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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Dana in Lansing. Dana says,

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Speaker 1: I've dated a man that was getting divorced. Things got complicated,

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Speaker 1: so I left town without telling him I was leaving.

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Speaker 1: I ghosted him. I ran into his daughter when I

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Speaker 1: was in town visiting my mom recently, she said her

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Speaker 1: dad is getting married again. I got his number from her,

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Speaker 1: and he was happy to hear from me. To make

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Speaker 1: a long story short, we may love during my trip home,

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Speaker 1: and he's been calling me non stop. The only problem

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Speaker 1: is is that he's still getting married. I would be

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Speaker 1: his side chick all over again. I'm fifty two and

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Speaker 1: hate dating. So is it crazy to settle for a

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Speaker 1: sure thing? Or should I walk away from this man again?

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, settle for a sure thing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a sure thing A shape?

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Speaker 2: Pull up?

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Speaker 4: So you were dating the man. You're fifty two years old.

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Speaker 4: You're dating a man who was getting a divorce. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: something happened in your life. So you ghosted and you

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Speaker 4: left town. You came back to town, ran up into

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Speaker 4: his daughter, got his number, and come to find out,

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Speaker 4: he's getting married to someone else.

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Speaker 3: Right now, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Had a sexual affair while you was at home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and now he's calling you non stop. Now she

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Speaker 4: wants to know, is it okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she wants to know. Is it crazy to settle

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Speaker 3: for a sure thing?

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Speaker 4: Is it crazy to settle for a sure thing, which

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Speaker 4: is to be his side Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Because if she hates dating, she.

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Speaker 2: Hates because she hates Dayton.

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Speaker 3: Yeah or yeah, or.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you hate Dayton, but you like being the

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Speaker 4: side piece.

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Speaker 3: Because it's a sure thing.

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Speaker 2: So you got to be a side piece is a

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Speaker 2: sure thing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you have no aspiration of being like the

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Speaker 4: main item on the menu. So like, let me ask

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Speaker 4: you this, lady, So you cool being the slow at

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Speaker 4: Kentucky Fried Chicken?

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Speaker 2: He don't ever won't be the chicken.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's a sure thing, Steve. That's the part

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Speaker 3: you keep missing.

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Speaker 2: It's a it's a sure thing to be the slaw.

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Speaker 3: Because she doesn't like dating.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, you know, lady, that explains why you're fifty

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Speaker 4: two and you buy yourself or that explains it?

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Speaker 3: Or does she.

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 4: The sure thing of being the side piece assures you

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Speaker 4: of one thing. You're never going to be the whole piece,

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Speaker 4: and anybody can make you the side piece when they

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Speaker 4: feel like it so when he was. So when he

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Speaker 4: gets tired of you and cast you to the side,

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Speaker 4: then then what happens to you?

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Speaker 2: You're free to go to pursue another married man and

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Speaker 2: become another side piece.

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Speaker 1: But but you know, on the other hand, can you

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Speaker 1: shut up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Keep passing some people's happy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we don't want people to be happy.

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Speaker 2: Everybody can't be a protein. Some people want to be

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Speaker 2: a vegan, be a you know. Some people.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, yeah? Or should she walk away from this

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Speaker 3: man again?

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Speaker 2: So sure?

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Speaker 3: All right? Yeah, you're sick of her already.

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Speaker 2: The sure thing? Yeah, and this fool get in just yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why can't they be happy?

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Speaker 2: Left? We have people who aid ignorance.

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Speaker 3: That's what he does. Okay, this one.

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Speaker 4: He'll overlooking that happy.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we have time for another one, but

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Speaker 1: I'll try and get it in if we can. Uh.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Tia in Baltimore. She said, my

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Speaker 1: husband wakes up and grabs his phone before he can

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Speaker 1: even kiss me. I got up the other morning and

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Speaker 1: started getting ready for work, and he was ready to

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Speaker 1: make love. I jokingly told him to make love to

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Speaker 1: whoever he texts every morning. He lost it and said,

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Speaker 1: I offended him by assuming he was texting a woman.

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Speaker 1: I feel bad because it was just a joke. Well

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Speaker 1: not really. Why did he get so offended by it?

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Speaker 2: Because that's how you do it. You got to be

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Speaker 2: super offended back.

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Speaker 4: Oh but see, you got quit grabbing that phone first

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Speaker 4: thing any morning.

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Speaker 2: Every morning. Who I get to work, I showed you

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Speaker 2: every morning.

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Speaker 3: Okay, alright, in.

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Speaker 2: Trouble, you normally don't go that brave somehow.

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Speaker 3: If you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,