WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Venmo or Ven-No

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<v Speaker 1>Second date updated. We get a lot of requests for

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<v Speaker 1>second dates on this show, and to pick which ones

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<v Speaker 1>to do, we try to look at the emails for

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<v Speaker 1>something that stands out, Yeah for sure, whether that's a

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<v Speaker 1>cool date idea or a bad mistake that they know

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<v Speaker 1>that they made that night those yea, or in today's case,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody with a unique first name. That's it, which is

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<v Speaker 1>why we'll be talking to a guy who signed his

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<v Speaker 1>message car c a R. So, welca, is that your

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<v Speaker 1>given name is a misspelling?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Actually, I was born with the name car, but

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<v Speaker 2>it has two RS.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking it was going to be like short

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<v Speaker 3>for Carson or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you write it wrong in the email with only

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<v Speaker 1>one R?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, No. When I got to my twenties, I

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<v Speaker 2>just dropped the second R because I just thought it

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<v Speaker 2>would be quicker and more professional.

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<v Speaker 3>More professional. I mean, who would hire a car with

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<v Speaker 3>two rs? I read that those people are jokes.

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<v Speaker 1>They sound very professional right now? Yeah, okay, well we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call you by the short car name.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I wanted to do.

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<v Speaker 1>To stick to what he wants. So tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the woman that you met. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is Charlotte. You know I met her online?

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<v Speaker 3>Charlotte.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, okay, how did you guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Strike up a conversation?

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<v Speaker 2>So we connected over the apps. She gave me her

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<v Speaker 2>phone number and we were texting, and within the first

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<v Speaker 2>couple of texts, she goes, Hey, no offense, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do this with every guy to see you know how

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<v Speaker 2>committed they are. But I'm going to block you, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>You?

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<v Speaker 2>She says, the only way to reach me after this

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<v Speaker 2>is through my Venmo.

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<v Speaker 3>No, why that's kind of smart.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's a red flag to move on.

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<v Speaker 3>So the only way you can reach her is if

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<v Speaker 3>you benmo her like a buck and write in the

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<v Speaker 3>comments of it.

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<v Speaker 4>If she's only worth a dollar, Brook, you don't want

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<v Speaker 4>that kind of lady.

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<v Speaker 3>She's at least twenty dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's really attractive. She was really cute. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, whatever, okay, fine, you know I'll send

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<v Speaker 2>her a dollar on venmo just to talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh did you send a dollar? She may find that insulting. Friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, when it was done, it cost me sixty two

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<v Speaker 2>dollars to get to date.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, sixty two one dollar messages why.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So I venmoed her a dollar with a

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<v Speaker 2>message that said, hey, it's car and you know that

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<v Speaker 2>allowed me to reach her. Right, So fast forward sixty

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<v Speaker 2>one Venmo messages later.

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<v Speaker 3>Which one was your self esteem? That went with it?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean whatever, it's just fun dude. I thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was funny. It's a bold movie. And yeah, you got

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<v Speaker 2>to give her credit to work the system whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't have to cut this second date

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<v Speaker 1>update short. The only way to reach us now is

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<v Speaker 1>through Venmo.

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<v Speaker 3>Well it's cute when she does it, but it's not

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<v Speaker 3>cute when we do it, hucky.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, because I'm flirting with her, this is going

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere I'm not going.

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<v Speaker 5>Is she commenting on any of these venmo payments or

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<v Speaker 5>you just keep going one after another?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I know that's that's how we continue to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so did you actually turn this into a real

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<v Speaker 1>date or are we doing this all through Venmo messages?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously? So she agrees to date. So we went to

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<v Speaker 2>like this college volleyball game. Finally, the game was cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I didn't have enough I didn't have enough

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<v Speaker 2>money for a nice dinner after that?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, was she okay, with just a cheap date.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it seemed like it's mean, it was pretty fine.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to talk about her live, you know, after

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<v Speaker 2>the game, we stopped by like a Costco food court

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<v Speaker 2>to get some hot dog or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>This is her jam, food core, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, Costco food is everybody's jam, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>But like she's reading as a woman who wants money,

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<v Speaker 3>like she wants a rich guy. That's why the Venmo

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<v Speaker 3>is there.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really fix so because you have to imagine

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<v Speaker 2>every guy that takes this girl out is going to

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<v Speaker 2>take her out to somewhere expensive or whatever. So I

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<v Speaker 2>just figured i'd be different, I'd be the opposite of that.

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<v Speaker 1>By but you're on the phone with us, car, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did that date end or what's happened

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<v Speaker 1>since then?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, on the date, she said, this is definitely different

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<v Speaker 2>than the type of date that she normally goes on.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a good thing, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>The way she delivered it was like this is different,

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<v Speaker 3>like in a positive tone.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's how I took it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Okay, anyway, but clearly now she's not responding anymore,

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<v Speaker 6>not even to my Venmo messages, and I sent her

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<v Speaker 6>like ten bucks on the last one, the dollar amount.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, can you see her history? Can you see how

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<v Speaker 3>many other.

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<v Speaker 5>Men are private?

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<v Speaker 2>No? It said I'm private.

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<v Speaker 3>God, I want to follow her Venmo so bad. I

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<v Speaker 3>wish you could do that, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if she'll even answer the phone when we

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<v Speaker 1>try and call her here, because she seems really picky

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<v Speaker 1>about who she talks to.

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<v Speaker 4>We have no money either, So why do you want

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<v Speaker 4>to why?

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<v Speaker 3>Why? Why do you want to see her again? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's one of the the answer to every y

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<v Speaker 1>question for a dude.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're so dumb.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that there's some depth in some men, Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, we're gonna try and get Charlene a call here.

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<v Speaker 1>Luckily we're not blocked.

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<v Speaker 4>Yet if we want to get blocked. I'm really good

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<v Speaker 4>at this.

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<v Speaker 3>I glad.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure by the end of the call we will be.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's come back. We'll try and get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update with her right after this. Just hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update today is a new one for second

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<v Speaker 1>date is for us because our listener car formerly spelled

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<v Speaker 1>with two rs. Now it's just one R.

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<v Speaker 3>That part doesn't really matter on the radio, the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>It does matter for professional reasons. It's much more professional

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<v Speaker 1>with just one off. But he matched with a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Charlynne on a dating app, and once he got

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<v Speaker 1>her number, she said, so, I do this with every guy,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm blocking you in the only way to reach

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<v Speaker 1>me now is through Venmo. Okay, And it worked.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what you get? Car gave her like sixty three

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<v Speaker 3>bucks before they went on their first.

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<v Speaker 1>Date something like that. Initially I said red flag, but

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<v Speaker 1>now that I think more about it, maybe this is

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<v Speaker 1>actually a huge green flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, because she's such an entrepreneur.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, most guys don't want to date gold diggers. She

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<v Speaker 1>clearly doesn't need any of his money because she's already

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<v Speaker 1>got so much coming in from me. And she was

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<v Speaker 1>very upfront, untilar with her communication about it, saying I

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<v Speaker 1>do this to every guy. So Car did this out

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<v Speaker 1>of his own free will.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually she is pretty open and honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>You seemed amused by this girl's strategy.

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<v Speaker 3>It just baffles me that men are okay with this,

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<v Speaker 3>Like all of you are like, Oh, she's hot, that

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<v Speaker 3>makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the bar is very low for us.

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<v Speaker 3>What happens so logic.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis, what do you what do you think about her strategy?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? No, it works. I'm just confused why he's wondering

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<v Speaker 5>why she's not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's obvious, right, Yeah, what's obvious? Don't care?

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<v Speaker 1>Women don't want money out of guys. That's not a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>He got the sixty three bucks? Why even go on

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<v Speaker 3>a date with them? Do you mean? Why waste your time?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any ideas on that car? And he

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<v Speaker 1>guesses of what she might say here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking forward to connecting and seeing what happens, but

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<v Speaker 2>I really have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>The real question, though, is can a good relationship happened

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<v Speaker 1>when it starts from venmo payments? But can you build

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<v Speaker 1>something serious out of that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think unless it's a business venture.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go no, We're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully prove that wrong and get her to agree to ye. Sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I just remember that's the goal here, for true love

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<v Speaker 1>to spark.

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<v Speaker 4>At least we know if they ever proposed, you could

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<v Speaker 4>just send her the dollar request with a little wedding

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<v Speaker 4>ring on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, we gotta call this We call this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to dial her number right now, hopefully she

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<v Speaker 1>answers here we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak

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<v Speaker 1>with Charlyne.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I'm just shocked that she answered the phone, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're all kind of surprised that you answered because

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<v Speaker 1>we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hi, Charlotte, how are you hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, you were a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>and we're doing something called a second Date update, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to help out one of our listeners that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with recently named Carr.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh god, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You're either really religious or you're really fed up with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly remember him. We just sorry, We need to ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>even before why you're not calling him back. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about the Venmo thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, he told you about that, Yes, of course.

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<v Speaker 3>He told us. He said he spent sixty three dollars

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to get a date.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's just like I told him, it's like

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<v Speaker 7>a commitment thing because I have a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 7>reach out to me and I only want the ones

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<v Speaker 7>who are serious. And then Mo is like the first hurdle.

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<v Speaker 3>Then is the first hurdle? Seriously, as a guy is

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<v Speaker 3>a thousand bucks, I doesn't mean he's serious about.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't just see more desperate if they're willing to

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<v Speaker 5>spend more.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it's not about the money. It's just about like

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<v Speaker 7>the inconvenience of just not being able to like message

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<v Speaker 7>on an app. You can message anybody on an app.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're trying to see how much effort they're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to put in just to get on a date with you.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, it's about the effort, it's not about the money.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you wait to sixty three dollars to answer them?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Why didn't you send the money back?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean no judgment if it's about the money, But

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<v Speaker 3>it seems like you just need to lean into that part.

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<v Speaker 1>The women are calling you gold diggers, so you can't

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<v Speaker 1>pick up.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not against it, but just own it.

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<v Speaker 7>Let me tell you about the date that we went on,

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<v Speaker 7>and you will realize that I'm not a gold digger.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, you did tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>it with the volleyball game and the Costco.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so told you that, Yeah, it was fun, it

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<v Speaker 7>was funny. I must say that Costco Pizza was way

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<v Speaker 7>better than I expected.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Apologize.

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<v Speaker 3>I had her pegged as a hot dog girl too.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a shocking move in there.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were a chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>Big lady, You yourself are saying that you had a

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<v Speaker 1>better time than you thought, the food was better than

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<v Speaker 1>you thought. Carson really nice, then why aren't you calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back?

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<v Speaker 7>Well? I have a thing about etiquette and treating people

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<v Speaker 7>around me better than I treat myself, and I I

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<v Speaker 7>was just there was something that happened on the date

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<v Speaker 7>that I just was not okay with. It really rubbed me.

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<v Speaker 3>The wrong way. That's interesting etiquette. Yeah, so you think

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<v Speaker 3>it would be important for him to know what it

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<v Speaker 3>is so he can change his behavior.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh, yeah, I don't know. Just the we were at

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<v Speaker 7>the Costco food court ordering our food and there was

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<v Speaker 7>the opportunity to tip, and he just didn't even like

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<v Speaker 7>wait their server.

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<v Speaker 5>There, no, you order, you can order on your own.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't work with a person.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have a membership, guys, I'm sorry, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Exposed to screen. You don't even work with a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's like a there's like an area of screen.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of like a self checkout.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yeah, but people you know, get your pizza from

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<v Speaker 7>the counter and there's a person there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean they kind of just like throw it

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<v Speaker 3>on the counter and then turn around. But yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like we're at.

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<v Speaker 4>A sports stadium and they're like prepping it exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Like there's not much eye contactor.

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<v Speaker 1>Down cell the Costco workers and all the hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Work that they don't restaurant, I know what it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a fast food counter. I mean it's the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing the condemned burger restaurant doesn't hold a candle, so

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<v Speaker 1>the food court.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that that strongo the cook was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting sidetracked here, So you found it rude that

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't offer a tip to the person that gave

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<v Speaker 1>you your pizza.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I think that you should try to slip up

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<v Speaker 7>five to any service worker. I just feel like it's

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<v Speaker 7>the right thing to do, and it clearly didn't cross

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<v Speaker 7>his mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never seen anyone tip.

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<v Speaker 1>In Costco, well, not at the rich Costco where you

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<v Speaker 1>shop up s latest Costco only. But okay, so that

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<v Speaker 1>was it, that was like the deal breaker for you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I went back, I said I was

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<v Speaker 7>gonna go get more napkins, and I went back and

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<v Speaker 7>gave the woman a five dollars bill.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice of you.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean technically it's his money. You used to tipper.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in a way he did tip.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you just made him.

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<v Speaker 1>There's clearly two sides of this story. We have Charlotte's

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<v Speaker 1>now we need to get cars because I need to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know, Charlotte, he's been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this the entire time.

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<v Speaker 7>Are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how these work.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, Oh no, Yeah, wants to hear it if

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<v Speaker 3>it's something that's important.

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<v Speaker 7>To you, Okay, I mean, hi, car.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually kind of a joke, right because I

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<v Speaker 2>always tip on every chick if there's a waiter. But

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<v Speaker 2>this tipping culture is out of control. Like, who's going

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<v Speaker 2>to ask me for a tip? Next my landlord for

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<v Speaker 2>my rent? Like what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 1>That actually is a really good idea.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel some animosity for me right now and.

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<v Speaker 2>That yeah, you know what, I feel like you have

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<v Speaker 2>a guilt complex because you're taking money from men and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, Wow, this is getting deep.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you're triggered by it a car?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're trying to help.

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<v Speaker 2>You here to get another Do need help. I'm good,

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard enough. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>What does this make? You're so angry?

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<v Speaker 1>They sounds very triggered by it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this is a joke. This is a joke, Like

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<v Speaker 2>she's actually a joke.

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<v Speaker 7>What are you talking about? Why am I getting this strong?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone? I'm out?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, okay, Well, we don't want it to get

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<v Speaker 1>hostile on the phone. We're just trying to set up

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<v Speaker 1>another date for the two of you.

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<v Speaker 7>That's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, maybe somewhere where there's no tip needed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a Costco food court perhaps.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm kind of like sticking up for him, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That was I know, you came in really really harsh there.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's the thing, nobody's gonna hear your point when

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<v Speaker 3>you just come in yelling like. There's no way that

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<v Speaker 3>she's ever going to see your side that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, brug I don't even think he's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still there? Car?

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<v Speaker 3>I was wanting a tip from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, no, he's gone none.

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<v Speaker 2>But we.

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<v Speaker 1>Just provided the service for him. He says, if you

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<v Speaker 1>provide a service, then he'll give you a tip. But

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<v Speaker 1>he dined and dashed on our show. Yay, what the heck, Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're still there, right, Oh.

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<v Speaker 7>Charlotte, Yeah, I'm just kind of amazed at how much

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<v Speaker 7>energy hostility.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I didn't think I was going to have your

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<v Speaker 1>back by the end of this, So I love you

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<v Speaker 1>a bullet. You're pro tipping though, right, Charlotte. You give

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<v Speaker 1>us tip on this phone.

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<v Speaker 3>It's free, so if you do zero times thirty, it's still.

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<v Speaker 1>We can count on you, right, Yeah, I don't trust

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks math on that. I think it's one hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. Yikes. Man, I'm still trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure that whole situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Out because he got so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>He seems so offended about how tipping is getting out

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<v Speaker 1>of control these days. Although he was basically tipping her

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<v Speaker 1>on Venmo in order to.

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<v Speaker 4>Get a date, that was irony there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, sir, when you're tipping a woman just for conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one who's making tipping out of control, not

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<v Speaker 1>the worm.

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<v Speaker 4>But he would argue, let me be him, Well, she's

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<v Speaker 4>offering a service. I'm getting a reward every time.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I can't even hear that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>the thing, the anger part was so bizarre to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was like he was ready to snap.

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<v Speaker 1>He came on hot, So I'm glad that car peeled

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<v Speaker 1>out on that one. Honestly, I try to stand up

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<v Speaker 1>for the listeners as much as possible on these segments,

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<v Speaker 1>even when I look like an idiot for it. He

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<v Speaker 1>would make it really, really difficult to defend him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh God, but I love you looking like an idiot.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe I'm sad that he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang when you did card. But if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get a little bit of help with your dating life,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email the show. We'll call that person

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<v Speaker 1>who's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, go free for free.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't charge anything. How dumb are we?

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<v Speaker 4>Would you take them?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you're willing to. But you can also check

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<v Speaker 1>out our second date updates on your podcast wherever you

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<v Speaker 1>get yours at Burke and Jeffrey