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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lix Pee.

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Speaker 2: And it's your girls Ray and the Cold, and you

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Speaker 2: are tuned in to another episode of poor mind.

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Speaker 3: Whereas my mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: So as y'all can see, we really, you know, we

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Speaker 2: put on little one two today, not we some real

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Speaker 2: stupid we stepping back crazy. It's my birthday episode real cute,

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Speaker 2: yes girl, And I'm gonna get into the details on

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Speaker 2: this fit. It's gonna be my item of the week.

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Speaker 2: So y'all make sure y'all stay tuned because I know

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Speaker 2: y'all gonna on all the deets and things like that.

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Speaker 2: But yes, I am officially a thirty four. I have

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Speaker 2: entered my mides.

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Speaker 3: I am amid a thirty year old and I love

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Speaker 3: it here. So I'm just feeling sixty, not you feeling sixty.

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Speaker 3: I can tell you I'm a real sex I said,

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Speaker 3: see through.

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy though, I really it sounds so cliche,

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Speaker 2: but it's like this journey that I've been on this year,

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Speaker 2: like my life is getting better and better the older

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Speaker 2: I get. I feel like I'm getting healthier, like I'm

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Speaker 2: looking better, like I'm getting in shape.

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Speaker 1: I got a trainer.

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Speaker 3: Now I've been working out, I'm eating healthy. Shout out

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Speaker 3: to mister Reggie, what's what's the gym called effects? A

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Speaker 3: lot of fact faties not be getting my ass? What

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Speaker 3: all of them? All of us? We all be in

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Speaker 3: there time. So yeah, shout out to miss at effect

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Speaker 3: feb It's like girl being there looking a miss.

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Speaker 1: They'd be like, oh they go poor minds all right?

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Speaker 3: No, Yeah, it's facts that if people be trying to

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Speaker 3: tell us we be looking cute, baby, I'll be looking tired.

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm possible fall on the ground and

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Speaker 3: then it's back. Because you know, when you're working out

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Speaker 3: the main problem, I feel like whenever we get into

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Speaker 2: And the thing about me is I'm not a quick person.

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Speaker 1: To work on my form.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm the kind of person I want to do

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Speaker 2: to he gonna make suow you doing everything right and

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Speaker 3: And another thing that people be feeling to realize. So

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Speaker 3: birthday episode. I hope mister Reggie not tuned in. Oh

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Speaker 3: how that shots is fine, he said, long as one

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Speaker 4: It right now, Go get you a shot and take

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Speaker 3: I'm just being, you know, happier in my space and

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Speaker 3: It's all about perspective, Like you don't have the life

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Speaker 3: You know, you just expect your life to get better

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Speaker 3: and you just think, all my life's supposed to get

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times when I was

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Speaker 3: That's really a great thing, you know, because life is

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Speaker 2: When I tell you I've always been a selfish person,

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I have a question, do

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Speaker 3: I feel like when you're surrounded by people. I'm asking

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Speaker 2: You are really a We talked about this the other week,

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Speaker 2: how you're a reflection of a person that you date,

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Speaker 2: but you're also a reflection of your friends. Like I

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Speaker 2: I want to be around women who like enjoy going

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Speaker 2: want to go to the museum and experience different things. Now,

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Speaker 3: That's why we fraend. I'm telling you, I love the

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Speaker 1: Life is about balance.

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Speaker 2: Everything I needed in all aspects and balance. But the

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Speaker 3: Do that? Do that? You know what I'm saying. Of course,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't go to dubab with three dollars. Bitch, that ain't.

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Speaker 3: Well, that ain't smart. But I had a time now.

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Speaker 2: But you know what's crazy about it is like I

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Speaker 1: Not man, I just did it on them.

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Speaker 3: Ship it on. I'm sorry, Like, it's a lot of

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Speaker 3: clearly what buts you read? It's called scatting. Remember I

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Speaker 3: Called scat play. Like they like to play in the

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Speaker 3: Don't know, maybe have you ever like put your butt

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Speaker 3: if you had some corn for lunch? ALR y'all a

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Speaker 3: it don't dissolve. I don't eat corn unless it's crawfish season,

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Speaker 3: Does it?

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Speaker 3: Right? Oh? Is it man made?

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Speaker 1: I don't know about it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know like it though, because it gets stuck

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Speaker 3: your booty plug is wild. No, I just think I've

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Speaker 3: you have you ever had anything? I don't think so? No. No,

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Speaker 3: I shop regularly. I mean you can ship regularly, but

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Speaker 3: tied what we do eight? I had a smoothie today.

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Speaker 3: This is just a smooth going down.

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Speaker 5: So in honor of Lexi's birthday this week, this one

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Speaker 5: we're gonna call Leo season.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because tis the season.

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Speaker 5: This one is kind of like a play on a Cosmopolitan.

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Speaker 5: So we are going to have some vodka. We use

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Speaker 5: some of that VUSA vodka that we used before, Black

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Speaker 5: Owned Vodka for lex Then we use some tequila for Drea.

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Speaker 5: We have some orange liqueur, some lime juice, and a

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Speaker 5: little bit of cranberry juice inside for Dreas. We actually

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Speaker 5: switched to cranberry juice for a little grapefruit juice just

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Speaker 5: to give her.

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Speaker 3: A little bit more of that tartness.

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Speaker 5: And we're keeping the calories low, so no sweeteners or

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Speaker 5: nothing too sweet at it.

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Speaker 3: In I love me some crap.

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Speaker 1: You hear that, mister Reggie, all right now.

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Speaker 3: Love me some grapefruit juice. Grapefruit is so fun fact

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Speaker 3: about me. Like, I literally that's the only juice I drink.

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Speaker 3: Remember I used to like orange juice. Don't drink orange

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Speaker 3: juice no more. Not all I drink is grapefruitgu I

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Speaker 3: love grapefruit juice and I love creanberry juice. It's like

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Speaker 3: I don't drink juice. I feel like grapefruit juice though,

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Speaker 3: is like in a choir. It's one of those like

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Speaker 3: it's definitely a taste.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna drink some grape grapefruit.

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Speaker 3: That was my mom's favorite fruit growing up, so I

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Speaker 3: think as a little girl, I just started eating it

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Speaker 3: with her because she would eat it so much, and.

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Speaker 1: I just I always like to taste. I never I

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Speaker 1: don't like sweet stuff.

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Speaker 3: I don't crazy like you know how people wake up

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Speaker 3: and like, oh I want French.

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Speaker 1: Toast I want. I do not like a sweet ass breakfast.

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Speaker 3: I think that's we're the same in that way. I

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Speaker 3: like more savory stuff. I'm not a sweet girl. Some

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Speaker 3: pop chops, yeah, no, no, I miss pork chops. I

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Speaker 3: don't eat pork chops somewhere. I ate them so much

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Speaker 3: growing up my dad that's all he knew. How barb

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Speaker 3: every week o pork chops, fried pork, mother pork chops,

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Speaker 3: baked pork chops.

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Speaker 1: I was tied of.

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Speaker 3: Pork chops by the time I turned eighteen. Bitch, I

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Speaker 3: ain't ate the pork chops since I was legal.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Me, you and miss Barbara

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Speaker 2: went to eat baby. She told them pope chops up.

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Speaker 2: Mind her, my daddy, she said, let me get them

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Speaker 2: paul chops.

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Speaker 3: I said, madamn, where were we at little Ellie? We

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Speaker 3: had little Alice state. Oh yeah, we said my mom

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Speaker 3: to little Ellie for her birthday. But he love miss

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Speaker 3: my mama is funny, like unintentionally too, like she don't

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Speaker 3: even be trying she's just a funny person. But I

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Speaker 3: don't know. Pork chops be busting. Don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 3: but I ate them so much growing up that like,

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Speaker 3: I don't even eat that she. I don't care how

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Speaker 3: healthy I get, how healthy I am. I'm never gonna

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Speaker 3: stop eating boot in. That's just one thing. That's why

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Speaker 3: I'm never gonna be like, oh, no pork on your fork.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be some motherfucking pork on my fork, but

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Speaker 3: different variations. I don't want it. I don't want it.

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Speaker 3: I don't like crawfish bood in. I don't want no

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Speaker 3: chicken boot in. I don't want no beet. I want

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Speaker 3: boot in. Bitch. Give me the arret y'all know, spicy,

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Speaker 3: extra crispit, bitch, give me the I want the pig, bitch.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to know. I seen somebody do some

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Speaker 3: vegan boot in. Some stuff just shouldn't be touched. There's

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Speaker 3: certain things that you can't make vegan. Bitch. Why everybody

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Speaker 3: want to make everything be in these days? Like because

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Speaker 3: if you really enjoy eating a four leaf clover while

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Speaker 3: you trying to make it sound like it's a steak

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Speaker 3: or it's some boot and bitch, just go grays in

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Speaker 3: the field with the rest of the beere. I agree

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Speaker 3: with that. I think that it's unnecessary. I feel like,

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Speaker 3: if you want to still eat meat, their bad. Just

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Speaker 3: eat it, because, honestly, a lot of times, a lot

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Speaker 3: of these vegan pages I see cancer. I don't give

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Speaker 3: a damn. Just eat the meat, bitch, just eat the

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Speaker 3: pork chop, because you know what what you got for

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Speaker 3: a pork chop, It's so much star Rena Wachini, said Corts.

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Speaker 3: But a lot of times I see these vegan pages

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Speaker 3: so much starch, and it's a lot of soy.

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Speaker 1: You know, you can over eat soy too.

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Speaker 3: I don't like the ooh, the soy reaso and so oh,

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Speaker 3: but that that.

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Speaker 1: Shit newly blessed? Now, y'all, did y'all ate that one

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Speaker 1: little thing?

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Speaker 3: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: Y'all know?

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Speaker 3: Now, okay, y'all need y'all big one with that one.

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Speaker 1: Y'all need y'all one little thing with reason, y'all do I?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's up? Y'all's your girl lex P And y'all

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Speaker 3: know we coming to Nashville August nineteenth. We're gonna be

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Speaker 3: at City Winery. Doors open, at six, show starts at eight,

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Speaker 3: and guess what, y'all, it's my birthday week. So y'all

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Speaker 3: know this show finna be super lit. We got some

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Speaker 3: special guests coming through, okay, so we want to know

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Speaker 3: this is there a way you can cheat? But it's respectful.

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Speaker 3: It's respectful. It's what she's saying. Yes, I'm she's saying

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Speaker 3: yes what you say no, no, yes, I see mostly yes,

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. We are gonna party so hard, y'all. This

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Speaker 3: is gonna be our best show yet because last time

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Speaker 3: we went to Nashville, we cut up. This time it's

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Speaker 3: my birthday week, were really about to cut So I'm

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Speaker 3: telling y'all get your tickets right now. August nineteenth City Winery.

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Speaker 3: See y'all on period. Let's get into these topics, bitch,

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Speaker 3: because we're not doing a long episode like okay. So

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Speaker 3: the first thing I wanted to talk about today because

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Speaker 3: it has been just a lot of interesting things going

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Speaker 3: on as of recently, and I want to talk about

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Speaker 3: do y'all believe black media is valued as it should be,

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Speaker 3: because you know, I just like to watch what everybody

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Speaker 3: doing and I feel like, obviously now we are in

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Speaker 3: the day and age where podcasting is the way that

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Speaker 3: a lot of these celebrities are touching the people because.

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Speaker 1: Podcasts are the wave.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: People aren't watching They're not turning on the TV and

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Speaker 2: watching celebrity news like they used to. You remember when

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Speaker 2: we were younger, it was used to be like Hollywood

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Speaker 2: Access et all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: They're not watching that anymore.

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Speaker 2: They're turning onto these podcasts and they're literally seeing these

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Speaker 2: a list favorite celebrities talk with you know, regular people

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Speaker 2: like us. So do y'all feel like sometimes though, the

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Speaker 2: black podcasts, so like black media in general, not just podcasts,

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Speaker 2: are just like kind of getting skipped over when it

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Speaker 2: comes to like stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they getting skipped over. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like don't I don't feel like it's getting skipped over.

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Speaker 3: I just think that it's so many different outlets to

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Speaker 3: consume these days, and that's the difference, right, Like I

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Speaker 3: feel like back then, you had ET, you had extra,

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Speaker 3: you had see them. You remember see it on BT

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Speaker 3: the first Ai Yea Facts, then had ai bitch Fags.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, yes, back then, it was so many

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Speaker 3: limited resources, like you had to tune into these specific

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Speaker 3: platforms I think now, I don't want to say it's oversaturated,

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Speaker 3: but it's literally so many people talking about the same

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Speaker 3: shit all the time on social media. So it's like,

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Speaker 3: who do I tune in? Sood who should I listen to.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you, I said, because.

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Speaker 3: Everybody's talking about the same so what. So it's really

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Speaker 3: about to me, what separates you from everybody else, Whether

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Speaker 3: it's about it, whether it be personality, whether it be hot,

606
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Speaker 3: your delivery. I think that's what separates people these days

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Speaker 3: because everybody is doing the same shit. I think that

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Speaker 3: once people started realizing that podcasting and being in media

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Speaker 3: and all of these things are lucrative, which is being

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Speaker 3: lucrative for the past twenty thirty, forty, fifty sixty years.

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Speaker 3: That's why you had Barbara Watsons, That's why you had

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Speaker 3: Diane Sawyer, That's why you had Oprah, That's why you

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Speaker 3: had Wendy Williams, like you had all these people because

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Speaker 3: being in the media space of interviewing and reporting news

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Speaker 3: and talking about how topics and all of these shit

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Speaker 3: has been lucrative. But I feel like now with social media,

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Speaker 3: people can really see how it's lucrative, right because yeah,

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Speaker 3: we can do it on a O. Yeah, you used

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Speaker 3: to like for people to hear you, you used to

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Speaker 3: have to be on an ABC or an MTV or

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Speaker 3: a one. Now we can do it at home. You

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Speaker 3: can do it in your home.

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Speaker 2: And people can literally go home, look at us, subscribe

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Speaker 2: to you. Honestly, truly, but I'm glad that you said that,

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Speaker 2: because it's crazy. I had this conversation with Killer the

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Speaker 2: other day, and honestly, I don't want to say, like

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Speaker 2: I'm tired of podcasts because I believe nothing can be

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Speaker 2: oversaturated because there's an audience for everybody. And I always

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Speaker 2: tell people I don't give a fuck with somebody, say

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Speaker 2: start your shit, whatever you want to do, whether there's

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Speaker 2: being an actress or being this or being that. Started.

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Speaker 2: Nothing is oversaturated. There's what how many people in the world,

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Speaker 2: three billions something. I don't know, it's something for everybody.

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Speaker 2: But I will say.

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Speaker 3: When I get on line and I'm scrolling through and

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Speaker 3: I'm seeing, like what the other people in my industry

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Speaker 3: are doing, because I do like to keep up with

638
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Speaker 3: everybody and see what everybody on making sure I'm keeping

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Speaker 3: up with the trends because you know, Auntie oh, happy

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Speaker 3: birthday to me. I'm thirty four, bless you, I'm thirty. Oh,

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Speaker 3: so I'll be like, okay, let me make your auntie

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Speaker 3: keeping up, because sometimes baby.

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Speaker 1: I'll just drift off.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what y'all young is talking about, but

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Speaker 3: when I do see people talking about things that y'all

646
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Speaker 3: are literally looking at somebody else's content and stealing their topics,

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Speaker 3: going to Twitter, literally taking topics from Twitter. And I mean,

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Speaker 3: I get it, we all borrow this whatever, but I'm saying,

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Speaker 3: you're not even putting a little twist on it. You're

650
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Speaker 3: not even putting a little seasoning on it.

651
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,239
Speaker 2: You're literally saying, oh, the most basic ass topics. Like

652
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: I literally came across the podcast the other day and

653
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, what do you think about two

654
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 2: hundred dollars dates?

655
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 3: Are you serious? And we've been talking about that for

656
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 3: twenty years, letting fucking go? Oh now what are we

657
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 3: letting go? What are we fucking doing here?

658
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: I think that we are at the point now with

659
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 2: relationship topics, we understand do what the fuck works for you,

660
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 2: because at this point I don't give a fuck. I

661
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: really don't care if you're fucking your nigga.

662
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: On the first night.

663
00:30:59,360 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: If you're waiting.

664
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 3: Yes, I used to talk about that ship.

665
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck baby because this.

666
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 3: Person because realistically it's person by person bass. You could

667
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 3: meet a nigga and you fuck him on the first

668
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 3: night and he'd be like, oh, she not wifey material,

669
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fuck with her no more. You could

670
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 3: meet a nigga and you fuck him on the first

671
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 3: night and he'd be like, ooh, this is my wife.

672
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't tuck my nigga on the first night,

673
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 3: though I did. No, I wasn't talking about that. You

674
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: made me. You made me think about the part of

675
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 3: why did I give me? When she was happy, she

676
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: was like, we be having moments where it's like only

677
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 3: us know about it. No, y'all know that moment when

678
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 3: Sheila was in the bathroom and she was talking about

679
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 3: how happy she was, she was like, ah, because she

680
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 3: finally got her good man. Because Mike did not want

681
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 3: to say he was not happy with their one piece

682
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 3: and he sitting up to the back of the airplane

683
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 3: or song now go hit in two seeds and let

684
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 3: me tell y'all something.

685
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: Jill Scott wasn't even that big in.

686
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 3: That movie, Dude, is that real? I don't even feel

687
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 3: like that's real though, Like I feel like that was

688
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 3: some made up TV shit. I've never been on the

689
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 3: airplane and seen nobody went two seeds.

690
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna lie.

691
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 3: There are some people who are like very big. I

692
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 3: think it's like the people that be on like My

693
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: six hundred Pound Life, like somebody like that would have

694
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 3: to order two seats. But Jill Scott, do they make

695
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: them buy two seeds or do they like just.

696
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: I mean, there's no if you've watched My six hundred

697
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: Pound Life, like somebody like that.

698
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 3: Would have to buy No. I I understand what you're saying.

699
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 3: I'm asking you know, do they make them buy two

700
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 3: seats or are they just like we just gonna.

701
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 2: I'm not I think maybe something they maybe have like

702
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:43,479
Speaker 2: a air comference thing, maybe in the fine print, like

703
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 2: a I don't know.

704
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know, bitch. I ain't never been no

705
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: fucking flight pilot air.

706
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 3: I'm an exges me, but I will say this, Jill

707
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 3: Scott was not that big in that movie, and all

708
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: they did from the beginning of the movie put the

709
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 3: end in the end of the movie, they put a

710
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 3: corset on her, like, no, they had not that being

711
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 3: I know, but they added like a little pillows and

712
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 3: then they took the pillows off and put a corset

713
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: on her at the end of the movie, like, Oh, she's.

714
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: Just Scott as fine as fuck.

715
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 3: Like watching the movie, it's like she was fine in

716
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: the beginning and she was fine in the end. All

717
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 3: they did was take that big T shirt off of

718
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 3: her and put a course and on her. Tyler Perry,

719
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 3: I fuck with you, but you will pay for your crimes.

720
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 3: You know. I love me.

721
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 1: I'm a Tyler Perry Street Team.

722
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 3: But you did some question of shit. Because shitt it

723
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 3: was fine, sisters is still questionable.

724
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: We're not gonna get it.

725
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: We ain't gonna even.

726
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 2: Get Talking about black media, I do feel like sometimes

727
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: people don't take black media as serious as they should.

728
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 2: It's crazy because like the things sometimes people say, a

729
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: lot of times.

730
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 3: People don't know what the fuck going on, you know

731
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. They'd be like, oh, why would x

732
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 3: y Z get the opportunity to do x y Z?

733
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: And it's like, do you realize what the fuck going

734
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: on over here?

735
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 3: Though?

736
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: And I'm not just talking about us.

737
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 3: I'm talking about in general, like some of these black

738
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: media outlets are getting a million views, a million subscribers,

739
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 3: one million people, okay, And I'm not talking about one

740
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 3: million people that are just staggering and not doing anything,

741
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 3: because let me tell you, it's some platforms that have

742
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 3: a million subscribers but they couldn't sell tickets to anything.

743
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 1: Mm.

744
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: I'm talking about one million active subscribers.

745
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: That says a lot.

746
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 2: So I feel like at sometimes black media doesn't get

747
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: valued as much as it should. Talking about like two

748
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: months ago, two three months ago when they had the

749
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: BT wards, how many times did we talk about, you know,

750
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: we want something for us, we want something for us.

751
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: And as soon as we did, they're like, oh, this.

752
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 3: Is ghetto sexy red in the house talking about my

753
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 3: booty whole brown? Okay, and it is brown? Did she lie?

754
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 3: She not lying? That's a very factual song. What did

755
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 3: she say? That was? So it is actually science? She

756
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 3: took y'all of school because a lot of y as

757
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: a black woman, my pussy paint, my body hole brown.

758
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: A lot of people don't know. Maybe you never had

759
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 3: sex with a black woman, so now you know, like

760
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: you know what to expect, But how many none black

761
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 3: people do you think it's watching the BET Awards?

762
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't.

763
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 3: I don't care though, because you know how valuable the

764
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 3: black dollar is. It don't matter now. But I said

765
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 3: that to go back to what you said, like about

766
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 3: black media being undervalue or maybe how many Black people

767
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 3: do you feel like outside of the black community. Well,

768
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 3: obviously if they're outside of the black community day sometimes

769
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 3: they're not black, But how many people of other races

770
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 3: do you feel like really watched the Beast? I agree

771
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 3: with watch BET in general, it's probably.

772
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: You know, I feel like it's probably like a handful

773
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 2: of people that are outside of our race that actually

774
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 2: like hip hop culture.

775
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: But I do feel like, even if it's zero, who cares?

776
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 2: The black dollar is so fucking valuable And a lot

777
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 2: of times we have proved over and over again how

778
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 2: valuable the black dollar is.

779
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 3: And when black people show up, baby, they're gonna show up.

780
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 3: Black Panther will show you right there. They had a

781
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 3: whole fucking Marvel film and nothing but niggas showed up,

782
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: and that's one of the highest selling Marvel movies. Yeah,

783
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 3: because them niggas, niggas ain't even they don't even know

784
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 3: who to Charlie is and they were showing up talking

785
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 3: about Wakonda Fuss. It's valuable because we spend money, but

786
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 3: it's fucked up because we spend money on what we

787
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 3: see that we feel like isn't rioting. So like people

788
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 3: be buying Louie and She, but you could come out

789
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 3: with your own clothing brand right now and like everybody's

790
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 3: not gonna buy it. Buy. No, they're not people that

791
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 3: I care about buy, but no, I get the people

792
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 3: that you care about. The bitch that ain't enough money

793
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: to pay your bus. It's like you strict, No, I

794
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 3: get I feel, but I feel you.

795
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 2: But guess what that also takes years of building up

796
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 2: and something that I'm passionate about as well, because there

797
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: are black designers out there. Look at her, Nifa baby,

798
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: a black designer and her taste because that's her niche

799
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: and that's.

800
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: What she's fucking good at. So yeah, I can't drop

801
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 3: no long because bitch, I can't. Fucking no, you can't,

802
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,959
Speaker 3: but like that you can. But it's going back into

803
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: what you're saying. And I think also with Honeyfa like

804
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 3: having some like notable celebrities. Oh yeah, but also it's

805
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: actually fucking fashion. Yeah, like I don't give a fuck

806
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 3: where the ship is. Sell that Hanifa got some and

807
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 3: you be like, god damn hell yeah, that ship is

808
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 3: flying as fuck. But that's what I'm saying.

809
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: We underestimate ourselves and a lot of times we want

810
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 2: people to prove themselves, prove themselves, but we don't make

811
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: other people have to prove.

812
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 3: Them You always feel like it's a black issue, though

813
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 3: sometimes I feel like she's just not good.

814
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, now you're right about that.

815
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 3: It's like I don't think people don't be undervalue in

816
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 3: it or not listening just because you black. Like sometimes

817
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 3: I think like, yeah, you happen to be black, but

818
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 3: your shit is ass ass ass big ass. I'm talking

819
00:37:55,680 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 3: talking about me, not talk hold on, not hersh see

820
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 3: this way Okay, sorry, but no I say all that.

821
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 3: But guess what. Guess what, Though I've said this before,

822
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 3: the other people they get to be mediocre and do

823
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 3: whatever the fuck they want. So let black people be

824
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: mediocre sometimes, let them be asked sometimes and do what

825
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 3: they're gonna do. No, it's not let them be asked

826
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 3: because that unfortunately, what we do now is living in

827
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: America living in this country as a black person, if

828
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 3: you want to be successful, you cannot be asked. You

829
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 3: cannot do that. And I'm not saying it's fair, but

830
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 3: that's just our reality. And we can see here all

831
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 3: day and talk about what's fair and unfair of the bench. Unfortunately,

832
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 3: nobody gets to decide the cars that they do. But

833
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 3: as you get older, once you become an adult, you

834
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 3: get to make choices and decisions. Going back to what

835
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,240
Speaker 3: we talked about earlier, But if you so passionate about

836
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 3: being an influencer, if you so passionate about being a

837
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 3: media outlet, hone in on your craft hard, make your

838
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 3: shit not trash to where people want to watch you.

839
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 3: But it's not because it's easy to pull. I feel

840
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: like it's easy to pull the black card all the time.

841
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 3: Sometimes I think it's a little deeper than it. Yeah, no,

842
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,919
Speaker 3: you are right, but like sometimes it is just being

843
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 3: like a but no, sometimes it is just being black.

844
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 3: Like they have a lot of injustices in certain shit

845
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 3: that goes on in the industry just because we black people.

846
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 3: It's a lot of shit that goes on in all

847
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 3: industries in life period. Just being black. It's harder. It's harder.

848
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: We know that four a fag. Sometimes they really do

849
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 3: just be that, but sometimes they be a conglomerate of

850
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: being conglomerate. We need to start having a buzzer because

851
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 3: legs always be impressed.

852
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 1: Let me go sound it out. Sounded out, bitch a

853
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: not conglomerate.

854
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 3: A number of different things are parts that are put

855
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: are grouped together to form of and I use it right.

856
00:39:58,800 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: I'm saying you weren't.

857
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: That was the funny because bitch.

858
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 3: I no, I don't say you didn't say because I

859
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 3: know a lot of times I do a conglomerate of

860
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 3: things that make you think I be playing. No, I

861
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 3: didn't say you thought I said it wrong. What I'm

862
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 3: just saying because that's important to say words and use

863
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 3: them right. That's all I was saying.

864
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: I'm sure, bitch, I ain't never heard that shit in

865
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: my life.

866
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 3: You ain't never heard that twitter, guy, I got a

867
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: conglomerate of weeks like that's the word.

868
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, mind I was trying to use it in

869
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: a sentence.

870
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 3: You went to school with all the white people that

871
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: you never heard conglomerate exactly. That's why people be like, oh,

872
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 3: I want to hang around the white girl. Them white

873
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 3: people don't be knowing shit. Love your Taylor, Whitney, Lindsey,

874
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: all my friends, I still talk to him, Jazz Me,

875
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 3: all my friends, I still talk to him.

876
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 1: Baby.

877
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 3: I ain't never heard Taylor said conglomerate in my life.

878
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 3: But anyways, I feel like it's like a lot of

879
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 3: different things. Oh okay, to simplify.

880
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: Thank you say to me, it's a lot of.

881
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,959
Speaker 3: It's a lot of different reasons why she just doesn't.

882
00:40:59,200 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: I agree with you.

883
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like even look at like

884
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 3: the if you go to the other side, like the

885
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: k pop them people be talented. They practice from when

886
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 3: they're little to when they're adults.

887
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: They are hard. I mean they sharp.

888
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: If you've ever seen like them k pop videos, the artists,

889
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 2: they can really fucking sing, they can really fucking dance.

890
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 3: They are talented. They gotta be sharpest of the shark

891
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 3: to be at the top. I feel like it be

892
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 3: a certain little like demographic sometimes that they get a

893
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 3: little passed.

894
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 1: They get a little passed.

895
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 3: I don't think Asian people is part of getting that passed.

896
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 2: I add that I'm agreeing with you because that's why

897
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: I said the K pop people.

898
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: Every time I've seen a K pop artist, they're absolutely amazing.

899
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:46,720
Speaker 3: The only demographic you're talking about is white people quite

900
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 3: because social the cracause I'm really because I'm really not

901
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 3: trying to be funny, but I feel like every other

902
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 3: demographic do not get a pass, like you gotta be

903
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 3: good or you not.

904
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: No, no, you have to be great.

905
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 3: You have to be great. You have to be great.

906
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 3: And honestly, I said that, I think in America, see,

907
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 3: and that's when she can get deep because then you

908
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 3: when you start talking about America in the rest of

909
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: the world, then that's when she gets a little crazy. Okay,

910
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 3: go ahead and say it what you mean. I just

911
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: I feel like here in America, it's way harder.

912
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: It is harder. But that's why people want to conquer America.

913
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 3: Like people feel like I haven't made it until I'm

914
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 3: like known in America.

915
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:29,919
Speaker 1: I don't know why it's like that.

916
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 3: It's like you have to conquer America to be considered,

917
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 3: to be considered. They don't consider you an international star

918
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 3: until until you've done things in America and you've done

919
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 3: things I will say Europe, you know, like that like,

920
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: if you can do that, then you're an international star.

921
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 3: But it's like, that's really not international because there's a

922
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 3: lot more europe I still don't have to I feel

923
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 3: like America a lot of the time be the catalysts.

924
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe look, maybe we're speaking from ignorance, So

925
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: y'all don't be in the common Americans then yeah, I

926
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: in Americans, they're gonna be like, first of all, I

927
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 2: don't know.

928
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 3: I was about to ask you this that but was

929
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 3: I am good?

930
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: That was the accent?

931
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 3: Are you rushing? That was? That?

932
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:16,720
Speaker 1: Wasn't Russian?

933
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: Anyways, We're gonna move on, So let me know if y'all.

934
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: Feel like black media is valued or not, because I

935
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 2: feel like it's not valued as it should because I

936
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 2: feel like the people who you're gonna get the good

937
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 2: interviews from that's going to really see and show you

938
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 2: people who who they really are. You know how many

939
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: times that we've had people sit on this couch with

940
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 2: and they be like, oh my god, I feel so comfortable.

941
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 3: I've had a time. It's something about a warmth of

942
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: the black woman. So a lot of if y'all see this,

943
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 3: people out there go to these black shows, these black women,

944
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 3: these black men and show love and feel at home.

945
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: We need to bring it back home. Okay, we need

946
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: to value ourselves a lot more. We need to stop

947
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 2: looking at people just because there are different Black people

948
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 2: are so versutile, like we we we come from all

949
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 2: sides of the world. Okay, So just because you can

950
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,959
Speaker 2: see like a sexy Red and then you're gonna see

951
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 2: like Andrea, and then you're gonna see like a Me,

952
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 2: and then.

953
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna see like a Ren.

954
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 3: I feel like me and sexy Red is the same.

955
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 3: I was low key about to say that, but I'm

956
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 3: just talking about like you know, I'm talking about like

957
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 3: even like okay, so she's skinnier, you a little thicker,

958
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 3: I'm a little thicker. But we all sexy in our

959
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 3: own way. Period. I was more talking about like personal,

960
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: but that too, we all sexy in our own way.

961
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 3: Like you're a little more.

962
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: Like sultry sexy sexy Red more like I'm sortry.

963
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: You can be two niggas. I know you.

964
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 3: You're not sultry to me because because I know you,

965
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 3: you don't think I'm sick. You're a character.

966
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 1: It's tut.

967
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 3: You see it inh.

968
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 2: That's why I look sexy sexy Ray. You see this

969
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: come on the show. But yeah, but I feel like

970
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 2: sexy Ray is more out, like this is what you're

971
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 2: gonna get me.

972
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: I'm not sex.

973
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 2: Sexy red and saultry and no, I said, I feel

974
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: like she's more out with it, like this is what

975
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 2: you're gonna get my pussy good, This is like what

976
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do to you me, I don't like, I'm

977
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 2: not none of that at all when I meet me

978
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: and I'm talking about I'm not talking about how I

979
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: am on this. I'm like this, Hey, do you like tacos?

980
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 2: That's the kind of person I am.

981
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: You are not like that.

982
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,439
Speaker 2: When I'm getting comfortable with the man. But I'm telling

983
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm on the first date.

984
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 3: You've never seen me on the first day, Yes I have.

985
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 3: That wasn't the first day. We was just turned up

986
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 3: and that nigga was on the Lion. I can't wait

987
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 3: to show you what he said. It was so weird.

988
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 3: Was a weird though. And I don't know who you're

989
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 3: talking about, but you dated a few weird though, so

990
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,959
Speaker 3: I'm sure whoever were talking about the weird Oh okay,

991
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 3: let's move on. Please. We said we were gonna keep

992
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 3: this empisaze out For the second topic, We're goddamn it, man,

993
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:17,399
Speaker 3: we're gonna run through these. I'm telling y'all, y'all want

994
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 3: to get the bobs going after dinner drink. You're gonna

995
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 3: press your dates, bring them home, tell them, Oh, you

996
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 3: ain't never had this before and it's black on. Wanna

997
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 3: put a little LS in my coffee? Yeah? Absolutely, Hey,

998
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 3: you in your coffee. This is my coffee. Ben. Hell Yeah,

999
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 3: get y'all some LS cream liquor. Y'all need to have

1000
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 3: this in your house. Y'all need to go to wherever

1001
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 3: your favorite bar restaurant is and start telling them, Hey,

1002
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 3: this is what you need. We want LS. We want LS.

1003
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 6: Held on, man, and this is the family business on

1004
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 6: the time.

1005
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 3: It is money bag my feeling. We're doing perks in

1006
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 3: the vi P.

1007
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 7: You got.

1008
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 6: You gotta talking about the show for you don't go.

1009
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 6: I tell you all that first first family business tour.

1010
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: You know what it is.

1011
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 6: Tickets eighty five South. You get the tickets for the

1012
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 6: meet and Greek afterwards, and you know it's not gonna

1013
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 6: be no regular It's gonna be the freaking ship you've

1014
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 6: ever seen in your law popping perk. No, no, no, ladies, ladies,

1015
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 6: just come to the meet and Greek and it's really

1016
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 6: gonna be a greeting meet. It ain't just for it's

1017
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 6: gonna be agreed.

1018
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 3: Now come back there to the VI I p to

1019
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 3: meet and Greek family.

1020
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 6: Right, we're playing spains in there. Don't know, drinking, planning, liquors,

1021
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 6: the family business tour and what money Bag does is

1022
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 6: completely separate. He's more like an independent contract.

1023
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 3: I'm so we are not, okay. So for the second topic,

1024
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 3: I want to talk about people getting bored easily because

1025
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 3: social media has granted us access to so many different people.

1026
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 3: So now I got to reach y'all a tweet that

1027
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: prompted me to say this. So the tweet, Oh what happened? Way, Oh,

1028
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get it big. No, no, no, no, I'm

1029
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 3: gonna get it big. Wait a minute. So yeah, the

1030
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 3: reason we wanted to talk about this is here. Okay.

1031
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 3: So the sweet says the reason y'all get bored easily

1032
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 3: and can't keep our relationship is because y'all don't entertained

1033
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 3: and fuck so many people because the internet gave y'all

1034
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 3: the access to them. Y'all crave and you eat attention

1035
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 3: for multiple people. Y'all, ability to bumb with one person

1036
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,439
Speaker 3: is fucked. It's not because, y'all, it's not because people

1037
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 3: are boring or not interesting. Y'all swear attention ain't a

1038
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 3: drug and people can't get hoogs, when in reality, it

1039
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 3: is a drug that is highly addictive. This social media

1040
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 3: and internet era created a lot of egotistical, narcissist motherfuckers.

1041
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 3: Y'all hate to admit it. Y'all hate to admit it because,

1042
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 3: for one, a lot of you lack self awareness and

1043
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 3: refuse to look within because the truth will force you

1044
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 3: to see your reality and force you to hold yourself accountable.

1045
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 3: For two, y'all are far gone subconsciously addicted to the

1046
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 3: attention in this reckless sex. So what the majority of

1047
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 3: you do is cope by using words to shame others

1048
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 3: who either aren't far gone or who probably are fucked

1049
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 3: up but also see the damage and want to change.

1050
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 3: Y'all call them in secure, lame, boring, etc. Just to cope.

1051
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 3: Time will show you the damage might be too late

1052
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 3: for a lot, and if you feel like that's you,

1053
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 3: that's okay. No one is taking a shot at anyone.

1054
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: But the best thing you can do for yourself if

1055
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 3: you have a goal in life is to self reflect

1056
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 3: and take accountability. No one's better than anyone. But with me,

1057
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 3: even when I do my fuck shit, I'm aware. Okay,

1058
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 3: shout out to tweeter. Oh yes, yes it is Jack

1059
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 3: Saints one on wing Jack.

1060
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: Saints one on one. Okay. Let me say this first

1061
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: of all, I feel like.

1062
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 3: I agree with the statement because social media has made

1063
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 3: people feel like you don't gotta work for a relationship.

1064
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: Oh do you not want to do this? Oh there's

1065
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 1: thirty other niggas that'll do this for me. That's cool.

1066
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 3: But what about how somebody really makes you feel?

1067
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 2: You be feeling like everybody's replaceable And sometimes yes, it

1068
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: is true if you're extremely unhappy, but sometimes people really

1069
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,479
Speaker 2: aren't replaceable all the time. Like No, I mean, maybe

1070
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: we can disagree, but I feel like it doesn't matter

1071
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 2: if you really want love, if you want real love,

1072
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 2: Like Mary J.

1073
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 3: Blige was talking about, it's going to fucking take work.

1074
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: People need to stop being inconvenienced one fucking time and

1075
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 3: ready to move on. Why the fuck you looked at

1076
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 3: me like no, I was saying, like so you can

1077
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 3: cause you said mmm, so it wasn't no shame. I'm like,

1078
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 3: that was you didn't do anything. But I'm saying that's

1079
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 3: that's why I thought you looked at me.

1080
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't looking at you like that.

1081
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, but that's what social media people made

1082
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 3: people feel. They'd be like, oh, I love them on

1083
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 3: a retro my mom, so let me go get a

1084
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 3: new one.

1085
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: Let me go get a new one. Let me go

1086
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: get a new one.

1087
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 3: But guess what, this rich nigga loves you and he

1088
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 3: actually cares about you. This one's just trying to fuck.

1089
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 3: He's a rich nigga though, okay, but there's other things

1090
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 3: that really fucking matter. Thanks. That's why I'm asking you.

1091
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 3: What if he's not because you brought a breaching I

1092
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: did because I'm not a rich nigga.

1093
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 2: If he's not, but how does he make me feel?

1094
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 2: Because guess what, I'm good financially. I don't need I

1095
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 2: don't need anybody to you know like I used to.

1096
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: So yes, like I said, I still want you to

1097
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,720
Speaker 2: be ambitious, working towards something.

1098
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: What are your goals?

1099
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 3: What are you doing?

1100
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: I at least want you to be equally yoked at

1101
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: the least.

1102
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 3: But I'm not technically rich, so demanding that somebody has

1103
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: ten million dollars is absolutely absurd. I'm not there yet,

1104
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 3: but I feel like, if you're a woman earning ten

1105
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 3: million dollars, yes, you can demand a ten million.

1106
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: Dollar nigga whatever. But I feel like it's other things

1107
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: outside that are important.

1108
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 2: So so social media has made people feel like, oh,

1109
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a batter, bitch, such surface level shit.

1110
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: What about how this person makes you feel? What about

1111
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,959
Speaker 2: the friendship? What about the love?

1112
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 3: Like? What about all that shit before social media? Cause

1113
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 3: niggas being had three fold families, nigas niggas wasn't happy

1114
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 3: back in nineteen seventy. So I just I don't know

1115
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: how I feel about that. I think a lot of

1116
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: the time people be discrediting personality traits and just who

1117
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 3: people are. I can speak as a person who I

1118
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 3: feel like, I naturally get bored easily, right right, you

1119
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 3: are not constantly stimulating me, If we are not doing

1120
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 3: something exciting, if it no longer serves a purpose in

1121
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 3: my opinion, to me, or what I want, the type

1122
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 3: of relationship I want to foster, then I get bored

1123
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 3: and then I'm ready to try something new. I don't

1124
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 3: think it has anything to do with fucking a lot

1125
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: of niggas because personally, I don't feel like I fucked mad.

1126
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 3: Now guess what. But guess what, Drea, you have always

1127
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 3: been this person who wait, wait, wait wait loit it's

1128
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: a lot of people who it is it is, But

1129
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 3: guess what, it's a lot of people who didn't feel

1130
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 3: this way until they got on Twitter, until they got

1131
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,760
Speaker 3: on Instagram, and so they were happy with their lives,

1132
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 3: they were happy with their partners until they saw, oh,

1133
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 3: this man doing this with his girl, this girl.

1134
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 1: Doing that with this nigga.

1135
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 3: Because you're looking at somebody else and you're feeling.

1136
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: Like you missing out.

1137
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 3: But is it not okay to look at other people

1138
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 3: in then and make you realize that you want more?

1139
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 3: That's okay, but is that what you want? Because guess what,

1140
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 3: I used to be that person. I'm I'm saying, wait, wait, wait,

1141
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 3: let me feel let me find real quick.

1142
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:41,879
Speaker 1: It's the drink. It's the drink.

1143
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,439
Speaker 3: I yeah, look, you had two shots and the dream.

1144
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 2: I used to look at people and be like, oh

1145
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 2: my gosh, I want this, I want this. But When

1146
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 2: I got it, I was like, what was What did

1147
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,320
Speaker 2: I want this for? To prove something?

1148
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:57,959
Speaker 3: So you have to look within.

1149
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 2: That's why I said, I'm surrounding myself with people who

1150
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 2: can really look with it.

1151
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about what a nigga bought you.

1152
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 3: Everybody's in competition, what your nigga did for you, what

1153
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 3: your bitch did for you. I don't give a fuck

1154
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 3: if y'all never see my nigga do nothing for me,

1155
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 3: because guess what, I know what. I know how he

1156
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 3: makes me feel. I know what he does for me.

1157
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for outside people to approve of my

1158
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 2: relationship because I know how I feel.

1159
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 3: It's a lot of the approval things. So I can

1160
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 3: say for you, you've been a person that needs to

1161
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 3: be stimulated. You need to be stimulated by everything. Even

1162
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 3: with our fucking job, you was gonna quit this it

1163
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 3: was if it wasn't exciting, it excited you. It stimulated you.

1164
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:38,439
Speaker 3: You had to work, you had to do something. That's

1165
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 3: your personality all around. You've never been a person who

1166
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 3: got on social media to look for validation.

1167
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: We're talking about.

1168
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 3: People who have been happy with life who all of

1169
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: a sudden get online and they're unhappy with life.

1170
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: That's who we're talking about.

1171
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 3: So, yes, a lot of people all of a sudden,

1172
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 3: you're bored now because you're doom scrolling, go fucking outside

1173
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 3: and live this. These are the same people who get

1174
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 3: on the internet and be like, oh, Drea, I like

1175
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 3: the old Drea, I like the old legs. You don't

1176
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:08,320
Speaker 3: know me.

1177
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: Hey, go outside and.

1178
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 3: Touch some grass and talk to people and live and

1179
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,400
Speaker 3: you'll realize this internet shit is just that.

1180
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: So those are the people that we're talking about.

1181
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 3: Worry about what I'm doing and not worry about what

1182
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 3: you're doing is always gonna be crazy to me because

1183
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 3: I'm worried about me. It's a circle. It's me right here, circle.

1184
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 3: Hold on, you gotta do the songs me right here. Okay,

1185
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 3: your circle is over here, right, but if you over here,

1186
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 3: you don't know what y'all circle. And it's the tourist

1187
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 3: incle in my circle right right, right, right right? What

1188
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 3: is your circle doing? You don't know? You're not even

1189
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: happy in this circle, cause this circle not doing what

1190
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 3: you really wanna do. Bitch, I'm drynk. You're i'm'a speaking

1191
00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 3: facts y you in this circle? Yeah, not even doing

1192
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 3: the shit you because we're going to the gym with

1193
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 3: mister rage. You don't even want to be in this

1194
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 3: bitch and you mad because we're working out, but you

1195
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 3: want to be in a circle so bad. Now you're

1196
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 3: fucking mad and you're neglecting what's really making you happy

1197
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 3: because if you in my circle. The point I was

1198
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: making is what is your circle doing?

1199
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 7: Like?

1200
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 3: What are you going on your I just feel like

1201
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 3: people need to worry about them and I think that

1202
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 3: nothing is wrong with being dissatisfied. The point is the

1203
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:33,240
Speaker 3: problem that arises in life is not being content.

1204
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 6: Hello.

1205
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 3: Being dissatisfied sometimes is okay because it's like you might

1206
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 3: want more, but you have to be okay with what shits,

1207
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 3: And especially if you have a good person. Let me

1208
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 3: say that, if you have a good person good man Savannah, Yeah,

1209
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 3: who has showed you that they want to do the

1210
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 3: work that they're willing to grow with sho. They're willing

1211
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 3: to sacrifice for you, They're willing to do all these

1212
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,240
Speaker 3: things for you. Why would you let that go because

1213
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 3: you're worried about what else is out there? No, I'm

1214
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:09,440
Speaker 3: agreed because it's a word you get on No, it's

1215
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 3: a word bit you preaching. I'm serious. Why would you sacrifice?

1216
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 3: Who told you that that sounds? I'm like some good

1217
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: ship who told you that. We may have had a

1218
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 3: conversation a few weeks ago.

1219
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: Oh oh we may bit just August.

1220
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 3: You can be insightful when you would like to be.

1221
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 1: But let us know so we can move on.

1222
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 3: Move on now, I feel like we ain't. Really we couldn't, though.

1223
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:40,439
Speaker 3: We gotta live behind. Now we gonna get into the bed.

1224
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 3: The bed. You heard what I said when I go, oh, hey,

1225
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 3: give me get my head.

1226
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, the re meet, you heard it right.

1227
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:55,919
Speaker 3: Third, it is the remnt given your birthday drinks.

1228
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 2: It's my birthday. Okay, everybody pause, take a shine? Okay,

1229
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 2: another one?

1230
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, no for them? Okay.

1231
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 2: So for the bad topic today, we're gonna talk about

1232
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 2: why men having a three somewhere two women is applauded,

1233
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 2: but when a woman wants to have a three some

1234
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 2: with two men, it's shamed. So before I say my opinion,

1235
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 2: what do you think about a woman having sex with

1236
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 2: two men versus a man having sex with two women?

1237
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 2: We're not gonna say if it's a three summer train,

1238
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 2: We're not talking about that. We're talking about the actual act.

1239
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you're a freaky bitch. But do you

1240
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: think he's a freaky ass niggle I think all y'all motherfuckers,

1241
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 3: he was a freaky ass niggle face y'all. Everybody, y'all

1242
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 3: some freaks. Y'all nasty, y'all all nasty, And I'm not

1243
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,080
Speaker 3: saying it nasty as a bad.

1244
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: It's not gets nasty.

1245
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 3: However, y'all nasty, y'all freaky. I think, Yeah, I feel.

1246
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 2: Like sex with more than one person is obviously a

1247
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 2: level of freakness.

1248
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 3: With two niggas, I can't take one nigga. I could not. No,

1249
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 3: I'm not saying I can take either. What I'm saying

1250
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 3: is it be a light though at times like it'd

1251
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 3: be a lot going on. So I couldn't imagine fucking

1252
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 3: two niggas at one time.

1253
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't. I don't judge it

1254
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: because I am a assist woman. Okay, I just learned it.

1255
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 3: Literally. I just the reason I mean, a straight woman,

1256
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 3: A born woman, straight woman. That's all I know, bitch.

1257
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm as cis woman, bitch. The only reason I

1258
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean because when I go with the

1259
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: she said.

1260
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 3: Earlier, girl, it's spelled cis bitch. No, what I'm saying,

1261
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 3: what does it mean? What is it short for?

1262
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 7: It?

1263
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 3: I fucking know, Well, you can't say that you're that

1264
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:12,439
Speaker 3: if you don't know what. No, I mean, I don't

1265
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 3: know what it's short for. But literally means oh a

1266
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 3: woman who was born a woman and she identifies as

1267
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 3: straight like a hetero.

1268
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: She identifies as a head like us. B Oh, no,

1269
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: you a little bit, but me, I don't eat pussy.

1270
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: No offense you did, though, not mine.

1271
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 3: Let me, like I'm saying for me, what does it stand?

1272
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't think it stands short for anything.

1273
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 3: It's cis gender. Yeah so sis gender. Sorry I'm a

1274
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 3: cist woman.

1275
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

1276
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 3: So anyways, like I was saying, noting or relating to

1277
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 3: a person whose gender identity corresponds with the sex registered

1278
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 3: for them at bert to not transcript.

1279
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: That's what I said. Then at what I said, But what.

1280
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 3: Do I'm trying to understand? And where the like where

1281
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 3: it came from? The ceas park so.

1282
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 2: Well, she said, sis gender, it comes from cis gender.

1283
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 2: But I mean, I don't know anyways, I feel like

1284
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 2: my relationship. I cannot take no mo dick. I barely

1285
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 2: can take my nigga dick.

1286
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 3: But with that being said, I don't judge women who

1287
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 3: can take a lot of dick. Sometimes women won't multiple feelings.

1288
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 3: Maybe I want you in my booty hole and I

1289
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 3: want you to I.

1290
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: Want to suck yo dick.

1291
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 3: A lot of times we have women who have said

1292
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 3: sucking dick turns them on. So how can I suck

1293
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 3: your dick and get fucked with one person? So if

1294
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 3: a nigga can sit up there and watch a bitch

1295
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 3: eating another bitch bussy and.

1296
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 2: He fucking her from behind, why can't a woman do it?

1297
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: I think it's all freaky and we need to stop

1298
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 2: separating the freaks.

1299
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 1: Let's put them all in the fucking world.

1300
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 3: Got to Oh that's what we should sing today? Remember

1301
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 3: that song I do? God damn it, that was a head,

1302
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 3: that was a vibe. But I'm just saying I don't

1303
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 3: like the way they separated. Like if a woman wants

1304
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 3: a three someome or a man wants a three someome,

1305
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: it's two different things. No, it's not. It's three freaky

1306
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 3: people in a room. Period. You feel different, You feel different.

1307
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say because I just feel

1308
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 3: like I don't know, dick be a lie, like one

1309
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 3: dick is a lie. Yeah, but sometimes three decks, four deecks,

1310
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 3: five deeks sixty, Okay.

1311
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: I said a threesome. We're talking about threesome.

1312
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 3: Well sometimes it. I mean, so if a woman is

1313
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 3: sucking dick and she's getting fucked from behind, that's the

1314
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 3: same thing from the woman eating pussy and getting fucked

1315
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 3: from behind. What's the fucking difference. It's hard to concentrate.

1316
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 3: It's hard to concentrate eating pussy or sucking dick. It's

1317
01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 3: hard to concentrate in either situation. There's no difference. There's

1318
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 3: no difference me personally, I'm not doing either. I'm not

1319
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 3: saying it. It's okay. I just think it's the world view, right, Yeah,

1320
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 3: it's the world I think. I think that society has

1321
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 3: made people feel like because I think that being homosexual

1322
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 3: as a woman is glorified and being homosexual as a

1323
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 3: man is looked down. So then it's also kind of

1324
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 3: like but it's a certain time, but looks so I

1325
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 3: feel like it looks bad on both ends though, hear

1326
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 3: me out, like when it comes to society's view. Women

1327
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 3: look down on two niggas who would have sex with

1328
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 3: one girl at the same time and like partake in

1329
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 3: things together unless they like that, unless they like that.

1330
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 3: And then men look down on a woman who would

1331
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 3: have sex with two niggas because then they feel like

1332
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 3: you are, and.

1333
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: Then let's talk about it.

1334
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 2: I feel like even with women being lesbians, you know,

1335
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 2: or gay or whatever, it's only looked upon like it's sexy.

1336
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 2: You know, if you look like like a lipstick lesbian,

1337
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 2: Like if you're more a masculine woman who is a lesbian.

1338
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, oh my god, it's bad.

1339
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. It's like you have to

1340
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 3: you even have to look a certain way just to

1341
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:15,800
Speaker 3: be gay as a woman. Yes, you do, because they

1342
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 3: feel as a man too though that's again, yeah, it

1343
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 3: is because you don't have niggas who will be buffed

1344
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 3: in shape.

1345
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: Like if you're gay.

1346
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 3: And people find out they gay or find out that

1347
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 3: they have a partner a partner, and they be like,

1348
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 3: I can't believe it, Oh my god, why would you

1349
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 3: do that? Like why I do gay people look a

1350
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 3: certain way?

1351
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: Absolutely not?

1352
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 3: No, I why did you look at I just said absolutely.

1353
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 3: I like to think of myself if I had to categorize,

1354
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 3: which I don't like labels.

1355
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: We know you don't like to label nothing.

1356
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 3: But if I had to label myself, I guess I

1357
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 3: would consider myself part of the bisexual community.

1358
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: But you want to be married to a man. Mm hmm.

1359
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 3: I feel like I identify more. I don't know. Is

1360
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 3: that like a thing identifying more with heado?

1361
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. That's why you like.

1362
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 3: Women occasionally occasion, Like I would have a girlfriend, yeah,

1363
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 3: like me and my nigga, Like possibly could have a

1364
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,919
Speaker 3: girlfriend in my future. I could see that, like once

1365
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 3: I'm married.

1366
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, but there's no label on it.

1367
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 3: But that's why. That's what I do like about the community,

1368
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 3: Like there's no labels, Like they kind of like, let

1369
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 3: people do you know, do your thing, do y'all thing.

1370
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I just think, let people do.

1371
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 3: They dang, did you ever have a girlfriend?

1372
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 7: No?

1373
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:39,919
Speaker 3: Never?

1374
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 1: No, I barely want a boyfriend, bitch.

1375
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 3: I would really like to if I could really function

1376
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 3: alone properly, that's what I would do. Don't get it twisted, No,

1377
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 3: you would not you if not, I'm saying if.

1378
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: I could, I can't. I need a partner, Like, That's

1379
01:05:58,960 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1380
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 3: But like I would love if I could live my

1381
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 3: life alone, Like I would prefer that, but I do

1382
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 3: crave companionship, is what I'm saying, Like, I want a partner.

1383
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 3: I've never seen you as a person who could live

1384
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 3: your life alone.

1385
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 1: Because I'm not. But in my mind, I would love that.

1386
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: But I know that's not what I really really want.

1387
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,479
Speaker 2: But if I had, in a perfect world, I would

1388
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 2: be alone and just doing everything alone in a perfect world.

1389
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: That's not my perfect world. Unfortunately, I love.

1390
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 3: Being in love.

1391
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed.

1392
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 3: You think possessive, No, I really don't. I've learned not

1393
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 3: to be in this relationship.

1394
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 2: Like I really be letting my nigga do his thing,

1395
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 2: he'd be letting me do mine to a certain experience.

1396
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 3: So if you found out he had like a side

1397
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 3: boot or like a little girlfriend, would you be mad? Hell?

1398
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be mad because we didn't discuss that.

1399
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 3: What would you break up with him? Yes? Because That's

1400
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 3: not what I'm looking for in a forever partner. You

1401
01:06:56,320 --> 01:07:00,120
Speaker 3: want monogamy, I want monogamy. Yeah, monogamy, And like if

1402
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 3: we do decide to do a little one too, we

1403
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 3: need to discuss things need to be discussed. I'm not

1404
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 3: saying I would completely exit out because I don't know.

1405
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 2: I've never been presented with that information or what. But

1406
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 2: I feel like I want a partner who discusses things

1407
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: with me. I don't want to find out anything, bitch.

1408
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 3: But I think my relationship now, like it's cool, like

1409
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 3: we be we're so we're just viobbing right now, like

1410
01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 3: we just have so much fun.

1411
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 2: Like I don't even look at him. I be forgetting

1412
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 2: I have a boyfriend. It's like that's my nigga. Like

1413
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 2: we listen to the same music, we like to do

1414
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 2: the same thing.

1415
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 3: So they ain't even like that. I'd be like, that's

1416
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 3: my partner that I'll be sucking his deep. That's the

1417
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 3: best type of relationship. That's my partner friend. That's but.

1418
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bride his face a little bit. I'm about

1419
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: to own again. Hold on time, y'all know it's my

1420
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: birthday week.

1421
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 3: What's up y'alls? Your girl, your girls the call and

1422
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 3: we are here to talk to y'all about good day

1423
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:05,560
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Speaker 3: and good Day Sense candlesmells so good and their soy

1425
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1426
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Speaker 3: your house super clean, my fans, sweeping all that good

1427
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 3: stuff and lighting a candle. And let me tell you,

1428
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 3: my favorite cent is black Love. I like to manifest

1429
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 3: that in the air because that's what I want. Yeah,

1430
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,479
Speaker 3: and so what's vanilla you? I feel like you can

1431
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 3: never go wrong with the vanilla candle. I mean it's

1432
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:30,599
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1433
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Speaker 3: candle and use our discount code and have your house

1438
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 3: smelling good. Hey, what's up Birmingham August the nineteenth. I

1439
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 3: will be at the Birmingham Theater. Hell yeah, that's right down.

1440
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 3: What you hurt? It's going down like that in a

1441
01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 3: major way. You know how it goes down. I pull

1442
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 3: up at Birmingham. Shit just get crazy.

1443
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 8: I ain't even want to say shit in this ad,

1444
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 8: but ship just getting crazy. So look, make sure you

1445
01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 8: click the link, hit the website, get the tickets.

1446
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 3: What y'all fit on? Pull up on me? One show

1447
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 3: on the Birmingham One Show.

1448
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 8: I'm keeping y'all in my rotation because y'all treat me

1449
01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 8: like family when I come down there. Because Mississippi and

1450
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:21,839
Speaker 8: Alabama kind of like the same thing but different.

1451
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 3: So pull up on me. We'll talk about the differences

1452
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 3: I see there. All right, So now we go get

1453
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:39,600
Speaker 3: into the bed the bye your Let me check the

1454
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 3: clock because baby, I'm about to speed through these last segments.

1455
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop of the week, it doesn't even

1456
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:49,640
Speaker 2: have to be explained. Robert Glassper, y'all know who he is,

1457
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 2: has an amazing song with Alex Easley is called back

1458
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 2: to Love, and it's basically talking about getting back to

1459
01:09:57,920 --> 01:09:59,719
Speaker 2: love what we were talking about.

1460
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: He's gonna fight for this. Where do we go wrong?

1461
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:03,680
Speaker 1: I want to know?

1462
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get back to love. I'm in my back

1463
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:13,600
Speaker 3: to Love era. And one thing about me, Baby, I

1464
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,679
Speaker 3: fight for what I want, but I fight too hard.

1465
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 3: We gotta learn the balance. Fight for your love, but

1466
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 3: don't be out in the abyss alone. If you fighting

1467
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 3: for some love, make sure that partner is fighting with you.

1468
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 3: Because I was fighting for love by myself. Now I'm

1469
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 3: in a relationship where like my nigga gonna fight for me,

1470
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:35,680
Speaker 3: but I'm fighting for him too.

1471
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: We ain't got to that point yet, but I feel.

1472
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 3: Like he would. I don't know, but yeah, back to

1473
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:44,719
Speaker 3: love Robert Glasper it's the bob. Yeah, what you're listening

1474
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 3: to a little Drew. I was listening to No Bars

1475
01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 3: by JT, period eight.

1476
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:50,280
Speaker 1: Eate them girls up?

1477
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 3: Ain't the girls up? I just love a bad bitch anthem.

1478
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:01,719
Speaker 3: JT is just j I wish she would rap more,

1479
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 3: you know, like I wish she would come out with

1480
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 3: music more. But but it's fine. You know, everybody gotta

1481
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 3: do things on their own time. Whenever she do come

1482
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 3: out eats, you know, Like I just I love women

1483
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:20,559
Speaker 3: empowerment anthems, like I love songs where women be telling

1484
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:24,799
Speaker 3: other women like getting your bag, you the girl, demand

1485
01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 3: what you want, get what you want out of like

1486
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 3: get what you want out of these niggas. You know

1487
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 3: what I see next for JT too, because that face

1488
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:36,640
Speaker 3: card doesn't decline. She's a fashion girl. I can see that.

1489
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 3: I can see her showing it like what JT got on.

1490
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 3: I want to see what JT got on or even

1491
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 3: showing up for like the shorter girls like I feel

1492
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 3: like getting in being in fashion and she's a fashion

1493
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 3: Cardi b is like five two five. Why didn't know that?

1494
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 3: I thought she was taller than that.

1495
01:11:55,520 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 2: Cardib is little jt Is, I think even smaller than Cardi. Yeah,

1496
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,479
Speaker 2: JC is a fashion girl. She got that face.

1497
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: I don't think y'all realize how Jac's face is.

1498
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 3: Like them cheekbones, them lips, everything, beautiful girl, fashion girl.

1499
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: We're ready, girl, We're ready.

1500
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 3: Fine. Yeah, so no bars. I like that good song. Okay,

1501
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 3: So item of the week, it's my item of the week,

1502
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 3: my outfit.

1503
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 2: I wanted to make it the item of the week.

1504
01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 2: This is from Ninth Closet. I have on some really

1505
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 2: I have on some six inch heels too. This is

1506
01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 2: from j Lo's shoe line. It's not about the shoes though,

1507
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 2: It's about the fact that I'm tallest fuck and I

1508
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:45,759
Speaker 2: have on six inch hells and these pants hit the bottom.

1509
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 2: I'm tall, y'all. It's hard for tall girls to find

1510
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 2: cute sexy stuff. I'm gonna take some pictures in this

1511
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 2: and post it, of course, so y'all gonna see it.

1512
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 2: But Ninth Closet dot com, y'all, it's the website for

1513
01:12:57,360 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 2: tall girls, thick girls. I don't care if you're of

1514
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 2: a you know, a bigger stature. This is the website

1515
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:07,479
Speaker 2: you need to order from. They have everything that you need.

1516
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 2: If you are tired of ordering from these other websites

1517
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 2: and you ordering pants and they don't hit the flow,

1518
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 2: I want.

1519
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 3: To wear a little bell bottom too, bitch. But I'm

1520
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 3: big and I'm thick.

1521
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:20,719
Speaker 1: Ninth closet, she be sending me all the good stuff

1522
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 1: and all.

1523
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:25,800
Speaker 2: You know, she'd be dressing the players too, the NBA girlies,

1524
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 2: the w NBA girlies, the NBA.

1525
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, like she'd be putting that shit on them.

1526
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 3: You look cute, though, I like the Southeast.

1527
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I got it in white too, but y'all

1528
01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 1: gonna see that later. But yeah, I love an.

1529
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,320
Speaker 3: All black moment personally.

1530
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is really cute. It's really sexy. I put

1531
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 2: a little linger right under it. But yeah, and I

1532
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 2: got my little heels on with it. So yeah, yeah,

1533
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 2: shout up to ninth closet.

1534
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 3: That's my item of the we wanna got the stand

1535
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 3: up and show the whole outfit. Okay, no, okay, hold on,

1536
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 3: let me see be trying to stay hi. I think

1537
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 3: it's fine, okay, okay, okay, period, this is really cute.

1538
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I feel like it's giving. It's

1539
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 3: given date night, but then it's also giving vacation. Yeah

1540
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 3: mm hmm. It's cute. So the tall girls y'all need

1541
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 3: to get this outfit.

1542
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 1: I love it, so yeah, shout out to y'all. It's

1543
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 1: really cute.

1544
01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 3: Okay, what'll we got next?

1545
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:46,519
Speaker 1: Little dress?

1546
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:48,759
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1548
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1549
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1552
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1553
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Speaker 3: we be fucking shit up two and so yeah, I

1554
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Speaker 3: think you all.

1555
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 2: Question number one it says, so first, hello ladies, I

1556
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 2: love y'all so much, but your girl has an issue.

1557
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 2: I met this guy on twenty ninth of May at

1558
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 2: my neighborhood food mark. We slept together three days later

1559
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 2: and the rubber busted, so I immediately went and bought

1560
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 2: the plan beat. The first one worked, but the second

1561
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,719
Speaker 2: one didn't work. So now I'm like six weeks pregnant

1562
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:37,759
Speaker 2: and he wants to marry me and start our family.

1563
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 2: I have a teenage daughter already, and I really don't

1564
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 2: know him that well for marriage.

1565
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 3: Can you, ladies tell me?

1566
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:47,200
Speaker 1: Should I do it or just take things slow as

1567
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:47,800
Speaker 1: I plan to?

1568
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:51,600
Speaker 2: And y'all need to come to bat rooms Louisiana asap,

1569
01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 2: girl who had that nigga baby?

1570
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I love beat and ruge. But then I

1571
01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 3: feel like that's why you about. I feel like because

1572
01:15:59,880 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 3: you were in bedrooms just while you're asking me this question,

1573
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 3: because girl, don't have that damn baby. You met that

1574
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 3: nigga at the food mart and then you got pre

1575
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:10,760
Speaker 3: what's wrong with the food wark? I didn't say nothing

1576
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 3: was wrong. I'm saying if you would let me finish

1577
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. You met that nigga at the food

1578
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 3: marked and you got pregnant, and then now you think

1579
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 3: about having a baby. You don't even know him. You

1580
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:23,439
Speaker 3: do not know this men. You don't know him from

1581
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:26,240
Speaker 3: a candapaign, like an accident happening. That's what you should

1582
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:28,600
Speaker 3: take it as as an accident. Like you said, you

1583
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 3: already have a thirteen year old, fourteen year old, and

1584
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 3: you need to focus on raising your daughter, getting Hood

1585
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 3: out the house, and getting Hood to where she needs

1586
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 3: to be. I would not have no baby with no

1587
01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:41,600
Speaker 3: nigga that I just met. It a food mark and

1588
01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 3: I accidentally got pregnant and I don't know him like that. Yeah,

1589
01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 3: because people will switch up all the time.

1590
01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:48,559
Speaker 1: That's just too soon.

1591
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 3: I don't like it.

1592
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 1: I don't like the idea of it.

1593
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:56,559
Speaker 3: No, no, no, you need to hold off the abort mission.

1594
01:16:56,760 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 1: Aboard more than the mission, bitch, But go ahead. Question

1595
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:01,639
Speaker 1: number two.

1596
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:06,479
Speaker 3: I moved to a new apartment with a new roommate

1597
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 3: about a month ago. Her boyfriend and I were never

1598
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 3: really were never formally introduced. She just started bringing him over,

1599
01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 3: which is whatever. I work from home in my bedroom

1600
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:20,040
Speaker 3: window sits facing the front porch. I like to open

1601
01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 3: my blind slightly for a little natural light while I work.

1602
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:25,640
Speaker 3: One day, I look up from my computer and her

1603
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 3: boyfriend has his hand cup to my window looking through.

1604
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 3: I immediately say can I help you? As he says, oh, no,

1605
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 3: sorry and proceeds to knock on the door. I told

1606
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:38,679
Speaker 3: my roommate what happened, and she immediately got defensive, saying

1607
01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 3: what day, what time? Because I need to verify that

1608
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,280
Speaker 3: this actually happened. I give her the details and she

1609
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 3: asks him and it's obviously true. Doing nothing, there's no

1610
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 3: further conversation between me and her, no apology from him

1611
01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,639
Speaker 3: or her. They both just act like it never happened.

1612
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 3: Today I had to ask him to leave when she

1613
01:17:56,520 --> 01:17:58,479
Speaker 3: was at work because I don't like being alone in

1614
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:02,000
Speaker 3: the apartment with him. The nigga is weird, plain and simple,

1615
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:04,800
Speaker 3: the type of weird where every time you look up,

1616
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,559
Speaker 3: he's looking at you, but won't ever actually make eye

1617
01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 3: contact with you, even while even while speaking. She got

1618
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 3: defensive when I told her about him before. Should I

1619
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,400
Speaker 3: try to talk to her again? I feel like you

1620
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 3: try to talk about talk to her already. The nigga

1621
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:20,559
Speaker 3: is weird.

1622
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 2: She's the type of bitch where God be like sending you,

1623
01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 2: you know, a little grain of saying I'll send you

1624
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 2: a pebble, and then bitch, he gonna have to hit

1625
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:30,600
Speaker 2: her with the whole bolder because if it's not you,

1626
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 2: it's gonna be somebody else. The nigga is the weird,

1627
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 2: though she don't see it. So girl, I don't like

1628
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 2: women who are so male centered. If Drea ever told

1629
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:43,879
Speaker 2: me Lauren Killer ever told me my nigga did anything,

1630
01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:47,840
Speaker 2: I'm charging that nigga up. Yeah, because my friends would

1631
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 2: never lie. Now, I'm not saying that.

1632
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:51,960
Speaker 3: Like my thing is lie for?

1633
01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 7: What?

1634
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:52,880
Speaker 3: Lie for?

1635
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 7: What?

1636
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 3: That's when you gotta ask yaself, who do you be

1637
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 3: surrounding Y'rselfause? What type of bitches will lie to you

1638
01:18:58,520 --> 01:18:59,479
Speaker 3: about what a nigga do?

1639
01:18:59,800 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 9: Right?

1640
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:02,800
Speaker 2: And he's obviously a weirdo. She doesn't care about how

1641
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:05,519
Speaker 2: you feel? So girl, when is your Lisa?

1642
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 3: Because I would be looking for other arrangements because I

1643
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 3: don't want to be a part I agree, So yeah,

1644
01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 3: so that's our advice. He's I one hundred percent agree

1645
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 3: with Leeks. So, Dad, we have a voicemail today, right,

1646
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 3: so if you want to leave a voicemail, the number

1647
01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 3: is below, make sure you call it. Let me shout out.

1648
01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:27,200
Speaker 3: It's called shot line. This segment is called shot line.

1649
01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,719
Speaker 3: Let me make sure I shout him out, baby Doup

1650
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 3: baby underscore Doup doop.

1651
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 2: He is the person that came up with his name.

1652
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 2: I'll be forgetting every week to shout him out, thank.

1653
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:39,200
Speaker 3: You for coming.

1654
01:19:39,240 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 2: He be on our ass every week and I always forget,

1655
01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:44,080
Speaker 2: but I got it today. So baby Doup, thank you

1656
01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,280
Speaker 2: so much for coming up with the shot line. So

1657
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 2: y'all call the shot line. Leave it thirty seconds to

1658
01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 2: a minute. This is not to ask questions. This is

1659
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:54,599
Speaker 2: just to get things off your chest. Tell us how

1660
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 2: you feel, tell us a story real quick. Leave the

1661
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,880
Speaker 2: one two number at the bottom. It's in the by

1662
01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 2: So let's get the voice smell.

1663
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:11,439
Speaker 3: For today, Hedrea, Hey fad girl, we love you. We

1664
01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 3: love y'all. But I just wanted to.

1665
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 9: Thank Drea so much for putting us on to the

1666
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:21,360
Speaker 9: natural springs across the country because of that episode. Like

1667
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 9: the next morning, I went and found one that was

1668
01:20:23,960 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 9: about thirty minutes from me, and it has been a blessing.

1669
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 1: So thank you Drea.

1670
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 3: Thank y'all.

1671
01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 7: Y'all keep trying.

1672
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 3: And we look out so much by spring water. I

1673
01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 3: told I literally, I don't know if you went and

1674
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 3: looked at the comments under that episode, but it was

1675
01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 3: so many people who was like thanking me for that,

1676
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 3: because I swear, no matter what state you live in,

1677
01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:49,879
Speaker 3: no matter what city you live in, is natural springs

1678
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:52,519
Speaker 3: around you normally most of the time. So let's go.

1679
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 3: I told you we could go, but you said, what

1680
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 3: are people peeing in me?

1681
01:20:57,040 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: I did say that, you did say that what if

1682
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: they are?

1683
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 7: No?

1684
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 3: No, somebody did leave a comment though, and they said

1685
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:07,080
Speaker 3: that East think they said they went and got the water.

1686
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,920
Speaker 1: Anything not going bro we' in Atlanta too, It's probably.

1687
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 3: God and they said that hurts you gotta boilly, But

1688
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:16,080
Speaker 3: then if you bully it, take the news.

1689
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not never mind, I don't want.

1690
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 3: I gonna do a little more. Y'all got it, y'all

1691
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 3: got it, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna go.

1692
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Speaker 1: Okay, congratulations.

1693
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Speaker 3: I mean, you don't know. You don't know what You

1694
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Speaker 3: don't drink that had pea in it?

1695
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1696
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Speaker 6: to see us. You're gonna be able to kick it

1713
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Speaker 6: with Carly, gonna host the search party afterwards. It's gonna

1714
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Speaker 6: be amazed, and that baby's gonna be there to baby

1715
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Speaker 6: that baby baby at all.

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Speaker 3: Man, it was not amazing me. I don't know.

1717
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:23,240
Speaker 6: She had on no pants on the shirt and I

1718
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:25,599
Speaker 6: was doing it day. Is that on the meeting Greek?

1719
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 6: When you get back there and you see me doing this,

1720
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 6: lady just follow me. Yeah, you're the only person I've

1721
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:32,320
Speaker 6: seen let the ladies do body shots off you. Yeah,

1722
01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:38,599
Speaker 6: freaking yeah, that's what you went. He's his family business too,

1723
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 6: and that's not my family beach. I'll be then left

1724
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 6: by that time. But when Navs started dressing like Donald duck.

1725
01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 3: That's when I leave.

1726
01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 6: That's why you gotta get them tickets at eighty five

1727
01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 6: South Show dot Com. South Show dot Com, October nineteen hundred,

1728
01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 6: of Alabama.

1729
01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 1: I hope you're all ready for this. I gotta take

1730
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:02,360
Speaker 1: my shoes was off causehit about to get real. You

1731
01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 1: know this is how wande He's like.

1732
01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:06,560
Speaker 3: Just the other day when we hooked.

1733
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:10,759
Speaker 1: Up, I was driving, you was walking and I swooped

1734
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 1: you was.

1735
01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:14,960
Speaker 3: From that moment on I knew you were the one.

1736
01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:19,679
Speaker 1: Huh I single it's lonely and we feel in love.

1737
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 3: We was sit and talk four hours about anything.

1738
01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:28,320
Speaker 1: Baby, you hang up, No, you hang up on three hangups.

1739
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:31,360
Speaker 3: I bought y'all with my page over and I gave

1740
01:24:31,479 --> 01:24:32,440
Speaker 3: you everything.

1741
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 1: Said you'd always be my bad. Then you'd bound.

1742
01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:39,680
Speaker 3: How you gonna up bad? Leave me?

1743
01:24:40,160 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 9: Now?

1744
01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:44,760
Speaker 1: How you gonna ask life? Dad?

1745
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:49,400
Speaker 3: How you gonna change it up? We just finished making up?

1746
01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 3: How you gonna ask life? How you gonna act like?

1747
01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:59,759
Speaker 3: We don't be making up? You know we be hearing

1748
01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 3: that ghettos.

1749
01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:04,040
Speaker 7: Come on.

1750
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 3: Do that? How you wanna ask like day girl? I

1751
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 3: never thought that loving you with her?

1752
01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 1: I did everything, uh good man will to make it worse.

1753
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 3: Girl, you should have told me you have taken thought

1754
01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:27,920
Speaker 3: like before I put it down on the house. We ball.

1755
01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 3: Now I'm thinking you and me some mistake.

1756
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: But then it hits me and I'm missing all the

1757
01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:36,400
Speaker 1: love we made.

1758
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 3: Girl, I know that we even going through some things.

1759
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh something something with it brains.

1760
01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:48,600
Speaker 7: I'll be the one you're kicking too. I'll be the

1761
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 7: one that misses you. I'll be the one that eat

1762
01:25:51,400 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 7: your pain. I'll be the one you want to game.

1763
01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:57,120
Speaker 7: I'll be the one you can't forget. I'll be the

1764
01:25:57,200 --> 01:25:59,519
Speaker 7: one that's seeing the scene. I'll be the one I

1765
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 7: can't nah.

1766
01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 3: You don't want That makes me cry? Why? Why? Why?

1767
01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:20,840
Speaker 3: Why are you gonna ask dad? Are you gonna ask like?

1768
01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 3: You don't be maga? Handed up breaking stuff? That ghetto little.

1769
01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:30,320
Speaker 1: Period. I'm tired of that shit.

1770
01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 3: How you gonna act like that with me? How you

1771
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 3: going up and leave me?

1772
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:34,559
Speaker 6: Now?

1773
01:26:35,840 --> 01:26:41,920
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm willing to do anything just to keep you

1774
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 3: in my heart. You win my home. Missed around and

1775
01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:53,519
Speaker 3: gave us everything. I thought we never part. I was

1776
01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:56,839
Speaker 3: playing and I made that I was saying.

1777
01:26:56,880 --> 01:27:07,160
Speaker 10: My heart to you. Hang out that way tries you

1778
01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:10,360
Speaker 10: did a fool off this one. Oh what you say

1779
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:12,280
Speaker 10: you belonging.

1780
01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:21,200
Speaker 3: Fast and Period and Transformers Period. Meanwhile, all right, well,

1781
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 3: you know, if y'all fuck with us, make sure y'all

1782
01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:29,519
Speaker 3: come on tour, because we're on tour right now. So

1783
01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:33,120
Speaker 3: you could go to poor mindes dot com and you

1784
01:27:33,200 --> 01:27:35,360
Speaker 3: can find all of our tour dates. Gonna make sure

1785
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:38,719
Speaker 3: y'all cop them tickets because we are outside this summer

1786
01:27:38,800 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 3: and we want to see all of y'all's beautiful and

1787
01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 3: handsome faces. We also have merch, so if you want

1788
01:27:44,600 --> 01:27:46,679
Speaker 3: to buy any of the merch, gonna buy poor mindes

1789
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:50,880
Speaker 3: dot com. A lot of our merch from last year

1790
01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:53,040
Speaker 3: is on sale right now, so you get that on

1791
01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:55,320
Speaker 3: the website. And then we also have a lot of

1792
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:58,440
Speaker 3: new stuff. Of course, y'awn know. I have my cosmetics

1793
01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 3: line us Beauty Collick dot com. Get you some lip gloss,

1794
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 3: get you some lipliners, Get you some Matt equillipsticks. I'm

1795
01:28:05,560 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 3: always wearing it. Right now. I have on cider uh,

1796
01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:14,960
Speaker 3: Matt liquiipsticks, Glaze lip gloss, and chestnut lipliner, So make

1797
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 3: sure y'all go there and get that. I also have

1798
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 3: some new merch that's on the website to some T shirts.

1799
01:28:20,560 --> 01:28:21,040
Speaker 3: I don't want it.

1800
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:22,240
Speaker 1: I haven't even I need to get my.

1801
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:28,080
Speaker 3: Backs and the yeah, because I realized that but I forgot.

1802
01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:31,880
Speaker 3: But yes, just make sure y'all support us. We love y'all,

1803
01:28:32,200 --> 01:28:33,719
Speaker 3: and sign up for our Patreon.

1804
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:36,519
Speaker 2: So yeah, sign up for Patreon. We'll see y'all on tour.

1805
01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:37,920
Speaker 2: Get the merch music beauty.

1806
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:39,760
Speaker 1: We love y'all. We'll see y'all next week.

1807
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:40,360
Speaker 3: By y'all,