1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. Y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a suit on the don giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: them like the milking bus things. And it's true good 4 00:00:21,600 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: Steve listening together for st I don't joy. You gotta turn, 5 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: Oh you gotta turn to turn them out, got to 6 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: turn out to turn turn the water the water come 7 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: come on your back? Uh huh I sure. Well, a 8 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on 9 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: dig me NW one and only Steve Harley got a 10 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: radio show. Okay, here we go today, folks. This is 11 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: a good one because today I want to share with 12 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: you something that affects every living soul, and that one 13 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It is your attitude. 14 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: You know. I don't know if anyone's ever told you, 15 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 1: but I mean many of you who listen know this, 16 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: But there are a lot of people who don't understand 17 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: a positive attitude can bring about a change. A positive 18 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: attitude can bring about a change. Well, now here we 19 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: go with the nay says, well, Steve, what you mean 20 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 1: if I'm just positive being changed? My mama gonna what 21 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: me being positive got to do with that? Okay, now 22 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring about change. Well, okay, Steve, 23 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: I hear you saying that, but they didn't fired me. 24 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 1: So now what does my having a positive attitude have 25 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: to do with the fact that they fired me? Well, 26 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: one more time, A positive attitude can bring about change. 27 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: Or Steve, I set up in here and gave eight, nine, 28 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: twelve years of my life to this man and he 29 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: just he cheated on me and walked out. Now what 30 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: does me being positive have to do with him cheating 31 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: on me? How that's gonna change that? Okay, here we 32 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: go again. A positive attitude can bring about change. Now 33 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: listen to the whole thing. Now, the positive attitude and 34 00:03:55,320 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: the change that can happen starts it. This is the start. 35 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: It starts within you. See, life is ten percent of 36 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: what happens is what you do about what happens. Okay, 37 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: you gave twelve years of your life to this man. 38 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: He cheated and left you. Hold in the bag, the 39 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: kids and everything. Now what does being positive have to 40 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: do with changing that? Or they came in and they 41 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: fired you. You lost your job that you was a 42 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: stellar performer at. But now how does you having a 43 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: positive attitude. How does that change things for you? So far? 44 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: You can use any example. Here's what happens when you 45 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: have a positive attitude. What it produces within you is 46 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: a positive approach to life. And when you have a 47 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: positive attitude and a positive approach to life, it causes 48 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: you to be optimistic, to have a positive out look, 49 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: to expect things to eva actually turn around and and 50 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: and and turn into a positive That's very important because 51 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: as the law of attraction comes into play, if you 52 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: think positive thoughts, you attract positive things. If you think 53 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: evil thoughts, you attract evil to you. You know, if 54 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: you want for nothing, then nothing comes your way. If 55 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: you want for a positive attitude, if you want for 56 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: positive results, if you want for a great outcome, that's 57 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: what you attract to you. The change will begin within you. 58 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: So let's take the man that walked out your life 59 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: and left you hold in the bag. Here's a positive attitude. Okay, 60 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: two things have happened as positive here. Number one, you've 61 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: ridd it yourself of someone who is obviously going to be, 62 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 1: if not already been, toxic in your life, cause you 63 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: many restless nights, a lot of uncomfortable feelings, an uneasiness, 64 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: not sure in curity. You've been going through it with 65 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: this person, whoever they are. Number One, that person has 66 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: been released from your life. Number Two, it allows you 67 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: now to have the someone who will treat you just 68 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: the way you want to be treated. That's the positive outlook, 69 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: that's the optimistic way. That's when you're a positive person. 70 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: You see the positive in things that happened to you, 71 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: instead of burying yourself under the what's wrong with it? 72 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: A old woe is me? Now concept? See a positive attitude. 73 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: When they came in there and they fired you and 74 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: let you go, could this not have been just the 75 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: opening you needed to finally start on a new career 76 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: path that you've been talking about doing anyway? Could it 77 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: possibly be a brand new chance for you to get 78 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: the dream job or dream career of your choice. Could 79 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: it not possibly be the perfect opportunity now for you 80 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: to finally finally do something about that gift, about that 81 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: talent that God gave you, that thing that you love 82 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: to do. Could it not be the perfect time for 83 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: you to pursue that. But if you don't have a 84 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: positive attitude, then you lay there. Oh, they finn' come 85 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: getting my house. Oh what I'm gonna do now? All 86 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: this unemployment ain't enough. Oh Lord, when this unemployment run out, 87 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: what am I gonna do? Then I won't have nothing? 88 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: And you old woe is me until you become old 89 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: woe is me. But if you take it from the 90 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: positive approach, some amazing things can happen in your life. 91 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: I will tell you on a personal note, that's some 92 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: of the most some of the best changes. Some of 93 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: the biggest moments in my life came after a loss. 94 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: So I don't want to go down on the list, 95 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: but boy, I could tell you. Let me let me 96 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: tell you something. When they didn't want me on the 97 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: radio anymore in La, when they didn't know when they 98 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: were it was sick of the way I did radio 99 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: out there, and they wanted me gone. And on May 100 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: twenty third, two thousand and five, when my when when 101 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: when my deal was done? With the beat out in La? Okay, 102 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: look what happened though, y'all was gone in May. But 103 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: in September nineteenth I started to Steve Harvey Radio Network 104 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: with four cities. You see. But I didn't go old 105 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: woe was me? I said, Oh, okay, God must have 106 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: something else from it then, because if he didn't remove 107 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: me from this, that must be something else. Same thing 108 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: can happened when you lose and you and you and 109 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: you break up in a relationship, Same thing can happen 110 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: to you. You never know the one God God for 111 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: you that here you go, here you go again. Now 112 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,599 Speaker 1: you get put into a situation with somebody treat you 113 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 1: just the way you want to be treated, provide you 114 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: the whole lot of aspects of your life you knew 115 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: nothing about prior to that. But you gotta stay positive. 116 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: If you stay positive, that positive attitude, that optimistic outlook, 117 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: that that that always thinking God got me no matter 118 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: what happened to me, some amazing things that's going can 119 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: will happen in your life. It's a fact. I don't 120 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: know how it works that way. I just know that's 121 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: what it is. Positive attitude is everything, y'all. So get 122 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 1: off the old woe is Me negativity train because it 123 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: ain't gonna take you nowhere but down and get get 124 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: your outlook up. If you change your attitude, you change 125 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: your altitude. Altitude is determined by your attitude. How high 126 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 1: you go, how big you become, how far you go. 127 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: It all depends on how you think. It all depends 128 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: on what type of attitude you got. It ain't no, 129 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: ain't no very very successful, super negative people. It just 130 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: doesn't coincide that way. If you see that something that 131 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 1: happened to them along the way and don't wear you 132 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: ain't gonna wear about it because you ain't gonna see 133 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: them long because you can't stay up there like that. 134 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: It's just too hard, all right. That's the conversation you're 135 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: listening to. Ay, ladies and gentlemen, it is upon us 136 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show is here. I gotta tell 137 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: you something, man, I just gotta be honest with you. Today. 138 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: I woke up fatigue weary. I felt drained. You know, 139 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: I'm working out. I was trying to feel like it 140 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: ain't moving like I wanted to. You know, had all 141 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: that going on this morning, and then you know what 142 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: I gotta do. I gotta catch myself. I'm in the 143 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: process right now catching myself because I got too many 144 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: things to be grateful for to allow some negative thoughts 145 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: to be the winner. Why. I'm healthy. I got a 146 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 1: great life, I got options, I got a beautiful family. 147 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: You know, I got some struggles that He's allowed me 148 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: to overcome. I'm at the top of the game. I'm 149 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean, man, what Steve Harvey, It's all right. And 150 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: everybody out there that's listening, whatever you're going through, it's 151 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: all right. It's gonna be all right. And remember this, 152 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: this too shall pass. Man. You better pick yourself up. Boy, 153 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: this message this morning is for me. Hallelujah, Man, get 154 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: yourself together. Ladies and gentlemen. We here Shirley Straw Verry 155 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: callin for real, mouth to the South Junior and legend 156 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: that he is. Junior's on your mind? Man, Man, that 157 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 1: was all right this morning? Up who most motivates the 158 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: motivated him? And let me ask you this, man, oh man, 159 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: after the birthday yesterday, man, forty four years old, where 160 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: was you at life at forty four? How do you feel? 161 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: For you? I was you know, oh, yeah, you know, 162 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: you know. I wasn't in the struggle, no more fine answers. 163 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: That was over with. So you was already you're bawling 164 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: at this point. Well, I got my first call in 165 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 1: my name at thirty eight, so that had already had 166 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: began a severe turnaround. You didn't have to live in Yeah, 167 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: by forty I had had my last child, who had 168 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: his birthday on the same day as you yesterday, went 169 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: in so h oh. I was now personally I was 170 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: in misery, but I was still grateful at forty four 171 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: because my life was as good as it had ever 172 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: been up until that point, and it was fraught with 173 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 1: problems and mental problems I was going through. I'm not 174 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not saying mental problems as a 175 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 1: mental illness, even though I could have been. I just 176 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: didn't know it. I just didn't hand. My COVID skills was, 177 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: you know, just get over the move on. That's how 178 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: I cope with everything. And I'm grateful God gave me 179 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: that skill set. But Farty Foe man at home, we 180 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: ain't going nowhere. He fought it fun. You know. You 181 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: know what what what I told you how I felt 182 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 1: this morn. Now you're gonna get into when I was 183 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: farty for and I'm really holding back from telling you 184 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: I was so unhappily married. That's why I really wanted 185 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: to I'm that now. The hall was going on when 186 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 1: I was farty Folk. You don't really want to know. 187 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: Enjoy your damn birthday, boy. Everybody related birthday junior, we 188 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: love you. Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, 189 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: we're gonna hear from the nephew and run that prank back. 190 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 191 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: It is time now to start your morning off with 192 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 1: the nephew and run that prank back. What you got 193 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: for us now, I need you to watch me run it. 194 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: It's a great day. Nursery. This is Felicia. I'm trying 195 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: to get somebody to come down here to five O one. 196 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, five whole one. I need somebody to come 197 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: down here to five on one and and clean me up. Sir. 198 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: I think you might have the wrong number. This is 199 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: this is just the nurse. I need the nurse to 200 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: come down here to five old one and clean me up. Sir. 201 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: This is the nursery, not the nurse. I think you 202 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: might have died the wrong number. No't, I need to 203 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: talk to the one nurse, Sitty, that's who normally to 204 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: clean me up. I need to come down here and 205 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: clean me up, sir. I really do think you have 206 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: the wrong number. Where are you calling from? Who? Who? Who? 207 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: Who is this here? This is Felicia. I'm the director 208 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: here at the nursery. That's what I say. I need 209 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: the nurse to come down here to clean me up. 210 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: I'm bad playing and every all this stuff. To clean 211 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: me up because I've been sitting here a long time. 212 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: I ain't nobody call, sir. I think you dialed the 213 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 1: wrong number. If you tell me where you are, I 214 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: can try to help you. But I ain't down the 215 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: wrong number. I need somebody to come down here and 216 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: clean me off. This ain't right. Y'all pose the bill, 217 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: y'all pose the guinea. Every hour to my pole, comes 218 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: check on the Ain't nobody come check on me yet? Okay, well, 219 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: I apologize, but you have the wrong number. Try hanging 220 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: up and then dialing. It's this the nurse station, sir. 221 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: This is a nursery. We take care of children here. 222 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: This is not the nurse station. I'm not no child, 223 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: I said, it's this the nurse station. I'm sorry you're 224 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: not listening to me. This is not the nurse station. 225 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: This is a nursery. We have children here. We take 226 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: care of children. So I think you dial the wrong number. No, 227 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: they said that they posed to come clean up every hour. 228 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: They pos come check on. Now I've been here. I've 229 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: been in Ny New three hours. Then't nobody comes to 230 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: check on me yet? And none that I need somebody 231 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: to come clean me up, A bad player in a 232 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: fool and they just they just don't come check on 233 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: its like they pull the check on them. They I 234 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: am checkold. I'm really sorry that they have not come 235 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: to check on you and your your bad pants. So 236 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: why would they let us sue you're like they do? Okay, 237 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: so just listen to what I'm saying. This is a nursery, 238 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: we take care of small children. This is not the 239 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: nurses station. So I oh my grandkid, I got small 240 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: childing as my grandkids. I got about for the two 241 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: grandkids that comes in all Sunday. But soon did they 242 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: leave the people at the nurse stairs and that they 243 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: ain't treating a bad and leave me here like there's 244 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: here two three also about come check on? Can you 245 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: come down here check this bad play? Sir? I can't 246 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: do that. I need to get back to the kids 247 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: here that I'm if we take care of etty. My 248 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: kids come over side. They after church and they come 249 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: sleep do they okay? Okay, Well I'm glad your kids 250 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: come see you and I'm going to get off the 251 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: phone now up. You just down the number right when 252 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 1: you get off, you're gonna come down here and come 253 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: thick and clean me up. I'm not going to do that, 254 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: but I'm going to let you call back. You gonna 255 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: come clean me up. We're gonna do that, brother, do it. 256 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: I'm not a nurse. I'm a teacher. When when when when? When? When? When? 257 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: When I was coming through? Do you propose to do 258 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: the job? You do? What the job or whatever? Your job? 259 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: He or that what you do? I worked father two 260 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: years straight and I did my job. Okay, yo, yo, foe, 261 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: don't do your job the damn it. You're gonna make 262 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: me man. If you're gonna get you down, you get 263 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: you down here. I'm going to ask that you not 264 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: talk to me like that. Get you dot he come 265 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: clean this bad bad and clean me up. I ain't 266 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: going to be sitting here like this all the time. 267 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: What's your name again, it's Felicia, and I have really 268 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: really nice Get down here right now. Please do not 269 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: speak to me like that. I'm trying to know at 270 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: least you're gonna calm down and quit talking to me 271 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: like that. I'm trying to help you. Now, that's just 272 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 1: rude that this is a nursery. Read but you're not 273 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: gonna talk to me like that. That's just rude and disrespectful. 274 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 1: Don't teak to me like that. You when you're talking 275 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: about kicking, I will kick yo in the wheel chair. 276 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: This seems to be the only language you understands me 277 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: talking to you crazy. Since you're talking to me crazy, 278 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: is not coming down that you stay in that stake? 279 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: How about bet what you heard me? I said, you 280 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: stay in that stak. I'm not cleaning. No, I've been 281 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 1: trying to tell you for the past five minutes, but 282 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: you won't shut up long enough to listen. Get idiot, 283 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: I am not coming down there to clean your Why not? 284 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell you that is not my job. 285 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: You dial a wrong. No, you're talking to talking to you? 286 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: Who are you talking to like that? Who gonna make 287 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: me whoop you? We'll bring it on if you think 288 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: you've been hitting your wheelchair and make it down here 289 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 1: to the nursery to whoop and come the hill owned 290 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 1: listen when you would take a message from me and 291 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: give it to somebody, what's your what's your message? Write 292 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: this down in e P. What else? Huh huh? What 293 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 1: you got that part? Yeah? I got that part? Okay? 294 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 1: Due oh um um? Why what do I spell? I 295 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 1: don't know? What is it? Must spell it off? You 296 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: tell me what it is? What does that say? I 297 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: don't know. Nephew taught me, Nephew timme me. This is 298 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: Nephew tim Me from the Steve All the Morning. Hell, baby, 299 00:19:56,000 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: you just got break by your sister, writ Needa. Oh God, 300 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: while you were sitting up there like what in the world. Yeah, yeah, 301 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:14,159 Speaker 1: then you got me, you got me? Oh, very I 302 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: got you, I got you. I got one question for you, though, 303 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: what is What is the baddest and I mean the 304 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. It is the Steve 305 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You got me? Good? Thank you? Nephew, 306 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: coming up, coming up, oh, coming up, coming up next. 307 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: It is at the Cello Chief Love Officers Steve Harvey 308 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: in the building. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey 309 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour. 310 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: In Trending Celebrity wedding news, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Appleck 311 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: finally type the nut they are married. They are married. Well, yeah, Yeah, 312 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 1: it just happened out of nowhere. Yeah, political strategists and 313 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: MSNBC hosts simone standers also just type in knots. Plus 314 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: an other entertainment news Sesame Street Place, has apologized to 315 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: the family in the video that has gone viral about 316 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: the character Rosita appearing to ignore to Little Black Girls. 317 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,160 Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 318 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: of the hour, but right now it is time to 319 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the 320 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: building ready for your love questions? Lashawan and today I'm 321 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: gonna pray about my answers today. Okay, So just cool head, Okay, 322 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,959 Speaker 1: Lashawan and two sons, says um. I'm a forty eight 323 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 1: year old single mother and my son is eleven. Now 324 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 1: he wants me to get married because he's a shame 325 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: that his friends have a two parent household. I can't 326 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: provide that for him right now, and I feel bad 327 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 1: for him. How do I make this? How do I 328 00:21:55,200 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: make up for this? Well? Yeah I did, And listen 329 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: to Lashan, how do you make up for this? You can't? 330 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: You know, being a single mother's heart, it's really a 331 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: thankless job. I commend you on it. But you can't 332 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 1: be his father. You're gonna try to do fill in 333 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: the gaps, but it's not the same, and he notices it. 334 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: And I deal with these types of boys all the 335 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: time from my fatherless homes, and it's really, yeah, you know, 336 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: you've got to just accentuate the positive, but they're always 337 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: going to think about that missing hole in their soul, 338 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: which is their father. And I really don't have an 339 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: answer for you on what you can do. It's just 340 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: keep giving them love and support and introduce him to 341 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 1: some male role models. But then you know you can't 342 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 1: give him that right now. And the answer is, of course, 343 00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: you don't have nobody that wants to marry. You don't 344 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: find you haven't found anybody you think it's worthy of marrying, 345 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: So you can't rush the process just for him. You've 346 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: done that once before that HU. Yeah, all right, good advice, 347 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: Steve um Manny and Philly says. I'm a thirty six 348 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: year old married man and I won ten thousand dollars 349 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 1: on a scratch off last week. My wife told my 350 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: sister and she came begging for me to get her 351 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: a new set of tires. I didn't win a hundred 352 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: thousand dollars, and I have plans for my money? Do 353 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,640 Speaker 1: I have to buy her those tires? No you don't, 354 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: hear your wife? No you don't. How was he not 355 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: going to tell her the way? Oh that's a way 356 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: to do this? Really telling her that scratch would have 357 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 1: been in a coffee can under the basement steps into 358 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: my mama's house. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 359 00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: I've done that before. No no, and no, you don't 360 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:05,120 Speaker 1: owe your sister a new set of ties. No, who 361 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: should sustain't your child? Sister in law? NOSTI a d 362 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: Who it is? Okay? Who it is? No? No? Wow, 363 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: next time you have plans for your money? Dog, do 364 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: the plans for your money? Quit telling people? Tell me 365 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: did you pray about this? Answer? Oh no not all 366 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 1: answers don't mean prayer. Right there? You got yet, keep that. 367 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: I'll tell to get that scratchpad win't got that money? 368 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 1: And being checking off quiet all right? Moving on to 369 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: Faith in Birmingham. Faith says, my husband and I cheated 370 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 1: on each other back when we were dating. When he 371 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: found out I was cheating, he proposed I feel like 372 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 1: he only did it because he didn't want anyone else 373 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 1: to have me. Meanwhile, he still talks to women on 374 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 1: IG and I'm not on i G anymore. Is this 375 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: a sign that he will cheat on me again? I 376 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I know he liked talking 377 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: to women that ain't you. That's what you do know. 378 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 1: I know that fact that he prayed before. I prayed 379 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 1: about that answer. I am gonna I'm telling you the truth, 380 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: and you all know I have no problem lying. This 381 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: is a fact he liked talking to women that ain't you. 382 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 1: Now does that mean he gonna cheat? It does not 383 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,920 Speaker 1: mean he's gonna cheat. But I am going to tell 384 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: you right now. In all these conversations, the thought we 385 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: all come up, okay, oh yeah, because what is we 386 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 1: talking about? And why are we talking? Because I saw 387 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: something more I I like. So he might not be 388 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: doing it right now, but it could lead to it 389 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: could positively impossible stuff on IG man. I mean, it's 390 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: just not that manute fine people in the world. It's 391 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: just not damn next wlad these filters is going with 392 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: all this hill. I saw a girl on i G 393 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: the other day. Her name should just be filter. Filters 394 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: do change your life, that's for sure, all right. Last 395 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: one Steve. This is Coco in Flint. Coco says, I'm 396 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 1: in my late fifties and I've been singing all my life. 397 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: My husband teases that I'm a lounge singer, and I 398 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: think that he's embarrassed that I still book shows here 399 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,440 Speaker 1: in town. He used to be at all of my shows, 400 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: but not anymore. I am a retired school teacher, so 401 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 1: singing keeps me this. See. Should I retire from lounge 402 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 1: singing to remember? I pray God saying yes. Come on now, 403 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,680 Speaker 1: if you a lounge singer in Flint, you got to 404 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:18,239 Speaker 1: really think about what it is that makes you happy. Now, 405 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: singing in the lounges makes you happy, But you are 406 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: a lounge singer. You ain't. This ain't going nowhere? What's 407 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 1: your name? Coco? This ain't? Oh yeah, how did you 408 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: forget that? Yeah? You can change your name too, hot 409 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: chopping and it's not going to go any faster for you. 410 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: But she just says it keeps her busy, you know, 411 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: a whole lot of stuff. Keep you grocery shop and 412 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 1: keep you busy. You know, is there picking up the 413 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 1: yard and telling the salt and keep you good. Uh. 414 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: He quit going down there because you can't sing all 415 00:27:54,840 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 1: that good, not praying about this answering all the same 416 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 1: old ass songs. And then when you tried that Beyonce 417 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 1: remix and people start sneakering. He said, I'm not going 418 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 1: down him almost tried, tried to, Yeah, break myself, you 419 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: gonna and it is how you did it. You're not 420 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: gonna break my soul. You're not gonna break it. You're 421 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 1: not gonna break my soul. You're not gonna break it. 422 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: Unbreak my soul. I'm break it. And then you did 423 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: a modification and you got two big girls in the background. 424 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: Can't break it, you know, and the people start laughing. 425 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: That's why he quit doing down there, tried to do 426 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: the New School remixes. All right, thank you, feel glad 427 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: you prayed. I'm glad you prayed about some of your answers. 428 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: All right. Coming up at the top of the hours, 429 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this 430 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: you're listening show. Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are officially married. 431 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: That's right. Jennifer Lopez confirmed their Las Vegas wedding in 432 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: her newsletter, ending the letter with a new name, missus 433 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lynn affleck. She wrote, last night we flew to 434 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: Vegas stood in line for a license with four other couples, 435 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: all making the same journey to the wedding capital of 436 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: the world. So let's say congratulations to Jennifer and then 437 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: congratulations Yeah they did that. Yeah oh yeah, y'all, y'all 438 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: she breaks up. Jennifer Lopez can get a man, Yes 439 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: she can, Yes, yes she can. She needed to write 440 00:29:50,720 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 1: a book a roo. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna pray for Yeah. 441 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what he wouldn't I don't know what 442 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: he wouldn't did. I mean, you know, I mean, y'all know, 443 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,959 Speaker 1: I don't really do gossip. But what now you messing 444 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 1: with this other chick or something? Yeah, from the reality 445 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: show Southern Charm from a reality show. Yes, yes, yes, 446 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: how he didn't think that we're gonna get out damn 447 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: Rod a reality show. Send me a picture of that 448 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 1: chick that he was. Monica Mole for the South. You know, 449 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: I want to introduce you all to somebody formally who 450 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: does so much for the show behind the scenes. Monica Bonds, 451 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: better known as Mississippi Monica. I call it the mouth 452 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: to the South because there's nothing I can ask folk, 453 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: that's gossip related that her ass ain't got in her phone. 454 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: She's our executive producer, Steve. Yeah, she is that, but 455 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: she's much more a thought. Absolutely, That's why I introduce 456 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: her ass the mouth of the South. Executive producer sounds 457 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 1: so much more perfect. Yeah, but you don't really tell 458 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: what she really do. See, it's a lot of executive 459 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 1: producers sometimes call it is a music producer, executive producer, 460 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: you know, don't tell the whole story, program director, see 461 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 1: right there? But really, what do we use caller for 462 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:35,480 Speaker 1: hood related items? See? Shirley, what are you on the show? 463 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 1: What's your title? I'm your co host? See and then, 464 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 1: but what do we use you for? Budgie analytics? Anyway? 465 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: What do Budgie ass people do? Say? And think? We 466 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: go to Sherley to whatever care junior space? Were you done? Sir? 467 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: Explaining everybody? All right, here we go. Congratulations to Jennifer 468 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: and Ben one more time, all right, and more celebrity 469 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: wedding news it doesn't stop. Congratulations to former Senior Adviser 470 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: to VP Kamala Harris and now an MSNBC host, Simone Sanders. 471 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 1: Simone got married to her fiance Sean Toohnsen and Washington, 472 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: d C. Congratulations to that power couple. You remember Simone. 473 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: She's the one with the real close shaved head. Yeah 474 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 1: yeah her that she married her fiance his name is 475 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: Sean Townsend ceremony over the weekend. Yeah oh yeah, yeah, 476 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 1: she's about it at all, right, switching gears, uh and 477 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: other entertainment news. Did you guys see this video? Now, 478 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: this has gone viral. It's on social media. A mother 479 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: posted this video claiming that her daughters were ignored by 480 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: the character Rosita at Sesame Street Place in Philadelphia. The 481 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: Rosita character held up the like the no hand gesture 482 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: and just walked right past the two cute little girls. 483 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: It was during a parade. Yeah I saw that. Yeah, 484 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 1: it was crazy right. Even singer Kelly Rowland saw the 485 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: video and commented with outrage on social media. Well enter 486 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 1: Sesame Street Place. They released an apology and a statement 487 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: explaining that the character Rosita's no hand gesture was directed 488 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: to someone in the crowd asking her to hold their child, 489 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 1: and that Rosita would never intentionally ignore the little girls. 490 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: Street Place, no video. They saw something else, right, I 491 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: tell you one thing. Right there, you look out wasn't 492 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: then we went. None of my kids all grandkids. Now, 493 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know Rosie to name, So I'm making this 494 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: so Rosita is a female character. So I'm thinking it's 495 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: Cookie Monster. Remember, I'm thinking it's Cookie Monster. So just 496 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: as soon as you play my Babies, I'm tearing Cookie 497 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 1: Monster head off. Whoever playing Cookie Monster that day, it's 498 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 1: fitting to get exposed and suck a part because I'm 499 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: not gonna punch you in that sponge head. I want 500 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: you to feel it. That's too much hunt. Yeah, I've 501 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 1: been backstage at Disney. I've been backstage at all at 502 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: a Sesame Street on Ice years ago, and I know 503 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 1: how they put their heads on before they skate out 504 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 1: because they be hot. Yeah, I already know they number 505 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: the head and the body. I'm gonna tear the head off. Yeah, 506 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: yes's a two piece suit. The head right off. They 507 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 1: hold it under their arm and drink coffee. Yeah. That 508 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 1: was a lame excuse though that you know Sesame Street 509 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,720 Speaker 1: place said that you know, someone else was asking Rosita 510 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: to hold their child and she would never ignore them. 511 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: They went on to say that they have apologized to 512 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 1: reach out, reached out to the family to correct the misunderstanding. 513 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 1: EV had invited the girls to a special meet and 514 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: greet so they can deliver them and experience them. We 515 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: all want to go yet forget Yeah yeah, yeah, y'all 516 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: don't really understanding black children. We won't. We're so over it. 517 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:34,959 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we're not fit to give a damn about 518 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: Sesame street street man. They've been not come on this street. 519 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: All right, So there you have it. Coming up to 520 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: twenty minute, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 521 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:55,959 Speaker 1: Show right after this You're listening show and trending fitness news. 522 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 1: We got to shout out Elliott Stabler. You know him 523 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: from Law and Order, f You and Organized crime TV shows. 524 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: It's actor Chris Milani who plays Detective Stabler. He's been 525 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: declared the new hottie. Okay, so have you seen this 526 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: new Peloton ad. Yeah, he's working out naked. Yeah that's it. 527 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: That way too much commercial is hilarious. He says in 528 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 1: the ad that everybody thinks his workout routine is funny 529 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: because he works out naked like you said. He is 530 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 1: seen doing yoga like you say, Tommy squats. He's running 531 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 1: in Central Park with no clothes on. So you know. 532 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: I gotta ask, you know, I gotta ask guys. Have 533 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 1: you guys you've done it? I mean you will, don't 534 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: done it? But I get a little thirty second video 535 00:36:54,239 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: and yeah, Steve, hell now, let's cook working out all 536 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: the time. I got concerned work out, Nikki. What's your concern? 537 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: You know how hard it is work out with one here? 538 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 1: You gotta let yourself go. Dog. Can't do that, Dog, 539 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 1: I just can't let myself go. I've been I've been 540 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: protecting him. It's entire life. I don't just let him 541 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: out there, man, I got protect him. I'm covering him. June. 542 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 1: He just had a birthday. What about you working out 543 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,439 Speaker 1: in your birthday suit? No, I ain't doing that. Why 544 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 1: what's problem? My train ain't here to him, I'm getting 545 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: naked for it. And he staid it right down. What 546 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: the hell I'm not? I'm not doing that. No, I 547 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 1: see your point. I do see your point with that one. 548 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 1: I do so Tommy is the only one only. I'm 549 00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: always by myself. But it's time getting no support. Told 550 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 1: me what kind of exercises? Yeah, I can't do that. 551 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 1: I can't be nicking off. I'm gonna run on a 552 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:17,280 Speaker 1: tread meal. That's gonna be that's gonna be a little awkward. 553 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna try squats, bench press, squats all the 554 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: way down, all the way back up, all the way. 555 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: What about some jumping jack's one jumping jack? Because I 556 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: no way I can jump. She told me you ain't 557 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 1: gonna have the same problem. I God, man, I can't 558 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 1: do not know jumping jack? Get out of here. What 559 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: about like, oh, look at the time, Okay, gotta move on, 560 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 1: all right, coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour, 561 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: we'll check on Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty 562 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 1: nine Steed eight seven seven twenty nine Steed. Right after this, 563 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it 564 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 1: is time to check Steve's voicemail. If you want to 565 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 1: leave Steve a message, call him eight seven seven twenty 566 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,600 Speaker 1: nine Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. This first 567 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: color is from Philly, Steve, Uncle Steve. Tommy did a 568 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:37,240 Speaker 1: beautiful job last night, and a woman to Bella where 569 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: he laid it though, Now your love you Tommy. Okay, yeah, yeah, 570 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, that ain't for me, right, how I do 571 00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 1: nephew laid it the blank down. That's what he said. 572 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,720 Speaker 1: All right, moving on this color, Steve needs some family 573 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: advice about his brother. Hey, umm, sterio, I got her 574 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 1: own problems that feel like you can help me get through. 575 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: It's been a brief problem going on between me and 576 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,400 Speaker 1: my sister in law, and it's just the strain of it. Really, 577 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 1: them made it like a splitting between me and my 578 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 1: older brother, who I'm very much looking to a lot 579 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: ever since I was a kid, and it's just like 580 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: the strain of that relationship just have not It just 581 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: had me and my older brother not speaking to each 582 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 1: other at all. I mean sometimes like my niece was 583 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 1: just born two weeks ago and I need nothing about it. 584 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: I had to hear from from my mom, and my 585 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 1: mom even told me like have he told you? I 586 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 1: haven't heard nothing. I just don't want this to keep 587 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 1: going on to the phone where we ain't speaking because 588 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 1: it's kind of like it hurts in a way because 589 00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: I looked up to this. I loved to her as 590 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 1: a kid. I still do and it just I don't 591 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 1: want this to keep going on. You know, Thank you well. Brother. 592 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: The one way to fix it is you you can 593 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: fix it. See first, of all, you have to alleviate 594 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: the problem with the sister in law because whatever it is, 595 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,280 Speaker 1: really dark, it ain't that big a deal. It ain't 596 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,320 Speaker 1: that big a deal. Now, if you got some information 597 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: and all that, and you thought you'd tell it to 598 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: your brother and all this here probably wasn't your business. 599 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: Or if she said something to you to hurt your feelings. 600 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: You's a big boy. Let's get over it. Let's go 601 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 1: to the sister in law and apologize, even if you're 602 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 1: not wrong. See, people don't understand. Man. You have to 603 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 1: forgive people, and just forgive her and go in there 604 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: and tell your brother what he means to you and 605 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 1: how much you miss him, man, and you and and 606 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 1: tell him exactly what you told us. But you can 607 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 1: end this tomorrow. But see what happens is when everybody 608 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 1: go to their corners in the fight, and you gotta 609 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: keep looking across the ring, knowing y'all been fighting in 610 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 1: boxing house. Do you fix it? Somebody got to call 611 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: both fighters to the sitting of the ring, or somebody 612 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: got to walk off and say, hey, I'm through fight, 613 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 1: because take two people to fight. Man, the fight ends, brother, 614 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,800 Speaker 1: when you end it. And as men, we just have 615 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,839 Speaker 1: to take on that mantra. You just have to end it. Dog. 616 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many times I've just went 617 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: just to end something and I knew good in hell, 618 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: well I wasn't wrong, but just so we could move 619 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 1: things forward. Man, you're a man now. You got to 620 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:39,799 Speaker 1: get in the fix it business. That's what manhood is. Man. 621 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,600 Speaker 1: We're in the fix it business so we can keep 622 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: it moving. You ain't got time sit over there and 623 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: act like your sister in law. In time she see you, 624 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 1: she mad. Now, y'all, you can stop that. Dog. You 625 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 1: can't control her, but you can control you. Then you 626 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: get your brother back because you mess around. Man, this 627 00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:04,279 Speaker 1: is your brother, doge. He sounded heartbroken about it. Dog. 628 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 1: One day him and your you're, you're and your sister 629 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: not saying this can happen, but they could get a 630 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,359 Speaker 1: divorce one day. He's still gonna be your brother. That's right. 631 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 1: My brothers was my brother's all the way. When my 632 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: oldest brother, Heavy Pad still my brother to this day, 633 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 1: I talk about him like he's my big brother. That's 634 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 1: an important relationship, man, it's my advice. That's good advice. 635 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: Got a quick with Sherley, that's it. That's it. Yeah, 636 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,399 Speaker 1: And you know that sister in law mats whatever that is, dog, 637 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,319 Speaker 1: that's that man's wife. He got the side with her 638 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 1: because he sleep with her. See, you ain't got no wife, 639 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: so you don't understand that whatever however wrong she is, 640 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: he got the side with her because he got to 641 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: protect her feelings, even if it's against his brother. That's right. 642 00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you. We'll mark calls in or 643 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:08,319 Speaker 1: two and that was great. Two love shoe coming up next, 644 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: and it is a nephew in the Today's Prank Phone 645 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:16,880 Speaker 1: call right after this. You're listening, all right, coming up 646 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes 647 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: after it's time for today's Strawberry letter. And the subject 648 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 1: is I'll take it anyway I can get it, me too, 649 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: me too. Not mad at that, right, I'm not mad 650 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:37,719 Speaker 1: at that great subject. I am all right, I'll take 651 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 1: it anyway I can get it. We'll get into that 652 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,320 Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now, the nephew is 653 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What's on the menu, nephew? Yeah, Well, 654 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 1: you know it's a lot of this is going alone 655 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:56,959 Speaker 1: around the world. Work hus yeah, work, husband, y'all got one. Yeah, 656 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 1: I don't have a work hub. Now you would have 657 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: a you could have a work wife though. It could go, 658 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:18,080 Speaker 1: could go. Yeah, let's play the prank. Let's play. I said, hello, Hello, 659 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out Gary, Gary, who is this? Hello? 660 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: Who is this? Hey? This is Tony Man. I work 661 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,359 Speaker 1: with your wife, Pam, it's your Oh yeah, she's fine, 662 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,319 Speaker 1: she's fine. Man. I'm I'm one of a co workers. Man. 663 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you. You know, I've 664 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 1: been working with a quite some time. I'm kind of 665 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 1: like what they called her work husband. Man. You may 666 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,920 Speaker 1: have heard her mentioned me before, Tony. Wait wait wait, wait, 667 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 1: back up, back up, because I may be a little sleep. 668 00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 1: What did you say a husband? No, no, no, no, no, 669 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,239 Speaker 1: no no no, nothing like that. Man, it ain't one 670 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 1: husband here, Okay, No, I got that. I'm a work husband, 671 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: you know, you know like that, you know, just something 672 00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: playful at the job. They'd be saying, work. What are 673 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 1: you talking about? Well, you know, just just something you know, playful. 674 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: They be saying, you know, uh, when you hang around 675 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,320 Speaker 1: somebody a lot. This said he should work husband or 676 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 1: your work wife, you know, something like that. But nothing nothing, 677 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 1: nothing heavy nothing heavy at all? Man? All right, what's 678 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: what's up? Man? I mean, what's up? What? Well? I 679 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,279 Speaker 1: was calling man, trying to ask you how long? Um? 680 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:24,319 Speaker 1: How long have you a Pam been married? Wait? Wait, 681 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 1: what's what's your name again? My name is Tony? Oh okay, um, 682 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,320 Speaker 1: we've been married about eight or nine years? Let me 683 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 1: what's up? How long do you do? Uh? If you 684 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: don't mind me asking? How much longer did you see 685 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:42,720 Speaker 1: y'all y'all being married? Who? I kind of do mind you? Okay? 686 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 1: What hold up? How did you get this lumber again? Man? Like? No, 687 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 1: I got to I got the number out of out 688 00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: of Pam's phone, and I wanted to call you myself. 689 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 1: Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa back out of 690 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,359 Speaker 1: my wife's phone. Yeah, dog, I don't I don't even 691 00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:01,359 Speaker 1: ask whoa whoa? Why are you doing my wife's man? No, dude, 692 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: I mean I just got it off a desk. Man. 693 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 1: I wanted to. I wanted to, Um, you know, I 694 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:06,880 Speaker 1: wanted to reach out to you man and kind of 695 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,279 Speaker 1: have a black a private conversation with you. That's all? Oh? 696 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,799 Speaker 1: What first one? Why are you in my wife's phone? 697 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:16,080 Speaker 1: You calling me, dude, I mean, this is this, this 698 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: is how this this husband thing, this is really is 699 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 1: really blot me right? No, No, it's just no, it's 700 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 1: just a word. That's a work husband, man, that's all 701 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 1: it is. What is a work husband? What are you? 702 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,439 Speaker 1: What are you doing with my wife? You know? That's 703 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: just like you know, like you know, I'll bring us 704 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 1: some coffee and donuts to the job, or you know, 705 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,919 Speaker 1: get us some lunch and stuff. Man, if she don't 706 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,719 Speaker 1: feel like if my wife don't even like donut if 707 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,359 Speaker 1: we got a new coffee machine just two weeks ago, 708 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 1: So why are you bringing my wife? Who? Hey, man, listen, really, 709 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,319 Speaker 1: I really, I basically I just called for this here, 710 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,240 Speaker 1: I love I loaned. Do you foresee y'all being married 711 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,600 Speaker 1: to death? Do I? Fuck? What do you mean? How 712 00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 1: long are we gonna be married? What's you'll? Let me 713 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 1: get to? Ony man? Tony, tony Tori. I don't give 714 00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,800 Speaker 1: a damn you asking me this. Hold on, Let me 715 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 1: let me call my wife. Hold on, hold on, so holo, Hello, hello, Gary, 716 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:16,720 Speaker 1: he'll Gary, look hem you better call me within two minutes. 717 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: Right now, it's ten thirty eight. You better call me 718 00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:27,319 Speaker 1: my ten forty and you Black be sleeping outside. Hello Tory? Hello? Yes, 719 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,720 Speaker 1: are you why you call her? Man? This? This wonna 720 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 1: be a conversation me and you having together. Hello? On 721 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 1: are you talking about you? You want wife's work? Husband? 722 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 1: It ain't but one husband up in here? What my 723 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 1: land name? And she don't keep it till death do 724 00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 1: us part? Now? I'm glad you called me on a Friday. 725 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,359 Speaker 1: I'm so glad because I got all weekend to think 726 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,440 Speaker 1: about that wasn't I'm gonna give you because this out 727 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 1: here now he man, man, all I'm trying to figure 728 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,359 Speaker 1: out how much wrong with do you think you want 729 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 1: to be married to her? Oh? Yeah? This who wasn't 730 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 1: gonna be phenomenal? Like you better get right with Jesus 731 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: on Srinday because I get dance tea. You're gonna meet 732 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 1: him Monday morning. Hey, if I'm taking my wife up 733 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 1: there early and I want to see you Black, I'm 734 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,880 Speaker 1: just trying to do. All I'm saying is if you 735 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 1: didn't want to be be mad too any longer than 736 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,560 Speaker 1: maybe we could work something. Now that's all I'm asking 737 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,759 Speaker 1: the workout partner. All we need to work it out 738 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: is be there Monday because I'm shore to hell gonna 739 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:33,720 Speaker 1: be there question early Monday, waiting for your work husband mine. Okay, 740 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 1: look man, I'm not gonna see that working. I'm not 741 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: trying to look, I don't trying to do it. Help 742 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,359 Speaker 1: a deeper man and man conversation with you. Man, all right, 743 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 1: you don't call me talking a boss. You bringing my wife? 744 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,879 Speaker 1: Don't a's some coffee and I all open up? All 745 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,319 Speaker 1: this ain't no deeply conversation. Hey man, I'm who work 746 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,680 Speaker 1: husband dog, everybody, everybody. Most people have a work husband 747 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,759 Speaker 1: or work wife. Man. That's that's known in the corporate world. 748 00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,479 Speaker 1: Work husband. You hear what I'm saying, what a work 749 00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 1: husband and you. I'm gonna be there Monday, eight o'clock. 750 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm not gonna say go back. Look, you 751 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna just call Pam. I just called Pam. 752 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 1: Irena called me back in about a minute. In fifteen seconds. 753 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna wait for to call me back work husband 754 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: mine something on a Friday. Okay, Well that's it was 755 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,239 Speaker 1: just it was just a question. Man. I'm just trying 756 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 1: to see if you didn't want to maybe we could 757 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 1: work something out if I find out if there's any 758 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: truth to anything you're saying. Oh, it's gonna be the 759 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,200 Speaker 1: late night to night. You ain't nobody gonna do nothing 760 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 1: to my bad? I mean, ain't nobody gonna do what? 761 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,680 Speaker 1: Did you just call my wife? Your paymy No? No, man, 762 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm doing till Monday and mister work husband. Hey man, 763 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I got one more day I need 764 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: to say to you. Man, No, you ain't I love 765 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 1: to say to me Monday. No, no, No, I got 766 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 1: something else I need to say to you. Are you listening? 767 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,360 Speaker 1: You better talk to Jesus because I'm gonna be up 768 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 1: there on Monday at eight. Okay, I got I got 769 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say it. Got nothing 770 00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 1: to say to me itself Monday, I got. I don't 771 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 1: got one more thing to say. Go ahead, go ahead, 772 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,360 Speaker 1: I say that you're listening. I'm listening to this for 773 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 1: work hasAge. We'll just what I want to tell you 774 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 1: what I mean. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve 775 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your brother 776 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 1: Eric love that I put you up to this. I'm 777 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 1: so glad that's a joke because somebody was about to die. 778 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,879 Speaker 1: You are right. Man. Oh man, that's a good one. 779 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: You are right. Oh I need a drink man, Man, Yeah, Man, Hey, 780 00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,359 Speaker 1: I got one more thing. I gotta ask you, man, 781 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the lane? Man? 782 00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all crazy. I'm so glad baby, 783 00:51:55,680 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 1: somebody was about to die? Talk about my baby? I mean, 784 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 1: don't you talk about man. We ain't got the warning 785 00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 1: husband up in here. I'll bet that Monday though the 786 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:30,520 Speaker 1: work husband Monday. It was crazy on that on that message. 787 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:36,160 Speaker 1: It had it. That's it. That's it. As long as 788 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm stupid enough for y'all this morning, that's all that matters. 789 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: Usually usually get it done. Yeah, don't disappoint never you 790 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: quit asking that question. Boy, why don't you say some 791 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 1: new goals and aspirations? Because I got it. I'm doing it. 792 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 1: I'm um, I'm sexy intelligent. You gotta catch me July 793 00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:03,360 Speaker 1: twenty nine on the Own Network, Ready to Love Sexy Intelligent. 794 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 1: That's ready to love Miami Style. Y'all come check your 795 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 1: board out, Okay. As I lead you through some beautiful 796 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:14,160 Speaker 1: relations you have said some things that have been like 797 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:18,320 Speaker 1: correct on the show. Thank you, Thank you, suck you, 798 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 1: but you are not six it though. All right, we'll 799 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,760 Speaker 1: leave it right there, going up next Strawberry Letters subject 800 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 1: I'll take it anyway I can get it. We'll get 801 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,160 Speaker 1: into that right after this. You're listening to the Steve 802 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:40,279 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Well, today's election day for the primaries 803 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 1: in Maryland, so please go vote. We need you to vote. 804 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 1: Just a reminder to the entire Steve Harvey nation. Please 805 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: make sure you're registered to vote. Go to when we 806 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,319 Speaker 1: all vote dot org when we all vote dot org 807 00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:57,640 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, register and do all the things 808 00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,800 Speaker 1: you have to do to be ready. This is a 809 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 1: very important election year. Okay, Yes, let's go very important. Yeah, 810 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:09,240 Speaker 1: when we all vote dot org. All right, switching gears, 811 00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,360 Speaker 1: It is now time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 812 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:15,799 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 813 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:20,120 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter. Please submit it, just go ahead, 814 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,879 Speaker 1: write it out, submit it to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. 815 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,800 Speaker 1: Click submit Strawberry Letter. We'll get the letter and we 816 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 817 00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:30,960 Speaker 1: like this, and we'll try to help you. You never know, 818 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,400 Speaker 1: it could be yours. You never know. Buckle up it 819 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: hold on type, we got it for you here. It 820 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:39,799 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry letter, thank you nephew. Subject. I'll take 821 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: it anyway I can get it. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've 822 00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: been dating a man or we have been messing around. 823 00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: As he says, it's been almost five years, and he's 824 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 1: not the settling down type, so I'll take it anyway 825 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,520 Speaker 1: I can get it. I have fallen in love with him, 826 00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 1: and he knows it. I think he uses it against 827 00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 1: me at times he's dating other women because I see 828 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 1: him posting pictures in the club and he's hugged up 829 00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,440 Speaker 1: with other females. He's a flashy type of guy that 830 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,160 Speaker 1: needs to go out at night, and I'm a lot 831 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 1: more conservative. He makes fun of me because I like 832 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 1: game nights at home and house get togethers with my family. 833 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,960 Speaker 1: I don't drink a lot, and I won't smoke cigars 834 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:25,120 Speaker 1: with him. One drink gets me tipsy, and he hates 835 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:29,440 Speaker 1: when I'm tipsy. I smoke a cigar and threw up 836 00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:33,720 Speaker 1: the entire next day, so he hates when I smoke. 837 00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 1: I have tried to match him and whatever he's got 838 00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 1: going on, but he will not include me in that 839 00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:40,960 Speaker 1: part of his life. I get to see him when 840 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 1: he's not with his friends or turning up in the club. 841 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,160 Speaker 1: I often cook for him and rub his feet so 842 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,040 Speaker 1: he can relax at the end of the day. He 843 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 1: claims he doesn't like to go out with me because 844 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm his piece, and when he is with me, he 845 00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,799 Speaker 1: feels safe and at home. I stay and I pray 846 00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 1: that he will choose me if he decides to settle 847 00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:06,360 Speaker 1: down one day soon. I know for a fact that 848 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,279 Speaker 1: he is not spending quality time with anyone else. I 849 00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:12,279 Speaker 1: never see traces of other women at his house, so 850 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 1: I think I'm the closest thing to a girlfriend that 851 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 1: he's got. I hate that old saying that a man 852 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: will be a man, because that's condoning cheating. I don't 853 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,439 Speaker 1: want him to ever get his foot rubs from another woman. 854 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 1: I know I am settling, but there are no good 855 00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:31,160 Speaker 1: men out there anymore. I put in five years with him, 856 00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,479 Speaker 1: and I don't want to start over. Am I wrong 857 00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 1: for accepting whatever he gives me? Well, yes, ma'am, yes 858 00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 1: you are. You're wrong for settling. This whole letter is 859 00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,880 Speaker 1: about him and what he says and what he wants, 860 00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 1: and it's about rubbing his feet. You're the ones that 861 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 1: should be getting your feet rubbed. You're in the heels, 862 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,400 Speaker 1: and you know this letter is on and on and 863 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:57,560 Speaker 1: on about him. What about you? Who's looking out for 864 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 1: and who's caring for you? Or don't you think you 865 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,960 Speaker 1: deserve that? Listen, I'm just here to tell you that 866 00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,959 Speaker 1: I don't care if he was the only man left. 867 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 1: Don't ever settle. There are plenty of good man out here. 868 00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,239 Speaker 1: You just don't know because you've been tied up with 869 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 1: this guy for the last five years. You just have 870 00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,960 Speaker 1: to not be afraid to be by yourself and wait 871 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:24,600 Speaker 1: or walk away until the right man comes along. Five 872 00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:26,680 Speaker 1: years of your life you've given to this man and 873 00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 1: you've got nothing in return. All you do is serve him. 874 00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,520 Speaker 1: I mean you said he tells you you're his piece 875 00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 1: p e a c E as you put it in 876 00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 1: the letter, But in reality, you're his p i e 877 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: c E piece. You don't have to take it anyway 878 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: he gives it. You don't have to settle for anything. 879 00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:53,600 Speaker 1: Nothing is that good. I mean nothing, I just don't 880 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,960 Speaker 1: think it is. Don't let him continue to use you. 881 00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: You gotta let him stay with those other him and 882 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 1: he's cheating with If that's the case, Okay, that's the 883 00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 1: best way I can tell you. Do not allow him 884 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,440 Speaker 1: to treat you this way. Get a backbone, put an 885 00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,400 Speaker 1: end to this situation. Now, don't waste another five years 886 00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,880 Speaker 1: of your of your time with him, because he'll stay 887 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 1: with you as long as you let him stay with you. 888 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,080 Speaker 1: You know that's it. He doesn't even call this a relationship. 889 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 1: He calls it messing around. Messing around. You don't want 890 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:27,200 Speaker 1: to do that for another five years, Steve, Very good response, 891 00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 1: Very good. You know when you send in a letter 892 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:37,040 Speaker 1: and your opening statement is I'll take it anywhere I 893 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:40,760 Speaker 1: can get it. What you want us to do? What? What? 894 00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: What can we do? Because you you've you're you're willing 895 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: to accept whatever. Let let's go through the letter. Just 896 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 1: Stephen Shell, I've been dating a man, or we have 897 00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 1: been messing around, as he says, and it's almost been 898 00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: five years, and he's not the settling down type. Well, 899 00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,960 Speaker 1: I have news for you. You ain't either. See it 900 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,160 Speaker 1: ain't just him, is he? You? You ain't the settling 901 00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:11,720 Speaker 1: down type because you've been letting this man tell you 902 00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,800 Speaker 1: y'all messing around for five years and you've been cool 903 00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 1: with that, then your next statement is, so I'll take 904 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 1: it anyway I can get it. Oh, so you just 905 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: miss anything and everything? Now what you want to do 906 00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 1: anything because I take everything? Or you want to pass 907 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 1: out everything because I take anything? Well, what's what's wrong 908 00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 1: with you? I have fallen in love with him, and 909 00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 1: he knows it. Falling in love in love with him? 910 00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 1: Why I think he uses it against me at times? 911 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,960 Speaker 1: He's dating other women because I see him posting pictures 912 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,320 Speaker 1: in the club and he's hugged up with these other females. 913 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 1: He's posting the pictures in your face. He's a flashing 914 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,400 Speaker 1: type of guy that needs to go out tonight, and 915 01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm not. And I'm a lot more conservative girl. Let's 916 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:09,919 Speaker 1: say in the work not for you, because he's working 917 01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:13,439 Speaker 1: out just fine for him. When we come back, I'll 918 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,200 Speaker 1: tell you the rest of it. It's just gonna be 919 01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:20,320 Speaker 1: pretty necessary. All right. Hang on, We'll have part two 920 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 1: of Steve's refunds coming up in twenty three minutes after 921 01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject I'll take it anyway 922 01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,920 Speaker 1: I can get it. We'll be back right after this. 923 01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:34,880 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve Let's recap today's 924 01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, the subject I'll take it anyway I can 925 01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,160 Speaker 1: get it. Sisters that's listening to me. I want you 926 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,200 Speaker 1: to listen to this because some of you can see 927 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:46,800 Speaker 1: yourself in here, and I'm about to share some important information. 928 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,480 Speaker 1: I'll take it anywhere I can get it. She's been 929 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: dating a man, been messing around, as he calls it, 930 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:54,720 Speaker 1: for five years because he won't call it dayton, and 931 01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,560 Speaker 1: she's going along with it. It's been almost five years 932 01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,560 Speaker 1: and he's not the settling down tight Well, lady, you 933 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,320 Speaker 1: ain't either, So I'll take it anywhere I can get it. 934 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,440 Speaker 1: So I just told you on the last break, she's 935 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: missing anything and everything. That's so she just go along 936 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 1: with anything. He's dating other women because I see him 937 01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 1: posting pictures in the club and he's hugged up with 938 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 1: other females and he's posting these pictures. You don't, You 939 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:23,440 Speaker 1: don't see what's happening here. But you say, I know 940 01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:27,440 Speaker 1: he's dating other women. You said that, what do dating 941 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:32,320 Speaker 1: them lead to? What do dating them mean? What? Why? Why? 942 01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: What's the matter with you? He's a he's a flashy 943 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,080 Speaker 1: type of guy that needs to go out at night, 944 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,920 Speaker 1: and I'm a lot more conservative. Now listen to this. 945 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,360 Speaker 1: He makes fun of me because I like game nights 946 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,320 Speaker 1: at home and house get togethers with my family. I 947 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,800 Speaker 1: don't drink a lot, and I don't smoke cigars with him, 948 01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 1: and one drink gets me tippy, and he hates when 949 01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm tipsy. I smoked the cigar threw up the entire 950 01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:57,000 Speaker 1: next day, so he hates when I smoke. Okay, can 951 01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:01,600 Speaker 1: I tell you something, man, He don't like you. He 952 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:07,080 Speaker 1: don't like you. Okay, let's start there. I've tried to 953 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 1: match him in whatever he's got going on, and he 954 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:11,720 Speaker 1: will not include me in that part of his life. 955 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:16,720 Speaker 1: He don't like I get to see him when he's 956 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 1: not with his friends or turning up at the club. 957 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 1: That's because he don't like you. I often cook for 958 01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,600 Speaker 1: him and rub his feet so he can relax at 959 01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:31,439 Speaker 1: the end of the day. Oh so now you stupid too. 960 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 1: You're rubbing his feet so he can go stand back 961 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:40,040 Speaker 1: on him and take them pictures with them mother. He 962 01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: claims he doesn't like to go out with me because 963 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm his peace. He don't like to go out with 964 01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 1: you because he don't like you. It's in the centers. 965 01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:56,280 Speaker 1: He claims he doesn't like to go. He don't like 966 01:02:56,880 --> 01:03:03,960 Speaker 1: you because I'm his piece. Shirley said, pe a Ce, 967 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 1: you're his side piece. He ain't got to call you 968 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:14,400 Speaker 1: know where you're the side piece. The other pieces is 969 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:19,240 Speaker 1: on tape. They own video at the club, and when 970 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 1: he is with me, he feels safe and at home. 971 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:30,439 Speaker 1: He tied he the wards ass house. It came to you. Yeah, 972 01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,920 Speaker 1: I stay and pray that he would choose me if 973 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,360 Speaker 1: he decides to settle down one day. So you that's stupid. 974 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 1: God ain't put you in this situation. So don't, don't 975 01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:46,200 Speaker 1: don't don't, don't. Don't pray God to fix this situation 976 01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:49,560 Speaker 1: here because you bought this on yourself. I know for 977 01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 1: a fact that he's not spending quality time with anyone else. 978 01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 1: Are you stupid? You just said you see the post. 979 01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,040 Speaker 1: You just said, he come in and tied and you 980 01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: got the rubbies feet. Now check this out. I know 981 01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:04,720 Speaker 1: for a fact, I don't. He's not spending quiet of 982 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,680 Speaker 1: time with anyone. I never see traces of other women 983 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,120 Speaker 1: at his house, So I think I'm the closest thing 984 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,040 Speaker 1: to a girlfriend that he's got he got cleaning, lady, 985 01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 1: he gotta cleaning. Lady, you can't see trade. You ain't 986 01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:20,520 Speaker 1: no blood how a matter of fact, you're stupid, so 987 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:22,720 Speaker 1: you don't see no traces of no other woman. He 988 01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:28,000 Speaker 1: posting pictures? Why they got to leave everdence over there 989 01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:31,360 Speaker 1: for somebody? They think they it too. I hate the 990 01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,200 Speaker 1: old saying that a that a man's a man, because 991 01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 1: that's condoned in cheat. Hein't cheating, he's seeing other people. 992 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 1: You think it's cheating because you think he yours. He 993 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:50,160 Speaker 1: belonged to them streets. I don't want him to ever 994 01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 1: get his foot rubs from another woman. What do you 995 01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 1: keep doing? Lady? You're stupid. I know I'm settling. Okay, 996 01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,600 Speaker 1: glad you know that there are no good men out 997 01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 1: there anymore. Okay, see this is what. This is what 998 01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 1: now we've gotta get to. There are no good men 999 01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:13,800 Speaker 1: out there anymore. Okay. And so now that you've made 1000 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:17,240 Speaker 1: that statement, please describe to me which one you have, 1001 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:20,080 Speaker 1: because it sounds like you got one of them, no 1002 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:24,880 Speaker 1: good ones to me, you put into the universe. There 1003 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,200 Speaker 1: are no good men out there anymore. So now you 1004 01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:30,640 Speaker 1: didn't took one of these no good men, and I 1005 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 1: hope they're gonna turn into a good man by praying 1006 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:36,000 Speaker 1: that he don't go no whales and get his feet 1007 01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:40,400 Speaker 1: rug you stupid. I put five years in with him 1008 01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,320 Speaker 1: and I don't want to start over. Am I wrong 1009 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:45,520 Speaker 1: for accepting whatever he gives me? Don't it sound wrong 1010 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 1: to you? Did you read this letter for you? Send 1011 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:52,160 Speaker 1: it back to me? Stop being blind to your own self. 1012 01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:55,480 Speaker 1: If your girlfriend told you this was happening to her, 1013 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 1: would you advise her to stay? I don't think so. 1014 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:01,480 Speaker 1: But it's amazing how people don't follow the advice that 1015 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:05,600 Speaker 1: all good men out there, you're just not available to 1016 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 1: locate one, and they can't locate you because you ain't available. 1017 01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,320 Speaker 1: Can I say this to you? Can say it's Steve, 1018 01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:16,960 Speaker 1: that are good men out there, You're just not available 1019 01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:20,160 Speaker 1: to locate one, and they can't locate you because you 1020 01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 1: are not available. She's rubbing his stand because you're rubbing 1021 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:28,520 Speaker 1: mister wones feet. So where is mister rong wherever mister 1022 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:30,520 Speaker 1: right Finn to sit at on the couch next to 1023 01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:34,960 Speaker 1: y'all while you rubbing mister ronges man? Don't be Stu 1024 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,440 Speaker 1: all right? You said it? Post your comments on Today's 1025 01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:41,200 Speaker 1: strung like you, Steve Harvey. F them on Instagram and 1026 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:44,920 Speaker 1: Facebook and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1027 01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,919 Speaker 1: Here we're coming out here for you. At forty six 1028 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Junior is back with Sports Talk. 1029 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:55,680 Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Steve 1030 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,800 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for 1031 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. How is your birthday? Junior? Welcome? Oh, 1032 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,920 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Shirley birthday was outstanding. Man. You know, 1033 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,120 Speaker 1: I really am blessed it. You know, forty four and 1034 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:15,320 Speaker 1: blessed is all I can tell you right now. Many, Yeah, 1035 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,640 Speaker 1: we just blessed, that's all I know. A matter of fact, 1036 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:21,200 Speaker 1: speaking of another birth box cause on the dice table, baby, 1037 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:30,160 Speaker 1: what's that fifteen to one up? Big eight? Yeah. So, man, 1038 01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 1: don't forget this Thursday. This is my next blessing. Man, 1039 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:36,080 Speaker 1: the proclamation that's still happening. Thursday, July twenty first Life 1040 01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:38,840 Speaker 1: of Time, Cigar and Lithonia, Georgia right outside Atlanta on 1041 01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:41,360 Speaker 1: the east side. Man, go ahead at event bright dot 1042 01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 1: com just to smoke weekend. Siggar and Sip were gonna 1043 01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:46,040 Speaker 1: have a great time in them. My man, Reggie High 1044 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 1: gonna come through and do the entertainment for you, my man, 1045 01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,720 Speaker 1: and Reggie ye man, it's good dude, all right. Also, 1046 01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:55,720 Speaker 1: NBA news man talk about it. It happened DeAndre Ayton 1047 01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:59,640 Speaker 1: signed his extension with the Phoenix Suns stay four year, 1048 01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 1: hundred and thirty three million, God gracious, hating hitting across 1049 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 1: the head. Now. The reason why this is important It 1050 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:09,960 Speaker 1: makes a deal harder for them to acquire Kevin Durant. 1051 01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,840 Speaker 1: So now he said he signed, Kevin can't go. They 1052 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 1: ain't got the money he needed to pay. Kevin got enough. 1053 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:25,080 Speaker 1: If he want Kevin the cup, it ain't gonna be Phoenix. 1054 01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:28,000 Speaker 1: We know that. And speaking of that, man, Kevin Durant 1055 01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 1: will stay in Brooklyn as a right now. Uh, the 1056 01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,000 Speaker 1: Heat have made an offer for Kevin Durant. This is 1057 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 1: what they've offered for Kevin Durant. You just say, if 1058 01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:38,639 Speaker 1: they're gonna take it to that, but Tyler Hero, Duncan 1059 01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:42,800 Speaker 1: Robinson and multiple first round picks that the Brooklyn Nets 1060 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,560 Speaker 1: ain't going for that. And the Nets don't want it, 1061 01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:46,280 Speaker 1: they don't want to take it. They ain't gonna take 1062 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:50,000 Speaker 1: the deal. And that means Kevin Durant ain't damn d 1063 01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,360 Speaker 1: gonna play now. They got Kevin Durant though, Yeah, but 1064 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 1: this is crazy for Kevin Durant and Kyrie Irvin still 1065 01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:01,040 Speaker 1: on the roster. That means they have to play again 1066 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,360 Speaker 1: another season. But Junior, what they gonna do. Kevin got 1067 01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:09,400 Speaker 1: a contract, He just requested a trade. You know. Now 1068 01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: if he can sit out with Crazy and they can't 1069 01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:17,719 Speaker 1: have a conversation and Kyrie lost, I know not Thomas, 1070 01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:20,080 Speaker 1: but he got to sit down at least let Crazy 1071 01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,800 Speaker 1: tell him I'm gonna play. I'm gonna play, I'm gonna play. Yeah, 1072 01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:26,679 Speaker 1: he got, he got played some basketball. Yeah. He can't 1073 01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:32,439 Speaker 1: take no more stances against the virus, against Israel. He can't. No, 1074 01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,519 Speaker 1: he can't have no more marching. He can't go out 1075 01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 1: there for the marching dimes. He can't. Don't say nothing 1076 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:50,800 Speaker 1: about or nothing. You get your ass to work, man, man, 1077 01:09:51,800 --> 01:10:00,120 Speaker 1: that's all he need to quit talking about mental health. Oh, 1078 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:06,360 Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. We gotta go. Coming up at the 1079 01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,920 Speaker 1: top of the hour, we'll check Steve's voicemail again. Right 1080 01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:12,920 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1081 01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,800 Speaker 1: We've teamed up with Seagram's Escapes to give away one 1082 01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,679 Speaker 1: thousand and five hundred dollars to create your own summer escape. 1083 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 1: All you have to do to enter and get the 1084 01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:28,000 Speaker 1: rules is visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. Fifteen hundred dollars, 1085 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I said, fifteen hundred dollars cash could be yours. Get 1086 01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:34,600 Speaker 1: all the info at Steve HARVEYFM dot com. Sip happiness 1087 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:40,320 Speaker 1: with Seagram's escapes your new summer favorite. Okay hundred dollars? Yeah, 1088 01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:44,840 Speaker 1: all right, Steven, is time now to check your voicemail 1089 01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 1: if you want to leave a message for Steve. Callum 1090 01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,880 Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, all right, here we go. 1091 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:53,360 Speaker 1: This caller's name is Delma. She's from Washington. Steve, Hi, 1092 01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,360 Speaker 1: It's me Delma again from Washington. I'm going to keep 1093 01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:00,519 Speaker 1: calling until I get on there. I was going say, 1094 01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:04,160 Speaker 1: you people are hlious, Steve. I love the shell it. 1095 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:07,439 Speaker 1: I love you, Steve, I love it, Shelley, I love Carl, 1096 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:11,439 Speaker 1: I love listen to be Monica. But Dad Junior did 1097 01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,719 Speaker 1: it good run the other day when he did Charles 1098 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 1: Barkley donating the million dollars to Spellman, and it was hilarious. 1099 01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:25,800 Speaker 1: This morning, we're ganning, as Tommy said, Twindy Twilliams. I've 1100 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:28,559 Speaker 1: been scared to you, Tommy. I thought I would die. 1101 01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:33,000 Speaker 1: Where would life be without the Steve's Harvey morning Shell. 1102 01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:36,120 Speaker 1: I love y'all. Keep doing what you're doing. You make 1103 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,640 Speaker 1: the sick feel bad, you make it down trit and 1104 01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:44,080 Speaker 1: feel better. You're an inspiration and a motivation to Thank 1105 01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:49,479 Speaker 1: you so much, and y'all have a blessed day. Bye bye. Well, 1106 01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:52,559 Speaker 1: well we down, we're in't here doing it, Miss Delmo. 1107 01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:56,639 Speaker 1: We shall hope you feel better so you know we're 1108 01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:01,160 Speaker 1: here for you. Though in the meantime, Prayer Chain just thinks, yes, 1109 01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,439 Speaker 1: I could take a shot at what I think is 1110 01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 1: wrong with Miss Delmo, but we just can't play for it. No, 1111 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm not. I've seen the commercials on TV, though. Thank you, 1112 01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,360 Speaker 1: Miss Delma, thank you for loving us so much. This 1113 01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 1: next color is a Monique and she needs some relationship advice. 1114 01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:37,040 Speaker 1: I Steve, my name is. I'm calling because UM, I 1115 01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:42,760 Speaker 1: am married. UM, I've been married for about eight years now, 1116 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:46,720 Speaker 1: one on nine, but we've been separated for three. UM 1117 01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:51,000 Speaker 1: it's just not getting any better. I've been trying to 1118 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:55,000 Speaker 1: allow me grow up and take care of your responsibilities, 1119 01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:59,679 Speaker 1: and I just don't see it working. But my pastor 1120 01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,240 Speaker 1: m cousin, it's telling me that it's wrong for us 1121 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:07,599 Speaker 1: to get a divorce. Um, and I'm just I don't 1122 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:10,519 Speaker 1: know what to do. If you could help me, I 1123 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:14,120 Speaker 1: really appreciate it, and I love you. I love Shirley, 1124 01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 1: I love the whole time. Thank you guys for being 1125 01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:20,240 Speaker 1: amazing every morning. Thank you for answering people's questions and 1126 01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:23,639 Speaker 1: helping others in their life. I truly appreciate it. Thank 1127 01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:27,040 Speaker 1: you have a good game. Well you know, I don't 1128 01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 1: like talking against people's pastors, but let me ask you 1129 01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: a couple of questions. If you've been married nine years 1130 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 1: and you've been separated three In the three years of separation, 1131 01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,720 Speaker 1: what do you think he's doing because he ain't over 1132 01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,280 Speaker 1: there sitting over there by himself, just going to work, 1133 01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:48,919 Speaker 1: not for three years and separated. No. Now, I understand 1134 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:53,160 Speaker 1: what your past is saying. But you know, Um, look man, 1135 01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:55,439 Speaker 1: when when when you know? When you're not married to 1136 01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:57,719 Speaker 1: your soul mating, you're not married to the person who's 1137 01:13:57,760 --> 01:13:59,760 Speaker 1: willing to work and make it work like you are 1138 01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:03,160 Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do. Now, I got divorces wrong. 1139 01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:08,040 Speaker 1: But God is also in the forgiving business. I've done 1140 01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 1: it twice and he forgave me. So I don't I 1141 01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:14,600 Speaker 1: don't know what Pastor talking about. Yeah, Pastor though, he 1142 01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:17,479 Speaker 1: got to tell somebody the right thing. You can't sit 1143 01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:19,920 Speaker 1: there in misery keep praying for somebody that want to 1144 01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:21,519 Speaker 1: get pray for it. So I don't like praying for 1145 01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:24,000 Speaker 1: people that don't want to get prayed. I don't like that. 1146 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. As he got what he wants. Yeah, 1147 01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:33,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Pastors get divorces all the time, 1148 01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:40,280 Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, yeah, they do. All right. People 1149 01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,479 Speaker 1: make mistakes all the time. You've made a mistake. You 1150 01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:48,599 Speaker 1: days out for you said and you said it right, Steve. 1151 01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:51,280 Speaker 1: God is a forgiving god. All right, we'll be back 1152 01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: with more. Thank you for your calls. We'll be back 1153 01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,200 Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 1154 01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:59,559 Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after right after this. You're listening Steve 1155 01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:04,799 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So the Mega million lottery 1156 01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:09,400 Speaker 1: jackpot is over, Get this, Steve, half a billion dollars, 1157 01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:13,800 Speaker 1: half a billion dollars. Yeah, tonight is the next drawing. 1158 01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:17,040 Speaker 1: Tonight is the next drawing the Mega Millions jackpot has 1159 01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:20,160 Speaker 1: been growing since no one won. Uh, no one has 1160 01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:27,320 Speaker 1: won since April. Wow, oh look, let's take a thousand 1161 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:32,080 Speaker 1: a piece. Uh, and let's buy. Did you see callers 1162 01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:36,080 Speaker 1: look on her face? I'm like, can you spot me 1163 01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:42,519 Speaker 1: my thousand? So we're down to five, We're down the three. 1164 01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:48,439 Speaker 1: Do you know at the screens? Do you know the 1165 01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:54,320 Speaker 1: chances this down to the fellaw? Yeah? Yeah, let's go. 1166 01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 1: Do you know the odds of winning more than half 1167 01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:00,120 Speaker 1: a billion dollars jackpot? Just take a wild guess? No 1168 01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:07,080 Speaker 1: might no one in three hundred million? Okay, but hey, hey, 1169 01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,000 Speaker 1: but let me tell you if you don't play, Okay, 1170 01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:19,639 Speaker 1: I can't can't win if you don't play tonight. One 1171 01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:25,680 Speaker 1: in three hundred million, and no one since April. No 1172 01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:29,040 Speaker 1: one's won since April. All right, nephew, keep looking at 1173 01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:31,800 Speaker 1: the glass half full. I love it. I got to 1174 01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:36,960 Speaker 1: some money, ain't it? All right? So there you go. 1175 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll 1176 01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:41,840 Speaker 1: play a round of would you rather? Right after this 1177 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:47,519 Speaker 1: you're listening to show it is time now guys, were 1178 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather? Have 1179 01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:55,000 Speaker 1: whatever you're thinking appear above your head for everyone to see, 1180 01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:59,840 Speaker 1: or would you rather have absolutely everything you do live 1181 01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:04,920 Speaker 1: streamed for everyone to see? Oh, that's rated X everything 1182 01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:10,240 Speaker 1: we do, everything you do was rated? Yes? What what 1183 01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:15,599 Speaker 1: do you say? I mean a lot of them thoughts 1184 01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:20,080 Speaker 1: can't get live straight. I'm going with them little bubbles 1185 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:26,920 Speaker 1: and just around people. That does okay? All right, okay. 1186 01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,840 Speaker 1: Would you rather find a rat in your kitchen or 1187 01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:34,439 Speaker 1: a roach in your bed? That's nice. Well, let gonna 1188 01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:37,080 Speaker 1: take that roach in the bed. We can get roaches 1189 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,840 Speaker 1: up out of here. If that rat in the kitchen, 1190 01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 1: un I do with that roach in the bed, we 1191 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:49,400 Speaker 1: want that osprayed them legs around that bed. It'd be 1192 01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: so we're gonna be able to sleep in the room 1193 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 1: for fold. But a rat in the kitchen or rats 1194 01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:02,080 Speaker 1: in the kitchen, no, all right. Would you rather walk 1195 01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:04,840 Speaker 1: in on your parents or would you rather have your 1196 01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:10,439 Speaker 1: parents walk in on you? No? No, I'd rather walk 1197 01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:14,760 Speaker 1: in on my path. Yeah, they come not see what 1198 01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:18,920 Speaker 1: I'm the circus. So latest in your bedroom, man, my 1199 01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:27,000 Speaker 1: daddy boy, come on offside, walk let me talk to you. Yeah. 1200 01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:33,760 Speaker 1: You rather walk in on them? Yeah? Yeah? Because they 1201 01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:38,800 Speaker 1: have on gowns and stuff that you realize that you 1202 01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,160 Speaker 1: can't yeah, but see my parents was old though they 1203 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:43,760 Speaker 1: ain't really do nothing real crazy. You know, it was 1204 01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:50,679 Speaker 1: traditional you have Yeah, I love your family. I walked 1205 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:52,960 Speaker 1: in on my parents. I told my dad get off 1206 01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:58,479 Speaker 1: of my mama, get off of her and just close 1207 01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:01,400 Speaker 1: the don't started crying. I couldn't mention him. I'm shocked. 1208 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:06,400 Speaker 1: How did they explain what's wrong? Saying, y'all was in 1209 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:10,280 Speaker 1: there doing the nasty stuff. You knew that, Yeah, knew 1210 01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 1: what it was. I knew. I didn't know what it's called, 1211 01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:13,760 Speaker 1: but I knew it wasn't It didn't look good. It 1212 01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:19,160 Speaker 1: didn't look here, it looks safe. It didn't look Yeah, 1213 01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:21,599 Speaker 1: she told my dad go talk to him. He couldn't 1214 01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:25,120 Speaker 1: say that he was bragging, but thought your daddy didn't you? 1215 01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:37,320 Speaker 1: Oh learn itself? All right? On that note, that's today's 1216 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,400 Speaker 1: round of would you rather you ain't gonna able to 1217 01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: learn today? Huh? Coming up in forty nine minute tap 1218 01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 1: to be ours. It is our last break of the day, 1219 01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:48,240 Speaker 1: and we'll get some closing remarks from the one in 1220 01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,760 Speaker 1: at least Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to 1221 01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 1: all right here we are our last break of the day. 1222 01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:59,759 Speaker 1: Please don't forget that today's election day for the primary 1223 01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:03,760 Speaker 1: thing in Maryland. We need you to go vote. Steve Harvey, Nation, 1224 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:07,160 Speaker 1: we need you to show up and go vote. Uh. 1225 01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:10,160 Speaker 1: We just a reminder from your friends right here on 1226 01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:13,400 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, please register to vote at 1227 01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:16,519 Speaker 1: when we all vote dot org, when we all vote 1228 01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:20,960 Speaker 1: dot org primaries. All that is just very important in 1229 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:23,679 Speaker 1: this particular year. And no, we have a big election 1230 01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 1: coming up in November midterms. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, 1231 01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:34,400 Speaker 1: be ready, yes, stay ready, because yeah, we we got 1232 01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:36,960 Speaker 1: to get ready down here in Georgia. Man, this herschel 1233 01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:42,599 Speaker 1: Walker against warning Senator Rauffael Warner Man, We've really got 1234 01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:45,360 Speaker 1: to pay attention here. We can't let them slide nothing 1235 01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:48,559 Speaker 1: up on this man and the Google natorial race. Steve, 1236 01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:53,799 Speaker 1: that's right. We're not going to be playing folks, because 1237 01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:59,200 Speaker 1: all is voter suppression. Vote to oppression. All these moving 1238 01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:03,680 Speaker 1: poland places, they're doing everything, they're making new rules for 1239 01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:07,320 Speaker 1: having to register to vote. We're gonna be on top 1240 01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:09,600 Speaker 1: of all of this. Man. We are not going to 1241 01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 1: let these people cheat us out of our destiny. We 1242 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:16,560 Speaker 1: have discovered that our vote works as it did in 1243 01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:20,200 Speaker 1: the last presidential election. And it's gonna matter. It mattered 1244 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:23,840 Speaker 1: with a Warnuck and also before it will matter now 1245 01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:29,480 Speaker 1: more importantly than ever before. Stacy Abrahams Abrahams is important 1246 01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:34,680 Speaker 1: to us. Warnack is important to us. Herschel Walker is. 1247 01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:39,000 Speaker 1: This is ridiculous. So when I have Warnack on the show, 1248 01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:44,160 Speaker 1: by law, I have to allow herschel Walker But I 1249 01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:48,360 Speaker 1: am opening the door to herschel Walker to come on 1250 01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:52,760 Speaker 1: the show if he will answer the questions. What would 1251 01:21:52,760 --> 01:22:00,479 Speaker 1: you ask him? Just anything? Like? Just anything? Yeah? Can 1252 01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:06,000 Speaker 1: you explain the bad air comment about China climate control? 1253 01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:10,120 Speaker 1: Can you explain your stance on climate control? Can you 1254 01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:14,240 Speaker 1: tell us why you would be a better senator than 1255 01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:20,000 Speaker 1: the one we have? What qualifies you to be a senator? 1256 01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 1: And why are you so committed to the Conservative Party 1257 01:22:24,560 --> 01:22:28,120 Speaker 1: when the Conservative Party ain't committed to you in the 1258 01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:31,720 Speaker 1: lifestyle of your family members? I just want to know that. 1259 01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:36,960 Speaker 1: And how many kids do you? Speaking of family members? Yeah? 1260 01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:47,040 Speaker 1: Any courtions guys on the way, anybody questions comments? Um, temmy, 1261 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:53,679 Speaker 1: you got a question for Steve after bar a million 1262 01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:59,519 Speaker 1: next week? But I think I think no, no, no, 1263 01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:01,000 Speaker 1: I just I think you just need to hang in 1264 01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:06,280 Speaker 1: at it next week. But see if you do have 1265 01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,960 Speaker 1: a rule about that when people ask to borrow money 1266 01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:17,160 Speaker 1: from you, what's your rule. Well, when it comes to Tommy, yeah, 1267 01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:21,599 Speaker 1: let's hear that one. Well, I don't really loan money anymore. 1268 01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:25,840 Speaker 1: I just give. And he's never asked some money because 1269 01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:29,960 Speaker 1: he already know what. You know. I don't loan it. 1270 01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:31,960 Speaker 1: I just give it to you. But then I don't 1271 01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:36,120 Speaker 1: give it to a lot of people, you know. And uh, 1272 01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:39,000 Speaker 1: you know, I got people sitting me all the time. 1273 01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:43,120 Speaker 1: I got this great business idea, like somebody told, hey, man, 1274 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:46,200 Speaker 1: let me tell you something, Steve. If you give me 1275 01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:49,800 Speaker 1: twenty thousand dollars. This was just recently too. If you 1276 01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:51,840 Speaker 1: give me twenty thousand dollars, Man, I'm gonna give you 1277 01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:58,640 Speaker 1: two million, I said, brow, how legally, I said, bro? 1278 01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:02,240 Speaker 1: He said, Man, I got a deal. Man, Just trust 1279 01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:04,360 Speaker 1: me on this. If you give me twenty thousand, I'm 1280 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 1: gonna give you two million. Well, you can't even dope, 1281 01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:12,360 Speaker 1: don't even man, it returns on it. I don't even 1282 01:24:12,400 --> 01:24:15,760 Speaker 1: know what you suldn't do. Man, I don't really will 1283 01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,120 Speaker 1: say anything, and I'll give it to you in thirty days. 1284 01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:23,439 Speaker 1: If there's a way to turn twenty thousand into two 1285 01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:28,560 Speaker 1: million in thirty days. That would be my job. That 1286 01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:31,880 Speaker 1: would just be my full time job to giving people 1287 01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:37,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty thousand dollars. Bro I've just fixed it two 1288 01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:42,960 Speaker 1: million everything. Yeah. Yeah, So I got a question, so 1289 01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:46,640 Speaker 1: tell me I think that would be an all right, 1290 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:48,400 Speaker 1: So my question is we kind of talked about this 1291 01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:50,679 Speaker 1: in an earlier break, but you know, we talked about 1292 01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 1: the mega millions. Jack Pott over up to what half 1293 01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:58,360 Speaker 1: a billion? Tonight? Yes, what is the very first thing 1294 01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,559 Speaker 1: you would do if you want the lottery? Jack Pott 1295 01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:06,720 Speaker 1: tonight called all my TV shows and radio people and 1296 01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:11,519 Speaker 1: give and send them the zoom link because in one 1297 01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:15,760 Speaker 1: hour we need to all be on this. Well, you know, 1298 01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 1: that's that's cool. At least it's not what Tommy would do. 1299 01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:24,760 Speaker 1: And what I said, that's cool what you would do. 1300 01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:26,960 Speaker 1: At least you let people know that's not what Tommy 1301 01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:30,360 Speaker 1: would do. Yeah, unless you're giving us the heads up, 1302 01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:33,560 Speaker 1: yeah right right, right right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you 1303 01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:38,759 Speaker 1: got an hour to figure it out. Because one hour 1304 01:25:39,479 --> 01:25:46,360 Speaker 1: you're done. I'm making an announcement to everybody. I'm gonna 1305 01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:50,519 Speaker 1: send him a copy of the check and then under 1306 01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:59,200 Speaker 1: under the check will have for words. You cannot no, no, no, no, no, 1307 01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:03,800 Speaker 1: I can. This is very forwards under the check. What 1308 01:26:04,120 --> 01:26:17,080 Speaker 1: would you do? All right? You can't say that. Hey, y'all, 1309 01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:20,559 Speaker 1: y'all have a great day. Uh. Those are closing remarks. 1310 01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:22,560 Speaker 1: We just wanted to be a little fun today, but 1311 01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:25,639 Speaker 1: we'll see y'all tomorrow. Listen, y'all, don't forget, don't forget 1312 01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:28,599 Speaker 1: to pray, don't be ashamed to pray, and don't ever 1313 01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:32,840 Speaker 1: be too proud to pray, because prayer, prayer changes things. 1314 01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:34,880 Speaker 1: You can really tell us, y'all, have a great day 1315 01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:43,720 Speaker 1: for all. Steve Harvey Contests no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 1316 01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:47,240 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1317 01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:51,160 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1318 01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:53,200 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening