1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, Welcome back to Bechler Happy Hour. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 2: I'm Joe. 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm Serena, and we are here with our newly 4 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: announced next Bachelor, Grant Ellis's hair Grant. Welcome back to 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: Betler Happy Hour. 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 3: Thank you guys for having me. I'm excited and you know, 7 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 3: I love I love y'all platform. You guys do a 8 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 3: great job and I'm excited to talk to you guys today. 9 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 10 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 1: When you when we had you on the first time, 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: I was I don't know, Serena, didn't I say I 12 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: think he could be the next Bachelor. 13 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, you might have said something along those lines. 14 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 5: I feel like I think said like, I feel like 15 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 5: you're gonna be around, Like we're going to see you again. 16 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's paradise or something. 17 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 2: Thank you, guys. I was surprised myself. You know, I'm 18 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 2: super surprised. 19 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 3: I'm really grateful and just for the opportunity to hand 20 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 3: and you know, for me to meet my potential wife 21 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 3: and it's gonna be it's gonna be so fun and 22 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 3: I'm sure it's gonna be crazy exciting and I'm excited 23 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 3: for my love story unfold. 24 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's talk about let's talk about that moment, 25 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: because that's got to be it's got to just be 26 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: so exciting. What was it like getting the call and 27 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: being told you're the next bachelor? 28 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 3: Just if I could describe it, I'm just grateful. I'm 29 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 3: just super grateful. You know, all this is coming at 30 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 3: once and I'm just living in a moment. And when 31 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 3: I was called, I just I just expressed gratitude and 32 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 3: I was like, of course, you know, of course I will. 33 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: I'll take the role, and if you guys are gonna 34 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: help me find my wife, I'm I'm excited about that. 35 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: Did you have any hesitations? Because it is a bit 36 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: I mean, it is a big, big thing. 37 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: Absolutely zero hesitations. Wow, Okay, I was super excited. And 38 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 3: you know, when when you could when people can hand pick, 39 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 3: you know, your potential partner for you and based off 40 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 3: of certain things, and then you get to sift through 41 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 3: and see which woman is for you, which one is not. 42 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: Who wouldn't love to do that? So I'm blessed and 43 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: I'm in a great situation. 44 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 5: What was your family's reaction to everything, because I mean 45 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 5: it's a lot to go back to back in terms 46 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 5: of the filming and being away and being you've been 47 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 5: through so much. Now they're just catching up and you're 48 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 5: gonna be gone again soon. 49 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, my mom was happy, my sister was happy, 50 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 3: my dad was happy. 51 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 2: You know. 52 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 3: I've been in Texas kind of taking care of my 53 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 3: grandma because she she has Parkinson, So she she was, 54 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 3: she was happy, and then you know, I had to 55 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 3: kind of. 56 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 2: Tell her again like every every day. I'm like, you know, 57 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: so she was. Everybody was happy, happy for me, and 58 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: and I'm fakful fit. 59 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 1: Was there anyone that you were expecting to get the 60 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: role beside yourself? 61 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? 62 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 3: I thought I thought, you know, Devin was was really good. 63 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 3: I know all the guys that were genuine and I 64 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 3: thought were genuine. Marcus was genuine. I thought Devin was genuine. 65 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 3: I thought Spencer was genuine, you know. And I just 66 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 3: think that it all comes down to who who you 67 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 3: know they want and who was really there to try 68 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: to find a relationship and try to find their partner. So, yeah, 69 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 3: there's a couple of guys and I would have and 70 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: super happy to them. 71 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 5: So what is Grant looking for in a woman? Like 72 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 5: if you could describe your ideal woman to be cast 73 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 5: on this show, what are those qualities lightly. Yeah, No, 74 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 5: what do you mean, Joe, I think you're gonna say. 75 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 4: Super fucking hot. 76 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: The end, I want somebody who's who's genuine. 77 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: I want somebody who is has a heart for for 78 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 3: for other people, Somebody who's not self somebody who is affectionate, 79 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 3: who's kind. 80 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: Obviously, you know, a beautiful woman. 81 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 3: But I'm I'm super open in this process because i 82 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: know that just through life experience, that sometimes the best 83 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 3: things come in in the most unexpected ways. So I'm 84 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: just I'm looking at what's inside of a person, and 85 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 3: I'm trying to that I'm really going to be getting 86 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: to know these women and asking the question. 87 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: That I'm going to make them. 88 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: You know, I'm gonna discover myself, but they're also going 89 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: to discover yourself in this process, you know. By the 90 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 3: way I'm going to ask them questions, I'm going to 91 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: figure out what they want, what they're looking for, and then, 92 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: you know, ultimately determine who's who's going to be my 93 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 3: best match. 94 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: You're you're an athlete, you seem to be a successful businessman. 95 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: Preparation is key. How are you going to prepare? Are 96 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: you preparing to be the Bachelor. 97 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 2: Of course, you know, I'm studying. 98 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 3: I you know, so being an athlete, I have to 99 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: watch film and then being in the market, I have 100 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: to study and take notes after every session. So with me, 101 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 3: I'm watching previous Bachelors you I watched that season, I 102 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 3: watched Joey season, I watched the next season, I watched 103 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 3: Clayton season, you know, and I'm watching the I'm watching 104 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 3: these seasons and I'm I'm saying, Okay, like this is 105 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 3: a good takeaway, this isn't a good takeaway, but ultimately 106 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,679 Speaker 3: I'm going to try to be myself, you know, just 107 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 3: just try to learn from other past seasons and put 108 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: my own. 109 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 2: Spin on it. 110 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 1: What after watching all those guys seasons, what would you 111 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: say is one takeaway of what not to do? 112 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: And when takeaway of what you want to take into 113 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 4: your season as well? 114 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: Well? 115 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 3: The number one takeaway of what not to do is 116 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 3: just I'm gonna start with what to do. It's just 117 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: to be sure of yourself and when you commit, you 118 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 3: need to commit, and that's something that I'm I'm ready 119 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 3: to do. So there's not going to be any I 120 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 3: love you and taking that back, there's there's not going 121 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 3: to be that you know when I see somebody that 122 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 3: I'm ready and I feel like I'm ready, it's going 123 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 3: to be it's going to be a decision that I'm 124 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 3: willing and ready to make. 125 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: And then what not to do? Man? 126 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 3: Uh, just don't be insensitive, you know, just just be 127 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 3: emotionally aware of that that these women are going through 128 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: the experience. 129 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 2: Also, so even though I'm. 130 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 3: Going to have to disappoint some people, I'm going to 131 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 3: try to make it to where I'm understanding the feelings 132 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: and it's them that you know, even though I'm not 133 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: your person, there's somebody out there for you that is 134 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 3: your person, and you're gonna learn from mis experience. 135 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,919 Speaker 4: What are you the most nervous for? 136 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 5: And watching back all these seasons, is there anything that 137 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 5: made you feel more nervous entering this role. 138 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: I'm honestly not nervous, Like I'm just I'm used to 139 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 3: being under the pressure and scrutiny of other people's opinions, 140 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 3: and to me, I look at it, look at it 141 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 3: as constructive criticisms. So I'm not nervous at all. You know, 142 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna go in there and be myself and yeah, 143 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 3: and whether people take that or adhere to that or not. 144 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 3: That's that's completely up to them. 145 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: You went pretty deep on gen season, and you clearly 146 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: had strong feelings for her, But would you say you 147 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: were ready to get engaged. 148 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 3: If Jen would have chosen me, I would have been 149 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 3: all in. I would have I would have been all 150 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 3: in and I would have committed. And I feel like 151 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: that's why my feelings developed, because once I got that, 152 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 3: all that I needed was that emotional connection. And after 153 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 3: I went on one day when I when she understood 154 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 3: me and I understood her, I was ready to support 155 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 3: her and I was ready to, you know, be in 156 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: the background and let her be, let her. 157 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: Be everything she needed to be, and just support her 158 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: and whatever she was doing. 159 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: This is a little harder of a question, and you 160 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: may not have gone there yet, but have you thought 161 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: about what it's going to be like to potentially feel 162 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: like you're all in for three women? 163 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 2: I haven't thought about that. 164 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: I haven't thought about that, And I know there's going 165 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 3: to be some adversity that I'm going to face, but ultimately, 166 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 3: I feel like there's going to be deciding facts in 167 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 3: a moment that I'm going to have to make a decision, 168 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 3: and I'm going to have to stick with that decision. 169 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 3: So I'm going to try to be calculated in the approach. 170 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 3: And I think it's so easy to say, you know, 171 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 3: because when your heart's in it, it's easier to when 172 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 3: your heart's not it. 173 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: When your heart's it tends to cloud your your judgment 174 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: and emotions. So I'm going to try. 175 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 3: To take a look back and step back and really 176 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: think about my decisions before I make them. 177 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like decisiveness is somewhat more challenging when 178 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 5: you're in these environments because you don't have your friends 179 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 5: and your family to confide and which can be a 180 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 5: good and a bad thing. What do you think your 181 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 5: strategy is going to be when you come to those 182 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 5: tough decisions and you would maybe be like I wish 183 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 5: I could call my best friend or my mom. What 184 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 5: like steps do you think you're going to take to 185 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 5: help yourself make these hard decisions? 186 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm going to pray about it. 187 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 3: I'm going to pray about it, and I know that 188 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: the decision I make is going to be more that 189 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,119 Speaker 3: it's going to be the right one for me ultimately, 190 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 3: So I'm going to be in there by myself. But 191 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: I'm not, you know, because you know, I'm going to 192 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: have what I what I grew up on my family's teaching, 193 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 3: my mom the way she raised me, you know, my 194 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 3: dad the way he is fire me to be better. 195 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 3: And you know, I'm gonna have a relationship and I'm 196 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna pray about it, you know, 197 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 3: and ultimately, ultimately, I think that's gonna lead me to 198 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 3: the right decision. 199 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's one of those things where it's like, you know, 200 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: to romanticize it. It's follow your heart, but there is 201 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: you do have to be somewhat calculated when you make 202 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: these decisions because you are falling for multiple people and 203 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: it isn't as easy as just following your gut because 204 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: that could be towards multiple or you could end up 205 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: maybe maybe you'll be the first bachelor to get engaged 206 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: to you could have a throuble or something. 207 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 5: What do you I think nothing that Grant has said 208 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 5: has led us to believe that he's looking for a throubble. 209 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 4: Just to be clear, Joe's spice up the franchise. 210 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: Right now, you know, he you know, maybe you never know. 211 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: So you guys traveled right away to Australia for GENS season. 212 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 1: Is there any where you're hoping to travel on your season? 213 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 2: I love Asia, I like I love I love Asian food, 214 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: I love culture, I love Yeah. But ultimately or wherever, wherever, 215 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,479 Speaker 2: I'm ready to go. I'm just like I'm just excited, 216 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: you know. So I'm not like. 217 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 3: Again, I just I can't express gratitude. So I know 218 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 3: that they're going to pick the right places, but yeah, 219 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 3: I had to pick you. 220 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 5: Do you have like a dream date or activity in Asia? 221 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 5: I mean, like there's so many magical, mind blowing dates 222 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 5: on this show, helicopters, Yacht's like, if you could pick 223 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 5: a dream activity or date, what would it be? 224 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: Oh? Man, So. 225 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 3: It's going to sound crazy, but I'm really big on 226 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 3: martial arts, so like that's like I would love to 227 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 3: like see you know, some of the staples over there 228 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 3: and just some of the maybe some of the temples 229 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 3: or something just involving the culture. And because you know, 230 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 3: when you're involved in martial arts, you really have to 231 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 3: center yourself and it just ties into me with trading 232 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 3: and being impatient and just things like that. So yeah, 233 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,719 Speaker 3: that's something big for me, and you know, yeah, that's 234 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 3: that's probably something I would like to explore. 235 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 4: I actually just saw a study. I mean it was 236 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,839 Speaker 4: TikTok I think so take it for take Over the 237 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 4: Great Salt. 238 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 5: But it was a study saying that little boys who 239 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 5: are put into martial arts before the age of like 240 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 5: ten or something develop and like a way higher level 241 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 5: of self discipline and control as they age. 242 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 4: Anyway, just just a fun fact about Tick. 243 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: Going to Okay, before we get into deep dive questions, 244 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: what are you most excited for? 245 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm most excited to meet these women, and I'm most 246 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 2: excited to see what levels were compatible at and what 247 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: they and to hear their stories and how they grew 248 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 2: up and what makes them them and then being able to. 249 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 3: Realize realize what they've been through and what they're going 250 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 3: through and why they're here and then make a decision 251 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 3: based off of my connection with. 252 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: The nice Okay, we have deep dive questions with our 253 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: next bachelor Grant. 254 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 5: So what we're gonna do is one of our favorite 255 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 5: things to do here on Bachelor Happy Hour that our 256 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 5: bacheloring shore reporter Danny. I don't know if you've met Danny, 257 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 5: but she's the best. She actually did this with us 258 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 5: earlier this year, and for us especially having done a 259 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,079 Speaker 5: lot of interviews. 260 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 4: Over the years, it was really really fun. 261 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 5: So we're going to ask our next bachelor, Grant questions 262 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 5: he's definitely never been asked before on the show, on 263 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 5: a new podcast, and you will get to know him. 264 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 4: On a deeper level. 265 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, we did some. We looked into social media, some googling. Well, 266 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: actually I did, and but Danny diad and we are 267 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:54,199 Speaker 1: going We're going way back. So Grant you ready, ready, 268 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 1: let's let's do it all right, all. 269 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 4: Right, let's kick it off. So let's start off strong. 270 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 5: Can you Elise at the time you jumped out of 271 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 5: a window while you were at a party in college? 272 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: See, I knew, I knew these were gonna throw them off. 273 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: They threw us. 274 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 5: I was like crazy, Like when Danny did these with us, 275 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,839 Speaker 5: we were like, how do you know this? 276 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 4: Like did you call our parents? What is going on? 277 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 1: Yeah? 278 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, I was. I was pretty crazy back then. 279 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 3: So it's crazy because I was on a full scholarship 280 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: tal you Onna, And there was a we had there 281 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 3: was a house party going on and I and I 282 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 3: was in there and uh, my boy Shanny, well, my 283 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 3: friend Shanny and his friend Will had had thrown it. 284 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 3: And I wasn't supposed to be out, you know, because 285 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 3: they the coach knew everybody in town. So it was 286 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 3: a little bit loud, and you know, somebody came to 287 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 3: the door and they knocked, and I just freaked out. 288 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 3: I was like, oh man, I don't want my coach 289 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 3: finding out, So I just jumped out of the window 290 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 3: and I kind of like ran away and I ended 291 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 3: up like injuring my foot a little bit. So ultimately, 292 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 3: it wasn't the best decision, you know, something something that 293 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 3: a young person would do, and it was it wasn't 294 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 3: a good decision. 295 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you take. 296 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 2: My intentions? Right? I told him that I was skateboarding. 297 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: And nice, okay, you said earning ten million is on 298 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: your bucket list? Why that number and how do you 299 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: plan to reach that goal? 300 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: Oh? Man, that's just you know, shoot for the stars. 301 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 3: And if you know you don't make it, you know 302 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 3: you you you fall short, You're still you're still pretty 303 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 3: high up there. 304 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: So Tim, it's just a number, you know what I'm saying. 305 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 3: And ultimately, whatever whatever I do earn from the market, 306 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 3: I'm super grateful, but I'm just I'm just trying to 307 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: shoot for a high goal and anywhere in the millions 308 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 3: would be nice. 309 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 5: Can you can you tell us more about your career 310 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 5: as a professional basketball player overseas and why you eventually 311 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 5: stopped playing. I know we touched on this a little 312 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 5: bit when we had you on the first time a 313 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 5: while back, but just to refresh people's memory about you. 314 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I've been playing basketball since I was probably 315 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: eight years old, and. 316 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 2: I fell in love with it. I fell in love 317 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: with the. 318 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 3: Competition, and you know, I went to I was the 319 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 3: first division and recruit in my high school. You know, 320 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 3: I had a lot of offers coming out of high school. 321 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 3: I ultimately did get on my SAT and I committed 322 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 3: to I own them in the MAC and you know, 323 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 3: we we had some great runs in the tournament. 324 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: And then ultimately I was. 325 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 3: Working out for the Dominican Republic national team, you know, 326 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 3: the quality to try to qualify for the Olympics and everything, 327 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 3: and one of the coaches over there was a coach 328 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 3: in the country, So I ended up getting drafted there. 329 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 3: I was a number five pick over there, and it 330 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 3: was it was it was really a really fun experience 331 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 3: in uh in that country, you know. But at the 332 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: same time, it's super cutthroat, and that's ultimately wanted made 333 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: me want to get in finance because I saw a 334 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 3: lot of guys that would either in the NBA Summer 335 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 3: League or had a stint with the Grizzlies or something 336 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 3: like that, and they would make this money and they 337 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 3: would come back and they wouldn't know what to do, 338 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, who know how to buncht 339 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 3: their finances or you know, invest And that's what got 340 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 3: me into creating. 341 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 2: But that's beside the point. In terms of basketball. 342 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: I stopped because ultimately I I went baseline and I 343 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 3: dumped and I cut my elbow on the backboard and 344 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 3: then they didn't clean it out properly and then end 345 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 3: up getting effected. 346 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 2: And I almost lost my arm and literally, yeah, it was. 347 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 2: It was a bad infection. 348 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 3: It almost led to stepsis and like it just because 349 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 3: after that, I was like, you know what, I'm done. 350 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 3: You know, I'm done hooping. I'm gonna stay here. You're 351 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 3: at my family, and I'm gonna try to build a life. Ultimately, 352 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 3: you know, the overseas route, it's really cutthroat, and it's 353 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 3: like I've seen instances where there's been a guy playing 354 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 3: and he had one bad game, and I'll see his 355 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 3: replacement on the bench behind the game while while he's playing. 356 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: So it's like they don't really care. It's just you 357 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: perform or you don't. 358 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: And if you don't perform, Yeah, and in a way, 359 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 1: you're you're you're kind of just like a number. Yeah. 360 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't like that though, about the infection. I don't 361 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: like that at all. 362 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 5: Joe has his foot right now and he's about to 363 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 5: go into a deep spiral. 364 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 4: Joe, your cut is fine. 365 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: Grand, it's really just us. Okay, okay, uh to touch 366 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: a little bit on basketball because you kind of touched 367 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: on this and then let into our next question. But 368 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: you did play AAU in high school. Me, you're one 369 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: of the at that time, you're one of the best 370 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: players in the country. Correct, So I wasn't. 371 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 3: I was ranked like two hundred and something country, the 372 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 3: top ten player in my state. The number one player 373 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 3: in my state was a guy by the name of 374 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 3: Kyle Anderson. Okay, league like twelve years so yeah, best 375 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 3: AU team in the state of New Jersey at the time. 376 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 3: It was called the New Jersey Places, And you know, 377 00:17:55,680 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 3: we traveled. You know, Kobe played for them, Tim Thomas, uh, 378 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 3: Vince Carter played with them, j R. Smith, a lot 379 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 3: of guys. So, uh looking up to those guys and 380 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 3: just getting in that direction was was great. And you 381 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 3: know what it taught me. It taught me a foundation 382 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 3: that ultimately I still have today. 383 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, do you know who was when you were 384 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: coming up? Do you know who was number one in 385 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: the country at that time? 386 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 3: A guy by the name of Sabaz Muhammad. 387 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 2: He went to u c l A. Uh. 388 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, he went to u c l A. Didn't want 389 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 3: it done, and he was a beast. It's crazy because 390 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 3: the level me and the best in high school. And 391 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,239 Speaker 3: then you know, because I'm a high school team. So 392 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 3: I went to before I went to Capital, I went 393 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 3: to Saint Benedict's and we were number one in the 394 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 3: country and we were the number one team in the 395 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 3: whole country. We had we had a guy by the 396 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 3: name of Michael Bongo. He was like the number one 397 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 3: point guard, Xavier Munkbird. He played for the Grizzlies too. 398 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 3: Tristan Thompson was there. I went there, so that was cool. 399 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 6: One. 400 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 3: Then I went to I graduated from a team called 401 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 3: Hudson Catholic. We had five divisional players there, and then 402 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 3: stepping up to college was like everybody's the best. 403 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a shot there, and then just really 404 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: your work ethic is work has. 405 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: To take to Yeah, it makes sense. 406 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 5: We know that you didn't quite make it to hometowns, 407 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 5: but an ideal hometown you don't make it Jesus show 408 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 5: What's wrong with You? 409 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 1: The episode He's five, He's the next Bachelor. 410 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 5: Well, as we said, you didn't make it totowns, but 411 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 5: an ideal hometown date would be seeing a show at 412 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 5: the New Jersey Performing Arts Center. Are you into theater 413 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 5: and if so, what's your favorite play show. 414 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not into theaters like that, but I do. 415 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 3: I'm not well versed in theater, but I do respect 416 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 3: the art form of being with big part. So being 417 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 3: able to take a concept, whether it's music or acting, 418 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 3: or take an idea, even if it to express it 419 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 3: in a way that is it requires creativity being thought 420 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 3: is something that I respect. So I don't have a 421 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,360 Speaker 3: lot of play these, you know, I probably would if 422 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 3: there was, If there was a play for the movie Avatar, 423 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 3: I probably would would love to go see that. 424 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 5: But yeah, I wouldn't be shocked if they turn Avatar 425 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 5: into a Broadway musical, a Broadway play at some point 426 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 5: at some point. 427 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that would be That would be great. 428 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 3: So but yeah, theater is something that even although I'm 429 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 3: not well versed in it, I respect the craft. 430 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: Seren. 431 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: I keep this in mind. I do really want to 432 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 1: go to the theaters and see the new Beetle Juice 433 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: movie when it comes out. Okay, we heard you have 434 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: an embarrassing hide and Seek story from childhood. Yeah, would 435 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: you care to share that with us? 436 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 2: Okay? So I was playing hide and Seek and we 437 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 2: were in this townhouse and I remember I. 438 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 4: Was like, how old are you? How old are you? 439 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: I was probably like man going on ten maybe or okay, yeah, 440 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 2: I was pretty young. 441 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 3: And I was like hiding. There was a space like 442 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 3: behind the wall on the bed. I was hiding behind 443 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 3: the are so smart, like they're never gonna find me. 444 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 3: And then they come around the corner and found me, 445 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 3: and they say, uh, yeah, they surprised me. When they 446 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 3: surprised me, I just I was so shocked that a 447 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 3: string of snot just came down my nose and it. 448 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: Was They were like, and I was just like, oh, 449 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: it was just like hanging there. So, yeah, that was 450 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 2: so embarrassing. I never I've never heard the end of it. 451 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: Like, I mean, that's better than pissing yourself. 452 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought for sure. 453 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 1: I thought you I thought, yeah, that's what I thought too. 454 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 3: You know, like surprising me and I'm like, no, they 455 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 3: it was like a string just hanging there, and I 456 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, yeah it was. 457 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 2: It was pretty embarrassed. 458 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 5: Okay, can you tell us about the tattoos you have 459 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 5: on your chest and your. 460 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this my left arm is a tattoo of 461 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: the wolf. 462 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 3: I actually got it when I was in American Republic 463 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 3: because you know, I was alone out there and I 464 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 3: didn't have any family and you know, out there and 465 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 3: it was just like I was going through a transition 466 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 3: period where I'm playing against these grown men, you know 467 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, and it's my first year and these 468 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 3: guys are trying to support their family. 469 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 2: So I was, you know, and I had all these 470 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 2: expectations on me as a. 471 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 3: Number five pick, and I was having I was having 472 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 3: a rough time, you know, and uh, I felt alone. 473 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 3: So I kind of got a lone wolf on my 474 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 3: on my arm and you know, when I look at that, 475 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 3: it reminds me of some some that that period of 476 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 3: my life. And then this on my chest is just 477 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: the scripture versus songs one O three, and then on 478 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 3: the right side it says God's Child. Yeah, I got, 479 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 3: I got, Well, I get more. Maybe I might get more. 480 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 3: You know, it's not like something that's a priority for me. 481 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 3: I might want to finish out this this left side, 482 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 3: but if I don't, then it's you know, I'm not 483 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 3: not in a rushka. 484 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: Can you tell us about your ferrari? 485 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I ended up it was probably wasn't the 486 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 3: best decision to do. You know what I'm saying, money 487 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 3: and then you know, but looking back, the one thing 488 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 3: I will say is when you do get to a 489 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 3: place where you where you make some make some some 490 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 3: nice money, uh, just invested or save it, you know, 491 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 3: because with trading and the purchase that I made, there's 492 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 3: gonna be there's months where there's where it's up and down, 493 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 3: and then you have to keep you have to live 494 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 3: below your means. So that's something that I do. And 495 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 3: you know, maintenance, you know, you're you're fixing something and 496 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 3: it's like eight thousand here. It's like it's just a lot. 497 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 3: It's just it's a lot to maintain. That's when one 498 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 3: that's one thing I will say about my car. 499 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, that beautiful. 500 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 4: It's probably fun. 501 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, fun, it's fun, you know what I'm saying. 502 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 3: And people judge off of what you drive, and it's 503 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 3: just like it's a lot of attention. That is uh, 504 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: you know, I'm kind of a low key guy. 505 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 4: So yeah, isn't giving locy energy? 506 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 5: And so you got to change your identity there? Uh 507 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 5: you shared, you shared in a previous relationship. You're possibly 508 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 5: months away from getting engaged slash married. How did you 509 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 5: realize that wasn't right for you? And what do you 510 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 5: know now that you didn't. 511 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 3: Then it's not even that I realized that it wasn't 512 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 3: right for me because I was all in. 513 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 2: It's just that people. 514 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 3: People grow apart, and if you're if both parties aren't 515 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 3: willing to fight through the through tough times, then it's 516 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 3: not gonna work. So ultimately it was supposed to happen 517 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 3: that way. And a lot of times when you're going 518 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 3: through a tough situation, you don't you don't you don't 519 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 3: see what's on the other side, but ultimately things ended 520 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 3: up for the better, and I'm super proud of where 521 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 3: she is today. You know, I'll always supporter from the background, 522 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 3: and like, you know, I want the best for her. 523 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 3: And ultimately, yeah, it just it just it didn't. It 524 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 3: didn't work out the way I thought it would. But 525 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 3: you know, uh, there's a there's a better plan ahead 526 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 3: and a bigger picture ahead for me. 527 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: Do you consider yourself a good cook? If so, what's 528 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: your favorite meal to cook? 529 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a little bit of average cook, you know. 530 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 3: Uh so I do have some Spanish blood in me, 531 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 3: so like I you know, my grandma always used to 532 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 3: cook steak and rice, rice and beans and you know, 533 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 3: mac and cheese, grilled chicken. 534 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 2: So I think my fi broccoli is verygus My favorite, 535 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 2: my favorite meal to cook is probably a nice rabbi 536 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 2: with some black means and some steak and some salt 537 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 2: taped broccoli with some onions and garden. 538 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: A little bit of a choice. 539 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's probably I love a good rabvit, you know, 540 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 3: because it doesn't need a lot of it doesn't need 541 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 3: a lot of uh seasoning, and then you just you 542 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 3: can see that fat cap and like it's just it's. 543 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just recently switched over to rabbis. I was 544 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 1: always I always did like a New York strip and 545 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,440 Speaker 1: lately I've been getting a rabbi and I really enjoy them. 546 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 2: My steak is like it's. 547 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 4: A dream, you know, it is steak. Last night, it 548 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,119 Speaker 4: was good. No vegetarians on this podcast, right to heally. 549 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 5: But we know that you love poetry and reading. What 550 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 5: are some of your favorite books or authors? 551 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 3: So it's gonna sound so crazy, but some of my 552 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:31,360 Speaker 3: favorite books are trading books, which is such a nerd name. 553 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 3: Trading in the zone of the psychology of Mark Douglas 554 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 3: is really good author. So it's it's not creative. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 555 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 3: those I love books like that because I just love 556 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 3: to learn new things. And if i'm if I'm going 557 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 3: like based on. 558 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 2: A let's see, like a. 559 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 3: Adventurous book or something that I read when I was 560 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 3: a kid. Hmm, that's a great question. I probably would 561 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:08,919 Speaker 3: would pick. Man, I'm trying to remember this book. It 562 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 3: was like a series of unfortunate events, a series of 563 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 3: that was like I read that book. 564 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 2: I read those books. I used to love those books 565 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:17,719 Speaker 2: growing up. 566 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 4: Those were fine, and then they meet into a movie 567 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 4: and it's kind of dark. 568 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was way better. 569 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, books are always better. 570 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 1: You plan to visit every country in the world. Which 571 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 1: ones have you been to so far and which is 572 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: your all time favorite? 573 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 2: So I've been to a lot of the Latin countries, 574 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: you know, so when I when I. 575 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 6: Was traveling, I haven't really got to explore the way 576 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 6: I wanted to Like in Puerto Rico, Mexico, Dominican Republic, Spain, Europe, 577 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 6: you know a lot of places I haven't really got 578 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 6: to explore the. 579 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 2: Way I wanted to be. 580 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 3: I was always playing, Well, yeah, I really want to 581 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 3: Uh we want to go to Jamaica. 582 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 2: I really want to go to Asia. 583 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 3: I really want to go to different different places, just 584 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 3: to see all the different culture that's involved in that. 585 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 5: You said you've been to a lot of like Latin 586 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,120 Speaker 5: influenced places. 587 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 4: Is that why you're some into s alta dancing? 588 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm into I'm into all types of dance. Yeah, 589 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 2: a little bit of everything. 590 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 3: I'm not the best, but I like, I like, I 591 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 3: just like, uh to express myself in that way, especially 592 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 3: when you know, I. 593 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 2: Got a couple of drinks. 594 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 4: Did you see the break dancing at the Olympics. 595 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was hilarious. 596 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 4: They should send you next year. You could definitely beat 597 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 4: that girl from Australia, right. 598 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 3: Right, right, that was crazy. Olympics was crazy. You see 599 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 3: that meme the dude from Turkey just walking. 600 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I did it with the gun, right. Yeah. 601 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: Everybody else's like has the because the competition was, you know, 602 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 3: like it's a shooting competition and everybody else has like 603 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 3: the one eye goggles and had these these these goggles on. 604 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 3: He just walks in their glasses and wins second. 605 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, you haven't seen that. 606 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 5: The guy I've been seeing, the guy who likes chocolate 607 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 5: muffins and the breakdancing chick. And that's that's basically my 608 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 5: entire Olympic TikTok for you. 609 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy because the breakdancing thing is like when 610 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 3: you when you lie on your job applications. 611 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 5: And yeah, but now she's getting like sued because I 612 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 5: guess she created the committee to decide who goes to 613 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 5: the Olympics for breakdancing and then like put her husband 614 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 5: as one of the judges and then auditioned herself and 615 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 5: like like she like snuck her way in there. Really 616 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 5: it's a scandal, guys. 617 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: But she got exposed on that because that was the 618 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 3: she didn't do the best. 619 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 5: She's expoused. So Grant, you got your way in there. 620 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 5: And actually they're bringing break dancing back. But maybe she's 621 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 5: also worry about the bachelor. 622 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: Right now, that's that's all you need to worry about. 623 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: All right, before we let you go, Grant, we're gonna 624 00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: play a quick game red flag or row with bachelor 625 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: Grant ls you ready, ready? All right? Is it a 626 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: red flag or a rose? If they don't post you 627 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 1: on their social media? 628 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 2: That's a good question. Probably a probably a rose. You 629 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 2: know sometimes am I supposed to describe why? Or uh no? 630 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: Just I mean it's rapid fire. But I would say 631 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship for quite some time and 632 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: she never posts you on your social media, I feel 633 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: like that would be somewhat of a red flag. 634 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, some after a while, when you're first entering a relationship, 635 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, because you never know what people, 636 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 3: people might might try to ruin your relationship when they 637 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 3: see this that you know it might be a little 638 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 3: so at first, yeah, keep it low, but then after 639 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 3: a while post. 640 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: Okay, don't offer to pay on the first date. 641 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 2: Oh, that's yeah, I don't mind. That's that's a rose. 642 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 3: You know, first date is on me and the dates 643 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 3: are on me, and then you know, we'll we'll, we'll, 644 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 3: we'll figure something out with you know later. 645 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 1: I agree, have a really close guy friend. 646 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 4: Uh, it's a good question. 647 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 2: That's it. I don't mind. That's it. That's a a rose. 648 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 3: If it was if you guys were super close before me, 649 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 3: as long as there was nothing there then you know. 650 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 3: But if he's just a new guy friend coming around 651 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 3: and one hugs and stuff, I don't know. 652 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. But if he's he's a guy. What 653 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: if he's he's a really close guy friend and they 654 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: have occasional sleepoverse? 655 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 7: Well, all right, Uh, text you first after the date? 656 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 7: After text you first after the first date? Ruse that 657 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 7: always love to spill the tea with you. 658 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 2: Uh, that's a rose. 659 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 3: You know, if if my woman wants to come in 660 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 3: and talk to me, I'm not much of a gosper, 661 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 3: but if she wants to talk about things like hey, 662 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:55,239 Speaker 3: that'll stay with us. 663 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 1: Stren's such a gossiper. 664 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 4: I'm not a gospeler, just a gospeler with you, still. 665 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,239 Speaker 1: Have pictures of their ex on their Instagram. Oh it's 666 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: a red flag, okay, our friends with their acts. 667 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 3: Uh, I'm not gonna say if the rose are a 668 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 3: red flag, you could you could as long as there's 669 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 3: no you could care for them. But as long as 670 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 3: there's no like communication or you know, you could care, 671 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 3: if you could be, you could have love for them 672 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 3: as as a friend, but. 673 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 2: Just don't be talking to them. Yeah. 674 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 4: I feel like that's very like situational too. 675 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 5: Like if it was like a two month relationship in 676 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 5: high school, like we can pass that, but if it 677 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 5: was like a two year girlfriend, like maybe not. 678 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I didn't come up with these questions. 679 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 3: You know. 680 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 1: Uh, don't like holding hands in public, that's a red flag. 681 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,479 Speaker 3: We gotta we gotta, we gotta, we gotta hold hands sometimes. 682 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 3: But I understand you might need your space sometimes. 683 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 2: I get it. 684 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: I said I tell that to serreenal time. She never 685 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 1: on sold my hand in public. That's not true. 686 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 4: I do hold your hand. 687 00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 1: Call their mom every time. You guys argue. 688 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 2: Mhm, that's that's a red flag to me. You know, 689 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 2: we should handle our problems between us, you know. 690 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: Well that take hours to reply to a text. 691 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 2: Red flag. 692 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, are a member of the Mile High Club. 693 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 2: Uh m hmm, I'm gonna be that might be a rose. 694 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 2: I like that. 695 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 1: Are are a natural flirt. 696 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not I'm not gonna have to give a 697 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 2: red flyer rose. I'm so I don't. 698 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say that might be a red flag. 699 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 3: But sometimes people just think you're flirting with them, you're not. 700 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like to cuddle while they sleep. 701 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: Uh, that's that's a that's a rose. You know. 702 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 3: I like to to with me Sometimes I'm gonna start 703 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 3: cuddling and I might end up on the other side 704 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 3: of the bed, you know, at night. 705 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, ask about your past relationships. 706 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,959 Speaker 2: I don't mind. That's definitely that's definitely a rose. 707 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 3: You have to, you know, figure out about somebody's paths, 708 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 3: you know, as long as it don't doesn't affect the 709 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 3: new relationship. 710 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a good answer. All right, Well, Grant, 711 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna let you go because that's all we got 712 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: for you today, and I'm sure you're going to be 713 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: on this podcast at least minimum two more times. I'm 714 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: so happy that you are the bachelor, very excited for you. 715 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,800 Speaker 1: So congratulations and thank you for taking the time today. 716 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much. Again. I love what you 717 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:45,360 Speaker 2: guys do. I respect it. 718 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 3: You guys do a great job and I can't wait. 719 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 3: I'm looking forward to hanging out with you guys again. 720 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 3: I appreciate every opportunity. 721 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: Absolutely, and to all our listeners, thank you guys so 722 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: much for tuning in. Make sure to download and subscribe. 723 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: We love having you guys here and we will have 724 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,919 Speaker 1: more interviews and recaps coming up every week. 725 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 4: Yep, lots of more exciting stuff coming from Gen season. 726 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 5: The Golden Bochelray is just around the corner, so don't 727 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 5: get to subscribe and thank you for listening. 728 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 4: Bye.