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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest, Sistney and e J. What's up?

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Speaker 1: You know we're kind of just getting going. I am

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Speaker 1: struggling today. I thought. I thought, as the week gets

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Speaker 1: there we go, that it would be easier. But no,

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Speaker 1: I felt like today was the hardest day to wake up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I went out last night. Probably not the greatest idea

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Speaker 1: you would think I would know, like doing mornings for

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Speaker 1: the past I don't know how many years, eight years

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Speaker 1: at this point, Um, I felt like I was responsible

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Speaker 1: though we had some sake a little bit. I went

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Speaker 1: in bed by eleven. It's very late for me though,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I didn't get the greatest sleep. And then

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Speaker 1: Savello was up at like four am crying, and so

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Speaker 1: it was just in Michael and You're like, hey, I'm like, hello,

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Speaker 1: doing more to show going there and handle that in

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Speaker 1: their own The baby is still in our room. That's

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Speaker 1: a whole other topic. Um, So you know, who might

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Speaker 1: not be struggling, or maybe maybe he or she is struggling.

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Speaker 1: Who is that cows are females no matter what? Right

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Speaker 1: a cow was on the loose yesterday in Lakeview terrorists.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys watched this. It was

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Speaker 1: probably around I don't know, in thirty one pm. And

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Speaker 1: I'm well, I'm part of a car chase fanatics group

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Speaker 1: text chat. Um, it's like me, Joe, Joe, a few

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Speaker 1: other people here from the station, our friends, people who

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Speaker 1: are really into car chases, which happened a lot here

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Speaker 1: in Los Angeles and Orange County, and so they anytime

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Speaker 1: there's any sort of car chase, we get alerted, you know,

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Speaker 1: we are. Someone sends a text and link to the

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Speaker 1: live if it's not on TV yet, it's on their website.

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Speaker 1: Blah blah. So they're like, well, not really a car chase,

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Speaker 1: but this is a cow chase. We're like, it works,

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Speaker 1: watch it. I was wondering, like what was going on

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Speaker 1: because I've seen people that were like just like on

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Speaker 1: Twitter talking about this cow. But I wasn't fully invested

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Speaker 1: because you know, I was dead tired. So what happened? Oh,

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Speaker 1: I was fully invested. I don't know how it started,

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Speaker 1: but so I came in like midway while the cow

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Speaker 1: was on the two tent kind of just like you know,

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Speaker 1: Hobviously she looked really scared. Yeah, And so cars were stopped.

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Speaker 1: Obviously some people were trying to be heroes and get

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Speaker 1: out of their car and like almost you know, trying

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Speaker 1: to stop the cow. How are you to stop the cow?

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Speaker 1: She just turned around and started running in the opposite direction.

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Speaker 1: At one point, they kind of had her in a

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Speaker 1: parking lot and then you would see her go up

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Speaker 1: to it. But there was a business there and they

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Speaker 1: to the glass windows, almost as if she was seeing

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Speaker 1: her reflection, like so she'd see like another cow. She

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Speaker 1: kept going back to the window, like thinking that that

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Speaker 1: was home or whatever. Eventually she escapes that area, goes

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Speaker 1: up these stairs, goes down another road and then a

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Speaker 1: looks like a ranch. There were other animals there. They're sheep,

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Speaker 1: goats all and then more cows. So I'm like TV

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Speaker 1: They're like, well, maybe this is home, but I don't

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Speaker 1: think it was. The owner there came out and like

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Speaker 1: you know, white tank top and he was like trying

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Speaker 1: It went on for like another twenty minutes. There. They

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Speaker 1: finally got her and hopefully she's safe. They last at her. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm impressed. Yeah they did that. And then there was

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Speaker 1: like four guys trying to I don't say tackle, but

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Speaker 1: I wonder where this cow escaped from. You saw the cow?

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know. I don't know how it

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Speaker 1: to begin with? Can I just say midday TV in

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Speaker 1: l A Is probably the most entertaining because there's a cow.

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Speaker 1: There's like card chases, there's just like the unexpected, always

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Speaker 1: happening exactly. That's why we love this city. So are

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Speaker 1: you familiar with I am I've ever been to one. No,

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Speaker 1: let me just tell you that it doesn't even have

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Speaker 1: my my parents told me I had to how to

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Speaker 1: have a keen signetta and not a sweet sixteen. I

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Speaker 1: was like why, But you know, I embraced it and

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Speaker 1: and it was like cringe embarrassing kind of. But looking

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Speaker 1: back now, I'm so grateful that I experienced that whole

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Speaker 1: how amazing it is to be um, you know, the

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Speaker 1: in college. I bring this up because Ruby, who works here,

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Speaker 1: she is uh one of our producers. Hello Ruby, Hello?

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Speaker 1: You did you have a king? Sena? I did not? Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I you're looking at me like, why man, I

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Speaker 1: wish I had a king. Yeah, I did not get

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Speaker 1: is this is you said this yesterday. I like it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's basically like you know, essentially honoring the tradition of

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Speaker 1: that's next year for me, and I'm like, I just

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Speaker 1: I want to throw a party, like you said, just

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Speaker 1: have fun the music, drinks, the food. Will you get

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Speaker 1: don't know if I'll do. I don't know if I'll

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Speaker 1: go that far, okay, but definitely like the coumbi as

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Speaker 1: you nostalgic, So I definitely want to do that. I've

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Speaker 1: never been to. It's so hard for me to say that.

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Speaker 1: Um My, I know somebody that had She called it

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Speaker 1: a double king, but it's essentially the same thing. And

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Speaker 1: she did it on her thirtieth UM eight hundred five

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Speaker 1: And it was it successful? Was it fun? What did

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Speaker 1: you do? How did it work? All the tips? People

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Speaker 1: embrace it. You gotta rent like a ballroom salon salon,

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Speaker 1: Yes exactly. I want to come throw and have some fun,

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Speaker 1: especially the food. What do you like Cumbia? And sell

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Speaker 1: some music and all that, e j I'll get down

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Speaker 1: to good dancer. Absolutely. I am like offended that you

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Speaker 1: asked that I haven't seen you dance? Don't really. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we've been to someplace where I would dance. Definitely,

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Speaker 1: you and I have definitely not been dancing. That doesn't

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Speaker 1: count a little two steps, you know? Your boy gets

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Speaker 1: down like I am the first person dancing at a wedding,

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Speaker 1: like if you want me to? If you add um,

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Speaker 1: if you had a wedding, like you want me there?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm like, come on, let's go, let's go, especially

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Speaker 1: after a couple of shots in tequila for share, I'm

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Speaker 1: with it, Okay, I'm down. So what about a sweet

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Speaker 1: thirty two? Is that a thing? Just make it just

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Speaker 1: bit balling here, you know, bad ideas were brainstorming, right,

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Speaker 1: but the next year you can still do a sweet

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Speaker 1: third too. Gives you more time to plan. Mariana in

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Speaker 1: l a good morning. So you have a funny story

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Speaker 1: for your key, say, I do. So you guys are

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Speaker 1: to share that I actually had a box sanieta, which

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Speaker 1: was a mixture of a bomb mitzv to keis in

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Speaker 1: Europe on what party to have, and so I'm totally

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Speaker 1: kith sniea exactly because mine wasn't the most traditional either,

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Speaker 1: But am I saying that right? Yep? A box sanieta

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Speaker 1: that is an invitation everything. So did you do all

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Speaker 1: of the traditions for both cultures? Exactly? I did a

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Speaker 1: But I bet you they think you're cool as ever.

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Speaker 1: I'm a good time. It was amazing. We had tacos,

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Speaker 1: year very cool? Or Marianna, take care? Are you off

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Speaker 1: So oh, I know, all right, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Let's take your shoutouts right now. Susie and Chino, you're

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Speaker 1: not the Susie from the bachelor. Right No, no, not

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Speaker 1: at all. Okay, Um, who do you want to shout

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Speaker 1: having her key Tanyea next weekend. How exciting? So many

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Speaker 1: How do you How does she feel? How do you feel?

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Speaker 1: We're both a nervous wreck, but I'm thankful I only

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Speaker 1: happen at the Kingette. Okay, I definitely will and I

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Speaker 1: love you Amanda. Happy birthday. Oh we love you, Amanda.

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Speaker 1: if it's high landing green, then that means you got

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00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 1: it in the right spot, but it's not the word obviously,

423
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 1: so you didn't keep trying. So I got it in

424
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: four tries today, which I feel like it's decent. So

425
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,160
Speaker 1: the game judges you if it doesn't. If you don't

426
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 1: get it, don't correct theory. Yes, and then there's bragging rights, right,

427
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: Like imagine getting the first t I got. I got

428
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: on the second try once, and I literally it puts

429
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: you in a mood. I was like feeling myself for

430
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: that whole day. I was like, so, here's the thing.

431
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: So are there people that actually get it into first try?

432
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 1: I wonder, well, I'm sure it, yes, it has to

433
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: have happened not It's never happened to me personally. But

434
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: I got in the second that's pretty good. I tried

435
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: to play it this week when we are we're all

436
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: doing it in the studio, and I honestly tried to cheat.

437
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: I tried. Well, okay, so you fall under this category

438
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: because I was going to bring this up. Word All

439
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: has apparently, you know, taken over a bunch of cheaters

440
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 1: now because cheaters are I don't understand the purpose of

441
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: cheating for word all. Personally, I don't understand doing homework

442
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 1: for fun. And that's no, it's a brain exercise. It's

443
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: good for the mind. Here's the thing. Apparently all the

444
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: words through October through are available. Like you can find websites,

445
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: you can find social media accounts that post all of

446
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: the future words. So therefore, yes, you can go on

447
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 1: there and cheat and get it on the first try

448
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: if you want to, and then brag about it. But

449
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: then you're just the liar. Well, I also encourage the

450
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 1: Bachelor a lie yesterday, So like I sometimes get you places,

451
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm learning a lot about your AJ. Did I ever

452
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: tell you how I got into radio? Tell you want

453
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: to hear the story I told a fib to get

454
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 1: my first internship at a radio station. Well what was

455
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: the fifth though? Because I feel like everyone I was

456
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: getting school credit and that's how I got it. Wow,

457
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: that is impressive. No, because I did it the right way. So, yes,

458
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: for us to be interns in this company, you had

459
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: to be able to get okay well and think probably

460
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: all companies. You had to be able to get school

461
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: credit it. But I was not a communications major, so

462
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 1: the classes were not offered for me at Santigo State

463
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: in that category. Therefore, I could not get school credit.

464
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: So I had to go and enroll at a community

465
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: college and get the classes that would allow school credit

466
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: so that I can go and intern and do it

467
00:24:55,600 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 1: the right way. You have to pay double money. You

468
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: got to just like fake the letter. It was not

469
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: double money. I still got the credit for my ge

470
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: and so, like you know, it worked out in the end.

471
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: But yes, I had to go to a different campus

472
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: and take these other courses. You know. You say lie,

473
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: I say life hack. I just don't understand it. It

474
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: makes no sense when it comes to word all all right, cool,

475
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: like you told the fib here you are now in

476
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: Los Angeles on the air. But when it comes to wordle,

477
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: why would you cheat? That doesn't make sense. It's like

478
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 1: lying to yourself about working out. But can I tell

479
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: you how I cheated. I didn't necessarily look at one

480
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: of the sites that told you like what the words were.

481
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: I looked up because I got one of the letters.

482
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, so what are five letter

483
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: words that have these letters in them? And that's what

484
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: I did. That's cheating, No, it's it's it's assisting. Like

485
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: it's almost like raising your hand when you're in class

486
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: and the teacher walks over and points you in the

487
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: right direction, and at what number try are you doing this?

488
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: Because you get six tries? One's saw I understand maybe

489
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: you were on the fifth try and you're just like,

490
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: all hard, this is it. I'm going to go to

491
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: my resources. I'm gonna you know what that that call

492
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: a friend or phoned in that lifeline. But okay, so

493
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: you're a cheater. I wasn't that invested. On Air with

494
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest is off this week, so e

495
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: J has stepped in usually do nights here on kiss.

496
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: So this is very early for you, but you know,

497
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: coffee helps, coffee, red Bull with red Bull ice. You

498
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: know we're talking earlier about how Tinder now has the

499
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: you have the capability on Tinder to do background checks.

500
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: On future dates, which is not a terrible idea. So

501
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: we're like, well, has do you actually do background checks?

502
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: Have you done them before? Has it worked out? Brenda

503
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: and Long Beach, you have a you paid for a

504
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: service for a background check? Yes, yes, I do, okay,

505
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,479
Speaker 1: And how does has that worked for you? What did

506
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: you find? Well? I do. I have a lot of

507
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: friends that are on dating apps, so I normally, you know,

508
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: they send me their number, I love them up, see

509
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: if there's any criminal history, and it actually I'm through

510
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: my years of dating and I did find one person

511
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: who was on the put it on the pedophilest so

512
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: that was a big no no Glen. I pay for

513
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: that service, So this is interesting. I like, I like

514
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 1: that you paid for the service, but you share it

515
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: with all your friends and it's like you knowing I do.

516
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: I do. As a matter of fact, I had to

517
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: have a group of group text and one of them said,

518
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: Condemnity loves up a number for me if it's been

519
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: up to me, that's so funny. I wouldn't be using

520
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: that just for like regular people, just like, oh my god,

521
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: thank you for calling Brenda Natalie Arcadia. You've done a

522
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: background check Okay, on who on my nel fiance? Who

523
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: I met and do and do they know? I did

524
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 1: tell him? What did he What did he say when

525
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: you told him? Hey? Ps, I did a little background

526
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: check on you. Actually it was the first take that

527
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: I met his family and I. We were talking about

528
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: something and then I mentioned it. Then he's like, no,

529
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 1: you didn't know it, like I swear to God I did,

530
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: And then we just started laughing He just thought it

531
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: was funny. Was there a red flag that made you

532
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: do a background check? No? Um, we actually met right

533
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: before COVID, so we kind of got serious soon. And

534
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: I have kids, so I don't bring anyone around my

535
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: children at all, like my number one role, not even

536
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: to pick me up on a date in my apartment.

537
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: So I did it for safety reasons because of my kids.

538
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: I get that you don't want the killer coming to

539
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,239
Speaker 1: your house. Absolutely not right. I mean, they don't need

540
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: to be a killer, But yeah, I mean that you

541
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: don't want the crazy person coming over, and any type

542
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: of crazy, you know, anything that could have popped up

543
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: to potentially make me um second guests or even so

544
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: guilty about bringing them along my children. I get it. Yeah,

545
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: having kids as a game changer for sure. Well, thank

546
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: you for calling, Natalie, appreciate it. Gabby and Pomona, you're

547
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: on Earth, Ryan seacrestys off this week. It's Sisty and

548
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: e J. Good morning. And now you're a little skeptical

549
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: when it comes to online dating. Yes, So I always

550
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: said to myself, I would never do online dating because

551
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: I would watch a lot of Element movies and there

552
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: was always so many things on there. On those movies,

553
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 1: they're really interesting. But I always said I would never

554
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: do it. I became a single mom of two children,

555
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: and I was always skeptical about, you know, finding someone online,

556
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: talking to them and it's not really being them, being

557
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: an older man. So I did do the background check

558
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: UM on a couple of guys. One of them actually

559
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: had just they had on their background check. They had

560
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: UM that they were just in Ja. I'm not future

561
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: exactly for what. There were some codes on there, but

562
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: I never looked them up UM. But luckily I met

563
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: my now boyfriend UM and we are living together. We've

564
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: been living together. We met right before COVID and he

565
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: was very nice, very respectful. But at the same time,

566
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: I didn't I couldn't trust you know, you just never know.

567
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: But I did do a background check. Luckily, nothing came

568
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: up under his so I kept talking to him. And

569
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: I've always been skeptical as well about bringing someone around

570
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: my children because you just never know. So the guy

571
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: that was in jail, did you see how long he

572
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: was in jail for? Um? It said he was in

573
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: jail for about a year and a half. I feel

574
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: like that's not that bad. Are you kidding me? He

575
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: wasn't out there like different. No, but it's different if

576
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: he was in jail for one night, you know, one

577
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: night I could have been like a drunk bar fight,

578
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: who knows, but like a year and a half. Some well,

579
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: what if it was like an assault, he was trying

580
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,959
Speaker 1: to defend somebody's honor or something like that. I mean,

581
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: if you want somebody like that around you, I'm just saying,

582
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I have to be careful because with

583
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: my children something that happened to me. You know, I

584
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: have a three year old now and a six year old,

585
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: so you know, so I did have to do that

586
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: background check, but Leslie, you know, I I found I

587
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: didn't find my boyfriend's now future husband to bed, but

588
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: I did find him on Pini of fish. And you know,

589
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: thank god I was able to have that background check

590
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: available even though I paid for it, it was you know,

591
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: totally worth it. And now you know, we're living together

592
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: three years later, so see happy And yes, it's really

593
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: good to have that because you just never know who

594
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: you're getting, who you're talking to. It's always very important

595
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: just to be precautious. It's not anything like you're being sneaky.

596
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: You're just pretty much you're finding someone that you don't

597
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: know about, and you don't know any friends or family

598
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: of theirs, so it's kind of hard to you know, Yeah,

599
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: you've got to be your own detective Gabby. And you

600
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: know what, now you are your own happy ending of

601
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: a lifetime movie. Okay, you're you're the good one, the

602
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: cheesy ones that we see a Christmas. Okay, thank you

603
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: for calling about you moving in together and getting married,

604
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: so so great, thank you, thank you so much for calling.

605
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:29,959
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, she background checking his mom. She has

606
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: the service. I mean, you're paying month. It's like might

607
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: as well on air with Ryan Secrets. I wanted to

608
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: get into this because I'm actually I want to bring

609
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: in my friend Lewis. Hello, Louis, you're on with us,

610
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: all right, So I'm gonna tell the story that he

611
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: went out the house the other day, and you know,

612
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: Louis is telling me about his dating life and things

613
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: like that. You're you're dating somebody in her mid mid twenties,

614
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: your mid thirties, Yeah, exactly, and and it's like, you know,

615
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: kind of like they're in the beginning phase of the

616
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: relationship kind of, and I'm like, he's like, well, she drinks,

617
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: but Louis does not drink, so and it's almost like

618
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: an allergic thing, right, Louis, Yeah, that's what I'm I'm

619
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: dest allergic to alcohol. So it's not like I'm sober

620
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: or anything like, I'm just I just can't ily just

621
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: can't drink, right exactly. I want to live and breathe,

622
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: I should not drink, exactly. And I've been friends with

623
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: Lewis for almost twenty years and there's been many times

624
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: in her early twenties where we were like, you're lying,

625
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: just have a drink, and then you see him like vomit,

626
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: Like it's it's really it's a real thing. So yeah,

627
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: so we don't know, there's no pressure anymore. When we

628
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: get it, you don't drink. But then I was like, dude,

629
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, this has to be a little bit of

630
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 1: like a buzz kill like literally, but it has to

631
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: be a little bit we'll have a strike on you

632
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: because you meet these girls in the mid twenties when

633
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: I was twenty five, like I wanted to date somebody

634
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: that could have a drink with me or glass of

635
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: wine with me at dinner, and that it was just

636
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: me personally. But do you think it affects your dating

637
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: life because of it? Um? I mean yeah, I think

638
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: that it's like one of those It's one of those

639
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: things where especially I think it's like an age thing,

640
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: like you just said, Especially somebody in the mid twenties,

641
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: they're still kind of in like, you know, party mode.

642
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: They want to go out to friends, they want to drink,

643
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: and they kind of want to they want to share

644
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: that experience with like me, and I'm like, no, you

645
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 1: don't want to show that experience because that's not gonna

646
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: be a good experience because I want to die. So

647
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: it's like hard for them to like you know, um,

648
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: like imagine that and fathom that because they just think

649
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm just like being a buzz because like you said,

650
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: but it's like this is literally life and death. So

651
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: I can't drink um alcohol and I'm not judging. I

652
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: think that's the biggest thing too, is like are you

653
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: going to judge me if I drink? Because then they

654
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: get all wasted, right, and it's hilarious. I love it.

655
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sober, I remember everything. I'm watching them

656
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: like this is great. I'm having a good time. So yeah,

657
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: there's no problem for me. But for me, that's so weird,

658
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't want to be complete totally wasted and

659
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: then have someone to be completely sober and then like

660
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 1: trying to get it on. I'm not trying to be

661
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: the only one, you know what I mean? No I am,

662
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: and sincely knows this because we all hang out like

663
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: the same group of friends and like, I mean, this

664
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: isn't like news, but like they all drink like a party,

665
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: so so I'm like sober. I'm typically the one that

666
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 1: drives too. So um, there's that like everyone's getting everyone's

667
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: getting home safe. Unless I decided to go home early

668
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: because I'm tired. You know, everyone's getting home, everyone's getting

669
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 1: home in one piece. So do you enjoy that always

670
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,959
Speaker 1: being the designated driver for your friends and the people

671
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: that you're dating. Yeah, to be honest, I do because

672
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: because I know they're going to be safe, like you know, honesty,

673
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 1: Like I know, like obviously you have ubers and lifts

674
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: and all that, which is which is an option. But

675
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I have the power to make sure

676
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 1: my friends get home safe and everyone's like, you know,

677
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: in good hands. And I'm one. I will say this

678
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: though there wasn't not too longer or I want here it.

679
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 1: I drove everyone and I left the spot early because

680
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: I was tired how to wake up early for work.

681
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 1: One of my friends left their keys in my car,

682
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: so I get like a call like three in the

683
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: morning and they're at their place and they're like, hey,

684
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 1: can you and I can't be like, oh, I'm drunk,

685
00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 1: I can't drive. You're sober, you're sober? Can you come?

686
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: Can you come drive here? Drive something like lostly so

687
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 1: like Pasadena, you know what I mean in the morning

688
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, this is that's sober lifely, that's

689
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: why you pretend to be sleep yeah sor I know

690
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: that's too big of a heart. I guess do you

691
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: ever get irritated when you have to like wrangle these

692
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: drunk people because it essentially is like wrangling toddlers, you

693
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: know what. I like the same way that my friends

694
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: have given up on trying to get me a drink,

695
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: I've given up on that aspect. That's like, yeah, that's

696
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: that's that's gonna be h. That's a no go for me.

697
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: But it is interesting. Lewis like Louis is a catch

698
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: by the way, Like he is hot, you got you know,

699
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: your your personal trainers, your body is like perfect, but

700
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: this is just the one thing you just don't Yeah,

701
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: what's your Instagram handle? Yeah? I don't want to say

702
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: that too. That does go into like hand in hand

703
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 1: with my with my profession, you know what I mean.

704
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,399
Speaker 1: So they actually kind of worked out. I think God

705
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: is like, uh, you know, you have a good body,

706
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: You're not gonna have any fun, but you know no,

707
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: But that's that's where I was going with this. It's like, here,

708
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: this is the one thing. So I feel like a

709
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: lot of women it was a deal breaker for them,

710
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: so then they just didn't end up dating you anymore

711
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: because of it. But I'm like, gosh, if you can

712
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: just get past it, you know, it's not that big

713
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: of a deal when you really consider it. So well,

714
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing your story and talking to us. Louis.

715
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: I know that you have an eight thirties like I

716
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: need to start teaching class at eight thirties and when

717
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: you wrap it up, but thank you for calling. Yeah. Oh,

718
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: at a certain point, you just have to like pretend

719
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: to be drunk if you're like really into someone, and

720
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: it's a deal breakers just like I'm having a good

721
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: time that to the wise e J. No, we cannot

722
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: start a relationship if you're on a first date and

723
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 1: you're pretending for a Pretending and lying are two different things. Wow,

724
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: eight hundred five to one two seven. If you meet

725
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: someone and you're hitting it off, think about if you're

726
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: hitting it off and then you find out they don't drink,

727
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: is that a deal breaker for whatever reasons? Maybe they

728
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: are sober, maybe they're took to alcohol like my friend Lewis,

729
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: or whatever the case may be. Taking your calls now,

730
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: Raquel and see me Valley, good morning. So you're married

731
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: to someone who doesn't drink or smoke? Yes, yes, And

732
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 1: when we first dated I was seventeen and he was nineteen.

733
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: And even though we drank around that age because we

734
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: were younger, it didn't, um, it bothered me. It didn't

735
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 1: bother me because I had a lot of boyfriends that

736
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: would cheat on me or they would say that they

737
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,919
Speaker 1: they got drunk and they didn't know what they were doing.

738
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: So it actually was a turn on to me in

739
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: the beginning that he didn't drink. And then as we

740
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: got older, like when we hit twenty one three, um,

741
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: it did bother me in a lot of our flights

742
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: and arguments were because he didn't want to go out

743
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 1: with me and and social life. Yeah, I didn't because

744
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. For me, those were like like, I'm

745
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: definitely not going out as much as I did in

746
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: my twenties now in my thirty's, so those are fun years,

747
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: Like I can't. I think back to all the experiences

748
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: that Michael and I had, Um, you know, going to

749
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: festivals and concerts and trips and you know, being able

750
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: to share. But at the end of the day, you

751
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: write like alcohol does not make the experience, Like you

752
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: don't need to be drunk to have all that stuff.

753
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 1: And I look at you now, married, happy and you

754
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: stuck through it, right, yeah, And I think, yeah, no, absolutely,

755
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: And a lot of the perch. Like I heard one

756
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: of the calls that somebody was a designated driver. It

757
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: was one of your guys friends that was calling in

758
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: that he likes to get his friend's home. That was

759
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: my husband, Like whenever the girls wanted to go out,

760
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: he would make sure that we got their safe and

761
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 1: he picked us up. So it was like a perk

762
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: for us. Like there was there was a point in

763
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:43,919
Speaker 1: my life I was like, oh, this isn't got bad.

764
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 1: And then as I got older, I realized that even

765
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: though I like to go out and socialized, I could

766
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: do that by myself. Like even now, if i want

767
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 1: to go to happy hour after work, I'll tell my husband,

768
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: like I'm going I'm gonna go to Mby Grill, or

769
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to Los Toros, or I'm gonna go

770
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: have a margarite that and he's fine with it because

771
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: that's not his scene, that's not what he likes. So

772
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: we we compromise exactly. It works out. Thank you so

773
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: much for calling, Thank you for having me. I hope

774
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: you guys have a great day today too. So I'm

775
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: seeing all the calls here and it looks like a

776
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: lot of people it's not a big deal. Amy and

777
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: mission Vie. Hell, good morning, good morning. How are you.

778
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: We're good? So you don't think it's a deal breaker, No,

779
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't. Just as long as he's okay with me

780
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 1: having a glass of wine or to at dinner, then

781
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 1: I'm all good. What about you getting sloppy drunk? Well

782
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: that's never really pretty sight. No, we don't ever want

783
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: to get there, but you know, sometimes it happens. We

784
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: didn't plan it. But you know, maybe your friends should

785
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: start dating older people, girl, Amy, This for all I

786
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: gotta say is, you know, we want to party kind

787
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: of baby goes up in the thirties. You might meet

788
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: someone who is like more like him. This is the

789
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 1: conference is a broken record conversation than him. And he's

790
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,439
Speaker 1: not allergic to girls in their thirties. And I told

791
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 1: him that, but you know what he told me. He

792
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: was like, sometimes I mean girls that are like closer

793
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 1: to mine, you know, and they're I'm like, what it's

794
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 1: like they don't want to go out as my dog.

795
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 1: You need to give us a chance, you know, we

796
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 1: gotta have we gotta date people our own ames the twenties.

797
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 1: I'm with you, I'm with you, Thank you, So much

798
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: for calling Amy, take care of mission be okay you

799
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry. I'm really suck. I'm really sucking hanging

800
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: up on people this now, this is really sensitive, Okay,

801
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: Jenny and east l A, good morning, Good morning. So

802
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: so you're just like my friend lewis you're allergic to alcohol? Yes,

803
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: I am dirty one and allergousy alcohol. And how did

804
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: you find out? My mom and my grandpa are allerging?

805
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: Oh so that's hereditary. And my grandpa always had like

806
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: little wine and she's told like a stay red she

807
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: couldn't have it at all. And my friends they would

808
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: put on and plant. Oh so I tried it and

809
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: like once I wouldn't even swallow it and it would

810
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: come right back out like they couldn't read. It's just

811
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: gonna ask like, what are symptoms? Like? So did your

812
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: throat close up? Are you you just basically throw up?

813
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: Throw up? I would like I would throw it back out.

814
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: I couldn't read. Um, my time starts to sell up. Wow,

815
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: but you know what, you can still have a good time.

816
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: You don't need the booze. No, I do take up,

817
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: I do. I am but designated driver. I'm babysitter for

818
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: all my friends. There there we go. I love it.

819
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 1: Thank you Jenny for Connie, Colleen and Claudia and Anaheim.

820
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: You are married to someone who doesn't drink. Yes, I'm

821
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: actually married to my husband and he gets drunk with

822
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: one beard, so um, Like I'm twenty six. So when

823
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 1: we were when I was twenty, I would get sloppy drunk,

824
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,959
Speaker 1: like really black to the point that I would block

825
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: out and it happened a few times, and he's okay

826
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: with it, like he doesn't really mine. And now I'm

827
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: actually the person that when I hang out with my friends,

828
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: I do not drink because they get that way as well.

829
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 1: You're like being there, done that, We're good. Thank you

830
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: for calling, Claudia. I appreciate it. So there you got.

831
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: Mean there's a lot of calls still coming through saying like,

832
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: I it's working out. I'm married for X amount of

833
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: years and can I just say I think I drink

834
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: when with friends so I don't have to be responsible

835
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: for them. Who can get the drunk? Is faster not

836
00:43:50,400 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: it on air with Ryan Secret, Let's do this. Let's

837
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: take your calls. Tell me anything good that is happening

838
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: in your life. Tracy and Santa Clarita, good morning, what's good?

839
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: Good morning? Tell me something good. So for me having

840
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: a sun with a speech delay at four years old,

841
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 1: hearing him say I love your mama, as your son

842
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: said say, makes my day. I mean you you just

843
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: can't replain, don't make me cry. Yeah, and that is

844
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: a cold salt to warm Tracy, thank you so much

845
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: for sharing that with us. What's your son's name? Thank you, guys, Trey, Trey.

846
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: We love you, Trey. I love you too, tre Thank

847
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: you guys. All right, take care, Annabelle and Corona. Tell

848
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: me something good. So after ten years of dating my

849
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: partner and having three little babies and a bit of

850
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: a roller coaster, we're going to take the plut this

851
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: year and about a couple of months and all of

852
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: the kids are in the wedding. So I'm so excited.

853
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: I think it was meant to be. How special is

854
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: that ten years WHOA, my oldest is gonna be singing

855
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: because she has a gorgeous voice. Oh my goodness, what's

856
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: gonna sing? Um? She We're debating on two special songs.

857
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to say it in case my friends

858
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 1: are listening. You know that it's the songs that made

859
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,959
Speaker 1: us fall in love, and well, I love that. Yeah,

860
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: maybe we'll see her on American I don't one day.

861
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: I absolutely think that. Thank you, Annabelle. Congratulations Johnetta, tell

862
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: me something good. Well, I battled addiction and um appohol

863
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: addiction and drug addiction for about a very long time.

864
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: You're gonna say that, and I ended up homeless and

865
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm on the street. I actually lived on skid row

866
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: in a tent um. What's a kind of time. And

867
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 1: I guess one day it's just like, you know what,

868
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: I need to stop, and I it. I ultimately just

869
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,800
Speaker 1: so I put it down. I picked myself up, I

870
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 1: went to got myself together. Um. During my addiction, I

871
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: had lost some children into the system. And once I

872
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: got my everything together, everything started falling in place for me.

873
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: So now I am not on the street anymore. I

874
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: have my house. I just got a car, you know,

875
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 1: I you know, And I just wanted to let people

876
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: know that people do recover. It is possible for propose

877
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 1: to recover from addiction. You know. Um, but yeah, that's

878
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: that's that is incredible. Congratulations returning your life around like that,

879
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: Because you're right, I feel like so many people don't.

880
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: Did you have resources that you depended on when you

881
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 1: were going through your recovery that like that helped you. Yes,

882
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 1: I did. My resources were a sober support system. But

883
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: at the point, you know, I have someone when I

884
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: have a feeling like you know what, I just can't

885
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: do this no more, I make that call. And when

886
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: I make that call, you know, I let it be good, better, indifferent.

887
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: I do listen. And that's the most important part is

888
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: being important and honest with yourself, like, Okay, let's identify

889
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: what is wrong, you know, and once you can do

890
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: that and had that communications that with not just the

891
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: other people but yourself, you can recover. And my resources

892
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: also we're like calling um SAMSA, which is the Abuse

893
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: and Mental Health UM line UM. When I'm going through

894
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 1: some things, I called the warmline, which is a total

895
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: free number talk to anyone at the time, UM, you know,

896
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: and just staying in tune with yourself, going to meeting,

897
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: you know, talking it out. And even if a person

898
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 1: does hits up with one of my friends things that

899
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: we don't judge them, you know, badgering a person because

900
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: they messed up actually makes it worse. Yeah, that's important. Well,

901
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: Johnett in l A. Thank you so much for calling

902
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: and sharing your story. Let that be a lesson to

903
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: anybody listening that struggling and just you like there is

904
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: another side and you're there and you really you did

905
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: a girl. Congratulations, Thank you. On air with Ryan Seacrest,

906
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: it's Sysney and e J. Ryan Seacrest is off this week,

907
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 1: so we're holding it down. Thank you for stepping in,

908
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: e J. And I know you do nights usually, so

909
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 1: waking up at for in the mornings probably cringeing for you.

910
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Sometimes I was saying earlier in the week,

911
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm going to bed at four o'clock in the morning.

912
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: That is so insane. I should text you on your

913
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: way in. No, please don't. So, you know, I feel

914
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: like every week there's a new dating term that we

915
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: discussed on the show, and of course there's another one now.

916
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 1: Um when it comes to looking for a significant other,

917
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: apparently people are looking for themselves really, And this is

918
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: why I think this is a little cringe e because

919
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: this new dating term is called dopple bangers. That it's

920
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: a play on doppel ganger. I don't like that word.

921
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: I don't like that word at all, would you like

922
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: dopple gang? I know, I don't like the word double banger,

923
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: just like I don't like the word m o I

924
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: s t moist. What's wrong with? Oh my god, I'm

925
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: about to have a melt Dell, you're hearing you say that?

926
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 1: Is it the way? It's okay? Anyways? Um so dopple

927
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 1: gang er. So what we know is like it basically

928
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: means nearly an identical lookalike person Like it's like your

929
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: celebrity doppel gang or someone that looks like you, like

930
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: for me, I would say Jennifer Lopez. And it's not

931
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: supposed to be funny. No, no, just the way how

932
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,720
Speaker 1: you said it. You know, I think you guys look exactly.

933
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: I think I really do look alike though. Is Selena Gomez? Yes,

934
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: I remember that that game. I don't want to get

935
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: to off track. But the app on the app on

936
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,919
Speaker 1: Instagram Instagram? Why can I think of what it's called?

937
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: Not the app? What are they called the game on Instagram?

938
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: Filter mark it's a filter of what celebrity I get

939
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: her all the time on that and then I'm like, huh,

940
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: like her? What's up? Anyways? I digress. Dopple bangers. Let's

941
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: go back to this. Okay, it's exactly what you think.

942
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: It's basically dating somebody that looks like you. Could you

943
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: do it? So I'm gonna bring up some celebrities as examples.

944
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: Think about Kristen Stewart and her fiance Dylan Mayor. I'm okay,

945
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: pull up a picture of them. They look very similar,

946
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: I think, so that would be an example. I think

947
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,879
Speaker 1: of a dopple banger um. Another one that I saw

948
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: on the list was Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel. Now

949
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: I don't see that one so much, but okay, maybe

950
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: like their hair color is the same, maybe their jawlines similar.

951
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: I don't think they look anything like. I can't see

952
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: any similarities or anything like that. This whole thing, though,

953
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: is a note for me, like I could never like

954
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: I actually I turned down this really nice guy in

955
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: when I was in college, who, like, you know, we

956
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: we had an attraction to towards each other, kind of

957
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: like we had a vibe all that, but I couldn't

958
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: get past the fact that he looked like my brother

959
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: and I just I couldn't do it. It's like, I

960
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 1: think my brother and I look a lot alike. And

961
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: for me, it was like it was like his legs

962
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,439
Speaker 1: like I just remember his legs looks like my brother's legs.

963
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, ah, this is weird. Like so yeah,

964
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: I I don't. I don't think Michael looks like me.

965
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 1: But you know, I guys, if we if we stretched,

966
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: maybe if you screitch your eyes and tilt your head

967
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: a little bit, you can see it a little bit.

968
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, this this this uh this what's the word?

969
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: The name just is really throwing me off. Dopple banger,

970
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:43,439
Speaker 1: dopple banger. I'm so relaxed right now. Yeah, we're good.

971
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: You know, earlier we were talking about doing background checks

972
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:51,240
Speaker 1: on people before you meet them, either through dating apps

973
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: and things like that. Because you meete on a data app,

974
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: you don't know everything about them, even know any have

975
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: any connection. So doing a background check isn't that terrible?

976
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: I guess a lot of people call didn't said they

977
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: do him. I feel like that's borderline sketchy right there,

978
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 1: You're gonna check me on a background from I mean, look,

979
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: this is the world we're living in, Omar and Corona.

980
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: Now you have an interesting situation when it comes to

981
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: this yes I do. Good morning guys, Good morning. Yes

982
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm calling because I have a cousin that is registered

983
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: as a sex defender for being he was. We were

984
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 1: out one time and was probably wood, a couple of drinks, um,

985
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: and he basically got arrested for being in public. It

986
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: was indecent exposure, and I wondered should he be a

987
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:40,439
Speaker 1: friend about it from the first date or women see

988
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: this on the background and they're willing to say, you

989
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: know what, seems like a good guy. Maybe I want

990
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: to know what it was, or they're just saying no

991
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 1: to any guys. Were you there with him when this happened? Yes?

992
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: I was, and really and what really did happen? It

993
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: was just him being like he wasn't sitting there really

994
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: kind of like you know, waving it around and trying

995
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: to funny think that when you're in West Hollywood and

996
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 1: you have any good time, are you anyway drinks are involved? Um?

997
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: You definitely, you know, I think it's gonna be really quick.

998
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,439
Speaker 1: But the cop I guess I saw and it wasn't

999
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: like we he saw. It was kind of like he's like, well,

1000
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop now. So the comp wood

1001
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: flashing lights and ended up being more than what we

1002
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,880
Speaker 1: kind of bargained for that night. Yeah, man, that is

1003
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 1: a bummer, you know, honestly, I feel I don't know

1004
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: that it's a first date conversation, but but maybe a

1005
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: second date conversation if you get if you get to

1006
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: the second date, then maybe bring it up because it's

1007
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: not obviously it's not terrible. And how long does he

1008
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: have to be on the sex offender list? Um? I

1009
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: believe it was just for a year until he did

1010
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:55,879
Speaker 1: get six months of I believe like it was highway cleaning, okay, yeah,

1011
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 1: community service and then but it still stays on the record,

1012
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 1: I guess, right even after or does it go off

1013
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 1: your record at some point? Do they get it expunged? No,

1014
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: they it doesn't go away from your record. You can

1015
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: you can hire a lawyer maybe, but yeah, that's the

1016
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: whole other avenue. Oh my goodness. You know what I say,

1017
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: Honesty is key because otherwise they're gonna go and they're

1018
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: gonna like think the worst, right j I think that.

1019
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: I think at the end of the first date, you

1020
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 1: should make it be known and tell him what really happened, Like,

1021
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 1: what what was the story? You know, what I'm saying,

1022
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: especially if you're like really into someone and you don't

1023
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: want to mess it up later on down the line. Yes,

1024
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: Clayton or Colton what's his name, it's Clayton the Bachelor.

1025
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: Does that help? Omar? Yes? It does? Well, thank you

1026
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: so much, like I like I've said, honestly, thank you,

1027
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 1: thank you, Omar. Appreciate you calling um. Oh my gosh,

1028
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 1: it's crazy that that could happen, because I mean, I

1029
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,720
Speaker 1: feel like we've all are guilty of peing in public.

1030
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: Not lies. You've never been in public, absolutely not really,

1031
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: you didn't go to college. It just like every other

1032
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: hound stage on their with Ryan Seacrest. That's gonna do it.

1033
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: It's Systney and e J. And that's it. Tomorrow we'll

1034
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: be back in the morning paying your bills. And actually,

1035
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: because it's Thursday, we're going to continue to pay your

1036
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: bills all day long today, So your next chance to

1037
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 1: get a bill paid is coming up at ten ten.

1038
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

1039
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow