1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 2: She couldn't. 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man 4 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back. 5 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices. 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 2: We're good Mom's bad choices. 8 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 3: their bad choices and. 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 2: Sound out they were so bad. 11 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 3: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties. 12 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride. 13 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 3: I'm Nila and I America and it's good Mom's bitches. 15 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 3: Happy hump Day, Happy motherfucking hump Day. 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 2: How are you feeling. I'm in recovery. Yeah, I'm in recovery. 17 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 3: You look got married this weekend in Vegas, and in 18 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 3: typical good mom's bad choices fashion, it was good Mom's 19 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 3: gone wild, especially because most of us were mom there. 20 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 2: But you would have never known. 21 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: You would have thought we were childless women that have 22 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 3: never ever pushed a baby out of their pussy and 23 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 3: have just been on party mode for life. At one point, 24 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: I think one of the shippers asked which one of 25 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 3: us are moms, and it was every single one of 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 3: us but one, and I was like, wow. 27 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 28 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: And not only was a surprise e motment, but it 29 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: was a bachelor joint bachelor bachelorette party. So when I 30 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 3: say that we maxed out the bad choices to the 31 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 3: highest level we could, I realized, I don't think I've 32 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 3: ever been in Vegas with Orlando or Erica. 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 2: And then I realized, because we should never do that because. 34 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: We were forbidden from us anywhere called Sin City, three 35 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 3: bad bitches shouldn't go together. Okay, we acted nuts, we 36 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 3: acted completely nuts, and honestly, I wouldn't have it any 37 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 3: other way. 38 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: I am so grateful. I'm so grateful. 39 00:01:55,360 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: I'm hungover, I've lost my voice, but I'm overflowing with 40 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 3: gratitude and happiness and I pretty much have. I have 41 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: the fun, Like this is enough fun for all twenty 42 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 3: twenty six. Like literally, we went in with a fuck 43 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 3: with our blazing and we planned it in like four weeks. 44 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 3: We decided, like four weeks ago, we're gonna go to Vegas. 45 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 2: Fuck it. And you know, I don't know. 46 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 3: What we were thinking before, but Vegas is like should be 47 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 3: our middle name. Like it was so good and it's 48 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 3: just so crazy to think that I met Orlando podcasting. 49 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: I can't believe it. 50 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, I met you podcasting, and here we are, 51 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 3: and yeah, he had some friends come from the East Coast. 52 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: We had friends come from all over. 53 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 3: We had dick pops, we had strippers, like we got 54 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: married and. 55 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: Showed the dick pops or we just ate it, you 56 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 2: just ate it. Orlando was hungry. 57 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 3: Oh he made me take a bite first because I 58 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 3: I guess he felt gay. No homo, they were delicious. 59 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: Shout out to Zin for that was my request. 60 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: I don't even eat sweets. 61 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: I had two requests, dick pops and a cake that 62 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 3: said death to do as part because I saw it. 63 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 2: I'm Pinterest, but I did. 64 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 3: I had the perfect Sin City Pinterest bachelorette slash elopement. 65 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: And I am grateful and I may never do drugs 66 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 3: or drink alcohol again. I think that this was the 67 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 3: perfect Orlando Mela wedding that could have ever transpired in 68 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 3: the history of elopements. And let's just let's just run 69 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 3: it back from the beginning. So we touched down in 70 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 3: Vegas on Friday, and the theme for Friday was mob wives. 71 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 3: So you know we're some the mass bitches. Okay, we 72 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: don't costumes galore, we don't and you know, not just us. 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: We come from a long line of the mass bitches. 74 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 3: So all of our friends are with the shits. So 75 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: we all dressed up in mob wives. We went to 76 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 3: dinner at STK. The boys and the girls separated. I 77 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 3: made a mood board for this weekend because I didn't 78 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: I only had so much to give. I had a 79 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 3: lot to give, but the mood board and the costumes 80 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 3: were priority, very high on my list. These are what 81 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: you have to wear. 82 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: I even say it. 83 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: One in Orlando's Boys was like seventies. I was like, 84 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 3: I'll send you a link. Relax, Amazon has it. 85 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: So yeah, we did mob ves. So we're all in 86 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 2: like gaudy furs. 87 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,119 Speaker 3: I borrowed my mom's I'm still wearing on because I'm cold. 88 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: I refuse to get rid of this veil. But we 89 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: had like Cheetah, all the prints you could think of. 90 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: And first and first, I was walking through the airport 91 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 3: in my grandmother's thick ass fox fur. And then I 92 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: realized that probably everyone had to wear their first because 93 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 3: How the fuck were you traveling with it in your suitcase? Oh? 94 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 3: And I started off the trip in perfect Vegas hangover style, 95 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 3: missing my flight. Shout out to fucking Frontier, I fucking 96 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: hate you. But it all worked out because they have 97 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 3: twenty thousand flights to Vegas a day, so I just 98 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 3: got on the next flight like two hours later. 99 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: But dinner was amazing. And then from there we went 100 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 2: to was it called Rock? Was it rock Study? No? 101 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 3: No rock on on the record? In the record, we 102 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: went to on the Red because we were very specific 103 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 3: about not going to. 104 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: An EEDM club. We went back and forth about the 105 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 2: clubs for so long. I was over it. 106 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 3: This was a better choice. This was the best choice. 107 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: It wasn't five thousand dollars they had. It was like 108 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 3: the highlight of our twenties. They had like all the 109 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 3: two thousands music and I was like, how did they know? 110 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 3: And you know, a couple of times we had VIP, 111 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 3: I looked out into the crowd and I was like, 112 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 3: who the fuck are these nerds. There was also Electronic 113 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 3: Technological and. 114 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: There was a robot. 115 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a robot because there was an electronic convention 116 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: going on. 117 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 2: There's a dancing robot in the lobby. 118 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 3: I saw him actually in the casino after you hit 119 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 3: the escorting him out. But there was all two thousands music. 120 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: Even one time, you know when you're drunk and you 121 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 3: have like flashbacks. There was like some dancers like two 122 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: thousands das. 123 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: I saw them. 124 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 3: They had foot jackets on, they had alpha changes, and 125 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 3: there's men and women. I've never seen a group of 126 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 3: dancers at a club. 127 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: It was very They. 128 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: Kept coming, they kept coming out of the backstage more 129 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 3: and more. 130 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 2: I was like wow, it's like wow. 131 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 3: And then because shout out to Zin who really held 132 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: it down and the fucking elopement planning impromptu, because that's 133 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 3: not was not her job, but she did. And also Paris, 134 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 3: with the connects all over the globe, we had not 135 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: only a section, but we also had a back karaoke 136 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 3: room that had completely totally separate music that you couldn't 137 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 3: hear from outside. 138 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 2: So we'd like. 139 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 3: Party, you got to show me left and then go 140 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 3: to the karaoke room, do drugs, sing on the mic, 141 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 3: go and go back. 142 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, entire two like two setting party. 143 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,679 Speaker 3: At one time, we were really young and we had 144 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 3: like the bottle service girls come out with the bachelor 145 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: and bachelorette signs, which I haven't done that a long time. 146 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: I felt really cool and yeah, it was great. And 147 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 3: then of course we had to have an after party Orlando, 148 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: and I had a suite at the Cosmo that I decorated. 149 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 3: I brought like neon lights. I brought every vibe light 150 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 3: from my house because there's an end twelve candles, because 151 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 3: I was like, if we're gonna have a party, we're 152 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 3: gonna do it right. I hate bright lights. And so 153 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 3: everybody came back to the room. We took four thousand shots, 154 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 3: and at one point all the women were inside. We 155 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 3: had like a wrap around balcony with like ceiling to 156 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: floor windows, but all the women in the side acting 157 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: nets like my tits were out. 158 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: I mean I don't really wear close. Everybody knows that. 159 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 3: But I looked out the window and the guys were 160 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: all outside smoking and we were out inside. 161 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: On our knees on the floor. 162 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 3: I literally, you got I have a I have a 163 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: carpet burn, Oh my god, on my shoulder from getting 164 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 3: on my head and twerking so much over the weekend. 165 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 2: On my knees, and I just look over and you're 166 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 2: on your head like five. 167 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 3: Also during the bachelorette but at like the I guess, 168 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: I guess it was all a bachelrette party, but stripper. 169 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: I've never I think this is like the first time 170 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: in history that there's a wedding and then there's a 171 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 3: bachelorette party after the wedding. So like Mila got married 172 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 3: and then we had our own separate bachelor bacherette party. 173 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: So we had our male strippers come and I look 174 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 3: over and Meila is. 175 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: Like like she's doing some sort of gymnast shit. 176 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: She's like upside down, like being held, her legs are 177 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 3: up in the air. I'm like, only a fucking ninety 178 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: six pound woman could be doing this. It was like 179 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 3: what is it? Was like, uh, what is it called? 180 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: When they what's that movie when they when she jumps? 181 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: Oh not saved the last dand but my older one, right, 182 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 3: I was like wow. I think I was just like 183 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 3: such on a high from getting married. And honestly, on Friday, 184 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 3: everything was great. We drank, we slept. Oh somehow, No, 185 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: I didn't go to my I didn't go to bu 186 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: until five on Friday. 187 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 2: Well, we were in the room for a long time. 188 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, till like five in the morning, and then we 189 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 3: managed to wake up for brunch at the Wind, which 190 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: is how you did that because I already knew I 191 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 3: how to. They had giant lobster tails. I was fucking 192 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 3: up lobster tails with this big for two hundred dollars. 193 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 3: We had bottomless mimosas and lobster tails and all types 194 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 3: of shit that I couldn't eat. 195 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 2: But it was great. 196 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 3: And then I realized, oh my god, bitch, you're getting married. 197 00:08:55,000 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 3: And I started getting so incredibly overwhelmed and nervous. I 198 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 3: went to maca Buy myself to get my makeup done, 199 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 3: and I was overthing like trying to meditate, Like the 200 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:07,719 Speaker 3: bitch was like doing my makeup and I was like, 201 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 3: just don't mind me. 202 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 2: I'm meditating. I'm getting married. All my friends are calling me. 203 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm just just trying to get into 204 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 3: my head. 205 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 2: And yeah. We got back in the room. 206 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: I told Orlando specifically, do not get too fucked up 207 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: before the wedding. 208 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 2: What does he do get too fucked up? I called him. 209 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 3: He's like, I'm drunk. I was like, you're supposed to 210 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 3: be here in two hours. Do not be fucked up. 211 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 3: He comes back in the room. 212 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm. 213 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 3: Okay, but I'm fucked up, but I'm okay. I was like, 214 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 3: put this fucking outfit on and shut the fuck up. 215 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 3: And then we went over. We Uh, most of his 216 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 3: friends didn't know we're getting eloped. 217 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: So knew was didn't anyone know. 218 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 3: I'm like a couple of my friends because I know 219 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 3: what I mean, like his friends and none of his 220 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 3: friends now none of his friends. So we gave him 221 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 3: the address. They showed up at the chapel. They're texting 222 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 3: him like, are you getting married? Motherfucker? And I mean 223 00:09:55,120 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: on so Saturday, the theme was wait. Orlando not only 224 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 3: got drunk when I told him not to, but he 225 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: also went ziplining. 226 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:03,599 Speaker 2: You went ziplining. 227 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 3: He went ziplining through Old Las Vegas. 228 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: When the fuck did you go zipline? 229 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 3: After brunch he got drunk, went ziplining, got more drunk 230 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 3: because apparently the shots are cheaper and old Las Vegas. 231 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: You drove off the strip to old Las Vegas. 232 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 3: Ubered off the strip to old Las Vegas because Chucky 233 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 3: shout out to Chucky. Shout out to Greg and Chucky 234 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 3: and Kenny, who couldn't have complimented our crazy ass try better. 235 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 2: They're all nuts just like us. 236 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 3: And so even on Friday, halfway through the club, I 237 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 3: looked over it and Greg has his whole shirt open. 238 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, He's like, you don't know me, 239 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: I'm a sex symbol. I was like, me too, sweating 240 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 3: with his fucking shirt open. So yeah, Chucky's great idea 241 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 3: was for them to go ziplining drunk, all four of 242 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: them in like the Superman style. So Lend comes back 243 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 3: drunk after that with videos, and then me and him 244 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 3: get dressed. We go to the chapel and everybody was surprised. 245 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 3: I was extremely nervous but also happy, like, what a 246 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: blessing to be able to marry somebody where I want 247 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 3: to have a bachelor bachelorette joint party and it's seamless 248 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: and nobody cares. So it was really fine. The ceremony 249 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 3: was beautiful. I'm sure the guy who married us was 250 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 3: over us. It was supposed to be like a thirty 251 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 3: minute situation. Wait, when Orlando was saying, he's like, okay, 252 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 3: Jamila walks down the aisle and she dances down the 253 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 3: aisle and then they're like He's like Orlando, Jamila, now 254 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 3: share your love story. And then Orlando's so fucking nervous 255 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 3: and I apparently drunk, I had no idea, and he's like, well, uh, 256 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 3: since I saw Fila, I knew that she was my 257 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 3: perfect love, and I just I think he was so 258 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 3: nervous it was adorable. Then they went shut up. 259 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: But then he was talking for so long. 260 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 3: The moment he's like had him pause, he was like, okay, 261 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 3: and now we shall exchange the rings. He was like, 262 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 3: wait for a pause to interrupt him to like be like, Okay, 263 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 3: shut up, nigga, we got it. We have forty two 264 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 3: other weddings happening after this. Literally it was eight thirty 265 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: at night. The fact that or like nobody knows. I 266 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 3: don't know if anyone knows what Orlando gets under the influence. 267 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 3: And he won't shut the fuck up. He's gonna be 268 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 3: the kindest under the influenced person you've ever met. He's 269 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 3: gonna tell you all the greatest things, but he literally 270 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 3: will not shut up. And he'll also talk in a 271 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 3: high whisper. I love you so much, You're so beautiful. 272 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: It's the best thing I've ever seen. 273 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: But the guy I looked at it. I looked over 274 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 3: at him and I was getting nervous. I was like, 275 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 3: don't worry, don't worry. Who cares if Orlando's talking too much? 276 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 2: It's your day. 277 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: It was like, Babe, Babe, I think, babe, babe, I 278 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 3: think it's his cterin. 279 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 2: Babe. He's like, hey, the podcast. 280 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: And then we saw each other and then I love 281 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 3: you so much, and then I just knew it. And 282 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 3: and then literally by the end of it, the nigga 283 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 3: was like, I put you can now pronounce you made 284 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 3: a husband and wife. And then he walked out of 285 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 3: the door. He was at the other side of the 286 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: chapel by the time he said that. I didn't I 287 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 3: don't even know how he got from here to hear. 288 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 3: But I looked away and he was at the door. 289 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 3: I was like, uh, kiss the bride, and he was out. 290 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 3: And then we had a last minute photographer. We took 291 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 3: our tits out. Shout out to Orlando's Christian cousin who 292 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 3: came and probably was mortified because my friends are absolutely insane. 293 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 3: We're like, everybody, take your tits out for the wedding pictures. 294 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 3: Why nobody knows, but we had to. 295 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was important. 296 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 3: And then of course we drove back to the casino, 297 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: I mean too the room. I made everybody come upstairs 298 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 3: to take shots, and then I kicked them out, and then. 299 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 2: Greg was up there. 300 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 3: He was like, we gotta go, Come on, guys. He 301 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 3: was so stressed that he was going to see like 302 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 3: some dick or something. He was like, we gotta go, 303 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 3: we gotta go take the shot. 304 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: Hurry up. I'm like, don't worry, Rico has his clothes on. 305 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: Still shut up. 306 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 3: And then they wouldn't leave and shout out to Rico, 307 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 3: who was our resident. I'm so grateful to have a 308 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 3: resident stripper. I think we need to put him on payroll. 309 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 3: I don't think we have enough money, but I'm gonna 310 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 3: ask my friends to put in. I was so high 311 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 3: and like on a high from the wedding and just 312 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 3: happy and that I don't know what came over me. 313 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: I was like, this is my wedding and this is 314 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 3: my bachelor. I really got to bring the heat. I'm like, 315 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 3: I'm the wild bitch of the crew. So I gave 316 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 3: a speech. I wish someone got it on camera, but 317 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 3: it was like, ladies, just so you know Rico. We 318 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: know him very well. So you get as wild and 319 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 3: as crazy as you want, because he's a safe, divine, 320 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 3: masculine stripper and he just got baptized recently. He's a Christian, y'all. 321 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: With a nice dick. 322 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 3: And I'm like, and what's your name? I don't know him, 323 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: but if he came with him, then he's fine. 324 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 2: He's fine. Also, there's six of us. 325 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 3: We could beat them up. And I was like, so 326 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 3: this is about pleasure, this is about wild freedom, and 327 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 3: this is about debauchery. Rock out with your balls out, bitches, 328 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 3: turn on the music. And then we did, and then 329 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 3: we did, and then I was like, you guys, don't 330 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 3: have about five more minutes with this outfit on. And 331 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: eventually three of my friends helped me push out the fuck, 332 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 3: push off the corset, and then I was the stripper. 333 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 3: What I realized is that women want to be the 334 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: stripper so bad that the niggas don't really have to 335 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 3: do much because there's like seven deep pictures with me 336 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 3: on my knees and them sitting and I was like, 337 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 3: why I paid them? Why am I doing the work? 338 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 3: But we gotta pop it. I'm gonna say there's probably 339 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 3: like eight of us, nine of us and we milked. 340 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: We go. 341 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 3: To the Max and it was actually the best, greatest 342 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 3: time ever. And at one point I like put my face. 343 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 3: My friend called me like, is I'm my own speakerphone. 344 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 3: I'm like I'm like no. She's like, I have a 345 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 3: video of you putting your face in his dick and 346 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 3: Eskimo kissing it. 347 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: I was like, what's wrong with me? 348 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 3: And then I was wearing nothing but my just married panties. 349 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 2: And then I had a. 350 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 3: Great idea that we should go crash the guy's party 351 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 3: where the bitches were. They had like six strippers and 352 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't need clothes. I'm gonna wear 353 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 3: my fur coat and my panties and all my friends. 354 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 2: He said, yes, there's. 355 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: No one protested that I should walk through the law. 356 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 3: I was like, I've always wanted to do this. I 357 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 3: just want to surprise my man, but nothing underneath and 358 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 3: a coat walking through the Vegas casino on my wedding 359 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 3: deathan On. 360 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 2: And so I did. 361 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 3: And then I came to his room with all his 362 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 3: friends with only my panties and my first and my 363 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 3: stripper heels that I also got married in, because why 364 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 3: would I get married in Vegas without wearing shipper heels, 365 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 3: and they busted in the room like I was the 366 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 3: fucking entertainment Like I busted out of the care well. 367 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 3: We walked in, We're like and then we walked in, 368 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 3: We're like, where are the strippers? 369 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 2: What's going on here? The fucking strippers were hiding in 370 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 2: the room. 371 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 3: They're like they're having an intermission. I was like an intermission. 372 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 3: Orlando was like, come here, please, he said, come over, 373 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 3: beer baby sitting on me. I was like, nigga, where 374 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 3: the bitch is at? He's like, no, just sit here. 375 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 3: I was like, are you scared? Where are the at? 376 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: I was like, I hired then let me go, let 377 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 3: me go get them together. He's like, don't like Greg 378 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 3: is getting them together? Greg is is a shipper manager. 379 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: I was like, does he know who I am? 380 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 3: But then so then I see Aaron go back in 381 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 3: there for a while, and I'm like, where's Aaron? 382 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 2: And then I see her come out and all the strippers. 383 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 3: Are following her out of the room because she, I 384 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 3: think had to go have a pep talk with them 385 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: and coerced them, get them a little more drunk and whatever. 386 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: I know, but I went in there and I'm like, 387 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 3: Aaron looks like she's having a deep conversation, like what's 388 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 3: your sign? 389 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 2: No, that's that's what Aaron said. A said. 390 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 3: They keep telling me all their traumas and what they're 391 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 3: working through. I'm like, nobody's talking of that ship right now. 392 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 3: Come to there the retreat for that, we don't. This 393 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 3: is not the fucking retreat. This is a bachelor party. 394 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: Eventually they came out, and when they came out, I 395 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 2: was like, oh, okay. And then and then Kenny goes, 396 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: you actually know it's Jake. Jake was like, yeah, it's 397 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: not good. He's like, there's one. There's like the star 398 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: and she's right. 399 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 3: There now, Jake saying it's not good. He's like, there's 400 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 3: a star, there's the star. She's the one. He was 401 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 3: the man that I looked over and I was like, okay, 402 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 3: I'm like she's cute. So I like had I like 403 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 3: had high hopes and then no, no. At one point 404 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 3: they were dancing on me and I was like, hey, 405 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: you should dance on Checky, like go dance over there, 406 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 3: like the boys need more entertainment. I'm like, I know, 407 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 3: I came in blazing with my code and my panties. 408 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 3: But like and then Orlando's trying to make me say 409 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: on his lap. I was like, Orlando, get your fucking dance. 410 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 2: He's like, no, just storry. 411 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 3: I was like, it's your bachelor. I shouldn't have came with 412 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 3: this outfit, but just go. I was trying to push 413 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 3: the bitches off on him, and he was trying to 414 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 3: push me on him, and I was like, this is 415 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 3: fucking terrible. But you know, they they did what they 416 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:21,719 Speaker 3: they are prostitutes. 417 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 2: They were not strippers. 418 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 3: They were not shippers. They are prostitutes. But you know, 419 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 3: I mean teaching their playlist also was fucking horrible, horrible music. 420 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,919 Speaker 3: I was like, what if this is not stripper music. 421 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 3: I feel like at one point we made our shippers 422 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 3: change the music too. Oh now you said his name. 423 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 3: I can't say the story. Who about our stripper discovery? 424 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 2: Just bleep it out. Orlando put it out. 425 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 3: So during our strip show, you know we're we know 426 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,199 Speaker 3: Rico very well because we hire him for everything that 427 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 3: calls for a stripper, live shows, divorce parties, birthday parties, 428 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 3: bachelor parties. 429 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 2: I really shout out to. 430 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 3: Him, like for even being in Vegas the weekend. I 431 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 3: need him be in Vegas. God is so good, and 432 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 3: what was I gonna say? He he brought his a 433 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 3: Conrad because we needed more than one penis because there's 434 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 3: eight of us, and he was I but I was 435 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 3: just hoping he would make it up in his dancing 436 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 3: and his you know, other areas and somewhere to the night. 437 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 3: First of all, First of all, I'm such a fucking cancer. 438 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 3: While they're like dancing on me, I was like, you're 439 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 3: such a divine masculine man. You're so handsome, You're so blessed. 440 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 3: Look at your body. I'm like, why am I pouring 441 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 3: into that? It's being really nice to him, and then 442 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 3: like pulled, I like opened up his shorts. I had 443 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 3: like a two second delay, and I saw a dildo 444 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 3: and I was like, I. 445 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 2: Looked at him. I looked at it, and I looked 446 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 2: at him and I closed it back and I was like. 447 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 3: And then like body rolled back, like we comes behind me. 448 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: I was like, none of that. What the fuck is that? 449 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 3: We get in the elevator to go to the bachelor party, 450 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 3: and Ashley's like Erica. 451 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 2: That stripper had a bandage on his dick, and I 452 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 2: was like a bandage. I almost made an announcement and 453 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: she was like, did you touch it? I hope he 454 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 2: didn't touch it. And I was like, she's so weird. 455 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck? 456 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 3: What isn't that? 457 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 2: What the fucking go? I don't even know sexual transmitted 458 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: disease cut I. 459 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 3: She was like that. I was like, girl, you don't 460 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 3: put a bandage on Herpi's bitch, what are you talking about? 461 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 2: I was like, no, his dick was fake. 462 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 3: But I was going to tell all the girls like 463 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 3: whisper in their ear, but I knew they'd be like 464 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 3: what I wish. 465 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 2: I would have told me, I would have went an investigated. 466 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,239 Speaker 3: I didn't want to embarrass him, and even when I 467 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 3: saw it, I tried to like dance on him for 468 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 3: a little bit and not make him feel bad because 469 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: I care. But then I was like why. So I 470 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 3: ended up complaining to the boss Rico, But I wonder 471 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 3: if you told him? 472 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 2: Of course he did. 473 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I told him he needs to talk to him, 474 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 3: and he said he Well. Rico shared with me there's 475 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 3: a male stripper chick trick called tying it off, and 476 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 3: they get hard and then they tie the bottom of 477 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 3: their dick with a cock ring and got gauze so 478 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,120 Speaker 3: that it will stay hard. 479 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 2: The whole the ants experience. 480 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 3: He's like, I tried it once and half my dick 481 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: had button and half and didn't. I got so scared. 482 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 3: I never did that shit again. I said, Oh, it's 483 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 3: his own dick that they do that, right, not the dildo. Yeah, 484 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 3: And I said, no, Rico, that one had a fake 485 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 3: dick in there. 486 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 2: He was like no. 487 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 3: I was like, yes, and you needn't talk to him 488 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 3: about it. I should ask for a discount. But because 489 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 3: my boy, he was like no way. I was like, yes, way. 490 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 3: The fact that I'm complaining to Rico about his friend 491 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 3: in front of Orlando, He's probably like, I don't know 492 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 3: what to say. I was like, so that other dick. No, 493 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 3: I really pray that all of my home girls and 494 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 3: my tribe will find a husband that you can be 495 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 3: one hundred percent yourself. Put a week on it so 496 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 3: that all my friends were like whispering about the bachelor party. 497 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, babe, you don't got a whisper. 498 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 3: You could say my Bachelor's of the week is that 499 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 3: I asked him ocus the stripper's dick. 500 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 2: Oh he's so cute. 501 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:58,199 Speaker 3: So last week's episode, we talked about bachelor bachelorette etiquette right, 502 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 3: and we're like, how like it's not standard or people 503 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,719 Speaker 3: said it's not standard. So where's your stance now now 504 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 3: that you are a full wife that has experienced her 505 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 3: first and last bachelorette. What are your feelings around around 506 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 3: that about having a joint no, about indulging in the bacheloretteess. 507 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 3: Oh oh, because before we were like we thought it 508 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 3: was standard, but then we were like, everyone was like, 509 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 3: that's not standard that you like either, because you said you. 510 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 2: Had to be It takes a lot. I mean it 511 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 2: takes a lot. What did I say, drugs? It takes 512 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 2: a lot for me. 513 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 3: I mean I was feeling really sexy, but I obviously 514 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 3: you know, I feel like I don't let me not 515 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 3: speak for all strippers or bachelor party. I feel like 516 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: it's always on the table. And I had my share 517 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 3: of fun, but I did not have sex, and I 518 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 3: would have been I would have been scot scared or 519 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 3: Lenha knows them a pussy in some ways, like I'll 520 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 3: go so far like okay, I'm just kidding, but I 521 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 3: think it still stands. I don't think you're supposed to 522 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 3: have sex, even though I know I've disappeared into the 523 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 3: room for ten minutes and everybody was wondering. First of all, 524 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 3: me and my friend took Rico into the room for 525 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 3: like ten minutes. Fucking five minutes in They're like, I'm like, 526 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 3: this bitch is stupid. I'm like, what the fuck do 527 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 3: you want? They opened the door and they're all outside 528 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 3: the door like we opened it was like one person, 529 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 3: and then we open the rest of the doors, all 530 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 3: of them. I'm like, do you guys get the memo? 531 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 3: We weren't doing anything're and for real, for real, But 532 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 3: I was like, if I was, you bitches would have 533 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 3: ruined it. But no, I still don't think. I still 534 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 3: don't think you supposed to have sex now. Everything around 535 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 3: that is a different story. Everything other than sex consider 536 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 3: and if you don't think about it, bring drugs andthing reconsider. 537 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 3: The truth is I was feeling I was feeling myself 538 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 3: so much, and also I don't know something about having 539 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 3: the ceremony. I feel like there was like an immediate 540 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: rootedness safety. 541 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, even though we've been together, I already knew what 542 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 2: was happening. 543 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 3: I was like, huh, it's official. It's like really some 544 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 3: in so so are you. 545 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,640 Speaker 2: Jamila mapp Roy or Jamila Roy. 546 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna go with Jamila mapp Roy even 547 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 3: because I'm a published author. 548 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 2: His home boy asked me that. I was like, I'm 549 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 2: a published. 550 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 3: Author, chucky, so it's going to be a hyphen tracker 551 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 3: is like, oh, okay, bitch, I'm famous. I'm famous. I'm 552 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 3: famous in California, New York, in Atlanta and Atlanta. Yeah, 553 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 3: but I don't think I had this quote on from 554 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 3: this weekend, but now I'm hot. I know I didn't match, 555 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 3: but this is all I had. Yeah, but I think 556 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 3: I have to fill out some paperwork there. Who knows 557 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 3: how long it's gonna take me to do that. But yeah, 558 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 3: I think I'm going to hyphenate. I just don't believe 559 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 3: in women giving up their identities. But also, fuck all 560 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 3: these names, they're all slave names. I want to just 561 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 3: be like X. But I'm a published author, so I 562 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 3: can't do that. But are you gonna hyphenate? Are you 563 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 3: gonna keep it? I probably keep my last name hyphen Well, 564 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 3: sha Ken doesn't have a last name because he changed 565 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 3: his name to Jishika. Like legally no, okay, but but 566 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 3: I've asked him, So, what happens when we get married, 567 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 3: Like you have a last name? He's like, well, cross 568 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,360 Speaker 3: that bridge when it happens, I'm like, okay, nigga, Well, 569 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 3: I guess it's Erica Dickerson because Erica Dickerson. Just Erica, 570 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 3: because did he did? He get rid of it for 571 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 3: the same reason I hate black people last names too. 572 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 2: I think part of that. 573 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but also yeah, sorry, but also Susan Bratton told 574 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 3: Orlando and I that the last name roy derives from Royal, 575 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 3: so maybe maybe I'll just change it to Royal the Royals. 576 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 2: Orlando to me Royal. 577 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 3: Well, if you write another book, then it can just 578 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 3: you could always really written one, so if you wanted to, 579 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 3: I know, but I feel like that you have to 580 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 3: like have a like It's like Nancy Drew. You gotta 581 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 3: guess it would be hard at the library, fine, you. 582 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 2: Know the library. 583 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 3: I also wish I gave Luna my last name. Honestly, 584 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 3: I wish the kids took women's last names. I feel 585 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 3: like it should. We should go back into the matriarchy. 586 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 3: Orlando don't want to be Orlando map He said, yes, 587 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 3: So there we go, and then where are we in 588 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 3: our insane tales of debauchery. Oh oh wait, So I 589 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 3: know last week I said that no three sums foursomes. 590 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 2: So I had a great idea. 591 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 3: I was trying to recruit Reco back to our room 592 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 3: after the parties and my other homegirl, and I was like, 593 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 3: if you and Rico come, then I can convince Orlando 594 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 3: that it's cool and then we can just all have 595 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 3: after parties. So I was like, Reco come back with 596 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 3: me to the room. Later, I see him pack up 597 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 3: his shit and he's getting the elevator with us. 598 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, he's coming with us, Like you should stay. 599 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 3: I was like, you should say you want to go 600 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 3: see the girls strip, you should say you should stay 601 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 3: with me. 602 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 2: I thought. 603 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 3: I was really I'm telling you, I was really feeling 604 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 3: myself between the shoes and the coat. 605 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: Pip mac Daddy Bride. 606 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 3: I was literally like, just stay after just you know, 607 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 3: it's gonna be fun. And he was like okay, wait. 608 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 3: And then even at the bachelor party, I was like 609 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 3: touching his touching his penis. 610 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm sorry, can I do that? 611 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 2: He was like yeah. 612 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 3: I was like, oh yeah, I'm a nigga. I was like, 613 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 3: this did it feel like to be a nigga. He 614 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 3: was laughing so hard at one point, I feel like 615 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 3: all like sixteen of our hands were on, Like his penis. 616 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 2: Just checking out the merchandise. Should I take this out? 617 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 2: Where my friends went their business on the internet? It's 618 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 2: just me? 619 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 3: And then uh so, I was really feeling like a nigga. 620 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 3: And then we went to his party and he disappeared. 621 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 3: He left, He. 622 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 2: Left me, he did. 623 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 3: I was like, is this what niggas feel like when 624 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 3: the girls play them? 625 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 2: He literally snuck out like a thief in the night. 626 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: He did. 627 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 2: I was scaring him. I was doing too much. 628 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 3: And then I also I also asked about the Diddy 629 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 3: case you did because he was one of the he's 630 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 3: one of the he's one of the Literally after he 631 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 3: was done stripping everything, was was it before? 632 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: After? It was after? Yeah? 633 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: I was after was right, He's like packing up his suitcase, like, so, yeah, 634 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 3: I watched I saw you metry and I saw you, 635 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 3: So what's up with Diddy? 636 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 2: So tell me more? 637 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 3: We're friends, so come on, the show is over. Maybe 638 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 3: I shouldn't asked about that right before listening to him 639 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 3: to come to my room. 640 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: They were still besties. He came the next day. 641 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 3: To get the rest of his money, and then we oh, 642 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 3: and then one of my friends Okay, this is this 643 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 3: is a bad choice. This is not even this is 644 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: a bad choice of the week. 645 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 4: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom. 646 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 1: So good. 647 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 3: Live. So as Orlando's bachelor party ended, we went back 648 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 3: to my room because I had better lighting, and they 649 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 3: were trying to recruit some of the girls to come 650 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 3: back to the room and I was like, to be honest, 651 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 3: these bitches are not up to par enough. But my 652 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 3: friend really wanted this one girl to come back, and 653 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 3: I was like, that's fine, whatever, just let's go. 654 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 2: Hat Like within. 655 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 3: Thirty minutes, the bitch who's she's twenty nine, but she 656 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 3: was acting fucking eighteen. She was like, yeah, because I 657 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 3: have I have personality. I'm borderline personality disorder and schizophrenic 658 00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 3: and sometimes like I self me. 659 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 2: And I was like, Aaron, this is get get her out. 660 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 2: And she's been drinking it. 661 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 3: And she also confessed that she she also oh my god, 662 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 3: she follows me on Instagram. 663 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: She also confessed that. 664 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 3: She she stole from one of the other girls, the 665 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 3: girls that she was with. 666 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 2: Yes, like like that night. 667 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 3: Yes, a vape. Okay, I know this is not okay, 668 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 3: this is not all strippers, but I'm well versed in strippers, 669 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 3: and I want to tell everybody that you don't recruit 670 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 3: strippers back to your house at any point. In fact, 671 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 3: you don't even like under the influence, don't bring anyone 672 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 3: back to your house, because I've done this a lot 673 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 3: of times in Atlanta. And then I realized bitches are 674 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,239 Speaker 3: crazy and they're not treated, and it's not about them 675 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 3: being crazy, it's about them not being treated and then 676 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 3: treating with alcohol and drugs and so. 677 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 2: It's treated like with like medication. 678 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 3: No, it's like it's like self medication, like you have 679 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 3: you know, you're off your med so you do other 680 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 3: things and it just gets crazy. And a lot of 681 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 3: times strippers come with a lot of trauma. 682 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 2: Because it's a hard job. 683 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 3: Me, Aaron, Ashley and Orlando went in the hallway around 684 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what time because the time wasn't the 685 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 3: thing all weekend and we're like, this bitch has to go. 686 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 3: She's like, she told me this. I was like, she 687 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 3: told me this, She told me she talked about like 688 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 3: the fucking story. And then I like, through my bouquet 689 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 3: and she like jove to get it. 690 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I was gonna asked. 691 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 3: I reasked me that this morning did did did me 692 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 3: let throw the bouquet? We did in the hotel room 693 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 3: with three girls on a stripper and she jove like 694 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 3: for her life to get it too, so she could 695 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 3: tell us that she was going to marry her nigga 696 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 3: in jail. He gets out on one year. I said, 697 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,479 Speaker 3: get this bitch out of here. So the bad choice 698 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 3: is never like without vetting, and never bring home a 699 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 3: stripper ever to your house or your. 700 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 2: Hotel because they will not get out. 701 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 3: But then I told what the one who brought her 702 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 3: up to take her down, and then she disappeared. Anyway, 703 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 3: we had a fourth layer of our party. This party 704 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 3: went until ten am, so me, Ashley, Nisha and Orlando, 705 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 3: the party leaders of our crew, went out with a bang. 706 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 2: We were drinking and we were taking shots. We were fucking. 707 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 3: Ashley convinced me to shake up down Perryon shout out 708 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 3: to May it's the only reason I had it and 709 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:13,959 Speaker 3: put it all over my body. 710 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 2: So she is such a champagnepitch. 711 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 3: I was like it was the light the sun about. 712 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 3: She was like shake it up and let it go, 713 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 3: and then she says, I'll do it, spread it all 714 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 3: over me. It was sticky on the floor. But Nisia 715 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 3: was like, I'm the best DJ in the world. I'm 716 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 3: gonna be in a Bee's next year. 717 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: I'm a billionaire. 718 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 3: Were doing manifestations, talk about how cool we are. I'm naked, 719 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 3: Orlando's naked. We're just being absolutely insane. And it was 720 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 3: exactly what I would want it the most insane, wild, free, bacheristic. 721 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 3: I just made that up like Cam Newton weekend I've 722 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 3: ever had, and I wouldn't. 723 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 2: Want it any other way. It was beautiful. It was 724 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 2: really good. 725 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 3: I was I was looking back at the videos and 726 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 3: I was getting emotional. It was just like it was 727 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 3: just such. It was like pure love. It was pure love, 728 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 3: pure joy. It was genuine. Everyone's so genuine and like 729 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 3: just looking out for one another too. Yeah, just like 730 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 3: we've cultivated such a beautiful tribe, and the tribe is expanding, 731 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 3: and to see it expand in real time like that, 732 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 3: because we've never spent time with Orlando's friends and like 733 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 3: his friends like I don't know, like I'm so happy 734 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 3: that I met his friends. 735 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 2: It says so much. It explains Orlando so much more. 736 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 3: To me, and just like like the foundation of who 737 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 3: he is and how solid he is because his friends 738 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 3: are solid, you know. 739 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 740 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 3: They were so sweet, they were like giving speeches, they were. 741 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 2: So that too. 742 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 3: Like that's really what touched me so much was was 743 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 3: them sharing so vulnerably, like their love for Orlando, their 744 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 3: excitement for this experience and your wedding and just blessing 745 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 3: you guys. So I'm just it was it was great. 746 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 3: Everybody was like it was just it meshed so well. 747 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 3: And it's true we don't really get spend that much 748 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 3: time with them, and I'm like, I want them to 749 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 3: know who you're out here with. I wanted to know 750 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 3: that you're okay. I mean, even though that's been fucking 751 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 3: four years, but it's just like, and thank you for 752 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 3: choosing me as your witness, you guys. I didn't think 753 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 3: get my moment to fully cry in that moment because 754 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 3: I was being rushed. 755 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 2: I was like, your moment. 756 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 3: Had sign the paper, we have to go, Okay. Somebody 757 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 3: told me, like make sure ever DAEs has a good handwriting. 758 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, I should. I would have practiced more, 759 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 3: I told me and it's just such random advice. I 760 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 3: didn't even think about it. Someone told us something like 761 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 3: when we got there. When we got there, we had 762 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 3: to go like pay for the license and do the 763 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 3: legal thing. So someone told me that. I was like, 764 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 3: that is the most random shit ever. But you're welcome. 765 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 3: Who else would it be beautiful? That's what I will say. 766 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 3: One thing about getting married and like really celebrating love 767 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 3: in this way, it really shows you who your friends are, 768 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 3: Like everybody who was supposed to be there was there. 769 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: Show. 770 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 3: It really shows you who shows up to support you. 771 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: And like the smallest littlest things, you know, like tying 772 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 3: the corset, like just all the small. 773 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 2: Things like this fucking that I wanted. 774 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 3: I don't even fucking eat cake, Like just the smallest 775 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 3: tiniest things helping me Poppy shout out to Poppy florals, 776 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 3: like making me flowers that I wanted for my Pinterest board. 777 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 3: And like I said, it was last minute, so like 778 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 3: it really really I did feel filled with love, not 779 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 3: only from like Orlando, but from his friends. They were 780 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 3: like whispering in my ear, crying, I love you so 781 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 3: much for my brother. 782 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 2: You're perfect for him. 783 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 3: It was just so sweet you know, like there was 784 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:30,760 Speaker 3: no shortage of vulnerability, there's no shortage of like community, 785 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 3: like just communicating and sharing and love and pouring into 786 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 3: one another. And like, yes, there was a lot of 787 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 3: extra curricular activities, but it was really really really just 788 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 3: like based in love and like just an abundance and 789 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 3: overflow of it. 790 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was real. It's real, real love, real love. 791 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 3: And then in the last day, all my friends left 792 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 3: and I told Orlando, no one's coming to speak to me. 793 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 3: I hope they said bye. Chucky and Greg were like 794 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 3: dead on our couches, And then I got up for 795 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 3: a second one because Orlando had made a dinner reservation 796 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 3: and I was like, we still got nineteen forty two bitches. 797 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: Who wants to take a shot? You're like round two. 798 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 3: Ron three, And I was like, are you kidding me? 799 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 3: And now we're gonna rest. I was like, nigga, like 800 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 3: get the sweet for twelve more hours. It's most are rent. 801 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 3: We better do this shit hard. And then when of 802 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,760 Speaker 3: our friends Aaron was still there, we all went to dinner. 803 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 3: We turned up. We stayed up again until a hundred hours. 804 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 3: We got freaky, act, we acted crazy. We did the 805 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 3: most ridiculous. We're the most ridiculous adults. I was like, 806 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 3: this is the new adults. This is the new adults. 807 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 3: This is the millennials, this is the millennial. Millennials are 808 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 3: I think cooler than the generation before. 809 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 2: For sure. They're the generation before is not doing this 810 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 2: type of shit. Very limited. I think someone said this 811 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:43,479 Speaker 2: during the party. 812 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 3: I remember saying something, these fucking kids don't know how 813 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 3: to fucking part out. I remember someone saying, They're like, 814 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 3: these fucking kids, they don't know how to party, they 815 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,600 Speaker 3: don't how they have sex late. They were saying all 816 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 3: they were like disrespecting them in the middle of our party. 817 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, the sex late, you don't leave 818 00:35:59,239 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 3: the house. 819 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:00,919 Speaker 2: There's say all types of shit. 820 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're having babies that responsible ages. At 821 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 3: one point I was like top. I was with my 822 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 3: panties doing cartwheels because the sweet was big, doing cartwheels 823 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 3: through the hallways, like look how big it is, guys. 824 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 3: I was around the balcony doing cartwheels and skipping back 825 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 3: and forth, and it was like thirty degrees. I was like, 826 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 3: I feel great. I don't feel anything like bitch, you're 827 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 3: fucked up. But I never like it was really hungover. 828 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 3: I mean today, yesterday, yesterday, getting through the airport and 829 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 3: packing was deadly, Like it was really hard. 830 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 2: I can't imagine. 831 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 3: My suitcase broke going up the stairs, and all I 832 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 3: could do was just laugh. There was not a single 833 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 3: ounce of water or juice at my house when I 834 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 3: got there. I Orlando. I told Orlando in the middle 835 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 3: of the night. He was like, are you hot? I'm 836 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 3: hot and I'm thirsty, and he came back here. It 837 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 3: felt like this much water in a water bottle. This 838 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 3: morning he told me, he was like, I ate some 839 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 3: spoonfuls of out ful sauce because I was so. 840 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 2: Not apple sauce. I just needed liquid. Yes, I was 841 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 2: dying at five thirty in the morning. I've been there. 842 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 3: That's how I felt the first night in Vegas. That 843 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,240 Speaker 3: first night, mean Astley went back and we're literally sharing 844 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,360 Speaker 3: four inches of warm one water bottle. 845 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:22,919 Speaker 2: I didn't offer us water at all, bitch at one point. 846 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 3: Then I realized the next night because we had drink 847 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 3: all that water again, all I had was tonic water, 848 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 3: which I drank a whole bottle of tonic water because. 849 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 2: I'm so fucking thirsty. I was like, Ashley Vegas. 850 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,280 Speaker 3: You drank all the water that was probably seventeen dollars 851 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,839 Speaker 3: in my mini bar. I'm about to call you right now, 852 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 3: She's like, and then she she took them. I was like, 853 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 3: why would you take my fucking mini bar water because 854 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 3: we didn't have any in our room, Bitch. That's why 855 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 3: I just told you we were dying. That's what the 856 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,919 Speaker 3: problem is. I'm going to drink so much water this month. 857 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,320 Speaker 3: It makes no fucking sense. I am probably going to 858 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 3: be recovering for a long time. I didn't we didn't 859 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 3: have the strength even bring our luggage upstairs. We left 860 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 3: it in the foyer of our apartment building because I 861 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:06,839 Speaker 3: can't wow. This weekend, Nisha said, it was like a 862 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 3: mix of wilfle Wall Street Hangover and we're still trying 863 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 3: to figure out the wedding movie because there's no wedding. 864 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 2: Aspects but wedding crash. 865 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 4: No. 866 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 2: But it was. It was epic. I couldn't ask for 867 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 2: a better Maids. Yeah. 868 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 3: It was really good. It was really really good, and 869 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,800 Speaker 3: I'm just so grateful. I'm so grateful all came together 870 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 3: great and I was happy, and my Huchi outfit worked 871 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 3: out and just that I had the freedom to be 872 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 3: as nuts as I want to be. And my crazy 873 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:43,280 Speaker 3: psycho husband says, yeah, yeah, yeah, I would look. 874 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 2: At his weird I haven't really seen him seen it 875 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 2: on him. Yeah, Oh my god. 876 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 1: I know. 877 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 3: There's a couple of times during my debauchery, we're having 878 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 3: sex and I was like, oh my god, you're you're 879 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 3: you're married. I know because I've been wearing one. He 880 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 3: hasn't been wearing one. So pretty interesting stuff. 881 00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 2: Well, I just want to say. 882 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 3: You can ratulations bestie, friend, friends, family like from It's 883 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 3: just so crazy, the evolution of watching your journey and 884 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 3: love and dating and being able to be witness of 885 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 3: it and see you move through it, sometimes failing, but 886 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 3: all the time, like just constantly showing up as yourself 887 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,759 Speaker 3: until you found the person that was going to love 888 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 3: you for exactly who you are. And so it's been 889 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 3: such a beautiful experience. You're able to witness your love 890 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,279 Speaker 3: and just the way Orlando loves you and the way 891 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,479 Speaker 3: he shows up for Luna, And I'm just wishing you 892 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 3: like the most juiciest, sexiest, abundantest, liveliest, peacefulest. 893 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 2: Union till death to your part, till death to his part. 894 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 3: Baby yeah, I agree, And to everybody who like messaged 895 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 3: me and DM, it was a lot, but girl, we 896 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 3: had you have like eight hundred comments. But you know, 897 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 3: that's the really thing about this is like, as cheesy 898 00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 3: as it may sound, I literally met him on the podcast. 899 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,240 Speaker 3: Like without this podcast, so much wouldn't have happened, including 900 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,839 Speaker 3: me meeting this man who lives three thousand miles from us, 901 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 3: and also just kind of showing every step of the 902 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 3: way and being like sharing in our love and even like, honestly, 903 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,640 Speaker 3: the reason me and Orlando even ended up here is 904 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 3: the first time we hung out, we went on Live 905 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 3: together and. 906 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 2: I was like, this is the most content creator, fucking cheesy. 907 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,880 Speaker 3: Yeah she We were at breakfast and he put it 908 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 3: on live and like five people were like, oh my god, 909 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 3: this makes so much sense. Oh I knew this was 910 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 3: gonna happen, And then that that was the first. 911 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,320 Speaker 2: Time I was like, really you did that? 912 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 3: What you think? 913 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,400 Speaker 2: So it made me like consider it. 914 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's really it's beautiful. 915 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 2: Like the tribe like planted seeds for you guys too. Yeah, definitely. 916 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 3: It makes me so grateful to just say yes to 917 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 3: like understanding. 918 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 2: It makes it very clear. 919 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 3: Just the saying yes and being open and like just 920 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:03,360 Speaker 3: how important your choices are when it comes to what 921 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 3: really feels good in your gut. And even though it 922 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 3: seems crazy, even though it seems you know, like off 923 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,280 Speaker 3: putting starting a podcast with a stranger about smoking weed 924 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 3: and being a single mom and dating and being completely 925 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:21,640 Speaker 3: crazy publicly to you know, like randomly meeting a man 926 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 3: that witnesses you and like witnesses all those things, Like 927 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 3: it just makes you feel like everything could have been 928 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 3: different every choice I made, I could have been in 929 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 3: a completely different universe, not being myself, not being happy 930 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 3: because a lot of people told me, but you're too much. 931 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 3: You're doing a lot, and I am a lot. You know, 932 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 3: I'm not for everybody, but I'm for Orlando and that's enough. 933 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 3: And like that's the reason. Being this community and you 934 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 3: and this podcast have really shown me how important it 935 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,319 Speaker 3: is to show up authentically and show up imperfect and 936 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 3: show up honest and be willing to say it out loud. 937 00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 3: I know we talk about like the being the medicine 938 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 3: saying it out loud, but like it really rooted me 939 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 3: and not only am I saying this, but I'm gonna 940 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 3: do it and when someone or something doesn't serve me, 941 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna let that shit go. This is like my 942 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 3: baby daddy, letting that go, like saying yes to having 943 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 3: a baby, saying no to having a baby, say you know, 944 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 3: like just saying yes to a friendship, saying yes to 945 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 3: being vulnerable has literally brought me to the beginning of 946 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:26,479 Speaker 3: the rest of my life with the love of my life, 947 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 3: with someone who truly honors me and sees me. And 948 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,320 Speaker 3: I used to say this a lot on the podcast, 949 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 3: like I want someone who's gonna see me dancing on 950 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 3: a table and. 951 00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 2: Say, hell, yeah, that's my baby. And that's what I got. 952 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 3: Like, I literally said that so many times that I 953 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 3: manifested it. I was like, whoever is going to love me, 954 00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 3: it's going to be easy and they're gonna love me 955 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 3: as crazy as I am. And I'm grateful for the 956 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 3: podcast because it also when you say all your business. 957 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 2: You can't hide. 958 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 3: I was dating people and I'm like, if you think 959 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 3: this is bad, listen, there's about seventeen episodes. I say, 960 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 3: I'm sure you're not gonna like and someone could potentially 961 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,760 Speaker 3: come up to you in public and tell you this information. 962 00:42:57,840 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 3: If you can't handle that I am not the person 963 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 3: for you, so like it really backed and rooted, like 964 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 3: cemented in that this is it, Like this is who 965 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,800 Speaker 3: I am, and I am just extremely extremely extremely grateful 966 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,800 Speaker 3: for you for this space, for my tribe, for the 967 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:17,239 Speaker 3: people listening, just for welcoming me and loving me with 968 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,920 Speaker 3: open arms so that I can arrive here and be 969 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 3: loved like this. 970 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 2: Shout out to Love like This. 971 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,840 Speaker 3: Listen to our podcast Love like This with Me and Orlando, 972 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,480 Speaker 3: because I'm sure there's gonna be a lot of episodes 973 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,840 Speaker 3: with more details about this insane weekend. 974 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,759 Speaker 2: Wow, that's beautiful. 975 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, and thank you for coming, and thank 976 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 3: you for being the witness obviously and supporting and loving 977 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 3: us and telling me this is your husband, bitch, you know. 978 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,200 Speaker 3: And I think part of me too is like I 979 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 3: didn't really expect this for myself. I didn't truly see 980 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,319 Speaker 3: this for myself. Did I want to be married, Yeah, 981 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 3: But I didn't truly think that there was going to 982 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,879 Speaker 3: be a man that would accept all of this, even 983 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 3: as a podcasting bitch talking about dating and second dick 984 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,439 Speaker 3: and doing all types of honest, weird things. I never 985 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 3: thought that someone could hold it, and so I had 986 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 3: kind of that I would be a hoe with lovers 987 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 3: all over the country and that would be enough for me. 988 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 2: And like, thank you. 989 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,239 Speaker 3: For even planning the seed early on that that was 990 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 3: even a possibility. And thank you to Orlando for in 991 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 3: fourth grade wanting to be married and still wanting to 992 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 3: be married and taking so much pride in being a 993 00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 3: husband and a partner and pouring into me and asking 994 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 3: me to be myself and more of myself and just 995 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 3: like being the man that you are and saying, no, 996 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 3: we're getting legally married, bitch, this is what I want. 997 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 3: So because I would have been like, let's just you know, like, yeah, 998 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 3: let's just pretend, you know, but I'm grateful for that. 999 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,200 Speaker 3: I needed that in that moment when I got out 1000 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 3: that car, I was like, I'm there's so many things 1001 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,920 Speaker 3: being healed right now. And my parents got married at 1002 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 3: the Little White Chapel in that room when I was 1003 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 3: like six, so thirty years ago. So it was it 1004 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 3: just it felt like I was rewriting just like my lineage, 1005 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 3: and it was like a rebellious act of love that 1006 00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 3: I could show up as myself because I know a 1007 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 3: lot of women, can I know a lot of black 1008 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,280 Speaker 3: women haven't been able to and to be like loved 1009 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 3: like that, Like I really am. I'm proud to be 1010 00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 3: like an example of that and like to experience this, Wow, 1011 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:14,360 Speaker 3: that's so beautiful specific like that, like you're able to 1012 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,839 Speaker 3: do that because I guess when I was thinking about 1013 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,239 Speaker 3: you getting remarried, there was like an ode to them, 1014 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,839 Speaker 3: but thinking about it more of like it's an ode, 1015 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 3: but it's also like an act of rebellion of like 1016 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 3: you showing up as yourself in this relationship and like 1017 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,800 Speaker 3: you guys being individuals, but being of one as well, 1018 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 3: and like I think that you've shared a lot about 1019 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 3: your parents' marriage and their dynamic and. 1020 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 2: That is not that's not your relationship. It's just not. 1021 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 3: And I'm sure you know you guys will have to 1022 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 3: move through challenges and all those things, but that's not here, 1023 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Yah, that's so big, 1024 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 3: that's so important, that's so major. It's like that that 1025 00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 3: tie is cut. Yeah, we're done with that. 1026 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 2: That is done. That word is cut. 1027 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 3: And I got to do it in the same place, 1028 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,800 Speaker 3: you know, like literally, yeah, like it was rewriting something 1029 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 3: for me. It was re like just recalibrating, like the 1030 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 3: trauma that I've experienced just secondhand being raised in that environment, 1031 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 3: you know, and it really like I felt like an 1032 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 3: alchemist that I could that I am like shifting the 1033 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 3: story for Luna and for whatever she chooses, you know, 1034 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,839 Speaker 3: And honestly, like, if we're what are we doing if 1035 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 3: we're not doing that in our marriage, Like what is 1036 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,359 Speaker 3: the point of us even doing the whole ceremony if 1037 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 3: we're not like healing something and moving something forward, if 1038 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 3: we're just going to repeat the same shit that our 1039 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,799 Speaker 3: fucking parents did because that was perfect, right. No, Like, 1040 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 3: I feel like if we if more people started viewing 1041 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 3: marriage from that lens, like their choices might be different 1042 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 3: around the type of marriage that they're accepting or the 1043 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,279 Speaker 3: person that they're going to date and. 1044 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,320 Speaker 2: Etcetera, etcetera. List goes on having children. 1045 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,839 Speaker 3: That is important, yea, who you decide to like make 1046 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,479 Speaker 3: that covenant with that, like have that ritual and that ceremony. 1047 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,880 Speaker 3: It absolutely affects everything that you touch. It affects the 1048 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 3: decisions you make, and it affects your kids, as we 1049 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 3: all know, you know, like deeply. So it's like you 1050 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 3: have to make that choice consciously and come together and 1051 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,879 Speaker 3: be like what are we doing here? 1052 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,879 Speaker 2: And Orlando was like, I want my goal is that. 1053 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 3: I get to sit in our porch and watch our 1054 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:29,800 Speaker 3: grandkids play. 1055 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:30,040 Speaker 2: You know. 1056 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,279 Speaker 3: I was like, I never thought about no shit like that, 1057 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 3: but like having someone who's intentional and it being clear, 1058 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 3: because Orlando didn't come from fucking a family dynamic of 1059 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 3: roses and daisies, So it meant a lot to us 1060 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 3: to be able to be just show up authentically and 1061 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 3: like be clear about what we're doing here, and not 1062 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 3: just for like the family, but for us, you know, 1063 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 3: like it is rooted in pleasure, It is rooted in fun, 1064 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,240 Speaker 3: obviously it is, and because like what kind of life 1065 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:57,359 Speaker 3: do you want to live? 1066 00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 2: Because we've seen our parents. 1067 00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,680 Speaker 3: A lot of us have seen our parents not be happy, 1068 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:05,080 Speaker 3: So like what, like I think people underestimate happiness, Like 1069 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:05,800 Speaker 3: it's important. 1070 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 2: It's yeah, it is. 1071 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 3: Well, thank you for just allowing all of us to 1072 00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 3: be witness of it and being so brave and bold 1073 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,799 Speaker 3: and sharing because you have, Like, y'all, go back to 1074 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 3: all of our episodes if you haven't, if you're just 1075 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,920 Speaker 3: joining us now, go back to the beginning you were. 1076 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,600 Speaker 3: You will have a lot more context on where we're at. 1077 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,040 Speaker 3: Where melas at, where I'm at, and just the journey 1078 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 3: of us because we've shared so much and You've always 1079 00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 3: been so so honest and I'm just so happy for you. 1080 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 3: And I look at the pictures and I'm like crying. 1081 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 3: I'm like showing iri, like trying to skip over, like 1082 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,880 Speaker 3: the fucking strippers, and the album is like because literally 1083 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 3: the album is like this. This my phone is sponsored 1084 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,439 Speaker 3: by Uji. At this point, we need like a Houji spot. 1085 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,399 Speaker 3: I know, I see you guys tagging. I'm tagging Houjie, bitch, 1086 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, give us something. 1087 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 2: Look at these bomb ass photos were. 1088 00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 3: Like, we had to do a Weddingji, but I don't 1089 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,879 Speaker 3: know what how A board, A mood board. I don't 1090 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:10,360 Speaker 3: fucking know anyway. Oh my gosh, well, fucking epic, a 1091 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 3: fucking wifey. It's a wife wife a new chapter, and 1092 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 3: I'm excited about it. I mean, even though nothing really changes, 1093 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 3: I still, you know, it's still I don't know, it's crazy. 1094 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 2: It's like an adult. 1095 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 3: Well shall we pull a card, my dear, Okay, let's 1096 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:36,480 Speaker 3: do it. 1097 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:38,719 Speaker 2: Temperance. 1098 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 3: See the temperance is talking about. 1099 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 2: It's harmony, it's. 1100 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:54,280 Speaker 3: It is it's like balance and like mind and spirit. 1101 00:49:54,640 --> 00:50:02,080 Speaker 3: It seem the elements, all the elements being balanced. Shout 1102 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,239 Speaker 3: out to Bitty Taro. I wish we would get in 1103 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 3: contact with them. We've been shouting them out for four years, 1104 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 3: but hey girl. Temperance is the card for bringing balance, patience, 1105 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 3: and moderation into your life. You're bringing invited to stabilize 1106 00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,319 Speaker 3: your energy and allow the life force to fol through 1107 00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 3: you without force or resistance. It's time to recover your 1108 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,520 Speaker 3: flow and get your life back into order and balance. 1109 00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 3: This card's calls you and to remain calm even when 1110 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,480 Speaker 3: life is stressful or frantic. Maintain and even temperate and 1111 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,840 Speaker 3: manage your emotions. You have learned to keep composed and 1112 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 3: stressful situations little things don't get to you thanks to 1113 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 3: your seemingly abundant sorts of pat Your seemingly abundant source 1114 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 3: of patience, your respect for balance and tranquility is what 1115 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 3: will help you achieve and experience fulfillment in your life. 1116 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 3: Temperance asks you to take the middle path and accommodate 1117 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,720 Speaker 3: all perspectives. Now is not the time to be highly 1118 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,720 Speaker 3: opinionated or controversial. Be the peacemaker and take a balance 1119 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 3: and moderate approach, avoiding any extremes, include others, and bring 1120 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 3: together diverse groups of people to create harmony and cooperation. 1121 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,919 Speaker 3: By working together, you will collectively leverage the right mix 1122 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 3: of talents, experiences, abilities, and skills. 1123 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 2: And this is true this weekend. 1124 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,440 Speaker 3: We had just amount of enough of earth signs atypes, 1125 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,879 Speaker 3: just amount of enough of water signs, just amount enough 1126 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,680 Speaker 3: of everything. It was like people did the reservations. Shout 1127 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 3: out to Zen like Zin kept me on track. Okay, 1128 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 3: my room not Erica five minutes. Thank you, thank you, 1129 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 3: because I don't know what the weekend would have been 1130 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 3: without you would have been a blur. Okay, any structure 1131 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 3: there was Zin and and Nisha. 1132 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,040 Speaker 2: Thank you guys. 1133 00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 3: Really a lot, a lot, a lot a lot as 1134 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,600 Speaker 3: you like, shout out from the bottom of my heart. 1135 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 3: Elevated room events, slash, my homies, my besties, the tribe, 1136 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:51,360 Speaker 3: because we needed I needed you me specifically. Are we 1137 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:56,720 Speaker 3: missing anything? I think we're just hungover. 1138 00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 2: I'm losing my voice. I am hungover. 1139 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,640 Speaker 3: This is I don't even I crawled out of bed 1140 00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,440 Speaker 3: to get here, but I feel like I had to 1141 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:04,719 Speaker 3: tell them. 1142 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:05,440 Speaker 2: I had to be like. 1143 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,720 Speaker 3: Share with the try of course. Yeah. So I'm I'm 1144 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:12,880 Speaker 3: I'm full. I'm gonna be full for a minute, like 1145 00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,240 Speaker 3: it might take me. I don't know if we're supposed 1146 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,520 Speaker 3: to work after this. I don't have a lot of goods. No, 1147 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 3: I'm a loty go home like I might be sleep 1148 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,160 Speaker 3: for forty eight hours to make up for the loss 1149 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:24,799 Speaker 3: of sleep all weekend. But it was worth it, So 1150 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 3: I'm grateful. So I love you guys. I'm thankful, and 1151 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,279 Speaker 3: I'll see you next Week's next week I leave. 1152 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:32,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm living so good. 1153 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:33,600 Speaker 1: Can't you tell? 1154 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 4: I went through a drought. That's until I found out well, 1155 00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 4: may might have been known art. I used to be 1156 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 4: broken tail, now got the blues dants. It might be 1157 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:44,200 Speaker 4: Yonce just hell throat shot with popping his cowering our voices. 1158 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,280 Speaker 4: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit its women 1159 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 4: put the pee and powers. So what's pointing is they 1160 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:50,560 Speaker 4: want me to be good. 1161 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 1: So I made bad choices. 1162 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 4: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom. 1163 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 2: Gitter's in on, put cannabis in. 1164 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 4: Their bath, bomb walked in bosses cap and I blew 1165 00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,880 Speaker 4: his cat ball type dog. Now I'm immune to the 1166 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,480 Speaker 4: cat calls Herbie in the waisted straight to it like 1167 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 4: a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover, when to what. 1168 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,760 Speaker 4: It's like a water sign where you're rent the winter 1169 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:10,440 Speaker 4: essential will when the summertime. 1170 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:11,640 Speaker 2: I do what all ain't. 1171 00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 4: No one that needs to run it by