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Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with IR Radio. The stars

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Speaker 1: have aligned, the people have come out, and we have

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Speaker 1: started Colton season of the Batchelor. I'm here with my

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Speaker 1: favorite co host, Ashley Kennetie, you don't have much of

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Speaker 1: a choice. There a couple of years now and you

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Speaker 1: hear a couple of laughs in the background. Please introduce yourselves.

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Speaker 1: This is Garrett. You're going hello. I am Becka Kouffrin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your last name has never appeared on any Bachelor saying no,

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Speaker 1: no one knows my last name. Nobody knows how to

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Speaker 1: say your last name. Coop cooing, Okay, I think they

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Speaker 1: may have gone over this on our podcast before. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: the reason I didn't introduce him is because I have

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Speaker 1: no idea how to seek your last name. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: know we've got the cookfering thing on on the podcast,

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Speaker 1: but we've definitely knocked over how to say garrett sname. Garrett,

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Speaker 1: say your lesson again. You're going, You're going in, You're

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Speaker 1: to take that challenging name, Garrett? Um, Well, we've talked

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Speaker 1: about hyphenating koufreing. You're going. I don't know how long

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Speaker 1: that to your kids. That's what I talked to her

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Speaker 1: but I kind of want to keep both of us in.

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Speaker 1: hyphen name, I think, and you're going, we go with

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Speaker 1: your going for the kids. Yeah, I literally cannot think

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Speaker 1: on their toes. It'll keep the printing press in business,

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Speaker 1: especially with the sweatshirts with the last name on the back.

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Speaker 1: It'll be we'll make it work. Um, that's not a

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Speaker 1: bad people, that's really good. That was good. Ever. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's gonna be great on this. So we've brought the

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Speaker 1: two of them out to co host Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: as we love to during the Bachelor's season. We love

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Speaker 1: fans favorites. We saw a lot of fan favorites to

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Speaker 1: he's like, what, Like, you're chomping. It's disgusting. Sometimes you'll

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Speaker 1: like see it in his mouth. That's all that's really,

424
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Speaker 1: That's it. I know. I wish I could be more entertaining,

425
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: but I don't hop on right now. There's a couple

426
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Speaker 1: of things I don't I don't do this. I have

427
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: so many weird, gross, disgusting habits. I gross myself out often.

428
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Speaker 1: There is one that my buddy just told his wife

429
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Speaker 1: and he hit it from her for years. He when

430
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Speaker 1: he's in a car, he drives a lot for work

431
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 1: or whatever, and if he doesn't have a cleanex he

432
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 1: picks his nose and to get rid of it, he

433
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 1: wipes it underneath the driver's seat, which I don't think

434
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Speaker 1: is uncommon because I know other people that do do that.

435
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Speaker 1: So that's one of those things I'm kind of thinking about.

436
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Speaker 1: It's like that seems to be something that we gross

437
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Speaker 1: me out. I just asked, please don't do that. Yeah,

438
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Speaker 1: underneath that you kind of like reach under He just

439
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 1: he just told her about the yeah, and then you

440
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: can clean it off. I feel like I'm kind of

441
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 1: like you. Actually, we're we're pretty honest just because we're

442
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: together twenty four seven that there's really nothing I can

443
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: get past this guy. But um sometimes and he actually

444
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: did realize this once when we were in Reno because

445
00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: my allergies were terrible, terrible, my sinuses were so bad

446
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: and my nose was just running that I like, I

447
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 1: like to do this on my own two but I'll

448
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: stick balls of toilet paper up my I do that

449
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: when I'm really you know, yeah, it catches it all.

450
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: It's like I don't want to keep like blowing and

451
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: rubbing my nose because it hurts. I just stick it

452
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,239
Speaker 1: up there. He finally saw it once and that's your

453
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: body telling you gotta get rid of it. Yeah, it is, Yeah,

454
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: even if it's in your sleeve. Yeah. Yeah, I'll say that.

455
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: This month, Jared and I have started saying like I

456
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: gotta go poop instead of saying like I gotta go

457
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. It's just like, uh, sorry, don't go

458
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 1: in there. Bombed it. That's like a recent development, you guys,

459
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: this is love. Why don't we okay, do you guys

460
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 1: remember on the show they would use code like ten

461
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: one to go, number one, ten to to go, And

462
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 1: so I'm like, why don't we just say that instead

463
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: of being like, I don't know. We were trying to

464
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: be secreted for a while, but we could have just

465
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: said that. I just you know, I know that it's

466
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Speaker 1: a normal bodily version, and I'm like, okay, I gotta go. Yeah.

467
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: In his intro package, he showed the blowout bathroom. That

468
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: remember that that was impressed. I do remember that that

469
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: stood out to me it's weird so to kind of

470
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: transition out to the Bachelor. For all of us that

471
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: have been a part of the show, anybody listens, I

472
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 1: bet this episode I'm gonna do it over under. I

473
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: about this episode gets five listens. What do you think,

474
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: Eastern He's shaking his head. Yeah, no doubt. I'm gonna

475
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: say just on that dot and I think so too.

476
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Speaker 1: I think as we really close. But for any out

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Speaker 1: there listening, please right into bed An Ashley, iHeart media

478
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Speaker 1: dot com. Uh. Any of your weird habits that you

479
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,160
Speaker 1: haven't told your partner you want to tell your partner,

480
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: but a little behind the scenes on the Bachelor, as

481
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: Becca was alluding to, you obviously have to use the restroom.

482
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: There's two hundred people on the crew. When you're the

483
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: lead of the Bachelor Bachelorette, you have a whole team

484
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: of people around you most of the time. Actually, for me,

485
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 1: they knew that my like weakness was I have to

486
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: get along. I don't do well around crowds. Forever. I

487
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: can do it for a while, but I so what

488
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: do they do? They stuck a person with me at

489
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: all times, when I went to the bathroom, when I

490
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: slept there, was somebody not with more like farther than

491
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Speaker 1: ten yards from me. So that brings up a good point, right,

492
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 1: you have men and women that are become friends and family.

493
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Speaker 1: At this point, I would say it's about ten people

494
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 1: around the bachelor. Bachelor at all times you have to

495
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: use the restroom, they all are gonna know. And then

496
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: they're not just gonna know, No, they're gonna send the

497
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: signal out, Hey, Ben's got a ten to for the

498
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: next twenty five minutes. Pause everything. So you do, you

499
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Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, You walk out to two people

500
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: with cameras just going like, how was it? It was good?

501
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: But say sometimes when you need that alone time. I

502
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 1: used to say I need a tend to just so

503
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: I could go and take a chill there, like my

504
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: time minutes. I haven't really just meditated in the bathroom.

505
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 1: When I first met her, she took really long showers.

506
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: But then I realized that she was the trick the

507
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: at the beginning of a relationship, it's always I'm gonna

508
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: hold this in until it's appropriate to take a shower,

509
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: or I can't take a shower tice and it you know,

510
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's so awkward. Loves such a weird thing. Yea.

511
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: I feel like though you get so used to it,

512
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: like you guys get it because you're around people all

513
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: the time. Then now it's just like my norm. So

514
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: I'll talk about it with my friends. Are Like even today,

515
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: in front of all the strangers, I was like, sorry,

516
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 1: I got to go to the bathroom. Everyone's like okay,

517
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, yea, can you hide me in

518
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: the men's bathroom? Sorry. He was my bodyguard outside so

519
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: he wouldn't let any voice come in. I would say,

520
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: the show got me a lot more comfortable being around

521
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: anybody else. Again, if you're listening right now, make sure

522
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Speaker 1: your emails with all your weird habits, all your gross

523
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Speaker 1: disgusting things that make us human have been a n

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Speaker 1: Ashley I heart Meadia dot com Ashley. Yeah. One thing

525
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Speaker 1: that doesn't make you disgusting. One thing that actually, I

526
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Speaker 1: feel like really enhances you as a person is the

527
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Speaker 1: fashion in the clothes you wear. Oh, thank you. I

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Speaker 1: you know that be on average, we throw out eighty

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Speaker 1: stuff extends the life of that item by two point

532
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Speaker 1: two years, and it reduces the eco impact by seventy

533
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Speaker 1: three percent. This year, I'm giving myself, my wallet, and

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Speaker 1: my closet a fresh start by giving secondhand clothes a

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Speaker 1: new life with thread Up. Speaking of rewearing things, I'll

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Speaker 1: just let you guys know the dress that I wore tonight.

537
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Speaker 1: I wore dur in Paradise too. I am all about

538
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562
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Speaker 1: a second, the dog is standing there beside Jared for

563
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: like two minutes before you notice Jared is watching TV.

564
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: That dog then starts in to look at them. Now

565
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: that's a cute of thing. So anyways, if this makes it, um,

566
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: Jared is sitting out there, we have a big window

567
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: to where he's at. There's this random like kind of

568
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: like German shepherd looking dog that was standing right with

569
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: sign him and Jared didn't see him. And then the

570
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: dog like sniffed Jared's hand and Jared doesn't know we're

571
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: watching him, but he's just loving on this dog and

572
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: playing with this dog it is and Ashley is like,

573
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I feel like it's getting

574
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: hot in here because Ashley is heated up with our

575
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: new baby dog, Like I look as if he's with

576
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: our baby girl. So it was very adorable. I think,

577
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: did I tell you this that once we got this

578
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: girl dog and he's never had a girl dog before,

579
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: he all of a sudden goes, I kind of want

580
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: a baby girl now, Like all of a sudden, he

581
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: wants to have a girl first. Jared just cut alright, Hey,

582
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: we've got to dig in. We've got to get gossipy,

583
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: we've got to get juicy. We've got to talk about

584
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. That's why we're here. That's why you're listening.

585
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: Becca and Garrett. It's been great to catch up with

586
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: both of you. Congratulations on the next steps. You're here

587
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: to talk about the Bachelor now though, Okay, um, Colton

588
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: season just started. I think actually tell me if I'm wrong,

589
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you lead this segment because you understand

590
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: the Bachelor a lot better than the Bachelor. That is

591
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: not true. That's actually good point. Let's start from the beginning. Okay,

592
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,479
Speaker 1: I think Colton walking in this storyline has been and

593
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: and most of the country is gonna say it tonight

594
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: way overplayed the virgin thing. I thought they would pull

595
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: back a lot for the episode. I really did. I

596
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: thought they would say I thought this show would be like,

597
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: we get it, the storylines out there, and they just

598
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: pushed it forward. So there's two things I want to

599
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: talk about. One, is it too much? Is it intriguing

600
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: to you at all? Is it interesting? Second? Is there

601
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: a such thing as virgin shaming? So I think let's

602
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: start with hasn't been overplayed? Is it appropriate? And is

603
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: it intriguing? Okay, well, I guess I'll start. I. I

604
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: just think it's so overboard, especially at this point when

605
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: we've seen so many on the show. There was a

606
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: Sadie Murray who was on our show. There is me

607
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: and Becca, there's Kristen, and now there's Colton. And it's like, okay, well,

608
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: if you have like five from the past decade, why

609
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: is that so fascinating? Why do we have to continue

610
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: to harp on It's obviously not that rare of a thing.

611
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: And maybe more I want to add, there could be

612
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: more virgins who just didn't feel like it was appropriate

613
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: to talk about it on national TV. You were comfortable

614
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: in it I'm glad you were used to up. We've

615
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: had many girls call in and say thank you, Ashley,

616
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: but yeah, you can name five. I bet there's more.

617
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure there is, especially who like left early and

618
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: they never really divulged into their personal stuff, I think.

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Speaker 1: And I told this to Colton when he first told

620
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Speaker 1: me that he was a virgin in the Bahamas, and

621
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: then even after that we talked at mental all and

622
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: we're friends zoned, so we've talked about it. And when

623
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: he told me that he felt he was in a

624
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: safe place, we were at the point in the relationship

625
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: where he wanted me to know, and to me, it

626
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: wasn't a big deal. And to me, that's just a

627
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: part of who someone is. It's their decision, but it

628
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: doesn't make up their entire person. And so it's like, yeah,

629
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Speaker 1: of course he divulged that, but there's so much more

630
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Speaker 1: to Colton than just being the virgin. And so I

631
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: kind of hope and this would be my wish that like,

632
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: so for my season they played up. The first night

633
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: was of course not only the breakup with Ari, but

634
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: the whole let's do the damn thing. Like I had

635
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 1: to say that so many times and I'm like, good, gracious,

636
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: I never want to say this again, but for the

637
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,959
Speaker 1: show aspect, you kind of have to play it up.

638
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: It's like a one and done type thing. And so

639
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: maybe fingers crossed, that could be the case for this,

640
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: or you know, he can have a conversation with a

641
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: girl or two that he gets into stronger relationship with.

642
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: But I don't think it needs to be like the

643
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: entire storyline. I think, and I've read things like people

644
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: think that it's not going to be Colton's journey to

645
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: find love. It's going to be Colton's virginity story, and

646
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: that's not what it needs to be about. Do you

647
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: wish you wouldn't have told you? No, No, I'm glad

648
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: that he told me, and and like I said, we've

649
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: had conversations since then, and so I just feel humbled

650
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,959
Speaker 1: that he felt comfortable to tell me that. And so

651
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: if he felt comfortable in not only expressing it to me,

652
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: but knowing it was going to be played out on

653
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: national television, then that's his prerogative. And um, you know, again,

654
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: he knew it was for a TV show, so it

655
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: would be played up a bit. But I don't think

656
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: it needs to be as extreme as it is, and

657
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: there's one thing that's really upsetting me, then I want

658
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: to move in the virgin shaming and don't hear from

659
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: every ready. I don't like this, and I could be

660
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: completely off. I feel things sometimes it doesn't make sense.

661
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: I don't love that there's women on the show saying

662
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: I'm going to take his virginity, or when I'm gonna

663
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: when he loses virginat me, I'm gonna oil him up

664
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: to try to get him hot and bothered and all

665
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: that stuff. I feel really disgusted by that for some reason.

666
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: I feel like that's we're crossing a bou Andre in

667
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: a line now where this is something Colton's held on too,

668
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: And I think as we get through the season here,

669
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna learn a lot more of why he's a virgin. Right.

670
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: It's not because he can't have sex with a woman.

671
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: I'm sure he's had his opportunities, um and I'm sure

672
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: he desires it, but it's been a personal choice by him.

673
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: I hate that there's verbage and people out there on

674
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: the show, and also that they're playing it with the

675
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: women going I'm gonna take his virginity. Think about what

676
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: you're saying there. What you're saying is absolutely disgusting, um

677
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: and not okay with me. And I can't quite put

678
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: into words why it's so upsetting, but I know when

679
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 1: I watched the episode to night, there was something about

680
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: it that just made me feel dirty. Well, And I

681
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: think it's the fact that for people to say that,

682
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: it's like, that's very one sided. If if a man

683
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: were to say that about a woman, he would be ridiculed.

684
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, could you imagine how that would go over?

685
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: And so no, he wouldn't live it down. And so

686
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: I don't think it's right for just because it's a

687
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: girl or a female to say that that it makes

688
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: it okay. I think it's like, hey, people, it takes

689
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: two to tango. You both have to have a mutual

690
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: decision in us and so if Colton chose to do

691
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: that with somebody, then hopefully you both have talked about

692
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: that and that's for the both of you. But for

693
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: somebody to be like I'm gonna take that, or I'm

694
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: gonna take this, or I'm gonna steal his virginia, it's

695
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: like that's not your place. You just met the guy, Like,

696
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: feel it out a little bit. You know that's just

697
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: that's there for probably the wrong the wrong thing I

698
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: think for him too, And I don't know. Yeah, and

699
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: if it is discussing like you were saying that, you

700
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 1: just go on there and then you just throw it

701
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: around like I don't know, that's something that he's lived

702
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: by for a while. You know, you just go on

703
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: there and say, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna take it.

704
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one that does it. I'm gonna

705
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: pull him up, I'm gonna get him in there. I

706
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: can't wait to get him in the fantasy suits because

707
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna do. I don't think that's right.

708
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,280
Speaker 1: I will say, like I've made comments in the past

709
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: where I've been like, oh, I'd kiss him, or like

710
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: I would do this or something. But to say like

711
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this or like I'm gonna steal that

712
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: that's something that's that important to someone, it's has a

713
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: different connotation. I think. I think, like you said, the

714
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: first episode, the first episode, in my opinion, is absolutely terrible.

715
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: Actually knows this. I hate the first episode. I'd prefer

716
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: every season of every season, not just this season of

717
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: every season. I just think it's weird and awkward, but

718
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: I hope that this stops. Like this is just feels dirty.

719
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: I'm concerned it's not so I would think, Okay, we've

720
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: dealt with it on beck of season. We touched on

721
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: it a little bit in Paradise, and now, of course

722
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna make the first episode about it and then

723
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: we should be done with it. But based on the

724
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: preview that we saw, I'm scared that it's far from done.

725
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: And it's not just going to be a fantasy suite thing.

726
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: It's gonna be it's I'm gonna it's gonna carry on

727
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: throughout the entire season. I actually I was doing a

728
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: press thing and I think this must be out there.

729
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: In episode two, they go around the circle and I

730
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: don't know it's a circle, but the group date is

731
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: girls sharing their first time stories with Megan Malawe like

732
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: it's a joke, and it's just like, why do we

733
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: keep playing this theme? Here's where it's personal me though.

734
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:02,879
Speaker 1: So I was asked if I was a virgin during

735
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: Caitlyn season. Nobody remembers it. I told her lovable in

736
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: her response, which there was more wording, but one of

737
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 1: her responses and I know. She didn't love this part

738
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: was are you a virgin? I responded in honest way

739
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: and said, no, I'm not. I don't know how that

740
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: has to do with me. I'm feeling unlovable, but whatever

741
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: that works, here's my issue. And this is where the

742
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: show gets personal. It shows funny, it's weird, it's awkward.

743
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: You guys met, and like, that's awesome for all of

744
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: you in this room. There's love that can exist from

745
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: the show, and it identifies at the large piece piece

746
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: of my life, with or without a relationship. But there

747
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: are kids watching. They're teenagers watching this show. The show

748
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: knows that, right, ABC knows that, and there's kids out

749
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: there watching and seeing that. It's this thing that like

750
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: Colton's a little bit kind of being made fun of.

751
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: The women are kind of saying, I can't wait to

752
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 1: take his virginity. All the presses about is the a

753
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: virgin or not? Where it feels like to me being

754
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: a virgin, Yes, it might be maybe not the norm

755
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: or the majority, but it feels like something that is

756
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 1: so strange and weird. If I was a virgin, I'd

757
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: be questioning myself and and I'm a thirty year old man,

758
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: I'd questioned myself, that's where for me, this whole thing

759
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: needs to stop, because there's kids, men and women both watching,

760
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: going well, he's the bachelor, he's cool, and he's a virgin,

761
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: and people making fun of him for it. So I

762
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: have so much to say about that because I think

763
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 1: that that's the way the show has portrayed it, being

764
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: like this is weird. It's so weird, we're going to

765
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: talk about it all the time, and we all I've

766
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: been pretty open about I'm not one to usually say

767
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: like there's editing involving blah blah blah. But that scene

768
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: of yours during last season, I imagine had which time

769
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,479
Speaker 1: so it wasn't pure. Can we just say that scene

770
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: wasn't pure? And I got so fired up over that

771
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: because in that moment, I felt like they were virgin

772
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 1: shaming him. I will say that, even though it's brought

773
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: up a zillion billion times, what I do think the

774
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: audience takes away from it usually is, oh, Wow, this

775
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: person is really attractive and they're really cool, and they're

776
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: really open and honest about their virginity, and that makes

777
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: me feel okay about it. That's the response that I've

778
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: gotten lots of girls and moms coming up to me

779
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: and thanking me for being so open about it. But

780
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: I do think that the show, for some reason doesn't

781
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: want to portray it the way that I'm losing My

782
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: train of you know what I mean? Is starting to

783
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 1: feel different. I just feel like every time the show

784
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: brings it up, they make it seem like it's a

785
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: weird thing. But then I hope that the people are

786
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: sitting at home think of it as a good thing

787
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: and they look beyond the way. I can't underestimate how

788
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: much this show influences people's thoughts. You can't. So that's

789
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: where this gets weird for me. There isn't that such

790
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: thing as very written shaming. I'm not going to claim

791
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: that the show is doing it. I think we're getting close.

792
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: But did you want to say anything about that scene?

793
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: I will just say I received a ton of backlash

794
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: and for how it was aired and throughout every single

795
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 1: day throughout the entire season. There are so many times

796
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: where I'll take a break to go to the bathroom,

797
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: or the guy that I'm on a date with we'll

798
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, or we want to eat something,

799
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: or you have to break for interviews. So there's a

800
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: lot of weaving that happened. So that particular instance I

801
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: think came across poorly, which I've said before and again

802
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, I didn't judge

803
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: Colton whatsoever for being a virgin. I respected him, I

804
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: think more for telling me that, and we had conversations

805
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: off camera more about it where he gave a little

806
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 1: bit more insight. And so at the end of the day, like,

807
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: it's our relationship and and no one else. If he

808
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: were to be the one at the end of it, it

809
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: it would be no one else in that relationship with us.

810
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: And so if we're okay moving forward and we both

811
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: accept each other for who we are, and then that's

812
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: really all that matters. And so um, yeah, the way

813
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: it played out, I didn't love um, But Colton I

814
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: had many conversations about it, and he's like, look, I

815
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: know how it went down. You know how it went down.

816
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: I respected your side of how you handle things, and

817
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: so that's really all that we can take from that.

818
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 1: I think it's it's no one else in that relationship

819
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: at that point, Garrett, How was it standing beside your

820
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 1: woman as this whole Like all this went down kind of.

821
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: I mean, she obviously is still a piece of this

822
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 1: season because Colton was on her season the batchlor how

823
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: was it stand upsider tonight or just in just in general,

824
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 1: just in general? I mean, seeing like when people lash

825
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: out at her and stuff like that was always tough

826
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: because there's no way to defend that, I guess or

827
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how to defend that. So just being

828
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: supportive and the same thing with her to me is

829
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: just being supportive of one another. But um, yeah, I

830
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: mean it was definitely something that I've never experienced before.

831
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: And I think that that's something that we have in

832
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: common in this room, is that we've gone through relationships

833
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: that a lot of people haven't gone through before, where

834
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: everything is just looked through through like a magnifying glass,

835
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 1: and everything that you do is just like, I don't know,

836
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: people pick it apart. Anything that you do is picked apart.

837
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: So oh, that was definitely something new for me to

838
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: have to like figure that out and juggle that and

839
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: be by her side through everything and just knowing like

840
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: whatever she posted was gonna get picked apart, whatever she

841
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: wore was gonna get picked apart, what she said, how

842
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: she handled herself on the show the dates, how she

843
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: like let people go, so something that I had to

844
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: like grow in the relationship and do something completely different.

845
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: It was really weird for me, to be honest. So

846
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: it's had a weird deal for anybody. Actually, I've said it,

847
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: you know, as we've done the podcast. I don't know

848
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: how many seasons this has been. I mean, this has

849
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: been going on since forever, um the Almost Fased podcast.

850
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: The true mark of a good lead is not how

851
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: charismatic they are likable, they are right, that's that can

852
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: all be. That's hard to display sometimes on television. It's

853
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: the response to difficult situations. How do they respond when

854
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: things get heated, tough, confusing when you know you're in

855
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: love with a bunch of people, you're trying figure out

856
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: who's right one at the end, and I thought, Becca,

857
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: you did really well with this One's particularly because this

858
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: is still a storyline, it exists today, and you handled

859
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: it really well. Yeah, that scene is different and you

860
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: know obviously didn't play out like it really was in

861
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: real life. But with all to say, that's not the

862
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: defining moment for your season, right, you end up with

863
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 1: this good looking guy over here and you guys. Um

864
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: to move on a little bit. I want to use

865
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: this segment to be critical of Colton. We were all

866
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 1: big fans of Colton. We think he did a great

867
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: job to night, but we have to be a little critical.

868
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 1: So find something I'm gonna start. I think I think

869
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: Colton handled himself really well. I think Colton is going

870
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: to struggle through the season with what we're talking about

871
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: and how he responds to difficult situations. That's gonna be

872
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: really intriguing to me because it's it's he hasn't done

873
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: it great in the past. But I like Colton. He

874
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: uses the word awesome too much. To night. Every single

875
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: girl that walked by that was awesome. That dress is awesome.

876
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: She was awesome, super awesome. So many awesome mine. So

877
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 1: we all have it right, You see that when you

878
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: when you do is I licked my lips all the

879
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: time when I would get nervous, and so you'd like,

880
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: do this upload my face. I'm just like, I'm looking

881
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: my lips. I think I thought it was sexy. It

882
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: was just super awkward. Um, so we all have those

883
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: little things. That's my thing for Colton. He needs to

884
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: stop saying awesome. He said, awesome all the time. Actually, Okay, well, um,

885
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: I think we've seen it with Bachelor's in the past.

886
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: They usually say you've interrupted enough, let this girl have

887
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: her time. He allowed that girl to interrupt four times,

888
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: which I think, you know, I mean, we all know

889
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 1: there will be the interrupter on night one, but he

890
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: never said it's enough down, just let it happen. I

891
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: think that's a good question. Okay, I'm not gonna lie.

892
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: I didn't. That's actually the thing I said way too

893
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: much my season. I'm not gonna lie. But I didn't

894
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: see all that much of the episode ten because we

895
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: were with you guys at the party and there's a

896
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: lot going on with all of the fans. Um, so

897
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,280
Speaker 1: the parts that I did catch, I couldn't really also

898
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: here because I'm kind of definite. Okay, what do you

899
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: think he will struggle out? I think the thing that

900
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: and I've talked to him about this before, is, I mean,

901
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: everyone loves social media. It's very prevalent, and it's easy

902
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: to get wrapped up in the comments and what people

903
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: say and how they react to certain things. And I think,

904
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 1: and this is what I learned too, is sometimes it's

905
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: okay to stay silent and to not respond and to

906
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:26,959
Speaker 1: not get so invested and respond to everything that you want.

907
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: And so I think it'll be a learning and experience

908
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 1: for him. And I think he has done a better

909
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: job too, and he's expressed that to me before. But

910
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: just taking a step back sometimes and realizing that the

911
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: majority of people hope, hopefully, hope for his happiness, want

912
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 1: the best friend, want him to find love and really

913
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: find a person that he's compatible with. UM. But there's

914
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: gonna be the haters, and there's gonna be the negative negativity, UM.

915
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: And so just step away from that and not worry

916
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: and fix it on that as much. It's a good

917
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: lesson for anybody in this. You know, it's funny you

918
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: get likes and ten negative comments and you're sponding negative comments.

919
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: I do see that. What's it's a little side thing.

920
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: You guys are all more up to this, and I don't.

921
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: This is what I thought about today, and we'll jump

922
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: back into the back room. What's up with all these

923
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: people now responding on all the questions on Instagram? That

924
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: seems exhausting to me. I see, like Nick does it?

925
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: You know really well? I read his stuff because he's

926
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: wise and he's good and he responds great, but it

927
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: looks exhausting. You have like thirty questions that you're answering

928
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: all the day, like what well, my well, my favorite

929
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: podcasts and comedians. Chrystalia goes, you must be really obsessed

930
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: with yourself. You must have the biggest ego in the world.

931
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: If you're like, ask me questions about myself, it's a thing.

932
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: Now say like, I'll do it. I try to make

933
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: it more like about beauty stuff or like wedding stuff,

934
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: so it's not like ask me about me, but it

935
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 1: is kind of fun. It's fun, it is. Garrett and

936
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: I did our first one. We had a we were

937
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: driving from northern California down to I think a layer

938
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: ocean side and it's a long drive and we were bored.

939
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 1: Garrett had been driving for hours, and I was like, hey, guys,

940
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: let us know what karaoke song you want us to sing?

941
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: And so we got a lot of responses with that,

942
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: so we kind of made it fun Terry's singing involved.

943
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 1: So that's the first time. I didn't even know how

944
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 1: to find the responses. At first, It's like, how the

945
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 1: hell do I do this? But I couldn't figure that out. Yeah,

946
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: that's weird. Is I think that people are clever in

947
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: a sense that what you just said, You're like, why

948
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: do people get ten negative comments and they take their

949
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: time to respond to those? People are clever. I think

950
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: that sometimes they'll write something so negative to to get

951
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: a response and be like, oh my god, then just

952
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: wrote me back, when really they don't even have that

953
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: much hates for you, but they just write something to

954
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: get a response because that's what they see. That's what

955
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: arouses your interests. This whole social media think exhaust me

956
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 1: now because I don't think it's cool. I wish I

957
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: was better. But as you're talking here, you you all

958
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: have fun with it. I read next every time because

959
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: he's wise and he's smart and he's witty, and all

960
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 1: these people are doing it. I'm not saying it's a

961
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: bad thing. I think if this is the new expectation

962
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: for people coming off the show, like if Colton is

963
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: now expected to respond to a thousand questions a day

964
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: on his Instagram, that's where I check out saying that's

965
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: definitely one of those things you do when you're born.

966
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: You want to have, like play a game. I think

967
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: if it more as like a game, because you know that.

968
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: I love the question game. Here, I'll ask random questions.

969
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: I could go up to somebody on the street and

970
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: truly be interested in what their favorite movie is or

971
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: what their favorite food is. I don't know, it just

972
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: like a human curiosity. I love just questions and this

973
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: random nance game. My gosh, you and my mom would

974
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: get along. She is the question queen. I could just

975
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 1: go up to someone like, do you like talk about

976
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: or del taco? Do you like what McDonald's like? I

977
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: don't know. It's truly fascinates me. That's why actually is

978
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: the best co host. Why don't you guys play? Would

979
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: you rather we do? Right now? There's just so much

980
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 1: to talk about. It's literally on the Bachelor season. This

981
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 1: this episode is going to be a four hours long Um,

982
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: I have a five thirty am wake up calls. I know,

983
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 1: so five th day in wake call. This is what

984
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: I'm doing. Fall those almost famous listeners and myself. By

985
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: the way, once again, being in Park City, I get

986
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: more people coming up to me when I'm out here

987
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: saying we listen to the podcast. It's still the weirdest

988
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,240
Speaker 1: thing ever. So thank you all the Park City listeners.

989
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: Thinks all the people coming out tonight and let us

990
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: know that you still love this podcast. Hey, let's jump

991
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: into the girls here. We just gave Coulton a little criticism.

992
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 1: Let's just do a blanket statement, say we all think

993
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: he's gonna do great. Uh, it's night one. We don't

994
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: really have an opinion on what he's gonna do well

995
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: or not. Night one's just weird. It's just responding to

996
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 1: a bunch of people getting out of a limo. Will

997
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: continue to update you on what Colton is going to

998
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 1: do great as the season continues. Let's talk about the girls.

999
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: One of my favorite parts about Night one is getting

1000
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: to see all the new jobs we have. Content creators.

1001
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: We have, you know, fitness experts, we have actually just

1002
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,359
Speaker 1: have a lot of content creators um which is a

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Speaker 1: new career path in two thousand nine Team, if you're

1004
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Speaker 1: also looking for a job, or if you're actually trying

1005
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 1: to find a new hire, and if you're on The Bachelor, Garrett,

1006
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: have you heard I have kicking off two thousand nine

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Speaker 1: hire for figuring out who you need to hire to

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Speaker 1: take your business to the next level. In two nine team.

1010
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: I truly believe this Garrett would take your business to

1011
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: the next level, So hit him up. You know what

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Speaker 1: got a brain, a face, and a great fiance to

1045
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Speaker 1: support him by his side. Um, let's move into the girls.

1046
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: She says, I don't have the hair though you got

1047
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: green hair, but he'll bring the comedic relief. She's like,

1048
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: your hair is super puffy, and I was like, there's

1049
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Speaker 1: nothing I can do. Butter it was like very high

1050
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: tonight before he left, questioned, do you get offended if

1051
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: she tries to fix your hair? Oh, Jared can't stand it. No,

1052
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 1: I just this is the only thing that gets me though,

1053
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 1: is if she gets her fingers in there, and then

1054
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what it looks. Just as

1055
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 1: long as I know what it looks like, I don't mind.

1056
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: Yeah it looks good man, you have I like that.

1057
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: I like Ben's hair long. Yeah. I lost a lot

1058
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: of hair after the show. I grew back. Did you

1059
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: get any grays in there? Oh? I'm not kidding. I

1060
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: literally I was looking at a picture actually this is

1061
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,200
Speaker 1: wild from like one of our first photo shootings, and

1062
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: I looked, I've lost my hair and it grew back

1063
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: because of the stress I was losing hair fat. You

1064
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: really think you grew it all back or most of

1065
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: the most of it back? Oh, definitely if you look

1066
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: at compared like side by side pictures. I remember this

1067
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: with Caitlin during her season The Bachelor. She got off

1068
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: and I saw her and and she had like literally

1069
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: would like her hair was so thin because of stress.

1070
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: Did you lose club hair now? I didn't lose hair.

1071
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: Do you lose weight gain weight? Well, I gained weight too,

1072
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: I think right like those last couple of weeks, I

1073
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: was okay. We were entiling in the Maldives, so I

1074
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: was eating peter bread and rice and noodles NonStop. But

1075
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: I think because of the stressful the last couple of weeks,

1076
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: I lost weight. But then I came back to the

1077
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: States and gained it back right away, plump, because then

1078
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: I was happy and in love. Yeah, yeah, and love.

1079
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 1: It is stressful. It's a stressful experience. These women that

1080
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 1: got a woman and I are about to enter into

1081
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: this whole beast of a world. We have women whose

1082
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: moms are in federal prison. Is that Weir was a

1083
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: walking phone calling her? Yeah? I agree, I saw that one.

1084
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: It's just a weird it's a weird, shocking. Next time

1085
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: that I might get to see my mom might be

1086
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: with Colton when she gets out of prison. Yeah, that's tough.

1087
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: I wonder how long she's been in jail? Did we do?

1088
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: We know that. I don't think it was from bezzlement,

1089
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: tax fraud or something. You know, you never know with

1090
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: how long does last. But it is crazy to think

1091
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: of how that storyline now gets brought into a nine

1092
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: million people's television. I'm gonna say, what do you guys

1093
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: think like going out in the beginning and getting it

1094
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: out there and the letting people know, or is that

1095
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: something that once it gets there, then you let people know.

1096
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: I have this weird not weird. I have this theory

1097
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: that you try to protect the people that didn't sign

1098
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: up for the show. Yeah, as best you can. You're

1099
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 1: obviously not gonna be do perfect. And I called out

1100
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: my college girlfriend that I would love and it destroyed

1101
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: her for a little. She's good with it now, we're

1102
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: good friends. But at the time she's like, what the

1103
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: hell are you doing? You called me a monster on

1104
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, Like, oh my god, you did I did

1105
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:05,399
Speaker 1: no monster, I broke my heart. Don't do that. Okay, okay,

1106
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: but this girl obviously got permission from her mom, and

1107
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: her mom was probably like, yeah, you use me. It

1108
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: will help you get on the show. Hopefully, Yeah, hopefully

1109
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: she's gonna get a prison with a couple of things. Okay,

1110
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: So with the we have a couple of misses on

1111
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: this season. We have missed Carolina and then another one

1112
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: was Miss Obama Alabama or something like that. Yeah, some

1113
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: southern state. So there's there's obviously they hinted it at

1114
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: like some drama between them. Well, I would say it's

1115
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: light drama because Kaylin was the runner up, so obviously

1116
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 1: in some form of life, she's already beat Hannah at something.

1117
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,720
Speaker 1: And I think this is just a theory of mine

1118
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 1: that this insecurity is going to follow Hannah throughout this experience,

1119
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: especially after she sees that Kaylin got a kiss on

1120
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 1: night one. It's gonna it's gonna rise up. I have theory.

1121
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm making them up. I'm really making up for the

1122
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: sake of drama. This is my theory. I actually it's

1123
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: wild how many times you're right. You're pretty good at

1124
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: this um. But there's a lot of mrs Miss Caroline

1125
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: and Miss Alabama. They're they're they're in competition with each other.

1126
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: There was that glare a night when you saw it.

1127
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: Why were your sash? Why aspect of that? Why? How

1128
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: would I did say that? I think Miss Colton Underwood

1129
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: and it went from Miss um Miss South Miss Alabama

1130
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: to Miss cold Underwood. I was like, excuse me, that

1131
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: would be Mrs I didn't know that. Damn. Yeah, that's aggressive.

1132
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: That makes me turn around. There's a couple of sashes

1133
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: night or did it turn around? It turned around? It

1134
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: turned around? Little flip switch and pull it clever though,

1135
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 1: that little thing the sash um. Maybe the most intriguing

1136
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: of the night is a sloth. She got sent home, obviously,

1137
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: but we talked about her. She bought it. I will share.

1138
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: I am a sucker for a costume. I think every season,

1139
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 1: and people might hate me for saying this, every season

1140
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: needs a costume. Well apparently so and um. When I

1141
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: was on ri a season, I don't think any of

1142
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: the girls were a costume. I mean, Amily's anilies came

1143
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: in with the bandit mask, but that was you know,

1144
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't a full costume. I was hoping for the

1145
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: Alexis shark slash dolphin costume. We didn't get that. But

1146
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: then I had David in the Chicken, which I just

1147
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: appreciate it. And it keeps you warm because at night

1148
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: it usually gets cold. They're so cold. Can we bring

1149
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: up something that is so often forgotten? Jojo showed up

1150
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: on your season wearing a unicorn masks us Jojo. She

1151
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: covered her beautiful her face, but she'll be word out

1152
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: of the limo, right, not something like a plastic thing.

1153
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: Didn't usually make you wear it all night. I think

1154
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: it's I mean, I think it's up to you. The

1155
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: slot just felt like she just bought in, which is

1156
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: if you mean, for so many reasons, that's weird. It's

1157
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 1: your first date. I will say. Here's the thing though,

1158
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: on my first one on one date with Colton, when

1159
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: we were in where were we, oh Las Vegas, We're

1160
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: writing camels, there was a sloth on the premise and

1161
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: uh he Colton held the sloth and played with the

1162
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: sloth and loved the sloth, and so he talked about that.

1163
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 1: So maybe the producers had some insight to help out

1164
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: a little bit. I think because he mentioned, he goes

1165
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: it's my second favorite animal behind dogs. Yeah, maybe the

1166
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: next Bachelor of Bachelorette. Nobody should know and it should

1167
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: be a costume. So when you get out of the

1168
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: fantastic is it you can't see it all night? Sudden carrots?

1169
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: We three slot twists. It is this is one of

1170
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 1: the guys from the previous season. We're gonna mask him

1171
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 1: and then um mask his voice. It's like, what's the

1172
00:58:55,920 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: TV show? The proposal mixed with The Bachelor's weird because

1173
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: the proposal was made by the same people that make

1174
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. So we are onto something. We are gonna

1175
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: stop talking about this almost. Yeah, we're walking. This is

1176
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: gonna be a late night for us. We're creating a

1177
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: television show. We can pick up the costumes for everyone.

1178
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: We're not gonna need a wake up call. You're just

1179
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: gonna go right. I'm gonna go right towards tomorrow. It's

1180
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: going to the slot costumes and leaf um let's. Uh. So,

1181
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 1: we talked about the talk about the mrs. We talked

1182
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: about federal prison, we talked about the virgin talk. Is

1183
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: there anything else from night one that really stood out

1184
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 1: to you? I'm gonna start guess who my favorite was. Oh, actually,

1185
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: this is gonna be so easy for you, Brie. I'm

1186
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: a brief fan. That's his look. That's really that's I'm

1187
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: a brief fan. Yeah. She had an Australian accent tonight. Yeah.

1188
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: I don't know how far she'll go. I'm always wrong

1189
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: on this stuff. I remember last I think it was

1190
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: I think it was last year. Your favorite you would

1191
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 1: choose already? Season my four top my top four on

1192
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: this podcast all got eliminated Night one. So it's like

1193
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: an accent like Breeze that you would make or keep

1194
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: talking in that act. She should have stayed with that

1195
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: for three or four weeks and then just dropped it

1196
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: to see, yeah, and then see if they really liked

1197
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: each other. Uh okay, So I was a fan of

1198
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: bree Hannah was great. Who else stood out to you all?

1199
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 1: I liked Calin. I think she's stunning, and I felt

1200
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: like their connection was the most warm um natural. And

1201
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: then that that kiss, to me felt more like it

1202
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: was a kiss that was supposed to happen to Night one.

1203
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: The other two felt a little bit more forced. Me

1204
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: mm hmmm. I didn't see that much. I saw the

1205
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: Cinderella entrance, which I'm surprised that that hasn't happened earlier

1206
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 1: in any of the seasons. I bet you could find

1207
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 1: something like it. I know who you all like. I

1208
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 1: was astonished how that hadn't happened. Yeah, you don't think

1209
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: it's ever happened before, maybe like before we ever watched. Really,

1210
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm surprised. And she left the shoe behind I thought,

1211
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I thought that was good and clever, but simple.

1212
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe gets kicked out. She's gone where he

1213
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 1: opened the box and he's like, what's in here? No,

1214
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 1: the butterflies one was good. But the other one where

1215
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: she's like, I got you, oh, your favorite underwear. That's

1216
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: your favorite underwear and there's nothing in the box. That's good?

1217
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: That was that. I like that one. It wasn't too

1218
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 1: dirty and it was it was. It was good. I

1219
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: also feel like he was more of himself. You kind

1220
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: of saw this he I thought he did a good

1221
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: job at night one of not being like too uptight.

1222
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: He kind of relaxed. But you really saw him relax

1223
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 1: with the blonde when he started like touching his face. Cassie,

1224
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: Cassie Rudolph, I think here's her name. I really thought

1225
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 1: that moment made me like her a lot because I

1226
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 1: can see something there. It was really cute. You definitely

1227
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: felt the chemistry in that moment. What I thought was

1228
01:01:56,920 --> 01:02:00,080
Speaker 1: really distasteful was that girl who brought the balloon and

1229
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 1: as a cherry and that I popped your cherry and

1230
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: then he goes, I think that was an apple, which

1231
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 1: I've obsessed with the fact that they said that. I

1232
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 1: think he did because we talked to him a couple

1233
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 1: of weeks ago, and he was telling us about some

1234
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 1: of the entrances and he's like, dude, that one completely

1235
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 1: went over my head. I did not get it that

1236
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: first until she's like, oh, popped. It happens. There's so

1237
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: much happening. There's so much going on and that, and

1238
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: you want to be present, but you're super nervous. It's

1239
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: just like you have to and and keep in mind,

1240
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: four other people are watching you in the limo as

1241
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 1: you're interacting with these people. So there's just a lot happening.

1242
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: So like if I was in Golden's place, that would

1243
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 1: have gone over my head too. There's a lot that

1244
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: I missed night one. Trust me, I faked until I

1245
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: made it. Um, we don't know we know who Colton

1246
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: has slept with. We don't know where he sleeps. Wait,

1247
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: why we know that who he slept with? Nobody? Okay,

1248
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 1: speaking of going over your head, we don't know where

1249
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: he sleeps. But if we had a choice or the

1250
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: ability to recommend something to him, I would tell Colton

1251
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: to sleep on What asked was about to tell you, Yeah,

1252
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: sleep number, your favorite bed my favorite bedber number? Do

1253
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: you look at you had? The couple's addition he is

1254
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 1: so flat that I looked over one time, Smart that

1255
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: I looked over and I saw just her nose. Do

1256
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: you like a firm you know? I between like, Actually,

1257
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 1: it's a very forward. Actually, I was getting text messages

1258
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,080
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Speaker 1: nearest to you. I don't know what's happening. Actually did

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Speaker 1: not have anything to say with that. Is that been

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Speaker 1: with one? Ear two? It's one? All right, everybody, we

1281
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: gotta get Garrett and Becca to bed. I know Ashley's

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01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: man is sitting outside the room petting a dog, waiting

1283
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: for her to get done. To finish up Pulton's night one.

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01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: We would be missed to not talk about the preview

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01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: for the season. I think that's how we should call

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01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: us out. You know, there's a couple of things that

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01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: sit out to us, Ashley and I. As we watched

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01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: first episode, all the girls were in sequence right now,

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01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 1: it must be a thing? Yes or no? Ashley? Is

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01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 1: it a thing? Sequence are great for standing out, like

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01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift always wears them on stage. Just Taylor Swift

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01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 1: might be doing something. You were a sequence. I apparently

1293
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: wore way too many sequence my season. Um. I love glitter.

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01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 1: My dad used to hate me for it when I

1295
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 1: was a little, but I love it so but again, yeah,

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01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 1: it's in in the right settings, which I don't think

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01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 1: I always did know the Bachelorette is always the right

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01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: setting first. So for those two months it was great.

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01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 1: I haven't were in a sense, but the show I

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01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 1: didn't know, we didn't know what sequence were, we're not

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01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: going to get along really told me what it was

1302
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: actually all right, So the preview for the season, what

1303
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:07,919
Speaker 1: do you all think this is? I mean, we saw

1304
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: some man tears. I mean those tears that we saw

1305
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,600
Speaker 1: tonight are not They're not tears of a boy, their

1306
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: tears of a man. Are you all excited about what's

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01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 1: to come? Yeah? I am. I want to know why

1308
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: he jumped over that fence. That's what I'm dying to know.

1309
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: And I hope it's over something good because if it's

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01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 1: like over something live, I'm like, come on, you built

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01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: that up. He ran down the driveway for like a

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: mile and then over the thing. But it's like, that's

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01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: the best pull up I've ever seen. I can't even

1314
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: do that. Like props from show has always been good

1315
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: at teasing us, like pumping up something and not. I

1316
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,600
Speaker 1: have a feeling that what we saw when he jumped

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01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 1: over the fence and Chris Harrison freaking out and Colden

1318
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: running down the road. Is going to live up to

1319
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: everything that we hope it does. I don't think it's

1320
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: just like something that happened. I think it's a big

1321
01:06:56,120 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: deal hopefully, because I mean, I will sound myself. Then

1322
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: they built up the whole ambulance scene and and and

1323
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to make light of the situation, but

1324
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: it was a fallout of a bed more. It was

1325
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: like when you open the freezer and your chicken falls out.

1326
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 1: On Instagram. David he comes on the podcast all the

1327
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:19,720
Speaker 1: time for comic relief. We just love that guy. But yeah,

1328
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: I just I want to know what that's all about. Yeah,

1329
01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a good season. Actually, do you?

1330
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: I do, I really do. I'm excited because you know,

1331
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: they keep telling us the most this one they really

1332
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: mean is the most dramatic. Yeah, I'm excited for what

1333
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: do we actually think the most dramatic season has been

1334
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 1: so far? Jason has to be he did a switch

1335
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 1: and I didn't watch that season. That's the first one

1336
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: I've ever watched. It's so much it's your sort is

1337
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 1: like I was sit down and do it all is

1338
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:55,479
Speaker 1: just brutal, Like what a just savage move on his part.

1339
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: It's like I'm gonna wait and do this on live TV.

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01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 1: Wild Dun Dun, dune brutal um. So we think it's

1341
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:07,080
Speaker 1: many a great season. Yeah, I can't elaborate anymore. All

1342
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 1: we saw was a lot of like tanning oil in

1343
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 1: picking up women and showers and crying and fences. So

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01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: we don't really have much to gather from that. And

1345
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 1: again Night one is our least favorite. But we started

1346
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 1: and this is where the almost famous podcast shines is now.

1347
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: From here on out, Night One's just weird. It's the same.

1348
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: We got to meet the characters. We have to meet

1349
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: the people pursuing Coulton's heart. We've got to see how

1350
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: Colton responds. He's going to get better. They're gonna get

1351
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:35,679
Speaker 1: more intriguing. The stories are gonna start taking place, Kisses

1352
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: are gonna start happening. It gets better from here on out.

1353
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 1: Night one's not the best. Becca and Garrett, thank you

1354
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,000
Speaker 1: so much for coming on. But before you go, we

1355
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 1: have an email from one of our listeners that I've

1356
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:49,640
Speaker 1: got to ask you all for some advice on um

1357
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,719
Speaker 1: make sure you listen next week to Almost Famous podcast

1358
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 1: as we dive in once again the Colton season. But

1359
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: like we love to do, we love to read stuff

1360
01:08:57,439 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 1: from you. My boyfriend this says of six months and

1361
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 1: I are very happy, and I've been on cloud nine.

1362
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: I found something on his phone that worried me. We

1363
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:11,000
Speaker 1: used his phone to take pictures on New Year's Eve.

1364
01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: The next day, I grabbed his phone and told him

1365
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: I was going to send myself the pictures, while doing

1366
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: so with his full knowledge, I might add, not snooping.

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01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:21,360
Speaker 1: I saw a naked picture he had taken in the

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01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: mirror that morning. Immediately taken back. I kind of kept

1369
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: it to myself, not wanting to embarrass him, but my

1370
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: mind kept racing why did he take that? Did he

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01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: send it to someone? So eventually I just asked in

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01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 1: His response was that basically he was trying to get

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01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 1: back his self confidence after a holiday season of eating

1374
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 1: and drinking like crap. He's also a personal trainer and

1375
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: said he's been considering training for physique competitions this new year,

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01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: so he wanted a picture as a starting point. I

1377
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 1: don't know why below the waist would have been included

1378
01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 1: in this, but whatever, She says, I don't have any

1379
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,640
Speaker 1: reason not to believe him, but I don't want to

1380
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: be naive. He said to great boyfriend, and I have

1381
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:05,640
Speaker 1: completely trusted him up until now. Am I just being paranoid?

1382
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 1: Or would you be worried to help? She says, I,

1383
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw this to you all. If it was

1384
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: obviously the below the belt is the alarming part. He

1385
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:24,600
Speaker 1: saves himself a little bit by being a trainer, but

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01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: I still don't know why he has to have his

1387
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: ding dong in there. Coming from somebody who has turned

1388
01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: to blay wan too many times in a past relationship,

1389
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: I would say keep keep your eyes and ears open um,

1390
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: don't don't necessarily turn a blind die um. Again, I

1391
01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 1: don't know him, so I don't know the situation. But

1392
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: it is weird that it's full body what doesn't need

1393
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:55,280
Speaker 1: to be but private parts. Don't put on weight in

1394
01:10:55,320 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: the holiday cover that up with box. He's starting to

1395
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,759
Speaker 1: get a self confidence back. Maybe he's quite well endowed.

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01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: If it did, though, think about how cool that would be.

1397
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 1: I would make Garrett so much pasta If if this

1398
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 1: was one of my best friends, I would say, don't

1399
01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 1: be stupid and listen to your gut what do you think, Garrett.

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01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 1: I think what Becca said is don't be stupid, listen

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01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 1: to your gut. Um. But I mean, if this is

1402
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: the first thing and the relationship has been good ever

1403
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 1: since the beginning, I mean, just trust his word now,

1404
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 1: but definitely keep that in the back of your head

1405
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 1: and stay aware. You know, I want to give him

1406
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt here, so say I'm gonna

1407
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,559
Speaker 1: go down that path. Yeah, this is where I think

1408
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 1: it separates is now it falls on him. He's got

1409
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 1: to see that this is weird, right, no matter what

1410
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: is intention. We all know we talked about a little

1411
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: bit ago. Relationships are weird. We're all weird people. We

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01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 1: do weird things. You're partner is gonna fall in love

1413
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,719
Speaker 1: with you and deal with your weirdness. Like if Garrett's

1414
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 1: loves taking pictures of himself and for the mirror because

1415
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: it boost is self confidence. If you love Garrett, even

1416
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: though you might be like, this is the weirdest thing ever,

1417
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna be like, Garrett, just stop being weird. But

1418
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,640
Speaker 1: like that's fine. He just better send him to me

1419
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:21,599
Speaker 1: right after that piece of pie. But that this, this

1420
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: is where my point here. It now falls on him.

1421
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 1: He needs to respond to you in a loving way

1422
01:12:26,479 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 1: and say, I get that this is weird, I get

1423
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: to this awkward. I'm telling you the truth, and let

1424
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 1: me just prove it to you. You have, you have

1425
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 1: full access to anything of mine, have nothing to hide

1426
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 1: from here on out for a while, you know, if

1427
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:38,439
Speaker 1: not forever. You don't need to check. But just know

1428
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: that you can trust me. And I want to prove

1429
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 1: that to you by my response, because yeah, you just

1430
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: saw a picture of me butt naked in the mirror

1431
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,679
Speaker 1: that I didn't send to you like, this is weird.

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01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, So ask him communicate. I think it's healthy

1433
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: for relationship. Maybe just communicate on that level. Anyways, it

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Speaker 1: I terrific. One of those episodes where I leave feeling

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01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 1: like we did a job. We did it. Um, Becca

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01:13:56,240 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 1: and Garrett, thank you so much, really thanks for coming out.

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Speaker 1: It's great to see you all park City. Thanks to

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor. I thought this a blast. What a good

1457
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: idea tonight to have all the fans watching the show together.

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Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared, you did fantastic. I mean, I mean

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Speaker 1: that it was really cool to see the crushes. Uh

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Speaker 1: you know, we didn't even talk about it. But before

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Speaker 1: we go, thanks to Chris Harrison for us in the show.

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Speaker 1: What a cool tribute shout out an amazing package. It

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Speaker 1: was so I filmed it all on Instagram and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm like the weird, annoying mom that films everything and awesome,

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Speaker 1: yeah he did it. Was such a cool and what

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Speaker 1: Um Colton, season just getting started, and we're just getting

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Speaker 1: started for this new season of Almost Famous. We do

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Speaker 1: this thing here and you've done it. But before we go,

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Speaker 1: I'll start us. Just follow our lead. Everybody out there listening.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode in a new season. I've

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous. I've been been, I've been Ashley, I've been Becca.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk to you soon. Followed the Benn and Ashley

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