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Speaker 1: Nicky Podcast. Here's Nikki. Hello, it's me. It's Nicky. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show. Here I am, It's Nicky. There's a podcast.

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Speaker 1: Happy Wednesday to y'all. I know it's Wednesday because we

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Speaker 1: did Reddit yesterday and I know Reddit's on Tuesday. That's

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Speaker 1: how I keep track of the week. How many days

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Speaker 1: after we talked about my Reddit fines, Tom keepit track.

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Speaker 1: Today's podcast might be out a little bit later than usual,

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Speaker 1: not sure, but I just want to say that we

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Speaker 1: could have skipped it today. It's late in the day.

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Speaker 1: We weren't able to do it this morning because I

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Speaker 1: perfect strangers too needed us both so early. But um,

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Speaker 1: we said, no, we want to do a pod. We

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Speaker 1: need to do a pod. We gave them three last

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Speaker 1: week because of the holiday. What holiday was it, President? Yep,

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Speaker 1: it was President and um, so we're doing it and

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Speaker 1: it's going to be a special one. We're not gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about murder unless it comes up, right. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's probably five topics that always come up, right. Well,

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Speaker 1: I just want to come with them things, okay, murders

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Speaker 1: and Columbine. Just saying that that you didn't say, man,

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Speaker 1: we did not get to it. I mean, I guess

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Speaker 1: we can maybe get to it today. What one of

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Speaker 1: our best seas wrote pieces are Columbine and we still

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Speaker 1: haven't talked about Taylor Sif's heavy metal. Maybe we never

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Speaker 1: get to those who knows what they're coming. We're coming

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Speaker 1: up in a year of the podcast. We have a

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Speaker 1: lot of people who obviously on during fan threats, we

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Speaker 1: always hear people that are like, I've been listening since

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Speaker 1: I'm an O G fan, Like started at the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Some of you are working way back to put together

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Speaker 1: the pieces of the inside jokes that we ourselves don't

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Speaker 1: even know the origin of at this point. But Um,

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Speaker 1: regardless of it, we we just love our fans so much.

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Speaker 1: And you've heard me say it before. But if you're

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Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, either it's your first time, we're

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Speaker 1: your last time, I'll miss you. But I really appreciate

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Speaker 1: you guys given us a shot and having us in

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Speaker 1: your lives. And I wanted to follow up on one

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Speaker 1: thing that I'm dying to know about just for my

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Speaker 1: own personal interest. No uh, Um hung out with my

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Speaker 1: best friend from high school, who I talked about earlier

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Speaker 1: this week. Her curtain was threatening to close. Halla also

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Speaker 1: known as him because my friends in high school we

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Speaker 1: just got lazy saying things. So we went from Laura Holly,

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Speaker 1: which is her name, to Halla to it's harder to

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Speaker 1: say it in Laura Holly. We edited a lot over it.

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Speaker 1: We didn't even know what that meant. Um. She was

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Speaker 1: the goalie of our field hockey team, the one that

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Speaker 1: I wasn't on. After you know, you're playing hard to

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Speaker 1: get on the bench, I could play. I mean part

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Speaker 1: of you wanted to be competitive with it. I feel like, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know when I'm not good at something.

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Speaker 1: I just know, do what you're good at, be fun

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Speaker 1: to be around. You're not athletic, I know, but it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not good at coordination and balls. I can I disagree.

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Speaker 1: I just not playing golf. You have a good golf swing,

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Speaker 1: but I'm you know what, I get so nervous on

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Speaker 1: the field, like if it's going to come to me,

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Speaker 1: like even during kickball back in the day, in high school,

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Speaker 1: how good water tasted because it would be so hot

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Speaker 1: But when I got since once that made me not

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Speaker 1: be able to walk, I was so grateful that I

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Speaker 1: had to quit. You know, it was amazing before football,

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Speaker 1: thinking about how good the fucking I always got. What's

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Speaker 1: don't know if this was the best food to eat

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Speaker 1: to like give they tell you don't go in if

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Speaker 1: one of those little kinderballs where there's once he bites

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Speaker 1: you open, there's another surprise of some brigatony. I've been

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Speaker 1: thinking about the guy a lot more than if we

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Speaker 1: haven't made jokes about his tragic passing. I want to

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Speaker 1: say that jokes keep someone alive sometimes tragic thing to

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Speaker 1: think about. And I'm we're never using him for fodder,

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Speaker 1: haven't you you said? Haven't you heard of of Simon

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Speaker 1: Simon cal who's taller, younger. What I was going to

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Speaker 1: say about field hockey is that Hollow was our our

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Speaker 1: like I don't care. In sixth or she wore a

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Speaker 1: just walk away, and you would do the W turn

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Speaker 1: love when you wear a ridiculous hat and then you

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Speaker 1: already have a comeback on your shirt, like you are

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Speaker 1: whatever it all said, it's all here. It is good

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Speaker 1: And did she occur? And did she say anything about Nikki?

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Speaker 1: Like it's all very intimidating. I really commend you for

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Speaker 1: being like, I'm open to hang out with someone new

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Speaker 1: that nervousness of like a new friend. Yeah, and also,

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Speaker 1: Noah is that she in the face of those things,

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Speaker 1: I was just I say, I hate this all the time.

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Speaker 1: If you're coming to St. Louis, and you want to

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Speaker 1: it's sounds like a wet pus. What about you know,

425
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: what do you like your pusses to sound? Probably go

426
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 1: for the cheese pus, all right, yeah, just wet, sloppy.

427
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 1: What's your favorite kind of mac and cheese? There is,

428
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: I guess a lot of different kinds. I just you know,

429
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 1: I really like I don't like eating broccoli unless it's

430
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: in mac and cheese. Broccoli to it? Oh yeah, Why

431
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: aren't more things added to baccan cheese than just bacon broccoli?

432
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: What else is added to it? Oh? Hot dogs? No? No, no,

433
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: that's pork and beans. That's really good. That was a

434
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: big meal. And when I was a kid, I used

435
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: to do the instant mac and cheese where you just

436
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: you know, peel the lid back on the cup. I mean,

437
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: I mean, what's why is that so much worse? Microwave

438
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: thing is an art, and I'm really good at it.

439
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: I have to say, I know exactly how much time

440
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: with your bagel bites and pizza rolls. What are you doing? Oh?

441
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: I gotta put those oven because those get chewy. Those

442
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: bagel bites to get are too chewy, and then they're

443
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: inedible there you literally can't get through them. I think

444
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 1: I'd like to think that like song, like you know,

445
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: you know you're an adult? What and they're a song?

446
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: This is growing up? I guess this is growing up.

447
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: I honestly felt like I was finally an mature adult

448
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: when I would put bagel bites in the oven because

449
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: I was a microp. Anytime I use the oven, I

450
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 1: feel like I should I could run for president. I

451
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: feel like I should be, you know, at some global

452
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 1: summit of some sort. Dude, I didn't use a big

453
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 1: oven until recently. And then remember the pizza rack incident.

454
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,400
Speaker 1: I mean we you didn't know how to get things

455
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 1: out of it. You could put things in it, pizza rack,

456
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: just in pizza gate. Okay, next question, we're off to

457
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: some really question. That's an interesting question. Yeah, that's a

458
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: head scratcher. Okay, here's a here's a good one from

459
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 1: Hank's daughter. Have Nikki, Andrew or Noah ever had an

460
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:11,719
Speaker 1: obsessive person in your life or been stocked? Thanks? Been docked?

461
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: What does that mean? No? Stars? When you stop? Oh,

462
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: you know what, this is not the place I would

463
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: talk about it if I had been, you know, because

464
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: usually stalkers are he's he's offering he's like, do you

465
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: guys want There's a difference I think between like online

466
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: stock first person stock. I'm sure you've had some friends

467
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,640
Speaker 1: obsessed with you that work got a little weird. I've

468
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: never especially the more you become a celebrity. It hasn't happened.

469
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: I don't I really don't want it to. And um,

470
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: there have been people that I could tell are like Nikki,

471
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: I love you so much like they they think we

472
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: have a relationship that we don't um based on whatever

473
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: they saw or something. And that's usually really law Like

474
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: I don't even read it because I don't want to

475
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: let it in because there's nothing I can do about it. Um.

476
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: So that's kind of been the only times. And then

477
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: we've had a couple of incidents on the road that

478
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't really want to talk about that have been terrifying.

479
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: No to the one time though that there was a

480
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: guy that came to the meet and greet I still

481
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: used the thing that he eventually pulled out. He was

482
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: this guy he was in l A, I think at

483
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: the Ace Hotel. Anything about the scene, you would think

484
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: he's got something scary. He just didn't look like he

485
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: was like a norm like one of my fans. He

486
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: was there at the show, Loan, he was at the

487
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: meet and greet. He went to the end so he

488
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 1: could have more time with me. You could tell he

489
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 1: was like hanging back in the line, which is a

490
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: lot of things that stocker people do. Oh man, I

491
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: had another stalker, not a stalker, but a guy that

492
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: I had to you know, I couldn't meet people after

493
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: the show because he was there a couple of times.

494
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: Um that was in my club club days. But this guy,

495
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 1: he was so he ended up being so sweet and

496
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: just like kind of eccentric looking. But he had a

497
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: bag of things he wanted to give me, and one

498
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: of them was jeans with a bunch of like drawings

499
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: on them that had nothing to do with me or

500
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: him or anyone. They were just means he found. Another

501
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: was like a random old shirt that he found that

502
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: it was like it wouldn't even fit me. The jeans

503
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: were children's jeans, by the way, Like I was flattered

504
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: that he thought they would fit me. And then at

505
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: the very end, he's rummaging around this bag. Noah, and

506
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: it's me, Andrew, Matt and a meal all just kind

507
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: of Andrew and Matt and a Meal are already like

508
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: tired of this guy's ship. It's the end of the

509
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: meet and great, they're like they're just like suspect of him.

510
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: And I'm trying to be nice because I'm like, maybe

511
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: he's just like special and and so I'm like, oh,

512
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: thank you so much. What else do you have? And

513
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: he's he's rooting around and it seems like he was

514
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: like gonna be like and one more thing gone. I mean,

515
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 1: that's what we all thought, separately, all of us, because

516
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: he was searching this bag that didn't seem to be

517
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: like there's not much in it. It seemed like he

518
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: was waiting to get the to like put it right

519
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 1: in his like to hold it the right way, or

520
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: to like undo it. Whatever you do, how do you

521
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: take the how do you a gun or knife or

522
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: a gun with a knife on the end of it

523
00:27:55,560 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: like a bayonet and trump and so he but then

524
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: he pulls out a brush, and honestly, I screamed, I

525
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 1: know U, Matt. It was funny because Matt was like,

526
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: I was ready to tackle the guy. I was. It

527
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: was seconds away from tackling the guy. And a Meal

528
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: and Andrew were like, I was ready to run they

529
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: were Dixie Chicks ready to go out of there quick. Yeah,

530
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: but he was like, it's just a brush and there

531
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 1: was no hair in it. It was new, and honestly,

532
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: I fucking loved the brush and I still use it

533
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: to this day. It was like a Goodie brush, is

534
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: what the brand was, and I've never seen one like it,

535
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: and I have it with me here, So jokes on us,

536
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: I know. I I remember getting a brush and being

537
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: like I don't even want to touch this thing, and

538
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: then I looked at it and I was like, I

539
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: kind of love this, and so thanks to that guy. No.

540
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: Have you ever had any kind of situations that made

541
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: you scared? Um? Well, situation that made me scared. Yes. Um.

542
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: One time I was walking home from elementary school and uh,

543
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: I felt like this guy following me, and um, there

544
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: was like a corner store that I used to go

545
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: to all the time. He was Mr Kim's grocery store.

546
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: So I was like, I'm just gonna go in the

547
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: grocery store and I'll see because he had been following

548
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: me for a couple of blocks. So I went in

549
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: and the guy stopped in front of the store with

550
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: his back face to the door. And I was like,

551
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: oh no, so I snuck out and I ran and

552
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: then um, I just like looked from behind the car

553
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: and I saw him going into the store and then

554
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: I just ran home. Oh my god. It's good that

555
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: you're aware. Yeah, I would have suggested to just like

556
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: stay there and tell Mr Kim and wait instead of

557
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 1: like try to out run. But I'm glad that you. Yeah,

558
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: you just have you ever felt that like someone's watching you?

559
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: And like been right about it? Why do we know?

560
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: Because we have senses Because we were fucking caveman. We

561
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: had to give away from cyber tooth same cyber tooth tigers.

562
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: That sounds like a great like um virus protection service, right,

563
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: it sounds like another saber tooth tiger like joke because

564
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: the tooth coming out of the guy's nose. I said,

565
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: he was like a saber tooth. No, I don't think

566
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: it was that. I think it was long ago. I

567
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: think no, it was way back. Some best people know

568
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. There was a saber tooth tiger

569
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: joke on the show Ham Drip. Wait so you wait,

570
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: so you think that we have you ever felt that

571
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: someone watching you? Know? But well, yeah, I mean in

572
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: New York. There's been times where I've been on the

573
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: street and I'm like, is this person following me? Anytime

574
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: someone has a carry on or a roller bag on

575
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: the street, I always feel like they're chasing me. I

576
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: hate that. I like that because that means that they

577
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: because you can just hear that. I just hate that

578
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: sounds so much. It's like one of my least fit

579
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: I'll stop and wait until they walk like six blocks.

580
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: This is a new thing I'm learning about you, is

581
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: that you don't like certain sounds. I don't like the

582
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: sound of that. I don't like the sound of air conditioning,

583
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: and only the sound of shitty fans. Okay, nice fans.

584
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: Though this one overhead is that bothering you? It's not

585
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: bothering me. But yeah, he has a fucking weird look

586
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: on him, sucking old cybertooth fan. So called back end

587
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: of a real quick thirty seconds ago. Um so uh no,

588
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: but I had a guy, so this girlfriend. I had

589
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,959
Speaker 1: a crazy like ex girlfriend who was um who faked

590
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: having a pregnancy. She said it was and it would

591
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: end up being like a topical or something, which is

592
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: like when it's outside. But I think she made it

593
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: all up and she was just nuts. He was nuts,

594
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: And she had an ex crazy boyfriend. Like I thought

595
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: you had only had like two girlfriends, who is this one?

596
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: This one was not long, it was like four months anyway,

597
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: So she had a crazy ex boyfriend crazy like when

598
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: we were dating, like he like at any moment, he

599
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: would like call her forty times, or like the guy

600
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: when the past guy is my little brother was in

601
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: the bed and ex boyfriends showed up and his eyes

602
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: and kids in the in the room with him, and

603
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: the guy was like six pounds. He's like, you're in

604
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: my bed and he's like what. So anyways, that's a

605
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: whole another story. But um so I'm like trying to

606
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: break up with her, but I know this guy's jealous.

607
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: So I start getting random texts from a number that

608
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I'm gonna kill you if you

609
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: go to sleep and I'm gonna murder you like this.

610
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: So I'm like, this is the fucking crazy ex boyfriend.

611
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: So I started sleeping with a knife underneath like my bed,

612
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: like underneath like the mattress, like ready to go. Huh,

613
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: you should have gotten a brush. Yeah, it's scarier, but

614
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: I would end up giving it the guy and anybody

615
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: used it and falling in love with me. But anyway,

616
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: so I end up sucking sleeping with a knife for

617
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: like a month, and I'm like freaking out. I'm like

618
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: looking out windows. I can't sleep. It turns out it

619
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: wasn't the ex boyfriend. It was just a friend of mine,

620
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: and I'm not that close with that. I just made

621
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: fun of one night when we were drinking, and he

622
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: took it so personally that he's like, Hey, I'm gonna

623
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: keep pranking Andrew because I'm so frank. It was a prank,

624
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: a weird prank. But he's like, ha ha, I got you.

625
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: You thought I was gonna murder you. I sleep with

626
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: one eye opened, like and ended up being just a

627
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: guy that like I sucking. I think I called I

628
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: made fun of her being poor or something, and he

629
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: got so offended. Do you that's interesting that so many

630
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: things happen when you're drunk and you're just like, I

631
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: don't even remember saying that or doing that. Do you, though?

632
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: Do you ever relate to the thing of like, you'll

633
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: be in bed and you'll be totally having a normal night,

634
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: everything's fine, and you just read something or you just

635
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: think about ghosts, or you think about someone being outside

636
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: and then suddenly they're they're like you just you can

637
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: conjure up someone watching you and then get so scared

638
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: and then like the other night, I couldn't even go

639
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: to the bathroom because I'm so I got myself into

640
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: such a zy in my head. But there was gonna

641
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: be a ghost, but they're not. They're like you thought of, like,

642
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 1: just walk through it. It's invisible, but I still know.

643
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: But the way you set that up is that you

644
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: thought there was a ghost there, and then you went

645
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: in there there was a ghost. No, there wasn't no,

646
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: no, no no, But the way you said it, you have

647
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: you ever thought of something and then it was like

648
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: in your head, I mean, it becomes so real bad.

649
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: Then you just go put two seconds ago everything was fine,

650
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: like what And I've said this on the podcast before,

651
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: but I wonder when people are murdered or there's someone

652
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: like that's breaks into their house or something, if there

653
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: is that spidey sense beforehand, we'll never know because they

654
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: don't make it, or if it was truly out of

655
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: nowhere and it was just normal, like you know when

656
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: in retrospect, people always like to tell themselves a story

657
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: about like I felt something weird? Is it really that

658
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 1: only in retrospect or do people really sense something is off?

659
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: You know, like that you can smell like how do

660
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: we know? I mean, how many times have you woken

661
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: up in the middle like they hear a noise and

662
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: then you're like zero? I mean it couldn't wake up

663
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: to Robin. The other day, I did think that if

664
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: I if there was a tsunami warning, I wouldn't hear

665
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: it because the white noise is so loud that I

666
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: would just die. And and you know, I thought about

667
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:18,240
Speaker 1: like the white noise sometimes might be yeah, yeah, interesting.

668
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna stop using white noise from now on.

669
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: If anyone's interested in stalking me, I'm gonna fucking hear

670
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 1: maybe just doing one year or something. Can you turn

671
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: it down some? Uh? Yeah, By the way, I despise

672
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,399
Speaker 1: white noise. That's another thing you do. We've been over

673
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: that too. Let's get to the next question. Okay, let's

674
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: do one more question quick and then break one one

675
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 1: quick question and then go to break Yeah. One quick question.

676
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: So this one's from Kathleen MP underscore. Do you think

677
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: do you think you all would have been friends in

678
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: high school. Oh, good question. Um, I think we'd be

679
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 1: We don't think we would be best friends, but I

680
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: think we'd be friends. I think Noah, you and I.

681
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: It's a little bit different because I think Noah would

682
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: have been so quiet and it would have made me

683
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 1: feel like intimidated by her. So I might have in

684
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: the way she like dressed kind of alternatively, like kind of.

685
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: I would have just thought we don't have much in common,

686
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 1: so I probably wouldn't have. You know, I probably would

687
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: have been nicer and she you were probably nice in

688
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: high school. I'm guessing, but I don't know that our

689
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: paths would have crossed as much. I guess. Wait, what

690
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: were you like in high school? Maybe were you emo

691
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: or like punk rock? I don't know if I was,

692
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: email was just like a I don't like uh, like

693
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: I want to be in the Freaks club but didn't

694
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: make it in there, like not freaky enough. Yeah, I

695
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: hear that, like you were trying to You were trying

696
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: to like not blend in though like you you weren't.

697
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: You didn't want to be seen, but you didn't want

698
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: to be like everyone else. It's so funny when you

699
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: want to be like the coolest loser and they're like,

700
00:36:52,880 --> 00:37:09,839
Speaker 1: now we're getting and I think in high school, but yeah, yeah,

701
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, you would have been like uh, you would

702
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: have done I feel like you would have been like

703
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: in the tech for like plays, And I'm not saying that,

704
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: it's like you would have been in some kind of

705
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: production thing and I would have been trying to be

706
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: a talent. And it just like how we met naturally.

707
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: And I think that's how a lot of times you

708
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: cross paths with people that you because you stick with

709
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: people who I don't know. Yeah, I met a lot

710
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: of I don't want to say a lot of the

711
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: alternative kids that dressed in black and we're a little

712
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: bit like moody, and I was kind of scared of

713
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: of of just their anger or like just people You're

714
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: going to go to Columbine right now, I think I

715
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: like got I got to know those kids either, you know,

716
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: working on a class project together. You went to a

717
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: bigger school that how many kids are in your school

718
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: our graduating classes? Like then we're not The chances are

719
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: very slim that if you went to my private school,

720
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: we would not have crossed paths. You know what, I

721
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: would have though if we would have been in the

722
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: same class, I would have laughed very I would have

723
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: thought you were very funny, and I would just try

724
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: to been to your friend because you were nice people.

725
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: I was nice, but I was a class clown. But

726
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: I was so there was like a tear of like

727
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: like really like the hot popular girls that were like

728
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: and I feel like you would be no offense but

729
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: in the second tier. But like the cool girl could

730
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: be in the first time who you think is attractive,

731
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: but you don't know if she's attractive yet because she

732
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: hasn't really found her like fashion sense or anything. But

733
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: she might not like shave like above her knee, you know,

734
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 1: just because she like developed late or like thinking about

735
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: cock late. So like you would be in that area,

736
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: but I'd be. We'd be friends and we'd have some moments.

737
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: But at a party, I wouldn't seek you out right

738
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: but in between classes or like maybe like, yeah, you

739
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: would have been popular, you would have been I was.

740
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: I was always friends with the popular guys that weren't

741
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 1: quite as no offense, good looking, tall, like like because

742
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: you were a sort kid, that's why, right, Like you

743
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: were like the stud right, so I would have I

744
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 1: was always on the outs the guys that were popular

745
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,720
Speaker 1: because they were friends with the guys that were popular,

746
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: but that I felt like they were still approachable because

747
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: they like weren't kidding that was me. If I was taller,

748
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: i'd spit on top of your head. But because I

749
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: was yeah, yeah, no, but I I was like the

750
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 1: popular and then I was like definitely popular, but just

751
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: like just but I might have been scared of you

752
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: because you were so funny. But as long as you

753
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: weren't a funny kid that like made fun of other people,

754
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: I would have been friends with you. But if you

755
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: were one that made fun of other people, oh boy,

756
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: I would have avoided you. I wasn't stayed out of

757
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: your line of fire unless you came at me, and

758
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: then I was sucking guns blazing. No, I think we

759
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: would have gotten along and caused the kid to real

760
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: to be sad. No, no, no, I wouldn't. I didn't bully.

761
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: I think I bullied someone, maybe a little bit grade accidentally,

762
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: but no. I I think we definitely talked ship about

763
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 1: dorks behind their backs, but never to their face. Never

764
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: to make someone intentionally too that I was. I never

765
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: understood doing that. And one day, there was one of

766
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 1: the dorkier girls that would sit over in this collection.

767
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: There were these turtle sculptures in our common area, and

768
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: we called the goth kids that said over there that

769
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: were kind of like the the outcast, like it was.

770
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 1: I went to school during Columbine. That was our ninth grade.

771
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 1: So those Columbiny kids we're over like in the turtle.

772
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,399
Speaker 1: We called them the turtles, right, and but we didn't

773
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: say this to their face. And one day we were

774
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: like looking over at them for some other reason, like

775
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: we're pointing. I remember, it wasn't about making fun of them.

776
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: And this girl, this brave turtle, came over to us

777
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 1: and was like, oh, she walked up and was like,

778
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: all you guys do is make fun Like she was

779
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: taking out her anger at the table that was over

780
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: there of the really popular girls out on us. But

781
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: I remember being like, I respect that she was tired

782
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: of being the brunt of jokes because she was a turtle,

783
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: and she fucking let us have it, even though it

784
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: was misplaced, because I remember being like Laura, I would

785
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 1: never I'm on your We were in girl Scouts together,

786
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: but I was sitting at a table maybe with some

787
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: girls that we're doing that, so and it's hard to

788
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: speak up when you're terrified of not being cool. I

789
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: was best friends with the most popular kid in school

790
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 1: in my grade, and then the other cool kids that

791
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: loved to be friends with him, even though he was

792
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: the best friend with me, like kept me around because

793
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 1: of him, Like we're friends with me because of him. Yes,

794
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: but I never felt that close to them because they

795
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: were like waspy and didn't love Jews, you know, and

796
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: so then just barely hanging on. So I got tired

797
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: of them to the point where I almost didn't even

798
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: hang out with my best friend I was friends with

799
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: them to then hang out with the kids playing Bond

800
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: with like him necklaces, smoking Bond, listening to Fish playing Bond.

801
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: Bond is like a video game that yeah, okay, So

802
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: I started hanging out with them and I got a

803
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: him necklace. I went to Fish. Yeah, you're just like

804
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: hand rugs. Yes, what they want to be a drugg

805
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: either Yeah. Oh yeah, so you're like, I don't want

806
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 1: to smoke. You just were trying to find a place

807
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: to put in. I was just trying to get away

808
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: from where like I couldn't win. Never gonna win. They

809
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: were never going to accept you. We're always going to

810
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: be a lot like how stand up was to be honest, Yeah, yeah,

811
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: stand up can be so isolating, so bullying, and so elitist,

812
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: and you're in groups and so you can't get in.

813
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: I still struggle with it to this day, even with success.

814
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: There are still some people that I'm just like, they're

815
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: the cool kids, and they always look at me and

816
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: roll their eyes at any success I have. It's just

817
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: and there's a part of me that I'm going to

818
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: prove them wrong. But in the end, I just now

819
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: I know those people are miserable and they don't like themselves.

820
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: Anyone that's like so mean to other people and thinks

821
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: they're so cool and has to make other people feel

822
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 1: bad and like you're not gonna sit at our table.

823
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: They're so miserable and they weren't loved. And I truly

824
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: know that now, But it's still fucking hard to get to.

825
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,720
Speaker 1: Let's take a quick break and come back with more questions.

826
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: This question seems great by the way, I love it.

827
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: Good enough us on all good topics. All right, we're back.

828
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 1: Let's uh, let's get some more questions. These are great.

829
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: Oh wait, are we not doing news at all? I

830
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: guess we'll just do the only questions. Okay, uh, here's

831
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: one from chel from Chelsea Vale. Do you think jealousy?

832
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: And Mr Brightside sounds like Chelsea. Can we hear it

833
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: jealousy turning seats into this? Yes? I do think you

834
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, all right, you have to

835
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: read it when you hear it. No, I absolutely will

836
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 1: never hear that song the same way again, Jelsey, because

837
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: they're British. If there's three syllables, though, I would say,

838
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: hey Chelsea, Hey, Chelsea was hair jealousy? No way, Yeah,

839
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: I bet my I told you this. I bet my

840
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: brother his hair jelly jealousy like hair like hair gel. No,

841
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 1: just hair jealousy because I thought which it should be about,

842
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: because that's what most men deal with and they had

843
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: nice hair. Actually hair jealousy. I back, you can trust

844
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: me not to and not fucking condition and if you

845
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: don't have a good hair line, I'm not gonna be threatening.

846
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 1: So all it really wants a thick old mullet mullet

847
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:55,720
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, thank you. I was trying to rhyme

848
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: something with mullet, but it wasn't gonna happen. Um, yes,

849
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 1: it does sound like that. Good question. Next question, Okay,

850
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: so here's one from Ellie Ciota at Ellie Ciota. How

851
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: do I make new friends as an older single woman

852
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: in her fifties in New York? Hmmm, Um, I would

853
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: man like COVID stuff, but I would well, things are

854
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: inching back to normal. The beauty thing, the beauty thing,

855
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: the beauty thing about New York. Yeah, the beauty beautiful

856
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: about New York. Yeah, there's millions of activities that if

857
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: you just pick what you are excited about, book club,

858
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: fucking whatever it is, yes, book because you're in your

859
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: fifty but just called meet up groups like meet up, Yeah,

860
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: go play fucking dodgeball, go fucking I don't know. Yeah.

861
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: I still get emails about a girl's beginning soccer, an

862
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 1: adult women's like to learn how to play soccer for

863
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: the first time in your life. And I still get

864
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: emails and was always like, got a different version of

865
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: myself would have made new friends that way. I think

866
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: that's a great way to meet people, especially at that age,

867
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, find some were you

868
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: passionate about and that you never got to do. Start

869
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: there and then people in that class we have similar

870
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: mind is you, and you'll probably end up being friends

871
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: with them. Go places alone because I think that people

872
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: are more apt to like involve you in their group

873
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: and like have you joined along? Did you see you

874
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: watched Unorthodox? Right? Yeah? No, have you seen Unorthodox is

875
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: an unorthodox r? I think it's just hey, not on

876
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,959
Speaker 1: a streamline. You know what I really liked about it.

877
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: I just started watching it. I'm only two episodes in,

878
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: but I liked how sty the girl when she goes

879
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: to Berlin, she is so she you know, she escapes

880
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: the her Williamsburg and in her life as an unorthodox

881
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: uh wife, and um, she escapes to Berlin. She's never

882
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,959
Speaker 1: communicated with like people who aren't Orthodox Jewish, She's never

883
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: done she's never talked anyone, and so she's so open

884
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 1: to meeting new people. She just like is at the

885
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: coffee shop and it's just like can I help you

886
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: carry those coffees? Like she was just friendly. And I

887
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: think that like, you just gotta take that. You gotta

888
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: take risks. You gotta be like Noah and go on

889
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: a blind day. You gotta do the thing that's telling

890
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: you don't go to that thing alone, don't strike up

891
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: the conversation, don't ask about that thing. Um. And also UM,

892
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:37,280
Speaker 1: I would say, if you have any like thing that

893
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: you struggle with, there are like twelve step groups that

894
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: are great places to meet friends if you want to

895
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: like meet with like minded people who might be struggling

896
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: with a similar thing. And it doesn't have to necessarily

897
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: be struggling to be um, like not an alcoholic or something.

898
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: There's like a group called alan On that is like

899
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: even if you had like an alcoholic aunt, you're qualified

900
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: to go and it's just people talking about being a

901
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: good human and it's pretty awesome. Also your expect patients like,

902
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how many friends you're gonna want, but

903
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't say. I just need like two

904
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: or three good ones. That's all you need. Don't think

905
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: like maybe now you're like newly single or did she

906
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: say that or she said you as single? But I

907
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: mean you need two or three. Just find two or

908
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: three people that you like hanging out with every five.

909
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: In New York, you can be fifty and be friends

910
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: with twenty year olds like I have. Yeah, in New York,

911
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: that's the best place to be because be open to

912
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,399
Speaker 1: any age, because there's twenty year olds living like fifth

913
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 1: year old or fifth year olds living like twenty year olds.

914
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 1: Like there's no you can really mix it up there.

915
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 1: It's a great place to be. A great question. Good luck, Okay, alright.

916
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: This is from at a Town Beads. If you weren't

917
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 1: in comedy, what would you do for a living? I

918
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: love that question? Andrew, what about you? Um, I don't know.

919
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 1: I did real estate before the older I get I

920
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: wasn't My mind wasn't ready for real estate at that time.

921
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: I never bought a house. I still don't. Only have

922
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: bought one condo, but like I kind of have an understand.

923
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: I like commercial real estate a little bit, like putting

924
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: together deals. I like figuring out, like who could buy

925
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: Like a good salesman. I'm not that good of a salesman.

926
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm a good I'm a good Like what is it

927
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: like a schmoozer. I'm a good schmoozer. Like you'd be

928
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: a good guy that takes the clients out and like

929
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: shows him a good time and it just like takes

930
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: him out on the golf course whatever that is. I'd

931
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: be great at that. The problem is is alcohol is

932
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: so involved in that ship, especially in real estate in

933
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: New York. But I do like I like getting in

934
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 1: my car and being like, oh, you gotta go look

935
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 1: at a property two hours away and like kind of

936
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: figure out, like that ship's fun, and then meeting up

937
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,720
Speaker 1: with the city and like, oh, that kind of stuff

938
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: is fun. So you think you'd be doing that. I

939
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: guess you want to be doing that. If you couldn't

940
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: do comedy and you couldn't do anything in the entertainment world,

941
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: what would you do right now if it was taken

942
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: from you? I mean I guess that. I guess that.

943
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 1: I mean it depends how much money I have in

944
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: the bank now too. I mean that's the other thing.

945
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: I know, the money thing comes into play. Uh No,

946
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: what about you if you couldn't do this job or

947
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: anything in radio like super Easy? I so badly, but

948
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: I don't have the discipline for school to study it.

949
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: But I so badly wanted to work in crime scene investigation. Okay, yes,

950
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: that's interesting to me. Do you listen to a lot

951
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: of murder podcasts and stuff like? Do you do you want?

952
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: I don't know you as a like a you know,

953
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: law and order SVU person No, because, um, I used

954
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: to really be into it with podcasts and stuff. I

955
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,879
Speaker 1: think because I work in podcasting, I don't really listen

956
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 1: to too many podcasts, um because I can't listen to

957
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: it while I work. Um, but I really um there.

958
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: So the field that I would would have gone into

959
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: is called sterrology, which is blood splatter analysis this and

960
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: you basically figure out that person and the murder happened

961
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: through the blood splatter and all that. How do you

962
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: say sorology? And are you good at science stuff? Would

963
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 1: you have done well in the classes that would you

964
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: know you'd have to do leading up to that? I

965
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: probably only would have done good in the classes with

966
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: the topics that I would have wanted to learn about,

967
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: but all the other stuff, I know, you have to

968
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: do all the other stuff before that. How do you

969
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: spell sorology? I don't even know? Like are s E

970
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 1: R O L O? So it's se r okay? God,

971
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 1: I just I just love Noah so much. I know,

972
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: isn't She's so fascinating because it's like either I'm going

973
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: to do a comedy podcast or I'm going to figure

974
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: out some blood. I'm gonna look at the way someone's

975
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: blood brain exploded on a wall to figure out. We're

976
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 1: going to tell some little jokes. It's it's that's my nightmare.

977
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:02,240
Speaker 1: By the way, really of crime scenes I I always

978
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: are trying to photos of Do you ever watch the

979
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 1: first forty eight? No? H that's a really good show

980
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 1: that really gets you into like what it looks like

981
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:15,479
Speaker 1: right away and all that stuff. That's more. Yeah. Most

982
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: recently I like Mine Hunter, But when I was younger,

983
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 1: I used to watch Autopsy, Forensic Files, like all those

984
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: shows on like the i D Network. Wow, Oh my god,

985
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: Well that's really cool. I love that answer. I would

986
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: not have guessed that for you. Mine is Yeah, let

987
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: me guess Andrew, if you weren't doing anything, I can't

988
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: do entertainment. Yeah, ship, I mean, I know you're a

989
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: teacher for a little while. It depends if you want

990
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: to make money. Oh, you'd be a psychologist. Um. I

991
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: think I probably would because it would be easier for

992
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 1: me than what I would really want to do. But

993
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: I'd want to be a podiatrist and like like scrape

994
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: people's foot legions all day long. It would be honestly

995
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: have it for me. I wonder if though, people that

996
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: get into that stuff because they love. They're really like satisfied.

997
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 1: They watch videos of it. Becauld you always find out

998
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: like when you do what you love, it takes some

999
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: of the fun out of it, like for a living

1000
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 1: like comedy I love obviously, but it's it's lost its

1001
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: glamour to me. But I wonder if scraping down people's

1002
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,760
Speaker 1: wards would ever lose its glamor. Man, I am so excited.

1003
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: A bestie is gonna let me get at her foot

1004
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: in Vancouver, and I can't fucking wait. Not just imagine

1005
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: a million are waiting for you there. I would I

1006
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: would love it. I mean, I'm I'm not kidding you.

1007
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: And I was kind of nervous about her work because

1008
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm going to send you a picture

1009
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: of it, like I asked her to send me a

1010
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: video of it, and I was like, kind of nervous

1011
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: that was gonna be one that I'm just like, I

1012
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,720
Speaker 1: don't really care, it's so good. And I was like, girl,

1013
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: I feel bad you even have to walk on that thing,

1014
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: and because I know how painful they are, but she

1015
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: says it's not causing her pain, and I cannot wait

1016
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: to get at it. And I don't know, like I'm

1017
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna bring like something to treat it with,

1018
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: Like I'm going to try to like actually, look at

1019
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: our look at the talents were coming to. If you

1020
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: have a war us, bring it backstage and I will

1021
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: scalpel it and break. And you have to just surrender

1022
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: the fact that I don't know what I'm doing, and

1023
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 1: I might. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I

1024
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: just want to get out it. Look if you heard

1025
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: someone Noah could figure it. I don't understand there's literally

1026
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: anyone who has like a sex fetish, there's anyone who

1027
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: will fulfill that for you. You You can, you can pay

1028
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 1: an escort to really do anything you want. But for

1029
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: someone like me whose deepest fantasies is scraping on a

1030
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: fort award, there is no way to do that without

1031
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: going to medical school or you can't go to I

1032
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: can't do it voluntarily, like for volunteer purposes, you have

1033
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: to have a degree. So it has to just have someone.

1034
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 1: You have to find a friend that trust you. So

1035
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 1: it's and none of my friends trust me, Like Robin

1036
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: even was like I wouldn't let you touch me with

1037
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: a thing. And I'm like, you're probably right, but I'm

1038
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: really excited that because we see you go after your

1039
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: own skin like a fucking banshee. Sometimes, yeah, I do,

1040
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: but it's so satisfying. Sometimes I watch you go after

1041
00:54:55,840 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: your nails with the fucking uh yeah talking to me

1042
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: like a nail. Let's go over jokes and I'm just

1043
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: looking at you, look going after your nail, try to

1044
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: get that hangnail and just rup it out. I mean,

1045
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure I do things that fucking make you want to.

1046
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: Let's get the next question. M hmm. Okay, um, one

1047
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: more question and then what we got to wrap this up.

1048
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: This has been fun and this is just a bonus.

1049
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: So if you didn't enjoy it, um, you're it almost

1050
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: didn't happen, and we're gonna do it tomorrow. Now. We'll

1051
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: be back tomorrow with the real podcast. This is from

1052
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: This is from Katie Kosik for Niki. Okay, maybe, Andrew,

1053
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,479
Speaker 1: what do you do to get out of looking down

1054
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: at the ground while playing guitar moments? M hmmm, well,

1055
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,399
Speaker 1: no one plays guitar too, so let's let's all talk

1056
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,399
Speaker 1: about this looking down while playing guitar moments. Oh oh,

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Speaker 1: I know what she's talking about when I was playing

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Speaker 1: guitar and I got sad and I looked down. Um,

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Speaker 1: I actually just I think you're talking about just depressive

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Speaker 1: moments in general, Like how do you get out of those?

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Speaker 1: The guitar moment was not so that was early. That

1062
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: was like almost like the the sniffles before cold Like

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Speaker 1: it was just felt really good to me just to

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Speaker 1: stare um for depression. I talk about it. I tell

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Speaker 1: everyone that will listen how bad I feel. And I'm

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Speaker 1: not asking for like them to solve it. I just

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Speaker 1: want them to, like, I just want to get honest

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Speaker 1: about it and like talk about how I'm really feeling.

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Speaker 1: And then there's something that lifts once you're able to

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Speaker 1: be like brutally honest about it that I found is

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Speaker 1: really soothing. But generally, I just tried to tell myself,

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Speaker 1: this isn't gonna last forever, um, and if it doesn't

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00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: get better, I could call a doctor. Honestly, I I

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00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: you got to get a doctor involved, you got to

1075
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 1: call someone and and and get some help. But um,

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Speaker 1: when I feel those thing, yeah, she's like no, I mean,

1077
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Speaker 1: like can you not how can I not stare in

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00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 1: my hands when I'm trying to do it in a

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Speaker 1: Um no, I just feel like, yeah, that's but I

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00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: just found like the freedom being honest with yourself about

1081
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: how you feel and other people without trying, without scaring them.

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00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: So when you sleep in a month later, they don't

1083
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: think you killed yourself. But like just being honest because

1084
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: it's not You're not a bad person to be really said,

1085
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: no matter what your your situation is. And also just

1086
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: get get help, you know, like and if it is guitar,

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00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: like just that simple, just like what that's what? Not

1088
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. If you're playing chords, it's easier.

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Speaker 1: You can't look up when you're reading the news. That's

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00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: what you want. I didn't lose my job. I gave

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00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: it away. There's two different stories. How do you get

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00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: out of depression when you're in it? Like when you

1093
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: don't you make fun of me for not being able

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00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: to read, that's it. Don't do that and give them.

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00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 1: Wait what do you really do? Yeah? No, I'm not

1096
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: trying to do that. But do I write letters? Um? Wait,

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Speaker 1: what do you do? I don't know. I try to,

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Speaker 1: Like I'll do an activity. I'll go hit golf balls,

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Speaker 1: I'll go to the gym. I'll try to better myself

1100
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Speaker 1: even if everything is telling you not to do it.

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00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: You'll always fucking feel better after you. Have you ever

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00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: felt like I should go do that and you just can't,

1103
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 1: And then what do you do with that? You just

1104
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: wait till you can. You just sucking jerk off and

1105
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: you fucking don't even clean up, and then you watch

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00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: a documentary and then you fall asleep with jis in

1107
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: your bed, and then you wake up and you go, man,

1108
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:40,959
Speaker 1: I'm still sad. And then you have some golf balls

1109
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 1: and you're like my hand and taking a shower. It's

1110
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: so hard to do, but it and you as a girl,

1111
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: you're like, I gotta blow dry my hair. Just like

1112
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 1: take a shower, Let your hair dry it the way

1113
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: it is, and actually try to fill in the scene

1114
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Speaker 1: in the shower like you're in if you can't get

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Speaker 1: yourself to really emote, just like try to like act

1116
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 1: like you're in a movie of someone who's suppressed, Like

1117
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Speaker 1: get it out and like just have will pass. Yes,

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Speaker 1: the thing that helps me a lot that it's gonna

1119
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Speaker 1: go that it's not always going to be this way,

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Speaker 1: because it wasn't always that way. I saw Tom Hanks

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00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: talking to other actors. He's like, when things are terrible,

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00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: you're not getting any jobs, everything's bad. This to show pass.

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00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: When things are feeling great, everything's wonderful. Just to show

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00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 1: pass always passes. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: enjoy it. But just know that these might be temporary

1126
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Speaker 1: feelings and you'll get through it whatever it is. Yeah,

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00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: and just try to talk to someone, anyone, even if

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Speaker 1: you know, fucking record a podcast to yourself, just verbalize it,

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Speaker 1: journal it. And if you can't do any of that,

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Speaker 1: ship be nice to yourself about not being able to

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Speaker 1: do anything, and just be like I can't. If I could,

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Speaker 1: I would, and just fucking be depressed and own it

1133
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: and wallow and feel bad for yourself to do all

1134
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Speaker 1: those things. Just don't be mean to yourself when you're depressed.

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Speaker 1: Don't it on yourself for not being what you need

1136
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Speaker 1: to be, not being able to get out of bed.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't add to it. You're already depressed. You already

1138
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 1: spilled water on your computer. You don't like use an analogy.

1139
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Speaker 1: When I spilled water on my computer, I wanted to

1140
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Speaker 1: like punish myself. I already lost my computer. Why punish

1141
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 1: yourself more. You're already depressed and you're you're feeling sad.

1142
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Speaker 1: Don't be mean to yourself on top of that, Please God,

1143
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: don't do that. And if it's a tough plane in eight,

1144
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Speaker 1: chording right and then just mute the the that's about um.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for your questions and for

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Speaker 1: being our besties, and we'll be back tomorrow with more show.

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Speaker 1: Uh don't be cat and I came up with it.