WEBVTT - Thurs Full Show: A Relationship Update + Rejected Segments 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:07.720 Mom transmitting this. 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:10.800 Guy. 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:14.200 Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio. Mormy, you get to 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:17.560 know your GTK question of the day. Who is in 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:21.040 your life that you want to thank right now? Who 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.000 are you going to say thank you to right now? 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:26.720 It could be anybody in the whole world, but you 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:27.480 want to thank them. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:31.240 All right, let's go, Amy, I'm going to do a 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.760 thank you in advance to my sister because I'm about 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:38.280 to hit her with a lot of questions as I move, 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:40.000 because I'm going to be moving. I'm going to be 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:41.760 selling my house and be moving to a new house. 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:44.880 And she has all the style and design and arranging tips. 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.279 Oh she has a reality showverybody that doesn't know that's 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:48.000 a good thing to tell you. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:51.320 She had, yeah on ITHG TV. But her and her husband, 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.320 that's what they do. And it's not even just that 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:55.160 I need new things at all. It's sort of she's 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:58.360 just really good at arranging things. Like I'll put the 0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:00.520 same pieces of furniture in a room one way, and 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:03.520 she'll come in and just rearrange them like totally different. 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:05.040 I'm like, how did your brain even think of that? 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:06.600 It's called establishing dominance. 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:10.319 So in advance I'd like to thank my sister for 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:11.679 how much will we be hitting her up in the. 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.360 Next month or so, lunchbox. 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:18.039 I would like to thank the lifeguards out there because 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:23.039 the pools open this weekend. The city pools open, and 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.680 that means we can take the kids and we can 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:28.039 wear them out, and we can learn how to swim 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:31.520 and we can have a great summer. Because the pools 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:37.120 are about to open, it's important, and the. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:38.560 Ladies and the bikinis will be there. 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:44.600 Let's go, Hello, Mama, you had to make it weird, Eddie. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.080 I want to thank Max the streaming service for bringing 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:49.880 back one of my favorite shows that I thought was 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.360 Dead Dude. In the early two thousands, I would watch 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:54.960 every episode of Cold Case. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.920 You remember that show? Never watched it? Oh, it's so good. 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:00.640 It would always start with like a music mond, So 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.360 if the original crime happened in the seventies, it'd be 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.880 abb a dancing queen, and then'd be these girls dancing, 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.480 and then it would slowly fade away to like a 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:10.280 girl dead in like the canal, and then it would 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:12.840 go to current day and they'd be like, oh, remember 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:15.360 that girl in the canal. We found something out and 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:18.600 they solve it. It's so good and on mats now 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:21.720 they have the entire seasons, all of them. It's all 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.440 on Max. So all the old ones, but they're making 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.760 new ones. No, no, no, he brought back the old ones. 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:28.480 I think they started making it that they would show. 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.240 On like one of those weird networks that was like 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:32.520 a Fox Business or. 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.800 A t L. No, it's like CBS. This was a 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:35.600 major network. 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.560 Was Yeah, because sometimes they'll show like locked Up or 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:40.320 what are the prison shows? 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:42.720 That's good? What is that on? I don't even know? 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:46.840 Yeah, you maybe any but like I never know the 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.480 network and I really don't flip the channels anymore because 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:50.800 it's but it's all streaming. 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:54.679 Yeah, but Cold Case do what. I'm amazing. Shark Tank 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:56.080 is the show that I would do that. You should 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:57.960 watch it and watch it, watch it. Never know the network. 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:01.880 But that's a cold Case, Cold Case. I love it. Yeah, 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:05.560 all right, I want to thank Carol Taylor. 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.880 And I have a signed Larry Bird basketball right here, 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:10.440 signed by Larry Birds the basketball player. 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:11.200 Let me see that. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.480 No, nope, now let me tell you what happened. I 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:18.519 had a Larry Bird basketball and Eddie signed it. Accidentally. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.919 We were signing balls for our Too Much Access show, 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.920 which was basketball at the time, and my Larry Bird 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:27.679 ball was on as a prop on our podcast set 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:29.160 at my house. But we were signing balls right by 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:30.920 the chairs and Eddie actually grabbed the ball signed it. 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.520 I still have the Larry Bird and Eddie signed ball. 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.160 It was kind of mixed in with all the other balls, 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:35.120 so it was an. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:38.160 Accident run by Larry Bird ball. Hilarious, tragic. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:41.720 But Carol sent me this ball signed by Larry Bird 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.040 because Morgan, can you help me with this? She has 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.640 a relative in that used to be in the Celtics. 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.400 Yes, so her uncle used to be the. 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:54.280 What's the religious thing for the Celtics, the religious Yeah, 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.760 I believe he was a priest for the Celtics and 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:59.200 for a long time, so he had a connection to 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:03.400 the Celtics's ball about and she hit them up and 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.880 they're like and she like, she jumped through some hoops, 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:07.440 got it signed and then send it. 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:08.480 Over to you. It's so nice. 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:10.840 So Carol, thank you, She wrote a note, Sorry it 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:12.320 took so long for this to get to you. I 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:14.280 appreciate all you do. You're the best part of Monday 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:15.720 through Friday. So you want to do something for you 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:18.680 to pay it forward. Hope this brighten's your day. Thank you, 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.640 Carol Taylor. That's very kind of you, and I will 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:22.799 keep it far from Eddie. 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:26.200 Okay, this is bothering me because it's chaplain right, probably chaplain? 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:27.480 Oh yeah, that's that. 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.840 Sounds going on, right, Celtics Catholic? I imagine I'm. 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.200 Not Maybe it is, but in my brain I couldn't 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:34.000 think of like, you. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.320 Know, we're just filling out the word Orish Catholic because 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:37.279 Celtics they're Irish. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.279 But I mean you like at a hospital they have 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:41.920 that like and I was bothering me to you like 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.360 I could. I was like, why is my brain not 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:45.120 give it this word? It's chaplain? 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.920 Okay, thank you Carol. That is super nice, super kind 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:49.279 to you. I do not deserve it, but I will 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:55.839 accept this gift with humbly and lovingly. How's that usually 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:57.160 make fun of myself? I get a gift or something 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:59.960 I'm just accepting. So you drop fell off my death. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:01.000 It's round it rolls. 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:05.320 Who knew. Let's open up the mail bag. 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.440 You friend him a game mail and I get all 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.839 the air get something we call Bobby's mailbag. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:15.400 Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. I'm a sixty seven year old 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.320 father to a wonderful daughter. She's decided to stay with 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.040 her boyfriend, who recently got out of jail for stilling 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.840 two hundred thousand dollars from his grandparents. Because of this, 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:25.760 I'd not want to leave her a large sum of 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.400 money when I pass. My problem is, how do I 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.080 tell her I'm removing her from my will. If I 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.280 tell her, I'm scared she'll hate me and ind our relationship. 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:35.080 But if I don't tell her now, she'll be disappointed 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:38.480 whenever that time does come. Her boyfriend is already stilen 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:40.840 two hundred dollars from her checking account since his release 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:41.320 from jail. 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:42.080 What is happening? 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.400 He has a gambling problem, but continues to deny it. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.479 I cannot take the chance that he wouldn't steal it 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.880 from her. On a larger scale, she stands to inherit 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.080 a lot of money. How do I tell her? I 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:52.520 know I can set up a trust for her, but 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.800 telling her my decision is the difficult problem. Signed planning 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.159 ahead in Florida. Well, here's the first thing you should know. 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:02.240 What I think she knows? Bro When you dieing will 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:02.800 matter to you. 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:04.440 Well, that's true. I don't worry about it. 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.240 That surprised you're gonna fix you at all, You're dead 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:08.279 a little bit of it. You just have to decide 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.160 you and your daughter in that relationship and what you 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.120 want to leave her, and don't base it on exterior 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:13.159 factors like her boyfriend. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.120 That could change, it really could change. But also she's 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.840 with a freaking loser. So yeah, he steals. Yes, that's it, 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.600 she's a loser. You can't fix that. You can't. You're 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.800 not gonna be able to fix who your daughter is with, 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:23.479 not at this point. 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:26.160 If they're adults. Leave her in the will, you're dead. 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:27.920 If he steals on when you're dead again, it doesn't matter. 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:29.840 I'm sure you're gone. You don't want to. 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:32.520 Hurt that relationship with your daughter, and don't make a 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:39.479 decision on the future of your daughter based on factors 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:42.479 that may not even exist in the future with your daughter, 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:43.400 like a loser boyfriend. 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:45.920 But God, a conversation like this like maybe spur her 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:47.800 to be like, oh maybe I should break up. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:49.520 I think she knows. I think he comes out of 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.279 jail and she steals from him. I think she probably 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.000 already knows. Yeah, man, she's just with a loser. But 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.760 don't let that affect your relationship with her and something 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.080 that doesn't involve him, because he may not be around. 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.040 I'll tell you what, leave me, leave it to me, 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:04.919 Leave your money to me, and you're will give me 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.080 the executor. No, I just want I just want the money. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:08.680 And if I feel she's doing a good job on 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:12.440 a crumber, a bread crumber, Uh, leave her what you 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.400 were gonna leave her. You can't predict what's going to 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.840 happen in the future with her boyfriend. If she's smart, 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.560 she'll dump them. And if not, God, love them. But 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.200 that's not really your problem. You're dead and yeah really 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:28.520 won't be Yeah, you're dead. Yeah, it's the beauty of death, 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:29.920 I guess. Or you could just set up a full 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.080 trust and then let that be a half surprise to her. 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:32.720 What does that mean? 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:33.520 I don't know what that is. 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.560 This is a trust, uh, dictating when it goes out, 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.320 who it goes to, how much at a time, at 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:42.000 what age X person gets X money type of thing. 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:44.360 You can do that and again, she won't be totally 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.840 mad at you. She may be annoyed, but she won't 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:46.960 be totally mattered to dead dad. 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:50.680 You twenty dollars a week, Yes, but it's. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.559 One hundred if you're not with him. Yes. 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:54.480 Yeah, that's a tough one. I would say, don't worry 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.800 about him. You can't predict future, so don't try so 0:07:57.920 --> 0:07:59.480 do what you would do even if he wasn't in 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:02.280 the picture. Not married, if they're married to, probably a 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.160 little different. They're not married, Thank goodness. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:05.880 All right, there you go, close it up. We got 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:09.480 your gammail and we laid it on her. Now let's 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:11.160 found the clothes Bobby failed. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:11.960 Back here. 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:15.600 Here is Alyssa from North Carolina. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.040 I have a question for the parents in the room. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:20.400 I have a two and a half year old, and 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.360 I lately have noticed that when she is not in 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.640 a car with me, I'm listening to a lot of 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:29.640 heavy metal and rap music, which I think I'm drawn 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.160 to because normally we're listening to kids songs all day. 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.360 Do any of you do something similar when your kids 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.560 are not in the car, And what are your kind 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:40.960 of go to genres or artists? Love the show? 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:42.600 Well, that'll be a nightmare to have young kids and 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:46.199 have to listen to oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, Amy uh. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:48.199 I listen to pretty much everything. 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.080 Now your kids are older now too, that's cool. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:54.200 Yeah, yeah, my daughter likes to listen to Nimmunogen more 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:56.079 so I listen to all more hardcore stuff when she's 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:56.600 in the car. 0:08:56.800 --> 0:09:00.520 Yeah. Amy's daughter listened to hardcore stuff ever, because she's 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.559 listening to Eddie. No. 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:05.040 I believe we have a responsibility to teach our kids 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:08.320 the music. So I teach him all the classics, I mean, dude, 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.640 from when they were little. I start with the Beatles, 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.880 I go to the Beach Boys, I go to Elvis, 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:13.920 and by the time they're like. 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.640 Five, they know everyone. Do they ever get annoyed like 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.880 dad's teaching us Billy Joel. 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:20.719 No, because I'll give him the phone and be like, 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:22.600 all right, so and so you're picking the music for 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:24.439 like the next ten minutes, and they go straight to. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.240 Elvis and they never get annoyed. You want to give 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:29.640 them multichoole stuff, No, dude, they love it. They love it, 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:30.280 I'm telling you. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:33.080 And maybe my sixteen year old he'll be the only 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:34.559 one like, hey, Deck, can I play like some hip 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.640 hop like that? He's the only one that has like 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.760 special requests for what he wants to hear the rest. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.640 I think I've trained him. Well, watchbox man, I ride 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.200 in the silence. Oh he hates music, that's right, man, 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.680 I don't understand that. I'll be honest. He runs in silence. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:48.320 He rides. I like silence. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.800 And sometimes when the kids are in the car, they'll say, hey, 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:52.760 can we turn on some music, which makes me question 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.880 their DNA? But I put on anything I got, put 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.560 on hip hop whatever, But you don't care. I don't care. 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.679 I just turned into a station and all right, cool here, 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:01.240 listen to this. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.400 But your wife loves music, so that's kind of half 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:03.880 their DNA. 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:05.520 The right do you have? 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.559 And I'm asking this because I didn't know some people 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:11.079 didn't have this? Do you have an internal monologue or 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.240 an internal dialogue? 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:12.720 What do you mean? 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.240 Well, I guess monolog would be your you're not talking 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:17.760 to yourself, so an internal like a dialogue with yourself? 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:18.240 Oh? 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:20.320 Sometimes do you ever not have one? 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:20.840 Uh? 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:23.599 Yeah, like when I'm watching TV or something, or like 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.120 when I'm out for a run up that man, there's 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:25.600 a nice run. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:26.560 You're running a good pace. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:29.440 Look at that having one? That's a cool house, or 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:30.720 like you ever not have one? 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:34.000 Yeah? Well, I'm watching TV. I'm just watching TV. 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:38.240 Does he sound like you, like, does he yell at 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:39.720 you my guy? 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:39.960 No? 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.559 No, no lunchboxes? Does he yell like, hey, that's a 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:43.280 nice house? 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:44.439 Huh? 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:45.080 Like? 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:48.280 Can you yell at everyone else? So? Does your monologue? Yeah? Yeah? 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:52.199 Does your inner inner voice sound like your voice? No? 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:54.600 I don't know. I don't. It's like a sexty British one. 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:56.280 It changes like we do our GPS. 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:59.240 I don't really understand sound like anything. 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:00.800 That sounds exactly like me. It minds me because and 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.719 that minds like to me, they're both talking at the 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:03.040 same time. 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:05.520 The times do this, but I remember do this? Do this? 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:05.640 What? 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.679 I guess I just hear the I just know their words, 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:10.199 but I don't know that I hear it. 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:13.760 So I started to watch these tiktoks about and I 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.319 was shocked that some people do not have this. They 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:19.720 don't have an internal monologue or dialogue. If you think 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:21.600 you're talking with yourself, don't know what it is. But 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.199 they don't have that internal voice, and they just are 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.000 their voice when they think something, they say something, or 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:34.160 but there's not like things happening ideas, there's not like 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:36.840 internal arguments. I wonder if I should do this, And 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:38.160 they say that for the most part of the people 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:41.240 that have way less other people that are way less stressed, 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.400 and that that voice is stress. 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:45.400 That voice is. 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:49.560 All the things that could possibly go right or wrong 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.400 that you're running through one hundred times over. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:52.920 That's what they mean when they say like you're in 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.760 your own head, because like you're whatever's happening in your head, 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:57.800 talking to yourself, whatever it is you're thinking that you're 0:11:57.800 --> 0:11:58.600 worrying about something. 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:00.720 Thirty to fifty percent of people don't have an inner voice. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:01.640 That's wild. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.319 Like two of my kids, they'll be like just staring 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:06.320 off into like the clouds, and I'll be like, what 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:06.960 are you thinking about? 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:07.760 Uh? 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:08.280 Nothing? 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:11.440 And I'm so shocked because if I'm staring at the clouds, 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:14.439 I'm thinking about something. That's the only time I'm staring off. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:16.000 But them, no, they can stay at the clouds and 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:17.160 not think about a single thing. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:18.480 Can you talk about anything? 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.800 Yeah, I can sit in the backyard and just sit 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:23.800 there and kids are running around. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:25.880 I'm just like, chill. 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.320 Would you define yourself as stressed in any way? 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:34.360 There's nothing to be stressed about in life, right, But 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.040 what about any sort of aspirations. 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:39.680 You can't stress about that. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:46.280 It happens, say stress, let's say intensely focus. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:51.320 On Oh no, I'm not intentionally focused on anything. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.880 No, no, nothing, Yeah, like what are you intendally focused on? 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:57.920 Like money's always kind of a thing. I'm just like, man, 0:12:58.240 --> 0:12:59.040 am I going to pay for this? 0:12:59.160 --> 0:12:59.280 How? 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.959 Maunds like stress? Yeah? Always? Yeah, yeah, I'll see. I 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:03.959 don't stress about that. I just figured I'll figured. 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.719 Out my kid, like finals are coming up, like is 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:06.440 he gonna do well? 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.439 Like how's he gonna do? Stress out about it? Yeah? 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:12.520 You why say that? That's just stupid? Really, But I 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.160 don't loop as much as I used to. You're right, 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.280 Like if I was when I had a little bit 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:20.320 more anxiety, and I would loop thoughts over and over 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:23.560 and over. And I've that I've gotten that under control, 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:27.560 so that's better. But so sometimes I'm thinking thoughts. Sometimes 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:28.920 it's like, oh, should I go do that right now? 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:30.440 Maybe I shouldn't do that. If I go do that, 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.800 then it's just this, Oh what about in the fall? 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.800 If I do Oh, and then we do the podcast 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.680 and then oh yeah, if I could get this person, yeah, 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.080 I mean, and then it bounces back to the past. 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:44.560 Present future. Yeah, it's you know, it keeps me. 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:46.240 Oh man, he chills. 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:48.800 I wish I had more of that, Like that is 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:52.320 something I'm envious of, lunchbox of he can just chill. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:53.319 Yeah, just chill. 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:55.200 Let me a little bit of stress is my fantasy 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:56.840 baseball team. I mean that's what I thought. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.320 You know, I feel like I have a roundtable of 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:00.840 about six and sitting around. 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:01.800 A table, you're all talking. 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:03.560 It's like yelling at each other about different things and 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.280 finding what they mean is even gonna be about? But yeah, no, 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.840 I wish I had less of an internal voice fifty percent. 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:10.400 Don't have one. 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:13.079 Anybody else not have an internal voice? Everybody, everybody does 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:14.160 except the luchbox. 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.440 Here guys, boys talk to you all the time. Yeah, 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.840 right now, something else the same. I'm sitting here, mine 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:23.120 starting to meet in Spanish? Right really, No, that's me dude, 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:27.400 Thanks you talking? All right, It's time for the good news. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:28.400 Ready. 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:34.680 The Pizza Roma is a pizza shop and they get 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.440 a call one day, right and they're like, oh, I'd 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.560 like to order sixteen pizzas. They go, okay, no problem, 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.040 put the order in, put the pizzas in the oven. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:45.360 They're ready to go, no one picks them up and 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:47.480 didn't pay for them, did not pay for him. They're like, 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.280 oh my gosh, this is like two hundred dollars worth 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.560 of pizzas. So they go on social media and say, hey, 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.800 if anyone like baby forgot their pizzas, like we made 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:57.400 these pizzas, they're here, they're ready for you. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.200 And they happened for like a week. 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.800 No one ever can came up and claimed the pizzas 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:03.840 until one guy says, you know what, man, I love 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.120 you guys, I love your place. I'm an army veteran, 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:07.760 I like to do good things for people. Let me 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:09.840 pay for the pizzas. I didn't order them. So he 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:11.920 went and he paid two hundred dollars for all the pizzas. 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:14.120 Like they should do some sort of if it's like 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:16.280 more than four pizzas, some sort of deposit or pay 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:18.640 for them all yeah, or don't start the order unless 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:20.360 you know it's for real, for real. Well yeah, but 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.200 that's why that's how you get a deposit, yeah, or 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:25.480 or paying for it at all. But I guess if 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.680 I order a pizza now, we pay for it all 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.440 up front. Yeah, maybe just some some local chains still 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:32.720 do it. The old fashion way. Sure, say, don't do 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:36.360 all fashion anymore? You new fashion? What about Amy's pizzas? 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.440 Like they ordered them to her house and they moved. 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:40.480 They must have been doing it old fashioned way. They 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.680 could pay for it for yeah, and they brought him 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:45.000 and dropped them off her house and Amy's like, I 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:47.800 don't know, those are four and I'm gonna move And 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:48.280 she moved. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:50.800 Who would pay for those just to drop them off in? Like, 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:54.920 you're paying for a joke. That's an expensive joke. How 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:55.720 many pizzas was it? 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:59.040 I think it's from four different places. I don't remember exactly. 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:00.920 H e bus for a joke. 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:02.600