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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Bria is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But first, Bria, how long

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Speaker 2: has it, Vinceince you heard from Jason.

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Speaker 3: It's then at least god like a week that he

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Speaker 3: hasn't responded to me. Okay, yeah, I reached out a

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Speaker 3: couple of days ago and yeah nothing.

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Speaker 2: What did you say to him when you reached out?

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Speaker 3: I just was like, hey, love your date when I

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Speaker 3: go out a in.

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Speaker 2: Oh and then nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So how was the date?

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Speaker 3: Ei went?

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Speaker 4: Really well, you know, before the date, we talked to

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Speaker 4: her a while on the apps, and I don't know,

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Speaker 4: it's just kind of like real conversations, really buyby stuff,

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Speaker 4: not just like surface level.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: We talked about how much I love cooking, and he

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Speaker 4: seemed like he was into that, and so.

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Speaker 3: Then he came over for dinner so I could make

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Speaker 3: him dinner, and I.

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Speaker 4: Know, I know, it was the first day that was

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Speaker 4: at my place, which was super scary and risky, but.

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Speaker 2: He came over. Okay, Bolt, I love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I made him a snaffron chicken herb rice and

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Speaker 4: a cucumbri yogurt salad and yeah, he ate everything and

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Speaker 4: poured a lot more wine, getting like super romantic. And

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Speaker 4: then we went to the couch with the line and.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I was trying to figure.

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Speaker 4: Out how to get to the next step, you know,

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Speaker 4: And I remember this guy friend I had mentioned that

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Speaker 4: if you want to tease a man, you just blow

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Speaker 4: on the back of his neck.

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Speaker 3: So I did. Then I jumped up and freaked out

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Speaker 3: like I tasted him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it might. It might shock me too. I

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Speaker 5: was just gonna say, jubile, is that a turn on?

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Speaker 2: If you just we were like I was eating and

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Speaker 2: you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of

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Speaker 2: blew on the back of my neckud Probably I probably jump.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we weren't eating anymore, we but the wine did

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Speaker 3: get everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Were you guys like making out before you did it,

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Speaker 2: or you just kind of just lean over and he

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Speaker 2: blew on his neck.

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Speaker 3: I did kind of just lean over and blow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that was a shocked.

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Speaker 5: It's like you got to give people grace though, right,

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Speaker 5: like right when you start to talk to somebody new,

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Speaker 5: you got to feel them out.

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Speaker 2: So a little neck blow.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully we wouldn't do it, but it is a little

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Speaker 5: uh surprised.

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Speaker 4: I said sorry, and I explained, like this is something

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Speaker 4: the friend told me to do, and he laughed it off,

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Speaker 4: but then immediately said he had to go.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and like it sucks.

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Speaker 3: It sucks because I don't just bring anyone to my space.

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Speaker 2: Bria is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jason. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her a second date. But Bria, before we

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Speaker 2: do that, why don't you recap your date for us

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Speaker 2: again real quick?

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Speaker 3: We had a great time. He came to my place.

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Speaker 4: I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided

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Speaker 4: to blow on his neck afterwards to get things going.

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Speaker 2: And he did not like that any think maybe it

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Speaker 2: was the neck blowing that kind of creaked him out,

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Speaker 2: and that's why he's ghosting.

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Speaker 3: You gotta be gotta be.

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Speaker 2: Well, are you ready to go call him?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: Now yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak

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Speaker 2: to Jason. Please, Hey Jason, how are you. This is

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi Jason, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubill. How are you?

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Speaker 6: WHOA? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Hi? How do you feeling good?

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Speaker 2: Have you listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think they know what this is about.

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Speaker 5: Is it about Bria?

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Speaker 2: Yes? It is the first day follow up. Yep, you

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Speaker 2: went out with Bria and you're Ghostinger. So she emailed

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Speaker 2: us to see if you'll tell us why you're Ghostinger?

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Speaker 2: Do you mind talking about it?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Wow? All right? Well what the.

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Speaker 7: Dinner was incredible? Like easily top five meals I've ever had. Wow,

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Speaker 7: there's no doubt. But there was no desert, she said.

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Speaker 2: She tried to, you know, have a little like.

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Speaker 1: So my grandma raised me and she always said, real

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Speaker 1: woman sends her man off to something sweet. And that

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Speaker 1: night I kept waiting about maybe it was like chilling

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Speaker 1: in the fridge or like you're.

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Speaker 2: Talking about food. Oh yeah, you're not. You actually mean dessert?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, literally like desert. And it's not just like you know, dessert,

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Speaker 1: it's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know,

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Speaker 1: like she nailed the sabery, but there was no sweet.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't balanced, and I just kept like waiting for

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Speaker 1: the meal to end, and it like never did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's why your ghostinger is because the food was good,

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Speaker 2: but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just weird, Like I just like I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to ask, but I just kept waiting and

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Speaker 1: it was just like my palette was all confused, and

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Speaker 1: it was like, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know, do you have dessert every night? Is that something

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Speaker 2: that you do?

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Speaker 1: I mean not if I'm just like, you know, eating

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Speaker 1: on the go, but like for a meal, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, Okay, it's part of like a real I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's not polite. It's not polite, like not

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Speaker 1: serve the blurt, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well thank you for being honest with us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, that's how I felt about it.

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Speaker 2: And Jason Bria is on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you've got to be kidding me. You got to

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Speaker 3: be kidding me. Not polite, you know what? You know,

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Speaker 3: what else is not blighte ghosting someone?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you serious right now?

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Speaker 3: Also, what is this nineteen fifty two?

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm

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Speaker 4: pie to tuck you in, and like it's not about.

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Speaker 1: You kidding about like thoughtfulness, you know, like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not nineteen fifty two, but my grandma

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Speaker 1: who had to take care of people.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, oh oh good good.

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Speaker 4: So it's done to me like you don't want a girlfriend,

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Speaker 4: you want a grandma with benefits.

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Speaker 3: Right, Oh that just sounds weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that. Try to seduce me with a

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Speaker 1: ghost breeze to the jugular Like, that's not care, that's fusion.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I was trying to be something sweet and you should

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Speaker 4: have been an adult and said something.

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Speaker 3: You go to me over a cake.

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Speaker 1: It's not the cake. It's just like my grandma's principals,

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Speaker 1: you know, Like that's like, yeah, it's the fact you

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Speaker 1: don't get the cake, you know.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: I'm not your grandma. I'm sorry I'm not your grandma.

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Speaker 6: I am too, honestly, if I really thought you were cool, Oh,

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Speaker 6: but I'm not getting grandma vibes. It's just like, you know,

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Speaker 6: it's too bad.

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Speaker 5: You're looking for a grandma. You're looking for grandma characteristics

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Speaker 5: in your woman.

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Speaker 1: I mean in a certain way, I guess. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got to tick that box as well.

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Speaker 3: You know this is ridiculous and yeah, I'm sure you

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Speaker 3: can go.

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Speaker 4: To a nursing room bingo night to sign the woman.

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Speaker 2: In Jason, would you like to say, can date with

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Speaker 2: Bria will pay for it?

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Speaker 1: I didn't in the past. Hic are like no direction?

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Speaker 6: Great, you and your grandma can go baked cookies and

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Speaker 6: I asleep over together.

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Speaker 1: A God, how dare you? My grandma's a beautiful woman. Seriously,

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Speaker 1: how dare you?

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Speaker 2: She must be so proud.

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Speaker 1: She's an amazing woman.

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Speaker 7: She's beautiful and honestly, she bed you didn't get a

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Speaker 7: chance to meet her because you could have learned a

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Speaker 7: lot from her.

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Speaker 4: Bria You Will's first Date follow up