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Speaker 2: I love like that husband's logic where it's like, I

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Speaker 2: you clean the house, you make the food.

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Speaker 1: How's how am I supposed to put dishes away? With

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Speaker 3: The way my sausage can possibly fit in the dishwasher.

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Speaker 3: I've got a broom size handle between my legs. Misogyny shot,

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Speaker 3: it would never come back, but it's still.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Here we are, so me twenty six female and

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Speaker 1: for this story. Fuck you, Jake.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, change that a to one ozer because that's what

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Speaker 2: you are, A big fat joke.

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Speaker 1: God. Uh. Now we've been together for five years and

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Speaker 2: But yeah, come on, not recognized the misogyny like one

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Speaker 2: like Andrew t Ye. He's like the modern day Socrates.

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Speaker 1: Now we've both recently started trying for a baby. I

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Speaker 2: Trying for a baby with anyone that he should, any

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Speaker 1: And three weeks ago I got a positive test.

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Speaker 2: Back, let's go, it's spreids.

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Speaker 1: It's what this man Samuel. Now we were really really happy.

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Speaker 1: We told our families and now my mom and mother

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Speaker 2: All right, really quick question. Yes, were there ever baby

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Speaker 2: That's where that's where baby shower comes from, the sprinkling of.

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Speaker 1: The Oh, we found it. You're welcome. I was holding

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Speaker 1: out knowledge for three thousand years. Shit Doug. So two

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Speaker 1: They're at their home. So he told her go around

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Speaker 2: That she turned them all on? Is it her fault?

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Speaker 1: It's it's interesting that he's telling her that instead of just.

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Speaker 1: The quality is too shocking. Whoa, whoa. Now, he can

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Speaker 1: He's over here just flipping on lights all night, all

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get the night sleep sleep. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Now. I wasn't feeling very well, and I asked if

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Speaker 1: Where's my Where's my? Where's my? Nighttime? Pebe and jays.

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Speaker 2: But honestly, even with like within the realm of misogyny,

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Speaker 1: Now. I was a little hurt, but I didn't want

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Speaker 1: And then when I come back, Jake goes on this

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Speaker 2: Can't handle just a little work, yo, like the light

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Speaker 1: Literally, I don't nowhere from a light switch. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: Like because while she was going to turn off all

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Speaker 1: Bro he was. He was getting gold nuggets of woods.

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Speaker 2: He's getting He's like in the war room with all

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Speaker 1: Now, he wasn't yelling or anything. He was talking to

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Speaker 2: Shoe, make my macro right, no, right now, If I have.

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Speaker 2: We're done. I'm an alpha. You're a meat sack.

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Speaker 1: Now. I was shocked because I had never heard him

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Speaker 1: say anything like this. Never, okay, never, okay. The rant

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Speaker 1: this is big Andrew te energy over here. This man

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Speaker 1: If you get rant on the fly thirty minutes while

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Speaker 1: takes it takes skill. It's saying stupid shit even with context. Yo, dang.

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Speaker 1: A true king, a true king has emerged.

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, wear your crown. Well that's all right, my king,

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Speaker 1: Yes. Now, he was going on and on BEFO before

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Speaker 1: Is she working to for context? I don't work at

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Speaker 2: like even though it's like I feel like, it just.

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Speaker 1: It just feels it just doesn't feel right. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Good, it's like this what but I think what what

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Speaker 1: Now that she's with my child, now I can just

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Speaker 1: He ended by saying that it doesn't matter how I

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Speaker 1: And if he helped and babied me, I would never

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Speaker 2: And who.

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Speaker 1: Actually right actually asking her a baby? He's the one

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Speaker 2: Like literally, she's about to have a baby, but now

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Speaker 1: I wonder if we can flip the narrative, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: You can't pick up a brude because you're too you can't.

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Speaker 2: That really turned it into a whole ass baby.

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Speaker 1: It really is, though, And he left for the night

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Speaker 1: I'm going to my baby. Me me, I'm a big ola.

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Speaker 1: Do what I say. He hasn't called back yet, and

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't want to be a mom to

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Speaker 2: And I asked her to turn off a light switch

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, hey, maybe mind he said it, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I got bregnant with our child. Now I don't know

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Speaker 1: that's exactly what he said, and until I apologize, he

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Speaker 2: Tantrable alert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Really, I do not know how to feel. So

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Speaker 2: No, you're not the ahole, But holy shit, dude, you

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Speaker 4: are constantly, and I would be babying you, and you know,

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Speaker 4: being not you. I'm babying you and not helping you

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Speaker 4: become a real father by allowing you to just laze

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Speaker 4: about for eight hours every night.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: Think that is an excellent clap back. Man. She's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: get back to work. How dare you come into this house?

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Speaker 1: I mean, the actual answer is like divorce, divorce, But yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's one thing she could do to annoy him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, man. But I do not envy this relationship.

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Speaker 1: I at all do not