WEBVTT - Prenups in Paradise 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.840 I Suck Good Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared and 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:10.440 I heart radio podcast. Hey what's going on? Welcome to 0:00:10.440 --> 0:00:13.119 an all new episode of help I Suck At Dating. 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:15.480 My name is Jared Haven, joined all the way from 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:19.760 Montreal with the beautiful Vanessa Grimaldi. Oh, I love how 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:23.120 you rolled yours. That's so European. It wasn't my best role. 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.480 You just got back from Europe, didn't you. I just 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:27.440 got back from Europe. I was in Paris and then 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.160 I was in Italy with the family. Um, but feels 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.040 good to be back. Three weeks vacation for me. I 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:36.479 feel like ten days is a good vacation time. More 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.680 than that, I just get like homesick. So I'm happy 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:40.920 to be back. Yeah, three weeks you get really homesick. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:42.839 I've been there, and it's like, okay, after ten days, 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.000 I agree with you. Ten days, I'm kind of ready 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.840 to go back home. M Also, obviously, Mark and Easton 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:53.360 are in studio. Dean is um here. He's driving here, 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.040 and that's important because we have a lot to ask 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.920 him about as far as Paradise goes. Yes, I've asked 0:00:58.000 --> 0:00:59.600 him to share his location with me so I can 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:02.000 give you all time updates of how far away he is? Okay, 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:03.600 how far is Dean? I don't know. Yeah, he hasn't 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:05.960 responded yet, but I've requested the location. All right. Well, 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:11.039 he did text us approximately ten minutes ago saying he 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.880 was thirty four minutes away. Ten minutes ago. Just about 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.760 maybe about fifteen minutes ago. It's hard to get on 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.080 my topic. That might be another hour. Okay, Well we'll see, 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.680 so we'll find out the van is about twenty minutes 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.560 away approximately. The question is does he have somebody else 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:28.360 in the van with it? And we have some obviously 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:32.120 breaking recent news from Bachelor in Paradise that involves our 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.760 very own Dean Anglert, So we're gonna catch up with 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.560 him later on in this podcast. But first we have 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:40.280 some very special guests that are in studio rate now 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:45.520 from the news show Marrying Millions, which UH premiered last Wednesday. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:49.680 Second episode is tomorrow night, ten pm on Livetime. We 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:56.560 have Sean Laurdes and Megan Thomas in studio. Thank you 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:59.800 so much for joining us, guys, appreciate it. So tell 0:01:59.880 --> 0:02:03.560 us about your new show, Marrying Millions, what it's about. 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:07.120 Because you two are engaged, you're engaged before the show, 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:10.800 but tell us a little bit about it. Well, one 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:14.520 of the individuals on on the show is a millionaire 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:20.600 and the other one is not is a millionaire, and 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.880 I am the girl from the small town that met 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:25.720 the man of her dream Megan. I am from a 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.080 small town and I am not a millionaire either, So 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:32.080 I certainly relate. I'm very I'm relating to you on 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.799 that one. Um. So, the whole show pretty much centers 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:39.520 around the story. Like you said, there's couples, one is wealthy, 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:42.519 one is not or not not wealthy, but obviously not 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:45.800 a millionaire. Um. And so the whole point of the show, 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.360 from my understanding, is that it really gets down to 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.960 the crunx crux of whether somebody is here for the 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.200 quote right reasons, which is thrown around Bachelor all the time, 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:58.360 right reasons, wrong reasons of whether somebody is dating someone 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:02.040 just because of their money, right or a gold digger? Right? 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:03.880 Are they a gold digger? A gold digger? And gold 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:05.680 diggers can be guys, they can be girls, they can 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.800 be and yeah, well, on the show, there's also someone 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:16.160 who's an older woman dating someone who's basically her daughter's age. Right, 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:19.520 there's six couples. So it's a docuseries and they follow 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:22.720 six couples. You're one of the six couples. And um, 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:25.080 there's also another couple, Jared, I want to see if 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.400 you know your if your math skills are really good. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:32.440 There's another couple, Bill and Brianna. Bill is sixty, Brianna 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.800 is twenty one. Guess well, can you calculate what the 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:39.400 aged gap is? Yeah, they're thirty nine years good? Come on, guys, 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.760 Come on. The Rhode Island Public School system did me 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:47.840 no wrong? I barely passed. Um. So, Megan, is it 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:51.160 something that you Um? Is that the reason why you 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:52.760 wanted to do the show to kind of put an 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:57.000 end to like the the idea that people think people 0:03:57.120 --> 0:04:01.000 marry for money. I wanted to the show. I actually 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:02.880 kind of made Sean do the show, and I'm like, 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:06.560 come on, it'll be fun because we just like new experiences. 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:10.080 We do things that the public doesn't really have access to, 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:13.440 so we just like unique experiences. So I'm like, let's 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.800 do this show. It sounds so fun. Yeah, totally. It's 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.520 kind of the same thing. Before we get asked to 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.760 go on Bachelor, people are like, why would you date 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:23.920 on TV. It's like, why not? You know, it's such 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.320 an incredibly unique opportunity. Why would I ever say no 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:31.320 to this if life has led me this way? Um, 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:33.440 but you guys were dating before the show. So you 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.159 guys have been together for how long? Five years? Just 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:41.440 about five years? And then you got engaged last year? Correct? Perfect? 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.320 And so now you guys now I know the show, uh, 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:49.279 circles all around the drama, right, and it might be 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.160 leading towards the idea, you know, whether you guys are 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:55.520 gonna stay engage, whether you're going to break off the engagement. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:57.839 So you can't talk about wedding plans just yet, right, 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:02.240 You'll have to watch. Okay, I love that line. It 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:05.279 seems as though your relationship that was mostly the drama's 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:10.320 mostly around family. That's right. Sean's dad is, you know, 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:14.080 worried about securing the family's wealth, and so he's kind 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.039 of the one that's hesitant about us getting married. He's 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:21.160 on his third wife as well, that explains it. Yeah, 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.280 he has a prenup about two inches high with his 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:30.239 third one. He sent it to so long you wanted 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:32.240 me to just have Megan sign it right at the 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.880 bottom and without reading He's like, I'll just do it, 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:40.040 like at least she'll, you know, have some drinks. How 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:43.279 it works now, just you know, a little tipsy and 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:46.360 just sign right here, honey. Don't worry about it. It's 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:50.400 not like it's a pre nuptial agreement or anything. My 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:56.400 mom says it ruined her marriage with my dad. Oh well, 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:58.919 I wonder what was in the prenup though, because I 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:03.320 know a lot of couples who um well, personally, I 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:07.000 I've actually, uh, it's a subject that I've been thinking 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.400 about too, because I'm in a relationship not nearly as 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.800 close to what you guys are five years as a kid, Like, 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.240 it's a very new relationship for me. But prenup has 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.560 always been a subject that I remember, like years ago, 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:20.000 I thought I would never sign a prenup because to me, 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.920 it's like, well why would It's almost like a contract, right, 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.240 So if this happens, then this is like these are 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:29.280 the consequences to that. And then as I start talking 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:31.720 to more people, it kind of just made more sense. 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:33.960 Like my families, My parents are divorced, and I know 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.279 a lot of people who are divorced as well, And 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:38.479 it's not only about assets. I think it's it's about 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.680 like other things too that come along with it. So 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.159 is that something that's totally off the table for you guys? 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.719 We you know, I want my Dad's very important to me. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.400 I want him to be at the wedding, but he's 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.839 saying that he's you know, there there's no wedding without 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:54.920 a prenup, and so we're struggling with that right now. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.520 We're just trying to make them both happy. Megan doesn't 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.719 want to be labeled as a gold digger, you know. 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.080 She's feels like if I sign that, you know, it 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:05.400 means I just want everybody happy. It's hard to make, 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.680 you know, it's impossible to make everybody happy. I mean, 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:12.680 I'm currently engaged right now, and it's tough with you know, 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.040 you have your own family that's supporting and loving you, 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.240 and then you also have your significant other, UM, who 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.640 you want to make happy. And it's difficult, right because 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.640 there's so many different personalities, there's so many people that 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.920 you care about deeply. It's really hard to know what 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:30.080 the right decision is. UM. But my question is, actually, 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:33.280 because I'm a little naive within this subject, what exactly 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.920 is a pre numb Because I know it's it's signed 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:39.200 before you get married, right does it? Could do it 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.480 after marriage? Okay, you can do it afterwards. Yeah, I 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.960 mean there. You can also put sunset clauses in it, 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:47.920 I mean their meaning if you're successful in your marriage 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.920 for ten years, it becomes null. You know, you can 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:54.840 do that. There's a lot of things like that that 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:57.280 that my dad was mentioning. We can, you know, make 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:00.400 tell Megan that, like, hey, wasn't there something if the 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.200 woman gains thirty pounds or something that you have to 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:07.200 get it the worst, no way. And your death contract. 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:12.200 He has something like that. I don't remember the exact 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:18.480 details of it, but something alto Yeah, small print paragraph three, 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.880 line four. Um, that's very interesting. So Megan, what is 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:25.880 your apprehension was signing a pre nump? I also think 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:28.600 it's like a contract, like a business agreement. You know, 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:31.320 we're not even married yet, and you want you think 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.480 that I'm going to like take the family's money. I 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:36.600 think it creates this trust and I don't want to 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:41.320 print up interesting, very interesting. I think from an outsider's perspective, 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.440 it's tough because I can see both sides of it. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:46.160 Because I can obviously see your father's side, saying, hey, 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:49.240 it's not that I think my future daughter in law 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:52.920 is a quote unquote gold digger. But things happen right 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:54.800 and you can't predict the future. But I also see 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.960 because he was married three times, so I totally understand 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:00.360 where he's coming from. And like I said, my parents 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:04.880 are divorced too, So now I understand the value of 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:07.160 a prenup. But it's it's not for everybody. It's not 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.240 to say that everybody needs to do that. But enough 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.800 for the heavy talk. We we know that this uh, 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:14.720 this show is about real relationship, real love. We want 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:17.280 to know, how did you guys meet. I was going 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.240 to u c l A. And Sean had a position 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:24.120 open at his foundation, the Lord has foundation, and so 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.360 I went to go apply for this job and he 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:29.360 was fifteen minutes late to the meeting, so I bounced 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.280 back to school and then he kind of just chased 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:36.120 me after that. I'm an interactive CEO. I like to 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:39.680 meet the people we were hiring. She had an impressive resume, 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:41.880 so I mean, I was like, this girl is straight a. 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:44.360 She's the captain of this at her high school. She 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.760 does this and this and and she's beautiful and she's 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.719 gorgeous with brains. I wanted to I wanted to meet her, 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:54.040 and uh when I went down, she was gone fifteen minutes. 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.280 I couldn't believe it. So I looked her up and 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:57.920 it took me a year and a half to get 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:00.840 her on the first date. Oh, I got that's so cute. 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:03.760 A year and a half. What where you're holding out 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:06.680 for Megan? I mean he was intimidating I like he 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:10.840 would have all these photos with actresses and fancy cars, 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:14.040 and I was kind of like, who is this guy? Actually? 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:16.440 See how you brought that up. I kind of want 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:18.360 to get to one of those pictures, which I am 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:21.880 fascinated by. So Sean, I may have looked you up 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:24.880 on the old the old Graham before he came in, 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.959 just to kind of familiarize myself with both of you guys. 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:30.520 You have a few awesome pictures. You have a picture 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:32.760 with you know, Barack Obama, Don Junior, you have a 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:36.920 picture with Dali Lama and Jim Carrey, which is freaking awesome. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.280 But there's one picture that's so vague I have to 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.120 ask you about it. It just was last July four 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:46.440 or excuse me, two years ago. And it's a picture 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:54.480 of Kiana Reeves with with Sean Jr. Your child, and 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:57.880 it says happy four the July. Everyone, thank you Kiano 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:03.720 Reeves for keeping Sean Junior safe. Hashtag babysitting Did Keana 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:08.760 Reeves babysit Sean Jr. He's an awesome guy. I we 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:12.480 bumped into him in the Malibu Mark Market. He's always 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:15.199 there everyone I like see him. He's there like all 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:23.040 the time, Malibu Market, the Malibu Country Mark. Yeah, and 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:25.800 uh my mom saw him, loves him. We love him 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.280 in the Matrix. You don't think I can bend time. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:32.040 He's point break Johnny. He's Shane Falcon. That dude's the man. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.240 And he uh, you know, he babysit him. He baby 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:37.480 sat him for like that five seconds right there. You know, 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.880 it was just you know, he was nice enough to 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.760 hold him and take a picture from my mom. He's 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:44.360 He's really awesome. That's awesome. I know I had to 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.160 because I was just scrolling through and I'm a big 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:48.640 Kiana Reese fan, and obviously that dude is going through 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:52.440 a moment right now. He's the biggest name in the world. Uh. 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:54.679 And I it was such a vague picture of just 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:58.320 you and now I know your mother and your son, 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:00.800 and it just said babysit And I was like, is 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.920 this guy have Keanu rees as a babysitter right now? 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:08.079 And he's coming on our podcast. It's real money. Lionel 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:12.480 Richie is like his godfather though he's you know, like 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:14.600 he we have. We're very blessed to have a really 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:18.320 awesome group of friends and you know, we're you know, 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.600 we we've met wonderful people and they're all very supportive 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.680 of of our kids. Like I feel like their energy 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:31.080 just transformed like we were. Lionel rubbed Megan's belly, you know, 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:33.840 before he was born at Nobu. I feel like that 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:37.120 good energy passed on. And now he's like an actor himself. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:38.920 He's like, you know, he's doing so many things. He's 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.439 got an agent in New York. He makes his own money. 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:47.680 He's he's got a little bank account three now he's three, 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.360 three and a half. He's three and a half with 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.640 an agent. Like god, I gotta get on. I'm thirty 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:54.520 and I'm just slacking right now. Um So, Sean, who 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:58.480 was your hesitation going on the show. My hesitation was, 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.360 you know, I'm kind of a more of a private guy. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.000 And Megan came over and just asked me, you know, 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:08.320 six times, let's do it. Please, please, please, please, pleace. 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.840 So I just said, okay, you know, it would be 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:14.120 good to get the foundation out there a little more. 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:18.640 People need help with any kind of charity, you know, 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.480 help with their lives or something, you know, I want 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:23.800 to I would like them to come to our foundation 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:27.480 and ask for help. We're looking for a new program foundation, 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:31.959 the lord Is Foundation. What do we do a lot 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.079 of youth empowerment and education. You know, we used to 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:36.599 go to schools and talk to kids and not to 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.280 give up on their dreams. And then I just said, 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:39.880 you know, we can do a bigger impact. What can 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.760 we do? So I teamed up with his holiness the 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:45.880 Dalai Lama, brought him into you know, went down to 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:50.600 India State at his home and uh, he was so 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.720 generous and nice to fit me in because normally have 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:55.560 to wait five years to work with him. But he's like, 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:58.280 you know what, I believe in your cause. And so 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:02.199 he Uh, we rented out the stadium, the Forum Stadium 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:06.120 for him and hosted him in Los Angeles and and 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.320 gave five thousand tickets away to the inner city kids 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.800 that haven't really seen the beach. You know, they they're 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:15.000 that poor. So we bought my teamed up with another charity, 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.880 bust them in with their parents, their teachers and principles. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:21.880 Five thousand tickets I gave for free, uh, which some 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.000 people were like, oh, we need to charge for those. 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.480 I'm like, now we're giving those for free. You know, 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:28.320 it's awesome. And we busted and the Dollar Lama said 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:31.400 it was this most youthful event he's ever done. That 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:36.040 was something nice. But if you work with the Doali Lama, 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:37.240 I don't think you're gonna want to work with me. 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.680 And we got you into the Dali Lama. You guys 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:45.080 are on the same. Yeah, we got a bush bucket 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.120 load of letters from the kids. It was so nice. 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:49.440 One was terminally ill and she's like, you're not going 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:50.960 to get you know, I'm not gonna be around when 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.440 you see this letter. But I just want you to 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:56.080 know that event changed my life. It was it was 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:59.840 just touching on the right path. And yeah, we did 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.760 an their event. The leaders of l a uh you 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:06.200 know underneath the Endeavor space shuttle that was you know, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.720 all the head of the homeless shelters or like the 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:11.680 head of the studios. You know, it was all like 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:14.880 the who's who. And that's where Jim Carrey came. We 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:18.840 invited him because he really wanted He was really funny. Actually, 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.320 he saved me up on stage. I was trying to 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.880 be funny up there and with all the creators saying 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.840 something funny and then and then half of the room laughed, 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:28.440 so it was kind of and then he just made 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:30.960 a joke. Everyone laughed. I'm like, thank you, thank you, 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:33.760 thank you. Just give us Jim Carrey, though, I'm sure 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:35.720 your joke is funny. Well, I think that's a great 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:37.720 idea to do the show and get the exposure for 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.160 your foundation. Now that you've done the show, what can 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:44.000 you say has helped strengthen your relationship? Like, what are 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.240 the key ingredients to making a healthy relationship work? Oh? 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:51.760 Really easy. That one's communication. Megan's really big at communications. 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.160 Her degree at u c l a. Is communications, so 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:57.600 she's loves to communicate. I don't know what else. Yeah, 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:00.840 I think that's a big one. Telling your partner everything 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:04.200 and anything and not keeping anything from them because ultimately 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.640 you're living your life with your partner. And your best friends, 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:08.880 so you shouldn't keep anything from them. I think a 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:13.120 lot of our listeners have difficulty talking about money, um, 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.280 because in a lot of relationships, there's one part of 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.160 the relationship that makes you know, one person that may 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.520 make more money than the other. So how do you 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.200 guys deal with that? I mean, for me, it was 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:26.000 a big adjustment kind of getting used to Seawan's habits 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:29.400 of spending, because I come from a place where I 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.440 save up like every penny and he's, you know, he 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.520 likes suspend a little bit more. But I think that 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.040 as you grow with somebody, you just get used to it. 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.680 And now we have the same bank accounts, you know, 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.960 I'm attached to his bank accounts, so it's kind of 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:47.000 very transparent about what we spend. And yeah, just trust 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:50.880 each other, you know, just take a leap of faith. Yeah, 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.240 you live once goes by so fast. Why not just share? 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:57.080 It's hard, I know, I know that couples, even married 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:01.320 couples that still have separate bank accounts. Um. And so 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:04.280 I feel like, even though it really seems like this 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:08.000 materialistic thing, money does become an issue between people within 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:12.720 a relationship, each to their own you know, there's everybody's different. It. 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:18.239 I don't think there's one formula for success, but definitely communication. Uh, 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:21.480 taking the leap of faith trust. I mean, we're we're 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:24.679 we believe in a higher power to so we like 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:29.479 to you know, God's like always there, so it's like 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:32.439 He's it's everything. That's everything. So it's like, you know, 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.680 we take everything with the grain of salt, you know 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:36.960 what I mean. Like it's not we're not trying to 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:40.080 be better than anybody. It's just that's we're both humble, 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:44.400 so that I think that's what allows Yeah, we can 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:46.439 connect on that level. It doesn't matter. Like I mean, 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.919 I took her to in one year, we went to 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:51.560 um Bali and she wanted to be a yoga teacher. 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.000 So I'm like, let's let's go to the best place 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:56.119 in the world to become a yoga teacher. And so 0:17:56.200 --> 0:18:00.320 she became a Yoga certified instructor so she can do uh. 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:01.840 And we went to Bali for a month, and then 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:03.960 after that we went to Thailand and then we went 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.760 to Japan. Took her to the Ritz Carlton and Kyoto 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.040 and that was like they have a really good experience 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:12.760 there where you can dress up in komotos and so 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:14.960 I mean, just you know, life, you gotta enjoy life. 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:17.080 Can't just all be about making money. So I think 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.320 that's another thing to to enjoy your life while you're young, 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:24.080 not wait till you're retired and then go on vacers. 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:28.760 You gotta think that you know experiences totally. Yeah. Important. 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:30.679 You know I didn't ask you this one. Just one 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:35.040 more of course before you guys go, um, I don't 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:36.760 know if it's going to be a spoiler for the season, 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:38.159 so no, you know, if you can answer it. What 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:41.280 are your views about the prenupe. I know your dad's views, 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.439 I know your Megan. I didn't think it was a 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.840 big deal until I saw Megan got so offended with it, 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:49.600 so I so I just took a step back and 0:18:49.640 --> 0:18:52.960 had to research a little more on why she got 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.800 so upset. So it was it was interesting for me 0:18:55.880 --> 0:19:01.399 because my parents had it. It's pretty normal, yeah it um. 0:19:01.440 --> 0:19:04.159 I want Megan happy, you know, happy wife, happy life, right, 0:19:04.240 --> 0:19:06.880 but we're not married yet. I'm learning the same thing 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:09.680 my friend. I found a bunch of the odd clauses 0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:12.399 people have put into prenups over the years, because you 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:14.520 can literally do whatever you want like, for example, obviously 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:16.280 who gets the pets, but you can also who gets 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:18.480 the pool boy, who gets the gardener, who gets bananny? 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:22.240 That sort of thing. One prenup said that the wife 0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:26.360 was fined five dollars for every pound she gained. That's 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:31.040 what every pound, every pound, you know, from the pot, 0:19:31.119 --> 0:19:35.560 from the divorce. Why would a woman this one says 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:37.960 that her husband could only watch no more than two 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:41.360 football games per month. Screw that. You ripped that contract 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:44.119 rate up and she could only watch two reality shows 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:49.800 a week. In the deal, what religion their children will practice, 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:52.600 whether or not their child will be a vegetarian? Um? Oh, 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:54.600 for every time the husband was rude to his in laws, 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:56.760 he had to pay ten thousand dollars. Well, that's such 0:19:56.800 --> 0:20:02.840 a vague thing dollars. And so supposedly justin timber Lake 0:20:02.920 --> 0:20:04.760 has a deal that if he cheats on Jessica Bill, 0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:07.760 she will receive five hundred thousand dollars. That seems like 0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:11.680 a low balling. Anybody else in that park with me, 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:14.119 And you could even in the prenup determine how often 0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:16.880 you have sex. Okay, now that's a little too much, 0:20:17.000 --> 0:20:19.560 I thought, Just like a simple prenup of like who 0:20:19.720 --> 0:20:22.080 like if something, if you guys get a divorce, whatever, like, 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:25.080 how are the assets divided? Not? If you're gonna gain 0:20:25.119 --> 0:20:28.359 a pound, you're gonna get find five dollars for every pound. 0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:31.199 That's just I've never heard that. I laugh at the 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:33.880 five hundred thousand dollar justin timber Lake. If he cheats 0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:36.600 on Jessica Bill. If he cheats on Jessica Bill, which 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:38.840 he won't, but if he does, that girl's getting at 0:20:38.920 --> 0:20:41.919 least twenty mill Okay, out of nowhere, there's five dred 0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:45.080 thousand dollar thing came in. Um, But Sean and Megan, 0:20:45.119 --> 0:20:47.160 thank you so much for coming into the studio today. 0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:50.679 We really appreciate it. Thanks for having us. Marrying Millions 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:54.720 is on the second episode tomorrow night, Wednesday night at 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:58.280 ten pm Eastern Time on Lifetime. If you didn't see 0:20:58.320 --> 0:21:01.240