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Speaker 1: So how are you at meeting new people. It's interesting.

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Speaker 2: In a random circumstance, I'm pretty comfortable with it. Like

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Speaker 2: I love to talk to an uber driver, I love

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Speaker 2: to talk to a server. I love to talk to

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Speaker 2: you know, if I'm waiting in line tomorrow, I'll talk

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Speaker 2: to somebody i'm waiting in line with. But in a

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Speaker 2: small room of people that we might know, I'm not

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Speaker 2: as comfortable.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. I'm more comfortable talking to a stranger than

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Speaker 1: people that could know.

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Speaker 3: Somehow, I'm kind of the same way. I have a

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Speaker 3: little bit of anxiety sometimes in a room like that. Yes,

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Speaker 3: if I go to a party, I'm not comfortable. Look,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't know who to go up to. If I

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Speaker 3: got imuted to party, I don't know anybody. Like We're

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Speaker 3: going to a wedding this weekend and I only know

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Speaker 3: like the bride.

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Speaker 2: And I run out of stuff. But with a stranger,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm much more comfortable. It's very strange.

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Speaker 2: But if you get nervous, do you even remember their names?

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Speaker 2: Are you bad with the small talk? There's a tip

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Speaker 2: that I wanted to share. They say makes you more relaxed.

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Speaker 2: You try to notice their eye color. Humm, try to

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Speaker 2: notice their eye color.

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Speaker 1: They say.

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Speaker 2: Eye content puts people at ease and makes them feel

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Speaker 2: a connection with you. I find it totally uncomfortable to

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Speaker 2: look at somebody in the eye. Just started talking to him.

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Speaker 1: I don't know interesting.

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Speaker 2: I don't look in the eye for a long time.

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Speaker 2: I look around when I think, I look around when

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Speaker 2: I talk. Might saying it's good. I'm just saying it

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Speaker 2: comforts me a little more. But I'm doing it wrong.

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Speaker 2: Look in the eye and try and notice their eye color.

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Speaker 2: Today's quote that we're focused on. Sometimes people pretend you're

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Speaker 2: a bad person so they don't feel guilty about the

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Speaker 2: things they did to you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's so true. Do I have time. I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's