Speaker 1: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate
Speaker 1: the Black Effect podcast network. It's turning five, five years
Speaker 1: of powerful voices, unforgettable moments, and a community that keeps growing.
Speaker 1: This is the power of the platform. Now let's get
Speaker 1: into it. When I tell you, I saw him, but
Speaker 1: I had to lead like Cinderella leve Glass slipper type.
Speaker 1: But I met him at this little party. I literally
Speaker 1: hit up the person that I knew through the party,
Speaker 1: I said, I need that. So I didn't even get
Speaker 1: his number, didn't get his Instagram.
Speaker 2: So now he a part of the ross that show
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 1: Oh so, Alex, I need you to create a short
Speaker 1: dirty talk monologue.
Speaker 2: Okay, be nasty.
Speaker 3: When it come on. Well, I need you to get
Speaker 3: into your acting bag and action.
Speaker 2: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 3: I don't think you should say decision decisions.
Speaker 2: It sounded like you was talking to this person. You
Speaker 2: definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast. Want
Speaker 2: to say together, decisions decisions.
Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode decisions decisions on your
Speaker 1: girl medb. Sorry I just felt like doing that, because listen,
Speaker 1: this tip has been hot and see me for me,
Speaker 1: it's been great, you do not have that guy?
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, can I be just can I be inappropriate
Speaker 3: real quick?
Speaker 2: Your girl got that effect on me.
Speaker 1: I really like her, Like if we were beefy and
Speaker 1: she wasn't so respectable to you, I would probably try it, Like.
Speaker 2: She couldn't be further from I'm so mad she's not
Speaker 2: you don't want to like a little too straight, like I'm.
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie like you know how we like we
Speaker 1: talked about like like I don't like you, Alex, but
Speaker 1: I would join you.
Speaker 3: For her, like I like her a lot.
Speaker 1: And then whenever she's because we've hung out it for
Speaker 1: gola e last night, all my friends loved her.
Speaker 3: They're like, oh my god, I really like her. She's
Speaker 3: so like, she's amazing.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to fuck you got how to
Speaker 1: fu you got so like to pull that because goddamn.
Speaker 2: She's amazing.
Speaker 3: She's just such a good person.
Speaker 4: Who wanted the same thing about your boyfriend. Why do
Speaker 4: you deal with they?
Speaker 3: Like, let me tell you crazy bitches good pussy.
Speaker 2: She's not crazy?
Speaker 4: Is your girl crazyment? Please has a moment?
Speaker 1: Mean bitch is good pussy too. She's what I mean,
Speaker 1: nice bitches, A good pussy. I fucked some nice bitches
Speaker 1: and they had good pussy. Maybe they were nice to you.
Speaker 2: Do you know what she said when I signed the
Speaker 2: Least the other day? I was signing the Least and
Speaker 2: he goes, I won't say her name. Uh yeah, oh
Speaker 2: was she here? I was like no, He's like, well
Speaker 2: she was. I would have had you.
Speaker 3: Been very long time. She doesn't funk around. You can't
Speaker 3: do anything wrong. I mean wow. I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: she's from Spain. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, then, oh no, you should have.
Speaker 2: You should have seen her yesterday.
Speaker 1: She was like, the next time you leave stuff around
Speaker 1: the studio, can you just let me know? Because I
Speaker 1: would have thrown away the fucking wake of the goddamn ship.
Speaker 1: And then someone said that it was for it was
Speaker 1: for decision decisions.
Speaker 3: She was like, shit, because I'd be coming in the
Speaker 3: fucking studio. Do you know how people just leave their
Speaker 3: ship everywhere?
Speaker 1: And she's like, I just have to go in there,
Speaker 1: and I just I was throwing everything out, and I
Speaker 1: could throw away y'all ship that y'all left in there, but.
Speaker 3: Goddamn it, people leave shit in there all the goddamn time.
Speaker 3: And I was like Oh sorry, didn't know.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, why do you think I would feel bad
Speaker 2: when we would go out and I knew he had
Speaker 2: to go home, but oh, my name is Weezy and
Speaker 2: we're here with Alex. Can't believe it.
Speaker 3: I can't believe it. God damn, I'm not sure how
Speaker 3: the fuck you're here again.
Speaker 1: I'll be here, I'll you'll be around, you'd be around.
Speaker 1: And those are shorts, not a scirt. Really, I knew
Speaker 1: that those were everybody knows.
Speaker 2: I do a whole horrible forty five minutes and it
Speaker 2: gets returned if it ain't rent the runway, it's rented
Speaker 2: and returned. That is hilarious. I've been actually very worried
Speaker 2: that one day I'll get so famous I'll have a
Speaker 2: Joe Budden Kit moment, because is that there was a
Speaker 2: moment y'all where he took a photo to return and
Speaker 2: return something. Oh and people dry do for that, bitch.
Speaker 3: I'll be scared. I'll walk in the store. Are you
Speaker 3: but on some real shit though?
Speaker 2: When it comes to like and I don't feel like
Speaker 2: she and her fashion over returns count because it's fucked
Speaker 2: up capitalism and also they probably have child slaves.
Speaker 3: I'm not.
Speaker 4: I'm not returning.
Speaker 3: I'm not returning she and I just give it to
Speaker 3: my friends if it doesn't fit.
Speaker 2: I'm not returning shit. No, I just when we record,
Speaker 2: bulk record, I'll just order ten things and then I
Speaker 2: keep it too.
Speaker 1: Oh, I ain't gonna hold you the way, y'all just
Speaker 1: about to get these repeated outfits. All of my closets
Speaker 1: are full, and I'm just like, no, y'all just gonna
Speaker 1: see me and what I You don't need to.
Speaker 2: Be like recycling clothes wearing shit. Anyway, let's start talking
Speaker 2: about the niggas that she was about to for this weekend.
Speaker 1: Oh that is crazy. We're marri Wait are we deep
Speaker 1: enough to the first off? I'm dating and I'm having
Speaker 1: a great time, thanks very much, Okay, I guess okay,
Speaker 1: so catch up.
Speaker 2: We'll catch up.
Speaker 1: I'm out here in La having a grand all time jeweled.
Speaker 2: I didn't know Mandy had a new boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I said, oh that is okay, So I don't date,
Speaker 1: but I stepped out. Okay, So yesterday was my day off.
Speaker 1: Well out here, you know, people had to be with
Speaker 1: their fans. You have everyone. I had a Sunday fun day. Okay, God,
Speaker 1: damn it. So anyways, nothing I wanted more than to
Speaker 1: just be at the pool. So normally when I come
Speaker 1: to La, it's between recording. I have breakfast, lunch, fucking
Speaker 1: dinner schedules. Everyone and everything is so far in fucking La,
Speaker 1: everything is deep, everything is thirty minutes away. Ubers are
Speaker 1: fifty dollars minimum every single fuck New York. Well I'm
Speaker 1: not in New York no more, bitch, My ubers are
Speaker 1: eight dollars. I live in at Lanster, now, okay, bitch,
Speaker 1: life is cheap.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So I come out here and I'm like, fuck, I said,
Speaker 1: you know what, Fuck this time, I'm gonna get the pool.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a cabana, and everyone that wants to
Speaker 1: fucking see me can just come and meet me at
Speaker 1: the pool.
Speaker 3: So what do I do?
Speaker 1: Invite everybody, friends and all the niggas I'm talking to.
Speaker 1: So I got a little, one little nigga that i'd
Speaker 1: be seeing out here. I call him a little Wyan
Speaker 1: because he under thirty, over twenty four.
Speaker 3: Now Wyan's are under thirty.
Speaker 2: He's under thirty. Yeah, yeah, that's what that's what Awayian is. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I know, I really thought Ryan was like, you know,
Speaker 2: when they be looking like teenager age, like twenty one
Speaker 2: twenty two.
Speaker 3: I thought that was wyan.
Speaker 2: I think just under thirty is one. Hold on, wait
Speaker 2: well wait wait, we'll talk about it. We'll talk about it.
Speaker 3: Let's debate wyan. I'm saying I would.
Speaker 2: Love to do a pool I gotta remind myself, but yeah.
Speaker 3: Wayan is under thirty.
Speaker 1: So AnyWho, So I do the pool day and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, whoever pulls up? Like I knew, I
Speaker 1: had my little spin limit, I got the cabana.
Speaker 2: I'm the boss.
Speaker 1: So because I'm the boss and I just know how
Speaker 1: bosses move. I invited all the niggas. I'm fucking one
Speaker 1: of fuck talking to just met on ryo, who knows?
Speaker 2: And so, anyway, did you meet the person before they
Speaker 2: showed up? What do you mean the person you met
Speaker 2: online on RYA? No, that he was pulling up to
Speaker 2: meet for the first time. Yeah, because I got busy
Speaker 2: the day before, and so.
Speaker 1: What I got busy today before, so pull up on
Speaker 1: me at the pool on with my friends?
Speaker 3: Pull up?
Speaker 2: I didn't like, you know what?
Speaker 3: So then you don't want to date.
Speaker 2: I don't want to date. None of these niggas.
Speaker 1: I'm outside, so anyways, I tell him to pull up,
Speaker 1: but also my Wayian texting me too, I'm at the pool,
Speaker 1: pull up.
Speaker 2: I didn't know they were gonna both really pull up.
Speaker 1: And so now a nigga that's a prospect and a
Speaker 1: nigga that is great dick, and they ain't going nowhere
Speaker 1: are there at the same time.
Speaker 3: And I think I handled it very well.
Speaker 1: One who stayed in the pool, the other in the campana,
Speaker 1: and I just went back and forth and entertained them both,
Speaker 1: made sure they had drinks and it was great. And
Speaker 1: then Wyan left and I stayed with the guy. The
Speaker 1: guy from Riot ended up like joining us for dinner.
Speaker 1: We went to a comedy club.
Speaker 2: It was great.
Speaker 3: So let me tell you we saw literally hold off
Speaker 3: mind you.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I don't really be outside with
Speaker 1: my niggas like that. It's like, just just come home,
Speaker 1: like I don't really be outside. And then we had
Speaker 1: a good dinner. He was really nice to my friends,
Speaker 1: like he seemed nice. He paid for it, like we
Speaker 1: went out, so it was me he paid for he
Speaker 1: paid for Elliott Jacob Elliott was with a friend, say.
Speaker 4: The whole table he paid.
Speaker 2: He paid for Nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, but Jacob and paid for Elliott and
Speaker 1: Ellie ed. Elliott had another friend with them, so paid
Speaker 1: for the whole table.
Speaker 3: Yes, a grown ass man. He paid for everybody.
Speaker 1: He paid and you know that made my pussy though.
Speaker 1: So then I was like, okay, would paid for everybody?
Speaker 2: Get whatever?
Speaker 3: Like it was.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So then we go to the
Speaker 1: So then we go we go to the comedy club.
Speaker 1: Jacob has like he set it up for us, so
Speaker 1: he paid for everyone's drinking the comedy club. And it
Speaker 1: was just like, Okay, I really like this guy. And now, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I might see him again in New York.
Speaker 3: You're gonna be back in LA again.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, he don't live here, so we'll probably
Speaker 1: meet somewhere else New York something like that. But he
Speaker 1: was really nice and he's older, so I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: look at me, like broad spectrum.
Speaker 3: I even had to ask him.
Speaker 2: I was like, are you a millennial question? I don't
Speaker 2: feel like autism.
Speaker 1: Literally, I mean, well, I got my under thirty and
Speaker 1: then I got my above forty. I do realize after
Speaker 1: Captain Hook being in the club, I want none of
Speaker 1: none of the niggas in the thirty All y'all could stay.
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody in the thirty over. I want
Speaker 1: under thirty over forty.
Speaker 3: Let's go. And right now my roster is really pinning
Speaker 3: out great towards the end of the summer. I'm loving it.
Speaker 4: The under thirty isn't in the club, Coop, He's.
Speaker 3: Not really in the club.
Speaker 2: He's artsy, so okay, maybe that he does.
Speaker 3: The under thirty.
Speaker 1: He does like industry shit, so when he's out, it's working.
Speaker 3: It's not like I met him during.
Speaker 1: During a weekend, but he had a whole art installation
Speaker 1: and I was like, when I tell you, I saw him,
Speaker 1: but I had to lead like Cinderella leff a glass
Speaker 1: slipper type shit, like I had to go see another nigga.
Speaker 1: But I met him at this little party so much.
Speaker 1: So I liked him so much. Let me tell you.
Speaker 2: I hit up Ivy.
Speaker 1: I said, Ivy, who was the art nigga? But I
Speaker 1: literally hit up the person I knew through the party.
Speaker 1: I said, I need that nigga, but I had to
Speaker 1: leave for another nigga, so I didn't even get his number,
Speaker 1: didn't get his Instagram.
Speaker 3: I just was like, ooh, I like him, and then yeah,
Speaker 3: so now he a part of the roster.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I listen for you.
Speaker 3: Oh it's it's great.
Speaker 1: But yeah no, So anyways, I do the late show
Speaker 1: for the comedy club. These motherfuckers. Of course, of course,
Speaker 1: this is how it happens. We show up to go in,
Speaker 1: these niggas are all coming out. Me and this nigga
Speaker 1: hold a hand.
Speaker 3: No, no, no.
Speaker 2: I was very much giving family day.
Speaker 3: Yes, we were like, oh, I was like, let's do early.
Speaker 2: We got horrible late pring mom, We're on this double day.
Speaker 3: It was really family ish. Then Jacob comes out the
Speaker 3: car first.
Speaker 2: They're like a bad bitch shit he is shout out
Speaker 2: to Jacob. Then I see Stacy come out as one
Speaker 2: of Mandy's friends. I'm like, oh, so Mandy must be
Speaker 2: coming out of the car. But then a man gets.
Speaker 3: Out first and holds his hand out for this woman
Speaker 3: to go. I said, he.
Speaker 1: Was very very much, very charming, very oh helps me
Speaker 1: out like he was great.
Speaker 2: He was great.
Speaker 3: You know, I will say I'm not getting that kind
Speaker 3: of stuff.
Speaker 1: I will say too, why you probably don't think he's
Speaker 1: my type, y'all would be very proud of me, probably right.
Speaker 2: At six foot. Oh.
Speaker 1: That was why I didn't think, yeah, he's short, mm hmm, okay,
Speaker 1: he's I don't think he's six foot so maybe five eleven,
Speaker 1: but he's right there. He is not five nine five
Speaker 1: fuck out of here, thank you's.
Speaker 3: And he was a little taller.
Speaker 1: Than you, y' y'all are y'all were like right there,
Speaker 1: y'all were right there, bro, don't do that.
Speaker 3: Don't find on my nigga. Naw well, one of my niggas.
Speaker 3: Don't do five ten, honey, it's right there.
Speaker 2: I will say five eleven in a quarter, but I
Speaker 2: will say though getting out of the height ship, get
Speaker 2: you niggas.
Speaker 3: That pay the bills, bruh. I was just like, hold on,
Speaker 3: hold on, hold on. Indeed he is divorced.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you to get you a friend like Stacy,
Speaker 1: because Saty was getting all the questions that bitch I
Speaker 1: would not have gotten. We were literally at the at
Speaker 1: dinner and here goes Stacy grilling this nigga. Mind you,
Speaker 1: cryst will do it too. Crystal will look at to
Speaker 1: watch a shoot. My friends know how to tell a
Speaker 1: nigga got money before I do. I just like a
Speaker 1: good looking nigga, and on Riot he was shirtless in
Speaker 1: a lot of pictures.
Speaker 2: That's why I liked him.
Speaker 1: So we're at the dinner hat damn, and here goes
Speaker 1: Here goes Stacy, Oh so you're divorced?
Speaker 3: How long ago? When did it happen?
Speaker 2: Da da da da.
Speaker 1: Then she goes, so, what was like, what was the
Speaker 1: finalized like thing he started going into? Well, like it
Speaker 1: took over a year because her lawyer came in. She
Speaker 1: got this attorney, and I thought it was gonna be good.
Speaker 1: She wanted twenty thousand dollars a month in alimony, and
Speaker 1: this bitch is just hitting me under the goddamn table like,
Speaker 1: oh if he could afford twenty thousand a month, this
Speaker 1: nigga got money. Then literally like right, yeah, but I
Speaker 1: settled for like eight grand a month, and she was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, nigga. She was like keep this one. So literally,
Speaker 1: my whole girl is getting all the tea on this
Speaker 1: nigga and racking in her brain like oh yeah he
Speaker 1: can afford that.
Speaker 3: And there's no kids. Oh yeah, this motherfucker got buddy.
Speaker 1: And I was like thanks, because I would have never
Speaker 1: asked any of those fucking questions, wouldn't No, I don't
Speaker 1: give a fuck about a nigga.
Speaker 3: Alimony X why no not element? But you don't ask nigga?
Speaker 3: Do you like your assy?
Speaker 1: Like I don't give a fuck about how a person's life.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we're just chilling and we're listen.
Speaker 1: We here for a good time, not a long time,
Speaker 1: you feel me? So, she was asking, like to me,
Speaker 1: those are relationship questions. I don't think I really care
Speaker 1: about what your last situation was, if I if, I if,
Speaker 1: if my mind, we're not going anywhere and this was
Speaker 1: the first date, bitch, I'm not asking about no goddamn
Speaker 1: x FI, I have.
Speaker 3: A WEE listened and we judge. That's mine.
Speaker 1: We listen and we judged at the gate, let's go.
Speaker 1: So if you guys haven't heard this segment, I felt.
Speaker 2: Like you was judging me. I was, so I said,
Speaker 2: let me let me, let me let her do the judge.
Speaker 2: Oh my damn, but you ask okay, So basically we
Speaker 2: listened to we judges the segment where we normally tell
Speaker 2: you gossip about our friends and we listen and we judge.
Speaker 3: However, this one.
Speaker 2: Is mine, As you guys know, I always judge me
Speaker 2: and my partner a little.
Speaker 4: A little out there out there. Yeah, out there is
Speaker 4: a good way.
Speaker 2: To put it out there, free spirited.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Okay, So we.
Speaker 3: Were fucking this girl out here in LA.
Speaker 1: She was really dope. Now it was really dope. I
Speaker 1: feel like, okay, oh no, nothing really happened. So this
Speaker 1: is what I was gonna talk about. Nothing really happened.
Speaker 2: If you guys are listeners of the show, you know,
Speaker 2: I was getting a little depressy and just feeling a
Speaker 2: little insecure about my body. Birth control was going crazy whatever.
Speaker 2: I had a phase, So I just kind of stopped texting.
Speaker 2: Didn't really think I ghosted. I just didn't reply to
Speaker 2: the last text. But the last text wasn't like where
Speaker 2: are you? Blah blah blah. So I'm on the app.
Speaker 2: We see her on the app and I'm like, oh shit,
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about her blah blah blah blah blah whatever.
Speaker 3: So I hit him up. I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: we matched for her again. What do I do?
Speaker 1: He's like, hit her? I wrote, so wait, just so
Speaker 1: I could be sure clear. This is a girl that
Speaker 1: y'all fucked before. This is the favorite girl that I've
Speaker 1: been talking about Okay, you saw you haven't talked in
Speaker 1: a while, but you saw her on the dating app,
Speaker 1: and so you liked her again to reignore she liked
Speaker 1: me again to reignite it.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I wrote, not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: We've both been thinking about you, but I'm like, fuck,
Speaker 2: we haven't spoken so long.
Speaker 3: Can I just hit you up out of the blue? Lol?
Speaker 3: And here you are.
Speaker 2: She then replies, well, this is my chance to ask
Speaker 2: why I was ghosted in the first place. You guys
Speaker 2: look great in the new picks. Jealous about whoever gets y'all.
Speaker 2: I rode back and said, hey, honestly, it's just not
Speaker 2: very sexy story, but I was just feeling a little
Speaker 2: bit depressing and stressed. Depress and stressy. Not the sexiest convo,
Speaker 2: but glad to know, you know, She wrote and said, Well,
Speaker 2: I had convinced myself I wouldn't see y'all again because
Speaker 2: I don't like being ghosted. I appreciate you telling me
Speaker 2: better now that you're reaching out, and I want to
Speaker 2: be clear I'm not like a sex worker or some
Speaker 2: party girl that she was happy to get a call
Speaker 2: whenever you.
Speaker 3: Feel like I'm real.
Speaker 2: Oh, so I prefer honesty if you're not feeling like
Speaker 2: seeing me for whatever reason, which I know that's right.
Speaker 2: That said again, I would like to see y'all again.
Speaker 2: Bad now, She said, that's heag Nott.
Speaker 3: You not treating women with care. Damn we see.
Speaker 2: All I did was just not you ghosting. You can'te ghosting.
Speaker 3: I thought, what the fuck? This is what I'm gonna say,
Speaker 3: are we going to?
Speaker 2: What is go? Because?
Speaker 3: Oh? What is ghosting?
Speaker 5: Now?
Speaker 1: Okay, good question because actually I didn't even read look
Speaker 1: for my last text for her, but I will.
Speaker 3: Oh. I said, have you been? I hope you had
Speaker 3: a great new year?
Speaker 2: We had no years.
Speaker 3: This was the last time I spoke to you? Or
Speaker 3: what have you been up to?
Speaker 2: She said, Oh my god, I didn't know you were
Speaker 2: opening a gym. Sorry you guys got sick during Christmas
Speaker 2: breaklah blah blah blah blah. I've been creating some art
Speaker 2: that's been consuming my time.
Speaker 3: That was the last So that to me is ghosting.
Speaker 1: Hell, look, we were so you said, what is ghosting
Speaker 1: for me if there's an intimate relationship with somebody? And
Speaker 1: clearly y'all she was intimate with you and your partner.
Speaker 1: Ghosting looks like you not hitting me for eight months
Speaker 1: and then now only reigniting because we see each other
Speaker 1: on an app. To me, if I fucked a nigga
Speaker 1: and he don't hit me for eight months, I would
Speaker 1: feel ghosted.
Speaker 2: But also, can I just say she didn't write me
Speaker 2: again either, The conversation just stopped.
Speaker 4: But she was the last message.
Speaker 2: But it wasn't like she asked me for like I
Speaker 2: don't know even to see her say I didn't know
Speaker 2: you were in a gym, Like, okay, a lot was
Speaker 2: going on. Is it horrible to write someone if you
Speaker 2: know they're crazy busy to me like have you been?
Speaker 3: Because I do that?
Speaker 2: Like another thing I saw recently on a meme or
Speaker 2: I'm not a meme one of tho little Instagram reels
Speaker 2: and I was like, whoa, this is me? It was
Speaker 2: a girl who said shout out to low maintenance friends.
Speaker 2: Some of my best friends got three texts to me.
Speaker 2: If I call them, they like, ow, you didn't text
Speaker 2: me back. Now, granted I understand her and I don't
Speaker 2: have that relationship, but I am of that brain sometimes
Speaker 2: and it's no love lost. I genuinely don't mean anything
Speaker 2: by it. Maybe I really am not good for someone
Speaker 2: that needs a little more. So then I'm talking to
Speaker 2: my man about her about how bad I.
Speaker 3: Feel and he hasn't hit her either, and.
Speaker 2: He was like, no, like this is a lot of
Speaker 2: the times why I don't really have sex or do
Speaker 2: anything without you, Like, women need a lot of communication
Speaker 2: that sometimes I can't give, so when it's both of
Speaker 2: us to just be balancing out. But like, nah, He's like,
Speaker 2: girls have been mad at me because I didn't write
Speaker 2: back for four hours or whatever. It's like, I don't
Speaker 2: eight months, can't.
Speaker 1: Come here four hours to me though, I guess that's
Speaker 1: why even the unicorn aspect didn't work for me when
Speaker 1: I was trying, like even to come in as a
Speaker 1: third because I needed communication from We were in a
Speaker 1: group chat, but I would have liked communication from either
Speaker 1: or constantly if we were going to even date or
Speaker 1: be a thing. And I said that was my problem too.
Speaker 1: Once I couldn't be the girlfriend. And maybe that's the
Speaker 1: thing with her, maybe the fact that she doesn't want
Speaker 1: to be a girlfriend, but the fact that she said,
Speaker 1: I'm also not a secretory or just someone that you
Speaker 1: can call to have fun. She wanted a little something
Speaker 1: more whatever it was. Maybe it wasn't discussed. Maybe not
Speaker 1: a girl. But I'm I know I'm not the type
Speaker 1: right now either that just wants to be called to
Speaker 1: have fun for a couple.
Speaker 2: And that only wasn't a relationship when she was sick.
Speaker 2: We do like send her stuff, like.
Speaker 3: The dynamic there was.
Speaker 1: Then there's a ghosting element and all of that stopped,
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? But but it stopped,
Speaker 1: So that's the ghost But it's totally up to me
Speaker 1: the sentence, like at what.
Speaker 4: Point can we not take I mean, it's more on
Speaker 4: your responsibility because you in the relationship. I agree, and.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. I've been thinking about
Speaker 2: her this whole time. I probably brought her up once
Speaker 2: you bring up the thing, bitch.
Speaker 1: You was just I forgot where we was and you
Speaker 1: was literally like, oh my god, now I get it.
Speaker 1: I fucked this thick bitch. You literally just brought her up.
Speaker 1: I know, you literally just brought her up. But all
Speaker 1: she was talking about sucking the think bitch.
Speaker 2: But no, we were having by the way, I don't
Speaker 2: know if you're listening, and we were having a sexual conversation.
Speaker 2: That's why I brought it up, but no, what I said,
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this think bitch like, because now I
Speaker 2: feel bad. Now this really made me feel bad. You
Speaker 2: should And then she said something about like trying not
Speaker 2: to be too harsh, like she had wrote.
Speaker 3: Me back again.
Speaker 1: But he's like she's being though direct enough to be like, listen,
Speaker 1: because this now is up to you as someone who's
Speaker 1: in a relationship who likes having fun. To me, there
Speaker 1: needs to be a conversation with what her expectations are,
Speaker 1: but also what how you plan to show up with
Speaker 1: her and so otherwise don't suck.
Speaker 2: Her literally now my new thing is so we come
Speaker 2: back in a few weeks. And I was like, of
Speaker 2: course I want to see her Labor Day weekend. But
Speaker 2: now I'm like, fuck to have someone write me that
Speaker 2: and I know I've been on that, and what do
Speaker 2: I do now?
Speaker 3: You ask her?
Speaker 1: So, what are your expectations of me and my partner?
Speaker 1: And how how can I make you feel more comfortable
Speaker 1: with enjoying us because we miss you and we enjoy
Speaker 1: you too, but we don't want to make it weird
Speaker 1: or make you feel like you're a toss away, because
Speaker 1: that's what she's even implying. She was like, bro, I'm
Speaker 1: not this. I enjoyed you would like to do it again,
Speaker 1: but not with however you've This is what makes casual
Speaker 1: sex so hard.
Speaker 4: I have so many questions. You go, so, how does
Speaker 4: that work? Because if you're adding a third, I thought
Speaker 4: that is just hey, just hit them up. Whenever you
Speaker 4: want to hook.
Speaker 1: Up as a third, as a bit, you'd a third.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, that is not how that shit works.
Speaker 1: And it makes you feel like, Bro, I'm here pleasing
Speaker 1: two people. I'm here bringing spice to your relationship to
Speaker 1: feel kind of discarded or not thought of or when
Speaker 1: you think of me, now I got to come and.
Speaker 2: Spice y'all up.
Speaker 1: Like as as just people who have casual sex too,
Speaker 1: there's still a we want to feel desired, We want
Speaker 1: to feel like we were texting weekly.
Speaker 3: I also don't live in LA but I get it.
Speaker 3: See weekly sending her stuff, and then eight months.
Speaker 2: You ain't do ship.
Speaker 4: You ghost. That's a ghost ghost texting somebody every week,
Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden, eight.
Speaker 3: Months you just go a bit.
Speaker 2: So she's she's honestly, I wasn't even in a place
Speaker 2: to have sex with anybody. Else I'm and like, I'm
Speaker 2: glad that she understood it because we've all been there
Speaker 2: where we're.
Speaker 1: Just like so fine whenever whenever anyone goes, when they
Speaker 1: get back, they're like, it's going through a lot, man,
Speaker 1: that's what.
Speaker 4: But I'm not lying even if you're not lying, but I'm.
Speaker 2: Saying I think the ghosting part is like, but you
Speaker 2: goesn't going through ship?
Speaker 4: Yes, you could just be like, hey, I'm going through
Speaker 4: something right now. I just need a little time to myself.
Speaker 2: You ain't even say so. To be honest, I didn't
Speaker 2: even know really needed to be said. I guess, and
Speaker 2: that's why she feels ghosts. And here's the other thing too,
Speaker 2: that's how ghosted we are all. Honestly, I don't know
Speaker 2: if I was ready to be as vulnerable about like
Speaker 2: not wanting to have sex with anybody else than one person.
Speaker 2: Now I gotta be naked in front of them. I
Speaker 2: was hating my body. I'm also feeling away like it
Speaker 2: was just a little too much. But what I will
Speaker 2: say is the casual sex element element to a third
Speaker 2: is a very interesting one because not gonna hold you,
Speaker 2: she's pretty gay all the way gay. Literally was like
Speaker 2: I'll maybe have sex with one guy every few years now,
Speaker 2: which means, you know, lesbians need a lot of fucking attention. No,
Speaker 2: But my point was there was no element of weighing
Speaker 2: three people together, Like there was no like, she don't
Speaker 2: want to be a girlfriend.
Speaker 3: It's totally obvious you don't like niggas like that.
Speaker 2: Actually, after set we were joking there were a few
Speaker 2: times there he was fucking and she was like, okay,
Speaker 2: like just over the day really like I mean you
Speaker 2: could be a.
Speaker 3: Third and not like intimately, not like because me I'm
Speaker 3: I'm gay, but like not gayay, like I don't want
Speaker 3: to eight, like I don't want to be with a woman,
Speaker 3: but I'll be with a couple.
Speaker 1: So like for me, that makes sense, Like I an
Speaker 1: even like that, you know what I mean. Like but also,
Speaker 1: oh wait, what was your other question?
Speaker 4: Sorry, actually you answered it already because I just don't
Speaker 4: know that dynamics.
Speaker 2: But but that's it too, and it's so it's brought
Speaker 2: up this new thing in conversation of how to make
Speaker 2: thirds feel respected, wanted and also really felt like I
Speaker 2: was doing that. But I don't do well when people
Speaker 2: don't tell me exactly what they need from me. Also
Speaker 2: this text she sent better, But for me, I just don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Like honestly, if someone's angry with me,
Speaker 2: if they don't let me know, I probably won't really know,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, you got to tell me,
Speaker 2: and I will absolutely do everything to fix it.
Speaker 3: I want things to always be in a good place.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's why I'm like, am I about to
Speaker 2: make su it worse? And now am I gonna feel obligated? Like?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: I mean if you as a if you as a
Speaker 1: person in a relationship want thirds you don't know your
Speaker 1: capacity to make someone feel how they want to be
Speaker 1: felt coming in as a third, I think it needs
Speaker 1: to be just the sex then, Like it can't be
Speaker 1: the dating, it can't be the texting, Like you might
Speaker 1: just need to have the flings and go because if
Speaker 1: someone is coming in as a third for a couple
Speaker 1: in the dynamic that you set up in the in
Speaker 1: the beginning, that works.
Speaker 4: But you know what I mean, you might just decided that, oh,
Speaker 4: this is more of like checking in with one another
Speaker 4: than just oh wyd Yeah, like when does that get discussed?
Speaker 3: I don't even know?
Speaker 2: Dog Like She also dictated the way that we would
Speaker 2: be texting. She was texting me more frequently, so I
Speaker 2: of course texted back. Okay, So I go off of
Speaker 2: how you acting. If she wouldn't have done that, I
Speaker 2: wouldn't have done that, okay, But I want to make
Speaker 2: here ffct.
Speaker 3: I also don't know, like.
Speaker 4: You just got to discuss those things like, yeah, it.
Speaker 2: Has it has to be talked about.
Speaker 1: And that's why, like me, when I dated the couple
Speaker 1: last year, it didn't last long because as we kept communicating,
Speaker 1: it was very obvious that me and the girl weren't
Speaker 1: on the same page as me and the guy. And
Speaker 1: I was like, well, this doesn't work for me, So
Speaker 1: there has to be a level, way more of a
Speaker 1: communication with the third as to what y'all are expecting.
Speaker 2: That's fair because I think the one thing we were
Speaker 2: all on the same page of is what everybody's looking for,
Speaker 2: and nobody was looking for a relationship as a trio
Speaker 2: last year. Last year.
Speaker 3: This is now.
Speaker 1: You talked to her in eight months, so she may
Speaker 1: be in a place. And it's why she said, I'm
Speaker 1: not a sex worker.
Speaker 3: Don't hate me when you do it.
Speaker 1: She said, I'm not a sex worker. I was like,
Speaker 1: but that's where so a year ago, maybe they might
Speaker 1: be doing.
Speaker 2: But she wants to see you if y'all.
Speaker 3: Can figure out what this dynamic looks like.
Speaker 1: So she may want something because I don't like no
Speaker 1: pull up shit either, I hate don't pull don't.
Speaker 3: I'm in your city and you barely hear so, and
Speaker 3: I don't do that.
Speaker 4: I'm not a nigga. What had two niggas pull up.
Speaker 3: Again? I'm not.
Speaker 1: Oh, I tell niggas I'm in their city, but I'm
Speaker 1: not a I'm in your city, bitch. Like a nigga
Speaker 1: could tell me they in my city. So but I
Speaker 1: absolutely in your city. Okay, let's do it an new segments.
Speaker 3: She lost that one way.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: I'm in your city, bitch, Like if a nigga hits
Speaker 1: me because in my in my city and we and
Speaker 1: we don't talk. I don't give a fuck that you're
Speaker 1: in my city, right, but I treat people how I
Speaker 1: don't want to be treated.
Speaker 4: And it's fine as the nigga, I'm in.
Speaker 3: Your city, but don't. I'm in your city.
Speaker 2: Me, you get it on me?
Speaker 3: Thank you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm a hypocrite.
Speaker 3: Oh, let's be very clear.
Speaker 4: Some ancient because I love you ghost bitches.
Speaker 1: In my twenties, when I would go to the clerk
Speaker 1: and the nigga had the table, I knew I was
Speaker 1: at the table where possibly other bitches he fucked because
Speaker 1: he's a boss.
Speaker 3: That's why I had the compatity yesterday and it was exciting.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna do it more often, just like
Speaker 1: invite my niggas to pull up and everybody gotta be cool.
Speaker 3: That's not.
Speaker 4: I'm surprised. I was thinking the story was gonna end
Speaker 4: that way.
Speaker 2: I would I.
Speaker 1: Would have loved for that, but the wayan hit a
Speaker 1: little too late last night and I was like, I
Speaker 1: was not, but I would have loved. I would have
Speaker 1: loved for everyone to you know, let's all love each other.
Speaker 1: But no, it didn't happen that way. But I think
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 2: Mark if Frank, you gotta really like get them niggas
Speaker 2: to start smoking. You gotta have like a pastime. It's
Speaker 2: got to be like a card game a week. Yeah,
Speaker 2: after the pool. After the pool, we did all play no,
Speaker 2: And I think.
Speaker 4: That's like you gotta do it like challengers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 3: Like whoever gets a draw for next.
Speaker 4: Has to kiss me the movie, the tennis movie Challengers.
Speaker 4: Oh you aut I got. I ain't gonna in the crackers.
Speaker 1: I am not going to tell two niggas now, y'all
Speaker 1: gotta kiss?
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no no, how do how do you
Speaker 4: do that? How do you guys ever had three?
Speaker 1: I ain't been able to make two niggas kiss. I
Speaker 1: ain't that much of a boss. I know my nigga's
Speaker 1: able to get me to kiss bitches, but no, like
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, like let's be their fathers.
Speaker 3: Let let's be very clear.
Speaker 1: Last year, my little, my little main boss nigga, I
Speaker 1: want to move like him. Literally, we was in Chicago
Speaker 1: and there was a uh there was like we I
Speaker 1: pulled up on him at a party. So we getting lit,
Speaker 1: we getting drunk. I we know we're ending the night together.
Speaker 3: Nigga.
Speaker 1: He come up to me and he's like, you see
Speaker 1: her over there? And I was like, yeah, tell her
Speaker 1: she's coming home with us tonight. I was like wait
Speaker 1: what He's like, yeah, you gotta set up. We already
Speaker 1: fucked before, but just tell her. So Literally, my main nigga,
Speaker 1: the one that I worked about plucked for, oh him,
Speaker 1: which boss? So period, so literally, so I knew they
Speaker 1: had already fucked so literally, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: Like he's like, you know.
Speaker 2: How to do it?
Speaker 3: And sure not went right up to went right up
Speaker 3: to her and was like, Hey, we know the same guy.
Speaker 3: How you doing. Let's just he wants to know if
Speaker 3: you're gonna come home with us tonight.
Speaker 1: So easy, I'm just because she was driving. She drove
Speaker 1: to the hotel, then got a little weird on the
Speaker 1: way because she was.
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, you're texting him.
Speaker 1: We only talk on Snapchat and I just don't understand,
Speaker 1: like why I don't have this number yet and I'm
Speaker 1: calling him, like, nigga, we do hewstairs, I got a number.
Speaker 2: Nigga, that's my nickel. And she like was a little
Speaker 2: in her.
Speaker 3: Feelings what they should only talk on Snapchat?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, our first two years, I only talked to
Speaker 1: him on Snapchat and now we're five years there.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with niggas are famous.
Speaker 1: What Oh that's oh you should see me? Oh bitch,
Speaker 1: I signal in Snapchat. These niggas now they don't get
Speaker 1: my number.
Speaker 4: I am.
Speaker 3: I am the nigga I.
Speaker 2: Always wanted to be.
Speaker 3: An age shit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh signal in snapchat and you don't get nuts
Speaker 1: if you want to see me bent over book a flight.
Speaker 1: I don't even send nottes, but I like to watch
Speaker 1: them jack off.
Speaker 2: So they do it all on sapchat. I feel like
Speaker 2: like I wouldn't do what No, no, no, no, it's
Speaker 2: not fair.
Speaker 3: I am not normal.
Speaker 1: Everyone listening is like this bitch is nuts, and I'm
Speaker 1: in this mood right now where it feels great to
Speaker 1: be an eight shiit nigga, Like I get why they're
Speaker 1: ain't shit for so long.
Speaker 3: Now it's fun because the people going.
Speaker 4: But you peg dude, so you can convince you they
Speaker 4: got a Rubbert dick, but you can't convince a dude
Speaker 4: to kiss another dude.
Speaker 3: Actually that's a good one.
Speaker 1: So but the guys that I peg literally aren't atricted
Speaker 1: to men and they're not gay.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm not you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: No, like we talk about it.
Speaker 4: Oh, I love listen.
Speaker 2: I'll be asking all the questions like so you ever
Speaker 2: stoked the dick?
Speaker 1: They don't like men, So that's where like the conversation
Speaker 1: around pegging is literally like these niggas not gay, but
Speaker 1: I would love to have another guy join us.
Speaker 4: Isn't it the same way you do it? Three? So
Speaker 4: it's like you're not into women, but you're joy.
Speaker 2: And I like women.
Speaker 1: I think women are beautiful. Then, But the men, the
Speaker 1: men that I've pegged literally probably is like I'm not
Speaker 1: getting hard around another nigga, Like they don't like men, but.
Speaker 2: They're taking it.
Speaker 4: They digging. Ask that shit don't make sense.
Speaker 3: Some of their medium. They're not big all the time.
Speaker 3: It's whatever they can take.
Speaker 4: I say the size.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying whatever they can. It's whatever they can.
Speaker 2: I just want you to photographer is gonna dip a
Speaker 2: team minutes ago? But you saying might as well stay now?
Speaker 1: Honestly, is this not the best episode that we recorded
Speaker 1: all week? He all right, all right, once we have,
Speaker 1: let's get into another one of our segments.
Speaker 2: Let's get into our truth or Dare segment. And basically, I'm.
Speaker 1: Acting like you all are the guests, because bitch, I've
Speaker 1: literally said too much this episode and I'm done talking.
Speaker 1: Dad shit, You're gonna do the deer, and that means
Speaker 1: you're gonna do the truth. So let's start with the
Speaker 1: truth because this is a good one and maybe I'll
Speaker 1: change it to your current relationship. What is the biggest
Speaker 1: lie that you've told in your current relationship past?
Speaker 3: You have to you want to swap.
Speaker 2: Oh see, I did you do the deer?
Speaker 3: Okay, so now you gotta do the deer, Alex.
Speaker 1: What is the biggest lie you have told in your
Speaker 1: current relationship?
Speaker 2: Okay, so he's gonna know. I think you'll know. I
Speaker 2: haven't done both talks yet, because I've been talking about
Speaker 2: doing talks, but I haven't done bothtox. And it's honestly
Speaker 2: not something I'm terrified of, right I me either. I
Speaker 2: love it, like I'm not scared.
Speaker 3: Look that's my angry face. Oh it don't move.
Speaker 2: But then sometimes I be hearing shit where like botox,
Speaker 2: like they make you think it's preventive, but like I'm
Speaker 2: just not there yet.
Speaker 3: Oh I am. Let him tell you something.
Speaker 2: So once I really started to like him, I remember
Speaker 2: he started bringing up girls because you know, men think botox.
Speaker 2: You know, when they think a filler, they just all
Speaker 2: call her botox y.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I used to think that the only thing that they
Speaker 1: do know they don't know really the difference with the face.
Speaker 3: But them bitches know what's a filler in the lip.
Speaker 2: They no, no know when men here, when men see
Speaker 2: the pillow, like, they're like, oh, she's both talks though,
Speaker 2: they'll just say that right okay, So Mamia starts talking
Speaker 2: about it like that, right mind you. I was talking
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 3: Yes, we only like our maybe fifth or six days.
Speaker 3: We were already fucking. And he was like, I like
Speaker 3: natural women like you. And I was like, ight, so
Speaker 3: now we're two years in.
Speaker 2: Now we're getting to this point of bit's about to
Speaker 2: be thirty five natural a woman.
Speaker 1: He didn't know your tists perfect too.
Speaker 3: They're old.
Speaker 1: They're all old, he said, they're all she said, So
Speaker 1: I'm natural because it's all.
Speaker 4: I didn't like that.
Speaker 3: That's a good point, grandfather, he said, it's fine now, so.
Speaker 2: Good to lie. I'm like, look, you know, I'm about
Speaker 2: to be doing brand deals now. They're gonna pay me
Speaker 2: to get this botox, babe, I'm about to get a
Speaker 2: big ass check.
Speaker 3: He's like how much?
Speaker 2: So I'm like, what's the number of this Nigga gonna like,
Speaker 2: what's the number that's gonna be like house down payment,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm like, but you're really paying for it? But you
Speaker 1: told him it was gonna be a brand deal.
Speaker 3: I'm not getting it yet.
Speaker 2: I'm just working it up. And I did have someone
Speaker 2: write me about a fucking consultation. She's like, oh, you
Speaker 2: do a consultation. I can post it to that. Like
Speaker 2: the seed is already, I'm just planting it now. And
Speaker 2: so oh, what I'm gonna say is, maybe it's a
Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars brand deal, but maybe we got paid
Speaker 2: fifty grand from I don't know, squarespace. I'm just going
Speaker 2: to connect the ad money with the botox.
Speaker 1: The fact that you're just gonna assume because there's a
Speaker 1: price tag on it, it's gonna changes my honey.
Speaker 3: If we're Mandy.
Speaker 2: For example, we went to Brooks House yesterday naked Beauty Brooke,
Speaker 2: and I was like, but now me and him both like, damn,
Speaker 2: we need to raise our budget because the houses were
Speaker 2: looking at don't look like this. What if I got
Speaker 2: a little bit and we can get a bigger house now, bitch,
Speaker 2: he about to buy a new property and flip it
Speaker 2: so we can get a bigger house.
Speaker 3: So he's doing different investments.
Speaker 1: Maybe I need to do both tops if I think
Speaker 1: it's gonna work if my partner said he doesn't really
Speaker 1: watch the project. If my partners maybe I gotta get
Speaker 1: fat for.
Speaker 2: Money, I don't. I don't. I don't want that.
Speaker 3: So like, if he's saying he don't like it, I
Speaker 3: don't know like how.
Speaker 1: Much, just because no, you can't see if he has
Speaker 1: his idea of what botox is gonna do to your face,
Speaker 1: he just doesn't get it.
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to figure out. And I feel like
Speaker 2: he see the seeds planted. Now that we're in La,
Speaker 2: I just slightly ring on boatoks at different tables. Girls like, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's stopping here. You looking at me like you crazy?
Speaker 3: Oh, he's gonna know when your face just doesn't move person,
Speaker 3: no botox. I feel like it's different though. I'm telling
Speaker 3: you I got it.
Speaker 4: Oh bitch, you think we don't know that face ain't moving.
Speaker 2: Now if I say don't know this face and got
Speaker 2: the square jaw, he don't know that, you change your
Speaker 2: whole I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying a little bit of the lift. Now. Listen,
Speaker 3: this ain't a lie, lie, it's a truth. Lie. I'm
Speaker 3: not doing this with you, Okay, okay, So Dare, let's
Speaker 3: get to.
Speaker 4: You, Alex, and that lies bad because that's like a premeditation,
Speaker 4: that's a press that is that's not like my back
Speaker 4: against all this.
Speaker 3: I want people to see that you premeditate.
Speaker 4: Lie.
Speaker 3: I didn't do it yet.
Speaker 2: I'm just think I would soon where we were at
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 1: So you can still go to jail for premeditated murder,
Speaker 1: like if they know you have to because.
Speaker 3: He's gonna know you were going someone. He's just going down.
Speaker 3: This is.
Speaker 1: This is a crime that you're committing, all right, So Alex,
Speaker 1: dare I need you to create a short dirty talk
Speaker 1: monologue like to a listener of the show I wish
Speaker 1: I had, yes, Oh yes you you You didn't want
Speaker 1: to tell us your biggest lie.
Speaker 3: You told your woman.
Speaker 4: But that's gonna hit me broken up with No.
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 1: It's it's an imaginary way, a sex, a sexy monologue.
Speaker 3: I need you.
Speaker 2: It's there. She'll be somebody to sit.
Speaker 3: In a puddle while they're at work, right now, make
Speaker 3: that pus do her for when you come home.
Speaker 2: It feels weird, okay, being asky when it come on?
Speaker 3: Well, I need you to get into your acting bag,
Speaker 3: okay and action.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is a comfortable Uh, babe, I
Speaker 4: can't wait to taste you when you get home.
Speaker 3: Think you gotta keep going.
Speaker 1: I need a monologue that was a sentence monologue is
Speaker 1: at least three to five cents.
Speaker 4: Oh yes, is too much. You don't see yet.
Speaker 3: Come on, close your eyes, close your eyes.
Speaker 4: That's it.
Speaker 3: Close your eyes and imagine.
Speaker 4: She she she wet off that no she is. I
Speaker 4: did it all right? Yeah I would.
Speaker 3: I would literally, I would literally make you fucking drink
Speaker 3: two shots for that.
Speaker 2: If we hadn't God damn liquor.
Speaker 4: I take three.
Speaker 3: I have a.
Speaker 1: Reactionary and this one is interesting because we have a
Speaker 1: man on here and I would love to know your
Speaker 1: thoughts on this.
Speaker 3: And this comes from one of your favorite people on
Speaker 3: the internet.
Speaker 2: K No, that's my favorite person. Here goes your favorite
Speaker 2: the great.
Speaker 5: A lot of women come on here, or just they
Speaker 5: don't come on here.
Speaker 3: But I just want I wish men were more honest.
Speaker 5: I just want a man that would tell me the truth.
Speaker 3: And it's like, bitch.
Speaker 2: You can't handle the truth.
Speaker 5: Because when this nigga tells you that he wants to
Speaker 5: fuck more than you, we want to have other bitches.
Speaker 5: He wants to fuck other bitches because he gets tired
Speaker 5: of your pussy from time to time.
Speaker 3: That doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Speaker 5: Your motherfucking asks is not gonna want to fuck with
Speaker 5: that nigga.
Speaker 3: If he told you that shit off rip, you would not.
Speaker 2: Fuck with him.
Speaker 5: So bitches, be sitting up here talking about I just
Speaker 5: want a man that's gonna tell me the truth.
Speaker 3: Know the fuck you now?
Speaker 5: You rather sit there for three years, get cheated on,
Speaker 5: be crying talking about I did not see this coming,
Speaker 5: and repeat the cycle over and over and over. So
Speaker 5: as women, we have to start being honest with ourselves.
Speaker 5: Fuck a man telling you the truth. You need to
Speaker 5: be honest with yourself.
Speaker 3: You need to tell yourself the truth.
Speaker 5: Why do I keep going for these niggas that I
Speaker 5: know are going to cheat on me eventually?
Speaker 3: But if a motherfucker was to tell me the truth,
Speaker 3: I would have.
Speaker 2: Okay, immediate thought love that.
Speaker 1: I literally didn't want y'all to see because I hate
Speaker 1: that that happened.
Speaker 4: Guy following so many pols stuff no, and.
Speaker 2: They followed me back. I love it.
Speaker 3: My favorite couple right now followed me back, And I'm
Speaker 3: like the one that be about the bisexual couple. Oh
Speaker 3: love them, dad, I already knew that you had to
Speaker 3: be talking.
Speaker 1: Oh my young girl Asian. Yes, the Stag couple. Thanks
Speaker 1: for the follow I love you supporting. I literally support y'all.
Speaker 1: I subscribe to their only fans. Would love y'all to
Speaker 1: come on decisions decisions And if anyone is listening, who
Speaker 1: just knows who the Stag couple?
Speaker 4: Is?
Speaker 3: You a freak asshole? Okay?
Speaker 2: Oh I am oh, yes, speak of your guys on
Speaker 2: that love love Tazzas Angels. We're Florida girls.
Speaker 3: That's Cat from Taza's Angel.
Speaker 1: So I actually think Kat is only speaking two women
Speaker 1: if she could speak to men. Do you know how
Speaker 1: many things that we think about that we don't say?
Speaker 3: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 2: First of all, let's just say a niggas getting tired, yo,
Speaker 2: pussy you probably already in him, like not stroking, like
Speaker 2: how he used to tied, of hearing his nigga far
Speaker 2: tied and him being like, there's so many shits we
Speaker 2: don't say about men that turn us off that they
Speaker 2: couldn't handle either. Can you imagine a blow to a
Speaker 2: man's ego if you actually told them how less attractive
Speaker 2: they've become.
Speaker 4: God damn you just.
Speaker 1: Like we're gonna talk about how but that niggasored with
Speaker 1: the medium ugly niggas.
Speaker 2: All my niggas still look good. Girl, That's not true
Speaker 2: all the time. The more than somebody, I don't care
Speaker 2: the finest niggas, the more that you're sitting around a
Speaker 2: nigga they start doing things have become unattractive to you.
Speaker 2: And a lot of men just seem to feel like
Speaker 2: because they're men, they could do certain things like like
Speaker 2: bart shooting with the door open. You're just watching bad
Speaker 2: hygiene habits like having a remind niggas to do certain
Speaker 2: things honestly, like anyone I know that's.
Speaker 3: In a relationship.
Speaker 2: This comedian said last night basically having a wife is
Speaker 2: like a mom that you fuck. You stop thinking for yourself. Okay,
Speaker 2: it is so true. She's like you stop thinking for yourself.
Speaker 2: It's like baby, when the last time I was thinking,
Speaker 2: that's shit real for real.
Speaker 3: That was such a good joke because it's true.
Speaker 1: And my boyfriend now, so you're saying though overall people
Speaker 1: can't handle.
Speaker 2: It, No, I think it's okay. Specifically romantic relationships. Right,
Speaker 2: maybe at work we can handle the truth about critiques feedback,
Speaker 2: and some people don't even like that bright like even
Speaker 2: think about some comments. Maybe they're critiquing our interviewing stales.
Speaker 2: Some are some are helpful, some are not. But at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, people don't know how to do
Speaker 2: things and not be mean. Now, when it comes to
Speaker 2: romantic shit, you're gonna take everything mean because it's gonna
Speaker 2: be like, ooh.
Speaker 1: Would you would you take it as a mean thing,
Speaker 1: especially in the relationship dynamic that you have.
Speaker 3: Now if your man was like, I'm bored with your
Speaker 3: pussy and see bored with you?
Speaker 1: Better way to say that, though, Like, and that's the thing, Like,
Speaker 1: there's a way to say things that, even in a
Speaker 1: nice way, it's you damned if you do, damned if
Speaker 1: you don't. I don't think a man's gonna say I'm
Speaker 1: bored of your pussy. I need to go get other pussy.
Speaker 1: But he could be like, yo, I'd really like to
Speaker 1: have fun with someone else.
Speaker 4: Tonight, Like I think, I think we want to know
Speaker 4: the truth, but we need to brace ourselves for it.
Speaker 4: So whenever you're gonna have one of those convos like
Speaker 4: a right, we need to talk and then it's like
Speaker 4: we got to both parties, got to brace your own
Speaker 4: egos and your vulnerability or what's about to come. I
Speaker 4: don't just want to be on some jim carry liar
Speaker 4: liar shit and you just say whatever the fuck.
Speaker 3: Is on your I do agree, I act.
Speaker 1: I do agree with her to the point of women
Speaker 1: would rather and this is gonna be a little toxic
Speaker 1: to say. I do believe women would rather literally get
Speaker 1: cheated on and stay through a cheater than be with
Speaker 1: a man who's open about wanting to fuck other women,
Speaker 1: which is why we.
Speaker 3: Have Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I don't
Speaker 3: I think. I think.
Speaker 1: I think women women would rather go into someone monogamous
Speaker 1: quote unquote who's a fucking cheater and stay through him cheating,
Speaker 1: then be with a nigga who identifies himself as a
Speaker 1: polynigga so you you.
Speaker 4: Don't want to hear what's going on up here all
Speaker 4: the times.
Speaker 1: And for me, that's where when we talk about these
Speaker 1: non traditional relationships, it's why I'm like, oh, most niggas
Speaker 1: is liars, but they're lying even in the dating phase.
Speaker 1: Because I do agree with her, most women don't want
Speaker 1: to know that they about to fall for a whole
Speaker 1: ass nigga that likes the multiple bitches because a woman
Speaker 1: in her ego doesn want to believe.
Speaker 2: Maybe.
Speaker 3: Plus he's the best. He's not gonna want anybody else,
Speaker 3: and I'm so great. Bitches lie to themselves not the best.
Speaker 2: That's the boredom of swissy. Like I don't get bored
Speaker 2: of my dusic, but sometimes I'm like.
Speaker 3: Oh, you want us to dig, Maybe you want of
Speaker 3: a little smaller dig at do something else.
Speaker 1: Oh that happens. We sucked at the museum yesterday. That
Speaker 1: was crazy if anyone's ever been, if we ever have
Speaker 1: solo episodes, because weez, he's locked up and keep the
Speaker 1: show going, because that is flying.
Speaker 3: You were out here doing a lot of crimes. It
Speaker 3: was an architectural museum. It wasn't really a house.
Speaker 4: By the time.
Speaker 3: Well now I'm scared to tell you guys.
Speaker 4: Would it was want to head.
Speaker 3: The mock Center.
Speaker 2: But basically it was great. So he took me to
Speaker 2: his place. Do you like to doing architecture chores? So
Speaker 2: we're going through and it's so serene and quiet, and
Speaker 2: then I opened one of the doors and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: first thing I noticed was like this is ASoP.
Speaker 3: Did y'all did y'all look and see if there was
Speaker 3: any cameras? Yeah, there was nothing. I checked. You know
Speaker 3: they can hide cameras now.
Speaker 2: I mean so maybe then I was fucking and then
Speaker 2: in the hidden bathroom camera so I could sue, but anyway, and.
Speaker 3: You could see because you were fucking in public. Maybe
Speaker 3: I did, Maybe I didn't.
Speaker 4: And then what also, like what started it? It's like, oh,
Speaker 4: look at the arches and it's like she.
Speaker 3: Gets horny going through the Starbucks.
Speaker 2: I no, okay, for one, what started it?
Speaker 4: It was an empty room, seventeen year old boy going
Speaker 4: through pubic.
Speaker 3: Crazy.
Speaker 2: You can't just.
Speaker 3: Wait till he's out home to fun. No, it was
Speaker 3: the opportunity.
Speaker 2: Like it was a Sunday, It was almost closing, nobody
Speaker 2: was around. So wooden house is this Japanese style, like
Speaker 2: the low ceilings.
Speaker 3: It was very like ooh, and it just back to
Speaker 3: what I walked in there.
Speaker 1: You have the hormones of it. Seventeen year olds, they
Speaker 1: can't fuck at home, so you gotta fuck when the
Speaker 1: opportunity presents itself.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Literally, I mean it's a comedist clu. I've had a
Speaker 2: double fucking handicap bathroom with yeah, family restrooms. That's me.
Speaker 2: And you know what's funny. He was on the way home, right,
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't believe we fucked it in
Speaker 2: the museum. He's like, yo, let me make a point.
Speaker 2: Fuckinging bathrooms is disgusting, right, He's like, unless it's like
Speaker 2: I'm at a club and it's bad, bitch, it's like
Speaker 2: this is your chance, or you're never gonna fuck me again.
Speaker 2: He's like, then you're like, all right, I gotta suffer
Speaker 2: through this nasty shit. He's like, well, that was a
Speaker 2: really nice house. Well because I was very clean, Like
Speaker 2: that was a moment. He's like, you can't fuck somebody
Speaker 2: you went with. It's a random bathroom. It's like, just
Speaker 2: go home. But that bathroom felt sexy.
Speaker 3: I took a phut of it. Okay, all right, it
Speaker 3: was good.
Speaker 4: Judge it. I'm I'm judging, like, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, I sucked it at a club bar bathroom before,
Speaker 1: but not that we die Yeah that no, that No,
Speaker 1: that's normal.
Speaker 3: Let's go bathroom. Yeah. I was eighteen when I ate
Speaker 3: plus in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: And I had sex with a Japanese style architectural home museum architecture.
Speaker 3: Bitch, it is a public space.
Speaker 2: Well, the exhibition is gonna be gone anyway, so you
Speaker 2: guys can't even fucking there.
Speaker 3: Wait, let me look it up. Really was it not?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 5: Yo?
Speaker 4: That is great?
Speaker 3: It didn't feel like a museum.
Speaker 2: Museum, we played a fee to get in, but it
Speaker 2: didn't feel center for art and architecture. This Shinn House
Speaker 2: for our that sounds even more like a public Built
Speaker 2: in nineteen twenty two, this architectural site offers art excipts
Speaker 2: and guided tours the sense and I didn't need a guide, so.
Speaker 4: Not to get too graphic, but like, are ye standing
Speaker 4: or are you sitting over a six? Okay? So you're
Speaker 4: not getting your juices on your fucking.
Speaker 3: No, it was. We were cloudy about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's you know what, Why that's the only decency
Speaker 4: you got?
Speaker 3: Where are we all with this?
Speaker 1: That you what everyone wants to be lied to? P
Speaker 1: Apparently that's what we were. That's how we got here.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like I.
Speaker 2: Think to spice up your own personal sex life, there's
Speaker 2: times where I want to masturbate and it doesn't include him.
Speaker 2: I don't want to, like, I just want my own
Speaker 2: thing I think we can have our own sexual experiences.
Speaker 3: Oh here's what I was gonna say.
Speaker 2: I actually almost ended a friendship, but she really came
Speaker 2: back in there with the that was my own insecurities
Speaker 2: type shit. So this is about the truth or a lie. No,
Speaker 2: it's about like I'll get there, okay, girls that like
Speaker 2: to be cheated on her sexual relationship. She made a
Speaker 2: comment at a dinner with a bunch of girls that
Speaker 2: I was getting cheated on openly, and I was like,
Speaker 2: why would you say that to me? You know that's
Speaker 2: not true. Do you think I'm cheating on him when
Speaker 2: I want to do my Like She's like, yeah, just
Speaker 2: because you guys talk about it, and you guys have
Speaker 2: fun talking about it, you're just open cheating, Like this.
Speaker 3: Isn't someone that really loves you. Men that really loves.
Speaker 2: Someone aren't very comfortable with this. And I chose in
Speaker 2: this moment not to bring up the fuck me because
Speaker 2: she stayed with because I felt like, you know what,
Speaker 2: I'll let you eat this. So center text the next
Speaker 2: day like, hey, friends, for a while, I think, however,
Speaker 2: you try to justify what I do. You've known me
Speaker 2: for a long time. I had a girlfriend I was
Speaker 2: doing this with then I had a boyfriend. Yes, it
Speaker 2: went wrong, read it and no holds bard.
Speaker 3: We get it.
Speaker 2: But all your relationships have gone wrong too. I haven't
Speaker 2: seen one that was successful, considering you think marriage is success.
Speaker 3: You said this, sir, Yes, okay, And so.
Speaker 2: Then you then say to me, I'm being cheated on
Speaker 2: openly and open relationships don't work.
Speaker 3: Tell me a relationship of yours that I can follow.
Speaker 2: And she felt like I was really rude from that,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I felt like you were really rude.
Speaker 2: And two weeks later she called me and she was like,
Speaker 2: you know what my constant fear is that I'll get
Speaker 2: cheated on.
Speaker 1: And I live in monogamous people that they constantly are
Speaker 1: looking for their partners to be cheating because they don't
Speaker 1: want to accept.
Speaker 2: The truth that people cheat. But I don't think monogamy
Speaker 2: is bad. I think people can thrive in monogamy.
Speaker 3: No, I think both can be said about both.
Speaker 1: Right, you could thrive as a monogamous relationship, and I
Speaker 1: love that we're having the conversation that you could also
Speaker 1: thrive in a non monogamous relationship. But in both instances
Speaker 1: there are unhealthy relationships unhealthy dynamics, and in both and
Speaker 1: in both cases you could have success or failure.
Speaker 3: I'm just tired of the very like open cheating.
Speaker 2: Let him lie to you if you know about it, bro,
Speaker 2: I'm not in a situation where like I turn my
Speaker 2: face or I'm doing this because it's twenty twenty five,
Speaker 2: What else am I gonna do. I'm doing it because
Speaker 2: I genuinely like it, Like I find it entertaining for
Speaker 2: my life. I enjoy what we do. I enjoy bringing
Speaker 2: other people in. This is also not my obsession. This
Speaker 2: is not what we do every single day or even
Speaker 2: every single week. It's a part of the sexual life
Speaker 2: that we show together. So I think people just when
Speaker 2: they hear about it, they're so obsessed with it when
Speaker 2: you live this way, because they're just like, what the fuck? Yeah.
Speaker 2: But it is coming to a point where when I
Speaker 2: see content like that, I kind of hate being non monogamous.
Speaker 3: Just let him fuck another bitch because he's gonna do
Speaker 3: it anyway.
Speaker 2: Like, nah, bro', I'm not of that cloth either. I
Speaker 2: don't believe it, just he's gonna do it anyway. I
Speaker 2: like what we have going on. I find this shit
Speaker 2: to be a turn on sexy. You can call it
Speaker 2: a version of cupholding. Whatever it is. This has been
Speaker 2: my thing. So I don't know, And like I say,
Speaker 2: I no holds bard. I didn't have some weird trauma.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 2: Doctor Umer says overly sexual people grew up some kind
Speaker 2: of way.
Speaker 3: I don't have an uncle.
Speaker 1: Fucking wait, speaking of what are y'all's thoughts on that statement?
Speaker 1: I want to ask you too, because it's been said
Speaker 1: about Shannon Sharp. When I was on Blackout Mondays with
Speaker 1: uh it was rashad Ian and they had Kenny Barnes
Speaker 1: as a as a guest, and we were talking about
Speaker 1: the Diddy trial.
Speaker 3: The common thing that I'm seeing right.
Speaker 1: Now is the downfall of a person is being over
Speaker 1: and overly sexual. Like it, over sexually person will constantly
Speaker 1: find themselves in a demise because it's an unhealthy thing.
Speaker 1: It's an unhealthy way to be essentially, And I do
Speaker 1: want to know y'all's thoughts on if overly sexual people
Speaker 1: will inevitably find themselves in bad situations.
Speaker 3: Oh hell yeah, that's actually I actually agree with you.
Speaker 2: Agree with that. Think about niggas that can't stop fucking around,
Speaker 2: But what about us? We're overly sexual.
Speaker 3: Do you think not overly sexual to the point where
Speaker 3: a clouds you just fucked in an architectural home. Well,
Speaker 3: I wasn't working there.
Speaker 4: I would say the movie theater.
Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of people that don't broke people.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's going to be like majority of
Speaker 4: people don't people.
Speaker 1: Or you get fingered in a movie, bro, majority of
Speaker 1: people do not operate like people have sex on balconies.
Speaker 4: Like in their home, in their home.
Speaker 3: Because they might be seen. People don't I need to
Speaker 3: know about.
Speaker 1: You believe we are overly sexual, bro, And so you
Speaker 1: think that we're gonna come to a device for people
Speaker 1: people not have sex in public places to I'm serious.
Speaker 3: They don't. I know you are.
Speaker 2: And this is bathroom no no.
Speaker 1: Regular people quote unquote, because we are not regular.
Speaker 2: They think I'm crazy because I have text in a
Speaker 2: museum bathroom where that no one around.
Speaker 3: We're saying you are overly sexual.
Speaker 1: But you just said overly sexual people, Well that will
Speaker 1: be their demid Like I could go to work, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: But because I'm okay, Shannon Sharp.
Speaker 4: Go to work where she talks about sexual Literally our.
Speaker 1: Job is talking about and bending over in the museum,
Speaker 1: don't want to feel back to New York or edit
Speaker 1: is Okay, Can I tell you what I was thinking
Speaker 1: in my head please?
Speaker 2: I'm thinking a lot of my homeboys that have status,
Speaker 2: uh be fucking shit up. We've worked with somebody, and
Speaker 2: this nigga just be like he can't be around another
Speaker 2: piece of talent before he's hitting on them. And it's
Speaker 2: just like doing too much to me. That's when you're
Speaker 2: like obsessed with sex type brain. Okay, that was what
Speaker 2: I was thinking when I thought about Shannon Sharp. I'm like,
Speaker 2: you can't be moving like that when you're super famous.
Speaker 2: I'm not yet. You're not not at the Mock Center
Speaker 2: now A five sex and every day people everybody would
Speaker 2: find out about it. It's different. But my point is anyway,
Speaker 2: I'm just.
Speaker 4: Saying, wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, all right, you
Speaker 4: probably don't do ra played, but I'm pretty sure you
Speaker 4: sent some explicit video or like voice chats to girls
Speaker 4: you guys are hooking up with. They can expose you
Speaker 4: and that you can have a scandal. Just like Shannon, how.
Speaker 2: It's consensual though I wouldn't do anything.
Speaker 4: Well no, no, According to him, that was consensual until.
Speaker 1: She's uncord, which yeah, like so that So even when
Speaker 1: I was having the conversation, literally the conversation kind of
Speaker 1: led to you shouldn't have that much sex or otherwise
Speaker 1: having a lot of sex. Being overly sexual will inevitably
Speaker 1: lead to you having a problem.
Speaker 2: So sexually with Shannon in particular, a lot of the
Speaker 2: big thing for us was age. That was a conversation
Speaker 2: and her literally didn't we see her say I didn't
Speaker 2: want to.
Speaker 3: You'll never find out me, So.
Speaker 1: I think you're gonna find me Texas and bitches though
Speaker 1: some nancy you know what's crazy?
Speaker 3: That's probably the worst I got.
Speaker 2: I'm sure to say what you like when you're just
Speaker 2: sending it in it like I.
Speaker 3: Literally said that in a text message recently.
Speaker 1: So I got a nigga coming to Jamaica and and
Speaker 1: we haven't fucked yet, but we've been. He wants to
Speaker 1: experience to make and I'm like, okay, we might fuck,
Speaker 1: but also you ain't my nigga, So if you want
Speaker 1: to fuck somebody else, cool, if we fuck, cool.
Speaker 3: So we're like getting through. I'm having all the conversations
Speaker 3: like what are you into?
Speaker 2: What are you not into?
Speaker 4: D D?
Speaker 3: And he was like I was.
Speaker 1: I of course wanted to know if I could bend
Speaker 1: him over, so I get to like and mind you,
Speaker 1: I do that by like here's my little chick. Now
Speaker 1: here's a new trick to see how freaking nigga is.
Speaker 1: So all my porn is on Twitter, right, so I'd
Speaker 1: just be sending that porn from Twitter, so I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to get his reaction on everything. So
Speaker 1: literally between literally between a bitch licking balls and like
Speaker 1: some regular vanilla sex was the pegging. And so because
Speaker 1: he was responding back like oh yeah, I'm with all
Speaker 1: this shit d So the peggy was right there, bitch.
Speaker 3: That's the video he responded to. And he put a
Speaker 3: little tear drop mind you drop because he was like
Speaker 3: might He's like, I don't know about that, mind you.
Speaker 1: It was a man being ran on a train with
Speaker 1: two women, So I said, oh, so minus one girl.
Speaker 4: I was like, you don't.
Speaker 3: Want to been over into in front of two bitches,
Speaker 3: just one. So I'm like, we could do this a private, sir, so.
Speaker 1: Set it on his so literally, uh he was he
Speaker 1: was uh, I think eating Yeah, he was in between
Speaker 1: two women, but he was bent over for one, and
Speaker 1: I think eating the pussy of the other.
Speaker 3: Oh so so literally.
Speaker 1: I'm asking him all these things, and literally he said,
Speaker 1: but so I feel like you know able to have fun.
Speaker 3: So he's like, I'm cool with whatever. Try whatever.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 1: I said, Oh no, I literally had to say. I said, listen,
Speaker 1: my mind goes wild. And I said, I don't go
Speaker 1: into sex just thinking I can do something without having
Speaker 1: a conversation for him, because a nigga could say I
Speaker 1: raped him.
Speaker 3: And he laughed at that, and I was like, oh no,
Speaker 3: like this is a thing.
Speaker 1: Women can do that too, And I'm not going into
Speaker 1: sex as someone who talks about consent as someone who
Speaker 1: is sexually into a lot of shit. Don't just tell
Speaker 1: me I can do whatever to you in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: because that's no. You might have something that says no.
Speaker 1: And I don't want to ruin the mood when I
Speaker 1: pull out of goddamn dial dough and be like, all
Speaker 1: right now, been over clapped them cheeks, Like that's gonna.
Speaker 3: Ruin the mood.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, before I go into the bedroom with anybody,
Speaker 1: or before I get kinky with anyone.
Speaker 2: All of that is discussed. What do you like? Would
Speaker 2: you not like I'm not going can you.
Speaker 1: It's giving. I'm bringing the strap just in case it's given.
Speaker 3: Like you gotta bring a real skinny one. I think
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring a skin I got one, a little
Speaker 3: like a cone. It's real thin.
Speaker 2: She fucks women. She probably straps women.
Speaker 4: I'm thinking, you know, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: I don't ever strap women a lot.
Speaker 2: No, you know, my man, you think he ever gonna live?
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy?
Speaker 1: That's always the questions when I be dealing with with
Speaker 1: with niggas, like they'd be like hey, I'll be like, no,
Speaker 1: he wasn't one of them. Like I have never pegged
Speaker 1: anyone I've been in a relationship with, but my old
Speaker 1: niggas back in, Like I'll be finding niggas that I
Speaker 1: can't do it.
Speaker 2: Too, but I ain't been in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I gonna try again when he's fifty, Oh, try again,
Speaker 1: but just like you're gonna ask him to peg him
Speaker 1: when fifteenth, Like as.
Speaker 3: A fifteenth the kids fucking twenty, what are we gonna
Speaker 3: do it?
Speaker 4: Let's go, yeah, but just like start with fingers and
Speaker 4: just see progress.
Speaker 1: And that's baby talk, fingers in the asses, baby talk.
Speaker 4: That's too far for me. So I'm saying, if you.
Speaker 2: Go to that too far for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, really, I'll do a little tongue, a little tongue.
Speaker 3: If you do a little tell you do a little bit.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Bro, If you will do tongue on your boodha hole,
Speaker 1: you will do a thing.
Speaker 3: That's literally what I was saying. Tongue and fingers the
Speaker 3: same ship.
Speaker 4: So maybe when I turn fifty and I get a
Speaker 4: prostetic exam, then then I'll start this.
Speaker 3: So after the prostet exam, you'll start letting.
Speaker 4: No, I don't know, I'm gonna see how I don't
Speaker 4: like it. I just don't like you.
Speaker 1: During your prostet exams like you would to know going
Speaker 1: on you see them. She does the but she could
Speaker 1: just do dalns like me.
Speaker 2: No, to be honest, she's a little too dominant like
Speaker 2: she might she might go to ain't get and I
Speaker 2: really don't see if she could stop halfway like she
Speaker 2: doesn't give you, gentle girl. She looks like she don't
Speaker 2: you agree dniesia like you. He check it up.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Okay, hold for before. Yeah it's crazy. Oh,
Speaker 6: I have a question to me. This is old, but
Speaker 6: it's still relevant. The t app leak.
Speaker 3: Oh oh you downloaded it right?
Speaker 2: What about it?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: I went to do it, and then when I saw
Speaker 1: the little breach of everything, I didn't because I didn't
Speaker 1: get to.
Speaker 2: The part where I uploaded all my show. I got
Speaker 2: exacted before the breach. So y'all got me in bed
Speaker 2: looking crazy.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, they got yourself. You know
Speaker 1: the round uploaded.
Speaker 2: It's out in the breach.
Speaker 3: I think I got on my phone.
Speaker 4: How do you guys feel about the app in general?
Speaker 4: Because you have women as like, oh, this is protective
Speaker 4: for women, you have to do it just like now
Speaker 4: this I don't like flat.
Speaker 3: So allegedly that's what that's what it was supposed to do.
Speaker 1: It was supposed to be this community to keep women safe. Now, however,
Speaker 1: you have women on there that are literally can say
Speaker 1: anything about a man.
Speaker 3: I personally don't think the app is great.
Speaker 1: I think no one should be able to create a
Speaker 1: profile about you and go on there and say anything
Speaker 1: and there's nothing to fact check if it's true.
Speaker 3: Here's how it works.
Speaker 2: Okay, everything is anonymous, Screenshots are impossible, all women are verified.
Speaker 2: You can post all across the country. You can set
Speaker 2: alerts for a man's name. They donate ten percent of
Speaker 2: the money to domestic rate, so it was the same
Speaker 2: to keep them. They run background checks, they check criminal records,
Speaker 2: check for sex offenders, look up phone numbers.
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, background check on So here's the day you
Speaker 1: have they do the background check on the man. I
Speaker 1: don't I don't really understand that part because oh here,
Speaker 1: look adet on Josh. So right now they're showing me
Speaker 1: someone has anyone been on a date with him? So
Speaker 1: you can click no t I have tea, No ta
Speaker 1: on him, No tea on Sam?
Speaker 2: Who is happening? Has herpie? Is an abusive pedophile?
Speaker 3: You see?
Speaker 4: Holy shit?
Speaker 3: Two comments? Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I messaged him when I was like nineteen, I'm thirty now.
Speaker 2: He gave me three b vibes and I blocked him.
Speaker 2: Next person, you can see the demonic spirit in his eyes.
Speaker 3: Not trying to be funny. See that to me is
Speaker 3: to me too. Look, how do you know he's a pedophile?
Speaker 2: Is it a label? Let me see another.
Speaker 3: One to label someone a pedophile? I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I didn't know it worked like this when I download it.
Speaker 3: I never used it.
Speaker 4: Actually, that's what I'm saying to me.
Speaker 3: I don't like the app.
Speaker 1: And what's even crazier is the creator of the goddamn
Speaker 1: app created it because his goddamn mama was out there
Speaker 1: having goddamned relationships.
Speaker 3: With inmates five comments whoa so.
Speaker 1: Yes, and he felt a way about his mom dating
Speaker 1: literally prisoners. So this is an app to make them
Speaker 1: safe because clearly yo, mama was out here on criminal.
Speaker 4: I think to fix this just open it up to
Speaker 4: men and women. Because they said, no, this is men.
Speaker 2: Can't men can't know.
Speaker 3: Men have their own version.
Speaker 4: They said, no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie. I don't
Speaker 4: think women should be able to go. I don't think
Speaker 4: you're saying something about me. I should be able to
Speaker 4: I don't think anything like this.
Speaker 2: Let's just say that you broke up with a guy
Speaker 2: and you're mad at them.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can lie about somebody, but you every right, And
Speaker 1: so an app that you could literally create a profile
Speaker 1: for someone, upload their pictures and now people can just
Speaker 1: say whatever they want about them.
Speaker 4: Like But I do think there's a lot of benefit
Speaker 4: to warning women about like other men, because there there
Speaker 4: are some that.
Speaker 1: There's a there's a website. I can't remember the exact
Speaker 1: name for it. But with with Sesta Fasta, they literally
Speaker 1: removed all the sites that sex workers were using to
Speaker 1: literally keep other sex workers safe. So there's literally websites
Speaker 1: already created where you can and of course sex workers normally.
Speaker 3: Have to get their idea, but they literally talk about.
Speaker 1: Unsafe predatory men who go after sex workers. And when
Speaker 1: those got removed because of Systafosta, literally the sex work community.
Speaker 2: Was like bro power.
Speaker 3: It was an act put out.
Speaker 1: It's like act put out to help sex workers and
Speaker 1: you know, like no, it's pretty much well no, no, no,
Speaker 1: to help sex workers under pronation for those who are listening.
Speaker 2: It was like blocking certain sex trafficking sites. However, it
Speaker 2: blocked a lot of sites that women used to confirm
Speaker 2: and talk with each other about to say safe. So
Speaker 2: let's just say that you're about to take I don't
Speaker 2: know some do that you met on line.
Speaker 3: John and a lot of girls they actually their in calls.
Speaker 3: They request ideas to verify these Johns. And these are
Speaker 3: high level escorts right or either they.
Speaker 1: Work on from eros or these aren't like street walkers.
Speaker 3: These are escorts is what they do.
Speaker 1: So when you do in calls, you normally have to
Speaker 1: verify send me a LinkedIn I need to make sure
Speaker 1: your name as your booking me is who you are.
Speaker 1: And so what they would do is if they encountered
Speaker 1: a man who didn't pay, or was really aggressive in bed,
Speaker 1: or made a woman feel unsafe, they could go to
Speaker 1: this site and be like, hey, guys, this guy John
Speaker 1: D in the DMV. Don't see him. This was my
Speaker 1: experience and it kept a lot of girls for weeding
Speaker 1: out the bad.
Speaker 4: John essentially gotcha.
Speaker 2: But the t app is specific like to be, and
Speaker 2: it really births from are we dating the same guy?
Speaker 2: From Facebook? Now that I've actually seen men I know,
Speaker 2: never a man I dated. I've seen men I know
Speaker 2: and like, I'm not gonna hold you. I've never seen
Speaker 2: something like bullshitty on there, and I think the reason
Speaker 2: is because it's not anonymous.
Speaker 3: You on Facebook, it's not anonymous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you really got to use your Facebook profile to
Speaker 1: get accepted. So that's my question. The comments on the tap,
Speaker 1: you couldn't see who left those comments, the user names only.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't like that. So to me, to me,
Speaker 1: there's nothing dope, there's a there's a there's a website
Speaker 1: that you know, I bleep out if it ever even
Speaker 1: gets mentioned on here, because you can go on there
Speaker 1: and say anything as an anonymous as an anonymous source.
Speaker 3: To me, I don't think there should be any app where.
Speaker 1: It's specific to just going on talking about people though,
Speaker 1: Like that is what Reddit is.
Speaker 2: So maybe thatsite in particular is a gossip site, but
Speaker 2: it's strictly just a thread.
Speaker 3: Because remember, like I'm fine with message boards.
Speaker 1: This those type of ship is where I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: Reddit is like a message board of information a right, Yes.
Speaker 3: You have people on there with their same without the
Speaker 3: other site.
Speaker 2: It's the same because when I was a kid, I
Speaker 2: would go on there for hair shit.
Speaker 3: And then actually it's funny because no.
Speaker 4: But we're talking about are you dating the same guy?
Speaker 2: It's no, yeah, but I'm saying all of it is
Speaker 2: the same type of shit.
Speaker 3: It's just people will start.
Speaker 2: To abuse it and use it in certain ways. Like
Speaker 2: for example, also I remember Britney Britney Hampton posted and
Speaker 2: was like, yo, I remember when ls A was a
Speaker 2: thing to find a fucking guy or something on a guy,
Speaker 2: And now is this so it's like and even with that,
Speaker 2: like Reddit and any other gossip blog, you could kind
Speaker 2: of see, for example, when someone made it, if they've
Speaker 2: been contributing right, like, you could kind of see like,
Speaker 2: all right, this is a fake person who could just
Speaker 2: be like you can kind of dig into the tee
Speaker 2: with this. It could just be totally anyone ruined it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't like that. That's why I'm not gonna be
Speaker 2: it either. I'm not a fan. I won't be downloading it.
Speaker 3: But also I think the niggas I fuck wouldn't be
Speaker 3: on there, so I looked.
Speaker 4: I think somebody should create a better version of that.
Speaker 4: No anonymity.
Speaker 1: I think you should have anonymity, And I think like,
Speaker 1: let us all know you fuck this broke as eight
Speaker 1: shit ass nigga like you as a woman, if you
Speaker 1: have something to say about the man, we should be
Speaker 1: able to.
Speaker 2: Know or at least, hey, I'll be private on this thread,
Speaker 2: y'all could DM me and I'll talk to you something
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 4: Just know you're protecting women. If you're protecting the women.
Speaker 3: Let us know that you was fucking with that Asian period. Well,
Speaker 3: I hope that take it to the grave or take
Speaker 3: it to the goddamn grave. I do want to check
Speaker 3: that artist nigga on there. He's all blast. Who are
Speaker 3: you think they telling? Oh?
Speaker 1: It's so funny because when it came out Captain Hood,
Speaker 1: you know, because he'd be outside. I said, if any
Speaker 1: nigga that I was fucking was gonna be on there,
Speaker 1: it was probably gonna be him.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm not talking.
Speaker 2: What happened. It was three years ago, but still I'll
Speaker 2: just be like, is he under a bridge?
Speaker 3: Like what's going on anyway? You care about?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: I mean, I for me, bitch, you'd be embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I mean if it was three years ago, like you,
Speaker 1: dealing with a nigga that fell off, that's not embarrassing.
Speaker 3: Niggas fall off every day by sure. Oh there's Oh.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie im.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. There's niggas right now that was
Speaker 3: fucking in my twenties.
Speaker 2: Athletes. I'm embarrassed now.
Speaker 3: The one that sold that urban life. That was crazy.
Speaker 2: You showed me a dude. He's so cute too. Back
Speaker 2: in the day he had locks.
Speaker 1: Oh look, I was going to So there was an
Speaker 1: old football player that got into urban life.
Speaker 3: He got just you're ready along they got just bring
Speaker 3: it to.
Speaker 1: Him in the club in Atlanta, and I forgot who
Speaker 1: he was at first. I'll be forgetting what mind you
Speaker 1: hold on another niggas?
Speaker 3: So this is gonna be sound real bad.
Speaker 4: So this.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, I saw somebody and
Speaker 1: we used to talk when he lived in New York,
Speaker 1: when he played for the Knicks no longer. Like, all
Speaker 1: I know is he's like, oh, don't tell me you forgot.
Speaker 1: Do you know how Leyden laid in bed all night?
Speaker 1: Was like did I fuck him? And I literally had
Speaker 1: to think. I couldn't remember, Oh I got one. I
Speaker 1: could not remember whether we fucked or not. Someone from
Speaker 1: high school. By the way, we didn't fuck in high school.
Speaker 1: I know there was a moment in Miami. I just
Speaker 1: don't know if we fucked. Girl I know sent me him.
Speaker 1: She was like, oh my god, look he got married,
Speaker 1: great looking family. Happy for them.
Speaker 3: So I left for comment like you guys look amazing, congratulations.
Speaker 2: A homegirl hit me like, yo, you petty. I'm like,
Speaker 2: why am I petty? She said, didn't you fuck him?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, and I think so. So now I'm
Speaker 2: trying to know you're petty.
Speaker 1: You're really there's niggaus you fucked and you're nice to
Speaker 1: them after the fact that petty.
Speaker 4: That's actually to me.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you if I'm in a relationship
Speaker 3: ship with a nigga. I don't want any bitch.
Speaker 1: That you fucked to be up under your comments saying,
Speaker 1: oh my god, so happy for this family and union.
Speaker 2: Why kid, I'm gonna be honest with you, bro, it's
Speaker 2: not my ex boyfriend who cares.
Speaker 3: Bro me if I if I fucked like, I ain't
Speaker 3: gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: If I fucked a nigga, I'm not under his comments saying,
Speaker 1: oh you and your wife looks so happy.
Speaker 2: Think I fucked him?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you can't be happy for somebody.
Speaker 1: Yeah, be happy in private, think, think it in your mind.
Speaker 1: But to post what a what a post on social media?
Speaker 2: Dude, I fucked Maybe not that long, maybe six years ago.
Speaker 3: Twenty nineteen era.
Speaker 1: Not era, that's the era of twenty nineteen. I was
Speaker 1: holding the era of twenty nineteen. Me and Pinons broke
Speaker 1: up at twenty eighteen.
Speaker 3: I was heart broken. So ba's a era he.
Speaker 2: Posted like the Sonogram ship or whatever. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, maybe you guys have a happy, healthy pregnancy.
Speaker 2: This looks like congratulations that in your mind.
Speaker 4: I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 1: You move differently, I'm saying for me, if I had
Speaker 1: a nigga dick in my mouth, I'm not congratulating him
Speaker 1: on his happiness on Instagram. I could be like, oh dope,
Speaker 1: he moved on unfollowed. I don't follow niggas.
Speaker 2: I see him be happy even years you don't do them.
Speaker 3: But now now we have to fuck again, you're gonna
Speaker 3: be a cheaper I actually want to know if everybody
Speaker 3: feels this way.
Speaker 2: I think it has to be a what is the
Speaker 2: statute of limitations to What if I sucked your dick
Speaker 2: in middle school, which I wasn't doing.
Speaker 1: I didn't suck dick to high school. That just sounded
Speaker 1: crazy to me. If I've had intimate relations with you, that.
Speaker 4: Was a limitation.
Speaker 2: I've had intimate relations with you.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's appropriate for me to be up
Speaker 1: under the country.
Speaker 2: What do you mean if you fuck the girl, you
Speaker 2: could do it. I fuck my friends.
Speaker 1: That is different, like no and women are different.
Speaker 4: I disagree if the thing yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: That's why I said, like, that's weird, but like a
Speaker 2: nigga just fun. So he's.
Speaker 1: I ain't going if I'm dating aga and I know
Speaker 1: he sucked the bitch and she up under the comments
Speaker 1: like and shit, we got beat, bitch. Take your comments,
Speaker 1: take your likes. You don't need to be up under like.
Speaker 2: I think this.
Speaker 1: I think it's petty for a woman to do that,
Speaker 1: or I feel like there's still some.
Speaker 3: It's packing too.
Speaker 1: Now you really thinking, like I wonder if it's petty
Speaker 1: the way my homegirl reacted me and she believed me, y'all,
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even remember sucking up so happy. Also,
Speaker 1: do you know how off that I was, Like, I
Speaker 1: left that comment and forgot it. No for me, I
Speaker 1: come in and keep your comming, marriage, college, new business.
Speaker 3: Yes, hid those are all diry, those are all different.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you liking a picture of a nigga
Speaker 1: with his family or bitch or and you don't fuck
Speaker 1: It's why.
Speaker 2: How many niggas like my picture When I posted, I mean,
Speaker 2: let me see that jock got anybody?
Speaker 3: Oh you posted your man? No, not like that.
Speaker 2: I just posted and picking me up because I had
Speaker 2: a nice bigger with.
Speaker 4: The soft launch and shit like either post.
Speaker 2: What's it called I've ever had on a photo because it.
Speaker 4: Was probably you don't show here.
Speaker 3: Like anybody like I don't really have a lot of
Speaker 3: interaction with niggas.
Speaker 2: How I like that?
Speaker 4: Huh No, it should don't be ending good right done?
Speaker 2: I hate each other?
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, there's just been another episode.
Speaker 3: If you want to.
Speaker 1: Hear more stories, what's crazy because I feel like I
Speaker 1: don't sound like I'm healed or that I need therapy
Speaker 1: on this episode. But I'm just really enjoying being a
Speaker 1: nigga right now. It's the sun, it's the summer. It's
Speaker 1: a hot girl summer, bitch, come out, talker, come on tober.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna want a boyfriend, but no, I'm having a
Speaker 1: great time this summer.
Speaker 3: It's just great. That's why y'all gotta keep swiping.
Speaker 2: Yet.
Speaker 3: Well, and Ryan, I'm actually on there for friends I'm meeting.
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