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Speaker 1: All right, this is from Cleveland in Naples.

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Speaker 2: Cleveland says, I usually give my wife money for Valentine's

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Speaker 2: Day and she buys whatever she wants. Last year, she

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Speaker 2: planned a girl's weekend in Miami with the money. She

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Speaker 2: and three of her girlfriends stayed in a suite that

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Speaker 2: she paid for. She also paid for the food and

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Speaker 2: the uber rides and did not ask for their money.

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Speaker 2: She tried to impress her broke girlfriends with my hard

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Speaker 2: earned money. So this year I gave her roses and

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Speaker 2: a pair of boots. She kept asking for her money

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Speaker 2: and she's been mad all weekend. I hope she learned

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Speaker 2: a lesson. Did I do the right thing?

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Speaker 3: No, bruh, you didn't do the right thing. See here's

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Speaker 3: what you can't do. Man.

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Speaker 4: You give your girl the gift of money. But she

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Speaker 4: did what she wanted to do. She spent it on

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Speaker 4: a trip, took our girlfriends, paid for the food, the room,

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Speaker 4: and all the ubers to impress her girlfriends. Maybe it

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Speaker 4: was just say, hey, look what my husband did for me.

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Speaker 4: Now you're gonna teach her a lesson because you don't

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Speaker 4: want her girlfriend's benefiting from it. So now you're the

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Speaker 4: boss up some little ugly boots she ain't want, and

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Speaker 4: some little flowers just already died.

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Speaker 3: The ugly dog dog, he don't know how bad.

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Speaker 4: That's why I been giving her money, because see what

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Speaker 4: had happened in the past, was he gave us stuff

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Speaker 4: she ain't like, so he said, man, let me just

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Speaker 4: give her money. She been happy. Now she was waiting

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Speaker 4: on the money so she could get to what she

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Speaker 4: wanted to do what she want.

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Speaker 3: Why would you try to teach her a lesson? What lesson?

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Speaker 3: What's the lesson?

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Speaker 2: And when give someone a gift, isn't it their gift

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Speaker 2: so they can do with it whatever?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so what do you want her to do with

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Speaker 4: the money? Buy some boots and some flowers?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's upset. All right, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 2: This is from Samaya and Stanford. Samaya says, I overheard

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Speaker 2: my husband telling her twelve year old daughter that boys

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Speaker 2: only want one thing from her. I think it's a

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Speaker 2: harsh conversation for a twelve year old. She had a

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Speaker 2: crush on a boy at school, and my husband has

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Speaker 2: ruined it for her. Her older cousin just had a

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Speaker 2: baby at age seventeen, so now she's scared it will

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Speaker 2: happen to her. My husband says it's his job as

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Speaker 2: a dad to say things like that to her. Was

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Speaker 2: he wrong or not?

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Speaker 3: He did the exact thing he's supposed to do.

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Speaker 1: As a dad. Absolutely, So now she's scared.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a father, and I want my daughter to be scared,

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Speaker 4: because if you're not scared, what little seventeen year old

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Speaker 4: girl does having a baby in high school, that could

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Speaker 4: be you see, I don't just see all this open parenting.

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Speaker 3: Just let them go and do what they want to do.

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Speaker 3: Have a bunch of people, people, you know, a bunch

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Speaker 3: of people, and that's the father's job. That's what men do.

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Speaker 4: Men want their daughters me and tell them because that

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Speaker 4: is what they want.

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Speaker 1: As a former young boy, yeah you should want the boy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's what I wanted. Didn't know what to do

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Speaker 4: if I had it.

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Speaker 1: But it so the mom should get on board with

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Speaker 1: her husband and.

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Speaker 4: Stop stop stopping these men from bringing to the table

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Speaker 4: the value that men can bring.

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Speaker 3: Because we know something about them. Boys. You don't, and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you to get out the way at

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Speaker 3: some point. So you're saying, you know, we want it

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Speaker 3: both ways.

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Speaker 2: You want the man to be there to be the

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Speaker 2: father and then when he's there doing fatherly advice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why didn't you want your daughter to be so

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Speaker 4: accommodating of this twelve year old boy?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. She thought the conversation was harsh, she she,

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Speaker 2: You know, maybe it was too harsh, but you know

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Speaker 2: what too rough.

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Speaker 4: To tell you, The harsh conversation is when you had

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Speaker 4: to take your daughter to the doctor and doctor say

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Speaker 4: you your daughter pregnant?

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So let the let the husband handle it how

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Speaker 2: he sees fit in.

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Speaker 1: This particular situation. If it's harsh, it's harsh, yes, harsh time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and the daughter got it because she's scared.

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Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, all right, thank you.

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