1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: So sn Boet says, it sounds like your dad was 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: waiting to get that house, guessing he's flabbergasted you didn't 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: cave and hand it over. Just know, if you did 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: your dad the home and he passes before your stepmom, 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: the house will go to her, and eventually her kids 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: do not for any reason allow them to get access 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: into the home, especially when it sounds like stepmom has 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: a gaggle of unemployed kids who may or may not 9 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: have significant others helping them make all those babies that 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: they are popping out. Everyone can go get jobs and 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: figure it out, you hope, He responds, honestly, like not 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: a bad response. Yeah, it definitely seems like he was 13 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: waiting the RV and then the clothes. Twice so far 14 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 1: he's made excuses to come get his stuff. He didn't 15 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 1: expect me to drive seven hundred miles to meet him 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: at the door where he thought he circumvented me asking 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: my uncle, he said he had things in the barns. 18 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: I don't own the barns. He took every tool out 19 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: of my shed. However, oh wow, so kind of stealing. 20 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: I called the Sheriff's office and they arrived as he 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: was leaving. He said he wanted his dad's tools. I 22 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: let that go. High road, high road, right road, o pep. 23 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: You know you didn't have to take that high road. 24 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: Those are your tools, but high road. I may have 25 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: done the same. 26 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 2: You may have stolen your No, No, I may let 27 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 2: it go. 28 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: You know, I may have let it go. 29 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just waited to some family member. Shed 30 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: just took all the. 31 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: You know, you know how I have a fixing for tools. 32 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: I love a good screwdriver, alan wrench. 33 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: That's why I asked, Yeah, like, could it? Could it be? 34 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: What else do I like? 35 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: Just screwing things? You're a big a big screw guy, 36 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: big screw guy. 37 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I would say, but but I'm not a 38 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: fiend to the point that I would break into homes 39 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: to steal tools. 40 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: No, especially from your own family. 41 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: Not from Yeah. Yeah, that's that's that's crossing the line. 42 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: Not a not a tool tool high road, high road. 43 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: That's called the high road. Baby. So the last latest 44 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: thing is some junk John Deere crap he stuck into 45 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: the back bathroom. I found it. It's like he planted 46 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: so much stuff there, but he absconded with a lot 47 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: of the house during the funeral. And you're right. That 48 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: was something my husband mentioned to me, squatter's laws and 49 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: the potential for her kids to shack up there. To 50 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: be honest, he doesn't have the money to keep up 51 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: with the house. It's older nineteen fifty nine with an 52 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: addition from the nineteen seventies. I mean, yeah, he might 53 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: not have the money, but like he'll just let it 54 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: go disarray if he actually got it, which is what 55 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: he did to his RV. When you can still live, 56 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: you can live in a crap hole and let it 57 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: get crappier as it slowly erodes into the the to 58 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: the grass. And that's true. And the ground I had 59 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: a grade. Nature reclaims all. If they say, if anyone's 60 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: watched The Walking Dead, you know nature comes back quick. 61 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: True nature comes back. Plumbing is hodge lodge, thinking meants podge. 62 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: I never heard hodge lodge. Electrical is three fourths of 63 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: the house isn't grounded. It sounds like you need to 64 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: go to like a meditation class for that. A pipe 65 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: ruptured this summer and needs new lateral lines. Reclue infestation 66 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: throughout the house, no central heat and air, and he's 67 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: a lot of work. We're crying, requiring the cell of 68 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: my home to renovate it. It easily needs forty k 69 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: of work not to fall apart in the next few years. 70 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: Solid bones but dated. It says, on the most beautiful hill, 71 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: looking over two hundred acres, whoa is it is? It 72 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: is it on two hundred acres of land, sounds of 73 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: what was once farmland, trains and limestone. I would never 74 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 1: trade it for anything, no way. 75 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's land, that's fire. I mean, that's 76 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: the land. I feel like you would. 77 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 3: You feel like you're just like you just own the 78 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: earth at that point, like like all of the land 79 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: you own, you could just sees as far as your 80 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 3: eye go. 81 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: Dude, that's some moveasage. That's everywhere I think touches move 82 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: USSA wait, I was like, I can't even move fass 83 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: off everywhere. They're like, dutches is yours? Something like that? Gad, Dude, 84 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: that sounds lit. 85 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: That's that's like I understand why Opie wants it and 86 00:03:58,600 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 3: why the dad wants it. 87 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's I mean, we might be interpreting 88 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: this wrong, but two hundred acres, I mean, even in 89 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: the middle of freaking nowhere would be worth millions, right 90 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: Gypsy Sniper nine and that's Gypsy is in the name, 91 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: not as in the roma. Slur let his step kids 92 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: take care of them. What a pair of a holes 93 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: they are, and OPI responds he's brought up filial law 94 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: on multiple levels occasions. Three out of four step siblings 95 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: are all on welfare and between all four siblings have 96 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: twelve children. They have too many kids to take care 97 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: of already. They spend a lot of money supporting my 98 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: stepsisters over the last two decades, which is likely contributed 99 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: to their financial state. By the way, if you want 100 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: to contribute to our financial state by being able to 101 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 1: keep making this podcast, you should join Our Lives every 102 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: weekday three pm PST right here on YouTube and Facebook. 103 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: Just tap our profile. Come on down on down, we'd 104 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: love to see it. There's noother relevant update. But I mean, 105 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: op obviously doesn't owe the father or anything. But if 106 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: it's freaking two hundred acres of land, like that's some 107 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: serious that's. 108 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: Also if it is two hundred acres, do you I 109 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 2: was when I heard that. 110 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: I'm almost like, is part of his acreage like on 111 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 3: that plot of two hundred Otherwise they have more. Peyton 112 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 3: says one acre costs between nineteen hundred and like fifty 113 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 3: four hundred dollars. 114 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: Is that true? I mean maybe like the wilderness. 115 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess, I guess. 116 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 3: Like and if you get like such a huge plot 117 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 3: of land, it's like okay, because you're buying so much 118 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 3: like whatever time, but still two hundred times, like even 119 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 3: two hundred. 120 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: Saying you're saying for four hundred grand, we could get 121 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: two hundred acres. 122 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 3: So that would be if it's the most expensive there. 123 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 3: It's like a little over a million. 124 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: A mid like ten years, we get two hundred acres, we. 125 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 2: Just build like a hundred content studios. 126 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then all of you guys can come visit. 127 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: We have like a little theme. 128 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: Park, a little it comes a little community. 129 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I dude, yeah, community like John John's. 130 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 131 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not a cult where I'm making and raising 132 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 3: my eyebrows for all of our audience. 133 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: Yes, when he started a cult in Kentucky? Would you come? 134 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: Oh God, I mean, when did you arrive there? 135 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: There we go? He makes it no trout here. 136 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: Peyton says two hundred could be like one mile average 137 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: cost forty seven hundred Jelly be says, my cousin has 138 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: two houses, one hundred and thirty eight acres and it's 139 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: worth about a million. But it's outside Georgetown, Kentucky. 140 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: That's wild. 141 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: How much land did he get? I think he could 142 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: be Okay, yeah, that's a lot. That's a lot. Host 143 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: streams in person. I feel like these would just be 144 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: like sermons. 145 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's just instead of like people, thou must give 146 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: good advice, goof ley. 147 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 4: I think we could do it on today's sir, and 148 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 4: we're gonna talk about the story of oh P and 149 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 4: his two hundred eight goes off. 150 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: Let's snake some step mom here, ye hear ye. 151 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: We got an update, so I promised an update. It's 152 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: taking me a long time to really sit down and 153 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: gather my thoughts to update, or rather just really take 154 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: in the reality of my situation. It's taken thirty one 155 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: years to really see beyond the rose tinted glasses of 156 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: the relationship I thought I had with my father. I 157 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: did cancel his flight. He did not help us move, 158 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: but I did end up engaging with him to keep 159 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: the peace. Quick recap. I inherited my grandparents' home. Father 160 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: and stepmom wanted to move in I said no. Dad 161 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: then decides to leave the evil step mom and reconcile. 162 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: He wanted to temporarily move in with us. We said no. 163 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: He was insisting on helping us move. We still said no. 164 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: We're essentially a strange and he's never really been a 165 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: parent to me. Would rather love and bond with my 166 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: three stepsisters and all their children than his only child 167 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: and grandchild. I previously entertained reconciliation, only to be strongly 168 00:07:54,760 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: dissuaded by my extended family and Reddit Woo before making 169 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: the move. He did come to Kentucky and leave my 170 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: stepmom as he had said so he said he's leaving, 171 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: but how he did it was cowardly. She was doing 172 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: laundry on their last day in Texas at the RV 173 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: and he got into her vehicle and split back to Georgia, 174 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: leaving her without transportation. So he like basically stole the car. 175 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 2: Insane. 176 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: Her children are angry. Once he got to their RV 177 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: in Georgia, he parked the car, packed his truck up 178 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: and trailer and headed to Kentucky. He spent a week 179 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: here on his property next to my inherited home. I 180 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: inherited his parents' house. For those who do not recall, 181 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 1: he was essentially camping in a small trailer and he 182 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: would haul stuff in for flea markets and gun shows. 183 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: That kind of sounds like cool. Honestly, I'm definitely like 184 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: like romanticizing the West and all that, like the wild 185 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: the West, but like something about like camping on the 186 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: land and selling stuff at gun shows feels goda sick. 187 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: I feel like like it would be sick if he 188 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 2: like didn't everyone a complete dead beat? 189 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: Yeah know. 190 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 3: And also like it seems like he just like just 191 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 3: lives until he rots. 192 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 193 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: So but done right, done right? Yeah, Like if they 194 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: didn't have all this context, they were like, oh, that's 195 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: kind of cool. He asked if he could use my 196 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: water hose so he could shower, and I agree, hose 197 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: them off. 198 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 2: We got a hose off, damn real quick. All right, 199 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: turn the spiggott so let's get her none. 200 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 4: All right, turn around, Pops, you've been rolling in too 201 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 4: much a room. We gotta make sure every nook in 202 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 4: Granny is clean. Spread him, dude, I want to see 203 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 4: where the sun don't shine? 204 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, forget about the. 205 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,479 Speaker 1: Orc cloud or do you see that black hole? Imagine 206 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: like hating your dad so much that you don't even 207 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: let them use your hose. That's great, it's great, But 208 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: she did she did. I have cameras outside, so I thought, 209 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: what could it hurt. Well, here's when I went wrong. 210 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: I then get a call from him that water is 211 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: pouring from under the house. I told him to shut 212 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: the water off. The house has been having leaks since 213 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: I took possession of it. It's got sixty year old 214 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 1: plumbing that will be replaced with the sale of my home. Well, 215 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: I had my uncle come to confirm and then scheduled 216 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: a plumber to come look at it. I what needed 217 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: to be done. This was five days before we'd get 218 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: there with a moving truck from Florida to Kentucky. Well, 219 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: a pipe had split under the sink and the water 220 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: heated had busted during the winter. During this time, a 221 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: storm came through and the power went out. 222 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, is back to back. 223 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: This house is just gonna be flooded. 224 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, house, this is gonna be a water world. 225 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: D gosh, it's like that one science experiment they did 226 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: it where they flooded that apartment so that lady could 227 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,559 Speaker 1: jerk off that dolphin in the seventies, you know that, 228 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: Or they're trying to teach a dolphin how to speak human. 229 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 2: I've never heard of that in my life. 230 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: That is a legitimate true story, but I'm just imagining. 231 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: There's like a thin layer of water throughout this whole house. 232 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 2: Let's save it for our new series. 233 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, honestly, Yeah, he found a key I had 234 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: in a flower pot for the plumber and went into 235 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: my home. When we got there, he told us he 236 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: sprayed the yard for ticks, did pest control, and also 237 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: cleaned and sprayed for pest inside the home. I was livid. 238 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: I didn't react angrily because at the time it felt weird. 239 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: I was questioning whether I was wrong and he was 240 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: actually wanting to be a dad to me after all 241 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: this time, So I let it go. That illusion has 242 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 1: since passed, so I guess like it seemed like he 243 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: was helping, because like what he's. 244 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 2: Saying is on the inside or spraying. 245 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 1: With when all that thing was happening, when the house 246 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: was flooded and all that, he found a key I 247 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: had in a flower pot for the plumber, went into 248 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: my home, so like there was a there was a 249 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: there was a there was a like a flood and 250 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: so yeah, so went over. I guess she's mad, like 251 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: about spraying for past inside the home. But I feel 252 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: like he was like trying, you know, it could be 253 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: I feel like she's like, oh, like maybe he's trying, 254 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: like yeah, it's misguided, like don't spray for ticks, poisonous 255 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 1: few was inside the house, but like seems like he's trying. Yeah, 256 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: But anyway, so she's hope he's getting their hopes up. 257 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: I was questioning whether it was wrong, and he was 258 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: actually wanting to be a dad to me after all 259 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: this time, so I let it go. But that illusion 260 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: has since passed. We've been here since mid June, and 261 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: now I've discovered he's robbed us blind. Oh he's denied 262 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: it all of course. Tape has been removed from an 263 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: old chimney hole assuming looking for money. Green Dish Weare 264 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: has been stolen and put on consignment in town and 265 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: at another local place forty minutes away. Anytime we have 266 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: a subcontractor out to give bids on the remodel, he 267 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: just shows up and tries to hijack the situation. He 268 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: talked to me like I'm stupid in front of my husband. 269 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: That surprisingly did not go well. My husband is as 270 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: docile as it comes, but that was the straw that 271 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: broke his silence and all of this nice. My dad 272 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: didn't take kindly to my husband, telling him he needed 273 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: to mind his own business and be respectful to his wife. 274 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: Who happens to be his daughter. 275 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, crazy that your husband needs to stand up 276 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: to your dad. Come on, he's now staying with one 277 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: of his cousins in an RV. He's still moving forward 278 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 1: with his plans to put a tiny home on the 279 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: land that has nestled between me and my uncle. That'skind 280 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: of cute. Like sinned. Family tends to avoid him like 281 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: the plague. With his repeated efforts to enter the fold. 282 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:15,559 Speaker 1: He showed up to their home on the fourth of 283 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: July with a lawn chair to see fireworks uninvited, and 284 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: they didn't ask him to leave. Sometimes July we noticed 285 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: my dad had messed with one of the propane heaters. 286 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: It no longer had a pilot light on, and the 287 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: dial had been moved to one which is on the 288 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: opposite side of the dial as the pilot setting. Either 289 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 1: that was incompetence or he was playing with the fate 290 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: of our lives. I'm hoping incompetence his granddaughter's life. He 291 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: of course denied it. I under the impression we are 292 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: all in fear of his retaliation. My husband has no 293 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: such fears and keeps threatening to go into the consignment 294 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: that has stole my glass wear and make a scene. Honestly, 295 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm at the point I'm just no longer going to 296 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: let my husband deal with him. I'm no longer emotionally exhausted, 297 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: just annoyed. He shows up randomly of food, which I 298 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: immediately throw away. The last one had a note on 299 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: it or my daughter WI I had a happier update, 300 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: but this is what it is. We close on the 301 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: sale of our home next week and start remodeling soon. 302 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: I've let my contractors know the situation, and he's not 303 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: to be on the property. I feel bad having them 304 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: in this situation. I worry he will vandalize the house 305 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: my grandparents left me while we are in our rental. 306 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: If I end up as a news story, no, it's 307 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: not a mystery, and no who is responsible. But we 308 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: got some relevant comments. So Op reveals more worrisome details 309 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: about our father in the comments. When asked if she's 310 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: in a two A or criminals are people of a 311 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: people our people state? What is that? Two A? Or 312 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: criminals or people state? Check? Can you tell me what 313 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: that is? I don't know what that is. Both county 314 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: and state are two A. Or I would have reported 315 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: his storage unit of unregistered guns he sells without performing 316 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: background checks. He exited the military, became a consultant, somehow 317 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: lost his security clearance and started selling guns. At one 318 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: point he was selling Korean aks to militia groups at Georgia. 319 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 2: Two a's second Amendment. 320 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, yeah gun. 321 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: Run oh and I'm not talking about the furry ones. 322 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: I wish this was all a joke. My dad is 323 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: the Frank Gallagher, Lord of War. I guess. Kitty Gris says, 324 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 1: i'ment with your husband on this. Your silence is emboldening 325 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: your father in pushing boundaries. There's only one way to 326 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: deal with people like that. Make sure they're aware you're 327 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: not afraid of creating an even more public scene than 328 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: they are. You and your husband should absolutely file a 329 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: police report and a no trespassing order on the theft 330 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: and damages he had done. Get your stuff back from 331 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: the consignment shop. If anything, it makes your father aware 332 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: that you're not afraid to send him to jail if 333 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: need be, and no one would bail him out. Nope. 334 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: Respond The problem with making a report is that I 335 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: don't have photo evidence that it belongs to me, other 336 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: than I have the other half of the green glass 337 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: where a set he stole. Last time I called the 338 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: police for trespassing, the state police sided with Dad's story 339 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: that I was a disgruntled child and he was just 340 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: trying to be a dad. Unsure if it was just 341 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: a small town sympathies or the patriarchy at work. This 342 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: is also the Bible belts, So kit your response. If 343 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: you have the title slash deg of the house lush property, 344 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: it is well within your right to have whoever you 345 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: want trespassed, so he could kick that off the property. 346 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't just leave it at that. I would just 347 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: tell the cops that he is a strange from me 348 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 1: and haven't had contact with him for years. He just 349 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: left his current family because he thinks he can get 350 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: me to fund his lifestyle. He's a stranger and I 351 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: want him off the property. If your uncle is next 352 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: door and the same mindset as you, he can back 353 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: you up by asking for your father to be removed 354 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: from his property as well, or at least let the 355 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: sheriff know that your father's not welcomed. And cherry block 356 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: read Wine says he is a stranger, a thief and 357 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: has committed identity fraud. Op use all your ammunition. He 358 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: stole his parents' identities and ruin their credit. There is 359 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: a pattern to all this. Also, you wrote in another 360 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: post that even at the land he would inherit was 361 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: deeded to you. That's the case, why not just evict him? 362 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: And maleficent theory eight when it says get a police 363 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: report and go to the consignment store and get your 364 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: dishes back. I can bet they have a higher value 365 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: than you realize, beyond sentimental value and document everything that 366 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: he has done. You need to see about getting your 367 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: property posted so you can't come into your long costs 368 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: further damage and desert. Dame says yes to definitely get 369 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: the police report and get your dishes back. I'm in 370 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: the vintage biz and let me tell you, if something 371 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: brings in stolen merch, they are not only banned from 372 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 1: the store but all others. They are friends with the 373 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 1: small world and the biz people know people. They'll prevent 374 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: him from doing business in your town, who will have 375 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: to leave the surrounding area to sell anything and re 376 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: estate sales. The better ones will ban him from the premises. 377 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: Since he's known to be a thief. Please let it 378 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: start with you to stop him. Unfortunately, in biz there 379 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: are these vindicative apps. Surprising enough, it tends to be 380 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: men of a certain age. They'll break stuff, hide stuff 381 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 1: and steal it. The teens will steal cheap costume jewelry. 382 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: It's the older guys who will really rip you off. 383 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: The thing with a propane tank. That's definite criminal criminal 384 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: intent to destroy your house. That's how Arson fires it 385 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: into the water to undermine your foundation and it's hello 386 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: fifty ga. To get a new one, you and your 387 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: uncle must combined forces to get rid of this increasingly 388 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: deranged man. Honestly, when it's put like that, it does 389 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 1: feel like more of a threat than I think. I 390 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 1: initially was thinking. 391 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 3: We're uneducated on the ways of pilot lights, and. 392 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is I mean, you know, frame like that, 393 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: Like this guy seems dangerous. Yeah, and maybe he should 394 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: be treated as a criminal, like a freaking criminal. 395 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I agree, I mean, it seems like from 396 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 3: everything and also let's think about it. 397 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 2: Let's just look at his history too. 398 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 3: Could we see someone with all of the stuff he's 399 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 3: done in the past getting up to high jinks like this, 400 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 3: I I think so. 401 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,239 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not it's it. 402 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 2: Doesn't lead us to think of him in a good 403 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 2: leave and he wouldn't does. 404 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: Not give confidence at all. So yeah, I think you 405 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: know you've been putting You've been trying to put out 406 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: social boundaries, but I think you know it's time to 407 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: start putting on legal and some police boundaries. 408 00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 2: Now. 409 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: I think it's getting to that point by. 410 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 2: The home bare minimum. 411 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would know what you guys think. Put your 412 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: answers to the comic blow and that's the end of 413 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: that episode. 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I'm Samuel Daughter and I'm John 420 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: frant and we tell the funniest stories of the Internet. 421 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 1: In fact, John, I want to get into spaceship go 422 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: to Brick and Mars burrow under the depths of the 423 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: Martian surface and see if they got a Martian that 424 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: is watching okop because dang straight, everyone in the world 425 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: and Mars and beyond should be watching the show. 426 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 3: All the universes, you know, Sextron nine. 427 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, Cexron nine. Damn it. 428 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 2: We have a whole fan club over there. 429 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 1: They do they do your inus. Am I the a hole? 430 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 2: Am I the anal cavity. 431 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: Of the universe? John, I heard on your exploration adventure 432 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: through the Stars and through the sky. You found a 433 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: story that might put a twinkle in my eye. Me 434 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 1: and my boy Elon, we discovered it. Let's check it out. 435 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: Elon is the meme King too is like a hardcore 436 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: redditor for short. 437 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 3: Or someone on his team has to be doing something, 438 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 3: so there's no ways not am I the a hole? 439 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 3: For telling my husband's female friend you or not his 440 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 3: best friend? 441 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: It just seems mean, you know. 442 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 2: Maybe or maybe not. 443 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: Maybe she deserves it. Let's see, let's get to it. 444 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: That's the TikTok god to decide who is wrong. 445 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 3: That's right, Long story short, my husband has one of 446 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,719 Speaker 3: those female friends. 447 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: What are those females one of those. 448 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 3: I guess it's like some one who's like slyly trying to, like, 449 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 3: you know. 450 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: Heasel their way into. 451 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 3: I will call her Sarah Sarah going to the grocery 452 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 3: store by groceries, Sarah. 453 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: Oh, discuss thing. I would never do such a thing. 454 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 3: Per and I get along fine, but every once in 455 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 3: a while she'll make a comment or sit a little 456 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 3: too close, or touch him a little too much, or 457 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 3: touch at my man's or even compete with me on 458 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 3: how close they are or how well she knows him. Wow, 459 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 3: that's that's a little bit much. That's a little much. 460 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't ever want to say to someone else's 461 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: significant other. Yeah, like he's. 462 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 2: So much more about him? Do you even know blah 463 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 2: blah blah about him? 464 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 1: I bet he would never tell you that. 465 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 2: That's a line right there. 466 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: Never tell you that, Oh my God showed me deep 467 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 1: in the throes of a passion. 468 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 3: Now she's one in a big group of about eleven friends. 469 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 3: I've talked to my husband about her several times, but 470 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 3: it's so many added up micro actions that it's hard 471 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 3: to tell her offer one singular thing without looking crazy. 472 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 3: So it's like her things are so tiny that it's 473 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: like it's weird to call her out for one specific thing. 474 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 1: I guess it's one of those situations where it's like 475 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 1: you're kind of gauging intent. Yeah, and like the person 476 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: knows how to respect the boundary but also disrespected at 477 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 1: the same time. It's like towing the line, towing the line. 478 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 1: But like I am of the opinion, and I'll wait 479 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: to hear the story. But I'm kind of of the 480 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 1: opinion that if it sounds crazy to call someone out, 481 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: then you're probably being crazy. 482 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let's we'll see, we'll see. 483 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 1: Well. 484 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 3: This past weekend, the group of friends got together the 485 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 3: first time since we were all boosted. My husband and 486 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 3: I eloped a few weeks ago, and this was the 487 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 3: first time that our friends were really seeing us since 488 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 3: we got married. Sarah came right up and got in 489 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 3: our face as the group was congratulating us to tell 490 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,239 Speaker 3: my husband how disappointed she was in him for not 491 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 3: telling her about our ceremony, not inviting her, and not 492 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 3: even sending her a photo. No photos, this wants to 493 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 3: be included, Sarah. He told her nobody except our parents 494 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 3: knew nobody was invited, and we don't have our professional 495 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 3: photos back yet. And then the girl started sobbing how 496 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 3: could he do this to her? And she wanted him 497 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 3: to be her man of honor when she gets married. 498 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 3: She's single, by the way, and he didn't even invite 499 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 3: her to his and their friendship now needed some serious 500 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: TLC to recover. What's TLC Tender loving care? Ah, okay, 501 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: this is in front of a whole crew, mind. 502 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: You that I feel like that. I mean, if no 503 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 1: one else is invited, like it's your wedding, you don't 504 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: owe anyone anything. 505 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 3: Exactly right now, I couldn't take it anymore and said, 506 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 3: he might be your best friend, but you're not his. 507 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 3: That was between me and him. You you weren't even 508 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 3: a consideration. 509 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: Oh that last one, that was the twist, baby, Oh, 510 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: that was the twist. 511 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: Of the dagger. Damn bro. 512 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 1: She's like, I think that's that's a lot, a lot. 513 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: Both of them are going a little, a little hard man. 514 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 3: There was some frosty ooh from the crowd and she 515 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 3: left the house. 516 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 1: The crowd is split. 517 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 3: They were all my husband's friends before I came into 518 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 3: the picture, and some think it was uncalled for and 519 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 3: that I should have just let my husband handle it. 520 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 2: I was mad in the moment, but now I don't know. 521 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 2: Did I go too far? 522 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 1: I think I think they're right. I think they should 523 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 1: have let the husband handle it. Yeah, but honestly, like 524 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: great burn though, great bird, great bird, I will, I 525 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: will applaud the sickness of the burn, but I think, like, 526 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: I mean, if this is something that has been bothering 527 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: the the wife, like the husband should have done something 528 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: about this situation. Like that's a good before, that's a 529 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: very good point. I'm just thinking of my my girlfriend Alriyan. 530 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: I was ever uncomfortable with my relationship with one of 531 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 1: my one of my girlfriends like that we would have 532 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: talks about like what is appropriate, Yeah, you know between 533 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 1: my friend and and I, uh. 534 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 3: And you have to communicate that to that person then, 535 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 3: like yeah, like if it's if it's at that point. 536 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, like like hey, like you know, I don't 537 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,479 Speaker 1: know if I feel really comfortable with how you're acting, 538 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: and you know, neither is my girlfriend. Yeah, so I 539 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: I think it's somewhat on the boyfriend in general or 540 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 1: on the husband. Yeah, I think it's somewhat. I think 541 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: it's somewhat on the high has been in general. But 542 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: I also think that the husband should have spoke up 543 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 1: in this situation and and been allowed to to speak 544 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: up and and and say, you know, respond to Sarah himself. 545 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: Any thoughts, John, Yeah, I kind of agree with you. 546 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 3: I think that he definitely should have said something like 547 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 3: if it the thing. 548 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 2: Is that it bothered her, so they should have worked 549 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 2: on that. 550 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 3: Even if before her like little instances were like too 551 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 3: small to be a big deal or whatever, like they 552 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 3: should have had that discussion. 553 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder if if Op even brought it up 554 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: to him yet, that's a good question. If she hasn't, 555 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: that's a good question. Then that's that's like that's kind 556 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 1: of on her, that that's on her. 557 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 2: You got to communicate that. 558 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,199 Speaker 1: But uh, you know what, it's always something that you 559 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: should bring up. 560 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 5: Subscribing to O KOB, follow us on Spotify, go look 561 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 5: at the podcast everywhere you get your podcasts, and then 562 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 5: if you want to be a real one, subscribe on 563 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 5: patre and help support the show. 564 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: We're trying to grow or try to do mo and 565 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: mo uh and be like the best fam ever. 566 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 3: Kathy Quigley, Kegan Simmons, and Desiree Canterbury. 567 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: We appreciate you and can't wait for more people to 568 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: join the little Little Bag Drunk community a little o 569 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 1: KP FAM. 570 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 571 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: I went to the Next Time show. 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