yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's you're too late, too late. Yeah, and also too

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Speaker 1: it was Opie's dream first. Opie literally said I told

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Speaker 1: my sister this was my dream and she said, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's my like I would love that too. Yeah, Opie

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Speaker 1: called DIBs. So those are the rules. Whatever calls DIBs

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Speaker 1: gets it first, and also whoever has the money to

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Speaker 1: taken aback. I've seen stories similar to this on Reddit

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Speaker 1: entitled people thinking they should get their relatives' houses, but

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Speaker 1: I hate that we've started this new chapter out on

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Speaker 1: But let's get in to this edit. Wow, this blew

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And there's a little bit more though. A security

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Speaker 2: Does OPI think that like they're going to break in

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Speaker 1: John thinks no contact, I'd never talk to them restraining order? Wow, John, definitely,

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Speaker 1: By the way, you can join us live on YouTube

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Speaker 1: every week to a three pm Pacific Sanda time. Just

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Speaker 1: up our profile. But there's a tiny bit left of

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Speaker 1: I think op is not the a hole. Don't give

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Speaker 1: this house to your your parents? Uh huh No, No, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean sorry to your sister. Yeah, she doesn't deserve it.

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Speaker 1: And that's my thoughts on this. But what's a pretty

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Speaker 1: crazy drop though. What the packing bit. Yeah, you need

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Speaker 1: No, she did really just assume so hard.

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Speaker 1: No I told you anything, and you're just like, wait

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Speaker 1: and we have another story. But we also have a guest,

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Speaker 1: and it's not Anthony, it's st Yes, you look so cute,

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Speaker 1: you're looking beautiful, looking gorgeous. Hello, greetings, are things well? Welcome, Welcome,

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Speaker 1: You're just in time for another story. Yay. So let's

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