Speaker 1: Second date updated. We get a lot of requests for
Speaker 1: second dates on this show, and to pick which ones
Speaker 1: to do, we try to look at the emails for
Speaker 1: something that stands out, Yeah for sure, whether that's a
Speaker 1: cool date idea or a bad mistake that they know
Speaker 1: that they made that night those yea, or in today's case,
Speaker 1: somebody with a unique first name. That's it, which is
Speaker 1: why we'll be talking to a guy who signed his
Speaker 1: message car c a R. So, welca, is that your
Speaker 1: given name is a misspelling?
Speaker 2: No? Actually, I was born with the name car, but
Speaker 2: it has two RS.
Speaker 3: I was thinking it was going to be like short
Speaker 3: for Carson or something.
Speaker 1: Did you write it wrong in the email with only
Speaker 1: one R?
Speaker 2: No? No, No. When I got to my twenties, I
Speaker 2: just dropped the second R because I just thought it
Speaker 2: would be quicker and more professional.
Speaker 3: More professional. I mean, who would hire a car with
Speaker 3: two rs? I read that those people are jokes.
Speaker 1: They sound very professional right now? Yeah, okay, well we're
Speaker 1: going to call you by the short car name.
Speaker 3: I guess I wanted to do.
Speaker 1: To stick to what he wants. So tell us about
Speaker 1: the woman that you met. What's her name?
Speaker 2: Her name is Charlotte. You know I met her online?
Speaker 3: Charlotte.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, how did you guys?
Speaker 3: Strike up a conversation?
Speaker 2: So we connected over the apps. She gave me her
Speaker 2: phone number and we were texting, and within the first
Speaker 2: couple of texts, she goes, Hey, no offense, but I
Speaker 2: do this with every guy to see you know how
Speaker 2: committed they are. But I'm going to block you, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 3: You?
Speaker 2: She says, the only way to reach me after this
Speaker 2: is through my Venmo.
Speaker 3: No, why that's kind of smart.
Speaker 1: I mean that's a red flag to move on.
Speaker 3: So the only way you can reach her is if
Speaker 3: you benmo her like a buck and write in the
Speaker 3: comments of it.
Speaker 4: If she's only worth a dollar, Brook, you don't want
Speaker 4: that kind of lady.
Speaker 3: She's at least twenty dollars.
Speaker 2: I mean, she's really attractive. She was really cute. And
Speaker 2: I was like, whatever, okay, fine, you know I'll send
Speaker 2: her a dollar on venmo just to talk.
Speaker 4: Oh did you send a dollar? She may find that insulting. Friend.
Speaker 2: Well, when it was done, it cost me sixty two
Speaker 2: dollars to get to date.
Speaker 1: You said, sixty two one dollar messages why.
Speaker 2: All right, So I venmoed her a dollar with a
Speaker 2: message that said, hey, it's car and you know that
Speaker 2: allowed me to reach her. Right, So fast forward sixty
Speaker 2: one Venmo messages later.
Speaker 3: Which one was your self esteem? That went with it?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 2: I mean whatever, it's just fun dude. I thought it
Speaker 2: was funny. It's a bold movie. And yeah, you got
Speaker 2: to give her credit to work the system whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't have to cut this second date
Speaker 1: update short. The only way to reach us now is
Speaker 1: through Venmo.
Speaker 3: Well it's cute when she does it, but it's not
Speaker 3: cute when we do it, hucky.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because I'm flirting with her, this is going
Speaker 2: somewhere I'm not going.
Speaker 5: Is she commenting on any of these venmo payments or
Speaker 5: you just keep going one after another?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I know that's that's how we continue to talk.
Speaker 1: Okay, so did you actually turn this into a real
Speaker 1: date or are we doing this all through Venmo messages?
Speaker 2: Obviously? So she agrees to date. So we went to
Speaker 2: like this college volleyball game. Finally, the game was cheap.
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't have enough I didn't have enough
Speaker 2: money for a nice dinner after that?
Speaker 3: Right, was she okay, with just a cheap date.
Speaker 2: I mean it seemed like it's mean, it was pretty fine.
Speaker 2: We got to talk about her live, you know, after
Speaker 2: the game, we stopped by like a Costco food court
Speaker 2: to get some hot dog or whatever.
Speaker 3: This is her jam, food core, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, Costco food is everybody's jam, I know.
Speaker 3: But like she's reading as a woman who wants money,
Speaker 3: like she wants a rich guy. That's why the Venmo
Speaker 3: is there.
Speaker 2: I don't really fix so because you have to imagine
Speaker 2: every guy that takes this girl out is going to
Speaker 2: take her out to somewhere expensive or whatever. So I
Speaker 2: just figured i'd be different, I'd be the opposite of that.
Speaker 1: By but you're on the phone with us, car, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, how did that date end or what's happened
Speaker 1: since then?
Speaker 2: Well, on the date, she said, this is definitely different
Speaker 2: than the type of date that she normally goes on.
Speaker 2: I thought it was a good thing, Okay.
Speaker 3: The way she delivered it was like this is different,
Speaker 3: like in a positive tone.
Speaker 2: I mean that's how I took it.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, anyway, but clearly now she's not responding anymore,
Speaker 6: not even to my Venmo messages, and I sent her
Speaker 6: like ten bucks on the last one, the dollar amount.
Speaker 3: Now, can you see her history? Can you see how
Speaker 3: many other.
Speaker 5: Men are private?
Speaker 2: No? It said I'm private.
Speaker 3: God, I want to follow her Venmo so bad. I
Speaker 3: wish you could do that, Brooks.
Speaker 1: I wonder if she'll even answer the phone when we
Speaker 1: try and call her here, because she seems really picky
Speaker 1: about who she talks to.
Speaker 4: We have no money either, So why do you want
Speaker 4: to why?
Speaker 3: Why? Why do you want to see her again? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's one of the the answer to every y
Speaker 1: question for a dude.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're so dumb.
Speaker 3: I think that there's some depth in some men, Jeffrey
Speaker 3: every once in a while.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we're gonna try and get Charlene a call here.
Speaker 1: Luckily we're not blocked.
Speaker 4: Yet if we want to get blocked. I'm really good
Speaker 4: at this.
Speaker 3: I glad.
Speaker 1: I'm sure by the end of the call we will be.
Speaker 1: But let's come back. We'll try and get you a
Speaker 1: second date update with her right after this. Just hold on.
Speaker 1: Second date update today is a new one for second
Speaker 1: date is for us because our listener car formerly spelled
Speaker 1: with two rs. Now it's just one R.
Speaker 3: That part doesn't really matter on the radio, the difference.
Speaker 1: It does matter for professional reasons. It's much more professional
Speaker 1: with just one off. But he matched with a woman
Speaker 1: named Charlynne on a dating app, and once he got
Speaker 1: her number, she said, so, I do this with every guy,
Speaker 1: but I'm blocking you in the only way to reach
Speaker 1: me now is through Venmo. Okay, And it worked.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what you get? Car gave her like sixty three
Speaker 3: bucks before they went on their first.
Speaker 1: Date something like that. Initially I said red flag, but
Speaker 1: now that I think more about it, maybe this is
Speaker 1: actually a huge green flag.
Speaker 3: Oh, because she's such an entrepreneur.
Speaker 1: Yeah, most guys don't want to date gold diggers. She
Speaker 1: clearly doesn't need any of his money because she's already
Speaker 1: got so much coming in from me. And she was
Speaker 1: very upfront, untilar with her communication about it, saying I
Speaker 1: do this to every guy. So Car did this out
Speaker 1: of his own free will.
Speaker 4: Actually she is pretty open and honest.
Speaker 2: Brook.
Speaker 1: You seemed amused by this girl's strategy.
Speaker 3: It just baffles me that men are okay with this,
Speaker 3: Like all of you are like, Oh, she's hot, that
Speaker 3: makes sense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the bar is very low for us.
Speaker 3: What happens so logic.
Speaker 1: Alexis, what do you what do you think about her strategy?
Speaker 5: Oh? No, it works. I'm just confused why he's wondering
Speaker 5: why she's not calling him back.
Speaker 3: I mean it's obvious, right, Yeah, what's obvious? Don't care?
Speaker 1: Women don't want money out of guys. That's not a thing.
Speaker 3: He got the sixty three bucks? Why even go on
Speaker 3: a date with them? Do you mean? Why waste your time?
Speaker 1: Do you have any ideas on that car? And he
Speaker 1: guesses of what she might say here.
Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to connecting and seeing what happens, but
Speaker 2: I really have no idea.
Speaker 1: The real question, though, is can a good relationship happened
Speaker 1: when it starts from venmo payments? But can you build
Speaker 1: something serious out of that?
Speaker 3: I don't think unless it's a business venture.
Speaker 1: I'm going to go no, We're going to try and
Speaker 1: hopefully prove that wrong and get her to agree to ye. Sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: I just remember that's the goal here, for true love
Speaker 1: to spark.
Speaker 4: At least we know if they ever proposed, you could
Speaker 4: just send her the dollar request with a little wedding
Speaker 4: ring on it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we gotta call this We call this girl.
Speaker 1: I'm going to dial her number right now, hopefully she
Speaker 1: answers here we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak
Speaker 1: with Charlyne.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm just shocked that she answered the phone, honestly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all kind of surprised that you answered because
Speaker 1: we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, Charlotte, how are you hi?
Speaker 1: Sorry, you were a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: and we're doing something called a second Date update, trying
Speaker 1: to help out one of our listeners that you went
Speaker 1: on a date with recently named Carr.
Speaker 7: Oh god, oh yeah.
Speaker 4: You're either really religious or you're really fed up with him.
Speaker 1: Clearly remember him. We just sorry, We need to ask you,
Speaker 1: even before why you're not calling him back. We want
Speaker 1: to ask you about the Venmo thing.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, he told you about that, Yes, of course.
Speaker 3: He told us. He said he spent sixty three dollars
Speaker 3: just trying to get a date.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's just like I told him, it's like
Speaker 7: a commitment thing because I have a lot of guys
Speaker 7: reach out to me and I only want the ones
Speaker 7: who are serious. And then Mo is like the first hurdle.
Speaker 3: Then is the first hurdle? Seriously, as a guy is
Speaker 3: a thousand bucks, I doesn't mean he's serious about.
Speaker 5: You don't just see more desperate if they're willing to
Speaker 5: spend more.
Speaker 7: No, it's not about the money. It's just about like
Speaker 7: the inconvenience of just not being able to like message
Speaker 7: on an app. You can message anybody on an app.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're trying to see how much effort they're willing
Speaker 1: to put in just to get on a date with you.
Speaker 7: Right, it's about the effort, it's not about the money.
Speaker 3: Why did you wait to sixty three dollars to answer them?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Why didn't you send the money back?
Speaker 3: I mean no judgment if it's about the money, But
Speaker 3: it seems like you just need to lean into that part.
Speaker 1: The women are calling you gold diggers, so you can't
Speaker 1: pick up.
Speaker 5: I'm not against it, but just own it.
Speaker 7: Let me tell you about the date that we went on,
Speaker 7: and you will realize that I'm not a gold digger.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you did tell us a little bit about
Speaker 1: it with the volleyball game and the Costco.
Speaker 7: Okay, so told you that, Yeah, it was fun, it
Speaker 7: was funny. I must say that Costco Pizza was way
Speaker 7: better than I expected.
Speaker 1: Wow, I.
Speaker 4: Apologize.
Speaker 3: I had her pegged as a hot dog girl too.
Speaker 3: That is a shocking move in there.
Speaker 4: I thought you were a chicken.
Speaker 1: Big lady, You yourself are saying that you had a
Speaker 1: better time than you thought, the food was better than
Speaker 1: you thought. Carson really nice, then why aren't you calling
Speaker 1: him back?
Speaker 7: Well? I have a thing about etiquette and treating people
Speaker 7: around me better than I treat myself, and I I
Speaker 7: was just there was something that happened on the date
Speaker 7: that I just was not okay with. It really rubbed me.
Speaker 3: The wrong way. That's interesting etiquette. Yeah, so you think
Speaker 3: it would be important for him to know what it
Speaker 3: is so he can change his behavior.
Speaker 7: Uh, yeah, I don't know. Just the we were at
Speaker 7: the Costco food court ordering our food and there was
Speaker 7: the opportunity to tip, and he just didn't even like
Speaker 7: wait their server.
Speaker 5: There, no, you order, you can order on your own.
Speaker 5: You don't work with a person.
Speaker 4: I don't have a membership, guys, I'm sorry, I.
Speaker 5: Exposed to screen. You don't even work with a person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's like a there's like an area of screen.
Speaker 3: It's kind of like a self checkout.
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, but people you know, get your pizza from
Speaker 7: the counter and there's a person there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they kind of just like throw it
Speaker 3: on the counter and then turn around. But yeah, it's
Speaker 3: like we're at.
Speaker 4: A sports stadium and they're like prepping it exactly.
Speaker 3: Like there's not much eye contactor.
Speaker 1: Down cell the Costco workers and all the hard.
Speaker 3: Work that they don't restaurant, I know what it's like.
Speaker 3: It's like a fast food counter. I mean it's the same.
Speaker 1: Thing the condemned burger restaurant doesn't hold a candle, so
Speaker 1: the food court.
Speaker 3: I know that that strongo the cook was amazing.
Speaker 1: We're getting sidetracked here, So you found it rude that
Speaker 1: he didn't offer a tip to the person that gave
Speaker 1: you your pizza.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that you should try to slip up
Speaker 7: five to any service worker. I just feel like it's
Speaker 7: the right thing to do, and it clearly didn't cross
Speaker 7: his mine.
Speaker 3: I've never seen anyone tip.
Speaker 1: In Costco, well, not at the rich Costco where you
Speaker 1: shop up s latest Costco only. But okay, so that
Speaker 1: was it, that was like the deal breaker for you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I went back, I said I was
Speaker 7: gonna go get more napkins, and I went back and
Speaker 7: gave the woman a five dollars bill.
Speaker 3: Nice of you.
Speaker 5: I mean technically it's his money. You used to tipper.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in a way he did tip.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just made him.
Speaker 1: There's clearly two sides of this story. We have Charlotte's
Speaker 1: now we need to get cars because I need to
Speaker 1: let you know, Charlotte, he's been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening to this the entire time.
Speaker 7: Are you sure?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how these work.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Oh no, Yeah, wants to hear it if
Speaker 3: it's something that's important.
Speaker 7: To you, Okay, I mean, hi, car.
Speaker 2: This is actually kind of a joke, right because I
Speaker 2: always tip on every chick if there's a waiter. But
Speaker 2: this tipping culture is out of control. Like, who's going
Speaker 2: to ask me for a tip? Next my landlord for
Speaker 2: my rent? Like what are we doing?
Speaker 1: That actually is a really good idea.
Speaker 7: I feel some animosity for me right now and.
Speaker 2: That yeah, you know what, I feel like you have
Speaker 2: a guilt complex because you're taking money from men and
Speaker 2: you don't.
Speaker 3: Like, Wow, this is getting deep.
Speaker 2: That's why you're triggered by it a car?
Speaker 1: You know, we're trying to help.
Speaker 2: You here to get another Do need help. I'm good,
Speaker 2: I've heard enough. I'm good.
Speaker 3: What does this make? You're so angry?
Speaker 1: They sounds very triggered by it.
Speaker 2: Because this is a joke. This is a joke, Like
Speaker 2: she's actually a joke.
Speaker 7: What are you talking about? Why am I getting this strong?
Speaker 2: Everyone? I'm out?
Speaker 1: No? No, okay, Well, we don't want it to get
Speaker 1: hostile on the phone. We're just trying to set up
Speaker 1: another date for the two of you.
Speaker 7: That's gonna happen.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe somewhere where there's no tip needed.
Speaker 1: It's like a Costco food court perhaps.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm kind of like sticking up for him, but.
Speaker 1: That was I know, you came in really really harsh there.
Speaker 3: But here's the thing, nobody's gonna hear your point when
Speaker 3: you just come in yelling like. There's no way that
Speaker 3: she's ever going to see your side that way.
Speaker 1: Man, brug I don't even think he's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Are you still there? Car?
Speaker 3: I was wanting a tip from him.
Speaker 1: Okay, no, he's gone none.
Speaker 2: But we.
Speaker 1: Just provided the service for him. He says, if you
Speaker 1: provide a service, then he'll give you a tip. But
Speaker 1: he dined and dashed on our show. Yay, what the heck, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: you're you're still there, right, Oh.
Speaker 7: Charlotte, Yeah, I'm just kind of amazed at how much
Speaker 7: energy hostility.
Speaker 1: Sorry, I didn't think I was going to have your
Speaker 1: back by the end of this, So I love you
Speaker 1: a bullet. You're pro tipping though, right, Charlotte. You give
Speaker 1: us tip on this phone.
Speaker 3: It's free, so if you do zero times thirty, it's still.
Speaker 1: We can count on you, right, Yeah, I don't trust
Speaker 1: Brooks math on that. I think it's one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Yikes. Man, I'm still trying to
Speaker 1: figure that whole situation.
Speaker 3: Out because he got so mad.
Speaker 1: He seems so offended about how tipping is getting out
Speaker 1: of control these days. Although he was basically tipping her
Speaker 1: on Venmo in order to.
Speaker 4: Get a date, that was irony there.
Speaker 1: I'm like, sir, when you're tipping a woman just for conversation,
Speaker 1: you're the one who's making tipping out of control, not
Speaker 1: the worm.
Speaker 4: But he would argue, let me be him, Well, she's
Speaker 4: offering a service. I'm getting a reward every time.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I can't even hear that. I mean,
Speaker 3: the thing, the anger part was so bizarre to me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like he was ready to snap.
Speaker 1: He came on hot, So I'm glad that car peeled
Speaker 1: out on that one. Honestly, I try to stand up
Speaker 1: for the listeners as much as possible on these segments,
Speaker 1: even when I look like an idiot for it. He
Speaker 1: would make it really, really difficult to defend him.
Speaker 3: Oh God, but I love you looking like an idiot.
Speaker 3: So maybe I'm sad that he's.
Speaker 1: Hang when you did card. But if you want to
Speaker 1: get a little bit of help with your dating life,
Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll call that person
Speaker 1: who's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, go free for free.
Speaker 1: You don't charge anything. How dumb are we?
Speaker 4: Would you take them?
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're willing to. But you can also check
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