WEBVTT - Ep. 437: Spilled Tea & Ex-Flings (Ft. AlexxMedia)

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>the Black Effect podcast network. It's turning five, five years

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<v Speaker 1>of powerful voices, unforgettable moments, and a community that keeps growing.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the power of the platform. Now let's get

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<v Speaker 1>into it. When I tell you, I saw him, but

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<v Speaker 1>I had to lead like Cinderella leve Glass slipper type.

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<v Speaker 1>But I met him at this little party. I literally

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<v Speaker 1>hit up the person that I knew through the party,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I need that. So I didn't even get

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<v Speaker 1>his number, didn't get his Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>So now he a part of the ross that show

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<v Speaker 2>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so, Alex, I need you to create a short

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<v Speaker 1>dirty talk monologue.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, be nasty.

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<v Speaker 3>When it come on. Well, I need you to get

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<v Speaker 3>into your acting bag and action.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you should say decision decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounded like you was talking to this person. You

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<v Speaker 2>definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast. Want

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<v Speaker 2>to say together, decisions decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, welcome to another episode decisions decisions on your

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<v Speaker 1>girl medb. Sorry I just felt like doing that, because listen,

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<v Speaker 1>this tip has been hot and see me for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been great, you do not have that guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, can I be just can I be inappropriate

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<v Speaker 3>real quick?

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<v Speaker 2>Your girl got that effect on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like her, Like if we were beefy and

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't so respectable to you, I would probably try it, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>She couldn't be further from I'm so mad she's not

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want to like a little too straight, like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not gonna lie like you know how we like we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about like like I don't like you, Alex, but

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<v Speaker 1>I would join you.

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<v Speaker 3>For her, like I like her a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And then whenever she's because we've hung out it for

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<v Speaker 1>gola e last night, all my friends loved her.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, oh my god, I really like her. She's

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<v Speaker 3>so like, she's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to fuck you got how to

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<v Speaker 1>fu you got so like to pull that because goddamn.

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<v Speaker 2>She's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>She's just such a good person.

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<v Speaker 4>Who wanted the same thing about your boyfriend. Why do

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<v Speaker 4>you deal with they?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, let me tell you crazy bitches good pussy.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Is your girl crazyment? Please has a moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Mean bitch is good pussy too. She's what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>nice bitches, A good pussy. I fucked some nice bitches

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<v Speaker 1>and they had good pussy. Maybe they were nice to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what she said when I signed the

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<v Speaker 2>Least the other day? I was signing the Least and

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<v Speaker 2>he goes, I won't say her name. Uh yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 2>was she here? I was like no, He's like, well

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<v Speaker 2>she was. I would have had you.

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<v Speaker 3>Been very long time. She doesn't funk around. You can't

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<v Speaker 3>do anything wrong. I mean wow. I was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she's from Spain. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, then, oh no, you should have.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have seen her yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, the next time you leave stuff around

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<v Speaker 1>the studio, can you just let me know? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>would have thrown away the fucking wake of the goddamn ship.

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<v Speaker 1>And then someone said that it was for it was

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<v Speaker 1>for decision decisions.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, shit, because I'd be coming in the

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<v Speaker 3>fucking studio. Do you know how people just leave their

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<v Speaker 3>ship everywhere?

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, I just have to go in there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I was throwing everything out, and I

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<v Speaker 1>could throw away y'all ship that y'all left in there, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Goddamn it, people leave shit in there all the goddamn time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like Oh sorry, didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, why do you think I would feel bad

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<v Speaker 2>when we would go out and I knew he had

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<v Speaker 2>to go home, but oh, my name is Weezy and

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<v Speaker 2>we're here with Alex. Can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe it. God damn, I'm not sure how

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<v Speaker 3>the fuck you're here again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be here, I'll you'll be around, you'd be around.

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<v Speaker 1>And those are shorts, not a scirt. Really, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that those were everybody knows.

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<v Speaker 2>I do a whole horrible forty five minutes and it

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<v Speaker 2>gets returned if it ain't rent the runway, it's rented

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<v Speaker 2>and returned. That is hilarious. I've been actually very worried

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<v Speaker 2>that one day I'll get so famous I'll have a

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<v Speaker 2>Joe Budden Kit moment, because is that there was a

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<v Speaker 2>moment y'all where he took a photo to return and

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<v Speaker 2>return something. Oh and people dry do for that, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be scared. I'll walk in the store. Are you

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<v Speaker 3>but on some real shit though?

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<v Speaker 2>When it comes to like and I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 2>she and her fashion over returns count because it's fucked

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<v Speaker 2>up capitalism and also they probably have child slaves.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not returning.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not returning she and I just give it to

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<v Speaker 3>my friends if it doesn't fit.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not returning shit. No, I just when we record,

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<v Speaker 2>bulk record, I'll just order ten things and then I

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<v Speaker 2>keep it too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I ain't gonna hold you the way, y'all just

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<v Speaker 1>about to get these repeated outfits. All of my closets

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<v Speaker 1>are full, and I'm just like, no, y'all just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>see me and what I You don't need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be like recycling clothes wearing shit. Anyway, let's start talking

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<v Speaker 2>about the niggas that she was about to for this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that is crazy. We're marri Wait are we deep

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<v Speaker 1>enough to the first off? I'm dating and I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, thanks very much, Okay, I guess okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so catch up.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll catch up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out here in La having a grand all time jeweled.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know Mandy had a new boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh that is okay, So I don't date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I stepped out. Okay, So yesterday was my day off.

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<v Speaker 1>Well out here, you know, people had to be with

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<v Speaker 1>their fans. You have everyone. I had a Sunday fun day. Okay, God,

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<v Speaker 1>damn it. So anyways, nothing I wanted more than to

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<v Speaker 1>just be at the pool. So normally when I come

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<v Speaker 1>to La, it's between recording. I have breakfast, lunch, fucking

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<v Speaker 1>dinner schedules. Everyone and everything is so far in fucking La,

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<v Speaker 1>everything is deep, everything is thirty minutes away. Ubers are

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars minimum every single fuck New York. Well I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in New York no more, bitch, My ubers are

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<v Speaker 1>eight dollars. I live in at Lanster, now, okay, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>life is cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I come out here and I'm like, fuck, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Fuck this time, I'm gonna get the pool.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get a cabana, and everyone that wants to

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<v Speaker 1>fucking see me can just come and meet me at

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<v Speaker 1>the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>So what do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Invite everybody, friends and all the niggas I'm talking to.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got a little, one little nigga that i'd

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<v Speaker 1>be seeing out here. I call him a little Wyan

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<v Speaker 1>because he under thirty, over twenty four.

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<v Speaker 3>Now Wyan's are under thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>He's under thirty. Yeah, yeah, that's what that's what Awayian is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I really thought Ryan was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when they be looking like teenager age, like twenty one

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<v Speaker 2>twenty two.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was wyan.

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<v Speaker 2>I think just under thirty is one. Hold on, wait

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<v Speaker 2>well wait wait, we'll talk about it. We'll talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's debate wyan. I'm saying I would.

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<v Speaker 2>Love to do a pool I gotta remind myself, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Wayan is under thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>So AnyWho, So I do the pool day and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, whoever pulls up? Like I knew, I

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<v Speaker 1>had my little spin limit, I got the cabana.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the boss.

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<v Speaker 1>So because I'm the boss and I just know how

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<v Speaker 1>bosses move. I invited all the niggas. I'm fucking one

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<v Speaker 1>of fuck talking to just met on ryo, who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>And so, anyway, did you meet the person before they

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<v Speaker 2>showed up? What do you mean the person you met

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<v Speaker 2>online on RYA? No, that he was pulling up to

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<v Speaker 2>meet for the first time. Yeah, because I got busy

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<v Speaker 2>the day before, and so.

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<v Speaker 1>What I got busy today before, so pull up on

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<v Speaker 1>me at the pool on with my friends?

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<v Speaker 3>Pull up?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't like, you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>So then you don't want to date.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to date. None of these niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm outside, so anyways, I tell him to pull up,

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<v Speaker 1>but also my Wayian texting me too, I'm at the pool,

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<v Speaker 1>pull up.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know they were gonna both really pull up.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now a nigga that's a prospect and a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga that is great dick, and they ain't going nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>are there at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think I handled it very well.

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<v Speaker 1>One who stayed in the pool, the other in the campana,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just went back and forth and entertained them both,

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<v Speaker 1>made sure they had drinks and it was great. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Wyan left and I stayed with the guy. The

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<v Speaker 1>guy from Riot ended up like joining us for dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to a comedy club.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 3>So let me tell you we saw literally hold off

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<v Speaker 3>mind you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, I don't really be outside with

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<v Speaker 1>my niggas like that. It's like, just just come home,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't really be outside. And then we had

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<v Speaker 1>a good dinner. He was really nice to my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>like he seemed nice. He paid for it, like we

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<v Speaker 1>went out, so it was me he paid for he

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<v Speaker 1>paid for Elliott Jacob Elliott was with a friend, say.

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<v Speaker 4>The whole table he paid.

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<v Speaker 2>He paid for Nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, but Jacob and paid for Elliott and

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<v Speaker 1>Ellie ed. Elliott had another friend with them, so paid

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole table.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, a grown ass man. He paid for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>He paid and you know that made my pussy though.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I was like, okay, would paid for everybody?

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<v Speaker 2>Get whatever?

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<v Speaker 3>Like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, So then we go to the

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<v Speaker 1>So then we go we go to the comedy club.

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<v Speaker 1>Jacob has like he set it up for us, so

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<v Speaker 1>he paid for everyone's drinking the comedy club. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, Okay, I really like this guy. And now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I might see him again in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna be back in LA again.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, he don't live here, so we'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>meet somewhere else New York something like that. But he

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<v Speaker 1>was really nice and he's older, so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>look at me, like broad spectrum.

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<v Speaker 3>I even had to ask him.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, are you a millennial question? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>feel like autism.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally, I mean, well, I got my under thirty and

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<v Speaker 1>then I got my above forty. I do realize after

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<v Speaker 1>Captain Hook being in the club, I want none of

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<v Speaker 1>none of the niggas in the thirty All y'all could stay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want nobody in the thirty over. I want

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<v Speaker 1>under thirty over forty.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go. And right now my roster is really pinning

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<v Speaker 3>out great towards the end of the summer. I'm loving it.

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<v Speaker 4>The under thirty isn't in the club, Coop, He's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not really in the club.

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<v Speaker 2>He's artsy, so okay, maybe that he does.

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<v Speaker 3>The under thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>He does like industry shit, so when he's out, it's working.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like I met him during.

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<v Speaker 1>During a weekend, but he had a whole art installation

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, when I tell you, I saw him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had to lead like Cinderella leff a glass

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<v Speaker 1>slipper type shit, like I had to go see another nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>But I met him at this little party so much.

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<v Speaker 1>So I liked him so much. Let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>I hit up Ivy.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Ivy, who was the art nigga? But I

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<v Speaker 1>literally hit up the person I knew through the party.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I need that nigga, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>leave for another nigga, so I didn't even get his number,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get his Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>I just was like, ooh, I like him, and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so now he a part of the roster.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I listen for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it's it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah no, So anyways, I do the late show

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<v Speaker 1>for the comedy club. These motherfuckers. Of course, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>this is how it happens. We show up to go in,

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<v Speaker 1>these niggas are all coming out. Me and this nigga

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<v Speaker 1>hold a hand.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very much giving family day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, we were like, oh, I was like, let's do early.

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<v Speaker 2>We got horrible late pring mom, We're on this double day.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really family ish. Then Jacob comes out the

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<v Speaker 3>car first.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like a bad bitch shit he is shout out

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<v Speaker 2>to Jacob. Then I see Stacy come out as one

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<v Speaker 2>of Mandy's friends. I'm like, oh, so Mandy must be

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<v Speaker 2>coming out of the car. But then a man gets.

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<v Speaker 3>Out first and holds his hand out for this woman

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<v Speaker 3>to go. I said, he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was very very much, very charming, very oh helps me

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<v Speaker 1>out like he was great.

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<v Speaker 2>He was great.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I will say I'm not getting that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say too, why you probably don't think he's

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<v Speaker 1>my type, y'all would be very proud of me, probably right.

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<v Speaker 2>At six foot. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>That was why I didn't think, yeah, he's short, mm hmm, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's I don't think he's six foot so maybe five eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's right there. He is not five nine five

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<v Speaker 1>fuck out of here, thank you's.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was a little taller.

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<v Speaker 1>Than you, y' y'all are y'all were like right there,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all were right there, bro, don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't find on my nigga. Naw well, one of my niggas.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't do five ten, honey, it's right there.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say five eleven in a quarter, but I

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<v Speaker 2>will say though getting out of the height ship, get

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<v Speaker 2>you niggas.

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<v Speaker 3>That pay the bills, bruh. I was just like, hold on,

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<v Speaker 3>hold on, hold on. Indeed he is divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you to get you a friend like Stacy,

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<v Speaker 1>because Saty was getting all the questions that bitch I

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<v Speaker 1>would not have gotten. We were literally at the at

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and here goes Stacy grilling this nigga. Mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>cryst will do it too. Crystal will look at to

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<v Speaker 1>watch a shoot. My friends know how to tell a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga got money before I do. I just like a

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<v Speaker 1>good looking nigga, and on Riot he was shirtless in

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I liked him.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're at the dinner hat damn, and here goes

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<v Speaker 1>Here goes Stacy, Oh so you're divorced?

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<v Speaker 3>How long ago? When did it happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Da da da da.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she goes, so, what was like, what was the

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<v Speaker 1>finalized like thing he started going into? Well, like it

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<v Speaker 1>took over a year because her lawyer came in. She

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<v Speaker 1>got this attorney, and I thought it was gonna be good.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted twenty thousand dollars a month in alimony, and

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<v Speaker 1>this bitch is just hitting me under the goddamn table like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh if he could afford twenty thousand a month, this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga got money. Then literally like right, yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>settled for like eight grand a month, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, nigga. She was like keep this one. So literally,

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<v Speaker 1>my whole girl is getting all the tea on this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga and racking in her brain like oh yeah he

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<v Speaker 1>can afford that.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's no kids. Oh yeah, this motherfucker got buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like thanks, because I would have never

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<v Speaker 1>asked any of those fucking questions, wouldn't No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a fuck about a nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Alimony X why no not element? But you don't ask nigga?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like your assy?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't give a fuck about how a person's life.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes we're just chilling and we're listen.

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<v Speaker 1>We here for a good time, not a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel me? So, she was asking, like to me,

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<v Speaker 1>those are relationship questions. I don't think I really care

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<v Speaker 1>about what your last situation was, if I if, I if,

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<v Speaker 1>if my mind, we're not going anywhere and this was

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<v Speaker 1>the first date, bitch, I'm not asking about no goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>x FI, I have.

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<v Speaker 3>A WEE listened and we judge. That's mine.

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<v Speaker 1>We listen and we judged at the gate, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you guys haven't heard this segment, I felt.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you was judging me. I was, so I said,

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<v Speaker 2>let me let me, let me let her do the judge.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my damn, but you ask okay, So basically we

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<v Speaker 2>listened to we judges the segment where we normally tell

0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.600
<v Speaker 2>you gossip about our friends and we listen and we judge.

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<v Speaker 3>However, this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Is mine, As you guys know, I always judge me

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<v Speaker 2>and my partner a little.

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<v Speaker 4>A little out there out there. Yeah, out there is

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<v Speaker 4>a good way.

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<v Speaker 2>To put it out there, free spirited.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So we.

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<v Speaker 3>Were fucking this girl out here in LA.

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<v Speaker 1>She was really dope. Now it was really dope. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, okay, oh no, nothing really happened. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I was gonna talk about. Nothing really happened.

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<v Speaker 2>If you guys are listeners of the show, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was getting a little depressy and just feeling a

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<v Speaker 2>little insecure about my body. Birth control was going crazy whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a phase, So I just kind of stopped texting.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't really think I ghosted. I just didn't reply to

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<v Speaker 2>the last text. But the last text wasn't like where

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<v Speaker 2>are you? Blah blah blah. So I'm on the app.

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<v Speaker 2>We see her on the app and I'm like, oh shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been thinking about her blah blah blah blah blah whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>So I hit him up. I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>we matched for her again. What do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, hit her? I wrote, so wait, just so

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<v Speaker 1>I could be sure clear. This is a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>y'all fucked before. This is the favorite girl that I've

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<v Speaker 1>been talking about Okay, you saw you haven't talked in

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<v Speaker 1>a while, but you saw her on the dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you liked her again to reignore she liked

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<v Speaker 1>me again to reignite it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I wrote, not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>We've both been thinking about you, but I'm like, fuck,

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<v Speaker 2>we haven't spoken so long.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just hit you up out of the blue? Lol?

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<v Speaker 3>And here you are.

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<v Speaker 2>She then replies, well, this is my chance to ask

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<v Speaker 2>why I was ghosted in the first place. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>look great in the new picks. Jealous about whoever gets y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I rode back and said, hey, honestly, it's just not

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<v Speaker 2>very sexy story, but I was just feeling a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit depressing and stressed. Depress and stressy. Not the sexiest convo,

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<v Speaker 2>but glad to know, you know, She wrote and said, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I had convinced myself I wouldn't see y'all again because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like being ghosted. I appreciate you telling me

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<v Speaker 2>better now that you're reaching out, and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be clear I'm not like a sex worker or some

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<v Speaker 2>party girl that she was happy to get a call

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<v Speaker 2>whenever you.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like I'm real.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so I prefer honesty if you're not feeling like

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<v Speaker 2>seeing me for whatever reason, which I know that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>That said again, I would like to see y'all again.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad now, She said, that's heag Nott.

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<v Speaker 3>You not treating women with care. Damn we see.

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<v Speaker 2>All I did was just not you ghosting. You can'te ghosting.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, what the fuck? This is what I'm gonna say,

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<v Speaker 3>are we going to?

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<v Speaker 2>What is go? Because?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? What is ghosting?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good question because actually I didn't even read look

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<v Speaker 1>for my last text for her, but I will.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh. I said, have you been? I hope you had

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<v Speaker 3>a great new year?

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<v Speaker 2>We had no years.

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<v Speaker 3>This was the last time I spoke to you? Or

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<v Speaker 3>what have you been up to?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, Oh my god, I didn't know you were

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<v Speaker 2>opening a gym. Sorry you guys got sick during Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>breaklah blah blah blah blah. I've been creating some art

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<v Speaker 2>that's been consuming my time.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the last So that to me is ghosting.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell, look, we were so you said, what is ghosting

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<v Speaker 1>for me if there's an intimate relationship with somebody? And

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<v Speaker 1>clearly y'all she was intimate with you and your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Ghosting looks like you not hitting me for eight months

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<v Speaker 1>and then now only reigniting because we see each other

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<v Speaker 1>on an app. To me, if I fucked a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>and he don't hit me for eight months, I would

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<v Speaker 1>feel ghosted.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, can I just say she didn't write me

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<v Speaker 2>again either, The conversation just stopped.

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<v Speaker 4>But she was the last message.

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<v Speaker 2>But it wasn't like she asked me for like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know even to see her say I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>you were in a gym, Like, okay, a lot was

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<v Speaker 2>going on. Is it horrible to write someone if you

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<v Speaker 2>know they're crazy busy to me like have you been?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like another thing I saw recently on a meme or

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a meme one of tho little Instagram reels

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, whoa, this is me? It was

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<v Speaker 2>a girl who said shout out to low maintenance friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of my best friends got three texts to me.

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<v Speaker 2>If I call them, they like, ow, you didn't text

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<v Speaker 2>me back. Now, granted I understand her and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that relationship, but I am of that brain sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>and it's no love lost. I genuinely don't mean anything

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<v Speaker 2>by it. Maybe I really am not good for someone

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<v Speaker 2>that needs a little more. So then I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 2>my man about her about how bad I.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel and he hasn't hit her either, and.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, no, like this is a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>the times why I don't really have sex or do

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<v Speaker 2>anything without you, Like, women need a lot of communication

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<v Speaker 2>that sometimes I can't give, so when it's both of

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<v Speaker 2>us to just be balancing out. But like, nah, He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>girls have been mad at me because I didn't write

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<v Speaker 2>back for four hours or whatever. It's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>eight months, can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Come here four hours to me though, I guess that's

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<v Speaker 1>why even the unicorn aspect didn't work for me when

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying, like even to come in as a

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<v Speaker 1>third because I needed communication from We were in a

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<v Speaker 1>group chat, but I would have liked communication from either

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<v Speaker 1>or constantly if we were going to even date or

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<v Speaker 1>be a thing. And I said that was my problem too.

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<v Speaker 1>Once I couldn't be the girlfriend. And maybe that's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing with her, maybe the fact that she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a girlfriend, but the fact that she said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also not a secretory or just someone that you

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<v Speaker 1>can call to have fun. She wanted a little something

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<v Speaker 1>more whatever it was. Maybe it wasn't discussed. Maybe not

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<v Speaker 1>a girl. But I'm I know I'm not the type

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<v Speaker 1>right now either that just wants to be called to

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<v Speaker 1>have fun for a couple.

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<v Speaker 2>And that only wasn't a relationship when she was sick.

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<v Speaker 2>We do like send her stuff, like.

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<v Speaker 3>The dynamic there was.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's a ghosting element and all of that stopped,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? But but it stopped,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the ghost But it's totally up to me

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<v Speaker 1>the sentence, like at what.

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<v Speaker 4>Point can we not take I mean, it's more on

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<v Speaker 4>your responsibility because you in the relationship. I agree, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie to you. I've been thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>her this whole time. I probably brought her up once

0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:11.080
<v Speaker 2>you bring up the thing, bitch.

0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:13.600
<v Speaker 1>You was just I forgot where we was and you

0:20:13.720 --> 0:20:16.080
<v Speaker 1>was literally like, oh my god, now I get it.

0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:18.280
<v Speaker 1>I fucked this thick bitch. You literally just brought her up.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, you literally just brought her up. But all

0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:21.600
<v Speaker 1>she was talking about sucking the think bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, we were having by the way, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if you're listening, and we were having a sexual conversation.

0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:29.960
<v Speaker 2>That's why I brought it up, but no, what I said,

0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, this think bitch like, because now I

0:20:31.840 --> 0:20:34.240
<v Speaker 2>feel bad. Now this really made me feel bad. You

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<v Speaker 2>should And then she said something about like trying not

0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:38.520
<v Speaker 2>to be too harsh, like she had wrote.

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<v Speaker 3>Me back again.

0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:43.400
<v Speaker 1>But he's like she's being though direct enough to be like, listen,

0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.680
<v Speaker 1>because this now is up to you as someone who's

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship who likes having fun. To me, there

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be a conversation with what her expectations are,

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<v Speaker 1>but also what how you plan to show up with

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<v Speaker 1>her and so otherwise don't suck.

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<v Speaker 2>Her literally now my new thing is so we come

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<v Speaker 2>back in a few weeks. And I was like, of

0:21:03.560 --> 0:21:05.119
<v Speaker 2>course I want to see her Labor Day weekend. But

0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:08.720
<v Speaker 2>now I'm like, fuck to have someone write me that

0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:12.240
<v Speaker 2>and I know I've been on that, and what do

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<v Speaker 2>I do now?

0:21:13.400 --> 0:21:14.080
<v Speaker 3>You ask her?

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<v Speaker 1>So, what are your expectations of me and my partner?

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<v Speaker 1>And how how can I make you feel more comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with enjoying us because we miss you and we enjoy

0:21:22.280 --> 0:21:24.280
<v Speaker 1>you too, but we don't want to make it weird

0:21:24.359 --> 0:21:27.200
<v Speaker 1>or make you feel like you're a toss away, because

0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:29.760
<v Speaker 1>that's what she's even implying. She was like, bro, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not this. I enjoyed you would like to do it again,

0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:35.640
<v Speaker 1>but not with however you've This is what makes casual

0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:36.520
<v Speaker 1>sex so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I have so many questions. You go, so, how does

0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.320
<v Speaker 4>that work? Because if you're adding a third, I thought

0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:44.280
<v Speaker 4>that is just hey, just hit them up. Whenever you

0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:44.960
<v Speaker 4>want to hook.

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<v Speaker 1>Up as a third, as a bit, you'd a third.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no, that is not how that shit works.

0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:53.560
<v Speaker 1>And it makes you feel like, Bro, I'm here pleasing

0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:56.639
<v Speaker 1>two people. I'm here bringing spice to your relationship to

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<v Speaker 1>feel kind of discarded or not thought of or when

0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you think of me, now I got to come and.

0:22:02.119 --> 0:22:02.959
<v Speaker 2>Spice y'all up.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as as just people who have casual sex too,

0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:08.600
<v Speaker 1>there's still a we want to feel desired, We want

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<v Speaker 1>to feel like we were texting weekly.

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<v Speaker 3>I also don't live in LA but I get it.

0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:15.119
<v Speaker 3>See weekly sending her stuff, and then eight months.

0:22:14.840 --> 0:22:15.680
<v Speaker 2>You ain't do ship.

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<v Speaker 4>You ghost. That's a ghost ghost texting somebody every week,

0:22:19.359 --> 0:22:22.880
<v Speaker 4>and then all of a sudden, eight.

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:24.680
<v Speaker 3>Months you just go a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's she's honestly, I wasn't even in a place

0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:29.760
<v Speaker 2>to have sex with anybody. Else I'm and like, I'm

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:31.560
<v Speaker 2>glad that she understood it because we've all been there

0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:32.040
<v Speaker 2>where we're.

0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:34.399
<v Speaker 1>Just like so fine whenever whenever anyone goes, when they

0:22:34.400 --> 0:22:36.239
<v Speaker 1>get back, they're like, it's going through a lot, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm not lying even if you're not lying, but I'm.

0:22:42.080 --> 0:22:44.119
<v Speaker 2>Saying I think the ghosting part is like, but you

0:22:44.200 --> 0:22:45.120
<v Speaker 2>goesn't going through ship?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you could just be like, hey, I'm going through

0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:49.680
<v Speaker 4>something right now. I just need a little time to myself.

0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:51.760
<v Speaker 2>You ain't even say so. To be honest, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even know really needed to be said. I guess, and

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:56.440
<v Speaker 2>that's why she feels ghosts. And here's the other thing too,

0:22:56.520 --> 0:23:00.280
<v Speaker 2>that's how ghosted we are all. Honestly, I don't know

0:23:00.359 --> 0:23:02.560
<v Speaker 2>if I was ready to be as vulnerable about like

0:23:03.160 --> 0:23:06.280
<v Speaker 2>not wanting to have sex with anybody else than one person.

0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:08.159
<v Speaker 2>Now I gotta be naked in front of them. I

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:11.879
<v Speaker 2>was hating my body. I'm also feeling away like it

0:23:11.960 --> 0:23:14.800
<v Speaker 2>was just a little too much. But what I will

0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:18.520
<v Speaker 2>say is the casual sex element element to a third

0:23:19.040 --> 0:23:21.719
<v Speaker 2>is a very interesting one because not gonna hold you,

0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:26.280
<v Speaker 2>she's pretty gay all the way gay. Literally was like

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.639
<v Speaker 2>I'll maybe have sex with one guy every few years now,

0:23:30.160 --> 0:23:33.600
<v Speaker 2>which means, you know, lesbians need a lot of fucking attention. No,

0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:36.359
<v Speaker 2>But my point was there was no element of weighing

0:23:36.480 --> 0:23:39.640
<v Speaker 2>three people together, Like there was no like, she don't

0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:40.480
<v Speaker 2>want to be a girlfriend.

0:23:40.880 --> 0:23:43.040
<v Speaker 3>It's totally obvious you don't like niggas like that.

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 2>Actually, after set we were joking there were a few

0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:48.919
<v Speaker 2>times there he was fucking and she was like, okay,

0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:52.600
<v Speaker 2>like just over the day really like I mean you

0:23:52.600 --> 0:23:53.080
<v Speaker 2>could be a.

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<v Speaker 3>Third and not like intimately, not like because me I'm

0:23:57.119 --> 0:23:59.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm gay, but like not gayay, like I don't want

0:23:59.880 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 3>to eight, like I don't want to be with a woman,

0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 3>but I'll be with a couple.

0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:05.400
<v Speaker 1>So like for me, that makes sense, Like I an

0:24:05.440 --> 0:24:07.800
<v Speaker 1>even like that, you know what I mean. Like but also,

0:24:08.920 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 1>oh wait, what was your other question?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, actually you answered it already because I just don't

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 4>know that dynamics.

0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:16.200
<v Speaker 2>But but that's it too, and it's so it's brought

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:19.360
<v Speaker 2>up this new thing in conversation of how to make

0:24:19.440 --> 0:24:23.679
<v Speaker 2>thirds feel respected, wanted and also really felt like I

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:27.000
<v Speaker 2>was doing that. But I don't do well when people

0:24:27.000 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 2>don't tell me exactly what they need from me. Also

0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:33.560
<v Speaker 2>this text she sent better, But for me, I just don't.

0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:36.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Like honestly, if someone's angry with me,

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:39.240
<v Speaker 2>if they don't let me know, I probably won't really know,

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:41.600
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying, Like, you got to tell me,

0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:43.840
<v Speaker 2>and I will absolutely do everything to fix it.

0:24:43.880 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 3>I want things to always be in a good place.

0:24:45.320 --> 0:24:48.159
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's why I'm like, am I about to

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 2>make su it worse? And now am I gonna feel obligated? Like?

0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:51.359
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you as a if you as a

0:24:54.280 --> 0:24:59.200
<v Speaker 1>person in a relationship want thirds you don't know your

0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:02.120
<v Speaker 1>capacity to make someone feel how they want to be

0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:05.000
<v Speaker 1>felt coming in as a third, I think it needs

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 1>to be just the sex then, Like it can't be

0:25:08.720 --> 0:25:10.920
<v Speaker 1>the dating, it can't be the texting, Like you might

0:25:10.960 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>just need to have the flings and go because if

0:25:13.880 --> 0:25:15.679
<v Speaker 1>someone is coming in as a third for a couple

0:25:15.920 --> 0:25:18.119
<v Speaker 1>in the dynamic that you set up in the in

0:25:18.160 --> 0:25:19.840
<v Speaker 1>the beginning, that works.

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:23.320
<v Speaker 4>But you know what I mean, you might just decided that, oh,

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:25.959
<v Speaker 4>this is more of like checking in with one another

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 4>than just oh wyd Yeah, like when does that get discussed?

0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:31.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't even know?

0:25:31.160 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 2>Dog Like She also dictated the way that we would

0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:37.480
<v Speaker 2>be texting. She was texting me more frequently, so I

0:25:37.560 --> 0:25:39.919
<v Speaker 2>of course texted back. Okay, So I go off of

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 2>how you acting. If she wouldn't have done that, I

0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:44.040
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't have done that, okay, But I want to make

0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:44.360
<v Speaker 2>here ffct.

0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:45.360
<v Speaker 3>I also don't know, like.

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:49.880
<v Speaker 4>You just got to discuss those things like, yeah, it.

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:49.840
<v Speaker 2>Has it has to be talked about.

0:25:49.920 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's why, like me, when I dated the couple

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:55.000
<v Speaker 1>last year, it didn't last long because as we kept communicating,

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:57.280
<v Speaker 1>it was very obvious that me and the girl weren't

0:25:57.320 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 1>on the same page as me and the guy. And

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:00.679
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, this doesn't work for me, So

0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 1>there has to be a level, way more of a

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:06.800
<v Speaker 1>communication with the third as to what y'all are expecting.

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:08.479
<v Speaker 2>That's fair because I think the one thing we were

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:10.479
<v Speaker 2>all on the same page of is what everybody's looking for,

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:12.520
<v Speaker 2>and nobody was looking for a relationship as a trio

0:26:13.119 --> 0:26:15.640
<v Speaker 2>last year. Last year.

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:16.160
<v Speaker 3>This is now.

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:18.360
<v Speaker 1>You talked to her in eight months, so she may

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:20.199
<v Speaker 1>be in a place. And it's why she said, I'm

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:20.880
<v Speaker 1>not a sex worker.

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:21.680
<v Speaker 3>Don't hate me when you do it.

0:26:21.920 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>She said, I'm not a sex worker. I was like,

0:26:23.680 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 1>but that's where so a year ago, maybe they might

0:26:26.880 --> 0:26:27.200
<v Speaker 1>be doing.

0:26:28.920 --> 0:26:31.240
<v Speaker 2>But she wants to see you if y'all.

0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 3>Can figure out what this dynamic looks like.

0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 1>So she may want something because I don't like no

0:26:35.560 --> 0:26:38.160
<v Speaker 1>pull up shit either, I hate don't pull don't.

0:26:38.200 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm in your city and you barely hear so, and

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 3>I don't do that.

0:26:41.240 --> 0:26:44.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm not a nigga. What had two niggas pull up.

0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 3>Again? I'm not.

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I tell niggas I'm in their city, but I'm

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:53.159
<v Speaker 1>not a I'm in your city, bitch. Like a nigga

0:26:53.160 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 1>could tell me they in my city. So but I

0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>absolutely in your city. Okay, let's do it an new segments.

0:26:59.040 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 3>She lost that one way.

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:01.120
<v Speaker 4>I know.

0:27:02.440 --> 0:27:04.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm in your city, bitch, Like if a nigga hits

0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:06.720
<v Speaker 1>me because in my in my city and we and

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 1>we don't talk. I don't give a fuck that you're

0:27:08.240 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 1>in my city, right, but I treat people how I

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be treated.

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:15.200
<v Speaker 4>And it's fine as the nigga, I'm in.

0:27:15.200 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 3>Your city, but don't. I'm in your city.

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.200
<v Speaker 2>Me, you get it on me?

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:21.160
<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:23.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm a hypocrite.

0:27:23.760 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh, let's be very clear.

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:29.399
<v Speaker 4>Some ancient because I love you ghost bitches.

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 1>In my twenties, when I would go to the clerk

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:37.879
<v Speaker 1>and the nigga had the table, I knew I was

0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>at the table where possibly other bitches he fucked because

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:41.639
<v Speaker 1>he's a boss.

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:44.199
<v Speaker 3>That's why I had the compatity yesterday and it was exciting.

0:27:44.200 --> 0:27:46.119
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna do it more often, just like

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:48.960
<v Speaker 1>invite my niggas to pull up and everybody gotta be cool.

0:27:49.040 --> 0:27:50.200
<v Speaker 3>That's not.

0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm surprised. I was thinking the story was gonna end

0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 4>that way.

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I would I.

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Would have loved for that, but the wayan hit a

0:27:56.600 --> 0:27:58.760
<v Speaker 1>little too late last night and I was like, I

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 1>was not, but I would have loved. I would have

0:28:00.840 --> 0:28:05.040
<v Speaker 1>loved for everyone to you know, let's all love each other.

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 1>But no, it didn't happen that way. But I think

0:28:07.560 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I do.

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 2>Mark if Frank, you gotta really like get them niggas

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.400
<v Speaker 2>to start smoking. You gotta have like a pastime. It's

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 2>got to be like a card game a week. Yeah,

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 2>after the pool. After the pool, we did all play no,

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:26.120
<v Speaker 2>And I think.

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 4>That's like you gotta do it like challengers.

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:29.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what do you mean?

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:30.880
<v Speaker 3>Like whoever gets a draw for next.

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 4>Has to kiss me the movie, the tennis movie Challengers.

0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 4>Oh you aut I got. I ain't gonna in the crackers.

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I am not going to tell two niggas now, y'all

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta kiss?

0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 4>Oh no, no, no, no no, how do how do you

0:28:44.400 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 4>do that? How do you guys ever had three?

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I ain't been able to make two niggas kiss. I

0:28:49.120 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>ain't that much of a boss. I know my nigga's

0:28:51.160 --> 0:28:53.760
<v Speaker 1>able to get me to kiss bitches, but no, like

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty five, like let's be their fathers.

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 3>Let let's be very clear.

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:00.120
<v Speaker 1>Last year, my little, my little main boss nigga, I

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>want to move like him. Literally, we was in Chicago

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.280
<v Speaker 1>and there was a uh there was like we I

0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>pulled up on him at a party. So we getting lit,

0:29:09.000 --> 0:29:11.960
<v Speaker 1>we getting drunk. I we know we're ending the night together.

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<v Speaker 3>Nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>He come up to me and he's like, you see

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 1>her over there? And I was like, yeah, tell her

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>she's coming home with us tonight. I was like wait

0:29:20.200 --> 0:29:22.040
<v Speaker 1>what He's like, yeah, you gotta set up. We already

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>fucked before, but just tell her. So Literally, my main nigga,

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 1>the one that I worked about plucked for, oh him,

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>which boss? So period, so literally, so I knew they

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>had already fucked so literally, I was like, oh my god,

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 1>Like he's like, you know.

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:41.440
<v Speaker 2>How to do it?

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 3>And sure not went right up to went right up

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 3>to her and was like, Hey, we know the same guy.

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 3>How you doing. Let's just he wants to know if

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna come home with us tonight.

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>So easy, I'm just because she was driving. She drove

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel, then got a little weird on the

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>way because she was.

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Like, oh my god, you're texting him.

0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>We only talk on Snapchat and I just don't understand,

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 1>like why I don't have this number yet and I'm

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 1>calling him, like, nigga, we do hewstairs, I got a number.

0:30:08.840 --> 0:30:11.360
<v Speaker 2>Nigga, that's my nickel. And she like was a little

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 2>in her.

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Feelings what they should only talk on Snapchat?

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, our first two years, I only talked to

0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:19.040
<v Speaker 1>him on Snapchat and now we're five years there.

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be honest with niggas are famous.

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 1>What Oh that's oh you should see me? Oh bitch,

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I signal in Snapchat. These niggas now they don't get

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:27.440
<v Speaker 1>my number.

0:30:28.560 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 4>I am.

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 3>I am the nigga I.

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 2>Always wanted to be.

0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 3>An age shit.

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:36.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh signal in snapchat and you don't get nuts

0:30:36.920 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 1>if you want to see me bent over book a flight.

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't even send nottes, but I like to watch

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 1>them jack off.

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 2>So they do it all on sapchat. I feel like

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 2>like I wouldn't do what No, no, no, no, it's

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 2>not fair.

0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 3>I am not normal.

0:30:51.040 --> 0:30:54.080
<v Speaker 1>Everyone listening is like this bitch is nuts, and I'm

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 1>in this mood right now where it feels great to

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 1>be an eight shiit nigga, Like I get why they're

0:30:58.400 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 1>ain't shit for so long.

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:02.080
<v Speaker 3>Now it's fun because the people going.

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 4>But you peg dude, so you can convince you they

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:09.120
<v Speaker 4>got a Rubbert dick, but you can't convince a dude

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 4>to kiss another dude.

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 3>Actually that's a good one.

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>So but the guys that I peg literally aren't atricted

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 1>to men and they're not gay.

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I'm not you know what I mean?

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 3>No, like we talk about it.

0:31:19.680 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 4>Oh, I love listen.

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 2>I'll be asking all the questions like so you ever

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:22.720
<v Speaker 2>stoked the dick?

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 1>They don't like men, So that's where like the conversation

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>around pegging is literally like these niggas not gay, but

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I would love to have another guy join us.

0:31:33.120 --> 0:31:34.840
<v Speaker 4>Isn't it the same way you do it? Three? So

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 4>it's like you're not into women, but you're joy.

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:38.920
<v Speaker 2>And I like women.

0:31:38.960 --> 0:31:42.479
<v Speaker 1>I think women are beautiful. Then, But the men, the

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 1>men that I've pegged literally probably is like I'm not

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 1>getting hard around another nigga, Like they don't like men, but.

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:48.680
<v Speaker 2>They're taking it.

0:31:48.800 --> 0:31:51.080
<v Speaker 4>They digging. Ask that shit don't make sense.

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 3>Some of their medium. They're not big all the time.

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 3>It's whatever they can take.

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 4>I say the size.

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying whatever they can. It's whatever they can.

0:31:57.880 --> 0:32:00.040
<v Speaker 2>I just want you to photographer is gonna dip a

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.520
<v Speaker 2>team minutes ago? But you saying might as well stay now?

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, is this not the best episode that we recorded

0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:13.280
<v Speaker 1>all week? He all right, all right, once we have,

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>let's get into another one of our segments.

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Let's get into our truth or Dare segment. And basically, I'm.

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Acting like you all are the guests, because bitch, I've

0:32:21.560 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 1>literally said too much this episode and I'm done talking.

0:32:24.320 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Dad shit, You're gonna do the deer, and that means

0:32:26.920 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do the truth. So let's start with the

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>truth because this is a good one and maybe I'll

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:35.960
<v Speaker 1>change it to your current relationship. What is the biggest

0:32:36.040 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 1>lie that you've told in your current relationship past?

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:42.000
<v Speaker 3>You have to you want to swap.

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh see, I did you do the deer?

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so now you gotta do the deer, Alex.

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 1>What is the biggest lie you have told in your

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:50.560
<v Speaker 1>current relationship?

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:56.959
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he's gonna know. I think you'll know. I

0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 2>haven't done both talks yet, because I've been talking about

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:01.959
<v Speaker 2>doing talks, but I haven't done bothtox. And it's honestly

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 2>not something I'm terrified of, right I me either. I

0:33:04.840 --> 0:33:06.200
<v Speaker 2>love it, like I'm not scared.

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 3>Look that's my angry face. Oh it don't move.

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:13.040
<v Speaker 2>But then sometimes I be hearing shit where like botox,

0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:14.800
<v Speaker 2>like they make you think it's preventive, but like I'm

0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 2>just not there yet.

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh I am. Let him tell you something.

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 2>So once I really started to like him, I remember

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:25.800
<v Speaker 2>he started bringing up girls because you know, men think botox.

0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:27.800
<v Speaker 2>You know, when they think a filler, they just all

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 2>call her botox y.

0:33:29.360 --> 0:33:29.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:33:29.960 --> 0:33:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I used to think that the only thing that they

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 1>do know they don't know really the difference with the face.

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 3>But them bitches know what's a filler in the lip.

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 2>They no, no know when men here, when men see

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 2>the pillow, like, they're like, oh, she's both talks though,

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 2>they'll just say that right okay, So Mamia starts talking

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 2>about it like that, right mind you. I was talking

0:33:47.320 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 2>about it.

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we only like our maybe fifth or six days.

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:52.880
<v Speaker 3>We were already fucking. And he was like, I like

0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:58.360
<v Speaker 3>natural women like you. And I was like, ight, so

0:33:59.000 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 3>now we're two years in.

0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 2>Now we're getting to this point of bit's about to

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 2>be thirty five natural a woman.

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 1>He didn't know your tists perfect too.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:08.960
<v Speaker 3>They're old.

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 1>They're all old, he said, they're all she said, So

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm natural because it's all.

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 4>I didn't like that.

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 3>That's a good point, grandfather, he said, it's fine now, so.

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:28.479
<v Speaker 2>Good to lie. I'm like, look, you know, I'm about

0:34:28.480 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 2>to be doing brand deals now. They're gonna pay me

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 2>to get this botox, babe, I'm about to get a

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:35.839
<v Speaker 2>big ass check.

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:37.319
<v Speaker 3>He's like how much?

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.800
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, what's the number of this Nigga gonna like,

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:43.400
<v Speaker 2>what's the number that's gonna be like house down payment,

0:34:43.680 --> 0:34:44.359
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying.

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:47.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, but you're really paying for it? But you

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:48.560
<v Speaker 1>told him it was gonna be a brand deal.

0:34:48.640 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm not getting it yet.

0:34:49.680 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm just working it up. And I did have someone

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 2>write me about a fucking consultation. She's like, oh, you

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:56.480
<v Speaker 2>do a consultation. I can post it to that. Like

0:34:57.320 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 2>the seed is already, I'm just planting it now. And

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.279
<v Speaker 2>so oh, what I'm gonna say is, maybe it's a

0:35:02.320 --> 0:35:04.719
<v Speaker 2>fifty thousand dollars brand deal, but maybe we got paid

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:08.839
<v Speaker 2>fifty grand from I don't know, squarespace. I'm just going

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.239
<v Speaker 2>to connect the ad money with the botox.

0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:15.360
<v Speaker 1>The fact that you're just gonna assume because there's a

0:35:15.400 --> 0:35:18.200
<v Speaker 1>price tag on it, it's gonna changes my honey.

0:35:18.239 --> 0:35:19.720
<v Speaker 3>If we're Mandy.

0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:22.879
<v Speaker 2>For example, we went to Brooks House yesterday naked Beauty Brooke,

0:35:22.960 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, but now me and him both like, damn,

0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 2>we need to raise our budget because the houses were

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 2>looking at don't look like this. What if I got

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:35.399
<v Speaker 2>a little bit and we can get a bigger house now, bitch,

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 2>he about to buy a new property and flip it

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 2>so we can get a bigger house.

0:35:38.880 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 3>So he's doing different investments.

0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:44.279
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I need to do both tops if I think

0:35:44.280 --> 0:35:46.440
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna work if my partner said he doesn't really

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 1>watch the project. If my partners maybe I gotta get

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 1>fat for.

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Money, I don't. I don't. I don't want that.

0:35:54.840 --> 0:35:56.680
<v Speaker 3>So like, if he's saying he don't like it, I

0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:58.399
<v Speaker 3>don't know like how.

0:35:58.360 --> 0:36:02.319
<v Speaker 1>Much, just because no, you can't see if he has

0:36:02.360 --> 0:36:05.240
<v Speaker 1>his idea of what botox is gonna do to your face,

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 1>he just doesn't get it.

0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:07.719
<v Speaker 2>So I'm trying to figure out. And I feel like

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 2>he see the seeds planted. Now that we're in La,

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 2>I just slightly ring on boatoks at different tables. Girls like, yeah,

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.320
<v Speaker 2>that's stopping here. You looking at me like you crazy?

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:20.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh, he's gonna know when your face just doesn't move person,

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.960
<v Speaker 3>no botox. I feel like it's different though. I'm telling

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:25.440
<v Speaker 3>you I got it.

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:28.759
<v Speaker 4>Oh bitch, you think we don't know that face ain't moving.

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 2>Now if I say don't know this face and got

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 2>the square jaw, he don't know that, you change your

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:35.880
<v Speaker 2>whole I'm not doing it.

0:36:35.960 --> 0:36:38.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying a little bit of the lift. Now. Listen,

0:36:38.960 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 3>this ain't a lie, lie, it's a truth. Lie. I'm

0:36:42.120 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 3>not doing this with you, Okay, okay, So Dare, let's

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 3>get to.

0:36:45.280 --> 0:36:48.319
<v Speaker 4>You, Alex, and that lies bad because that's like a premeditation,

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 4>that's a press that is that's not like my back

0:36:51.840 --> 0:36:53.359
<v Speaker 4>against all this.

0:36:53.680 --> 0:36:55.279
<v Speaker 3>I want people to see that you premeditate.

0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 4>Lie.

0:36:55.719 --> 0:36:56.799
<v Speaker 3>I didn't do it yet.

0:36:56.960 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm just think I would soon where we were at

0:36:58.760 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 2>with it.

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 1>So you can still go to jail for premeditated murder,

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>like if they know you have to because.

0:37:03.360 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 3>He's gonna know you were going someone. He's just going down.

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 3>This is.

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:13.040
<v Speaker 1>This is a crime that you're committing, all right, So Alex,

0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:19.040
<v Speaker 1>dare I need you to create a short dirty talk

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:23.040
<v Speaker 1>monologue like to a listener of the show I wish

0:37:23.040 --> 0:37:26.319
<v Speaker 1>I had, yes, Oh yes you you You didn't want

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:27.319
<v Speaker 1>to tell us your biggest lie.

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:28.120
<v Speaker 3>You told your woman.

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:30.520
<v Speaker 4>But that's gonna hit me broken up with No.

0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 3>It's not.

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:34.080
<v Speaker 1>It's it's an imaginary way, a sex, a sexy monologue.

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 3>I need you.

0:37:34.880 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 2>It's there. She'll be somebody to sit.

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.919
<v Speaker 3>In a puddle while they're at work, right now, make

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:43.359
<v Speaker 3>that pus do her for when you come home.

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.520
<v Speaker 2>It feels weird, okay, being asky when it come on?

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:51.640
<v Speaker 3>Well, I need you to get into your acting bag,

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:54.840
<v Speaker 3>okay and action.

0:37:57.400 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this is a comfortable Uh, babe, I

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 4>can't wait to taste you when you get home.

0:38:05.320 --> 0:38:06.480
<v Speaker 3>Think you gotta keep going.

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I need a monologue that was a sentence monologue is

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:10.479
<v Speaker 1>at least three to five cents.

0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:13.359
<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, is too much. You don't see yet.

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:17.799
<v Speaker 3>Come on, close your eyes, close your eyes.

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:18.279
<v Speaker 4>That's it.

0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Close your eyes and imagine.

0:38:19.520 --> 0:38:23.000
<v Speaker 4>She she she wet off that no she is. I

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 4>did it all right? Yeah I would.

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:31.280
<v Speaker 3>I would literally, I would literally make you fucking drink

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:32.399
<v Speaker 3>two shots for that.

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:33.440
<v Speaker 2>If we hadn't God damn liquor.

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:34.680
<v Speaker 4>I take three.

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:41.960
<v Speaker 3>I have a.

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:45.799
<v Speaker 1>Reactionary and this one is interesting because we have a

0:38:45.800 --> 0:38:47.239
<v Speaker 1>man on here and I would love to know your

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:47.759
<v Speaker 1>thoughts on this.

0:38:47.960 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 3>And this comes from one of your favorite people on

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 3>the internet.

0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:53.920
<v Speaker 2>K No, that's my favorite person. Here goes your favorite

0:38:54.800 --> 0:38:55.760
<v Speaker 2>the great.

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:58.319
<v Speaker 5>A lot of women come on here, or just they

0:38:58.320 --> 0:38:59.040
<v Speaker 5>don't come on here.

0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 3>But I just want I wish men were more honest.

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<v Speaker 5>I just want a man that would tell me the truth.

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:07.359
<v Speaker 3>And it's like, bitch.

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:08.440
<v Speaker 2>You can't handle the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>Because when this nigga tells you that he wants to

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 5>fuck more than you, we want to have other bitches.

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.400
<v Speaker 5>He wants to fuck other bitches because he gets tired

0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:17.959
<v Speaker 5>of your pussy from time to time.

0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:19.680
<v Speaker 3>That doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

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<v Speaker 5>Your motherfucking asks is not gonna want to fuck with

0:39:21.520 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 5>that nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>If he told you that shit off rip, you would not.

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:24.799
<v Speaker 2>Fuck with him.

0:39:24.920 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 5>So bitches, be sitting up here talking about I just

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 5>want a man that's gonna tell me the truth.

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:28.839
<v Speaker 3>Know the fuck you now?

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 5>You rather sit there for three years, get cheated on,

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:34.120
<v Speaker 5>be crying talking about I did not see this coming,

0:39:34.520 --> 0:39:37.799
<v Speaker 5>and repeat the cycle over and over and over. So

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:41.760
<v Speaker 5>as women, we have to start being honest with ourselves.

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:43.480
<v Speaker 5>Fuck a man telling you the truth. You need to

0:39:43.480 --> 0:39:44.320
<v Speaker 5>be honest with yourself.

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:45.800
<v Speaker 3>You need to tell yourself the truth.

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:48.920
<v Speaker 5>Why do I keep going for these niggas that I

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 5>know are going to cheat on me eventually?

0:39:51.120 --> 0:39:52.839
<v Speaker 3>But if a motherfucker was to tell me the truth,

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<v Speaker 3>I would have.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, immediate thought love that.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I literally didn't want y'all to see because I hate

0:40:03.000 --> 0:40:03.720
<v Speaker 1>that that happened.

0:40:04.560 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 4>Guy following so many pols stuff no, and.

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.040
<v Speaker 2>They followed me back. I love it.

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:12.799
<v Speaker 3>My favorite couple right now followed me back, And I'm

0:40:12.840 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 3>like the one that be about the bisexual couple. Oh

0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 3>love them, dad, I already knew that you had to

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:18.160
<v Speaker 3>be talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my young girl Asian. Yes, the Stag couple. Thanks

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:26.839
<v Speaker 1>for the follow I love you supporting. I literally support y'all.

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I subscribe to their only fans. Would love y'all to

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 1>come on decisions decisions And if anyone is listening, who

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:34.600
<v Speaker 1>just knows who the Stag couple?

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:34.839
<v Speaker 4>Is?

0:40:35.560 --> 0:40:37.520
<v Speaker 3>You a freak asshole? Okay?

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:40.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh I am oh, yes, speak of your guys on

0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 2>that love love Tazzas Angels. We're Florida girls.

0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 3>That's Cat from Taza's Angel.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually think Kat is only speaking two women

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 1>if she could speak to men. Do you know how

0:40:53.120 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 1>many things that we think about that we don't say?

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:56.000
<v Speaker 3>What do you mean by that?

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:58.440
<v Speaker 2>First of all, let's just say a niggas getting tired, yo,

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:02.360
<v Speaker 2>pussy you probably already in him, like not stroking, like

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 2>how he used to tied, of hearing his nigga far

0:41:04.800 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 2>tied and him being like, there's so many shits we

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 2>don't say about men that turn us off that they

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:12.120
<v Speaker 2>couldn't handle either. Can you imagine a blow to a

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:15.440
<v Speaker 2>man's ego if you actually told them how less attractive

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 2>they've become.

0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 4>God damn you just.

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:22.719
<v Speaker 1>Like we're gonna talk about how but that niggasored with

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the medium ugly niggas.

0:41:24.120 --> 0:41:26.040
<v Speaker 2>All my niggas still look good. Girl, That's not true

0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:27.839
<v Speaker 2>all the time. The more than somebody, I don't care

0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 2>the finest niggas, the more that you're sitting around a

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:33.640
<v Speaker 2>nigga they start doing things have become unattractive to you.

0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:36.719
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of men just seem to feel like

0:41:36.880 --> 0:41:39.360
<v Speaker 2>because they're men, they could do certain things like like

0:41:39.960 --> 0:41:43.480
<v Speaker 2>bart shooting with the door open. You're just watching bad

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:46.959
<v Speaker 2>hygiene habits like having a remind niggas to do certain

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:49.480
<v Speaker 2>things honestly, like anyone I know that's.

0:41:49.320 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 3>In a relationship.

0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:52.960
<v Speaker 2>This comedian said last night basically having a wife is

0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 2>like a mom that you fuck. You stop thinking for yourself. Okay,

0:41:57.760 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 2>it is so true. She's like you stop thinking for yourself.

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:01.560
<v Speaker 2>It's like baby, when the last time I was thinking,

0:42:01.840 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 2>that's shit real for real.

0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:05.520
<v Speaker 3>That was such a good joke because it's true.

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:08.800
<v Speaker 1>And my boyfriend now, so you're saying though overall people

0:42:08.840 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 1>can't handle.

0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:13.759
<v Speaker 2>It, No, I think it's okay. Specifically romantic relationships. Right,

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:17.320
<v Speaker 2>maybe at work we can handle the truth about critiques feedback,

0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 2>and some people don't even like that bright like even

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:23.000
<v Speaker 2>think about some comments. Maybe they're critiquing our interviewing stales.

0:42:23.040 --> 0:42:25.319
<v Speaker 2>Some are some are helpful, some are not. But at

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, people don't know how to do

0:42:26.640 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 2>things and not be mean. Now, when it comes to

0:42:28.920 --> 0:42:32.399
<v Speaker 2>romantic shit, you're gonna take everything mean because it's gonna

0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:35.800
<v Speaker 2>be like, ooh.

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.839
<v Speaker 1>Would you would you take it as a mean thing,

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.360
<v Speaker 1>especially in the relationship dynamic that you have.

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 3>Now if your man was like, I'm bored with your

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:45.120
<v Speaker 3>pussy and see bored with you?

0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Better way to say that, though, Like, and that's the thing, Like,

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:50.279
<v Speaker 1>there's a way to say things that, even in a

0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:53.560
<v Speaker 1>nice way, it's you damned if you do, damned if

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:55.239
<v Speaker 1>you don't. I don't think a man's gonna say I'm

0:42:55.239 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 1>bored of your pussy. I need to go get other pussy.

0:42:57.680 --> 0:42:59.719
<v Speaker 1>But he could be like, yo, I'd really like to

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:01.160
<v Speaker 1>have fun with someone else.

0:43:01.040 --> 0:43:03.560
<v Speaker 4>Tonight, Like I think, I think we want to know

0:43:03.600 --> 0:43:05.960
<v Speaker 4>the truth, but we need to brace ourselves for it.

0:43:06.040 --> 0:43:07.920
<v Speaker 4>So whenever you're gonna have one of those convos like

0:43:08.040 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 4>a right, we need to talk and then it's like

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:11.799
<v Speaker 4>we got to both parties, got to brace your own

0:43:11.840 --> 0:43:15.279
<v Speaker 4>egos and your vulnerability or what's about to come. I

0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:17.279
<v Speaker 4>don't just want to be on some jim carry liar

0:43:17.400 --> 0:43:19.240
<v Speaker 4>liar shit and you just say whatever the fuck.

0:43:19.080 --> 0:43:21.359
<v Speaker 3>Is on your I do agree, I act.

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I do agree with her to the point of women

0:43:24.640 --> 0:43:28.360
<v Speaker 1>would rather and this is gonna be a little toxic

0:43:28.400 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 1>to say. I do believe women would rather literally get

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:34.920
<v Speaker 1>cheated on and stay through a cheater than be with

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:37.320
<v Speaker 1>a man who's open about wanting to fuck other women,

0:43:37.480 --> 0:43:38.400
<v Speaker 1>which is why we.

0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:40.200
<v Speaker 3>Have Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I don't

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:40.919
<v Speaker 3>I think. I think.

0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I think women women would rather go into someone monogamous

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:49.280
<v Speaker 1>quote unquote who's a fucking cheater and stay through him cheating,

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 1>then be with a nigga who identifies himself as a

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>polynigga so you you.

0:43:55.400 --> 0:43:57.080
<v Speaker 4>Don't want to hear what's going on up here all

0:43:57.120 --> 0:43:57.439
<v Speaker 4>the times.

0:43:58.719 --> 0:44:00.879
<v Speaker 1>And for me, that's where when we talk about these

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:03.960
<v Speaker 1>non traditional relationships, it's why I'm like, oh, most niggas

0:44:04.000 --> 0:44:06.960
<v Speaker 1>is liars, but they're lying even in the dating phase.

0:44:07.160 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 1>Because I do agree with her, most women don't want

0:44:09.520 --> 0:44:11.479
<v Speaker 1>to know that they about to fall for a whole

0:44:11.480 --> 0:44:14.760
<v Speaker 1>ass nigga that likes the multiple bitches because a woman

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:16.280
<v Speaker 1>in her ego doesn want to believe.

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:16.480
<v Speaker 2>Maybe.

0:44:16.480 --> 0:44:18.359
<v Speaker 3>Plus he's the best. He's not gonna want anybody else,

0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 3>and I'm so great. Bitches lie to themselves not the best.

0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:25.560
<v Speaker 2>That's the boredom of swissy. Like I don't get bored

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:26.920
<v Speaker 2>of my dusic, but sometimes I'm like.

0:44:26.880 --> 0:44:28.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh, you want us to dig, Maybe you want of

0:44:28.520 --> 0:44:32.400
<v Speaker 3>a little smaller dig at do something else.

0:44:32.719 --> 0:44:36.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh that happens. We sucked at the museum yesterday. That

0:44:36.320 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 1>was crazy if anyone's ever been, if we ever have

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:42.360
<v Speaker 1>solo episodes, because weez, he's locked up and keep the

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 1>show going, because that is flying.

0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:47.080
<v Speaker 3>You were out here doing a lot of crimes. It

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:49.959
<v Speaker 3>was an architectural museum. It wasn't really a house.

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:52.759
<v Speaker 4>By the time.

0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 3>Well now I'm scared to tell you guys.

0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 4>Would it was want to head.

0:44:58.320 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 3>The mock Center.

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:01.920
<v Speaker 2>But basically it was great. So he took me to

0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:04.160
<v Speaker 2>his place. Do you like to doing architecture chores? So

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:06.719
<v Speaker 2>we're going through and it's so serene and quiet, and

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:09.520
<v Speaker 2>then I opened one of the doors and I was like, oh,

0:45:10.080 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 2>first thing I noticed was like this is ASoP.

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 3>Did y'all did y'all look and see if there was

0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:16.719
<v Speaker 3>any cameras? Yeah, there was nothing. I checked. You know

0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:17.799
<v Speaker 3>they can hide cameras now.

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean so maybe then I was fucking and then

0:45:19.680 --> 0:45:24.799
<v Speaker 2>in the hidden bathroom camera so I could sue, but anyway, and.

0:45:25.080 --> 0:45:27.680
<v Speaker 3>You could see because you were fucking in public. Maybe

0:45:27.680 --> 0:45:28.600
<v Speaker 3>I did, Maybe I didn't.

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:32.200
<v Speaker 4>And then what also, like what started it? It's like, oh,

0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:34.440
<v Speaker 4>look at the arches and it's like she.

0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:35.800
<v Speaker 3>Gets horny going through the Starbucks.

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:39.600
<v Speaker 2>I no, okay, for one, what started it?

0:45:39.600 --> 0:45:41.799
<v Speaker 4>It was an empty room, seventeen year old boy going

0:45:41.800 --> 0:45:42.640
<v Speaker 4>through pubic.

0:45:43.920 --> 0:45:44.360
<v Speaker 3>Crazy.

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:45.120
<v Speaker 2>You can't just.

0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:47.360
<v Speaker 3>Wait till he's out home to fun. No, it was

0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:48.200
<v Speaker 3>the opportunity.

0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Like it was a Sunday, It was almost closing, nobody

0:45:50.920 --> 0:45:54.080
<v Speaker 2>was around. So wooden house is this Japanese style, like

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:54.960
<v Speaker 2>the low ceilings.

0:45:54.960 --> 0:45:57.279
<v Speaker 3>It was very like ooh, and it just back to

0:45:57.320 --> 0:45:58.680
<v Speaker 3>what I walked in there.

0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:00.920
<v Speaker 1>You have the hormones of it. Seventeen year olds, they

0:46:00.960 --> 0:46:03.040
<v Speaker 1>can't fuck at home, so you gotta fuck when the

0:46:03.040 --> 0:46:04.280
<v Speaker 1>opportunity presents itself.

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:46:06.000 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Literally, I mean it's a comedist clu. I've had a

0:46:10.080 --> 0:46:13.440
<v Speaker 2>double fucking handicap bathroom with yeah, family restrooms. That's me.

0:46:14.160 --> 0:46:16.279
<v Speaker 2>And you know what's funny. He was on the way home, right,

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I can't believe we fucked it in

0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:21.319
<v Speaker 2>the museum. He's like, yo, let me make a point.

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:24.719
<v Speaker 2>Fuckinging bathrooms is disgusting, right, He's like, unless it's like

0:46:25.120 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm at a club and it's bad, bitch, it's like

0:46:27.560 --> 0:46:29.640
<v Speaker 2>this is your chance, or you're never gonna fuck me again.

0:46:29.719 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 2>He's like, then you're like, all right, I gotta suffer

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:33.279
<v Speaker 2>through this nasty shit. He's like, well, that was a

0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 2>really nice house. Well because I was very clean, Like

0:46:36.360 --> 0:46:38.240
<v Speaker 2>that was a moment. He's like, you can't fuck somebody

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:40.440
<v Speaker 2>you went with. It's a random bathroom. It's like, just

0:46:40.480 --> 0:46:42.640
<v Speaker 2>go home. But that bathroom felt sexy.

0:46:43.239 --> 0:46:46.440
<v Speaker 3>I took a phut of it. Okay, all right, it

0:46:46.520 --> 0:46:47.040
<v Speaker 3>was good.

0:46:47.719 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 4>Judge it. I'm I'm judging, like, I.

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:52.919
<v Speaker 1>Mean, I sucked it at a club bar bathroom before,

0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:55.680
<v Speaker 1>but not that we die Yeah that no, that No,

0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 1>that's normal.

0:46:57.000 --> 0:47:01.759
<v Speaker 3>Let's go bathroom. Yeah. I was eighteen when I ate

0:47:01.800 --> 0:47:03.120
<v Speaker 3>plus in the bathroom.

0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:09.840
<v Speaker 2>And I had sex with a Japanese style architectural home museum architecture.

0:47:10.800 --> 0:47:12.640
<v Speaker 3>Bitch, it is a public space.

0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, the exhibition is gonna be gone anyway, so you

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:15.399
<v Speaker 2>guys can't even fucking there.

0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:17.759
<v Speaker 3>Wait, let me look it up. Really was it not?

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:18.200
<v Speaker 5>Yo?

0:47:18.360 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 4>That is great?

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:21.360
<v Speaker 3>It didn't feel like a museum.

0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Museum, we played a fee to get in, but it

0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:27.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't feel center for art and architecture. This Shinn House

0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:30.640
<v Speaker 2>for our that sounds even more like a public Built

0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:33.400
<v Speaker 2>in nineteen twenty two, this architectural site offers art excipts

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:36.520
<v Speaker 2>and guided tours the sense and I didn't need a guide, so.

0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 4>Not to get too graphic, but like, are ye standing

0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:41.560
<v Speaker 4>or are you sitting over a six? Okay? So you're

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:43.640
<v Speaker 4>not getting your juices on your fucking.

0:47:44.480 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 3>No, it was. We were cloudy about it.

0:47:46.120 --> 0:47:50.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's you know what, Why that's the only decency

0:47:50.400 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 4>you got?

0:47:50.719 --> 0:47:51.560
<v Speaker 3>Where are we all with this?

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>That you what everyone wants to be lied to? P

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:58.080
<v Speaker 1>Apparently that's what we were. That's how we got here.

0:47:58.160 --> 0:47:58.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

0:47:58.760 --> 0:47:59.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, like I.

0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:02.279
<v Speaker 2>Think to spice up your own personal sex life, there's

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:04.399
<v Speaker 2>times where I want to masturbate and it doesn't include him.

0:48:04.520 --> 0:48:06.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to, like, I just want my own

0:48:06.280 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 2>thing I think we can have our own sexual experiences.

0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh here's what I was gonna say.

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:13.439
<v Speaker 2>I actually almost ended a friendship, but she really came

0:48:13.480 --> 0:48:15.600
<v Speaker 2>back in there with the that was my own insecurities

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:21.080
<v Speaker 2>type shit. So this is about the truth or a lie. No,

0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 2>it's about like I'll get there, okay, girls that like

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:28.080
<v Speaker 2>to be cheated on her sexual relationship. She made a

0:48:28.080 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 2>comment at a dinner with a bunch of girls that

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:32.840
<v Speaker 2>I was getting cheated on openly, and I was like,

0:48:34.280 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 2>why would you say that to me? You know that's

0:48:35.560 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 2>not true. Do you think I'm cheating on him when

0:48:38.120 --> 0:48:39.960
<v Speaker 2>I want to do my Like She's like, yeah, just

0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:41.400
<v Speaker 2>because you guys talk about it, and you guys have

0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:44.400
<v Speaker 2>fun talking about it, you're just open cheating, Like this.

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:46.600
<v Speaker 3>Isn't someone that really loves you. Men that really loves.

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 2>Someone aren't very comfortable with this. And I chose in

0:48:51.080 --> 0:48:52.919
<v Speaker 2>this moment not to bring up the fuck me because

0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:55.759
<v Speaker 2>she stayed with because I felt like, you know what,

0:48:55.880 --> 0:48:58.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll let you eat this. So center text the next

0:48:58.719 --> 0:49:02.480
<v Speaker 2>day like, hey, friends, for a while, I think, however,

0:49:02.560 --> 0:49:05.040
<v Speaker 2>you try to justify what I do. You've known me

0:49:05.080 --> 0:49:07.239
<v Speaker 2>for a long time. I had a girlfriend I was

0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 2>doing this with then I had a boyfriend. Yes, it

0:49:09.600 --> 0:49:11.479
<v Speaker 2>went wrong, read it and no holds bard.

0:49:11.520 --> 0:49:12.040
<v Speaker 3>We get it.

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 2>But all your relationships have gone wrong too. I haven't

0:49:16.520 --> 0:49:19.360
<v Speaker 2>seen one that was successful, considering you think marriage is success.

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:21.279
<v Speaker 3>You said this, sir, Yes, okay, And so.

0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:23.200
<v Speaker 2>Then you then say to me, I'm being cheated on

0:49:23.239 --> 0:49:25.399
<v Speaker 2>openly and open relationships don't work.

0:49:25.440 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 3>Tell me a relationship of yours that I can follow.

0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:31.520
<v Speaker 2>And she felt like I was really rude from that,

0:49:31.600 --> 0:49:33.400
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I felt like you were really rude.

0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:35.840
<v Speaker 2>And two weeks later she called me and she was like,

0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 2>you know what my constant fear is that I'll get

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:38.360
<v Speaker 2>cheated on.

0:49:39.280 --> 0:49:43.279
<v Speaker 1>And I live in monogamous people that they constantly are

0:49:43.320 --> 0:49:46.439
<v Speaker 1>looking for their partners to be cheating because they don't

0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:47.400
<v Speaker 1>want to accept.

0:49:47.080 --> 0:49:50.920
<v Speaker 2>The truth that people cheat. But I don't think monogamy

0:49:51.000 --> 0:49:53.279
<v Speaker 2>is bad. I think people can thrive in monogamy.

0:49:53.640 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 3>No, I think both can be said about both.

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 1>Right, you could thrive as a monogamous relationship, and I

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:00.719
<v Speaker 1>love that we're having the conversation that you could also

0:50:00.719 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 1>thrive in a non monogamous relationship. But in both instances

0:50:04.160 --> 0:50:08.600
<v Speaker 1>there are unhealthy relationships unhealthy dynamics, and in both and

0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:11.080
<v Speaker 1>in both cases you could have success or failure.

0:50:11.120 --> 0:50:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm just tired of the very like open cheating.

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:16.399
<v Speaker 2>Let him lie to you if you know about it, bro,

0:50:16.520 --> 0:50:18.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not in a situation where like I turn my

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 2>face or I'm doing this because it's twenty twenty five,

0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 2>What else am I gonna do. I'm doing it because

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 2>I genuinely like it, Like I find it entertaining for

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:30.040
<v Speaker 2>my life. I enjoy what we do. I enjoy bringing

0:50:30.080 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 2>other people in. This is also not my obsession. This

0:50:33.239 --> 0:50:34.879
<v Speaker 2>is not what we do every single day or even

0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:38.600
<v Speaker 2>every single week. It's a part of the sexual life

0:50:38.640 --> 0:50:40.960
<v Speaker 2>that we show together. So I think people just when

0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.120
<v Speaker 2>they hear about it, they're so obsessed with it when

0:50:43.160 --> 0:50:45.319
<v Speaker 2>you live this way, because they're just like, what the fuck? Yeah.

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 2>But it is coming to a point where when I

0:50:47.520 --> 0:50:50.520
<v Speaker 2>see content like that, I kind of hate being non monogamous.

0:50:51.160 --> 0:50:53.000
<v Speaker 3>Just let him fuck another bitch because he's gonna do

0:50:53.000 --> 0:50:53.440
<v Speaker 3>it anyway.

0:50:53.520 --> 0:50:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Like, nah, bro', I'm not of that cloth either. I

0:50:56.840 --> 0:50:59.399
<v Speaker 2>don't believe it, just he's gonna do it anyway. I

0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:02.160
<v Speaker 2>like what we have going on. I find this shit

0:51:02.160 --> 0:51:04.359
<v Speaker 2>to be a turn on sexy. You can call it

0:51:04.400 --> 0:51:07.000
<v Speaker 2>a version of cupholding. Whatever it is. This has been

0:51:07.040 --> 0:51:09.319
<v Speaker 2>my thing. So I don't know, And like I say,

0:51:09.360 --> 0:51:11.760
<v Speaker 2>I no holds bard. I didn't have some weird trauma.

0:51:11.840 --> 0:51:12.000
<v Speaker 4>I know.

0:51:12.080 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Doctor Umer says overly sexual people grew up some kind

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 2>of way.

0:51:15.120 --> 0:51:15.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't have an uncle.

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Fucking wait, speaking of what are y'all's thoughts on that statement?

0:51:20.440 --> 0:51:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you too, because it's been said

0:51:23.520 --> 0:51:27.120
<v Speaker 1>about Shannon Sharp. When I was on Blackout Mondays with

0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 1>uh it was rashad Ian and they had Kenny Barnes

0:51:31.040 --> 0:51:32.759
<v Speaker 1>as a as a guest, and we were talking about

0:51:32.760 --> 0:51:33.279
<v Speaker 1>the Diddy trial.

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:35.719
<v Speaker 3>The common thing that I'm seeing right.

0:51:35.640 --> 0:51:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Now is the downfall of a person is being over

0:51:40.200 --> 0:51:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and overly sexual. Like it, over sexually person will constantly

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:47.719
<v Speaker 1>find themselves in a demise because it's an unhealthy thing.

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.160
<v Speaker 1>It's an unhealthy way to be essentially, And I do

0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 1>want to know y'all's thoughts on if overly sexual people

0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:58.000
<v Speaker 1>will inevitably find themselves in bad situations.

0:51:58.040 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh hell yeah, that's actually I actually agree with you.

0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Agree with that. Think about niggas that can't stop fucking around,

0:52:03.840 --> 0:52:05.560
<v Speaker 2>But what about us? We're overly sexual.

0:52:05.600 --> 0:52:07.200
<v Speaker 3>Do you think not overly sexual to the point where

0:52:07.200 --> 0:52:09.799
<v Speaker 3>a clouds you just fucked in an architectural home. Well,

0:52:09.880 --> 0:52:10.880
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't working there.

0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:13.239
<v Speaker 4>I would say the movie theater.

0:52:13.920 --> 0:52:15.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, there's a lot of people that don't broke people.

0:52:15.880 --> 0:52:18.400
<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's going to be like majority of

0:52:18.440 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 4>people don't people.

0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Or you get fingered in a movie, bro, majority of

0:52:23.320 --> 0:52:26.879
<v Speaker 1>people do not operate like people have sex on balconies.

0:52:27.680 --> 0:52:29.520
<v Speaker 4>Like in their home, in their home.

0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:40.000
<v Speaker 3>Because they might be seen. People don't I need to

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:40.479
<v Speaker 3>know about.

0:52:40.560 --> 0:52:43.400
<v Speaker 1>You believe we are overly sexual, bro, And so you

0:52:43.440 --> 0:52:45.360
<v Speaker 1>think that we're gonna come to a device for people

0:52:45.400 --> 0:52:48.960
<v Speaker 1>people not have sex in public places to I'm serious.

0:52:49.200 --> 0:52:50.319
<v Speaker 3>They don't. I know you are.

0:52:50.360 --> 0:52:53.960
<v Speaker 2>And this is bathroom no no.

0:52:53.880 --> 0:52:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Regular people quote unquote, because we are not regular.

0:52:57.200 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 2>They think I'm crazy because I have text in a

0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:00.440
<v Speaker 2>museum bathroom where that no one around.

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:01.960
<v Speaker 3>We're saying you are overly sexual.

0:53:01.960 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 1>But you just said overly sexual people, Well that will

0:53:04.560 --> 0:53:07.680
<v Speaker 1>be their demid Like I could go to work, no, no, no,

0:53:08.000 --> 0:53:10.840
<v Speaker 1>But because I'm okay, Shannon Sharp.

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:15.000
<v Speaker 4>Go to work where she talks about sexual Literally our.

0:53:14.719 --> 0:53:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Job is talking about and bending over in the museum,

0:53:19.880 --> 0:53:21.239
<v Speaker 1>don't want to feel back to New York or edit

0:53:21.360 --> 0:53:24.040
<v Speaker 1>is Okay, Can I tell you what I was thinking

0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 1>in my head please?

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:29.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking a lot of my homeboys that have status,

0:53:29.719 --> 0:53:32.520
<v Speaker 2>uh be fucking shit up. We've worked with somebody, and

0:53:32.560 --> 0:53:34.680
<v Speaker 2>this nigga just be like he can't be around another

0:53:34.719 --> 0:53:36.879
<v Speaker 2>piece of talent before he's hitting on them. And it's

0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:38.920
<v Speaker 2>just like doing too much to me. That's when you're

0:53:38.960 --> 0:53:42.400
<v Speaker 2>like obsessed with sex type brain. Okay, that was what

0:53:42.480 --> 0:53:44.440
<v Speaker 2>I was thinking when I thought about Shannon Sharp. I'm like,

0:53:44.440 --> 0:53:46.400
<v Speaker 2>you can't be moving like that when you're super famous.

0:53:46.440 --> 0:53:49.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm not yet. You're not not at the Mock Center

0:53:50.600 --> 0:53:52.479
<v Speaker 2>now A five sex and every day people everybody would

0:53:52.480 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 2>find out about it. It's different. But my point is anyway,

0:53:55.760 --> 0:53:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm just.

0:53:56.120 --> 0:53:59.200
<v Speaker 4>Saying, wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, all right, you

0:53:59.239 --> 0:54:01.799
<v Speaker 4>probably don't do ra played, but I'm pretty sure you

0:54:01.920 --> 0:54:07.360
<v Speaker 4>sent some explicit video or like voice chats to girls

0:54:07.400 --> 0:54:09.440
<v Speaker 4>you guys are hooking up with. They can expose you

0:54:09.480 --> 0:54:12.840
<v Speaker 4>and that you can have a scandal. Just like Shannon, how.

0:54:12.719 --> 0:54:14.760
<v Speaker 2>It's consensual though I wouldn't do anything.

0:54:14.760 --> 0:54:18.160
<v Speaker 4>Well no, no, According to him, that was consensual until.

0:54:17.880 --> 0:54:20.719
<v Speaker 1>She's uncord, which yeah, like so that So even when

0:54:20.719 --> 0:54:23.960
<v Speaker 1>I was having the conversation, literally the conversation kind of

0:54:24.040 --> 0:54:28.239
<v Speaker 1>led to you shouldn't have that much sex or otherwise

0:54:28.480 --> 0:54:31.359
<v Speaker 1>having a lot of sex. Being overly sexual will inevitably

0:54:31.440 --> 0:54:33.160
<v Speaker 1>lead to you having a problem.

0:54:33.280 --> 0:54:37.080
<v Speaker 2>So sexually with Shannon in particular, a lot of the

0:54:37.120 --> 0:54:39.920
<v Speaker 2>big thing for us was age. That was a conversation

0:54:41.360 --> 0:54:44.480
<v Speaker 2>and her literally didn't we see her say I didn't

0:54:44.480 --> 0:54:44.680
<v Speaker 2>want to.

0:54:45.680 --> 0:54:47.719
<v Speaker 3>You'll never find out me, So.

0:54:47.640 --> 0:54:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I think you're gonna find me Texas and bitches though

0:54:50.040 --> 0:54:51.400
<v Speaker 1>some nancy you know what's crazy?

0:54:51.440 --> 0:54:52.560
<v Speaker 3>That's probably the worst I got.

0:54:52.600 --> 0:54:54.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure to say what you like when you're just

0:54:54.719 --> 0:54:55.920
<v Speaker 2>sending it in it like I.

0:54:55.840 --> 0:54:57.720
<v Speaker 3>Literally said that in a text message recently.

0:54:57.880 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 1>So I got a nigga coming to Jamaica and and

0:55:00.640 --> 0:55:02.759
<v Speaker 1>we haven't fucked yet, but we've been. He wants to

0:55:02.840 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>experience to make and I'm like, okay, we might fuck,

0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:06.759
<v Speaker 1>but also you ain't my nigga, So if you want

0:55:06.760 --> 0:55:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to fuck somebody else, cool, if we fuck, cool.

0:55:08.960 --> 0:55:12.279
<v Speaker 3>So we're like getting through. I'm having all the conversations

0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:13.279
<v Speaker 3>like what are you into?

0:55:13.320 --> 0:55:13.960
<v Speaker 2>What are you not into?

0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:14.360
<v Speaker 4>D D?

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:17.120
<v Speaker 3>And he was like I was.

0:55:17.440 --> 0:55:18.799
<v Speaker 1>I of course wanted to know if I could bend

0:55:18.880 --> 0:55:21.719
<v Speaker 1>him over, so I get to like and mind you,

0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:24.239
<v Speaker 1>I do that by like here's my little chick. Now

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:25.960
<v Speaker 1>here's a new trick to see how freaking nigga is.

0:55:26.200 --> 0:55:28.920
<v Speaker 1>So all my porn is on Twitter, right, so I'd

0:55:29.000 --> 0:55:31.680
<v Speaker 1>just be sending that porn from Twitter, so I'll be like, oh,

0:55:31.840 --> 0:55:34.480
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to get his reaction on everything. So

0:55:34.560 --> 0:55:38.799
<v Speaker 1>literally between literally between a bitch licking balls and like

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:42.759
<v Speaker 1>some regular vanilla sex was the pegging. And so because

0:55:42.800 --> 0:55:44.440
<v Speaker 1>he was responding back like oh yeah, I'm with all

0:55:44.440 --> 0:55:46.759
<v Speaker 1>this shit d So the peggy was right there, bitch.

0:55:46.800 --> 0:55:48.759
<v Speaker 3>That's the video he responded to. And he put a

0:55:48.760 --> 0:55:54.080
<v Speaker 3>little tear drop mind you drop because he was like

0:55:55.160 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 3>might He's like, I don't know about that, mind you.

0:55:58.520 --> 0:56:00.680
<v Speaker 1>It was a man being ran on a train with

0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:03.720
<v Speaker 1>two women, So I said, oh, so minus one girl.

0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:09.520
<v Speaker 4>I was like, you don't.

0:56:09.320 --> 0:56:11.120
<v Speaker 3>Want to been over into in front of two bitches,

0:56:11.200 --> 0:56:14.359
<v Speaker 3>just one. So I'm like, we could do this a private, sir, so.

0:56:14.400 --> 0:56:18.120
<v Speaker 1>Set it on his so literally, uh he was he

0:56:18.280 --> 0:56:21.520
<v Speaker 1>was uh, I think eating Yeah, he was in between

0:56:21.520 --> 0:56:23.600
<v Speaker 1>two women, but he was bent over for one, and

0:56:23.640 --> 0:56:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I think eating the pussy of the other.

0:56:25.080 --> 0:56:28.160
<v Speaker 3>Oh so so literally.

0:56:29.880 --> 0:56:32.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking him all these things, and literally he said,

0:56:32.960 --> 0:56:34.759
<v Speaker 1>but so I feel like you know able to have fun.

0:56:34.880 --> 0:56:37.880
<v Speaker 3>So he's like, I'm cool with whatever. Try whatever.

0:56:37.920 --> 0:56:38.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean.

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I said, Oh no, I literally had to say. I said, listen,

0:56:41.320 --> 0:56:44.000
<v Speaker 1>my mind goes wild. And I said, I don't go

0:56:44.120 --> 0:56:46.879
<v Speaker 1>into sex just thinking I can do something without having

0:56:46.960 --> 0:56:49.120
<v Speaker 1>a conversation for him, because a nigga could say I

0:56:49.160 --> 0:56:49.600
<v Speaker 1>raped him.

0:56:49.920 --> 0:56:51.960
<v Speaker 3>And he laughed at that, and I was like, oh no,

0:56:52.280 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 3>like this is a thing.

0:56:53.360 --> 0:56:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Women can do that too, And I'm not going into

0:56:55.600 --> 0:56:58.680
<v Speaker 1>sex as someone who talks about consent as someone who

0:56:58.960 --> 0:57:01.839
<v Speaker 1>is sexually into a lot of shit. Don't just tell

0:57:01.880 --> 0:57:03.360
<v Speaker 1>me I can do whatever to you in the bedroom,

0:57:03.360 --> 0:57:07.360
<v Speaker 1>because that's no. You might have something that says no.

0:57:07.400 --> 0:57:08.960
<v Speaker 1>And I don't want to ruin the mood when I

0:57:09.000 --> 0:57:11.719
<v Speaker 1>pull out of goddamn dial dough and be like, all

0:57:11.800 --> 0:57:15.080
<v Speaker 1>right now, been over clapped them cheeks, Like that's gonna.

0:57:14.920 --> 0:57:15.600
<v Speaker 3>Ruin the mood.

0:57:15.880 --> 0:57:18.600
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, before I go into the bedroom with anybody,

0:57:18.960 --> 0:57:21.120
<v Speaker 1>or before I get kinky with anyone.

0:57:21.160 --> 0:57:23.760
<v Speaker 2>All of that is discussed. What do you like? Would

0:57:23.760 --> 0:57:25.880
<v Speaker 2>you not like I'm not going can you.

0:57:27.880 --> 0:57:31.520
<v Speaker 1>It's giving. I'm bringing the strap just in case it's given.

0:57:31.640 --> 0:57:33.520
<v Speaker 3>Like you gotta bring a real skinny one. I think

0:57:33.520 --> 0:57:35.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna bring a skin I got one, a little

0:57:35.040 --> 0:57:36.400
<v Speaker 3>like a cone. It's real thin.

0:57:40.600 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 2>She fucks women. She probably straps women.

0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:44.320
<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, you know, it's crazy.

0:57:44.320 --> 0:57:48.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't ever strap women a lot.

0:57:48.640 --> 0:57:51.680
<v Speaker 2>No, you know, my man, you think he ever gonna live?

0:57:53.960 --> 0:57:54.680
<v Speaker 2>You know what's crazy?

0:57:54.720 --> 0:57:56.680
<v Speaker 1>That's always the questions when I be dealing with with

0:57:56.680 --> 0:57:59.480
<v Speaker 1>with niggas, like they'd be like hey, I'll be like, no,

0:57:59.640 --> 0:58:02.360
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't one of them. Like I have never pegged

0:58:02.360 --> 0:58:06.360
<v Speaker 1>anyone I've been in a relationship with, but my old

0:58:06.440 --> 0:58:08.560
<v Speaker 1>niggas back in, Like I'll be finding niggas that I

0:58:08.600 --> 0:58:09.280
<v Speaker 1>can't do it.

0:58:09.160 --> 0:58:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Too, but I ain't been in a relationship.

0:58:10.440 --> 0:58:15.479
<v Speaker 1>I gonna try again when he's fifty, Oh, try again,

0:58:15.560 --> 0:58:17.480
<v Speaker 1>but just like you're gonna ask him to peg him

0:58:17.520 --> 0:58:18.919
<v Speaker 1>when fifteenth, Like as.

0:58:18.840 --> 0:58:21.200
<v Speaker 3>A fifteenth the kids fucking twenty, what are we gonna

0:58:21.240 --> 0:58:21.400
<v Speaker 3>do it?

0:58:21.440 --> 0:58:23.800
<v Speaker 4>Let's go, yeah, but just like start with fingers and

0:58:23.880 --> 0:58:25.040
<v Speaker 4>just see progress.

0:58:25.360 --> 0:58:29.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's baby talk, fingers in the asses, baby talk.

0:58:29.880 --> 0:58:32.440
<v Speaker 4>That's too far for me. So I'm saying, if you.

0:58:32.480 --> 0:58:34.280
<v Speaker 2>Go to that too far for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, really, I'll do a little tongue, a little tongue.

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<v Speaker 3>If you do a little tell you do a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro, If you will do tongue on your boodha hole,

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<v Speaker 1>you will do a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's literally what I was saying. Tongue and fingers the

0:58:46.640 --> 0:58:47.120
<v Speaker 3>same ship.

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<v Speaker 4>So maybe when I turn fifty and I get a

0:58:48.880 --> 0:58:50.960
<v Speaker 4>prostetic exam, then then I'll start this.

0:58:51.160 --> 0:58:53.760
<v Speaker 3>So after the prostet exam, you'll start letting.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't know, I'm gonna see how I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like it. I just don't like you.

0:58:57.960 --> 0:59:01.000
<v Speaker 1>During your prostet exams like you would to know going

0:59:01.080 --> 0:59:03.840
<v Speaker 1>on you see them. She does the but she could

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<v Speaker 1>just do dalns like me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, to be honest, she's a little too dominant like

0:59:10.440 --> 0:59:14.680
<v Speaker 2>she might she might go to ain't get and I

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<v Speaker 2>really don't see if she could stop halfway like she

0:59:16.720 --> 0:59:21.360
<v Speaker 2>doesn't give you, gentle girl. She looks like she don't

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<v Speaker 2>you agree dniesia like you. He check it up.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, Okay, hold for before. Yeah it's crazy. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I have a question to me. This is old, but

0:59:34.200 --> 0:59:36.480
<v Speaker 6>it's still relevant. The t app leak.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh you downloaded it right?

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<v Speaker 2>What about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what?

0:59:41.360 --> 0:59:42.919
<v Speaker 1>I went to do it, and then when I saw

0:59:43.120 --> 0:59:46.439
<v Speaker 1>the little breach of everything, I didn't because I didn't

0:59:46.440 --> 0:59:46.640
<v Speaker 1>get to.

0:59:46.680 --> 0:59:48.400
<v Speaker 2>The part where I uploaded all my show. I got

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:51.560
<v Speaker 2>exacted before the breach. So y'all got me in bed

0:59:51.640 --> 0:59:52.320
<v Speaker 2>looking crazy.

0:59:52.480 --> 0:59:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, they got yourself. You know

0:59:55.640 --> 0:59:56.800
<v Speaker 1>the round uploaded.

0:59:57.120 --> 0:59:58.000
<v Speaker 2>It's out in the breach.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I got on my phone.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you guys feel about the app in general?

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<v Speaker 4>Because you have women as like, oh, this is protective

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<v Speaker 4>for women, you have to do it just like now

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<v Speaker 4>this I don't like flat.

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<v Speaker 3>So allegedly that's what that's what it was supposed to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It was supposed to be this community to keep women safe. Now, however,

1:00:16.480 --> 1:00:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you have women on there that are literally can say

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<v Speaker 1>anything about a man.

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<v Speaker 3>I personally don't think the app is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I think no one should be able to create a

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<v Speaker 1>profile about you and go on there and say anything

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<v Speaker 1>and there's nothing to fact check if it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's how it works.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, everything is anonymous, Screenshots are impossible, all women are verified.

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<v Speaker 2>You can post all across the country. You can set

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<v Speaker 2>alerts for a man's name. They donate ten percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the money to domestic rate, so it was the same

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<v Speaker 2>to keep them. They run background checks, they check criminal records,

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<v Speaker 2>check for sex offenders, look up phone numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, yeah, background check on So here's the day you

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<v Speaker 1>have they do the background check on the man. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't really understand that part because oh here,

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<v Speaker 1>look adet on Josh. So right now they're showing me

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<v Speaker 1>someone has anyone been on a date with him? So

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<v Speaker 1>you can click no t I have tea, No ta

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<v Speaker 1>on him, No tea on Sam?

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<v Speaker 2>Who is happening? Has herpie? Is an abusive pedophile?

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<v Speaker 3>You see?

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<v Speaker 4>Holy shit?

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<v Speaker 3>Two comments? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I messaged him when I was like nineteen, I'm thirty now.

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<v Speaker 2>He gave me three b vibes and I blocked him.

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<v Speaker 2>Next person, you can see the demonic spirit in his eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>Not trying to be funny. See that to me is

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<v Speaker 3>to me too. Look, how do you know he's a pedophile?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a label? Let me see another.

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<v Speaker 3>One to label someone a pedophile? I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know it worked like this when I download it.

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<v Speaker 3>I never used it.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, that's what I'm saying to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like the app.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's even crazier is the creator of the goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>app created it because his goddamn mama was out there

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<v Speaker 1>having goddamned relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>With inmates five comments whoa so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and he felt a way about his mom dating

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<v Speaker 1>literally prisoners. So this is an app to make them

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<v Speaker 1>safe because clearly yo, mama was out here on criminal.

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<v Speaker 4>I think to fix this just open it up to

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<v Speaker 4>men and women. Because they said, no, this is men.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't men can't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Men have their own version.

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<v Speaker 4>They said, no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think women should be able to go. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>you're saying something about me. I should be able to

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think anything like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just say that you broke up with a guy

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<v Speaker 2>and you're mad at them.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You can lie about somebody, but you every right, And

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<v Speaker 1>so an app that you could literally create a profile

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<v Speaker 1>for someone, upload their pictures and now people can just

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<v Speaker 1>say whatever they want about them.

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<v Speaker 4>Like But I do think there's a lot of benefit

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<v Speaker 4>to warning women about like other men, because there there

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<v Speaker 4>are some that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a there's a website. I can't remember the exact

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<v Speaker 1>name for it. But with with Sesta Fasta, they literally

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<v Speaker 1>removed all the sites that sex workers were using to

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<v Speaker 1>literally keep other sex workers safe. So there's literally websites

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<v Speaker 1>already created where you can and of course sex workers normally.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to get their idea, but they literally talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>Unsafe predatory men who go after sex workers. And when

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<v Speaker 1>those got removed because of Systafosta, literally the sex work community.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like bro power.

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<v Speaker 3>It was an act put out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like act put out to help sex workers and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like no, it's pretty much well no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>to help sex workers under pronation for those who are listening.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like blocking certain sex trafficking sites. However, it

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<v Speaker 2>blocked a lot of sites that women used to confirm

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<v Speaker 2>and talk with each other about to say safe. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's just say that you're about to take I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know some do that you met on line.

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<v Speaker 3>John and a lot of girls they actually their in calls.

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<v Speaker 3>They request ideas to verify these Johns. And these are

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<v Speaker 3>high level escorts right or either they.

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<v Speaker 1>Work on from eros or these aren't like street walkers.

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<v Speaker 3>These are escorts is what they do.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you do in calls, you normally have to

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<v Speaker 1>verify send me a LinkedIn I need to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>your name as your booking me is who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what they would do is if they encountered

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<v Speaker 1>a man who didn't pay, or was really aggressive in bed,

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<v Speaker 1>or made a woman feel unsafe, they could go to

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<v Speaker 1>this site and be like, hey, guys, this guy John

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<v Speaker 1>D in the DMV. Don't see him. This was my

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<v Speaker 1>experience and it kept a lot of girls for weeding

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<v Speaker 1>out the bad.

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<v Speaker 4>John essentially gotcha.

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<v Speaker 2>But the t app is specific like to be, and

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<v Speaker 2>it really births from are we dating the same guy?

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<v Speaker 2>From Facebook? Now that I've actually seen men I know,

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<v Speaker 2>never a man I dated. I've seen men I know

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<v Speaker 2>and like, I'm not gonna hold you. I've never seen

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<v Speaker 2>something like bullshitty on there, and I think the reason

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<v Speaker 2>is because it's not anonymous.

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<v Speaker 3>You on Facebook, it's not anonymous.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you really got to use your Facebook profile to

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<v Speaker 1>get accepted. So that's my question. The comments on the tap,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't see who left those comments, the user names only.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I don't like that. So to me, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing dope, there's a there's a there's a website

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, I bleep out if it ever even

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<v Speaker 1>gets mentioned on here, because you can go on there

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<v Speaker 1>and say anything as an anonymous as an anonymous source.

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<v Speaker 3>To me, I don't think there should be any app where.

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<v Speaker 1>It's specific to just going on talking about people though,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is what Reddit is.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe thatsite in particular is a gossip site, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's strictly just a thread.

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<v Speaker 3>Because remember, like I'm fine with message boards.

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<v Speaker 1>This those type of ship is where I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Reddit is like a message board of information a right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>You have people on there with their same without the

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<v Speaker 3>other site.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same because when I was a kid, I

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<v Speaker 2>would go on there for hair shit.

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<v Speaker 3>And then actually it's funny because no.

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<v Speaker 4>But we're talking about are you dating the same guy?

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<v Speaker 2>It's no, yeah, but I'm saying all of it is

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<v Speaker 2>the same type of shit.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just people will start.

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<v Speaker 2>To abuse it and use it in certain ways. Like

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<v Speaker 2>for example, also I remember Britney Britney Hampton posted and

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<v Speaker 2>was like, yo, I remember when ls A was a

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<v Speaker 2>thing to find a fucking guy or something on a guy,

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<v Speaker 2>And now is this so it's like and even with that,

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<v Speaker 2>like Reddit and any other gossip blog, you could kind

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<v Speaker 2>of see, for example, when someone made it, if they've

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<v Speaker 2>been contributing right, like, you could kind of see like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, this is a fake person who could just

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<v Speaker 2>be like you can kind of dig into the tee

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<v Speaker 2>with this. It could just be totally anyone ruined it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like that. That's why I'm not gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>it either. I'm not a fan. I won't be downloading it.

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<v Speaker 3>But also I think the niggas I fuck wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 3>on there, so I looked.

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<v Speaker 4>I think somebody should create a better version of that.

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<v Speaker 4>No anonymity.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should have anonymity, And I think like,

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<v Speaker 1>let us all know you fuck this broke as eight

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<v Speaker 1>shit ass nigga like you as a woman, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have something to say about the man, we should be

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<v Speaker 1>able to.

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<v Speaker 2>Know or at least, hey, I'll be private on this thread,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all could DM me and I'll talk to you something

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Just know you're protecting women. If you're protecting the women.

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<v Speaker 3>Let us know that you was fucking with that Asian period. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I hope that take it to the grave or take

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<v Speaker 3>it to the goddamn grave. I do want to check

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<v Speaker 3>that artist nigga on there. He's all blast. Who are

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<v Speaker 3>you think they telling? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny because when it came out Captain Hood,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because he'd be outside. I said, if any

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<v Speaker 1>nigga that I was fucking was gonna be on there,

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<v Speaker 1>it was probably gonna be him.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why I'm not talking.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened. It was three years ago, but still I'll

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<v Speaker 2>just be like, is he under a bridge?

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<v Speaker 3>Like what's going on anyway? You care about?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I for me, bitch, you'd be embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if it was three years ago, like you,

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with a nigga that fell off, that's not embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 3>Niggas fall off every day by sure. Oh there's Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie im.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie. There's niggas right now that was

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<v Speaker 3>fucking in my twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>Athletes. I'm embarrassed now.

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<v Speaker 3>The one that sold that urban life. That was crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>You showed me a dude. He's so cute too. Back

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<v Speaker 2>in the day he had locks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh look, I was going to So there was an

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<v Speaker 1>old football player that got into urban life.

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<v Speaker 3>He got just you're ready along they got just bring

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<v Speaker 3>it to.

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<v Speaker 1>Him in the club in Atlanta, and I forgot who

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<v Speaker 1>he was at first. I'll be forgetting what mind you

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<v Speaker 1>hold on another niggas?

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<v Speaker 3>So this is gonna be sound real bad.

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<v Speaker 4>So this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So a couple of weeks ago, I saw somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>we used to talk when he lived in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>when he played for the Knicks no longer. Like, all

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<v Speaker 1>I know is he's like, oh, don't tell me you forgot.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how Leyden laid in bed all night?

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<v Speaker 1>Was like did I fuck him? And I literally had

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<v Speaker 1>to think. I couldn't remember, Oh I got one. I

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<v Speaker 1>could not remember whether we fucked or not. Someone from

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<v Speaker 1>high school. By the way, we didn't fuck in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there was a moment in Miami. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if we fucked. Girl I know sent me him.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, oh my god, look he got married,

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<v Speaker 1>great looking family. Happy for them.

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<v Speaker 3>So I left for comment like you guys look amazing, congratulations.

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<v Speaker 2>A homegirl hit me like, yo, you petty. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>why am I petty? She said, didn't you fuck him?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, and I think so. So now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to know you're petty.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really there's niggaus you fucked and you're nice to

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<v Speaker 1>them after the fact that petty.

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<v Speaker 4>That's actually to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't gonna hold you if I'm in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>ship with a nigga. I don't want any bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>That you fucked to be up under your comments saying,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, so happy for this family and union.

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<v Speaker 2>Why kid, I'm gonna be honest with you, bro, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not my ex boyfriend who cares.

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<v Speaker 3>Bro me if I if I fucked like, I ain't

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<v Speaker 3>gonna hold you.

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<v Speaker 1>If I fucked a nigga, I'm not under his comments saying,

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<v Speaker 1>oh you and your wife looks so happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Think I fucked him?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you can't be happy for somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be happy in private, think, think it in your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>But to post what a what a post on social media?

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, I fucked Maybe not that long, maybe six years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty nineteen era.

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<v Speaker 1>Not era, that's the era of twenty nineteen. I was

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<v Speaker 1>holding the era of twenty nineteen. Me and Pinons broke

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<v Speaker 1>up at twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 3>I was heart broken. So ba's a era he.

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<v Speaker 2>Posted like the Sonogram ship or whatever. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, maybe you guys have a happy, healthy pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 2>This looks like congratulations that in your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>You move differently, I'm saying for me, if I had

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<v Speaker 1>a nigga dick in my mouth, I'm not congratulating him

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<v Speaker 1>on his happiness on Instagram. I could be like, oh dope,

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<v Speaker 1>he moved on unfollowed. I don't follow niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>I see him be happy even years you don't do them.

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<v Speaker 3>But now now we have to fuck again, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be a cheaper I actually want to know if everybody

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<v Speaker 3>feels this way.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it has to be a what is the

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<v Speaker 2>statute of limitations to What if I sucked your dick

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<v Speaker 2>in middle school, which I wasn't doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't suck dick to high school. That just sounded

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<v Speaker 1>crazy to me. If I've had intimate relations with you, that.

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<v Speaker 4>Was a limitation.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had intimate relations with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's appropriate for me to be up

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<v Speaker 1>under the country.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean if you fuck the girl, you

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<v Speaker 2>could do it. I fuck my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>That is different, like no and women are different.

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<v Speaker 4>I disagree if the thing yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I said, like, that's weird, but like a

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<v Speaker 2>nigga just fun. So he's.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't going if I'm dating aga and I know

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<v Speaker 1>he sucked the bitch and she up under the comments

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<v Speaker 1>like and shit, we got beat, bitch. Take your comments,

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<v Speaker 1>take your likes. You don't need to be up under like.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's petty for a woman to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>or I feel like there's still some.

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<v Speaker 3>It's packing too.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you really thinking, like I wonder if it's petty

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<v Speaker 1>the way my homegirl reacted me and she believed me, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't even remember sucking up so happy. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how off that I was, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>left that comment and forgot it. No for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>come in and keep your comming, marriage, college, new business.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, hid those are all diry, those are all different.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about you liking a picture of a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>with his family or bitch or and you don't fuck

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<v Speaker 1>It's why.

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<v Speaker 2>How many niggas like my picture When I posted, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>let me see that jock got anybody?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you posted your man? No, not like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I just posted and picking me up because I had

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<v Speaker 2>a nice bigger with.

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<v Speaker 4>The soft launch and shit like either post.

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<v Speaker 2>What's it called I've ever had on a photo because it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was probably you don't show here.

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<v Speaker 3>Like anybody like I don't really have a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>interaction with niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>How I like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Huh No, it should don't be ending good right done?

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<v Speaker 2>I hate each other?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, there's just been another episode.

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<v Speaker 3>If you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Hear more stories, what's crazy because I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't sound like I'm healed or that I need therapy

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<v Speaker 1>on this episode. But I'm just really enjoying being a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga right now. It's the sun, it's the summer. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a hot girl summer, bitch, come out, talker, come on tober.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna want a boyfriend, but no, I'm having a

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<v Speaker 1>great time this summer.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just great. That's why y'all gotta keep swiping.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and Ryan, I'm actually on there for friends I'm meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that anyways, I am it says I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on here for front anyways, Guys, make sure you get

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<v Speaker 1>no holds bar to do a manifesto, sexual exploration and

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<v Speaker 1>power out wherever you give, and then make sure you

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<v Speaker 1>also join us over on the Patreon. We are over

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<v Speaker 1>there giving you guys horrible decisions, even though this episode

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of given Horrible decisions bisch for Decisions Decisions now,

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<v Speaker 1>but horrible Decisions are still.

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<v Speaker 3>Here now if you want to check out Alex.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't promote this podcast because a lot of you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are angry.

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<v Speaker 3>At the host.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah, everybody, go watch watch Brilliant.

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<v Speaker 3>Idiots, go watch well Brilliant. You'll never be on there again.

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<v Speaker 4>But all right, so I say it, at least what

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<v Speaker 4>I said.

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<v Speaker 2>Do maybe on some free palaestin ship we can okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and then just come to the studio.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes you have all that, all right, Bob, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys so much.

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<v Speaker 1>This is another episode of Decisions Decisions Bane.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for listening and celebrating five years of the Black

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<v Speaker 2>Effect podcast Network with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep following, sharing, and streaming because the next five years

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