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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: Scrub Dub dub Dub dub dub.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're really trying to find the Christmas tune there,

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Speaker 3: weren't you.

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Speaker 4: I was trying to find a different one than follow

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Speaker 4: a lot.

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Speaker 3: Just why if it is?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: My mess it eight broke, don't fix it. We have

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Speaker 3: a very special guest today.

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Speaker 2: We have been trying to make this happen, and what

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Speaker 2: better time for it to happen than the last guest

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Speaker 2: podcast of the year.

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Speaker 1: Our last guest of twenty twenty four? Why am I emotional?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Wow? I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't like the last of things.

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Speaker 3: But it's setting you up for the beginning of something.

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Speaker 1: I know every beginning of your mother beginnings end. I know,

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Speaker 1: but it's just like I don't though. Does nobody else

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Speaker 1: have like I have such a hard time with goodbyes.

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Speaker 6: I love this time of year more than any other

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Speaker 6: time of year. I love everything's ending and then the

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Speaker 6: world's going to shut down for a few weeks. It's

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Speaker 6: my favorite thing. And the closer we get to the

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Speaker 6: shutdown the sooner we are to effluorescence elorescence.

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Speaker 1: I know I love a new year, Don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 1: I love a new year. But there's something about the

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Speaker 1: good byes and the like won't see you for two weeks,

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Speaker 1: like just goodbye to everything that I knew.

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Speaker 3: Our guest today, she has probably had the craziest year

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Speaker 3: of anyone that I know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, really crazy twenty twenty.

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Speaker 3: Four, crazy twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: What a knee jerk year. Her word for twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: four was probably like knee jerk.

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Speaker 3: There's probably love whip turned into whip blocks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but she is.

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Speaker 3: You met her on The Bachelor. She then became the bachelorette,

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Speaker 3: the first Asian American bachelor. She then proceeded to go

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Speaker 3: on Dancing with the Stars. So she has had quite the.

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Speaker 2: Year, and we couldn't be happier to have gin Trans

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Speaker 2: scrubbing it. We have been really trying to make this

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Speaker 2: happen for quite some time now.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I know, I'm sorry. My schedule has been

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Speaker 5: so so so crazy, but I wanted to come on

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Speaker 5: and make this happen too, do not.

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Speaker 3: I love you, Jo, You're our final guest of twenty

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Speaker 3: twenty fours.

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Speaker 4: You are our last guest of the year.

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Speaker 5: You know, I feel honored. I feel very very honored.

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Speaker 4: I mean I should just ask her us to like

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Speaker 4: get it out of the way.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, just really quick.

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Speaker 5: Are you gonna propose to me? Because no, but.

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Speaker 1: We really want to try and have like a girl's

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Speaker 1: night drinks with like every guest that we have.

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Speaker 5: I would love that.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, here's what she's up. We've tried. We've

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Speaker 3: tried to have.

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Speaker 2: Drinks and hangouts with people outside of this and on

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Speaker 2: the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, yeah, let's do it, and it never.

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Speaker 2: Happens, and so Tany is just constantly let down and no,

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Speaker 2: so I said, twenty twenty five will be the year

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Speaker 2: that we we're.

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Speaker 5: Gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do it.

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Speaker 5: I feel like we can make this happen because I

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Speaker 5: we've hung out outside of the podcast, like that's how

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Speaker 5: we met. We met JoJo's yeah party, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: and then I see you all.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it's gonna make it happen.

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Speaker 4: Jed Tran's gonna be our first.

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Speaker 5: I need new girlfriends in La anyways.

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Speaker 1: Oh cute, Okay, what is your plan?

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Speaker 3: With that, are you staying in? What's your plan?

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Speaker 2: Because I there's so much to get to in terms

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Speaker 3: I can't even imagine how crazy for you. But are

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Speaker 3: what what are your plans in terms of where you're

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Speaker 5: So right now, I'm just living here in LA for

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Speaker 1: Oh oh really, Yeah, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 5: Oh you didn't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm fully moved in there, but I am going

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Speaker 5: back to Peay school in March, so I'm only going

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Speaker 5: But even then, like, I'm traveling a lot in the

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Speaker 5: going home to Boston tonight, and then I'm going to

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Speaker 5: Vietnam at some point in January for the first time ever,

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Speaker 5: and then I'm going back to Miami for like two

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Speaker 5: I'm just going to be traveling a lot, yeah, but

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Speaker 5: because there's so much going on here right now, and

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Speaker 5: I want to just like hang out here while I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's busy, yeah, busy, But are busy? Are you?

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Speaker 3: Do you have to physically be there for scores like

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Speaker 3: an online Oh wow?

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Speaker 5: Yes. So my program, my physician assistant program is two years.

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Speaker 5: The first year you're in the classroom, you're learning everything.

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Speaker 5: Then a second and you're you're in hospitals and like

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Speaker 5: the clinical setting and you're working with doctors, PA's, nurses

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Speaker 5: So it has to be in person, and you're doing

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yes, but I'm just.

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Speaker 2: So impressed because you there is so much opportunity. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there's a lot going on in your life right now.

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Speaker 2: So so being somewhere where you have to have a

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Ke, you talk about the decision that, like where you

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Speaker 1: decide that that's what you wanted to do.

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Speaker 5: I've always said that I would go back to school.

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Speaker 5: Like when I was on the Bachelor, I was like,

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Speaker 5: I'm pausing school, I have to go back. Then the Bachelor,

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm pausing school, I have to go

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Speaker 5: back dancing the stars, pausing school. I have to go back,

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Speaker 5: and I'm a woman of my word and like especially

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Speaker 5: to myself, and I know that I've worked so hard

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Speaker 5: to get into physician assistant school. It's really hard, and

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Speaker 5: I've been passionate about medicine my entire life, and I

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Speaker 5: and I'm so excited to do that. And I also

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Speaker 5: going to try to do both as best as I can.

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Speaker 5: But I just know that school is not something that

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Speaker 5: just want to get my degree. And whether I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: as a physician assistant, I don't know, but I want

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Speaker 1: That's so impressive and honestly so forward thinking.

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Speaker 3: Because forward thinking, but I don't think a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of people in your situation would think that far ahead.

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Speaker 5: It's just I don't know it just feels weird for

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Speaker 5: be so rewarding at the end of it. But don't

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Speaker 5: At the time that I've taken off has been a lot,

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Speaker 5: and a lot of what I've learned has gone out

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Speaker 5: the windows. So it's gonna be a lot of work

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Speaker 5: going back to school. Like pre going back to school,

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Speaker 5: It's an uphill battle that's not easy.

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Speaker 2: Listen, take the take the applause, because I think that

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Speaker 2: is so This world is so intoxicating when you come

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Speaker 2: like doing back to back to back shows and having

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Speaker 2: even just to regardless of what happens. Like, just to

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Speaker 2: than so you should be very I mean, I'm like

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Speaker 4: I am too, honestly, You're so sweet.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I mean also like long term goal like

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Speaker 5: love to have my own skincare brand. So I'm like,

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Speaker 5: if I just become a PA, go into dermatology, have

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Speaker 5: my own skincare brand, like it just like everything which

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Speaker 2: Can we go to the beginning. So how did you

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Speaker 5: I was making tiktoks about being in PA school and

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Speaker 5: I mean it was really hard though, because for me,

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Speaker 5: I was like, are you guys okay with me doing this?

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Speaker 5: I flat out told them. I was like if you

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Speaker 5: say no, like that's fine, Like I'm still gonna stay

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Speaker 5: in school, like that's my priority here. And they were like, no,

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Speaker 5: that's what you really want to do. So that's kind

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Speaker 5: of how I got thrown into things.

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Speaker 2: So you go on the show and I just have

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Speaker 2: a I'm curious about your mindset going on and I

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Speaker 2: this stems from being at the Unforgettable Gala MM because

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Speaker 2: it was so fun watching people like freak out over you.

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Speaker 2: And Haley and I were talking about it and she

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Speaker 2: was like, we were saying, like it was such an amazing,

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Speaker 2: huge deal that you were the first Asian American.

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Speaker 3: To be the Bachelorette, to be a lead.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't think that people can grasp the

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Speaker 5: Me too, I don't even grasp the significance of it sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I wanted to know, like, when you went

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Speaker 2: Like when we were at the gala, Haley and are

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Speaker 1: I feel like you just like when you say you

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Speaker 1: I really genuinely believe you, and like I feel like

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Speaker 4: I was like so blown away, just how like normal

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't get any ego, I didn't get any

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Speaker 2: Yes, I was about to say I too felt like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, listen, I've it was a whirlwind, and I think.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had that night.

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Speaker 4: And blessing and a curse.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, no, Like it was such emotional whiplash because

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Speaker 5: I've always wanted to be on Dancing with the Stars. Like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the worst. And they're like checking in like hey,

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Speaker 5: Hey girl, I'm so busy. I love I want to

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Speaker 5: Twenty twenty five to on my TV list is to

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Speaker 5: I'm very happy.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think it's you know, you have this moment

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Speaker 1: What for people that are listening that may not know

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I got engaged on the Bachelorette, was very very happy,

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Speaker 5: And then all the stuff that happened after the fact

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Speaker 4: How scary is that?

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Speaker 3: Very yeah, very the biggest betrayal is that he was

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Speaker 4: Well, how are they supposed to know?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not excuses for anybody, but like, I just

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Speaker 3: I mean it's it's it was crazy what happened to you.

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Speaker 5: It was. It was really crazy. It's not something you

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Speaker 2: Did you also feel when you watched the proposal? When

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Speaker 2: it felt like it like it felt like you had

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they definitely. So they told me that that was

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Speaker 5: what we were going through. But when I was on stage,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I just like what you experienced was so gnarly,

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Speaker 1: many questions about that. But do you have you spoken

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Speaker 5: Since after the final Rose. We had a couple of

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Speaker 5: So we're texting a little bit. But since then, was it.

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Speaker 3: Like he apologized and you were just kind of like, what.

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Speaker 1: Like it's not like, you know, it's not like it

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Speaker 5: of the day he I listen, I wish him well

443
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 5: and I really hope that he gets some therapy and

444
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,720
Speaker 5: you know, like really works through whatever demons he's fighting.

445
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 4: You know what Jojo Siwa says, Karma.

446
00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:42,160
Speaker 5: Is a bitch, says Karma as a cat.

447
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, bitch is so much better. Do you agree?

448
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 5: And exactly like, listen, I I just want him to

449
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 5: be healed, and I really do wish him the best

450
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,160
Speaker 5: and I'm so happy that he is out of my life.

451
00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:00,439
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's that's that's that I want it.

452
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,119
Speaker 3: But it is a box in the past.

453
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,880
Speaker 4: The yes, okay, that's where that's where LO was.

454
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 5: Knowing that he wasn't a great person to me and

455
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 5: was cheating on me. And that was the bow that

456
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't get married to him. I didn't

457
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 5: have kids with him.

458
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 1: Like, thank god, you have emotionally yourself voted up in

459
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: the past, which is the best thing to do. Yeah,

460
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 1: what is it like except the apology and ever get

461
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: or something like that along.

462
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 4: So that's that.

463
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 1: Then you get told that you're going on Dancing with

464
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 1: the Stars. Yes, do you get any saying who you're

465
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 1: partnered up with?

466
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:35,199
Speaker 4: It's random?

467
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 5: No, especially last minute like that. God. No, they were

468
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 5: just like, oh, this is who your partner is. This

469
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 5: is like okay. And I remember I was in the

470
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 5: airport and they were like, oh, he's there, and I

471
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 5: was like, okay, I have to google social farbar because

472
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 5: I don't know he looks Google type. Of course. All

473
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 5: his photos are shirtless. He doesn't wear it. The man

474
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 5: does not wear a shirt. I looked around, who's the

475
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 5: one shirtles guy in the airport? That's Sasha. He was

476
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,919
Speaker 5: wearing this button down and one and all the way

477
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 5: at the bottom was but no other buttons were buttoned.

478
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 5: I was like, that'scial Farmer perfect.

479
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 3: It was like cold on the airplane. Yeah, chili, chili.

480
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 5: The man doesn't get cold.

481
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 3: So this is my favorite thing about life. Right.

482
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: You go through this public, like brutal heartbreak in front

483
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: of everybody, right, and then this beautiful opportunity comes into

484
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 2: your life where you get to meet someone who seemingly

485
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 2: as of now feels like they're going to be in

486
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 2: your life for a long time. And you've created this

487
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 2: bond WITHID and had the bad thing not happened, the

488
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 2: good the better thing probably wouldn't have happened.

489
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 5: I agree, And.

490
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: I think so yeah, because I think that they put

491
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 1: you on Dancing with the Stars because of the outcome

492
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: of the show, like you ended up happily engaged with

493
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: this man.

494
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 5: I don't know what would have happened, but all I

495
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 5: know is I had a call with the executive producer

496
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 5: of Dancing with Stars like two weeks before the finale.

497
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 5: They were like, it's not happening, like so sorry, And

498
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 5: usually they do a big happy announcement, right, like I

499
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 5: think with charity. They did like a happy announcement on AFR.

500
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 5: So like, when I got off of stage at AFR,

501
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 5: I was like that, no happy announcement is happening, And

502
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 5: I was told that it was a pretty last minute

503
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 5: decision in that moment.

504
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 4: So okay, so that you're probably right now.

505
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 2: And I just think that's such a lesson in like,

506
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: and let's say, even if it had been the plane

507
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 2: that you were gonna go on the show.

508
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 3: Right right, would it have affected this relationship? Like things

509
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 3: just would have been very you would have had a

510
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: very different cherience.

511
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 5: And I so agree, And I think that's been the

512
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 5: best lesson to come out of this, is that no

513
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,959
Speaker 5: matter how bad something that you're going through is, if

514
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 5: you just keep pushing, eventually it's gonna get better. And

515
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 5: like sometimes you'll get surprised by like the best opportunity

516
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 5: of your life, Like you don't know what's on the

517
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 5: other side of that door. So that's really like my

518
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 5: biggest life lesson is like, no matter how bad a

519
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 5: situation seems, a relationship seems like if you leave, who

520
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 5: knows what's on the other side of them?

521
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 3: So, so you opened an their door too, where's a

522
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 3: dance partner.

523
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,719
Speaker 1: By the way, I love his name just Sasha. I

524
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: love the name Sasha. I like, I'm obsessed with it.

525
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: I just it's really not important to this conversation.

526
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 5: But you were about your love for his name.

527
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 1: I just love his name, Like I think everybody should

528
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: name their children Sasha.

529
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 4: I like it.

530
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's growing on me, that's for sure.

531
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, do you like this Sasha Junior as a name.

532
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 5: For for whose kids? Here we're talking? You know, I

533
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 5: think it's a really cool name. I don't really call

534
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 5: him Sosha all though. Often though, if I do, what

535
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,959
Speaker 5: do you call them? Babe? Honey? Oh it's just babe.

536
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: Well, because he's your boyfriend, right, I don't.

537
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 5: I don't know if that's uh confirmed your died yet?

538
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 3: Why why I need to know why? Because there's there's

539
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 3: all these articles.

540
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 4: Threw me off. I thought you guys were just friends.

541
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 5: Oh, he's Australian, so he calls everybody babe. So we

542
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 5: started off for a dance partnership calling each other babe

543
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 5: because he just calls me babe all the time. He

544
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 5: also calls everybody else babe, So now I also call

545
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 5: everybody babe too.

546
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 3: But what's his name for you that he doesn't call

547
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 3: everybody else?

548
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 5: He calls me babe and honey.

549
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 3: That's that's unatt Does he call everyone else honey? I

550
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 3: think so they are cool people that do that.

551
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 4: Yes, did I walk in here every morning? Hey babe?

552
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 2: So here's my question, because we're doing frantic research trying

553
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: to figure out where things lie in your relationship, in

554
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 2: your dating life. Right, lots of conflicting articles, some straight

555
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 2: some interviews straight from you that you're keeping your life private,

556
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 2: but there's a lot of footage and photos that that

557
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 2: course say otherwise.

558
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 5: I am just having fun. Listen. I share what I

559
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 5: want to share on social media because it's fun, Like

560
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 5: making tiktoks is fun, doing a little dancing tiktoks with

561
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 5: Sasha is fun, And it's like a nice creative outlet

562
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 5: for me and I just I share what I want

563
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 5: to share, and I keep things private where I want

564
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 5: to keep things private. And now I'm not like I

565
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 5: don't have a mastermind plan. Like it's so funny because

566
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 5: everyone online is like, she's gonna announce this on this

567
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 5: date because she said this and liked this comment and

568
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 5: did that. I'm like, guys, I'm really not as cool

569
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 5: as Taylor Swift. I don't have this.

570
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 4: Grand plan that'd be pretty epic.

571
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 5: It would be very epic, but it's just it's not me.

572
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 5: I am just like taking life one day at a

573
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 5: time and like trying to navigate everything as best as

574
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 5: I can. You guys are unsatisfied.

575
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I really like I'm very naive and

576
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: I just like had no idea that there was like

577
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 1: even a question, like I'm like that of course they're dating, Like,

578
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: of course that's her boyfriend. Like I literally didn't even

579
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: think that it was a thing. And then I started

580
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: googling and realized there was all these reports saying like no,

581
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: they're not Yes they are, And I was like.

582
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: I am one hundred percent on board of keeping you anything.

583
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 2: We were dating like private, right because I was with

584
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: my girlfriend for four years before we were publicly. Yeah,

585
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 2: so but we didn't go to anything to get like

586
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: there is no footage of us out on the internet

587
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: or that we were posting, so there was you know,

588
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: it's pretty private.

589
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 5: Yeah.

590
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

591
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 5: I just think and I agree with that, and I

592
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 5: I think moving forward with my life, I just I

593
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 5: don't know. After going through a very public breakup. It's

594
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 5: just not the time for me or maybe ever to

595
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 5: like announce something, to launch something to like I don't,

596
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 5: I don't know. It's just not for me. And I'm

597
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 5: really just living my life one day at a time

598
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 5: and trying to do the best I can do with

599
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 5: and being as comfortable as I am and like being

600
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 5: as vulnerable as I can be online. And that's it

601
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 5: is what it is. And I think, honestly, like I'm

602
00:27:54,280 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 5: not launching anybody anything until I'm like pregnant, Like why it's.

603
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 1: Wait, do you think, Okay, do you think I'm going

604
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: to about to get like deep here? Do you think

605
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: that there's something psychological there because of what you went

606
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 1: through that you're like, I'm not gonna like believe, not

607
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 1: really put myself, not even about the public thing, Like

608
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm not really gonna believe it until it's like.

609
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 5: There probably yeah. I mean, when you go through such

610
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 5: a huge public betrayal, it it triggers so many beds

611
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 5: in you and for me, I just like I need time.

612
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 5: I need time to like believe, I need time to trust.

613
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 5: I need time.

614
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: Right right because you didn't have that with this guy.

615
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: And now that's like probably your biggest thing is like, Okay,

616
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: time does tell all?

617
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 5: Time really tells all? Yeah, yeah, that's like so that's

618
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 5: something that I'm like living by now, whether it's friends, men,

619
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 5: like whatever, it is, like.

620
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 4: You know what else tells all? Living together.

621
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 5: Had such a research.

622
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 3: Sasha has had a lot of public relationship and divorce,

623
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 3: and so has he been able to just like be

624
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 3: I just feel like, regardless of what y'all status is,

625
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 3: I feel like you'll have this relationship where I feel

626
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 3: like him being your partner specifically healed a part.

627
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 4: Of you that we got to watch, of course, I felt.

628
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 3: I mean we've got to watch it happen every dance,

629
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: you know.

630
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was such a special time in

631
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 5: my life and I think it wouldn't have worked with

632
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 5: any other pro on the show like it was. The

633
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 5: pairing that was made was very much like by intervention

634
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 5: and like he's been through it, you know, with what

635
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 5: his stuff, and I've been through it, so it was

636
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 5: very healing for the both of us for sure.

637
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

638
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that season, I feel like Dancing with the Stars

639
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: hit like a little bit of a lull where, like

640
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: I agree, it.

641
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 4: Was like kind of like nobody was really talking about

642
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 4: it and then.

643
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: Watching for a little this season, it was like he

644
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: popped up, popped off off.

645
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it cooked, it cooked it it ate.

646
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 5: I don't have one.

647
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 3: We took them already there.

648
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 5: Sad.

649
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

650
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 5: Yeah. Social media. I think like everybody was on their

651
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 5: social media game this season, Olona, Me, Joey Chandler, who

652
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 5: else is Riley Steven? Like they were all so good

653
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 5: with their social media game, and I think because of

654
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 5: that it really propelled Dancing with the Stars.

655
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 4: Interesting.

656
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was a fun season.

657
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 5: Yeah.

658
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: Did you if you look back on this past year,

659
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: what was something that you look back and you're like,

660
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of myself for.

661
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 5: That, so so many moments. I will have to say

662
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 5: after the final rows, I'm really really proud of myself

663
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 5: for getting through that. I think if you had told

664
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 5: me that I would have had to have a conversation

665
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 5: with someone live on TV and get out all the

666
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 5: things that I needed to get out and like still

667
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 5: be stern and not like roll over, especially with someone

668
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 5: that I had previously loved. I don't think I could

669
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 5: have because usually I'm very I'm like a pushover, like

670
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 5: and the fact that I was able to stand my

671
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 5: ground on live TV. I'm very, very proud of myself.

672
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that would make me feel like I

673
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 3: can handle anything in a relationship. I'm like, yeah, this

674
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 3: is in the privacy of my own home, easy. Yeah.

675
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 5: Yes, I feel much more confident in speaking out about

676
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 5: like my boundaries now and whatnot.

677
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: Wow, that's amazing.

678
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, what a crazy year, crazy crazy.

679
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: Are you close with the girls for from your season?

680
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 3: I feel like y'all had a.

681
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 5: From the Battle of Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I have

682
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 5: a few good friends from their Taylor Star. Yeah. But

683
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 5: I mean I'm still really good friends with a lot

684
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,239
Speaker 5: of them, like Daisy and Kelsey. They live in LA

685
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 5: so that's really nice. We had a really great group

686
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 5: of girls. Yah, y'all had a really I was really sweet.

687
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 3: I also didn't realize you were a classically trained uh.

688
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, that was a lot of my life.

689
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 5: It's funny because when you're a kid, you're like, when

690
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 5: someone's telling you to do something, like my mom telling

691
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 5: me to practice piano and whatnot, I'm like, no, I

692
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 5: don't want to do that because I hate being told

693
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 5: what to do. But I'm so glad that she pushed

694
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 5: me through it. But now I'm also kind of like

695
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 5: I wish I had kept up with it because it's

696
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 5: been so long now since I've played that. It's not

697
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 5: I'm at the same level that I used to be at,

698
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 5: but it's a really cool party trick every.

699
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 4: Now and then, Yeah, are you going to keep dancing?

700
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 5: I would love to. I love too. So Amanda Flotes

701
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 5: does this like heels class every Monday night. She's been

702
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 5: texting me to go, So I'm gonna go. It's like

703
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:10,479
Speaker 5: sexy dancing dancing almost but no poll just like sexy

704
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 5: dancing without the polls. It's almost like maybe we're last dancing. No.

705
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 5: She just goes to them, posts videos of it and stuff,

706
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 5: and she just always looks so confident and cool, and

707
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 5: so I'm like, I want to do that too. So

708
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 5: I messaged her and she messaged me, So I'm gonna

709
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 5: go to the class with her. It's just a good

710
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 5: way to keep up with it, I think. So we'll see.

711
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 5: We'll see. But I loved ballroom dancing so much, but

712
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 5: I don't know if there's like a lot of adult

713
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:38,479
Speaker 5: ballroom classes around.

714
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,479
Speaker 1: So I actually just started looking into this because so

715
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: embarrassing are you doing?

716
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 5: Are you doing it?

717
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 4: No for my wedding.

718
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So my friend, nice friend of mine put it

719
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: in my head, like maybe you and Robbie should take

720
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: some dance classes before your wedding, and I was like,

721
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,719
Speaker 1: I'd never thought about it.

722
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 4: And then I was like, yeah, we're gonna like to high.

723
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: Schoolers at prom, just like swaying back and forth for

724
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 1: our first dance.

725
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 4: And I was like, I probably.

726
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 1: Should like look into some dance classes and like make

727
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 1: it somewhat of like a cool dance so we don't

728
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: look like we're like.

729
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,240
Speaker 5: How is that working? Did you find I haven't.

730
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: Found anything yet, so you're not wrong that it's not

731
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: easy to find.

732
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 5: It's not, yes exactly, it's like I don't know. They

733
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 5: don't have it for the adults, and I'm right, I

734
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 5: don't know. Sasha can help.

735
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 4: Does he do like freelance work?

736
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, it does. Chances that would be fun, that would

737
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 5: be really fun. Just come over, come over.

738
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 4: I should invite.

739
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,439
Speaker 1: Because our first song is a It's an Invisible String

740
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift.

741
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 3: Oh, I love it.

742
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, that is so cute.

743
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: But like if we don't have some cool moves, we're

744
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: literally just gonna look like two teenagers.

745
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 5: Sasha, we'll teach you and it'll be amazing and we'll

746
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 5: it'll just we'll just have a little barbecue and then

747
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 5: we'll like.

748
00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 3: It'll be dancing simple. Yeah yeah yeahs face done it before.

749
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 5: He's done a lot of first dances before this. And

750
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 5: this is great because then I'll be there too to

751
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 5: kind of help, because it's it's hard when like someone's

752
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 5: teaching you somebody else's moves kind of thing also teaching.

753
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: So this is great and Becca can come and we

754
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 1: can have drinks. Yes, this will be yeah, really came

755
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: full circle.

756
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 5: We'll teach you some yeah. Yeah.

757
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 2: And then I Hayley's a dancer, so she's press Yeah,

758
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 2: I'll be like to see what about this?

759
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 3: You ever seen this? So you went to the Taylor

760
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 3: Switch concert in Vancouver?

761
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 5: Yes? Yes?

762
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 3: What was her surprise songs?

763
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 4: Wasn't her last show you went to?

764
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 5: I went to the last show and I went to

765
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 5: the Friday show. She did a mix up of a

766
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 5: few songs memory, but she did a few. I was

767
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 5: really happy about long Live at the last one because

768
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 5: that's one of my favorite songs too. I thought she

769
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 5: was gonna do it during her speaking now portion, but

770
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 5: then she saved it for the mashup.

771
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 4: So I was we got a Long Lived too, didn't we?

772
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 2: She we had it in the set and then she

773
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 2: took it out because of torture Post's apartment.

774
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 5: Yes, but that was very fitting for her to end

775
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 5: it with Long Live. But I think she's going to

776
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 5: come back and do a show in La. Why do

777
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 5: you think that?

778
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 1: So I've heard this because there's like a break in

779
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: the football stadium.

780
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 5: I don't know about that. But she schedule, I don't

781
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 5: know about that. But she at the end of every

782
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,800
Speaker 5: city that she visits, she makes an Instagram post saying goodbye,

783
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 5: like thank you so much. She never did one for La.

784
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 5: She hates this and no, let's be honest. She has

785
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 5: a team that does that for her. So she definitely

786
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 5: didn't just oh forgot.

787
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 3: They didn't forget.

788
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 5: She's an astronaut.

789
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 4: So do you think it's because she filmed the LA one?

790
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 5: So?

791
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 4: Like, So, I don't know, what.

792
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 2: Is your Taylor song, your Taylor Swift song that you

793
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 2: resonate with the mist in your life right now right now?

794
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 5: Hmmm, that is a good question, Lavender Hayes. I can

795
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 5: listening to that song so much. I love. Oh shocking,

796
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 5: it's like spicy. Yeah, it's fun.

797
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 3: What was your favorite dance style that you learned?

798
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 5: Ooh, I really loved I'm trying to think of what,

799
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 5: Like tango was cool, Waltz was cool, fox trot was cool.

800
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 5: I really liked the inframe ones because I loved wall

801
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 5: ball was so fun. So one of those probably probably

802
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 5: the fox trot that was fun.

803
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 2: Which is the one where y'all slid on your knees

804
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 2: at each other, the Passago Wow, oh.

805
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 5: We we know when we slid into each other. The

806
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 5: Vienie Waltz.

807
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: Wow.

808
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's so many that the fans love that.

809
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 3: Okay, so this is my last question about your relationship. Okay,

810
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 3: or you're not whatever, whatever we call it. You post

811
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 3: a photo of you two, a collection of photos, and

812
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 3: you said the photos you grimlins have been one ding

813
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 3: or asking for.

814
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 5: I know what the people want. I've seen the comments.

815
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 5: I'me gonna sit here in lines. I haven't seen I've

816
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 5: seen what everybody wants. So I just gave him what

817
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 5: the people want.

818
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 3: But then people are like, oh my god, it's official,

819
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: and then you're just like, nope.

820
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 5: Is it? Is it not? We'll never know we'll never know.

821
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 5: I'll never know. My mom will never know.

822
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 3: Your mom doesn't know know.

823
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 5: Why? What is there to know?

824
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 3: Just if you're single or not?

825
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 5: I don't know.

826
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: Does your brother I got to meet your brother at

827
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: Unforgettable Gallup?

828
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 5: Yes you did. Yeah, he's great. I miss it.

829
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 4: Would you ever do the dating apps?

830
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 5: God? No? Really, God no, it's too weird having your

831
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 5: life out there and like not everyone's seeing the badge rappe.

832
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 5: But I still think it's too weird that I you

833
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 5: just you can never be sure about someone's intentions. I

834
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 5: think if I went on hint or something and then like.

835
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: But you can never be sure of anyone's intentions in

836
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 1: real life either. Yeah, what's the difference between that app?

837
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 5: No, you're you're right, You're actually right. I don't know.

838
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 5: It's just something about being on fine, yeah, may please.

839
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: I feel as though a dating app man might be

840
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: better than in real life man.

841
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 5: And plenty of people do, know, so many people do.

842
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 4: It's not even about that. It's more like I and again.

843
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 3: You are so anti dating apps before, Robbie.

844
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: That I'm trying to push her to not maybe be

845
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: so harsh on it, because you could be single right

846
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: now for all we know.

847
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 5: I think for me though, here's the thing is, I'm

848
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 5: very quick to judge somebody online at least, which is bad.

849
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 5: It's not good. But if I I fall in love

850
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 5: with people's personalities very easily once I get to know them.

851
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 5: And for me, I'm swiping left all day long until

852
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 5: I don't know, dreamy dreamy comes up. Then I get

853
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 5: one right swep. You know, but that's not realistic for me, Like,

854
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 5: I need more. I need personality, and you can't really

855
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 5: get personality through app, I think.

856
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,280
Speaker 4: So I got to take it to person real fast.

857
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, to like drinks and stuff. But I just yeah,

858
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 5: I don't know. I think I would be missing some

859
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 5: really good eggs. Yeah on the online.

860
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 3: Who's your like? Who's your celebrity crush? What's your type? Physically?

861
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 3: I know it's more about personality, but just if you

862
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: were just like, oh, oh.

863
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 5: I love Chris Evans. He's been my celebrity crush for.

864
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 3: The Eastern celebrity crush.

865
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 5: Really okay, so we'll tag team him together with Pleasure.

866
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 5: We'll both go see you.

867
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 4: That is a good one.

868
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 5: I love him. Oh my god.

869
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: Well, I have like a random question because I feel

870
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: like it's the holidays and everybody has a little bit

871
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,439
Speaker 1: of like time on their hands. What's the last show

872
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: that you binge that you were like obsessed with?

873
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 5: Tell me lies really good? Have you seen it?

874
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 4: That's the one with Grace ben Patten, right, I.

875
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 5: Don't know that.

876
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 3: That's the one that you keep telling me to watch.

877
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah, so season too. Yes, Okay,

878
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: I haven't finished Sae.

879
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 5: I haven't finished it either, but I love it. Okay,

880
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 5: it's okay, okay.

881
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 4: Just co announced for season three.

882
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 5: Really that just broke I remember I was on that

883
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 5: show for the longest time and all my friends were like,

884
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 5: what is it? I was like, you have to watch it,

885
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 5: you have to watch it.

886
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 4: The season one was crazy, so crazy?

887
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so good, so good.

888
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 5: You like me, You like toxic things.

889
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 3: If you're like me, not mad, not mad, not mad,

890
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 3: not mad.

891
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 5: I very me too, me too, But I like the

892
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 5: show is very traumatic and toxic and it's nice to watch.

893
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 5: Not to It's not your real life, yes anymore.

894
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 4: It used to be not anything interesting.

895
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're about eight months out from that situation.

896
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 5: Yes, No, I've like crazy enough. I have dated a

897
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 5: lot of crazy people like I don't all.

898
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 3: What is that? Is it the thrill? Like, do you

899
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: think there's a thrill in that?

900
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 5: I think I'm a very empathy empathetic person, and I

901
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 5: think I tracked a lot of narcissistic people. Is what

902
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 5: I've read online is what happens when you're very empathetic,

903
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 5: like the narcissism to.

904
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 2: Did you have when you you were do like in hindsight, now,

905
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 2: after everything that happened with the person that you chose

906
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 2: on the Bachelorette, did you look back and have moments

907
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 2: where you're like, oh, I noticed that and I ignored it?

908
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: Or were you was it like completely he completely fooled

909
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: you and you had no it was just like no

910
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 2: red flags.

911
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 5: No red flags. But kind of apparently I was wiping

912
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 5: away the red flags all season, so maybe I didn't

913
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 5: see the red flags.

914
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you have a blinders onto the red flags.

915
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 5: Yeah I did, But now now I I think I

916
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 5: can spot a red flag if it came at me glaringly.

917
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 3: No peripheral, just see me straight on.

918
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 5: You have to be out of its back.

919
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: Do you have plans for the New Year, for the

920
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 1: meeting like New Year's Eve?

921
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 5: Oh? Do you what are you guys doing.

922
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: Yes, I do have plans.

923
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 5: Oh what are you doing?

924
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 4: I will be in New York City?

925
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 5: Are you watching the ball drop? Hang out? Yeah?

926
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 4: That's cool my friends. There's just gonna like go out.

927
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 5: Oh, that'll be fun. I've never been to the city

928
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 5: for New Year's if I don't think.

929
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: But we were talking before we started rolling about just

930
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: New Year's even gentlemen, and I feel like it is

931
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,919
Speaker 1: such an interesting holiday because it's true. It's like there's

932
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 1: so much expectation around it, so much, and then you

933
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: really like, I don't want to do anything deep down.

934
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 5: Like my soul. I want to stay home.

935
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 4: You should because you want to like start the new

936
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 4: year off right.

937
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yes, I go through this dilemma. I feel like

938
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 5: every year. Every year. Yeah, I'm like, I want to

939
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 5: do it big. I want to dress up. No, no, no,

940
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 5: and then one I either get disappointed or two I

941
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 5: end up staying home. And I think every year I've

942
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 5: stayed home, it's been really great.

943
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: I love being at home. We're probably going to stay

944
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 2: home and make vision boards or something.

945
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 4: So you on many of those.

946
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very wholesome.

947
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, like have some good food, some good drinks, stay

948
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 5: in your pjs like thak of vision Board low key.

949
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 5: And also I hate like standing in line for a

950
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 5: bar or something like.

951
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 2: That's if I have to stand in line, don't and

952
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: buye me. That's how I feel.

953
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, I hate that.

954
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 3: I'm just like to go in and what yeah, land around. Yeah,

955
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 3: well that's a rise stand in line? Yeah me too, but.

956
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: Like standing in line to like be bumped around. Yeah no,

957
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 2: it's just why let me go home?

958
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I feel like that's a big thing with

959
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 5: New Yor's Eve is everyone's buying tickets to something, yeah,

960
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 5: and then it just gets crowded and you're waiting in lines,

961
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 5: and it's it's never as good as it seems.

962
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 3: It's it's never as good as Instagram makes it a lot.

963
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 5: Yes, I remember when you're in Boston. I was like,

964
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 5: it's gonna be the best new Ys ever. I made

965
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 5: all my friends buy tickets to this like really cool

966
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 5: like hotel, downtown party whatever. I thought it was gonna

967
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 5: be the best time in my life. The Instagram videos

968
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 5: seemed really fun. We get in there, it's the age

969
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 5: range is like sixty to eighty. We literally accidentally signed

970
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 5: up for like senior home like New Year's Eve event.

971
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 5: But I have to say it was really fun. I

972
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 5: didn't get a New Year's kiss, but it was the

973
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 5: best time of my life. The old people really know

974
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 5: how to do it up.

975
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 3: Yes, we had to.

976
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: We went to We drove to Tahoe for New Year's

977
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: EEP one year and did the same thing. It was

978
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: like the hotel we were checking and they're like, oh,

979
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: we're throwing a masquerade, Like do you guys want to

980
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: buy tickets? And we were like, sure, what else are

981
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 1: we gonna do, like stay in our hotel room, So

982
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: by tickets to this masquerade and it was like older

983
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: people and we had a blast. They gave us like

984
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: masquerade masks and like we didn't know a single person

985
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: there and had like the time.

986
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 5: Of our lives.

987
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 3: That's what you make it.

988
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 4: It is what you make it.

989
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 5: Do you do?

990
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 2: You find the couch you're sleeping on quite cozy? Are

991
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 2: you ready to be in a in like a bed

992
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 2: m in the New Year?

993
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 4: You sleep on his couch.

994
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 5: I love the couch, which is really great. It's really great.

995
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 5: It's green, it's one of my favorite colors. It's comfy

996
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 5: right next to the fires, it's never cold. We'll see

997
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 5: I don't know. Maybe we'll find a new couch, but

998
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 5: maybe we'll stay there. I don't know. I don't know.

999
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 5: How are you guys doing how?

1000
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 3: I'm like amazed by the just like the dodging questions

1001
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 3: left and right.

1002
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 5: It's really you're getting worse at them.

1003
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 3: I have to say, you're on the couch. She's couch

1004
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 3: hopping with a friend, couch surfing, couch surfing.

1005
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 4: But you're not going to many couches. Just one couch

1006
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 4: so far.

1007
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 5: Just one couch.

1008
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, so far the new year, new couch. Potentially there

1009
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 3: we go.

1010
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I guess you can't really get at lease

1011
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 4: till March.

1012
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,800
Speaker 5: Right. Well, I still have my apartment in Miami, but

1013
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 5: now I'm gonna have to upsize. Is that a word.

1014
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to get a new apartment because my

1015
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 5: pr is through the roof and I live in a

1016
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 5: one bedroom and I've been having my home friends like

1017
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 5: come to my apartment and pick up my packages, water

1018
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 5: the plants. I don't have plants, but they open my

1019
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 5: mail and they've been setting me photos the progress photos

1020
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 5: of my living room getting progressively smaller because of all

1021
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,959
Speaker 5: the packages in it, which is why I'm going home

1022
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 5: in January just to like sort out the package situation.

1023
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 5: But I'm gonna have to get a new apartment and

1024
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 5: have like a package room because it's getting crazy.

1025
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,240
Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy? How life?

1026
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: Like you make one decision and said yes to going

1027
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: on the show and now it's just.

1028
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 5: It's been crazy. It's really crazy.

1029
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 3: The butterflies.

1030
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 5: It's been the greatest ride of my life. But I'm

1031
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 5: such a pessimist because I'm like, Okay, when is the

1032
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 5: shoe gonna drop? When is my downfall? I know?

1033
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 4: But she can't think like that.

1034
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 5: No, I know.

1035
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: Very bad, it's very bad because like at the end

1036
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: of the day, even like I used to think this

1037
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: way too about my relationship, Like I was like, okay,

1038
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: just like everything's just going too well, like gonna drop.

1039
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: And I was talking to my therapist about it, and

1040
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: she was like, even when you're married and you have kids,

1041
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: the shoe, you know what I mean, Like the shoe

1042
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: can always drop and people think, oh, I just need

1043
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: to get I just need to get engaged, or I just

1044
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: need to get married and then I'll feel safe and

1045
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: then whatever.

1046
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 4: But it's like the shoe can always drop totally.

1047
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: So it's like you just have to get that mentality

1048
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: out of your head.

1049
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 5: Okay, So mine was.

1050
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 4: Always just like I just need to get engaged.

1051
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: I need to get engaged because then we're like official

1052
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: and like that's safe area.

1053
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 4: But then it's like it's not.

1054
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 5: But it's not because it's something could still happen.

1055
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 4: You never know.

1056
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 5: Yes, so to just be more present and just enjoy

1057
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 5: the time that you're having rather being anxious in the future.

1058
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 5: Very true.

1059
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: Here's my question. Would you be open to doing another

1060
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 3: reality show?

1061
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 5: It depends on what show it is, Special.

1062
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 3: Forces, maybe Traders.

1063
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 5: Maybe I haven't watched it, so I don't know. I've

1064
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 5: heard it. I've heard it's like Mafia, Yeah, which is fun.

1065
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 5: I've done that with my friends. I would have to

1066
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 5: watch it to know for sure. My type of show,

1067
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:05,959
Speaker 5: Survivor's not my Idealistically, like my my cool brain thinks

1068
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 5: that I could do that. I could not. I could

1069
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 5: never do that. I'm not slipping naked in the jungle

1070
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 5: like it's not happening. I love my curling iron I'm

1071
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 5: not that cool amazing race. Maybe that sounds really fun, yeah,

1072
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 5: but I really want to do like a cooking show

1073
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 5: like British Baking show. No, I'm not British Night and

1074
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 5: I do bake, but I'm not like as amazing, but

1075
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 5: like Chopped or something.

1076
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 4: You can check out Crime Scene Kitchen.

1077
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 5: What is that?

1078
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:31,240
Speaker 4: It's good?

1079
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 5: What is it?

1080
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: It's like okay, so it's on Fox. It's hosted by

1081
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: Jewel McHale. Okay, and basically they like make something in

1082
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: a kitchen and you have like they leave it clues

1083
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: as to what it is. Oh, you figure out what

1084
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: between the clues like what to bake, and then you

1085
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: all have like however long to bake the thing?

1086
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 4: That's fine, really fine, Oh I want to go.

1087
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: Some people get it really wrong and they end up

1088
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: making this like delicious, elaborate thing and it's just like wrong.

1089
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 5: They take nobody so that don't know how to cook.

1090
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 3: I don't think you're nobody, but they probably would love

1091
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 3: the fact that it only is it.

1092
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 4: They feel they feel talented.

1093
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 3: No, maybe they'll do a celebrity edition.

1094
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,280
Speaker 5: I know I'm talentless.

1095
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 3: It's not true actually at all.

1096
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 5: Well, I'm not an amazing bit like like I can bake,

1097
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 5: but I need like a recipe, like I'm not just

1098
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 5: like this is how much.

1099
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 1: Coke, Like if you tried, like Marlapan and like whatever,

1100
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: that is like a souple that it's amazing, it's impressive.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I am just so happy for you, and it's

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Speaker 2: so fun to get to talk to you. Like obviously

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Speaker 2: we've been trying to get you on the show for

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Speaker 2: a long time, but I'm so happy that we got

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Speaker 2: to have you in a season of joy and confidence

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Speaker 2: and happiness because I know it's been like such a

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Speaker 2: crazy year for you, and I think we both are

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Speaker 2: just so happy for you.

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Speaker 3: Whatever life comes, whatever, Thank you. No, I'm so happy

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Speaker 3: that we got to do this, and we can't wait

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Speaker 3: to get drinks in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: We are.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna teach Tanya how yeah to do a first dance. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: and and then we'll have drinks at the same butt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: That feels like the perfect the dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we love you, We wish you the best work,

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Speaker 3: and people follow.

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Speaker 5: You on all things Instagram, TikTok, snapchat, gentry in that's

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Speaker 5: all that simple and easy.

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Speaker 3: Snapchat's actually it's popping on.

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Speaker 4: I know it cooks there.

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Speaker 5: People are baking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, yes, the nothing new in it baked.

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Speaker 5: I just made it up.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you heard it here.

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Speaker 5: It works. Yeah, it's broiling.

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Speaker 3: Are you traveling for Christmas?

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Speaker 5: I am Boston tonight.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Is this your first time back home?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, pretty much, pretty much.

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Speaker 1: It's been a while, Boston, Miami, Vietnam, and then back

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Speaker 1: to Miami.

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Speaker 5: La, in LA. I'll be here in and out, in

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Speaker 5: and out, I know, for in and out.

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Speaker 4: Twenty five.

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Speaker 5: I'll see you in twenty twenty five. Bye.

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Speaker 4: You acome to be continued.

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Speaker 3: Oh