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Speaker 1: I'm gonna shut down my brother's wedding. You think I

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Speaker 1: give a fuck?

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Speaker 2: I don't. Am I the ahole? Your siblings don't deserve love,

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Speaker 2: you know. I've always said that there's only one person

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Speaker 2: that deserves love, and it's you. Everyone else should just

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Speaker 2: feel pain in the wake of your love. So did

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Speaker 2: make a novel story short?

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Speaker 1: My female twenty seven brother male thirty, met his future wife, Ella,

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Speaker 1: female twenty eight at a party three years ago. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: we never got along, but I always tried to put

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Speaker 1: up a peaceful front because my brother seemed blissfully happy

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Speaker 1: with her red flag Yep, how dare you be in love?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, disgusting blame. Ella was mean to me a lot,

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Speaker 2: like a lot.

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Speaker 1: She would make up comments about my weight, my makeup,

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Speaker 1: and especially my dog.

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Speaker 2: Even the dog.

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Speaker 1: I mean, damn, even the dog is catching straight bullets

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Speaker 1: over here?

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Speaker 2: What did the dog do?

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Speaker 1: She hated animals and hated that I would bring my

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Speaker 1: lab toast cute dog name, created dog name to my

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Speaker 1: parents or my brother's house. Always she just felt like

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Speaker 1: something aimed to hurt me. When the two got engaged,

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Speaker 1: she asked me to be her maid of honor. Since

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Speaker 1: she has no sisters and not many girlfriends, and since

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Speaker 1: my brother seemed.

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Speaker 2: Thrilled, I obliged.

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Speaker 1: I love how it's just like, hey, so like I

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Speaker 1: had to like know no other female friends, so could

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Speaker 1: you just like do this for me?

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Speaker 2: Also, it sounds like this girl hates soap. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: she wants her to be her maid of honor. What

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Speaker 2: I failed to realize when I accepted the role was

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Speaker 2: that to her, the maid of honor meant planning the

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Speaker 2: entire wedding, literally planning the role. It's literally a role.

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Speaker 2: It's this is a fake relationship.

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Speaker 1: Like I was booking venues, florist's, jazz bands, everything. Even worse,

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Speaker 1: she expected me to put my credit card down for

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Speaker 1: all of it.

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Speaker 2: What this is a farce. Wait, but aren't you supposed

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Speaker 2: to plan your own wedding? Yes, abe, the maid of

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Speaker 2: honor does like a bachelor att party, but not your

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Speaker 2: whole wedding.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, and not paid for it. My god, my

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Speaker 1: brother and her are not exactly well off, and since

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Speaker 1: I have a well paying job, I don't mind holding

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Speaker 1: the deposits.

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Speaker 2: But it was starting to add up a lot.

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Speaker 1: That is the biggest red flag of all tiers. Don't

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Speaker 1: think you're going to get that money back. It's awful,

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Speaker 1: because hey, you should never ask someone to do that.

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Speaker 1: It's just stupid. And be the consequence. What if she's like,

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Speaker 1: now I don't want to do the wedding anymore, loses

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Speaker 1: the deposit on her credit card. Every time I would

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Speaker 1: ask Ella about it.

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Speaker 2: She would say that, oh, it's all going.

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Speaker 1: To be paid back by her parents before the wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's totally cool. Don't worry. I'm sensing a train back.

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Speaker 1: And then the parents paid back everything with interest.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, just kidding. This is credit stories, Reddit stories

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Speaker 2: where dreams are slashed. Well.

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Speaker 1: Flash forward to last week, about three weeks before the wedding,

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Speaker 1: and she is unbearable to be around. She can't last

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Speaker 1: more than a few minutes before snapping at anyone. So

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Speaker 1: when I, of course brought up the money crap started

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Speaker 1: hitting the fan. I asked if she had received the

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Speaker 1: updated receipt of everything owed. When she exploded, she called

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Speaker 1: me a whole line of terrible names, but the one

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Speaker 1: that stuck out was, what.

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Speaker 2: Do you need the money for anyway? Your sick dog

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Speaker 2: is dead now, Blade the dog, he's dead. Why are

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Speaker 2: you bringing dead dogs into.

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Speaker 1: This, just so many layers I can't even begin. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, my beautiful Toasty died about a month before this,

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Speaker 1: after we fought the bravest battle with his cancer. He

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Speaker 1: was my sole dog, and I was devastated. Oh, oh

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Speaker 1: my god.

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Speaker 2: Holy shit, this person's so bad.

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Speaker 1: She's blaming her whole wedding, putting your money for every

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Speaker 1: paid for it.

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Speaker 2: Bro Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I blinked at her and simply left the room, having

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Speaker 1: no energy to even respond to something so cool. I

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Speaker 1: went back to my car and after the silent twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes drive home, I parked the car and immediately called

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Speaker 1: the vendors and can't any deposit under my car?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Can you cancel a deposit? That's a good question.

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Speaker 2: Unleust maybe she just made it.

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Speaker 1: I canceled every single one. After almost twenty calls, all

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Speaker 1: that was left of her wedding was the dress and

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Speaker 1: the flower arch. I texted my brother a short explanation.

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Speaker 1: I told him that every vendor would be contacting him

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Speaker 1: if they wished to keep their services, and they were

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Speaker 1: now responsible for covering everything, and I would no longer

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Speaker 1: be attending the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I'm surprised.

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Speaker 1: That brother hasn't like stepped in in all and if

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Speaker 1: this is how she was treating her now, she said

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Speaker 1: she had a history of being mean to her, So,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. It was a matter of minutes before

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Speaker 1: my phone started to explode and I.

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Speaker 2: Just turned it off. Smart.

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Speaker 1: Smart, Yeah, that's all you can do at that point.

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Speaker 1: It's been a few days and I haven't talked to

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Speaker 1: anyone but my mom, who thankfully understands where I'm coming from.

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Speaker 1: My brother has tried to call, but I just feel terrible,

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Speaker 1: both about what I did and about what she said.

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Speaker 1: I know what I did was extreme, but I also

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Speaker 1: couldn't sit by and practically enable her cruelty any more.

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Speaker 1: I still can't help but feel bad for ruining my

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Speaker 1: brother's big day.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. Am I the asshole for this? Hmmm?

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Speaker 2: I want to know what everyone else thinks. Put it

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Speaker 2: in the comments, please. I think something that I'm feeling

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Speaker 2: is like a little bit yes for canceling, but you

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Speaker 2: also shouldn't have put your card down in the first place.

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm like, she was not obligated to do

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Speaker 1: that in the first Like that was such an immense

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Speaker 1: favor that like it kind of has this like feeling

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Speaker 1: on the surface of like, oh my gosh, you like

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Speaker 1: canceled everything and ruined it. But it's like you like

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Speaker 1: that is a very unreasonable thing to ask somebody if

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Speaker 1: at any point, like imagine she had some expense come up.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I can't like be leadened with these potential It's.

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Speaker 2: It's just a lot of liability. It's so much seemed

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Speaker 2: like I feel like if OPI's brother went through with

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Speaker 2: money and wouldn't be able to pay it back, and

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Speaker 2: I think then OPI would be out like a bunch

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Speaker 1: Honestly, this is probably like a really big dodged bullet

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Speaker 1: because from everything we knew, it was three weeks to

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Speaker 1: the wedding and they hadn't paid anything back there, so it's.

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Speaker 2: Like why would they continue? Yeah? Absolutely, yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: I want to know what everyone else thinks. That is

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Speaker 2: an absolute crazy situation. I would never pay for someone's,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my only like thing on op is like, like, op,

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Speaker 1: don't do that to yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you're putting yourself in a really bad position. Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I would also like to hear if you guys have

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Speaker 1: any crazy wedding stories.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we would love to hear that in the comments immediately. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see you soon, See you soon. Day by

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Speaker 2: absolutely ruining my country's and national arts museums.

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Speaker 1: Exhibit let's light it on Fourier, destroy the history, destroy

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Speaker 1: the culture.

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Speaker 2: That's right, it's back in your nine or ten. We

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Speaker 2: went on a school excsion to the National Art Museum

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Speaker 2: in Canberra in Australia. Oh, to go see all the

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Speaker 2: art and take photos of stuff for an assignments. One

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Speaker 2: of the activities we were required to do was to

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Speaker 2: find images in Jackson Pollock's famous blue poles. Ooh, you

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Speaker 2: know blue poles looks like I do not? Is it

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Speaker 2: a bunch of dots? Let's see poles. Ah, it is

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Speaker 2: a bunch of switches. Looks like weed. Yeah, it looks

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Speaker 2: like looks like blue random shit, sweet dank. Everyone except

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Speaker 2: me couldn't see how random slather and glob of paint

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Speaker 2: could possibly be a koala. So to help my fellow pupils,

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Speaker 2: I kindly pointed to where this image is on the

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Speaker 2: giant artwork. Only I didn't point I accidentally touched it.

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Speaker 2: And if you've ever seen this painting or any Pollocks

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Speaker 2: paint never fully dry inside. So there I am standing

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Speaker 2: in the middle of arguably the most expensive painting in

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Speaker 2: Australia with my finger touching a what glob of blue

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Speaker 2: paint and four hundred to five hundred people staring at

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Speaker 2: me like I just murdered someone in public. Uh oh.

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Speaker 2: To top it off, I also set the proximity alarm off,

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Speaker 2: which was the loudest alarm I've ever heard. Think jewelry heist,

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Speaker 2: diamond stealing alarm, Like, oh my god, I got my

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Speaker 2: entire school band. I got kicked out of my German

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Speaker 2: elective and had a school assembly about it too. The

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Speaker 2: worst part is now, even years later, you're no longer

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Speaker 2: even permitted to enter in the same room the painting

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Speaker 2: is being displayed in. I went back years later and

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Speaker 2: the entire room is gatted off like a crime scene. Bro,

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Speaker 2: don't touch expensive paintings, you know, sometimes you just want

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Speaker 2: to touch it. Though. You just want to touch it,

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Speaker 2: you want to get you want to feel the culture.

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Speaker 2: I want to stick my finger all into a paint. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: bro checks and Paulock is like all super ridiculously expensive. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's like millions, millions of dollars. Let's say what I say, like,

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Speaker 2: how much is it? Okay, so that painting? Guess how

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Speaker 2: much that painting is worth? Two million, three hundred and

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Speaker 2: fifty million dollars? What? Yes? Holy shit? Yeah wow yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: don't touch that shit. Bro, Damn, that's a million dollar

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Speaker 2: glob or you got on your finger right there. Yep,