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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff

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Speaker 1: I've never told your production of I Heart Radio for

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Speaker 1: today is Monday, Minnie right after the gate. Just want

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Speaker 1: to say, maybe listen to this one before letting your

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Speaker 1: kids listen. This one maybe a little personal as well

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Speaker 1: as explicit. Not too explicit, but yes, I want to

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Speaker 1: put that warning there because today we're talking about horny

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Speaker 1: nous and particularly quarantine horniness and some personal experiences with it.

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Speaker 1: Um Because yeah, several outlets have been reporting on an

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Speaker 1: increase in horniness during this quarantine and why that might be,

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Speaker 1: and there's actually some science and we're going to get

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Speaker 1: into that in a little bit. Right. So, I know

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Speaker 1: you and I were talking about the Steve Correll episode

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Speaker 1: in which they're talking about there's more need for porn

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Speaker 1: and such. Right, so if you haven't seen that, club

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Speaker 1: is pretty funny. So but first, as per usual, let's

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Speaker 1: talk about definitions. So from dictionary dot com, parniness is

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Speaker 1: one being sexually aroused or provoking or intended to provoke

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Speaker 1: sexual arousal, or sexually eager or lustful. Lustful. Porn Hub

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Speaker 1: has seen an eight percent increase in traffic since the

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Speaker 1: pandemic has shut us down. And also there's already coronavirus porn,

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Speaker 1: which I expressed I was shocked at to Samantha and

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Speaker 1: she said, well, of course there is automatically automatically if

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Speaker 1: anybody in any kind of outlet would be the most relevant,

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Speaker 1: and on top of it, it would be the porn industry.

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Speaker 1: Do you think so? Oh? Absolutely well? Interesting only fans,

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Speaker 1: which is sort of a camp performer website reported a

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Speaker 1: seventy five increase over a month period, and some performers

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Speaker 1: have experienced such success they were able to pay off

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Speaker 1: their debts already. In the sales of sex toys has

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Speaker 1: gone up thirty percent at some sites. Searches for homemade

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Speaker 1: sex toys have skyrocketed. Homemade sex toys. Yeah, so it's

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Speaker 1: mostly people are using condoms over things like a cucumber. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so they're taking the like the trope of vegetables turning

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Speaker 1: into phallic subjects. Yeah, but I did see one for UM.

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Speaker 1: I didn't see. I haven't been searching this. No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I read in one of the articles for this episode. UM,

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Speaker 1: the expert said is if you're going to use an

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Speaker 1: guess sometimes need so not just vegetables, other things too.

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Speaker 1: Quarantine Gone Wild on reddits has popped up, and their

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Speaker 1: ads for quarantine bay on Craigslist. I did. I went

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Speaker 1: on a rabbit hole reading some of those. Um, some

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Speaker 1: experts are calling this quarantine cuffing season that one. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And we have seen arguments about sex toys not being

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Speaker 1: A lot of sex workers, strippers, jack performers are moving

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Speaker 1: that's happening to my only d M honestly though, has

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Speaker 1: sexting our chat rooms as opposed to meeting in person

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Speaker 1: trying to imply it's like me and a Star Wars outfit?

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Speaker 1: Just thinking is it like? Is it like a sex

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Speaker 1: That's um same it play like sexy cosplay. Yeah totally.

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Speaker 1: theories about why this is happening. One, there's more downtime,

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Speaker 1: And then again, like I said, more time with your partner,

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Speaker 1: And then fear of death. Yeah, so there's something called

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Speaker 1: the terror management theory are t MT. When faced with

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Speaker 1: our own mortality, we try different co being mechanisms and strategies,

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Speaker 1: They do involve similar physical responses. It's called excitation transfer.

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