1 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks so 2 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: much for joining us today. As always, we're so excited 3 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: to be here. How are you today, Susan? 4 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 2: I am great. I'm ready to end this year, but 5 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: it was a fabulous one, so I'm not that much 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: in Harry, but hopefully the year to come is going 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: to be even better. And today we have a very 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: special guest, Kathy. She's special to you and me, I know. 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 2: Please welcome from Paradise, Leah. Hi, Leah, Welcome to Golden Hour. 10 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 3: Hey, they are beautiful. How are you? Amazing? 11 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Susan, so do you and we know we 12 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: know why you look so beautiful? Where are we speaking 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: to you today? We're going to get into things real quickly. 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: But where are you? 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 4: I'm still here in La in my cute little apartment. 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: That's a mile that won't stop is from. 17 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: Oh no, So we're going to get into So here's 18 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: the thing. There's everyone knows. I was in Paradise with Leah. 19 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: Love her to pieces. She taught me how to do makeup, 20 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: and the proof is if you could see her right now, 21 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: she looks absolutely gorgeous. So we're going to get started 22 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: right away. But I have to first say, in Paradise, 23 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: you did not find love. 24 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: You. 25 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: You got a little upset a few times because you 26 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 1: were trying to make silk out of a sow's ear 27 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: otherwise known as Jonathan. 28 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: I love Jonathan knows better than anyone. She's many a tears. 29 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: But I love you and I love Jonathan. But I 30 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: do know how ready you were to meet your man. 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,199 Speaker 1: And so now you are going to please spill the tea. 32 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: Tell us all about I want the whole, all the deats, 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: as they. 34 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 3: Say, of your boyfriend Ricky, how did you meet him? 35 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: Tell us all. 36 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 4: So. 37 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 5: Ricky is from la He's a musician, and he's a 38 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 5: music director and a drummer. 39 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 4: He plays the drums. And I was at a music festival. 40 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 4: I'm from Hawaii. 41 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 5: I love reggae music, and he plays for a few 42 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 5: reggae artists. And I was backstage at a festival because 43 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 5: I know another band member shout out to Rebel willis 44 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 5: from Rebel Soldiers. But he got me tickets to like 45 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 5: get backstage. And then while I was backstage, I met Ricky. 46 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 5: And then it was actually really funny though, because when 47 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 5: I met him, he was with a friend of his 48 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 5: who like is lesbian, and she was like chopping it 49 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 5: up with me, and I think like she like low 50 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 5: key like took his like mojo, and he was like 51 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 5: super quiet. 52 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 4: He's definitely more reserved. 53 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: When you looked at each other. Was there a feeling? 54 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: So was there a feeling you know that that initial chemistry. 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 2: Is that what you had when you saw him? Or 56 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 2: did this come. 57 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 5: I think that I definitely thought he was like very cute, okay, 58 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 5: but I think at the time I wasn't like super 59 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 5: like this was before Paradise actually, and I think before 60 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 5: Paradise I wasn't dating super seriously. I was kind of 61 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 5: just like, you know, enjoying my singleness, kind of like 62 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 5: figure out who I was. And also I kind of 63 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 5: knew that Paradise was coming up, so I was kind 64 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 5: of just like, oh, like yeah, you know, I didn't 65 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 5: want to start anything too crazy, but so we kept 66 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 5: in touch and then I was actually talking on the 67 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 5: beach with Keith, and I was like, oh, Keith, like, 68 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 5: I'm so sad that Paradise panned out this way, but 69 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 5: like and we were kind of just like, oh, is 70 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 5: there anyone back home that like maybe you're interested in? 71 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 5: And I was kind of like, well, there's this one 72 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 5: guy that like I would love to like circle back with, 73 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 5: and he was like do it. And then I was like, okay, 74 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 5: I'll update you. And he's like I was like, what 75 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 5: about you, Keith? 76 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 4: And he's like, yeah, there's this one lady. 77 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 5: And I was like, okay, like let's make a pact. 78 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 5: We're going to reach out to these people. 79 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I'm going to tell you. 80 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to give a little news flash here that 81 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: wasn't intended. It didn't work out for Keith, like so 82 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: carry on, but it did. 83 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: Said did you what happened after Paradise? Did you go 84 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: to another concert? 85 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 5: Or I just texted him and I was like, hey, 86 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 5: I'm back from that show. I said I was going 87 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 5: to film and then we got dinner and we've been 88 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 5: like so inseparable ever since. 89 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 3: How was he different, Lea? 90 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: Tell me, because I you and I had lots of 91 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: talks in Paradise about what you were looking for, So 92 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: tell me. Obviously it wasn't love at first sight because 93 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: you came to Paradise, but tell me, right, I mean, hey, 94 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: take true, there it is, But tell me what what 95 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: makes him different? 96 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 4: Well? 97 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 5: I think one I think like personally it was for me. 98 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 5: It was all my stage of readiness. I think he 99 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 5: was like such a wonderful human being, but one I 100 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 5: think I was finally ready. 101 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 4: To like okay, like I paradise out of the way. 102 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 5: I want to find my person like everyone did, all 103 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 5: my friends did, like, let's start dating seriously. And he 104 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 5: is someone who is so family oriented. 105 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 4: That's so very special to me. And I've always. 106 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 5: Wanted someone who values family the same way I do. 107 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 5: And he's very like kind, He's so gentle with me 108 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 5: and Kathy, you know me, I can be a handful, 109 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 5: So I've always said, like I need someone that's very patient, 110 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 5: and he's so patient with me. And I think that 111 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 5: is like the like we align on all of our 112 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 5: our big things. So like he's very family oriented, he's 113 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 5: very kind, he's very patient. I think we approach life 114 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 5: in very similar ways. And I think we align on 115 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 5: so many of the big things in life, and I 116 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 5: think we approach life in the very similar way. I 117 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 5: think the biggest thing though, is he's very gentle and 118 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 5: very patient with me. 119 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 4: I know I'm a big personality. I can be a 120 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 4: handful and. 121 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 5: He's just someone who has accepted me one hundred percent 122 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 5: for who I am and encouraged me and kind of 123 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 5: like he's never dold my sparkle. I think he's just 124 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 5: brought it out even more and wow, yeah he's. 125 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: Wait, so let me tell you, since you align on 126 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: everything and he's made you the person you are and 127 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 1: you're sparkling even more, are you getting engaged in. 128 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 2: The ring's coming in the future. 129 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 4: I mean, that's. 130 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 3: Definite, Leah, Leah, break the news, break the new. 131 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 5: That's a little soon, guys, it's a little soon, But 132 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 5: I think that is the goal. 133 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 4: He actually asked me. 134 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 5: He was like, so, like, when do you want to 135 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 5: get engaged? And I was like, probably you can propose 136 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 5: next year, like early next. 137 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 3: Year, twenty six I love this. 138 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: No, twenty twenty seven, like one more year. 139 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 3: We're how old is he, Leah? 140 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 4: He is thirty? 141 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 2: And tell me how is he different than any other 142 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: guy you dated? 143 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Well, she said, he's patient, he's. 144 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 2: Well not And now the guy wasn't patient? 145 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 4: I think. 146 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 5: I mean, I date in La which is always really rough. 147 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 5: I think dating anywhere can be rough. But I think 148 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 5: a lot of the guys that I've dated. 149 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 4: Here have been like very superficial. Sometimes I think they 150 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 4: value things that you know are so fleeting. 151 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 5: And I honestly truly have never met a guy in 152 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 5: LA who is as family oriented as him. 153 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that says a lot. 154 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 3: And you want kids, right? Yes? 155 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: I want kids? 156 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 4: I want them. 157 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 3: Okay? Did I give you good advice on paradise? 158 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 5: You gave the best advice, Kathy. I wish they aired 159 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 5: more versus together. 160 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 3: So do I How old are you, Leah? 161 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 5: I'm twenty five, about to be twenty six February. 162 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, you can wait another year. 163 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, you know, if you get 164 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: engaged a year plus for now, and then you got 165 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:59,679 Speaker 1: to take a year or two to plan a wedding. 166 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 5: You know. 167 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: I'm I'm all about love, so is Susan. I say, 168 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: get engaged in twenty twenty six and see where it goes. 169 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 4: Okay, I'll put you in. 170 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 2: I want to know. 171 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 3: Do you. 172 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 5: The ring? 173 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 3: Listen? Have him call me. I have a jeweler. I 174 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 3: got a guy. I'll take care of him. 175 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: Okay are you sharing this with all your followers? 176 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 3: Oh? I haven't? 177 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 178 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: Yes? 179 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 2: Are you keeping private about it? 180 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 4: I think I want to definitely share more. But to 181 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 4: be transparent. 182 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 5: I just had this like really fun brand deal and 183 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 5: I wanted to like hard launch him with that and 184 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 5: it just went live. 185 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 4: So I'll probably post more of him now. 186 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 2: Okay, got good? 187 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 3: Wow, Well what about your TikTok followers. 188 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 5: They're definitely more nosy. I think they love I think 189 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 5: they love it. I think they're very curious. I'll probably 190 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 5: do you like, I'll probably share a little bit more, 191 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 5: but I had to give you guys the first dips. 192 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 2: Yes, we're the hard launch here. 193 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: Well, listen, here's what I'm saying. Can't you just get 194 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: engaged for the sake of our podcast and then you 195 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: can rethink it next week? 196 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 2: You can do it on it. We'll have Ricky on 197 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 2: as well. 198 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 3: Okay, he gets prepared. 199 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 1: That would be so romand getting engaged on I can't 200 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: think of anything more. 201 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 2: Leave it to going to step behind you. We're gonna 202 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: know about it. We can figure out the scene shows. 203 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 2: Has he seen your Has he seen on either show 204 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: that you were on? He has watched it? After meeting 205 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: here he watched it or prior to meeting you. 206 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 5: We watched a few, maybe like two episodes of Paradise together. Okay, 207 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 5: nothing for that he's I mean, he's I've shown him 208 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 5: like little clips that I thought were funny. 209 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: But what if what a wait, what if Ricky had 210 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: been on the Bachelorette or Paradise? 211 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 3: How would that tell me? How that would I want 212 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 3: to swooped him right up? 213 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 4: Y'all would have got an engagement out of me? 214 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: Sue, Like that would have been perfect. 215 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 3: Wait, so you're saying you would have swooped right in 216 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 3: on him. 217 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 4: That's my husband, Kathy, Oh, I love. 218 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: This, I love Wait? 219 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 3: Could we say that again? For a cut for this? 220 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: I would like I would like everyone in Bachelor Nation 221 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: to know Leah just said she has met her husband 222 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: and we are so happy for you, and I want 223 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: to come to the wedding. 224 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: What is his greenest green flag? Like, what's the best part? 225 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 2: Just one word? 226 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 3: What do you have? 227 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 4: One word? Probably like just kind? He's very kind. 228 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 2: I like this, like it. 229 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: Tell me Lea, what was the moment? I mean, women 230 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: use this term all the time about feeling safe and 231 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:08,119 Speaker 1: being seen. I actually needed to start using that terminology 232 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: for myself as soon as I meet the guy, because 233 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: I hear women say that all the time, that that's 234 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 1: why they fell in love. They felt seen and they 235 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: feel safe. 236 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 3: For that person. 237 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: So was there a moment that that happened for you? 238 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you said he was climbing all that, but 239 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: what was Was there a moment? 240 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 3: Tell me? 241 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that there was. 242 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 5: I think one time he was like, I wanted ice 243 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: cream and he was like, perfect, I'll pick you up 244 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 5: in a few minutes. 245 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: Just be ready to go get some ice cream. 246 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 5: And I put on a bald cap and a suit. 247 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 4: And I was dressed up like Steve Harvey. And he 248 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 4: thought it was adorable where one might think it's weird. 249 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 5: And that's how I knew he was the one because 250 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 5: he kissed me in a bald cap. 251 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: You know what you're saying, because you didn't look beautiful, glamorous, 252 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: didn't have your makeup done. 253 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 3: You were just kind of hanging loose. Is that what 254 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 3: you're saying. 255 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just like I think he just I 256 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 2: love it when they get you. You know. 257 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 1: What about your relationship might surprise your fans. 258 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 4: Surprise them probably just the whole thing. 259 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 5: I think that I've been such a man hater online. 260 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 4: And now they're like, oh my gosh, so happy. 261 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 5: And so I thinks, yeah, they're probably just like WHOA, Like, 262 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 5: who is this guy? 263 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 4: I think they're just really curious, Leya. 264 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: If any what advice would you give to your fans 265 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 2: who are still waiting to find their person? 266 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 5: Definitely I would say be open date them all, because 267 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 5: I think that while you're in that exploratory phase of 268 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 5: like still finding. 269 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 4: Someone, you're you need time. 270 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 5: Like I always think about dating as like, I hate 271 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 5: to put it this way, but like a job interview, 272 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 5: you're not going to hire the person that you meet 273 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 5: off the street. Sometimes you got to interview a few people. 274 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 5: You gotta get to know, you gotta put yourself out there. 275 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 5: I think just being open and making sure that you're 276 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 5: finding the positives in the journey and the experience and 277 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 5: not being like, oh, this sucks, like I'm not finding anyone, like, 278 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 5: instead be like, oh that day was wonderful because I 279 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 5: learned this about him or this about myself. 280 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 4: Yes, or I got a nice dinner. 281 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 5: Sometimes it's not always like yeah, I found my husband, 282 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 5: but like you can find you know, little puzzles along 283 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 5: the way. 284 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, well this is a new lay up from the 285 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: laya I knew in Parise. 286 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 4: How do you how do you why do you mean that. 287 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 3: What do I love this? 288 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 5: Well? 289 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: No, I just listen. I love how happy you are, 290 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: how happy you seem. I'm so glad you have found 291 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: your person that you're getting engaged on our podcast to 292 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: find out what ring you want. I just I'm so thrilled. 293 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: But listen today, not only are we celebrating your love, 294 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: but we're going to try something new on our podcast. 295 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: Okay, this is going to be funny. 296 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: We asked our listeners to submit their confessions to us 297 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: anonymously online. We're going to read them, speculate, respond, you 298 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: name it. We're just going to talk about it. Are 299 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: you ready to join in on that with us? 300 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 4: Let's do it. 301 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: It's going to be I mean, who doesn't want to 302 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: tell their deepest, darkest secret anonymously? 303 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 3: I mean I know I do. So you ready? Have 304 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: you ever done this? Just real quickly? 305 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: Have you ever given a confession, deep dark confession to 306 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: anyone anonymously? 307 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 4: I don't think so. I'm a pretty open book, though, all. 308 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 2: Three of us. I think. 309 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: Here's the first one. My husband doesn't know. I hooked 310 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: up with a colleague on a work trip. 311 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 3: What do you think? 312 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you dirty, dirty girl? 313 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 2: Whoa I have? Questions. 314 00:14:57,640 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a lot of ques hooked up. 315 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: With a work colleague. Is it continuing or is it 316 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: just the one time thing? 317 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, does it matter? 318 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 4: I mean it doesn't, It really doesn't. 319 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: It does that, But there's a butt. 320 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 3: What's the butt? I can hardly be Like some. 321 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: People make a huge mistake, they drank too much or whatever, 322 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 2: and they kissed somebody and they're like, oh my god 323 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 2: the next day. 324 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: I need to explain to you vernacular hooked up does 325 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: not mean a peck on the cheek. Leah, would you 326 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: explain this because I've tried millions penetration was there? 327 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 328 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: To me, I mean it could happen to anybody ate 329 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: a chocolate bar and that it just happens. 330 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: Again, my hooked up still means just kissing. 331 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 3: Sorry, it doesn't hooked up. 332 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: We're getting late. 333 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think, yeah, maybe we don't know what it means, 334 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 5: but I do think that your spouse deserves to know, 335 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 5: and maybe, like work, either work through. 336 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 3: That or oh wait, that was my question. 337 00:15:54,920 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: Say do you would tell your spouse you? 338 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 3: Ricky? Ricky, I got to tell you something here. 339 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: Leah hooked up with her boss last night at the 340 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: Christmas party. 341 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 4: Are you feeling, Leah, I'm unemployed. I'm self employed. But no, 342 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 4: that's terrible. I would I don't. 343 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 5: I don't ever condone cheating, and like if that happened 344 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 5: to me, I might go to jail. 345 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 4: Like you know what I mean? 346 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 5: Not? 347 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 4: Okay, all right? 348 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 2: How about this one? My husband thinks I've only been 349 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 2: with one other man besides him, but in reality it's ten. 350 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 4: Oh period, queen. 351 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 2: I mean, everybody has a past. Yeah, I don't think 352 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: that that's important that he has to know every single 353 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 2: person you were with. 354 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I agree. 355 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: Oh wait a minute, if if Ricky says to you, 356 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: aren't you glad we know Ricky? Now, if Ricky says 357 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: to you, darling, Leah, I'm buying you a five carrot 358 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: emerald and diamond. I'm having a handmade. Kathy's helping me 359 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 1: work this out, and I'm so glad to know I'm 360 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 1: your first, oh first. 361 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 5: Well, but here's the thing, I personally, my personal preference, 362 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 5: I wouldn't. I don't think I would be with a 363 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 5: man who who is so stuck on the past and 364 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 5: is like so like consumed by what happened before we met. 365 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,959 Speaker 5: You know, I don't think that I think that's like 366 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 5: an ego issue and a confidence issue. 367 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: So wait, if Ricky, I can't poor Ricky, I keep 368 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: bringing him in this. But if a man that you're dating, 369 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: oh wait that happens to be Ricky, asks you, Hey, Leah, 370 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: how many guys have you slept with before? 371 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 3: Would you say, well, I. 372 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: Need my fingers, my toes, and my every strand of 373 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: hair to count them all? 374 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 3: Or are you're going to make up some random number? 375 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 5: No, I would just tell him and like, if you 376 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 5: are being weird about it, then that's an issue that 377 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 5: you have, because that has nothing to do with where. 378 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 4: I'm at now, who I am now. 379 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's your past, and I don't think there's any 380 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 5: reason you need to bring it into your current. 381 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 3: All Right, I like it. 382 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 1: All right, here's one for you, girl writes, how about 383 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: this one for you? I take you know that engagement 384 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,719 Speaker 1: ring you don't have yet? Okay, I want you to 385 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 1: pretend you have it on your hand. Okay, I take 386 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 1: my engagement ring off when I'm out with my friends. 387 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: Somebody confessed to this online. She takes her engagement ring 388 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: off when I'm out with my friends. 389 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: What do you think? Well? 390 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 5: I think you just probably don't love your maybe and 391 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 5: you're still looking, And that's okay to still be looking. 392 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: But if you're engaged, that's it. 393 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 5: I think then you just have to unengage yourself because 394 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 5: clearly you're not. 395 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 4: There's not there's someone you're taking. 396 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: It off, somebody comes along. Is that the idea? 397 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 4: So curious? 398 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why the divorce rates so high. 399 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 2: Boy, Okay, I read my boyfriend's text once a week 400 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 2: to see if he's talking about me to his friends 401 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 2: or family. 402 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so she reads her boyfriend's text once a week, 403 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: she's in that phone. 404 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 3: What do you think? 405 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: Ok. 406 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 5: I think people need to meditate, and I think people 407 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 5: need to be more grounded, and I think people have 408 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 5: a lot of hurt that is unhealed. Because there's no 409 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 5: reason I've never gone through Ricky's phone, he's never gone 410 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 5: through mine. I think we're both just healed individuals that 411 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 5: trust each other very deeply. 412 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 4: And I think that's like an inside issue. 413 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,719 Speaker 3: I love that answer. I was going to go with 414 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 3: a much simpler answer. 415 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: Have a twenty four number password that she can't possibly memorize. 416 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 2: You know, be careful what you wish for, Be careful 417 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 2: what you're looking for some things you don't want to know, 418 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, that could starts a huge problem. 419 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: I say, delete what you don't want known all. Right 420 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:01,719 Speaker 1: after I met my future husband at a party, I 421 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 1: kissed his best friend later that same night. We never 422 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: told anyone, and my husband still doesn't know to this day. 423 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 1: They weren't engaged yet they I mean, they may have 424 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: been engaged, but they weren't married. No, it says I 425 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 1: met my future husband at a party, so they weren't engaged. 426 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 1: It was she ultimately married this guy, but she kissed 427 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: his best friend that same night. So she meets the 428 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: guy that night and kisses his best friend. I say, 429 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: this has much ado about nothing. But what do you say? 430 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's kind of funny and like iconic. 431 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah that's cool. 432 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 4: It's like, yeah funny, Yeah. 433 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 3: Yeah he cares. 434 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my gosh, I told my boyfriend I was 435 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 2: pregnant so he would be nicer to me. Wait a minute, 436 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: was she making it up that she was I'm hoping 437 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: that she really was pregnant. 438 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 4: No, I think she wasn't pregnant. She just wanted him 439 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 4: to be nicer. 440 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 5: But I think you need to leave your boyfriend if 441 00:20:57,880 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 5: he's that much of an asshole. 442 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 4: You shouldn't have Yeah, you shouldn't have to trick them 443 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 4: into be nice. 444 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 2: Why would he be nicer if you're pregnant? 445 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: I mean, if he doesn't want a baby's I mean, 446 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying he's going to give you those plan? 447 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 3: B have you said? 448 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 1: What the hell are you thinking? I don't think that's 449 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: I don't mean I don't need that. One doesn't make sense. 450 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 3: Let's move along. 451 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: Oh boys, I never told my husband that I'm bisexual. 452 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 5: I think you should share if you love that person 453 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 5: and you trust them, and you should be able to. 454 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 4: Share openly like you're who you are and not be 455 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 4: ashamed of it. 456 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 2: No, I mean that you're going to act on it. 457 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 2: Do you need it? 458 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 459 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 5: But I think it makes me sad that they didn't 460 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 5: feel comfortable enough. 461 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 2: Ye Okay, I want another baby, and my wife and 462 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 2: I agreed to only two kids, but I can't stop 463 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: thinking about having a third. 464 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,679 Speaker 5: Well, I think that's something you need to mutually agree on, 465 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 5: and a child is so much responsibility. 466 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 2: Oh baby, you know how people think that's going to 467 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 2: save the marriage. They're just going to have a baby, 468 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,199 Speaker 2: and when they're stilling their marriage and it doesn't it 469 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 2: really well. 470 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 3: I wonder do you think he's talked to her about it? 471 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 3: He doesn't say. 472 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: Here he said, I can't stop thinking about it. I 473 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: want another baby and they only agree to having too. 474 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: I want to know if he's talked to her about Maybe. 475 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 4: Just ask Yeah, people are so weird, like just talk 476 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 4: about it. 477 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 2: Just because they agreed on only too well they've had 478 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 2: the conversation. 479 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 4: Maybe, yeah, just chat it up. People are too scared 480 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 4: to chat with each other. And I don't know why. 481 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 2: Communication it's key. Oh wait, I get butterflies for my 482 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: assistant at work. 483 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. 484 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: I mean you're not supposed to ship me sleep. But 485 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: if you're both single, who cares? 486 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: But just getting butterflies is okay? But are they single? 487 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 3: I don't know. 488 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,679 Speaker 4: Oh, I mean you just might have to move departments. 489 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: That's fine, Like get another job. 490 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think I read some of these things. 491 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, if this is the worst confession you have, 492 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 1: go back and live life again. 493 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 2: I know. 494 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,360 Speaker 1: Wait, I have to read this one because I think 495 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: the words she lives very strong. 496 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 3: But I lived it. I lived it, Okay. 497 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: Now I wouldn't use the word hate but close enough. 498 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: I hate my husband's mom and sister. They were mean 499 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: to me. So mean, what do you think about that, Leah? 500 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 5: I think that's so tough because I've definitely experienced some 501 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 5: tough like in past relationships like in laws, and once again, 502 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 5: like I'm such a family girl, So that was very 503 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 5: very that was like honestly one of the things that 504 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 5: ended the relationship. But I think it's tough, and I 505 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 5: think you just need to work with your partner and. 506 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 4: Be a unit and be a team. 507 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 5: And and kind of unpack that and maybe like try 508 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 5: to get to the bottom of it, because ultimately, if 509 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 5: you marry that person, that's your family too. 510 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 4: You don't marry the person, you marry their whole family. 511 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: So well, I wait, whoa, whoa wait, I'm sorry not 512 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: get in trouble, but let what if the mom and 513 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: the sister are just downright mean to you. They're they're 514 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,640 Speaker 1: just theys the they diss you, they're mean to you, 515 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: they don't hear you because you took their little boy away. 516 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,959 Speaker 4: Ew then like you have him, like you date him. 517 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: Then like you're married, you love your husband, why did 518 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: you marry him? Well, because when I married my husband, 519 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: he loved me and made me his life. But his 520 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: well sister what he had two sisters. One sister is 521 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 1: just a mean cow. 522 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 3: She still is. The other one is fine because my 523 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 3: husband was only son and he was her you know, 524 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 3: he was everything I got in the world. 525 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 4: Your husband ever like set boundaries. 526 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 3: Yes, his family, he tried. 527 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 4: I think. 528 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 3: His job. 529 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 4: What's that? 530 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: I know, I'm agreeing with it. It was his job. But 531 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: it's very difficult. And I hope for your sake, Leah, 532 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 1: that you never have a mother in law who's like that, 533 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 1: because I can tell you I have friends who are 534 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: living it right now, and it's not fun and it's 535 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: not easy, and it's hard on holidays and birthdays and 536 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: other family events. I want to take all these mother 537 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 1: in law's, shake them to their teeth or false teeth 538 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 1: or dentures, rattle and. 539 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 2: Say and on everyone anonymously that wrote in give us 540 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 2: a little more details that we could really give a 541 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 2: good opiniage. Some of them. I'm guessing like, we're ye, 542 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: get butterflies for your assistant at work? Are you married 543 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: and you're having butterflies for the other First, we'd like 544 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,880 Speaker 2: your name and what Susan sane now I don't care. 545 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 2: Just give you a little more juice and keep writing, 546 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 2: keep sending them in because. 547 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: The confessions we want, we want even juicier ones. We 548 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 1: know those you out there. We know that you've got 549 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 1: some juicy confessions to make. It is anonymous, it's. 550 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 3: Like the I R S. We're not tracking your IP number. 551 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 3: Do it. 552 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: Let us know who you, let us know what you've done, 553 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 1: and we will talk about it, and we'll let you 554 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: know whether you were right or wrong, because you really 555 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: want to know that. 556 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 2: But I think it's cute that the one girl said, 557 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: I met my future husband at a party, but I 558 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 2: kissed his best friend at the same thing. Like that's adorable. 559 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,439 Speaker 2: She's honest, Like that's the worst you have. 560 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: You're fine, baby, Yeah, that's what I want. 561 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 5: It will always work out how it needs to, because 562 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 5: clearly you married your husband. 563 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, look at she's such an eternal optimist. 564 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 1: Okay, well, I say that's going to do it for 565 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: today's episode, Leah, thank you for joining in us. Thank 566 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 1: you for sharing your wisdom, your beauty, your kindness, the 567 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: fact that you're going to get engaged on our podcast. 568 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 5: All of these things, yeah, all these things, you guys 569 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 5: you both. 570 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 3: We are so. 571 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 2: Happy to have you one here and you you got us. 572 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 2: You're in our heart. Trust me. We wish you all 573 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 2: the very best and thanks to everybody else that's listening 574 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 2: out there, we wish you the best as well. Be 575 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 2: sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new 576 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: episodes coming out every week that you do not want 577 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 2: to miss. 578 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: Exactly and listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on 579 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to your podcast. 580 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 3: Until next time, have a great week.