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Speaker 1: But now she doesn't want a second date with me.

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Speaker 1: She texted me saying, quote, what is it to.

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Speaker 2: Waiting for? Oh, well, you're staring at me.

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Speaker 3: Well you're stopping like you're about to give us the

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, but he wants to know what happened.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what you say. That's the perfect text.

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Speaker 1: It's direct, it's kind, it's thoughtful, it's clear, it's simple,

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Speaker 2: It's the right message. Don't you agree to me? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Went wrong, Pat, I'm just not so sure. Hi, and welcome.

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Speaker 1: Take you to our sold out jingle Ball presented by

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Speaker 1: Capital One, and we're going to track down Kristin.

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Speaker 2: This is all going down on Kiss right.

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Speaker 3: Now, on air with Ryan Seacrest, on air, on air

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Speaker 1: So I want to get right into talking to Kristen here.

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Speaker 2: So we're calling about a.

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: So? The short story is we have been our services

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Speaker 1: So everything went great. You liked the guy he was,

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's very abrupt to have a good workout, Kristen.

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Speaker 2: Would you want to go out with Pat again?

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Speaker 1: Like the fact that he couldn't even just like break

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well, Kristen, I want to tell you that

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Speaker 1: Pat has asked us to find you today to talk

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Speaker 1: She called it rigid, actually, but rigid is what she said.

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Speaker 2: Then you meet like this perfect woman and now you've

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Speaker 1: At five o'clock on a Saturday, it seems I'm interested.

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Speaker 2: Know that's working out. But here's the thing that's fair.

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Speaker 1: that's what I feel like is happening here with Kristin.

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Speaker 1: I feel like she kind of you guys, vibes. It's

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Speaker 1: tough to vibe, bro it is it is so Kristin,

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Speaker 1: you've been very quiet since we started talking to Pat.

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Speaker 1: Is there any chance after hearing Pat, you think you

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Speaker 1: guys could just start over again and try this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish, but I just I don't think it'll

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Speaker 4: work like you know. It's because it's not even just

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Speaker 4: like the workout. It was like like I got a

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Speaker 4: got wine and he got water. Like I was ready

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, look, I like we tried. We're going

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Speaker 1: in circles. Well, Pat, listen, bro respect on a healing heart.

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Speaker 1: No one has a weaker heart to me going through

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Speaker 1: blow it off every once in a while to give

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Pat, Yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah fine, Thank you, Kristin. Good luck to you too,

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Speaker 1: and thank you for coming on with us. We really

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, N I don't know about you, but I felt

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Speaker 2: like I was struggling to help. No, I mean, we

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Speaker 2: can't force it.

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Speaker 1: No that we were like I was, I was there,

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Speaker 1: I was like in the huddle won't come.

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Speaker 3: When she was bringing up all the other stuff, part

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Speaker 2: I get that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then it got to be she she kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not that's annoying. I do understand now.

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Speaker 1: That is tough though to not I mean, break will

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Speaker 1: yourself a chance exactly.

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Speaker 2: But I do understand if she's just like, we just

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Speaker 2: have very different the way we live our lives. Like,

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Speaker 2: I think we've all been there.

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Speaker 1: Totally fair, But me personally, as a spectator, I wish they.

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Speaker 2: Would have given each other one more shot, one more

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Speaker 2: that'll be a void for me.

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Speaker 1: I think you'll be fine.