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Speaker 1: Welcome to today's edition of the Clay Travis and Buck

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Speaker 1: Sexton Show podcast. Welcome in, Welcome in our number three

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Speaker 1: Clay's Travas Buck Sexton Show. We're both so fired up

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Speaker 1: for the start of hour three that we were ready

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Speaker 1: been breaking down a lot of different issues. By the way,

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Speaker 1: right now. What I can promise you is that you

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Speaker 1: will probably see us frequently attired in T shirts talking

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Speaker 1: into a microphone. But if that sounds super appealing to you,

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Speaker 1: it is your lucky day because you can watch all

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Speaker 1: three hours we've been talking about a variety of different topics.

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Speaker 1: It is Valentine's Day. As I started off the show

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Speaker 1: by saying, if you in your card right now, just

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Speaker 1: thought to yourself, Oh no, yeah, it's Valentine's Day, and

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Speaker 1: if you haven't already taken care of the woman in

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Speaker 1: your life, you are probably in for a rough day.

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Speaker 1: You better get on it. New York Third Congressional District

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Speaker 1: Santos's district eight point win for Democrats. Another seat of

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Speaker 1: the majority gone. One loss after another. It's important to

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Speaker 1: try to pay attention to all of these losses and think,

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Speaker 1: as we sit here nine months out, this is a

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Speaker 1: suburban Long Island district, wealthy, high white and Asian population,

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Speaker 1: A district that Santos won in twenty twenty two, a

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Speaker 1: district that Joe Biden won by ten points in twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty over Donald Trump. Eight point win for the Democrats

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Speaker 1: in this election. We're going to continue to hammer this

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Speaker 1: snowy day waiting till election day. It's not going to

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Speaker 1: be good enough to win in twenty twenty four. All

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Speaker 1: of you need to get your votes in. We got

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Speaker 1: let's see also the Majorcus impeachment. Neither Buck nor myself

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Speaker 1: is very optimistic that this is going to lead to

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Speaker 1: a significant political win. We've got Buck. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about this because we mentioned it yesterday. The Senate

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Speaker 1: has passed a ninety five point three billion dollar payment

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Speaker 1: your tax dollars going to fund the border and protect

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Speaker 1: the border of Ukraine, Taiwan, and Israel. Twenty two, I believe,

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Speaker 1: is the number Republican senators supported this bill. It's now

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Speaker 1: moving on to the House. Yesterday I was reading and

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Speaker 1: I just want to ask you.

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Speaker 2: I want all of.

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Speaker 1: You to think about this as a broad idea. We

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Speaker 1: are now thirty five trillion roughly in debt. When the

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Speaker 1: Tea Party started and became an issue, we were at

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Speaker 1: ten trillion dollars in debt. So we're averaging adding about

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Speaker 1: a trillion dollars a year to our national debt. I

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Speaker 1: saw a report from the Congressional Budget Office I was

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Speaker 1: reading about it yesterday, buck that we are on pace

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Speaker 1: to have a fifty four trillion dollar federal deficit a

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Speaker 1: decade from now. And my son is sixteen years old.

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Speaker 1: He's a sophomore in high school and he's just starting

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Speaker 1: to study economics, and we were having this conversation recently.

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Speaker 1: The dollar is the default currency for the world. What

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Speaker 1: happens if suddenly our foreign adversaries, who own trillions of

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Speaker 1: dollars in American debt. What happens buck if one day

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Speaker 1: they just decide they're not going to buy the debt

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Speaker 3: What you're talking about is the death of the dollars,

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Speaker 3: the global reserve currency, and the end of American dominance

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Speaker 3: in all respects, including our quality of life that we

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Speaker 3: have gotten very used to in this country where we

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Speaker 3: it doesn't really affect things for us. I mean, part

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Speaker 3: economy is not as good now as it should be.

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Speaker 3: And but you've spent some time in countries I'm sure

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Speaker 3: real economic reversal looks like, and it is a shocking thing.

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Speaker 3: It is a devastating thing to that nation. And I

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Speaker 3: think that unfortunately, right now, we don't have.

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Speaker 3: We don't have people who are willing to make decisions

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Speaker 3: people who are much more concerned about climate, it seems,

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Speaker 3: climate is changing, it has always changing, Yes, of course

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Speaker 3: it changes. There's no real threat to humanity into us whatsoever.

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Speaker 3: The other thing is a mathematical certainty that the debt

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Speaker 3: as well. But I can sit here and talk about it,

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Speaker 3: and we could talk about where the debt was in

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Speaker 1: Versus where it is now. I think it was what

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Speaker 3: So you know, we talked about this, and look, you

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Speaker 3: know one way that one way that Trump hit Ron

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Speaker 3: DeSantis right away and it was effective, was Ron wanted

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Speaker 3: to cut in titlements. Even among Republicans. This is some

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Speaker 3: real talk. Even among Republicans. You want to win, say

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Speaker 3: you won't touch entitlement spending, You say you won't touch

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Speaker 1: As long as that continues, we're just gonna get I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be overly fatalistic about it, but

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Speaker 3: maybe maybe that's what I'm being. Until people feel pain,

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Speaker 3: they won't change. And the problem with this is once

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Speaker 3: you start to feel the pain, then the change is late.

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Speaker 1: Too late. It's all too late. This is where we are,

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Speaker 1: you know, think about that.

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Speaker 3: I mean Trump has said I won't touch your your

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Speaker 3: social security, I won't touch your Medicare, I won't touch

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Speaker 3: you know, entitlement spending. I won't touch a retirement age.

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Speaker 3: And that's a Republican from outside the establishment. And anyone

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Speaker 3: they'll lose if they say they want to touch any

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Speaker 3: people always say, Clay, I've paid into this my whole life.

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Speaker 3: Social Security is fixable, and that's doable. You just make

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Speaker 3: some change. You do a little bit of means testing

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Speaker 3: you get out the actuarial table it's not the end

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Speaker 3: I've been paying into it. The average person, the average

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Speaker 3: vast majority of that spending comes in the last six

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Speaker 3: months of life. Yeah, so we have to fix these

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Speaker 3: want to fix it, You're a bad person. You say

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Speaker 3: you want to change it. You know, you and I

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Speaker 3: are getting older. You know at some point we're gonna

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Speaker 3: want medicare too. I want it to be there, and

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. Man, we sit here, we talk

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Speaker 1: about it. Look at this foreign spending we're doing. Why

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Speaker 1: that's why give me any of these countries.

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Speaker 3: And to notice, is there anyone who has been more

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Speaker 3: vocally in support of Israel? Well, period, but also since

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Speaker 3: October seventh, then we have been on this show. I

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Speaker 3: don't think yesterday. I tell there's a Look, what do

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Speaker 3: you mean you're talking? Israel's a wealthy country. Why are

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Speaker 3: it three billion dollars every year? And it's not just Israel.

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Speaker 3: Why are we giving sixty billion dollars to Ukraine? Why

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Speaker 3: in total? What are we are you getting for this?

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Speaker 3: I agree completely, and I think it. Look if you want.

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Speaker 1: To give to charity, because let's be honest, that's basically

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Speaker 1: what we're doing here, then most of you, if you

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Speaker 1: donate to charity. In fact, your husband or wife, if

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Speaker 1: give five thousand dollars in charity on the credit card,

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Speaker 1: every single one of you out there would look at

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Speaker 1: your spouse like they were absolutely insane if you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do in your household what the United States government is

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Speaker 1: doing for our entire household and buck. I don't see

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Speaker 1: this as democrat. I don't see this as republican. I

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Speaker 1: don't see this as independent. To me, anyone voting to

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Speaker 1: thirty five trillion dollars in debt. I think your analogy

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Speaker 1: with global warming is it's a really good one. One

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Speaker 1: of the biggest issues in life. This is me giving

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Speaker 1: you a little bit of a ted talk. Is most

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Speaker 1: people fear things which in reality are not threats to them,

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Speaker 1: things that are never going to be an issue in

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Speaker 1: your life. You and I are in our forties. I've

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Speaker 1: got three kids, sixteen, thirteen, and nine. I'm building a

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Speaker 1: rising oceans. All right, maybe it's going to be an

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Speaker 1: one hundred trillion dollars in debt. And if you don't

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Speaker 1: think that our adversaries out there are not planning on

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Speaker 1: bankrupting this country, everybody wants to talk about, Oh there's

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Speaker 1: a new threat from Russia. Oh there's a new threat

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Speaker 1: from China. Today the big looming asteroid that is aimed

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Speaker 1: biggest single expenditure that this country has. Well, this is

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Speaker 3: There's a long history of this of fiat currency. You

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Speaker 3: is not backed by anything, what happens. Inflation happens, and

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Speaker 3: inflation we all know what that does, particularly to the

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Speaker 3: to check it. Even in a republic like ours, right

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Speaker 3: even in a system where the people who are suffering

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Speaker 3: they need to solve the problem because the person who says,

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Speaker 3: keep eating those treats. They won't make you fat. Keep

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Speaker 3: eating a whole chocolate cake every night. There's no problem

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Speaker 3: with it. That person wins because they're appealing to the

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Speaker 1: There's never a day, there's never a day, Carol where

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Speaker 4: But I love Mother's Day and Mother's Day. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to. Fuck, this is what you have to

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Speaker 1: be on the ball for when you start having kids.

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Speaker 3: Indeed, she's in our podcast room everybody, so make sure

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Speaker 3: you subscribe to the Clay and Buck podcast with the

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Speaker 3: Carol Markowitz Show, which is doing great download numbers already

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Speaker 3: because all of you are enjoying it so much, So

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Speaker 3: please go check that out.

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Speaker 1: Carol.

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Speaker 3: We think it's so important you and tutor our ladies

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Speaker 3: who add that lady's touch, that lady's voice into the

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Speaker 3: mix here because it was a little guy heavy. Well,

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Speaker 3: I guess it's always guy heavy here on the radio,

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Speaker 3: but little guy, have you talking about Valentine's but I

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Speaker 3: want to offer you this. Tracy our VIP also put

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Speaker 3: this out there. What do you think about this suggestion?

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Speaker 3: She wrote in After seeing how frustrative men were and

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Speaker 3: realizing how ridiculous this holiday is, I decided to give

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Speaker 3: my husband a get out of jail free card and

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Speaker 3: hold him the hold him for the only holiday we

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Speaker 3: would celebrate is our anniversary, as it is our day,

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Speaker 3: not some crazy retail holiday.

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Speaker 1: We've been married forty four years this week.

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Speaker 3: I know I made his life much better by eliminating

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Speaker 3: this pressure for Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: What do you make of it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well that's what we do in our relationship too.

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Speaker 4: Our anniversary is a big deal. My birthday is a

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Speaker 4: big deal. Again, Mother's Day is a big deal. But

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Speaker 4: these other holidays we literally don't even acknowledge it. Like

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Speaker 4: we did not wish each other a happy Valentine's Day today.

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Speaker 4: You know what I have enjoyed Like in the past,

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Speaker 4: when we first got married, you know, we didn't celebrate

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Speaker 4: Valentine's Day. I said I wasn't into it, and my

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Speaker 4: husband was obviously really happy to hear that. But then

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Speaker 4: like a few years in, like on February twelfth. I'd

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Speaker 4: like to I'd like to say, like, oh, hey, what

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Speaker 4: are we doing for Valentine's Day? And watch the look

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Speaker 4: of like fear in his face. It's a really good time.

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Speaker 1: It only works once or twice, but that is fantom

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Speaker 1: by the way, I didn't even think about the anniversary.

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Speaker 1: Women just stack a series of obligations on men who

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Speaker 1: were birthday to like, so many different things out there

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Speaker 1: that we are awful at, and it's like a constant

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Speaker 1: test that we fail. And I don't understand, Like there's

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Speaker 1: no equivalent that men do to women, right, Like, there's

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Speaker 1: no day that I can point to and say, if

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Speaker 1: you care about me, you will be perfect on this day.

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Speaker 4: Right. No, Again, we have higher expectations and that's the

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Speaker 4: way it works. You know, are your low The low

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Speaker 4: expectations that we have of men never works out for them.

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Speaker 4: They need that higher bar to clear. It's part of

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Speaker 4: the whole, you know, evolution of the species.

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Speaker 1: Carol, What do you got on the podcast people have?

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Speaker 1: For people who have not yet listened to your podcast,

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Speaker 1: what will they find when they go listen to it?

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Speaker 1: In the Clay and Buck feed.

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Speaker 4: It's a podcast about life It's a podcast where I

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Speaker 4: ask people about how they got to where they are

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Speaker 4: in their career, whether they think that they've made it,

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Speaker 4: you know, suggestions that they have for my listeners on

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Speaker 4: how they can improve their lives. I've gotten so many

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Speaker 4: people messaging me. I generally end with the question, that's

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Speaker 4: a tip for my listeners to improve their lives. And

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Speaker 4: I hear from people all the time that they're using

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Speaker 4: those tips. And the one that I hear about the

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Speaker 4: most is the Buck Sexton tip where he said that

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Speaker 4: he reads before bed and it puts him like in

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Speaker 4: a better place before sleep. I started doing it. I

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Speaker 4: mean a lot of people that write to me have

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Speaker 4: done it, and you know, I think that that's an

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Speaker 4: easy have changed in your life. It's a podcast about

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Speaker 4: life in our crazy world, and I want people to

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Speaker 4: be able to benefit from it and note.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, Carol.

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Speaker 3: By the way, I just tell everybody that is I

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Speaker 3: think it's a game changer. It's also part of my

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Speaker 3: and this gets me heat. This gets me heat from people, Carol.

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Speaker 3: No TV in the bedroom. I tell people no TV

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Speaker 3: in the bedroom, because you know what you're doing if

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Speaker 3: there's no TV in the bedroom, Reading sleeping or cuddling

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Speaker 3: or cuddling.

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Speaker 1: Those are the things you are doing. You're not.

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Speaker 3: There's a TV room, it should not be the bedroom.

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Speaker 3: It all ties into my read before you go to sleep.

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Speaker 3: I have a Kindle, I put it on the low

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Speaker 3: light setting, I pass out like a baby. I read

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Speaker 3: for twenty or thirty minutes, no problem, going to sleep

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Speaker 3: every night, and I end up reading two three books

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Speaker 3: a month that way every month, just from that. So,

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad that your people have found that to

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Speaker 3: be your listeners to be used to, and everyone should

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Speaker 3: go check out the Carol mark WIT's podcast. I'm waiting

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Speaker 3: for Carrie to come home any minute. I'm just desperate

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Speaker 3: that she get home Clay before the puppy figures out

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Speaker 3: that there's this big thing that looks like it might

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Speaker 3: be fun to chew in the middle of the table

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Speaker 3: because she technically can't get up there, but she's like

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Speaker 3: a velociraptor in Jurassic Park. She finds out how to

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Speaker 3: open doors and move chairs. Carol, thank you for being here.

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Speaker 3: Subscribe to the Carol We actually just subscribe to Clay

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Speaker 3: and Buck podcast, and then listen to the Carol Markowitz Show, which.

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Speaker 1: Is in there, Carol, thank you so much. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: tell your husband I was at the super Bowl and

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Speaker 1: I'd love to see him there, but since he's a

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Speaker 1: Cowboys fan, I never will mean Clay very mean, no,

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Speaker 1: and all serious is havy. Valentine's Day to you and

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Speaker 1: all these women out there whose husbands are going to

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Speaker 1: forget to tell. They're driving around right now, panicked that

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Speaker 1: it is Valentine's Day and they have no idea what

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Speaker 1: a memorable gift to give is. They're going to be

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Speaker 1: scrambling headed too the grocery store to try to grab

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Speaker 1: some roses, the picked over roses, the ones that nobody

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Speaker 1: else wanted. That all the men who loved the women

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Speaker 1: in their lives, they already got the great flowers. You've got,

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Speaker 1: like the really not very good little balloon with the

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Speaker 1: sad saying on it. You got the bad but draggled

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Speaker 1: not that great flower still available there. How about legacy box.

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Speaker 1: You can pretend right now. You can pretend that you

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Speaker 1: a month ago decided that the perfect gift for Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day was to preserve all your family memories. Your wife

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Speaker 1: or girlfriend isn't listening right now, you can claim that

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Speaker 1: you have been thinking about her for Valentines and that

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Speaker 1: you decided the best thing you could ever do for

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Speaker 1: her and for your family was to preserve all your

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Speaker 1: family memories. She won't even know that you heard me

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Speaker 1: at two forty five on the afternoon of Valentine's unless

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Speaker 1: she listens. She won't even know that you waited until

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Speaker 1: the absolute last minute. She might by your argument that

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Speaker 1: you hooked up the family a month ago with legacy Box.

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Speaker 1: Look all you gotta do go on right now legacybox

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Speaker 1: dot com, slash clay. You can get your order, you

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Speaker 1: can take a picture of it, you can print it off,

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Speaker 1: you can put it in an envelope, and you can

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Speaker 1: pretend that you were prepared for Valentine's Day long ago.

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Speaker 1: My gift to you is your family's memories preserved forever

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Speaker 1: and keeping you out of the doghouse on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Legacybox dot com, slash Clay, Legacy box dot com slash

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Speaker 1: And we also say this, by the way, somebody might

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Speaker 1: have done this buck and now they're gonna get the

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Speaker 1: wife hearing they might have done this a month ago,

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Speaker 1: and it's the perfect gift. And now the wife is

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Speaker 1: gonna think you're just doing it today, so I will

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Speaker 1: if this is you, I will personally apologize to your

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Speaker 1: wife or girlfriend or family member if I have just

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Speaker 1: ruined your Valentine. They give for the rest of you

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Speaker 1: poor bastards out there that didn't take care of Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Legacybox dot com slash Clay. That's Legacy box dot com

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Speaker 1: slash Clay. Sometimes all you can do is laugh, and

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Speaker 1: they do a lot of it with the Sunday Hang

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Speaker 1: Join Clay and Buck as they laugh it up in

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Speaker 1: the Clay and Buck podcast feed on the iHeartRadio app

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Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 3: We are closing up shop today on Clay and Buck

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day Ash Wednesday as well. By the way, great

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Speaker 3: song bringing us back right here. We're ending on a

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Speaker 3: happy song. I gotta go get some ashes. Those are

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Speaker 3: separate thoughts. By the way, I'm just thinking out loud,

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Speaker 3: and we're going to take some email, some calls close

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Speaker 3: us out here. I thought it was very good to

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Speaker 3: get Carol's perspective on all this, and I would just

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Speaker 3: say for all the ladies out there, go easy on

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Speaker 3: your guy today if he's if he makes an effort

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Speaker 3: that's it is really a thought that counts kind of

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Speaker 3: a day. And you know I I I'm a believer,

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Speaker 3: for example, And we don't even do adult Christmas presence

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Speaker 3: meaning sorry, Christmas presence for adults.

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Speaker 1: Among members of my you know, my family.

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Speaker 3: We don't, you know, makes it sound like we're giving

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Speaker 3: boozs to each other or something, but no, we don't

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Speaker 3: give presents to each other because we want it to

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Speaker 3: be about spending time with each other. So I think

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Speaker 3: a flower, a kiss, a kiss, a you know, thank

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Speaker 3: you for being my everything. That's that's what it should

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Speaker 3: really be about today. Except we've been a little cynical today, Clay,

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Speaker 3: So I think we need to keep everybody on the

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Speaker 3: same page with that. We have a nice song there

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Speaker 3: to get us in the right mood. And Damon writes

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Speaker 3: in uh, el Fitzger, el Fitzgerald, good choice, Buck or

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Speaker 3: Sarah Vaughan. But Clay probably doesn't know who they are.

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Speaker 3: I think that's unfair, Damon. I think Clay knows who

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Speaker 3: they are. Who is the second person?

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Speaker 1: Sarah Vaughan. I never have heard of Sarah Vaughan in

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Speaker 1: my life. I know Ella Fitzgerald, Sarah Vaughan. I mean

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Speaker 1: that could be like a girl that was in my

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Speaker 1: high school algebra.

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Speaker 5: Class is sometimes sometimes you guys roll a grenade in

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Speaker 5: the trench and I hop on it for Clay and

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Speaker 5: Clay's like, you didn't have to do that, buddy, Like you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I mean you didn't know who Morgan Walland was.

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Speaker 1: I mean Sara von Alive tilt to nobody. No, no,

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Speaker 1: but nobody from New York City knows who Morgan. Morgan

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Speaker 1: Walland would sell out the Giants or Jets Stadium if

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Speaker 1: he had a concert there next week.

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Speaker 3: From people who don't live in New York City but

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Speaker 3: would travel there from the from the area.

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Speaker 1: I really he would sell out Madison Square Garden only

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Speaker 1: with people from the Upper east Side.

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Speaker 3: That's a bold statement. I mean, I don't know if

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Speaker 3: we could ever try that out, But I like where

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Speaker 3: her head's at on this one. Rachel in northern California

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Speaker 3: has a Valentine's Day thought for us.

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, So I'd like to add to the conversation

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Speaker 6: that earlier she was tucking about Halloween.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't focus.

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Speaker 2: On Valentine's DA because it's you know, yes, it's a

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Speaker 2: commercial one. My Keance, I would tell him that you

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Speaker 2: know it's it's not important either, and he said, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: you're my Valentine every day of the year. And I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, okay, you just you just got me.

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Speaker 1: When's the wedding? When's the wedding? When is your wedding?

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Speaker 6: Way, okay, Yes, we are engaged, but you know, life

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Speaker 6: happens sometimes, so we are still saving.

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Speaker 4: For the wedding.

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Speaker 1: So you don't know the date yet.

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Speaker 6: No, And now I'm okay with that because we have

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Speaker 6: both been married before.

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Speaker 2: And we said, it's not like we're going anywhere.

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Speaker 1: So how long have you been engaged?

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Speaker 2: Now we've been engaged since twoy twenty, so it's.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, I'm just gonna say, Rachel, I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna say three year going on a four your engagement.

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Speaker 1: I understand that weddings are expensive. I think you have

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Speaker 1: to you gotta nail him down to a day go time.

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Speaker 6: No, it will it's probably need to because he is

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Speaker 6: he there?

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Speaker 3: Do do we want to put him on the This

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Speaker 3: is like one of these love line shows. You want

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Speaker 3: to put him on the phone, Clay and I will

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Speaker 3: talk to him.

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Speaker 1: Well, set him.

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Speaker 6: I wish I could, but he is hard working right now.

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Speaker 2: So he is at work and I am a state.

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Speaker 2: I am a stay at home.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, we we appreciate you calling in, Rachel, make

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Speaker 1: happy VALENTI.

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Speaker 3: We're telling him. We're telling him that it's it's go time.

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Speaker 3: Clan buck, say it's go time. What what is the

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Speaker 3: as a man? How long were you engaged to carry? Oh?

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Speaker 3: We got, I mean we got, we got engaged, not

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Speaker 3: that long. It was a short engagement, six months, nothing

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Speaker 3: like that. I got to the map.

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Speaker 1: I was engaged I think a year, which I think,

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Speaker 1: given I had no idea what goes into a wedding. Frankly,

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Speaker 1: I still don't know. Nine months I was now I

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Speaker 1: was nine months, But yeah, I think I was about

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Speaker 1: a year. I think you're getting in and Rachel called

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Speaker 1: in fourth year of engagement. That's a long engagement. So

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Speaker 1: I get the saving up. I would rather, if I

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Speaker 1: were giving wedding advice, I would rather have a tiny wedding,

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Speaker 1: save the money for a down payment on a house.

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Speaker 1: I would even encourage my own kids to a lope. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna end up paying for everything anyway, even though

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Speaker 1: it's usually the bride's family that pays. I guarantee I'm

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Speaker 1: paying for every wedding. I'm a big fan.

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Speaker 3: Of throw a fun party for the engagement, throw a

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Speaker 3: small intimate family thing for the wedding, just throwing it

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Speaker 3: out there, everybody.

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Speaker 1: Good luck surviving Valentine's