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Speaker 3: More more, more Better, corner, a little more better, more

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Speaker 4: Welcome to More Better, a podcast where we stop pretending

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Speaker 4: to have it all together.

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Speaker 1: And embrace the journey of becoming a little more better

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Speaker 1: every day, or at least trying to.

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Speaker 2: That's most of Room Marrow, and that's Stephanie Beatrice. Hey girl,

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Speaker 2: what's going on? Hey girl? How you do it?

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Speaker 4: Heye girl, I'm fucking freezing. The weather change amazing, Oh

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sweat a weather. It's sweat a weather.

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Speaker 1: It's sweat a weather, and I am so excited about it.

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Speaker 2: No more. Well, it is going to be eighty degrees

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be No, We're probably gonna have like two

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Speaker 2: What have you done lately? That's more better?

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Speaker 2: What have I done lately? That is more better?

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Speaker 4: What are we talking about to today, Melissa. It's totally unrelated.

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Speaker 4: It's totally unrelated.

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Speaker 1: Uh, we're talking about packing, getting more better at packing.

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Speaker 1: But I know and I'm That's why I'm excited. Please

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Speaker 4: To me, the perfect trip packing is a small carry

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Speaker 2: But I feel like I use packing cubes.

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Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, if you have extra money to spend,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got the kind that have like the second zipper,

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Speaker 2: But do you compress your shit? Yeah? No, I don't

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Speaker 4: Why, Like I've tried, but it's like, well, that's the

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Speaker 4: whole point of the packing cube is like you put

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Speaker 2: Because then it gives you like a little more space.

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Speaker 4: Not really though, like it's incremental like increment, Like what

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Speaker 2: Like a pair of socks and underwear?

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Speaker 1: I mean no, I feel like I fit like like

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Speaker 2: Why are you traveling with so many jackets? Where are

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Speaker 2: Here's the problem.

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Speaker 1: Your anxiety is the problem. My anxiety is the problem.

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Speaker 1: I think I've become slightly and well here's what I'm

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Speaker 2: Why didn't I bring? Or like a jacket? Like what's

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Speaker 4: More? Better?

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Speaker 3: More better?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Tell me your approach to outfits when you pack?

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Speaker 2: What first of all? Start with? Like what you're gonna

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Speaker 4: I always write down a list, and now I do

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Speaker 4: her so much. Oh my god, Now everyone's going to

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Speaker 4: know where I'm am. But it's okay, Am I gonna

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Speaker 4: We're flying overnight because Paris is a look flight away

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Speaker 4: then then once you start narrowing down where you're going

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Speaker 2: Are appropriate for these things? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What outfits are appropriate for these things? Like, well, I

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Speaker 4: want to dress up for Gaga?

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Speaker 2: Cool?

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Speaker 4: So you want to dress up for Gaga. You don't

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Speaker 4: want to wear your white sneakers for Gaga, right, your

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Speaker 4: little white brook sneakers. You don't want to wear your

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Speaker 4: book sneakers for Gaga?

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Speaker 4: So then you don't need to bring the brook sneakers. Actually, oh,

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Speaker 4: but what if I want to work out? Oh, you've

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Speaker 4: Like why you need to bring the fair sneakers? Well,

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Speaker 4: what if it rains? Like what if you're walking around

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Speaker 4: the city, then wear your solomons, Like your solomons are waterproof,

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Speaker 4: but your solomons aren't cute with every outfit? Too bad

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Speaker 4: about it? Like, what do you want to do? You

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Speaker 4: want to bring a pair of boots? Okay, then bring

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Speaker 4: a pair of boots. But like, if you're gonna bring

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Speaker 2: Wear those boots on the plane.

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Speaker 4: You also have to wear those boots to Gaga, and

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Speaker 4: you're gonna have to wear those.

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Speaker 2: Boots to cole Maar. So, like, which pair of boots

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Speaker 4: Are they waterproof? Like really waterproof? Or would you rather

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Speaker 4: just bring your solomons and like build outfits around yourself

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Speaker 4: I bought the last time I'm there.

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Speaker 2: I was there. Oh, but I can't pack that trench coat.

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Speaker 4: So I could pack it in a checked bag, but

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Speaker 4: then I'm risking losing it. Yeah, I could wear it

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Speaker 4: on the plane, or I could pack it in my

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Speaker 4: it's going to be too crowded in there. So I

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Speaker 4: could wear it on a plane. No, that's stupid, right,

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Speaker 4: You never want to pack a jacket.

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Speaker 2: In your like a big jacket.

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Speaker 4: That's a terrible idea, right, So then I have to

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Speaker 4: checked pluggage. But if I wear it on the plane,

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Speaker 4: that means that that's probably my only jacket that I'm bringing,

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Speaker 2: So it's like then it gets tricky.

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Speaker 4: It's like, because you want to wear your heaviest jacket

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Speaker 2: Like and you want a layer for the plane.

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Speaker 4: Also, like you want to wear like cute totally, I

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Speaker 2: Hot and cold on every plane.

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Speaker 4: Also, like, if you're gonna wear sweatpants on the plane,

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Speaker 4: like cool, but they need to be sweatpants either that

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Speaker 4: you're going to sleep in for the rest of your

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Speaker 4: need to style those sweatpants to the nines because why

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Speaker 4: are you wearing pants?

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, wait, here's my here's my problem. Though.

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Speaker 1: If I'm wearing sweats on the plane and it's a

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's great, that's gross.

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Speaker 1: Like anything you wear on a plane, I feel like

440
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,880
Speaker 1: not wearing again and thus it gets warm.

441
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I'll wear like jeans again unless it's

442
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 2: like jeans.

443
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, I war my jeans a million times, right, So

444
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 4: like to me, I don't yeah.

445
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 2: To me, I'll like either wear.

446
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 4: I'll either wear like black sweats that are like a

447
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 4: little bit chicer, that have like an interesting shape or something.

448
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: I'll wear those on the plane.

449
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,360
Speaker 4: Because I can wear those like I can like make

450
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 4: them look like an outfit. Or I'll wear hard pants,

451
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 4: hard pants, jeans, pants, whatever that I can wear again

452
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 4: on the trip. Yeah, or for a long haul flight,

453
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 4: I'll wear hard pants, and then I'll just bring like

454
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 4: a tiny pair of leggings in my carry on so

455
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 4: I can just whip them out and change. Yeah, that's

456
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 4: my favorite thing to do because like then you're super comfy.

457
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 4: You sleep in your leggings and then you can change

458
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 4: back into the hardpants when you arrive. If you have to,

459
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 4: like check in your hotel and then go somewhere, that's

460
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 4: a smart Yeah. I love to bring, but they have

461
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 4: to be thin leggings. You don't want a pair of

462
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 4: sweatpants in your.

463
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 2: Carry on, right like that?

464
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 4: Or no, no, yeah, something you can roll up real tiny, yeah,

465
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 4: tiny tiny. I feel also that I one of the

466
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 4: things that I really enjoy, and this might be part

467
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 4: of why you don't always feel like you've succeeded when

468
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 4: you pack, is that you have to try on outfits.

469
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: You have to.

470
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 4: You have to give yourself a little time to try

471
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 4: on outfits because the outfits in your head sometimes are

472
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 4: not they not hitting.

473
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: They're not hitting you know what you're so right.

474
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: I did that for when we went to New York

475
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: and we went for a long weekend, and you're right,

476
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: And I actually didn't even realize, but I kind of

477
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,119
Speaker 1: did what you were just describing because I knew we

478
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: were going to be walking all day. We're doing statch

479
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 1: of Liberty this day, We're going up to Harlem this day,

480
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: Like you know, I knew it was going to be hot,

481
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: and I did. And my friend came over and I

482
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 1: did try on outfits and she helped me put together.

483
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: And I think I packed one.

484
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: Extra outfit that I didn't end up wearing, but it

485
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: was like in case we go back to the hotel

486
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: and shower and then like go to dinner, so I

487
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: had a spare outfit in there.

488
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 2: But yeah, I wore all my outfits and they all.

489
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: Like worked like little skirts with sneakers, and it looked

490
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: cute and it was way less. It was the first

491
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: time I did that for a trip because it was

492
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: a short trip and we were going to do all

493
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: carry ons. We're going to do a carry on for

494
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: the kids, carry on for me, carry on for David,

495
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: and because usually we do like the one big checked

496
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: bag for everybody, like when we go to Florida in

497
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: the summer to see family and stuff. It's just easier

498
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 1: to have just like one big bag with us. Although

499
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: actually no, I take that back. This past summer we

500
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: did the three carry ons again because the boys need

501
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: a lot less stuff now because they're bigger, they don't

502
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: need as many extra outfits or like, you know, they're

503
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: not like throwing up at random or pooping their pants

504
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: or spilling shit on themselves as much. I still will

505
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 1: like throw an extra T shirt in a in like

506
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 1: a like a tope bat or like or one of

507
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: their backpacks.

508
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, just in case, Like, especially for the little one.

509
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: You know, God forbid, he spills water on his shirt

510
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 1: and you're in a fucking you know, saga of your trip.

511
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: It's wet shirt. It's wet, it'll dry, but it's so wet,

512
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: like and then you just you know, the path of

513
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: least resistance is to change their shirts so that everyone

514
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: on a plane hear them. Yeah, have a meltdown about being.

515
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 2: Wet the one time. So I have this rule.

516
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 4: When ros was little, I was like, we always need

517
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 4: to pack her an extra outfit in her when she

518
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 4: was a baby in her Oh, that's.

519
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: Like yeah, before the age of four, you have to

520
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 1: have an extra outfit, at least one or two.

521
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 4: But also you need an extra outfit for the parent

522
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 4: for yourself. Yeah, because and like that is that super

523
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 4: thin leggings and an extra sweatshirt or an extra T

524
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 4: shirt or a long sleeve shirt something. And Brad resisted

525
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 4: it so much because he was like, I'm mister lightpacker.

526
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 2: This motherfucker we went to we were.

527
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 4: In London, we went to sketch and it was like,

528
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,640
Speaker 4: you know, I think this goes along with packing, because

529
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 4: it's like when you have a baby, you're packing for

530
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 4: the day, You're like leaving your house and you've got

531
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 4: the diaper bag.

532
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Right.

533
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 4: She had a blowout in the middle of this beautiful

534
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 4: tea room. He took her to the bathroom. She he

535
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 4: he was like, he was freaking out, and I had shoved,

536
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 4: against his wishes, shoved an extra outfit in there, and

537
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 4: thank god I did. And then another time on a flight,

538
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 4: it was because he got shit on him. He got

539
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 4: baby shit on him. Well not that time, but she

540
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 4: peed all over him in the middle of a flight. Uh,

541
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 4: And he didn't have an extra outfit, and I was like, oh,

542
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 4: that's a shame.

543
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, I didn't mean if one. I wasn't

544
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 2: like trying to.

545
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: Be snuff smug about it, but.

546
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 2: But like how could you not?

547
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 4: You were like it was I was also like, it's

548
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 4: just like just throw another T shirt in there, like

549
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 4: just throw another pair of pants in their bud like

550
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 4: you gotta yep please.

551
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah no, yeah, you never know. Kids are a different story.

552
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: Though it's a different Kids are a different story.

553
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 4: If you're traveling by yourself, you have a lot more freedom,

554
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 4: right like if you're traveling for this is what I'm saying.

555
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 4: Little like I think trying on stuff is so helpful.

556
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 4: Having a color palette is really helpful too, Like oh

557
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 4: so that everything well, like so you can mix and

558
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 4: match a little bit, like yeah, do you do like

559
00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 4: more tops and like a few bottoms or yeah, I

560
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 4: try to keep it to Like I mean, I think

561
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 4: that the time because I feel like I remember that

562
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 4: from your Italy trip you were like I've got these

563
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 4: great shorts and then you go great with this topic

564
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 4: and this topic and I'm bringing this skirt and like.

565
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was like, ooh, she's so smart.

566
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 4: I brought too many dresses in Italy because I had

567
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 4: this like fantasy of being like, I'm in Italy and

568
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 4: I'm wearing these beautiful dresses. I could have brought one dress, okay,

569
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 4: because there were a couple of days where it was

570
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 4: colder than I thought it was gonna be. Checking the

571
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 4: weather obviously, is always your best friend.

572
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 2: More better?

573
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you always forget or like things

574
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,959
Speaker 1: that you stupid charger.

575
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: I'd like have the charger down, pat the freaking toilet trees.

576
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: I do in the morning before I leave.

577
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 4: I make a little list, but I have to put

578
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 4: a post it on my fucking bag that says get

579
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 4: your charger, because there have been so many times when

580
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 4: I land and I'm like or I'm in the plane

581
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 4: and I'm I'm in the airport and I'm like, oh shit,

582
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 4: my batteries on X amount or whatever, and I'm looking

583
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 4: around in my bag and I'm.

584
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: Like, I fucking forgot to pack my charger for me.

585
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: It's I'm really good about charger.

586
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: For some reason.

587
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: Again, I think it's anxiety of like mostly like my

588
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: kids iPads like riding out of juice on the plane.

589
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,719
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I do not want to deal with that.

590
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 2: Uh So, I bring.

591
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm always have chargers, and I always have portable chargers too,

592
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: like at least one or two.

593
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: And but for me, it's toothbrush. I can't tell you

594
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: how many.

595
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: Times I have forgotten my toothbrush, my children's toothbrushes, and.

596
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 2: The kids.

597
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: One really sucks because when you get a toothbrush from

598
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: the front desk, even at Disney, because I forgot them

599
00:29:59,680 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: at No.

600
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: They're booty. They're always booty. They're booty.

601
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: But they're also giving you like minty toothpaste that my

602
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: kids are not really like, They're still like there, their

603
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: toothpaste is a little bit minty, but it's mostly like fruity,

604
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: Like it's fruity flavors, like it's those like kid flavors

605
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: and so mint toothpaste to them, they're like a so spicy.

606
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 2: Like every time I'm like, god, I put the tidiest bit. Okay,

607
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: So this is it's so strong. This is the post

608
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: it is very helpful. The post it on the bag

609
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 2: is very helpful. That's a great idea.

610
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 4: It's really it's every time, like I'm going to bed

611
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 4: the night before, I'm like, what are the last couple

612
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 4: of things that I need to remember like my past.

613
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I try to make a morning of list of

614
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,959
Speaker 1: like all the last minute things that we have to

615
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: grab in the morning. Yeah, that David and I can

616
00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: both look at. That's always like toothbrushes, chargers like yeah,

617
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: your glasses like whatever.

618
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 4: Also like there, So I have a basket underneath my vanity,

619
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 4: like in the bathroom, and the basket is just full

620
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 4: of and it's pretty organized, although I probably need to

621
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 4: go through it. It's full of like travel sizes of

622
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 4: everything you could ever want. There's travel size dental floss.

623
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 4: There's travel sized toothpaste, there's travel size there's a travel

624
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 4: sized first aid kit.

625
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: There's like everything, lotions, potions, boop it up up.

626
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 4: It's all in there. And so like before I go

627
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 4: on a trip, when I'm packing my toilet tries, a

628
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 4: lot of times I'll just swap out something because it's

629
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 4: usually only like what I'm leaving for five days, maybe

630
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 4: maybe seven. Yeah, the skin stuff is the stuff that

631
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 4: I find the most important. But like toothpaste, Like, I've

632
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 4: got a ton of little travel toothpastes that I could

633
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 4: use me too. Yeah, totally, you know what I mean.

634
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: Skincare can be tricky depending on the length of the trip.

635
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and hair care ada I'm going.

636
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I struggle more the skincare I kind of I'll do.

637
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: I'll bring like a simpler version of whatever I do.

638
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: And I'll usually bring, uh at least what because I

639
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: have really dry skin. And so if I'm going anywhere

640
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: cold or like if I or if maybe it's going

641
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: to be hot but the air conditioning might be intense,

642
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: I'm definitely bringing like a heavier moisturizer just.

643
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,959
Speaker 2: In case, and a lighter one.

644
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: But then I may be like bringing one I'm not bringing,

645
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: like too serrup. I'm bringing, you know, the one I

646
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: like the most, like an SPI of course.

647
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 2: And pimple patches.

648
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: Always, always I always throw a thing of pimple patches

649
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 4: in there.

650
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, they take up no room.

651
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: But hair care is hard because as great as like,

652
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: I love the travel section of Alta Beauty, like every

653
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: Alta Beauty has a great small travel size of like

654
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: so many products. But yeah, but hair is tough because

655
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: if I'm going somewhere where I'm gonna like wear my

656
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: hair wavy, I guess I could do like those little bottles.

657
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: That's usually what I end up doing, like putting my

658
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: favorite products in like a little travel bottle.

659
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, for Christmas, i'mone to ask for a set of

660
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 4: those Cadence Have you seen those?

661
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: No, they're little capsules.

662
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 4: They're I think it's the company is called Cadence, and

663
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 4: they're spillproof.

664
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: They're little.

665
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 4: They're almost like little jars and you can fill them

666
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 4: up with any kind of product and that way you're

667
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 4: not like sometimes with those shitty travel bottles there's like

668
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 4: wasted product at the bottom because you can't get it out.

669
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: Yes, you can't get So these are like jars. So

670
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: a lot of them are too big.

671
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 2: Most of them are at big. They're too big. I

672
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: need half the size of this.

673
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: It's just for some frickin' hair lotion that I'm to use,

674
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: like a tiny bit about you know.

675
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 4: So the Cadence ones are stackable, they're magnetic. And this

676
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 4: is not an AD, not an AD, but if anyone

677
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 4: but if they want to, if they want to send

678
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 4: us free ship, they want to send to Will.

679
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: But they look cool as hell and you.

680
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 4: Can just like pump your normal stuff in there and

681
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: the label what I do because like that toilet tries

682
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 4: take up a lot of space. And also if you're

683
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 4: carrying on. You can only do three point four ounces

684
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 4: per right, thing right, and so like, yeah, you should.

685
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 4: You should just decant your you have to decant everything.

686
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 4: I'm such a big believer. It's like you have to

687
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 4: do it. You just bite the bullet into it or

688
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 4: buy the travel sizes because like otherwise you're taking a

689
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 4: valuable space or checking a bag based on like hair care.

690
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: Come on, like, you don't need to do that. You

691
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 2: know I have done that. I have done that. You

692
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 2: don't need to do that. Girl, you don't need to

693
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: do that.

694
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 3: Ever.

695
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 2: Again, I don't need to do that. Time is past.

696
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: Do you unpack when you get there? Or do you

697
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 2: live out of your seat?

698
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: Us?

699
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 2: Like, how do you you? You unpacked? I do too.

700
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: I let yes, I used to do out of my

701
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 1: suitcase and we kind of do that, like, you know,

702
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: when we travel to Florida, we're staying with our parents

703
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: and there's maybe like one or two empty drawers for

704
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: us and like a few hangers. I try to do

705
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: my best because it is so much easier to like

706
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: close up the suitcase.

707
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 2: But that's the only place that we like live out

708
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 2: of our suitcase a little bit. It's not my preference.

709
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 1: But if I'm in a hotel, the first thing I do,

710
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: or at Airbnb or anything like that, first thing I

711
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: do is completely unpacked. Put a drawer for the kids,

712
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 1: put a drawer for me, you know, hang whatever me too,

713
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know it just I mean, repacking sucks

714
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 1: a little bit, but we have this, like you know,

715
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: what we do for repacking.

716
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 2: At the end of a trip.

717
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: We'll make like all our dirty like when we went

718
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: to New York and we're staying in this hotel room

719
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: that was not a bad size actually for New York.

720
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: We will usually at the end use one of our

721
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: carry ons for all the dirty clothes. Smart so like

722
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: all the dirty clothes whatever just literally gets thrown in

723
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: in a pile. It's not even fall, you know, and

724
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: whatever shoes maybe shit we bought. It's like one junk

725
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 1: suitcase basically nice.

726
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: And then we'll use.

727
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: The other suitcase to put whatever clean clothes or whatever

728
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: things we bought, you know, like more neatly and uh.

729
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 2: And that's just some kind of work.

730
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: So then when we get home, it's nice because you

731
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: just take that one carry on, you just take it

732
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 1: over your washing machine and throw everything in and like

733
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: you know, do your laundry.

734
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 2: As soon as you have them. I did something similar

735
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 2: and it came up with that. I like that.

736
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 4: I like usually it'll be either one of the extra

737
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 4: like one of the packing cubes, or sometimes certain suitcases

738
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 4: will have like a little laundry bag in there, or

739
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 4: if you're staying at a hotel, they'll provide like, oh,

740
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 4: like if you want to get your laundry done at

741
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 4: the hotel, they'll provide like, yeah, we'll use those bags.

742
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 4: Ye'll use that and put all my dirty laundry in there. Yeah,

743
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 4: because like I don't want that stuff stinking up everything else.

744
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 4: I will say, Yeah. One of my tricks for travel

745
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 4: is like taking stuff. If I'm gonna wash it, it

746
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 4: needs to be like a quick dry kind of thing

747
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 4: like that I can just hang and it's gonna be

748
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 4: dry like probably the next day. Like so a lot

749
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 4: of like T shirts or tank tops that I take

750
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 4: for like layering stuff, I can just wash them in

751
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 4: the sink and then'net's amazing on.

752
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,720
Speaker 1: Like you know, wait, yeah, aren't there like these really

753
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: cool little like uh, are they like the laundry sheets or.

754
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's tiny little soap things that are like paper

755
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,959
Speaker 4: there's little packets, little packet bags that you can buy.

756
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 4: I did have one of those explode ones, so I

757
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 4: would say, if you're gonna use a liquid one, put

758
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 4: them in a ziploc bag before you put them in

759
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 4: your suitcase, because one of mine exploded in my toiletry

760
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 4: case and I was like, what the fuck is this

761
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 4: and then I realized it was my laundry detertion. But

762
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 4: I've done that multiple times, and it's great because like

763
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 4: you just washed like a couple pairs of underwear and

764
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 4: like a couple tank tops or a T shirt in

765
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 4: the sink, and then you hang it to dry and boom,

766
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 4: you have a clean outfit.

767
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 2: Again, it's great.

768
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: Or like workout clothes, like I don't want to bring

769
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: four different sports bras and like four leggings fucking smart,

770
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 1: because workout clothes are always the bait of my existence.

771
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 1: If I am going somewhere and I know there's gonna

772
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: be a good gym or whatever, and I want to

773
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: like work out.

774
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: But then you're like annoyed that these.

775
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: Like workout clothes are taking up so much space in

776
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,240
Speaker 1: my fucking bag.

777
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 2: So my trick for that is two pairs of leggings.

778
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 2: Two sports bras.

779
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 4: If I'm gonna wear a shirt over it, it needs

780
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 4: to be a shirt that can double with something else.

781
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 4: Like normally I would never do that, but I'm on

782
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 4: a trip, so it's like a special rule. Like I

783
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 4: can wear this T shirt down to the gym and

784
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 4: like maybe take it off before I get too sweaty. Okay,

785
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 4: socks need to be I have to be able to

786
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 4: wear them somewhere else like these. This pair of socks

787
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 4: cannot just be like a workout sock, Like it has

788
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 4: to be a workout sock and I can also wear

789
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 4: to like some other thing. Everything has to do double duty,

790
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

791
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: And the same with the sneakers, Like if you are

792
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: going to be like in a hotel gym.

793
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm working out of my Solomon.

794
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: Barefoot, but sometimes I don't want to always be barefoot.

795
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 4: And I'm going to work out of my solemn. I

796
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 4: worked out on my Solomon's, I worked out in my Converse. Okay,

797
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 4: I would never work out in a regular like a

798
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 4: hotel gin barefoot, but I would. I have asked, like, oh,

799
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 4: can I have a matt and some dumbbells in my room?

800
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 4: And like more often than that, they'll bring them to

801
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 4: you like, oh, sometimes they won't.

802
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 2: Like and I've never even thought to do that.

803
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 4: I definitely stayed places where they're like, oh no, we

804
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 4: can't do that, which sucks, but like it doesn't hurt

805
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 4: to ask, you know, it just doesn't hurt. Yeah.

806
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

807
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 4: I've also stayed in places where I have asked them

808
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 4: to like empty out the minifridge because I'm like, that's

809
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 4: it's too tempting for me, can you please empty it out?

810
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 2: And sometimes they will.

811
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 1: Sometimes I've done that, especially with kids, I've asked them

812
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: to like empty out the mini fridge so that I

813
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: can just like stuff that my kids actually will eat

814
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: or I will eat like in.

815
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 2: There and not twelve dollars M and ms. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

816
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: My kids don't need to like be looking at candy

817
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: like every day like this.

818
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: Now we're will in there. We're gonna put some apples

819
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: in there. Happens the apples and cheez.

820
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 4: I will say the best, the best piece of packing

821
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 4: advice I've ever gotten is that for a trip overseas

822
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 4: or like a trip that you're taking where you know

823
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 4: you're probably gonna do some souvenir shopping or you want

824
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 4: to want to bring stuff back, like we're going to this,

825
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 4: We're going to Sicaga, right, But I also I'm so

826
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 4: excited to see these Christmas markets in Europe and like Paris.

827
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 4: I'm just so looking forward to it. And I know

828
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna want to bring like some artists and stuff

829
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 4: back for friends and family. And so what I am

830
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 4: going to do is I'm going to check a bag,

831
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 4: but it's mostly gonna be empty, like it might have

832
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 4: maybe if I bring a second jacket, it might have

833
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 4: a second jack get in there and like, okay, you

834
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 4: know some stuff that I'm not going to miss right

835
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 4: away if the bag gets lost.

836
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

837
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 4: I also do put tracking devices in my bags now,

838
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 4: like I put Apple.

839
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 2: The little I can't remember they're called.

840
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: Keeps saying yeah the air tags weak air tag, that

841
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 1: we're going to do that, and we haven't done.

842
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 2: It yet, but yes, it's awesome, it's awesome.

843
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

844
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 4: Also pro tip, if you have a toddler or small child,

845
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 4: you could stick an air tag on their little outfit

846
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 4: when you take them to Disneyland and they're never gonna past.

847
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's real.

848
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: Or they have those little like cute watches that they

849
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: for kids that held a little air tag.

850
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I put them in my bag, my chuck bag.

851
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 4: Uh.

852
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I usually use my kids carry on is usually

853
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: has extra space.

854
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 2: Uh.

855
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: And if we're going somewhere where I think we're gonna

856
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: buy stuff, I try to make their bag like even

857
00:41:54,680 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: lighter yeacause kids I find like they will I could

858
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: read like I could do a lot less bottoms for them,

859
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: especially if we're going if we're going in to anywhere

860
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: hot where they're probably going to be in a bathing

861
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: suit all the time.

862
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 2: I'm packing like two or three shorts for that. Yeah,

863
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 2: for sure, for sure.

864
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: The thing that they are going to consistently mess up

865
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 1: is their shirt. That's the thing that they're going to

866
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: spill shit on. That's the shit that Unfortunately, if you're

867
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: going somewhere for a week, you need to pack them

868
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: like ten shirts. Like it's just inevitable. They will spill

869
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: some fucking shit on their shirts.

870
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: But you don't do when you're when you're in Florida,

871
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: you can do laundry though, like right, like can't you

872
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah for Florida, I don't do that.

873
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeahh in Florida where we have laundry, No, I pack

874
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: them maybe, like so I don't have to do laundry

875
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: like every three or four day, I'll pack it right

876
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: for four or five shirts for them and maybe like

877
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Speaker 1: two shorts because they are in their pajamas or their

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Speaker 1: bathing suits.

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Speaker 2: Ninety percent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Zo's at the age where he'll like do

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Speaker 1: an outfit change, which I'm like, bro, we're traveling, like,

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Speaker 1: you can't be doing an outfit change every day, Sonny,

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Speaker 1: you have run out of clean like yeah, like he'll

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Speaker 1: hearing over learn how to do laundry.

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Speaker 2: That's ty, Yeah, that's you're right.

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Speaker 4: Actually, that's totally okay. If you want to do do

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Speaker 4: your outpha change, you can do that. If now you

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Speaker 4: have you have to do laundry, yeah, to do that

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Speaker 4: outfit so you're.

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Speaker 2: Right, or you could keep that outfit on.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see the look on the oella's

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Speaker 1: faces when I send my nine year old boy to

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Speaker 1: do his own laundry.

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Speaker 2: That would be really fun. Oh my god, are ridiculous?

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Speaker 4: Really quick before we go, there is like this packing

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Speaker 4: method that I think like TikTok and Reddit introduced or

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Speaker 4: you know, I don't know who came up with it,

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Speaker 4: but it's like the five three two one method, and

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Speaker 4: I think it's interesting. Okay, Essentially you pack five bottoms,

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Speaker 4: four tops, three pairs of shoes, two dresses, jumpsuits or layers,

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Speaker 4: and one accessory. I don't know, I think this is

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Speaker 4: a good jumping off point, and like, if you really

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Speaker 4: struggle with like putting together outfits, maybe this is for you.

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Speaker 4: I do think the power of accessories can change an outfit,

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Speaker 4: like immediately, Like I could wear you know, I could

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Speaker 4: wear my cool I have these black sweatpants that are

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Speaker 4: like they have this like cool weird bottom that's like

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Speaker 4: a bunky shape. So like I could wear those to

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Speaker 4: a nice dinner if I layer them with like a

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Speaker 4: black tank top, a black blazer, high heels, black white heels,

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Speaker 4: and then like a cool gold necklace of big earrings,

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Speaker 4: like perfect for dinner. And then if I just switch

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Speaker 4: the shoes to the solomons, put on some socks and

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Speaker 4: maybe layer you know, I've got this like big black

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Speaker 4: scarf that I use for travel, or like a little

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Speaker 4: bandana or something totally different outfit hat totally different outfit,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Like, yeah, like it's very

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Speaker 4: easy to do make different outfits if you pack accessories.

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Speaker 4: So like I I'm like, I wear a hat on

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Speaker 4: the plane so that I can have a hat when

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Speaker 4: I'm traveling. I have like a like I said, I

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Speaker 4: think like it's a J Crew. I think my bound

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00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 4: sale right now. J Crew and Gap do really nice

924
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,760
Speaker 4: like big they we used to call them paj minas,

925
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 4: but they're basically big like scarf cape that you can

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Speaker 4: use as a blanket on the plane, but then you

927
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 4: can also use a scarf when you get to your location.

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Speaker 2: M god, so many hot tips.

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Speaker 1: Also, because you kept saying Solomon's I wanted to look

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Speaker 1: up Solomons the bus.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Are you talking about the slip ons

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00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 2: and clogs? No, I'm talking about s A L O

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Speaker 2: M O N.

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Speaker 4: And I'm talking about like the hiking shoes, like the

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Speaker 4: tennis shoes, the hiking shoes. So I'll send you a link.

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Speaker 4: I'll send you a link because there's a ton of

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00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 4: great ones right now. They just did a collab with like, Okay, they're.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like booty kind of sneakers. Yeah, some of

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Speaker 1: them are high tops and then some of them are icy.

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Speaker 4: I would never the high tops are not for me.

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Speaker 4: The high tops are for serious hikers. For me, it's

942
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Speaker 4: like the fashion y like sneaker shoe. If you're interested,

943
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 4: don't know a chunky sneaker. Yeah, it's like a chunky,

944
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 4: cool sneaker, but it's not like, yeah, goofy looking like

945
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Speaker 4: it doesn't well, some of them are kind of goofy,

946
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 4: but some of them are very cool and like they

947
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 4: just kind of make your outfit look like you're not trying,

948
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Speaker 4: but they're comfy walk in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, more better, Okay. What was your big takeaway today? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god, so many hot tips about wear your biggest

951
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: shoes on the plane. Paj the recent pashmino one that

952
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: doubles as a scarf was great. Yeah, you have to

953
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 1: put on your outfits before you pack.

954
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 2: You have to give yourself time.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna redo all of my little travel containers for

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Speaker 1: my skincare and hair care.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you had so many good hot tips. This

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Speaker 1: was great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I definitely feel more better about packing. What are your takeaways?

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Speaker 2: I need to get cracking.

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Speaker 4: I'm packing for a trip that I'm taking to New

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Speaker 4: York in two days. I'm going to New York in

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Speaker 4: like two days, and I need to pack because I

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Speaker 4: have multiple events that I have to go to, but

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Speaker 4: also I'm spending time with a friend, so there's a

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Speaker 4: lot of stuff and I don't want to check a bag.

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Speaker 4: And then I also need to start thinking about Paris,

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00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 4: which is like in a month, but I'd rather get

971
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Speaker 4: it in my head now what I'm gonna want to

972
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Speaker 4: take and not so that I can make sure everything's

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Speaker 4: like ready to go so I'm not stressed out two

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Speaker 4: days before I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like losing my mind.

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Speaker 4: Because that's another thing. This, let me tell you, this

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Speaker 4: is a lot of trial and error. Like I have

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Speaker 4: had times where I wait until the last second and

979
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Speaker 4: I'm like crying in my closet because I'm having to

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00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 4: try everything on and I'm so stressed out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is like Ali. I love to pack

982
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Speaker 1: like two days before a trip, two or three days

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Speaker 1: before a trip. I like that day before to be

984
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: just left for like random things that I remember that

985
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Speaker 1: I maybe want to take. Sometimes I can be dangerous though,

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Speaker 1: because sometimes I can overpack on the day before because

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of to.

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Speaker 2: You, I'm like, oh but what about this? What about this?

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00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 2: What about that? Huh? But yeah, I like to do

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Speaker 2: it a couple days before. I feel a little more

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Speaker 2: better about packing? Do you.

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Speaker 1: I feel a lot more better about packing, but I

993
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Speaker 1: don't have to do it today like you do.

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Speaker 2: So that's real. That's real, that's real. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: this was a fun one. Yeah, this was fun. I

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Speaker 2: hope that we were helpful in some way. Okay, see

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Speaker 2: you next time. All right, Bye, bye guys, Bye, More

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