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Speaker 1: So the kink of the week, guys, for this week

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the funk it is, but let

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Speaker 1: So have you so you you've never been? Have you

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Speaker 1: And it doesn't start that bad bro. His whole hand

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Speaker 1: but I put all four fingers in a woman's pussy.

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Speaker 1: He's starting off pretty. Ain't nobody got like I've seen

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Speaker 1: punching her. Yeah, so you go in and out with

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Speaker 1: just draw a limit. So I didn't even realize until

423
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: that video came up that I've kind of fisted a girl. Uh,

424
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: the last girl I slept with, who was not who

425
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: you guys think it is. I she asked for all

426
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: of my fingers and then like you're a piece of

427
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: sh She kept asking me to keep going, and I

428
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: was like a little bit nervous because I was like, okay,

429
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm getting passed like the thumb and maybe I fisted her.

430
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: I didn't close it, but it was open. I've I've been.

431
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: I've been that's called goose because it looks like a goose,

432
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: like a goose beak like this, Like you said, puppet.

433
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: It's a goose called goose well, and that was to

434
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: make me squirt because you have to reach certain certain

435
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: things and all that ship look. But again, if you

436
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: like it, I love it. I'm like looking at more

437
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: gaping and scaring me. Listen, this was so romantic. I've

438
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 1: done a lot of ship is romantic, mea in hearing

439
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: her prowl. Then some black dude, the only black person

440
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: in the comments, wrote, ow, that's that's that's my hero.

441
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: Because I ain't know, so you're not into that. I

442
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: don't think I would be into fisting more important, even

443
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: though I like to peg, I don't even think I'm

444
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: to the dominant to where it would arouse me to fist.

445
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: The guy in his ask, I don't but I don't want.

446
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: But also like I don't know about y'all, come out.

447
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 1: I have air farts, so I feel like after after fisting,

448
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: my air farts are gonna be like like my task farts,

449
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: like my air farts are gonna be mad loud. They're

450
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: already loud, like out of your ass? What the real

451
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: do you think it was? Sound would make I don't

452
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: know because like my air farts tighter? Ask right, my

453
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: a fart airt after usually are like, no, like that's

454
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: how my ship like sounds regularly, sounds like letting air

455
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: out of a farts sound pretty. He's not my regular farts.

456
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: These are my air farts. These are after fucking far

457
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: the ones that pussy might do like a little funny

458
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: because I said that actually at the live show, like

459
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: niggas be so into this annal sex shit and opening

460
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: up the booty hole, like your booty hole don't even

461
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: feel regular for the next four hours, Like ship comes

462
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: out differently, your fart sound different, like your whole as

463
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: asked me whistling after like it'd be like it'd be

464
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 1: like showing show that's when my ass I'll be doing

465
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: that and it'd be laugh and it's a little for me.

466
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: It is. My doctor just checked my ass a few

467
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: weeks ago. He didn't say nothing. Wait, gays get their

468
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: asses checked at the you know, you gotta get like

469
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: I do the full. When I do the STD check,

470
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: I do the full like check your Yeah. He goes up,

471
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: he swipes it in and he looks at it and

472
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: you know, okay, so you have an average booty hall. Yes,

473
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: like paps asshole. It's not like a pass me or

474
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 1: per se. It's more like he literally just like he'll yeah,

475
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: like he you know, dabs it with his fingers and

476
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 1: maybe opens it a little bit, you know. And then

477
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: I've had like I've had some doctor. What kind of doctor?

478
00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: Is this just a regular part? I want to like byles?

479
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I want to play some booty holes for a living.

480
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: That sounds like funny. I typed in anal noises, but

481
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: nothing came up, just my ass. But I've talked no

482
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: Me and my friends have talked about this, and they

483
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: also said that day, by the way, just a sidebar,

484
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: I am with Jeeves and this girl we were invited

485
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: over for a three cent the other day. Come on

486
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: and I pulled up my phone and sneezing porn was

487
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: on there, and I looked at the both of them.

488
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: I said, oh, I have a podcast about sex, and

489
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: so I just have to look up weird ship God.

490
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, like sure, whatever. I think the

491
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: bitch was scared to sneeze like all night because I

492
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: felt so guilty, Like can you imagine in the middle

493
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: of a three somewhere all smoking weed were sitting on

494
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: the couch and I pulled up my phone to show

495
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: you something and sneezing porn comes up. Like I thought

496
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: this bitch was gonna run for the hills. I would

497
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: have that some I mean, I was trying to find

498
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 1: a new kink in a wheat. Hey all right then,

499
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: all right, so we're gonna go hey, y'all and get

500
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 1: into the horrible decision. As you guys know, this is

501
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: like a segment where we talk about the bulk of

502
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: the show, majority of the ship, and I love this

503
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: savoy with all of his innocence is allowed, is about

504
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 1: to embark on this type of conversation with me, which

505
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: y'all might have an issue with, but we're gonna talk

506
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: about it. So, um, this episode, is you down with

507
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: O P P? Yeah? You know, so this episode is

508
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: actually discussing other people's property. Um, this conversation is going

509
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: to get into possibly when you meet a man and

510
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: he not all the way single or person or a

511
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: woman and she says she's not all the ways singles,

512
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: but she's making it seem like she's availably unavailable. Um,

513
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: whether she's in a situation ship, whether she or he

514
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: is in a relationship and he kind of lying to you,

515
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: or whether they're married, Um, in your case, married and

516
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into that conversation. I want to feel

517
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: like there's some blurredlines though with married men that are

518
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: d L versus married when with women, right, because I've

519
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: heard women love to listen to gay niggas talking about like,

520
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, you sun this guy even straight and

521
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: he's married. But then women should on other women when

522
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: they're sucking married men, like go get your own. It's

523
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: like when they're gay, there's this like blurred line. You

524
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Well, I mean he was married

525
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: to another man? Oh he was? Yeah, So I'm I'm

526
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: excited to hear this story full on. So let me

527
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: ask you, when dating someone who's not technically yours, did

528
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: he open up about that when you first met him?

529
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: Did you know that he was married? And and prior

530
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: to this situation, have you ever met somebody who was like,

531
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: I got a situation, but we can still kick it.

532
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because niggas ain't ship. Um. They even have

533
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: a lot of open and and then there's openly. I

534
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: personally don't my man is my man not hers to um?

535
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: But if you know my man, I will cut you. Um.

536
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: But um, So my my situation in particular is a

537
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: little different because this is somebody that I had previously

538
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: been with and they got married. Um. And then so

539
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: but I knew that they had gotten married. Okay, yeah,

540
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: so I know, I was very clear. I saw the

541
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: wedding photos and everything. Did that not make you feel weird?

542
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: I did not, so ha ha oh mandy. Um. So

543
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to make it seem

544
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: like super because I ain't gonna make that the excuse.

545
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: But at the time, a bitch had a had been

546
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: without some dick for a long time. Um. And we

547
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: were we were driving from New Jersey back to Brooklyn, um,

548
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: because he was in New Jersey and I knew he

549
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: was in New Jersey and he was with his brother

550
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, I'm dropping my brother off

551
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: in New Jersey like he's already going whatever, and then

552
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: I'm driving back to Brooklyn. I was like, oh, well

553
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: you can, just I can come with you. You know,

554
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: you knew what she was doing, all right, So y'all

555
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: in my head and no, y'all in my head. I

556
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: was like, way like I had conversations because you know,

557
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: you gotta talk to yourself. So I was like, so,

558
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: what you don't want to do this. You don't want

559
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: to be you don't want to you don't want to

560
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: be the other man, you don't want this. But then

561
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: I got in the car and at first it was fine,

562
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: we were just having regular conversation. That's how it always

563
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: But then first we weren't we believe, and then we

564
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: were like, that's not only how it goes though. So

565
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: what happened was he pulled over to the side of

566
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: the road, over the side. He literally just pulls over

567
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: the side, and I'm like, what the funk are you doing?

568
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: Like why are you just pulling over? Literally, we were

569
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: just having regular conversation. I swear to guy to say,

570
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: you know what, people over to the side of the

571
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: road and was like, do you want to suck my dick?

572
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: And literally like just plops this in. At first, that's

573
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: why he sucked that dick. It was at first it

574
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: was like I was like, like there was a two

575
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: second Yeah, it was like a two second period where

576
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: I said, so they don't do this. But then I

577
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: was like it was just did it before. It was there,

578
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: It was just there and it was just looking like

579
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: it literally because once again I hadn't had dick in

580
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: a while. So it was looking like it was literally

581
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,479
Speaker 1: like the dick was talking to me. It was like

582
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: suck man, suck, suck me. And I was like, I

583
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: like your inner voices voices. Yeah yeah, so it was

584
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: like suck me and I was like, fuck it. So

585
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: I just started doing it and did you so I

586
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: started taking off while you were sucking Mandy? No, I'm Coke.

587
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, like, did you like, are

588
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: you just leaning over? Because it was a big he

589
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: had a big It's like a Ukon truck. I want

590
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: to say, I think it was like a Ukon truck.

591
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: Um I want to tell to me detascus, I don't

592
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: what at this point, don't matter. Uh he's still married

593
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: and they're still together. Whatever. Um So he pulled it,

594
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: he pulled it out and like I kind of like

595
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: leaned over the middle and just and just put it in.

596
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: I was not ready for that skill. Oh yeah, I

597
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: told you. I'm not even asked for a reason. Oh yeah,

598
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: I can hold on. Let me try so not even close,

599
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: not even wow, let's see what you can do. I'm

600
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: not doing that. Um so life did he have his

601
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: um like his ring on? Honestly, that's a good as question.

602
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think him and his husband

603
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: wear rings honestly, but he might, but he might have

604
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: had it on. I first of all, thanks y'all to

605
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: know I'm such a basic ass bird ass bitch that

606
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: I'd be having to figure out which I always have

607
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: the google which rings. I you don't know what's the

608
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: left hand? I never remember. I never remember, no index

609
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: finger because Europeans right on the right, Americans were on

610
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 1: the left index finger married if it's fair fair, but

611
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: I don't know that point it wasn't, so it didn't matter.

612
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: I knew that, I knew that he had a husband.

613
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: So what you actually happened was like we stopped, he

614
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 1: started driving again, and he pulled over again, and we

615
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: did it again. And at one point he was like,

616
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 1: you gotta stop going so hard because you're shaking the

617
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: car and we're on the side of the road about

618
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: they what with your mouth? You were shaking the car

619
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: with your mouth because I was your whole head was

620
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: shaking a U cut. What's y'all listening to? My head?

621
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 1: Is good? And let me and let me tell y'all,

622
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: because literally after I was done, he was like, you're

623
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: still the best head like I've ever had. I believe you.

624
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, I believe you. Like but also

625
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: he was like, you're still the best head. But he's

626
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: like also, he's like, you shore you ain't been I

627
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, just he's like, have you been practicing?

628
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I practice from time to time, just

629
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: to make sure that how do you practice? Sometimes I practice,

630
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: like I eat bananas pretty much every day, So things

631
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: a little no, But you know you still you while

632
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: I but you still got Just when you put cylinder

633
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: objects in your mouth doesn't mean you're practicing for me.

634
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: For me now, none of our listeners, none of our

635
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: male listeners, are gonna eat bananas every day, and I

636
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: never take the opportunity. You're masculine? Is that motherfucking fragile?

637
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: And that's your problem. I practice, you keep the skin

638
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: on it when you do it. So was this the

639
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: only time that you've dealt with a married man or

640
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 1: dealt with someone who was in a relationship? Probably not, Okay.

641
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: I was thinking my mind, like does it count if

642
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 1: they was like on the verge of breaking up? See, yeah,

643
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: So that's another question that I had because I think

644
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: that that makes accounts for the conversations, like literally they

645
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: were like no, because so I've never like we hadn't

646
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: gone off. We didn't go on our first day until

647
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: after the like the week after they up, but before

648
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: they broke up. Yeah, yeah, yeah that counts. But like

649
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 1: but like more or less, we were talking knowing that

650
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: like he knew I liked him, and I knew he

651
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: liked me, and I knew that they were kind of Indians.

652
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: Soon you know what's fucked up in my head, and

653
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: this is something like the whole hierarchy alien incredible is

654
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: like you know, other holes judge each other, blah blah blah,

655
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: kind of strippers processes whatever. I in my mind think, Okay,

656
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: if they're not married, it's not that bad. That's what

657
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: I'd be thinking to myself. But then I think married

658
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: is bad. I mean I think, like honestly, honestly, at

659
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: the end of the day, like because I'll be able

660
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: to married man, I don't give a funk, and if

661
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: you don't, you don't given And to me, that's a

662
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: valve that that man made to his wife. I don't

663
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: try to come in and ruin a wedding. I don't

664
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: try or ruin a marriage I don't come in thinking

665
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: that I'm going to replace the wife. Um, we have

666
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: an arrangement or an agreement into whatever relationship we decided,

667
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: and um, I mean is it wrong? Yeaht and had

668
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: hell for it, But I mean, to me, that's not

669
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: about that I made and you know fair and I

670
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: think for me the reason I really well, first of all,

671
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: the situation, I made it sound extra sexy, but it

672
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: was a low key a little like it was a

673
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: little like he towards the end of it, he definitely

674
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: like literally was like a little disrespect. So did you

675
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: keep seeing him? How to you? How sore that day

676
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: I'm going to the car? Well he was like, because

677
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: first of all, he wouldn't. He wouldn't like touch me

678
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 1: like he and like he really would like it literally

679
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: felt like like towards the end, I was like, am

680
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: I like this feels like already I'm on the side

681
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: of the road, So like I fell up like he wouldn't.

682
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: And then like at one point I tried to take

683
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 1: his hand to like finger my ass while he's doing

684
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: He's like, no, just keep sucking the dick like I

685
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: told you, And I was like, normally, like sometimes that

686
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: can be cute and that's cool once you've gotten to that. Yeah,

687
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: but like we ain't done nothing in years. So the

688
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: fact that he wasn't trying to please you, yeah yeah,

689
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: and like the way he was talking to me, and

690
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: then at one point towards after we were done, after

691
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: he told me it was still the best head he's

692
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: ever received, he's like, just don't catch feelings for me again.

693
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: And that's a tough one. I was like, I was like,

694
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: do you really like? I was like, and that was

695
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: the hard part for me. I was like, I was like,

696
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: and then that was kind of opened him. I was like, Oh,

697
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: this nigga really I've gotten Really this nigga thinks I'm

698
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: that desperate that like literally he could treat me like this,

699
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: but slash state that dumb man ship like don't care.

700
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: I wondered, because I feel like the word that you

701
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: just used, um, some people could put that into anyone

702
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: who would deal with a married person is that they're

703
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: desperate either for the attention, for the sex, or just

704
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: to have that type of companionship with someone. Inspiration is

705
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: a silly word to use, especially with women that date

706
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: married men or like whatever, like there's mad niggas out

707
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,919
Speaker 1: here like some desperate not personally. I had my first

708
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: real serious relationship was a dude that was married and

709
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: didn't tell me and I found out months after and

710
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: it was really really hurt. But we ended up together

711
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: and it was a horrible break up, and I felt

712
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: like he was such a terrible boyfriend to me because

713
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: I really believed it was my karma, you know, like

714
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: I met him, he tricked me he was married. They

715
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: ended up getting in a force while we were together,

716
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: but I still felt like I got what I deserved

717
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: because I did bet So now if I ever find out,

718
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: it's a note for me. But there is a weird

719
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: I feel like sex word. I think I like that karma,

720
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: like karma because what happened, what happened, what happened? He

721
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: felt like Carmen because um, I literally like didn't just

722
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: something about it just didn't feel right after Like after

723
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: I did it, I was like, something about this don't

724
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 1: feel right. So I went to the emergency room because

725
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: I felt like I was like, what if he got something?

726
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: Like I went to the emergency room like two days

727
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 1: after because I was like, I just feel like what

728
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: if he got something and just somethingbody didn't feel right,

729
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: and I went to the emergency room. I actually had

730
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 1: like my friend shout out to my friends Chanelle. Chanelle

731
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: took me to that. She drove me to the motherfucker's

732
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: room because I was like, what if I got like,

733
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: what if he had HIV? What if? Like you thought, yes,

734
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: I really, I really like something about something about in

735
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: my spirit didn't feel right, So I was like, what

736
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: if he has something? And then so like I went,

737
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: you know, they have like emergency basically, they have like

738
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: planing b for HIV. UM. Yeah, excuse me, yeah, so

739
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: excuse part of the conversation. Let's get into that. So

740
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: I don't I'm not like a doctor, so I don't

741
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 1: want to like miss no, I can google with facts.

742
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: So I pretty much like it's pretty much like it's

743
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: not prep. So it's another another thing called Yeah, I

744
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: think it's a PEP. That's what I thought. So you

745
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: have heard of it. Yeah, So my friend Um went

746
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: on to a panel this weekend getting people ready for

747
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: Pride Weekend that's happening in New York or Pride Weekend

748
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 1: all over the country. And there's PEP and then there's

749
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: prep and I believe what CHEP is like afterwards called PEP,

750
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 1: post exposure, welcome and emergency HIV treatment. It's not a cure.

751
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: It's a form of prevention, short course of drugs that

752
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: stops the exposure from long life infection. So there you go.

753
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: So that's what you got. It's expensive, right, The emergency

754
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: didn't room. Doctor wouldn't give it. She was like, well,

755
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: if you're not sure, I can't. I'm just not going

756
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: to minister. And I was like, ok, I'm like a

757
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: bit like I'm telling you I think I might be

758
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: and she was like yeah. And that was also the

759
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 1: it was like a whole it was like, the dirty

760
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 1: nat I'm trying to tell you is dirty. You know

761
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: what's kind of stupid about that? We're not sure we're

762
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: pregnant with That's stupid. So it was like and she

763
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: would not it must be exact the way true veda

764
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: without insurance is just popped up is five. Yeah, I

765
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: looked this country. Yeah, so that's really that's really so

766
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: that was kind of your karma. The felt Yeah, I

767
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 1: felt like just telling her the story, I felt dirty.

768
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: Felt I felt dirty telling her the story I felt

769
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: And then I was upset because I was like well, bitch,

770
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: what if I actually have something you have now you

771
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: now aided in me keeping it. Yeah, like, bitch, I'm

772
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: trying to get like I'm trying to make sure I

773
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: don't have it. But it's also the car. This is

774
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: the thing too, So marriage being I guess we can

775
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,280
Speaker 1: make it a religious thing, right, It's commitment that someone

776
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: made religiously, Because I just said, I don't think a

777
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: girlfriend's a big deal, but marriage, girlfriend, boyfriend is also

778
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: a commitment to So like I guess you maybe have

779
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: to be a little religious to think that you would

780
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: get some bad karma from a married man. Well, honestly,

781
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: I think, like at the end of the day, what

782
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: I've just come to terms with and like I said,

783
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: I don't I'm a black gay man in America. I

784
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: try not to judge. If you want to suck somebody

785
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: else's man, you gotta deal with whatever. But for me,

786
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: I just don't want to ever deal with that again.

787
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: Like that was that was for me. That was kind

788
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,240
Speaker 1: of like the moment of like if you ain't because

789
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: first of all, too much work, it's too much when

790
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: it's not good enough for us, And this is what's

791
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 1: too much work. No for me, it was much fucking

792
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: a married man. Hell no, it's the easiest work in

793
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: the motherfucking world. You don't have to call them. Let

794
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 1: let me break it down real quick. You don't have

795
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: to call them niggas because the niggas be at home

796
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: with day wives, so they don't really want you to

797
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 1: hit them up. They just hit you up. Then plans

798
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: are made based when they're available, so you don't have

799
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,439
Speaker 1: to like, see here but yourself available, right, So they're

800
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: rarely available, so they're not a lot of work at all.

801
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: That's the fucking perfect thing about I did it. If

802
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a relationship or you're trying to carry

803
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: on something with a married dude, right, let's say that.

804
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: I want to know. Now, that's stupid. Why are you

805
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: carrying on a relationship that they can be paid bills?

806
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: Y'all have fun. That's that's it. It's not well, let's

807
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 1: take paying bills out of it. Let's know you shouldn't

808
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: because okay, well, everyone listening, because if you're dealing with

809
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: a married man, there is no need ever to deal

810
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: with a married man who is not providing for you

811
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: a fact, because let me finish, But there are people

812
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: that married niggas just because right, And so I'm telling you,

813
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: if you are one of those listening, bitch, you better

814
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: get a light bill paid, a phone bill paid, something paid,

815
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: because guess what, that wife that he has has a

816
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: shared account most likely is getting some of her bills

817
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: reduced in her life for fucking with this nigga. So

818
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: whatever benefits that bitch is getting for being that wife,

819
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: if you were sitting here taking the role as a mistress,

820
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: because bitch, whatever relationship in your mind you have, all

821
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: you are is a mistress. You need to be getting

822
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 1: something out of the relationship other than dick. So because

823
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: that the money is okay, the money is that wash

824
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: your away? Oh you might, but you got the money. Sure,

825
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: you got the money to pay for it. And if

826
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: when I deal with Africans and their culture and their

827
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: society and their continent, bitch, they can have multiple wives.

828
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: But this is where is karma. If I'm dealing with

829
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: African man, there ain't none. So you don't African a

830
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: Nigerian and I just got transfer this week, nigga, So

831
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't know the funk about his wife when it

832
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 1: comes to American men or the logic that we don't

833
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: have multiple wives, right, someone that's like our own culture, right,

834
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: Ken Karma, is it really something that someone should worry

835
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: Is it something I believe you should think about? And

836
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: I mean the guilt. I think I think anytime, and

837
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: I want to be very clear, whether married, not married,

838
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: with somebody without somebody just dating you, anytime you fuck

839
00:45:55,239 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: somebody over, anytime you purposely intentionally try to you hurt somebody,

840
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: or you know you're doing something that you know intentional.

841
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: So a lot of women will say, I'm not doing

842
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: this to hurt his wife. But I think when I

843
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 1: say intentional, when I say intentional, for the person who's

844
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: the person cheating, if it's a merryman or the person

845
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: who's in the relationship or married woman, whether the case

846
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: may be because the women cheat too. Either way, it

847
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: goes whoever, if if this person found if you're a

848
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: significant other, whether Mary not Mary found out, that would

849
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: hurt them. So therefore, to me, it becomes intentional. So

850
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: anytime you do something, yeah, anytime you do something that

851
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: could hurt somebody, unless it's an open relationship or something

852
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: like that, to me, you have to worry about karma.

853
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm just big on karma in general, and that

854
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 1: includes my work. My working might includes my work life

855
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: like I've had motherfucker's sucked me over and work like

856
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: I people over and work sometime too. You gotta just

857
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: deal with karma and how it comes back. Yeah, how

858
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: it comes back to you in whatever way is to

859
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: come back to you. I think the reason that I

860
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: said it was too much work is because either from

861
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 1: either end, if I can't call you up on a

862
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: Tuesday and take grab drinks with me or something like that,

863
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: and I gotta know, we gotta get a hotel. We got.

864
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be that emotional. We have to get a

865
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: whole song and dance. And I don't really want to

866
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 1: deal with you Availace, but she attaches emotions to a

867
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: lot of things. And when and when you're bringing when

868
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: you're married man, I don't think you should include emotions

869
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: because he's never going to be your man. I think

870
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 1: the same way this nigga told you don't catch feelings.

871
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: That's that's what we're talking to. Mary niggas period married

872
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: niggas a nigga with in a relationship, they'll tell you

873
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: don't get in your feelings. But I think I think Honestly,

874
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: I'm an emotional person, so low Ki, I can't, I think, like,

875
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: regardless of what you tell me, I'm a person that

876
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: naturally puts emotions into most things, so whether that be work,

877
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: whether that be anything, so I can I can't agree

878
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: with what easy on that because I'm a motherfucker who

879
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 1: does attach emotions. I don't think it's an easy thing

880
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: for me for me to know that someone like, unless

881
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: it's agreed upon that it's just for sex. But if

882
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 1: I met someone and like find out they're married and

883
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: keep want to carry it on, let's take bills or

884
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: whatever aside, because it's not always the case, right, I

885
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: think bills and all of that ship is considered sugaring

886
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: or sex work. So I don't really, in my mind

887
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: compare it to this conversation because we just said it

888
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,919
Speaker 1: was dating other people's property or whatever. When it comes

889
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 1: to that, I think there's a lot of energy that

890
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: both parties have to put in for them to funk

891
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 1: over one person. And if I'm single and I could

892
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: do whatever the funk, I won't I need somebody that

893
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: could do the same ship too, unless the sugaring is involved.

894
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: If you're getting a benefit from it. It makes sense,

895
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: right because I don't think sex work should have anything

896
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: to do with that other person's life. If I'm getting money,

897
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't really give a funk what you got going on.

898
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: But there are people that are dating married people, and

899
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: that's the thing I think honestly, Like I say to me,

900
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: it's all about, like you, anytime you're dealing with somebody

901
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: who has somebody else and day now in an open relationship,

902
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 1: you gotta deal with the karma period because if that

903
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: person finds out, the other significant other finds out, they're

904
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: going to be hurt so and both parties. Guy, like

905
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: I gotta deal with it. You gotta deal with it

906
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: period thinking. And that's not from a judgment standpoint. It's

907
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: just like if if you're doing something that you know

908
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 1: could potentially hurt somebody, and that that I mean, we

909
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: all do ship that unknownly that could hurt somebody emotionally.

910
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: But or you might be with a nigga you don't

911
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 1: know how's a girlfriend exactly, so it didn't then that

912
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: that can that can that case can be different in

913
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: my mind, because if you really didn't know that this

914
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 1: nigger had somebody male or female, you'd be like, well,

915
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: did you find out? Then you're like, oh, no, I'm good.

916
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: A friendship that I shouldn't have had with a married man.

917
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: And I remember thinking every time I saw his number

918
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: pop up that it was his wife. And then I

919
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: was like, I can cut this off. And I'm getting

920
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: anxiety anyone that she was going to call me, and

921
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: I was like, bro, I don't even want this kind

922
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: of pressure any whatever culture a wife never I actually,

923
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: Um had been with a married football player before and

924
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: he brought me to the sweet and his wife was there.

925
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: Did she know he had me with his friends? So

926
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: I was like, with the friends, she didn't know who

927
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: I was, she didn't know what we did. But he like,

928
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: so yeah, I want I want to. I feel like

929
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: he relessly because that's something who don't care about nothing

930
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: about nothing like disgusting. No, maybe didn't wear well. I mean.

931
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: And it's crazy though, because I mean even the other

932
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: guy who had me on payroll, who I mentioned on

933
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: the show before, his wife knew me because he followed me.

934
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: He worked in New York for a while, and Um,

935
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,879
Speaker 1: she knew who I was. She didn't know the extent

936
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: of our relationship, but she knew who the hell, I was,

937
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: did the wife from the suite know that you were

938
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: you know, did you know that she was gonna be

939
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: there when you were there? Or did he's bringing on you?

940
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: Um As I was getting my tickets and we were

941
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: going to the arena, he was like, yeah, I just

942
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: kids too. His kids were Oh damn roofless nigger. Like

943
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: I said, I almost want to suck him because I

944
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: feel like he's gonna suck your soul out of you

945
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: because he don't give a I mean, but I mean

946
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: I played, I played my role. I knew, I like,

947
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: and I was yeah heavy, yeah, yeah, Nigga had his

948
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: children and because he too, I'm not going in to

949
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: business where he I mean, but that's the thing too,

950
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: Like that's my greatest fear with being with a rich man.

951
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean clearly. And I think that that's

952
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: the difference to when you bring into someone maybe of

953
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 1: power or of wealth, they're going to behave differently than

954
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: dealing with someone who's I mean not aw. I don't

955
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 1: want to judge man with money, but like I do,

956
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: really they have that money and stuff. Yeah, And I

957
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: don't even think it's that it's easy access. I think

958
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: that men with money, feel like they can do whatever

959
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: because it's harder to leave them. Because we talked about

960
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: that before. It's become a crush for you a little bit, right,

961
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: Like I mean, now you have I don't know how

962
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: many kids he has. Don't say the number, No, I'm not,

963
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: but let's say it's three and this woman he listened

964
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: to the show has three kids. Of course you nigga,

965
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: do it right now? Whistle sound with you talking about

966
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: I heard that ship before, like fuck you, fuck you,

967
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: you tri tri Nigga. The children. You can't even make

968
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 1: sure she didn't bring the children that day day and

969
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 1: the children. Let me just say this, I'm not saying

970
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: that I ever think Mandy would be the type to

971
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: do something like that, because she wouldn't. But nigga, you

972
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 1: should just think for yourself. What if I what if

973
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: she has a one more? What too many of a drink?

974
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: And Mandy just say, just don't even put yourself that

975
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:54,840
Speaker 1: motherfucker's trust the funk out of me. That's why I

976
00:52:56,160 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: don't know. That's why nigga trust, I mean, I am

977
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: not really shouldn't be. Facts. Is Mandy more loyal to

978
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: you than you are to your wife? I mean that's disgust.

979
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: You know, there's trust. I think trust is very important communication. Um,

980
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what type of relationship you hold with

981
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: the person, these are very important things. All right. This

982
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: is becoming very judging, so I'm not judging. I am

983
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: just amazing. Like, no, it ain't even judgment, man, it's

984
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: a it's amazement because like that ship is bold, Like

985
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 1: that's some bold. A ship, that's some bold, as he said,

986
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: amazing because hold on, hold on, hold, And I can

987
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: only say that ship is bold because like my father

988
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: just snorkland, Like my father always sunk up words of

989
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: my ask Like my father would be the type of person.

990
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: My father is the type of person like when I

991
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: was young that like he would have multiple bitches he

992
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: was sucking at a house party and have me there

993
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:08,399
Speaker 1: and I would know all these So that's why I'm wait, wait,

994
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 1: was your Were they together? They thought they I mean

995
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: they all thought that I was special to them. Man.

996
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: I always knew no, no, no, you said your dad

997
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: Was he with your mother? Oh no, no, all the grids,

998
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: Like he would have all the girlfriends in the same space,

999
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: but they would all know me, and of course I

1000
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,399
Speaker 1: would know them. And it would just like it'd be like, really,

1001
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 1: all these bitches aren't here together. So so I'm just

1002
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: saying that's but to have you in the sweep with

1003
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 1: the kids. It's the kids. I don't give a funk

1004
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: about the right because we all because like the being

1005
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 1: the wife. But it's the fact that he like he

1006
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: couldn't tell like, you know, baby, I think today we

1007
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: should leave the kids at home. They should just play.

1008
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 1: You know, did you feel bad? I feel bad about?

1009
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,919
Speaker 1: What about the kids? What am I feeling bad about?

1010
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 1: I had a great time. You know, it was a

1011
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: sweet There was food, drinks, the game went well. You

1012
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: guys met. How did you meet the wife? Yeah, like

1013
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: talk to her that she had Because I feel like

1014
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 1: men have types. No, it's crazy because and I will

1015
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: say this so I don't want to say all the

1016
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: merry men I deal with, but I have dealt with

1017
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: quite a few. I'm very different than all of their wives.

1018
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: Their wives are very homely safe. Um, I'm like their

1019
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: adventure away from home. So they have fun with me,

1020
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 1: they rock out. We fucking do it like we fucking

1021
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: do crazy ship that he couldn't do what his wife

1022
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: or wouldn't do with his wife and I still feel

1023
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 1: like you would know. Oh no, I'm not like any

1024
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: of the wives. I don't look like any of the

1025
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: wife I mean, not even from that. But you know,

1026
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: like for example, when I passed certain certain Asian women,

1027
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: because I've been with Jeeves, I know that I know

1028
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: his type in that way, I feel like if you

1029
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: would know even they don't look like me. Our sizes

1030
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: are different, our colors are different, our hair textures are different.

1031
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: There's our careers are different. I'm normally, you know, I'm

1032
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: not like any of the one. I mean because it's

1033
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: a it's a nigga, so you know, he most if many,

1034
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,359
Speaker 1: a beautiful bitch. So at the end of the day,

1035
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: like you just gotta nist. But I mean, the only

1036
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: time it ever happened to you? What or have you

1037
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: ever been in a place maybe on accident, like you

1038
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: went out somewhere and then somebody you've been Oh yeah,

1039
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: I was dealing with this um one day. He wasn't

1040
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: married yet. They ended up getting married. Um, but we

1041
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: went to the club together and she knew who I

1042
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: was and all that, and she went with him together. Um,

1043
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: we were all going to be at the same club.

1044
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: So when we went to say hi. She specifically wanted

1045
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: to meet me and shake like hello, I know who

1046
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: you are, like and it was just like hi, but

1047
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: this is my friend. Like we had stopped sucking, but

1048
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 1: he was still giving me money, but like she knew

1049
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 1: who she k who I was. So the just we

1050
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 1: can't be too. I mean, we just had to talk

1051
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: about our interaction and what it would be in the club,

1052
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: like listen, like I can't if I'm that. That was

1053
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: nice he did. He didn't say me like I'm not

1054
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 1: about to be blah blah. But this Nick was like,

1055
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:12,439
Speaker 1: oh no, come to Daddy's daycare. Enjoy the way. No way,

1056
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 1: really get the fries. The French fries are real good,

1057
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: the cupcakes, all types of liquor. They got a dessert

1058
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: table and the dessert kids was snotting all over it

1059
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 1: to not even knowing, Oh well they be could they

1060
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: walk in at this time? I don't know. I think

1061
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: they were babies. I mean, but okay, I'm done. We're

1062
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: not gonna talk about you know anyways. We're gonna hop

1063
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: off of the horrible decision for this episode and judgment.

1064
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: It's amazement. It's amazement, right, I know, I'm I'm really

1065
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: am friend. I want to do I want to go

1066
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 1: because I would suck up. I would suck up and

1067
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 1: like I would suck up and like make too much

1068
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: eye contact with her where she would sent something because

1069
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: I'd be like but then or or or like the

1070
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: kid would run upon me by accident. I'd be like no, no, no,

1071
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: no no, like like no no, no, no no, And

1072
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: she would be like, what the fun is going on?

1073
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: She'd be like, you're sucking my man, my man. I'd

1074
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: be like, no, bitch, I'm not. I feel like GUI,

1075
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: why'd you get your dresses? Mouth? Like, yeah, I would,

1076
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: I would. I mean I have a friend in the

1077
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: bedroom area that spread. All I say is a little bit,

1078
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: I guess. I mean it is, which is why they've

1079
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: all been in the Chris Chris Brown, you're talking about you. Anyways,

1080
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: We're gonna go ahead and get into the homemail. And

1081
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 1: I picked this one specifically for you because I thought

1082
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: it was cute. Um. By the way, guys, if any

1083
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: of you guys want to send us homemail, please email

1084
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: us at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. Um, I'm

1085
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and do the humble flex once again.

1086
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: We get way too many d ms now on Instagram,

1087
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: so that ship is getting lost. We're not We can't

1088
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 1: keep up with our DM homemail, so please email us

1089
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 1: has been doing a great job with flagging the good ones,

1090
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: because all of them are not good and y'all need

1091
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: to check your fucking grammar. Um, but we has been

1092
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: doing a good job flagging ones. So this one. Actually

1093
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: the title is I need bigger dick in my life. Hey, y'all,

1094
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: I love the show. I started listening a few weeks

1095
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 1: ago and can't get enough. My name is We're gonna

1096
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: call him Doug. Here is my issue. I'm a gay

1097
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: mail and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year.

1098
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: We lived together and the relationship is great. There's just

1099
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: one issue. I crave giving head to someone with a

1100
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 1: bigger dick. I'm primarily a top, but I love giving head.

1101
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: My boyfriend isn't the smallest in the world. But before

1102
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: I was wifed, I was living my best life as

1103
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: a single man, and if I wanted to suck a

1104
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: guy with a big dick, I was simply able to

1105
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: find one on Grinder. Now that my whole life has

1106
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: come to an end, I'm missing a big part if

1107
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: you get what I mean. I brought up the idea

1108
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: of having a threesome if he was interested, but I

1109
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: think that would cause more problems in the relationship than

1110
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: it would solve. I don't want to cheat on him,

1111
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: But as I scrolled through Tumbler and seeing all these

1112
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: lovely options, my mouth just begins to water. How do

1113
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 1: I go about solving this issue? By the way, no,

1114
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: I have not told him that I'm having these issues.

1115
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to have him questioning his body. Thanks.

1116
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: I appreciate the help. Okay, so you okay, so you're

1117
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 1: a top who just likes to sell day. First of all,

1118
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: your a unicorn. He's a unicorn. That's not well. No,

1119
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: I think I just have I've seen the problem once again.

1120
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: I'm just getting to a point where I'm starting to

1121
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: better quality niggas because do you think that maybe you're

1122
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: too masks and they like don't like to suck dick. Yeah.

1123
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,919
Speaker 1: I always with like niggas that like really assume gender roles.

1124
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: So they're like, I'm a top, so I'm only eating ass,

1125
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: I don't suck dig blah blah blah blah, and don't

1126
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: eat ass but not suck dick. Yeah, but the last

1127
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: the last pussy they just eat because they're I don't,

1128
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. They're weird. The niggas is weird. And

1129
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: I watched a lot of gate porn, and I do

1130
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: notice that, like the top won't suck so sometimes. So

1131
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: lately I've been working with dudes that like either our

1132
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 1: verse or they like to And I've also just finally

1133
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: gotten for a long time it wasn't getting good, like

1134
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 1: the Embaku suck my dick, Okayamba, suck my dick and

1135
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: ate my ass like oh yeah, yeah, okay. So what

1136
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: is your advice for Doug So? Doug so? Doug? Um, Look,

1137
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: this is a hard one. I mean, Doug isn't really

1138
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 1: that serious, Like do you gotta suck a big like?

1139
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:36,440
Speaker 1: I say with you, I'll be honest with you. He

1140
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: said it wasn't, just wasn't. But I'll be honest with you.

1141
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: I have this issue when so fella Bay has been

1142
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 1: popping back into the picture. His dick is not as

1143
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 1: big as seven and I don't even have the I

1144
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: don't have the urge to suck his dick because it

1145
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: is smaller. I do prefer sucking bigger dicks. Where I

1146
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: can use my hands. My mouth actually might hurt later,

1147
01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: Like I like to have a nice size dick, like

1148
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: a little dick. It's thinking, I was laughing. I will

1149
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: agree depending on how so did you talk about at all,

1150
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 1: if they would do it together, like do it I

1151
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: was stuck dick. At the same time, I really believe, um,

1152
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: I meant to it together like sucking on the next dick.

1153
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: But I really believe like there's things we're gonna have

1154
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: to sacrifice for the people that we choose to be with,

1155
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: Like the dude did I want. I don't have the

1156
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: biggest ass in the world, and chick said he was

1157
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: before I had huge asses. Maybe he might miss that

1158
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: being with me. But the girl will be last week

1159
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: had a huge ass and we both enjoyed it together.

1160
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: Now I don't think he's gone. Yes, Petty, I just

1161
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure I'm sorry with Sneezy. Um No,

1162
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,919
Speaker 1: she had a big ass and I saw his face

1163
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: and I know he liked it. And I don't feel

1164
01:02:58,280 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: any type because whatever I don't have that you know

1165
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,919
Speaker 1: what I'm like, what a to do? And I think

1166
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: that there are certain things that we might have to

1167
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: give up if he got some good bussy. Would you

1168
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 1: rather have that than if you at the top. You know,

1169
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: if he's got good bussy, the duties he got got

1170
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,959
Speaker 1: good bussy obviously, Okay, so you gotta like my thing, like, yeah,

1171
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: take dick or what if he wasn't getting bad or

1172
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: what if he wasn't the power? But I want to know,

1173
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: I guess from my thing for Doug is kind of like,

1174
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: is it really that like? And I get what you're saying,

1175
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: Like he doesn't want to cheat, so to me, it

1176
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: sounded like he's getting to the point where he wants

1177
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: He either wants to cheat because he also doesn't want

1178
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: to bring this issue up to his partner because then

1179
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: his partner may feel insecure about his Well, he don't

1180
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: have to say, like I need a bigger dick. He

1181
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: could just say, let's bring someone over and have fun

1182
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: with and then tell him that you want to have

1183
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 1: a big dick. But like you said, you know your nigga,

1184
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: So his nigga does nigga saying he ain't never say

1185
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 1: to me, you're a big enough. He talks about how

1186
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: great it is, even though I know he's lying. But

1187
01:03:55,120 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: that's a real one. Even though it was thanking me,

1188
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 1: and he was like, doesn't she have a nice ass.

1189
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, you get shut up the stop. But that's

1190
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: the thing. You don't have to just say it. By

1191
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: the way, I laughed when you mentioned Grinder because when

1192
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: he said all I do is going Grinder to find

1193
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 1: a big dick, I felt like he said five miles

1194
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 1: dick size Grinder, And I thought you said. I was

1195
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 1: about to say, you can't if Grinder asked that, if

1196
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: they that that ship is gonna be that is gonna

1197
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: be lit. But I think you can't say hung or

1198
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: something like that. I don't know, Yeah, yeah, I ain't

1199
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: been on Grinder in a while. Now, y'all ship you're

1200
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: sucking second cards, riding cards with boys married back. So

1201
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: I was set, that's fine, that's fine, sneeze and watching that.

1202
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: But I think to a certain degree, I get what

1203
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: you're saying. Where like the bigger the dick usually usually

1204
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: because you never had to think that was too big

1205
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: that talked about it in a previous episode, I couldn't

1206
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: even get past the head like that's just like I

1207
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not even sucking it. But I've had

1208
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: so my thing is like I've I've been blessed because,

1209
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 1: like I said, my aunt is fickle, so get I

1210
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: generally get boyfriend dick, so I generally get six to

1211
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 1: eight inches, um, which I'm so like I said, I'm

1212
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: so thankful because like my eight inches is considered boyfriend.

1213
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 1: That's BIG's a big dick. What's boyfriend? Thank you? These average?

1214
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: I didn't know you're gonna say to eight though, well

1215
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 1: it know what eight is like on the bigger side

1216
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: of boyfriend. Eight, but six, So I mean I prefer

1217
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: six to seven or actually I prefer actually prefer a

1218
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: good six seven, six and a half. You can take

1219
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 1: a whole eight, I can take eight. I can say

1220
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: I can take to be fair, is not a big deal.

1221
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 1: Like and you have both her I like herbs. Oh god,

1222
01:05:55,480 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 1: I hate curb like a curved I've been saying, their

1223
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: curve and what angle you need me to put my assets?

1224
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 1: I can't do the curved dicks? So okay, So I guess,

1225
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: doug our advice is to go ahead and possibly just

1226
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: try to bring in a third and maybe vet that

1227
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 1: they're hung up to around. You know, if you bring

1228
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: in the third, it's just sex right and most times,

1229
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: so like, I don't think there's anything wrong with saying

1230
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 1: like send me pictures and the pictures back, but you

1231
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: should talk about maybe fantasising about sucking dick together so

1232
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: you get to get it out of your system to Honestly,

1233
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: the only reason we had a threesome recently because I

1234
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: need to pussy really bad. I'm keep it real with you.

1235
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I know we're not sucking other people,

1236
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: so let's get it. So we're gonna get into our

1237
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 1: last homemail, y'all. Um. The last homemail is UM is

1238
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 1: titled four Way, three Way. This again is for I

1239
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: think if it folds into our topic for this episode UM.

1240
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: So it says, hello, are you beautiful ladies? First, I

1241
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 1: want to let you know how awesome I think you are.

1242
01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: I am one of your thirteen white listeners and I

1243
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: think you both. I'm sorry that I gave that number.

1244
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: I want to I think you vote. And the podcast

1245
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: is amazing. Horrible Decisions is woke and nasty and Hella entertaining.

1246
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: It has definitely definitely made my sex life better because

1247
01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:16,480
Speaker 1: I listened every day and think about sex even more.

1248
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a hope from way back in my

1249
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: hoeing ways are reignited listening to the show. Thank You.

1250
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: One thing I want to say thank you for is

1251
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 1: opening my eyes to the unique problems that women of

1252
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: color face. I try really hard to be conscious of

1253
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: the issues that people come up against, and I wholly

1254
01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: acknowledge my white privilege, but I never understood that women

1255
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: of color have a unique station that is different from

1256
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: men of color. One episode, you all were talking about

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Speaker 1: something and a light bulb went off. It was like duh,

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Speaker 1: and I felt foolish for not knowing it before. So

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Speaker 1: thank you for that. I wish you would have let

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Speaker 1: us know what we said. Anyways, here's the question. I

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Speaker 1: do have a home milk. She spelled whole without the honey.

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01:07:55,640 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: I've been with my husband for fourteen years and we

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01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: have a great sex life. Kudos to you for fourteen years. However, days, Hello, hello,

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Speaker 1: miss you are m v P. I'm amazed, amazed. So

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01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 1: the second time to day, I am really interested in

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01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: bringing guests into the bedroom. He is into the idea

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01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 1: as well, and he has a hot friend that I

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01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: want to suck. My husband is turned on by the

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01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,679
Speaker 1: idea of watching his friend fuck me, and I'm pretty

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01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: sure his friend is down he's super flirty and handsy.

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Speaker 1: Here's the problem. The friend is married. I'm by so

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01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: I'd be down for group sex too. How do I

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01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,800
Speaker 1: slash we get this orgy started? I feel like the

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01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 1: wife is the biggest barrier to some hot action. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I'm dying. Her last name is Watson, and

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01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:49,720
Speaker 1: I can never read that name. Oh that's definitely black

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01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: without thinking Randy Watson. Yeah. And the only I only

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Speaker 1: me too. I don't know my my cousin half of

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01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: my side of my family's last name is what that's what?

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Speaker 1: So I wasn't a reader last name, but I was like, oh,

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01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 1: that's a common black name. Yeah. Um, So I think

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01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: for this, I mean, it's kind of hard because I

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01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,799
Speaker 1: feel like maybe you should try to be more handsy

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01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: and flirty with the wife too, and get and try

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01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:16,719
Speaker 1: to see where what her reaction is to that before

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01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 1: you try to make it a full on orgy. Because

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01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:19,640
Speaker 1: the thing is, you've got to make sure that the

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01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 1: wife would be comfortable and approves. So here's what a

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01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: good idea would be, inviting them over for like a

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01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 1: game night. Getting the white or drunk poker or naked

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: strip or strip twister is a good idea. But I

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01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 1: like the strip poker idea because if she won't even

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01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:37,680
Speaker 1: take off, if she won't even take not even the bra,

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01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: because you can say, okay, down to braun panties, strip poke,

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01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: that's a great idea. And then like, because you don't

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01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: have to get fully, you can say down to drop

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01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: brawn panties and if she'd be into it, she'd be

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01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: into it. Also, I think that m Orgies or four

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01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 1: ways aren't really that good if the woman isn't by like,

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01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 1: it's just like sucking with someone else in the room.

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01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 1: And in that case you don't really want that. Well,

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01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 1: she actually just wants to get her never mind. Yeah,

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01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 1: she definitely wants the husband involved, but she's would Mrs

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01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 1: Watson send us a picture of a couple? We ain't

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01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: gonna share it, but I gotta know bit um. Yeah,

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01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 1: I think that that was good advice. I feel like, yeah,

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01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 1: you should definitely make the woman feel comfortable. And the

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01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: fact that you're saying, is there any conversation that you

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01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: guys think she should bring up once she's over there

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01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:20,760
Speaker 1: or how she is there, what you guys think she

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01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,600
Speaker 1: should um start to me, it bothers me that she

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01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: said that the husband is flirty and handsy, and if

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Speaker 1: you feel like the wife is a barrier, the wife

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01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: cannot be liking how flirty and handsy that nigga is

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01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: if he's that flirty and handsy with your ass. So

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01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: you might need to take more of the attention off

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01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: of the husband if you already feel like the husband

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01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: is down, and maybe again show more attention to the

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01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: wife special Maybee. I think that's for sure Instagram to

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01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 1: see if I could find her, but there's a lot

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01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: of them. I don't know. I think that that's definitely

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01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 1: what you need to do. Have that conversation with your husband.

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01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 1: Maybe you even see if he's open to it. First

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01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 1: you think he's open, see if he's open, because then

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01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: maybe he can open heart into doing it. So if

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01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 1: you if you get him on board, maybe it's something

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01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: that he can have a conversation with his wife to say, hey,

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01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: let's try this out. Let's swing, let's have a I mean,

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01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: and an orgy could sometimes scare someone off if they're

1330
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 1: not as hyper sexual. So maybe saying it's couple swapping

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01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 1: or swinging like I don't like the word either, so

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01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't be good It's kind of like how

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01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 1: fisting is more threatening than five fingers, So no one

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01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: thinks it's a bad idea for them to hook up

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01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: with the husband's friend. Alex, let me introduce you to

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01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 1: where you are, and it is called horrible. No, I'm

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01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 1: just saying the fact that they're so close. I mean

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01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: the husband. The husband said that he doesn't have a problem.

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01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: It's his husband, it's her husband's friend. I mean, if

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01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: they're already flirting and the husband's down with it. No,

1341
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: because this is the problem. This is the problem, right,

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01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 1: This is the thing that you're bringing up right now

1343
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: is why people feel like they shouldn't have three simms

1344
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: with friends. But there's something different with three sints with friends.

1345
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 1: One person isn't in a relationship. They're both married. They're

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01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 1: both married. So this, this keeps you from feeling like

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01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:18,879
Speaker 1: that third person that's maybe might funk her better. They

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01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,640
Speaker 1: can't have anything going on. It's two married couples. So

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01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: when you brafer than a threesome friend. Yeah, it's also

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01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: safe for who's single, even though they could definitely do

1351
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 1: she can do the same thing. They're not alone, they're

1352
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 1: not single, and so what am I gonna do caring

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01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: gonna leave when Josh is also leaving and they're just

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01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 1: both randomly going somewhere by themselves and that hell no,

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01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,679
Speaker 1: and everybody already gonna be on high alert after the foursome. Yeah,

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01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: definitely a highlert. Just say I think that is all right.

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01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 1: So before we get out of here, do you want

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Speaker 1: to go ahead and let um our listeners know where

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Speaker 1: they may find you? Yes? UM follow me e prey

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Speaker 1: that there is no oh, there's a zero instead because

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Speaker 1: Instagram would let me do that. Um. I am on

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Speaker 1: Apple Podcast, Spotify, Google Music players were still pending really

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Speaker 1: still wait and I think we'll talk about this later.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I want to co sign your podcast

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Speaker 1: really quick, um, because I was probably said in the

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01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: beginning of this episode was so impressed with the production

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Speaker 1: value of it is really good. And I only say

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Speaker 1: that because, like I feel like people will always tell

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Speaker 1: us to listen to their ship and it never sounds

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Speaker 1: that good. And your ship sounds like it sounds like

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Speaker 1: it's been around, but check it out. He also has

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Speaker 1: really good guests that come on. We were talking about

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Speaker 1: it earlier. They're all um, well educated, um, black women,

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Speaker 1: it's really successful. I have thoughts on you. No no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: Usually I mean I told you I'm not even real

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Speaker 1: at that. I'm a that ally yes, that ally um.

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Speaker 1: But it did pens like everybody like usually talks about

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Speaker 1: their ditty stories because it's always like yeah, yeah, because

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Speaker 1: it's always like which we got to talk about that?

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Speaker 1: But something like I said to me that it's just

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Speaker 1: kind of a blanket term. Honestly, by the way I

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Speaker 1: best described the podcast is like it's a mix of

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Speaker 1: a lot of Vans and meets a little Kim, Like

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Speaker 1: it's life lessons a lot of Vans and a little Kim.

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Speaker 1: So it's really just a focus. If you guys follow

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Speaker 1: his Instagram, you pray thought with the zero. He also

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Speaker 1: has some really funny memes just like us. I think

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Speaker 1: we've probably swapping back back before it. Sometimes he has

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Speaker 1: some great ship on there, So go check it out

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Speaker 1: and thank you so much for coming on. Oh, by

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Speaker 1: the way, I do want to say, before he came

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Speaker 1: in here, he was like, oh, I know what song

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Speaker 1: Takes said. He was a resident gay want I just

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Speaker 1: want to I want to I want to be part

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Speaker 1: of the team. I want to be the resident gay

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Speaker 1: y'all also had still didn't get to do gay black

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Speaker 1: fucking sex tips. We have not had a gay man

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Speaker 1: I listened to that he has great story. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I feel like like you should get a panel. It

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Speaker 1: should be me me xdm of my favorite things that

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Speaker 1: has ever been said on this podcast. And he said

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Speaker 1: that he likes weed from gay niggas because it got

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Speaker 1: glittered in it. I hate. Alright, Well, guys, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. Um again, make sure you follow us everywhere

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Speaker 1: on social media. Um. We are on Instagram at Horrible

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Speaker 1: Underscore Decisions, we are on Twitter at Horrible Pod, and

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Speaker 1: um yeah, thank you guys so much for all of

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Speaker 1: your support. This has been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: Say bye,