1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. Here it is a strawberry letter. 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: I don't know why I like saying this subject. Wait, 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: that's your daddy, Dear Stephen, Shirley. That subject, I don't 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: know it intrigues me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I just started 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: dating this guy and he is great. I'm twenty eight 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: and he is thirty one. Here's where it gets tricky. 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: Last week, he invited me to his family's barbecue. I 8 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: was excited because this would be the first time I 9 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: would meet his family. We go to his parents house 10 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: and he introduced me to his siblings and his step mom. 11 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: Then we headed to the backyard to meet his dad, 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: who was busy on the grill. His daddy turned around 13 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: and I was shook. Turns out that his daddy is 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: my ex sugar daddy. His father and I messed around 15 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: for six months, and I broke it off because I 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: started to have real feelings for him. And let me 17 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: tell you why, Shirley. He was the best at it. 18 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: He was the best at what he did, the best 19 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 1: I've ever had. I couldn't believe that I was at 20 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: his house with his son. After a very awkward pause, 21 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: his dad shook my hand and said it was nice 22 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: to meet me. I quickly turned to go back into 23 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: the house and my boyfriend followed me. I don't think 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: my boyfriend noticed how awkward we were the rest of 25 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: the night. Now, I feel like my boyfriend should know everything, 26 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: but I don't want to cause any family problems. Should 27 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: I just keep my mouth shut. Even though my boyfriend 28 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: does not measure up to his dad, I don't want 29 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: to lose him. Please help. Wow, I just gotta ask you, 30 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: you know what, what are your plans are? Are you 31 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: and his son planning a future together? I mean, you 32 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: just said you just started dating this guy, so I 33 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: can't imagine you know, you really in your mind knowing 34 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: where this is going to go in the future. But 35 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: having said all that, I I just don't think this 36 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: is a good look for you. I really don't, because 37 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: you know it's going to come out at some point. 38 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: You couldn't even hold it together that night, you were 39 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: being awkward. I'm sure his dad is going to be 40 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: this is going to come out. It's not gonna be 41 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: a good look for you being in this relationship with 42 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: the son of your ex lover. So you know you 43 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: did the dad You broke it off because it was 44 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: good and the best. You're you're always going to compare 45 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: them from here on out. Now, I don't think you're 46 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 1: gonna be able to hold it together. I don't think 47 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a good relationship. That's always going to 48 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: be looming in the back of your mind. If it 49 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: comes out, it's gonna be on his son's mind. Uh, 50 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: you know, if you guys are planning some kind of 51 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: future together. I just I think you need to break 52 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: this off and just move on to a different situation 53 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: with different people, period. Steve. Yeah, yeah, this is a 54 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: full blown situation. This is a problem girl, girl girl. 55 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: First of all, you meet this boy eight years old, 56 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: he younged, he ain't at maximum capacity yet, he's yet 57 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: learned all that he's going to know. I think we 58 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: would agree. Let your church say, man, at twenty eight, 59 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: you are underdeveloped when it comes to life experience, know how, 60 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: and especially when it comes to the ability to pleasure. 61 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: Now we want to take this off from a different angle. 62 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: Appreciate Sister Shirley for wonderful rendition of and her a 63 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: selection of this Strawberry letter. But let me drive this 64 00:03:55,160 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: hill car because I've driven it before you go and 65 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: you meet the mama, the step mama, the siblings, and 66 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: all that is going good. But back on that grill 67 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: was the g M. That's the grieal master. I happened 68 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: to be one of these people. Yeah, I spend much 69 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: time in my backyard, and I am also it. I 70 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: can relate to the here we go. He turns around, 71 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: and I'll be down if his daddy ain't cho farmer 72 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: sugar daddy. Now this is when the relationship has too 73 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: much in common. Yeah, because right now, what makes this 74 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: relationship wrong is y'all got the same daddy m that 75 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: church man. Amen. Amen, y'all got the saying daddy. Oh 76 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: he his daddy, but he your sugar daddy. Yeah. So 77 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: now you meet, he shakes your hand, but oh lord 78 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: her mercy. The greatest player move I've ever seen. He 79 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: turns to you, what he says, nice to meet you. Ye. Now, 80 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: this is the player move because he can't hurt his son, 81 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: and he can't let the step mama know that he 82 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: didn't had you, so he willing to let bygones be bygones. 83 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. You broke it off because you 84 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: were starting to develop feelings and Why were you developing 85 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: these feelings because this man in hill, Lord help Mercy 86 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: was bringing it. The walls of Gibraltar have come down. 87 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: Your bacon was getting fried, extra Christie. Your cookie was 88 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 1: dumped all the way down in the middle and left 89 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: in there soaking. Your oven been up on five honeed, 90 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: your ass has been broil This mann has been up 91 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 1: on five hundred. This man was brawling your way. This 92 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: the best ship. When they come back, I'm gonna tell 93 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: you how good it was and what's going to happen 94 00:06:56,160 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: after all right, we'll have part two of Oh he's 95 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: both of y'all's daddy. You need to know that, Yeah, 96 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: his daddy, your sugar daddy, and the sugar steal in 97 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: your take. All right, we'll have more part two if 98 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: Steve's response, come on, let's go with part two of 99 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: Today's strawberry Litter. What wait, that's your daddy. She didn't 100 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: win the backyard with a new boyfriend introduced to his father. 101 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: He turned around and I'll be damned it is her 102 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: sugar daddy. Nah, it's some awkward paulse, she says in 103 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: the letter. Then she broke it off because the real fact, 104 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: she said turns out to his daddy is my ex 105 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: sugar daddy. His father and I messed around for six months, 106 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: and I broke it off because I started to have 107 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: a real feeling film. But he shook your hand and 108 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: he said, nice to meet me. I quickly turned to 109 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: go back into my house and your boyfriend and father. 110 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: Now here's where she talks to talk to Shirley, like, 111 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: Sureley know about this. We'll see I'm being turned on 112 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: your little girl. And let I started to have a 113 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: real feel with him. And let me tell you why, Shirley. 114 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: He was the best at what he did. See I 115 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: noticed right here. First of all, was I not out 116 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: on that grill? You're the girl master? But here I 117 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: come back in this letter again, this is he. He 118 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: was the best at what he did. She said it 119 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: right there. Oh this about me the master, I'm about 120 00:08:55,480 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: that grill. I just relate to this letter. Yeah, turn 121 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: it over. Now. He the best of what he did, 122 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: the best I've ever had. I know, because once again, 123 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: why because he didn't had hu up on five honey, 124 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: he'd been brawling this this girl that got bold. And 125 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: see what made it so special was the inticity of it, 126 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: the knowledge that his daddy had that. As you say 127 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: in the letter. Now I feel like my boyfriends, you 128 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: know everything, But I don't want to cause any problems. 129 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: I got came. Even though my boyfriend does not measure 130 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: up to his dad. He can't. He can't measure up 131 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: to sugar. He cannot measure up to sugar. He ain't 132 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: been here long enough to do the things, know the 133 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: things that sugar. No, I don't want to brag sugar. 134 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: Put it on, Oh sugar, that boy got your oven 135 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: at three fifty. You just regular bacon. You weren't that 136 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: doing muffins and cake layers and pastry. You you're doing fish, daddy, 137 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 1: Come on, had it on fire, honey, You in that 138 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: Syrian meat, putting the brown on top of the crim 139 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: brew leg Here you in hill, you're here putting that 140 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: crunchy on the top layer or the yams. That's what 141 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: he did with that. He got it in there. When 142 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: the door open, everybody gotta step back four feet because 143 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: it's just damn honey. There, big daddy, the grill master, 144 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: be in that putting that shut in your tank. You 145 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: got to break up with this ball because you can't 146 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: go over there and look at sugar and then look 147 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: over here at junior not junior man. You got junior 148 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 1: mint standing over here and sugar daddy over there. Now 149 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: you want the junior min or, You want the sugar 150 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: daddy who in here? We'll take a junior mint over 151 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: sugar daddy. You could have sugar daddy or sugar babies? 152 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: Which one you want? You got diabetes if you being 153 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: all that damn expert. And I'm just gonna say this, 154 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: you gotta break up. Yeah, well he's doing it's too much. 155 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: Let me. Old player killed it. Old player is what 156 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: we call old PEP. Can can't sugar old you. I 157 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: just said, the old player is straight old p p. 158 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: She got broke off some of that old pimp passion. 159 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 1: Oh that's what, and that's what figure it out. The 160 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 1: what the passion. It's a cologne, that's what. That's what 161 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: old p Alright, Steve, we gotta move on. You're listening 162 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.