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Speaker 1: Second date update. Are there rules for when you want

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Speaker 1: to veto a date that you don't.

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Speaker 2: Love, like in the planning stages or were already on it.

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Speaker 1: In the plane in the planning stages, like Okay, you're

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Speaker 1: looking forward to hanging out with this person, but you

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Speaker 1: just aren't thrilled about the activity that they came up with.

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Speaker 1: Is there a limit to how many vetos you get

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Speaker 1: to be like, you want to do this? No?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: No? Is this number that you have you can't go

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Speaker 1: over I think you can't.

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Speaker 2: Go over one. I think you get one veto and

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Speaker 2: then you start to look picky.

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Speaker 1: And do you need to say veto in a fancy

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Speaker 1: accent so it sounds less harsh when you're turning them down? Veto?

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Speaker 1: I only asked because one of our listeners, Brittany, exercised

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Speaker 1: her right to veto and now she's ended up here

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Speaker 1: with us.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Brittany, did you use the wrong accent when you veto?

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Speaker 4: I wish I could do a cool accent.

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Speaker 1: On your email, it says you went out with a

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Speaker 1: guy named Josh and you had to turn down an

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Speaker 1: idea or two. So tell us about Josh. How did

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Speaker 1: you meet him?

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Speaker 4: We met through friend of a friend, So okay, I

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Speaker 4: was already really close to one of his guy friends.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and so how did the planning of this date

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Speaker 1: god like run us through that?

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Speaker 4: So we were in between texting and it was really

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Speaker 4: sweet of him to bring up like minigalf, but I

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Speaker 4: just wasn't feeling it. And then he brought up bowling. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I honestly wasn't feeling that.

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Speaker 1: So wait, are you like?

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Speaker 5: I feel like if you vetoed that, you then have

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Speaker 5: to offer a suggestion yourself.

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Speaker 2: Were you just saying no?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So I was just saying no, and I okay,

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Speaker 4: real quick, I will admit I was being kind of

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Speaker 4: a princess.

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Speaker 1: You weren't just saying no, you were saying ew no.

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Speaker 2: She used that little barf emoji.

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Speaker 6: Yah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, gross, it wasn't that bad. It wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 2: So did you finally decide on something to do?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 4: We ended up just he was like, why didn't you

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Speaker 4: just come over to my place? It's a big community,

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Speaker 4: like we can go for a walk, like around the neighborhood.

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Speaker 4: And to be honest, that sounded more like I had

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Speaker 4: a stressful work week, like I'm about it.

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Speaker 2: So I mean after feeling high maintenance. Now you see

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Speaker 2: low maintenance. That's all you need.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even think about that, but you're so right.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, without knowing there is Okay, so you agreed

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Speaker 1: to a walk around his neighborhood, and how did that go?

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Speaker 4: It was actually really good. We got along, we had

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Speaker 4: a lot of things in common. We ended up going

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Speaker 4: back to his place and it was good and bad.

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Speaker 1: His place was bad.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no no. His place was nice actually,

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Speaker 4: like it was modern and clean.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you're saying the vibe was good and bad.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you, because.

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Speaker 1: I could see you also walking through and being like

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Speaker 1: veto that painting, Veto, that backsplash, fair person. Actually okay.

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Speaker 1: So when you're hanging out with him at his place,

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Speaker 1: what happens?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the good?

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Speaker 4: The good was the banter? Like again, we just kind

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Speaker 4: of hit it off really well. Nice the bad part

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Speaker 4: that Okay, So we put on you the Netflix show.

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Speaker 2: Wait, isn't that the Stalker show?

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 2: Then it's supposed to be with Penn.

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Speaker 5: Badgerly but like it's darker after the first season it

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Speaker 5: gets okay, so.

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Speaker 4: It was just on in the background, like, okay, we

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Speaker 4: were talking watching and he was sitting all the way

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Speaker 4: on the other side of the couchlake. Oh no. I

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Speaker 4: don't know if it was the fact that he was

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Speaker 4: Like it wasn't the greatest vibe if you know what

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Speaker 2: You're yelling across the living room while a show is playing.

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Speaker 1: You probably to yell anyway to be heard over a

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Speaker 1: Netflix showing in the background. Interesting, So how did you

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Speaker 4: Well, it was getting dark and I, honestly, I just

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Speaker 4: But when I got to my car, I realized I

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Speaker 4: So I like, I can't drive, Like I definitely can't

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Speaker 4: him like, hey, this is the situation. And he ended

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Speaker 4: up telling me that I could stay the night.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow. Why wouldn't he say I'll drive you home?

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Speaker 2: That's interesting.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, between the two choices stay the night or I'll

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Speaker 1: take you home, the guy was gonna pick yeah, sure,

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Speaker 1: you can have a sleepover. Why are you so against

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Speaker 5: I thought, I'm just surprised because he's a guy that

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Speaker 5: he wasn't and chance into it, He's like, okay, so

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Speaker 5: I'm sure you're getting mixed signals. Then right when he

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Speaker 5: asked you, did you stay the night?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 4: And I ended up yes I did. Yeah, it's nothing,

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Speaker 4: I just ended up staying the night.

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Speaker 2: Was well, like, did you sleep on the couch at

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Speaker 2: her friends?

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Speaker 1: Again, that's a good question.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: Was so perverted. We want all the details.

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Speaker 2: They happened, though, she's flustered. Something not major, but something's happened.

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Speaker 2: Here's the question. What was it like the next morning?

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Speaker 1: There you go, brug.

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Speaker 4: No comment.

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Speaker 2: All right, I don't know if that's good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so what's happened? I'm assuming the next day

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Speaker 1: you got back your car, you drove home, and then

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Speaker 1: what's happened since then?

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Speaker 4: That's where we're at. Absolutely nothing. He's not repond to

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Speaker 4: you at all at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, now when we call him, some of the details

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Speaker 1: about what happened that night might need to come out

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Speaker 1: if they explain why he's not calling you back. Hopefully

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Speaker 4: We need that, we need the whole world.

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Speaker 2: Okay, be prepared.

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Speaker 1: Let's try and get some more details out of Josh

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Speaker 1: when we come back and call him. Try and get

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Speaker 1: you your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: All right, thank you?

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on second date update. It's the classic

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Speaker 1: first date line young people love to use. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: forgot my driving glasses. Can I spend the night of

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Speaker 1: your place?

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Speaker 7: Worked on me all throughout college and driving glove and

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Speaker 7: scar god so many But now, to be fair, our listener,

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Speaker 7: Brittany didn't ask to spend the night over at Josh's house.

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Speaker 1: He offered to let her stay, which means.

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Speaker 5: He wanted to because there's so many other solutions to

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Speaker 1: I'll just call you but something. Ever since then, Brittany

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Speaker 1: hasn't seen any effort by Josh for him to arrange

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Speaker 1: a second meet up with her, which is kind of

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Speaker 1: odd because she says there was there was a connection. There,

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Speaker 1: there was a chemistry, especially when they were bantering with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, except for the moment on the couch. That's the

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Speaker 2: long moment. Yeah, on the couch where they're sitting on

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Speaker 1: He just sat in a weird spot and maybe got

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Speaker 1: really sure. That's why we need to ask him.

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Speaker 5: And I forgot Brittany. You said your friends set you up.

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Speaker 5: Have you heard anything from them?

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Speaker 4: Nothing. I've tried to reach out to them too, and

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Speaker 4: she just keeps saying that she's busy, and then the

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Speaker 4: other guy's like, yeah, we're super busy right now, like

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Speaker 4: we'll get back to here.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like they're covering for him.

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Speaker 8: Yes, wah, weird.

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Speaker 5: I wonder if they didn't know, like maybe he's I

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Speaker 5: don't know what, who knows.

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Speaker 1: You get up a million questions, it's best to just

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Speaker 1: call Josh and ask. So I'm going to dial his

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Speaker 6: Here we go, well, hey, we're going to talk with Josh.

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Speaker 3: This is he.

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Speaker 5: Hey Josh.

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show. Are called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey Josh, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, Hey, So I hope it's okay if we

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Speaker 1: ask you some questions about your dating life because we're

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Speaker 1: doing a segment called second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: On the radio.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they're very specific questions only about one person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a person you went out with recently named Brittany.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, okay, I guess I'll move

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Speaker 1: Jeff, we know a little bit about when you and

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Speaker 1: Brittany hung out. Like, here's a little bit of the

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Speaker 1: she did say that she spent the night. We just

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Speaker 1: we're not one hundred percent sure what that means.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's interested in you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So could you maybe let us in on what's

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Speaker 3: Sure? I mean, I don't know how much she's told

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Speaker 1: Well, it's mostly everything I just recapped for you right there,

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Speaker 1: right generic, just general. Did you have a good night?

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Speaker 3: It was different?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, it could be different in a good way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Alexis, would you be complimented if a guy says your day?

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Speaker 5: Even the pause for ten seconds before he answered, he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did she do something weird or wrong?

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. If I mean this is gonna

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Speaker 3: look great for.

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Speaker 2: Her, It's not going to look great for her.

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Speaker 3: You said it's not going to look great for her.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, if you really want to know where

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Speaker 1: A left turn for me, we really want to know.

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Speaker 1: But more importantly, she really wants to know, and she's

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Speaker 1: agreed to hear. Whatever the reason is, we use the risks.

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Speaker 5: We out outright warned her she may hear something that's

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Speaker 5: not super flattering.

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Speaker 1: And she was pumped about it.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't but she's okay with it.

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Speaker 3: She's like, oh, okay. So we were just watching Netflix

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Speaker 3: and during the middle she pulls out her phone, which

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Speaker 3: you know is fine, but then she asked me to

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Speaker 3: pictures of her coworkers and how fat and ugly they

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Speaker 5: Her photo gallery, being like, look how ugly this person is.

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Speaker 3: I was wondering what is going on right now?

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Speaker 3: She's it seems like she had no one to talk

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Speaker 2: Gossip that's me.

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Speaker 2: Yikes.

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Speaker 3: Okay, would almost be sympathetic if she was telling you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, to have a photo gallery of them at the ready.

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Speaker 1: I am so impressed with her that she's that organized

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Speaker 3: I mean, there was a girl picture and it wasn't

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Speaker 1: you're describing it to us. Earlier, you felt like that

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Speaker 1: something may have happened between you two because I'm a guy,

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Speaker 1: so it was a selfless act of you. You want

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Speaker 1: What a sweet sweet man.

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Speaker 4: Aren't you?

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Speaker 1: She probably felt better afterwards, and like got she was

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, real quick, I do. I want to talk

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: You know, Brittany, you never brought that up when we

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Speaker 5: It's worrisome because it means that you found it normal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it is absolutely normal. I mean, isn't it better

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: And also, you.

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Speaker 6: Went way beyond that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you were just being so negative and critical

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Speaker 4: Judge, Judge, Judge, The one who.

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Speaker 2: To invite her over, she needs to play another round

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Speaker 2: of hot or Not with the co opper.

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Speaker 1: Scared when she's gonna vent about us.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's going to be dropping into my ideas.

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Speaker 1: You do say a lot of unsavory things about people

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Speaker 4: Its normal. It's a normal thing. And if you create

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Speaker 1: It's their faul.

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Speaker 2: So it's their fault that they aren't to your standard

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Speaker 4: Brooks words, I mean to be honest, Yes, it is

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, that is so shallow, Brittany, And excuse me,

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Speaker 5: you're the sallow one brook like everybody else saying that

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Speaker 5: you talk all the.

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Speaker 4: Time, Jeff is joke.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm definitely smiling.

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Speaker 4: I say that I regret asking you to help me

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Speaker 3: I did regret.

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Speaker 2: Ugly right then. I don't know why that would have

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Speaker 1: Okay, Brooke, I would really appreciate if you stayed out

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Speaker 1: We need to focus on helping this couple in style

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Speaker 4: Again, I'm not interested. This wasn't the way I thought

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Speaker 4: I'm actually not even interested in this show anymore.

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Speaker 1: So look what you did.

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Speaker 3: I know you seem quite interested thing the night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to go all the way back.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't the burn you thought it was.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I tried.

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Speaker 4: I tried.

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Speaker 2: I think she's always going to be meaner than you,

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Speaker 1: Well, Brittany, hey, thanks again for being on with us

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Speaker 1: and giving it a shot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks for nothing.

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Speaker 3: You can go through us.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, thank you. I think I'm going to go

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Speaker 1: Just have a great time at the party. Come on

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Well back from the break room,

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Speaker 1: I had a lot of time to mull things over.

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Speaker 1: It just happened.

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Speaker 5: You take listeners so literally sometimes, jeff I think that

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Speaker 1: I thought she had a good suggestion for yourself. But

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Speaker 1: I think we all agree that bad mouthing your co

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Speaker 1: workers is something you just don't do until date number three,

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Speaker 5: Have you honestly ever pulled out a picture of someone

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Speaker 1: Were, not like he look at this fool, So no surprise,

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Speaker 2: One and one didn't.

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Speaker 1: He was agreeing with her on some of the comments.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, I'm giving him the benefit.

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Speaker 4: Of the doubt.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out. But maybe she'll appear on our

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Speaker 2: Oh sure, she'd be perfect for that.

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Speaker 5: She sounds like looks don't matter to her, so she'd

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Speaker 1: Sounds like she's better for am I the jerk? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's somebody and a segment out there for everybody. We

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Speaker 1: can probably find your segment if you go on to

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Speaker 1: our podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: if you ever need help in your dating life, email

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Speaker 1: the show. We can call that person who's not calling you.

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Speaker 2: Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,