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Speaker 1: Yep. So update, very good. Last ten days. Finally, I

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Speaker 1: bet for you, Yeah, for you. I started seeing a therapist.

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Speaker 1: The reason I wanted to do this was the last fight,

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Speaker 1: And then eventually it's like, hey, you know I'll be

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Speaker 1: It's something I want, but it's not what Sung wants.

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Speaker 1: This guy definitely has a flodora. I don't care.

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Speaker 5: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: Who's just foundingly hot and he knows karate.

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Speaker 1: This guy sucks, guy sucks. Gorgeous guy, smallest micro roliner definitely.

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Speaker 4: Drops a huge truck four fifty whatever, five thousand.

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Speaker 3: He's like, Bro, I don't know. Why don't you go

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Speaker 1: She has shocked at how fast I am dealing with everything.

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Speaker 1: my heart being broken, and my lack of trust in anyone. Yeah, no, way, you.

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Speaker 2: Don't have a heart. Yeah, that's what's broken about it?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 5: You mean the empty pit?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the deep turd in your chests? Is that what

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Speaker 5: Dude?

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Speaker 1: My god? That piece of charcoal? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Straight up.

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Speaker 1: God. I don't want to get I don't want to

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Speaker 1: My wife started working. She works from home, which I'm

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Speaker 3: And then he's just like, will you tell her that

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Speaker 5: Is it?

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Speaker 1: No? No no, no, no no no. Over the weekend, she

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Speaker 5: You know what.

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Speaker 2: Her look probably said, talk to me, I hate you.

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Speaker 3: Hell yeah, hell, you've You've reached maximum a hole meters

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Speaker 5: She can't help it.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna hate you.

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Speaker 1: You deserve it, my friend. Maybe it's better that we

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Speaker 2: It's like everything that she ever does is wrong.

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Speaker 5: You are the one who've you're.

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Speaker 3: You know what, You've made the bed and now you

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Speaker 5: Damn you did that. I'm okay, you did that. We're good.

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Speaker 1: You could you could have not had to do that.

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Speaker 1: she's done. So while she's quiet with her words, her

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Speaker 1: Oh we have a titch more?

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Speaker 2: Can you can you show me what he said one

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Ye, can you show me that? Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: Done, Everything she's done, What was it that she did?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 5: She did one thing?

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Speaker 2: She did one thing four times? Right?

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Speaker 1: Yep?

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Speaker 5: She doesn't even know why. Right.

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Speaker 2: Nobody wants to figure out why.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, one wants to investigate.

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Speaker 2: You just saw that as a green light to become.

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Speaker 1: Like sociopathic, evil monster.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't think of a funny reference.

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Speaker 3: But yes, yes, you're like, oh, I get to cosplay

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Speaker 3: as a jailer in the Tower of London circa medieval times.

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Speaker 3: Like you are torturing this woman and you want to

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Speaker 2: Me, which, by the way, buddy, you did it. You've

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, her manipulating your son, you did.

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Speaker 1: This is because of what you did. You did the

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Speaker 3: You straight up manipulated her into manipulating your son. And

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Speaker 1: Bingo, bingo, damn bingo danil. Would we have ever thought

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Speaker 1: in the beginning of this series, Dakota, No, that this

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Speaker 5: I'm going to talk in a funny voice. Now, I

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Speaker 7: This is the zoo, there's no table over the backman

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Uh No, I did not expect to like for this

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Speaker 1: This story should have been titled You'll end up on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's honestly this story that should.

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Speaker 1: Have been the title.

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Speaker 4: I want like a picture of us before, like in

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Speaker 3: After like yeah, yes, show show, show how we are

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Speaker 1: Duchess Cassandra, Seriously, someone hug Portakota. Let's do a group

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Speaker 1: hug to heal at the end of the story and

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Speaker 1: So my older son has a birthday in December and

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Speaker 1: all this happened, my wife and I had plans to

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Speaker 1: take them to Europe for skiing and to visit family.

443
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Speaker 1: I still want to take the kids, but not with her.

444
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Speaker 1: Staying with her in Austria or Switzerland for ten days

445
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,280
Speaker 1: would be a complete nightmare. Honestly, I'd rather swim with

446
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Speaker 1: the sharks.

447
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Speaker 2: I'd rather use swim with sharks too.

448
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Speaker 1: That would be great. I would literally love to see that.

449
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Speaker 1: I would pay I would pay every dollar in my

450
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Speaker 1: bank account to see who swims the sharks and then

451
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Speaker 1: see the sharks do what they do.

452
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Speaker 2: Just covered in chum.

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Speaker 1: Indeed, h m, that's you get chum bucket. I also

454
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Speaker 1: have a lot of work projects coming up, so I

455
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Speaker 1: might not have much free time for a while. Good,

456
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 1: so you could do less as your narcissistic bs. I

457
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Speaker 1: have some big plans for the coming days. Hopefully there

458
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Speaker 1: won't be any problems. But i'll update you next time,

459
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Speaker 1: to which there is no next time. Okay, So here

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Speaker 1: we go, Here we go.

461
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna do exactly what I told you to do

462
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 3: with Game of Thrones.

463
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Speaker 5: You make up your own ending. Here's the ending.

464
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Speaker 1: Talk to me, Okay, give it to me.

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Speaker 3: They end up going to Europe, all of them together, right, Yes, Austria, Switzerland, whatever.

466
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Speaker 5: They're going on a ski trip.

467
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Speaker 1: Right.

468
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Speaker 3: The wife skis away with the children on a clandestine

469
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Speaker 3: mission and actually is taken skis so well that her

470
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Speaker 3: family has no choice but to take her back in

471
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Speaker 3: because they can't deny her raw talent as a skier.

472
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Speaker 3: They see her shredding on the slope so hard with

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Speaker 3: both of her children, all three of them balanced on

474
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Speaker 3: her shoulders in a triangle position. Right, So it's just

475
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Speaker 3: it's it's really impressive. So that wins the family back.

476
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Speaker 3: Now the family's talking to and they do the entire

477
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Speaker 3: you know, separation and divorce proceedings in Europe, which means

478
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Speaker 3: that Ope, who's a demon, evil monster who needs a

479
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,120
Speaker 3: shout out to the therapist by the way, for manipulating

480
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Speaker 3: and gaming him.

481
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Speaker 1: She did a great job. She did exactly what you said.

482
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Speaker 3: She knew exactly what to say to this this d bag.

483
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Speaker 2: They were to get him to be.

484
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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, do you think I think I like going

485
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Speaker 5: to therapy?

486
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's you know, but so yeah.

487
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Speaker 5: End of the story.

488
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Speaker 3: They they skied off in a perfect pyramid back into

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Speaker 3: the wife's you know, European family, and they will be

490
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Speaker 3: happy forever.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's gone. Op gets lost in an avalanche, gets

492
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Speaker 1: brillions of tons of snow.

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Speaker 2: And then he gets transported to a dimension where the

494
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Speaker 2: air is just.

495
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Speaker 1: Too hot, and then you have to breathe air fire air.

496
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the air it's not hot enough to burn you,

497
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Speaker 3: but it's always hot enough to just be perpetually uncomfortable.

498
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 3: Yeah it hurts, but it's not burning you, but it

499
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: just hurts. Everything hurts. Yeah, he was transported to the

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Speaker 3: dimension of pain, dude.

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Speaker 1: Great, amazing, it's beautiful.

502
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 2: And Opie's ex wife gets married to Sean white.

503
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Speaker 1: Dude, and then they shred into the sunset.

504
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: They shred off into the sunset.

505
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Speaker 1: They shred in the sunset. He's the best stepfather ever.

506
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Speaker 1: Kids go into the X Games become the next generation

507
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Speaker 1: of X Games champions and they're awesome and they and

508
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Speaker 1: they shred together as a family unit. Are you kidding me?

509
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Speaker 3: There's a documentary about it, Dakota.

510
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Speaker 1: Great ending credit. Guys, Let's let's go to Riley's camera

511
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Speaker 1: and do a big group hug to heal our souls

512
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Speaker 1: to close this out. All right, boys, if you love us,

513
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe We love you and see. This

514
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Speaker 1: is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time for

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Speaker 1: okop Rewash. I fell in love with my best friend's wife.

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Speaker 1: Should I tell her and ruin the marriage? Am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole?

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Speaker 8: Love is love the heart wants with the heart wants.

519
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Speaker 8: And if it's your best friend's wife, you know, maybe

520
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Speaker 8: try a thrafle.

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Speaker 1: You know, I recall once someone who someone who objected

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Speaker 1: to a marriage.

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Speaker 5: Sam.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he was big, beautiful and green and his name

525
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 8: was Shrek, and you know he should be. He's America's hero, and.

526
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Speaker 1: Maybe we should all be more like him and destroy

527
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Speaker 1: more marriages and winning.

528
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think we should, so, I think so. You know,

529
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Speaker 8: Shrek was the original person that wanted to drain the

530
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Speaker 8: swamp said get out of my swamp. This is my swamp.

531
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Speaker 8: Rain these people out of here.

532
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Speaker 1: You know that is an ogre. I can actually vote

533
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Speaker 1: for sample. Yeah, Trek twenty twenty four. That is right,

534
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: That is right, Trek twenty twenty four, get behind that

535
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: whoo comment Trek twenty twenty four started the comments, Baby,

536
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: so I'm tired of orange. Let's go for greed. Yeah,

537
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 1: here we go, a whole different kind of ogre. So

538
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,199
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, my friend and I got together

539
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 1: for a few beers just to catch up after it

540
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: was obvious I was avoiding her. What you avoiding, buddy?

541
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Speaker 1: I hadn't seen both of them in a while, mostly

542
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: on my part because I felt like I'd become too

543
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Speaker 1: comfortable with her. She is really damn near perfect.

544
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Speaker 8: Wait, just to be clear, this is the best friend's wife.

545
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Speaker 1: This is the best friend and the wife I believe.

546
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Speaker 8: Yeah, so they kind of jumped right, Okay, yeah, so wow, Okay, yeah.

547
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Speaker 8: I felt like I was just yeah, right, but Opie

548
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Speaker 8: is into the best friend's wife. Oh she's the one

549
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 8: who's near perfect. Oh yes, oh yeah, Oh my god,

550
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,439
Speaker 8: that is you know, it's rough, dude, it's rough, you know.

551
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 8: And I guess your your friend has some good taste.

552
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 1: Hey, there you go. You have something in common. We

553
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: both love your wife. Gotta love it. She's kind, empathetic, intelligent. Really,

554
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: the list could go on for paragraphs. Once I noticed,

555
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Speaker 1: I started to catch feelings.

556
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Speaker 8: So sorry that sure, Oh my dude, I think the

557
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Speaker 8: pipes really, what do you hear?

558
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Speaker 1: Guys? See? Actually got me. I was like, something's happening

559
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Speaker 1: with the pipes because I have the I have the

560
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Speaker 1: headphones on, so I miss some of the sounds that happened.

561
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Speaker 1: You got me, John, you got me, You got me.

562
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Speaker 1: The ceiling pipes is that what's what's what's pipes? This

563
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 1: is the pipes make noise sometimes the pipes and that

564
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Speaker 1: was the simps was the pipes? Yeah? I was like sure,

565
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 1: I'm just want to make sure that wasn't another layer

566
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Speaker 1: that I was missing. Just just one embarrassing just one embarrassing,

567
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: one embarrassing moment. Yeah, not double not double. There's only

568
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: one in your whole life, right, yeah, exactly, Yeah, only

569
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: only one l from only one. There's no there's no Ellen, John,

570
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Speaker 1: That is true. There is an Ellen Samuel. That's what

571
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, just kidding. Everyone knows. I love Sam. Hopefully

572
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Speaker 1: Sam tells.

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Speaker 8: Me a loser out of love though, Yeah, out of love. Yeah,

574
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 8: all right, talk to the hand a listening.

575
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: Oh no, whatever, major loser. Sam is a major winner

576
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 1: in my heart, and I so is John. That's right.

577
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: There we go.

578
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Speaker 8: Yeah, what we're both losers, but two ls.

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Speaker 1: W and we're the two l's that make that w Gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: If we lose, we lose together. That is true. That

581
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: is really what we did. Lose together is a win

582
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 1: because you bond. There we go, trauma bond, trauma bond favor.

583
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: That's kind of bonding. That's been the show, basically one

584
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: big trauma bonding. All the insane thousand stories that we

585
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: have seen of humanity, Yeah, it's yeah, if you think

586
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: about it, if.

587
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 8: You think about it, we've experienced some of the worst

588
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 8: of the humans.

589
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: But you know what, Sam wants some of the best.

590
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: Let's let's get let's get a little bit more traumatized.

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00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 8: Here all right, I'm ready, I'm ready. Please load it

592
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 8: on me. Oh I will load into me. Oh I

593
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 8: will spill your load on me.

594
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Speaker 1: Will do. Once I noticed that I started to catch feelings,

595
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 1: I instantly made a point to never be around her

596
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: unless my friend was around. That which not the worst

597
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: policy ever. Yea, you can't.

598
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 8: You can't stop feelings, but you can stop yourself from

599
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 8: foking your friend's wife.

600
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: That you can, That you can. She reached out, and

601
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: I always said, ask your husband and I'll schedule with him.

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00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 8: That seems it just seems weird, like, please call my

603
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Speaker 8: secretary and put some time on my cout And.

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Speaker 1: Exactly I tried hard to make sure that these boundaries

605
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 1: were up. I get a message from him a week

606
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: ago or so that says is that she wanted to

607
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: have a few beers and talk to me about a surprise.

608
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: She needed my help with the surprise. Is me naked

609
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 1: in your bed? Oh yeah, imagine that would be crazy.

610
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: What if they were like, we both want you? Whoa,

611
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: it'd be crazy, right?

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00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 8: That seems like a win for ope, double time best friend.

613
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 8: He wants Yeah, come on, now there we go. So

614
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 8: we're only providing solutions here.

615
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: This is what this podcast is all about. That's right.

616
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,719
Speaker 1: The only reason I agreed to meet up was because

617
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: he messaged me. She asked me why I went M

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Speaker 1: I A, and I sort of lied and said that

619
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Speaker 1: I've been busy. She looked me straight in the eyes

620
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: and said, I know you're lying. Called out, called out.

621
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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure how to respond, so I didn't. I

622
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Speaker 1: feel like op's a little awkward. That's the response. Because

623
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: she was right. She pushed past the silence and asked

624
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: me to at least start coming back around the house

625
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: for barbecue Sundays. Yeah, I said, nah, maybe no, thanks.

626
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: You're too hot. Yeah, yeah, there's something I want to smoke.

627
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: But it's not it's not these meats. Yeah, it's smoking

628
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: hot ass. It's it's your bodacious cheeks.

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Speaker 8: I don't want to stuff some sausages down my throat.

630
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 8: I want you to stuff my sausage down your throat.

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00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: That's right. It's it's well seasoned.

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00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 8: It's well seasoned, rock hard, Bigger than the statue of

633
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Speaker 8: David there, it is Paul back.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the night, she told me that

635
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: she was sorry that I felt I needed to shield

636
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: myself from them because of whatever was going on with me.

637
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: I cannot stop thinking about her, and even after the

638
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: dozens and dozens of messages she sends me, I never respond.

639
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: But then she sent me a nude. No, that would

640
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: be a plot twists. Hey, I would get a response.

641
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: I know that their marriage is falling apart. Oh, now

642
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: that is a plot twist. So he's waiting in the rafters.

643
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 1: He's He's like, let me, let me not shoot my shot.

644
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: But it's his best friend. Is he still taking aim? Maybe?

645
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: Is he taking aim? Is he you know? You know, Sam,

646
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: the best snipers hold their breath where they take a shot.

647
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: That is true. I think he's and he was silent.

648
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: He's holding his breath. We are about to see. Man's

649
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: a relationship sniper. But I want my friend to know

650
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: that I genuinely care about him and want him to

651
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: be okay, same, no kidding. But at the same time,

652
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: when I closed my eyes to sleep at night, her

653
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: face haunts me.

654
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Speaker 8: You know, simp samp, Get up and grip hit the gym. Yeah,

655
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 8: lift your feelings away.

656
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 3: That's right.

657
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: Pound some meat, pound some iron, and some cheeks some

658
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: meat too, and some cheeks. Yeah, get get get get that,

659
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: get your sweetness out there. We go, can get it

660
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: all out of here, you know what I mean. I don't.

661
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 8: I don't want to hear on this pod. I went

662
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 8: empty spheres and empty sack is a happy man.

663
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: There we go. Oh boy, I met her at the

664
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: same time at a friend outing as my best friend.

665
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: We were all friends before anyone dated each other. So yes,

666
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: I had already formed a friendship with her prior to

667
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: all of this. Oh, that makes it even more complicated.

668
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: That definitely makes it more complicated, since why I know,

669
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: it's not just infatuation. I am thirty three now, so

670
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: it's been about seven years since I've known Wow, that's

671
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: a long time, and twelve since I've known my best

672
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: friend once they became a couple. Three years into knowing

673
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: each other, her and I no longer hang out as much,

674
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: which was my decision because I felt like it was

675
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,719
Speaker 1: disrespectful to my best friend. Fair my ex wife and

676
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: I have been divorced for years, and I am not

677
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: interested in being the reason why my best friend and

678
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: his wife divorce. After having someone do that to me,

679
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, Op, he's coming from a good place.

680
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: I do think, OPI is putting their best foot forward,

681
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: even though he's a simp, even though he's a filthy,

682
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: salthy sip who needs to just chug protein shit. Yeah, dude,

683
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: he needs to hit the gym, pump out the iron man.

684
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: Just get a get a T shirt funnel, get a

685
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: T shirt cannon, and just shoot Red pulls down his

686
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: fricking throw. Really the best.

687
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 8: If a girl doesn't like you, Jim, if you're going

688
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 8: through a breakup, Jim, depressed, Jim, it's all Jim, and

689
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 8: you know, pray at the iron altar.

690
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Or you know what, Sam, If Jim doesn't work,

691
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: then then Jake's good as well. Jake's good, you know

692
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: what I mean.

693
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 8: Jake will do things to your body that you didn't

694
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 8: even think were possible.

695
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,959
Speaker 1: Or Jim and Jake together, you know, they really are

696
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: a dynamic Jake at the gym, he's buff and he's

697
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: ready to mingle. That's right. Jake is ready to shake,

698
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: and Jim is ready.

699
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 8: To slim cure butt therapeutically of therapeutically therapeutic, pure therapeutic purposes.

700
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I feel like there is a special place

701
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: in hell for home wreckers. I will never let him know,

702
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: nor would I ever admit it to his face because

703
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: I value our friendship too much. I don't think I've

704
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: ever felt too guilty about being emotionally invested in someone.

705
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: But I am going to let the guilt eat me

706
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: alive or until my feelings for her die out.

707
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 8: Oh poor, op, this is a tricky situation. It seems

708
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 8: like he's handled it correctly, though.

709
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: I think so. He's really doing his best to be respectful,

710
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: trying to be respectful. They are both guilty of not

711
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: treating each other properly. But in the end, I know

712
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: I'll show what I feel for her deep down and

713
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: lock it away. I don't want to stop being friends

714
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: with him, but at the same time, seeing her in

715
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 1: front of me all the time is torture. I must

716
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: have really pissed someone off in my past life for

717
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,959
Speaker 1: them to have me fall in love with someone but

718
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: never have a chance. Oh man, sorry, op a SIP.

719
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, Poet, no sim Shakespeare. Yeah, that's

720
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: our new there's there's divorce, no contact, and SIMP. SIMP

721
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: is the newest chance. SIMP. Even now, as I think

722
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: about everything, I find myself thinking about her and those

723
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: tiny things that make her wonderful. Oh my god, fucking gross.

724
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: But those tiny things aren't for me to admire. Oh

725
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: my god, they are his. I don't know. Maybe I'll

726
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: just buy a dog or something. Buy a dog, yeah,

727
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,719
Speaker 1: lift the dog by the dog still, yeah, what is it?

728
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: The what are the mountain ones? St?

729
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 5: Bernard's?

730
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, just benching great Danes. Ah. Oh goodness,

731
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: I was lifting so hard. I lifted the story right

732
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: out of place. And finally to put into perspective how

733
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: close our friend group was before the dating and the

734
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: marriage I followed. Each of us basically has spare rooms

735
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: in each other's houses, like fully stocked with our belongings. Wow,

736
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: that's truly. We made the TV show Friends look like

737
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: they were just acquaintances. We had been there for each

738
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: other's passings of family members and other loved ones. That's

739
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: really cute. It is really cute. We have seen each

740
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: other's amazing ups and heartbreaking downs. Small town friends, we

741
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: are built differently. We have morals and standards that go

742
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: hand in hand. We have a solid circle of seven

743
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: of us. We make a shared Google docs that get

744
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: updated weekly to reflect how we are looking for outings,

745
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: restaurant visits, vacations and road Trips's sick? That is, That's

746
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: a cool, great idea. Actually it was our little family

747
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: because most of us have lost a large portion of

748
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 1: our own families. That's why this is hard, because I

749
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: feel like I lost my second family over feelings for

750
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 1: someone who is not mine, nor will ever be. I

751
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: don't want her like that. I want the feelings to

752
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: go away so I can get back to my friends

753
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: and back to enjoying my barbecue and beer on a Sunday.

754
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: Oh dang, you're hit. Indeed, there is a bit of

755
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: an update here.

756
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 5: But you know is oh.

757
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 8: No, I mean he can't. You know, he's doing everything

758
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 8: he can. He's doing everything he can, but he is

759
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 8: a massive simp. Oh god, not just saying that because

760
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 8: I'm going through a breakup. I'm saying it because he's simply.

761
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 1: Because it's true, because it makes him the ale. Well, say,

762
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: there's an update. Okay, let's hear it. So god, guy,

763
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: I fed her?

764
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 8: No just kidding, Oh my god. Yeah, doesn't sound like

765
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 8: our simp.

766
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: Ope, so uh op he does say I did attend

767
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 1: the barbecue with a lady friend of mine. Okay, maybe

768
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: lady friend distraction The simp energy is maybe shutting off

769
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: who I've absolutely gotten closer to in recent weeks. It's

770
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 1: absolutely nothing serious, but made things go smooth. At the barbecue.

771
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: My friend said he was sorry, and he asked his

772
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 1: wife to essentially ask why I was always gone. He

773
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 1: figured I was mad at him and wanted to see why.

774
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 1: I just reiterated that I was, in fact really busy

775
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: right now, which I think you got to come up

776
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: with a new Yeah, that's point. Yeah. Yeah. I also

777
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: don't believe the wife knows. I know some people thought

778
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: she might, but I don't actually think she does, which

779
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,919
Speaker 1: is good because me, being a rebound option will never

780
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: happen now. I never told him, nor will I ever again.

781
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: I want him and his wife to work out. I

782
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: know deep down they still love each other. I then

783
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: informed the group of friend friends that I took a

784
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: job nineteen hundred miles away and would be relocating at

785
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: the start of March. Why is he doing that? He's

786
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: upending everything. He's going to the furthest Extreme. Come on, dude,

787
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: he's going to the furthest Stream. My man, Hey, listen,

788
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 1: my man is dedicated to his best friend. My I mean,

789
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: it's at the ultimate cost.

790
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 8: But he's like like, but also like the best friend

791
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 8: is losing him one hundred percent. I don't know if

792
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 8: that's right decision. I think Op's the asshole to himself

793
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 8: right now.

794
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: Ooh, you know what, we'll talk about it. We will

795
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: talk about that. They were all really upset that I

796
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: kept this from them. They figured something was off when

797
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: I took myself off the shared Google sheets. At the

798
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 1: end of the day, I have far too much respect

799
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: and love to my friends to ever act on anything.

800
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: They could divorce today and I would never act on it.

801
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: My loyalty is with my best friend. It definitely sucks

802
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: that it happened this way and that my friends are

803
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: a little bit confused because I'm taking a job that

804
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: is not as good a job as the one I have.

805
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 8: Oh peeing. This is like so much self sabotage, and

806
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 8: I have to relocate to a state that is pretty bad.

807
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 8: To be honest, bro, what are you doing?

808
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: Oh man? But I figured I could use a state

809
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: that actually has four seasons anyways, But now that they

810
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: think it's solely because of a job offer that I

811
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: was just dying to have, I feel a lot better. Well,

812
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: I guess that's it. Thanks for all the advice and

813
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: wise works, borop man. This is entirely too much. Yeah,

814
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: this is entirely, entirely whir the most like masochistic behavior.

815
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: Wait is a sadistic No masochistic behavior ever, Dude, Like

816
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 1: he's just like whipping himself the whole time. Like, Bro,

817
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: you don't have to put yourself in all this pain.

818
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: You don't have to completely cut yourself off from everything.

819
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,439
Speaker 1: He Yeah, he just like he took like a good

820
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 1: sentiment and just took it ten thousand miles too far.

821
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 8: I think, Yeah, that sucks, dude.

822
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's lots. But I think it's all like, you know,

823
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: it's all his I mean, it's really just his fault.

824
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: Like he's like he's taking it way too far. I mean, like,

825
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: is he really just so in love with this girl

826
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: that he can't be around her? It just seems like

827
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: and also like seems like so much and like I

828
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: get I get that they're all like a big friend group,

829
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: but like I would maybe spend more time with the

830
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: other friends one on one and then maybe I don't know,

831
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: maybe explore some new friends as well, just to not

832
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: be so dependent on the circle.

833
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 5: I guess.

834
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: I guess I don't just hang out with him all

835
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: in a group and just like spend time with the wife.

836
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: I totally agree, but I mean it seems like any

837
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: sort of interaction. Yeah, so it's like all right, you

838
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: can still like greatly limit it by like intentionally one

839
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: on one hanging out with the others and then maybe

840
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: you know, doing some other things that you I want

841
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: to explore. I don't even know, Like.

842
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to know what you think of Op's decision,

843
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 8: Like do you think he made the right decision. I

844
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 8: think he's being like really considerate, but considerate to the

845
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 8: point where he's the actual to himself. So I think

846
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 8: Opie is the axule, but he's a self apple that's

847
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 8: not taking care of himself.

848
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 1: That's the perfect way to put it on.

849
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 8: It's not being loving to himself. True. I just don't

850
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 8: think this is I just don't think this is the move.

851
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: It's not. But you know what always is the move?

852
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: Oh tell me? Sam commenting below your thoughts and feelings, Yes,

853
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: and we especially love the thoughts and feelings of our

854
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,520
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855
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,040
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856
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 8: vegan discrimination. Love that one public subscriber, Lusa a Luna

857
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,439
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858
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,600
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859
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,720
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860
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: You deserve more than one carrot.

861
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Speaker 8: I'm tired of salads, but will sit and eat it.

862
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 8: My mom cooks vegan food for me, so visiting my

863
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,880
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864
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 8: eat right before leaving home just in case, or I

865
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,680
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Speaker 1: Big one? We'd love to hear it.

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Speaker 8: Put your answers in the comments below, and if you

873
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 8: publicly subscribe, you might just read it.

874
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Speaker 1: Love you, Love you. My in laws touched the thermostat

875
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: so I kicked them to the streets. But now my

876
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: husband is furious with me just because his parents are

877
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: homeless and I've a hoole the thermostat. It's a delicate situation.

878
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: You know. Some people like it, you know, like sixty nine. Oh,

879
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:39,280
Speaker 1: and other people, you know are fucking morons that deserve

880
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,919
Speaker 1: to be a homeless. Yeah, come on, come on, mom

881
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: and Dadonne or die bab Just turn it sixty nine

882
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: or turn it down to sixty nine, or should I

883
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 1: say turn it up? Turn it? Oh that gets hot

884
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: and steamy over here.

885
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 8: You know you had just kept sixty nine, and maybe

886
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 8: you wouldn't have me in all this bundle of trouble.

887
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, So beck.

888
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 8: Swimmers aren't swimming through those intestines to that bussy through

889
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 8: the right intestine.

890
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: Sam, do we have to do? We have to put

891
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: you in the same human anatomy class we got to

892
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: put all of these other redditors in. Is that what

893
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: we need to do? Just just to be clear?

894
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 3: Right?

895
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: The swimmers, Oh, I see, and they take it intestine,

896
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: hop out the butthole, wand dive into the VJJ. We've

897
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: heard that, we've heard of splashing. Apparently that we've learned

898
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 1: that splashing. We heard a splash. It can't happen, So

899
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 1: it can't happen, not that way. But it can't happen

900
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: if you just if you just shoot it right into

901
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: the to the onto the taco. You know, sometimes it

902
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: can droop into the taco shell and then before you know,

903
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: you got two tacos. And that's what we call soggy tacos.

904
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: Soggy tacos. Yeah. So back in March, his parents decided

905
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: they wanted to come quote weight quarantine out unquote at

906
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: our apartment for starters. They never asked.

907
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 8: That's I feel like that's the first step to arranging

908
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 8: something like this is asking.

909
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 1: One would think, right, one would one would think.

910
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 8: But you know, these these uh family members and these

911
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 8: redded stories, I feel like they don't have brains.

912
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: They really, they don't think that is the they're lobottomized.

913
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: They are drooling sacks of potatoes that don't have comprehension

914
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: of basic human experience. Or they're just trying to make

915
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 1: it on okop, the hottest podcast out That is Everyone's

916
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: dream is true. That is everyone's dream. That is absolutely true.

917
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: I speak for everyone in saying this. Of course, who

918
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be, who wouldn't want to be? Who

919
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be? And his mother called and told

920
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: me that they were on their way into pair our

921
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: spare bedroom for them. Keeps getting better, keeps getting better.

922
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: I was already apprehensive about them staying with us because

923
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 1: his parents have been extremely rude to me. It tracks,

924
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 1: I don't I don't see any change in their behavior. Yeah,

925
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: they're overly critical of everything I say and do. They

926
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: are massive control freaks who feel entitled to always be

927
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: in charge. So right off the bat, things are miserable.

928
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: They verbally abuse me daily, tell me what I can

929
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: and can't do in my own apartment, and overall are

930
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 1: just the worst.

931
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 8: I mean, all of that feels like more than enough

932
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 8: evidence needed to throw these people to the current, Like what, like,

933
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 8: you don't need this. This is your house, This is

934
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 8: your sacred space. Your body is a temple and your

935
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 8: house is an extension of that temple.

936
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: And you don't want your your parents or your is

937
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: it open in law? Yeah, you don't want your in

938
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: la laws entering your sacred tape. You don't want her.

939
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: You don't want your in laws entering your sacred temple

940
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: and desecrating it. Hell no, no, Yeah, think of the

941
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: kinky shit they're doing in your rooms too, exactly doing

942
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: something that hasn't been heard of since the seventies. Oh god,

943
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: the carpet rubber.

944
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, oh yeah, they're they're shagging on some carpets, for.

945
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: Sure, shagging hard, shag in hard. Out of everything, the

946
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: air conditioning caused the biggest debacle. Where I live, it

947
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: has been eighty five to ninety degrees almost every day.

948
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: I normally keep my air on seventy. But when they

949
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: start complaining.

950
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 8: Respecting, well, temperature, respectable tem that is respect I would

951
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 8: just notch it down one degree just for the memes.

952
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: Seventy is okay too? Oh yeah, honestly, maybe op New,

953
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: op New, op new what we were going to say, Yeah,

954
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 1: come on, expect when you're writing redit stories unexpected, get

955
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: ready for us, because we're coming.

956
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 8: We're coming, or we're at least sixty nine ing with

957
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 8: the intention of coming.

958
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 1: That's right with like like Opie's in laws. But when

959
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: they start complaining about the air being on seventy, I

960
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 1: turned the air up to seventy five. That's it. Fuck,

961
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: that's that's a little much. This is already a little

962
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: toasty for me. But I was willing to be a

963
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: little hot to try and keep the peace.

964
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 8: I love how like Opie is using one of the

965
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 8: ancient methods of literally smoking him out. You know, this

966
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 8: is how you like like like this is how you

967
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 8: get like like animals out. This is how you you know,

968
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 8: just you just you make it unbearable and then they

969
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 8: just gid out of a lot.

970
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: Well, you know what's so crazy, The in laws are

971
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: actually smoking out op because they're the ones that won

972
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: it this hot. Wait, they want it at seventy five.

973
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,919
Speaker 1: I thought he was just changing it to seventy five

974
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: to pism. No, no, no, they want it hotter. Ease

975
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: them because they want it at seventy five. That is

976
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: what they want. Seventy five is crael. It took seventy

977
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: five as hot as completely unrespectable number, completely unrespectable.

978
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 8: Seventy five is like nudist temperature, Like if you're any

979
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 8: nude in your home all the time, then yeah, seventy five.

980
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but anything other than that, Get that out of

981
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: my face. But but Sam, but Sam, this was not

982
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: good enough for them. Seventy five was not hot enough. No,

983
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: you're joking. Seventy five is so hot. No, no way,

984
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: I just read it. Okay, this is so great. They

985
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: don't want the air on period. They want the heat on.

986
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: It's eighty ninety degrees out. They want the heat on.

987
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's fucking insane, and they turn it

988
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: on every single opportunity they get. I wake up in

989
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: the middle of the night covered in sweat and I

990
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: have told them stop countless times. Yesterday I finally cracked.

991
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 8: Bro, these people are fucking lizards. Yeah, they are cold

992
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 8: blooded lizards, and they're trying to cover their tracks. But

993
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 8: we know, oh yeah, I want it. But above seventy five,

994
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 8: you're literally a lizard.

995
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: Like, what is Mark Zuckerberg doing in this in this

996
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: story right here? Like I don't I know, Mark, get

997
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: out of this store. I'm actually curious.

998
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 8: Okay, well yeah, yeah, everyone put your answers in the

999
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 8: comments right now.

1000
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: What is your thermostat at? Ooh, that's a great What

1001
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: is your thermostat at?

1002
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 8: Mine's at the bottom because I mean we don't I

1003
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 8: don't even have I don't have.

1004
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: Air conditioning in my apartment, so I just have heating.

1005
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: Same so you turn the heat on. I turned the

1006
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: heat on.

1007
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 8: I am I am a heat heat a house heater.

1008
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 8: But like I think usually it's at like seventy or something.

1009
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I find if I had a choice, Oh yeah,

1010
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: if I had a choice, I would probably say sixty

1011
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: nine to seventy two is like a prime rangehme, prime? Okay?

1012
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 8: I put about ten what's the ideal what's the ideal

1013
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 8: temperature for humans?

1014
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 1: Which probably changes a little bit. I run a little hot,

1015
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean?

1016
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 8: The ideal room temperature and your home for both efficiency

1017
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 8: and comfort falls between sixty eight and seventy six.

1018
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: There you go. My sixty nine to seventy two is

1019
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 1: looking primo, super primo. So I put about ten pieces

1020
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: of duct tape over the thermostat with a note attached,

1021
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: do not touch the thermostat while I'm at work. Six PM,

1022
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: I walk into my apartment and automatically am hit by

1023
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: a hotter and more humid heat than is outside.

1024
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 8: My god, are they putting humidifiers in this like like

1025
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 8: you might as well just release mosquitoes at this point,

1026
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 8: because you're trying to make it like unbearably hot like

1027
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 8: the outdoors.

1028
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: What if they're passionate, like you know, eco conservationists, and

1029
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 1: the mosquito is dying out, so they're trying to create

1030
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: a habit four mosquitos, So they're trying to Yeah, everyone

1031
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 1: loves mosquitos. You gotta create more. Let's bring them back, baby,

1032
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: let's bring them back, bring them back. No thanks. The

1033
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: ductate and the note have been torn off the thermostat

1034
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: and they have the heat. Now they have the heat

1035
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: on ninety eight freaking degrees. Who they have COVID or something?

1036
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 8: Maybe they're like like maybe like cold sweats or something.

1037
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: I I am ninety eight degrees is nuts. I'm lost.

1038
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 1: I you've I'm just so lost here. I go into

1039
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 1: the guest room and say, why could you not follow

1040
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: the simple instruction of do not touch the thermostat? This

1041
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: is my home. I'm tired of you saying rude things

1042
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: to me. I'm tired of you treating me like a

1043
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 1: child and creating your own rules for my apartment. You

1044
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 1: either need to be respectful towards me and learn to

1045
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: accept my boundaries, or go back to your own house.

1046
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 8: I mean, true, true, that's exactly what you should do.

1047
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 8: Mike Drop, That's right. It's so rude what the parents

1048
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 8: are doing.

1049
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: Who just what that? Who would want it? Tell me?

1050
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: Fucking crazy people? Apparently, his mother said, and I disdainfully quote,

1051
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:20,280
Speaker 1: you have no right to barge in here without knocking

1052
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,720
Speaker 1: all That was not only this is my house.

1053
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 7: That was not only an invasion of privacy. But you

1054
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 7: need to take that attitude out of your tone. I've

1055
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 7: dealt with much bigger bitches than you before.

1056
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you the biggest bitch I ever seen.

1057
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: Well that means she's not lying, she's dealing with herself

1058
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: every bit. It's true. Oh my god. She went on

1059
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: for about thirty minutes and I just tuned her out.

1060
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: When she was done talking, I told her to get out,

1061
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: get the fuck out of good good job, op ge,

1062
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: get that, get that mama out of here. Now. My

1063
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend is angry with me because I couldn't just let

1064
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: them have their way. He wants me to call his

1065
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: way sucks. Your way is fucking How does he not

1066
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 1: like die sweating? Answer me, ninety are not ninety eight degrees?

1067
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: Stop it, stop the madness, stop it.

1068
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 8: There's a limit, Like you know, I would be I

1069
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 8: would say like, seventy is crazy, eighty is like really

1070
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 8: really crazy, but ninety eight is just like ridiculous. There's

1071
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,280
Speaker 8: no reason that's like, that's like assault bro unhealthy.

1072
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,240
Speaker 1: That is like, yeah, assaulting me with heat, right, now like, oh.

1073
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 8: My, maybe that's what they're trying to do. They're trying

1074
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 8: to have an in house sauna by it being the

1075
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 8: whole house.

1076
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're secretly running a business out of the That's

1077
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: why they don't want you coming in without knocking, because

1078
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,720
Speaker 1: they're actually running a sauna out of the guest bedroom.

1079
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,879
Speaker 1: Running a sauna. Wow. He wants me to call his

1080
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 1: mom and apologize, but I don't think I should have to,

1081
00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: dang straight. I agree. I may have been rude to her,

1082
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Speaker 1: but it was only because I've spent the past two

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Speaker 1: months dealing with her abuse and trying to politely ask

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Speaker 1: her to stop treating me that way. I got tired

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Speaker 1: of politely asking someone to stop treating me like crap

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Speaker 1: in my own home, which I was letting them live

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Speaker 1: in for free. I also got tired of my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: refusing to defend me and allowing her to say and

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Speaker 1: do whatever she wanted. I am trying to understand their perspective,

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Speaker 1: although it just doesn't seem reasonable to me. If Redda

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Speaker 1: determines I am the a hole, I will call and apologize,

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Speaker 1: which begs the question for everyone else. It begs a question,

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Speaker 1: is op the a hole op one thousand percent is

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Speaker 1: not the a hole, Like, come on, come on, it's

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Speaker 1: a ridiculous question to even ask. The thing is like

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Speaker 1: when you let people go without repercussions like that, It's.

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Speaker 8: Like, yeah, I know, they need some fire and brimstone,

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Speaker 8: they need some sword and mace, they need some whip

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Speaker 8: and and butt plot you know, like they need they

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Speaker 8: need to take some freaking freaking pain.

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Speaker 1: When did this punishment become pleasure? Oh good, So when

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Speaker 1: did I become so turned up?

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Speaker 8: But no, like like seriously, it is like that that's unacceptable.

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Speaker 1: But hey, that's mother laws for you. I ah, the

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Speaker 1: husband should apologize to the wife for not oh right,

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Speaker 1: the husband, Yeah, yeah, yeah, for not.

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Speaker 8: The husband should definitely, I mean the husband should talk

1108
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Speaker 8: to the parents.

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Speaker 1: You should talk to the parents. End of story. That's it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I mean, like, it's crazy that

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Speaker 1: the husband isn't going to bat for her, not just

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Speaker 1: for her just selfishly. Doesn't make sense. It does not

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Speaker 1: make sense. I do not think it makes sense. I

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Speaker 1: I uh.

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Speaker 8: And also, like, why would you want to live in

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Speaker 8: a house that is like a billion degrees?

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Speaker 1: It's the dumbest thing ever. But you know, who is

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Speaker 1: never the dumbest thing ever. Ooh are sexy public subscribers.

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Speaker 8: Are very smart, intellectual public subscribers, And I'm going to

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Speaker 8: read some comments right now. So on the episode I

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Speaker 8: came out to sabotage my arranged marriage, Basically, OPI tells

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Speaker 8: his parents who is gay to avoid the arranged marriage proposals.

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Speaker 8: Jesseg public subscriber says, technically, you didn't lie about being gay,

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Speaker 8: So such an odd way to discover you're gay, To

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Speaker 8: lie about being gay to avoid an arrange marriage and

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Speaker 8: find out that you're lying to your parents because you're

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Speaker 8: actually gay, and then that's something like gay inception, right right,

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Speaker 8: And then deadly Gamers six sixt' six says OPI has

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Speaker 8: great parents, loull they are supportive no matter what, but

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Speaker 8: do be honest and tell them I don't want to have.

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Speaker 1: An arranged marriage. Love your takes. We love the takes

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Speaker 1: of our pubscribers always, so if you want us to

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Speaker 1: read your comment, make sure to public subscribe comment below

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Speaker 1: and we just might read it. See you next time,