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Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, wait, don't want.

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Speaker 2: To talk to people who are like, my kid's kind

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Speaker 3: Me say it like that, but you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And parents called and said their kids were dumb in

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Speaker 2: I'm dumb. That's that's the kind of parent child relationship

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Speaker 2: that I'm looking for, you know what I mean, that

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Speaker 2: You're gonna be good at something, which just might not

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Speaker 2: be math. I don't think everyone's supposed to be good

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's like when when you're in school and you're expected

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Speaker 2: get good grades and everything, and it's like, in retrospect,

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Speaker 2: I get that you have to like meet a minimum

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Speaker 2: understanding is of the tasks you know, science or social

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Speaker 2: studies or whatever, but maybe we should be paying more

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Speaker 2: attention to what people actually do well in and then

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Speaker 2: focusing on that, like you know. Then again, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I didn't really get very good grades in much of anything,

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Speaker 2: so I guess my teachers would have been like, well,

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Speaker 2: we don't know what to focus on for you though.

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Speaker 2: But then like in college, I started doing well in

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Speaker 2: English because like writing papers and I don't know, reading

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Speaker 2: and then I became an English major, and thank god

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Speaker 2: I got this job, because what the heck would I

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Speaker 2: do with an English degree?

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Speaker 3: Paulina, Oh you have one too, never mind?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right next to each other. I'm on your left.

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Speaker 2: It was law school or English teacher, and there's nothing

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Speaker 2: wrong with either one of those options. But I don't

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Speaker 2: think I would have been I don't know I would

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Speaker 2: have been a good lawyer. I don't think I would

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Speaker 2: have been a very good English teacher. And so here

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Speaker 2: we are. It worked out okay, But yeah, maybe you

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Speaker 2: don't have to be kids is a school? Yeahs at school? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you don't have to be good at everything. It's okay.

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Speaker 2: Just figure out what you are good at it and

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Speaker 2: then get acceptable grades in those things, and then do

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Speaker 2: and then follow your path. Look at me, look at you.

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Speaker 2: I'm like I'm like Joel Ostine. I'm a motivational I'm

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Speaker 2: doctor Phil, I'm a motivational speaker. I'm like Jerry Springer

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Speaker 3: I think it was called.

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Speaker 2: Man and you went you went to Jerry Springer I

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Speaker 3: My mom for her birthday. What was the topic of

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Speaker 5: One, don't even remember. I remember it was cheating obviously.

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Speaker 5: so that's a great nice to do with mom, go

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Speaker 2: We got on topics about it before because the show

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Speaker 2: But you know, I used to hear that they would

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Speaker 2: like male and female parts. That's what they're saying over there. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: They're saying, what about me?

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Speaker 2: Huh oh, you know, they're like they're saying they're saying,

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Speaker 2: you're like you slept with the entire time. I mean,

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Speaker 5: Ready to go yeah, and then yeah, they would go

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Speaker 5: It's a lot of also like choreography, like you're doing

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Speaker 5: a lot of up down, up down, Jerry Jerry chat

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Speaker 2: Hard work, Yeah, uh huh yeah, it work for it.

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Speaker 2: Morning Everyone, Tuesday, July twenty ninth, The Fred Show's on.

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Speaker 2: Hi Kalin, good morning, Hi Jason Brad, Hi Pauline. He's

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Speaker 2: on vacation Bella. It means here show be Shelley. It

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Speaker 2: will be here next hour, and she's got money. Seven

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Speaker 2: to fifty is the prize over one thousand wins, ten

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Speaker 2: straight winds in a row. That's what straight means in

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Speaker 2: I've become I'm afraid maybe I've become the overly competitive guy.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm I'm pretty competitive guy when it comes to like,

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Speaker 2: listening to US is so important. You have many choices

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Speaker 2: in your radio listening, but when you tune into US,

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Speaker 3: We get to keep our job for another year. It's

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Speaker 2: But there's an internal contest, and I guess it's a

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Speaker 2: And I saw the spreadsheet yesterday for this thing, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, this isn't right. I'm number one. I should

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, there's stuff missing on this spreadsheet that

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Speaker 2: I did. Wait a minute, wait a minute, Mick Lee,

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Speaker 2: this isn't right. And I feel like I'm becoming that guy.

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Speaker 2: But it's not right. I don't even know what you get.

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Speaker 2: I don't even care you guys. Can you guys can

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Speaker 2: I'm like, wait a minute, it's missing stuff.

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Speaker 3: Why is it missing stuff?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: I wrote Jacob Matizi who works here, I say it's

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Speaker 2: then and then he wrote me back this whole thing.

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Speaker 3: Love it. Thank you for keeping me honest.

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Speaker 2: He told me, like he feels bad about it, you

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Speaker 2: This place doesn't want me to have nice things. They've

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Speaker 4: No, I'm so glad you don't talk like that.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, we all know.

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Speaker 2: The people that like you can't play a game with

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you don't play games at.

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Speaker 2: But in your friend group or like an eat work group, whoever,

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Speaker 2: and then you can't have any fun because they're not winning.

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Speaker 2: We all know those people. I'm not that guy. I

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Speaker 2: playing Monopoly, nobody wins because nobody has anyone ever seen

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Speaker 2: the end of a Monopoly game ever?

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Speaker 3: Has anyone ever finished?

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Speaker 2: I don't even know when you're done, Like what am

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Speaker 2: I done with Monopoly? When I have all the money

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Speaker 2: and you won't have any money because you can rant

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Speaker 2: and lease and airbnb you know in Verbo all your properties,

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Speaker 2: So this could go on forever. So I don't know

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Speaker 2: how you know when anyone won Monopoly. But but yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: So I just I wonder, like should I feel bad

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Speaker 2: this isn't this is not right.

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Speaker 3: We can't have it, Like we can't have this. I

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Speaker 3: love that you did that you.

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Speaker 7: Do yeah, because I feel like I'm in that era

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Speaker 7: right now where it's like I'm just gonna start speaking

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Speaker 7: up for myself and I feel like you kind of

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Speaker 7: did that because I think the old you would have

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Speaker 7: just been like, okay, I guess knowing damn well, that

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Speaker 7: you deserve that recognition.

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Speaker 4: You deserve that whatever that is, that prize whatever. I

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Speaker 4: don't eve think you want the prize, But I just

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Speaker 4: feel like.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what is the prize, A vacation day

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Speaker 2: or something, the trip trip you get a trip.

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Speaker 3: Oh maybe maybe I do want to win.

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Speaker 4: Like you guys can't have it.

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Speaker 2: It just Oh Jesus, Fred Hayter Lauren's back. The ego

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Speaker 2: You know, when I'm in those meetings, I pretend like

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Speaker 1: The biggest of the day.

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Speaker 2: didn't realize that you were on the last episode and

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Speaker 2: then it's just over.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's devastating. It's devastating.

443
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Speaker 2: So now I look to see the only problem with

444
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Speaker 2: looking to see how many episodes are left is then

445
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Speaker 2: you kind of then you kind of know that they're

446
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Speaker 2: about to wrap up the story or like.

447
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Speaker 6: The screen grab is something that's a spoiler. I hate

448
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Speaker 6: when they do that.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's not good either.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I've done that where I'm like, Okay, good,

451
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Speaker 2: you know whatever, and I'm watching it. I'm having a

452
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Speaker 2: nice time, and I've got a bunch of episode I'm

453
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Speaker 2: into this show, like I know what I'm gonna do

454
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Speaker 2: the next couple of days, and then oh we're out

455
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Speaker 2: of episodes. That was it, and then in this case,

456
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Speaker 2: there won't be anymore. It's very upsetting. Anyway, I'm gonna

457
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Speaker 2: start a high town. We're gonna have like a little

458
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Speaker 2: group and we're gonna maybe we'll do like a a

459
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Speaker 2: discord or something, and we're gonna all get in there

460
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Speaker 2: and it probably already is one, and we're gonna talk

461
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Speaker 2: about all of our theories of what could have happened

462
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Speaker 2: and what would have happened. And then I'm gonna look

463
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Speaker 2: up all the actors on social media and I'm gonna

464
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Speaker 2: DM them and ask them what they think should have happened.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 4: It's a discord, I don't I don't actually know.

467
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Speaker 3: I think it's a chat room. I see people talk

468
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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a member of any disc I think it's

470
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Speaker 2: like a private chat room kind of thing.

471
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Speaker 5: To get an invite to join people's discords. And then

472
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Speaker 5: it's like you can make different subject titles, so like

473
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Speaker 5: you could talk about like what you like eating, what

474
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Speaker 5: you're watching, like whatever.

475
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Speaker 2: But it's no, no, it's free, so you had to

476
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Speaker 2: be like invited in kind of. So I'd take a

477
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Speaker 2: little chat room kind of thing. But I thought, you know,

478
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Speaker 2: I thought that was it seemed like the right time

479
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Speaker 2: to use the discord.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I think you used it right. I just

481
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Speaker 4: don't get it.

482
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Speaker 2: But to get in there headlines, guys, I got a

483
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Speaker 2: couple sad ones to start. Unfortunately, a gunman killed at

484
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Speaker 2: least four people in a Manhattan office building on Monday evening.

485
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Speaker 2: One of them was an off duty New York City

486
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Speaker 2: Police officers, shot while exchanging fire with the shooter in

487
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Speaker 2: the lobby. The suspect then disappeared into the skyscraper and

488
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Speaker 2: was found later with a self inflicted gunshot wound. The

489
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Speaker 2: Park Avenue building houses the offices of some major financial firms,

490
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Speaker 2: as well as the National Football League. Security footage showed

491
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Speaker 2: a gunman walking outside the building carrying a long gun

492
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Speaker 2: before for the shooting began. And for our Chicago fans

493
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Speaker 2: and for baseball fans everywhere, on Monday, the Cubs lost

494
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Speaker 2: one of its all time great sports icons the Chicago

495
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Speaker 2: community too, Chicago Cubs legend Ryan Samberg. He passed away

496
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Speaker 2: at the age of sixty five. According to the franchise,

497
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Speaker 2: he died in hospice care following copulation complications in his

498
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Speaker 2: ongoing battle with prostate cancer. The news comes after Samberg

499
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Speaker 2: announced his prostate cancer had relapsed and spread throughout his

500
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Speaker 2: body in December of twenty twenty four. That guy was

501
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Speaker 2: all over all over town, very involved with the Cubs

502
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Speaker 2: and all kinds of different organizations, an amazing ambassador for

503
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Speaker 2: the Cubs and for the city and for baseball and

504
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Speaker 2: the NFL legend and University of Colorado football coach Dean Sanders.

505
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Speaker 3: This is a little bit better news.

506
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Speaker 2: He said he beat cancer after undergoing the full removal

507
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Speaker 2: of his bladder in May. He said that he will

508
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Speaker 2: continue to coach this season, including the season opener against

509
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Speaker 2: Georgia Tech. The fifty seven year old former NFL and

510
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Speaker 2: college star appeared yesterday in a press conference with this doctor,

511
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Speaker 2: who said they removed the bladder and worked on the

512
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Speaker 2: insertion of a new bladder, and I am pleased to

513
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Speaker 2: report that the results in the surgery are that he

514
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Speaker 2: has cured from cancer. He said that he was diagnosed

515
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Speaker 2: with bladder cancer during a health checkup this spring. To everybody,

516
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Speaker 2: at least for the story number two and story number three.

517
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Speaker 2: Go to the doctor and get checked on regularly so

518
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Speaker 2: you can catch this stuff early. Hopefully this is for you, Paulina,

519
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 2: The death of Hulk Hogan might mean the death of Hooters.

520
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Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, two things are connected.

521
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Speaker 2: As if Hulk Hogan's passing wasn't shocking and sad enough,

522
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Speaker 2: now you're talking about how he could have saved Hooters

523
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Speaker 2: and it may not happen now. A few months before

524
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Speaker 2: his death, wrestling icon Hulk Hogan's beer brand, Real American Beer,

525
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Speaker 2: was in talks to acquire Hooter's intellectual property as part

526
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Speaker 2: of the Change Chapter eleven bankruptcy restructuring. Rather than taking

527
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Speaker 2: over the restaurants, he aimed to license the Hooter's name

528
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Speaker 2: for branded products, digital content, gaming, and consumer experiences. The

529
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Speaker 2: deal was seen as a way to preserve and modernize

530
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Speaker 2: Able American brand while expanding Hogan's growing lifestyle portfolio. However,

531
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Speaker 2: legal and financial hurdles, including liquor laws, borrowing alcohol brands

532
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: from owning restaurants, and potential resistance from Hooters creditors made

533
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Speaker 2: the acquisition uncertain.

534
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Speaker 3: Paulina.

535
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Speaker 2: This is where you step in with all of your

536
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Speaker 2: millions that you got from being the biggest and best

537
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Speaker 2: employee in iHeartRadio.

538
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Speaker 4: Well my free tolls for the business and the one stepie.

539
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Speaker 2: As well, you step in right now. Now is the

540
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 2: time you can save Hooters. You can do it.

541
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Speaker 4: I've been thinking about it because someone's got to do it.

542
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 4: And if it's not me, then who you know?

543
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Speaker 7: And here's the thing too, Like everyone talked about nostalgia,

544
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Speaker 7: all these things they want to just soak up in it.

545
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 4: Why don't we just do that with Hooters.

546
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Speaker 7: Why don't we all collectively come together society and save

547
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Speaker 7: Hooters because that'll save us.

548
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Speaker 2: Let's save Hooters and then all go there and watch

549
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Speaker 2: the new seasons of High Town that are going to

550
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Speaker 2: be made, because I'm going to say that this is amazing,

551
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:48,640
Speaker 2: this is amazing.

552
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Speaker 4: We can collab.

553
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Speaker 3: We've done it.

554
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Speaker 2: So this is a strange story Las Vegas and a

555
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: lot of sports stories this morning, but Las Vegas raiderstar

556
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 2: Christian Wilkins was released from the team after an unfortunate

557
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Speaker 2: kissing incident in the team's locker room. A witness said

558
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: that the kiss was on the head, it was playful,

559
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: but the unnamed recipient took offense to the act and

560
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 2: then reported him to human resources. So NFL players are

561
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Speaker 2: subject to human resources, which is a little wild. I mean,

562
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Speaker 2: of course they are their employees and it's an organization.

563
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Speaker 3: But okay.

564
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 2: ESPN clarified that the football player's release from the team

565
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Speaker 2: was not entirely due to the kiss. A foot injury

566
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Speaker 2: from last October also held the defensive tackler back. The

567
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Speaker 2: dispute stem from the Raiders team requiring him to undergo

568
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 2: a second surgery for his injury, but he failed to

569
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Speaker 2: do so. He joined the team in twenty twenty four,

570
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 2: signed a four year contract one hundred and ten million

571
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Speaker 2: dollars eighty four million guaranteed. Party from the team has

572
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Speaker 2: cost him the remainder of his contract, with about thirty

573
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Speaker 2: five point two effectively voided. But he'll be okay. But

574
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Speaker 2: he kissed a guy on the head and got fired

575
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Speaker 2: from the NFL.

576
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Speaker 3: Wow. I didn't.

577
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Speaker 2: I honestly didn't know you could do that, believe it

578
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Speaker 2: or not, Based on everything I know about you know

579
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Speaker 2: the stories in the NFL the past few years, I

580
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: didn't realize that your behavior would actually get you kicked

581
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Speaker 2: off the team.

582
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Speaker 9: Of all the things that have happened a lot of

583
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Speaker 9: things you kissed someone.

584
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Speaker 3: On the forehead, you get kicked off the team.

585
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Speaker 2: But the other stuff you can do, you can do

586
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff you're not supposed to do. Famous

587
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 2: Yetti's Pizza in Wisconsin mistakenly used THHD infused cooking oil

588
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 2: last October and it left eighty five diners ages one

589
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:27,239
Speaker 2: to ninety one, buzz dizzy and hallucinating. Three people went

590
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 2: to the hospital. Police seemed it an accident, and the

591
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 2: shop has since titan storage and apologized. I don't know

592
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Speaker 2: what they got a hold vat of THHD cooking oil for.

593
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Speaker 2: And I guess I'm surprised you don't get in more

594
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Speaker 2: trouble for that. But can you imagine if you didn't

595
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Speaker 2: know that you were consuming THHD and then you got high?

596
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 2: Like if you knew then I guess you might you

597
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Speaker 2: would expect it. But if you're ninety one years old, like,

598
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 2: is this the end?

599
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Speaker 3: Is this? It? Is it happening now right this second?

600
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Speaker 2: And a fifty four year old Texas man named Fritz

601
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Speaker 2: He mocked law enforcement on Facebook, calling outstanding arrest warrants

602
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 2: the adult version of Hide and Seek, And less than

603
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Speaker 2: ten days later, what do you think happened? They raided

604
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Speaker 2: his house, found him and arrested him on charges of

605
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 2: fraud and theft. No word and if he tagged his

606
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: location in the post, This guy fritz over here reminds

607
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 2: me a little bit of like if my mom tried

608
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Speaker 2: to taunt police on Facebook or Instagram. I love my

609
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 2: mom and she's a very smart lady, but I'm finding

610
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: that her tech skills are really sort of slipping, and

611
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 2: she doesn't really know who she's dming or who she's

612
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: commenting on and if it's public or private. So I

613
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Speaker 2: would encourage, you know, some of you who may not

614
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Speaker 2: be as sharp technically, you know, as it comes to

615
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Speaker 2: new technology, don't mock the police using social media, because

616
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Speaker 2: it turns out, whether you tag yourself or not, they

617
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 2: can probably go deep to dig in there and do

618
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: whatever they gotta do, you know, or maybe look at

619
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Speaker 2: your background and they see the sign, you know, or

620
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Speaker 2: like with your address on it or something, and they're like, hmm,

621
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Speaker 2: I bet he's at his house. But isn't this a

622
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: tale so old as time people taunt the police on

623
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Speaker 2: the Internet and then they get arrested. Day's further warrens

624
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: were issued after evidence was found during the search He

625
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 2: is currently being held in jail on twelve thousand dollars bond.

626
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: It's National Chicken Wing Day. There you go, save Hooters.

627
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Speaker 2: Today's the day, guys want to go Yahne Today Day

628
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Speaker 2: Today is well. The Entertainment Report is Nickalen's entertainer Report.

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Speaker 2: He's on The Fresh Show.

630
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Speaker 6: Actress Sydney Sweeney is getting absolutely annihilated on the internet

631
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 6: right now for her new American Eagle denim Ad. So here,

632
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 6: I'm going to play it for you and then we'll

633
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 6: talk about all the things that people are saying.

634
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Speaker 10: Chans are pasta from parents to offspring, often determining traits

635
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Speaker 10: like higher color, personality dave and eye color.

636
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Speaker 1: My chains are blue. Sydney Sweeny has great Keynes.

637
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 3: What hold on, Hold on, Hold on, Hold on?

638
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 10: Chance are pasta from parents to afspring, often determining traits.

639
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 3: You know, it's crazy. I didn't I was really excited

640
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: about this.

641
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Speaker 4: I bet you what.

642
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Speaker 3: I didn't know what.

643
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Speaker 2: No, I didn't want to tell you, guys, I could

644
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: that was on non disclosure of non disclosure. But that's

645
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: actually me doing doing my girl voice.

646
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know what it sounds like it.

647
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: Trying to pasta from Tanta pasta.

648
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 3: I'm trying to mana bla.

649
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 10: From parents to offspring, determining traits like her color, personality,

650
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 10: leave and eye color.

651
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Speaker 3: Tweeny, that's great, Keen.

652
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 2: What's funny is they save a lot of money. I

653
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: did both of the voices on that.

654
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, they did save money, and that is your

655
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 4: girl voice. And I think that there's like a reason

656
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 4: for that.

657
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 3: No teeth, no lips.

658
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Speaker 1: So here are all.

659
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Speaker 4: The layers of issues that we're having online.

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Speaker 6: So obviously, first the one else smack you right in

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Speaker 6: the face is that that is very much a lah

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Speaker 6: the early two thousands add formula. Right, we take a

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Speaker 6: hot girl, we sexualize a product that has nothing to

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Speaker 6: do with being sexual at all, and we have her

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Speaker 6: kind of sort of make.

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Speaker 2: These They talk like that jeems could be sexualized. You know,

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Speaker 2: you see people's curves and see their button for sure.

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Speaker 6: But the conversation is like usually like ads nowaday, they

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Speaker 6: just take a different format. Typically it's just the early

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Speaker 6: two thousands formula. And someone said, someone wrote online, are

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Speaker 6: you trying to appeal to men by objectifying women to

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Speaker 6: increase women's gene sales? I guess, like, why are we

673
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Speaker 6: they're women's genes, So I don't know what we're doing there,

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Speaker 6: but that's fine.

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Speaker 4: That's really not the biggest issue. The use of the words.

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Speaker 6: Genes and the double meaning that they played off of

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Speaker 6: in this ad genes J E A N S versus

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Speaker 6: G E N E S. Okay, So American Eagle is

679
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Speaker 6: an iconic American brand. Many people online are talking about that,

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Speaker 6: how like choosing a blonde with blue eyes, talking about

681
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Speaker 6: how an American brand works, and then also saying that

682
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Speaker 6: genetics are passed down from your parents to your offspring,

683
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Speaker 6: often determining traits like hair color, personality, and eye color.

684
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Speaker 6: People feel that that's not very inclusive, especially now. So

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Speaker 6: I am just the messenger. That is what people are

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Speaker 6: saying online.

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Speaker 2: For me, it's a bit of a reach, but I'm

688
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Speaker 2: offer of about a haaka, says an ocrass.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: I don't that's more to me. Yeah, well, everyone has

691
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Speaker 12: their saying but it's not great. Yeah, I don't think

692
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Speaker 12: in this climate it's great. In my personal opinion, people

693
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Speaker 12: are just saying, I really think they went that far?

694
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Speaker 12: You really think they meant you really think it was that.

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Speaker 12: I don't know the answer, course.

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Speaker 4: Because that's the thing.

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Speaker 7: It's like, we're going to have a little more is

698
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Speaker 7: to be so out there and be like, you know,

699
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Speaker 7: spreading this quote message and I'm using quotation marks right.

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Speaker 7: I feel like it would be a little more hidden

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Speaker 7: if that was really the situation, because why would I

702
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Speaker 7: just put it in your face?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know that every single person that worked

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Speaker 6: on the commercial had mal intent.

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Speaker 2: Like it's a commercial about jeans and they're talking about jeans, Like,

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Speaker 2: I suppose you could make that reach. But I see

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Speaker 2: why people would make it, But I also don't. I

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Speaker 2: also don't necessarily know that I don't. I don't know

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Speaker 2: that they were that thoughtful about it. I mean, I

710
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Speaker 2: think they were probably focused on her looking hot in jeans,

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Speaker 2: and I think that was so. I think the rest

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Speaker 2: of it might be a little bit.

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Speaker 7: But if you are like her PR team, wouldn't you

714
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Speaker 7: kind of be like, hey, maybe not like today, we

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Speaker 7: don't do this.

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Speaker 6: That's my point is that the amount of people had

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Speaker 6: to pass through at times where we're losing inclusion programs people,

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Speaker 6: you know what this climate.

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Speaker 4: I think it's tough to.

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Speaker 6: Say I'm blonde hair, blue eyed, this is America, and

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Speaker 6: we passed down these traits. I don't know whatever. I mean,

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Speaker 6: that's what the internet is saying. The voice deeply offended

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Speaker 6: me as well. She doesn't talk like that, so come

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Speaker 6: on girl.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 6: While we were talking about her, I do want to

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Speaker 6: mention that she was spotted jet skiing with a new

728
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Speaker 6: mystery man in Idaho, of all places.

729
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Speaker 4: But I loved we don't know who this dude is.

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Speaker 6: He was on the back of her jet ski and

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Speaker 6: I really liked that he was holding her.

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Speaker 3: She was driver.

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Speaker 4: She was the driver, and I really like that.

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Speaker 2: That made me because a lot of times you see

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Speaker 2: that the little lady, you know, hanging on tight from

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Speaker 2: behind it. And in this case, she was like, nope,

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Speaker 2: you you, I'll drive.

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Speaker 13: No.

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Speaker 4: Actually what she said is yeah, that's what she said.

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Speaker 6: Hailey Williams, who you most likely know from Paramore, dropped

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Speaker 6: a surprise album seventeen tracks.

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Speaker 4: It's a solo album called Ego.

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Speaker 6: I guess that's the word of the day, just a

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Speaker 6: few days after debuting two songs from it at a

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Speaker 6: radio station in Nashville, but she didn't say what project

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Speaker 6: it was from. Fans can access the album and there's

747
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Speaker 6: a couple steps. Go to her website, enter a sixteen

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Speaker 6: digit code that you can get from buying something from

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Speaker 6: her hair dye company, good Die Young's new Drop. So

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Speaker 6: you have to buy one of her products, which is hey,

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Speaker 6: business woman, you have to buy hair dye to get

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Speaker 6: the code. Okay, well, listen. We can all be offended

753
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Speaker 6: by what we want to be and that's America.

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Speaker 4: It's my job to give you things that piss you off.

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Speaker 6: And lastly, Real Quick actor and podcaster Jack Shepherd said

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Speaker 6: that he and his wife, actress Christen Bell, let their daughters,

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Speaker 6: Lincoln age twelve and Delta, age ten, swear at home

758
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Speaker 6: if it's called for and only when they're.

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Speaker 4: Respectful and it stays in the house.

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Speaker 6: He says, swearing is simply just noises that come out

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Speaker 6: of your mouth, which children should understand and assign meeting

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Speaker 6: to themselves with boundaries like not using them at school

763
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Speaker 6: or in restaurants. In general, they just focus on embracing

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Speaker 6: honesty and openness in their parenting.

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Speaker 4: They prioritize modeling.

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Speaker 6: Conflict resolution, apologizing in front of their kids, which I love,

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Speaker 6: and discussing tough topics like addiction and relationships without shame.

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Speaker 4: So I want them to adopt me. I love them

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Speaker 4: very much.

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Speaker 6: By the way, if you want to catch up on

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Speaker 6: anything you missed from our show, just type the Fred

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Speaker 6: Show on demand and if you don't mind, set is

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Speaker 3: The commercial was a copy of Brooks Shields.

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Speaker 4: Yes it was yes, so please stop Texas.

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Speaker 13: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I do not you. I didn't know, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: no saying.

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Speaker 4: That, no no not. I don't think that I wasn't

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Speaker 4: talking to you don't know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well I don't know. You know.

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Speaker 2: What's interesting I mean this from like a very genuine perspective,

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Speaker 2: is that people point things out to me sometimes from

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Speaker 2: their viewpoint when it comes to pop culture, that I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have known to understand if someone hadn't pointed it

786
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Speaker 2: out to me, right like, they'll be like, well that's

787
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Speaker 2: not good and here's why, and and they're sharing it

788
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Speaker 2: from their perspective. So then I now a perspective that

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't see. Yeah, because I'm a you know whatever,

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Speaker 2: I'm me, and I see things from my viewpoint of course,

791
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Speaker 2: and so sometimes I'm educated about it and I go,

792
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Speaker 2: oh wow, okay, I can see why that's upsetting. But

793
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Speaker 2: then sometimes what can be hard to tell. The difference

794
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Speaker 2: between is are you sharing it from your perspective and

795
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Speaker 2: you're offended, so then I should be offended too because

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Speaker 2: it's offensive, or or are people making too big of

797
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Speaker 2: a deal out of something that wasn't intended to be offensive?

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Speaker 2: If this is a if this is a play on

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Speaker 2: an eighties commercial, then odds are it's not intended to

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Speaker 2: generate the reaction that some people are having, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean. So I would not have known to

802
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Speaker 2: be offended by that. Yeah, But yet I sometimes don't

803
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Speaker 2: know to be offended by things that I don't see

804
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Speaker 2: because I see them from my perspective, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 6: But also, was that the intention in the eighties, which

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Speaker 6: is why it was in the eighties?

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Speaker 4: And should we be back? I think is the conversation.

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Speaker 4: And I think as long.

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Speaker 6: As you're respectful to other people's feelings, then we can

810
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Speaker 6: all just say I see things from our filter and

811
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Speaker 6: share and be respectful and then you could make your

812
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Speaker 6: own decision and you know.

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Speaker 4: Other' out and stuff.

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Speaker 7: And I think that's why you're respected for it, because

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Speaker 7: you're open to the conversation, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes it can be hard whether it's this or

817
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: other things to know because you've got you've got rage bait,

818
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Speaker 2: You've got people out there who are like generating offense

819
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Speaker 2: where no offense was intended. And then you've also got

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Speaker 2: things that seemed benign to a lot of people that

821
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Speaker 2: then you learn, well, wait a minute, that that's not

822
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Speaker 2: benign and that's actually very hurtful.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, it's like a lot of things where I think

825
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: people sort of maybe misuse the opportunity some people do

826
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Speaker 2: because now it's hard to know. It could be hard

827
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Speaker 2: to know the difference if it doesn't target you directly

828
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Speaker 2: between that is bad and I'm making it bad.

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Speaker 6: I think if it doesn't target you directly, then we

830
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Speaker 6: should leave it to the people who feel offended by it,

831
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Speaker 6: you know, to have their feelings about it.

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Speaker 2: I guess, But I guess that's what I'm saying is

833
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Speaker 2: I don't know what offense I'm I sometimes don't know

834
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Speaker 2: when to be offended.

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Speaker 6: Well, you don't need to be offended to something that

836
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,240
Speaker 6: doesn't personally offend you. But I'm just saying, let people

837
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Speaker 6: if they have their feelings, we can just let them

838
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Speaker 6: say them and they can have it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's all good.

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Speaker 3: Let's do blogs.

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Speaker 4: If that's all right with you guys.

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Speaker 6: So I have a love hate relationship with my birthday,

913
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 6: which is coming up, and it all started. It all

914
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 6: started in nineteen ninety one on a hot summer day.

915
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 6: But I I just growing up. I've I'm not someone

916
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 6: who I need all the attention to be on me,

917
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 6: But I am someone who likes to use my birthday

918
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 6: as an excuse to be with people I love and

919
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 6: force them to do something I want to do. I'll

920
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 6: you know, like a party or a concert, whatever, just

921
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 6: spend time together. But it doesn't need to be me focused.

922
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 6: But it's been difficult in the past because even like

923
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Speaker 6: starting when I didn't get a locker at school, you know,

924
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 6: it kind of made me sad because I had a

925
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 6: summer birthday decoration, like the cupcakes.

926
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Speaker 4: You can't bring cupcakes anymore.

927
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 3: Used to get a locker, used to people used to

928
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: decorate it locks.

929
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.

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00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 6: I used to like really like long for that yearn

931
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Speaker 6: for that, you know, and bring a treat.

932
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: You know, I wanted to bring a treat.

933
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Speaker 6: And then it turned into when I got a little

934
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 6: bit older, everyone took like a family. In the Midwest,

935
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 6: everyone takes like a family. Road trip or vacation, and

936
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 6: it's usually early August before everyone goes back to school.

937
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 6: So typically if I wanted to do something, I had

938
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Speaker 6: like one little friend with me there, which is fine.

939
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Speaker 6: I mean we're so bald planned everybody else was outtown. Yeah,

940
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 6: and then it turned into weddings. You know, I have

941
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Speaker 6: an August birthday, and typically if it's on.

942
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Speaker 4: The weekend, there are weddings.

943
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Speaker 6: Then it turned into La La Palooza the Chicago Music Festival,

944
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Speaker 6: because it's every year during either my actual birthday or

945
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Speaker 6: the weekend that I would celebrate my birthday because the

946
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Speaker 6: weekend after my birthday is my sister's birthday, so there's

947
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Speaker 6: really no there's no time before or after.

948
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Speaker 4: So I've kind of just made my peace with it.

949
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 4: And that's happening this year.

950
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Speaker 6: And it's very funny, like when you're the planner of

951
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 6: the group, and like, I really love planning other people's birthdays.

952
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Speaker 4: I think you guys can probably attest like it. That's

953
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 4: very important to me. I think it's special. I want

954
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 4: to celebrate the people I love.

955
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 6: But it's very funny when like it's my birthday and

956
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Speaker 6: then like all the people that I plan for ask

957
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 6: me what we're doing. And I'm like, Okay, I don't.

958
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 6: Should I be telling you guys what we're doing?

959
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 4: I don't know.

960
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 6: But my second question is miss Paulina this morning and

961
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Speaker 6: I were in the elevator and.

962
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Speaker 4: She goes, Hey, what are you into lately?

963
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 3: Super slick? Right, super super slick?

964
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm super.

965
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Speaker 3: I always ask people that in the elevator.

966
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Speaker 2: I'm actually asking a different question entirely, but yeah, hey,

967
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 2: what are you? What are you into these days? You know,

968
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 2: that's just that's me feeling out something totally different. But

969
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Speaker 2: I'm super slick. Yes, one week away from the birthday? Hey,

970
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: what Subby into right now? That's when I asked my

971
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Speaker 2: my That's when I asked my friends with kids when

972
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Speaker 2: their birthday is coming up, like what are they into

973
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 2: right now?

974
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Speaker 3: Like that's because it's a never changing thing for a child,

975
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Speaker 3: you know.

976
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Speaker 2: Right now, for Gideon Son, it's Legos and Spider Man,

977
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Speaker 2: but you know in a year it might be something else.

978
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what do you?

979
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, but while we're at it, what are you into

980
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: these What are you into these days?

981
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 8: Am I? God?

982
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 3: Taking some notes?

983
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 6: I spend we are in constant communication, and I spend

984
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 6: more time with her than I spend with my family.

985
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 6: So it's just very funny out of nowhere in an elevator,

986
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Speaker 6: run run in the.

987
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 4: Morning, what are you?

988
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 6: And then she's like, you know, I think you like shoes, right,

989
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 6: what kind of shoes you've been trying to get?

990
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 4: Paulina, don't worry about it. Don't worry about it.

991
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 6: But I am hypocritical because I would never tell someone

992
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 6: what to buy me. But I very much love when

993
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 6: you guys tell me what you want. Like that is

994
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 6: my happy place.

995
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: As a grown up at this age, I'm very much

996
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 2: of the place where I wish you would just say,

997
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 2: like your birthdays next week, I wish you would just

998
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 2: tell me, I'm looking at these shoes because I'm just

999
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 2: going to go buy them for you. Yeah, because I

1000
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 2: can go buy you something that I think is cool

1001
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 2: or that the people at the store think is cool,

1002
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: and then you might not. And then it's like then

1003
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: you might feel guilty about returning it, or or you

1004
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 2: might not like it or want it, or you might

1005
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 2: want something else, or you might already have it, or

1006
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: or too much of that category. It's just like because

1007
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 2: we're not we're not any longer, Like it's not when

1008
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 2: we're kids, when we don't have any money, everything is

1009
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 2: cool because almost everything is cool, except for that time

1010
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 2: that I got a bike instead of the Nintendo sixty four.

1011
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 3: I wanted it.

1012
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 2: My sister got the Nintendo sixty four and then held

1013
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 2: it over my head. But other than that, like it's

1014
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: everything's cool. I just I would much rather as an

1015
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 2: adult that if gift giving is expected, and most of

1016
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: my adult friends, this is the only place in my

1017
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 2: life except for family, that we even give gifts anymore.

1018
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 4: By the way, it's not expected, it absolutely is.

1019
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 2: You deserve a gift on your birthdays, and everybody in

1020
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 2: this room does too, but because your family. But at

1021
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: the same time, I don't know. I would much rather

1022
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 2: you say, like, hey, I want these jordan Ones. I've

1023
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 2: been looking at them, and then guess what you're going

1024
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 2: to get exactly that, and then you're happy, and I'm

1025
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 2: happy because I got you something that you actually wanted.

1026
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 2: So which Jordan One's do? If you would please send

1027
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 2: me the link, I will make sure I get them

1028
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 2: right now.

1029
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 6: The Guccie lights you guys, Yes, that was one of

1030
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 6: my favorite gifts I ever got. I will try to

1031
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 6: get over my fear of telling people what I would

1032
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 6: want and think of something for you guys, if that's helpful,

1033
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 6: But it really is tip tough for me, difficult for.

1034
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 4: Someone like me, Like that really helps.

1035
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 3: What are you these days?

1036
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 14: Right?

1037
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 11: What are you.

1038
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 4: During Thanksgiving?

1039
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, Like like these kids

1040
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 2: that put together like little little link trees or whatever,

1041
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 2: they put together like little emails with links, if you

1042
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 2: wouldn't mind, I think it's brilliant. I think it's a

1043
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 2: brilliant idea. Like my sister does this now for for

1044
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 2: the kids' birthdays, Like she'll just send me here, here,

1045
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 2: this is what she wants, Like here are three options,

1046
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 2: and I just click on all three and order them

1047
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: on Amazon. And I will admit that it's lazy. It

1048
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: is lazy, But at the same time, it's like I

1049
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: would much rather just get you what you want then

1050
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: try and guess and it not be right. So if

1051
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 2: you wouldn't mind a little email, you know, with a

1052
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 2: few links, just a couple of linky links on it,

1053
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 2: you know, just a little just a little something, and

1054
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 2: we could do like various price ranges.

1055
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,439
Speaker 3: We could do, like we could do like you know, right.

1056
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 4: Are you guys? Doing a group gift, but we sure can't.

1057
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 2: There been there been bates and discussions, and there's been

1058
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 2: negotiations behind the scenes.

1059
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: The show is on.

1060
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 3: It's stay or go Kelly. Good morning to Kelly.

1061
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 2: How you doing, Okay, welcome to the program, Kelly. So

1062
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 2: you are you're a married woman. Congratula. Congratulations for being

1063
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: a married woman. I don't know if you've made it.

1064
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 2: Have you been married for a while, a couple of

1065
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: years something like that. That's a big accomplishment.

1066
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 11: We've been together a long time.

1067
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 3: I'm serious.

1068
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 2: I feel like being married for any period of time

1069
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 2: like past maybe I don't know, twenty four months is

1070
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 2: impressive for me. I think being with someone longer than

1071
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: six months is impressive. But anyway, nonetheless, this is about kids, though.

1072
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 2: So what's going on with you and your husband?

1073
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 15: Well, okay, so you know, when we were younger, we

1074
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 15: both agreed we just didn't want children, and so that

1075
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 15: was our thing. But we've gotten a little older, and

1076
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 15: unfortunately I'm one of the people that they kind of

1077
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 15: talk about that I've changed my mind and I want kids.

1078
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So you you guys have this conversation. This is

1079
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 2: and this is a very fundamental thing to talk about.

1080
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 2: In here, I am talking about relationships like I've ever

1081
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: been successful on one. But nonetheless I have I can,

1082
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 2: I can observe, I give great advice, I give excellent advice,

1083
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 2: and I have great perspective. I just myself cannot really

1084
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 2: seem to find very much success. But you have this

1085
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: conversation ahead of time, Hey kids, no kids. I think

1086
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 2: talking about money ahead of time. I think talking about

1087
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 2: you know, love, languages and that kind of thing.

1088
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 3: I think there's all stuff.

1089
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 2: To get ironed out before you get married, so that

1090
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 2: you're on the same page, that you don't commit to

1091
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 2: each other for life legally, and then decide one person's

1092
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: like I want to spend all of our money and

1093
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: the other person like I want to save all of

1094
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 2: our money. Or I want to have kids and I

1095
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,479
Speaker 2: don't want to have kids, or you know, these fundamental things.

1096
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 2: And now you guys are latched together and you're going

1097
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: to be unhappy because you you view things differently. So

1098
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,720
Speaker 2: you guys had the conversation before you got married, no kids,

1099
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 2: that was what you determined.

1100
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, we definitely had this conversation, and I mean

1101
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 15: I definitely didn't want them and he didn't either, but

1102
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 15: it's just we've gotten older and I have changed my mind.

1103
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 11: And I went and told him, though I, of course

1104
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 11: we are.

1105
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 15: Really communicative, this is this is just one of our busses.

1106
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 15: But I told him that I had a change of

1107
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 15: hearts and he he was like, you know, I appreciate

1108
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 15: you telling me, but I don't My mind hasn't changed.

1109
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 15: So anyway, he still doesn't want kids, but he did

1110
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 15: have a compromise.

1111
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 3: Well, a compromise that's exciting. What was it? Yeah, what

1112
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 3: is it?

1113
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 15: Well, well, he said that if I wanted a kid

1114
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 15: bad enough, he said, he would obviously contribute financially. But

1115
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 15: he's not doing diapers, he's not doing feedings, like waking

1116
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 15: up in the middle of the night warming bottles all

1117
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 15: of a thing. I'm going to be doing all of them.

1118
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 3: So he'll help you make the kid, but you get

1119
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 3: to raise it.

1120
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: And he's just he's and he'll give you he'll ride

1121
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 2: a couple of bucks towards it, but he's not going

1122
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 2: to be enrolled in like the hard work.

1123
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 11: I mean, you're right, but I want to make.

1124
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 3: Sure I have this right. I'm not. I'm not.

1125
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's that's a wild take. But

1126
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 2: I want to make sure I have this right. So

1127
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 2: he's not telling you you're fine, we can have a kid.

1128
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: I'm just not going to do the hard stuff.

1129
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 15: Yeah he's not. He's exactly. Yeah, he's not going to

1130
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 15: do any of that if I want, If we're.

1131
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 3: Going to do this, how does that make you feel?

1132
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 11: Well?

1133
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: And that's fair, but how does that make you feel?

1134
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 2: Because you're allowed to change your mind now, I mean,

1135
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 2: it's it's a pretty significant thing to to then say, well,

1136
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 2: now I want to add a human to our sort

1137
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 2: of existence now. I mean, but you also have every

1138
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 2: right to change your mind. I suppose he has every

1139
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 2: right to say. But we talked about this and I've

1140
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: never wanted kids and I don't want them now. I

1141
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 2: think that's a weird compromise. But how does this all

1142
00:47:58,560 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: make you feel?

1143
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 15: I mean at first it was like that is but

1144
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 15: I mean again, on the one that made this decision

1145
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 15: in my head, I changed my mind. And if he's

1146
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 15: gonna he's not going anywhere.

1147
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 11: He's going to be financially supporting.

1148
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 15: I mean, plus, you know what, what's the.

1149
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 11: Difference between like having a kid on your own?

1150
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 15: You know, there's plenty of single moms that do it

1151
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 15: every day, and I'm thinking he's going to change his

1152
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 15: mind over time, you know, And so I don't know.

1153
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 15: I don't know.

1154
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 11: What do I do? I don't know.

1155
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 4: I'm tough.

1156
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 3: I mean, what are the options? Right?

1157
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 2: The options are you?

1158
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 3: You do it this way?

1159
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 2: You know, you have your kid with your partner who

1160
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 2: you love, and he's just not involved very much. Somebody

1161
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 2: tells me he'll be okay. Maybe he'd be okay with

1162
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: like some of the upside, but doesn't like, he doesn't

1163
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: want to be up in the middle of the night

1164
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: changing diapers. He doesn't want to be a parent, right,

1165
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to hear you're the nurturing part of it.

1166
00:48:55,239 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: Maybe okay, you could not have a kid, which means

1167
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 2: then that you're not fulfilled in this way because this

1168
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: is what you want and that's a big deal. Or

1169
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 2: you could divorce him and then go find somebody who

1170
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 2: does want to have a kid. Am I missing any

1171
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: options here?

1172
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 3: I got?

1173
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 2: And I know this all stops cut and dry and

1174
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 2: like very simplified, But am I missing anything?

1175
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 3: Bill?

1176
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 11: That's it? That's it.

1177
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't really like this very much. And I

1178
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 7: only say that, and you can totally have a kid

1179
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 7: on your own. That is not even the issue. But

1180
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 7: I feel like, because you are married to somebody, and

1181
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 7: that person, you know, is quote okay with this idea

1182
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 7: and kind of treating it like almost like you're bringing

1183
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 7: home a puppy or something like, he's like, you know

1184
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 7: what I mean, He's like, oh, I'm not gonna get

1185
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 7: up in the middle.

1186
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 4: Of the night and do this and.

1187
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 7: That like that's that's a single married mom in my opinion,

1188
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 7: And I don't really like that.

1189
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:45,959
Speaker 4: If you're gonna do it on your own.

1190
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 7: I would just say do it fully on your own

1191
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 7: and like not even like truly I have to leave

1192
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 7: this man because also too so you're gonna bring him

1193
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 7: a baby and there's gonna be a man living there,

1194
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 7: but he's not involved. But he's a dad, you know

1195
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 7: what I mean. It's like, who's that man walking in

1196
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 7: the hallway, Like you know what I mean? How involved

1197
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 7: does he think he's gonna be? Like you're the father

1198
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 7: and you also live here, And.

1199
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 2: I suppose he might change his mind once the kid's

1200
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 2: there and he sees you working hard and doing all this,

1201
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 2: he might decide, well, maybe I should be involved. It's

1202
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 2: my offspring too. I guess there's a chance of that.

1203
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: I just from the jump, I just don't like the

1204
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: way that feels, you know, like, hey, yeah, yeah, you

1205
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 2: can have the kid. But like, I'll just I'm just

1206
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: sort of here, don't, don't, don't, don't inconvenience me with it.

1207
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 2: But for the people who are texting saying this guy's

1208
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 2: a jerk, that that is a jerk, that's kind of

1209
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 2: a jerky response by all means. But he did say

1210
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 2: from the beginning, his truth was I don't want kids,

1211
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 2: So that does not make him a bad guy. He

1212
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 2: was very clear about that. So I mean, for the

1213
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: people who are like, this guy's terrible, I.

1214
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 3: Don't, I don't know.

1215
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if he's His response is not great,

1216
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: but he's allowed to be a person who doesn't want

1217
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 2: to have kids, like that's not And and you guys

1218
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 2: didn't talk about it and agree on that initially.

1219
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:01,840
Speaker 15: Yes, And I understand where he's at. That's why, because

1220
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 15: we were hard knows, so I get where he's at.

1221
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 15: So you know, that's why I'm struggling with this. And

1222
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 15: you're going to resent him.

1223
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 7: You're going to resent him when the baby's there middle

1224
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 7: of the night. You're the one changing diapers, You're the

1225
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 7: one doing all these things.

1226
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1227
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 7: I feel like it's a terrible idea and you're allowed

1228
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 7: to change your mind. And Fred was right about that.

1229
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 7: Like you guys were very clear in the beginning. You guys,

1230
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 7: you know, grew in your marriage. Whatever you want different

1231
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 7: things now. I think, I hate to say it, doesn't

1232
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 7: that call for like some form of like, I don't know, separation,

1233
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 7: going your own ways, then living your life on your terms,

1234
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 7: both of you doing what you both want.

1235
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 15: My crazy, I think even this is bigger than Oh god, someone,

1236
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 15: this is even bigger than the baby.

1237
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 2: Someone have the baby and then divorce him. Do not

1238
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 2: do that, Yeah, do not do that. That is the

1239
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 2: that's the worst. I love you, but that is the

1240
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 2: worst advice, because you're still tied to the guy.

1241
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 3: No, this is what you do either. You may have

1242
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 3: to leave this dude.

1243
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: If you really want kid, you deserve a supportive partner

1244
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 2: who's in it with you. It also wants the kid.

1245
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 2: Maybe give him a little bit of time to marinate

1246
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 2: on this. But I don't think it's unfair. If this

1247
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 2: is really your calling, and really what you're drawn to

1248
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: do and you feel very strongly about it. You have

1249
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: one life. You deserve a supportive partner with whom to

1250
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 2: do this. You may have to go to shay him

1251
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 2: and say, look, I love you, but we are now fractured.

1252
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 2: We are fundamentally on different sides of this, and I

1253
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 2: don't want to do this with somebody who's going to

1254
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 2: be absent minded. And maybe if you have that conversation,

1255
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 2: he comes around because he loves you, and maybe he

1256
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 2: can see it, and maybe he does it. I actually

1257
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 2: know a couple. This is a real story. I know

1258
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 2: a couple that had this very thing happen. They decided

1259
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 2: no kids, no kids. And I'm not going to get

1260
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: into too many details because these people might know who

1261
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 2: I'm talking about. I don't know people might know who

1262
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm talking about. But let's just say that he was

1263
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 2: willing to take on some other responsibilities, but he did

1264
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 2: not want kids. He never did, but he loved her.

1265
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 2: They got married. She says, you know, in somewhere in

1266
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: years into the marriage, I want kids, and he's like,

1267
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 2: I don't want kid I told you, I really don't

1268
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 2: like I have my whole life planned out and I

1269
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 2: told you this, and at some point the conversation was,

1270
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 2: if you need to leave me, I would be heartbroken.

1271
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 2: But I understand. I'm not going to stand in your way,

1272
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 2: but I'm not one hundred percent in this. They wound

1273
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 2: up staying together and having a kid and everything is wonderful.

1274
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 2: But it wasn't the plan. It wasn't it kind of

1275
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 2: all didn't happen in order or as you know. It

1276
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 2: kind of just happened, and that's a different story. But nonetheless,

1277
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 2: everything works out fine, everyone's happy, and it turns out.

1278
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 2: I think this guy would tell you that it's the

1279
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: greatest thing that ever happened to him. But if a

1280
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: guy's telling you right now, I don't want it and

1281
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be involved, that is bad. Right

1282
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,720
Speaker 2: like that, I can't imagine starting that way.

1283
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 11: You know, do you really think I could do it

1284
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:51,959
Speaker 11: on my own?

1285
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: Of course, as someone wants to know how old you are?

1286
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 2: By the way, how old are you in your thirties?

1287
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 11: I'm in my thirties.

1288
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, you absolutely can do it on your own.

1289
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: I mean, here's what I'll say. I don't know you

1290
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: people can do it on their own. And I believe

1291
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 2: you're you're probably very capable of it. But I don't

1292
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 2: think this is going to work. Uh, and it's it's

1293
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 2: it's heartbreaking. But eight five, five, five, nine one one

1294
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: on three five the text are going crazy. I would

1295
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 2: love to know what people have to say about this though.

1296
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 2: I hate to say this, but I think you you know,

1297
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: have to have a very and it's not a mean conversation.

1298
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 2: It's not you know, there's no lack of love. I

1299
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 2: don't think it's it's spiteful or hateful. This guy didn't

1300
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 2: lie to you. He told you the truth. But I

1301
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 2: think it may it may be the kind of conversation

1302
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 2: where you have to just say, look, I gotta do

1303
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 2: this and so and I want to do it with

1304
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 2: somebody who either either is going to be an active

1305
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 2: participant who wants to be there, or I'd rather do

1306
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,839
Speaker 2: it on my own. I know people who've done that too. Well, Kelly,

1307
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 2: let me take some calls and have the radio one

1308
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 2: and thank you for sharing this. I know it's very personal,

1309
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 2: and good luck to you.

1310
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 11: Well, thank you so much for having me.

1311
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got it. We appreciate you. I mean, yeah,

1312
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think she's gotta probably leave this guy.

1313
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, from his perspective too, like he came into this

1314
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 5: relationship like thinking one thing and now yeah, she gets

1315
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 5: to choose her what she wants to do. But in

1316
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 5: a way is also like blowing up his life, you know,

1317
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 5: like now he may lose his marriage because of it,

1318
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 5: and he had the same intentions from the jump.

1319
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like his response, but I don't disagree

1320
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 2: with with him having a stay in this and having

1321
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 2: a vote and having a desire for his life too.

1322
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 2: I mean again the whole I'll do well, I'll knock

1323
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 2: you up and then just be here. I don't like that,

1324
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 2: but I also for the people, like this guy is

1325
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 2: such a d I he didn't have to want.

1326
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't have to run the jump.

1327
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 4: This is what I want.

1328
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 3: She's the one switching up, but yeah, she can do.

1329
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 4: But it's sad, but it happens.

1330
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 7: I think in marriages people just outgrow each other, not

1331
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 7: because of kids but other things too, right, And I

1332
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 7: think it's sad and it blows up everyone's life.

1333
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 4: And now you know you're divorced, but it is what

1334
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 4: it is.

1335
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 3: Autumn, Good morning, Hi, welcome, Hi.

1336
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 16: I'm your fourteenth color.

1337
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 17: Just so you guys know, Oh you're the fourteenth.

1338
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,320
Speaker 2: You know why, that's impossible. We only have thirteen listeners,

1339
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 2: will only ever have thirteen listeners? Right when we think

1340
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 2: we got fourteen, someone moves to somewhere where they don't

1341
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 2: have the Internet yet.

1342
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:15,359
Speaker 3: It's crazy. Anyway, what do you think?

1343
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 16: So I just I'm thinking about the child. That's always

1344
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 16: my number one is do you really want to raise

1345
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 16: a child or have even a fifty percent chance of

1346
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 16: like this child not having the father being around like

1347
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 16: in their life. So I just think that that's that's

1348
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 16: what I would think about. I'd leave. I'd for sure leave,

1349
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 16: especially if she really wants a baby, because you don't

1350
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 16: know for sure if he's going to want to be around,

1351
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 16: and you don't want to do that to the baby either,

1352
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 16: you know.

1353
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, And and you know what it could

1354
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 2: be like my friend you had a kid that he

1355
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 2: wasn't expecting and loves that kid more than anything and

1356
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 2: it changed his life. If you're here right now, he

1357
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:53,840
Speaker 2: would tell you it's the greatest thing that ever happened

1358
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 2: to you. I know he'd say that, but he didn't

1359
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: see it. But you're taking a race, you're taking a risk.

1360
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 16: He's an exception, he's not the rule.

1361
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, a movie, and I can't I can't with

1362
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 2: much confidence, uh, engage in that agreement, you know what

1363
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:10,839
Speaker 2: I mean?

1364
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 3: Like that's that doesn't feel good.

1365
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 2: My partner is gonna my partner is willing to sleep

1366
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 2: with me, and you know whatever. But but but he's

1367
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 2: not really willing to do this with me.

1368
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 16: So sometimes you grow apart like that just is you'd

1369
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 16: want different things and you grow in different directions and

1370
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 16: that's okay, and she shouldn't feel ashamed about that. But

1371
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 16: if she doesn't want the same things, then I mean

1372
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 16: it might be time to part ways.

1373
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1374
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 2: Maybe, so thank you autumn listener number you say fourteen

1375
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 2: and you're still thirty.

1376
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: But HI, have a good day.

1377
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 16: Thank you.

1378
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 2: I love you mean it. Hi, Kelly, good morning, Kelly. Hello, Hi,

1379
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 2: Hi Kelly. What do you want to say?

1380
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 13: Hi?

1381
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 15: I want to say that.

1382
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 11: She needs to go. This is so selfish.

1383
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 12: She should not bring a child into this world knowing

1384
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 12: that their father wants nothing to do with it.

1385
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 16: It's so cool.

1386
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1387
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's going to work under the

1388
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 2: current arrangement, and I think it's a risk. If you

1389
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: do it within these the confides of this relationship, because

1390
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 2: he's telling you he doesn't want to do it. But

1391
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 2: thank you, Kelly, I'm glad you called. Yeah, I have

1392
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 2: a great day, you two, and thank you for listening. Brandon.

1393
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 2: So you say stay? Why I say stay? Because he

1394
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 2: was honest from the very beginning. He told her exactly

1395
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: what the situation was. While there's a good chance that

1396
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 2: his mind will change when he sees that precious young

1397
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:42,959
Speaker 2: one and he holds it in his hands. However, there's

1398
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: so many fathers who never were honists from the beginning,

1399
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 2: who have a just who actually never told their wives that,

1400
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 2: oh no, I'll do everything, but then never do anything.

1401
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: Who who are married now but never take care of

1402
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 2: the childhood in any way, who perhaps live from the beginning.

1403
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 2: I think we're talking about it. He told her two

1404
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: different things, Brandon. Then we're talking about dead bee dad.

1405
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: We're talking about people who want a kid but don't

1406
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 2: want to work for it. This guy, and you don't

1407
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 2: find that out until after the fact. This guy's telling you,

1408
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,479
Speaker 2: he's telling you right now, Hey, he's calling his shot, like, hey,

1409
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 2: just heads up, I don't want to do this, Like

1410
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: that's I think that's a little bit different because it's

1411
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 2: good enough if you have a kid and then yeah, yeah,

1412
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: yeah kid, and then you don't want to raise it.

1413
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 2: I mean, that's a different I think it's a different problem.

1414
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 11: That's true. But however, he is willing to take care

1415
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 11: of in every way. But the amount of single moms

1416
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 11: out there who have zero support whatsoever have to do

1417
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 11: it all on their own.

1418
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 6: Well, not every way, not the emotional part. You know,

1419
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 6: he's saying, I want to be like a hands offstage.

1420
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 6: So I wonder, Okay, if she goes to a sperm

1421
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 6: make and the kid doesn't hack quote unquote have a dad,

1422
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 6: is that less painful than having a dad that's like

1423
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 6: one foot in, one foot out the door.

1424
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 2: You know what I mean on the rad that he's

1425
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 2: somehow going to buy in after the fact. But Brandon,

1426
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, man, Thank you so much for calling Katie. Katie,

1427
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 2: you say go, she's got to go.

1428
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 16: Yes, I do.

1429
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 4: Well.

1430
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 16: I think if they can find a compromise, great, But

1431
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 16: I think the idea at hands is a bad idea,

1432
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 16: and if that's the only idea, she should go.

1433
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So we got to vote for go.

1434
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1435
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 2: Katie, Yeah, Larry, vote for stay.

1436
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 3: Hi Larry, Hello there, Larry. You say stay why.

1437
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 13: So the reason why is that and I don't know

1438
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 13: this gentleman's circumstances, but depending if he was an only

1439
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 13: child or something like that, I had the same thing

1440
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 13: with my folks. So when my folks got married, my

1441
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 13: dad wanted to have kids. But until we were like,

1442
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 13: I don't know, seven or eight years old, he didn't

1443
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 13: really he wasn't involved in our in our you know,

1444
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 13: raising us and what.

1445
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 8: Have you us.

1446
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 13: He would do is probably wipe a butt every now

1447
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 13: and then, but other than that he didn't do much.

1448
01:00:56,560 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 13: But as we got older, he got more involved and active.

1449
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 13: And I think that has a lot to do with it.

1450
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 13: Since we don't know the gentleman's circumstances here and what

1451
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 13: his upbringing is, I think that it's the same thing

1452
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 13: that maybe once this child gets older, he may get

1453
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 13: more involved.

1454
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 2: And oh, we love Larry, but Larry, no, I hear

1455
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 2: what you're saying.

1456
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 3: That's a risk. I mean, I hear what you're saying.

1457
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 2: There's a chance he buys in over time or warms

1458
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 2: up to the idea, but that now you have another

1459
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 2: human involved and I think we have to consider not

1460
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 2: only her needs, his needs, as Jason pointed out, but

1461
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 2: also like how's this, how's his kid going to feel

1462
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 2: if dad is truly detached from the process. Sample Jenny,

1463
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 2: good morning, Hey, good morning. I'm gonna let you have

1464
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 2: the final say here, what do you think?

1465
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 10: So?

1466
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 17: I think they both should try to work it out,

1467
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 17: only because it's a little different. But I have a

1468
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 17: friend or I have a friend who they both got married.

1469
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 17: In all their lives, they said, you know, we don't

1470
01:01:55,520 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 17: want kids. Both when she turns forty I think forty one,

1471
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 17: she accidentally got pregnant and now they're in love with

1472
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 17: this little boy fell I think eight years old, and

1473
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 17: he says it's the best thing that's ever happened to

1474
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 17: their lives.

1475
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's very possible.

1476
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 17: Yeah, once the baby's here, he could easily change his mind.

1477
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 3: You never know, it's possible.

1478
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 17: Yeah, I don't know.

1479
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a risk. I mean that's a risk.

1480
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a big risk because you know he's

1481
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 2: telling you his truth. It's almost like when people show

1482
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 2: you who they are, you should believe them kind of thing.

1483
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I know that applies to so different scenarios.

1484
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 2: But it's like he's telling you. So, then when when

1485
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:42,959
Speaker 2: the kid's five years old and he's like, I told

1486
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 2: you I don't want any I don't want to do this,

1487
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,439
Speaker 2: you can't be mad at him, I guess because he's

1488
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 2: as messed up as that is.

1489
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 3: He told you that.

1490
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 18: Yeah.

1491
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 14: True.

1492
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 3: So I don't know, Jenny, but thank you, thanks for calling.

1493
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 3: You have a good day. Of course you too, Okay, Well,

1494
01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 3: I don't think we solve their problem, but anyway.

1495
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: Entertainment report is on the Bread Show.

1496
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 6: Carucci Tran, who you may know as Chris Brown's actually's beautiful.

1497
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 6: She was seen supporting Hall of Fame coach Dion Sanders

1498
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 6: during his recent bladder cancer surgery in a documentary style

1499
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 6: video produced by Dion's Sun. It shows her wiping away tears,

1500
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 6: holding his hand, and asking very detailed questions in the

1501
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 6: hospital room as he underwent his treatment. Earlier outings like

1502
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,919
Speaker 6: lunches and some handholding had already started speculation earlier this year,

1503
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 6: but neither have confirmed their relationship.

1504
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 4: I think now it's.

1505
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 6: Pretty much sealing the deal that they are together, and

1506
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 6: of course we're wishing him a very speedy recovery. Last week,

1507
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 6: fifty cent who is his full time job is strolling

1508
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 6: above all else. He posted a video of what appeared

1509
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 6: to be or photos of what appeared to be Rick

1510
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 6: Ross cuddling up to another man on a yacht in Miami,

1511
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 6: writing quote, you man was looking real saucy kissing.

1512
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 4: That boy on that boat. That's not Ai.

1513
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 6: Well yesterday Rick Ross a shirt lit Rick Ross, he

1514
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 6: was in a pool with a cocktail and a joint,

1515
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 6: He responded to fifty cents.

1516
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 14: So infatuated with my lifestyle. You see me out on

1517
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 14: the yacht with a black beautiful woman, and I hope

1518
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 14: you don't have anything against black beautiful women, Curtis. I mean,

1519
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 14: what are you insinuating here? I mean, and we know

1520
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 14: you just had your heart shattered when you found out

1521
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 14: what we found out. We all found out together, and

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Speaker 14: we know that's the mother of your youngest son, lit.

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Speaker 3: Bruce Lee roy.

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 14: But you got to give a beautiful black woman an opportunity, Curtis.

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Speaker 14: We know you may have been hurt, you are hurt whole,

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Speaker 14: but get over it, man, enjoy your glass of fern

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Speaker 14: bubbles and move on in life.

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Speaker 3: Be happy, all right?

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Speaker 16: Move on?

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Speaker 4: Be happy? I love a light rap beef.

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Speaker 6: That's not like hurting anyone, really, but that was his

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Speaker 6: response and it made me chuckle. And lastly, real quick,

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Speaker 6: the fourth movie and then Meet the Parents franchise has

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Speaker 6: been officially named.

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Speaker 4: It's Foker in Law. As I said, fo c k

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Speaker 4: e R and it.

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Speaker 6: Is set for release on Thanksgiving next year, so we're

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Speaker 6: gonna have to wait. Ben Stiller is back as Greg Falker,

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Speaker 6: and Roberts DeNiro, of course, is back as Jack Burns,

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Speaker 6: along with blythe dan Or, Terry Polo, and Owen Wilson

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Speaker 6: reprising their roles. Ariana Grande joins the cast as a

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Speaker 6: assertive fiance, and she is the fiance of one of

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Speaker 6: Greg and Pam's sons. The storyline will mirrow the og

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Speaker 6: by depicting Greg's grown children preparing to introduce their partners

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Speaker 6: to the next Burns family, this time through the eyes

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Speaker 6: of the next generation.

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Speaker 4: By the way, if you missed any part of our.

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Speaker 6: Show or you want to catch up, just type the

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Speaker 1: That's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes

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01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 1: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz showdown show, Ray.

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01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 3: Shelby, Hi, how's your more?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 4: You know, mornings are chaos, but they're fine, good, all.

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01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 3: Right, raising children are playing the game doing the thing. Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 3: some morning guys.

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Speaker 16: Hell are you Kelly?

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Speaker 3: H fun fact about you is what I am a

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01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 3: mom to chew Kato.

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Speaker 6: But my son with me and we thought you guys

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Speaker 6: in Palatine?

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01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 2: Why I love that? What is your son's name, Kelly?

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01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 16: My name is Jimmy.

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01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 2: Hi, Jimmy, Hey, Jimmy, how old are you?

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01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 16: I am about to be twelve years old?

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01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 4: Jewish mon?

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01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 3: Don't you cheat? Okay, Jimmy, I don't talk about that.

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Speaker 18: I don't even know what.

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01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 16: I don't even know what I because.

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01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,080
Speaker 15: But what's your favorite time of the show? You were

1573
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 15: just telling your favorite of the show is what Kaylen's

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01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 15: ertainer reports.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this kid's gonna cheat that. If I hear a little.

1576
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 2: Voice in the background, I'm disqualifying you.

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01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 6: I don't care if you're twelve, I might count a

1578
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 6: little slower for you.

1579
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 2: Al Right, guys, let's play the game. Five pop culture

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01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 2: question seven fifty is the prize. Good luck, guys, all right,

1581
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 2: good luck? All the respect Shelley, you got to get

1582
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 2: the heck out question number one, Kelly and only Kelly,

1583
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 2: which late wrestler's action figure is making a comeback after

1584
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 2: his passing. Last week, Chris Martin's ex wife was hired

1585
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 2: to be the spokesperson for the tech company where the

1586
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:24,320
Speaker 2: viral Coldplay cheaters used to work.

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Speaker 3: Name his ex.

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01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 2: Speaking of cold Play, Lionel Messi and his wife were

1589
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 2: caught on their concert kiss cam.

1590
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,480
Speaker 3: Why is he famous?

1591
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 16: He's a kind of player.

1592
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 2: Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American

1593
01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 2: Eagle Denim ad aesome and Billie Eilish's brother and musical

1594
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 2: counterpart turns twenty eight tomorrow name him? All right, you

1595
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 2: got a four and you're going to kick yourself for

1596
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 2: number three. But don't say it. Don't say it, don't

1597
01:07:58,680 --> 01:07:59,720
Speaker 2: say don't I tell.

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01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 16: You, don't Your old looks at me, He goes answer,

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Speaker 16: I don't say.

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Speaker 3: Don't say Kelly.

1601
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes less words. Okay, and I need I need

1602
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 2: to take my own advice. But here we go four.

1603
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 4: Oh oh, no, okay, you got.

1604
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:14,919
Speaker 3: To focus, all right.

1605
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 2: Kelly was trying to give you an answer, but I

1606
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 2: had to stop her, which late wrestler's action figure is

1607
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 2: making a comeback after his passing last week.

1608
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 4: Oh Cogan, that's right.

1609
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:27,600
Speaker 2: Chris Martin's ex wife was hired to be the spokesperson

1610
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 2: for the tech company where the viral cold Plade cheaters worked.

1611
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,519
Speaker 3: Name his ex Gwyneth pal Yeah.

1612
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 2: Speaking of cold Play, Lionel Messi and his wife were

1613
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 2: caught on their concert kiss cam.

1614
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 3: Why is he famous?

1615
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 9: Uh?

1616
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:41,599
Speaker 4: Soccer?

1617
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 2: He's a soccer player, that's right, not a tennis player.

1618
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 2: Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American Eagle.

1619
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,600
Speaker 3: Denim ad.

1620
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 2: And Billie Eilish's brother and musical counterpart turns twenty eighth

1621
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 2: Mr name him?

1622
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 4: Oh Phineas.

1623
01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a five. That's Kelly number three. Got you

1624
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:02,679
Speaker 2: and Jimmy could have saved you, but he didn't see.

1625
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 2: He didn't see. So we'll we'll get you some kind

1626
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:08,679
Speaker 2: of a runner up Jason. Yeah, well, now we're gonna

1627
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 2: get you some kind of a runner up price. I

1628
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 2: don't know what it is.

1629
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Speaker 3: Do you know what it is?

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Speaker 18: There?

1631
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:12,639
Speaker 5: But I'm gonna figure it out.

1632
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 3: Jason. Jason always figures it out. Yeah.

1633
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,719
Speaker 2: I commit Jason the things all the time. He doesn't

1634
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:22,799
Speaker 2: want to do. It's fine. How many medium yeah, yeah,

1635
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 2: we gotta say it. Kelly and Jimmy, you can join it.

1636
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 2: My name is Kelly. I got showed up on the showdown.

1637
01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:27,679
Speaker 2: You know the rest.

1638
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 4: All right, ready, then, my name is Kelly.

1639
01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 16: I got showed up on the showdown.

1640
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Speaker 9: Boom. Oh that was good. That was so good. I

1641
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 9: don't have to do it, guys, excellent. I love you

1642
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 9: for that, you guys, hang on a second, thanks for listening.

1643
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Speaker 9: All right, you stay right there, Shelly. Yes, you did it.

1644
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 9: You got a five.

1645
01:09:57,120 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 2: You needed a five, eight hundred bucks tomorrow when never

1646
01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 2: one one thousand and thirty two eleven straight.

1647
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Speaker 3: We've been at sixty nine losses for some.

1648
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 4: Time now, hasn't it?

1649
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Speaker 3: So? Very good? Job? Come back tomorrow, let's play again.

1650
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Speaker 3: All right, sounds good. We're gonna, hey, we're.

1651
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Speaker 2: Gonna I'm reluctant to say, I don't want to chase it,

1652
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 2: but like we're gonna drive this up. It's gonna be

1653
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:18,879
Speaker 2: five thousand dollars.

1654
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 12: Okay, yeah, no pressure, okay, no pressure.

1655
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Speaker 3: All right, have a good one.

1656
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Speaker 4: All right, that's good.

1657
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Speaker 2: Oh okay, bye waiting the phone. Why did somebody get

1658
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Speaker 2: ghosted from the vault? We'll do it no more.

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Speaker 2: the twenty eighth. Wit anute, So you only follow pretty people?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Like I only like to see pretty stuff on

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Speaker 7: my timeline, Ugly people all my timeline.

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Speaker 4: Like it like it triggers.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh god, not again? Like wow, so nuts

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Speaker 3: you again.

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Manning.

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Speaker 2: It's tuesdaye Live twenty ninth The Fred Shows Here. Hi Kla,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Hey, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Tiki's off vacation, Bellahminas.

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Speaker 2: Your show is Shelley eight five five five nine three

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Speaker 2: Fred Show on you too. You can watch a bunch

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Speaker 2: man in a new episode of The Tangent are Off

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Speaker 2: Fair Uncentered podcast is up as well. Waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 2: Why does somebody get ghosted from the vault?

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Speaker 3: Will do it next?

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Speaker 2: Headlines fun Fact and the Entertainment Report This hour, what

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Speaker 2: are you working on?

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Speaker 6: K a pop music breakup that I was worried happened

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Speaker 4: Also didd he's still trying to get out of jail.

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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: Hey Tim, good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good? How are you doing doing? Great?

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Speaker 9: Man?

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Speaker 3: Just you know, happy to be here talking to you. Tim.

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Speaker 3: What if I call you Big Tim?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a different, No, Big Tim is a different

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Speaker 2: Tim is not calling waiting by the phone. I want

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Speaker 2: to be clear, be weird if you were. But what's

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Speaker 2: going on with this regular sized Tim? What's going on

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Speaker 2: with Okay, Jason's upset?

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Speaker 3: All right? What's going on with Chelsea? This?

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Speaker 2: This woman who you met? How did you meet? Tell

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Speaker 2: us about any dates that you've been on, and then

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Speaker 2: where things are now?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so I met Chelsea on Bumble and you know,

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Speaker 8: I like bumble because the girl has the message first,

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Speaker 8: so usually that leads to like at least a decent time.

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Speaker 8: So I have to wrapped the drinks after we talked

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01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 8: for a bit and she agreed, so we went and

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Speaker 8: it was great. Vibes are really good, good enough to

1718
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Speaker 8: go back to my place, you know, only for a

1719
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 8: little like nothing happened. I kind of felt a little

1720
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 8: bit of a vibe maybe like when she.

1721
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:32,520
Speaker 11: Left, but there was no like, you know, there was nothing.

1722
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 8: That happened, So I thought maybe it was just like

1723
01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:38,160
Speaker 8: she was tired or something, but gud tenses her and

1724
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:38,920
Speaker 8: she never answered.

1725
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean the bumble thing is interesting because yeah,

1726
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:46,240
Speaker 2: the woman messages first, so that usually means that, like

1727
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 2: she's perused the profile and is somewhat excited about at

1728
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 2: least your pictures enough to message you. Right, So there's

1729
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 2: a little bit of, I don't know, initiative required there.

1730
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 3: So there's a little build up, right.

1731
01:13:57,760 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 2: Because if she's got some skin in the game and

1732
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 2: then you and by the time you go out, everyone's

1733
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 2: kind of excited.

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Speaker 8: Right, Yeah, exactly. I thought, I really believe that it

1735
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Speaker 8: was going to be a great time, and it was

1736
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Speaker 8: to my you know, from my.

1737
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Speaker 2: Perspective, right, except this woman is not responding to you.

1738
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Speaker 2: Has it reached out nothing since the date. You feel

1739
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:17,800
Speaker 2: like you're being ghosted, which is where we come in.

1740
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 2: We're gonna call Chelsea, see if we can get her

1741
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 2: on the phone. We're going to ask some questions on

1742
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 2: your behalf. You'll be on the phone too at some point.

1743
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 2: You're welcome to jump in. And the hope here is

1744
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 2: that we can straighten this out regular sized Tim and

1745
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 2: see what's going on and hopefully set you guys up

1746
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 2: on another date that we paid for.

1747
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 3: Sound good? Sounds great?

1748
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 2: Hey, Tim, Hey, welcome back. Let's call Chelsea. You guys

1749
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:38,800
Speaker 2: met on Bumble, the dating app. You went on a

1750
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 2: date you thought it went really well back to your

1751
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 2: place for a minute even, And while it was pretty

1752
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:46,559
Speaker 2: tame there, you still thought that was all good, and

1753
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 2: that you would hear from this woman again, or that

1754
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 2: at least you would respond to you for another date.

1755
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 2: You pretty much thought that was a foregone conclusion, except

1756
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 2: you have reached out since then, she hasn't responded, and

1757
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 2: you want to know why exactly.

1758
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 8: I'm very curious. Is this what she has to say?

1759
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 2: Well, we're hopefully going to find out right now. Good luck, Tim,

1760
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 2: thank you. Hello, Hi, this is Chelsea.

1761
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:14,719
Speaker 17: Oh yeah, this is Chelsea.

1762
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 3: Hey, Chelsea, good morning. My name is Fred.

1763
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show,

1764
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:19,680
Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

1765
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:22,200
Speaker 2: the radio right now and I would need your permission

1766
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 2: to continue with the call. Can we chat for just

1767
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 2: a minute on the.

1768
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 3: Show, Okay, okay, I.

1769
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 2: Guess yes, good, all right, I was waiting for the Okay, anyway,

1770
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 2: we're going to yes. Well, thank you so much, Chelsea.

1771
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 2: I'll get right to it. We're calling on behalf of

1772
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 2: someone named Tim. A guy named Tim who called us

1773
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 2: says that you guys recently met on bumble and went

1774
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 2: out on a date do you remember this guy?

1775
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 18: I hope, Yeah, I do remember going on a date

1776
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 18: with him.

1777
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 2: Okay, so he called us, had nice things to say

1778
01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 2: about you, said he was excited about the date, thought

1779
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 2: the date went well, mentioned that you went back to

1780
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 2: his place. He did say nothing happened, But he also

1781
01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 2: says he's reached out to plan another d eight and

1782
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 2: you haven't responded to him at all. So why does

1783
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 2: he think it everything went well but you're not responding?

1784
01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did.

1785
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 16: I would say the date was was good, like initially.

1786
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 18: Uh, we did go to his house and when I

1787
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 18: was there, I just I saw something that made me

1788
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 18: feel pretty uncomfortable.

1789
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 3: Oh okay, what what did you say? There was a.

1790
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:34,799
Speaker 18: Doll that was very life sized, really realistic looking.

1791
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 3: Oh no, had a very human doll of the female variation. Yes, yep.

1792
01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 3: And where was it was?

1793
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,599
Speaker 18: I'm sorry position, I don't want to like, I'm sorry

1794
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 18: I say that again.

1795
01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 3: Where where was she? What was she doing? Uh said doll?

1796
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,599
Speaker 18: I mean she was like just positioned normally.

1797
01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 2: It was so weird, like in a chair in the

1798
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 2: bed or on the ground or like was it?

1799
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 3: Did he maybe forget.

1800
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 18: He was sitting like on like on the couch like

1801
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 18: in his living room, which was just super weird.

1802
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 17: And I asked.

1803
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:13,640
Speaker 4: You know, what's to deal with this?

1804
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 11: And you know, I was talking there'd be like a reasonable.

1805
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, reasonable explanation might there be? And what did what

1806
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:24,839
Speaker 2: did old boy have to say?

1807
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 18: I don't know what I was hoping, but basically he

1808
01:17:30,040 --> 01:17:35,799
Speaker 18: did say that it is a stall and he starting

1809
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,519
Speaker 18: to tell me all about her. And the doll has

1810
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 18: a name. Her name is Sonia's Super Yep, she's super

1811
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 18: life like because she costs like two thousand dollars from

1812
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 18: this website all the Annie's dollhouse that he ordered it from,

1813
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:59,640
Speaker 18: and that he would stop seeing Sonya, and it just

1814
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 18: I just felt like I needed to get out of

1815
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 18: that house.

1816
01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 6: So if you guys became exclusive, then he would break

1817
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 6: up with Sonya.

1818
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a real website. Okay.

1819
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:13,320
Speaker 3: Was Sonia clothed on the couch or was Sonia? Uh not?

1820
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 4: She did have like a shirt on, so she.

1821
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:19,639
Speaker 2: Put something on. Forgot you mentioned that Tim is here.

1822
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm very forgetful, but I have to Tim. I need

1823
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 2: you to explain immediately, please. I mean, and by the way,

1824
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 2: don't anybody say we're calling Tim out here, because you

1825
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 2: asked us, Tim, you asked us to call Chelsea, and

1826
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:33,200
Speaker 2: this is what she has revealed. So now we need

1827
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:36,639
Speaker 2: to understand because I mean, I get it, and tell

1828
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 2: us about what Chelsea was it, or what you tell

1829
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:42,960
Speaker 2: us about Chelsea. You didn't tell us about Sonya. I'm sorry.

1830
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,880
Speaker 2: I don't mean to No, No, I get it.

1831
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:49,080
Speaker 8: I mean I gotta say I am a little disappointed

1832
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 8: because one of the things that me and Chelsea did

1833
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:57,559
Speaker 8: talk about is that we were both adventurers. So I

1834
01:18:57,600 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 8: didn't think, you know, I kind of assumed that would

1835
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 8: be maybe like something that she had seen before or

1836
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 8: something kind of regular.

1837
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 2: But no, I think that's actually yeah, I don't mean,

1838
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 2: I mean, bro, but I.

1839
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,720
Speaker 8: Feel like it's kind of king shaming. I mean to

1840
01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:14,160
Speaker 8: see that and be like, oh, I need to get

1841
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 8: out of your house right now. I mean, that doesn't

1842
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:19,320
Speaker 8: really line up with what we've talked about about being adventurous.

1843
01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 8: Plus compared to like other things, it's also way safer.

1844
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 8: I mean, like you can't get an STD from a doll.

1845
01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:29,120
Speaker 8: I mean, I can't get so many pregnant. You know,

1846
01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 8: you know, you don't have a little hymns running around

1847
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 8: if you go as you could.

1848
01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 2: But here's my thing, Tim, I don't know that anybody's

1849
01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 2: necessarily I mean, okay, so you have an accessory, Okay.

1850
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:42,639
Speaker 2: I think where it starts to get a little blurry

1851
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 2: for me is the fact that you would be breaking

1852
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 2: up with the inanimate object in order to get a

1853
01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 2: human being. I think, look, if you've got to, if

1854
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 2: you've got stuff that you like to incorporate, I mean,

1855
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:55,920
Speaker 2: that's on you, and you guys can work that out.

1856
01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 2: But it's when you basically said that you would have

1857
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 2: to break up with this thing to then date a

1858
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 2: human being that Now, now I'm a little bit intrigued.

1859
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,240
Speaker 11: Well, I mean, I just can understand.

1860
01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:11,000
Speaker 8: How someone would be uncomfortable with, you know, me having

1861
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 8: that doll that has a name and you know a

1862
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:16,680
Speaker 8: bit of a personality around around the house and you know,

1863
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 8: in the bed while I'm actively seeing them. I feel

1864
01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 8: that could be something that is seen as a little

1865
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,479
Speaker 8: bit of an issue. So I you know, offer to

1866
01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 8: you know, stop seeing her. I mean, if she wanted

1867
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,720
Speaker 8: Sonia to say, it's only could say I love for

1868
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:29,679
Speaker 8: Sonia to stay.

1869
01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:32,280
Speaker 11: That's a doll. I doesn't have a personality.

1870
01:20:32,400 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 4: This website has After pay you can do your doll but.

1871
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 8: For two thousand dollars. I mean, she looks real enough

1872
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 8: to have a personality, so I think, I mean, I.

1873
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 2: Think she's not so she's not real. Tim you have

1874
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 2: to understand, like, we did not see this coming. Uh,

1875
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 2: and it is a little bit unorthodox, I think is

1876
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 2: a nice way of saying it. And no, I'm not

1877
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:55,439
Speaker 2: judging you, but you have to and you've acknowledged that

1878
01:20:56,080 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 2: in so many words that a new person coming into

1879
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 2: this might might be threatened by we'll say, by sonya.

1880
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:05,600
Speaker 8: Yeah, I guess, I mean, I guess. I also was

1881
01:21:05,640 --> 01:21:08,240
Speaker 8: on the impression that Chelsea would be someone who wasn't

1882
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 8: desured by that, but you know.

1883
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 16: By the actual thing.

1884
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 18: I'm deterred by the fact that you feel like it

1885
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:15,639
Speaker 18: has a personality and a name.

1886
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's something. So look, Chelsea, I will ask

1887
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:22,240
Speaker 2: the question if he's willing to break up with so

1888
01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 2: I can't even believe this. Would you then be interested

1889
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 2: in seeing him again once he's able to be Uh,

1890
01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 2: he's no longer exclusive?

1891
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 3: I guess Okay, So no.

1892
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,000
Speaker 4: No, I don't know. I do not want to see

1893
01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 4: him again.

1894
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:38,640
Speaker 2: I might look you do you, But I might reconsider

1895
01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 2: the way that I sort of roll this whole thing

1896
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:42,479
Speaker 2: out in the future.

1897
01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:44,720
Speaker 8: Well, I mean, like you said, I mean, I guess

1898
01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 8: I do agree it's a little bit unorthodox, But I

1899
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 8: guess I just have to find somebody who matches that unorthodox.

1900
01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:54,679
Speaker 3: There you go, who's going to match your freak? Chelsea?

1901
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 3: Thank you for answering, Thank you for your time. It's him.

1902
01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 3: Best of luck to you as well. Thank you.

1903
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,440
Speaker 1: Caitlin's Entertainment Report, he's on the Bread Show.

1904
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 6: Diddy's legal team just filed a new motion to bail

1905
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:09,760
Speaker 6: him out again. I mean, we've tried this many different times.

1906
01:22:09,760 --> 01:22:12,440
Speaker 6: Would they say that he's the only man in America

1907
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:16,240
Speaker 6: being held behind bars for hiring a male sex worker

1908
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 6: to hook up with his girlfriends.

1909
01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 4: They say that's very benign.

1910
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:21,599
Speaker 6: So his lawyers sent this new bail package for proposal

1911
01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:24,240
Speaker 6: over to the judge, who has gotten many of these,

1912
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 6: with a list of reasons why they think Diddy should

1913
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,640
Speaker 6: be released from jail before his October third sentencing.

1914
01:22:31,120 --> 01:22:32,760
Speaker 4: They say it's ridiculous that.

1915
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:35,840
Speaker 6: He's behind bars simply because he was only convicted of

1916
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:40,240
Speaker 6: hiring professional male escorts who were not miners to have

1917
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 6: sex with his longtime girlfriend's long term girlfriends as part

1918
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 6: of threesomes. They claim it was all part of his

1919
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 6: very benign swinger lifestyle. They also say a lot has

1920
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:53,800
Speaker 6: changed in terms of society's view on sex since the

1921
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 6: Man Act, which was used in the trial, was passed

1922
01:22:56,280 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 6: one hundred and fifteen years ago in nineteen ten, and

1923
01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:02,200
Speaker 6: they claimed he never had sex with one of the

1924
01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:05,559
Speaker 6: guys he hired, only his ex girlfriends did. He of course,

1925
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:09,960
Speaker 6: is awaiting sentencing on October third, after being convicted of

1926
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 6: the prostitution charges and skating on the more serious charges

1927
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:18,479
Speaker 6: like racketeering, conspiracy, and sex trafficking, but he was denied

1928
01:23:18,520 --> 01:23:22,040
Speaker 6: bail hours after the jury returned its verdict. The judge

1929
01:23:22,040 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 6: says that Diddy was a danger to the community because

1930
01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 6: of his violent past and that his defense did not

1931
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:29,640
Speaker 6: shy away from that at trial. Meanwhile, there have been

1932
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 6: multiple letters from victims asking this judge to not release him.

1933
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 4: So they're going to.

1934
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:37,120
Speaker 6: Keep trying until October, I'm sure, and we'll see if

1935
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:40,559
Speaker 6: they keep getting shut down. The kid LaRoy has seemingly

1936
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 6: confirmed his split from Tate McCrae over a.

1937
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 4: Year of dating. I think they made it to so

1938
01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 4: in a post on.

1939
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 6: X he said they're still on good terms, but his

1940
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:51,280
Speaker 6: message implied that the relationship is over.

1941
01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 4: They went public last year released a duet earlier this year.

1942
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 6: I knew the relationship was over when he was spotted

1943
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 6: with two girls from Love Island filming a music video

1944
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:02,920
Speaker 6: on a boat, and I'm like, Okay, I.

1945
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 4: Don't think Tate's in the picture anymore. Of course, I'm

1946
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 4: sure she doesn't care.

1947
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 6: She's absolutely having an insane year career wise right now.

1948
01:24:10,439 --> 01:24:12,360
Speaker 6: But I do think that they broke up, and I'm

1949
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 6: excited for the music that they both write about that.

1950
01:24:15,240 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 6: Tom Cruise quietly made headlines by attending Oasis' London reunion

1951
01:24:20,400 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 6: concert at Wembley Stadium on July twenty fifth, despite being

1952
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 6: criticized by the brothers in the past. So in their

1953
01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 6: two thousand and seven documentary Lord Don't Slow Me Down,

1954
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Speaker 6: Noel Gallagher or no is that always say his name

1955
01:24:34,560 --> 01:24:37,479
Speaker 6: Liam and Noel right or no it's not Noel right.

1956
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:38,559
Speaker 4: I just know.

1957
01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:40,160
Speaker 6: All I know is that their last names Gallagher, and

1958
01:24:40,160 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 6: they're always fighting with each other. They infamously slammed his

1959
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 6: acting career. They said he's not been in one good

1960
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:50,760
Speaker 6: film and Liam added, I hate Tom Cruise and they

1961
01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 6: called him little, so he apparently didn't care about all

1962
01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 6: of that. And he is still taking on a day

1963
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 6: armist everywhere. But they're claiming that they're just co stars.

1964
01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:03,639
Speaker 6: He is trying to hit that, I think for sure,

1965
01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:06,080
Speaker 6: but he wasn't bothered by them calling him little. By

1966
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:07,639
Speaker 6: the way, if you missed any part of our show

1967
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:09,519
Speaker 6: and you would like to catch up, every single thing

1968
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Speaker 6: is up there to type the Frend Show on demand

1969
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Speaker 6: and if you could, it really helps set us as

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Speaker 6: a preset.

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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on it. Yeah, Fread's fun.

1972
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Speaker 2: Fact Fred fun learn so much guys. There was a

1973
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 2: there was a dance plague in the sixteenth century and

1974
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:34,240
Speaker 2: it caused people to drop like flies.

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01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:37,040
Speaker 3: Mm hm did you know about this there?

1976
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:38,719
Speaker 4: I was a history English major.

1977
01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:39,880
Speaker 3: Well, tell me about it.

1978
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 4: Then it wasn't though they.

1979
01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:43,280
Speaker 7: Danced for like I don't know years or something or

1980
01:25:43,360 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 7: like days, almost a year.

1981
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 2: They danced, well, not quite but sort of, I mean

1982
01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 2: run one sort of. Well, I think we're talking about

1983
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:51,600
Speaker 2: the same thing. But it was the summer. It was

1984
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 2: the summer of fifteen eighteen. Hundreds of citizens in the

1985
01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:58,559
Speaker 2: French city of Shrusbourg. I'm sure I didn't say that, right,

1986
01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 2: danced uncontrol believe for days and weeks on end, and

1987
01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:05,879
Speaker 2: then some died from the over exertion. Scientists and historians

1988
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 2: are not sure what was behind the deadly dance a thon,

1989
01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:12,640
Speaker 2: but some choice theories include that people were involved in

1990
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 2: some kind of a religious cult, or that they had

1991
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Speaker 2: ingested a toxic mold on bread that produced spasms and hallucinations. Anyway,

1992
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Speaker 2: a bunch of people died until they dropped dead in

1993
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Speaker 2: fifteen eighteen.

1994
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Speaker 4: They danced, or until they danced until.

1995
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Speaker 2: They died, until they dropped dead they were already dead. No,

1996
01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 2: they danced until they died. WHOA, Yeah, it's.

1997
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Speaker 3: The Dance.

1998
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Speaker 1: Fresh show. Next, this is the Preas show.

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2011
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Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty eighth.

2012
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Speaker 1: N Yeah, they talk better than they say. Tell me.

2013
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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like.

2014
01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:27,479
Speaker 2: We're writing in our diaries, except we say them a

2015
01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 2: loud We call them blogs. I'm taking this one. This

2016
01:27:29,320 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 2: is similar, Calen, kind of to what you were saying earlier,

2017
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:35,719
Speaker 2: dear blog, But your birthday is coming up, and Paulina

2018
01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:39,679
Speaker 2: was asking you in an also subtle way this morning

2019
01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:41,720
Speaker 2: what you wanted for your birthday and how did you

2020
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:43,600
Speaker 2: do it? Again, explain you guys are coming up the

2021
01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 2: elevator and Pauline is so slick.

2022
01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah me with this, And how did you say it

2023
01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 3: to her?

2024
01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:51,760
Speaker 7: I looked at her, bright in the eye, and I said, hey, girl,

2025
01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:53,839
Speaker 7: what are you into these days?

2026
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:54,720
Speaker 1: What are you?

2027
01:27:55,120 --> 01:27:56,880
Speaker 2: What are you into these days? And that now, that

2028
01:27:56,920 --> 01:27:59,760
Speaker 2: could be interpreted a lot of ways. If somebody asked me, Hey, Frey,

2029
01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:01,120
Speaker 2: what are you into these days? And it's the same

2030
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:03,439
Speaker 2: thing I was into yesterday? But I mean girls. But

2031
01:28:03,560 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 2: I mean, hey, it could change. The answer could.

2032
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:08,400
Speaker 4: Change, you know, it could it really could.

2033
01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:09,320
Speaker 3: You never know.

2034
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Speaker 2: I mean I might run out of women to date

2035
01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:13,800
Speaker 2: and then we may have to.

2036
01:28:14,040 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 4: Hey, that's how it works.

2037
01:28:15,439 --> 01:28:16,160
Speaker 3: But speaking of.

2038
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:19,519
Speaker 2: Which, you know you were saying that we're talking about

2039
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:21,880
Speaker 2: your birthday present and Paulina basically asking you what do

2040
01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:23,599
Speaker 2: you want for your birthday? I wish as a grown

2041
01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 2: up that she was asking me. I know, I hate

2042
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 2: to break it to you, but that's what she was

2043
01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 2: getting at. Sorry, Pauline, I don't even blow up your spot.

2044
01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:32,280
Speaker 2: It was so so it wasn't obvious at all. But

2045
01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:34,880
Speaker 2: I do kind of wish adults would just say, like,

2046
01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:37,799
Speaker 2: this is what I want because it would just be easier.

2047
01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:40,640
Speaker 2: And I get that it's lazy, but it's also like

2048
01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 2: I'm guaranteed to get you something that you actually want,

2049
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:46,280
Speaker 2: as opposed to just getting you something that's just going

2050
01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 2: to collect dust. Because as adults, we tend to we

2051
01:28:49,560 --> 01:28:52,479
Speaker 2: have things, we have adult money, and we may not

2052
01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:53,720
Speaker 2: have a lot of things, or we may have a

2053
01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:55,960
Speaker 2: lot of things, but it's just I don't I don't

2054
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:58,320
Speaker 2: know what you need or want to what you'd actually use, so.

2055
01:28:58,360 --> 01:28:58,880
Speaker 3: Just tell me.

2056
01:28:59,400 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 7: So Like I I like, I'm a hypocrite too, because

2057
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:03,120
Speaker 7: I would rather you tell me that you want, you know,

2058
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,559
Speaker 7: these shoes or you want this jacket whatever. But when

2059
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,839
Speaker 7: it comes to me, I don't think I'm being lazy.

2060
01:29:07,880 --> 01:29:09,760
Speaker 7: I feel like I'm being tacky and that's just my

2061
01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:13,080
Speaker 7: own thing. Like I say that, like, oh, here you go, please,

2062
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 7: It is awkward me.

2063
01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:14,599
Speaker 3: I would agree.

2064
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:16,879
Speaker 2: It is awkward also to say because you don't necessarily

2065
01:29:16,880 --> 01:29:18,280
Speaker 2: know how much people intend to spend.

2066
01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 4: That's what it is.

2067
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:20,640
Speaker 6: It's like, OK, that's why I was like, is it

2068
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:23,040
Speaker 6: a group Like I don't want to like send something

2069
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:25,920
Speaker 6: to you guys and feel I feel goofy sending it.

2070
01:29:25,960 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 3: Well, we did.

2071
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:28,760
Speaker 2: I got the the group text that you sent, and

2072
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 2: that is a nice maserati that you sent us, but

2073
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 2: unfortunately we won't be able. We don't have the funds

2074
01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:37,880
Speaker 2: currently insufficient funds to be able to buy that for you.

2075
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:39,280
Speaker 4: Maybe something a little less.

2076
01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:41,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I also got the porch that you sent

2077
01:29:41,320 --> 01:29:44,599
Speaker 2: it a little less, but yeah, no, okay, I'm sorry.

2078
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:46,440
Speaker 3: We'll work on something.

2079
01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 4: Though, like a vintage Bronco maybe yeah, well.

2080
01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:50,960
Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, that's that's far more reasonable. Yeah, we can

2081
01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:51,760
Speaker 3: probably do that. Yeah.

2082
01:29:51,760 --> 01:29:54,320
Speaker 2: But I bring this up because when it comes to dating,

2083
01:29:55,600 --> 01:29:58,519
Speaker 2: if you don't like when you're first meeting someone and

2084
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:00,280
Speaker 2: you know, if you meet on a nap, if you

2085
01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:03,360
Speaker 2: meet in person and you don't really know somebody and

2086
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:07,439
Speaker 2: you're planning a date. And I just saw a TikTok

2087
01:30:07,479 --> 01:30:09,920
Speaker 2: about this about as a guy and his wife. That

2088
01:30:10,040 --> 01:30:12,960
Speaker 2: dude tiktoks, except he plays her and she plays him

2089
01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:17,720
Speaker 2: fun and it's pretty funny. It's you know me, I

2090
01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:19,639
Speaker 2: don't normally go for like the cheesy stuff, but it's

2091
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:22,360
Speaker 2: pretty funny because it's very The way that guy portrays

2092
01:30:22,400 --> 01:30:25,040
Speaker 2: his wife is very relatable. And in this one scene

2093
01:30:25,040 --> 01:30:27,760
Speaker 2: I saw, it was and he wears like a he

2094
01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 2: wears one of those what are the fanny packs that

2095
01:30:31,200 --> 01:30:35,439
Speaker 2: women are wearing now, but they're like crossbody It's like

2096
01:30:35,680 --> 01:30:37,599
Speaker 2: it's like a little fanny pets Glue Lemon sells them.

2097
01:30:37,600 --> 01:30:39,439
Speaker 2: And he's always hold he's got when he's doing her.

2098
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:42,639
Speaker 2: It's that and he's holding a stanley and walking around

2099
01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 2: like them. But it's like I think we should go

2100
01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:47,679
Speaker 2: on a date night, and then she's him and he's like, okay,

2101
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 2: you know what if we do and I want you

2102
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:53,080
Speaker 2: to plan it and he's like, okay, well, then I

2103
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:54,640
Speaker 2: think we should do this and this and this, and

2104
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:56,679
Speaker 2: she goes yeah, but there's this place down the street,

2105
01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:58,679
Speaker 2: and by the end of it, she's planned the date.

2106
01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:03,080
Speaker 2: So my thing is as someone trying to plan dates,

2107
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 2: when I go on them, I find myself basically just going,

2108
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:09,599
Speaker 2: what do you want to do? Because people will complain

2109
01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 2: or in general, not not people that I'm going out with,

2110
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:15,920
Speaker 2: but in general I hear people complain, well, guys don't

2111
01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:17,960
Speaker 2: plan date. It's like meet me here for a drink

2112
01:31:18,000 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 2: and that's lazy, or let's go for a walk that's free,

2113
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:21,920
Speaker 2: Like I don't want to do that. I don't know you,

2114
01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:23,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to commit to that. But then I've

2115
01:31:23,880 --> 01:31:26,479
Speaker 2: found sometimes I'll be like, great, this place, this time,

2116
01:31:26,520 --> 01:31:28,120
Speaker 2: and then the person's like, no, I don't want to

2117
01:31:28,120 --> 01:31:29,920
Speaker 2: do that, I want to do this. Well, then why

2118
01:31:29,920 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 2: don't you just It comes back to the same thing,

2119
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:34,600
Speaker 2: why don't you just tell me? Uh huh, you know,

2120
01:31:34,640 --> 01:31:36,479
Speaker 2: like I I can't tell you how many times it

2121
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 2: would be It'll be like, well, why don't we go

2122
01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:38,920
Speaker 2: to this restaurant at this time?

2123
01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:41,000
Speaker 3: And it's no, I want to go to this place.

2124
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:43,439
Speaker 2: Well, it's because it's a block from your house, Like

2125
01:31:43,479 --> 01:31:45,560
Speaker 2: you don't you just want you You're just being like

2126
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:47,320
Speaker 2: you just want something convenient for you.

2127
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 4: But it's like that's a med luck.

2128
01:31:50,200 --> 01:31:53,600
Speaker 2: Ninety percent of the time when I suggest something, it

2129
01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:55,559
Speaker 2: winds up being I don't really want to do that,

2130
01:31:55,600 --> 01:31:57,599
Speaker 2: but what if we go here instead? And I don't

2131
01:31:57,640 --> 01:32:00,280
Speaker 2: really care, but it defeats the purpose of me trying

2132
01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 2: to plan anything. Now, once I get to know you

2133
01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:05,599
Speaker 2: pretty well, Like if I'm married to you, I would

2134
01:32:05,640 --> 01:32:07,000
Speaker 2: hope that I know you well enough to know how

2135
01:32:07,040 --> 01:32:09,280
Speaker 2: to plan a date night and you might still tell

2136
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:11,519
Speaker 2: me that I'm wrong and do something different, but at

2137
01:32:11,600 --> 01:32:13,280
Speaker 2: least I made the effort based on what I know

2138
01:32:13,320 --> 01:32:16,280
Speaker 2: about you. But when you first meet somebody, how do

2139
01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 2: you plan a date that somebody wants to go on

2140
01:32:20,080 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 2: without any input from them? Because I feel lazy, But

2141
01:32:23,520 --> 01:32:25,640
Speaker 2: I'm often like, where do you want to go? Just

2142
01:32:25,680 --> 01:32:27,439
Speaker 2: tell me? And then the person's like, well, why do

2143
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:30,040
Speaker 2: you pick? And it's like, oh, there's so many variables.

2144
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:33,080
Speaker 2: What time what location and I get a first or

2145
01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:36,360
Speaker 2: second date. I'm more than happy to for the most part,

2146
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:39,280
Speaker 2: if you're being cool about it, I'm happy to make

2147
01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:42,559
Speaker 2: it convenient for you right now. If you're kind of

2148
01:32:42,640 --> 01:32:44,960
Speaker 2: like bitchy about it, then I you know, like, no,

2149
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:46,920
Speaker 2: I don't want that. I don't want to have to

2150
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:48,439
Speaker 2: leave my name. Like I've had people flat out and

2151
01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 2: say I don't want to have to leave my neighborhood

2152
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:53,240
Speaker 2: for this. Yeah, but I'm sort of like, I'm like,

2153
01:32:53,280 --> 01:32:55,360
Speaker 2: it's not like a middle point, it's not worth a

2154
01:32:55,400 --> 01:32:58,719
Speaker 2: middle point. Middle point, But you're not willing to do anything. Yes,

2155
01:32:58,840 --> 01:33:00,680
Speaker 2: you know, like I'm I'm gonna plan the date. I'm

2156
01:33:00,680 --> 01:33:02,680
Speaker 2: gonna pay for the date. I'm gonna make the reservation.

2157
01:33:02,880 --> 01:33:05,240
Speaker 2: I suggested a place. It's gonna be a lot of fun.

2158
01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:07,360
Speaker 2: I've been there. I like it, you'll like it. I

2159
01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:09,800
Speaker 2: thought about, you know whatever, And you just don't want

2160
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:12,479
Speaker 2: to have to go very far. Well, that's that, honestly

2161
01:33:12,520 --> 01:33:14,880
Speaker 2: to your point earlier, like a few seconds ago, that's

2162
01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:15,720
Speaker 2: a turnoff to me.

2163
01:33:16,080 --> 01:33:17,479
Speaker 3: You won't even meet me halfway.

2164
01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:20,800
Speaker 4: Halfway is not like bad, I'm not going to Milwaukee to.

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Speaker 7: Meet you, but also like a first day, Why don't

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Speaker 7: you come to me in a way.

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Speaker 2: And I will do that unless I get a certain

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Speaker 2: kind of response. Okay, then I'm sort of like turned

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Speaker 2: off by it. I'm like, oh, well, I was already

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Speaker 2: going to try and work with you here, but then

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01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:35,599
Speaker 2: now you're like you won't even like you're not gonna

2172
01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 2: leave your block, like I'm gonna sit I have to

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01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:40,040
Speaker 2: sit in an hour in traffic because you don't want

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Speaker 2: to leave you like you want to go to a

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Speaker 2: restaurant in your building, Like come on, like work with

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Speaker 2: me a little bit. But anyway, my point is, I digress.

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Speaker 2: Do you when you're first meeting someone, do you just

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01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:54,240
Speaker 2: want us to ask you, like where do you want

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Speaker 2: to go?

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01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 3: What do you want to do?

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01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:57,760
Speaker 2: And if we do, can you understand why and then

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01:33:57,800 --> 01:33:59,720
Speaker 2: not go oh he's lazy, he's not planning it.

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Speaker 3: It's a very good chance you're going to reroot us anyway.

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01:34:02,200 --> 01:34:03,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, the girlies are going to come from me.

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01:34:03,760 --> 01:34:05,800
Speaker 7: But I'd rather you just ask me where I want

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01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:07,080
Speaker 7: to go or what kind of food do I like?

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01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:09,120
Speaker 4: Kind of thing and we'll figure it out from there.

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01:34:09,240 --> 01:34:11,920
Speaker 7: Because here's the thing, Like I I don't want to

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01:34:12,000 --> 01:34:14,280
Speaker 7: like you can plan the date, but I'm probably not

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Speaker 7: gonna like it because I'm so simple and that's my

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01:34:16,000 --> 01:34:18,000
Speaker 7: own thing. I'd rather go, you know this, to Hooters

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01:34:18,080 --> 01:34:19,600
Speaker 7: or Peppies or whatever. I'd rather go to like a

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01:34:19,640 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 7: spot like that. Then you know, go to like the

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01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:24,560
Speaker 7: five stars, five star, four star steakhouse.

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01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:25,680
Speaker 4: Like I'm not. I don't want to get dressed up

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Speaker 4: and do that.

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Speaker 7: Like when Hay and I met pandemic times, Yes, but

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01:34:29,120 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 7: we talked about wings and how much we love them

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Speaker 7: and all these things that I was like, Hey, have

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01:34:32,920 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 7: you been to Danny's Pizza? I guess, And I love

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01:34:34,400 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 7: Danny's pizza And He's like, actually haven't. It's in their neighborhood.

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Speaker 7: Guess where we went the next time Danny's Pizza?

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Speaker 4: It was organic A. Yeah, I kind of flowed. You know,

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01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:45,160
Speaker 4: you're gonna be confused now with my answer.

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01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:46,639
Speaker 3: Okay, what's your answer?

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01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 6: You're gonna be confused. So I personally, and this is

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01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:50,639
Speaker 6: maybe just a personal thing. I feel like I make

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01:34:50,680 --> 01:34:53,519
Speaker 6: decisions all day long, like I'm a strong woman, you

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Speaker 6: know I'm doing it. I sometimes don't want to have

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01:34:56,280 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 6: to make that decision, but I will say I will

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01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:02,160
Speaker 6: eat anywhere and I can always find something, even a steakhouse,

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01:35:02,200 --> 01:35:04,080
Speaker 6: and I don't eat beef, so I would love for

2213
01:35:04,120 --> 01:35:05,720
Speaker 6: you to go do you.

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Speaker 4: Want to go? Do you want to go to the

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01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:08,000
Speaker 4: sushi spot at six?

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Speaker 6: And then if I have an issue at the time

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Speaker 6: or don't eat sushi, then I feel like a woman

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01:35:11,520 --> 01:35:13,600
Speaker 6: can say, but I would rather you go, hey, do

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01:35:13,640 --> 01:35:14,400
Speaker 6: you want to go here?

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Speaker 4: And then at least put it out there.

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Speaker 6: But you're asking, you know, Okay, you want to go

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Speaker 6: get Italian at seven or whatever. I would like that,

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01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:24,920
Speaker 6: but I'm also not going to be mad if you're like,

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01:35:24,960 --> 01:35:25,760
Speaker 6: what kind of fould you like?

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Speaker 4: Let's figure it out together. I mean, it's a good

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01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:29,280
Speaker 4: man is a good man? It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Well, then this is what I would say, based on

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Speaker 2: the vastly different answers. Yeah, I would say this, and

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Speaker 2: I'll preface it by saying, and I've said this a

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Speaker 2: thousand times over the years, it is much harder to

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Speaker 2: be a woman, in my opinion, than a man. There

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01:35:42,680 --> 01:35:44,559
Speaker 2: is no plight of the man in my opinion. I'm

2233
01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:46,479
Speaker 2: not saying that, but what I will say is this,

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01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:50,559
Speaker 2: if you're a woman who is constantly saying to your friends,

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Speaker 2: men don't approach me, or men don't plan dates, or

2236
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Speaker 2: men it's the same script. Then I would just ask

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01:35:58,120 --> 01:36:02,120
Speaker 2: that when a guy does plan a day, maybe be

2238
01:36:02,439 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 2: unless you're really offended by or or can't eat whatever

2239
01:36:06,120 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 2: it is, or really really have an objection for some reason,

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Speaker 2: then maybe just go with it, because I can tell

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01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:14,719
Speaker 2: you guys will just learn to not plan dates after

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01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:17,880
Speaker 2: being told every day they plan is not the date

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Speaker 2: you want to go on, and or every time you

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01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:22,040
Speaker 2: know it takes a few times for a guy to

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01:36:22,080 --> 01:36:24,120
Speaker 2: walk up and a girl to be and be respectful

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01:36:24,160 --> 01:36:27,040
Speaker 2: and kind and appropriate and to be blown off or

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Speaker 2: laughed at or made fun of or whatever. And I'm

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01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:31,559
Speaker 2: just speaking for all of mankind before they're not going

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Speaker 2: to do it anymore one hundred percent.

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Speaker 6: I think we as women very much need to if

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Speaker 6: we're letting someone down, do it kindly. If we, you know,

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01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:42,160
Speaker 6: have criticism, like I think it takes a lot to

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01:36:42,240 --> 01:36:44,679
Speaker 6: approach you, to hit on you, And I think we

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01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:47,280
Speaker 6: need to be to good men who are approaching us

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Speaker 6: with good faith, be kind, be kind.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, and there's no way to know

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Speaker 3: because they're probably people listening nuggle. I don't know.

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01:36:53,439 --> 01:36:55,639
Speaker 2: If he's a good guy, if he's respectful in his approach,

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01:36:55,880 --> 01:36:58,160
Speaker 2: that's me. Yeah, right exactly, like if it's not to

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Speaker 2: creep or weird. And then, by the way, once we

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01:37:00,360 --> 01:37:03,120
Speaker 2: get the if we get a know, we walk away,

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01:37:03,439 --> 01:37:04,200
Speaker 2: we're done.

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Speaker 3: No no, why you're not that hot anyway?

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Speaker 2: Or no stupid comment, Yes you're hot anyway, because I

2265
01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:12,759
Speaker 2: walked up to you to begin with. I see guys

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01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:15,840
Speaker 2: fumble this all the time, and I'm like, you're morons,

2267
01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:20,160
Speaker 2: like shot, shoot your shot in the DMS, in person,

2268
01:37:20,200 --> 01:37:22,439
Speaker 2: whatever you gonna do. And then if you get a yes,

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01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:25,360
Speaker 2: so you get a no, then we're done. We're done.

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01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:27,960
Speaker 2: I agree, we're done, but I guess I would ask

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Speaker 2: on the other side. You know, it's if you want

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Speaker 2: people to do that, then you're probably gonna get people

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01:37:33,600 --> 01:37:35,560
Speaker 2: that you don't want. You're not interested in it. You

2274
01:37:35,560 --> 01:37:36,920
Speaker 2: gotta be nice to them so the people who do

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Speaker 2: will do the thing.

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Speaker 4: So where are we going