1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: the Black Effect podcast network. It's turning five, five years 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: of powerful voices, unforgettable moments, and a community that keeps growing. 4 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: This is the power of the platform. Now let's get 5 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: into it. When I tell you, I saw him, but 6 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: I had to lead like Cinderella leve Glass slipper type. 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: But I met him at this little party. I literally 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: hit up the person that I knew through the party, 9 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: I said, I need that. So I didn't even get 10 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: his number, didn't get his Instagram. 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: So now he a part of the ross that show 12 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: for you. 13 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: Oh so, Alex, I need you to create a short 14 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: dirty talk monologue. 15 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 2: Okay, be nasty. 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 3: When it come on. Well, I need you to get 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 3: into your acting bag and action. 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 3: I don't think you should say decision decisions. 20 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: It sounded like you was talking to this person. You 21 00:00:55,880 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 2: definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast. Want 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: to say together, decisions decisions. 23 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode decisions decisions on your 24 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: girl medb. Sorry I just felt like doing that, because listen, 25 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: this tip has been hot and see me for me, 26 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: it's been great, you do not have that guy? 27 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, can I be just can I be inappropriate 28 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 3: real quick? 29 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 2: Your girl got that effect on me. 30 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: I really like her, Like if we were beefy and 31 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: she wasn't so respectable to you, I would probably try it, Like. 32 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: She couldn't be further from I'm so mad she's not 33 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: you don't want to like a little too straight, like I'm. 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: Not gonna lie like you know how we like we 35 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: talked about like like I don't like you, Alex, but 36 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: I would join you. 37 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 3: For her, like I like her a lot. 38 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: And then whenever she's because we've hung out it for 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: gola e last night, all my friends loved her. 40 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 3: They're like, oh my god, I really like her. She's 41 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: so like, she's amazing. 42 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: I don't know how to fuck you got how to 43 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: fu you got so like to pull that because goddamn. 44 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: She's amazing. 45 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 3: She's just such a good person. 46 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 4: Who wanted the same thing about your boyfriend. Why do 47 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 4: you deal with they? 48 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 3: Like, let me tell you crazy bitches good pussy. 49 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 2: She's not crazy? 50 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 4: Is your girl crazyment? Please has a moment? 51 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: Mean bitch is good pussy too. She's what I mean, 52 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: nice bitches, A good pussy. I fucked some nice bitches 53 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: and they had good pussy. Maybe they were nice to you. 54 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 2: Do you know what she said when I signed the 55 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 2: Least the other day? I was signing the Least and 56 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: he goes, I won't say her name. Uh yeah, oh 57 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: was she here? I was like no, He's like, well 58 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: she was. I would have had you. 59 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 3: Been very long time. She doesn't funk around. You can't 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: do anything wrong. I mean wow. I was like, oh, yeah, 61 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: she's from Spain. Yeah. 62 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, then, oh no, you should have. 63 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: You should have seen her yesterday. 64 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: She was like, the next time you leave stuff around 65 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: the studio, can you just let me know? Because I 66 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: would have thrown away the fucking wake of the goddamn ship. 67 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: And then someone said that it was for it was 68 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: for decision decisions. 69 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 3: She was like, shit, because I'd be coming in the 70 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 3: fucking studio. Do you know how people just leave their 71 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: ship everywhere? 72 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: And she's like, I just have to go in there, 73 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: and I just I was throwing everything out, and I 74 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: could throw away y'all ship that y'all left in there, but. 75 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 3: Goddamn it, people leave shit in there all the goddamn time. 76 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 3: And I was like Oh sorry, didn't know. 77 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, why do you think I would feel bad 78 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: when we would go out and I knew he had 79 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 2: to go home, but oh, my name is Weezy and 80 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: we're here with Alex. Can't believe it. 81 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: I can't believe it. God damn, I'm not sure how 82 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: the fuck you're here again. 83 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: I'll be here, I'll you'll be around, you'd be around. 84 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: And those are shorts, not a scirt. Really, I knew 85 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: that those were everybody knows. 86 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 2: I do a whole horrible forty five minutes and it 87 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: gets returned if it ain't rent the runway, it's rented 88 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 2: and returned. That is hilarious. I've been actually very worried 89 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: that one day I'll get so famous I'll have a 90 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: Joe Budden Kit moment, because is that there was a 91 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: moment y'all where he took a photo to return and 92 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: return something. Oh and people dry do for that, bitch. 93 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: I'll be scared. I'll walk in the store. Are you 94 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 3: but on some real shit though? 95 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: When it comes to like and I don't feel like 96 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 2: she and her fashion over returns count because it's fucked 97 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 2: up capitalism and also they probably have child slaves. 98 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: I'm not. 99 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 4: I'm not returning. 100 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 3: I'm not returning she and I just give it to 101 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 3: my friends if it doesn't fit. 102 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 2: I'm not returning shit. No, I just when we record, 103 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: bulk record, I'll just order ten things and then I 104 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: keep it too. 105 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: Oh, I ain't gonna hold you the way, y'all just 106 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: about to get these repeated outfits. All of my closets 107 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: are full, and I'm just like, no, y'all just gonna 108 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: see me and what I You don't need to. 109 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: Be like recycling clothes wearing shit. Anyway, let's start talking 110 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 2: about the niggas that she was about to for this weekend. 111 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 1: Oh that is crazy. We're marri Wait are we deep 112 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: enough to the first off? I'm dating and I'm having 113 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: a great time, thanks very much, Okay, I guess okay, 114 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: so catch up. 115 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: We'll catch up. 116 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: I'm out here in La having a grand all time jeweled. 117 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: I didn't know Mandy had a new boyfriend. 118 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: I said, oh that is okay, So I don't date, 119 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: but I stepped out. Okay, So yesterday was my day off. 120 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: Well out here, you know, people had to be with 121 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: their fans. You have everyone. I had a Sunday fun day. Okay, God, 122 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: damn it. So anyways, nothing I wanted more than to 123 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: just be at the pool. So normally when I come 124 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,119 Speaker 1: to La, it's between recording. I have breakfast, lunch, fucking 125 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: dinner schedules. Everyone and everything is so far in fucking La, 126 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: everything is deep, everything is thirty minutes away. Ubers are 127 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: fifty dollars minimum every single fuck New York. Well I'm 128 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: not in New York no more, bitch, My ubers are 129 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 1: eight dollars. I live in at Lanster, now, okay, bitch, 130 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: life is cheap. 131 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 2: Okay. 132 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: So I come out here and I'm like, fuck, I said, 133 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: you know what, Fuck this time, I'm gonna get the pool. 134 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a cabana, and everyone that wants to 135 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: fucking see me can just come and meet me at 136 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 1: the pool. 137 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 3: So what do I do? 138 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: Invite everybody, friends and all the niggas I'm talking to. 139 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: So I got a little, one little nigga that i'd 140 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: be seeing out here. I call him a little Wyan 141 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: because he under thirty, over twenty four. 142 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: Now Wyan's are under thirty. 143 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: He's under thirty. Yeah, yeah, that's what that's what Awayian is. Yeah, 144 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 2: I know, I really thought Ryan was like, you know, 145 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: when they be looking like teenager age, like twenty one 146 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 2: twenty two. 147 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 3: I thought that was wyan. 148 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: I think just under thirty is one. Hold on, wait 149 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 2: well wait wait, we'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. 150 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: Let's debate wyan. I'm saying I would. 151 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: Love to do a pool I gotta remind myself, but yeah. 152 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 3: Wayan is under thirty. 153 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: So AnyWho, So I do the pool day and I'm like, 154 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: you know what, whoever pulls up? Like I knew, I 155 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 1: had my little spin limit, I got the cabana. 156 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: I'm the boss. 157 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: So because I'm the boss and I just know how 158 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: bosses move. I invited all the niggas. I'm fucking one 159 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: of fuck talking to just met on ryo, who knows? 160 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: And so, anyway, did you meet the person before they 161 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 2: showed up? What do you mean the person you met 162 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: online on RYA? No, that he was pulling up to 163 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: meet for the first time. Yeah, because I got busy 164 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 2: the day before, and so. 165 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: What I got busy today before, so pull up on 166 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: me at the pool on with my friends? 167 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: Pull up? 168 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: I didn't like, you know what? 169 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: So then you don't want to date. 170 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to date. None of these niggas. 171 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm outside, so anyways, I tell him to pull up, 172 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: but also my Wayian texting me too, I'm at the pool, 173 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: pull up. 174 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know they were gonna both really pull up. 175 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: And so now a nigga that's a prospect and a 176 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: nigga that is great dick, and they ain't going nowhere 177 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: are there at the same time. 178 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 3: And I think I handled it very well. 179 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: One who stayed in the pool, the other in the campana, 180 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: and I just went back and forth and entertained them both, 181 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: made sure they had drinks and it was great. And 182 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: then Wyan left and I stayed with the guy. The 183 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: guy from Riot ended up like joining us for dinner. 184 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: We went to a comedy club. 185 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: It was great. 186 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 3: So let me tell you we saw literally hold off 187 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 3: mind you. 188 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I don't really be outside with 189 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: my niggas like that. It's like, just just come home, 190 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: like I don't really be outside. And then we had 191 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: a good dinner. He was really nice to my friends, 192 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: like he seemed nice. He paid for it, like we 193 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: went out, so it was me he paid for he 194 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: paid for Elliott Jacob Elliott was with a friend, say. 195 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 4: The whole table he paid. 196 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: He paid for Nigga. 197 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, but Jacob and paid for Elliott and 198 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: Ellie ed. Elliott had another friend with them, so paid 199 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: for the whole table. 200 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 3: Yes, a grown ass man. He paid for everybody. 201 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: He paid and you know that made my pussy though. 202 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: So then I was like, okay, would paid for everybody? 203 00:08:58,640 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: Get whatever? 204 00:08:59,240 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: Like it was. 205 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So then we go to the 206 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: So then we go we go to the comedy club. 207 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: Jacob has like he set it up for us, so 208 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 1: he paid for everyone's drinking the comedy club. And it 209 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: was just like, Okay, I really like this guy. And now, yeah, 210 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: I guess I might see him again in New York. 211 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 3: You're gonna be back in LA again. 212 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, he don't live here, so we'll probably 213 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: meet somewhere else New York something like that. But he 214 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: was really nice and he's older, so I was like, oh, 215 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: look at me, like broad spectrum. 216 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 3: I even had to ask him. 217 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: I was like, are you a millennial question? I don't 218 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 2: feel like autism. 219 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: Literally, I mean, well, I got my under thirty and 220 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: then I got my above forty. I do realize after 221 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: Captain Hook being in the club, I want none of 222 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 1: none of the niggas in the thirty All y'all could stay. 223 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: I don't want nobody in the thirty over. I want 224 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: under thirty over forty. 225 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 3: Let's go. And right now my roster is really pinning 226 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 3: out great towards the end of the summer. I'm loving it. 227 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 4: The under thirty isn't in the club, Coop, He's. 228 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 3: Not really in the club. 229 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 2: He's artsy, so okay, maybe that he does. 230 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 3: The under thirty. 231 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: He does like industry shit, so when he's out, it's working. 232 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: It's not like I met him during. 233 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: During a weekend, but he had a whole art installation 234 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, when I tell you, I saw him, 235 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: but I had to lead like Cinderella leff a glass 236 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: slipper type shit, like I had to go see another nigga. 237 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: But I met him at this little party so much. 238 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: So I liked him so much. Let me tell you. 239 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 2: I hit up Ivy. 240 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: I said, Ivy, who was the art nigga? But I 241 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: literally hit up the person I knew through the party. 242 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: I said, I need that nigga, but I had to 243 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: leave for another nigga, so I didn't even get his number, 244 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: didn't get his Instagram. 245 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 3: I just was like, ooh, I like him, and then yeah, 246 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 3: so now he a part of the roster. 247 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: But yeah, I listen for you. 248 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: Oh it's it's great. 249 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: But yeah no, So anyways, I do the late show 250 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: for the comedy club. These motherfuckers. Of course, of course, 251 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: this is how it happens. We show up to go in, 252 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 1: these niggas are all coming out. Me and this nigga 253 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: hold a hand. 254 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 3: No, no, no. 255 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: I was very much giving family day. 256 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 3: Yes, we were like, oh, I was like, let's do early. 257 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 2: We got horrible late pring mom, We're on this double day. 258 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: It was really family ish. Then Jacob comes out the 259 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 3: car first. 260 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 2: They're like a bad bitch shit he is shout out 261 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: to Jacob. Then I see Stacy come out as one 262 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: of Mandy's friends. I'm like, oh, so Mandy must be 263 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 2: coming out of the car. But then a man gets. 264 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 3: Out first and holds his hand out for this woman 265 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 3: to go. I said, he. 266 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: Was very very much, very charming, very oh helps me 267 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: out like he was great. 268 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: He was great. 269 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 3: You know, I will say I'm not getting that kind 270 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 3: of stuff. 271 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: I will say too, why you probably don't think he's 272 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 1: my type, y'all would be very proud of me, probably right. 273 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: At six foot. Oh. 274 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: That was why I didn't think, yeah, he's short, mm hmm, okay, 275 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: he's I don't think he's six foot so maybe five eleven, 276 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: but he's right there. He is not five nine five 277 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: fuck out of here, thank you's. 278 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 3: And he was a little taller. 279 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: Than you, y' y'all are y'all were like right there, 280 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: y'all were right there, bro, don't do that. 281 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 3: Don't find on my nigga. Naw well, one of my niggas. 282 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 3: Don't do five ten, honey, it's right there. 283 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: I will say five eleven in a quarter, but I 284 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: will say though getting out of the height ship, get 285 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 2: you niggas. 286 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 3: That pay the bills, bruh. I was just like, hold on, 287 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 3: hold on, hold on. Indeed he is divorced. 288 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,679 Speaker 1: Let me tell you to get you a friend like Stacy, 289 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: because Saty was getting all the questions that bitch I 290 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: would not have gotten. We were literally at the at 291 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: dinner and here goes Stacy grilling this nigga. Mind you, 292 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: cryst will do it too. Crystal will look at to 293 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: watch a shoot. My friends know how to tell a 294 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,719 Speaker 1: nigga got money before I do. I just like a 295 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: good looking nigga, and on Riot he was shirtless in 296 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: a lot of pictures. 297 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 2: That's why I liked him. 298 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: So we're at the dinner hat damn, and here goes 299 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:02,079 Speaker 1: Here goes Stacy, Oh so you're divorced? 300 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,439 Speaker 3: How long ago? When did it happen? 301 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 2: Da da da da. 302 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: Then she goes, so, what was like, what was the 303 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: finalized like thing he started going into? Well, like it 304 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: took over a year because her lawyer came in. She 305 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 1: got this attorney, and I thought it was gonna be good. 306 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: She wanted twenty thousand dollars a month in alimony, and 307 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: this bitch is just hitting me under the goddamn table like, 308 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: oh if he could afford twenty thousand a month, this 309 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: nigga got money. Then literally like right, yeah, but I 310 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: settled for like eight grand a month, and she was like, 311 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: oh yeah, nigga. She was like keep this one. So literally, 312 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: my whole girl is getting all the tea on this 313 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: nigga and racking in her brain like oh yeah he 314 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: can afford that. 315 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 3: And there's no kids. Oh yeah, this motherfucker got buddy. 316 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 1: And I was like thanks, because I would have never 317 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 1: asked any of those fucking questions, wouldn't No, I don't 318 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 1: give a fuck about a nigga. 319 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,559 Speaker 3: Alimony X why no not element? But you don't ask nigga? 320 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 3: Do you like your assy? 321 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: Like I don't give a fuck about how a person's life. 322 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 3: Sometimes we're just chilling and we're listen. 323 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: We here for a good time, not a long time, 324 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: you feel me? So, she was asking, like to me, 325 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 1: those are relationship questions. I don't think I really care 326 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: about what your last situation was, if I if, I if, 327 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 1: if my mind, we're not going anywhere and this was 328 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: the first date, bitch, I'm not asking about no goddamn 329 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: x FI, I have. 330 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 3: A WEE listened and we judge. That's mine. 331 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: We listen and we judged at the gate, let's go. 332 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: So if you guys haven't heard this segment, I felt. 333 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 2: Like you was judging me. I was, so I said, 334 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 2: let me let me, let me let her do the judge. 335 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 2: Oh my damn, but you ask okay, So basically we 336 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: listened to we judges the segment where we normally tell 337 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 2: you gossip about our friends and we listen and we judge. 338 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 3: However, this one. 339 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: Is mine, As you guys know, I always judge me 340 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 2: and my partner a little. 341 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 4: A little out there out there. Yeah, out there is 342 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 4: a good way. 343 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 2: To put it out there, free spirited. 344 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 3: Thank you. 345 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 4: Okay, So we. 346 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 3: Were fucking this girl out here in LA. 347 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: She was really dope. Now it was really dope. I 348 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: feel like, okay, oh no, nothing really happened. So this 349 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: is what I was gonna talk about. Nothing really happened. 350 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 2: If you guys are listeners of the show, you know, 351 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 2: I was getting a little depressy and just feeling a 352 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 2: little insecure about my body. Birth control was going crazy whatever. 353 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: I had a phase, So I just kind of stopped texting. 354 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 2: Didn't really think I ghosted. I just didn't reply to 355 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 2: the last text. But the last text wasn't like where 356 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: are you? Blah blah blah. So I'm on the app. 357 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: We see her on the app and I'm like, oh shit, 358 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 2: I've been thinking about her blah blah blah blah blah whatever. 359 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 3: So I hit him up. I'm like, oh my god, 360 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 3: we matched for her again. What do I do? 361 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: He's like, hit her? I wrote, so wait, just so 362 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: I could be sure clear. This is a girl that 363 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: y'all fucked before. This is the favorite girl that I've 364 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: been talking about Okay, you saw you haven't talked in 365 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: a while, but you saw her on the dating app, 366 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: and so you liked her again to reignore she liked 367 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: me again to reignite it. 368 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so I wrote, not gonna lie. 369 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: We've both been thinking about you, but I'm like, fuck, 370 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 2: we haven't spoken so long. 371 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 3: Can I just hit you up out of the blue? Lol? 372 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 3: And here you are. 373 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: She then replies, well, this is my chance to ask 374 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: why I was ghosted in the first place. You guys 375 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: look great in the new picks. Jealous about whoever gets y'all. 376 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: I rode back and said, hey, honestly, it's just not 377 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: very sexy story, but I was just feeling a little 378 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: bit depressing and stressed. Depress and stressy. Not the sexiest convo, 379 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: but glad to know, you know, She wrote and said, Well, 380 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 2: I had convinced myself I wouldn't see y'all again because 381 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: I don't like being ghosted. I appreciate you telling me 382 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 2: better now that you're reaching out, and I want to 383 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 2: be clear I'm not like a sex worker or some 384 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 2: party girl that she was happy to get a call 385 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: whenever you. 386 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 3: Feel like I'm real. 387 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 2: Oh, so I prefer honesty if you're not feeling like 388 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: seeing me for whatever reason, which I know that's right. 389 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 2: That said again, I would like to see y'all again. 390 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: Bad now, She said, that's heag Nott. 391 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 3: You not treating women with care. Damn we see. 392 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 2: All I did was just not you ghosting. You can'te ghosting. 393 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 3: I thought, what the fuck? This is what I'm gonna say, 394 00:16:59,240 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 3: are we going to? 395 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 2: What is go? Because? 396 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 3: Oh? What is ghosting? 397 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 5: Now? 398 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: Okay, good question because actually I didn't even read look 399 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: for my last text for her, but I will. 400 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 3: Oh. I said, have you been? I hope you had 401 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 3: a great new year? 402 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 2: We had no years. 403 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 3: This was the last time I spoke to you? Or 404 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:17,199 Speaker 3: what have you been up to? 405 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: She said, Oh my god, I didn't know you were 406 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: opening a gym. Sorry you guys got sick during Christmas 407 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: breaklah blah blah blah blah. I've been creating some art 408 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 2: that's been consuming my time. 409 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 3: That was the last So that to me is ghosting. 410 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: Hell, look, we were so you said, what is ghosting 411 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: for me if there's an intimate relationship with somebody? And 412 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,479 Speaker 1: clearly y'all she was intimate with you and your partner. 413 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: Ghosting looks like you not hitting me for eight months 414 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: and then now only reigniting because we see each other 415 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: on an app. To me, if I fucked a nigga 416 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: and he don't hit me for eight months, I would 417 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: feel ghosted. 418 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 2: But also, can I just say she didn't write me 419 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 2: again either, The conversation just stopped. 420 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 4: But she was the last message. 421 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 2: But it wasn't like she asked me for like I 422 00:17:58,400 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 2: don't know even to see her say I didn't know 423 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 2: you were in a gym, Like, okay, a lot was 424 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: going on. Is it horrible to write someone if you 425 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 2: know they're crazy busy to me like have you been? 426 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 3: Because I do that? 427 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 2: Like another thing I saw recently on a meme or 428 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 2: I'm not a meme one of tho little Instagram reels 429 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 2: and I was like, whoa, this is me? It was 430 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 2: a girl who said shout out to low maintenance friends. 431 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 2: Some of my best friends got three texts to me. 432 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 2: If I call them, they like, ow, you didn't text 433 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: me back. Now, granted I understand her and I don't 434 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 2: have that relationship, but I am of that brain sometimes 435 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 2: and it's no love lost. I genuinely don't mean anything 436 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 2: by it. Maybe I really am not good for someone 437 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 2: that needs a little more. So then I'm talking to 438 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 2: my man about her about how bad I. 439 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 3: Feel and he hasn't hit her either, and. 440 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 2: He was like, no, like this is a lot of 441 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 2: the times why I don't really have sex or do 442 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 2: anything without you, Like, women need a lot of communication 443 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: that sometimes I can't give, so when it's both of 444 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 2: us to just be balancing out. But like, nah, He's like, 445 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 2: girls have been mad at me because I didn't write 446 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 2: back for four hours or whatever. It's like, I don't 447 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: eight months, can't. 448 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 1: Come here four hours to me though, I guess that's 449 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: why even the unicorn aspect didn't work for me when 450 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: I was trying, like even to come in as a 451 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 1: third because I needed communication from We were in a 452 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: group chat, but I would have liked communication from either 453 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: or constantly if we were going to even date or 454 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: be a thing. And I said that was my problem too. 455 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: Once I couldn't be the girlfriend. And maybe that's the 456 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: thing with her, maybe the fact that she doesn't want 457 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 1: to be a girlfriend, but the fact that she said, 458 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: I'm also not a secretory or just someone that you 459 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: can call to have fun. She wanted a little something 460 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: more whatever it was. Maybe it wasn't discussed. Maybe not 461 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: a girl. But I'm I know I'm not the type 462 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: right now either that just wants to be called to 463 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 1: have fun for a couple. 464 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 2: And that only wasn't a relationship when she was sick. 465 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 2: We do like send her stuff, like. 466 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 3: The dynamic there was. 467 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,360 Speaker 1: Then there's a ghosting element and all of that stopped, 468 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? But but it stopped, 469 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: So that's the ghost But it's totally up to me 470 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: the sentence, like at what. 471 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 4: Point can we not take I mean, it's more on 472 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 4: your responsibility because you in the relationship. I agree, and. 473 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. I've been thinking about 474 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 2: her this whole time. I probably brought her up once 475 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: you bring up the thing, bitch. 476 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: You was just I forgot where we was and you 477 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: was literally like, oh my god, now I get it. 478 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: I fucked this thick bitch. You literally just brought her up. 479 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: I know, you literally just brought her up. But all 480 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: she was talking about sucking the think bitch. 481 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: But no, we were having by the way, I don't 482 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: know if you're listening, and we were having a sexual conversation. 483 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: That's why I brought it up, but no, what I said, 484 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this think bitch like, because now I 485 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: feel bad. Now this really made me feel bad. You 486 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: should And then she said something about like trying not 487 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: to be too harsh, like she had wrote. 488 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 3: Me back again. 489 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: But he's like she's being though direct enough to be like, listen, 490 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 1: because this now is up to you as someone who's 491 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 1: in a relationship who likes having fun. To me, there 492 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: needs to be a conversation with what her expectations are, 493 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: but also what how you plan to show up with 494 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: her and so otherwise don't suck. 495 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 2: Her literally now my new thing is so we come 496 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 2: back in a few weeks. And I was like, of 497 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 2: course I want to see her Labor Day weekend. But 498 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: now I'm like, fuck to have someone write me that 499 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 2: and I know I've been on that, and what do 500 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 2: I do now? 501 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 3: You ask her? 502 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: So, what are your expectations of me and my partner? 503 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: And how how can I make you feel more comfortable 504 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 1: with enjoying us because we miss you and we enjoy 505 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: you too, but we don't want to make it weird 506 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: or make you feel like you're a toss away, because 507 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: that's what she's even implying. She was like, bro, I'm 508 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: not this. I enjoyed you would like to do it again, 509 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 1: but not with however you've This is what makes casual 510 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: sex so hard. 511 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 4: I have so many questions. You go, so, how does 512 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 4: that work? Because if you're adding a third, I thought 513 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 4: that is just hey, just hit them up. Whenever you 514 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 4: want to hook. 515 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: Up as a third, as a bit, you'd a third. 516 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, that is not how that shit works. 517 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: And it makes you feel like, Bro, I'm here pleasing 518 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: two people. I'm here bringing spice to your relationship to 519 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:00,199 Speaker 1: feel kind of discarded or not thought of or when 520 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: you think of me, now I got to come and. 521 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:02,959 Speaker 2: Spice y'all up. 522 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: Like as as just people who have casual sex too, 523 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: there's still a we want to feel desired, We want 524 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 1: to feel like we were texting weekly. 525 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 3: I also don't live in LA but I get it. 526 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 3: See weekly sending her stuff, and then eight months. 527 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 2: You ain't do ship. 528 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 4: You ghost. That's a ghost ghost texting somebody every week, 529 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden, eight. 530 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 3: Months you just go a bit. 531 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 2: So she's she's honestly, I wasn't even in a place 532 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 2: to have sex with anybody. Else I'm and like, I'm 533 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 2: glad that she understood it because we've all been there 534 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 2: where we're. 535 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 1: Just like so fine whenever whenever anyone goes, when they 536 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,239 Speaker 1: get back, they're like, it's going through a lot, man, 537 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: that's what. 538 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 4: But I'm not lying even if you're not lying, but I'm. 539 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 2: Saying I think the ghosting part is like, but you 540 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 2: goesn't going through ship? 541 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 4: Yes, you could just be like, hey, I'm going through 542 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 4: something right now. I just need a little time to myself. 543 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 2: You ain't even say so. To be honest, I didn't 544 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 2: even know really needed to be said. I guess, and 545 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 2: that's why she feels ghosts. And here's the other thing too, 546 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: that's how ghosted we are all. Honestly, I don't know 547 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 2: if I was ready to be as vulnerable about like 548 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 2: not wanting to have sex with anybody else than one person. 549 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 2: Now I gotta be naked in front of them. I 550 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: was hating my body. I'm also feeling away like it 551 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: was just a little too much. But what I will 552 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: say is the casual sex element element to a third 553 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,719 Speaker 2: is a very interesting one because not gonna hold you, 554 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: she's pretty gay all the way gay. Literally was like 555 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 2: I'll maybe have sex with one guy every few years now, 556 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 2: which means, you know, lesbians need a lot of fucking attention. No, 557 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 2: But my point was there was no element of weighing 558 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 2: three people together, Like there was no like, she don't 559 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 2: want to be a girlfriend. 560 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 3: It's totally obvious you don't like niggas like that. 561 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 2: Actually, after set we were joking there were a few 562 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: times there he was fucking and she was like, okay, 563 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 2: like just over the day really like I mean you 564 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 2: could be a. 565 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 3: Third and not like intimately, not like because me I'm 566 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 3: I'm gay, but like not gayay, like I don't want 567 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 3: to eight, like I don't want to be with a woman, 568 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 3: but I'll be with a couple. 569 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 1: So like for me, that makes sense, Like I an 570 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: even like that, you know what I mean. Like but also, 571 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: oh wait, what was your other question? 572 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 4: Sorry, actually you answered it already because I just don't 573 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 4: know that dynamics. 574 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 2: But but that's it too, and it's so it's brought 575 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,360 Speaker 2: up this new thing in conversation of how to make 576 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 2: thirds feel respected, wanted and also really felt like I 577 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 2: was doing that. But I don't do well when people 578 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 2: don't tell me exactly what they need from me. Also 579 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 2: this text she sent better, But for me, I just don't. 580 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. Like honestly, if someone's angry with me, 581 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 2: if they don't let me know, I probably won't really know, 582 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, you got to tell me, 583 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 2: and I will absolutely do everything to fix it. 584 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 3: I want things to always be in a good place. 585 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 2: But yeah, that's why I'm like, am I about to 586 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 2: make su it worse? And now am I gonna feel obligated? Like? 587 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 4: Oh? 588 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: I mean if you as a if you as a 589 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: person in a relationship want thirds you don't know your 590 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 1: capacity to make someone feel how they want to be 591 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: felt coming in as a third, I think it needs 592 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: to be just the sex then, Like it can't be 593 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: the dating, it can't be the texting, Like you might 594 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: just need to have the flings and go because if 595 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: someone is coming in as a third for a couple 596 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: in the dynamic that you set up in the in 597 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: the beginning, that works. 598 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 4: But you know what I mean, you might just decided that, oh, 599 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,959 Speaker 4: this is more of like checking in with one another 600 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 4: than just oh wyd Yeah, like when does that get discussed? 601 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 3: I don't even know? 602 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: Dog Like She also dictated the way that we would 603 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 2: be texting. She was texting me more frequently, so I 604 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 2: of course texted back. Okay, So I go off of 605 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: how you acting. If she wouldn't have done that, I 606 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: wouldn't have done that, okay, But I want to make 607 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 2: here ffct. 608 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 3: I also don't know, like. 609 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 4: You just got to discuss those things like, yeah, it. 610 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: Has it has to be talked about. 611 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: And that's why, like me, when I dated the couple 612 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: last year, it didn't last long because as we kept communicating, 613 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 1: it was very obvious that me and the girl weren't 614 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: on the same page as me and the guy. And 615 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: I was like, well, this doesn't work for me, So 616 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: there has to be a level, way more of a 617 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 1: communication with the third as to what y'all are expecting. 618 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,479 Speaker 2: That's fair because I think the one thing we were 619 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,479 Speaker 2: all on the same page of is what everybody's looking for, 620 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 2: and nobody was looking for a relationship as a trio 621 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 2: last year. Last year. 622 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 3: This is now. 623 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 1: You talked to her in eight months, so she may 624 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 1: be in a place. And it's why she said, I'm 625 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:20,880 Speaker 1: not a sex worker. 626 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 3: Don't hate me when you do it. 627 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: She said, I'm not a sex worker. I was like, 628 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: but that's where so a year ago, maybe they might 629 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 1: be doing. 630 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 2: But she wants to see you if y'all. 631 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 3: Can figure out what this dynamic looks like. 632 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: So she may want something because I don't like no 633 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: pull up shit either, I hate don't pull don't. 634 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 3: I'm in your city and you barely hear so, and 635 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 3: I don't do that. 636 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 4: I'm not a nigga. What had two niggas pull up. 637 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: Again? I'm not. 638 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: Oh, I tell niggas I'm in their city, but I'm 639 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: not a I'm in your city, bitch. Like a nigga 640 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: could tell me they in my city. So but I 641 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: absolutely in your city. Okay, let's do it an new segments. 642 00:26:59,040 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 3: She lost that one way. 643 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 4: I know. 644 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm in your city, bitch, Like if a nigga hits 645 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: me because in my in my city and we and 646 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: we don't talk. I don't give a fuck that you're 647 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: in my city, right, but I treat people how I 648 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: don't want to be treated. 649 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 4: And it's fine as the nigga, I'm in. 650 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 3: Your city, but don't. I'm in your city. 651 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 2: Me, you get it on me? 652 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 3: Thank you? 653 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm a hypocrite. 654 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 3: Oh, let's be very clear. 655 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 4: Some ancient because I love you ghost bitches. 656 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 1: In my twenties, when I would go to the clerk 657 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 1: and the nigga had the table, I knew I was 658 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: at the table where possibly other bitches he fucked because 659 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: he's a boss. 660 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 3: That's why I had the compatity yesterday and it was exciting. 661 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,119 Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna do it more often, just like 662 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: invite my niggas to pull up and everybody gotta be cool. 663 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 3: That's not. 664 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 4: I'm surprised. I was thinking the story was gonna end 665 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 4: that way. 666 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 2: I would I. 667 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 1: Would have loved for that, but the wayan hit a 668 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: little too late last night and I was like, I 669 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: was not, but I would have loved. I would have 670 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: loved for everyone to you know, let's all love each other. 671 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: But no, it didn't happen that way. But I think 672 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: I do. 673 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 2: Mark if Frank, you gotta really like get them niggas 674 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 2: to start smoking. You gotta have like a pastime. It's 675 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: got to be like a card game a week. Yeah, 676 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 2: after the pool. After the pool, we did all play no, 677 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 2: And I think. 678 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 4: That's like you gotta do it like challengers. 679 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean? 680 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 3: Like whoever gets a draw for next. 681 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 4: Has to kiss me the movie, the tennis movie Challengers. 682 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 4: Oh you aut I got. I ain't gonna in the crackers. 683 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: I am not going to tell two niggas now, y'all 684 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: gotta kiss? 685 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no no, how do how do you 686 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 4: do that? How do you guys ever had three? 687 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: I ain't been able to make two niggas kiss. I 688 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: ain't that much of a boss. I know my nigga's 689 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: able to get me to kiss bitches, but no, like 690 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, like let's be their fathers. 691 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 3: Let let's be very clear. 692 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,120 Speaker 1: Last year, my little, my little main boss nigga, I 693 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: want to move like him. Literally, we was in Chicago 694 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: and there was a uh there was like we I 695 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: pulled up on him at a party. So we getting lit, 696 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 1: we getting drunk. I we know we're ending the night together. 697 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 3: Nigga. 698 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: He come up to me and he's like, you see 699 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: her over there? And I was like, yeah, tell her 700 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 1: she's coming home with us tonight. I was like wait 701 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: what He's like, yeah, you gotta set up. We already 702 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: fucked before, but just tell her. So Literally, my main nigga, 703 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: the one that I worked about plucked for, oh him, 704 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: which boss? So period, so literally, so I knew they 705 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: had already fucked so literally, I was like, oh my god, 706 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: Like he's like, you know. 707 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 2: How to do it? 708 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 3: And sure not went right up to went right up 709 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 3: to her and was like, Hey, we know the same guy. 710 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 3: How you doing. Let's just he wants to know if 711 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: you're gonna come home with us tonight. 712 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: So easy, I'm just because she was driving. She drove 713 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 1: to the hotel, then got a little weird on the 714 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: way because she was. 715 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, you're texting him. 716 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: We only talk on Snapchat and I just don't understand, 717 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 1: like why I don't have this number yet and I'm 718 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: calling him, like, nigga, we do hewstairs, I got a number. 719 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 2: Nigga, that's my nickel. And she like was a little 720 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: in her. 721 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: Feelings what they should only talk on Snapchat? 722 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, our first two years, I only talked to 723 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: him on Snapchat and now we're five years there. 724 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with niggas are famous. 725 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: What Oh that's oh you should see me? Oh bitch, 726 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: I signal in Snapchat. These niggas now they don't get 727 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: my number. 728 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 4: I am. 729 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 3: I am the nigga I. 730 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 2: Always wanted to be. 731 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 3: An age shit. 732 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh signal in snapchat and you don't get nuts 733 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: if you want to see me bent over book a flight. 734 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: I don't even send nottes, but I like to watch 735 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: them jack off. 736 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 2: So they do it all on sapchat. I feel like 737 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: like I wouldn't do what No, no, no, no, it's 738 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 2: not fair. 739 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 3: I am not normal. 740 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: Everyone listening is like this bitch is nuts, and I'm 741 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: in this mood right now where it feels great to 742 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: be an eight shiit nigga, Like I get why they're 743 00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: ain't shit for so long. 744 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 3: Now it's fun because the people going. 745 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 4: But you peg dude, so you can convince you they 746 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 4: got a Rubbert dick, but you can't convince a dude 747 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 4: to kiss another dude. 748 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 3: Actually that's a good one. 749 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: So but the guys that I peg literally aren't atricted 750 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: to men and they're not gay. 751 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm not you know what I mean? 752 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 3: No, like we talk about it. 753 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 4: Oh, I love listen. 754 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 2: I'll be asking all the questions like so you ever 755 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 2: stoked the dick? 756 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 1: They don't like men, So that's where like the conversation 757 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: around pegging is literally like these niggas not gay, but 758 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 1: I would love to have another guy join us. 759 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 4: Isn't it the same way you do it? Three? So 760 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 4: it's like you're not into women, but you're joy. 761 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: And I like women. 762 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,479 Speaker 1: I think women are beautiful. Then, But the men, the 763 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 1: men that I've pegged literally probably is like I'm not 764 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: getting hard around another nigga, Like they don't like men, but. 765 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 2: They're taking it. 766 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 4: They digging. Ask that shit don't make sense. 767 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 3: Some of their medium. They're not big all the time. 768 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 3: It's whatever they can take. 769 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 4: I say the size. 770 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 2: I'm just saying whatever they can. It's whatever they can. 771 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,040 Speaker 2: I just want you to photographer is gonna dip a 772 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 2: team minutes ago? But you saying might as well stay now? 773 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: Honestly, is this not the best episode that we recorded 774 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: all week? He all right, all right, once we have, 775 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 1: let's get into another one of our segments. 776 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into our truth or Dare segment. And basically, I'm. 777 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: Acting like you all are the guests, because bitch, I've 778 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: literally said too much this episode and I'm done talking. 779 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: Dad shit, You're gonna do the deer, and that means 780 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna do the truth. So let's start with the 781 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 1: truth because this is a good one and maybe I'll 782 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 1: change it to your current relationship. What is the biggest 783 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 1: lie that you've told in your current relationship past? 784 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 3: You have to you want to swap. 785 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 2: Oh see, I did you do the deer? 786 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 3: Okay, so now you gotta do the deer, Alex. 787 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: What is the biggest lie you have told in your 788 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: current relationship? 789 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:56,959 Speaker 2: Okay, so he's gonna know. I think you'll know. I 790 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 2: haven't done both talks yet, because I've been talking about 791 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,959 Speaker 2: doing talks, but I haven't done bothtox. And it's honestly 792 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 2: not something I'm terrified of, right I me either. I 793 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 2: love it, like I'm not scared. 794 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 3: Look that's my angry face. Oh it don't move. 795 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 2: But then sometimes I be hearing shit where like botox, 796 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: like they make you think it's preventive, but like I'm 797 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 2: just not there yet. 798 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 3: Oh I am. Let him tell you something. 799 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 2: So once I really started to like him, I remember 800 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 2: he started bringing up girls because you know, men think botox. 801 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 2: You know, when they think a filler, they just all 802 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: call her botox y. 803 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 804 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: I used to think that the only thing that they 805 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: do know they don't know really the difference with the face. 806 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 3: But them bitches know what's a filler in the lip. 807 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: They no, no know when men here, when men see 808 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 2: the pillow, like, they're like, oh, she's both talks though, 809 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 2: they'll just say that right okay, So Mamia starts talking 810 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 2: about it like that, right mind you. I was talking 811 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 2: about it. 812 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 3: Yes, we only like our maybe fifth or six days. 813 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 3: We were already fucking. And he was like, I like 814 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 3: natural women like you. And I was like, ight, so 815 00:33:59,000 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 3: now we're two years in. 816 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: Now we're getting to this point of bit's about to 817 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 2: be thirty five natural a woman. 818 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:08,360 Speaker 1: He didn't know your tists perfect too. 819 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 3: They're old. 820 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: They're all old, he said, they're all she said, So 821 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm natural because it's all. 822 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:20,520 Speaker 4: I didn't like that. 823 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 3: That's a good point, grandfather, he said, it's fine now, so. 824 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:28,479 Speaker 2: Good to lie. I'm like, look, you know, I'm about 825 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 2: to be doing brand deals now. They're gonna pay me 826 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 2: to get this botox, babe, I'm about to get a 827 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,839 Speaker 2: big ass check. 828 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 3: He's like how much? 829 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 2: So I'm like, what's the number of this Nigga gonna like, 830 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 2: what's the number that's gonna be like house down payment, 831 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. 832 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: I'm like, but you're really paying for it? But you 833 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 1: told him it was gonna be a brand deal. 834 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 3: I'm not getting it yet. 835 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 2: I'm just working it up. And I did have someone 836 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 2: write me about a fucking consultation. She's like, oh, you 837 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 2: do a consultation. I can post it to that. Like 838 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 2: the seed is already, I'm just planting it now. And 839 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 2: so oh, what I'm gonna say is, maybe it's a 840 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars brand deal, but maybe we got paid 841 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 2: fifty grand from I don't know, squarespace. I'm just going 842 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 2: to connect the ad money with the botox. 843 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,360 Speaker 1: The fact that you're just gonna assume because there's a 844 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: price tag on it, it's gonna changes my honey. 845 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:19,720 Speaker 3: If we're Mandy. 846 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,879 Speaker 2: For example, we went to Brooks House yesterday naked Beauty Brooke, 847 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 2: and I was like, but now me and him both like, damn, 848 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 2: we need to raise our budget because the houses were 849 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 2: looking at don't look like this. What if I got 850 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 2: a little bit and we can get a bigger house now, bitch, 851 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 2: he about to buy a new property and flip it 852 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 2: so we can get a bigger house. 853 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 3: So he's doing different investments. 854 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 1: Maybe I need to do both tops if I think 855 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 1: it's gonna work if my partner said he doesn't really 856 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: watch the project. If my partners maybe I gotta get 857 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: fat for. 858 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 2: Money, I don't. I don't. I don't want that. 859 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 3: So like, if he's saying he don't like it, I 860 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 3: don't know like how. 861 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 1: Much, just because no, you can't see if he has 862 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,240 Speaker 1: his idea of what botox is gonna do to your face, 863 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: he just doesn't get it. 864 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 2: So I'm trying to figure out. And I feel like 865 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 2: he see the seeds planted. Now that we're in La, 866 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 2: I just slightly ring on boatoks at different tables. Girls like, yeah, 867 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,320 Speaker 2: that's stopping here. You looking at me like you crazy? 868 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 3: Oh, he's gonna know when your face just doesn't move person, 869 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 3: no botox. I feel like it's different though. I'm telling 870 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 3: you I got it. 871 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 4: Oh bitch, you think we don't know that face ain't moving. 872 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 2: Now if I say don't know this face and got 873 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 2: the square jaw, he don't know that, you change your 874 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 2: whole I'm not doing it. 875 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 3: I'm just saying a little bit of the lift. Now. Listen, 876 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 3: this ain't a lie, lie, it's a truth. Lie. I'm 877 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 3: not doing this with you, Okay, okay, So Dare, let's 878 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 3: get to. 879 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 4: You, Alex, and that lies bad because that's like a premeditation, 880 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 4: that's a press that is that's not like my back 881 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 4: against all this. 882 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 3: I want people to see that you premeditate. 883 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 4: Lie. 884 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:56,799 Speaker 3: I didn't do it yet. 885 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 2: I'm just think I would soon where we were at 886 00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 2: with it. 887 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 1: So you can still go to jail for premeditated murder, 888 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: like if they know you have to because. 889 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 3: He's gonna know you were going someone. He's just going down. 890 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 3: This is. 891 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 1: This is a crime that you're committing, all right, So Alex, 892 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: dare I need you to create a short dirty talk 893 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 1: monologue like to a listener of the show I wish 894 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: I had, yes, Oh yes you you You didn't want 895 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,319 Speaker 1: to tell us your biggest lie. 896 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 3: You told your woman. 897 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 4: But that's gonna hit me broken up with No. 898 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 3: It's not. 899 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: It's it's an imaginary way, a sex, a sexy monologue. 900 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 3: I need you. 901 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 2: It's there. She'll be somebody to sit. 902 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,919 Speaker 3: In a puddle while they're at work, right now, make 903 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,359 Speaker 3: that pus do her for when you come home. 904 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 2: It feels weird, okay, being asky when it come on? 905 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 3: Well, I need you to get into your acting bag, 906 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 3: okay and action. 907 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is a comfortable Uh, babe, I 908 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 4: can't wait to taste you when you get home. 909 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 3: Think you gotta keep going. 910 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: I need a monologue that was a sentence monologue is 911 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,479 Speaker 1: at least three to five cents. 912 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 4: Oh yes, is too much. You don't see yet. 913 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,799 Speaker 3: Come on, close your eyes, close your eyes. 914 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 4: That's it. 915 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 3: Close your eyes and imagine. 916 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 4: She she she wet off that no she is. I 917 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 4: did it all right? Yeah I would. 918 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:31,280 Speaker 3: I would literally, I would literally make you fucking drink 919 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:32,399 Speaker 3: two shots for that. 920 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 2: If we hadn't God damn liquor. 921 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 4: I take three. 922 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 3: I have a. 923 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 1: Reactionary and this one is interesting because we have a 924 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,239 Speaker 1: man on here and I would love to know your 925 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 1: thoughts on this. 926 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 3: And this comes from one of your favorite people on 927 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 3: the internet. 928 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 2: K No, that's my favorite person. Here goes your favorite 929 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,760 Speaker 2: the great. 930 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,319 Speaker 5: A lot of women come on here, or just they 931 00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 5: don't come on here. 932 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 3: But I just want I wish men were more honest. 933 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 5: I just want a man that would tell me the truth. 934 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 3: And it's like, bitch. 935 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 2: You can't handle the truth. 936 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 5: Because when this nigga tells you that he wants to 937 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,840 Speaker 5: fuck more than you, we want to have other bitches. 938 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 5: He wants to fuck other bitches because he gets tired 939 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:17,959 Speaker 5: of your pussy from time to time. 940 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 3: That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. 941 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 5: Your motherfucking asks is not gonna want to fuck with 942 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:21,880 Speaker 5: that nigga. 943 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 3: If he told you that shit off rip, you would not. 944 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 2: Fuck with him. 945 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,759 Speaker 5: So bitches, be sitting up here talking about I just 946 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 5: want a man that's gonna tell me the truth. 947 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:28,839 Speaker 3: Know the fuck you now? 948 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 5: You rather sit there for three years, get cheated on, 949 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,120 Speaker 5: be crying talking about I did not see this coming, 950 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 5: and repeat the cycle over and over and over. So 951 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,760 Speaker 5: as women, we have to start being honest with ourselves. 952 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 5: Fuck a man telling you the truth. You need to 953 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:44,320 Speaker 5: be honest with yourself. 954 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,800 Speaker 3: You need to tell yourself the truth. 955 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 5: Why do I keep going for these niggas that I 956 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 5: know are going to cheat on me eventually? 957 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 3: But if a motherfucker was to tell me the truth, 958 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 3: I would have. 959 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 2: Okay, immediate thought love that. 960 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: I literally didn't want y'all to see because I hate 961 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:03,720 Speaker 1: that that happened. 962 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 4: Guy following so many pols stuff no, and. 963 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 2: They followed me back. I love it. 964 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,799 Speaker 3: My favorite couple right now followed me back, And I'm 965 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 3: like the one that be about the bisexual couple. Oh 966 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 3: love them, dad, I already knew that you had to 967 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 3: be talking. 968 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:22,280 Speaker 1: Oh my young girl Asian. Yes, the Stag couple. Thanks 969 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 1: for the follow I love you supporting. I literally support y'all. 970 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: I subscribe to their only fans. Would love y'all to 971 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: come on decisions decisions And if anyone is listening, who 972 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 1: just knows who the Stag couple? 973 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:34,839 Speaker 4: Is? 974 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 3: You a freak asshole? Okay? 975 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 2: Oh I am oh, yes, speak of your guys on 976 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 2: that love love Tazzas Angels. We're Florida girls. 977 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 3: That's Cat from Taza's Angel. 978 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 1: So I actually think Kat is only speaking two women 979 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: if she could speak to men. Do you know how 980 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,759 Speaker 1: many things that we think about that we don't say? 981 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 3: What do you mean by that? 982 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 2: First of all, let's just say a niggas getting tired, yo, 983 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:02,360 Speaker 2: pussy you probably already in him, like not stroking, like 984 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,640 Speaker 2: how he used to tied, of hearing his nigga far 985 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 2: tied and him being like, there's so many shits we 986 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 2: don't say about men that turn us off that they 987 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 2: couldn't handle either. Can you imagine a blow to a 988 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:15,440 Speaker 2: man's ego if you actually told them how less attractive 989 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 2: they've become. 990 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 4: God damn you just. 991 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 1: Like we're gonna talk about how but that niggasored with 992 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: the medium ugly niggas. 993 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 2: All my niggas still look good. Girl, That's not true 994 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 2: all the time. The more than somebody, I don't care 995 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 2: the finest niggas, the more that you're sitting around a 996 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 2: nigga they start doing things have become unattractive to you. 997 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 2: And a lot of men just seem to feel like 998 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 2: because they're men, they could do certain things like like 999 00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 2: bart shooting with the door open. You're just watching bad 1000 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,959 Speaker 2: hygiene habits like having a remind niggas to do certain 1001 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 2: things honestly, like anyone I know that's. 1002 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 3: In a relationship. 1003 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 2: This comedian said last night basically having a wife is 1004 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 2: like a mom that you fuck. You stop thinking for yourself. Okay, 1005 00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 2: it is so true. She's like you stop thinking for yourself. 1006 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 2: It's like baby, when the last time I was thinking, 1007 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,600 Speaker 2: that's shit real for real. 1008 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 3: That was such a good joke because it's true. 1009 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 1: And my boyfriend now, so you're saying though overall people 1010 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 1: can't handle. 1011 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,759 Speaker 2: It, No, I think it's okay. Specifically romantic relationships. Right, 1012 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 2: maybe at work we can handle the truth about critiques feedback, 1013 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 2: and some people don't even like that bright like even 1014 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 2: think about some comments. Maybe they're critiquing our interviewing stales. 1015 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 2: Some are some are helpful, some are not. But at 1016 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 2: the end of the day, people don't know how to do 1017 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,840 Speaker 2: things and not be mean. Now, when it comes to 1018 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,399 Speaker 2: romantic shit, you're gonna take everything mean because it's gonna 1019 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,800 Speaker 2: be like, ooh. 1020 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 1: Would you would you take it as a mean thing, 1021 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 1: especially in the relationship dynamic that you have. 1022 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 3: Now if your man was like, I'm bored with your 1023 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 3: pussy and see bored with you? 1024 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 1: Better way to say that, though, Like, and that's the thing, Like, 1025 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,279 Speaker 1: there's a way to say things that, even in a 1026 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,560 Speaker 1: nice way, it's you damned if you do, damned if 1027 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: you don't. I don't think a man's gonna say I'm 1028 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 1: bored of your pussy. I need to go get other pussy. 1029 00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,719 Speaker 1: But he could be like, yo, I'd really like to 1030 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: have fun with someone else. 1031 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 4: Tonight, Like I think, I think we want to know 1032 00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 4: the truth, but we need to brace ourselves for it. 1033 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 4: So whenever you're gonna have one of those convos like 1034 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 4: a right, we need to talk and then it's like 1035 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 4: we got to both parties, got to brace your own 1036 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,279 Speaker 4: egos and your vulnerability or what's about to come. I 1037 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 4: don't just want to be on some jim carry liar 1038 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,240 Speaker 4: liar shit and you just say whatever the fuck. 1039 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,359 Speaker 3: Is on your I do agree, I act. 1040 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: I do agree with her to the point of women 1041 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 1: would rather and this is gonna be a little toxic 1042 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 1: to say. I do believe women would rather literally get 1043 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: cheated on and stay through a cheater than be with 1044 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,320 Speaker 1: a man who's open about wanting to fuck other women, 1045 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 1: which is why we. 1046 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 3: Have Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I don't 1047 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:40,919 Speaker 3: I think. I think. 1048 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 1: I think women women would rather go into someone monogamous 1049 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,280 Speaker 1: quote unquote who's a fucking cheater and stay through him cheating, 1050 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 1: then be with a nigga who identifies himself as a 1051 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 1: polynigga so you you. 1052 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,080 Speaker 4: Don't want to hear what's going on up here all 1053 00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:57,439 Speaker 4: the times. 1054 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:00,879 Speaker 1: And for me, that's where when we talk about these 1055 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 1: non traditional relationships, it's why I'm like, oh, most niggas 1056 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: is liars, but they're lying even in the dating phase. 1057 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: Because I do agree with her, most women don't want 1058 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,479 Speaker 1: to know that they about to fall for a whole 1059 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,760 Speaker 1: ass nigga that likes the multiple bitches because a woman 1060 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,280 Speaker 1: in her ego doesn want to believe. 1061 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 2: Maybe. 1062 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,359 Speaker 3: Plus he's the best. He's not gonna want anybody else, 1063 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 3: and I'm so great. Bitches lie to themselves not the best. 1064 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 2: That's the boredom of swissy. Like I don't get bored 1065 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:26,920 Speaker 2: of my dusic, but sometimes I'm like. 1066 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 3: Oh, you want us to dig, Maybe you want of 1067 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 3: a little smaller dig at do something else. 1068 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,239 Speaker 1: Oh that happens. We sucked at the museum yesterday. That 1069 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: was crazy if anyone's ever been, if we ever have 1070 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 1: solo episodes, because weez, he's locked up and keep the 1071 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: show going, because that is flying. 1072 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 3: You were out here doing a lot of crimes. It 1073 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,959 Speaker 3: was an architectural museum. It wasn't really a house. 1074 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 4: By the time. 1075 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,319 Speaker 3: Well now I'm scared to tell you guys. 1076 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 4: Would it was want to head. 1077 00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 3: The mock Center. 1078 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,920 Speaker 2: But basically it was great. So he took me to 1079 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 2: his place. Do you like to doing architecture chores? So 1080 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: we're going through and it's so serene and quiet, and 1081 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 2: then I opened one of the doors and I was like, oh, 1082 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 2: first thing I noticed was like this is ASoP. 1083 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 3: Did y'all did y'all look and see if there was 1084 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 3: any cameras? Yeah, there was nothing. I checked. You know 1085 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 3: they can hide cameras now. 1086 00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 2: I mean so maybe then I was fucking and then 1087 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 2: in the hidden bathroom camera so I could sue, but anyway, and. 1088 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 3: You could see because you were fucking in public. Maybe 1089 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 3: I did, Maybe I didn't. 1090 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 4: And then what also, like what started it? It's like, oh, 1091 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 4: look at the arches and it's like she. 1092 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:35,800 Speaker 3: Gets horny going through the Starbucks. 1093 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 2: I no, okay, for one, what started it? 1094 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 4: It was an empty room, seventeen year old boy going 1095 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 4: through pubic. 1096 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 3: Crazy. 1097 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 2: You can't just. 1098 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 3: Wait till he's out home to fun. No, it was 1099 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 3: the opportunity. 1100 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 2: Like it was a Sunday, It was almost closing, nobody 1101 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 2: was around. So wooden house is this Japanese style, like 1102 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 2: the low ceilings. 1103 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 3: It was very like ooh, and it just back to 1104 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 3: what I walked in there. 1105 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 1: You have the hormones of it. Seventeen year olds, they 1106 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 1: can't fuck at home, so you gotta fuck when the 1107 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,280 Speaker 1: opportunity presents itself. 1108 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1109 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 2: Literally, I mean it's a comedist clu. I've had a 1110 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,440 Speaker 2: double fucking handicap bathroom with yeah, family restrooms. That's me. 1111 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,279 Speaker 2: And you know what's funny. He was on the way home, right, 1112 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't believe we fucked it in 1113 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,319 Speaker 2: the museum. He's like, yo, let me make a point. 1114 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 2: Fuckinging bathrooms is disgusting, right, He's like, unless it's like 1115 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 2: I'm at a club and it's bad, bitch, it's like 1116 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 2: this is your chance, or you're never gonna fuck me again. 1117 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 2: He's like, then you're like, all right, I gotta suffer 1118 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,279 Speaker 2: through this nasty shit. He's like, well, that was a 1119 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 2: really nice house. Well because I was very clean, Like 1120 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,240 Speaker 2: that was a moment. He's like, you can't fuck somebody 1121 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 2: you went with. It's a random bathroom. It's like, just 1122 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 2: go home. But that bathroom felt sexy. 1123 00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 3: I took a phut of it. Okay, all right, it 1124 00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:47,040 Speaker 3: was good. 1125 00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 4: Judge it. I'm I'm judging, like, I. 1126 00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,919 Speaker 1: Mean, I sucked it at a club bar bathroom before, 1127 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 1: but not that we die Yeah that no, that No, 1128 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: that's normal. 1129 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 3: Let's go bathroom. Yeah. I was eighteen when I ate 1130 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 3: plus in the bathroom. 1131 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 2: And I had sex with a Japanese style architectural home museum architecture. 1132 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 3: Bitch, it is a public space. 1133 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 2: Well, the exhibition is gonna be gone anyway, so you 1134 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:15,399 Speaker 2: guys can't even fucking there. 1135 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 3: Wait, let me look it up. Really was it not? 1136 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:17,960 Speaker 2: Right? 1137 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 5: Yo? 1138 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:19,360 Speaker 4: That is great? 1139 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 3: It didn't feel like a museum. 1140 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,600 Speaker 2: Museum, we played a fee to get in, but it 1141 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,600 Speaker 2: didn't feel center for art and architecture. This Shinn House 1142 00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 2: for our that sounds even more like a public Built 1143 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 2: in nineteen twenty two, this architectural site offers art excipts 1144 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 2: and guided tours the sense and I didn't need a guide, so. 1145 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 4: Not to get too graphic, but like, are ye standing 1146 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 4: or are you sitting over a six? Okay? So you're 1147 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,640 Speaker 4: not getting your juices on your fucking. 1148 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 3: No, it was. We were cloudy about it. 1149 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:50,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's you know what, Why that's the only decency 1150 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 4: you got? 1151 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 3: Where are we all with this? 1152 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 1: That you what everyone wants to be lied to? P 1153 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: Apparently that's what we were. That's how we got here. 1154 00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm not. 1155 00:47:58,760 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like I. 1156 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 2: Think to spice up your own personal sex life, there's 1157 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,399 Speaker 2: times where I want to masturbate and it doesn't include him. 1158 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,239 Speaker 2: I don't want to, like, I just want my own 1159 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 2: thing I think we can have our own sexual experiences. 1160 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 3: Oh here's what I was gonna say. 1161 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,439 Speaker 2: I actually almost ended a friendship, but she really came 1162 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,600 Speaker 2: back in there with the that was my own insecurities 1163 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 2: type shit. So this is about the truth or a lie. No, 1164 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 2: it's about like I'll get there, okay, girls that like 1165 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 2: to be cheated on her sexual relationship. She made a 1166 00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 2: comment at a dinner with a bunch of girls that 1167 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,840 Speaker 2: I was getting cheated on openly, and I was like, 1168 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:35,560 Speaker 2: why would you say that to me? You know that's 1169 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 2: not true. Do you think I'm cheating on him when 1170 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 2: I want to do my Like She's like, yeah, just 1171 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,400 Speaker 2: because you guys talk about it, and you guys have 1172 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,400 Speaker 2: fun talking about it, you're just open cheating, Like this. 1173 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 3: Isn't someone that really loves you. Men that really loves. 1174 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 2: Someone aren't very comfortable with this. And I chose in 1175 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:52,919 Speaker 2: this moment not to bring up the fuck me because 1176 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,759 Speaker 2: she stayed with because I felt like, you know what, 1177 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,680 Speaker 2: I'll let you eat this. So center text the next 1178 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 2: day like, hey, friends, for a while, I think, however, 1179 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,040 Speaker 2: you try to justify what I do. You've known me 1180 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 2: for a long time. I had a girlfriend I was 1181 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 2: doing this with then I had a boyfriend. Yes, it 1182 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,479 Speaker 2: went wrong, read it and no holds bard. 1183 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 3: We get it. 1184 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 2: But all your relationships have gone wrong too. I haven't 1185 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 2: seen one that was successful, considering you think marriage is success. 1186 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 3: You said this, sir, Yes, okay, And so. 1187 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 2: Then you then say to me, I'm being cheated on 1188 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,399 Speaker 2: openly and open relationships don't work. 1189 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 3: Tell me a relationship of yours that I can follow. 1190 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 2: And she felt like I was really rude from that, 1191 00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I felt like you were really rude. 1192 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,840 Speaker 2: And two weeks later she called me and she was like, 1193 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 2: you know what my constant fear is that I'll get 1194 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,360 Speaker 2: cheated on. 1195 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 1: And I live in monogamous people that they constantly are 1196 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,439 Speaker 1: looking for their partners to be cheating because they don't 1197 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:47,400 Speaker 1: want to accept. 1198 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:50,920 Speaker 2: The truth that people cheat. But I don't think monogamy 1199 00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 2: is bad. I think people can thrive in monogamy. 1200 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 3: No, I think both can be said about both. 1201 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,880 Speaker 1: Right, you could thrive as a monogamous relationship, and I 1202 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:00,719 Speaker 1: love that we're having the conversation that you could also 1203 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 1: thrive in a non monogamous relationship. But in both instances 1204 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 1: there are unhealthy relationships unhealthy dynamics, and in both and 1205 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 1: in both cases you could have success or failure. 1206 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 3: I'm just tired of the very like open cheating. 1207 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,399 Speaker 2: Let him lie to you if you know about it, bro, 1208 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 2: I'm not in a situation where like I turn my 1209 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:23,000 Speaker 2: face or I'm doing this because it's twenty twenty five, 1210 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 2: What else am I gonna do. I'm doing it because 1211 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,880 Speaker 2: I genuinely like it, Like I find it entertaining for 1212 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,040 Speaker 2: my life. I enjoy what we do. I enjoy bringing 1213 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:33,200 Speaker 2: other people in. This is also not my obsession. This 1214 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,879 Speaker 2: is not what we do every single day or even 1215 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 2: every single week. It's a part of the sexual life 1216 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 2: that we show together. So I think people just when 1217 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,120 Speaker 2: they hear about it, they're so obsessed with it when 1218 00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,319 Speaker 2: you live this way, because they're just like, what the fuck? Yeah. 1219 00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,520 Speaker 2: But it is coming to a point where when I 1220 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,520 Speaker 2: see content like that, I kind of hate being non monogamous. 1221 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 3: Just let him fuck another bitch because he's gonna do 1222 00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:53,440 Speaker 3: it anyway. 1223 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,800 Speaker 2: Like, nah, bro', I'm not of that cloth either. I 1224 00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 2: don't believe it, just he's gonna do it anyway. I 1225 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 2: like what we have going on. I find this shit 1226 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,359 Speaker 2: to be a turn on sexy. You can call it 1227 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 2: a version of cupholding. Whatever it is. This has been 1228 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 2: my thing. So I don't know, And like I say, 1229 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,760 Speaker 2: I no holds bard. I didn't have some weird trauma. 1230 00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 4: I know. 1231 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,960 Speaker 2: Doctor Umer says overly sexual people grew up some kind 1232 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 2: of way. 1233 00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 3: I don't have an uncle. 1234 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:20,400 Speaker 1: Fucking wait, speaking of what are y'all's thoughts on that statement? 1235 00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 1: I want to ask you too, because it's been said 1236 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:27,120 Speaker 1: about Shannon Sharp. When I was on Blackout Mondays with 1237 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,000 Speaker 1: uh it was rashad Ian and they had Kenny Barnes 1238 00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:32,759 Speaker 1: as a as a guest, and we were talking about 1239 00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 1: the Diddy trial. 1240 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 3: The common thing that I'm seeing right. 1241 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 1: Now is the downfall of a person is being over 1242 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:44,680 Speaker 1: and overly sexual. Like it, over sexually person will constantly 1243 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,719 Speaker 1: find themselves in a demise because it's an unhealthy thing. 1244 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,160 Speaker 1: It's an unhealthy way to be essentially, And I do 1245 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: want to know y'all's thoughts on if overly sexual people 1246 00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 1: will inevitably find themselves in bad situations. 1247 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 3: Oh hell yeah, that's actually I actually agree with you. 1248 00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 2: Agree with that. Think about niggas that can't stop fucking around, 1249 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 2: But what about us? We're overly sexual. 1250 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 3: Do you think not overly sexual to the point where 1251 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 3: a clouds you just fucked in an architectural home. Well, 1252 00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:10,880 Speaker 3: I wasn't working there. 1253 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 4: I would say the movie theater. 1254 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of people that don't broke people. 1255 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,400 Speaker 4: I don't think it's going to be like majority of 1256 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,000 Speaker 4: people don't people. 1257 00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 1: Or you get fingered in a movie, bro, majority of 1258 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,879 Speaker 1: people do not operate like people have sex on balconies. 1259 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 4: Like in their home, in their home. 1260 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 3: Because they might be seen. People don't I need to 1261 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:40,479 Speaker 3: know about. 1262 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,400 Speaker 1: You believe we are overly sexual, bro, And so you 1263 00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,360 Speaker 1: think that we're gonna come to a device for people 1264 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: people not have sex in public places to I'm serious. 1265 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:50,319 Speaker 3: They don't. I know you are. 1266 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,960 Speaker 2: And this is bathroom no no. 1267 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 1: Regular people quote unquote, because we are not regular. 1268 00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 2: They think I'm crazy because I have text in a 1269 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 2: museum bathroom where that no one around. 1270 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 3: We're saying you are overly sexual. 1271 00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 1: But you just said overly sexual people, Well that will 1272 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 1: be their demid Like I could go to work, no, no, no, 1273 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,840 Speaker 1: But because I'm okay, Shannon Sharp. 1274 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 4: Go to work where she talks about sexual Literally our. 1275 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:19,240 Speaker 1: Job is talking about and bending over in the museum, 1276 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 1: don't want to feel back to New York or edit 1277 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 1: is Okay, Can I tell you what I was thinking 1278 00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 1: in my head please? 1279 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 2: I'm thinking a lot of my homeboys that have status, 1280 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 2: uh be fucking shit up. We've worked with somebody, and 1281 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 2: this nigga just be like he can't be around another 1282 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:36,879 Speaker 2: piece of talent before he's hitting on them. And it's 1283 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 2: just like doing too much to me. That's when you're 1284 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 2: like obsessed with sex type brain. Okay, that was what 1285 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 2: I was thinking when I thought about Shannon Sharp. I'm like, 1286 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,400 Speaker 2: you can't be moving like that when you're super famous. 1287 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,840 Speaker 2: I'm not yet. You're not not at the Mock Center 1288 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,479 Speaker 2: now A five sex and every day people everybody would 1289 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,400 Speaker 2: find out about it. It's different. But my point is anyway, 1290 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 2: I'm just. 1291 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 4: Saying, wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, all right, you 1292 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 4: probably don't do ra played, but I'm pretty sure you 1293 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:07,360 Speaker 4: sent some explicit video or like voice chats to girls 1294 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 4: you guys are hooking up with. They can expose you 1295 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 4: and that you can have a scandal. Just like Shannon, how. 1296 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,760 Speaker 2: It's consensual though I wouldn't do anything. 1297 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 4: Well no, no, According to him, that was consensual until. 1298 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 1: She's uncord, which yeah, like so that So even when 1299 00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 1: I was having the conversation, literally the conversation kind of 1300 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:28,239 Speaker 1: led to you shouldn't have that much sex or otherwise 1301 00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,359 Speaker 1: having a lot of sex. Being overly sexual will inevitably 1302 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: lead to you having a problem. 1303 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 2: So sexually with Shannon in particular, a lot of the 1304 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 2: big thing for us was age. That was a conversation 1305 00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 2: and her literally didn't we see her say I didn't 1306 00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 2: want to. 1307 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 3: You'll never find out me, So. 1308 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna find me Texas and bitches though 1309 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,400 Speaker 1: some nancy you know what's crazy? 1310 00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 3: That's probably the worst I got. 1311 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:54,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure to say what you like when you're just 1312 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:55,920 Speaker 2: sending it in it like I. 1313 00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,720 Speaker 3: Literally said that in a text message recently. 1314 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 1: So I got a nigga coming to Jamaica and and 1315 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,759 Speaker 1: we haven't fucked yet, but we've been. He wants to 1316 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:04,719 Speaker 1: experience to make and I'm like, okay, we might fuck, 1317 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 1: but also you ain't my nigga, So if you want 1318 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 1: to fuck somebody else, cool, if we fuck, cool. 1319 00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 3: So we're like getting through. I'm having all the conversations 1320 00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:13,279 Speaker 3: like what are you into? 1321 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:13,960 Speaker 2: What are you not into? 1322 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:14,360 Speaker 4: D D? 1323 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 3: And he was like I was. 1324 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 1: I of course wanted to know if I could bend 1325 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: him over, so I get to like and mind you, 1326 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,239 Speaker 1: I do that by like here's my little chick. Now 1327 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:25,960 Speaker 1: here's a new trick to see how freaking nigga is. 1328 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,920 Speaker 1: So all my porn is on Twitter, right, so I'd 1329 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,680 Speaker 1: just be sending that porn from Twitter, so I'll be like, oh, 1330 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,480 Speaker 1: and I wanted to get his reaction on everything. So 1331 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:38,799 Speaker 1: literally between literally between a bitch licking balls and like 1332 00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,759 Speaker 1: some regular vanilla sex was the pegging. And so because 1333 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,440 Speaker 1: he was responding back like oh yeah, I'm with all 1334 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,759 Speaker 1: this shit d So the peggy was right there, bitch. 1335 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:48,759 Speaker 3: That's the video he responded to. And he put a 1336 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:54,080 Speaker 3: little tear drop mind you drop because he was like 1337 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,080 Speaker 3: might He's like, I don't know about that, mind you. 1338 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,680 Speaker 1: It was a man being ran on a train with 1339 00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,720 Speaker 1: two women, So I said, oh, so minus one girl. 1340 00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 4: I was like, you don't. 1341 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 3: Want to been over into in front of two bitches, 1342 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,359 Speaker 3: just one. So I'm like, we could do this a private, sir, so. 1343 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 1: Set it on his so literally, uh he was he 1344 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: was uh, I think eating Yeah, he was in between 1345 00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,600 Speaker 1: two women, but he was bent over for one, and 1346 00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 1: I think eating the pussy of the other. 1347 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 3: Oh so so literally. 1348 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:32,919 Speaker 1: I'm asking him all these things, and literally he said, 1349 00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:34,759 Speaker 1: but so I feel like you know able to have fun. 1350 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,880 Speaker 3: So he's like, I'm cool with whatever. Try whatever. 1351 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 2: I mean. 1352 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 1: I said, Oh no, I literally had to say. I said, listen, 1353 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,000 Speaker 1: my mind goes wild. And I said, I don't go 1354 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,879 Speaker 1: into sex just thinking I can do something without having 1355 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: a conversation for him, because a nigga could say I 1356 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 1: raped him. 1357 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:51,960 Speaker 3: And he laughed at that, and I was like, oh no, 1358 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 3: like this is a thing. 1359 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,560 Speaker 1: Women can do that too, And I'm not going into 1360 00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 1: sex as someone who talks about consent as someone who 1361 00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,839 Speaker 1: is sexually into a lot of shit. Don't just tell 1362 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:03,360 Speaker 1: me I can do whatever to you in the bedroom, 1363 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:07,360 Speaker 1: because that's no. You might have something that says no. 1364 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:08,960 Speaker 1: And I don't want to ruin the mood when I 1365 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 1: pull out of goddamn dial dough and be like, all 1366 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 1: right now, been over clapped them cheeks, Like that's gonna. 1367 00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 3: Ruin the mood. 1368 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 1: So I'm like, before I go into the bedroom with anybody, 1369 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,120 Speaker 1: or before I get kinky with anyone. 1370 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 2: All of that is discussed. What do you like? Would 1371 00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 2: you not like I'm not going can you. 1372 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,520 Speaker 1: It's giving. I'm bringing the strap just in case it's given. 1373 00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,520 Speaker 3: Like you gotta bring a real skinny one. I think 1374 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring a skin I got one, a little 1375 00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:36,400 Speaker 3: like a cone. It's real thin. 1376 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,560 Speaker 2: She fucks women. She probably straps women. 1377 00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:44,320 Speaker 4: I'm thinking, you know, it's crazy. 1378 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:48,280 Speaker 3: I don't ever strap women a lot. 1379 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 2: No, you know, my man, you think he ever gonna live? 1380 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:54,680 Speaker 2: You know what's crazy? 1381 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 1: That's always the questions when I be dealing with with 1382 00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,480 Speaker 1: with niggas, like they'd be like hey, I'll be like, no, 1383 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 1: he wasn't one of them. Like I have never pegged 1384 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:06,360 Speaker 1: anyone I've been in a relationship with, but my old 1385 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,560 Speaker 1: niggas back in, Like I'll be finding niggas that I 1386 00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:09,280 Speaker 1: can't do it. 1387 00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:10,440 Speaker 2: Too, but I ain't been in a relationship. 1388 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:15,479 Speaker 1: I gonna try again when he's fifty, Oh, try again, 1389 00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:17,480 Speaker 1: but just like you're gonna ask him to peg him 1390 00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:18,919 Speaker 1: when fifteenth, Like as. 1391 00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,200 Speaker 3: A fifteenth the kids fucking twenty, what are we gonna 1392 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:21,400 Speaker 3: do it? 1393 00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,800 Speaker 4: Let's go, yeah, but just like start with fingers and 1394 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 4: just see progress. 1395 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,400 Speaker 1: And that's baby talk, fingers in the asses, baby talk. 1396 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,440 Speaker 4: That's too far for me. So I'm saying, if you. 1397 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 2: Go to that too far for you. 1398 00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:38,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, really, I'll do a little tongue, a little tongue. 1399 00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 3: If you do a little tell you do a little bit. 1400 00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:40,760 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 1401 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 1: Bro, If you will do tongue on your boodha hole, 1402 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 1: you will do a thing. 1403 00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,560 Speaker 3: That's literally what I was saying. Tongue and fingers the 1404 00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 3: same ship. 1405 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:48,840 Speaker 4: So maybe when I turn fifty and I get a 1406 00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:50,960 Speaker 4: prostetic exam, then then I'll start this. 1407 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 3: So after the prostet exam, you'll start letting. 1408 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 4: No, I don't know, I'm gonna see how I don't 1409 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 4: like it. I just don't like you. 1410 00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 1: During your prostet exams like you would to know going 1411 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 1: on you see them. She does the but she could 1412 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: just do dalns like me. 1413 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:09,880 Speaker 2: No, to be honest, she's a little too dominant like 1414 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:14,680 Speaker 2: she might she might go to ain't get and I 1415 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,680 Speaker 2: really don't see if she could stop halfway like she 1416 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 2: doesn't give you, gentle girl. She looks like she don't 1417 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 2: you agree dniesia like you. He check it up. 1418 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:31,040 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Okay, hold for before. Yeah it's crazy. Oh, 1419 00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,920 Speaker 6: I have a question to me. This is old, but 1420 00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,480 Speaker 6: it's still relevant. The t app leak. 1421 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 3: Oh oh you downloaded it right? 1422 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:40,000 Speaker 2: What about it? 1423 00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 4: Like? 1424 00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 2: You know what? 1425 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:42,919 Speaker 1: I went to do it, and then when I saw 1426 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,439 Speaker 1: the little breach of everything, I didn't because I didn't 1427 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:46,640 Speaker 1: get to. 1428 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 2: The part where I uploaded all my show. I got 1429 00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 2: exacted before the breach. So y'all got me in bed 1430 00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:52,320 Speaker 2: looking crazy. 1431 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,360 Speaker 1: I was about to say, they got yourself. You know 1432 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 1: the round uploaded. 1433 00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,000 Speaker 2: It's out in the breach. 1434 00:59:58,320 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 3: I think I got on my phone. 1435 00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,080 Speaker 4: How do you guys feel about the app in general? 1436 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 4: Because you have women as like, oh, this is protective 1437 01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,480 Speaker 4: for women, you have to do it just like now 1438 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 4: this I don't like flat. 1439 01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 3: So allegedly that's what that's what it was supposed to do. 1440 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 1: It was supposed to be this community to keep women safe. Now, however, 1441 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 1: you have women on there that are literally can say 1442 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 1: anything about a man. 1443 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,760 Speaker 3: I personally don't think the app is great. 1444 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,800 Speaker 1: I think no one should be able to create a 1445 01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 1: profile about you and go on there and say anything 1446 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,680 Speaker 1: and there's nothing to fact check if it's true. 1447 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 3: Here's how it works. 1448 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 2: Okay, everything is anonymous, Screenshots are impossible, all women are verified. 1449 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,280 Speaker 2: You can post all across the country. You can set 1450 01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 2: alerts for a man's name. They donate ten percent of 1451 01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 2: the money to domestic rate, so it was the same 1452 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:46,640 Speaker 2: to keep them. They run background checks, they check criminal records, 1453 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,880 Speaker 2: check for sex offenders, look up phone numbers. 1454 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, background check on So here's the day you 1455 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 1: have they do the background check on the man. I 1456 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,040 Speaker 1: don't I don't really understand that part because oh here, 1457 01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:01,720 Speaker 1: look adet on Josh. So right now they're showing me 1458 01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 1: someone has anyone been on a date with him? So 1459 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,240 Speaker 1: you can click no t I have tea, No ta 1460 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:08,640 Speaker 1: on him, No tea on Sam? 1461 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 2: Who is happening? Has herpie? Is an abusive pedophile? 1462 01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 3: You see? 1463 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:14,640 Speaker 4: Holy shit? 1464 01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,320 Speaker 3: Two comments? Oh my god. 1465 01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 2: I messaged him when I was like nineteen, I'm thirty now. 1466 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 2: He gave me three b vibes and I blocked him. 1467 01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 2: Next person, you can see the demonic spirit in his eyes. 1468 01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:26,160 Speaker 3: Not trying to be funny. See that to me is 1469 01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 3: to me too. Look, how do you know he's a pedophile? 1470 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,560 Speaker 2: Is it a label? Let me see another. 1471 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,720 Speaker 3: One to label someone a pedophile? I'm not gonna lie. 1472 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,600 Speaker 3: I didn't know it worked like this when I download it. 1473 01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:36,200 Speaker 3: I never used it. 1474 01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:37,640 Speaker 4: Actually, that's what I'm saying to me. 1475 01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 3: I don't like the app. 1476 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 1: And what's even crazier is the creator of the goddamn 1477 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:45,480 Speaker 1: app created it because his goddamn mama was out there 1478 01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 1: having goddamned relationships. 1479 01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,000 Speaker 3: With inmates five comments whoa so. 1480 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 1: Yes, and he felt a way about his mom dating 1481 01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 1: literally prisoners. So this is an app to make them 1482 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,960 Speaker 1: safe because clearly yo, mama was out here on criminal. 1483 01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,480 Speaker 4: I think to fix this just open it up to 1484 01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:07,360 Speaker 4: men and women. Because they said, no, this is men. 1485 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 2: Can't men can't know. 1486 01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 3: Men have their own version. 1487 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 4: They said, no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie. I don't 1488 01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 4: think women should be able to go. I don't think 1489 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,040 Speaker 4: you're saying something about me. I should be able to 1490 01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:16,200 Speaker 4: I don't think anything like this. 1491 01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,000 Speaker 2: Let's just say that you broke up with a guy 1492 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 2: and you're mad at them. 1493 01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:20,360 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 1494 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:25,680 Speaker 1: You can lie about somebody, but you every right, And 1495 01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,160 Speaker 1: so an app that you could literally create a profile 1496 01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,920 Speaker 1: for someone, upload their pictures and now people can just 1497 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: say whatever they want about them. 1498 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,960 Speaker 4: Like But I do think there's a lot of benefit 1499 01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 4: to warning women about like other men, because there there 1500 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 4: are some that. 1501 01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,680 Speaker 1: There's a there's a website. I can't remember the exact 1502 01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 1: name for it. But with with Sesta Fasta, they literally 1503 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 1: removed all the sites that sex workers were using to 1504 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:56,000 Speaker 1: literally keep other sex workers safe. So there's literally websites 1505 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,640 Speaker 1: already created where you can and of course sex workers normally. 1506 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 3: Have to get their idea, but they literally talk about. 1507 01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 1: Unsafe predatory men who go after sex workers. And when 1508 01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:10,560 Speaker 1: those got removed because of Systafosta, literally the sex work community. 1509 01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:11,120 Speaker 2: Was like bro power. 1510 01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:13,520 Speaker 3: It was an act put out. 1511 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,080 Speaker 1: It's like act put out to help sex workers and 1512 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,240 Speaker 1: you know, like no, it's pretty much well no, no, no, 1513 01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,200 Speaker 1: to help sex workers under pronation for those who are listening. 1514 01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:25,040 Speaker 2: It was like blocking certain sex trafficking sites. However, it 1515 01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 2: blocked a lot of sites that women used to confirm 1516 01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:31,120 Speaker 2: and talk with each other about to say safe. So 1517 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:32,800 Speaker 2: let's just say that you're about to take I don't 1518 01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 2: know some do that you met on line. 1519 01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,880 Speaker 3: John and a lot of girls they actually their in calls. 1520 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 3: They request ideas to verify these Johns. And these are 1521 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 3: high level escorts right or either they. 1522 01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,880 Speaker 1: Work on from eros or these aren't like street walkers. 1523 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:50,440 Speaker 3: These are escorts is what they do. 1524 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,400 Speaker 1: So when you do in calls, you normally have to 1525 01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,720 Speaker 1: verify send me a LinkedIn I need to make sure 1526 01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 1: your name as your booking me is who you are. 1527 01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 1: And so what they would do is if they encountered 1528 01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:04,000 Speaker 1: a man who didn't pay, or was really aggressive in bed, 1529 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:07,960 Speaker 1: or made a woman feel unsafe, they could go to 1530 01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 1: this site and be like, hey, guys, this guy John 1531 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:13,760 Speaker 1: D in the DMV. Don't see him. This was my 1532 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 1: experience and it kept a lot of girls for weeding 1533 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:16,800 Speaker 1: out the bad. 1534 01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:18,600 Speaker 4: John essentially gotcha. 1535 01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,720 Speaker 2: But the t app is specific like to be, and 1536 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:24,640 Speaker 2: it really births from are we dating the same guy? 1537 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 2: From Facebook? Now that I've actually seen men I know, 1538 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,120 Speaker 2: never a man I dated. I've seen men I know 1539 01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:33,760 Speaker 2: and like, I'm not gonna hold you. I've never seen 1540 01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,760 Speaker 2: something like bullshitty on there, and I think the reason 1541 01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,640 Speaker 2: is because it's not anonymous. 1542 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 3: You on Facebook, it's not anonymous. 1543 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you really got to use your Facebook profile to 1544 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,800 Speaker 1: get accepted. So that's my question. The comments on the tap, 1545 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,560 Speaker 1: you couldn't see who left those comments, the user names only. 1546 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't like that. So to me, to me, 1547 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,760 Speaker 1: there's nothing dope, there's a there's a there's a website 1548 01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 1: that you know, I bleep out if it ever even 1549 01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:58,200 Speaker 1: gets mentioned on here, because you can go on there 1550 01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 1: and say anything as an anonymous as an anonymous source. 1551 01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,720 Speaker 3: To me, I don't think there should be any app where. 1552 01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,080 Speaker 1: It's specific to just going on talking about people though, 1553 01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:08,480 Speaker 1: Like that is what Reddit is. 1554 01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:12,040 Speaker 2: So maybe thatsite in particular is a gossip site, but 1555 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:13,440 Speaker 2: it's strictly just a thread. 1556 01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,160 Speaker 3: Because remember, like I'm fine with message boards. 1557 01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 1: This those type of ship is where I was like, yeah, 1558 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,320 Speaker 1: Reddit is like a message board of information a right, Yes. 1559 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,080 Speaker 3: You have people on there with their same without the 1560 01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:24,520 Speaker 3: other site. 1561 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,400 Speaker 2: It's the same because when I was a kid, I 1562 01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:28,840 Speaker 2: would go on there for hair shit. 1563 01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 3: And then actually it's funny because no. 1564 01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 4: But we're talking about are you dating the same guy? 1565 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:38,560 Speaker 2: It's no, yeah, but I'm saying all of it is 1566 01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:39,640 Speaker 2: the same type of shit. 1567 01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:41,320 Speaker 3: It's just people will start. 1568 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 2: To abuse it and use it in certain ways. Like 1569 01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:47,480 Speaker 2: for example, also I remember Britney Britney Hampton posted and 1570 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,120 Speaker 2: was like, yo, I remember when ls A was a 1571 01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,479 Speaker 2: thing to find a fucking guy or something on a guy, 1572 01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 2: And now is this so it's like and even with that, 1573 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:59,080 Speaker 2: like Reddit and any other gossip blog, you could kind 1574 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:02,680 Speaker 2: of see, for example, when someone made it, if they've 1575 01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:05,280 Speaker 2: been contributing right, like, you could kind of see like, 1576 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 2: all right, this is a fake person who could just 1577 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 2: be like you can kind of dig into the tee 1578 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,640 Speaker 2: with this. It could just be totally anyone ruined it. Yeah, 1579 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:13,520 Speaker 2: I don't like that. That's why I'm not gonna be 1580 01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 2: it either. I'm not a fan. I won't be downloading it. 1581 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:17,520 Speaker 3: But also I think the niggas I fuck wouldn't be 1582 01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,840 Speaker 3: on there, so I looked. 1583 01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,320 Speaker 4: I think somebody should create a better version of that. 1584 01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:23,520 Speaker 4: No anonymity. 1585 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:25,640 Speaker 1: I think you should have anonymity, And I think like, 1586 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,080 Speaker 1: let us all know you fuck this broke as eight 1587 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 1: shit ass nigga like you as a woman, if you 1588 01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,120 Speaker 1: have something to say about the man, we should be 1589 01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:33,520 Speaker 1: able to. 1590 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,760 Speaker 2: Know or at least, hey, I'll be private on this thread, 1591 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,680 Speaker 2: y'all could DM me and I'll talk to you something 1592 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 2: like that. 1593 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:43,640 Speaker 4: Just know you're protecting women. If you're protecting the women. 1594 01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 3: Let us know that you was fucking with that Asian period. Well, 1595 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:50,919 Speaker 3: I hope that take it to the grave or take 1596 01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 3: it to the goddamn grave. I do want to check 1597 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,400 Speaker 3: that artist nigga on there. He's all blast. Who are 1598 01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 3: you think they telling? Oh? 1599 01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,000 Speaker 1: It's so funny because when it came out Captain Hood, 1600 01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,480 Speaker 1: you know, because he'd be outside. I said, if any 1601 01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:04,000 Speaker 1: nigga that I was fucking was gonna be on there, 1602 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 1: it was probably gonna be him. 1603 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:05,720 Speaker 3: And that's why I'm not talking. 1604 01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,520 Speaker 2: What happened. It was three years ago, but still I'll 1605 01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 2: just be like, is he under a bridge? 1606 01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:14,440 Speaker 3: Like what's going on anyway? You care about? 1607 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:15,920 Speaker 2: No? 1608 01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,120 Speaker 3: I mean, I for me, bitch, you'd be embarrassing. 1609 01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:21,720 Speaker 1: I mean if it was three years ago, like you, 1610 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:24,040 Speaker 1: dealing with a nigga that fell off, that's not embarrassing. 1611 01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 3: Niggas fall off every day by sure. Oh there's Oh. 1612 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,000 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie im. 1613 01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. There's niggas right now that was 1614 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:32,280 Speaker 3: fucking in my twenties. 1615 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,440 Speaker 2: Athletes. I'm embarrassed now. 1616 01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 3: The one that sold that urban life. That was crazy. 1617 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 2: You showed me a dude. He's so cute too. Back 1618 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:42,040 Speaker 2: in the day he had locks. 1619 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:44,760 Speaker 1: Oh look, I was going to So there was an 1620 01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 1: old football player that got into urban life. 1621 01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:50,040 Speaker 3: He got just you're ready along they got just bring 1622 01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:50,320 Speaker 3: it to. 1623 01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 1: Him in the club in Atlanta, and I forgot who 1624 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: he was at first. I'll be forgetting what mind you 1625 01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:58,400 Speaker 1: hold on another niggas? 1626 01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:59,680 Speaker 3: So this is gonna be sound real bad. 1627 01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,200 Speaker 4: So this. 1628 01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1629 01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:07,480 Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, I saw somebody and 1630 01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:09,240 Speaker 1: we used to talk when he lived in New York, 1631 01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: when he played for the Knicks no longer. Like, all 1632 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,040 Speaker 1: I know is he's like, oh, don't tell me you forgot. 1633 01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:19,720 Speaker 1: Do you know how Leyden laid in bed all night? 1634 01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:23,120 Speaker 1: Was like did I fuck him? And I literally had 1635 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,680 Speaker 1: to think. I couldn't remember, Oh I got one. I 1636 01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 1: could not remember whether we fucked or not. Someone from 1637 01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:30,839 Speaker 1: high school. By the way, we didn't fuck in high school. 1638 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:32,880 Speaker 1: I know there was a moment in Miami. I just 1639 01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:35,160 Speaker 1: don't know if we fucked. Girl I know sent me him. 1640 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:36,479 Speaker 1: She was like, oh my god, look he got married, 1641 01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:38,519 Speaker 1: great looking family. Happy for them. 1642 01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:41,400 Speaker 3: So I left for comment like you guys look amazing, congratulations. 1643 01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:43,720 Speaker 2: A homegirl hit me like, yo, you petty. I'm like, 1644 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 2: why am I petty? She said, didn't you fuck him? 1645 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:49,559 Speaker 2: And I'm like, and I think so. So now I'm 1646 01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 2: trying to know you're petty. 1647 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: You're really there's niggaus you fucked and you're nice to 1648 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,320 Speaker 1: them after the fact that petty. 1649 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:57,960 Speaker 4: That's actually to me. 1650 01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:00,000 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you if I'm in a relationship 1651 01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:03,520 Speaker 3: ship with a nigga. I don't want any bitch. 1652 01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:05,840 Speaker 1: That you fucked to be up under your comments saying, 1653 01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:07,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, so happy for this family and union. 1654 01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:10,120 Speaker 2: Why kid, I'm gonna be honest with you, bro, it's 1655 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:11,599 Speaker 2: not my ex boyfriend who cares. 1656 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:15,160 Speaker 3: Bro me if I if I fucked like, I ain't 1657 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:15,600 Speaker 3: gonna hold you. 1658 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,920 Speaker 1: If I fucked a nigga, I'm not under his comments saying, 1659 01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 1: oh you and your wife looks so happy. 1660 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:22,680 Speaker 2: Think I fucked him? 1661 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,519 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you can't be happy for somebody. 1662 01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, be happy in private, think, think it in your mind. 1663 01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,760 Speaker 1: But to post what a what a post on social media? 1664 01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 2: Dude, I fucked Maybe not that long, maybe six years ago. 1665 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:34,879 Speaker 3: Twenty nineteen era. 1666 01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:39,360 Speaker 1: Not era, that's the era of twenty nineteen. I was 1667 01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:42,639 Speaker 1: holding the era of twenty nineteen. Me and Pinons broke 1668 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:43,400 Speaker 1: up at twenty eighteen. 1669 01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:46,519 Speaker 3: I was heart broken. So ba's a era he. 1670 01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:50,760 Speaker 2: Posted like the Sonogram ship or whatever. I was like, 1671 01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,799 Speaker 2: oh my god, maybe you guys have a happy, healthy pregnancy. 1672 01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:55,120 Speaker 2: This looks like congratulations that in your mind. 1673 01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:57,000 Speaker 4: I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 1674 01:09:57,479 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 1: You move differently, I'm saying for me, if I had 1675 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:04,639 Speaker 1: a nigga dick in my mouth, I'm not congratulating him 1676 01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:07,479 Speaker 1: on his happiness on Instagram. I could be like, oh dope, 1677 01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 1: he moved on unfollowed. I don't follow niggas. 1678 01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,680 Speaker 2: I see him be happy even years you don't do them. 1679 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,720 Speaker 3: But now now we have to fuck again, you're gonna 1680 01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,200 Speaker 3: be a cheaper I actually want to know if everybody 1681 01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:16,800 Speaker 3: feels this way. 1682 01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 2: I think it has to be a what is the 1683 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:22,599 Speaker 2: statute of limitations to What if I sucked your dick 1684 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:24,759 Speaker 2: in middle school, which I wasn't doing. 1685 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,840 Speaker 1: I didn't suck dick to high school. That just sounded 1686 01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:31,760 Speaker 1: crazy to me. If I've had intimate relations with you, that. 1687 01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:32,919 Speaker 4: Was a limitation. 1688 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,840 Speaker 2: I've had intimate relations with you. 1689 01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:39,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it's appropriate for me to be up 1690 01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:39,799 Speaker 1: under the country. 1691 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:42,880 Speaker 2: What do you mean if you fuck the girl, you 1692 01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 2: could do it. I fuck my friends. 1693 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:47,519 Speaker 1: That is different, like no and women are different. 1694 01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:52,840 Speaker 4: I disagree if the thing yeah, okay. 1695 01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:55,840 Speaker 2: That's why I said, like, that's weird, but like a 1696 01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:57,320 Speaker 2: nigga just fun. So he's. 1697 01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:00,640 Speaker 1: I ain't going if I'm dating aga and I know 1698 01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 1: he sucked the bitch and she up under the comments 1699 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,240 Speaker 1: like and shit, we got beat, bitch. Take your comments, 1700 01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,880 Speaker 1: take your likes. You don't need to be up under like. 1701 01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:08,280 Speaker 2: I think this. 1702 01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 1: I think it's petty for a woman to do that, 1703 01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:12,360 Speaker 1: or I feel like there's still some. 1704 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:13,599 Speaker 3: It's packing too. 1705 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: Now you really thinking, like I wonder if it's petty 1706 01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:19,160 Speaker 1: the way my homegirl reacted me and she believed me, y'all, 1707 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:23,280 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even remember sucking up so happy. Also, 1708 01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:24,800 Speaker 1: do you know how off that I was, Like, I 1709 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,479 Speaker 1: left that comment and forgot it. No for me, I 1710 01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:33,679 Speaker 1: come in and keep your comming, marriage, college, new business. 1711 01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:38,240 Speaker 3: Yes, hid those are all diry, those are all different. 1712 01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm talking about you liking a picture of a nigga 1713 01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:43,000 Speaker 1: with his family or bitch or and you don't fuck 1714 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:44,400 Speaker 1: It's why. 1715 01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:46,439 Speaker 2: How many niggas like my picture When I posted, I mean, 1716 01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:47,879 Speaker 2: let me see that jock got anybody? 1717 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,080 Speaker 3: Oh you posted your man? No, not like that. 1718 01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:52,680 Speaker 2: I just posted and picking me up because I had 1719 01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 2: a nice bigger with. 1720 01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:56,559 Speaker 4: The soft launch and shit like either post. 1721 01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 2: What's it called I've ever had on a photo because it. 1722 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 4: Was probably you don't show here. 1723 01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 3: Like anybody like I don't really have a lot of 1724 01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:10,080 Speaker 3: interaction with niggas. 1725 01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:10,920 Speaker 2: How I like that? 1726 01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:18,840 Speaker 4: Huh No, it should don't be ending good right done? 1727 01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:19,720 Speaker 2: I hate each other? 1728 01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:24,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, there's just been another episode. 1729 01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 3: If you want to. 1730 01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:31,400 Speaker 1: Hear more stories, what's crazy because I feel like I 1731 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,679 Speaker 1: don't sound like I'm healed or that I need therapy 1732 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:36,240 Speaker 1: on this episode. But I'm just really enjoying being a 1733 01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,120 Speaker 1: nigga right now. It's the sun, it's the summer. It's 1734 01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:42,719 Speaker 1: a hot girl summer, bitch, come out, talker, come on tober. 1735 01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna want a boyfriend, but no, I'm having a 1736 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:46,880 Speaker 1: great time this summer. 1737 01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:49,719 Speaker 3: It's just great. That's why y'all gotta keep swiping. 1738 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:50,120 Speaker 2: Yet. 1739 01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:53,479 Speaker 3: Well, and Ryan, I'm actually on there for friends I'm meeting. 1740 01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:59,360 Speaker 1: I don't like that anyways, I am it says I'm 1741 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,120 Speaker 1: on here for front anyways, Guys, make sure you get 1742 01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,160 Speaker 1: no holds bar to do a manifesto, sexual exploration and 1743 01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:07,200 Speaker 1: power out wherever you give, and then make sure you 1744 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,880 Speaker 1: also join us over on the Patreon. We are over 1745 01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:12,479 Speaker 1: there giving you guys horrible decisions, even though this episode 1746 01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:15,080 Speaker 1: was kind of given Horrible decisions bisch for Decisions Decisions now, 1747 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:16,400 Speaker 1: but horrible Decisions are still. 1748 01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 3: Here now if you want to check out Alex. 1749 01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,800 Speaker 2: We can't promote this podcast because a lot of you 1750 01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:20,840 Speaker 2: guys are angry. 1751 01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:20,960 Speaker 3: At the host. 1752 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,799 Speaker 4: Right, yeah, everybody, go watch watch Brilliant. 1753 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,559 Speaker 3: Idiots, go watch well Brilliant. You'll never be on there again. 1754 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,840 Speaker 4: But all right, so I say it, at least what 1755 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:30,960 Speaker 4: I said. 1756 01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:33,639 Speaker 2: Do maybe on some free palaestin ship we can okay, okay, okay, 1757 01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:35,000 Speaker 2: and then just come to the studio. 1758 01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:38,040 Speaker 4: Yes you have all that, all right, Bob, Thank you. 1759 01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:38,559 Speaker 2: Guys so much. 1760 01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,800 Speaker 1: This is another episode of Decisions Decisions Bane. 1761 01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:46,719 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening and celebrating five years of the Black 1762 01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:48,960 Speaker 2: Effect podcast Network with us. 1763 01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:53,320 Speaker 1: Keep following, sharing, and streaming because the next five years 1764 01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,120 Speaker 1: are about to be even bigger.